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Yes and I would say keep it casual and then you'll be able to do it to multiple girls at the gym even if it doesn't work. Talk to her a few times, banter and get her laughing and say oh have you tried that new bar on King street? I'll take you if you want they have good drinks.
/r/seduction07/02/26 11:33 PM
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How come?
/r/seduction07/02/26 03:50 AM
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Exactly. Making 10 trillion dollars and becoming immortal is quite simple just hard.
/r/seduction07/02/26 02:05 AM
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Welcome to platnet earth. We're all trying to make it better but it's not perfect yet. America still has the most opportunity for an ambitious person though. If you're middle class or lower class though you're gonna struggle but still less than most other places in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:45 PM
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You're falling pray to propaganda. Most of these issues are present in other countries without the upside that america offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:46 PM
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A woman that can monetize her brand is a 0 to you?
/r/seduction01/02/26 10:39 PM
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Post them
/r/seduction30/01/26 08:57 AM
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Absolutely. I aim to work a lot and become a wealthy man and fund a whole polycule with younger women and men as I am bi. Currently 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:47 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:50 AM
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This is why social circle game and having a setup is such a game changer. At the end of the day cold approach is an uphill battle and unfavorable to you as the man.
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:10 AM
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Yes it was a great time. Almost ruined my life as she ended up being a BPD girl with addiction issues. Still taught me a lot and I've been monk moding for a few years to fix my flaws and have healthier relationships in the future. Having a girlfriend is great though. And fucking your own gf is better than fucking random chicks by far to me. I wanna try dating a few girls at once next.
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:43 AM
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If you're a high value man women show you a lot of interest. Worry less about dating dynamics and go learn AI and start a business. Try having dating issues when you can travel the world and spend thousands a month on your dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 09:45 PM
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Because you have then value to offer and a life beyond her and other women? Seems pretty self explanatory
/r/seduction10/01/26 05:28 PM
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I agree. Most men haven't spend 100 hours intentionally working on their dating life. How would you feel about an engineer who hasn't put 100 hours into his craft? How many men do you know who have read a book on dating or hired a dating coach?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:05 PM
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Increase your SMV. It's easier to do well in smaller cities. Bigger cities are much more competitive especially for very attractive women.
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:58 AM
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If you're happy with your life what are you complaining about on a regular basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:36 AM
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No you yourself are projecting and side stepping the issue. he has gone to 9 different dating events in her city but did not find any man attending to be attractive. In her profile she had a photo of herself in clothing for one of these events and she is a pretty bland looking woman, no makeup, no real attempt to look attractive, hair sort of sticking out and she was pretty overweight." None except for one comment that was downvoted into oblivion asked why she didn't find any man attractive. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:35 AM
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If you don't have access to the events you want or dating partners you want it's on you to change that not to complain about it online and vent to others. In some ways I'm sure its relieving but it's quite non productive and toxic I'd say. Just like plenty of men do here on this forum. The best of the red pill was always in action taking and obtaining tangible positive results for our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:30 AM
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If you're not able to find the men you want that's a you issue not a market issue. The whole point is complaining about the market as a whole is externalizing the issue and lacking acccountability and thus female solipcism. If you want an emotionally intelligent, tall, wealthy man who's gonna be your best friend there are some. Not many but you can find them. Most women will just complain that there are no good men left out there because that's human bias towards exerting less energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:55 PM
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The whole idea of self-improvement is building your dream life so you don't have to live in the mediocre ways other humans live. Is your man helping you build your dream life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:53 PM
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Yes and it's low value behaviour. Just probably like you would find most complaining men on this subreddit to be low value. Complaining is human. There are high value and low value behaviours. The less you engage in high value behaviours the less value you have to give to others and a dating partner. Just like your dream dating partner is probably not a chronic masturbator with no job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:06 PM
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I've read most of the posts and also associated books. If you want to let your feelings get in the way of your analysis then I'm not the person to talk to, talk to an AI chatbot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:46 PM
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Not at all. It's a meme for guys to go somewhere and say that there were no hot girls where the dude has no game or isn't attractive. Delusion is not usually advocated for in high performing male circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:40 PM
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I mean it's a small example that we're reading into but the trend that he's referring to is externalization instead of self-awareness and self-improvement. Happens to both genders obviously but here the OP is commenting about the woman way of doing it and the YES queen that ensue from it and 0 constructive criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:39 PM
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No the whole point is that it's a circle jerk and none of the comments except the dude commenting actually moved the conversation forward toward actually finding better events or breaking down what exactly about these men was unnactractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:37 PM
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I never took it as saying that it favors women and I've been on it for 14 years. It's all about empowering yourself and not complaining fundamentally. Every version of blaming women is a form of complaining and is thus feminine or victim mindset in the original red pill philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:37 PM
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His whole point is the female solipcism and lack of self-awareness. Not how should I find events with more attractive men? Just complaining with the female emotional tampons jumping to the rescue with nothing productive being accomplished.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:29 PM
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Female solipcism i.e. being self-aborbed without self-awareness. Not all women but it's a part of female biology and psychology for good and bad reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:28 PM
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Clear example of a woman missing the plot. His whole argument is against female solipsism i.e. being the center of the world. An unnactractive woman lacking the plot and being delusional and lacking the self-awareness to take care of her own appearance and appreciate it in men makes a lot of sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:27 PM
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Teach your kids to be well balanced and empowered individuals with a clear vision of their future and a healthy relationship to the opposite sex and screaming madmen on the internet will not have much to offer them. The part that almost got me into the toxic red pill hole is my parents taught me 0 about dating. Just good luck son. And I'm a nerdy guy so not particularly successful with women in highschool. I like to read books and learn from a wide perspective of people though so I equally read …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:06 PM
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I mean not really. Some people are attracted to one part of rhetoric over another. If anything the more time you spend on the internet the more time you spend around the weak willed lazy part of the red pill. The proactive and action taking part doesn't comment endlessly on women being toxic entitled or bad on the internet. They just conquer the world and bring high quality women into their lives for win-win relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:01 PM
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Go to the red pill subreddit right now and sort by most ranked posts of all time. Tell me which ones are particularly misogynistic? 8) Has this title : Three ways to consciously manipulate women before they subconsciously manipulate you. Which I'll give you is quite incendiary but is mostly about frame battles meaning getting your agenda above any other person that you encounter man or woman or boss or any other entity. Which is game theory not really women are bad and inferior and you can find …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:00 PM
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I mean low IQ uneducated individuals have always been unpleasant to society. Plenty of smart men that use the philosophy to self-improve. If you're a smart and discerning woman I don't see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:56 PM
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This has nothing to do with red pill philosophy. It's supposed to help you with tangible goals not just sell you clickbait content. The red pill content on forums and articles and books is different than the youtube and tiktok one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:04 AM
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The red pill is not really about misogyny. That's only one part of it that falls into ideology. It was originally mostly about sexual and life strategy for men. I have a hard time seeing how studying strategy can be a bad thing. Why don't you elaborate on which parts you found helpful and not helpful with the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:03 AM
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That's why I think a high value man should date 2-3 women, both sides win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:36 PM
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Sex is not that fun by itself, it should be the cherry on the top of the sundae of your awesome life.
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:13 AM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:53 PM
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Go read through the sugaring subreddits. It's not a binary situation. Plenty of sugar babies are attracted to their sugaring partner lets say 4-6/10 but not the 8/10+ that would be required for an organic relationship. The extra sugar makes it worth it, that's the concept. Plenty of women are attracted to men they would almost date but the math they do in their head subconciously just doesn't add up and that's the sugar zone where with a bit of money it suddendly does. Direct prostitution is mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:00 PM
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Depends what you want. If you're 45 and well off and single how would you easily get that gf/wife? Spend your time going to networking events,bars and online dating apps to come accross the women that meet your standards? I think that's an option for the men that want to spend the 6 months-2 years that I think it would take to meet a partner that you like and meets your standards with that route. Whereas the men that choose to sugar can find an arrangement that meets their needs in a few weeks f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:58 PM
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A lot of women end up with 1.5k-4$k+/monthly allowances, I do think that is the idea(business plan) of most sugar babies. If you read through the sugar lifestyle forum subreddit, plenty end up with long term arrangements paying $5-10k/month.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:56 PM
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Very few. I would argue though that as a younger man your dating strategy IS to make the money to be able to afford a a free lifestyle and to sugar or date however you want really. I don't think any dating strategy that doesn't include ending up with at least $5k/month of disposable income is viable UNLESS you're trying to get married asap. Then the Lord can help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:54 PM
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Can I ask how old you are and how long you would do that for though? I think sugaring is medium term strategy where as escorts are a short term one. Your sugar baby you will most likely get along with and get attached to her whereas with an escort you see her once or twice max.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:53 PM
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Sugar dating halfway between dating and prostitution IMO; they're not the same thing. The goal of sugaring is to find a guy that you're at least somewhat attracted to and get along with on top of him paying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:52 PM
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Nothing wrong with this as most men wont complain. You will hear complaints from older women’s (30s-40s) side because these are beta bux leaving the market Agreed that it's mostly bad for women. Fair enough that they don't have anything good to say about it if it ultimately fucks them over right? I'm curious if there's an alternative dating strategy for these older women that could work as well as sugaring/digital nomading does for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:50 PM
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I do agree. I consider myself maybe like 5-10% bi but if I was 50% bi it would make my life a lot easier. It would make it communication and boundary setting with male friends more important but overall would probably be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:03 PM
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Perhaps true but social media is only a fraction of the modern-day status game. Men are much more business and politics-focused which is where the real power and status lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:19 PM
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That's a narrow view of it. Social status is not superficial, it's a survival function in this life. Having a nice car/apartment/watch is a sign that you can not only survive in your society but thrive. It's doesn't only have to do with the aesthetic look. Society is brutal, even to this day. Women have evolved to associate with powerful and well-connected men to survive in our world, it's a bit silly to dial it down to superficiality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:48 PM
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Which one would you recommend the most? I'm a big fan of Chinese women but not their government so I'd have a hard time living there. Vietnam or Indonesia seem like better places to live for a few years.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 09:34 PM
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Yeah you're 100% right. This girl I was seeing for a while didn't work out heavily and just ate a couple of them per day as meal replacement. Super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:04 AM
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No way 34% of the guys on Tinder use steroids, that's ridiculous. Not even 34% of the guys at the gym do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:38 AM
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Do you think Joe Rogan would have issues hooking up with girls if he was single even if they didn't know who he was? Proceed with everything as always, nothings changed.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 05:31 AM
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Do you have more information on the simple pickup stuff? I didn't know about Jesse's ex fucking Kong, aren't they still in business together today?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:22 PM
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Easily 50% of women are on Tinder and 95% on IG. It'd be foolish to not have an IG strategy for game in 2020. COVID showed us that as well, cold approach is an excellent skill to learn but it has its limits.
/r/seduction06/06/20 05:51 PM
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Who cares? I guarantee you that your brother being weird over social media is gonna stop you from getting laid exactly 0%.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:04 AM
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The person who will be your biggest obstacle in you achieving all your hopes and dreams in this life will be yourself. You will convince yourself that you can't do it. That you're too tired to workout. That a shitty relationship is good enough for now. That it's not worth it to put in an extra few hours into side projects after work. That your dreams weren't possible after all.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 11:33 AM
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You're 100% wrong. I've been to France too. If you have strong frame, girls follow. If you have weak frame, you follow cultural norms. Do whatever you want regardless though.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:06 AM
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Do whatever you want to do. If you're content with it and want to go with the flow then do nothing, don't feel pressured to become a PUA because it's been told to you. If you ache for some female presence in your life though then this advice is the complete opposite of what you should do.
/r/seduction29/05/20 06:01 PM
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Do you want to live in the real world or the fantasy world? If that would be the case, that would be the greatest news you could possibly have. Your life is fairly decent for the most part, right? You were decently happy with this relationship, your level of achievement in life, etc. If it turns out that this girl was fucking around months ago, that means that you have huge blind spots that you haven't even begun to realize were there. Imagine how great life will be when you fix those and how qu…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:30 PM
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Therapy and trauma work my brother. You're still way stuck in the past, impossible to embrace the future in that case.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:10 AM
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So you were her mom and gave her a pep talk and you thought that would translate to loyalty?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:07 AM
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Up to you. If it were me, I'd rather know the full truth and be in peace with it, even if she ended up getting gangbanged the whole time there. If that would end up being your call, I suggest a strategy around the lines of "Hey X, I know we've had our ups and downs but I wanna try and make this workd. I need you to be fully honest and tell me what happened and where you're at. I know there's something you're not telling me and that's fine but I need to know if we're gonna move forward." It's exa…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:02 AM
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Sounds about right to me and I've daygamed for 4 years.
/r/seduction28/05/20 07:06 PM
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This is what happens when the keyboard warriors give advice lol. 1/3? So if you talk to 30 girls in a day, you're gonna make out on the spot with 10 of them? Please try some day game and you'll realize how ridiculous that is, I won't even need to explain it to you.
/r/seduction28/05/20 07:05 PM
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Are the COVID restrictions lifted where you are?
/r/seduction28/05/20 07:04 PM
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That's a scary way to put it. I'm glad I read this subreddit because I would find this info nowhere else. Gotta heavily consider both sides.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 10:29 AM
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I think you're being very disingenuous if you're really saying there's nothing controversial about that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:11 AM
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BPD is a result of faulty mental defensive mechanisms due to early life trauma right? Up to you if you want to let those control the rest of your life. BPD isn't who you are, it's just how they categorize people with the same behavioral patterns as you have. They clearly can be changed. It's gonna be a struggle but if you can imagine it, you can achieve it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 10:09 PM
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He's definitely unhinged, it's actually 1234 girls now apparently. He has a video that's over an hour proving that he's fucked over 1000 girls. Don't ask me how one proves that, I haven't watched it, I'm almost curious enough to.
/r/seduction22/05/20 06:58 PM
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Fair, perhaps the word I was looking for was "frame" then, especially in an intergender relationship. If you don't study the concepts or are taught by a more experienced male as you're growing up, it doesn't matter your level of excellence, you will get roflstomped by a woman because holding frame against them is a completely different skill.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 06:06 PM
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What makes you think those men are alpha? Alpha means so very little but it certainly means more than just being internationally recognized for their successful careers. As much as I love Johnny Depp, I guarantee he has more demons under his hood than we could ever guess since he seems to be attracted to BPD women.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 10:55 AM
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Wouldn't those issues fix itself with the right frame and boundaries? Zait and you both describe relationships based on a total lack of any agency and self-respect from the man, which is understandable if you've never studied relationship theory or any RP concept. But surely there's a middle ground between never-get-married-under-any-circumstances-ever and "honey, can I please have 5$ from our joint bank account to buy myself some chips? Yes, I'll do the dishes, of course."
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 10:53 AM
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What's your advice in picking a good partner and having a marriage that's better than the miserable torture that a lot of men seem to be afraid of here?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 10:49 AM
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I think they try to lie to themselves. When I was dating this girl and our relationship was less than great, I used to tell anyone and myself(first and foremost) that she was great and our relationship was amazing. You start to live in fantasy if your reality is too painful.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 10:47 AM
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Very good tip, I've not seen it said before but it's so true. My first true skill was literally being good at video games. I became a competitive League of Legends player and eventually that became underwhelming but I still have the drive to be great at things that matter a bit more now.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:57 AM
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It seems healthy to me. Usually fast food, cigarettes, alcohol, and drugs make your cum taste disgusting.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:48 PM
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Fair point, now that you put it like that, I've had the same experience. Not recommended, you just live in the shadow of someone who's dick she still thinks about. Yikes.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 03:43 PM
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Well, it seems related. Some people consider porn cheating because it's pleasuring yourself sexually using the image of other women. This would be pleasuring yourself sexually with the shape and feel of another woman, I guess? Interesting discussion, I hope you don't mind answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:36 PM
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I have, I'd say purely sensation wise it's better than fucking a girl with a condom but not as good as fucking one without it. I wouldn't recommend it though. It feels so good that you come too fast and you need to lube it up so you're sitting here with silicone pussy replica, lube all over yourself for 2 mins of fun wondering what series of decisions lead you to this moment. Just learn to talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:34 PM
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Haha, I don't disagree. I'd pay a lot to see history books of the 2100s, I think this century will have crazy upheavals. I guess I did strawman your point a bit haha, I'm more so trying to investigate the notion that successful relationships are based on struggles. Are you familiar with the TechLead? He's a recent Youtuber that rose to fame making a video on why his wife left him the TL:DW of it is he believes that them becoming really successful kind of made the relationship boring as they had …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:16 PM
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Exactly what I had in mind. I'm a big believer of women get offended when they get sexualized but they get even more upset when they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:10 PM
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Why not move to Syria then? There's a lot of countries where couples and society as a whole face a lot of hardship and adversity, I don't think they experience more growth and development than we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:53 PM
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Are you okay with him watching porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:52 PM
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Right, so how can you be jealous of something without a personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:16 PM
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I mean, you're not wrong but that's like we should all hold governments responsible for not adequately preparing for COVID. Which is perhaps a fair point but still majorly stretches what we currently consider reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:02 PM
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So the problem is the shape in which the silicon is in? If it was silicon shaped like a woman it would be considered cheating? What emotion would you feel towards that? I'm genuinely curious and want insight. I feel like if I had a girlfriend and she had a sexbot, I wouldn't be jealous of it because she's just elaborately masturbating basically? I don't think I would be threatened by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:00 PM
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I think they still do. Not the personalized attention but the idea that droves of men are into them. It's like if you had a bunch of obese women into you, you wouldn't directly like it but you would like the idea that a lot of people want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:58 PM
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What's wrong with polls?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:56 PM
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Which sensation do you mean? A fleshlight already 90% pretty much feels like a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:55 PM
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What part of it counts as cheating? He's fucking an inanimate object, just a more realistic fleshlight. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:53 PM
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Whichever one makes the most money the quickest will be developed first. Will people be more interested in a sexbot or chorebot? Good question, I'm not sure tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:52 PM
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Disagree. People on this Subreddit always romanticize relationships of the olden days. The problem with them is they were out of necessity, not want. People HAD to stick together or they would die. I don't think people loved themselves and had better quality relationships than they do today, I'd argue they were probably worst. If a lot of 1800-2000 relationships happened in 2020, I bet most of them would end up in divorces too. It's the first time in humanity's history that we mostly have freedo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:51 PM
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I stuck my dick in my Roomba, am I doing this right? The suction is insane!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:48 PM
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I don't think your argument is valid. I don't think you need literally 0% of people to see it coming for the phrase "nobody saw it coming" to be usable, it's not literal. That's like if portals started opening over major cities tomorrow and dragons came out of them and people would say that we saw it coming because teenagers and anime nerds daydream about fighting dragons and think it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:47 PM
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I think you're wrong. It's basically halfway there already. They have realistic sex dolls and Siri which is pretty much a conversational AI with a female voice. This whole argument depends on how we define life-like sex robots and how realistic they need to count but I'd be surprised if we didn't get something pretty close to it in the next 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:45 PM
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You're assuming they don't like the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:58 PM
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I'll check it out. It's a dating advice book on how to get what you want from men? Interesting.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 04:53 PM
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So you have not read the sidebar then. Reading random posts is not the same thing as reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 04:49 PM
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And why would you do that? What is the benefit vs finding a few chicks you enjoy spending time with/fucking and sticking with them?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 02:48 AM
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Why would you want a triple-digit body count?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 11:17 PM
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Lol, Fornite may be past our generation but I don't see how it's a worst game than WoW. If anything it's way more useful to play than WoW because there's an opportunity to make money streaming/making content for it whereas all you did playing wow was waste your teenage years.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 07:28 PM
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Doesn't Tik-Tok cater your page to what you've liked previously? So if you see a bunch of thotery it's because that's what you've liked in the past? I've used it a bit and I mostly get just funny and creative sketches and if they're girls, it's comedy videos.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 01:48 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/askTRP16/05/20 02:08 PM
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How so? I've been on many campuses and I've never seen this.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 11:12 AM
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Where are women taught to actively hate men? I'd say both genders have resentment towards the other because they have unrealistic expectations towards them, mostly propagated by modern media but I wouldn't say it's unilateral towards men.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 10:54 AM
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Depends how old he is too. If you're in your 20s and just trying to have fun, don't worry about it too much. If you're ready to get married and meet the mother of your kids, yikes, good luck.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:43 PM
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I think OP is fucked either way. It's kind of silly to forbid your girl to post on TikTok but if he goes that route and she does it anyway and starts lying to you about it/trying to gaslight you with complete nonsense(I did it just for you.) Your frame is obliterated and it's hard to recover. Dump her and work on yourself or enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:19 PM
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So was it always this bad or is it just now? If it's just now, humans haven't fundamentally changed then, you're just failing to adapt right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:22 AM
1

Who would charge you for that and what is he gonna say? "Your honor, he grabbed me so violently and I felt my life being threatened?" whereas if you attack him and he can provide photographic evidence of injuries, you're more than fucked.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:05 PM
22

What the fuck is up with this thread? Is The Notebook going on an advertising campaign on Netflix this week? Usually RP is on point with this, dude not only did she LITERALLY say she thought about fucking up but she's been talking about him since she started working with him. OP's relationship is not only done but it's BEEN done for months. My apologies, the part of the relationship where he had frame and his girl found him attractive is done. Please proceed to keep this relationship going for a…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:17 AM
37

His girl literally told him that she entertained the thought of fucking him and she's been talking about him ever since she started working with him, his relationship is done. I'd take Vasiliy's advice and at least fuck the other guy's girl if she's attractive, or have an orgy and at least get a cool experience out of it. And never beat up anyone under any circumstance if you're over the age of 15, we're in 2020 now. That's a way of the past. You will get beaten up, get an assault charge/get arr…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:15 AM
50

Are you guys all missing the part where his girl not only mentioned this guy from day 1 she started working with him but LITERALLY admitted to entertaining the thought of fucking him? Homeboy's relationship is over and is all downhill from there, usually, RP is on point with this stuff. Have you guys been watching too much Netflix, is the Notebook being advertised more than usual?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:12 AM
-1

If someone did that to my girl I would grab him by the throat, just gently enough that it wouldn't count as assault.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:11 AM
2

Usually the responses are much harsher. Not only has she been telling him about this guy from day one but she literally admitted to entertaining fucking him??????????? OP step the fuck up although I predict your relationship is already done. Not done as it's over but like it's all downhill from there, you've already enjoyed the best time and she has already started losing respect for you and will continue to do so the more of this nonsense you take. And this is coming from someone who thinks RP …
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:09 AM
4

I don't know if you're from the conservative south but I'm from eastern Canada and I have no doubt that hot girls here would make out with you in a park or other semi-public places.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:54 PM
4

Meh, disagreed. Humor is precisely used to lighten the mood in situation like this. Beyond the practical advice of not worrying about the girl because she's low-quality trash, what else is he supposed to do but somehow try to cheer himself up?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 08:24 PM
0

That's what I was thinking haha. If a 2nd wave of this hits and we're stuck wearing masks for the next few years, you can totally rock out a custom one and be fly as hell.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:51 PM
0

I'll give props to her, she told me a few hours after it happened, didn't try to hide it. We had been through our ups and downs and this pretty much sealed it even though we were kidding ourselves and trying to make it work. She was embarrassed to show herself with hickeys but I wanted to talk it out and I'll admit I simped and tried to give her a chance for a bit after that but it was beyond done and I could never really see her the same way afterward.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 08:40 PM
1

Hell yeah dude, physically assault someone because he dared talk to you negatively. Break his legs too while you're at it, how dare an omega open his mouth in the general direction of an Alpha Commander?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:30 PM
1

Which part is a betrayal to you? I got the same thing you did, he is basically her girlfriend that she vents to. Is it a betrayal because she shares her troubles with a man or because she vents negatively about her relationship in general?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:29 PM
2

You're overestimating the amount of attention an average male orbiter dude needs to stay invested in a girl. It's way less than a pity fuck once a year. More like a "You know you're a great friend right and I'm really thankful you're always here for me Tom" every couple of years.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:22 PM
1

I would've used to think your comment is paranoid nonsense but the literal same thing happened to me. My ex had an orbiter from HS that was her longest male friends that were this short unattractive dude that just liked her as a friend. They reconnected and hung out a few times and she was glad that she had a good platonic male friend to talk to. Then he brought her to a bar, bought 150$ worth of alcohol, and took her to a hotel because he was "too drunk to drive" and just needed to take a nap a…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:18 PM
1

Labels are there to clearly illustrate concepts that would otherwise take a long time to understand. You obviously have much yet to learn young one.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:02 PM
1

Are you under 18? You better be around 15 to even consider kicking a random irrelevant dudes ass, if you're over 18, you need to revaluate your whole life. You're considering putting your freedom and future at risk to physically assault what she essentially considers to be an asexual emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 04:58 PM
1

Wait, explain? The fire just takes longer to get to you and you have time to wakeup and react?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 04:24 PM
1

Most likely BPD or even worst actually. Read up on the 9 BPD symptoms and see if it rings true. I definitely recognize the childish behavior from that. The ex story and tattooing his name on her is pretty hardcore. Only proceed if you like crazy girls but it seems like it's not your cup of tea. You're playing Russian roulette to get your dick wet, carefully read all the comments and proceed at your own risk.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 06:41 PM
7

It always blows my mind that people can betray their partner like this and comfortably still sleep next to them for years onward.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:23 PM
20

You're missing the point. Everyone can be submissive in the right context. Even men have leaders. Some women enjoy being submissive ALL the time, regardless of their mood/horniness, etc. If I had to guess, it probably has to do with them being agreeable vs disagreeable. Some women, regardless of whether or not they enjoy being submissive, will stand up to you for no reason. Those women will probably have to do therapy if they really want to tune into their innermost desires and pleasures. Vasily…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 09:12 PM
1

Nice meme, reposting what you've read without actually trying it yourself. I know of people that have built up nice extra savings from day trading, they don't live off of it but it's a hell of a lot more useful than binging Netflix.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 08:50 PM
1

Yeah, fair. A lot of women online virtue signal and bash men, no arguing from me there. It's so negative and confrontational. My biggest gripe with TRP really is when we devolve into the same shit. This us vs them mentality is so cancer. But good on you for having the self-reflection, I got no worries you'll figure out the marriage thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:40 PM
2

Yeah, I totally get you bro. I'd be careful of falling into the trap that we men are all saintly and loving though. I think it's pretty far from truth to say that men value mostly kindness, thoughtfulness, generosity, etc when we are just as vain as any woman in who we initially consider datable(how old is she/never dating a fat chick unless you're super low value.) Now you can make an argument that beyond initial attraction, men value these things but I would say that women value them as well. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:52 PM
2

Don't apologize, that was a good read, thank you for sharing. So basically, without the marriage element there seemed to be a huge case of lack of commitment from the guys. They wanted kids in theory but when real life showed up, they were not up to the challenge and ended fucking the girl over. So the guys on RP and PPD are scared of marriage trapping them but if you want children then perhaps being "trapped" is a good thing because those children and that relationship are real obligations and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:09 PM
1

What does religion know about God? It has merely perverted God into primitive human understanding. God rules through love with love. It is all that matters. Once you become of the true nature of God, you will not have such fears anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:48 PM
1

So you value religious doctrine over the actual implications that it has on your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:17 AM
1

Not a chance he will ever see your point. He was all-in on his idea way before he ever made the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:15 AM
1

Have they tried specifically to have a normal relationship and did they just accidentally get pregnant? Hell of a difference, the only dude my age that has a kid accidentally knocked up a girl when he was around 18, I wouldn't consider that an argument against the forever boyfriend idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:09 AM
1

How do you define love?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:04 AM
1

I mean, she's not wrong. Marriage was a socioeconomical arrangement way before it was ever about love. It was meant for two families to unite to better their own situation and have a solid family unit to support childrearing. AFAIK the notion of marriage having anything to do with love only came about in the 18th century.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:03 AM
1

Why can't you have a boyfriend that's a good committed father? I think you make a point in that a husband is different than a boyfriend but that seems to be a strange argument for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:55 AM
1

Yep, exactly. The difference is a Sigma automatically ranks closer to the top when he does decide to associate with a social structure. Think mysterious silent guy vs shy stuttering silent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:11 AM
2

Sigma is also what I thought. Alpha is top the hierarchy, Beta under but not as dominant, Omega is at the bottom and Sigma is high value but not part of the social hierarchy by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:48 AM
1

I've heard what you're describing being called sigma. Alpha being at the top of the hierarchy, beta being close to the top but not having the dominance of the alpha and using other characteristics to compensate and omega being towards the bottom without many redeeming characteristics. Sigma was described as being high value and dominant but not really choosing to associate with usual social structures and following his own path. The difference between that when he did choose to go back to the gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:46 AM
2

Yes, put women down because they are inferior and they don't realize it. If only they all knew their place.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 05:10 PM
1

This is great advice. Watch any show/movie actually. Just be mindful of the social interactions, intergender dynamics, and power plays that happen. Even fiction is based on reality or we wouldn't watch it. Generally, guys in fictional media that are popular with women have characteristics that would also translate to success in real life. Even anime has parallels you can learn from. This is a good tip in general for getting value out of mindless entertainment.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 05:09 PM
3

Really bad advice. I always took it to mean "Maximize your looks but don't get obsessed by getting something that you can't i.e. being taller if you're short, being a different race." As that actually doesn't matter and will only hurt you.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 10:31 PM
12

Are you really surprised? Don't men do the exact same thing with a fat girl vs a normal-looking girl paying them attention? Might seem a little silly about hair but it's even worse for girls, they paint their face and they get different levels of reactions from guys.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 10:30 PM
2

Exactly. TRP isn't a psychopath training camp. You can have fun, wild and lustful times that leave both of you better off than you were before. Learn the material and use it to better your life and the life of the people around you. It's not the nice part in nice guys that stop them from getting laid. It's the being an unassertive chump with no boundaries and nothing that makes him attractive part.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 05:25 PM
-1

Is it though? The thing missed with the double standards is that there are valid ones. I would think that there is something different with a 40-year-old man grooming a 13-year-old over a 40-year-old woman grooming a 13-year-old boy. Both are bad but everything isn't equal in life.
/r/MensRights27/04/20 05:19 PM
2

I mean that's a good idea in theory but what's the point in going out and enjoying yourself for a few weeks with a significant chance of catching a virus that specifically kills your age group when you can just huddle up and enjoy the other 10-20 years that you still have left?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:43 PM
3

Yeah, people are mentioning the Florida kids but so many over 60+ ignored all the rules because they've seen it all and don't believe in conspiracies. I wonder how many died directly because of it. A friend's Grandma was ignoring quarantine rules and going shopping as if nothing happened and I love her but bless her soul if she gets it she's a goner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:14 PM
9

Someone's read 1984 lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:11 PM
1

I was of the clan where he would be lucky up until recently where I saw that obviously the woman can manipulate the kid and set pretty unhealthy precedents as to what relationships are supposed to be even if she's the hot teacher fantasy. What do you think would be the consequences for the kid if we were to lay it out for those that are still confused?
/r/MensRights27/04/20 02:48 PM
1

Let's be realistic here, I don't think she would get off easy(in most westernized parts of the world) with fucking and getting knocked up by a 13-year-old.
/r/MensRights27/04/20 02:46 PM
7

Only if they sleep on the floor, otherwise it's just gay.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:24 PM
8

Double the girls, double the beta. The real alpha move is living with two fanboys, that's the only way to know for sure you're straight. Why do men always want to live with women, smh I'm disappointed Whisper. Next thing you'll be telling me you like to fuck them, shame on you.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 07:35 PM
4

Seems a bit immature to me. The lingo is there on an internet forum to give guys an understanding of concepts they might not initially be familiar with. "Riding the CC" is what most people do in their teens/20s to figure themselves out and what the want out of life, specifically in regards to intergender relationships, and for the most part both sexes do it. Red Pill narrows it down to women because that's the lens it studies it from. Your partner accusing you of riding the cock carousel sounds …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 03:55 PM
11

You got it backwards, your rationalization makes no sense. "Simps" should make you stand out even more and make it easier than ever for you if you got your shit figured out, right? If 3/4 of the fast-food chains start having cockroaches and undercooked meat, their competitors are gonna be doing better than ever.
/r/seduction19/04/20 10:16 AM
1

Where did you live? I've been thinking about swinging by eastern Europe after this blows over, I have a sweet spot for Poland but I'm very curious about Ukraine and Russia too.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:54 AM
2

Do people on TRP like dating psychopaths who laugh off emotional messages from people who they were involved with for years? That'd be more of a red flag than anything to me
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:50 AM
2

"Hey it was really late out so I had to sleep over at his place. He was really respectful and left me his bed while he slept on the couch. He even made me breakfast in the morning, fresh eggs!"
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:47 AM
0

What is the point of this? These strategies seem so immature, you do you but how does rubbing it in an exs face improve my life in any way?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:44 AM
1

What's wrong with attorneys/paralegals?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:42 AM
2

Haha can you expand on a lot of these? I had never seen a career flag list before, this is hilarious.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:42 AM
1

Have you known someone that went through this or are you just guessing?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:38 AM
5

You nailed it. Plenty of dudes that do drugs, party and do dumb shit that don't get laid.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:55 PM
1

And those women were functional women without mental issues? Guaranteed that you have at least 1/2 out of sync.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:54 PM
1

Which part? He just described doing interesting things and having an active social life. I would indeed assume that girls find this interesting.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:52 PM
5

Read the original post. She posted about both her husband and father ignoring the quarantine order. This is tragic. You are not alone OP, it may feel like it but the rest of the human race is struggling in this world with you if that's consolation.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 11:18 PM
30

Even more literally than any time I've ever seen this advice given. Who cares if your sister pissed you off, now your life is gonna be more miserable than it needed to be until you move out and cut contact with her just because you were desperate for quarantine pussy.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:19 AM
3

I think the usual argument is that it's better for the kids than growing up in a household where the parents can't stand each other, which teaches them toxic habits about relationships. I think the only ideal solution is making damn sure that your relationship is solid before committing to kids/marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 07:47 PM
4

Can you elaborate on the full story(if you're up to me) for guys like me who are having trouble reading between the lines? You were texting her, she took a bit longer to respond than usual and said she fell asleep. You were suspicious, called her out on it and she admitted she actually fucked another dude because she felt guilty?
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:00 AM
1

I mean, up to you. If it's working fine then don't change anything. If their reactions have negative repercussions on your life then learn the smooth arts that I mentioned. It's a useful RP concept to master though.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 01:34 AM
1

You're making the same mistake, this is not a personal attack towards you. Just a generalization of that attitude. If you have charisma, you can say outrageous things and people will be fine with it. If you're blunt and don't speak properly, people will get offended at the slightest thing that disagrees with their worldview. That's been my personal experience and that of anyone who studies social dynamics I would assume.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:38 AM
3

I'd say friends is fine. Don't go all "yo these females only be trying to get value out of you, better be jacked or you'll be single for the rest of your life." more like "hey man, things with your girl don't seem to be doing too well. Let's go for a workout, you'll feel better. Haha yeah you feel better already and the sex life has improved? I'm glad brosky, let's keep doing, hit me up anytime."
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:22 PM
1

Depending on how close he is to you, call him and ask for clarification or if you're not that close just play a diplomatic "Hey thanks for bringing that to my attention, I didn't realize that was an issue and I'll keep it in mind." This pretty much deescalates the situation and makes it disappear while keeping your social standing intact as you appease him without being submissive nor being agressive in return.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:26 PM
3

People have a way to disguise poor social calibration and lack of charisma. "Oh I'm just a very straightforward and honest guy.", no your social skills just suck.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:23 PM
1

Sour grapes? Girls that have an outer masculine shell usually have to put up a persona and melt into puddles of the purest femininity for a worthy man.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:56 PM
1

Why is sending nudes retarded? Serious question.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 06:33 PM
61

My ex could not shower for three days and she still smelt great. Just smelling her would get me horny. Biology is a crazy thing.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:25 PM
2

I'm sorry but I find this so funny because I went through pretty much the exact thing so I know you'll be just fine. Mine was BPD. If you've read anything about BPD girls on here you can imagine the drama. But I studied a lot of content on here and had been doing self-improvement for years so my frame was solid. She still destroyed it. We had a crazy sex life for a while and that got intoxicating. I could literally talk to her for 6 hours straight. I literally considered marrying this girl and I…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:01 AM
1

Just learn from your mistakes and make better ones in the future. Use the knowledge on TRP to empower yourself without the bitterness. What does being weak around her mean to you? Agreeing to any of her whims and wishes? Giving up all your goals/plans to accommodate hers? Using her as an emotional tampon? Your work depends on the answer. Do some self-introspection on why you behaved in that way and fix it in your personal life NOW before seriously deciding to commit to another girl and you'll be…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:17 AM
2

Don't get brainwashed. Nothing wrong with having a girlfriend. Some of the best times I've had were with my last girl. This dude is literally saying that he can't maintain a good relationship for very long and he gets together with toxic women that suck the life out of him. Find yourself a girl that empowers you and helps you strive for greatness and hopefully you'll never have to give anyone such bitter advice yourself.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:33 AM
40

Is TRP finally evolving into more than just finding materialistic ways to cope with emotional trauma? I thought I'd never see the day.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:02 PM
3

She is shit testing you and you're literally considering dying your hair or her and rationalizing it as "it's kind of normal anyway." This is textbook and what's called breaking frame. Read the sidebar, for the love of God.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:09 PM
10

He's considering shaving his chest and dying his hair at the request of an 18-year-old he's seen one time. I feel like elaborating but I lost the motivation, may God help you brosky.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:07 PM
25

I think he's trolling. Otherwise, may God be with him.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:05 PM
1

Bro, do whatever you want. Just know that you're trying to fuck gasoline when you seem about as stable as a match.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:04 PM
15

I think he's memeing or he's beyond help. An 18-year old broke his frame after seeing her one time, yikes the things you see online these days.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:03 PM
4

Definitely. A man is nothing without his tribe. Find other men that will push you in various areas. Doesn't have to just be game; find friends that are into business, fitness, spirituality, networking, cool sports, travelling, etc. I've only really had to ditch friends that were only interested in meeting up to smoke weed or play video games. Nothing wrong with that once in a while but some were consumed by it and the more I tried to help them out, seems like the more they resented me so it didn…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:16 PM
2

It's not about permission, it's about respect maybe? My ex asked me my thoughts every time she thought about getting her roots redone, let alone fucking dying it pink.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 03:59 PM
5

But he's saying it was working with the liquor, are you saying what was doing it just getting the girls drunk? I'd disagree, I think it's an adjustment period of probably 2-3 dates because it is slightly different but once you got it, it does indeed not matter at all.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 01:51 AM
16

What the fuck did I just read? Son, do yourself a favor and read the sidebar because I KNOW you haven't. It could literally(not figuratively, LITERALLY) save your life.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 07:28 PM
3

What kind of frame do you have? If you're doing it properly, a woman that's into you will be begging to have your children. Marriage doesn't matter in the least bit.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 07:25 PM
10

Haha, I don't remember the exact moment, it was either while I was making out with her or fucking her, it was a few years ago.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:06 PM
38

Lookup "learned helplessness", you could've googled that shit in 30 secs. Come on now.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:16 PM
24

I've had a girl tell me she hates nerds and then when I was fucking her tell me "You're so nerdy, it's so hot." If you disqualify yourself based on a random thing a girl says(wether or not its an official survey) you're beyond idiotic.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:15 PM
1

I'll use the title of the top current TRP post. You're not a clown, you don't need to entertain her. The same rules of game apply, you isolate her, get her talking about herself, tease her, touch her when appropriate, escalate, etc. I personally supplement that with dressing well and having a constant sly/cocky smile and being quite forward and aggressive(while being calibrated/smooth, of course) and it works wonders. This is with me being such an introvert that I need a walk outside every hour …
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:49 PM
5

Yeah, your answer is strange but it's true. NEVER FAKE YOURSELF. This is never what dating strategy should've been. The most successful dating coaches are all introverts; thinking men do great with women. You don't have to fake being the center of attention guy to get women, I don't even understand how that works. Personally I do best with women when I can have quiet conversations, clubs aren't my thing. Guess what? Thousands of ways to meet women through quiet conversation.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:14 AM
1

Super important to learn game with wings and people that can give you feedback IMO. Otherwise, you do stuff that you feel everyone does and you don't have the necessary life reference to see the difference and you just get really negative reactions seemingly out of nowhere.
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:12 PM
1

Perhaps but you can see throughout his message that he's completely out of touch with the dating world so I would take his account with a grain of salt. I bet he was much creepier than he's letting on.
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:11 PM
1

Nonsense. He literally said that he saw his friend messaging girls and hitting on them (which he immediately registered as misogynistic to him and made him think his friend was a dick which shows this was completely outside of his reality) and decided to try it out himself at parties and bars. If you don't study the nuance and subtleties of timing and conveying value and being direct with a woman, from the outside it looks like randomly just insulting them and being sexually aggressive. Which is…
/r/seduction14/03/20 06:58 PM
3

Has nothing to do with being hot. Just calibrated and right frame i.e. confident/cocky/arrogant, etc. If a cocky dude goes up to a girl and overtly hits on her, if she doesn't like it she'll think he's a douche. If a shy dude, making weird eye contact with strange body language and weird voice crack goes up to her and overtly hits on her, she'll think he's super creepy and might want to rape/stalk/murder her.
/r/seduction14/03/20 05:24 AM
3

Learn game properly. He did not learn game. He saw his friend using aggressive game from probably a strong frame and tried it himself with probably autistic and uncalibrated tendencies. Recipe for disaster. Go out with wings and learn this properly.
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:44 AM
76

In theory this could happen but I got a good feeling that this dude is way more out of touch than he portrays. Seeing your friend being super sexually forward, trying it yourself while being way uncalibrated and being super creepy and making girls feel unsafe seems very plausible to me.
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:42 AM
3

I like the ones that have both. I like the gangster anna be girl that can also wear a dress and be a sweetheart.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:12 PM
1

Google and Youtube, I don't think this is very discussed on RP.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 12:11 AM
1

Just remember that drugs show you the potential in you. If you can be a cool extroverted guy making out with girls while high on E, you can do it sober too. It'll just take a lot of effort to learn to do it whenever you want as opposed to relying on chemicals being artificially raised in your brain. But really think about that. If you think you're awesome when you're high then all that seperates you from being awesome all the time is having stronger dopamine and seratonin levels. You get that by…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 09:27 PM
4

That's what happens. Put biology on your side. Or be a porn wizard, up to you.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:18 PM
9

😂 Of course
/r/askTRP29/02/20 09:32 PM
3

400 years? Marriage has been the norm since even before the time of Jesus, so give it at least 2000 years.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/20 07:15 PM
5

Get out of here you cucked moron. Sexes aren't equal thus their behaviors aren't judged equally. This is TRP 101, go to the sidebar and stop writing out pathetically whiny comments.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 11:42 PM
1

Can you find it? I'm also curious.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 08:30 PM
21

I like these comments a lot. They're exactly the same advice we give guys who put women on pedestals. It's cute to see it coming full circle and seeing we're all humans with our annoying human insecurities haha.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 09:42 PM
3

Good point. I do think it's an issue that comes with being isolated from normal culture and believing their faith over the law so I wouldn't be surprised if it normal.
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 07:35 PM
0

Why do you guys have to combine MGTOW with racism?
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 07:02 PM
11

Have no regrets, my son. You held true to your morals and values. Although that respect was not returned to you, you now have self-integrity which few people(which evidently your ex-wife and her new partner don't) have. It's definitely more valuable than pussy.
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 07:01 PM
10

Mormons also marry and fuck 14-year-olds, gaslight their members and physically and emotionally abuse them to prevent them from leaving. I do agree that it's a nice and peaceful picture but don't think that they're any less degenerate than the mainstream, they just do it in a different way.
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 06:56 PM
2

Well, I'm in my mid-20s and I'm curious about the experience of other men and I'm trying to order it chronologically and make sense of it. If you have this experience as a mid 30s guy or as a mid 60s guy, it has different implications that I'm curious about. Are women more interested in esoteric things as they grow older or is it just a masculine feature? That's really what I'm exploring.
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 06:08 PM
1

How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 05:01 PM
3

Emotional conversations aren't really inferior to rational ones. As a conscious man, you should be able to get value from both. Men that are too rational/intellectual lose out on a lot of life and can't make connections with other people as easily, male or female. If you're able to connect using both while still keeping your core of masculine rationality, you're gonna do A+ in life and not have many issues socially.
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 05:00 PM
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Your definition of good is the issue here. Girls that are into drugs and are really attracted to drug dealers are not good. They could be hot, come from wealthy families, etc but they are not quality girls you should associate yourself with long-term. They're fun though.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 12:58 AM
4

😂 Amen to that one.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 04:59 PM
14

Is there a psychological analysis of this phenomenon? It's so common it blows my mind. It's to the point where I rarely see two hot girls together, it's always a hottie with a fattie or a plain girl. My best guess is the least attractive one actually does get a social boost from hanging out with the hot one. She also probably gets the guys who aren't confident enough to go after the hot friend and she gets invited to social events she otherwise wouldn't get to. The hot one is the one I don't get…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 05:51 PM
4

I think I understand why there's a law for illegal obtained evidence but isn't it a bit ridiculous for a civilian context? You're telling me you can get convicted for rape even when you have a video that proves she made it up because you didn't get her permission to record it?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:22 AM
1

I would've figured it to be higher tbh. I'm quite shocked it's not closer to 33%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:16 AM
1

I think he means that most people don't actually have an accurate or valuable opinion, they just parrot what they hear from their friends, family and the media(social construct.) I don't know that he's right but I wouldn't say he's wrong. Most people don't know there's a problem until they're thrown right into it. Most men would never picture their sweet girlfriend/wife cheating on them and are astounded when it happens. A 35 year old woman that can't find a reliable partner genuinely believes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:15 AM
1

That's not every girl. That being said though, online dating is worlds apart for men and women. I went on my exs Tinder and it was literally dozens of dudes offering her free drinks, smoke sessions, dirt bike rides, dinners, etc. Me and her are about equally attractive(somewhere around 7s) and I have about 30 matches in a few months of using it and she got 50 matches in a few hours. I also know guys who get laid every week off Tinder. And guys who have three matches after months of using it ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:56 AM
1

Being a genuinely good person and being "nice" are two different things. Plenty of people use being nice as a lifestrategy because they feel like they lack value in other areas and lack major boundaries. Anyone could use being a less selfish, more compassionate person. That's never a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:44 AM
3

I'm almost glad for that kids ignorance. It's sweet and innocent. There's something like 30% of Americans that live paycheck to paycheck. I myself have been anywhere from hanging out with millionaires at mansion parties to having less than 10$ on my bank account for weeks on end. I could've easily been homeless if it wasn't for my dad helping me out and that could've easily not been an option if our relationship, his health or monetary situation had been worse.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:31 AM
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As a man even if you just appear low value, you're fucked. I was broke for a while and had to take the bus. Whenever I asked the bus driver for a ride wearing a nice jacket and boots, they'd say no problem come on in. The few times I had an old jacket and running shoes on, I would get talked to condescendingly, got told I was abusing the system and would get a lecture on why I didn't have a job and couldn't afford the bus. A 15$ peacoat and a 50$ pair of fake leather boots made the difference be…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:26 AM
6

You have a lot of good points but I don't like the perspective of "why are you asking us to make a choice for you?" I don't think that's what he's doing. He's just looking for perspective and experience from people that have done similar things. I would hope that no one that asks for advice just follows it blindly.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 06:49 PM
1

What you have to worry about is more your low self-esteem than anything else. You can see signs of alpha widow if that's what you're really worried about. She might not be open to doing sex acts that she did with that guy, not be as invested to you as she was into him, etc. If she's giving herself completely to you physically, emotionally and mentally I wouldn't worry about it though.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:56 PM
3

Whatever you want depending on the context. In nightgame you can say hey then grab her and make out with her. In daygame you can say "Hey, I was just walking to X but you were way too cute I had to say hi. What are you up to?" Try different shit and have fun with it.
/r/seduction01/01/20 12:59 AM
19

It doesn't register as game, just someone doing weird shit with cringey pickup lines. I find it hilarious how the mainstream idea of pickup includes pickup lines, it's kinda cute actually. Whenever I tell a guy/girl that doesn't know about it, they always ask what my line is. They don't get it when I say "Hey."
/r/seduction31/12/19 10:02 AM
3

Don't you hate it when people thoughtlessly reply to posts with the first emotion that comes to mind without giving it the insight that OP asks? I'm pretty sure OP figured out that men protect women they love. His question is more about if this love is based on altruism or a sense of ownership that lends itself to protection. I think it's a super interesting question. I've had it where I went over the top to help/protect an ex and I've had to wonder if it was really to cater to her wellbeing or …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:08 PM
2

That's doesn't really contradict his comment though. Just change it to protecting only women of their own tribes. Perhaps because they feel like their honor/pride lies in the wellbeing of their tribes but not outside. I think his theory applies to base instinct but hopefully, we're able to rise beyond it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:04 PM
3

I think there's a difference between degrading and dominant/rough sex. In my experience basically every woman enjoys being dominated in the bedroom but I picture degrading going a bit further then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:10 AM
1

As a guy, it's very helpful. It helps you fantasize about women you want to fuck as opposed to watching people fuck on a screen. Also seems to prevent ED, if I'm sleeping with someone consistently I watch porn in extreme moderation because otherwise I definitely get the erections problems OP mentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:11 AM
1

Soon enough we'll have virtual girlfriends and I think a huge portion of dudes will go that route rather than dealing with the dating market. Expect this to start happening in the next 10 years, if not sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:59 AM
1

Government regulations can get extreme at times but its nothing compared to what corporations would do if they had free reign. I definitely agree though. I'm Canadian and weed is legal here, it's crazy that in the states people can have their lives ruined because they have some on them.
/r/MGTOW24/12/19 01:03 AM
2

Privacy is a thing of the past, it's useless to try and escape it. If anything it's good that government is involved, I'd trust them over a company who's legal imperative is making as much money as possible no matter the cost. Google and Facebook know you better than family members these days and it's only gonna get worse.
/r/MGTOW23/12/19 02:41 AM
4

I don't envy him if his mood is dependent on the proximity of his significant other. I've been there and it was great when all was well but it never seems to end well.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 11:01 AM
0

Agreed. The genders will adapt from this and come together better than ever, I'm 100% sure of it. Use the knowledge to avoid the pitfalls of those that came before you and embrace the love young ones ;)
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 01:51 AM
1

Yep, same here with narcissistic traits and a BPD ex. Shit fucking sucked and still does. She wanted to be friends but would've definitely done nothing good for me at the moment. Maybe someday but I don't put any weight to it. Still had a lot of fun with the relationship and it taught/grew me a lot. So much red pill theory concretized before my very eyes, it blew me away. If the next one is even better than I have no complaints.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 09:46 AM
1

The best way to handle a girl's shit test is turning it around as her hitting on you. "You don't have to play coy because you like, you're cute. Come here and be nice." 9/10 they giggle, melt and they're yours. You don't actually have to pursue them if you're not attracted to them but it'll get them chasing you hard and never daring to insult you again.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 01:58 AM
1

Are you taking from idealism and wishful thinking or do you have any experience being involved or hearing about something like this and it working out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:47 PM
5

It's great to be an idealist. Just remember this thread in 3 years and update us on how it went. Your story is red flags galore, I wish you the best just be careful brotha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:33 PM
7

So you saved yourself the debt? Cheers to you, I hope you thanked your lucky star on that one. Getting cheated on is always rough but you could see it as the dude doing you a huge favor by letting you know your girl is a whore when you're not quite smart enough to figure it out yourself.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 03:46 AM
1

Have you guys slept together yet or are you keeping it for after marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 09:51 PM
2

I'm a guy and I picked this up randomly and it was a good read. You can reverse engineer dating problems from the female side to the male side. I +1 the recommendation.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 07:59 PM
1

Lol, you've given up and are taking advice from other self-defeated people on Reddit. You're gonna need a lot more than 50 rejections off game to get actual results. I'm 6'3 and quite good looking and I've been rejected probably 10x that amount. I know guys that are 5'2 that have badass game and get laid every week if they want to. Cold approach pickup is slaughter for the weak my man. It's literally the hardest possible way to meet someone. A random guy off the street, talking to a random girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:51 PM
1

That's good insight. RP is founded and found(usually) by men who have been fucked over by women. Getting cheated on, divorced raped, etc. It gives them a place to understand why this happened as opposed to the mainstream narrative "You weren't nice enough to her so you deserve X." If you take it without the bitterness, it's mostly a self development subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:15 PM
2

Thanks for the in-depth reply! That definitely helps. I'll save it somewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 06:33 PM
2

The guys I know that get laid the least are the most picky. They won't even go talk to a girl that's a 6-7 but have never made out with a girl in their life. Blows my mind 🙉
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:21 PM
8

You'd cut the relationship with your own son?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:30 AM
4

Totally agree with you. I paid to fuck a stripper my first time and a few times after that and it made me much more confident to fuck/be naked in front of a girlfriend afterward. Depends on the individual, if you find escorts yucky than don't do it. I was just ecstatic that a girl was letting me have fun with her pussy, I still remember it fondly to this day. Aaah, strippers, and escorts be blessed :)
/r/askTRP06/12/19 02:43 AM
5

You got your answer. We usually do but we doubt ourselves.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 12:23 AM
2

Right? Learning that you still have control even when you lose control is one of the most powerful feelings I've felt. Felt like killing the boy and becoming a real man.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 10:13 PM
1

Don't overthink it. If you are actually feeling desperate/crave female attention, own that to yourself. From what you say here, your frame is in a terrible state to actually game women so make peace with it. Go, enjoy yourself and if you fuck it up, who cares. Plenty of other girls and social events to discover.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 09:55 PM
35

You're way overthinking this. Are you okay with her spending time with a guy she used to fuck, yes/no? Clearly not from what you said. Don't play these autistic games. Tell her straight up and if she says some bs "It means nothing, don't be controlling, etc" just soft next and select the women you commit to better in the future.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 09:52 PM
7

What do you want to do? Do you want to get back together with her? Fuck her as a plate? Be friends with her? Never talk to her again? Your response depends on your answer to these questions.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 09:49 PM
1

Is it meant in good fun or does he have a motive to put you down? Does said person tend to put people down in general or has a good time with people and just likes to tease? Does he give compliments as well as jabs?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 09:31 PM
2

Do you have any tips or insight as how to keep the passion going in a long term relationship? Most of the relationships and marriage I see tend to be very stale and the two person seem to tolerate eachother as opposed to still being wildly into eachother. Terrifies me to be honest.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 09:13 PM
3

It seems to me that women tend to embrace their masculine side when they don't feel safe being vulnerable. They have to buckle and take care of themselves because no one else will type thing. If you're past this and have a solid guy by your side, let yourself be taken care of by him. Start with little things and then find a balance you're comfortable with. Personally I'm very attracted to women who have both their sides developed. The type that can be assertive and get her way if she needs to bu…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 09:02 PM
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That's why I included the frame. If there's someone fucking with you socially, you have to stand up for yourself. Don't follow the exact line, it's more of a general idea. Have fun with it and don't take it too seriously.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 12:53 AM
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He doesn't respect you. Either tolerate that or obliterate him socially until he thinks twice before taking another jab at you. Like the other commenter said, make a joke about him trying to fuck the girl. If you notice it, guaranteed she notices as well. "Hey Becky, would you please give Jake a hug? He seems to be lonely and in need of affection, I feel bad enough that I'm about to give him one myself." The frame that you wanna have is not that you're irritated at his jabs but that you find it …
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:04 PM
2

Not worth thinking about if you aren't, I was just curious. I mean I don't know you but you're posting on here trying to understand yourself better and improve yourself. That's honestly more than 75% of people out there. If you combine that with keeping on bettering yourself, supporting and being nice to the guy you're with and being comfortable and abundant with your sexuality with the right partner, that's literally what most guys would kill to date. Your self-worth can't be derived by what yo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 04:08 AM
1

Although true, that's an idealistic view. Very few men consistently approach women they're interested in that they don't know. And a third of those are degenerate and most of the other ones pick up guys.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 11:39 PM
2

Are you diagnosed with any disorders? Your lack of self-esteem is pouring out of this post. You can't be that bad if so many guys want to go out with you. Maybe try writing good things about yourself and reflecting on those when the self doubt demons come out.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 11:37 PM
3

Definitely stay with your man if he's okay with it. If it were me, I'd much rather have my girl by my side and struggle than her move away just for money. And personally I don't believe in long distance relationships so I'd break up with you but that's just me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 11:30 PM
6

Don't judge yourself and learn and do better. Nothing breaks my heart more than people being attracted to shitty partners and believe me, I've been there myself. Work on yourself and be confident in what you provide and you'll deserve a confident, dominant man that will cherish you and love you to death. Best of luck friend, you got this.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 11:05 PM
3

My apologies, I started to have too much fun with our argument. You seem to have a good thing going, keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:21 PM
3

Society is insane at the moment. It shames men for being men and women for being women. Nobody wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:17 PM
3

Great, your value to society has to do with your ability to be bred. I'm glad you have that to rely on as I don't think your personal intellectual capabilities will take you far. Be a good girl and bend over when asked and your life will be easy, you got nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:45 PM
5

That's a strawman and has nothing to do with the point. Women have intrinsic value where as men do not. Go read a history book, throughout society when one civilization overtakes another, the women are generally left alive where as the men are all slaughtered. What's between your legs has more value than that's between a man's legs and sex rules the world. Is that really such a controversial point? I don't think any gender has it better than the other but we are not equal and never will be and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:43 PM
2

You're delusional. Women are protected because they're more biologically valuable than men. There's a reason no society in history has women fighting wars. You lose your women, you're fucked and not in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:36 PM
2

Are you arguing that this isn't true? Your point is just not true. If a 120 lbs dude fights a 180 lbs 6'2 girl, are you really saying that people are gonna be fine with it because the weight/strength advantage is more fair? That's a no win situation, if you lose you got beat up by a girl, if you win you beat up a girl. It's basically like fighting someone with a disability, the only move is to not play.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:35 PM
2

That's definitely not the reason. If a big guy beats up a smaller guy, it's fair and no one bats an eye. Women are protected by society and it makes sense but we need to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:31 PM
3

If a woman hits you, you're a jackass and it's funny. If you hit her back, you're an abuser and will end up getting your ass kicked by an onlooker or arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:48 PM
1

I think you have an interesting idea but it's wrong. Men definitely commit more physical violence but women are the queens of emotional and verbal violence. It's much more subtle but how many men get literally verbally bullied in their relationships and consider it normal? Anybody that thinks that women are harmless is a fool. They're rightfully the other half of the most dominant animal on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:34 PM
3

I've had it happen before multiple times, it's no big deal. If you're not used to condoms, just try one on a few times while rubbing one off, you'll get used to the feeling. If your girl gives you shit for it, soft next. Guaranteed its happened to the most alpha guys you can think of.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:05 PM
1

I agree with everything except the porn comment. It's useless to try to top from the bottom with these types. There are degenerates out there that will beat you and not care if they end up in jail because their lives are so shit anyway. Only move is to ignore, never fuck with someone that thinks they have nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 03:51 PM
1

There's only one thing worse than getting insulted in front of your girl : getting beat in front of your girl. You did right son. Only thing you can do different is go to the gym and get bigger so random guys have more respect for you and choose to pick fights with you. Never fight unless your life is in danger, it could very well end up with you getting killed or in jail. Fights aren't cool after high school or outside of an MMA gym.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 03:48 PM
2

Why lose your morals just because someone else chooses to not honour theirs?
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:08 PM
3

Just realize that as horrible and untrustworthy that women are, men are the same ; just in different ways. We are animals in nature, it's silly to think that we're purely domesticated just because we live in cities, wear fancy clothes and drive cars. Know the theory, be solid in practice and you've got about all the chances on your side. Your relationships will be more solid than pretty much everyone you come across.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 09:07 PM
1

Study evolutionary psychology and biology to understand how mating really works. We're evolved as a society but our brains are mostly still the same as they were in the cavemen days. A woman, biologically, needs a strong man that will kill to feed and protect herself and her offspring. The "asshole" behavior is how you signal that these days. It's very powerful because you appeal to her animal side. Over time, you can calibrate the asshole behavior to being a good dude with strong boundaries tha…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 08:33 PM
1

You seem to have a lot of repressed emotions. I hope that all is well with you brother. I recommend that you connect with yourself and forgive yourself for all past misgivings.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 08:11 PM
2

Saying that they're being unreasonable is ignoring biology. Hypergamy is based on evolutionary psychology and basic biology. Men are meant to be the providers. When women get pregnant and through child rearing, they aren't able to provide for and defend themselves and their offsprings as effectively so they need a man with a good social position and ability to provide resources so they can sustain themselves. You can say we've outgrown this culturally but this shit is still deep in our brains. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 06:25 PM
27

The best way I've seen it put is think of traits that provide value as Alpha and traits that provide comfort as Beta. That's why a lot men tend to become more unattractive the longer a relationship goes on, they get too comfortable and only offer comfort and forget how to provide value to their girl.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 05:28 PM
1

What did you end up doing? I'm curious.
/r/seduction30/11/19 03:36 AM
6

Not true. Instagram is huge now to pickup girls. Have a cool profile, more followers than her and treat it exactly like Tinder.
/r/seduction30/11/19 03:27 AM
2

I don't disagree with your point but I just dive a bit deeper. Does the man respect himself and can you/should you respect a man that doesn't respect himself? I don't believe in cheating out of the blue. There are always signs. If you choose to ignore these signs or are ignorant about them, are you really respectable? They made a commitment of sexual exclusivity. But what's not talked about its that relationships include a lot more commitments than just sexual exclusivity. A hidden one is growth…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:58 PM
7

Why do you think she cheated on you?
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:07 PM
9

Imo do it, just protect yourself well. I'm sure you're not unfamiliar with the husband showing up on your doorstep with a shotgun after getting cucked type of story. You're not doing him any favors by not fucking her. If she's coming to you for an assfucking, she clearly has no respect/attraction towards him and their relationship is already fucked. If anything, you're doing them both a favor by throwing gasoline on this shir and maybe they'll be smart enough to get out before being slowly burne…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:07 PM
1

I'm still split on this one. If a woman cheats in the relationship, it's both her fault for having no boundaries and loyalty but also his for not inspiring loyalty in his woman and allowing repeated disrespectful behavior that leads to cheating. I've also been cheated on and it destroyed me for a while but it taught me a lot. Pain is the greatest lesson in this life so I wouldn't feel too bad about fucking someone's girl. They don't own her and if she's currently being deprived of good dick, why…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:02 PM
3

Her fucking you fast just has to do with her being comfortable with her sexuality and/or you being a very attractive man who's confident in leading. There are other way more important factors in assessing a potential serious mate. If anything, her fucking you fast can only help a future relationship.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:59 PM
5

What's your alternative to starting a relationship if not through a fwb/plate arrangement? Seems like the only other option is to commit to her before having sex with her which doesn't seem like a great option.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:38 PM
3

I think our idea of love is just distorted by the media. All relationships in this life are based off the value we provide to eachother, be it family, friends or intimate partners. Unconditional love exists but it's a whole different beast. Do you really expect her to love you if you provide no value in her life? If she loved you to death and treated you like a king if all you did is sat in the basement, played video games and jacked off, would you not lose respect for her if anything? Red pill …
/r/askTRP28/11/19 03:34 PM
1

Grow a spine. You getting offended at this comment is caused by the exact same thing that attracts you to train wrecked girls. Keep being weak and you will keep being prey. Don't become a predator either, learn to have boundaries and respect others and your life will improve overnight.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 04:54 PM
1

It's because you were a pussy then and you're a pussy now. Real men don't let their failures be their prison, they learn from it and do better next time. Stop complaining and go whip the next girl if you want to.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:22 PM
3

Yeah, that's the frame to have. If you get trigerred, you lose. If you fall for her frame shift and have a cuddle party with her, you mega lose.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:19 PM
1

Seems fine to me. If she submits to you(fucks) she's still in your frame. Gotta have empathy and realize girls are just human beings and it's fine to want something more. If you're not open to that, of course hold your boundary. She'll either go along with it(fuck you) or try to get you in her frame (like the OP) then it's time to bid her farewell.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:18 PM
2

Do you think there's anyway to make that work?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 01:56 AM
1

Are you at sub 10 n count by any chance? You don't seem to have much experience.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 09:43 PM
11

That's a great point. Sluts have the same standards but are just more comfortable moving to sex IMO. A regular girl, even if she likes you and wants to fuck you, will make you jump through hoops if you don't know what you're doing.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 09:22 PM
0

I don't disagree with you but can we keep life partners off of what we owe them? It's a hard call. My solution to him was to look into nonmonogamy. Keep her as a loyal partner and have other hot girls that you fuck if your dick is really not satisfied with this one. If his SMV is that high compared to hers, it's also a good deal for her.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:29 AM
5

Dude, look at alternative options. A true alpha doesn't let society define his choices for him. If you're really miles ahead of her in SMV, open up your relationship on your side if you want a loyal wife while still chasing hot tail. If you offer her emotional commitment, provisioning and a good environment for her kids, it's also a great deal for her. The idea that sexual exclusivity is the foundation of a loving relationship is a relatively recent societal construct, it has some merit but if y…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:24 AM
4

Are most guys really fucking terrible at cold approach? I mean I respect your opinions but I'm not even great at Game and I get mostly good reactions from cold approach in public and have gotten loads of numbers/social medias and a few dates out of it. I'm gonna have to say don't listen to her on this one boys.
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:07 AM
1

I mean, I don't disagree with what you're saying but her being able to sleep with other girls but not men is still poly. Isn't the whole point to have a relationship that doesn't fit a mold and have it work to what the individuals want? I wouldn't automatically assume that a girl wants to fuck other men because I would want to fuck other women. It could certainly be the case but not necessarily and in my experience it wasn't.
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:49 AM
1

Oh, that's a lot less interesting haha. Seems like a way for your girl to have less time and attention for you, could be worth it if you don't like needy girls but meh.
/r/seduction12/11/19 11:52 AM
1

I didn't say she couldn't, just that it makes less sense for a girl to than a guy. We don't have equal biology, each sex has different mating strategies. I half agree on equating the partner's sexual desire on their own value. People have varying sex drives for sure but it's a very common theme in relationships where a partner drops in attractiveness in the other's eyes and their sex drive magically disappears, man or woman. I don't have a made-up opinion on it one way or another so I don't hone…
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:34 AM
1

Yeah, that seems like black magic to a lot of people. Nothing stopping you from having sexual and emotional connections with many quality girls in 2019. The sky is the limit.
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:09 AM
2

How did it work with the couple with the One Penis Policy? Poly folks seem to hate that concept but at this point in time, that's the only way I'd do it. Find a cool bisexual girl and fuck other girls with her and maybe date another one too.
/r/seduction12/11/19 02:51 AM
1

Why would you have to? I feel like that's the expectation but what about a poly relationship with 2 girlfriends and one guy? Or one where she all parties can only hook up with girls? Not everything in life has to be identical, it makes a lot more sense for a guy to hook up with many girls than it does for a girl to hook up with many guys.
/r/seduction12/11/19 02:49 AM
5

Yikes, thank you for the description. No, I have not.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:45 AM
9

Would you do it for 2k a night? It could be worth it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:04 PM
12

This should be criminal. Someone needs to step the fuck up and make a public movement to stop this kind of insanity. I doubt make people would oppose it if it's not phrased as too "mansrighty."
/r/MensRights11/11/19 05:34 AM
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Will it take someone coming out of jail and killing the bitch that accused him for this to be fixed? A+ west, if you want blood it'll come I'm sure.
/r/MensRights11/11/19 05:30 AM
1

Really? Does it boost serotonin? I might get some based on your comment then.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:52 AM
1

Make it useful at least. Those activities are high stimulation which is why it draws in kids so much. A lot of opportunities on those platforms these days though. Social media influencers, esports, content creators, video editors, graphic designers, digital marketers, etc. If they're gonna spend their days online, might as well get them to learn a marketable skill.
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 07:20 AM
1

What about your mother?
/r/MGTOW08/11/19 04:13 AM
2

Very aware of this story. He's a 38-year-old man that approaches 16-17-year-olds at night and refuses to stop talking to them when they say they're not interested. That says nothing about game or pickup, it's just creepy/predatory behavior in general. As long as you're not a degenerate, this will never happen to you. Be careful if you're autistic and can't read social cues though. I've done hundreds of approaches and the worst reaction I've ever gotten is a girl saying "Go away" rudely. I've gon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:12 AM
1

Well, that's why your dick isn't getting wet. It's not rocket science. Your weight has very little do to with it. Start slow and build up. Women love being approached by confident, socially smooth men in real life. The only way to become that is to do it a bunch and fuck up a bunch also.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 02:00 AM
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Ideally, you should be able to talk about the weather but she still gets the vibe that you want to fuck her brains out which scores you massive points in social calibration. You could spend 10 years studying the subtle nuances of day game and people do, to each his own but to master seduction, you should be able to do both.
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:56 AM
2

Some people on here seem to resent women for not being into them at a point in their life when they had no redeeming/attractive qualities. I'm very thankful women have standards and weren't attracted to me 10 years ago, those same standards seem to make me more attractive today so I don't see what the issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:46 AM
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I mean keep on the fitness plan but guaranteed you can get laid today. Practice your game and go out and hit on women every day and you'll find some that want to fuck you soon enough, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:44 AM
1

Probably just dumb. His original post makes sense but he went full autistic in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 01:40 AM
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You had me until you got offended at an internet comment that wasn't even directed at you. Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:58 AM
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Doubt they're in love, they're just infatuated. Men(and women) become "in love" with the idea of a person, not the person themselves. If you haven't dated someone for a while, how can you love them? How can you really know what they're like and what goes on in their head?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:08 AM
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There's a lot more to it than that if you're being honest. Women are covert a lot of times which easily leads to manipulation. For example, if a woman has an issue with you, she will usually not tell you just treat you worse and be in a bad mood. Generally if a man has an issue, he'll let you know right away and not play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 05:07 AM
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Go watch the Red Pill documentary and then you'll hopefully be more informed to have this discussion. Some of the issues that you raise are very real but if you don't take into account both sides of the coin, they're useless. We're the human race after all, no such thing as womankind or mankind as a single-gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 01:11 AM
1

What's your thoughts on lay count and what that represents to men and women? I'm still not 100% sure on it, I need to hear more perspectives. I'm also curious which countries you consider to be sex-positive in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:04 PM
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I'm sorry you went through this, that sounds fucking terrible. I will admit that I'm one of the men that have trouble picturing another man getting raped but this explains it pretty well. Thank you for sharing.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 10:46 AM
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I know, I dated one for a year. I know you're not exaggerating but I still want to believe that my relationship with her wasn't fake. I almost have the opposite thing as you, she's my last attachment to my blue pills. Part of me just hopes that she'll deal with her dysfunctions and become the quality person that she showed glimpses of. I'm open to the possibility of that being full-on delusional but I still have some hope.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:48 AM
1

Can you expand? I also dated a BPD and don't seem to be as destroyed as most of the stories I read online because I was already familiar with the concept and had read TRP before starting to date her.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 07:57 AM
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Subconscious as in you don't think about it until after the fact? My ex has BPD and the more I read, the more confused I get. She definitely did some fucked up sketchy shit but I refuse to believe she's an evil person. Care to elaborate? I'd love to hear more from the side of the BPD.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 07:57 AM
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Isn't it more likely that you'd enjoy a girl with BPD if you have ADHD? Because she's high stimulation?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 07:55 AM
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Do you think there's any hope of having a positive interaction with such a woman if you have a strong enough frame or abort no matter what? You say if you have one-itis, it's especially bad. What if you don't?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 07:48 AM
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Very interesting, thanks for sharing. I relate to the smell thing so much. My ex smelt so fucking good no matter how long it had been since she showered, drove me fucking wild.
/r/seduction02/11/19 04:11 AM
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I think you're right, women with issues just exhibit the same traits as other women, just to the extreme. If you have around an hour, this is a fantastic video and I'd love to get the thoughts of someone who's also experienced an actual crazy girl. He has a theory that women act extra "crazy"(hot and cold, infantile, self-destructive, vain, hypersexual, etc) because that's what they're told being feminine is and they should act as such which is super damaging to both men and women. I don't think…
/r/seduction01/11/19 06:19 AM
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Interesting, yeah I've had the same. The love and affection coming from that girl was intoxicating when I had it but dried up at random times based on her mood or what triggered her. Did it work? I'm also considering seeing a few girls at the same time as I don't think putting yourself at the sexual/emotional mercy of a single girl is a good idea in this day and age.
/r/seduction01/11/19 06:01 AM
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Fuck bro, amen. I've dated a BPD girl before and as much as I would say that she's crazy and trouble and is a dangerous person to be associated with, I would take her call and go hang out with her any day. She just makes life interesting, even if I could go fuck another girl.
/r/seduction01/11/19 05:34 AM
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Fascinating concept. Wouldn't it make more sense that liberal girls would be more sexually interesting? Do you have more thoughts on this?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 11:59 PM
3

Why do you not capitalize your sentences properly? Did you skip grade 4 English?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 11:42 PM
1

You must be quite the beta if that doesn't make sense to you.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:15 PM
1

You ask. I believe both partners should be open with the number of people they've slept with. And how do you know they're being honest? You don't. But if they lie about that, they'll lie about other random things that are uncomfortable to reveal. And lying is a hard boundary for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 11:18 PM
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For pleasure and intimacy? Commitment is a lot more valuable than sex. Are you a Christian/Muslim?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 04:17 AM
1

Why would any sane person commit to someone they haven't had sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:59 AM
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Funny how none of the blue pill people replied to you. This is exactly the point most Red Pill guys make, they're usually just not as articulate with it. If you want to have fun and fuck guys randomly, great, more power to you. You've now lost the ability to be courted without getting fucked though. Will plenty of guys still deal with it? Yep. Will most of them have strong boundaries and values and be attractive men? Most likely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:59 AM
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You seem really bitter. If you're a quality person, you can have it whichever way you want. Only low-value men and women have to contend with social norms they dislike, abundance is a concept that works for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:55 AM
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It's an honest signal. It's an evolutionary psychology term that's usually used to determine status. I.e. working out is an honest signal because it can't be faked. A girl jumping your bones is a pretty hard to fake signal that she finds you very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:53 AM
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Not quite, to use the Bench analogy it's more like "how do I maximize the effectiveness of my bench while not benching?" Which in that case could be looking up complimentary chest exercises, watching benching videos to make sure you get the form right, looking up good nutritional content so you make sure you hit your macros consistently, finding a gym partner so you have someone to tell you to go when you're pussying out, etc. That's more of what I had in mind.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 12:16 AM
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Message your government officials and let them know. This is literally taught at a higher education institution, pretty insane.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 03:37 AM
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I don't disagree with you but isn't that also what you're doing? You're hating on her for her beliefs, no matter how hateful they are that makes you hateful as well ;)
/r/MensRights24/10/19 09:38 PM
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Yes, that's why I said casual sexual relationships. I.e. friends with benefits or fuckbuddies. I don't think that being able to get a girlfriend translates to being able to get a fwb or fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 09:02 PM
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I do know your life. You explained it. You said that you found a girl that's out of your league and you're in a LDR relationship with her because you can't find a girl just as good locally. That's literally what you said. Why is there a good reason why her staying with you isn't possible? I can find a better way dude. Either you keep your girl close or you find another girl in the meanwhile, it's not rocket science. What do you currently get from this relationship? A phone call and a few cute te…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 07:23 AM
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I think this is a biased view. Even in 2019, plenty of people get into relationships without fucking first. I'd say if you can convince a girl to have sex with you casually, you probably have what it takes to get a relationship(not necessarily a great one but one nonetheless.) I don't think that if you're able to get a girl to be in a relationship with you, that it means that you're able to get girls to have casual sexual relationships with you. It's a close call but I do think getting a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:30 AM
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You're making another fallacy here. Women are not attracted to virtue signaling and rightfully so. It's not because guys on Reddit seem so supportive of women that 1) they actually are and 2) that's an attractive trait. It's super interesting, if you dive deep into it, a lot of "nice guys" are not nice at all and just hide their toxicity and just use being nice as a tactic to gain sympathy/attraction and not actually have deep virtue and empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:13 AM
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Maybe harder but it's simpler and in the end has a more guaranteed result. You could look it as just as simple as men are the gatekeepers of relationships and women the gatekeeper of sex. But what's more valuable in life, a great relationship or great sex? The problem in general is men basically prostitute themselves and throw their commitment at any willing girl and wonder why they don't have quality women in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:08 AM
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You're also (hopefully) not a creep, not a danger to her, not shaming her for being sexual with you, are generally pleasant and maybe good at sex too. All that may seem like a given but I think a lot of people would be surprised how far that goes and how many people lack that or seem to lack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:06 AM
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That's why I think both sexes have it equally as bad/good, just in different ways. I can imagine how disempowering it must feel to be handed stuff for free and just complimented for absolutely nothing. It'd be like playing a competitive video game and winning for free, the game would suck and you'd get bored after a few hours except this isn't a game, it's life. My whole point is that we should stop making this a gender way and just come together as a people to fix our collective issues and have…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:10 AM
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The point is not to become elite at any of these things though. Just proficient and competent. If you go to the gym three times a week and have good nutrition, you won't be a Greek god but you'll be stronger, more in shape and better looking physically than most men out there. Same thing with finances, you don't need to be rich but just to be able to make good financial decisions that give you a good degree of freedom and the least debt as possible. Same thing with game, you don't need to be abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 11:31 PM
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Easy to say what these things are but much harder to improve them. Is it really though? Get out of the basement and go to social outings a few times a week and study social skills/read a few books about it. Learn to cook and go to the gym 3 times a week. Stop splurging on dumb shit and pick a career path that makes sense and learn to save/budget/invest your money. All these things seem fairly straight forward and would put you above 90% of modern men. Shouldn't you know what you need? I feel lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 11:10 PM
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You're not exactly right. Getting casual sex from a high value man is useful and beneficial to a woman, getting casual sex from any man has no value in it whatsoever. Same thing for men actually, except what we value is different. Would you say that having casual sex with 60 year old 350 lbs would enhance your life as a man? I'd rather not get laid tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 11:02 PM
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I don't think so. Lack of feeling like you're achieving something in your life makes you suffer. And when you're a low level man, you feel like having casual sex means you're achieving something in life which you really aren't. Plenty of depressed PUAs out there, believe me on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 11:00 PM
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Not true, that's only what it looks like when you can't get laid. Nobody who's quality respects a guy just for the sake that he can get laid, that's just a given. Do you really respect drug dealers or guys that go to the club 7 nights a week because they can get laid more than you? People only respect people of virtue, and if you have true virtue you should be able to get laid. It's correlation, not causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:58 PM
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I still disagree. I'll make an argument that men have it maybe harder but simpler which is better in the end. As a man, how do you get a high quality long term partner? You work on yourself, mainly on your finances/social skills/fitness. Nothing complicated about that and it puts you above 90% of the competition and you get your pick of women and then you can filter them and find a high quality partner. As a woman, how do you find a high quality partner? You look hot? Then what? You sit and wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:51 PM
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Is there any worth to feeling wanted while having done nothing to achieve it though? Human beings enjoy compliments, not flattery. I enjoy getting female attention after starting to dress better, working on my social skills and working out a bit. If I got the same attention by sole virtue of being born with a certain set of chromosomes, it would be worthless and rightly so. I would actually argue that getting attention for nothing is damaging to someone and not positive in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:45 PM
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I mean, you just argued why you're in lack of abundance and it makes sense for you to stay in an LDR. You're arguing from a position of weakness my dude, that's never good in life. If you were a powerful man and your girl was this amazing, you could figure out an arrangement where she could stay near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:39 PM
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I tend to agree, how would you explain why LDRs don't work? To me it's because the default frame is lack of abundance and powerlessness. If this girl is actually that amazing, I believe you but why are you so weak and powerless that you couldn't figure out an arrangement where your amazing girlfriend lives near you? Or are you not worth her sacrificing something to stay near you? Just a weird arrangement if you break it down, I don't think you can make a solid argument as to why LDRs are a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:37 PM
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I didn't miss it, I just don't think it's a solid point. Most men, if not all, could get laid with unattractive women if they put even a modicum of effort in. If they're not willing to put in that effort, are we really feeling bad for them and arguing on behalf of their powerlessness on Reddit? Men have a shit ton of power in the sexual market place, they're just not willing or too ignorant to exercise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:32 PM
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Do you have personal experience with that? I've only dated a girl for around a year but I never got tired of having sex with her. Granted, we only had sex 2-4 times a week but she was hot and fit, I think that goes a long way. I don't blame men that get tired of fucking their unattractive partners, the novelty must wear off fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:29 PM
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Why don't you? Probably because you wouldn't get anything out of it. Sex with an unattractive partner does nothing for either gender, I don't know why that's so hard to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:26 PM
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Hm, possibly a fair point regarding the supply of the money but you're making a false equivalency. I used 60 year old and 350 lbs because as a man, that would be a woman who has no attractive features to you. To a woman, a guy her age can also have no attractive features. Genders have different biological goals in dating so they're obviously not equal. You must agree with my thesis that it's for sure not always better to get any sex than no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:25 PM
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If that's what you would aspire to as a woman, that's probably what you aspire to as a man as well which proves your lack of virtue and attractive attributes. Might as well be blue pill bro, you never actually took the Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:20 PM
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Just enjoying some Reddit posts man. I call bullshit. If you really meant that, you could go on Craigslist and find an old hag to have sex with you just as easily as a girl can go on Tinder and find a dude willing to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:14 PM
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Men can also get sex whenever they want. Ever heard of an escort? It's actually the exact equivalent to a woman having sex with a random low value man. They both have risks and they both don't satisfy the deeper reasons why both genders want to have sex. They both trade what the respective gender is known for, men's resources and women's fertility. Most people are dillusional at best and disingenious at worst. Sex for sex's sake is not satisfactory for either gender. You can go past the escort a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:12 PM
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It's a man's fault because we got weak and stopped standing up for ourselves. You literally praise giving up and running away. What happened to actually putting the hard work in, finding a quality woman(which there are plenty of) and not putting up with her bullshit and having a quality relationship? Men have no spine and are cucks. We only have ourselves to blame for that. Man the fuck up and you can get laid with endless women and have your pick of the litter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:05 PM
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Why are you blaming women for picking bad partners? This is a human thing in general, if anything even moreso for men than women. Ever heard of the hot vs crazy scale? Or "don't stick your dick in crazy"? Men are literally the gender known for picking terrible sexual partners based off superficial attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:57 PM
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You're making a big fallacy here. Getting something bad is not better than getting nothing. Would you rather not get laid or have to fuck 350 lbs 60 year old women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:54 PM
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You're making a big fallacy here. Which is that a relationship is the goal. A good relationship is a goal, nobody gets anything from being in a bad relationship. For sure women have an easier time getting into a relationship period. I would argue that they have a HARDER time than men getting a quality relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:53 PM
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You're viewing it from a male perspective my dude. To a guy sex is always good, kinda like pizza. To a woman, sex is only good if it's good. To equate it to the male POV, it's kinda like if your only options were 300 lbs 50 year old women that chased you in droves. Would you be shallow to not pursue those options?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:51 PM
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You're dellusional. Most people in general don't care about most people in general. Do you really think that the thirsty men that pander to the average female actually care about them? Fuck no, they're just using attention as a tactic to try and get attention back. Developping genuine empathy is a hard skill and I don't think women get it more than men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:43 PM
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The manosphere is borderline autistic when it comes to this point, and that's coming from a TRPer. Even if that's true, what's so great about being pursued by low value/unnatractive people in general? As a guy, if you had hordes of 300 lbs women chasing you, would all your problems in life evaporate and you're not allowed to complain about your dating issues anymore? Both genders have serious issues when it comes to dating, just because women have an easier time getting laid because biology make…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:29 PM
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Do you mean positive response as in get a phone number/date/fuck from an approach or do you literally mean that the girl seems to have a positive impression of you approaching her? If 90% of girls that you approach have a negative impression towards your approach, I got news for you: you have terrible game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:25 PM
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Do you have a lot of experience in dating? You would think it hurts but it really doesn't matter. Rejection feels like nothing most of the time. Drink yourself, make some funny comment about how she's playing coy and kiss her 10 mins later. No big deal.
/r/seduction19/10/19 07:36 PM
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I think this person has very deep feelings of shame and low self-esteem that she wants to project onto the whole of womankind. I hope that she somehow makes it out of her current pit of darkness and is open to seeking therapy. No man likes a doormat and the ones that do aren't respectable. I would much have a quality partner.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 12:58 AM
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Bro, you need a therapist, not Reddit. This is good content here but it's not meant to baby you. You're not even the intended demographic. Men need to be strong to be attractive, of course, that doesn't mean that you don't need support but this is a subreddit meant for women looking for strong men in their lives, not a men's support group.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 12:33 AM
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As a dude, this was a cool post to read and gives context to my desires as a man. I enjoy a woman who's respectful but is assertive in her own life. A woman who's got a little feist but is not afraid to show appreciation and affection. Or like the OP put it, a girl who's submissive to a man she feels has earned it, not a doormat.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 12:25 AM
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Get a room guys.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/19 10:27 PM
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People don't actually think things through. If only the guy gets charged with a sex crime, then the girl has no agency. If girls have no agency during sex, they're sex toys. I can't see which university this was posted in but if they officially endorsed this poster then they're calling all their female students sex toys. Both men and women should be outraged at this garbage shit. A lot of feminism is actually misogynistic if you break it down, pretty hilarious.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 09:54 PM
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As a broad statement, it's generally true. But there are many reasons why that's not the case. I used to date a girl with a history of sexual trauma who had guilty feelings around sex so the better I got at sex and the more I made her enjoy it, the less I got. She told me just a bit before we broke up that she would fuck the boyfriends that didn't give a shit about making her feel good a lot more often. I wish I had found that out sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:43 PM
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Love starts with attraction. Obviously you're not attracted to him. All the comments are berating you for betraying your husband but if your husband is only providing for you financially while not taking care of the physical/emotional aspect of the relationship, that's on him not on you. Girl, this is where you need to step out of your emotional brain and be fully logical and pull out a pen and paper and ask yourself a set of very important questions. Why is your marriage failing? Is it your fau…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 08:32 PM
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Interesting points. Do you not believe in sex for pleasure then? I believe sex can be both for pleasure and also a deep intimate bonding experience but it doesn't always have to be the latter. I get your point about being able to take back the commitment but if a commitment has any value, it shouldn't be given and taken away freely. And I feel like starting to date someone only to be dumped two weeks later is a lot more damaging than just having sex a few times and going your separate ways after…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 08:18 PM
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You've already had great comments on the logistical side of this so I'll comment on the religious side. I'm always suspicious of people that hold their religious views to the detriment of their wellbeing. There is great and old wisdom in religious values but the dogma and strict regulations are perhaps outdated and don't have anything to do with the actual teachings. Regardless of if you should have children with a 56-year-old man as a 24-year-old, he's letting writing in old text have detriment…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 08:00 PM
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Okay, this might be a weird suggestion but I would suggest to her that she get into more typically male self-help so that she can develop her masculine side in a positive way. The problem with feminity is that it gets abused by toxic masculinity. If a girl has no positive protectors/mentors then she has to protect herself and guide/teach herself which requires masculine energy. Sounds to me like she needs to learn what she wants in life and how to stand up for herself before she doubles down on …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 07:52 PM
1

Because commitment is more valuable than sex. You've said yourself that you've dated guys and made them wait and in the end, you became resentful and weren't attracted to them so their commitment became worthless. The commitment of both a quality man and woman is invaluable for both genders, sex is great but it pales in comparison, I think you'd agree. You seem to value your sexuality and that's great but don't let it affect your self-worth. You lose nothing by having sex with a man you deem wor…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 07:12 PM
0

This seems like a catch-22. What quality man commits to a woman, especially exclusively, before having sex with her?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 08:03 AM
17

It seems to me like you have low self-esteem. The whole idea of this sub, as I understand it, is to find the best man that you can and become the best woman that you can for yourself and him. Your man is a manchild and you're desperate for his approval. You should try harder, to be better to yourself but not him. Plenty of guys will appreciate this in the end and not flip out over a dream. If you're willing to put this much effort into a relationship, you deserve a way better one trust me. Plent…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 06:55 AM
1

An eye for an eye leaves the world blind. Just perpetuates the cycle of bigotry. If you're intolerant of someone being intolerant, what does that make you?
/r/MensRights16/10/19 11:41 PM
3

Not being able to take criticism and bragging about irrelevant metrics in a conversation are both signs of narcissism and low self-esteem(which narcissism stems from.) Elevating yourself above others is a tactic that only makes sense if you feel threatened/inferior to them in some other regard. Someone who is really confident and sure of themselves has no need to assert himself as better than anyone, that's ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 01:29 AM
2

I definitely relate to your story man. Don't let the negativity let you down, some people don't know the struggle a lot of people face. I never had it as bad as you so I can only hope you're still going strong and this was a massive learning experience and everything since then has been on the up and up.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 06:06 AM
6

Plenty of 40-year-old idiots as well. If you know your stuff, no reason a 23-year-old can't teach a 40-year-old something. Experience doesn't necessarily come with age.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 07:50 AM
1

So what's the difference between an open relationship and polyamory to you? You can still have consent, rules, and boundaries in an open relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 11:37 PM
1

Definitely correct. They find that Mr.right by plate spinning or having the orbiter strategy. Most men these days have literally 0 girls as potential prospects or at most 1 and that's who they end up dating/settling up with. Any attractive girl has 10+ guys as options and if she's a bit promiscuous she's probably sleeping with a few of them. I guess you could make a line between having actual plates and just the option but it's definitely more natural for a woman to have more options than a man.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 10:27 PM
1

Idk, maybe we can expand on that analogy. What if everyone that had gone there that night had gotten their banana split but they decided not to serve it any more right as you walked in. It'd be a bit more upsetting than if that place never had banana splits and you just asked them to make you one and they couldn't right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:51 PM
2

You've yourself admitted that you would want more out of your sex life with this man but you settle for this because you feel like he'd leave you otherwise. You've admitted that you can't share parts of yourself and your past and you have to fake an image to keep this man around. Your relationship in your mind has security to the degree that your man doesn't find out about the real you and your true desires. I mean if that works for you for now and before has been bad, it's your life, more power…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:52 PM
1

Just seems to me like you now have a relationship based on fear and dishonesty due to a fear of loneliness where every party gets less than they want. Sounds like a horrible situation all around, yikes. I don't fault you for feeling like this is the way to go based on your past experiences but there has to be a better way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:41 PM
1

Men like to feel like we earn things. If you get sexually freaky and blow the mind of a guy who's earned your trust, comfort, and wildness then I'd wager he's more likely to stick around. If the only thing he had to do to get that treatment is getting you to pull your pants down, he's gonna rightly assume that you do the same for every guy and probably not be too interested yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:29 PM
1

Bullshit. There are leaps and bounds that the average man can get if they put study, time and effort towards it. Any average and probably a bit below average man can find attractive women to have the wild sex life of their dreams if they put your mind to it. Now if your point is that most men are not aware that they can do that/will not do it regardless, then absolutely agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:22 PM
2

That's truly one of the weirdest thing about red pill. They strongly advise not to discuss sexual past with a partner. I've only had one serious girlfriend but we both opened up about pretty much everything in our sexual past, even the uncomfortable stuff, and I'd say it definitely brought us closer and made us more comfortable to dive into stuff together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 09:03 PM
2

I mean, I get both sides. If you read too much online, you start finding out what you're missing out on. Having a long term partner who's willing to try new things and enjoys taking part in wild sexual adventures is amazing and has been a highlight of my life. I don't personally think I would be able to commit to a long term relationship that didn't involve that. On the other hand, he should've figured this out before marrying her and to give her credit, she seems to have been consistent with he…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:10 PM
0

Is your point that if he was willing to let her peg him then this expectation would be fine? I think the lesson to be learned here is to figure out your sexual compatibility with your partner before you marry them. I would personally have an issue with a partner not being willing to do stuff they've done in the past with another partner but they're very much so entitled to have that boundary. I'd just be incompatible with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:46 PM
1

Make your relationship open. An easy answer to all your problems. If your SMV is as high as you say it is compared to hers, make it even a one way open LTR. If she's not cool with that then well move on and fly little bird.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:57 AM
1

Everyone can help everyone. Obviously a more experience man has more wisdom to impart but it'd be foolish to think you can't learn anything from someone younger than you.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:02 AM
2

Genes take a long time to weed themselves out. I've heard it referred to as the whispers of 10 000 generations. You're stuck with genes(in this context mate attraction) that were useful to your ancestors 10 000 generations ago but now they've simply turned maladaptive. Men have plenty of these as well.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 04:51 AM
2

I really wish both genders could live in the other's brain for a week. It would get rid of 90% of questions like these. Because no, it's not all about sex. It's about connection, intimacy, comfort, etc but to men, sex is the deepest way to feel these things if done right and with the right person. So once again, it's not all about sex but good luck having a fulfilled relationship without.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:58 PM
6

Agreed. I think the people that hate on Tyler are just not there yet. His rants are amazing and he's a genius. The amount of thought and actual practical non bs advice in them is incredible. Incredibly high-level content and I'm fucking ecstatic for Julien that after this journey he feels like he found his best friend and married her.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:52 PM
1

I think that's one of the biggest news ever in the PUA community tbh. I'm surprised this hasn't blown up. One of the most savage PUA instructors in history settling down? Inspiring as shit and almost makes me reconsider marriage tbh. I'd love for him to post a big video on it.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:04 AM
11

I wonder why that is. I once read a theory that all countries colonized by the english are more cucked than the rest of the world(the UK itself, Canada, Australia, US, etc) due to the culture of politeness and gentlemanry that turns men weak and in turn makes women walk all over them and ruins both genders. I'd love to read more thoughts on this.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 08:13 AM
3

Underrated comment but true. Society does a lot of good but a lot of bad also. Someone that takes the whole package and ignores the bad and deems it all good and plays by all the rules is weak-willed and somewhat a fool.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:05 AM
10

As an introvert, there's a lot you can say back to those questions. They're not meant to be of substance, they're ice breakers. You can lead the conversation to whatever you want from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 11:30 AM
3

My theory is that men are hornier but women enjoy (good) sex more in the moment. I feel like most men will be horny if they don't jack off/have sex for a day but most women can go longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 04:58 PM
1

One of the best tips I've ever gotten from TRP is that women operate based off their emotions and those emotions are very temporary. Just add right now after every statement. Her: "I love you so much, you're my everything and I wanna spend the rest of my life with you" right now TRP is a godsend and if you get over the bitter phase it let's you truly love them for who they are instead of what you idealize them to be.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:53 PM
1

Work on your conversational and social skills. Its easily possible to have a conversation with someone who has views 100% opposite to yours and leave with both of you having had a positive experience.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:33 AM
5

I wonder if some people inherently are born more empathetic or if it's mostly nurture? I know the older I get, the more empathy I seem to have. Once you start to see how similar other people are to you and how your actions(good and bad), it makes you stop and think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:27 PM
3

Is the book worth buying? It's been on my list for a while.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 02:40 AM
1

Yeah, great place to start off. Some strange people in that crowd for sure but most of them are into improving themselves and will resonate with things like meditation, business, and fitness so they're mostly quite good bros to surround yourself with.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 12:25 AM
2

Work on your boundaries, self-esteem and social skills. To be "popular" in school all you need to do is talk to a lot of people and know a lot of people and not take shit from anyone. Which sounds more complicated than it is, just learn to banter and not take yourself seriously and be able to poke back when people crack jokes on you and be able to be firm if they cross a line. The fitness stuff is great and you should do that also but the social skills aspect is way more important. If people thi…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:39 PM
1

Girls will give you 1000 random excuses why they don't want to go out with you. Could be true, could not be. Game would definitely help here regardless. Proper game helps you relate to people on an emotional level and that seems to be what you're lacking. Some girls operate on value alone and some need more comfort to be into you. The more value you have, the less comfort you need but it would be stupid to ignore it as it doesn't require much effort and will deepen your results in the short and …
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:33 PM
3

If you're in a large city, find an RSD Inner Circle group. It'll give you people to go out with that can easily turn into a social circle/friends. Once you get your social toes wet, it should be no problem to make friends in school. The harder part is finding a group whose main activity doesn't revolve around just drinking/getting high as often as possible. Then start cold approaching. Take /u/Startlivingfornow's advice and start slow with something like a 30-day challenge. I started asking girl…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:28 PM
4

Caveat that I'm not anywhere close to your financial situation or your age but perhaps I can still give you some good ideas. You have to decide what you want and most importantly what you're willing and ready to spend a lot of energy on. You seem to have spent a lot of energy on your business/career which is great but you've lacked in developing dating skills. This resulted in you having to pay for sex, which is fine but it lacks the depth that you seem to be looking for now. I would take the ab…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:43 AM
1

Do you have feedback for this?
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:49 AM
1

Yes, playing the victim is what's gonna help you here. I refused to take some advice on here but at least be real with yourself. You're scared of breaking up with her because you're a pussy.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 03:30 AM
3

Who defines what a worthy life? To many, wifing up a struggling girl and providing for her is the "worthy"/noble thing to do. How else are you gonna measure your success other than if you're getting what you want? Life is just a process of going for what you want, breaking free of delusion and doing that process over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 06:48 PM
22

Just evolutionary psychology/biology bro. They are that way because it helped them survive. Same thing for men, just in different ways.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 06:20 PM
2

More or less same here brother. We broke up and she fucked other dudes and keeps saying she loves me then does it again. I should've gone no-contact like everyone advises but I was weak. I'll learn it the hard way and come back the other end stronger.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 08:29 PM
1

I like your point, the approach is definitely as important as the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 07:56 PM
7

This is a big one but also dangerous. Don't fall victim to self-pity and shame and all that other worthless shit. The reason this works is that it's about not making yourself a victim. You always have the power to be better and do it better. If you self-pity, it's only another way of victimizing yourself.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:31 PM
3

I don't know man, even 1-2% is huge. Think about it, one out of every 100-50 man is rising a child that's not theirs through lies of their trusted partner. People win the lottery every day and the odds are staggeringly worse than that. I wouldn't risk it personally, better safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:52 PM
2

Why does being a grower help in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:18 AM
13

That's one way. But life isn't binary. You don't think alpha males that attract a lot of girls can tell a girl she's pretty without her losing interest? Or have a chat with a girl without her thinking he's a loser? Try it out and calibrate. There's a difference between "You're so pretty, I've never seen a girl so hot do you want to go out with me?" and something like "Be careful wearing such nice dresses around me, I might just tear it off you." Learn the theory and do what you want with it. Don…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:49 PM
5

I don't know who I agree with tbh but your optimism soothes my heart. Please be real and continue being a quality human being, I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 04:55 AM
1

Doubt it, must be more to it. I'm 6'3 and decently good looking and I rarely get cold approached but girls are pretty receptive if I do the approaching.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 11:20 PM
1

Did you end up finding it?
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:02 AM
1

Good advice. I've been daygaming for years and when I'm in the flow I can consistently get numbers/dates but even after doing it hundreds of times, if I take too long of a break I experience something similar to OP. Only difference is I know the process so I can get back into it. Good idea to start off with simple things like directions or just giving a compliment and walking away. If you put pressure on yourself to have this fun, flirty, long conversation right off the bat, of course, you're go…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 07:17 PM
1

What would you say is the root cause of it all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 08:54 PM
6

Going through the same thing right now brotha, just broke up with LTR of 10 months. Isn't it crazy how one day you're her man, her rock, she can't live without you, she's so attracted to you and the next you're kind of annoying and she wants out but doesn't have the balls to tell you herself? It's hard but in the end we win for having it harder, easy things bring nothing in this life.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 07:19 PM
2

Honestly, I have no reference for it but that response could be killer. Any girl with relationship experience will be able to see where you're coming from if she's aware enough and that combined with actual honest communication in both party's favor really impresses me. TRP should be about not letting yourself get fucked over. Doesn't have to be about all the manipulation that's posted around these days.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 11:25 PM
1

How would you define dread game? I feel like it's a pretty benign concept, like anything it can be taken too far but the core of it is having options and abundance which I don't see as too controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 05:42 AM
5

Amen.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 10:49 PM
1

Not at all but a lot of men would, definitely not uncommon.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 08:41 PM
1

Life isn't just about biological success though. That alone won't make you happy or fulfilled, although obviously, it's a huge part of the puzzle. I don't think divorce is the biggest issue though. Plenty of people stay married and have miserable relationships. How many people do you think have an exciting and fulfilling marriage with a quality sex life and a partner that they trust and appreciate? Maintaining a quality relationship over years and decades(if your standards for quality are high) …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 08:10 PM
1

I think the vetting process is mandatory when it comes to LTR. I'm in my first one and signs and behaviors came up around the 6-9 month mark that didn't exist at all previously. They can only fake it for so long.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 08:05 PM
1

Do you really have so little self-respect that you'd have sex with any woman that throws her pussy at you? What happened to be the prize? And how do you have morals if you believe that loyalty is important yet help people be disloyal? That's like believing that stealing is wrong and giving your friend a ride to rob the gas station if he gives you a cut.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 07:29 PM
1

It's a small step in the right direction. If as a man, you believe a woman should be loyal in a relationship(whether to yourself or anyone), don't be part in them being disloyal.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 07:21 PM
1

Sweet, I've always wanted something like that. Dom to a few girls. Can you elaborate on the situation? How you made it happen, the good/bad sides, etc? My next goal after I'm done with this toxic LTR.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:21 AM
1

You have to learn game regardless. Being in shape and increasing your SMV won't teach you game. Plenty of Beta AFs dudes getting strung along that are ripped and have high SMVs. Do both, just manage expectations. You're learning now, don't expect immediate results.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:07 AM
1

You think your girl flirting with other men in front of you( or without you) is acceptable behavior?
/r/askTRP02/05/19 10:09 PM
1

If that's what you want to do, do yourself the favor of never considering her your LTR ever again. She's given you the keys to your emotional freedom on a silver platter, be very thankful to her. Also don't be exclusive with her, ideally work on your game and fuck other women so that you aren't so dependent on her preselection while she openly disrespects you.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:37 PM
4

Ayy, you're good. Yep diagnosed BPD. I was unexperienced and foolish enough to know that going in and even after reading a bunch on it here, it's still mind blowing to me. Kinda like watching documentaries about murders and seeing someone get killed in person. You know about it intellectually but the reality is still shocking.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 08:29 PM
1

You're still paying for the kids if you're in a relationship though. The only difference with child support is you're still supporting the kids but don't have to deal with a shitty relationship(if that's what it came to.)
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 07:50 PM
8

Man, is there a way somehow a way to make women happy and not have them completely destroy you, take everything for granted and be done with you as if nothing ever happened? I'm my first serious relationship as a early 20s man and boy, this girl can be the sweetest person and say nice things and plans that will send me through the moon if not careful and is, on the other hand, the most entitled, narcissist bitch I've ever met. Fucking crazy cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 07:49 PM
1

I see your point too, I don't think you're wrong. To be honest, I never understood the hate older women got here. I'm in my early 20s but I find older women generally quite attractive.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 07:20 PM
2

Is that your bar for success though? Getting a guy to marry them? You think these women get married to exciting, attractive, motivated guys and are in fulfilling marriages? Anyone can find a relationship. I was at the mall the other day and this homeless guy asked me to use my phone so he could call his pregnant girlfriend to get her to come sleep with him at the park. The laws of TRP work because we strive for the best in life(I would hope) and are not content with just getting any pussy or set…
/r/askTRP02/05/19 07:00 PM
9

The best tip for game is unconditional positiveness. You won't make it far in this process if you focus on the negatives so retrain your brain to look at all the positives. I.e. girlfriend cheated on you? Great, now I can fuck other girls. Approach a girl and she tells you to fuck off because you're a creep? Great, that was a fucking awesome reference experience. You said you're new, so congratulations you managed to attract your first girl. With the next one, you'll understand attraction even b…
/r/seduction29/04/19 07:59 PM
1

I was not trolling, thank you for your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:19 PM
1

Aye. Living with girlfriend of 9 months and it's already starting to be an issue and I'm only 23. Just glad I read Reddit because otherwise I probably would've settled with it long term and ended up DB soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:17 AM
1

I feel like dead bedrooms and low sex are two separate things. Do you classify having sex once a week as having a good sex life? Once every two weeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:00 AM
1

What changed, if you don't mind expanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:58 AM
16

You can say anything with the right frame. You could go up to girls in the club and say "Hey, I don't mean to brag but I was captain of the chess club in high school" with a cocky smile and they would lap it up.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:11 PM
3

Men tend to overblow their numbers and women tend to diminish it. Nothing too crazy, just both genders adhering to their own social norms.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:53 PM
3

Stop self loathing, sympathy is not what you need right now. We all fuck up, are you you gonna learn from it and do better or not?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:48 PM
1

Borderline Personality Disorder. My GF has it and three days ago she was all lovey-dovey and said she loved everything I did more than usual and that she felt like she was falling in love with me all over again. Later that day she said that we're doing great and that she's excited to support me while I figure out my schooling/career a bit more. Today she told me that she doesn't think we're working out and that we should probably break up. I knew about the illness so I'm not surprised but still …
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:45 AM
1

That's good to know. I think you have to experience it, theory alone can't fully red pill you. I've been dating my gf for 9 months and were gonna breakup soon probably and even after reading about oneitis for the last 5 years I still feel like the connection I have with her is unique. Good advice though, thanks.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:57 AM
1

How old is she and how old are you?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 05:19 PM
17

Dude, the guy wrote a pentagram with his own blood on her wall. He's lunatic, the rules of rationality don't apply here. Next step could be beheading the OP after he finds out she was there, this is an abort situation.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:09 AM
8

You don't have to engage in any drug and alcohol use to go clubbing. Most good pickup guys don't. You seem to be more of the intellectual type which is actually great for clubbing because it's quite an interesting study in human behavior(including your own) that is hard to replicate. I'm quite introverted and I've probably gone clubbing 60+ times and have rarely enjoyed the clubbing and dancing aspect itself but the game aspect, pushing your boundaries and watching yourself grow is quite intoxic…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:26 PM
2

What do you do for fun that doesn't involve alcohol?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:04 PM
2

Show her and update.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 07:58 AM
1

Do you not understand the concept of SMV? Cooler is just a different lingo for it.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 08:46 PM
1

What's your thoughts on open relationships then?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:17 AM
1

I agree with your feeling but I still think you're wrong. Do you not believe in the value of your word in general? Or is your premise that it only applies when it is spoken to a man and not a woman? It's a complicated issue and I don't see an easy answer.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:13 AM
2

Not getting emotional and taking it personally is 100% the right move. You can also see it as an opportunity to practice verbal judo. Ideally teasing ends up making both people feel better but if you think he's intentionally trying to put you down you can do the same to him, not viciously just as an exercise to become better with words. With your example, you can say something silly like "Haha, you're right. I'm an alien, that must be why I lift more than you at the gym ;)" Just have fun with it…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:52 PM
2

I think that refers to sweat more than vagina smell though. I have some girls who's sweat smells vile to me and others it smells like heaven. Doesn't seem to have much to do with how she smells down there though.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 10:15 PM
1

Looking forward to it. It's always that simple.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:48 PM
2

Ask her out. You have to otherwise you're lying to yourself and her. Or game other girls see if your attraction towards her is real or just based on scarcity. Either way, you'll grow in the right direction.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:18 PM
1

Well you're both right and wrong. Depends how you define alpha. If we're speaking strict biology then whoever can fuck(reproduce) the most is the most alpha. Making millions is just amassing resources which is part of being alpha but biological alphaness is very biological and physical. It's kind of the caveman equivalent of the dude that has a badass cave with lots of tools and food in them and then the bigger dude comes into his cave, clubs him to death and takes it for himself. We've moved to…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:12 PM
1

That's a very slippy road to go down friend. I don't think those men are particularly happy, happiness from external validation is very shallow and doesn't last long before you need another fix.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:01 PM
1

Whatever you feel is right is right for you. Casual sex is good for some people at some times and LTRs are also good. Don't compare yourself to others because you have different goals. If your goal with TRP is eventually developing a healthy, beneficial relationship with a great girl based on value and reality instead of codependency and dillusion, then you're gonna need to fuck/sleep around to figure out what you want and develop your boundaries.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:59 PM
1

The best analogy I've heard is girls like puppies but they don't fuck them. They love a guy that would bend over backwards for them like a personal servant, who wouldn't like that? Doesn't mean it makes their pussy wet or they would ever consider them as a suitable partner.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:55 PM
1

Well that's one way to look at it. The other way to look at it is you were indoctrinated by a fantasy that had no bearings on reality and you should thank the Gods for finding out sooner rather than later. You talk about staying loyal in the face of seduction but what for? People romanticize relationships for the sake of them without being fully aware of what actually gain and lose from them. If that girl is with a mediocre man, what does she gain from staying loyal from him? What does she lose?…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 07:47 PM
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Is that who you wanna be though? If someone is being shitty, why do you have to lower yourself down to their level?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:47 PM
1

PUA tactics combined with RP principles are a killer combo. PUA by itself can be lackluster because it's an almost autistic study of dating tactics but used appropriately the techniques do work.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:47 PM
1

Probably but it's all part of the journey. TRP has a repulsion to relationships but it's a good idea to get in a few of them in your 20s to know exactly what you want and are getting out of them, as long as you're self-aware. Also, they help you to work on your frame massively, nothing will tear your frame faster than having a girlfriend. Straight road to betaville if you're not careful, been there.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:45 PM
1

He doesn't study or specialize in human sexual behavior though. Of course, it would be a part of his practice but a small part if anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 08:38 PM
1

He clearly finds her attractive in some respect as he mentioned her having a nice face. The standards point is an interesting one because it has merit but if anything, basing your self-worth off of who you're having sex with is the epitome of weakness. You should feel like a boss whether you fuck a Victoria's Secret model or a fatty, as long as it puts you on your path and isn't an excuse to keep squandering in mediocrity.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:01 PM
1

I don't think you should listen to him or anyone really. You can make just as valid of a point that you should absolutely do this as it will help you put sex off the pedestal and accelerate you finding a girl you find attractive to fuck. My advice is go with what feels right and don't regret it either way. Life is just lessons so as long as whatever you choose motivates you to keep going in the right direction, you're doing fine.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 07:59 PM
10

Do we really think posting an Instagram bikini pic once in a while is a huge red flag? I mean as long as it's not an every week type of thing and she thrives off the attention, seems like a pretty normal thing to do.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 07:55 PM
2

You have a point but I'm not sure where's it's going. You think the Rothschilds and the Rockefellers are the happiest people in the world? They have just more headaches to deal with, just like Meghan Markle marrying into the royal family. Might as well challenge the earlier point too, the internet is gonna be the end of those dynasties or at least their aristocratic aspect. The peasants used to have zero access to knowledge, learning to read was reserved for the nobles. Doesn't happen overnight …
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:38 AM
1

Thank you sir, will follow the advice.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 01:49 AM
1

Fair enough, I appreciate the relatable experience. I don't care for this guy as a friend, he was just a friend of convenience for a time and our goals in life don't align so I'm fine with never speaking to him again. Just irritates me that this causes drama in my relationship over a guy I have no interest in being involved with.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:34 AM
1

I mean fair enough but you got it wrong. I have no problem confronting him in person, I just don't really care to so I considered a message as it saves me time. Worse case in person is he tries to fight me and although I have no doubts I can take him, it would help neither me nor him so seems pointless. The other guy's advice of ignoring it seems like the way to go. I don't think it compromises my integrity as a man.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:31 AM
1

In what way does this make me a shit person? I disagree entirely but I'm curious about your reasoning.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:51 PM
2

It wasn't her idea, it was mine. She was opposed to it actually. I'll listen to the advice I was given though and not go through with it.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 07:39 PM
1

Might be worth mentioning that he lives walking distance to me so we're bound to run into him sooner or later.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:59 PM
1

Might be worth mentioning that he lives walking distance to me so we're bound to run into him sooner or later.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:59 PM
2

Can I ask what's your thoughts on LTRs? Whether you're in one currently, have been in one recently or would ever want to be in one?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:11 AM
1

A reaction is usually the sign of a wound, what irks you so much about the Red Pill ideology? I don't subscribe to it myself, I think all ideology is bad. They do have some strong points though so I'm curious what exactly you disagree on?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:56 AM
2

Not at all, I was mostly referring to their biology, not his biology. The context is he seemed a bit confused of why a lot of girls would be attracted to the drug dealers, junkies, murderers, thiefs, etc as opposed to someone more normal who would (in theory) provide them more. If you're over/underweight, socially awkward, socially isolated, etc there are some biological reasons as to why that is but most of it is your upbringing and your current environment. You can start at 300 lbs and end up …
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:57 PM
1

Realize it's not gaming you're addicted to but the emotions you get from gaming. Do you play online competitive games(i.e. LoL, Dota, CS:GO, Overwatch,etc) ? Those game not only provide you with socialization but that competitive drive that men seek. I was addicted to LoL for about 5 years and even was challenger at some point. Was much easier to quit when I reached the top and my competitive need wasn't fulfilled anymore. Realize that you can fulfil these things elsewhere and gaming is just a p…
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:56 AM
2

My thoughts on it is keep associating with generally positive people and don't associate with generally negative people. It's a good rule of thumb for most areas of life but especially with ideology. Nothing wrong with being friends with people that disagree with your views. The problem comes when they chastise you for it and refuse to hear you out and consider your viewpoints.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 09:50 PM
1

Holy moly. I'm Canadian, how much of this is law and what are the chances of a judge using reasonable judgement and siding with you? What's the best course of action for a Canadian then? Let the guy hit you, hit him a few times and walk away?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 01:16 AM
1

Are you insane?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:27 AM
1

I'm sorry but he's right. All those women do have a variety of body types, some are thin some are thicker. They are all in decent shape. I do not mean to hurt your feelings but healthy body weight and decently fit is always more attractive than overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:13 AM
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You're not necessarily wrong but IG game is huge, even better than Tinder. You can project value in a low effort way by just taking pictures/videos of your awesome life, which you should already have if you follow RP principles. Instagram is no different than real life, 80% of guys are subpar as fuck so when she gets your dm and you're a value guys, she'll notice.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:28 PM
3

I read it. Congratulations, you're an idiot.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:13 AM
1

Sperm can stay in the womb for up to five days so that's terrible advice.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:45 AM
0

If you live in a major city, you probably have an RSD Inner circle in your town. Join it and go out with them, they're guys that share much of the same views you do.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:44 AM
0

His point is pretty concrete. Stop overthinking shit and say anything that doesn't involve you directly fucking her. What's more to it?
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:40 AM
6

Pretty sure he's mostly an atheist. He believes in religion as a way to uphold values and morals but he doesn't believe in a god almighty.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:09 AM
3

Fair enough, that'd be the way to do it. Just keep an open mind, there are reasons that women make bad employees but also plenty of reasons why they'd make good ones. Don't let your business suffer because of a prejudice.
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 07:10 PM
9

Is that legal? I'm legitimately asking because I think discriminating in hiring based on sex, religion or ethnicity is illegal.
/r/MGTOW30/05/18 06:35 PM
1

But in that context foreigner is anyone that's not from Canada. Do you think he's racist against every other country in the world but Canada? I'm just not sure what your point is.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:47 AM
4

Why is that racist? He gives his reason for asking if they're from outside of Canada. Stop being a triggered cry-baby.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:24 AM
1

What could "something" possibly be that comes out of a tin can and can be passed around?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:16 AM
8

Anyone have a direct link to this? I wanna share it on FB but not with the direct r/MGTOW url lol
/r/MGTOW28/05/18 03:11 AM
3

A slut has nothing to do with being open and adventurous in bed. Being a slut means being promiscuous, sleeping with a lot of people in usually not great situations. There is a correlation between the two but they're not the same thing. Technically it means nothing to be a slut in bed, people just use the word that way. What they mean is kinky, submissive, cock hungry, w/e else. You go girl, nothing wrong with your wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 09:41 PM
0

Fucking brilliant my man, update on how it goes.
/r/seduction24/05/18 08:37 PM
6

Do you think it's different/better if they've been friends for a long time?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:16 PM
2

I'm a big fan of judge the message, not the speaker but Tom Torerro has been found to fake infields, hire girls and scam clients. Wouldn't recommend any of his paid content.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:05 AM
2

I disagree. A lot of guys need to build up the skills to be able to talk to and attract random women on the street. That "life game" where you're just on your day and consistently get with girls you just encounter needs to be built up and nothing wrong with going the sole purpose of running game to do it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:04 AM
1

But to me, that wasn't the issue. You showed weak behavior in boundary setting and any girl would've walked all over you.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:47 PM
1

You really believe a random escort has a higher chance of STDs than a random bar slut? One mostly would enforce condoms(for the most part) where the other is drunk half the time and all about the tingles.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:44 AM
1

Part of being man is realizing your control and lack there of. You're 16 living with your family for free. You have no control. Don't pick needless fights and conform for now. Also everything isn't so black and white. A smart mind is able to grab nuances. Almost half the world is Muslim, clearly there's something about it. Try to learn something from it, even if it's what not to do.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:41 AM
1

Not even, she was a super petite hot blonde. Hottest girl I've banged by far. I half expected her pussy to taste like rainbows and sunshine to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:34 AM
0

Get yourself a tribal bitch my man, when you come home and show her running water, you'll become her magic emperor God.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:37 AM
2

Interesting. What about the whole "She did X with other dudes she barely met and she won't do it with me now." The theory being that girls try all sorts of crazy things with the chads of their youth and then give vanilla sex to the husband. Do you believe in it? Care? Respect it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:23 PM
1

To what extent though? You wouldn't mind if the mother of your kids got fucked by 500 dudes before you met her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:10 PM
1

Well first of all on the daughters thing, I'm confused at how that confuses you. Who wants their daughter to fuck a lot of dudes? Ideally, she's not hideous and you don't have to hear or imagine and large number of penises going near her. On the chaste thing, you kinda invalidate your point when you assume they're all as loyal as one another. The idea is that the more men she sleeps with the less loyal she potentially is. If you disregard that, doesn't matter too much as long as she's not the wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:09 PM
1

Wouldn't get being higher in the socio-economical bracket make for less competition? If she's "poor" she's gonna be more used to that type of men and be more willing to go for them and not necessarily appreciate you standing out. If she's "richer" her options are more limited because she'd only go for higher income men and considering that niche is mostly old dudes or business oriented "geeks", you'd have less competition there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:05 PM
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I think I kinda get your point. I just don't see being dominant as being necessarily about not giving a fuck about someone. Just about having more power over them, which is not a bad thing. Are you really saying you don't see a difference with a girl going wild over you pounding her vs just seeming bored? It's that just a reaction? But to make it clear, I would just enjoy giving a girl pleasure for the sake of giving her pleasure. Just seems more fun than using her as a sex toy(although that has…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:19 PM
3

I see it the other way. She's submissive to you when you're going down on her because you're in charge of her pleasure. YOU make her cum and squirm and gasp for breath. Seems pretty dominant to me. Kind of like you're playing her body like a fiddle to get the reaction you want out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:52 PM
4

How can you tell if they blush or not? When I tried it the first time I didn't expect how full of pussy your face got. Can't really visually appreciate her reaction to it the way porn does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:50 PM
4

Have you had salty before? I've only gone down on a few girls and the latest one was really hot so I was pumped but it tasted kind of salty in an unpleasant way. Not so much that I wouldn't go down on her again just took me by surprise and turned me off slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:47 PM
1

Yeah, it's cute up to a point then becomes obnoxious really quick. I find most people(not just girls) that have that issue have some baggage. Not seriously stuff like abuse necessarily but like neglect and shit that makes them really needy.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:15 PM
1

How is that a good deal then? Don't think said brother in law will be cool with his newly virgin bride slutting around a few months after the fact. Do you know this person. Do you know whether this is a big struggle for this person at all? Regardless it's that's something that can be worked on if it was a factor. What? These are just hypothetical scenarios that regularly come up in this situation, what is TRP if not assuming future behaviour from past knowledge?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:27 PM
3

Marines are the worst guys when it comes to successful relationships. They get all the success already by being natural alphas and status of marines, why read up on all the TRP, relationship or marriage theory at all? Then their wives slut up while they're away and they don't see it coming at all, 100% surprise. I've always thought that people that need TRP the most are celebrities, athletes and otherwise guys with already high SMV. Those guys are the most likely to attract the AWALTest women ou…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:22 AM
1

You really think think marrying a virgin is a good deal? How about the feelings of shame due to being sex being wrong and only to be used as a method of procreation? Or the completely opposite where she needs to go find herself and ride the CC for a few years because she "missed out"? Or just being a prude in bed in general? Doesn't sound like a fun bag at all.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:18 AM
1

That could sound like a good idea in theory but please don't pay hookers to teach you social skills. What would that even look like? Having them pretend they're a stranger girl and have you hit on them? You think hookers have good acting skills beyond faking an orgasm? Save the money, find an RSD Inner circle in your city and go out with local guys. They won't give a fuck if you're awkward as long as you're nice. Maybe pay for a dating bootcamp(haven't tried so can't say) but definitely get out …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:15 AM
1

Please keep posting on this sub, contrasting opinions is more of what we need here. Herd mentality is good for no one.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:09 AM
2

Read more of the material here if you're still confused or angry about why that is. There are clear biological reasons why women go for that type of dude and clear biological reasons why they run from you like the plague. Knowledge and self-awareness are huge powers, use them wisely and in a few years you'll be a completely different person.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:04 AM
0

Hey man, give it a try and report back. I really dig shy girls so this helps me out too. One small step for OP, one giant step for mankind.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 09:38 AM
3

Yeah, I meant the OP. Absolutely, I'm pretty lanky so goal weight is 220. Should get pretty big without being bulky; here's to a 60 lbs bulk friend. Gonna be a long road.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:49 AM
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Nah, for sure my man is well built. I'm 6'3 and 150 lbs, no inherent respect from the height.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:43 AM
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Thank you for your comment, have you found that TRP has helped much in that regard? Would you have gotten married if you had the RP hindsight?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 07:59 PM
2

I think as long as you have solid frame and understand your friends, you're fine. I have some bluepill friends and I've gotten them to do cold approaches pretty consistently. Just don't frame it as "Pickup is life, become a red pilled PUA NOW!" more like "this is the way it works, very natural for men to approach women. Most people don't do it because they're pussies but we're here now might as well give it a go." I see it as just logic vs emotions. Men are very logical so once you can convince …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 07:23 PM
1

It's not about neurotically wondering if other people like your hobby, it's calculating the investment and return that it would give you. Fun is easy, fun + useful shit is harder.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:55 AM
3

Well sure but it's worth taking into account. If you're split between your new Magic The Gathering hobby or picking up surfing, that's an easy choice.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 02:56 AM
2

More like "You go girl, got yourself a nice atm. Better enjoy it." I don't think you should pay for stuff for a girl unless you're dating her and even then don't be an atm.
/r/seduction10/05/18 02:20 AM
3

That's very interesting actually, he straight up told you that or you deduced it? Did he have a bad job or just low ranked? And did this affect your attraction to him? Sorry for the drilling, just an interesting situation. Thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:09 AM
3

Aye, I'm mixed black and white and this is just wtf lol. I'm hoping it's a meme but even if it is it's distasteful so there's no winning here.
/r/MGTOW08/05/18 06:29 PM
1

What you learned is to give an update after the convo happens!
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:13 PM
1

I disagree with the video gaming thing. Esports fangirls are a thing now, you know?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:16 AM
1

Your dad sounds alpha as fuck, definitely hang out with him more.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:34 AM
2

I appreciate the effort you've been through writing this but you're dead wrong my friend. Cold approach is extremely effective if you do it properly, women love to be approached by dudes they find attractive in the moment, which is the key. Best way to test this out? Give them a random compliment. "Hey this is super random but you have a cool and unique style, suits you." See how they react. 90% of the time they love it, 8% are shy and don't know how to react but they love it and 2% are in a bad…
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:12 AM
1

Your intentions are good, just need to calibrate it more. Join the RSD Inner circle in your city and go out with wings so you have something to base your approaches off of. A lot of people go by the "don't shit where you eat" rule when cold approaching and I'd be in favour of it depending on the size of your campus. Cold approaching is a hard skill to master and when starting out, practicing with strangers you'll never see again is best. Everything is about frame bro. If you have the right frame…
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:02 AM
1

He's 19, do you think 19-year-old girls care if you have your own place or not? Helps but it's definitely not required.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:30 AM
2

That's complete nonsense, fuck outta here with your racial bigotry. Plenty of stupid meatheads both colored and non-colored.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:00 AM
1

Wanting to get married have a LTR doesn't mean not red pill. You can follow that path as long as you have the necessary information beforehand.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:57 PM
2

No, it's a tool. If you take that without any of the red pill knowledge you have a random gymbro waiting to turn beta first relationship he gets in. Classic story.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:56 PM
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There's an article about him getting interviewed about his relationship status where he's talking about he has a really hard time with dating and living without a relationship is a pain for him. Of course, he could get a "girlfriend"(a girl that fucks him while he pays for her shit) anytime. Getting a more serious relationship is much harder for him because he works 24/7 and is a nerd turned billionaire, super easy for him to get taken advantage of. I'll try to find the article for you. Edit: Th…
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 05:25 AM
1

Start slow. Surely they like girls but just have no idea how to get some? Bring them out to the bar or day gaming. Don't phrase it as pickup if they aren't into it, just hanging out with the bros and hit on girls in front of them and encourage them to do the same.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:20 AM
1

Fair enough. Life is a crazy thing and never really simple. All you can do is hope you're not ever dealt that hand.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 07:16 PM
1

Two things, this dude is the autistic don't listen to him. Two, why in your right mind would you ever follow her in this situation? Even it's 1% chance, what could you possibly have to gain? Block her if anything. Or just leave it pending as you mentioned earlier, no brainer.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:59 AM
3

Well no shit, if we analyze this it doesn't seem like he came out on top. What would you do if your wife got jumped in the middle of the night? 99% of men would react the same way, he was in the worst situation possible and got the worst possible outcome. That's all there is to say.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 03:14 AM
2

Is that really what we're calling out? Vows? What about the millions of people getting divorced each year? This is a complicated situation but don't call her out for breaking her vows, they mean nothing in modern day.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 03:10 AM
1

There you go, you're welcome.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:32 AM
12

You might be older, complete sentences are bad when texting younger girls. It shows too much investment and turns them off. Sounds stupid but it's true.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:28 PM
1

She doesn't sound emotionally healthy. IMO, hold your ground and don't contact her for a bit. She'll hit you back up when she's feeling more reasonable.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:26 PM
2

That's hilarious, what do you tell them when they ask what you do?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:23 PM
1

So what would be your move here? Obviously, you don't give her that control, so do you tell her no way nicely?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 11:23 PM
1

Fair enough, you have more experience in that setting than me so I'll take your word for it.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:06 PM
1

I'll just say that he had bad game and what the fuck show you his restaurant? Basically how this opener works organically is you give the cute line and then you transition into something else smoothly and keep the conversation from there. It's supposed to feel spontaneous and genuine because it mostly is as supposed to a routine.
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:52 AM
1

Here's my thought for you, I think going indirect is infinitely better if you have good game. Being able to show non-verbal is very hard at first but when you get it, it will work much better than being fully direct. With good game, you can convey intent talking about the weather.
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:33 AM
2

As with anything else, try it for yourself and see. From my personal experience, Todd is right. Being direct works on the initial interaction and the girls respond positively/gives you her number but are way more likely to flake. Tyler put it a good way in that girls respond well to emotions rising up, not necessarily being high. If you're more of a mystery and slowly get her interested, you have way better odds than getter her to feel good right off the bat but never really going anywhere with …
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:27 AM
1

Why wait? Tomorrow go say Hi to a girl. If you're feeling like a pussy, literally go up and say "Hey this is random but I thought you were cute. Have a good day!" and walk away. 90% of the time they'll smile and say some shit like "Omg thank you!" and it's good vibes all around. People are just people, how would you feel if a random cute chick came up and talked to you?
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:23 AM
1

Are you kidding me? Daygame was almost invented in London, it's been pretty widely spread throughout the UK. Try it yourself before you make up your mind about it. I'm gonna use your comment to rant, I keep seeing guys on Reddit talk about how they wouldn't cold approach because they feel like they're being rude and bothering the girls. I just wanna slap them like have you even tried it? The majority of the girls love it and are appreciative of the effort even if they end up "rejecting" you.
/r/seduction18/04/18 09:22 AM
3

LOL
/r/askTRP15/04/18 10:11 AM
1

But level 100 paladins... /s
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:26 PM
1

No, it's just something I aspired to I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 12:36 AM
2

Are you encouraging him to get married at 21?
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:02 PM
4

True but she could if she wanted to. An average girl could get a 100 notch count in two weeks, easily. No man can do so without some massive bucks.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 03:50 PM
3

They got 10 000 to choose from, can easily be 50-200.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 11:00 AM
2

Has that worked out for you?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 11:00 AM
23

Those numbers are scary as fuck lol. I know a guy that's fucked 100-200 women and at least 5 that have fucked 0. Interesting how the world works.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 10:50 AM
1

Please reply with their reply. If you get banned, I'll post there too and happily get banned in solidarity.
/r/MensRights07/04/18 10:36 AM
3

Do you think no powerplay relationships where it's just a cool couple that genuinely respects and like each other and are loyal is just a fantasy? A Holywood/Disney fairytale that never was and never will be?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 10:12 AM
1

Am I seeing something? The "death threath" is the navy seal copypasta turned into a dog version? I must've missed a picture. Reddit is a forum and he got a two-week ban off of a subforum and flipped out over it. Is it mod abuse? Perhaps. It's still a forum though, don't tell me you have legal grounds for someone banning a user on an internet forum.
/r/MensRights07/04/18 10:09 AM
2

I mean, give the guy a break. Most men embellish their stories. Cute 7s turn into 9s and ugly 4s respectable 6s. Especially if you add drink into this. We all have different likes but clearly, you don't see 9s/10s every day and definitely not a table full at a random club.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 09:25 AM
1

As a skinny guy, the munchies are so good though.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 09:45 AM
1

Which country's women did you like best?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 09:42 AM
1

Polish girls are hot as fuck, even not knowing anything about their personality. You just made me book a flight to Poland sometime in the next 10 years.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 09:42 AM
5

Think this is it.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:01 AM
3

I did a bit of Googling and I'm assuming this is what you're talking about. Thanks for the recommendation, I'll give it a watch.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:00 AM
2

I mean bro, you went into a random bar and found a bunch of random guys that told you your fiancé was basically a horny slut that they all fucked. Maybe don't exactly phrase it like that but I think anyone you tell this to would understand. You went into one random bar and found one dude and his two buddies that fucked your girl. How high do you think the number is if you take all the bars near you and everyone in general? At least 10x, if not much more. Up to you what you do with that informati…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 07:45 AM
1

Join the RSD inner circle of your city on FB. That's how I found a lot of younger guys that are into Self development, meditation, purpose, etc.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:57 AM
1

Beggars can't be choosers.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:18 AM
1

Do you find that the "nofap" helps you with hornyness? If when talking to a girl, you're just aching to take her to the bathroom and fuck her brains out, they feel it and the escalation is much more natural.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:17 AM
1

I mean, you're not wrong but you missed the context. Homeboy here probably does put girls on a pedestal but he's lacking any of his own. How can you successfully pickup girls if you don't have base core confidence? Imo forget about girls for a while and figure yourself out. Why do other guys make you feel inferior? Why don't you see any positive qualities to yourself? What's the old saying, "can't ask someone to like you if you don't like yourself." It's cliché but it applies.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:13 AM
2

Why help the friend save face? She's being a grade A shit friend and the gf should know.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 09:52 AM
3

I mean all the best brother, hopefully I get proved wrong. That's just what the behavior screams to me. Kuddos for shutting down the bitchy behavior though, that's definitely along the right track.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 02:30 AM
3

I mean, time will tell but I think OP is wrong. It might be just a short emotional outburst from his woman but asking not to be touched is a lot closer to RPAlternate42's view than "after second thought, no big deal." Once again, time will tell but I wouldn't be surprised if this turned into a deadbeadroom/shit test galore in the next few months.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 01:43 AM
3

Disagree. Not agreeing with certain choices your kids make doesn't mean you don't have unconditional love for them. As a good parent, should be a given.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:25 AM
1

You're not the brightest in the pot, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 05:46 AM
1

Ask yourself this, if she has issues she's having a hard time working through, wouldn't she want her strong, attractive man by her side? I'm not sure if they lie consciously but my ex did the same shit to me " bla bla i want to learn to be independent and solve my issues by myself," otherwise known as I'm not interested in you fucking me anymore.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 05:39 AM
8

Yeah, keep being unreactive when you get spit on and pissed on too. Physicality is the line that was crossed, spilling a drink on his head is borderline assault. Maybe not a full on fight was deserved but at least a hard shove and responding by physicality.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 05:16 AM
6

I mean, you got half a point. The only part I disagree is pouring a drink on your head like that is borderline physical assault, like getting spit on. You don't have to go all out throwing punches or anything but at least a hard shove, the bouncers will be on your side as opposed to a drunk slobbering idiot who just poured his drink on you and the floor.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 05:12 AM
1

Ouch, too real brother. I dated a girl who said I was the first of her BFs who her mother liked, she dumped me a week later.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:15 PM
2

Kinda controversial advice but I think it helps a lot, especially if you're quite anxious about your virgin status: get an escort. It'll help you realize that sex is no big deal and you there's no need to put it on a pedestal.
/r/seduction07/12/17 03:37 AM
1

Awkward wording on my part, I did mean that you need to stop being a helpless victim and start putting 100% of yourself towards your goals. To be fair, you never mentioned precisely what your goals were. Top 1% is what many would consider as elite circles, top 0.01% is evidently another ball game entirely. I think we live in a world where considerable upward movement is possible in ridiculously short time frames. Zuckerberg is an extreme example but there are thousands of self made men getting i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 10:18 PM
1

You create your own circumstances. No reason you can't penetrate those circles yourself if you put your mind to it. Never forget that we human are the most successful and resourceful predator on earth, even Billy Beta is a force to be reckoned with if he stops being helpless and fucking putting 100% of his being towards something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 09:53 AM
2

That's not how the human mind works. We compare relatively, not absolutely. The same way you don't feel rich for having more resources than a king two hundred years ago, a Chad or Stacy isn't gonna feel on cloud 9 all the time because they have more than most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 07:44 AM
1

You're thinking too small. Women will do better by default but the elite will always be male. Women lack the competitive drive and analytical mind to dominate hierarchies. It makes perfect sense because climbing social and economical structures is at the core about securing access to higher quality females, why would women be the best at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 06:34 AM
1

I don't think your specific examples will happen but you're on the right track. Women might have better social skills than men in general but the people with the best social skills are usually men. Think of the most charismatic people in history, usually politicians and other male figures. It won't be about mimicking behavior's but about subtle social nuances and dynamics most women know unconsciously but would never study and perfect to the extent only a competitive, analytical man could.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 06:32 AM
1

You omit a lot of information needed to get a full picture here. Average-looking woman, according to who? Where are you located, you can't compare the amount of attention you would get in a large metropolis like New York or LA to a small mid-west town. Do you have social activities/groups or are you the always staying home type? Do you have a decent sense of fashion? The other side of the coin that's not been addressed is plenty of guys find average girls very attractive and would love to sleep …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 09:38 PM
3

What the fuck dude. I'm so sorry, best of luck brother.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:05 AM
1

XD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 03:23 AM
1

I think the problem is not so much that you don't accomplish anything with video games, it's that people think they do. So many guys get obsessed with it and feel like they're gaining skill and actually building something when they're just spending hours gaming away, not even for fun anymore but by addiction/escapism/etc. I know because I was one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 03:15 AM
1

Where do you come across these older women? The bar milf kind or the old lady at the grocery store kind?
/r/askTRP23/07/17 09:19 PM
1

You have the right idea, but in college you should get laid using social circle skills, not necessarily cold approach. You don't need to go all out and go drinking 2-3 times a week but you should have a circle of cool dudes that you hangout with that know girls and from there you interact with them and escalate and see where that takes you.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 11:19 PM
1

As great as it sounds, this is a utopic idea about as realistic as flying pigs. Men chasing women is not a social construct of modern times, it's literally imprinted into our biology. Eggs are rare, sperm is plentiful. For sure the current state of affairs has amplified this paradigm significantly but to expect it to go away or even reserve is crazy.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 11:15 PM
1

What do you mean by the follow me date? Being like I'm doing X, you should come with?
/r/askTRP24/06/17 10:38 PM
1

Irrelevant of whether you're right or not, what's with all the negativity dude, are you okay?
/r/seduction07/06/17 12:29 AM
1

Yeah, this is definitely a legit opener.. I've used something similar myself countless times and it's gold because it implies a reason for your approach and it's no pressure. I see a lot of guys straight up using "Hi, I'm X, what's your name?" as an opener and that results in mostly wtf do you want stares unless your SMV is through the roof. One of those cases where you shouldn't give input unless you have the experience, what seems natural in your head and in person when you actually do it are …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 07:46 PM
1

Please pull up something resembling even a shred of proof that any of his stuff is fake.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 06:40 PM
1

Let it all out buddy. Good to vent once in a while. As long as you can wake up tomorrow, stfu and get to work.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 02:11 PM
0

What the fuck? Why are you even posting this then? That's like saying "My friend who's married to a 300 pound girl says appearance doesn't matter, only personality. Thoughts?"
/r/askTRP12/05/17 06:16 AM
1

Tell you what, if you start today you can literally mold yourself into whichever version of yourself you want to be in the next three years. Those three years will pass anyway, up to you what you do with them.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 06:09 AM
1

Average guys passively pulling girls? Bullshit, greek god having girls come up to him or average joe agressively pursuing a lot of girls to get laid, pick one I've never seen it happen otherwise.
/r/seduction09/05/17 05:31 AM
1

She told you literally "you need to go?"
/r/seduction09/05/17 02:32 AM
2

Yeah, that's kinda what makes it hard, differing advice. I don't know how necessary the full not masturbation is but porn is definitely cancer, cut that shit out.
/r/seduction01/05/17 09:21 PM
2

Totally, people are having trouble empathizing with this "first world problem" but it's quite a shit feeling when a girl's interest only goes down after meeting you.
/r/seduction01/05/17 08:07 PM
1

Fun fact, japanese people are racist towards other asian people as well. They consider themselves the supreme asian race and actively discriminate against other asian nations; as seen in WW2, for example, with the massive rape and murder of the chinese which they considered inferior.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 11:41 PM
2

Great detailed reply. So you suggest drinking the shake right after the workout and eat a meal right as you get home? What's a good source of high glycemic carbohydrates?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:19 AM
1

What makes you think they practiced or knew about TRP? Your odds of finding someone who actually reads the material, if you're in the US, has to be around 1/1000 dates, if even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:06 AM
2

How would you describe your single life before getting in a relationship and married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 04:42 AM
1

What? Why wouldn't AMALTbe a thing? There are very clear cut characteristics that are seen in most men just as the same is true for women with AWALT. You're right in that it is easier to differentiate men with beta/alpha characteristic than to do the same with women but AMALT is still solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 10:59 PM
5

You have a lot of great points, especially about the goal is being happy, not getting laid. I think it's dishonest to boil TRP to just that though. TRP is unique in and of itself and provides the only forum(that I know of) that lets men discuss politically incorrect things about women and all of society really. In my view, TRP boils down to this: nobody is looking out for your best interest but you. Not society, not your friends and definitely not women. In the last few decades, our culture has …
/r/ExRedPill17/04/17 10:39 PM
6

Are you into the whole alternative/punk/tattoo/piercing/colored hair chicks? I'm into all those and they're usually crazy but I love it too.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 08:01 PM
1

I doubt he payed for anything. Most likely just photoshopped the ticket page, got the video and put it on Youtube to expose her. Probably a 4chan troll. She got played like a fiddle.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 07:22 PM
1

Why would that be your goal? But if it really was, you could do it. Maximise your looks and go to places with sexually loose girls, i.e. nightclubs/parties. Won't happen instantly but it will eventually. Creepy, unattractive, financially unstable guys have been doing this every since nightclubs were invented and it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:22 PM
1

Is that not what the post showed? Back off and get her in the mood later?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:00 PM
1

True. If you're a low status guy, you can never reach Scott Eastwood's potential. But you don't need to, you can reach your own potential. You can probably imagine the stark difference between your worst possible self and your best possible self. If you reach towards your best, you will get laid guaranteed. If you reach towards your worst, you will be miserable guaranteed. Most girls do not get to fuck Scott Eastwood nor do they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:47 PM
1

No one has a right to or deserves anything. If you're a low quality man, you become a higher quality man if you want sex. The only alternative is porn. Or hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:29 PM
1

You're in the anger phase, it will past. What helped me was realizing that things have always been like this, they haven't changed recently. Hypergamy has changed the name of the game and made it harder for your average guy but female(and male) nature has been like this for thousands of years and will continue to be in the foreseeable future. If anything, by having this knowledge, you're now realistically able to manufacture the relationship that you want as opposed to being smacked with reality…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:12 PM
1

You want to get laid? Doll yourself up, dess decently and go to a popular nightclub. Guys will talk to you every single night guaranteed and they will be down to fuck you. Very rarely do guys randomly approach girls in everyday life, even really attractive ones. If you put yourself in the right environment it will happen as long as you're not disfigured.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:09 PM
1

What's your alternative? Be a beta virgin forever and die alone? You might get rejected a bunch but you will learn in the process and get results eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:04 PM
1

Human beings are attracted to positivity and repulsed by negativity. If you start to talk about how your life sucks and you wish it was better all the time anywhere else than the internet, people will gravitate away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 08:03 PM
2

Well, sure. But what if that doesn't happen to you naturally? Your two options are to die alone or learn how to make it happen. People who are naturally good at social interactions will never be great at them because they don't need to be. A system only needs to be broken down, examined and refined when it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:47 PM
1

That's exactly the point. "Game" is just social dynamics. Being good at game is just either being naturally good at it through constant exposure to uncomfortable situations when you're growing up or having to manually force yourself to get it. Most girls and guys have "game". You are totally right in that your boyfriend and yourself probably got along not because of some mystical game on his part but just because your interaction flowed naturally and you felt that spark. Most people have that ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 07:06 PM
1

Isn't that just human nature though? To always want more and better? Blaming women for being more attracted to Chad than Billy beta is like blaming children for liking sweet things, seems like wasted energy to me. Men do the exact same thing, go see the gonewild subreddit. All the top posts are gorgeous fit women, the fatties need a separate sub to get any amount of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:25 PM
1

Good points. You're right in that civilization will not fall into violence over this issue, quite the opposite actually. Porn has a huge role to play in this. When all the girls in your life pay no attention to you, you can have access to an unlimited supply of attractive women that act out your wildest and most repressed fantasies. That is enough to calm down 99.99% of bitter incels. And it's only gonna keep going that way. Are you familiar with the movie Her? A similar scenario will play out v…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:08 PM
1

I see your point but I disagree. Recently society has been pushing the whole PC/Safe space bullshit, creating this impression that society and people in general care about you and will lookout for your well being. This is why victim mentality is so prevalent, if you've been told your whole life that you're special and you should get everything you want, how can you help not be infuriated when the exact opposite happens? Of course TRP is about gender dynamics and sexual strategy for men but at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:00 PM
1

That's just an unrealistic view point. Why blame women when everyone tries to lookout for themselves? Do you go after ugly, fat, undesirable girls to be a good person? Probably not. There's no such thing as altruism in human beings and especially not in sexual relationships. All you can do is maximize your potential so you never have to eat the short end of the stick again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 05:53 PM
2

Well yeah, on Tinder... Bring that same guy to real life and good luck. If you have a hot guy that struggles to make eye contact, makes awkward gesture and doesn't know how to escale he's gonna get laid as much as a 110 lbs raid leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:56 PM
4

Very easy to laugh off uncomfortable truths. Please explain to me how you feel I'm wrong. Doubt you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:28 PM
5

Bullshit. All human interactions are transactions. You feeling good when hanging out with someone is an exchange. You having similar friends, interests and hobbies, being in a similar place in life, doing productive things together, etc are all weighted by your brain when you decide to hangout with someone/become friends with them. Human beings only associate with one another when it's convenient for them. If your best friend developed an incurable disease that made her/him and everyone around s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:49 AM
2

Isn't capitalism great? Our society will literally fuck every single one of us for profit. There could be a cure for cancer and it could realistically be buried because it wouldn't be good for shareholders of medical/insurance companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:46 AM
2

I don't see how an attractive socially awkward guy would get a date. Considering you have to ask a girl out, that makes it much harder than being asked out, how is it even comparable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 04:07 AM
3

I think you're confusing alpha vs just agressive deadbeat guy. There's some correlation but definitely not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 02:56 AM
1

Really, you've never wanted kids? That's so strange to me but respect for committing to it straight up.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 10:30 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP03/04/17 10:25 PM
2

She clearly was down to make out with him right then and there, if not straight up fuck him in the back alley.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 10:00 PM
12

There's also evidence to show that over stimulation at a young age literally causes ADHD in people. Combine the porn with video games, movies, etc which in this society you start getting exposed to before 5 usually, and you got a recipe for brain chemistry fiasco.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 07:02 PM
1

Do you live in Colorado/Washington that you can specific strains of weed legally? I also think there might be some use to use it productively instead of only recreationally but playing hockey when high is a new one to me. I'd assume you smoke more CBD concentrated stuff so you're not high out of your mind on the ice?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 07:22 AM
1

What's wrong with you? You literally hang out with people who insult you and disrespect you and somehow try to spin it as learning about game? What the fuck? That's like getting beat up repeatedly and trying to argue you're learning how to fight. If you have even 1% self respect, you'll never talk to these people again.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 04:28 AM
1

Do you feel like it's worth it? I get it, if there's psychological warfare to be had, better win than lose. But why hang around people like that?
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:47 AM
1

Because older rich men have a lot of value so they attract models where as old rich women sounds enticing to about no one?
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:40 AM
3

I don't think it's about the likelihood if it happening, it's about his girl be willing to let it happen under the right circumstances. He saw it as clear as day, the mere sight of that dude made her wetter than he can get her. Don't get me wrong, it's not a reason to get bitter or butt hurt about it. But clearly reinforces the idea that she's not yours, it's only your turn.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:38 AM
1

Tell you what, if you're not ready to dump her, try this as an experiment. See how long she goes without contacting you without you saying anything to her. I mean, you already said she's gone cold on you the whole day, that already paints a picture but see how long she goes.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:29 AM
3

That sounds about right. But in a world where the closest thing most people get to serving together is playing Call of Duty Co-op, how do you simulate those hardships?
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:14 AM
6

What? You're imploring her to spend time with you? If anything that situation should be reversed. You can't negotiate attraction, if your girl doesn't like spending time with you, next.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:12 AM
40

Holy fucking shit, you can't make this shit up. At least 90% of guys had the decency to tell her to fuck off or ignore her, that's at least something.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:01 PM
1

Man I mean this with all the love in the world but I think you might be on the spectrum/have Aspergers. Literally everyone in this thread was on your side and saying he's a cuck and you should just nope out of that situation for your own safety but you're misconstruing it as siding with him somehow? Best of luck buddy.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 05:31 AM
1

I sort of agree with your point but I would argue that spending your time flipping burgers/any shit job is prostituting your life, I don't know if that's any better than prostituting your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 10:08 PM
1

You clearly flipped out over a 7 word comment on the internet man and you're trying to beta shame him in return... Not to say he's right either but your stoicism is clearly lacking.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:31 AM
1

Clear boundaries are important but really, you don't think this was clearly implied? If your friend hangs out with a girl and fucks her, you don't go out with her, get drunk with her and get her into your bed to make-out(probably fucked her too but it's irrelevant), that's just fucked up. I would go the opposite way, unless you've previously discussed that you don't mind him doing this, him doing that is him being a thirsty beta at best and clearly disrespecting you at worst.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:06 PM
4

I would change rooms if you can and never speak to this piece of shit again. He's your best friend in the same way a cancerous tumor is your best friend for sticking with you.
/r/seduction03/03/17 08:38 PM
1

It's a cool idea but I'm pretty sure there's a 0% chance of that working. If you're at the point of breaking the contract, you've already depleted your willpower and adding another notch on your shame will be the natural conclusion.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:38 PM
3

How much porn do you watch and how often do you wank it? That has a huge effect on your sex drive and your lust to fuck every attractive female you come across.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 10:03 PM
2

Link? Sources? Don't call him out for lying if you can't provide anything to back it up.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 10:38 AM
5

Still plugged in buddy, shame.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:02 AM
0

What? Older males are basically by default higher SMV than youger ones. You can take it to the extreme and of course a 20 year old would rather date another 20 year old than a 40-60 but all things equal, she'll take the 25 year old every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 01:23 AM
-1

Any particular reason? If the wife is attractive I see no reason not to.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 01:47 AM
1

What? Bro just meditate, lift, read books and approach girls you find pretty and life will fall into place for the most part, not really complicated.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 10:00 AM
2

Why would you marry someone that's part of the 50% most unattractive girls you've fucked?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 02:51 AM
2

Great post man, I'm glad you wrote it out, fleshed out your points a lot better than your other one. I'm gonna challenge a few points and expand on some of my ideas, curious to hear your thoughts. I think we're going into an unprecedented and fascinating age. Men both have more than competition than ever and more opportunities than ever. If you follow the red pill path and focus on building an exciting life for yourself, a great career, fit body and abundance mentality in regards to women, you'l…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:44 PM
2

Where did your smarts/creativeness come from if not from some other figure that was more knowledgeable than you?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 12:53 AM
1

That's not what AWALT means at all, you're just projecting your own experiences/thoughts on it. AWALT is self explanatory. It means that all women are programmed to follow their biological and psychological imperatives. Doesn't mean all women are the same or are all useless or are all basic bitches, etc. It's a law because it encompasses all. You just just as easily make up AMALT and it's be 100% accurate as well. You believe most men are good conversational partners that can offer value? That's…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 12:51 AM
1

Do you have status within your niche though? Do you stand out as the coolest guy there to the girls that come in? Girls are very in the moment, if you seem to have a solid frame and own whatever situation you're in, that's status in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 04:55 AM
4

I think the point is both. Most people have become so indolent that the information they can find a google search away might as well be a light year away.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 04:26 AM
1

So your point is not based on providing any valuable information or discussion on the content but just in insulting the poster? You have made yourself clear. Clearly useless.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 02:25 AM
1

No worries my man. If it means anything to you, I found your story inspiring. I always viewed college as either a boring study grind fest or an expensive party-girls-drugs fest and neither of those particularly appeal to me. It's refreshing to see a more balanced perspective, a successful mix of the two is something I can get behind.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 01:01 AM
2

Do you believe the guys not going to college are doing any better than the ones who are though? I'm sure a lot of them are starting their own businesses or going into trades and they're gonna do great but is that really anywhere close to the majority?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 10:51 AM
2

Boys, chill out here. Red pill isn't about women, it's about solid frame and both of you lost it here. It's fine, you live you learn. Hug it out and move on brothers <3
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 10:49 AM
2

Boys, chill out here. Red pill isn't about women, it's about solid frame and both of you lost it here. It's fine, you live you learn. Hug it out and move on brothers <3
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 10:48 AM
2

Are you really saying that you wouldn't mind dating a girl who has been used as a cum dumpster by dozens of guys before you? Fair enough who gives a fuck if they're a plate but a lot of us here would like LTRs and in that situation, gross seems like a pretty accurate way to describe the case above.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 06:16 AM
1

I like your ideas, although I can't see myself converting myself to anything or even getting married in the current system, but I'd really like to have kids. Do you think such a thing is possible?
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:50 AM
0

Hey man, remember, if you cared that much then it was the universe's way of helping you out before your attachment fucked you over.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:08 AM
-1

LOL
/r/askTRP26/12/16 09:58 AM
7

Why did you start your sentence as if you were gonna disagree with him and then agree with his point?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 07:09 AM
2

If your frame is so weak that being seen with certain a gay roomate makes people assume you're gay, that's on you buddy.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 06:03 PM
1

Lol if you go get a drink and you see your girl smiling and flirting with some guy, you should go back to the back to the bar and buy him a drink for saving you the trouble of dating a CC rider.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:17 PM
1

Wtf sort of blue pill rationalization is that? Enjoy getting shot up and burried because some retard got emotional and your ego got in the way of protecting yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:15 PM
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Bingo. The frame is the base. If you're okay in any situation and can adapt to whatever life throws at you, that IS your frame(and probably the strongest one you can have.)
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 09:24 AM
1

Although you make a point, I think it's important to realize its the same thing. Regardless of your team being from a smaller town and being a more tight knit identity, it's still sheepish bullshit over something that will do nothing for you. If you realize that though, nothing wrong with enjoying it a bit once in a while especially if you do so in the company of loved friends/family.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 08:53 AM
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I like to think it's not so much about the act itself but the person you're experiencing it with. You can travel by yourself and it's fine, it's fun. If you travel with someone you really care for and like, it's like going on an adventure together where you discover new places and cultures and it's amazing. Just like you can put your dick in a wet hole and it's fine/fun but not amazing.
/r/seduction10/12/16 02:21 AM
1

I'd like to think that TRP has evolved to be much then that. It's a place for men to discuss how to be their physical and mental best and on such a path women usually follow.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 04:03 AM
2

Wouldn't that make for an even more interesting read? A man who's been around all the pickup legends(and might be considered one himself), "mastered" women/dating but still decided to settle down in marriage. Even if you don't agree with his choices, just seeing his perspective would increase yours tremendously.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 09:48 AM
1

Bro, you're letting your hamster run wild. Lets not get PC offended here, Indians have it harder on the western dating market. That's a fact. Men should be about facts over feelings. If you're indian, who gives a fuck. Still go out and crush it like the pimp you are, own your reality eitherway. It'll be harder but why would you want it easy anyway?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 08:14 PM
1

Would highly recommended the ones with Stefan Molyneux. He's a modern philosopher who ends up being very aligned with RP values and his insights are fascinating.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 06:40 PM
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I feel like the arching point is not the gender pronouns (which are ridiculous, lets not kid ourselves) but the legislation. If you self identify as a teapot and you'd prefer to be addressed as such, I got no problem with that. When you make it a criminal offense for me to refuse to do so, that's when you fall into dangerous territory.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 06:34 PM
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I mean fair enough but the general point makes sense. Beauty is not a trait that was necessary for males for survival. It's only now become "important" because of mainstream media. Women have been conditioned to want a sexy man, they aren't genetically predisposed to it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 05:29 AM
2

In what way do you consider it ridiculous? It contradicts the popular narrative but seems pretty self explanatory to me.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 10:31 AM
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Video games are the biggest trap of this generation. Especially multiplayer competitive games. They artifically fufill a man's drive to compete and better himself while flooding his brain with dopamine so he feels like he's actually accomplishing something and making progress in an area of life. Why do you think there are no women in professional gaming? Societal norms? Gaming culture being negative towards women? No. It doesn't go in line with their psychology. That's why all decent female pro …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 09:26 PM
2

What about your life mission/purpose? Did you push it to the side or did it convert to raising daughters you can be proud of
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:15 AM
1

I like your ideas. Whats some of your go-to fun things to do with girls?
/r/askTRP14/11/16 02:48 AM
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Aye. IMO it'd be hard to find a confident RP dude with a solid frame that plays games regularly but there's no reason why it couldn't be done.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 02:46 AM
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I disagree. Definitely approach while you're still working on yourself, just don't be outcome dependant and take it as practice.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 08:43 PM
1

You make a great point. It is hard, really hard. No matter what though, you have to do it if you want to ever meet the best version of yourself. There's no other option.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:26 PM
1

You're so unconscious its almost beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 10:00 AM
1

Very interesting insights, thank you for having the guts to post this! This community has a lot of potential and needs this kind of diverse content to fall away from the bigotry we see from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 11:37 PM
1

I was reading this on my phone earlier and I read one of your comments about you not being able to understand your parents and your psychiatrist told you not to worry about that. I lost the comment so I'll just make a general reply. I disagree. I think it's very important to understand, if only for the sake of your own growth. Society evolves under certain paradigms, which most individuals never question and they keep perpetuating them and it then becomes true for everyone. One most people on TR…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 04:39 AM
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Nah bro, fuck the downvoters. I don't know if it was worth calling out the OP but I'm upvoting for having the balls to backup your comment.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 04:37 AM
5

Amen, I get three matches a week if I'm lucky.
/r/seduction12/09/16 01:45 AM
1

Where abouts in Asia did you encounter such pleasures?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 08:19 PM
2

RSK represent?
/r/seduction14/08/16 05:38 PM
1

RemindMe! One Year
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:58 PM
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Perhaps a better way to phrase it would be "nobody will put your personal interests over theirs." Sometimes those interests align and you can have great relationships with people who will truly care about your well being. The mistake lies in thinking these friends or family members will ever considering your well being as more important as theirs. That's just silly.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:38 PM
2

Do you have any insight on how to prevent perfectionism? It's hindering me in a lot of aspects, game being only the tip of the iceberg.
/r/seduction14/06/16 09:12 PM
1

I mean this in the least insulting way possible but your issue is mental illness, not an innate of discipline or will power. There's an enormous social stigma of mental illness in contemporary western society and it's ruining a lot of people's lives. Spending years thinking you're facing the same issues as everyone else and for some reason, you're just unable to push through them because of a lack of self-discipline or accountability will destroy one internally.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 01:39 AM
1

I would love to hear how you integrate LoL in pickup. I was challenger for a while and from my experiences, chicks don't dig elo.
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:02 AM
2

XD 10/10
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:44 AM
1

Watch RSD Tyler's video. He talks about himself having autism/asperger, how it affected him and how he overcame it.
/r/seduction16/03/16 10:30 PM
1

Solid stuff man, well put together.
/r/seduction06/03/16 05:48 AM
1

Have a link to that video?
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:52 AM
1

Do you have a link to it?
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:51 AM
1

Well, fuck you.
/r/seduction23/04/12 06:32 AM
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''Thank you.''
/r/seduction25/01/12 03:33 AM
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