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| 15 | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.Women being paid equally and also being the gender that consumes more should ideally be causing an economic boom in a normal functioning society. The only thing causing a cost of living crisis is capitalistic and political greed, it's a simple as that. Oh and a lack of slaves too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 03:55 PM |
| 31 | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.There has literally never been a time in history where women didn't work. The majority of women have always worked. Women were farming, in textile production and manufacturing, brewing, market trading, piecework, nursing maids, househelps, teachers, factory workers, all sorts of manual and social labour, just not in ways that get counted as 'employment'. The idea of a stay at home wife supported by a single male income was really only the norm for a narrow slice of time and only aligned with a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 03:42 PM |
| 2 | The entire strategy men are going for in life is to trade women like pokemon cards.If it bothers you so much then make your own post addressing these questions to women and highlight your experiences? What do you gain from saying these things in this particular conversation? You're talking about the actions of others which is not within your control. If you're scorned by lack of 'basic respect' from women, maybe you need to speak to women in your life and so why this may be the case. My overarching point is self-responsibility is paramount in relationship politics, and women s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 05:20 PM |
| -6 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moron'I support women's rights' .... 'I'm not a feminist'. Okay girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 03:13 PM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Hypergamy ≠ Man solely provides. Also a man just being a provider is not enough, I would severely question a woman's dating choices if she were to pick a man just because he can provide, there's a lot more that goes into deciding a life partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 02:57 PM |
| 6 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.To be perfectly honest I would hope that the man I marry would want to have sex with me often... permitting that I want it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:31 PM |
| 1 | The entire strategy men are going for in life is to trade women like pokemon cards.You are replying in a different context, I am talking about relationships, you are talking about dating. The truth is men are much better at leaving a situation that doesn't serve them, and what I've found is that men tend to be a lot more selfish than women. I mean just look at the staggering amount of men that leave their wives after they've been diagnosed with terminal illness. Can I also just state that it's super weird how in this sub so many men feel the need to relate and compare their ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:24 PM |
| 4 | The entire strategy men are going for in life is to trade women like pokemon cards.As much as I agree with everything you are saying, we as women also need to stop accepting bullshit from men and putting ourselves in situations where we can be abused and taken advantage of. As a woman it is your job to set the standard of the relationship, whatever you accept without consequence is whatever your male partner will continue to do. I understand there is a lot of nuance to this conversation, but typically for western women it's very easy to not put yourself in a situation that doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 07:52 AM |
| 2 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?A traditional man is typically the sole provider for his family, and in his post he stated that women from abroad are 'willing to spend more money on me'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 07:46 AM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.What I said wasn't a stand alone statement, I said it initially in the original post, to highlight the fact that women need protection because we are paramount in the continuation of society through reproduction. That's why women advocated for their rights and freedom of speech, so we could have a voice in the conversations pertaining to our health, and the ability to provide for ourselves. The reply prior to yours was a correction to another person who disagreed with the fact the women are the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 07:44 AM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.You're projecting your envy here big time bud. Never did I mention women being 'special' or 'better'. I simply stated we are the givers of life. Sounds like you've got a lot of negative feelings around fertility which you might want to unpack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Interesting, would you say that women should also have the same line of thinking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 06:18 AM |
| -2 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 06:16 AM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.The term Ego Death can be used in multiple contexts, while commonly used in the context of heavy use of psychedelics, the general term refers to the loss of one's subjective self identity. What is a subjective self identity? A subjective self identity is cultivated by your childhood, upbringing, societal expectations, culture, memories, identity etc. We can assume from this definition that a subjective self identity is largely created by how you view the world and how the world views you. We all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:31 PM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.When you're done being condescending perhaps you'd like to offer your own perspective on the topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:07 PM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.What is the alternative to that? Their partners earning less and the whole family being worse off financially? Men's earning potential is a very wide range; some women who have married hypergamously do not need to work at all, why would it make sense to oppose women doing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:24 PM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Supporting is not equal to earning more. Supporting is what the definition of support is - providing assistance. Most women in the West provide financial assistance for their family to increase household income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:17 PM |
| -2 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.How is this a direct contradiction? If anything it further supports my claim that women are burdened with increased pressure to financially provide to support their family. The first point talks to income structure while initially having children, the second point talks to pressure to sustain the provision when you are in a position to work again. Being hypergamous as a woman provides a cushion of stability while navigating this.I'm not sure where the disconnect is here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 08:10 PM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.If this is a genuine fear for men, would it not be in their best interest to appeal to the wants and needs of women, many of which whom feel undervalued in their relationships/marriages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.The proposed mass ego death is not to change women's views on hypergamy, but moreso to change men's views on how they perceive their role in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:39 PM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.And with sperm what is it? Throwing up, back pain, not being able to sleep, Braxton hicks contractions, having your vagina teared in two, while pushing out a human with excruciating pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:38 PM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Humans are not the givers of life. Please just be real with yourself. This is what I mean when I say men lack emotional intelligence. It is women who carry a child for 9 months, give birth, breastfeed and nurture babies. That is the definition of giving life. Men contribute to the creation, but not the giving of life. At least if we are going to agree on anything here, let it be this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:27 PM |
| -1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.No in my post I referred to there being a lack of emotional intelligence amongst men, which you are clearly displaying right now. The primary purpose of entering a relationship is to share your resources and abilities to build a life together. It's not just earning money and doing chores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:21 PM |
| -2 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.I'm not sure where in the West you live but in my country most women would not be comfortable having children with a man she earns more than. Not only is maternity pay extremely poor but childcare costs are very high, and the career stunt could potentially push you back to a lower salary once you reenter the workforce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:18 PM |
| -2 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.My point is, times have changed and it's increasingly dividing men and women due to men not accepting the fact simply being a provider is not enough for women to feel satisfied in a relationship, because of women's ability to do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:13 PM |
| -1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Economically it absolutely does. It's even worse in non-Western countries. Do you have children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:03 PM |
| 5 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Explain your point further? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:59 PM |
| 3 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Yes agreed, but why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:52 PM |
| -4 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Nowhere in my post did I say women should be the providers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.You believe women should date men who earn less than them?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Most modern working women I know are working full time jobs to support their husbands with the ever increasing cost of living, while juggling domestic work and having/raising children. It is not a sustainable way of living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:45 PM |
| 2 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Okay let's talk about this then. In an ideal world what changes would you expect to see from a woman's approach to dating? Are you suggesting we adopt traditional patriarchal norms again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:39 PM |
| 2 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Surely giving birth and raising children is 'sharing fruits'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:36 PM |
| 0 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.If you are checking out from dating then it's not your problem to fix, no? The post is talking to those who are still interested in dating/finding a long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:29 PM |
| -4 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.Women have to be hypergamous if they want children. Your earning capacity significantly decreases when you are raising children. I think it's a biological evolutionary ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:25 PM |
| -1 | If we are going to save modern dating, men need to experience an ego death in mass.I agree that we are being manipulated into constant state of dissatisfaction because a miserable angry person is a profitable one. But a mass male ego death is the only way to opt out of a system that wants us competing and miserable. If the machine is destined to break, we have to decide if we're going to be collateral damage or if we're actually going to build something maintainable from what's left of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:23 PM |
| 9 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?That is a completely valid advice to give to your daughters. Men can be very predatory to young women, this is backed by numerous facts, research and stats. Curious to know if you disagree with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 5 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?What has led you to believe I think that kind of content doesn't exist? I am aware of such content, however most social media platforms are built on algorithms that show you specialised content based on what you interact with most. I personally don't see this content on my social media platforms and I'm sure countless other people have similar experiences. Also, sharing radical views on social media can be done by anyone, it doesn't necessarily mean there is wide scale propaganda just because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:43 PM |
| 11 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?Are you able to give plausible wide-scale examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:29 PM |
| 39 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?Your definition of respect, relies on a woman's willingness to cook, clean, or spend money on you and is inherently transactional, not relational. There is no 'propaganda' against men in the West, it's just that women have more agency and autonomy. Your post suggests that you value a relationship only when it functions as a service based system for your benefit. This perspective doesn't prove that women abroad are more respectful, it just shows a preference for traditional power imbalances over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 03:45 PM |
| 18 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessMissing out on what? The physical pain of labour, the mental and financial pain of child rearing? The stalling of a career you've built? A whiny man complaining about dinner not being ready? Having to work all day only to come home to screaming children? Not having time for your interests or hobbies? Not having time to see friends and family frequently? High cortisol levels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:31 PM |
| – | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessAnd the constant need for men to threaten childless single women (especially attractive women) that they will be an old cat lady and die alone is laughable at this point. The amount of community spaces available to older women is outstanding; knitting, swimming, lifestyle clubs, book clubs, churches, friendship cafes, gardening groups, and the list goes on. I say this without bias, that I have personally witnessed 3 older gentlemen die alone in their early 60s, one of which wasn't discovered in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 11:46 AM |
| 7 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionYour post is incredibly vague. In what specific aspects of men's lives do women need to show compassion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:54 PM |
| 20 | Are women planning their lives backwards? Or is society just in an economic death spiral?The truth is... it's not really worth having kids with men at such a young age unless the man that she is with is established and financially stable. And to put it plainly, there are small percentage of men who are in their 20s who are financially stable and mature enough to father children. And as a woman in her early twenties, I would expect that there are very few 20 year olds that are attracted to or would be happy settling down with a man who is 10-15 years older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?It doesn't bother me. We haven't been together for very long. I'm still working and have been fairly successful in my freelancing journey. Happy in my situation currently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?I am telling women to not enter a situation where they are financially disadvantaged otherwise they risk being left for dead if something unexpected happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?I am a freelancer. Stop taking statements out of context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?This is really great to hear. I do think when young children are added to the equation it becomes a different argument. Most couples I know have had to sacrifice working hours when it comes to raising kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:10 PM |
| 9 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?The most laziest counter argument known to mankind, is when a man completely disregards what the opposing party says (most likely always a woman) by saying that women are crazy. Come on dude, be more original. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:02 PM |
| 15 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?I would never be interested in a traumatised man who has a skewed perspective on relationships. I am certain most other sane women would agree. So no you are incorrect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?I'm sure baking bread saves you so much! Good for your wife 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:40 PM |
| 8 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?I think a lot of men (and women) will benefit A LOT from therapy. However, telling a man to go to therapy is like asking him to give up is masculinity in his eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:16 PM |
| 0 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Are you implying it's not possible to change your opinion when presented with new information/experiences? Also I am essentially a stay at home girlfriend as I am not employed by anyone and I do most of the domestic work. I have nothing against it, however it's something I do on my own terms. This post is questioning why men are against their wife/girlfriend working at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Debate : Most People in Dating strategy Subreddits use extreme examples to prove points, and this needs to stop.This is known as 'reductio ad absurdum'. A very common logical fallacy used in this subreddit to completely drive an debate off the train tracks, and consequentially make it seem like any claim anyone makes about dating is false. My opinion is that most people on this sub are clearly struggling in their dating life. Reasons for this may be due to lack of adequate social skills, little to no investment in appearance, voluntary isolation (overworking, introversion etc.), or financial problems. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourDamn. That was harsh! But your obsession with me is lowkey turning me on. I love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 10:00 AM |
| 5 | Are men and women's sexual standards too high because of over stimulation?Absolutely it’s because of over stimulation. You can pretty much get an exact video of your deepest sexual desire on pornhub at the click of a button. It’s why so many more younger men are suffering with ED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Most guys struggle with modern dating because they struggle to adapt to modern society itselfThis is the best post that I’ve seen in a long time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 11:23 AM |
| 4 | Dating apps are not designed for womenThe objective answer: it’s impossible for there to be more quality men than women based on the fact that more men are seeking women than women are seeking men. Also there are more young men are single than single young women. Women have more choice in their dating options meaning there is an obvious quality gap. My subjective answer: for a man who is sexually disciplined and is not driven by his penis then yes… his perception may be a sea of mediocrity because then it strips that sexual power th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?The most excruciatingly soul crushing thing that has happened to me multiple times is when you meet a really great guy, who you get along with well, share similar interests but aren’t physically attracted to him/not wanting to be romantically involved with; is NOT when he tells you that he sees you as more than a friend. It’s when you reject his advances and he tells you that he ‘can’t’ be friends with you. It just reaffirms my belief that most men who are not acquainted with you will put you in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:02 AM |
| 2 | The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to womenAs a woman I 100% agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Are a lot of women ableist when it comes to autistic guys?The most interesting men I have met have been autistic. They are able to hold an honest conversation, are straightforward and can be funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)✅✅✅ Red flag if men ask questions like: ‘What is your type in men?’ ‘What things do you find attractive in men?’ ‘What were your exes like?’ That man is absolutely just trying to mould himself into your ideal man, so he can get you to like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:57 PM |
| 5 | You Can’t Truly Love Your Partner If Height Is A DealbreakerAs a tall woman, short men are just not attractive to me. It’s hard to be romantically invested in someone you are not attracted to initially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourHonestly it’s so overwhelming that I just don’t bother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourMale entitlement strikes again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:37 PM |
| 3 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?Will you be his mother? Cook, clean and buy things for him??? Do not do this for men that you have been dating for less than 6 months. Men must show you a level of commitment before you give them this kind of gratification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | If you met your ideal woman today, do you think she would like you?I hope you find someone love ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:01 PM |
| 5 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyPosts like these interest me, because when we look at the statistics it shows the following: Unmarried men are more likely to make risky lifestyle choices including smoking, gambling, excessive drinking and eating poorly. Upon being diagnosed with serious illnesses, unmarried men are less likely to overcome these illnesses, particularly relating to cardiovascular illnesses; unfortunately unmarried men are likely to die within 5 years of diagnosis. Unmarried men have shorter lifespans in comparis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 08:18 PM |
| 0 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI do promote hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 10:07 AM |
| 5 | How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 10:49 AM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI literally answered your question by saying women can’t ‘bow out’ of the dating market. That’s the first thing I said in response to you. No one is stopping men for going after the woman they want, but the only thing that may stop men from getting them is if they want them back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:17 AM |
| 10 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Unfortunately for men there will never be a time and there never has been a time where men haven’t been so egregiously horny :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI’ve got a bit of time today so I’ll rally you. Why do women control the dating market? Lets rely on statistics to form our answer. Women are dating with higher standards than men. Using dating app statistics is actually a really good source for assessing the dating market. If you can think of any wide scale, international platform of mechanism that represents dating other than dating apps I will concede my point, but overall its a good representation of dating in general. We know that the major… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 07:21 AM |
| 12 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.This is fundamentally untrue, there are more young single men than there are women. Men outnumber women on dating apps by about 30%. Women receive 5x more likes and 3x more matches on average than men on dating apps. Most women are only attracted to a small selection of men. All of this information can attest to the fact that women are in control of the dating market. You can’t give someone power if you have none yourself. Women are in demand and men are in supply. Harsh reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Women who expect men to pay for them on dates are narcissists.Are you a man or a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:26 AM |
| 0 | Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man?I think a better term for that would be a stingy guy? I dunno… Broke definitely has an objective definition and it’s someone with little to no money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?If a man doesn’t pay there won’t be a second date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man?I personally can’t appreciate someone who is financially unstable. If I’m thinking long term, eventually I’m gonna wanna settle down with this person and maybe even start a family. Dealing with someone who may not be able pay the rent or mortgage, or who has little to no disposable income is just not what I want to deal with. To me the meaning of broke is someone who ends the month with no money, has no adequate savings and struggles to pay bills sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man?Hey! OP here from the post this lovely ‘woman’ is referring to! Everything you have said is absolutely spot on and the exact sentiment of my original post. Not sure why there is so much push back on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeAnd last thing before I put this entire thing to bed because it’s just dragging for no reason now. There are plenty of women underneath the replies of this post who have agreed with me. You can see for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeThere's nothing to agree with lol that's just what I prefer same as you prefer men that have alot of money. My main gripe with your post is that you're framing YOUR preferences as something that all women prefer. You've chosen yourself as the voice for all women when nobody asked you to do that and the things you're saying aren't true for women as a whole, they're just true for you. Why do you feel the need to do that instead of just saying that this is what you prefer? Why lump all of the rest … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeThere's nothing to agree with lol that's just what I prefer same as you prefer men that have alot of money. My main gripe with your post is that you're framing YOUR preferences as something that all women prefer. You've chosen yourself as the voice for all women when nobody asked you to do that and the things you're saying aren't true for women as a whole, they're just true for you. Why do you feel the need to do that instead of just saying that this is what you prefer? Why lump all of the rest … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeJudging by your reaction to my comments you make it seem like I’m crazy for putting financial stability as one of non negotiables. I think these articles https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/talking-apes/201907/do-women-really-prefer-men-money-over-looks?amp https://bigthink.com/technology-innovation/do-women-really-value-income-over-looks-in-a-mate/ will open your eyes to the fact that most women think this way and you may be an exception. It would be stupid for me to say all women think thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeGirl, first of all - please quote any phrase in my statement where I said that this is how all women think? I literally started off the post saying ‘As a woman I believe’ not ‘we believe’. No one here is taking away from your preference. And I have constantly throughout my post quoted ‘financial stability/security’ and even made a point to day its not about gold digging or flaunting wealth. So please, re read my statement and stop making out like I’m painting all women as gold diggers who are af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI respect your opinion but I don’t agree with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeSo you would date a financially unstable man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:33 PM |
| -1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeYikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 12:35 PM |
| 2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeWho said I wasn’t looking for other criteria? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeTalking about women being prostitutes and property for wanting to date a financially stable men sounds like misogynistic talking points in my humble opinion. And again, stop putting words in my mouth. Nowhere in this post have I said I am willing to settle for a man I am not attracted to. Just because I only date financially stable men doesn’t mean I date men I’m not attracted to. I can see why you came to that conclusion though. Obviously women (especially young women) have a lot more choice in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:30 AM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI never said anything about financial dependence. Being a sole provider does not mean you ‘own’ a woman. Everything you are saying makes me think you are a misogynist. Women are not prostitutes for eliminating poor men from their dating choices. Women are not property of men because they want a man who can earn money. You’re blowing this whole conversation out of proportion for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:11 AM |
| 2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeSociology and history is not linear, evidently as you’ve discussed there are other parts of the world and other time periods where this might not be the case. I was just stating examples of how women have married for money in the past, which quite frankly is undeniable. The fact that you have to result to insult, by telling me to ‘read a book or two’ shows your intelligence and ignorance when it comes to debates like this. If you don’t agree that women shouldn’t date broke men, that is your opin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:01 AM |
| -2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeAs I said… women can’t ‘bow out’ because we control the dating market. For everyone 3 men on dating apps there is 1 woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 08:07 AM |
| 0 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeClearly not judging by some of the replies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 08:01 AM |
| -3 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeWell I would say if you are all three of those things, then your choices are quite limited. But women can’t ‘bow out’ of the dating market because we control it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:50 AM |
| 2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeDating men for money is simply a wise choice for women who want resources, social mobility and a safe and secure environment for herself and her children. There is quite literally no incentive to dating a broke man apart from companionship. As I send in the OP, financial problems are one of the biggest reasons for separation between couples. Also, this is how women were courted back in the day, and even today, in eastern parts of the world. Her family would pick men that had a good reputation, g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:47 AM |
| 0 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeWell yeah I think sex is an important part of any relationship so I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:37 AM |
| 0 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI can partially agree to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:32 AM |
| 0 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI’m just incredibly confused on what relevance this has to what I’ve said. Being fat as a woman does not significantly lower your chances of getting a partner. There are plenty of fat women who are married or are in long term relationships. Being fat doesn’t make you ugly, there are plenty of beautiful fat women. There are men that even purely seek out bigger women to date, I have personally been rejected by a man because I am slim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI’m just incredibly confused on what relevance this has to what I’ve said. Being fat as a woman does not significantly lower your chances of getting a partner. There are plenty of fat women who are married or are in long term relationships. Being fat doesn’t make you ugly, there are plenty of beautiful fat women. There are men that even purely seek out bigger women to date, I have personally been rejected by a man because I am slim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeSpot on ✅ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI’m only saying it because I am a single woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:35 PM |
| 0 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI wouldn’t mind being alone really, but it’s unlikely because it’s very easy to date as a woman. Could probably have a boyfriend by the end of the day lol, but standards and all. And if wanting to feel secure in a relationship makes me a bad person then so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:34 PM |
| -3 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeIf all women are good for is having sex with, then why don’t men just use sex workers? Women’s domestic unpaid labour is estimated to be 3 trillion USD. Women are the only sex that can give birth to children. Women provide companionship and better health to their partners, and this is proven as men die earlier when they don’t have a life partner. The problem is a lot of men objectify women because they are incapable of seeking validation within themselves, as men don’t really have any value outs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeCute :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:16 PM |
| 3 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI agree but in reality I’d rather be with none of those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:11 PM |
| -2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeWhat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:08 PM |
| 5 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeAsk any single woman if they’d rather be with an attractive man or a rich man, and they’ll probably say rich. Women seek safety and stability in their dating choices, the physical attractiveness is a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI think the only intrinsic value men have is their physical strength unfortunately, which is easily replaceable in modern society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:44 PM |
| -5 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeNo I think that women can love a man who makes her life easier, and providing financial stability is a major part of that. It’s easy to love someone who makes you feel safe and supported. Instability is a turn off to a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:41 PM |
| -1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeMen have no value outside of their wealth/ what they contribute to society. That is a hard truth. Men that are broke become a burden to society because they are more susceptible to crime and violence. It’s completely different for women, because we have reproductive capability (and are also seen as literal walking vaginas in many parts of the world), we don’t have to rely on our external circumstance to be valuable. Broke women are often sought out by pimps and are more likely to be sex traffick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:39 PM |
| -5 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeYou think love = sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:27 PM |
| -4 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeWomen are valuable, I wouldn’t advice a woman to be with a broke struggling man when the grass is greener elsewhere and easily attainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:27 PM |
| 3 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeLove comes at a cost from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:24 PM |
| 0 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeYea I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:23 PM |
| 4 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeSome harsh truths said here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeSadly it’s not really comparable. Having money as a woman has little effect on your value in the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts themAnd are these women in the room with us now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Sex work could be a real alternative to relationship for many men, but...As humans we need companionship and community. We are not meant to live in isolation, we are designed to build things with the people around us. We have evolved from our primitive way of thinking and now in modern society we build connection by forming families and relationships with our friends and doing business with our network circle. It’s quite saddening that you think everything I just wrote is emotional baggage. I don’t know you, but I hope you find someone who shows you why life is much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Sex work could be a real alternative to relationship for many men, but...Sex work is not an alternative to real, untransactional affection from someone who makes a choose to commit themselves to you. Sex work only fulfils your sexual needs, what happens when you need advice from someone who knows and loves you more than most people in this world? What if you go through a difficult life event and you want someone to help you get through it? What if you want children and want them to have a female presence and role model to help raise them? What happens when you’re old… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts themIt’s not an argument, it’s an opinion. And I’m entitled to one as someone who gets shamed endlessly for rejecting guys I don’t like. You can’t force a woman to like you. I’m sorry that reality is so hard for men like you to grasp but that’s what it is. The reality. Brush it off, pick yourself up and find another girl you like until you’ve met your match and stop whining like a baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts themI so strongly believe that this whole nice guy thing is bullshit. Men make up a version of what they believe women are attracted to, to protect their egos from rejection. That’s it. Just because the girl you like doesn’t like you back doesn’t mean she is attracted to the complete opposite of what you ‘are’. My theory is that self proclaimed ‘nice guys’ are actually terrible people who cannot take rejection and project their shame onto women by saying they only date ‘douchebags’ and bad guys. It’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 01:12 PM |
| 0 | There's just as many women, as men, that are unsuccessful in romance, and they are so mostly for the same reasons as men.Pfft… keep dreaming love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageA completely subjective point of view | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:54 AM |
| 0 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageThat’s what they are doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageI agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:58 AM |
| 0 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageHow is it sad? What do people have against Tiktok? It’s an app where real life people can post their real life experiences. I don’t base my opinion solely on these experiences, but it’s a good magnifier into the lives of SOME married women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:06 AM |
| 2 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageThis entire thread, the replies have just been men crying about how women have ‘high standards’ and the standards they list are so basic that it makes me want to recoil into hibernation. No wonder so many women are choosing to be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:58 AM |
| -2 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageTiktok has opened my eyes to the lives of married women. A lot of them are miserable as fuck. I’d rather be ‘sad and alone’ than trapped in a dead end marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:39 AM |
| 3 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageHmm opinion pending for your reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:34 AM |
| 10 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageWhen I went to Thailand I was physically repulsed by the amount of men there were hanging about on the streets fucking anything they could get their eyes on. Sex tourism is just absolutely fucking wild to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:28 AM |
| -10 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriagehttps://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/amp/ And there are men who have met my standards. I’m single by choice, dating to marry and I’m not ready to marry yet. There is no need to prove you are right. It would be easier if most men would just admit their dating like is in shambles so both men and women can work together to change that. Instead men want to jump on the wave of these alpha male podcasters or red pill daddies to assert … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:20 AM |
| 2 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriagehttps://fightthenewdrug.org/5-ways-porn-changes-your-brain-and-body-for-the-worse/ Here’s a simple article explaining just five of the negative effects porn can have on you. Porn has been proven to actually change your subconscious mind, making you more violent, agitated, selfish and erratic. It fuels misogyny, due to most porn being made for male gratification and also it puts an unrealistic expectation on woman to perform in bed (which is linked to erectile dysfunction. I could go on and on bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:10 AM |
| -17 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageI personally believe that men should be working hard to meet the standards of women, simply because of the fact that men are more likely to be single and are buying in to the sex industry which has ruined the lives of many people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:06 AM |
| 2 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageWell yeah… how I ‘feel about stuff’ is an opinion and that’s what my statement is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 01:00 AM |
| 12 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageMental health problems are a major issue in today’s society. While women are more likely to be diagnosed with anxiety/depression and are more likely to be prescribed anti depressants, men die by suicide at a rate of five times more than women. It is the biggest cause of death by men under the age of 45. A lot of psychologists simply put this down to the fact that men are not vocal about their mental health symptoms and are much less likely to see medical help. As humans we need companionship and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageIt had to be said girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?Damn boy you’re ruining my market! 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:31 AM |
| -1 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?You say I’m self-centred like it’s a bad thing. A shame for many but a blessing for a few. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:33 PM |
| -3 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?Ooooh burnnn. Guess I should just write myself off :(. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?Thanks Sir! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?👍🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?Are you single? 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?You’re living the dream girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?Not true. I know plenty of women that go to brunches, spin classes, yoga, Pilates, coffee dates, while being homemakers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?That’s exactly what I’d like to do though. Sorry not sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?I never made any claim that I was special, it was you that insinuated that wanting to be a homemaker means you have to be. And based on that fact alone there’s not really much point conversing with you on the matter, as it means I have to prove myself to a random guy based on his opinion which is a bit below my self respect threshold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?True you got me there. You can’t deny that there is a sense of flexibility that comes with being a homemaker. You won’t be doing the same things everyday which allows you to time budget to make time for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?I mean, if I having a small amount of freedom with my time doesn’t offer me the opportunity to do what I want then I’m not sure what does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?I’m more of a diamond kind of girl actually ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?From everything you said the only thought that came to my mind is that I hope my hypothetical man ‘that ain’t coming’ is nothing like you. Good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?I’d rather be at home than at work. I’m sick of the men in my office coming on to me 24/7. I’m currently in a male dominated industry and all of the married ones cheat on their wives with any loose bitch in the office because their wives are ugly, overworked and don’t look after their homes. Not what I want my future to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:57 PM |
| -3 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?I am selfish. Most men are selfish. Most people are selfish. Being selfish shows that I actually give a shit about myself. Most women don’t, they sell themselves short every day to fulfil the needs of a mediocre man. I am actively choosing not to do that. My husband will work full time and come home to a clean, maintained house, have a good dinner, not worry about his kids all for the price of working 40 hours a week. Most modern day women go to work that 40 hour week and still have to pick up m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?A lot of homemakers have online businesses that don’t require a lot of effort to maintain, which is something I would look into if I wanted some cash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:39 PM |
| 4 | Are there any men that actually want to be sold providers?Sounds like a good dynamic. And yeah I’m not a fun person to be around when I work long hours, I just get stressed and demotivated, I’d rather put all my energy in to being a homemaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)You can try and impress me😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:32 PM |
| 0 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)Definitely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:29 PM |
| 0 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)Do you identify as a 9/10 woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)Well done for learning how to read a Reddit profile darling x | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 08:27 PM |
| -3 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)Between the ableism and misogyny I’m not really sure where to start with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 04:27 PM |
| 2 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)Yes I have to for work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)I’ll let you know the outcome in 20 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:31 AM |
| – | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)The only thing that will prove to men that ‘’women’’ exist Reddit is if you physically show them your hoo ha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:23 AM |
| 2 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)You’re responding to a point that I didn’t make. I agree with you, just because there are benefits to a situation doesn’t mean I can’t complain about the downsides. Also to your point about billionaires, you can have all the money in the world and be miserable as hell. A lot of rich people have spoken about this publicly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:18 AM |
| 2 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)Sure there are definitely guys that I’ve met that are cool people, it’s not all bad. That and gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 03:02 AM |
| 1 | The best way to look as a woman is average (7/10)Hm. How did you come to that conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:42 AM |
| 3 | It's not possible for a man to have authority in the household if the woman is able to divorce him.It would’ve been easier if you just skipped all the bullshit and just said you want to control and imprison a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 02:36 AM |
| – | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI’m British | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:00 PM |
| 7 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?Is an individual not part of a collective? There are multiple studies to back up what I’m saying, some of which I will happily insert for you now: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6352245/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/talking-about-men/202006/the-darker-side-of-casual-sex?amp https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1088868319891310 Have sex with whoever you want, I’m not in charge of your life. But I’m just stating pure facts here and it’s important to understand tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Men do not respond to wordsEh sorry I guess, I’m a very direct person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:07 AM |
| 9 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?Hookup culture promotes porn addiction, misogyny and depression/anxiety. Sexual promiscuity is detrimental to the human body. Even pornstars say the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 10:05 AM |
| 28 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?Casual sex is destroying society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Men do not respond to wordsA lot of women on this thread do not want to listen to what is, as you said, so obvious. Men do not like nagging, they don’t like emotional heart to hearts, they don’t like yelling or arguing. If you want to do all that bullshit, do it with your kids, do it with your girlfriends or do it with people who will actually respond to it damn! Just like women, men have a lot of shit to think about on a daily basis and the last thing they need is their wife/girlfriend moaning and whining about trivial s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Men do not respond to wordsI hate nagging it makes me feel like my mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Men do not respond to wordsAre you … okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:35 PM |
| -1 | Men do not respond to wordsMega response because I’m not going to reply to everyone individually: To those saying ‘it’s toxic and manipulative’ or anything else along those lines. Nothing is toxic and manipulative about reciprocating behaviour that is displayed by your significant other if you don’t see it that way. If you don’t want your partner doing certain things, or behaving a certain way in a relationship, then don’t do it yourself! It’s really that simple. I don’t nag men, I don’t argue with men, I don’t yell at me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:29 PM |
| -1 | Men do not respond to wordsIt’s not toxic… or manipulative. Every example that I gave is what is called reciprocal energy. Whatever your significant other finds acceptable in your relationship, you should also do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Men do not respond to wordsEven though you are clearly being a dick, I’ll respond to your ‘argument’. I would be a tad concerned if anyone was in a relationship with someone without verbal communication. The obvious context behind this post is for women who feel like that verbal communication is not being comprehended, hence why I give scenarios where your frustration from that comprehension can be channeled into action. My advice isn’t really advice. I am simply telling people that whatever your significant other finds ‘… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Men do not respond to wordsTo be completely honest, I only read the last part of your reply. Sorry not sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Men do not respond to wordsNagging is annoying as fuck for men. This is why I don’t do it, because it only causes resentment in a relationship. I’d rather show a man how he is not fulfilling my needs in a relationship; purely because I don’t have the energy to keep being upset/ angry at trivial shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Men do not respond to wordsThe good thing about advice my friend, is that you don’t have to take it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Men do not respond to wordsIt’s not toxicity if the other partner considers it to be acceptable behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Men do not respond to wordsI actually disagree with you. Women who nag or ask their partner for something multiple times have no self respect. If he isn’t doing what he should be doing to sustain the relationship then my first instinct would say that you should leave. However, if there is a persistent problem that isn’t being addressed and everything else is seemingly okay, then the feminine thing to do would be to reciprocate that energy. It’s how you get through to a man. Back to the whole leaving thing; a woman can lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Men do not respond to wordsYikes. I mean if you are with a potentially violent man then I would advise you to break up with him immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:57 AM |
| -2 | Men do not respond to wordsWell if he’s doing the same then why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:54 AM |
| 4 | Men do not respond to wordsI bid you good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Men do not respond to wordsIt’s not ‘one up’ games. If a man believes his behaviour is acceptable, then I’m simply telling women that they should do the same, as it’s now considered acceptable behaviour! I would never advise women to yell at their partners, it’s a waste of energy and it makes you look stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:50 AM |
| 4 | Men do not respond to wordsI didn’t make this post for your married friends who are walking on eggshells. If they feel unhappy in their marriages, maybe they should consider leaving. I made this post for women who feel like they can’t get through to their partner about something that is bothering them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:48 AM |
| 5 | Men do not respond to wordsIt’s not about proving a point, it’s about showing men the consequences of their decisions. I don’t believe that a problem with housework in a relationship is a good enough reason to break up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:45 AM |
| 6 | Men do not respond to wordsMen only listen to what they want to listen to. The average man is very egotistical due to social conditioning, meaning if someone tells him to do something he doesn’t want to do, he won’t do it unless he can visually see why his decisions are detrimental. It’s why a lot of women are single mothers because their child’s father has seen the consequences of him having unprotected sex with women he doesn’t want to have children with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menIf you are a woman who gets validation from yourself this bullsh*t will not mean anything to you. This rhetoric is actually conducive to the support of women not being allowed to be educated; an issue that many women in the past have fought to not be the case. The reality is, a lot of men don’t want a partner, they want an object. They don’t want someone who may be more intelligent than them; otherwise she can’t be easily persuaded/manipulated. This is a message to all women: DO NOT sacrifice yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI agree but my point isn’t so much about finances than it is about being comfortable. A woman can marry a rich man and he could be the stingiest motherfucker on the planet. For me growing up in a household where domestic labour was allocated to the women in the house, its just made me realise that women rarely ever get a chance to enjoy downtime. Even after they’ve came home from their underpaid jobs. Yes, a man could work a 50 hour week but he will still have time off to enjoy himself (watch sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richThen why are you so opposed to women wanting someone financially comfortable as a spouse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richHave the men in your life encouraged you to have stable finances to support your partner if you ever want to get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richIn the most neutral way possible… Are you married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI’m not sure what trauma you’ve been through in your life but not all women want to ‘betray’ their husbands. If we really wanna go there, then let’s talk about the percentage of men who cheat on their sick or pregnant wives… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richMost divorces are initiated because of irreconcilable differences, meaning that women feel like the marriage isn’t working out in the favour, or they have differing opinions to their spouses. Would you not argue that these ‘differences’ are a threat to her comfort and wellbeing There was no ‘proof’ or hidden context by making the statement about how long marriages last. I simply stated that to emphasise the length of time that women spend in discomfort, whether it be a partial time during the ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richClaim 1 - Wives are often the ones that initiate divorce. Source - https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220511-why-women-file-for-divorce-more-than-men Claim 2 - Marriage lasts around 15-20 years https://www.deseret.com/2015/6/8/20566294/here-s-how-long-marriages-last-across-the-world Claim 3 - Women sacrifice more in a marriage Source - https://czasopisma.bg.ug.edu.pl/index.php/CIiPP/article/view/5320#:~:text=Females%20more%20frequently%20make%20sacrifices,is%20pressure%20from%20the%20outside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richHi there! It’s often interesting how some men equate women wanting better for themselves to having no father figure. Makes me wonder if men respect themselves enough to believe they can make a positive influence in their daughters lives. Thanks for the concern, but my father actually seconds if not encourages my viewpoints. Much love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richMoney makes love better in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richThe patriarchal system isn’t going away anytime soon… so women might as well benefit from it in anyway that they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI feel sorry for those women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richA rich man! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richRightly so to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI actually agree with you on that point, no need to make assumptions. Which is why I made this post, women choosing better starts with choosing rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richWhat do you define as a good woman because I heavily disagree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:25 PM |
| -2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI’m a high earning young woman, surrounded by women with the same lifestyle but being fully supported by their partners and I can wholeheartedly say they embody true happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richWe are equals, but men and women are different. Otherwise women wouldn’t have vaginas and men wouldn’t have penises. We think and behave differently and there are some roles in life that are suited better to our biological abilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI disagree, a GOOD woman can add a lot to your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richSounds like a good dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richDivorce is disastrous for both parties… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry rich‘All her worries vanish through marriage’ So why are women disproportionately divorcing men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richThe aim of marriage is longevity. If the west is majorly failing on that part whilst other parts of the world are not; then of course the system is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:23 PM |
| 4 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richWomen are socialised to sacrifice for their kids regardless if they are married or not. My ‘Worst take’ is honestly just the hard truth. Men view child rearing as optional which is why there is an influx of single motherhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:19 PM |
| 0 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richWe need to be honest with ourselves here. Women would not be disproportionately filing for divorce compared to men if they weren’t unhappy about their life with him. A lot of men are not emotionally invested in their marriages. Women bring emotional, physical and financial investment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richBut where marriage is set up this way in the east, there are very low rates of divorce. Love fades… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:16 PM |
| 0 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richSo do men to a certain extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:10 PM |
| -5 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richThese jobs are best suited to a woman’s character. And your argument is stupid because without these sectors society would crumble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:09 PM |
| -2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richWomen married to rich men don’t whine… not unless their husband is being unfaithful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richI would argue that any woman who is not attracted to a man like that probably has some deep issues within herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:25 AM |
| 0 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richThen why do men die earlier if they aren’t married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:18 AM |
| – | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richThis is my exact point. Richness is certainly subjective. I see being rich as being able to live in comfort at any given point of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:10 AM |
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