| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Being mysterious vs being outgoing | LegitimatePraline | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 06:50 PM |
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| 1 | Being mysterious vs being outgoingThank you for your amazing answer. I have a similiar vision of what "mysterious extroverd" would mean. And you showed me that I'm on the right track. I think I'm behaving naturally in such a way that I don't talk about very personal stuff but at the same time share a lot other informations. I think I shouldn't try to change that. | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Being mysterious vs being outgoingFair enough. ;) | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Being mysterious vs being outgoingSeems like I need keep going the outgoing route then. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Got a date from a girl I see at my gym a lot for next weekend, should I still go to the same gym? Running into her before the date might make her feel awkwardJust do what you want to do without worrying about seeming "too needy". That's precisely what being "not needy" is - not caring about what someone might think and not getting overly emotionally involved in things. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Being mysterious vs being outgoingOff topic but Gordon Ramsay is a personal hero of mine, I just love how passionate he is about his things and how hard working he can be. If I can talk about something as excitedly as he talks about food, I would consider myself lucky. Ah now it makes a lot of sense. I think I might even emulate that kind of approach to life myself! I usually talk about my area of expertise which is psychology and I'm really passionate about that. It also makes for a great conversation when I will give my insigh… | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Being mysterious vs being outgoingBeing "mysterious" because you think it makes you more attractive to women is reaction-seeking and weak and not true to yourself. That's how I felt and why I asked this question because it seemed to be a little bit off. I think in my case being more "mysterious" could be detrimental because I benefit a lot from being socially dominant and outgoing instead of being shy, reserved or silent. Learn to give without expecting anything in return. Accept yourself and accept that you are passionate about… | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Being mysterious vs being outgoingIt might be a good idea to try both approaches! Honestly I think I'm oftentimes giving somewhat vague answers - especially when asked personal and/or boring questions. At the same time however I tend to be more outgoing when asked about something I'm very passionate about (like my goals for example). I wouldn't talk forever - 2-3 minutes and then go back to a normal conversation, leaving many questions open. What would be your take on that issue? Also, I wanted to add that I was also asking abou… | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 07:22 PM |
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