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| 12 | How to prepare for divorce and custody battle? | Marriage/Children | Lianides | /r/MensRights | 25/09/20 07:56 PM |
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| 1 | MALE ABUSE IN MARRIAGE? WHY AN ABUSIVE WIFE IS NO LAUGHING MATTERDespite the shit I put up with, I still somehow love her, or at least the moments where I recognise the woman I married. Plus we got kids in the picture, so if I want out, I won't risk losing the kids or leaving them to fend for themselves in that environment. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/24 08:46 AM |
| 3 | MALE ABUSE IN MARRIAGE? WHY AN ABUSIVE WIFE IS NO LAUGHING MATTERSo story time. My wife who has a history of abusive behaviour towards me got a bit angry at my on Saturday because I didn't want to have sex with her after she drank two bottles of wine that evening. This kicked off an argument about how I clearly don't love her, how I don't know what I'm talking about, how I'm controlling (for apparently not wanting to have sex with her while she is drunk) Then after a while she pushed and hit me a few times. When I told her that she is hurting me, she asked if… | /r/MensRights | 08/04/24 05:03 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone had a friend who turned out to, truly, commit DV?An interesting point on this is that statistically men will only start reporting after experiencing 27 incidents of abuse. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/24 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone had a friend who turned out to, truly, commit DV?Sounds about right. I reported my wife to the police after she threw a glass at me which cut up my leg when it broke. I ended up being threatened with arrest despite being very obviously the victim | /r/MensRights | 14/03/24 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Grant Thornton’s gender pay gap favours womenYeah I did not get the 28 days parental leave when I worked there. The week before the baby I was sent to a client 4 hours away and had to leave early on the Friday as my wife went into labour, then two weeks later after my paternity leave was done got sent to another client 4 hours away for two weeks. The wife was not pleased! | /r/MensRights | 04/03/24 08:35 PM |
| 4 | What would your response to “not all men, but always men” be?Just ask them why no-one is talking about the real issue. "All rapists and domestic abusers regardless of gender are birthed and raised by woman? " | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 09:27 AM |
| 6 | How do you think male victims of domestic violence, or female crime in general, would be treated under a total feminist government?Pretty much how I have been treated by my in-laws, the church, the kids school and the police themselves AFTER I called the police following my wife throwing me with a class and ending up with cuts on my legs. (Not the first time either, and not the first police report) Question 1: What did you do to her to force this response? Question 2: What are you going to change about your behaviour to not get attacked again? Question 3: How can we keep your attacker and kids safe from you, the victim? | /r/MensRights | 08/10/23 10:26 PM |
| 78 | Weird Accusation!!!In my totally unbiased and uninformed opinion. Young boys do tend to lie in regards to their own prowess or achievements. Because young boys try to improve their standing by trying to impress others through their fictional exploits. Young girls tend to lie more to put others down. Because girls try to improve their social standing by dragging others down. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 07:48 AM |
| 2 | UK official web site. “The gender pay gap does not show differences in pay for comparable jobs. Unequal pay for men and women has been illegal for 45 years.”You could also read it as: Men have to work harder and longer jobs to give women the choice to work part time. Men have to sacrifice time with their families so that woman don’t have to work full time | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 07:39 AM |
| 9 | Reddit today is full of posts from husbands and fathers who’s wives shafted them on Father’s DayHonestly, this is minor in comparison with what I have put up with in the past. This year she at least acknowledged (kinda) that it was father’s day. The last two years there hasn’t even been that. The worse thing she does relates to our birthdays. Her bday is on the 12th and mine 13th. For the last three years she hasn’t even gotten out of bed while recovering from celebrating her bday. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/23 03:09 PM |
| 35 | Reddit today is full of posts from husbands and fathers who’s wives shafted them on Father’s DayAll I asked for was a hand made card from my two kids. Instead I got a “Did you say happy fathers day to your dad” from wife. In return I had to make breakfast for the kids while wife slept off a hangover. Walked the wifes dog. Mowed the lawn. Got in two arguments with wife where she picked a fight over nothing. Made dinner for the family. And then she acted surprised and upset when she asked how my day was and I responded with “Disappointing” This all after my wife complained about my lack of e… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/23 01:04 PM |
| 19 | Boys get lower grades at school for the same performance.Hardly surprising if they get lower grades for the same performance | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 11:27 PM |
| 19 | Mean girls: Half of misogynistic tweets are sent by women, study showsYou might think your comment makes you sound smart. But the reality is, the media and feminist groups would have you believe that Men are the cause of misogyny, instead this points out that, when it comes to twitter, Woman are more misogynistic then men, and to address the issue, more focus should be placed on educating woman and men and not just focussing on demonising men. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 08:58 AM |
| 10 | Men are 57% of all rape victims and women are most of their rapists, per CDC data. Feminist propaganda about rape is false.Basically due to the me too movement where it became fashionable to be a rape victim Note, I am against rape in forms, but that movement did way more harm to actual rape victims | /r/MensRights | 27/04/23 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Eleanor Williams: False rape claims have 'caused harm' to survivorsUp front, I only read the headline, so my comment just based on that. I agree the false rape claims have ‘caused harm’ to survivors. The true victims now face a much tougher time getting justice. And guilty perpetrators have an easier time making the police doubt the victim. Ironically it is an issue caused by woman against woman. The flip side is, it has caused immeasurable damage to the victim of the false claims, the number of suicide’s due to false claims is truly heartbreaking. And not enou… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 09:11 AM |
| 6 | I feel like shitYou don’t need to get a grip dude. You just need to vent and someone else to bat your corner. People all have opinions on how others should live their life, but it’s all irrelevant. You have to do what’s best for you and your kid, no-one else | /r/MensRights | 16/03/23 07:19 PM |
| 9 | Spanish husband is ordered to pay his ex-wife £180,000 for 25 years of unpaid houseworkThere is an easy solution, counter sue for 25 years of unpaid rent, utilities and food | /r/MensRights | 08/03/23 07:59 AM |
| 12 | Men, have you had the conversation about 'your fair share of chores'?I have this argument regularly. But also it is usually related to money. I work full time, make breakfast for the family every day, dinner twice a week, all outdoor chores, clean up after HER dog and cat, manage the home finances and bills. She doesn’t work, she drops kids off at school, goes to the gym everyday, gets back around 11am and takes the dog for an hour walk, then shower, then about 12:30 she will actually do a load of laundry or two and the 14:30 leaves the home to pick up kids and m… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/23 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesI was circumcised as a baby. It has always bothered me. In South Africa, circumcision among white people s very rare, so I stood out from all my friends. When my two boys were born, my wife wanted them circumcised because she thought it looked better. I asked her what her response to me would be if I suggested we gave our baby girl (if we had one) labiaplasti to trim down her labia. Apparently that is completely different according to her 🤷🏻♂️ Anyway, I refused to let my kids get circumcised, i… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 10:37 PM |
| 182 | I no longer put my demographic information as white heterosexual male whenever I'm asked for equal opportunity data, as it is used against me and prevents my equal opportunity.As a white South African, I have put down ‘African’ if the option is available | /r/MensRights | 08/01/23 10:25 PM |
| 8 | Circumcision is unfair.Yeah fairly certain that is an urban myth. Not to say that a doctor can’t botch it, but more likely for cutting too deep rather than too much skin | /r/MensRights | 06/01/23 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Study finds women are most empathetic.. women immediately prove study incorrect.Just look at your next morning rush hour commute. Who is driving the car that will give you a space. Who is the one holding the elevator door, who is holding the door? Who will help their neighbour defrost their front windscreen. All these things are mostly done by men in my experience. And I know my wife will never let another driver go ahead of her in rush hour and she will argue with me for doing it. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Help please! TRO out of nowhere.Thanks, guess I should have just googled that myself before asking 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/MensRights | 28/12/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Help please! TRO out of nowhere.Don’t suppose you know of an app that can do that recording thing do you? I’ve used the iphone voicenotes one, but the screen sometimes ends up showing the ‘active’ recording which puts me off | /r/MensRights | 28/12/22 12:38 PM |
| 6 | Women know their reaction to men doing anything is 10000x harsher than women doing anything.. and people will literally censor people who call it out..One thing I have noticed is the amount of articles of female teachers engaging in sexual activity with school boys compared with the inverse | /r/MensRights | 28/12/22 12:04 PM |
| -12 | Thank you, GoogleSeriously, you are comparing answers to two different questions. Not saying the same question would give more reasonable answers, but as it stands you are comparing apples to oranges and getting upset because they are different | /r/MensRights | 27/11/22 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Woman teams up with 2 thieves to rob her male partner. The two male thieves go to jail, she gets a suspended sentence.No idea why you got downvoted, you just showed good researching skills and not just jumping onto the hype train. Something people in this sub accuse the feminist subs of all the time ironically. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/22 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Woman teams up with 2 thieves to rob her male partner. The two male thieves go to jail, she gets a suspended sentence.I fully understand everyone’s opinion here. But from reading the article, it appears that the men had a previous history with the courts, therefore, understandable that their punishment would be harsher. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 09:13 AM |
| 32 | Pro-circumcision people: what would change your mind?Circumcised dad of two uncircumcised boys. I am completely against it for non-medical reasons, I’ve spent my years as a child always being shy about being different to my non circumcised friends and as an adult will always wonder if I am missing out on anything. While discussing with my wife, her justification for wanting to get it done was because it looks better to her. Not a good enough reason, especially when I pointed out that if we had a girl next, would she be ok with getting labia plasti… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 06:12 AM |
| 4 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseIt’s saying that having sex comes with certain risks and responsibilities. If you can’t handle them, then you probably aren’t mature enough to be having sex, especially not unprotected sex | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseShe had a choice, she chose to have sex. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Happy Father's DayHappy Fathers day all. Unfortunately for me this is now third year in a row that no-one at home have even acknowledged, granted kids are only 6&5 but the wife just spent the day chilling in bed while I get up and look after kids | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Dangerously based 👌👌Pretty much my biggest fears summed up | /r/MensRights | 17/03/22 01:25 PM |
| 12 | Man start livingWell as a species we are genetically programmed to not ignore them for one (speaking as a whole, yes there are exceptions to everything I know) Secondly, just as ‘not all men are bad’ can you apply the same logic to woman ’not all woman are bad’. In fact apart from my wife (marital troubles at the moment), I actually get on with all the other woman I have interactions with on a day to day basis. That being said, if I was to get a divorce, it will be a good long time before I enter into another r… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 10:16 AM |
| -3 | Help me understand why, in this day and age, Paternity leave still pales in comparison to Maternity leaveYep, what you say is true, but you have to remember, maternity leave is not just about looking after baby, it is also about looking after the recovering mother from the traumas associated with pregnancy, childbirth and life having a new born. I agree fathers def need more, I only got two weeks which isn’t nearly fair or enough, but to suggest that it should be EQUAL all the time is just not right. In your situation I imagine the mother wasn’t fit to be the mother, so it would be the exception ra… | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 03:36 PM |
| 26 | Discussion: Not all menYep I know, it is a sad state of affairs that people could contemplate committing such atrocities against anyone let alone their own families. But the point being made isn’t wether it happens or not, rather to show that those stupid counter arguments against the ‘not all men are evil’ is just that, stupid. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 03:29 PM |
| 69 | Discussion: Not all menIf you feel really vindictive, suggest that they are guilty by association or even complicit by not keeping woman away from their male family members when they now know one of the three is a rapist 🤣 | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 02:56 PM |
| 151 | Discussion: Not all menThe cake analogy suggests that 1 in 3 men are bad/rapists. So ask them, if you have a son, dad and granddad, then by their standards one of those three is a rapist. Does that mean they are now unwilling to trust any male family member ever again simply for being male? | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.Sure. I actually have two boys, 6 and 4. When we were looking for childminders (preschool in UK is from like 2/3 and can be quite expensive, so we send them to a childminder that is like a day sitter) I was quite happy for my wife to do the leg work and get a shortlist to look at, but I wanted to sit in on any meetings we had with them before agreeing to it. We spoke with 3 ladies, 2 of which I had no issues with. But the one I really did not like, she just gave me the creeps and the way she spo… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.I fully agree, it is wrong, no denying it. There is a reason that boys can only drive, have sex, drink, join the army etc... until much later and it is because they are still developing. They don't understand the full ramifications of their choices etc... But my point is specifically from the perspective of the 13 year old me, where I was still developing. At that point I would have seen myself as lucky, because I would not fully be understanding of the full ramifications of the deed, not just t… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.Firstly sorry about the 'head out of your ass comment' that was a uncalled for. But gender has some bearing, given men and woman experience puberty differently simply due to the hormones involved. Hence the very accurate generalization that teenage boys are obsessed with sex. With this in mind, a 13 year old boy, would be much more interested in sex than a 13 year old girl is likely to be. Now at 13 for most boys, the only exposure to sex they get, is via published materials where the models are… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 03:14 PM |
| 0 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.I think the gentleman protests too much. Do you have any idea how stupid you sound by intentionally completely missing the point that I am making? Did I at any time glorify pedophilia? Did I at any time glorify rape? Did I at anytime say that having sex when not in the mood is fun? It's like you are over compensating for something here. You stand there and throwing a bunch of crap into a discussion that no-one is talking about. I don't particularly care about my opinions being validated or not, … | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.Honestly I feel like the negative comments are just idiots lying to themselves and looking to pick a fight rather than be honest and admit, they were also horny little shits. For clarity when they respond here. I’m still not saying what she did was ok Edit: forgot to mention, girls actually hit puberty before boys, it’s just our systems get flooded by testosterone which is what causes our excessive sexual desires | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 01:02 PM |
| 0 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.I’m assuming you are a guy, but correct me if I’m wrong. But do you want to tell me honestly, that at 13 when you were sneaking looks at xxx websites or daddies private magazines you weren’t fantasising about that 20 odd year old model or the 18 year old centerfold? Again, at no point am I saying what she did was ok, but get your head out of your ass. I agree 13 year olds do not know what they would get themselves into and what the repercussions would be, hence why the age of consent isn’t 13. B… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 01:00 PM |
| -3 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.Sex as a 13 year old not enjoyable? Granted for the other person it probably isn’t given it lasts 20seconds and you have no clue what you are doing, but still it’s SEX! (I am making the assumption the hot teacher didn’t tie them up in a dungeon and sodomised them with a 12inch monster dildo, but in my defence, I think that is a fairly safe assumption) | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 12:51 PM |
| 0 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.The odds are he did consent, but as others rightly point out. He is a 13 year old kid, he has no real clue what he is consenting to other than fulfilling a fantasy. That is why it is wrong. Note, I have never said that what happened was right or appropriate, in fact I stress that it is wrong. But I point out, that from the perspective of a horny 13 year old, it does sound great. As a grown up, do I regret not being raped by my teacher? Of course not! But as a 13 year old that literally only thou… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.I was just being honest. You really want to tell me that you didn’t fantasise about getting lucky as a 13 year old? As a 13 year old I had a teacher I had a massive crush on and would certainly enjoyed getting laud by her, or anyone for that matter. Hence why I can appreciate it from the point of view of a 13 year old. Don’t you remember how awesome it was to see your first set of breasts in real life? From the perspective of a grown up, a dad, a man with some life experience now. I can see that… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 09:04 AM |
| -10 | Saw this post on r/dankmemes. I normally don’t post on these kind of subreddits but I had to speak out against it. Half of the comments were glorifying the event as if it’s “sexy” for a young boy to be raped. They were thankfully downvoted but the fact that people think this at all is frightening.It is rape yes. That woman deserves to go to jail yes. She took advantage of vulnerable children yes. But those comments make a valid point, a lot of guys would have been stoked to be in his position, me included. Just because the act is a crime and bad and deserves punishment, doesn’t mean it can’t be enjoyable for the victim. To clarify, if someone did it to my sons then I will move heaven and earth to get them sentenced for ad long as possible, but I can appreciate it from the perspective of … | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 08:08 AM |
| 2 | The taliban are basically lowering their chancesCompletely offtopic, but did he predict the toilet paper shortage as a result of lock down? | /r/MensRights | 22/08/21 07:32 AM |
| 2 | How to prepare for divorce and custody battle?Thanks for the help. I’ll start documenting things properly and then just write up past events as a establishing a pattern of behaviour | /r/MensRights | 26/09/20 08:37 AM |
| 3 | How to prepare for divorce and custody battle?Thanks for the detailed reply. It is much appreciated. So just to check, if i have a picture on my phone from the last time she threw a glass at me and it cut my foot, is it worth less because 1. It isn’t time stamped and 2. I treated it myself and didn’t go to the doctor? | /r/MensRights | 26/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Teacher Sentenced To 3 Years In Prison For RAPING Her 8th Grade StudentYay a kindred spirit! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/01/19 03:23 PM |
| -2 | Teacher Sentenced To 3 Years In Prison For RAPING Her 8th Grade StudentAm i the only dude here thinking how lucky the guy is to be screwing a teacher at 14? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/12/18 06:49 PM |
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