| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 94 | What do you offer? | DISCUSSION | Lemon-Blossoms | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/19 07:44 PM |
| 27 | Am I being unfair? | DATING ADVICE | Lemon-Blossoms | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 02:56 AM |
| 24 | Remaining Childlike | SELF IMPROVEMENT | Lemon-Blossoms | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/19 07:59 PM |
| 22 | Abstinence - Telling Him | DATING ADVICE | Lemon-Blossoms | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:07 PM |
| 21 | Meeting Men During Free Time? | ADVICE | Lemon-Blossoms | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 04:19 AM |
| 10 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please... | ADVICE | Lemon-Blossoms | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/19 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Pleasant Voice and Commanding Voice | Lemon-Blossoms | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/20 01:33 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Am I being unfair?I understand where men who fudge their numbers come from. My decision came down to the trust I lost as a result of his inaction and the way I found out. Thank you for your thoughts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you. I have considered all your questions and it was good food for thought. Though I made my decision already, I will certainly keep these questions in mind as part of the vetting process going forward! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Am I being unfair?His age was on his profile, and I asked a question that let me calculate his age. I would be more inclined to believe that it was a mistake if it were 1-3 years older/younger, but he is 8 years older than what was on his profile. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I did think about your comments about distinguishing between the intention during my decision making process. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for your advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for your advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?That is a valid point. Thank you for offering the counter argument. It helped in my decision making process. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for your input! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?True. Thank you for another point to consider. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for sharing your experience and thoughts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for sharing your experience with me and for your advice and warning! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?I decided to break it off. Thank you for clarifying and sharing your thoughts! It helped me in my decision making process! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for sharing your thoughts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Am I being unfair?Thank your for your thoughts! It helped me calm down and re-examine myself. Though I will be cutting it off with him, your advice has offered me a new perspective to consider in future vetting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Oh, definitely not ghosting him, but after thinking about what everyone said the past few days, I don’t think it is worth it to go on another date with him just to confront him. Thank you for your advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for sharing your thoughts. These past few days, I definitely considered asking him and seeing how he responds, but I am like 80% sure I no longer want to continue seeing him and 20% open to hearing his reasoning. I guess at this point, I don’t feel it’s worth my time to hear him out. Thank you again for your advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Yes; a dating app. Could you share? I am curious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?I certainly see your point and considered it in my decision making process the past few days. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Based on his answer to my question related to his age, he is nowhere near what he stated on his profile. As in he is like 8 years older than what was stated. Thank you for your cautioning me and the food for thought! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Congratulations! I am glad it worked out for you. Ultimately, I decided that I do not want to waste more of my time with someone I feel I can no longer trust. Thank you for sharing your experience, though. It helped me think about this circumstance in a different point of view as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for sharing. I have decided to break it off after taking everyone’s advice into consideration. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for stating your point of view. It offers a different perspective, and I am glad to have had a chance to consider it. I decided I cannot trust him anymore so I will be breaking it off, though. Thank you again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for saying it’s okay and for the encouragement! I appreciate it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you. I always say that, but often end up giving them second chances. I need to work on my boundaries and self respect more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Thank you for your thoughts. I definitely do need to start believing I am the prize and improve the way I view and hold myself. If you do not mind me asking, how did you do it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?I’d hope not, but now I can’t say for sure...haha that’s sad. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Am I being unfair?Oh, that is a good point. I never thought about it like that. Thank you for the new perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Am I being unfair?I don’t either...but I also believe in second chances so to risk it or not is the question I suppose haha. Thank you for your thoughts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Am I being unfair?I am absolutely not okay being lied to, but I feel that I shouldn’t be this angry about the lie and that I am being unfair... Thank you for the advice about the second chance. Definitely a better way of phrasing it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Am I being unfair?I don’t appreciate white lies either to be honest. Maybe that’s what I am so upset. Thank you for your honest opinion! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Am I being unfair?I asked a question that would let me calculate his age. What do you mean by a giant step backwards? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...Thank you for sharing! I bought a body language book recently so I am hoping that will help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...Thank you. It is a good exercise. I am realizing as I read through everyone's comments that I need to be more aware, especially of how I present myself in my body language as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I will certainly reflect more on these questions as they are all good areas of my life to consider. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...Thank you. Working on my small talk skills! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...Very true. Thank you for your input! Seems like a common theme is I need to be more aware! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...Thank you for your word of caution and advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...I completely understand since I can be that way. I guess I was just pretty frustrated. Thank you for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...Belated thank you for your input and suggestion. I should play that game with one of my friends! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more approachable? ELI5 please...Belated thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Abstinence - Telling HimThat makes sense...giving him a chance to get to know me. I get what you guys meant by this conversation being socially awkward if approached this way. Thank you for expanding on your original point and for your advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you; that is helpful and practical. Maybe I’ll lead with the online dating question! Fingers crossed things go well...thank you again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimNot at all! It’s comforting to know I’m not alone, and I appreciate the good wishes! Thank you =] | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you for sharing your thoughts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you for the words of encouragement! 😊 | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimAh...gotcha! I’ll check out Emily Post and will try the Introduction to X approach =D thanks so much for your input!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you! This helps a lot! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you for sharing your thoughts and experience! I don’t mind if the man is a virgin or not as long as he respects my boundaries on waiting before marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimI am so glad to hear that! We met on Coffee Meets Bagel. I met my ex-boyfriend on there and have met some other solid Christian guys on there as well. Depending on where you live, you might want to try Hinge as well (I feel that one is a hit or miss). Wishing you all the best =) I hope you find someone wonderful soon! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimOh! Thanks for the warning. Lol! That’s kind of cute hahaha. 💛 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you for the clarification! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Abstinence - Telling HimHaha like ripping off a bandaid, huh? I made up my mind I’ll tell him in person, but I do want to thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and perspective! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimAlways have been a thing. Seeing as how “sexually abstinent” doesn’t seem to imply virginity by the number of questions about my virginity...is there another term you would use? Also, thank you for your input. Some others here have also mentioned that, and it helps strengthen my conviction. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you for your answer! Hm...I do see your point about it being awkward and fast to mention it, but at the same time, it is a non-negotiable for me and I am pretty sure it is for a majority of guys out there too. If the date is going well, isn’t it courtesy to let him know, and for my benefit as well, to make that clear so we don’t waste our times? I feel like I’d just be more crushed if I fall for him more, and he rejects me because of my boundary. Maybe I’m reading too many online articles … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimFirstly, I love how both of you are here and giving to the community. Secondly, I think that’s great advice from you two about about being a jack of all trades. Do you have any more recommendations on which areas I should start learning more about? Some things I can think of in addition to the ones you mentioned are movies, TV shows, sports, exercising, games, technology, music....any other major ones? Finance/investing maybe? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Abstinence - Telling HimThanks for your thoughtful answer. Hm...that is a great point you bring up about straddling having a personality and being pleasant to the point of being boring. It’s something I’ve been struggling with since I’ve tried to be less sarcastic, critical, naggy, etc. I guess I’ve used those things as a crutch and now I’m lost on how to be humorous, etc. and be myself. It’s almost like I lost a piece of myself as bad as that part of myself was. I’ll work to listen more on our upcoming date and any ot… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimI definitely appreciate your honesty. Thank you for sharing! Will do as you advised and keep working on myself. At the least my chances will increase! 😁 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimHaha actually met this guy on CMB. I like it a lot! I’ll look into Catholic Match ! Didn’t think a lot of people were using it so didn’t give it a real chance. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimI guess I am having a hard time balancing letting the man lead and bringing up those straightforward topics myself. I’ll keep an eye out for the rebounds. Didn’t even consider it. & I admire how you protected your time and energy, by the way! Will take your advice and bring it up as a question! Do you think something like, “Btw, just curious, how many girlfriends/girls have you had in the past?” in a semi-playful way would be an okay lead in? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you for your kind and encouraging words and advice! 💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimHahaha yeah that’d definitely be important... | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Abstinence - Telling HimOh, wow. What the heck! That’s a new perspective...I felt guilty and ashamed for not being able to have sex, but what you say makes sense too and makes me feel loads better! Thank you for sharing your thoughts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimOhh. I didn’t even consider that scenario. Thank you! & thank you for the recommendation. I added it to my cart 😎 | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimDating App (known for being used more for something more serious rather than casual). I filter out for people of my religion. I usually give people 2 dates (1 if I am really not feeling it) before deciding whether it will work out or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Abstinence - Telling HimI am? Not sure how else I should word it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you for your input and good wishes! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimI am. Unfortunately, it didn’t occur to me to mention it on the first date...will keep it in mind for next time! Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimCould you provide some advice on how I should approach the topic? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Abstinence - Telling HimI am a virgin. What do you mean by timeline? I don’t want to rush into marriage just to have sex. I’d like to at least date for about a year. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you. =] | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimWould you still recommend being upfront about it? I am thinking during second date might be best and the least weird/awkward. Also, what kind of woman would be worth it? How do I become that kind of woman? I have been working on shutting up, not nagging, not arguing, not criticizing, less complaining, exercising more (on the skinny-average side but could be more fit), dressing more femininely, and being vulnerable based on what I have read on this sub, but I still feel kind of lost/hopeless. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you. Never considered that perspective. I guess I was also considering the incompatibility portion of it as well (religious convictions, view of life, expectations, etc.). I’ll keep an eye out for men who readily agree too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimThat is what I am afraid of...losing the really good men because of abstinence, but since I made this choice because of my religious beliefs, I will just have to bear what comes. Thank you for your honesty!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimI will think about it a bit more! I would love to go on the second date, but considering the day and age and how young he is, I am not too optimistic about the outcome. I don’t want to come off as a manipulator or wasting his time, etc. either so am a bit hesitant on going on the second date. But I may be getting ahead of myself. Perhaps second date won’t be bad...haha I’m like running around in circles in my head. Anyway, thank you for your advice! I’ll definitely take it into consideration. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Abstinence - Telling HimAlas, this is a choice I made so I have to take on the consequences of it too. Thank you for your honesty (in a good way). | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Abstinence - Telling HimThat’s true...I guess it will. Gosh...I really don’t want to bring this up haha! Thank you for your encouraging words, though! I really appreciate it and find it comforting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:47 PM |
| 10 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you for the encouraging words! I know I need to tell him, but I guess I am confused on when and how to tell him. Haha I did filter out for Christians on the dating app and matched with him. 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimYou’re right. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Abstinence - Telling HimIt seems coffee before the second date looks to be the best choice...thank you! Do you have any idea how to bring this up if we were to meet up for cofffee? It just seems so awkward to just be like, “Btw, I really like you, but I’m sexually abstinent and thought I should let you know before we progressed further.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimGosh. I’m starting to lose hope lol...thank you for clarifying! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Abstinence - Telling HimThank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Abstinence - Telling HimI am waiting until marriage. Sorry! Would you recommend before the second date or during? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Abstinence - Telling HimWhat is a low T man? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Remaining Childlike3 and 5 are really comforting. Thank you for sharing. Seems like self care and protecting myself is a common theme among the comments! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeReading your and some other commenters’ replies has me motivated to start tackling my bucket list. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeYou’re right about the bubble. A lot of my coworkers complain a lot about kids and life. Did not occur to me that protecting myself might actually be the wiser choice per se. Thank you for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeHaha definitely sassier, more confident, louder, and more carefree. Gosh just went on a nostalgic trip. Thank you for your input! Gives me some things to think about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeI see a few members here mention flexibility! Thank you for your input! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeI do have one! I’ve been slacking the past few weeks, but I will start being more consistent again. Thank you for your suggestion! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeThank you; your words are comforting. 😊 | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeThank you for asking this question! I’m in the same boat and your conversation with durtyknees was helpful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeThank you! This helps and is a different perspective that I need to think about. Reminds me of my mom. Thank you again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeThank you! This helps and is a different perspective that I need to think about. Reminds me of my mom. Thank you again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeTrying to get out of my job! And I think maybe volunteering for younger kids can be a good alternative for #3! Thank you for your suggestions! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeHaha the saucy interaction examples with your husband made me smile. Seems like spontaneity, carefreeness, and being play like is a common theme!Thank you for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeI’m actually working to be carefree and playful I’m my classes. What you described about the spiritual heart kind of sounds similar. I do feel so much better after those classes. Didn’t think of them as a way to remain childlike, though! Thank you for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeThank you for sharing! It had been difficult to believe in the good in people lately. I’ve been trying since I read your comment! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeWill do! These days, I’m just like go go go go. Maybe a trip to the park since things are blooming now! 💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Remaining ChildlikeMy goodness. Just realized it has been awhile since I’ve expressed excitement like that even though I am on the inside. Thank you for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Remaining ChildlikeI think that is a good point. Never really thought about what should follow after innocent (or that it would eventually end). Thank you for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Remaining ChildlikeThank you! Maybe it’s time to start tackling some stuff on my bucket list! 😁 | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | My Captain told me that I will forever have a place in his heart.Thank you for sharing! Made me smile and feel warm and fuzzy =] I'm happy for you!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Thank you! I PMed you. I hope you don't mind! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Someone mentioned hiking before, and rock climbing seems like a good idea as well! I tried rock climbing before, and it was fun (in addition to being quite a workout). I'll give it another go! Thank you for the suggestions! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?In regards to "[shoving them] towards red pill," would something simple like, "I like that your confidence" or "I like how easily you can do X, Y, Z" be sufficient? Wow. Didn't think it should be that straightforward. Interesting! & I'll check out those speakers. Thanks again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?And i would say consistent volunteering is a good idea too. It helps you build stronger relationships so that people can truly give you good recommendations regarding single men but its a numbers game. If you feel the people at the volunteering thing dont know any single men or aren't single men....... dont volunteer there consistently :P Oops. Just saw your comment. Thank you! That is a very good point about men approaching. In regards to "[shoving them] towards red pill," would something simpl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Oh, I'm not looking for someone who makes $500k....that would be pretty unrealistic. It's more of a "it would be nice if I could have that in the future" wish/daydream, which is what I thought she meant? As long as the guy has some sort of ambition/plan for his future and works hard to achieve that goal, I would be happy. I would rather be with someone who has a goal in mind and works hard towards it making less than the average income rather than someone who makes 6 figures who doesn't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Combining responses! Gosh. Wake up call...I knew 24 was close, but hearing it from someone else is like, "Bam!" Hm...in 20 years, I would love to have several children, be married happily, and be successful in my career and have the ability to work part-time. Someone who makes enough so that I can be a STAHM if for the first half of our children's lives without needing to worry about money....I'm guessing at least $500k then (gosh...that's a lot of money...)? I would say may top 6 criteria are: … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Thank you for taking the time to answer honestly. I’ll take your words into consideration. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Could be. I know I want to pursue this dream and am spending a lot of resources on chasing it. I know I want to get married. What kind of guy I want, I am not too sure yet. Whether I want to date right now? Mixed feelings. Based on my last attempt in trying to date, I felt I wasn’t ready, but at the same time, I want to date? You could very well be right. Could you please elaborate? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?I am open to going further if things really work out, but essentially yes. I don’t think I can improve in flirting or interacting with guys if I don’t practice in real life with them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Thank you for your answer! I saw some comments on this forum about online dating not being a good way to meet good men, but I will try again when I am ready. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Thank you! I did try online dating about a month ago, and it just didn't feel right at the time. I wanted to wait a few more months before trying again. Do you think this is just a phase I need to get over? I figured it was due to the fact that I may not be completely over the break up (not that I want to get back together with my ex though). I just don't think I can go on a date without feeling...down? Not sure how to put it into words. When I do start again, I will cast a wider net at first as… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?I could be humble bragging, but I do want to hear other ways to better use my time, hence the detailed post. My way of making time for what I value is through exercising, taking care of my skin, and wearing makeup. I could certainly be doing more, but I would not dismiss what I am doing now completely. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Thank you for your response! I do not want to reveal my hobby as people I know in real life may identify me. I try to work out 3x/week (usually for about 1-1.5 hours). I have been lifting weights and have been trying to follow Strong Curves. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?I am sorry, but I do not want to share my hobby as it could possibly expose me to people I know in real life. I hope you understand! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Hm...that is a good question! I would say I am a good person and a good listener. I look for the good things in people and try to actively compliment them and make them feel comfortable. To attract men, I would say my legs are pretty nice as is my smile! I have been told I am sweet and think I generally make a good first impression. That said, there are certainly areas I could also improve on physically and personality-wise! I got out of my first relationship about three months ago. I thought I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Meeting Men During Free Time?Thank you for your answer! Combining my reply for your other comment into this one. The priority point you made is something that I have been struggling with. The industry I am trying to enter highly favors the youth, but at the same time, so do men. The hobby I am trying to turn into a career is a dream that I finally had the courage to work towards in the past few years. It is so important to me. I know you cannot answer for me, but I am torn. On one hand, I am afraid that I may miss out on fi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 09:46 PM |
| 7 | Not getting home before fiance causes huge fights, please help meWhile that makes the situation more...understandable, it still does not make it right and make his behavior and unreasonable request any less controlling. Yes; you could certainly do things to make him coming home feel better. For example, have the house clean and write thank you notes, etc. Make an effort to come home before him 3x a week and have dinner with him. The other 2, perhaps you can have food in the slow cooker and stuff that could be heated up. Whatever you think would make him relax… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 06:11 AM |
| 18 | Not getting home before fiance causes huge fights, please help meIf you do not mind answering, why does he want you to come home before him? I am sorry to say this, but I am worried that this relationship might turn abusive; it seems that your instinct is already telling you it may based on your post. Like I mentioned before, you should not feel like you are constantly walking on eggshells in a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, as you acknowledged, this behavior is not normal in relationships. Yes; you two can agree to set reasonable boundaries if it bothe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 05:14 AM |
| 30 | Not getting home before fiance causes huge fights, please help meHonestly, it is controlling. I do not think walking on eggshells is healthy at all, and honestly, I do not think his expectation is really all that realistic? Unless, he gets home around midnight or something. Still...what are his reasons for not wanting you to come home later than him? Is he okay with you coming late if you give him a heads up? What usually helps me is writing down everything I want to say (usually ends up being a rant). Walk away. Revisit it, and revise as needed. I generally … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/18 04:39 AM |
| 8 | Good partners shown in literature/movies/TV showsI was watching White Collar and thought Peter and Elizabeth were good partners. Elizabeth is a great wife and constantly supports Peter! I think it was one of my first times seeing RPW theories put into practice. Plus, she is already well put together. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/07/18 06:54 AM |
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