Legitimate-Market363 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Dating		Legitimate-Market363	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 03:57 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Dating I also realized I get pretty attached the more I have sex with a man so I definitely need to establish a relationship before sex, because it can cloud your judgment. Sex does make me feel closer to a man but I need to get to know them as a person first and foremost and that hasn’t always been my experience	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/23 01:17 AM
3	Dating Thanks, I am Actually more of a Atheist to be honest, somewhat borderline agnostic but I waver between the two but I agree self care, knowing yourself is important before embarking on a relationship	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 11:59 PM
2	Dating I just know it’ll be harder to find a LTP with herpes (2) if I have it. But I’ll update you on my test results. Thanks 😊	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 07:00 AM
2	Dating I also felt being sexually assaulted was a punishment for “amoral” behavior as well, but I realized it’s not, I was SA in a relationship before too, not Just in hook up culture and I never reported it and probably never will. I think it was my way of justifying the assault/s in my mind. Minimizing its impact on me.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 05:59 AM
5	Dating No I never had a outbreak in 2 years and I am waiting on results because a ex partner confirmed he had herpes (2) he never disclosed to me and I hope I don’t have it, he did tell me he takes medication but I blocked him after that. I’m thankful he told me, but it was hurtful he told me after that fact and didn’t seem to care that much.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 05:57 AM
4	Dating Thanks so much, I really needed to hear that I’m doing better since going to therapy. I have been through a lot and sometimes I don’t give myself enough credit for surviving what I been through. I was raised to be pretty humble and to take accountability for my actions and to be a good person. Truthfully I am hard on myself and it’s taken therapy to undo a lot of negative thoughts and beliefs I held about myself. I realized I sought out sex, but was really looking for love after dealing with so …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 05:55 AM
5	Dating I feel like this is a very generic answer, but Someone I’m attracted too, he doesn’t have to be 6ft, I’m 5”6 so around my height or a little taller, decent shape doesn’t have to have a 6 pack or be a Gym Bro. Kind, funny, family oriented, good person. Wants kids, likes animals, ok with pets. Doesn’t live too far from me. Has his own interests, goals hobbies, we have similar values but he doesn’t have to mirror me we can be our own person and compatibility.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 05:37 AM
4	Dating I am actually waiting on test results from a std panel because a ex partner told me he has genital herpes unbeknownst to me. I guess I just felt guilty the moment I contracted it and felt it was a consequence of my past promiscuity in addition to justifying being sexually assaulted too. I am responsible for my choices, but I try to give myself some grace because I don’t believe I would have been as promiscuous had I not experienced some of the life events I experienced and gotten therapy sooner.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 05:09 AM
6	Dating I waiting on test results again because I figured if I have more than oral herpes I may have to date strictly people with STDs so I don’t risk spreading to other people. I guess I felt guilty the moment I contracted herpes (oral). It was a risk that i took when I decided to be promiscuous although I’m not anymore. In addition to being SA. I give myself some grace but I am responsible for my actions too.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 05:06 AM
2	Dating Yeah unfortunately I’m getting tested for STDs again because a ex partner claimed he has genital herpes so it’s pending. He didn’t disclose that to me.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 05:03 AM
2	Dating Oral yes, genital perhaps I do have a friend idk if she discloses or not who has genital herpes from A ex bf unbeknownst to her, had it for a decade now only had one outbreak, medication helps prevent shedding but it’s still contagious but less contagious on medication. Most people with herpes avoid sex when they have a outbreak. Most people in my experience don’t test regularly even if they have multiple partners.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 05:01 AM
2	Dating I was also hoping to find a man with herpes too that way we won’t have to worry about infecting each other potentially. Because I know most people aren’t inclined to date someone with a std and quit frankly I probably wouldn’t have I not had herpes. It’s a preference, I respect their boundaries.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 04:57 AM
4	Dating Was I got banned idk how, no provocative pics or anything. You can still spread it asymptomatically but you’re right 70% population has herpes oral or more. I haven’t had a outbreak in the 2 years I had it, not on meds but I may check with a OBGYN. Some states it’s illegal not to disclose STDs but I really don’t think the law upholds those standards. A lot of people don’t test so therefore they don’t know they have it. Some do and don’t care they spread it. It really hasn’t changed my life at al…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 04:54 AM
5	What’s a good body count at almost 30? Under 5 is low especially these days, mine is 10 wish it was lower, I accumulated it in a short time, I only been having sex for 5 years now.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/23 02:06 AM
2	What’s a good body count at almost 30? That’s really good, while I didn’t lose my virginity till I was 26 but I had oral sex before that. I went through some major life events, didn’t get therapy became a bit promiscuous with a body count of 10, which it was lower also have herpes 1 (oral) although asymptomatic still contagious. I know it’ll lower my SMV but I do hope to find a good man. I am 29, it’s higher than I’d like it to be but I can’t change it. Im in therapy doing better	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/23 02:04 AM