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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Silence during a date Well first of all relax man, take a deep breath and let the chat flow I was NERVOUS as hell when I first talked to some girl a few weeks ago, trying to make an impression and be good to her, but then when I got her attention, invited her somewhere else and it was clear we had good chemistry she JUST WOULDN’T SHUT UP (it sounds like I say this aggressively, I don’t, I loved hearing her talk) The chat was interesting, our values and hobbies matched and she just let out so much that I just needed t…	/r/seduction	29/10/22 05:57 PM
2	Silence during a date But you don’t mention “natural” silences, you mentioned it getting awkward immediately and you not knowing what to say That doesn’t seem like a “we have chemistry, chat is good but there are natural silences” It sounds to me like “no one knows what to say” uncomfortable silences	/r/seduction	29/10/22 05:34 PM
1	Silence during a date I think his only work if there’s already chemistry between them two, by what OP is describing there isn’t much to say and there’s a nervous awkward feel in the air to the date I don’t think staring or creating sexual tension is gonna work if they don’t already have chemistry, which it seems they don’t	/r/seduction	29/10/22 05:32 PM
5	I don’t have my own place, how to get invited back to hers? Motel	/r/seduction	29/10/22 05:06 PM
1	How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me? By making this a reality OUTSIDE of dating first, then having it translate into dating Save money, lots of money, you can buy nicer clothes, phone, amenities (not that materialism matters, but financial security makes you relaxed) Get jacked, get to a point where you KNOW you’re goddamn attractive physically Do your hair/ wear nice clothes, style your beard, get lean, ultimately try to look your absolute best, not because you want to attract mates but because you OWE to yourself to look your bes…	/r/seduction	29/10/22 05:06 PM
1	[deleted by user] I don’t think the general outline of your standards is too high or unreasonable, I just think you need to make some adjustments and be realistic about what you’re looking for and where For example, introverted, why? You mention you had an introverted ex and not gonna do that again, but I will guess what you REALLY don’t like it attention seeking, hoe-y behavior, trying to be the protagonist or be the spotlight in every situation, these are annoying “extrovert” traits, but being extrovert on itse…	/r/seduction	29/10/22 04:56 PM

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