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Inheritance is NOT joint. Doesn’t matter where it is. Have you lawyer argue you needed a place to park some liquid assets and that joint account was most convenient.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 11:39 AM
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Alcohol by definition is a depressant.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 11:17 AM
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One word if you did everything for her…alimony. Better get ready for that if you havent already.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 07:58 PM
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Omg is this the Oprah show? Yes gf’s are 1,000 times better than the bitch that left you and took all your stuff!
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 03:52 PM
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In a country of 350MM, you randomly sat 5’ away from your ex 🤣🤣🤣? Yeah, ok.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 03:49 AM
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I regret having a family, but you have to move on and realize it takes two to tango. So you can regret it all you want but unless she begs for you back, nothing you can do will change that she’s moved on. Like most, I see my gold digging ex every week to exchange kids. She’s still hot, but now lives in a new house, and drives a new car that I paid for. If someone does that to you willingly, and you still have serious regret, you really to look in the mirror.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 11:06 PM
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Must not exist because you’ll never find a woman with those attributes who is single. Never.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 10:19 PM
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Probably the worst advice I’ve seen in a while. Do NOT move out especially if you like the house. Kick her out and I probably don’t have to explain how bad of an idea it is to have a beer with your 8th grader. You do that and it’s child endangerment-there goes your custody.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 05:34 PM
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Fuck anything that moves. Then deal with your issues.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 03:39 AM
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Dude, it’s hard but fuck all those needy women and at least you’re not with your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 01:03 PM
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Bro, you’re a stud. We’ve all been there. Put your big boy pants on and go do what you want. Start by getting laid. I think I had more sex in my 2 year process of getting divorced than I did in my 17 years of marriage. It’s weird at first, but it helps. At least it did for me.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 07:47 PM
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💯! Being a dad and having a positive impact is the best opportunity life gives you. Sorry brother, very little to no sympathy here.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/24 06:49 PM
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You probably shouldn’t have ongoing discussions with another female that you seem to have more a vibe with than your wife. But that happens and it’s why people get divorced. Get your balls out of your wife’s purse and do what you have to do. But…it’s fucking expensive and she get half of your shit. Be prepared for that reality.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 02:21 PM
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Bro I got divorced at 46 after 17 years of marriage. Go get laid! I have had more sex since my divorce that I did in 17 years of marriage. Have fun, and remember “why is divorce so expensive?” Because it’s worth it. Fuck her and go get some!
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 01:10 AM
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17 years for me too. Finished my divorce up last year and am happier than ever. Had more sex in the couple of years it took to divorce than in 17 years of marriage. Enjoy it. Go get laid. Shitty part of course is having to split custody of my two kids with that bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/24 02:23 PM
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There is a light at the end of tunnel. You may be too far away from it to see it, but it’s there. Keep heading in that direction, o e day at a time, and you will eventually see it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 04:08 AM
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Do NOT pay her off early. What if she dies? String her along and fuck her. I changed my child support payments from beginning of the month to end and my ex went ballistic. I showed her the language that said I had to pay monthly and she went more ballistic and proceeded to show me an earlier draft that said I had to pay by the 5th of the month. I asked, is that the copy signed by the judge 😂?
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 04:30 PM
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Bottom line…we all get fucked. State: FL Kids: 2, ages 13 and 15; custody 50/50 I pay all health insurance and cover 100% out of pocket. No alimony, split my retirement , had to refi the house to pay the bitch half of the equity that I was making balloon payments on (owed $41k on a $450k house, now owe $380k again), $1,100/month.. But no alimony was huge for me. In FL, after 17 years, I could have been on the hook for life if her atty was any good.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 09:54 PM
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I feel you. I never much liked Christmas but I now hate it because it’s a reminder of what I used to have. There’s no magic and it’s completely transactional.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 09:36 PM
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Hire a date to go with you.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 02:26 AM
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Bro, get a lawyer. The money you spend now will save 10x down the road and keep your ex from fucking you over like she’s trying to do now.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 10:51 PM
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Say no just to be a pin in the ass. What about other stuff like retirement accounts, savings, etc. let the lawyers handle it, that’s what you pay them for.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 10:32 PM
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In FL, after 17 years of marriage, you could be on the hook for alimony for LIFE! 4 years isn’t that bad.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 02:39 PM
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This. She is now the enemy. Fuck her!
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 02:33 PM
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And you get half the house. If she wants you out, she has to refi and pay you your half of the equity.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 11:50 AM
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Bro I had to pay my hoe almost $1MM after 17 years. Enjoy your freedom and new pussy. Your marriage has been over for a long time.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 01:59 PM
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Unaliving myself? Don’t be a bitch dude and let that cunt win. The easy way out is easy. Put your big boy pants on.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 12:41 AM
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Why does everyone overthink think this. Find a nice wet vagina who happens to make a lot of money and you’re good. Take a nice vacation once a year and life is good….
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 08:45 PM
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2 above and #4. Go start fucking, even an ugly one! You’ll feel better and get a vasectomy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 06:59 PM
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Check the requirements for alimony. My exes attorney started out our first mediation by saying that they were pursuing alimony for life, which after 17 years of marriage in Florida. She should have been entitled to. That’s a whole separate discussion alimony for life? Go fuck yourself! But I read the law, not my dumbass, scumbag, moneygrubbing, incompetent attorney, and found that an order for alimony to be paid in Florida to criteria have to be met. Spouse has to have the ability to pay. The se…
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 06:56 PM
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Get a vasectomy and get busy. It’s pussy guys, c’mon! Literally the ONLY reason we date anyone. I don’t see what the debate is. If you don’t feel a million times better after you fuck a woman, you’re gay for sure 😂.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 01:38 AM
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If someone told you you had two years left to live, what would do? Fuck the fight, get rid of her asap and start living your life again. Just because you go to court does t guarantee you’ll get a fair settlement. What if you get a woman-loving judge. You will have wasted two years and a lot of money for nothing. Don’t fight, get on with your life.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 02:59 AM
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I was in the same boat with an incompetent attorney. LISTEN TO ME CAREFULLY…don’t think for a second you are going to “win” this divorce. In the end, everything will get split and the states calculators where you live will determine child support and alimony, unless you can get her to agree to something else in writing. So don’t fight or change attorneys because the end result will be the same. Get it over with as fast as you can. Your attorney knows you make a lot, and have a lot so he wants to…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/23 11:47 PM
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No retirement? Even if you had separate accounts you get half of hers, she gets half of yours. Does she have debt from her Ph.D? Because you’ll get half of the debt too. Sorry man.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 01:54 AM
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You need a pep talk bro. It’s not all on you. Don’t eat alone-got to a bar if you have to and talk to a stranger. Don’t sleep alone-as weird as it was after 17 years with the same woman, go find another to share a bed with. You don’t need another long term relationship or even a girlfriend. Women nowadays are willing to hang out for fun. Get back in the saddle. You have a lot of miles left. Don’t spend them wallowing.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 11:45 PM
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Same. My father in law and I were buddies. Went golfing all the time, hung out, etc., and he wound up being a big giant pussy when it came time to help me. I get it, it’s his daughter but he literally did nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 11:42 PM
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Make her get a job ASAP, otherwise you’re gonna be paying child support and alimony, and probably a lot of both. It is financially, devastating, and you go through the stages of denial and grief, then anger, and all that. But I agree with other posters who said it’s worth it. Do you know why divorce cost so much? Because it’s worth it! How old are your kids? Not that it really matters but financially again if they’re close to graduation or close to 18 it lessens the blow a little bit because the…
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/23 10:29 PM
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Wait till she lawyers up. Mine said the same thing - just wanted 50% of the house. She lawyers up and starts talking about what she’s “entitled” to and also walks away with half of my retirement. System is fucked!
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/23 12:03 PM
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I had about $100k in and still had to split my retirement and brokerage accounts with her. She never gave two fucks about any investments until it was time to collect but I did convince her to let me keep about 400,000 that I had in savings since we separated. Technically, she was entitled to half of that, but I gave her a sob story that luckily she bought. And I didn’t have to pay alimony because I caught some language in the Florida statutes That showed she didn’t meet the criteria for it but …
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 09:53 PM
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What should you prepare for? Take what you think this will cost you and multiple that by 10. I spent almost $100k over 2.5 years arguing about nonsense. Also be prepared that your lawyers will suck. Mine made a ton of mistakes at everything, I found them and wound up paying again to have their shit fixed. Just let her be gay and save your money.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 11:40 PM
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Wait, you’re an attorney? Dude, double your numbers unless you’re crazy. Wow, you cannot be that naïve.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 03:14 AM
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Holy $hit! Blah blah blah. Your wife sucks, leave her and pay the piper. See what I did there? A novel in one sentence, you’re welcome.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 03:11 AM
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Sorry, but you’re a pussy. You’ll thank me for telling you that. It’s your son vs your ex wife. Fight for your son and fuck her! My dad was type 1-it’s different now with pumps and all the new tech, but it’s tough. Good luck! Keep sweet tarts with you always and orange juice at home.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 06:41 AM
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What are you going to do with all that money? You’ll die with it! Fuck that, go live and just close your eyes 😀.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 06:34 AM
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Get some tadalifil. Problem solved.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 06:33 AM
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Do NOT try to get into her electronics, phone, computers or anything like that. It’s a felony believe it or not if you don’t have her permission. Are you in a no fault? Then give yourself peace of mind and let it go. It won’t change anything. It sucks, she’s a cunt fucking bitch, but file and move on. Sorry bro.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/22 10:45 AM
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This. My ex tries to act like we are still married-telling me what to do, etc. I ignore the absolute FUCK out of her and I know it drives her nuts. If you guys are divorced, she may as well be a stranger in your life. Would you tell a stranger?
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 06:49 PM
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Dude please tell me you filed, or she did by now.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 03:46 AM
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Get one in my man, you’ll feel alive again!
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 02:55 AM
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I am on month 15, 40k for me, 16k for her. I was going no where so grabbed the reigns about 4 months ago and demanded action one way or another. Got trial and deposition dates set, then miraculously they wanted to settle. We are drafting the agreement as we speak. I cannot wait for this shit to be done! Should be criminal.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 02:53 AM
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Did it last year. Best thing ever! 45 with 2 kids.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 02:50 AM
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Forgot to mention one thing about those apps. Don’t fall into the penpal trap. Tons of women on them are fishing for compliments and validation, in other words, they just want someone to pay attention to them and they get their jollies out of that. You can easily weed through those losers by asking for a date after a few days of banter. It was a bit hard for me because I started right at the beginning of Covid but even then it was pretty easy. Glad you have Step 1 out of the way. After having to…
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 01:37 PM
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My man, you will probably have more sex in the next year or two than you have in the past 15! Step 1: Get a vasectomy...seriously. You will have to sign up on those dating apps like everyone else (bumble, match, tinder). I found a regular girlfriend on match who after 2 years, is still pretty amazing. But you'll have no problem. The biggest issue is weeding through the trash, because there is a LOT of it. If you see red flags, just cut bait and move on immediately because there is just so much o…
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 11:15 AM
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Mediation sucked. Mine tried to fuck me, so I walked. It took another 10 months, but I think I came out way better.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/22 03:01 AM
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It’s a scam. I watched the first 10 minutes of this and knew I was being played. That pissed me off and I got busy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=th0R2nxva2w
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/22 01:17 PM
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But you understand why, of course. If you’re the man and you make more money, you are completely fucked in front of a judge. So it is the mother of all bluffs to schedule depositions and court dates. I had to do it, and it worked, but I have been a nervous wreck because my stbxw is far from rational and just dumb enough to go to court.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 11:56 PM
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‘Merica bro. It is legalized theft. I got lucky. Some guys literally have no money left at then end of the month after paying thousands in child support and alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 04:24 PM
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17 years, together for 23.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 01:25 PM
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Thank you. Not gonna lie, there is a sense of accomplishment.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 10:24 AM
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That’s the thing, I am almost done so they could argue they were effective. However, I do all the work, all the negotiating and was constantly fixing their mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 07:28 AM
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I could, but after a long fight, I’m ready to put this behind me. I was going to leave them honest reviews on Google but I don’t want them to sue me for slander. The whole process is criminal.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 07:17 AM
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Yes the attorneys dragged it out. Their communication was horrible. I’d go weeks without hearing a whisper. They would never cc: me on any communication so I had no idea what was going on, they did not use zoom because they were technological dinosaurs, and the shit they would sent me Maleah’s had mistakes in it that I would catch and have to repay them to fix. They were terrible. One of my big ticket items was what to do with my personal checking acct. when we separated, my ex split out joint a…
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 07:16 AM
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I am not a gamer so I can’t relate, but it does seems odd to value an electronic over a person 🤷‍♂️.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 11:44 AM
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6 months is a general rule to make sure she’s not just a rebound. Is she? I had one of those and I was getting some action for the first time in a long time and it clouded my judgement. Be honest with yourself if that’s happening to you. Also, if she’s worth it, she’ll not only understand the importance Eid waiting, she’ll be all for it. If she keeps pushing, she’s trying to trap you and lock you down before your ready. Don’t fall for that shit.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 12:49 PM
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Exactly this. My dumb bitch ex thinks the kids need to have two sets of EVERYTHING. When I explained that clothes I bought my kids belong to them and not the house, she looks confused. I tell my kids their stuff is theirs and they can take it wherever they want to.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 02:39 AM
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No one is paying $300 on top of their legal bills to introspectively learn their ex is a bitch and life goes on. There you go, there’s the 8 part series. Can I have my $300? Not saying it’s not a good idea, but a bit insensitive maybe to try and sell it here.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/22 01:24 AM
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My man, just be glad yours is over. Don’t over estimate the market of guys who are broke, financially and emotionally, buying your 8 part video series. C’mon man! Congrats again and good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/22 01:20 AM
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Don’t be so sure on alimony. Does she have to show a “need,” and does she have one. In FL it’s not automatic. One party has to have the ability to pay and the other a demonstrated need. Talk to your lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/22 12:40 AM
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I REALLY struggled with this. My son was diagnosed with cancer 1 month after we separated. He’s fine now after 1.5 years of treatment, but that time away from him, not knowing the future, was brutal. I found new friends and groups to hang out with at meetup.com. Lots of weird people there, some good people too. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/22 07:37 PM
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That’s about what I’m looking at too. Thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 09:25 PM
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Mind my asking what you pay cs for two kids? I assume you earn more than your ex?
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 07:56 PM
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Thanks! You answered my question - it will not be signed by a judge if not included.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/22 01:39 PM
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I like the mediated by suggestion - that is not in mine. Brilliant brother, thanks! Although I am sure my ex will like her mother there :)!
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/22 01:07 PM
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If there is one thing I have learned through my process and reading/helping others, it's this - if you, or your spouse, are even thinking about separation, divorce, counseling, it's already over. If you have those thoughts, you don't trust each other anymore, and that is the downfall of all relationships. Its not communication, sex, bills, blah blah blah - those are symptoms. The real disease is the lack of trust. Is there light at the end of the tunnel? There can be if you learn. I am still not…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/22 01:05 PM
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Sooooooooooo jealous. Great job by you though.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 03:37 PM
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Good job on no alimony - are your incomes similar, i.e. does she not have a demonstrated need? Mine was a SAHM, but put her ass back to work years ago (Thanks God), so I too do not have to pay alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 12:03 PM
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She had a great attorney...for you. Meaning he doesn't sound like he filled her head with unrealistic expectations that you had to constantly fight against. My wife's attorney does exactly that, so I am fighting a brick wall who now thinks she has a law degree, throwing around terms like "pro rata." I am fighting my attorney who is a big fat pussy and won't negotiate anything, and argues strategy with me every chance he gets. And I am fighting her attorney who now thinks I am paying him in perpe…
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/22 11:08 AM
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How?
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 10:04 PM
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Good God. How is this nonsense legal?
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 07:02 PM
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That’s what I am thinking. Agree to child support, get this finalized, then apply to change it. I should be able to next year because I am not getting my q4 bonus so that will drop my next by 10%.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 06:38 PM
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Thanks. I thought about having a percent of bonus included but most years I kill it so fuck her.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/22 06:37 PM
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Bro, don’t take this the wrong way, but if tried to win arguments with your wife like you just did with me, I am not surprised you’re on this sub. I was not trying to “win” the argument like you, just saying sex is important-really important-and if it’s not available, you can’t fault someone for finding it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/22 12:05 AM
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Respectfully, I disagree. Talking to a woman about lack of sex makes the situation worse. It just does. And if they do get more active, then you can’t help but think they don’t really want to do it, but how feel obligated. Physical intimacy is important to many people. And for them, when it’s not there, you find it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 10:26 PM
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This is not true. I was blocked by several firms simply because my wife contacted them for a free consultation.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 03:07 AM
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I think was drove him to cheat was a lack of sex. I’m not justifying it, but c’mon. I understand.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 10:38 PM
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Ha ha. Too funny.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 02:03 AM
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"Every day you either get better, or you get worse. One of those things will happen. You choose which happens today." And don't be so hard on yourself, your wife sounds like a bitch. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 04:35 PM
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It was a joke. Poster asked for one positive thing about marriage - that was the only thing I could think of. Enjoy your weekend, hopefully free to do whatever the fuck you want to.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 11:34 AM
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Move back into your house, kick her out, and file for divorce. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but these types of trust issues cannot be overcome. Trust is gained in drips, but lost in buckets. Your marriage is likely over, and realistically in her mind, it has been for some time and she is now just acting out. I'd be very concerned about the partying and late nights out. Does she work? Any debt she racks up between now and filing, you are on the hook for half. Get rid of a joint credit car…
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/22 11:30 AM
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Don't believe that BS. My STBXW said the exact same thing, "Oh, don't worry, I am not a gold digger." Then the lawyers got ahold of her and explained how it was her "right" to take half of my shit. I'm now 11 months into the divorce process, having paid $30K to attorneys so far, and have made zero progress. Wrap your mind around the fact that you will have to give her 50% of your money, retirement, and likely pension. I hate to say this, but if this has been going on for 3 years, your marriage i…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/22 12:41 PM
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Ignore her bro, she's a troll and doesn't belong here. Don't worry, she won't be here long.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 08:59 PM
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