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Co-workers and friends can also want to be around people and talk to them without wanting to have sex with them. Please don't be freaks and weirdos about this if possible. I was talking specifically about women who you barely know in a social setting. When you've talked to people for a significant amount of time there are far more indicators about their feelings towsrds you than proximity. Please don't sexually harass your co-workers.
/r/seduction03/10/25 12:04 AM
-43

I don't think you'll ever be in a position to make that distinction but good for you for aiming high.
/r/seduction02/10/25 11:53 PM
8

There is only one sign that women find you attractive: They make excuses to be around you and talk to you. That's it. It's really, really obvious. Even you'd pick up on it if it was happening to you. But it isn't. Because you are a repulsive void of anxious energy and uncertainty. Everything else is losers writing fan fiction about things they think they see to soothe their ridiculous ego.
/r/seduction02/10/25 11:46 PM
107

Can you imagine the type of woman that would be impressed by that?
/r/seduction02/10/25 11:33 PM
-1

No, I don't have success messaging women I don't know on social media, because I don't do that, because I have a rich and full life full of people and cool things.
/r/seduction02/10/25 09:02 PM
1

You're on a date. You don't need to be feeling her up to build attraction. She finds you physically attractive enough. That's why she's on a date with you. She's now trying to figure out if you're going to put her in a hole under a bridge. Now, assuming I'm correct and she IS worried about an unsocialised sexually violent lunatic hurting her, what impression do you think she'll get if you start trying to immediately feel her up in public?
/r/seduction02/10/25 08:58 PM
0

Yeah maybe I bet that will work out well he should try it. I know when I get exactly the result I'm after I immediately do the exact opposite 'just to see'. It's normal to think and behave like that.
/r/seduction01/10/25 11:05 PM
-2

Why? You're been to a night club once and exactly that happened.
/r/seduction01/10/25 10:58 PM
1

So you had success while having fun unrelated to women and you're currently batting 1000 but you want to make things go EVEN FASTER AND BETTER this time and you think the best way to ensure this is to solicit the opinion of internet psychos on seduction forums? Cool man good luck I expect extreme levels of success.
/r/seduction01/10/25 10:41 PM
1

'Hi, I've had the worst day and I'm in a terrible mood. I'd much rather meet you in a more positive frame of mind. Would a raincheck til x or y work for you?'
/r/seduction01/10/25 10:16 PM
65

Thinking. Thinking and flirting are incompatible. It's a snowball of vibes based on the unique chemistry between two people. Trying to 'do flirting' is as close to the literal opposite of flirting as you can get. Hahaha it's like a Chinese finger trap for the socially disabled.
/r/seduction01/10/25 09:54 PM
2

Yeah I don’t think this guy got this tip from women. You could make this the working title of this subreddit.
/r/seduction01/10/25 09:11 PM
2

It is, in fact, really bad to start molesting women you've just met and men shouldn't do it not just because it doesn't work as a dating strategy but because touching someone who doesn't want you touching them is called assault and a literal crime.
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:53 PM
1

In my eyes the world feels super slow and i can tell immediately now with 85-90% accuracy how much attraction a woman has for me. This is called somatic awareness or energetic leadership Mmm. Yes. In my country that's called 'delusion' and 'lol'.
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:49 PM
3

Are you able to explain any concepts in under an essay or is this just your style to divorce sad-acts from their pocket change?
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:40 PM
6

If you need to write a thesis on how to do a first date, you have overcomplicated everything by a factor of 2 billion and you're a loser. I also really liked the detailed instructions of how to molest a woman who has just met you. That will be really popular here. Men here like to do that.
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:36 PM
-8

Aw :( Is it really hard to read minds? Is it troublesome having to communicate with people to know how they're feeling?
/r/seduction01/10/25 08:34 PM
6

Seems like the person you like likes funny, personable people. You deal with that by learning to be funny and personable. Or you find people who prefer whatever you're selling.
/r/seduction01/10/25 07:59 AM
1

Any attempt by you that is not asking her out for a drink like an adult will get you fired. Enjoy.
/r/seduction01/10/25 04:39 AM
-7

I think the main weapon you want to be utilising is known as 'saturation'. While you are behaving like a loser with no friends, you initially feel very silly to be doing those things. People will look at you strangely, they'll avoid you, women will tell their friends about the creepy sex offender in training etc., just the normal reactions to people behaving bizarrely. This is normal. What you want to do is to spend so much time being a social pariah, that to you everyone treating you like a los…
/r/seduction01/10/25 04:28 AM
-1

Thanks all the best with your date raping too.
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:48 PM
2

People here seem to think communication is a series of magic spells to extract your wants and needs from others without becoming a social pariah instead of something you do WITH others. Flirting AT people does not work and never will.
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:46 PM
-1

Because getting people drunk on dates while they stay sober is commonly associated with date rapists. I can't believe this needs to be explained.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:38 PM
-4

just more of a comfortable drunk. My skin is absolutely crawling. Dude, you are a creep.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:38 PM
-1

Yeah man just say it like that so she knows to take her heels off and start running.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:10 PM
0

Yeah nice one man I bet that sounded really good in your head lol
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:09 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:09 PM
0

I've run your question through my simulation and here's what it came up with. 'Hello, I've just met you, let's go to a bar. Oh I don't drink. You drink up though. Drink lots. Hey! Where are you going?' Sounds great
/r/seduction30/09/25 09:58 PM
1

I interpret women looking at me and making eye contact, multiple times, while also catching them glancing at me in mirrors and working out in front of me or near me on the next machine in a gym that has no one in it, as POSSIBLE interest. So, you interpret women looking at you as sexual interest? You think people seeing you in a room full of mirrors in interest? lol
/r/seduction30/09/25 08:55 PM
2

Oh so you're wondering where the large groups of hot 18-40 year old people who want to have sex with people with no friends or social skills are?
/r/seduction30/09/25 12:03 PM
-7

True. I cannot explain 'big groups of people' and 'about your age' any simpler. These are primary school words and concepts. A 7 year old would know what a large group of people about his age is.
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:05 AM
2

Maybe work on personal independence before dating.
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:01 AM
-1

Know that they like you enough that they will be flattered by your attention and respectful of the balls it took to ask before you ask a woman out. If you don't even know if a woman likes you enough to not humiliate you in rejection, you don't know the first thing about her and should not be asking her out at this stage.
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:00 AM
-2

Stop interpreting women looking at you as sexual interest.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:58 AM
1

You don't just sell people on who you are, you sell them on who you will be. To generate long term interest, have long term ambitions and the talent or the hard work to make it a realty.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:58 AM
1

Correct.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:56 AM
-6

You're bottom of the barrel. The very, very bottom. Who cares. It will not change what you've got to do to change your situation.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:56 AM
-2

I'm better then him, and every other person on earth, but sure man enjoy.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:55 AM
-2

Do you have something to say or do you just want to clutch your pearls and say 'why I never!!'
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:44 AM
-2

I don't know dude, there's 4 billion women on earth, try 'everywhere'. For gods sake go outside. You are not allowed to whine about dating being hard when you can't even seek out women and see them with your eyes. Go outside.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:43 AM
-12

You can't be serious.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:41 AM
6

Talk to them normally in non-romantic contexts until you learn that they are just extremely normal people with normal concerns and normal problems.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:37 AM
0

Women like politically correct people unless they are north of 45 and their favourite trait in a man is 'racist'. It is 2025.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:36 AM
0

Humans are not data points and treating dating like an excel spreadsheet and freaking out when she's one of the 31% of women who don't like cats and you didn't account for that will make you the worst date on earth. Treat people like people, stop looking at statistics you don't understand and try to derive a talent for human interaction from it.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:33 AM
1

Go to therapy and get some self respect. Self respect is absolutely vital.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:25 AM
1

Talk to them about the types of things you want in a long term partner, listen to what they say, and then look at the way they behave and see if their actions match up with what their mouth claimed. If satisfied, you will have a good candidate.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:25 AM
-1

Treat it like any other skill and develop from the ground up. Come back and whine about being single when you have a large group of friends you spend at least 10 hours with a week on average and then we can talk about dating.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:24 AM
8

Because they spend 0 hours a week around large groups of people in their dating pool for the purposes of recreation and just generally do nothing, with nobody. This is akin to saying 'I want to win the lottery' and I say 'Have you entered' and the answer is always, always, always, 'Once, 12 years ago, but I didn't instantly win so I never did it again. But I've read a lot about it online.
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:23 AM
4

Is he secretly recording and video taping strangers?
/r/seduction30/09/25 07:59 AM
5

What you perceive in your head as creepy is not creepy! Here's hidden audio / visual footage of me harassing women on the street!
/r/seduction30/09/25 05:17 AM
-1

To not dismiss simple answers because you're offended about what asking easily answered questions says about you? Do you not understand words?
/r/seduction30/09/25 03:38 AM
3

Answer the question instead of deflecting like a pussy and find out.
/r/seduction29/09/25 07:36 PM
-1

If the answer is simple, it means the question is embarrassing. That's why you think short answers just 'talk shit'. You feel very strongly that the answer to your question would take basically Einstein to solve. It doesn't. A child could answer your question. That embarrasses you.
/r/seduction29/09/25 07:25 PM
-3

All they have to do is check a box saying female and their inbox will fill up. Fill up with what? Calm, interesting, respectful requests for their time and attention?
/r/seduction29/09/25 07:22 PM
32

One thing I've noticed in these communities is long, complicated posts that are completely incoherent are liked and believed by the community almost by default. The rambling bullshit speaks to how complex they feel the problem is, and short simple answers make them feel like socially incompetent losers. Which they are. Fascinating.
/r/seduction29/09/25 06:46 PM
-24

He means he's a loser shut-in who wants to feel like he knows what he'd do in a night club if the situation ever came up so he asked the question not realising that he can't not sound like what he is. E: can the fucking losers replying to me and then blocking me immediately at least wait for the thread to die before doing the very masculine thing and run away from my opinions. I may need to reply to people who aren't cowards and your hissy fit prevents that.
/r/seduction29/09/25 07:51 AM
-29

Escalate what? You've walked up to a group of people and said a couple of words to them over loud music. What are you escalating? You're a stranger sharing a public space with them. Why are you asking how to start molesting them?
/r/seduction29/09/25 06:39 AM
1

Oh so you're not boring, you're just wondering how to ask her to communicate on a different platform?
/r/seduction29/09/25 03:54 AM
2

Figure out why the longer a person knows you the less likely they are to want something to do with you and fix that. It should work the complete opposite way.
/r/seduction29/09/25 03:32 AM
1

Hostage situation it is. My thoughts and prayers are with her.
/r/seduction29/09/25 02:37 AM
3

Any attempt by you to 'seduce' this woman from her perspective will be akin to a 6+ hour hostage situation. Please for the love of god just be your normal, boring, un-game self the entire way. Ironically, that would be your single best shot of making something of this, and it's the one thing that you will not do.
/r/seduction29/09/25 02:29 AM
0

Work at what? Obtaining and maintaining a vast and diverse network of friends and associates ensuring a never ending cavalcade of single women who your friends have done you the favor of screening? What are you asking? Why are you not able to tell whether or not women want you asking them out?
/r/seduction28/09/25 11:05 PM
0

It absolutely is not. You can develop a library of deeply complex interpersonal skills without ever asking a person out in your life; including the ability to read non-verbal communication. If you are asking a person out, touching them, kissing them etc and you have no idea whether or not the other person wants that, you are out of your depth. Humiliating yourself by flailing around is absolutely not a requirement.
/r/seduction28/09/25 11:02 PM
0

Ok. I think your admission to the thought that social competence is a laughably high bar is the most embarrassing thing I've seen someone proudly admit this week.
/r/seduction28/09/25 10:02 PM
-9

It's good you're working on solving the need for validation, but you should really look at solving acting like a pathetic loser to people who made the mistake of liking you.
/r/seduction28/09/25 09:03 PM
2

You let your need for validation from women dictate how you behave? You should be ashamed.
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:56 PM
-2

Hahahaha for you being socially competent and independent is an unreasonable ask. You're single for a reason.
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:35 PM
0

Who am I defending? What are you talking about?
/r/seduction28/09/25 12:08 PM
0

Or do you think a nice guy is just not a molester?
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:59 AM
1

Women are physically insisting that I make out with them. Where exactly am I limiting myself?
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:59 AM
9

If you have dated a person and broken up with them and still have absolutely no idea what they're looking for in a partner, you will never get them back.
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:18 AM
3

(super long, might wanna chatgpt it) lol
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:10 AM
0

It isn't about the perfect line or a list of moves. Has anyone got systems or check-lists for dates?
/r/seduction28/09/25 02:27 AM
-8

Yeah, it is a loaded. It says a lot about you, the women you date, and how your brain interprets the world. And the results are humiliating
/r/seduction28/09/25 02:24 AM
0

Really? Because basically 100% of the women I've dated do not prefer that. Why do the women you date like strangers they've just met to start feeling them up in public?
/r/seduction28/09/25 02:19 AM
0

I think that's a great tool for gauging your emotional intelligence. If a machine that can't think can mash words together and produce a better conversation with someone who the computer isn't even aware exists then your emotional intelligence is zero.
/r/seduction28/09/25 02:18 AM
-2

Why cant she break the touch barrier?
/r/seduction28/09/25 02:09 AM
-2

I've never had a woman "push her face near my face" Why do you think that is?
/r/seduction28/09/25 12:55 AM
0

You've got to touch her to spark interest. I am not joking when I say I keep my hands to myself until she pushes her face near my face. If you cannot keep a woman interested with your words, you are boring.
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:35 PM
2

Why are you asking about pushing things further when you have identified exactly where you're screwing up? You're boring, your dates are bad. The internet can't tell you how to have something worth saying. You need to do that on your own.
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:29 PM
17

What would you do if you were playing a video game and someone came up to you and demanded your attention to talk about tennis?
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:00 PM
1

Looking at a person's behaviour and evaluating it is what people do. Attempting to manipulate a person's words or actions is grotesque, childish hysteria that has no place in adult relationships and you should be embarrassed to accept it as just a normal part of dating.
/r/seduction27/09/25 08:27 PM
1

If you think for even a second that a fully grown adult is 'testing' you, why would you be dating them? Go find someone who mentally matured past high school.
/r/seduction27/09/25 08:19 PM
0

I think the reason people hate you is you get AI to do your thinking, writing, and whining for you. It's pathetic.
/r/seduction27/09/25 05:45 AM
1

Well at least it's made up because a computer can't think or feel and not because the author has never talked to a human that wasn't a member of his family in the last year.
/r/seduction27/09/25 05:00 AM
0

Do you think maybe that it is not common to have your understanding of sex and human relationships arrested in kindergarten and never developed further leaving an embarrassing husk of a person posting weird shit on seduction forums?
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:41 AM
2

Oh so for women sex is a 'i lyke u do u lyke me? Y N M' note from kindergarten?
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:29 AM
0

lol
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:03 AM
1

No, you aren't. If you'd seen a real confrontation, you'd know that women absoiutely despise violence. They're scared of it. They don't like being around people who attract it. When adult violence erupts if you don't end up in jail or the hospital, you got lucky. Violence is not a fucking game. People don't use it as a courting ritual. Stop lying online.
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:01 AM
2

This is a child's understanding of violence, masculinity, attraction, and women.
/r/seduction27/09/25 01:56 AM
5

Yeah dude you must be in the one town on earth where nobody goes out and has fun on the weekends. Maybe the local knitting circle? Try whittling on your porch rocker until dames wander past your shack?
/r/seduction27/09/25 12:18 AM
3

Lol. Imagine dedicating your life to impressing women and understanding absolutely nothing about them.
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:19 PM
-1

You think? Ok.
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:04 PM
7

I think 2 men in their mid 30s are acting like the most embarrassing pair of high school frenemies I've ever seen. Absolutely humiliating.
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:02 PM
8

It's a pity you can't request something like this without sounding like a serial killer, but you're en route to being 5 billion times more competent in bed than the losers asking other men what sex moves to do on their girlfriends. The answer is: anything written by a woman. Books. Fanfic. Fucking reddit posts in askwomen, they all say the same thing, it's just that internet losers are very sure they know better. Good luck. Once more for the idiots: DO NOT TAKE ADVICE FROM MEN ON HOW TO FUCK WOM…
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:57 PM
-3

This is one of those questions that asking it means it isn't applicable to you.
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:22 PM
0

I think people who lie on seduction forums are good to make fun of.
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:04 AM
0

Cool psycho babble normal guy.
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:59 AM
-1

I'm just wondering why someone who has overcome anxiety to approach women, talk to women, date women, kiss women etc is really stressing out about this bit. Seems like a natural progression that every man since the start of time has overcome because we really like sex. Good luck getting men to tell you how to use your weapon lol
/r/seduction26/09/25 06:26 AM
3

I don't think you will ever be in a position to discriminate.
/r/seduction26/09/25 06:17 AM
5

lol what happens when sex is totally on the table with these many, many girls and then this anxiety happens? Do you pretend to get a phone call and run off into the night? Dude, you make up stories for reddit. Nothing anyone tells you on the internet will make you good at sex with anyone.
/r/seduction26/09/25 06:17 AM
1

Yeah everyone knows that before pro athletes ever do anything they create pointless lists in collaboration with internet weirdos.
/r/seduction26/09/25 05:43 AM
1

I think your list contains several things that will take years or even decades to hone, so your myopic focus on creating the perfect list seems silly and counter-productive to me.
/r/seduction26/09/25 04:09 AM
1

Lol what a normal reaction. Good luck doing internet sex tips on your unsuspecting partner lmao
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:17 AM
1

Comparably stupid. Why do you expect internet men who don't even know your partner to know what your partner likes? Does your brain think that makes sense? What is wrong with you?
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:07 AM
1

Hey reddit, how do I have sex with my partner?
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:24 AM
1

No list of words will make you good at interpersonal relationships.
/r/seduction25/09/25 11:54 PM
-1

Quick! Someone! Solve my lifetime of lazy social decisions!
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:38 PM
61

Yeah man no idea how the handsome, quick witted, confident guy with masculine energy is dating.
/r/seduction25/09/25 09:02 PM
1

Those sure are words associated with the internet's understanding of attraction.
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:55 PM
1

It frustrates me that I can't make fun of pick up artists as successfully as they do to themselves naturally and completely unprompted.
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:45 PM
13

Yeah man totally. I was in the traumatic brain injury section of the hospital yesterday and it was like the club up in there.
/r/seduction25/09/25 06:22 PM
26

Social skills dead to last. I can't imagine struggling with dating so much that you find yourself unironically on a pickup forum and still being so sure that the way you understand things is correct that you'd publicly say something this funny.
/r/seduction25/09/25 06:18 PM
2

Yeah man Metallica played to a million strong live crowd in soviet Russia. Not a single woman. It's definitely not just you, go outside, what's wrong with you.
/r/seduction25/09/25 05:37 PM
2

Cool I hope you like being lonely and unpopular.
/r/seduction25/09/25 04:58 AM
4

You don't know how to reflect on things you've done that are silly and embarrassing and not doing those things in the future? Yeah I'm starting to see why you're struggling.
/r/seduction25/09/25 04:55 AM
3

Yeah sounds to me like you're failing repeatedly maybe you should change because what you're doing is not working.
/r/seduction25/09/25 04:34 AM
-2

Ok
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:57 AM
-7

You're 45? Sorry I take it back. Even if you seek assistance you will never have a normal social life. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:54 AM
-5

You think not being able to find people your age in a population centre is a normal amount of social development?
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:49 AM
-3

If you cannot locate humans in your dating pool while living in a population center, think of that as failing a 'you must be this tall to ride' sign at a carnival. If you can't even find people, you are disabled and should seek assistance if you want to be integrated into normal society before you die.
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:46 AM
2

Yes, exactly, you should be embarrassed of taking advice from the made-up king of the type of people who post here.
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:21 PM
-2

I do not want to read about the sexual proclivities of the biggest losers online please and thank you you weird freaks. e: the upvote count is acting as an informal pole for how many freaks want to hear about each other's kinks lol and the results so far are extremely funny and embarrassing.
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:20 PM
3

This does not sound like love, lust, or interest. This reads like two people trying to convince themselves to forget about finding someone who makes them happy and be willing to settle for simply inoffensive.
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:45 PM
2

You know Barney is a television comedy character making fun of people whose life revolves around using others to prop up their embarrassing emptiness and fragility right?
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:15 PM
19

The next day, I asked her if she had a boyfriend and if she lives alone. If anyone out there is also hannibal lector, please do not follow advice like 'go near people and talk to them' because you will absolutely end up in jail. Please go near a mental health doctor and talk to them instead.
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:34 AM
-2

Yeah man just tell the guy so socially disabled that talking about himself is an unachievable mountain to just socialise more really good advice I wish I'd given that advice instead.
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:35 AM
0

All my friends have settled down, naturally, it would be really, really weird if someone got to my age and didn't know the first thing about making friends ha ha, ha ha, ha.... Anyway what are friends and how do you make them?
/r/seduction24/09/25 12:24 AM
3

I find it effective to build trust by just genuinely getting to know people because interpersonal relationships bring you joy and not because they made you horny. I find ulterior motives pretty much radiate out of people and very few things make a woman feel more unsafe than some guy she doesn't know trying to pretend he's a decent person.
/r/seduction23/09/25 10:39 PM
1

Yeah what I usually do is hang out with a large and diverse group of friends and concentrate on relaxing and getting to know the people I meet through them. Friends of friends are far, far, far more likely to be a match for you than randos you harass because they look a way that made you horny. What for you is 1/500 for me is more like 1/5.
/r/seduction23/09/25 10:29 PM
5

You talk about women and social interactions like someone I wouldn't let within 50 feet of anyone I care about so I'd caution you that if there's a chance that someone else might have opportunity to get a similar vibe from you then that would be maybe the single biggest thing affecting your ability to form a connection
/r/seduction23/09/25 10:17 PM
0

That is 100% the perspectives of a socially disabled individual who doesn't know what he's looking at who should concentrate on himself and what he wants out of life instead of writing fanfic about the wants of others unless he wants to embarrass himself every single day until he dies.
/r/seduction23/09/25 08:36 PM
1

I find it's easier to think about the logistics of how to move out of home rather than the logistics of how to explain to an adult woman why I'm not independent and yet feel like I should still be dating.
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:14 PM
-1

Yeah you would never have the courage to own what you actually are.
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:13 PM
-1

So you'd put the black belt on? Cool. Embarrass yourself if you want.
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:09 PM
-1

If you wanted to learn karate, would you put on a white belt and go and learn in the classes, or would you put on a black belt and go and pretend to supervise and hope to learn enough to pass off the hoax before people realise how embarrassing you are?
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:59 PM
1

You are asking internet people how to turn your girlfriend on?
/r/seduction23/09/25 11:29 AM
1

You mean like advise him to take a college course in order to better express himself? That sort of constructive feedback?
/r/seduction23/09/25 08:11 AM
-6

I don't understand. What do you mean what do you talk about? You are in a situation where the person is there specifically to get to know you and you've travelled to dozens of countries and have a full life of outgoing activities and have nothing to say? You're lying about something. And that's embarrassing
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:22 AM
-8

You would talk about the news or gaming yet you've been to dozens of countries and like other cool shit? Maybe you're not boring. Maybe you're really, really unintelligent.
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:20 AM
-8

If you have nothing to say, that either means you're boring or you're unable to communicate how awesome you are. You should do things that are worth talking about if you're boring, or take a communications course at your local college if you can't articulate yourself.
/r/seduction23/09/25 07:11 AM
3

Yeah man I followed your little story and that's what it said alright my point was that writing that is very strange behaviour.
/r/seduction23/09/25 02:44 AM
8

It is so weird that when you guys can't argue with what I say you automatically start writing fanfic about my relationships. It's extremely bizarre behaviour.
/r/seduction23/09/25 02:42 AM
6

Yeah totally you sound like you've spoken to at least 3 women that weren't members of your family in the last 10 years.
/r/seduction23/09/25 02:27 AM
-1

What would need to be said by a heavyweight ufc fighter before you'd feel that they were properly respectful of the power difference between you and just wanted to know if you'd like to go on a date?
/r/seduction23/09/25 02:20 AM
0

How would you feel if a heavyweight fighter started subtly talking to you about the weather but you got the feeling that he'd actually rather be having sex with your ass? Would you feel comfortable? A little aroused? Or would that be at least as terrifying?
/r/seduction23/09/25 02:01 AM
4

Trying to emulate things you see other people do and pass it off as authentic is a shortcut to embarrassing yourself.
/r/seduction23/09/25 01:39 AM
0

They're just meeting up with their boyfriend now, you see. They'd love for you to continue creeping really, but they legit have to go.
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:55 AM
8

Lol 'sure she didn't actually sleep with me, but she definitely wanted to'
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:39 AM
24

Idiocy. 'I know within minutes whether or not I want to go somewhere completely isolated with someone I have never met before in my life and take all my clothes off. I feel safe to do this because men are notoriously rational and non-violent with regards to sex and even if they weren't sexual violence is made up by leftists and not a real thing.' - real women according to the OP.
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:35 AM
1

lol 'I only get told to sod off subtly now' good boast hahaha
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:32 AM
-1

You really don't like the thought of someone much stronger than you saying creepy, deranged sex things at you do you? Wonder why you're so keen to inflict that on others.
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:32 AM
0

Do you know the differences between someone who has gone through a male puberty and someone who has gone through female puberty? Especially with regards to strength? If you don't, it would be analogous to the difference between you and a heavyweight fighter when it comes to a decent comparison of how easily one person could kill the other with his bare hands and how scary it would be to say that shit to a stranger.
/r/seduction22/09/25 10:55 PM
-1

How would you like it if the ufc heavyweight champion came up to you at the shops and said the idea of kissing you in his bed sparks great joy within his mind? Would you feel comfortable? Flattered? A little aroused? Or would you be absolutely terrified?
/r/seduction22/09/25 10:44 PM
1

I can. When it's harassment, you get told to take your little performance elsewhere which basically every pick up artist will just flat out tell you will happen literally every time at the start and then the vast majority of times when you become a 'master'. Do you know how many times I get told to sod off when I talk to people? I literally can't remember the last time it happened and I talk to dozens of people every day and socialise all the time.
/r/seduction22/09/25 10:25 PM
0

lol. Once you've been told to sod off 40-60 times you'll have mastered every type of woman. Alternatively, volunteer for 2 hours a week at an old folks home. You will learn more about being a charismatic, funny, safe, and useful conversation partner then you would harassing a billion women on the street and ending up like this sad act.
/r/seduction22/09/25 10:13 PM
17

Any tips, tricks There are no shortcuts to the benefits of being a cool, popular person with none of the effort.
/r/seduction22/09/25 08:36 PM
1

I'm asking a simple question. You think what you're doing should make a deep interpersonal relationship yes?
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:32 PM
0

You're confused as to why briefly harassing someone on the street is not translating into deep interpersonal connection?
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:30 PM
0

You are confused as to why walking up to women and hugging them is not getting you dates? Have you tried not acting like a dangerous, unsocialised freak?
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:27 PM
-6

Ah yes. Talking over messages and watching movies together, two things never done by just friends. Yeah she made a huge mistake thinking you were her friend. Don't worry too much, this experience will leave her much more able to tell who is a genuine friend and who is a molester. I don't think you guys understand that if you touch a woman and she does not want to be touched, that's a crime. You can go to court for what you just did.
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:25 AM
10

God you guys are going to go to prison lol Sex and arousal isn't moves you do on a woman like a mortal kombat finisher lol
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:55 AM
2

In their post history. That you sought out apropos of nothing. And then you wrote some fanfic about the thoughts you had so others could enjoy it. Unrelated, but if you're struggling with dating, I think I might know why.
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:30 AM
2

Do you think about other men having sex a lot?
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:14 AM
2

It is extremely normal to start writing fanfic about me being a sex criminal in reply to something completely unrelated. What are your secrets to appearing so normal so consistently?
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:01 AM
1

It is inappropriate to fall in love with people you don't even know. Treat them like people and not like objects of your - ugh - heteroromantic affection. Talk to them normally and see what happens. Don't worry, you are not in any danger of looking like a "player" at any point in the next billion years and any attempt you make to appear that way would be a decision to embarrass yourself. Make friends, have fun, stop being a freak.
/r/seduction21/09/25 11:48 PM
0

Nothing. You're asking me for the motivations of someone who isn't behaving like the hundreds of thousands of women I've met in real life and is instead behaving like a losers idea of what a woman who is into him behaves like. I can't tell you the motivations of someone who does not exist.
/r/seduction21/09/25 10:12 PM
0

I'd go further. She obviously ain't all that real.
/r/seduction21/09/25 09:55 PM
-1

So as long as she doesn't kiss on the first date she can humiliate her culture, her family and her god by behaving like a virgin man's idea of what a woman who is into him would act like?
/r/seduction21/09/25 09:51 PM
0

So the psycho chick who was all over you instantly and super keen is also a devout and chaste Muslim? Uh huh.
/r/seduction21/09/25 09:46 PM
1

So she was basically dtf instantly along with giving just every red flag for 'crazy and looking to make a terrible decision pronto' and you decided to date her like a chaste nun? She got bored lol. What is wrong with you hahahaha
/r/seduction21/09/25 09:40 PM
2

lol. You're describing 'learning' hahahahaha. You're correct by the way, social skills are skills that are learned by way of practice, but the fact that it's a revelation amuses me.
/r/seduction21/09/25 08:56 PM
6

You don't know how to flirt with the person you're dating? Are you in primary school?
/r/seduction21/09/25 05:43 AM
6

You're a 35 year old man with the fears and interests of a 135 year old man and you're wondering if university bars are the place for you to harass women?
/r/seduction21/09/25 03:56 AM
1

How many weeks does it usually take you to convince a woman you're not a threat? I can usually do that during about 20 minutes in my casual company.
/r/seduction21/09/25 12:37 AM
1

I do like her Why don't you try telling her and see what she says?
/r/seduction21/09/25 12:13 AM
5

See guys? People trying to say that pickup doesn't work, just look at this guy. If you put in 10, 20 years of hard effort you too can glaze insell youtubers in seduction forums.
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:22 PM
0

Do you know the difference between looking intimidating while staring down your opponent in a boxing ring, and looking intimidating while youre socializing? Do you understand how a woman thinking you look intimidating before a physical confrontation might be socially neutral but thinking you look intimidating while you're supposed to be having fun might be socially damaging and embarrassing?
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:29 AM
1

We have these things called dictionaries. We use them as a pervasive formal agreement on what words mean so that we can communicate and make sense of ourselves and the world around us. Don't worry, you're not alone. At least a few people in here think a woman calling you intimidating means she thinks you're totally badass lol so yeah being connected to reality is a suggestion only. You can be absurd if you like.
/r/seduction20/09/25 06:36 AM
0

No, it's the individual's lazy social and personal decisions that keeps those at the very bottom of the barrel being pathetic. The rest of the planet has a normal relationship with pornography, alcohol, weed, oxygen, and other things that are fine in moderation and harmful in insane excess
/r/seduction20/09/25 06:34 AM
-5

What are you not understanding? They consider you unpredictable and unsafe. Potentially out-of-control / unstable. It might be the complete opposite of 'personable'.
/r/seduction20/09/25 05:10 AM
-4

Do you have an argument? Towns and cities are funnels designed to mash humans together. Do you think not being able to locate your favourite type of people while living in a population centre is a normal, healthy degree of social development? Anyone? Any arguments at all?
/r/seduction20/09/25 12:04 AM
-17

If you cannot even locate the type of people you want to date, you are socially disabled and should seek professional help because there is no way you're going to go from not being able to find people to being able to sleep with someone in a human lifetime unassisted.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:02 PM
2

Why don't you try just hanging out with women normally until you see enough of their perspectives and behaviors to not sit around worrying that they might respond like psychopaths at any moment for no reason.
/r/seduction19/09/25 10:57 PM
3

Good reply man. Really controlling that frame.
/r/seduction19/09/25 08:06 PM
7

This is absolutely amazing lol. 'YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW TO GET CHICKS?! WATCH THESE POLITICAL DEBATES WHERE YOU LEARN HOW TO GET AWAY WITH BEING A BIGOT (CHICKS LOVE BIGOTS)!'
/r/seduction19/09/25 08:05 PM
-6

It's hysterical, fear-based loser-shit and incorrect I don't care who thought of it it is self-evidently an embarrassing idea if you've ever had a joyous conversation with a human you like who likes you back.
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:47 PM
61

lol. Very funny answers already. The single most valuable trait you can have is to actually like women. Like, you seek out women and their perspectives as part of your every day. You have women who are your friends. Do you want to know the first step to being really good with women? Be around them a lot. Understand them. Actually like them. Or you know it's the sleeve tattoos and the racism or whatever lmao
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:40 PM
1

'Frame control' is one of the most psycho things the pick up community has theorised about. Conversations are joyous, effortless interactions that follows vibes. They ebb and flow. We speak, we listen. We give, we take. Trying to hysterically control every interaction is fundamentally fear based loser behavior. Stop it.
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:36 PM
-5

Good. Join a running club at your college. You can do that bare foot if you need to and it's done in public spaces. Costs nothing. You won't though, because you're a waster and excuse maker and you will never, ever stop being those things.
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:39 AM
-2

Because women wanting to have sex with me is way better?
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:37 AM
-2

Explain why. When I retired from boxing I was working full time, studying part time, boxing, and weight lifting all while neglecting a long term relationship. Your college course load is busier than that?
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:20 AM
2

I agree it's very obvious so if someone I've selected to be my friend sees absolutely nothing going on it might indicate that maybe I'm imagining all these romantic feelings and projecting it onto a woman who thinks I'm just talking normally to her.
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:02 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction19/09/25 06:29 AM
0

not be direct asking him for the Instagram Why are you so focused on a person's instagram?
/r/seduction19/09/25 05:28 AM
1

Why don't you just talk to them about normal things instead? Why do you sound like you're on a treasure hunt for instagram instead of trying to connect with people?
/r/seduction19/09/25 05:07 AM
2

Cool no self reported sex crimes in this one man. Just really weird, inconsiderate and sort of gross sex everywhere except your bedroom.
/r/seduction19/09/25 04:33 AM
18

How many billions of years are you allowed to subtly vibe with a girl showing mutual interest before your friends assume you're just friends in your friend group? Personally I just behave normally and let the adult woman choose whoever she's interested in. Me and my friends are top shelf choices so she obviously has good taste at that point it's just a matter of degrees.
/r/seduction19/09/25 04:30 AM
7

Speaking personally if I was minding my own business in public and some guy started staring a hole in my skull I'd consider that alarming and threatening. If that person staring a hole in my skull was hoping to get something from me, they'd be starting things off on a really, really, really bad foot. Don't be weird, don't look directly at people for more than a fraction of a second unless you're looking to get their very serious attention for a very good reason in my opinion. Them making you hor…
/r/seduction19/09/25 01:48 AM
-2

Usually I invite women around to my place to watch movies and have sex when they want to watch movies and have sex with me. I don't need to trick or coerce them. They are really keen to do it. If they aren't for you for some reason, I think I might know what that means. Can you guess?
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:59 PM
1

You really don't understand that women want to have sex with me do you? You really don't get that concept. Terrifying.
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:57 PM
1

lol 'I'm dancing around the line of non-consensual sex but as long as I don't accidentally fall over it I'll be fine' Cool brain working dude but I'll just continue not being desperate and having sex with people who want it with me.
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:50 PM
0

she says she has work tomorrow I say 'cool we'll hook up when you're free speak soon' because I'm not a desperate loser. If sleep for work is even on the same plane of importance as sex with me, I don't want it with her.
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:46 PM
3

Women want to have sex with me man. There is no resistance. They are very, very, very enthusiastic. It is insanely weird that you consider it part of every sexual encounter. You are going to prison, and that is good.
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:42 PM
-2

I don't know man. Pretend you're the one living your life. What do you think is the best move?
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:51 PM
0

She was resisting a bit but i manage to go through the résistance and pull her. Cool maybe sex crime dude. PSA, if you move 'through' resistance, you are going to go to jail at some point and it will not be a false accusation. What is wrong with you people.
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:11 PM
18

This is bizarre. It's like you're moving through life completely devoid of agency and life either happens directly at you or it doesn't happen. You're not a pussy, you're not even making the decisions necessary to be called a pussy.
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:06 PM
8

Why are you writing fan fiction about what sex workers think instead of going to therapy?
/r/seduction18/09/25 08:34 AM
0

Insanely mad lol
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:37 AM
2

So you have no problems walking away from someone you know is wasting your time, but if they start trying to waste your time again you let them in case they're not going to waste your time this time?
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:36 AM
0

Never mind man. If you don't see the problem, nothing I say will be able to help you because you need priority personal assistance from someone skilled in assisting the socially disabled with living a fulfilling life. I'm a person online. I can't do that for you.
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:29 AM
1

I can't explain to you how to not be in a hurry. That's an absurd request of a stranger. If you need that sort of help, go and get assistance for your social disability.
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:27 AM
-6

Oh I see your problem. When I decide someone is wasting my time, I stop communicating with them. You seem to have the memory thing from Memento where you can't remember decisions you made 10 minutes ago.
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:25 AM
15

But guys who waste substantial amounts of their own life and the lives of other people because he's worried about how cool the sex he has makes him are really cool and not losers?
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:14 AM
16

That's a shame. Sounds like it would be perfect for someone who hates dating and interpersonal relationships. Oh well, enjoy your life lol
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:05 AM
37

Visit prostitutes dude. This is literally, literally the ideal situation for it. A nominal fee and you can skip straight to the good bit and not only do you not have to maintain a relationship she'll have you beaten up if you even attempt it.
/r/seduction18/09/25 06:42 AM
5

Have you used the Palantr to see what's in their souls?
/r/seduction18/09/25 04:21 AM
6

It's a date. She's attracted to you, she's not going to forget. Unless you say or do something to make her forget. She's somehow developed an attraction to you thus far without you saying weird sex jokes at her or feeling her up. Don't you think maybe you should have a fun time with her instead?
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:36 AM
2

You have no idea what romantic chemistry even feels like and so can't tell when it's lacking? Ok. Being physically attractive enough can get you on a date, but dating a person also requires that you be fun to be around for a huge chunk of your waking life. 'No spark' means the person cannot see themselves spending any significant time around you. Work on being fun to be around.
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:33 AM
2

Seems pretty open and shut to me. I find the easiest way to avoid feeling the need for validation is to behave in a way that I'm proud of first and concerned about the fallout of that behaviour second. You seem to be behaving exclusively in a way you're ashamed of.
/r/seduction18/09/25 12:02 AM
-1

So if I'm hearing you correctly, You, you, you, you. You. Literally the only consideration you gave to another human's autonomy in this entire request about connecting with other humans is this: but either escalated too early or failed some crucial shit tests, This child's understanding of what's going on around him. I suggest thinking about how what you're doing makes other people feel. You'll be able to gauge how this is going when you're going out with friends and not to places where explicit…
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:16 PM
1

Keep going man you've almost convinced them lol
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:24 PM
2

lol dating is at it's easiest in the 20+ years I've been an adult. If you are not an unsocialised racist / misogynist it's like shooting fish in a barrel. Thank you all for making my mediocrity look like solid gold lol
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:20 PM
-1

Just for next time dude, if you want to look like you're not a sad six figure computer toucher with a terrible personality, get a name without 'qwerty' in it. It's embarrassing anyway.
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:15 PM
0

lol a lot of really sad men in here.
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:13 PM
-10

Don't know man maybe you should respond to the very simple question and check if I'm AI or if you are an embarrassing inadequate.
/r/seduction17/09/25 09:35 PM
-14

So when a woman's sibling is at risk of dying of malnutrition, your 6 figure computer touching job attached to a terrible personality is appealing and when a woman's sibling is not at risk of dying of malnutrition you are repulsive? Wow.
/r/seduction17/09/25 09:32 PM
-2

lol you don't know do you? You have absolutely no idea why you've been doing this so long and not developed the skills the cool kids had learned by age 15
/r/seduction17/09/25 09:09 PM
-1

Why have you been doing this so long that you are writing guides and still completely unable to discern someone's romantic disposition towards you? Do you have at least one social disability and do you have a support worker?
/r/seduction17/09/25 09:03 PM
-20

it is 2025, everyone gets rejected. I haven't been rejected for nearly 20 years because I learned to read people's dispositions towards me and also I wasn't doing grossly socially inappropriate things like bothering people on the street.
/r/seduction17/09/25 07:26 PM
2

Did you ever go to somewhere as a child and have a parent warn you to be on your best behavior because a fuss would embarrass them? Those exact same principles will apply at the toga party if you want them to. Honestly though if you don't know what appropriate public behavior is being humiliated publicly is a really great way to learn.
/r/seduction17/09/25 07:24 PM
3

So you are in a hurry, and people don't like this, and you're confused about something? Seems pretty open and shut to me man stop behaving like you're disarming a bomb constantly or get used to people not liking your company.
/r/seduction17/09/25 07:15 PM
5

I think the entire thing you're doing is bizarre and off-putting. When employees at a store start getting weirded out to the point where even you notice, should that not have been an indication that this is not how people behave? I consider 70 phone numbers in 1400 instances of being weird at women wildly successful. Imagine if you put that effort into behaving normally. I bet you'd clean up.
/r/seduction17/09/25 06:59 AM
3

Dude, what woman on this earth would want to have you in their life? Serious question. 'Hey ladies, homeless ex-addict 9 months sober here. I'm in school.' is dating on nightmare difficulty. If you're struggling with dating, you're supposed to be. You are bottom of the barrel. Concentrate on fixing that.
/r/seduction17/09/25 03:27 AM
1

Anyone who uses the simile of 'an npc' does not know anything about fashion so maybe formulate your own opinions on how to present yourself and do that. It's a really personal thing. Would you let this sub design a tattoo? Your entire back covered in a long diatribe of misplaced anger and misogyny maybe?
/r/seduction09/09/25 11:03 AM
7

Is this shit real My dude... come on. Please listen to me: there is no Konami code for pussy. No one can teach you how to reap the benefits of being a cool, popular person with none of the effort. Please stay with reality on this one, it's pretty important for dating success.
/r/seduction09/09/25 04:18 AM
-1

Absolutely none of those things. They will all make you more disconnected from the realities of dating. By far and away the most important thing for you to be doing is just being around lots of people your age in real life. That's it. No trying to pick people up, that's weird you trying to be normal. Once you're spending at least 10 hours a week doing that, you can read whatever and then that very week see how embarrassing and wrong they are but you absolutely have to go and practice being norma…
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:56 AM
7

You don't flirt at people, you flirt with them. If flirting is not happening, she is not into you and your observations are fantasies.
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:01 AM
19

Something I've noticed in my long and successful life is that women really, really like an easy going attitude. Conversely, turning into the forehead vein kid meme when life shakes out sub-optimally seems to be something women really dislike. Cultivating an easy going attitude included thinking 'oh, that sucks' when something doesn't go right and avoiding 500 word essays to reddit for the same.
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:46 PM
-1

Yeah you'd just get chatgpt to do it.
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:23 PM
-4

They've told you where they stand. Either respect them and stop being a freak, or do them a favour and go away.
/r/seduction08/09/25 10:57 PM
0

and not need to rely on the words and behaviors of others. Absolutely insane advice to give about developing connections with people.
/r/seduction08/09/25 10:10 PM
0

Having to be clever so frequently gets exhausting. Incredible.
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:05 PM
0

If you bored me with 2 or 3 texts I'd leave the conversation. It's very logical to sit through tedious back and forths apparently.
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:04 PM
2

Anyone who advises bothering people chilling in the park because they made you horny is a loser and I'd assume that everything out of their mouth started from that baseline.
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:57 PM
0

Thanks for the humble opinion but I'm going to stick with the opinions of people who are qualified to practice medicine.
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:13 PM
-2

Aren't you embarrassed to want random people online to magically fix your brain problems instantly and for free when you have put in basically zero effort yourself?
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:59 AM
-3

You tried therapy for two hours and when it didn't fix things you quit? That sounds like a feeble attempt to me, and I'd be embarrassed to have such strong opinions about the efficacy of something I know literally nothing about, but you're not me. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:45 AM
-1

How many hours do you estimate it should take therapy to unravel an issue that has been manifesting and compounding for decades and did you try that amount of therapy?
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:51 AM
1

Dude, this is called body dysmorphia. The medical community understands it very well and has a ton of research of how to help people suffering from it. The process does not include validation from others. This is a medical issue, talk to a medical professional.
/r/seduction08/09/25 06:12 AM
4

Embarrassing.
/r/seduction08/09/25 02:25 AM
8

I'm really surprised no women want a suicidal guy whose highlight of the last year was spunking a load of money on getting internet men to teach him how to be a sex criminal. Have you tried doing things like going to therapy and running or something? Might produce better results. May as well try something that might work before you do something you can't take back.
/r/seduction08/09/25 02:22 AM
5

he will insult you to your face and call you a zombie. When does he teach you about self respect? I've found that non-negotiable to my ability to grow successful interpersonal relationships.
/r/seduction07/09/25 11:32 PM
1

This reads like the dream diary of a shut in
/r/seduction07/09/25 10:33 PM
2

Why are you confused? She was really, really, really clear about where she stood on this issue.
/r/seduction07/09/25 10:32 PM
4

Absolutely disconnected from observable reality.
/r/seduction07/09/25 05:25 PM
1

Do you know what socialising in public spaces is? Where you go somewhere with friends to a place where loads of people your age go, and them you just naturally meet people throughout the night as members of your friend group interact with others because that's just what happens?
/r/seduction07/09/25 09:33 AM
1

Excellent demonstration of failure thank you.
/r/seduction07/09/25 05:59 AM
5

My in-depth field research has concluded that young women seem to like men who are popular, cool, and safe. So it's best to be those things and then interact normally, because any attempt to impersonate those things will probably be an embarrassing failure.
/r/seduction07/09/25 02:33 AM
-1

I'll tell you what I'll give you an example of gaining emotional intelligence: define 'feminism'. Now, go to wikipedia, type in 'feminism', then read that. You may notice that your definition is very, very different to wikipedia. While not absolute, it is good to understand that most people think words mean what places like dictionaries / encyclopedias say they mean, because they are not subject matter experts. So when you start using common words with definitions you made up, you start seeing '…
/r/seduction07/09/25 02:28 AM
0

I should probably add that talking about your feelings is not 'venting'. Emotional intelligence requires you to be called out on the silly things you believe and you will need to figure out why those things are silly by yourself or with assistance. Hyper-defensive venting in online hug boxes is unacceptable for obvious reasons.
/r/seduction07/09/25 02:09 AM
2

Emotional intelligence is essentially your ability to accurately identify and manage feelings before they become mental health problems and disordered thought patterns with enough neglect. You get better at that by talking about the things you feel a lot. Most people get by with a few good friends they're able to confide in and seek support from. Therapy is generally the most efficient way to do this. Everybody is awkward, nobody cares.
/r/seduction07/09/25 02:00 AM
9

Depends on you. If full of bullshit and bravado, older women will laugh at you though you may fool the drunkest / stupidest younger women. If genuine and appealing in at least one way they appreciate, older women will respond better to you on average than younger women in my opinion. Neither will be interested unless there's something there to like.
/r/seduction07/09/25 12:56 AM
-11

Are you cold approaching or social circling/warm approaching? Here's a hint dude: if they are successful, they're probably doing the thing that cool, popular people do and not what socially disabled internet men do.
/r/seduction07/09/25 12:38 AM
4

Yes, because the silly things that seem to concern you and the OP are the fantasies of children and there is no such thing as a magic spell that will allow you all the benefits of being a cool, popular, active person with none of the effort. What you are looking for does not exist, and it is unserious to pretend it does.
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:54 PM
1

Why would I? I'm a popular, sociable person who does cool things all the time. Women are where I am, doing what I do, hanging out where I hang out. I spend 0 minutes a week doing anything 'to get girls'. I have fun, and meet an infinite parade of women incidental to that naturally.
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:30 PM
0

Correct. It needs to be combined with the whole context of the situation, the culture the interaction is taking part in etc. before any sensible decision can be reached. I am not so hard up for dates that I need to fantasise about what someone looking at me might mean.
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:10 PM
2

Everyone wants to be where the fun is. Whether you follow fun, or fun follows you, you're where the good stuff happens.
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:47 AM
2

It's what people mean when they say that love appears when you least expect it. One day you'll just be doing stuff you love doing with people who like and respect you and then you'll be chatting to someone and the conversation will snowball and it will feel like you did absolutely nothing and an angel just dropped out of the sky. But she didn't. She wanted to meet the popular guy who does cool things, and she likes him. It took huge amounts of time to build those bonds and earn that reputation. …
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:45 AM
3

Be a decent person. Not act like one, you'll be around them too much. They'll figure out what you are if you're acting. Reputation management. No acting like a desperate creeper. No asking random women out. The idea isn't to be loved by everyone, it's to be either liked by people or be inoffensive to people. That way you're welcome basically everywhere. Consistent socialising IRL. If you aren't spending at least 10 hours a week socialising IRL you are not even trying. Friendships require upkeep.…
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:03 AM
215

Have you guys actually ever gone to a bar? People generally socialise with their friends at bars, and cross-group pollination happens naturally with those in proximity. Men do not stand in a queue waiting to strike out with the prom queen. Go outside.
/r/seduction06/09/25 10:15 AM
8

People look each other in the eye literally, literally all the time. People could be looking at you for no reason, or a billion reasons other than they find you sexually attractive. Stop trying to divine meaning from normal, common occurrence.
/r/seduction06/09/25 10:03 AM
10

IM THIRSTY Mom, get me a juice.
/r/seduction06/09/25 08:44 AM
31

She is giddy, smiling, blushing, showing all the signs she likes me. Stop watching anime, go and talk to normal people like a normal person for several thousand hours or until you catch up to whatever a normal amount of social exposure is for someone your age, and then you will be ready to think about trying to molest your coworkers and going to prison.
/r/seduction06/09/25 03:06 AM
3

You had fun at a club. So did they. What you just did was called having a normal and common interaction. It is normal that they didn't feel compelled to respond to you on social media. You just had fun for a few minutes, no one cares.
/r/seduction05/09/25 11:44 PM
9

Flirting is something you do with other people. You're doing it at them.
/r/seduction05/09/25 06:16 PM
1

I left high school an autistic virgin with one friend and 2+ decades later I'm one of the most socially successful people on earth. No I did not give up.
/r/seduction05/09/25 01:19 AM
1

So you think about you, and what you're feeling? And this is not self absorbed?
/r/seduction05/09/25 01:14 AM
1

When doing bicep curls, who do you think of?
/r/seduction05/09/25 01:03 AM
1

He wouldn't be self absorbed if he concentrated time on becoming muscular?
/r/seduction05/09/25 12:54 AM
1

Physical labor would make him think of something other than himself How did this make sense in your brain?
/r/seduction05/09/25 12:45 AM
3

I liked the point that cold anything is hard. It's in the name that it is a terrible idea that may work very occasionally by sheer force of numbers but everybody - and I do mean everybody - hates it. Just like viewing dating in market terminology and yet advocate for hocking their wares to strangers on the street like a scam artist. Incredible disconnect going on somewhere in such communities.
/r/seduction05/09/25 12:23 AM
1

Spend that time working over time or working out. Good idea. Tell the socially incompetent person to be more money-orientated and self-absorbed. That will work.
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:07 PM
-2

I can’t seem to feel secure about myself and I’m not sure what it is. Walking around and interrupting people doing other things because they made you horny is very weird and off-putting behavior. You are forcing yourself to behave in an antisocial way, and that is making you uncomfortable because other people really, really don't like that behavior. You can try and convince yourself that everyone does it if you like, but if you were to actually stop and just look at other people, you'd see NOBOD…
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:05 PM
0

Do you have a point to make? Or do you want to gesture vaguely at things in hopes everyone forgets what your post says about you?
/r/seduction04/09/25 08:42 AM
-4

No amount of followers will hide the fact that you're the type of person who needs to ask this, here.
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:38 AM
-6

I am what you would classify as absurdly socially successful, and I cannot think of a single thing that I could say to a woman at a grocery store that wouldn't be bothering her - that isn't a panicked warning of some sort of emergency anyway. The reason you can't think of something to say is because you have nothing to say. So don't say anything. Leave people alone when they're doing things.
/r/seduction04/09/25 05:44 AM
0

Cowardly behavior. Make stronger decisions and have respect for yourself. Unreal.
/r/seduction04/09/25 03:29 AM
0

I've been an absurdly socially successful adult for over 2 decades and there is no woman on this earth that could make me behave like that for any reason. Get real. You disrespect yourself in the extreme.
/r/seduction04/09/25 03:14 AM
2

If my goal is go on dates quickly, like by the end of the month, which is better? Neither. If you have so little social experience that you are at this stage, you should concentrate on making friends and trying new things.
/r/seduction04/09/25 02:41 AM
-6

Yes. The only person whose opinion you should be seeking regarding how you should behave is hers. Asking internet men how to do sex on a woman you met is psychotic and bizarre behavior that you should not do in my opinion.
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:56 AM
-8

If you need instruction on how to enjoy yourself with someone you like and who likes you, there is no advice on earth that will help you.
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:52 AM
-1

Shameful.
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:11 AM
-9

It’s inexcusable to cry to make an awful person choose to leave me YES YOU'RE A GOD DAMN ADULT MAN
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:09 AM
-14

I don't give a damn about her. What you chose to do was absolutely inexcusable with regards to being able to do that and maintain any self respect. Absolutely shameful stuff my man. Wow.
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:06 AM
-7

So in your view, there is no way to separate from the person you are living with that isn't crying or starting a massive fight? I don't know what to do with this. Go to therapy. Absolutely unreal.
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:03 AM
5

Depends. If crying is a human reaction to the stimulus that caused it, it's 100% fine. If your mother tells you she won't make you tendies and you have a sobbing meltdown and punch a hole in the wall, you will never see your girlfriend again.
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:52 PM
-2

You had a tantrum instead of using your words with a person who was your intimate partner?
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:51 PM
0

With constant movement, it will be even more obvious when a person is going out of their way to stay close to wherever you are. If you are not noticing that happening to you, guess what that means?
/r/seduction03/09/25 09:27 PM
26

Women who are into you will manufacture reasons to spend an inordinate amount of time in your proximity. If they are making no effort to be physically close to / talk to you in particular, they are unlikely to be into you. See? This is basic social competence. You don't need to immediately ask women out who may be just being friendly. You can observe, like an adult. Holy moly.
/r/seduction03/09/25 09:06 PM
3

I am beginner and don't have much experience. How good would you be at literally anything that you could describe like this? The answer is obvious. Spend more time around people of the opposite sex. Don't try and pick them up. Don't be weird at them. Just spend time around them. Eventually, you realise that they are just people, and then you can treat them like you would normal friends.
/r/seduction03/09/25 09:03 PM
0

Why on earth would you be asking women out so prematurely and considering that 'advanced seduction (for pros only)'? Can you read social situations at all?
/r/seduction03/09/25 09:15 AM
3

What has actually worked for you Doing cool things with cool people around large groups of people I don't know who are roughly in my dating pool. Why do so many girls either have a boyfriend or are married? You won't respect a woman, but you'll respect a man you can't see and leave them alone. Or they have boyfriends. It's normal to date. Which areas in the city do you find best for meeting higher-quality or more open girls? In cool places full of cool people in my dating pool.
/r/seduction03/09/25 07:14 AM
1

Lol ok good luck in court
/r/seduction03/09/25 06:59 AM
1

I agree continuing to sexually pursue somebody who has given you a clear indication of 'no' is a line people of any experience level should not be dancing on.
/r/seduction03/09/25 04:26 AM
39

I have been an absurdly socially successful adult for over 2 decades now and I have never, ever had a girl play hard to get with me. When women are into you, they are into you. If you ask the for their number and they say no, they are not into you.
/r/seduction03/09/25 01:53 AM
0

Yeah, like I say, good luck.
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:57 PM
0

Ok. If you think awkwardly bothering people in a loud nightclub will produce better "results" than having fun, good luck.
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:48 PM
1

Women like people who are fun to be around. I suggest you go to a club you like that plays music you like frequented by people you like and that way having fun becomes your primary focus and not picking up.
/r/seduction02/09/25 11:09 PM
0

If you ever wonder why dating is a hassle, consider it's because the type of person who cowers away from a request to back up his talk is absurdly unattractive.
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:59 PM
-6

No. Explain where I'm wrong as if to a child. Really rub it in my face how wrong I am. Go on. I'll watch.
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:55 PM
-11

There's a difference between regular friends and people you share hobbies, interests, and time with? Ok.
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:52 PM
48

Man discovers friends; is delighted.
/r/seduction02/09/25 08:45 PM
8

Do literally anything. You do nothing, so you spend too much time thinking about silly things. Be busy. Doesn't matter with what.
/r/seduction02/09/25 08:15 PM
1

No experience to speak of. Here's your problem. If you want confidence, you haven't earned it. You have to behave yourself in a way you can be proud of for as long as it takes to convince yourself that there is something very valuable in what you offer. It takes years. Confidence, luckily, is absolutely not necessary to date, but you will want to spend significant amounts of time around large groups of people of all genders who you don't know. Unless you want the process to confidence to take de…
/r/seduction02/09/25 08:01 PM
-1

You could try listening to what she's saying and respect that if you were looking to act like a decent person.
/r/seduction02/09/25 12:15 PM
21

600 words of narrativisation.
/r/seduction02/09/25 12:13 PM
3

Go outside. That is an absolutely unhinged claim to make.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:38 AM
2

You think most men never talk to women in a romantic context in real life?
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:32 AM
2

Most guys today never even start real-life interactions. .... What?
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:26 AM
7

The convincing way to tell someone you smashed a chick in the disabled jacks of a nightclub is to say that. You don't use 600 words of embarrassing narrativisation.
/r/seduction02/09/25 12:34 AM
70

Do you get sad when reading obviously fictitious descriptions of internet men 'succeeding'?
/r/seduction01/09/25 09:49 PM
-1

Because everyone knows the best bit about sex isn't the sex, it's bragging to the sexless losers online
/r/seduction01/09/25 09:43 PM
2

This is absolutely unhinged. If an unthinking robot can mash likely words together and connect with someone better than you, you are disabled, and the assistance for that is not AI.
/r/seduction01/09/25 08:34 PM
1

Yeah man Im sure women love it when you do it.
/r/seduction01/09/25 07:13 PM
1

So everyone who ever claimed to be a woman online and responded to those thousands of questions in the exact same way were faking it?
/r/seduction01/09/25 07:12 PM
1

That's weird since you can google that exact question and find thousands of reddit threads each with hundreds or thousands of responses and women are never saying 'how physically hot a man is'. Like, no women.
/r/seduction01/09/25 06:44 AM
1

Ever talked to a woman about that?
/r/seduction31/08/25 09:29 PM
1

It exists independent of you whether you like it or not. Your presence influences it, but it's one influence of many. Go somewhere around others, and stop talking. Just shut up, and notice. Once you can feel it, you'll be sensitive to when the vibes change; positively or negatively. You'll be able to identify what causes vibes to change, and then you'll understand how your words and actions (or inaction) can contribute.
/r/seduction31/08/25 03:06 PM
-1

You are boring. If they are not being physical with you, you have nothing to offer.
/r/seduction31/08/25 05:00 AM
8

I really like the term 'vibes'. Everyone knows what vibes is. Free of all intended meaning, how does a situation actually feel? A large part of social skills is monitoring the vibes of an interaction and doing your best to contribute positively in that world. So it's sort of like you're having 2 conversations simultaneously, one with words, and one with vibes. Skilled social actors can influence both simultaneously, but if you can only do one at a time, concentrate on vibes.
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:48 PM
7

It's social skills. Charisma is something else and absolutely not necessary to date.
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:32 PM
2

Good question. How do people who make you feel good to be around act? What qualities make you feel good?
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:31 PM
1

Lol I've sat in more military flight briefings than you and if anyone started wildly extrapolating insane view points based on data they googled they would have their wings taken.
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:30 PM
4

Of course putting in more effort is appreciated by some people, but the returns are so diminishing that if you're advising antisocial people without friends become even more self absorbed it's going to be a bad outcome.
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:29 PM
64

It is so extremely weird that when men worry about being attractive they zoom in on their skin care routine and how much they lift at the gym. If you are clean and wearing clean, normal clothing and you're perpetually single, all of your focus should be transferred from how you look to how you make people feel.
/r/seduction30/08/25 09:59 PM
1

Wow! Look How happy living your life according to statistics you don't understand makes you!
/r/seduction30/08/25 08:04 PM
1

Yeah, then you told her it wasn't serious, she agreed, and now she's treating you like someone she's not serious about. Why are you whining? It's exactly what you wanted.
/r/seduction30/08/25 03:35 AM
1

I can't make it any clearer. Those are simple sentences. If you don't know what I mean, your problem is that you don't understand language and that is handicapping your ability to understand and be understood.
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:47 AM
-2

Quote where I said that. Show everyone how broken your brain is.
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:20 AM
-2

So you’re saying that it’s impossible for you to imagine scenarios where a woman can misinterpret a guy or mention a boyfriend when she isn’t being hit on? If you think I typed anything like this, you are unable to understand English at a late primary school level.
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:18 AM
0

In my vast experience, women don't just say things apropos of nothing. They don't just say 'the pavement is wet' randomly. Strange they are making sure everyone knows they don't want to be hit on when you're around. Why don't they say other things completely randomly around you?
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:13 AM
1

You mean she was treating a person who told her he saw her as entirely disposable as entirely disposable? Isn't this the treatment that you had a discussion about, and agreed was entirely appropriate? Or was that only for your behavior?
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:10 AM
3

Another way to put it is 'she has uncovered your actual motives for this tedious and stupid conversation, and is now hostile' but sure that summary is also probably not inaccurate.
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:08 AM
18

Nine times out of ten, when a woman says, “I have a boyfriend,” what this translates to is, “You just telegraphed too much interest.” Lmao.
/r/seduction29/08/25 09:50 PM
-1

Go outside to where you want to approach women in public, sit down, and just watch. See how many days you sit there before you see someone harass a woman they don't know. Then think about what sort of man the guy that harassed that woman might be. Whether or not he looks like a winner or a loser. Think about how the woman reacted to being bothered. Then armed with all the information you need about the type of person who harasses women and how common it is, you can make an informed decision abou…
/r/seduction29/08/25 09:49 PM
1

Chad at his best will have a conversion rate of probably 3 to every 20 women he talks to Stop writing fan fiction about what the lives of sexually successful men are like.
/r/seduction29/08/25 07:26 PM
1

Good plan man from what I know about women they don't care about their husband's reputation at all!
/r/seduction29/08/25 09:18 AM
1

No man, definitely go approach strangers in a small town. I bet that won't annihilate your reputation with every woman in town by the end of the week. They definitely don't talk about creepy men making them feel unsafe in the street.
/r/seduction29/08/25 09:13 AM
1

Oh, so you made a terrible decision of staying in your home town and these are the consequences. Stop whining about decisions you made.
/r/seduction29/08/25 09:04 AM
1

Why on earth would you spend several years waiting for your life to come and get you? You find love by interacting positively with a wide variety of people roughly your age as a regular part of your week hanging out with your broad circle of friends doing cool, fun things.
/r/seduction29/08/25 08:38 AM
1

Cold calls and cold email is also "taboo", but if it works, it works. Hey baby, this human equivalent of junk mail is looking to take you to dinner.
/r/seduction29/08/25 07:58 AM
75

I bounced nightclubs for several years. Women have a look they can give literally any woman that means basically 'help'. They all understand it, and treat it like needing a tampon: you never leave a girl short in those situations no matter your feelings towards her. If you don't know what I'm talking about and you've spent any time at nightclubs, you should pay attention.
/r/seduction29/08/25 05:50 AM
6

Is this for real? OK. When you're in a long term relationship, at some point sex stops becoming something that just happens and becomes an actual concerted effort to not just maintain but develop. There are no magic spells to keep making your wife not fuck the mail man. She needs to see you work consistently at not just embodying the traits she fell in love with but further develop into the man she thought you could be. If you do that your wife will never, ever get tired of you. But that's more …
/r/seduction29/08/25 05:43 AM
1

You get on the roller-coaster. You don't do anything to make it go up and down, you just ride it. The roller coaster is called 'Connecting with someone you're attracted to'.
/r/seduction29/08/25 03:49 AM
4

No dude, you just invented having sex with women. Well done.
/r/seduction29/08/25 03:19 AM
2

Approaching women and bothering them because they made you horny has been taboo literally everywhere I've ever been the world over except when in pubs or nightclubs where it is generally frowned upon but ultimately tolerated. A lot of men will tell you it's all in your head that you need to work up courage to bother women, but deep down you know that people don't do that, and that it's weird.
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:30 PM
1

You explained using your own words how you got told to go away and then bothered someone again. Acting confused about why that upsets people is brain damaged.
/r/seduction28/08/25 09:42 PM
2

Here's the characteristics of a cool person. Cool people are perceived to be more extraverted, hedonistic, powerful, adventurous, open, and autonomous No luck there? Better check to see if you're good... whereas good people are more conforming, traditional, secure, warm, agreeable, universalistic, conscientious, and calm. I hope you're at least some of those things. A general look around here though I would say basically everyone fails in basically every category of both labels and is in fact cl…
/r/seduction28/08/25 09:06 PM
0

I've partied in every western and Europe a country on earth.
/r/seduction28/08/25 06:20 PM
0

No. If you treat people normally, you get normal reactions. If you don't listen to people and disrespect them, you get reactions like you get. It is not normal at all.
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:59 PM
7

If she needs to be told that you're rare, you're not rare. Anyone impressed by that boast is borderline mentally incompetent.
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:14 AM
2

Yeah man for sure. I'm your internet enemy all dressed up as a man - your worst nightmare. Embarrassing.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:37 AM
4

I agree that whining is the single least attractive trait a human can exhibit but exactly one rung above them is you. There is nothing I recognise as masculinity in your post.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:24 AM
31

I went to night clubs several times a week for about ten years and I have never, ever been treated like that by literally anyone. The fact that it constantly happens to you makes me think the problem might be you.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:09 AM
1

Dude, fix your mental health, get a job, make some friends, THEN think about dating. What woman on planet earth would want to be around you right now? You offer less than nothing. Sort yourself out.
/r/seduction28/08/25 12:46 AM
-1

There is no reason any of that should stop you from living a cool life full of fun stuff. You have made a choice to live like someone who is boring, and not worth anything.
/r/seduction27/08/25 09:10 PM
-1

they taught they could not only game the system but demolosh and supass Chad in laycount. They lied, but even if it was true the 'chad' does all his fucking incidentally to living a sick life full of fun and cool shit. Pick up losers have their life revolve around women and """game""". It's the saddest way to live
/r/seduction27/08/25 08:39 PM
3

If you are saying lines at people you are flirting AT them. You're supposed to flirt WITH people.
/r/seduction27/08/25 12:13 AM
-8

Oh my god lol Just go outside at all. Creepy losers are everywhere.
/r/seduction26/08/25 11:32 PM
-6

You shouldn't need to approach women. Your friendship group will have women integrated into it unless you are in a gay bar.
/r/seduction26/08/25 10:53 PM
1

How do you enjoy all the fruits of being popular and active in your community without actually doing anything? Step this way sir. 10k please.
/r/seduction26/08/25 10:19 PM
1

Lifestyle' is a separate topic; it has nothing to do with seduction. Absolutely staggering.
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:15 PM
1

Approaching women was invented by mystery in the early 2000s? Incredible. For day game, I use another prop to approach women I tell everyone on this sub because it is super-easy: I untie the knot of a leather bracelet I wear on my right wrist and ask a woman to help me tie it, saying I can’t do it with my left hand. That idea also came from Mystery, he shared it in a YouTube podcast. I can't believe you just admit to doing this stuff for real.
/r/seduction26/08/25 11:57 AM
-3

What exactly do you offer them dude? At the end of the day you're Some Guy she met on the street. Why would you expect these women to be enthusiastic to date you? The only thing they know about you is you talk to people on the street.
/r/seduction26/08/25 09:48 AM
1

I definitely understand varying social circle sizes as life pulls everyone in a million directions. That said, my advice is regaining that social circle as soon as possible. At your age (and any age) it will be far more beneficial to your dating prospects than anything pickup artistry could teach.
/r/seduction26/08/25 08:19 AM
1

How are you 50 and able to read something like the mystery method and think it might be a good idea? Do you have a wide social circle of all genders and an active social life?
/r/seduction26/08/25 12:10 AM
1

Get help dude, you are an absolutely terrible person. Work on that.
/r/seduction26/08/25 12:09 AM
6

You can't say what you'd say to flirt with a person. Interactions consist of two individuals and their unique chemistry. Literally saying 'I hate you' could be part if a flirting exchange, but telling you that is worthless. Flirting is the effortless positive chemistry between two individuals. What is actually being said does not matter.
/r/seduction25/08/25 06:51 PM
-2

Sounds like you need more friends. Your life revolves around dating and it's sad.
/r/seduction25/08/25 03:25 AM
1

Why don't you have friends?
/r/seduction25/08/25 03:03 AM
1

A facet of a confident and charismatic person is that they will make you comfortable when speakinh to them. awkwardness is common to 99.9% of people. Nobody thinks anything about initial awkwardness.
/r/seduction25/08/25 12:22 AM
8

It's just women realising that effeminate soft boys are not the same thing as safe and therapy language is not the same thing as emotionally intelligent. Awareness around this topic will mean decreased results for anyone utilising those things to get laid. Good.
/r/seduction25/08/25 12:18 AM
1

'I marched up to her on the street and just want to smash, but how dare she treat me equally as disposably! Doesn't she know I'm a high value man (who needs to sell his products to randoms on the street)?'
/r/seduction24/08/25 10:56 PM
1

Respond to the things I've actually typed. If I wanted to say something weird and silly, I'd have typed it. You are too unintelligent to put words in my mouth. Respond to what I wrote, or don't respond.
/r/seduction24/08/25 06:35 AM
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Have something to say that is situationally and socially appropriate. If there was a big monster running up behind them you'd be able to say 'run' or whatever no problem. Youre nervous because you are bothering people and it's bad to do that.
/r/seduction24/08/25 03:05 AM
2

Doesn't matter where you live, if you aren't actively managing your reputation, you are failing in ways you aren't even aware of. In order to most easily convince someone you aren't a weird freak, I find it easiest to not act like one. This is the exact same regardless of if I'm in a big city or a tiny community. If you recognise that the things you want to do would annihilate your reputation in a small town, maybe nobody should do it anywhere. Just a thought.
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:46 AM
-1

What part are you having trouble with? Those are fairly basic sentences, about early highschool level.
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:32 AM
0

Sorry. I thought you would prioritise being honest with yourself and others over getting a partner. Not going to lie, it's going to be very hard to convince a woman that your lying and cowardly person is worth a date. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:14 AM
1

People don't like you because you are self absorbed and boring, not because you're ugly. I can tell because no men like you either.
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:30 PM
1

sound like “You look like a cut of Fuckable meat.” To women. What's the problem? That's what you're doing. If you can't be honest about your intentions, maybe you shouldn't be intending those things huh?
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:30 PM
0

The fact that you have no problems with the idea of bothering a hot woman but balk at the idea of bothering 'normal people' is why your life is terrible.
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:28 PM
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This is far closer to effective behavior for growing socially than any of the usual pick up artist stuff. The biggest difference is that it's practice not being a freak. Day 1: say good morning to 5 strangers. Normal behavior. Day 2: compliment 3 people (not about looks). A little bit weird but it's nice behavior and there's no weird hanging around afterwards hoping it buys you time to be a freak at people, so it's ok here. Borderline freak stuff though. Day 3: ask one open question then leave. …
/r/seduction23/08/25 09:08 PM
-1

No. What's six times six? And that times six? And that times six? And that times six? You don't have any friends. You don't know what I'm talking about
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:58 AM
-1

Genuinely, genuinely incredible. I'm reality, if you have about six sociable friends with normal social lives you have indirect access to every major scene in your town and city. Imagine each of your six friends having six friends, who all have six friends, who all have six friends. Just socialising normally you have unlimited access to people and experiences. I'd say you should be ashamed of yourself for not knowing how friends or mathematics works but I don't think you're capable of it.
/r/seduction23/08/25 08:16 AM
-1

However, the number of women you can meet through friends is very limited This is probably the most wrong thing I've ever seen typed here, and I want you to think about the implications of that.
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:06 AM
1

If your friends are not already bigging you up to their hot single friends, there's probably a reason for that.
/r/seduction22/08/25 10:53 PM
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Mostly I look at and speak to my date. If you are also doing that and you have absolutely no idea what they are up for, you are going to go to prison and you will not be innocent.
/r/seduction22/08/25 09:56 PM
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These women are 100% not down for what you're doing and are scared of you. I guess the question is am I escalating too much It is wild you are asking this of internet men when you've already told us the person this concerns told you 'HEY, YOU'RE DOING WAY TOO MUCH, I'M NOT COMFORTABLE' but later told me that she'd want less pda and less forwardness. Why don't you understand words that are said to you?
/r/seduction22/08/25 09:45 PM
-1

Is that what you were trying to do? Oh wow. Thanks for your time lol
/r/seduction22/08/25 12:30 AM
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No, but as instructions to a socially disabled person, it is about as fundamentally wrong as advice can be. Here's a freebie: if anyone's answer to your question about how to get people to like you is 'talk at them harder', disregard. THIS PERSON DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU, TELLING THEM ABOUT YOUR TEDIOUS DAY OF ASKING STRANGERS HOW TO FUCK HER WILL NOT WORK.
/r/seduction22/08/25 12:18 AM
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Are you serious? Instead of inquiring about them, talk about yourself? Unreal.
/r/seduction21/08/25 11:59 PM
2

If you don't understand what it's like to have a genuine connection with a woman, stop thinking about dating. You say you have friends who are women, here's why I don't believe that: the distance between a woman who is your friend and a casual fuck is minuscule, and you don't even have a concept of how that tiny gap might be breached. Stop lying online, go and make irl friends.
/r/seduction21/08/25 11:57 PM
10

You are either both behaving like aliens, or this is all being made up by a dork who has no idea what humans behave like. I cannot derive a single normal human impulse in any of that behavior. I can only give advice on human mating rituals.
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:35 PM
1

Who cares? What are you doing where this information would change your behavior? Whatever that behavior is that would be affected, it's embarrassing, so you should stop it.
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:22 PM
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If you care about what a stranger does with their time and energy, you are a loser who needs real problems to be concerned with. When rude people stop talking to me, I like that, then I move on. Be normal.
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:03 PM
2

.... What are you guys doing when you're around women? Who cares what her standards are? Are you guys performing? Why aren't you being normal? Why would absolutely anything you do be influenced by what another person requires of a partner? What the hell is going on when you're talking to women? This is so abnormal. Everyone answering like this is a normal question are themselves operating with a stoved in skull.
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:01 PM
1

If that's what you're trying to do, I've never seen someone fail so hard.
/r/seduction21/08/25 04:21 PM
1

If I scrolled past this on reddit I would go into the sub that allowed this post to exist and mute it. It is hard to articulate how terrible this post is in a sea of computer generated idiocy and general idiocy but it is really bad and I feel bad now that I've read it.
/r/seduction21/08/25 09:04 AM
0

What part confused you?
/r/seduction21/08/25 08:35 AM
3

Whatever you being interested in someone looks like it freaks 100% of women out so no, apparently you can't be interested in someone without them pulling away. May I suggest not acting like a serial killer?
/r/seduction21/08/25 06:50 AM
1

So you act like a freak with no friends cold-calling them like a scam artist and it's not working out? Why on earth would you expect it to?
/r/seduction21/08/25 02:08 AM
0

This is so pathetic. You people are not from this planet. You made a date for 9pm on a weekend evening and expected her to block out an entire night for you? A person she's never met? Further, it is self-evidently embarrassing for you to be doing nothing on a weekend night except pressure your first date into wasting her weekend with you. You looked like a loser with nothing to do. She looked like a winner with a social life. And you were still thinking about trying to kiss this person? You are …
/r/seduction17/08/25 06:40 AM
1

It really is a terrifying look into the psyche of the loser. Can you imagine someone behaving like that and you are so desperate for companionship that you pretend it's normal? Truly bleak stuff.
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:40 AM
1

Approximately how long do women need to behave absolutely insanely before you'll stop associating with them?
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:28 AM
0

Yes. YES.
/r/seduction17/08/25 03:52 AM
3

I’d really appreciate advice on how to break out of this rut and start building a social life again. Why are you running away from having a casual drink at a bar with co workers? I genuinely can't think of a more low-stakes place to start re-building a social circle and you're treating it like it's an end of year exam you haven't studied for.
/r/seduction17/08/25 02:05 AM
3

Do you think that maybe you should put getting a girlfriend on the shelf for a while? At least until you can speak a few words to people without having a full on panic attack maybe. Just a thought.
/r/seduction17/08/25 12:56 AM
2

1) How can I overcome my faults outlined in the story I outlined? So to solve being painfully boring because you saw it as a lost cause, I suggest not seeing it as a lost cause. To solve nearly hooking up with several girls but failing because you didn't take the opportunity, I suggest taking the opportunity. 2) What would the go to strategy be for hostel seduction? (like how would I introduce myself in a way that I could hookup with the girls, being alone with them, etc) Why are you asking this…
/r/seduction16/08/25 10:03 AM
5

You sound like a ten year old trying to convince his class mates that he's dating a very mature woman who does mature things like menstruate and talks about very mature things like menstruation.
/r/seduction16/08/25 06:19 AM
1

Why would a woman get mad that a guy told her that it was never going to work as soon as humanly possible? Seems made up.
/r/seduction16/08/25 06:17 AM
2

You need to understand what you're explaining, and have the communication skills necessary to explain it. Any lack of congruence will be down to one of those two things.
/r/seduction16/08/25 05:46 AM
2

Why would you be describing something that you don't have experience with?
/r/seduction16/08/25 05:32 AM
1

'I think I'm in a great, funny mood, but those stupid bitches don't' - a real person
/r/seduction15/08/25 11:20 PM
2

During the event and in the bar, it dawned on me that nobody was cold approaching. I was in fact complimented twice on my approach and having a light hearted conversation with no expectations - just trying to read the vibe, converse, and have a laugh lol. Can you tell me how these compliments went? Because this sounds like the most made up thing of all time. 'Wow hey random guy I really like the way you interrupted us you were just so light hearted and you weren't expecting anything' just sounds…
/r/seduction15/08/25 10:12 AM
1

Yes. If you keep behaving like an antisocial loser, you'll eventually stop being able to detect that everyone around you hates you and the way you behave because what you have effectively done as you koolaide man into groups of people who don't know you for the 5 millionth time is you've behaved so inappropriately so often that people holding you in contempt is now normal. Congratulations. You've made yourself even more unable to succeed in life and given yourself permanent brain damage and a pe…
/r/seduction15/08/25 08:51 AM
5

Hang out around large groups of people in your dating pool. That's it. Everything will do itself if you do enough of that.
/r/seduction15/08/25 02:50 AM
1

Why are they going back to your place without any idea that sex is likely to follow? It is extremely unusual for a person to go on 2 very deliberate dates and accept an invitation back to their place and then be confused when sex starts happening. Almost like they were lied to. And obviously you've already made out and are extremely physically close so that sex is just the next natural step. Why are they waiting for such a strange time to let you know that actually, you're repulsive?
/r/seduction15/08/25 01:42 AM
0

I hope that's true man or else you are proud of being one of the least likable people on earth and an embarrassing adult. Paying for things and then whining about it. Absolutely pathetic.
/r/seduction15/08/25 12:11 AM
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You think of women as things and you think by paying you are owed their body. You are the embodiment of the very core of what feminists find repulsive about dating losers today. Take responsibility for the things you do. Embarrassing.
/r/seduction15/08/25 12:09 AM
1

If you can't tell what a person you are talking to thinks of your behaviour I would suggest assuming they do jot appreciate it. It is extremely unlikely you are knocking it out of the park accidentally.
/r/seduction14/08/25 11:33 AM
1

Do you think maybe you should leave dating until after having simple conversations becomes a bit more natural for you?
/r/seduction14/08/25 06:27 AM
1

I have lived for decades before meeting any woman. Unless she has had a private detective following me around since birth, there is a lifetime of shit about me that she will not know. If she is not curious by default, why are you dating someone who doesn't just not like you, but also doesn't care about you at all? You seem to have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.
/r/seduction14/08/25 03:29 AM
1

You think one of the most vital long-term tips for monogamous romance is doing push / pull pick up stuff? An idea so embarrassing and terrible that it doesn't even work at short term relationships?
/r/seduction14/08/25 03:14 AM
1

Why are you describing things you do on a first date when talking about how to secure a person's 'sex, love, emotions, and fidelity'? This doesn't mean anything.
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:56 AM
1

Almost every major streamer has covered the Tea data leak at this point Your assertion isn't that a tea app exists. It's that the app existing is a problem, and for that you're using a 300 subscriber guy ranting into his camera as evidence. It is incredible you are not embarrassed. Please explain in detail Ok. I don't have all day, but I'll give you 3 solid reasons why I think this is a non-issue, and why you might be the type of person who is humiliating to be. Reason 1 you should be embarrasse…
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:50 AM
1

The fact that you think it's a big problem that affects everyone and the least embarrassing example of someone exposing it that you can link is from a guy with 300 subscribers. What is more likely: The man with 300 subscribers is aware of a monumental issue happening in reality and is the only one who sees the truth? Or the man with 300 subscribers is a loser whining about a problem that exists only in the shared delusion of him and the most sexless men on earth?
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:31 AM
2

It is absolutely incredible to not be absolutely embarrassed to admit that that video is what justifies your world view. It should not be possible to be so powerfully detached from reality.
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:18 AM
1

Why do you think women should be looking at you? Unless I'm talking to somebody I don't really see strangers looking at me for no reason, and it would be weird if they were.
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:44 PM
0

Almost all of women you are talking to/dating are on the AWDTSG app and Facebook groups and the Tea app which has had millions of downloads. You are hysterical and detached from reality. You are struggling to date because you are not sharing the same planet as normal people who can think.
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:29 PM
2

[Authors patch notes for interpersonal relationships with computer game programming terms apropos of nothing and posts it online] [Opens new tab] Why is dating so hard?
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:14 PM
1

It should be way easier than at any other time in your life. You should be a better and more capable person in every way. The limit on people your age generally comes from a life that leaves no time for socialising, but that doesn't seem to be affecting you.
/r/seduction13/08/25 10:53 PM
1

Maybe try making friends that are interested in doing the things that are relevant to you in your life as it is currently. All the friends in the world aren't worth shit if they lead such different lives to you that they aren't a significant part of your life.
/r/seduction13/08/25 10:35 PM
2

You sound like you're in desperate need of friends, not sex.
/r/seduction13/08/25 10:23 PM
3

Being horny and in a drought isn't necessarily a turn-off for women. Being horny and dwelling on how horny you are all day because you don't do anything cool, fun, or productive is a turn off for women.
/r/seduction13/08/25 09:51 PM
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Women generally don't like men so weak and pathetic that the very limits of their courage is messaging a woman they don't know on the internet and saying a pick up line at them that they got from another man. You will find much better success by being a normal person with a healthy social life.
/r/seduction13/08/25 09:48 PM
0

For guys here who hook up a lot or feel like they can go at any time, what would you say are your biggest contributors? Whether it's supplements, activities, mindsets, diet, anything at all. It is so extremely fucking weird that you think the biggest contributors to being popular is exclusively shit that just makes you ok to look at. The biggest contributor by far is time spent around large groups of people in my dating pool in real life. There is no bigger contributor. Pick up artists have been…
/r/seduction13/08/25 05:06 AM
2

I'll show you. Watch. Tell me something you've learned.
/r/seduction12/08/25 08:40 AM
1

You're right though. It probably will never be relevant.
/r/seduction12/08/25 07:47 AM
2

Why did you avoid answering what you were planning to do when meeting up with someone in real life when you can't even flirt over text without a support van and pit crew?
/r/seduction12/08/25 05:18 AM
3

You know how chess grand masters can think like 20 moves ahead? How do you think the move of crowdsourcing lines to say at women will go if by some miracle they fall for it and you meet up in real life?
/r/seduction12/08/25 12:28 AM
3

'covert manipulative behavior' Unreal.
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:03 AM
1

'Take on the countenance of the hobo.' Incredible.
/r/seduction10/08/25 11:41 PM
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.... I think a 'let's hang out' vibe would work best. Notice that that vibe does not include furiously asking other men for logistical help to subtextually convey something you should have already said with words from your mouth.
/r/seduction10/08/25 11:34 PM
1

Ok. In my average hour therapy session, the therapist says about 50 words in total. What does she say in those 50 words to brainwash me or keep me dependent or whatever childish shit you think happens in therapy?
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:32 PM
1

Ok. Explain to me how therapy is evading personal responsibility. No detail needed, just an eli5. Once you tell me that, I'll be able to publicly tell you in detail how stupid you are because even put simply what you try and describe will be humiliatingly wrong.
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:17 PM
1

If you knew what even happened in therapy, you'd know how extremely stupid saying 'assuming responsibility to a third party' is. Do you worry that you are going through life not even understanding basic concepts yet holding very wrong, very stupid opinions about them?
/r/seduction10/08/25 07:04 PM
2

lol
/r/seduction10/08/25 04:35 AM
7

Here is my patented beginner to advanced program for advanced openers: Your opener from now until time stops is hey how's it going. Your job is to notice that it is never about what you say when starting an idle conversation, and everything to do with when and how it's asked. Pick up coaches have made millions of dollars teaching the wrong version of what I just solved in 50 words.
/r/seduction10/08/25 03:36 AM
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I find myself to be an irritated and angry person. Go to therapy. If you ever find yourself saying 'I'm angry', you are failing to understand your own situation. Anger is a secondary emotion. It is always caused by something, and that something is nearly always deeply unflattering. You aren't angry that you stubbed your toe. You aren't angry at the person who left the object there. You're angry that you didn't properly understand your surroundings before flailing around in it. Being popular alwa…
/r/seduction10/08/25 02:40 AM
36

I have found no upper limit to my ability to extract what I want out of any social situation. As long as I am still interested in learning about how humans interact, I keep improving. Wanting to fuck a million women does nothing to make you more successful at doing that. Wanting to understand people and interpersonal relationships does.
/r/seduction09/08/25 11:47 PM
7

So you've had tons of casual sex and you sit around wondering what it would have been like to have the same experiences only when you were stupider? Ok. Personally after having tons of casual sex I don't really think about it at all. It is a normal, natural part of my life. It wasn't, now it is. I cannot comprehend why you'd be looking back wistfully at the before times that sounds psychotic. As a general rule if you find yourself focusing on the past, it's a pretty strong indication that your p…
/r/seduction09/08/25 08:57 PM
1

I always state my real intentions and I don't play games. Although that would be a catastrophic move if my intention was trying to fuck someone I haven't even met because that is widely considered really fucking weird and scary behaviour by nearly every woman on earth.
/r/seduction09/08/25 08:35 PM
1

I assumed we were already in a conversation. Otherwise you'd just be filming women on the street and you would belong in jail even more somehow.
/r/seduction09/08/25 08:10 PM
1

Yeah mostly I just look at the person I'm talking to and then react appropriately.
/r/seduction09/08/25 06:54 PM
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Ah. Your fee fees.
/r/seduction09/08/25 06:09 PM
1

Lol 'That's not a normal way to talk to a woman as you can clearly see on my normal spy cam' hahahaha you people belong in prison.
/r/seduction09/08/25 06:08 PM
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Where did I say all women are good?
/r/seduction09/08/25 06:04 PM
0

.... You think being able to quickly identify absolutely insane people is undesirable broadly? Do you people we've think with your exploded brain before you type or do you just let it fly?
/r/seduction09/08/25 06:03 PM
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Oh. I see. I'm able to spot absolutely insane people with absolutely no concept of what's appropriate (almost like they don't exist and were created by a loser shut in) within a minute of talking to them. If I fucked up bad enough that I actually ended up on a date with someone that insane, I would probably not sit through all 50 photos. Embarrassing.
/r/seduction09/08/25 08:11 AM
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Wow. You mean people you've met once for a half hour take the time out of their day to make up insane shit about you online? In my experience they just say 'it was nice to meet you' and then we just stop interacting if the date didn't see a spark. You must be doing something really, really normal to get your experience.
/r/seduction09/08/25 06:56 AM
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If they've been around you for a while and you have had ZERO indication that they want to fuck you, why would you ask something like that?
/r/seduction09/08/25 02:40 AM
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You are boring. You either do nothing with nobody ever, or you cannot communicate otherwise.
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:58 AM
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They've tried nothing and they're all out of ideas. In my opinion, if you are not around large groups of people in your dating pool in real life for at least 10 hours a week and you're whining about being alone, fuck off. You're not even trying. Kids who like drawing put in more than 10 hours a week, and you're saying you really really really want a human connection and to feel the warmth of a woman but '10 hours a week? Hell no. I have cartoons to jack off to'. Fuck off with that shit. It's so …
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:07 PM
9

She seemed to be trying to forge a human connection with some sort of alien that doesn't understand humans or relationships at all and then gave up.
/r/seduction08/08/25 09:56 PM
2

Hold eye contact a little longer. Let her feel you’re seeing her as a woman. Oh my god. Look. Please don't do this because some guy told you it makes women want to sleep with you. It does not. Eye contact does change between platonic and sexual contexts, but if you're looking at her 'like that' and she isn't 100% down to fuck you, you're going to look like a rapist.
/r/seduction08/08/25 06:25 AM
2

What a good or a bad thing? What the hell is the question here lol. Do you need opinions as to whether or not you liking someone we've never seen or met is good or not? That is insane. Go away.
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:10 PM
0

I bet that's the most proud of something you've been for at least a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:45 AM
2

When you put a person's genitals in your mouth you get a say about their health. Do you need it any stupider?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:39 AM
2

Yeah I think when you are financially and legally bound and in an intimate relationship maybe there's an exception there that any normal person would have just assumed but there is obviously something extremely wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:35 AM
2

I’m wondering - is this part of a known seduction principle? Yes, this is known as 'scaring the shit out of people' and it is sub-optimal. 'Intimidating' and 'intense' are terrible descriptors when trying to convince a person to go somewhere alone with you and undress.
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:09 PM
11

It's a stupid and meaningless combination of buzz words designed to perk up the ears of losers desperate to see if they can short cut their way to social competence.
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:08 PM
1

Yeah I'm going to read a tight 1500 words on what an AI thinks women's approach to casual sex is brb
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:09 PM
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I really like the tea app because the way I conduct myself ensures that if I'm discussed in any whisper networks it will be positive and promotional. There are many, many legitimate reasons why that app was objectionable, but 99.9% of the stress and anger is coming from pieces of shit who don't like sunlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:20 PM
1

It's a medical issue between the individual and their doctor. My ideology says shut the fuck up about other people's medical issues. Anyone who earnestly has un-asked-for opinions about the medical issues of others is a dog shit person no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:18 PM
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Your 'red pill' tag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:07 AM
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Oof lol. Sorry I asked. I assumed the absence of those traits would fit red pill enthusiasts because they are the type of dorks who look for internet men to tell them how to trick a woman into sex and those people as a general rule are extremely uncool and fundamentally terrible people. As you can see by your response and every non-response in this comments section, I was correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:04 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:53 AM
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What traits of the concepts do you feel you embody?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:50 AM
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The fact that more men want to discuss what I lift at the gym than the concepts of cool and good for some reason. And you're being embarrassingly coy about the whole thing. It's very transparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:47 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:44 AM
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Oh. Just a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:44 AM
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I don't know if I would have described myself as cool but, shit, I embody all of the traits listed there, so maybe I am "scientifically cool" lol. Gosh golly, I'm a raging hedonist and powerful social force but 'cool'? Oh, am I blushing? Sorry, I have to finish this 900 christ air to darkslide and win gold at the x-games, I'll think about this later after the orgy where I'll win largest penis and most semen awards again, it's a lot to take in. Cya, or as the French say, ciao! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:34 AM
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Yeah man. Rock n roll or whatever. Cool is just a state of mind man. You're a rebel. You don't play by society's rules. And you know what that makes you? Cool as heck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:51 AM
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Oh I was just speaking generally. Not about you and your situation. I'm sure you're very attractive and have very good qualities that aren't listed there that people actually like and don't pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:36 AM
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That's true. No matter how absolutely intolerable you are, there will always be people with absolutely no standards. All you really need is to put yourself out there and you'll find someone drunk enough or brain damaged enough to tolerate you. As you've discovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:22 AM
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As a scientist I have to ask, what is scientifically cool? According to 6k people the world over: Cool people are perceived to be more extraverted, hedonistic, powerful, adventurous, open, and autonomous, I thought that was very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:45 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 06:07 AM
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Which traits of cool and good apply to you? Was it none of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:27 AM
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Yeah man for sure it's that and not that the OP was so accurate it made you feel extremely bad in real life causing you to fire this off to quell the cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:01 AM
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They say the same thing dude. The first one just explains in detail why you're uncool. I just skipped straight to the conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:27 AM
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That cognitive dissonance must be massive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:18 AM
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What are you talking about? Everyone on reddit is anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:09 AM
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Those are the things I currently offer. When I was young I was popular, safe, active, and fun. That's all I needed. I very, very, very much doubt you are fun and popular. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:08 AM
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Yeah there is no way the people here would be that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:03 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:02 AM
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Yes, people with doctorates did a massive, world-wide study. These are the results of academic rigor. You are scientifically terrible and uncool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:01 AM
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No, I said you are not scientifically cool or good. Subjectively youre special boys who are very cool and very good. But scientifically you're just awful and it is unsurprising no one wants to be around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:55 AM
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Is it? They didn't mention anything about that in the study. Being concerned with what others think sounds very uncool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:53 AM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:37 AM
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As long as you're not whining about the obvious consequences of being a loser, I don't give a shit who is cool or uncool or what they choose to do with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:37 AM
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People don't ask that on dates you freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:35 AM
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lol ok dude hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:34 AM
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Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:30 AM
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50kg dumbell bench x 3 145kg back squat x 1 130kg deadlift x 5 Are you trying to divine my manliness with gym metrics like crones with tea leaves? What's the result? You are a massive dork? How did that get in my reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:30 AM
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I was 100% accurate wasn't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:20 AM
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Dunno man. I guess we don't all have the strength to hide in comment chains talking adjacently at your internet enemies while avoiding the topic that is supposed to be being discussed for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:19 AM
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Opening my eyes and reading the comments on this sub for 6 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:16 AM
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We're all happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:16 AM
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Yeah man when I think of cool I think of trust fund kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:08 AM
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Clean, presentable, socially skilled across a wide variety of contexts, financially secure, has a vision for the future, intelligent, accomplished, active, fun, safe, popular, sexually skilled, funny, and a very strong communicator. If you can be those things, I can tell you now dating is the easiest thing on earth. Especially these days with the standard for men being so absurdly low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:06 AM
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Yeah you really need that to be true so yeah man I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:50 AM
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So most men? AHHHHHHHHHHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:43 AM
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Clean, presentable, socially skilled across a wide variety of contexts, employed, has a vision for the future, intelligent, accomplished, active, fun, safe, sexually skilled, funny, and a very strong communicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:39 AM
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No. This: Women don't value a human connection with men anymore. disqualifies you from any communication from me that isn't obvious contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:37 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:34 AM
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Ohhh. So it's not because you're uncool and fundamentally bad (scientifically speaking of course), it's because successful people are attention seekers. Good point man. Phew. Glad it's that and not the other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:22 AM
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Hahaha yep
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:54 AM
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Enough to know when someone has never spoken to a woman on a real date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:52 AM
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As a middle aged man who has been more sexually successful than you think is possible, you are wrong and embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:50 AM
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.... Who are you dating? This might be a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:49 AM
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Sorry man women like having sex with me so your comment just makes you sound like all of your experience is non-consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:48 AM
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The question 'what do you offer a relationship' gets men really mad because the answer is 'a job'. That's it. They are boring, terminally uncool dorks with no friends who does nothing except go to work and whine online and they know that isn't anywhere near enough to deserve any relationship but they really feel it should be so you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:11 AM
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Go to therapy. 2. Get a friend. Go from there.
/r/seduction05/08/25 11:48 PM
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Why do you think women love a man in uniform? I served in the military and lived in several 'military' towns and cities. They love a man in uniform until they date one and find out they are no more or less liable to be monsters than any other man and then they put 'no military' in their tinder bios before turning 20 years old. Your perspective is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:09 PM
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If a woman told a man she thought he was dumb on a date the fucking crying I'd have to see in places like this boggles my mind.
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:18 PM
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That's your social calibration at work. Despite your best efforts, you've been alive for a few years now and when you actually think about it you haven't actually seen normal people harrassing women, so you are currently feeling weird about doing it, because it's weird to do that. What you need to do is violate the social contract and societal norms so often and so flagrantly you become un-embarrassed of doing deeply uncool and freakish things. People will still look at you and call you a freak,…
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:14 PM
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They just need something to work with. Get a skincare routine, a new haircut, a new wardrobe, a new piercing, or anything!! Have you noticed that most men don't put any effort into their appearance and succeed anyway? Well instead of wondering what they're doing right, do the thing that really obviously doesn't matter that much and focus on turning yourself into a dandy lad! After all, men and women alike think fops are the very pinnacle of male desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:11 PM
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Wow. So she decided to get drunk and talk exclusively about the most important thing in her life: getting men to pay for dates. Just like a normal thing for humans to get dru k and talk about!
/r/seduction05/08/25 07:09 PM
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You know that scene in Joker where Arthur is sitting at the back making notes on what topics people are laughing at not understanding that it's the observations and not the subjects that are funny? Well a socially maladjusted dork saw two close friends teasing and roasting each other and assuming 'oh, just do that to women' not taking into account the dozens, hundreds, or even thousands of hours of trust and good will built up before that type of thing is appropriate. Then no one corrected him f…
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:50 AM
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You think all your partners friends are plotting and scheming to make her break up with you because you're short?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:23 AM
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Was I incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:20 AM
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You are paranoid. Nobody thinks about you. What a colossal waste of energy that would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:44 AM
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Yeah man sure I don't personally know any short dudes in happy rel- oh wait yes I do they're just normal people and you are loser who forced yourself into a social disability after a lifetime of failing to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:30 AM
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Do you think misogyny is thinking women can't vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:25 AM
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Your OP of this post man. It's the detached misogynistic ravings of a shut in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:23 AM
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People like you are the reason why men talk about how serious false allegations are. Middle aged white men are the reason they're doing that? Why? Seems weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:20 AM
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That's ok. The comment is under an OP full of the detached ramblings of a misogynistic weirdo so it should be an easy position to defend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:19 AM
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People with post histories like yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:11 AM
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Clean, dressed normally, won't embarrass her socially, makes her feel safe (always), makes her feel sexy (when appropriate). 90% of single women on earth if offered this right now would take it and wouldn't even wait for the thinking music. It should be embarrassing if you don't meet those standards - and basically every man reading this doesn't. The sad thing is most women would even compromise on some of those standards. The bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:05 AM
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You are essentially comparing the attraction of heterosexuals to heterosexuals to the attraction of heterosexuals to gays. This literally confirms that women experience exactly the same emotions and disgust towards male sexuality as heterosexuals do towards homosexuals in a romantic and sexual sense This isn't logic. This is being produced by mush. Not by a brain with firing neurons, mush.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:08 AM
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'I'll stop behaving like a child when YOU do' - not a child. Embarrassing. Take responsibility for your behavior youre an adult allegedly. Unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 06:30 AM
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Oh so you're married and in a seduction sub concerned with impressing your wife's sister? How normal.
/r/seduction05/08/25 04:08 AM
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Yes. Please go away now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:06 AM
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Why do you think your brothers wife gives a fuck about your weight?
/r/seduction05/08/25 03:12 AM
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It is so fucking weird to read such obvious projections. I feel like you're forcing me to read your diary. I guess here is cheaper than therapy. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:58 AM
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How about having fun first, and simply integrating the fun into the conversation?
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:01 AM
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I'm just disgusted with the notion that we should treat insane misogynists whose post history is loaded with the most despicable hatred with kid gloves. I think telling those people that they can't think is good, because it's true AND helpful. I think trying to protect their pathetic, hateful egos is embarrassing, and you should be ashamed with how you're choosing to use this cosmic miracle of an existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:05 AM
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Uwu, smol bean :((((((((( why be mean to those widdle gwown men :((((((( What are you going to do when you face actual adversity in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:57 PM
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It's true, I wasn't there. But I would bet my entire net worth on it being the case. I have seen loser harass women for thousands of hours. I've seen it all. And zero times did friends rob their friend of a positive life experience. Zero. They took their friend away from the scary loser because their friend asked them to.
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:39 PM
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who’s clearly interested You are wrong. I bounced nightclubs for several years. The woman you are boring / scaring the shit out of summoned her friends to get her away from you and you didn't notice. She is not interested, and never was, and you should learn to pay attention to the people you're talking to.
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:26 PM
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Absolutely, then I'll pop in to humiliate you by asking the simple question 'in your own words, what's the difference between sharing your feelings and whining?' and when you can't answer that it will be clear to everyone how poorly your brain works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:55 PM
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lol, that's fine man, I repeat, I like that you humiliate yourself voluntarily. I think that's good. It gives me the outcome that makes me happy. I'm really glad you like it too. We're both happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:53 PM
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Cool. I think it's good that they don't change their behavior because then they might interact with people and that would be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:40 PM
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'You can't make me stop behaving like an embarrassing child' is certainly a true thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:39 PM
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I think that they should stop being self-pitying dorks who do nothing of interest with nobody ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:38 PM
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They can complain. I will just observe that the practice is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:35 PM
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I think not being pathetic is something people can do any time they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:34 PM
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Does that mean we should stop complaining about our lack of dating options/quality of options? YES. WHINING IS THE LEAST ATTRACTIVE AND MOST PATHETIC TRAIT ON EARTH. WHAT DO YOU MEAN 'DOES THAT MEAN I SHOULD STOP BEING AN EMBARRASSING CHILD?!?!?!'. HOLY SHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:18 PM
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If you are not doing anything around any women ever, what are you even selling? 'Hey baby want to join me in my life where I do nothing interesting with nobody ever? I have a job.' Does that sound appealing to you?
/r/seduction04/08/25 09:24 PM
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or talking about their feelings. This is literally all we do when we sit around and drink beer. Sports > sports > life > feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:15 PM
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Yeah, you're boring. You have nothing to say.
/r/seduction04/08/25 09:10 PM
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You know what the problem is. I’m a pretty dry texter This is either because you're a poor communicator (take a community college course or three) or you're boring (go and live a life that people will give a shit about).
/r/seduction04/08/25 07:42 PM
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Stop talking at people and start talking with them.
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:12 AM
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Nobody believes it matters but if you start doing anything 'to meet women' you are absolutely murdering your chances of women being interested in you. People can fucking smell ulterior motives. Even you can probably tell when someone isn't on the level occasionally.The women who run for a hobby like running. Not weird freaks who pretend to like running to awkwardly hit on them. Don't do anything to meet women if you want to meet women.
/r/seduction04/08/25 08:42 AM
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I suggest making a friend and instead of doing weird shit, do cool shit and have a good time instead.
/r/seduction04/08/25 05:28 AM
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Yeah I wonder if it's all the socialising with his large social circle that helps him socialise and connect with people.
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:26 AM
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Here is my experience when a girl wants your attention she'll bump into you on the dance floor and if you look for the source of the bump she'll be looking right at you. Everything else is imagined.
/r/seduction03/08/25 08:53 PM
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Cool man good luck with making yourself permanently socially disabled.
/r/seduction03/08/25 07:20 PM
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So all of society is telling you 'hey, what you're doing is weird, and as a society that makes us uneasy' and your question is how you can stop caring that you're training yourself to behave in an antisocial way that people hate?
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:58 PM
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If you have a good physique, you do not need to be shirtless to convey that. That said, if you are absolutely sure that being shirtless in your profile best conveys what you offer, go nuts my friend.
/r/seduction03/08/25 03:50 AM
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I answer: that's kinda hot, not gonna lie Absolutely incredible.
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:01 AM
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Everyone knows how to be cool. You're embarrassed because several thousand times a day you choose to be one of the least cool people on earth.
/r/seduction02/08/25 08:16 PM
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If I wanted to know how to be a lady's man, I probably wouldn't be asking men.
/r/seduction02/08/25 01:41 PM
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Yes, you can become socially successful, but not by cold approaching and being in dating mentoring programs. Popularity with both men and women comes from being 'cool'. Cold approaching and being in dating mentoring programs it at the other end of the cool spectrum, colloquially called being insanely fucking weird. You want to work on being cool, not being weird.
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:28 AM
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I've fucked plenty of women that never kissed me. This is the saddest way to say 'I regularly pay for sex' I've ever seen.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:54 AM
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If she is not kissing me with passion I don't think she'll be sucking dick with much enthusiasm either dude. Maybe don't think about fucking women who aren't even kissing you enthusiastically. It's weird.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:52 AM
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Well speaking personally it usually goes something like we're sitting on a bench looking out at the beach and oscillate between observing the majesty of nature and kissing until the kissing gets a little bit too intense for public for a second. There you go. Once that point is reached, doesn't matter how you phrase 'let's get out of here'. Don't have to fuck about pretending to want to see her place or trying to trick her into coming to your place or whatever weird shit. You both mutually unders…
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:48 AM
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Or you could just have such a good time together that sex just happens. Why are you so pushy and weird?
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:42 AM
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That is weird and deceptive behavior. I suggest making her feel too comfortable and sexy to keep being clothed and in public. She'll drag you home if you've done your job.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:38 AM
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This is the fundamental problem with these little get togethers. You are begging for someone knowledgeable or at the very least interesting to come and not make the gathering pointless, pathetic, and boring
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:54 PM
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I'm currently at my capacity for disbelief at how weird and pathetic men struggling with dating are so I'm not sure I'd benefit.
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:47 PM
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That's a shame. Good luck with your weirdo party.
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:44 PM
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Sure that will be 3k for an hour of my guidance you can split the fee as much as you want so if you organise enough dudes you'll get a bargain.
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:41 PM
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It's reductive, but this is essentially what everyone in these spaces wants. They aren't trying to hear that the way they currently are is boring and unattractive so they should work to change that. They're trying to hear about how to skip all that stupid shit and get right to the tits. Lazy. Entitled. Embarrassing.
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:06 PM
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I think it would improve your chances to pick up women exponentially the less you sit around in little all-male cabals and talk strategy for hunting the female.
/r/seduction01/08/25 10:04 PM
1

That's alright. Confidence is completely unnecessary to a very active and fulfilling dating advice.
/r/seduction01/08/25 11:05 AM
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They are definitely not the norm. Also not the norm is your friends knowing, and calling you "Mr1000". Nothing about anything you said is the norm. It is extremely weird, made up sounding loser shit for sad acts.
/r/seduction01/08/25 08:02 AM
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A few, but they are professional sex workers. You didn't answer the question.
/r/seduction01/08/25 07:46 AM
1

Do you know how many people all your friends have slept with? Is that normal in your opinion?
/r/seduction01/08/25 07:33 AM
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how do you have the time to meet that many women It's made up, or it isn't (it absolutely is), both are sad.
/r/seduction01/08/25 04:34 AM
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No, I mean I stopped counting how many people I had sex with by the age of 21 because nobody, and I mean nobody cares. It is a worthless use of brain space. Fuck all the people you want, but still counting into the four fucking figures is a mental health crisis if it isn't completely made up, and both of those are sad as fuck.
/r/seduction01/08/25 04:04 AM
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(the one I jokingly call Mr1000, because of his bodycount which is around 1300 women) This is so sad.
/r/seduction01/08/25 03:48 AM
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All you need to be confident is the complete understanding of the situation and the firm belief that regardless of what happens you will behave in a way you can take pride in.
/r/seduction31/07/25 08:18 PM
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Is there any possibility whatsoever that you are so socially oblivious you do not realise that you are scaring the shit out of the girl so the friends are helping you help yourself by telling you to go away? If you were Pedro Pascal and her friend told you to fuck off, she would castrate them. If they are perfectly fine with you being told to fuck off, you're the problem.
/r/seduction31/07/25 08:16 PM
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I don't think it's productive to look at this as a moral question. It is fucking stupid to use AI to communicate with someone you're trying to date because all relationships eventually move offline and when she meets you and without AI you're a fucking moron idiot, you will have done nothing but waste everyone's time. Be the thing you're selling.
/r/seduction31/07/25 07:55 AM
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I think this is outer game and that's the problem.
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:44 AM
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Hang on a second, what do you think 'putting in effort' means? Because in my dictionary those two things are so disparate your question makes no sense.
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:26 AM
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What am I doing wrong? You think this: Despite good conversation and chemistry is true. It is not.
/r/seduction31/07/25 02:08 AM
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You are either boring, or unable to communicate that you're not boring. I'd suggest doing cool shit, or taking a community college course in communication as applicable.
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:25 PM
1

Yeah because you're an anxious mess around them. When I'm an anxious mess around people, I mostly just keep interactions simple and practical until I'm more relaxed, because being relaxed is 100% required for step 3.
/r/seduction30/07/25 09:19 PM
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Step 1) Become a person people like. Step 2) Be that person around other people. Step 3) Have fun. That's your job taken care of. Now all you need to do is be around a woman who is doing all of those things too. Then you need to meet, and mutually appreciate what the other person is about. Then you'll be doing flirting. You won't even have to think.
/r/seduction30/07/25 09:12 PM
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Flirting is an effortless positive connection with a runaway momentum. It is not things you say at people. It is not invading their personal space. It is a connection that both people are enjoying and participating in, and nothing you ever say or do can force someone to participate in flirting with you.
/r/seduction30/07/25 09:07 PM
2

Good. Because being one of those things seems like it's weird and embarrassing. I'd rather have fun and help the people around me have fun and feel good. That seems normal to me.
/r/seduction30/07/25 11:30 AM
2

Game is thinking and behaving like a serial killer? Cool. Sounds worthless, but I'm happy for you.
/r/seduction30/07/25 11:10 AM
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Oh ok you made it all up thanks for letting me know lol.
/r/seduction30/07/25 04:10 AM
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Uhhuh. So she 'probably wanted to go further' but explicitly said sex was not an option? So what is this post even about? Fumble what? Are you asking if you should have pushed for sex despite clear instructions that it wasn't happening? No dude. You shouldn't be a proto sex offender.
/r/seduction30/07/25 04:08 AM
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Nothing lowkey about this buddy. I don't know how because you post here, but that woman was enthusiastically consenting to sex and you straight up shut her down. That is not cool, or aloof, or mysterious anime protag, this is actually such a massive fumble that not having sex with this girl is what I'd describe as rude lol. Wow.
/r/seduction30/07/25 04:04 AM
2

See, this is straight up bury-you-in-my-crawlspace shit. Why wouldn't you just be normal? Talk to people normally, treat them with respect, get to know them? What sort of psycho plays brain games before even saying 'hello' to someone. Serial killer shit.
/r/seduction29/07/25 10:45 PM
1

Usually when I go on a date with someone I want to know who they are and if they've had particularly successful or interesting careers I'd enjoy hearing about that because the whole point of a fucking date is to figure out whether or not you like someone and hearing about how a person spends a lot of their time and energy is a really efficient way to do that. I don't think you're successful at all. I think you've achieved nothing, and are deeply intimidated by people who have. The reason I think…
/r/seduction29/07/25 06:42 AM
0

Too much focus on dating. The men struggling with dating are social rejects in general, and attempting to date is an unreasonable expectation of someone that has zero friends and no social life.
/r/seduction27/07/25 08:13 PM
4

Ok. Good. You've stared at her while she talks to someone. Now onto stage 44, saying 'hello'.
/r/seduction27/07/25 09:02 AM
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If you can't find people your age to hang out with, you've failed. Not just at dating, but at basic competence. Humans evolved and gave you civilisation, literal population centers full of every kind of stimulus, and look at you.
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:07 PM
0

Controversial? That's a way of putting it. The other is he's not allowed back into at least two countries that I know of because of his filmed sex crimes. Cool guy to aspire to.
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:28 PM
1

What are you trying to talk to people for on a dance floor? You'll notice the music is unsociably loud and the area is filled with one specific type of activity.
/r/seduction26/07/25 12:14 AM
2

Meeting women naturally comes from leading the type of sick life where attractive, outgoing people are constantly in the communities you participate in. This is what pick up artists don't understand. It isn't saying lines and doing moves it's living a cool fucking life that makes you socially successful and makes cold approaching and associated antisocial stupidities completely and totally unnecessary.
/r/seduction25/07/25 09:06 AM
1

It's not a moral science (???) lecture. It's a sound business plan.
/r/seduction25/07/25 05:31 AM
1

Would it perhaps be a good idea to just directly state early on your intention is to do that but just say something that’s like “no pressure but my goal is to get you off the app, chatting on messenger or ig, and hopefully a video chat… and out on a date irl asap, but I’m not planning to ask until it seems like you’re very interested. So give me some signs of interest and I’ll do my job, we will be out on a date in no time” "Human interaction is trying to manipulate people to play along with thi…
/r/seduction25/07/25 01:21 AM
1

Any particular reason you're writing cuckold fanfic about me? Or do you regularly think about how other men have sex and you think it's normal to say this to someone?
/r/seduction24/07/25 11:26 PM
0

Yeah man if women are constantly needing to check if you're a man my advice will be useless to you. You have other problems.
/r/seduction24/07/25 11:08 PM
1

Women don't need to test 'my masculine frame' because they are never in doubt about my masculinity. Why do they need to test yours?
/r/seduction24/07/25 11:03 PM
3

Ok, tell me if I'm going too fast: when people insult you, they don't like you. You are NOT experiencing a normal part of courtship when this happens. Lol.
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:49 PM
4

she sometimes resorts to being rude, insulting, or disrespectful. This isn't 'winning frame control'. This is someone expressing their absolute displeasure towards everything about you and the way you're behaving. Why are people trying to 'win' conversations anyway? Good god.
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:41 PM
4

A fantastic business idea instead of trying to con them into hopping on your dick? They should be so lucky.
/r/seduction24/07/25 09:30 PM
54

For all the grifters out there, this is the new hotness. Men these days aren't going to risk getting told to fuck off in person when they can message thousands of women vague gibberish on social media. And I can't blame them. It's the exact same antisocial, buckshot approach to finding only the most desperate and easily fooled women on earth to try and have sex with before even they wise up as cold approach, only there's less ways for them to fuck it up from behind a computer where they can read…
/r/seduction24/07/25 09:22 PM
1

getting laid is only possible if you are popular You can't read.
/r/seduction24/07/25 11:32 AM
3

Yes, your brain interprets those posts as 'attacks' because you are absurdly fragile and anything critical of you or behaviours you identify with is declared 'enemy' and then the world's most limp-dicked jihad is engaged.
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:30 AM
-2

I'm here to give advice that is correct for a change. 'Seduction' is a hilarious word that just sounds like you slowly lick your lips after saying it; like a sex criminal. No, attraction is built. Yes, every 'theory' in places like this is 100% manufactured by the second most socially disabled group of men on earth to sell to the first most socially disabled group of men on earth.
/r/seduction24/07/25 09:59 AM
-10

Yeah man if you don't get put in prison for it it's correct to do.
/r/seduction24/07/25 08:50 AM
-14

This is absolutely unhinged. I used to be shocked when I'd see dudes shitting their pants about 'false accusations' and then you find them visiting places giving them tips like this. If you don't know for as close to 99.9% certainty that she is up for you touching her, don't fucking touch her. If you can't tell, don't fucking touch other people until you are capable of reading the social situations you find yourselves in. You are going to end up in prison and it WILL be for a good reason.
/r/seduction24/07/25 08:01 AM
1

So you are actively trying to attract these women, and are whining because they are falling for it?
/r/seduction24/07/25 07:03 AM
1

Right. Are you doing that at the ugly women who find you hot?
/r/seduction24/07/25 12:48 AM
2

Beyond what? Are you?
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:18 PM
2

Are you running mid 2000's style 'game' on these 'not hot' women who are attracted to you?
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:14 PM
-8

I'm very sorry that people aren't following you back as much as you think they should on social media. I can't provide any advice since I'm not a weird social media sex pest, just wanted to commiserate.
/r/seduction23/07/25 12:46 PM
9

They scare you and you hate that but are not prepared to acknowledge it so you project it onto the world as anger like every other emotional infant.
/r/seduction22/07/25 08:25 AM
1

lol the guy who can't handle having a beer with friends normally has a 'frame' guys honest
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:48 AM
1

So you are going from completely clueless and incompetent to trying your hand at the hardest type of interpersonal relationship to manage that we have in our society? There is no advice here, or anywhere that will help you. There are not lines you can say that can make up for your lazy social decisions up until this point. Go and make friends. You're not ready for dating.
/r/seduction22/07/25 02:34 AM
6

she had a good time That's weird. Usually when I have a good time doing something I like to do it as often as possible. Usually when I never want to do something ever again I had a pretty terrible time.
/r/seduction22/07/25 12:02 AM
10

I'm so glad this is obviously written by AI. The thought of a 35 year old man unironically still thinking that fight club portrays anything to aspire to is too sad to contemplate.
/r/seduction22/07/25 12:00 AM
2

I usually don't record people without their consent just as a rule. I'm sure someone will pipe up with a WELL ACKSHUALLY about how in their local area it is not a crime and to that I say maybe it's more about the broader picture of practicing not acting like a fucking freak which for some people is obviously sorely needed practice.
/r/seduction21/07/25 04:08 AM
0

What are you responding to? Do you think what I wrote means 'no woman is ever excited to meet a dog' or did your mind transform what I wrote into that so you could respond to it?
/r/seduction21/07/25 03:45 AM
-29

Have you tried being an interesting person?
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:21 AM
-3

Yes, I said that they would not give a single fuck if you owned the dog.
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:49 PM
0

.... Do you know why women like seeing photos of dudes with dogs on dating profiles? It has very little to do with dog ownership. It will be extremely obvious that it was a deceptive ploy when she meets you and not because the dog wasn't registered to you.
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:17 PM
2

'Going out' by yourself can be an adventure, but when people say they enjoy going out, they're saying they enjoy hanging out with their friends and having fun. I notice there was not a lot of mention of the friends thing so I assume that is the disconnect.
/r/seduction20/07/25 01:58 AM
0

I'm not insinuating anything. He acknowledged it was offensive to women to use the word the way he did and professed his desire to repress that side of him in front of women also known as: lying. Simpleton.
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:27 PM
8

No, lol, no hahahhaha It is staggering that you people cannot fathom how having real, actual friends means that you will have infinite women constantly introduced to you. Instead you try and fuck everything you stand next to. Disgraceful. Embarrassing.
/r/seduction19/07/25 08:58 PM
0

There is no better advice for someone advertising themselves as a piece of shit than 'stop advertising yourself as a piece of shit'.
/r/seduction19/07/25 08:49 PM
1

Did you think you were being secretive?
/r/seduction19/07/25 12:27 PM
-10

I find that I mostly speak the way I practice speaking but good luck with the lying.
/r/seduction19/07/25 08:55 AM
-3

I think you should go out and talk to women for as long as it takes for you to learn that pointedly using the word 'female' at any point where 'woman' would be grammatically acceptable will do nothing except increase the sale of rape whistles in your immediate vicinity.
/r/seduction19/07/25 08:52 AM
65

Why isn't learning how to effectively communicate just assumed to be a major part of any self-improvement targeted towards others enjoying your company? What sort of stupid fucking moron idiot whose brain does not work would not consider communication an obviously vital aspect of any interpersonal relationship?
/r/seduction19/07/25 08:47 AM
6

If she's your ex, you've already successfully dated her. Really fucking weird you didn't immediately comprehend that.
/r/seduction19/07/25 05:32 AM
6

You have no idea how to win back a person you've successfully dated, fucked up a relationship with, and then apparently learned a valuable lesson from?
/r/seduction19/07/25 05:24 AM
2

Yeah pretty much.
/r/seduction19/07/25 05:22 AM
1

When? Because I've been fed an all you can eat conveyor belt for North of 20 years now and I haven't run out.
/r/seduction19/07/25 02:05 AM
2

I’m not that’s the funny part, I’m going to therapy now to learn how to stand up for myself WITHOUT going scorched earth on people This is insane psycho shit, I don't believe for a second you have any friends or have succeeded sexually with any woman. You are an unsocialised psycho who no adult would let within 50 feet of them or their friends.
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:56 AM
1

You are not bad, just not their cup of tea. The world isn't sorted into 'finds me sexy' and 'hates me :{{{'. Not every woman is going to pick up what you're putting down. This is normal.
/r/seduction18/07/25 12:33 AM
-1

I don't remember my first. Also, if by any chance you are struggling with women, I know why.
/r/seduction17/07/25 10:11 AM
2

Guys think they need to be sex gods when this is your competition. If you were just literate about women's sexuality you'd be in the top 5% of her lifetime experiences almost by default.
/r/seduction17/07/25 05:40 AM
3

Yes. Essentially. People like people who make them feel good. They want people who make them feel good around them all the time. Combine making people feel good with being clean and dressed in occasion-appropriate clothing and you are capable of landing nearly any available woman on earth. There is money in complicating it, but it is that simple, and it is remarkable that nobody ever asks about it. They always ask about what lines to say and what texts to send and how much they should be feeling…
/r/seduction17/07/25 05:38 AM
1

'Hey baby, I've got nothing going on in my current life, so I'm daydreaming about people from 5 years ago. Hbu?'
/r/seduction17/07/25 12:06 AM
1

It's weird how you and the OP are playing my little choose-your-own-adventure game and constantly picking the 'I'm lying' option completely unprovoked.
/r/seduction16/07/25 06:56 AM
1

Do you think that he is not describing 'being a sex pest' as intermediate level game? Or are you debating that he did not write 300 words before defining what the fuck he was talking about? What exactly is a random accusation?
/r/seduction16/07/25 06:54 AM
3

They are not dominating you. They don't like you.
/r/seduction15/07/25 08:13 AM
3

I would rather slam my dick and balls in a car door.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:53 AM
0

I reiterate, you are unbelievably attractive. I have been a sexually successful adult for like two decades and I have never had a woman I've just met tell me how handsome I am and how many options I must have. You exceed my levels of attractiveness by miles. I am not able to give advice to someone so advanced. Unless you're lying.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:50 AM
0

Yeah man totally what an attractive mind set.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:47 AM
2

That was constructive. If you are all of the things in that post, you are unbelievably attractive and you'll just need to hang out with women and be normal around them and you'll be snapped up in no time. If for some reason you're lying though, those are the bits you need to actually work on.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:46 AM
0

Oh so you're doing everything right and are cool and handsome and fun and good at dancing and funny and obviously have a lot of options you just don't seem to be sticking the landing? Don't know man. You seem perfect to me.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:42 AM
10

You are entirely focused on how horny they make you and the things they said that make you feel nice. Good for you, I'm sure that feels good. How did you make them feel?
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:35 AM
2

I like the way it took 300 words before you even defined the thing you're talking about. And if I'm reading this correct, this is advice for how not to be a massive sex pest? And being a massive sex pest is considered 'intermediate' skill here? Fuck lol.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:25 AM
3

If anyone bothering 100 people a day instead volunteered at an old folks home he would have gained far more experience in being a person other people liked and far more experience in holding a productive and enjoyable conversation. That is not hyperbole. What a colossal waste of time.
/r/seduction15/07/25 02:23 AM
1

When college kids think about where they'll be in 5 years after graduating, how many do you think hope they'll be hanging around campus trying to creep on the students?
/r/seduction15/07/25 01:05 AM
1

When young people think about maturing they think about the wonderful places they'll go as success breeds success. Then you come along and they realise all at once that with a few poor decisions they too could be hanging around campus being seedy at people who are mentally still children. This bums them out and makes them unreceptive to your attempts to fuck them. May I suggest reminding them that maturing can mean good things? Or maybe just stop doing what you're doing entirely?
/r/seduction15/07/25 12:54 AM
-3

You are looking at conversations wrong. You know what has topics? Interviews.
/r/seduction14/07/25 09:59 AM
6

You need to be able to make people feel good when you're around them and recognise when someone decides that they'd like you to make them feel good more than usual. That's it. That's 'game'.
/r/seduction14/07/25 03:56 AM
1

I am not reading that. I read this much: The cold approach community suffers from the same disease that the rest of modern society does: not understanding how to learn. and stopped because this thought is nonsense. The cold approach community wouldn't exist if the focus was on learning. Because after about the third time you walked up to a busy stranger, told them they made you horny, and got told to fuck off, you would have learned that behaving that way is fucking weird and not to do that. Ins…
/r/seduction13/07/25 10:00 PM
3

Don't creep women out? Noted. If anyone is creeping women out, don't.
/r/seduction13/07/25 11:09 AM
12

This is absolutely unhinged shit.
/r/seduction13/07/25 03:18 AM
1

boring Here's your problem. If the conversations you are in turn boring, why are you blaming the other person? Expecting a conversation to sustain when you yourself admit to being bored in it is insane.
/r/seduction13/07/25 03:16 AM
0

To clarify, you're saying that you went and did something you hadn't done before and you felt uncomfortable? Why would you be confident going to a loud, unfamiliar place after a lifetime living like a particularly depressing nun?
/r/seduction13/07/25 03:13 AM
1

She is worried you will expect sex in return for the money and effort of traveling and does not want to deal with that situation. If you're giving off that vibe already, I don't think there is anything you'll be able to do to make her more comfortable so I suggest saying 'no problem, if I'm ever in town for work I'll send a message' and then leaving her alone until you happen to be in her city for other reasons and then send one polite message asking her to show you around but know that she prob…
/r/seduction12/07/25 08:49 AM
58

4) Women find excuses to be in your presence or talk to you. This is the only 'IOI' I have ever needed to pay attention to. Literally everything else is a stupid mind frame I suggest adopting if you want to come across like a paranoid freak with massive social disabilities.
/r/seduction12/07/25 06:53 AM
0

Humour as part of a conversation and humour as a performance.
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:13 AM
1

Nice lines to say at women. Alternatively you could live a broad and varied lifestyle giving you confidence in literally anything you say. Pair that with a sincere and broad appreciation of humor that you are able to verbalise for successful and appropriate comedic effect and you'd actually be a person of worth rather than a facsimile of one.
/r/seduction11/07/25 11:52 PM
1

How recently was bothering women at the shops invented?
/r/seduction11/07/25 11:01 PM
1

It is absolutely broken that instead of doing new activities and finding new friendships and social circles that fit the life you're trying to lead you've decided to walk up to random women and let them know they made you horny. Good luck. My advice would be to improve your ability to read social cues so that at the very least you aren't interrupting busy people who have better things to do than amuse you.
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:19 PM
2

I would suggest thinking of them as people and not fertile brood mares.
/r/seduction11/07/25 01:08 PM
-6

You are scaring the living shit out of those women. The only time I saw people react to me like you're describing was when I was walking back up the stairs looking like I was about to kill someone after I got thrown off a balcony and split my head wide open. If you don't understand why you are getting reactions like that, you are socially disabled and should seek professional guidance on socialising before you get maced.
/r/seduction11/07/25 01:06 PM
0

I would focus on skills and habits that naturally overcome the negative. Get a large and diverse group of friends. That single thing would fix just about every single problem every single person in here is experiencing. None of you do it because none of you want skills and habits to overcome your problems, you want someone to give you the Konami code to make you hot and popular where you don't have to go anywhere or do anything that would make you feel uncomfortable or make you wonder if you sho…
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:16 AM
1

You are boring and extremely socially unskilled and people don't like to socialise with people like you. Helpful advice: Go and do things and in the course of doing those things socialise for a year or two. Constantly. In a year's time, you will have greatly improved your ability to communicate in a way that's appreciated both IRL and via text. If you continue to be a weird creep who is self-absorbed and boring, you will never ever stop encountering this problem.
/r/seduction10/07/25 10:46 PM
1

I don't believe you have friends. Your post is about nothing but self pity. I can't imagine a single person on earth wanting to be around that and I think not wanting to be around you is normal. 'Do you know any single guys?' [Thinks about the jacked airline pilot who everyone likes] 'No, no-one comes to mind because I'm an evil woman and we think like this.'
/r/seduction10/07/25 10:35 PM
1

Thanks for your comment on my 18 day old post.
/r/seduction10/07/25 08:32 PM
1

No, you need friends, and you should consider a strong circle of friends a prerequisite for dating like a job or a shower.
/r/seduction10/07/25 09:32 AM
0

That's nice.
/r/seduction10/07/25 04:57 AM
-3

I'm very proud of what I have done with my life and the achievement that I accomplished Also, why? You're an emotional infant with no friends who has never dated. You act like a child when you're supposed to be my equal as an adult. You suck. What do you mean you're proud? You're boring.
/r/seduction10/07/25 04:57 AM
-4

You. You. You. You. You. I'm fucking bored. I'm going to go away from you - Me, and every person you meet from now until time stops.
/r/seduction10/07/25 04:55 AM
-5

You sound absolutely insufferable. Good luck with the friends thing.
/r/seduction10/07/25 04:18 AM
4

Get a social life. You know all this shit? But now I have lost 90lbs and started building muscle. I have a job, work from home that brings me 200k a year. I have 250k worth of stock and whatnot. I started taking care of my skin by wearing daily sunscreen and doing my skin routine as well as doing cosmetic procedures such as microneedleing and mesotherapy Nobody cares. You've spent the last few decades of your life entirely self absorbed, and you need to learn right now that nobody cares. People …
/r/seduction10/07/25 03:25 AM
-1

You overcome it by utilising the experience to know when your affections and attentions are not wanted. I haven't been 'rejected' in about 15 years because I can now read people at an expert level. If you're not working towards that, I consider you to be some sort of fucking idiot.
/r/seduction10/07/25 12:54 AM
1

I shaved my head skin bald for basically my entire life due to being in the military and if it was harming my chances to fuck then I did not notice. What wlll absolute harm your chances to fuck and what you actually suffer from is if you don't shave your head voluntarily and instead slowly go bald while constantly shitting in your pants that you're too bald and that no one will ever love you.
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:09 AM
1

Humor me. Hypothetically, if there was absolutely nothing you could say or do to convince those women to fuck you, would you rather people think well of you, or hate you? Do you think there is even a difference?
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:57 AM
28

She is telling you explicitly and repeatedly 'hey, you're freaking me out, you're being weird' and you seem really keen to ignore this. I would bet money that if you just spent two weeks hanging out with her and having fun and allowing her to feel comfortable enough around you to figure out where she stands on the subject of you you'd have more success than your current plan of figuring out a way to violate her boundaries. It is staggering that this needs to be said.
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:47 AM
-1

Yeah and you also said what happens when you behave like a sex criminal. What do you think would be more beneficial to getting you laid: women who have met you, get along with you, think well of you, but aren't interested? Or women who had to tell you to fuck off, are afraid of you, do not think well of you, AND aren't interested?
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:40 AM
0

Every weirdo who visits this subreddit would benefit from never, ever trying to flirt ever again and instead, concentrating on not doing anything to turn her off. The problem with you weirdos is you start immediately behaving like sex criminals by making sly innuendos about sex and feeling them up within minutes of meeting them. That behavior will freak all but the most socially maladjusted women out instantly. If you just stopped doing weird shit at women, you'd effortlessly succeed. You're bei…
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:12 AM
1

Incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:40 AM
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What possible indignity do you fantasise befalls me that is more humiliating than what you've posted here today? I'm not joking you have to be the in the bottom 2-300 most pathetic people on earth. Out of 8 billion. How is anything worse than what you are every single day?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:15 AM
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Wow. You're a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:18 AM
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I would be fucking embarrassed to be so self-absorbed and myopic even if it didn't publicly indicate just how fucking stupid I was. Absolute loser shit. There is no helping you. The state couldn't use force to get a woman near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:11 AM
3

No dramas brother let me know if you want seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:45 AM
3

That's ok, whatever happened to your brain to make you think this shit is important at this juncture makes you indistinguishable to me. Get some real fucking problems you god damn waster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:27 AM
4

If you hold the OP's views or similar I consider you brain damaged. Like, unable to be reasoned with. You are such collossal fucking idiots you will vote for your own demise and grizzle, bitch, and blame women as your own positions fuck you up the ass. Just kidding!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:21 AM
1

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:02 AM
4

Yeah maybe man let's shit in our pants about it at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:47 AM
12

Oh no! We have to share the space with women! Better jack off to cartoons at home!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:15 AM
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What do you mean the type of people who blame others for their social inadequacies are bad at dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:11 AM
1

We obviously don't share the accomplishment of being able to read and understand English at an early high school level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:41 AM
2

I said 'if' you are proud of that. You'd only have taken offence to that IF you are proud of that. Looks like you are. Whoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:24 AM
3

I don't because I almost exclusively interact with people who don't have life altering amounts of brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:17 AM
3

Thanks I liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:02 AM
4

If you are proud of that you are pathetic in ways I will never know. Personally, I take credit for my achievements with the caveat that even my personal achievements were not achieved in a vaccum. If you want to reap credit from others feel free, but I'm laughing at you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:02 AM
3

Evidence? I just made an observation. But nice of you to demonstrate the mewling pussy part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:58 AM
2

To that fucking gibberish? Lol. I respect my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:57 AM
6

I don't think anyone thinks like that except the stupidest fucking people on earth but I'm happy you seem to have appropriately sorted yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:56 AM
0

I was communicating in like terms. It's how those of us with high EQ get down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:45 AM
2

Wahhhhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:40 AM
16

Do you really think the people who built society are the same people screaming like an embarrassing child on the internet like whatever this is? Does that not seem like more than a little bit of stolen valor?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:34 AM
3

Dating apps for the first time made men subject nearly entirely to a physical evaluation of their worth and they turned into a generation of mewling pussies about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:32 AM
6

I mean just in general but thanks for the specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:35 AM
5

Both him and you sound fucking miserable actually despite what the claim is but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:31 AM
10

Women have no problems finding me actually. If they're avoiding you I think I might know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:25 AM
11

When you speak from the perspective of a happy person try not to sound like you are about to seethe your way through to the core of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:19 AM
-7

I have spent a lifetime cultivating a social circle and lifestyle that is extremely sociable and cool and now I get to sit back and enjoy it with my friends. Sort of like an investment if your brain can grapple with that concept. Thanks for the well-wishes. I won't need them. Live a less embarrassing life.
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:06 AM
-8

On topic but if you reach the age of 40s 18 and you are this big of a pussy, you have bigger problems than dating.
/r/seduction03/07/25 08:25 AM
-6

Help! Help! I can't argue with something! I need help! An adult! Helpppppp!
/r/seduction03/07/25 08:23 AM
-3

Maybe you should make sure people are really comfortable around you and show them you can behave normally and respond well to disappointment before you ask them out that way she will just be flattered when you ask her out even if she says no instead of feeling like you're going to turn into a sex criminal and requesting you be banned from the group.
/r/seduction03/07/25 08:00 AM
-23

Your life sounds fucking miserable and you sound like a pedo-adjacent loser with your focus on youth. Personally, I still find people roughly my age the most attractive because I really appreciate people who aren't still behaving like children in my eyes. Which people in their mid 20s are. Dating has literally never been easier. It is comical how easy and effortless everything is. All I need to do is socialise normally and an endless parade of single women are presented to me in the course of ha…
/r/seduction03/07/25 07:56 AM
4

I call a high degree of being a boring loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:26 AM
5

When I realised as a young man that maybe it was healthy to not focus so much on a tiny aspect of life on earth I just started living a really sick life full of fun, cool stuff. Why does every time I hear men doing it now it sounds like they're just meekly resigning themselves to a life of jacking off to cartoons? REJOICE you fucking losers. All your time and money can be spent on you. FUCKING DO SOMETHING WITH IT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:14 AM
1

lol how convenient. What are your observations please? I'd love to laugh at them in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:11 AM
-7

Nothing, just judging by their stated actions and attitudes. Crushing on someone who doesn't know you for a year is loser shit.
/r/seduction03/07/25 07:09 AM
0

lol ok. I can't force people to parse words in a way that makes sense to me. That was your teacher's job, and they failed. Good for you though, I'm sincerely glad you're happy. The two of you. And that all of your male peers are too aka the world's happiest people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:18 AM
1

I concentrated on a combination of living an extremely sick life that was objectively cool while having a large group of friends that I socialised with many times a week in many contexts and then life just fed me a never ending stream of women who I effortlessly dated. I'd recommend that strategy personally because I never 'failed' when I went out as a single person because even if I went home alone I'd still have had an insanely cool night doing cool things with cool people. You are instead giv…
/r/seduction03/07/25 06:01 AM
1

Thinking you can master the most complex interpersonal relationships we have in 6 months when you react like this to the idea of being able to make friends is comical.
/r/seduction03/07/25 05:54 AM
-11

You think she manipulated this loser into obsessing about her for a year?
/r/seduction03/07/25 05:44 AM
1

That strategy is comically bad. I don't see why you think dating within 6 months is 'fair' when you don't even have a massive circle of friends. People don't even like to hang around you without sex. I'd concentrate on the easy stuff first. When you get friends you won't have to do those embarrassing steps to babby's first girlfriend. You'll be far further along.
/r/seduction03/07/25 05:41 AM
3

lol is red pill just astrology for men now?? I mean, it's fine to have fun but, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:48 AM
1

Yeah you all seem really happy and satisfied, and all the spaces you guys occupy aren't all full of wild misogyny and blaming everyone else but yourselves for your catastrophic lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 12:02 AM
0

Uhoh, better say 'u mad', it's getting obvious I'm still running from the very simple challenge of 'what do you actually believe' lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:54 PM
-1

lol. So vague. So amorphous. So free from the ability to absolutely destroy and make it's adherents feel ashamed of themselves for believing something stupid. So convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:52 PM
8

That is a fucking terrible metaphor. Maybe she didn't recognise what it was because thinking that was a metaphor would be insulting to you and she didn't want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:50 PM
1

Yeah you're right, if I was trying to help them my response would have been unsatisfactory. I wonder if there good be any other possible motivations that would explain my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:48 PM
-2

Wow! And let me guess, you only suggest going to the gym and dressing better and that's it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:47 PM
-5

Yeah that must be it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:44 PM
-3

Why don't you clearly and simply explain what it is and what it's fundamental tenets are? If you can do this, you have done what every single red pill person to ever exist cannot for some reason. It seems to be an amorophous idea. I keep pointing out how embarrassing the things they believe are and they always go 'No! No! It's not that!'. I want to call your ideas universally embarrassing. So give them to me. e: The OP has cowered away from the challenge. Anyone else wants to step in they're wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:43 PM
2

It is pointless to ask for what smells good on other people. You need something that mixes with whatever you smell like in an appealing way.
/r/seduction02/07/25 11:37 PM
1

Really? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:30 PM
1

Oh, I can think of worse things to be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:25 PM
1

Of course you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:47 AM
1

It's not being used as a buzzword. It is literally entirely about the success of your interpersonal interactions. I cannot stress this enough: it could not be more relevant to dating. If you are struggling with dating and you haven't explored every facet of this concept, your brain does not work and you deserve to remain single until time stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:03 AM
2

lol I don't know it's working for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:27 AM
0

Yeah probably don't go from 'she smiled at me' to following her home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:26 AM
0

I see your investment in the Joke Getter 5000 is serving you well!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:24 AM
0

No I'd be concerned as to why they were invading my personal space like that. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:52 AM
0

I just let women lead. If they bump into me on the dance floor and I look back and they're smiling directly at me I'll turn around and dance with them. If they move within a few inches of me I'll put my hand on her hip. If she puts her face close to mine I'll kiss her. Never had verbal consent for these actions, but I don't feel like I've ever been at risk of doing something the other person didn't want. I know that mostly from having sex with them later after they dragged my ass out of the club…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 07:22 AM
1

Sure there is. 'Friends'. I have lots of emotional intelligence, and lots of friends. You... have less of one and less of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:48 AM
8

loosely defined buzzwords such as emotional intelligence. Did you know there is a whole wikipedia article for this subject that defines it and details all the research into how to improve it? What on earth is your reality like thinking things like this are 'buzzwords'? Holy shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:36 AM
8

lol. I didn't need evidence to believe that people change their minds about other people. Do you know what I've noticed though? People's opinions are predictable. For example, if I constantly make people feel good when they interact with me, they usually only have better opinions of me and want to constantly be around me. If I make people feel bad, they want to be around me less. Using that complex formula I've been able to keep people in my life who I want in my life and don't suffer the anxiet…
/r/seduction02/07/25 04:29 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:05 AM
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Those statistics are made up. You are hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:04 AM
1

I have been an adult longer than you've been alive and more social then you think is even possible. I have, with my own eyes, witnessed dozens and dozens of men that I know personally regularly pick up fitting almost that exact description and being under 5'7. You are whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:56 AM
5

Of course man. If that wasn't true, you'd be a worthless loser who deserves to be left on the shelf so obviously no man 5'7 or under has ever, ever dated. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:50 AM
0

Hahaha a man like that would be single for exactly as long as it takes for a single woman to meet him. And that won't take long since he has friends and socialises in large groups of people he doesn't know. The men complaining about being left on the shelf are not that man. They are worthless losers who complain all day and do nothing. Men who live the life described above are happy and fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:36 AM
12

These men wonder why they're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:56 AM
1

I like it when people seem interested in me and if it's appropriate I will return the favor because people being interested in you is really flattering as long as you are comfortable with the person because if you're not that's when it becomes fucking scary which is what pick up artists don't understand and why cold approach is worthless and embarrassing.
/r/seduction02/07/25 02:54 AM
4

I want to date an adult and an equal if I wanted to date a child who I had to take care of I would tell the police that and go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:51 AM
6

lol. The fucking victim complex is absolutely staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:50 AM
3

There are more types of relationships than strictly monogamous long term relationships. Some relationships are casual / FWBs stuff where it's not serious and sometimes you can have multiple of these active at the same time. For instance, I'm currently seeing a girl in my town, and a girl in the next town over who I don't see as often. They are relationships of convenience that feel right for the participants.
/r/seduction01/07/25 10:09 AM
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Life is short and sex is fun. Put that shit on my tombstone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:52 AM
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I'd like to push back against a couple of misconceptions of both the male and female idea of what people who have sex a lot actually act like. 1) We don't cheat on people we're in a relationship with because if we wanted to fuck everyone always we'd just be single and nothing fucks up your ability to have fun and have sex like a spouse who knows she's being cheated on blowing up your phone. Cheaters don't fuck. Not like we fuck. If they've got time for that stupid bullshit, that's time spent not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:26 AM
2

lol if that was your goal I'm very happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:15 AM
1

.... You constantly encounter smoking hot women in their 20s and 30s on holiday with their parents? I have been all over the world while actively dating over the last 20ish years and I've never met one. Lucky me.
/r/seduction30/06/25 08:26 AM
3

When you never interact with women IRL and assume that all women online lie about everything and the ones with true knowledge about women are the most sexually unsuccessful men on the internet it all starts to make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:43 AM
1

If I spent a single second concerned with who women I don't know are attracted to I would lobotomize myself since I clearly didn't need to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:37 AM
3

They're not selecting you. Whatever they are doing is working.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:31 AM
1

Chemistry is very difficult to manufacture and manufacturing chemistry seems deeply unethical to me anyway. May I suggest finding someone who actually does it for you? You mentioned he's hot but as you seem to understand there are a few more elements to sexual compatibility than that.
/r/seduction30/06/25 04:59 AM
8

You should develop better filtering strategies if you're trying to weed out dipshits. The only thing you're selecting for with that strategy is someone who is willing to wait so long as he gets a reward later. Like me at age 6 behaving myself at church if I got McDonald's after. Personally I need to know quite early on if we're sexually compatible because I'm an adult and sex is important in relationships. 3 dates is the sweet spot in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:07 AM
8

You sent a message at ten o'clock at night and you're wondering why you haven't received a reply in the handful of hours since taking us through to midnight or the small hours of the morning? Don't know man. Maybe she got kidnapped by aliens. Or maybe she sleeps in that time frame who knows.
/r/seduction30/06/25 04:01 AM
-2

You are the person you are when you think nobody is looking. You think you're hiding the fact that you're a whiner. It comes through. Why, look at your dating success and massive lack of friends. We all see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:37 AM
2

There is a relationship between confidence and competence but it's not quite what you think. Confidence is knowing what you're capable of and not capable of and being ok with that at least for the moment.
/r/seduction30/06/25 03:35 AM
6

She should get along with me far better than is typical and her presence makes me love life a little bit more. That's it. Chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:23 AM
17

Incorrect. The people with a massive circle of friends who comes highly recommended by the friends and acquaintances of an infinite parade of women do slightly better on average.
/r/seduction30/06/25 03:21 AM
5

I really appreciate the brevity in your deranged misogyny. 90% of posts here say roughly what you just said only using two thousand words.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:44 PM
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This is how a Nice Guy imagines people who actually have sex and socialise act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:41 PM
4

Widen your social circle. If you're 'intimidating', letting a dude get to know you first and see you're human seems to me like a good idea. You describe yourself like a sexless loser pretending to be a hot woman.
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:21 PM
2

Have you tried going to a club to have fun with your friends? Seems to me it would be way easier to connect with people if it was incidental to a sick time. I hear people - women included - really like to be around people who are fun. Going somewhere you hate to hit on women just sounds depressing.
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:12 PM
2

Unless it was a blind date, she has already evaluated you for how you look and and you passed.
/r/seduction29/06/25 11:51 AM
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To be clear, you have functionally no need to do the most socially incompetent method of getting told to go away, but you want to do it anyway for the love of the game?
/r/seduction29/06/25 11:49 AM
6

That's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:47 AM
9

The men demanding femininity are the men who can't get within mace distance of an actual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:46 AM
15

As opposed to men, who tend to have more fixed criteria of the type whom they are into - that doesn't really change based on peer pressure/upbringing/etc Women didn't get the choice of who to be into for basically all of history but we have detailed accounts of what men have found hot throughout history and let's just say that what you wrote is like you just assumed you were right without so much as a google search because Dunning Kreuger occupies the same mass in your body as water does in ordi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:43 AM
1

It depends, am I an adult with actual problems and responsibilities or am I a sad-act loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:04 AM
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Usually when I read things that are stupid and wrong I laugh at it and make fun of it or ignore it. However when I read things that are accurate and deeply unflattering critiques of my own dispositions and behaviors I might do things like call it unhinged while providing no logic for why that position is unhinged (because it is absolutely accurate) and doubling down on my enthusiasm for the behavior publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:02 AM
2

Don't believe this stupid bullshit that is obviously detached from reality? How do you like these apples? [links to a youtube video with 900 views]
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:47 AM
1

And I thought as long as I was laughing at you it was worth it.
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:36 AM
1

I'm sure the OP got something out of it. Anyone as hilariously literal as you probably won't but I can live with that.
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:33 AM
1

True, but it was funny enough to prompt a response unlike the rest of it. Being a weird loser is passe, being a weird loser who scolds adults for swearing demands at least a cursory response.
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:27 AM
1

On holiday I just chat to girls like I would a bloke basically and they end up in my room. On holiday you are automatically one of the most interesting people in the vicinity by simply not being from there. When you are sufficiently good at communication you will not have to go on holiday to observe that effect.
/r/seduction29/06/25 03:06 AM
1

Being charming and a good chat stems from a thorough and unconscious understanding of how humans communicate. This is gained through tens of thousands of hours talking to a wide variety of people in a wide variety of circumstances. If you only spent a significant amount of time talking to women in the context of picking them up, you would be absurdly limited in your skill set and the second the conversation flowed into other areas your charm and confidence would evaporate.
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:49 AM
1

Not being able to get girls means I’m lacking in some aspect and need to improve You are. And it's not spending day and night trying to tune up girls. 'High value' men are able to pull because they've already done the work in the areas that actually matter. You're trying to emulate their results, not be equal to them.
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:35 AM
3

Expecting your partner or the relationship to 'fix' your brain problems is a childish way of thinking and every relationship that features it will crash and burn. 100%. Take responsibility for your own health and happiness, your future partner deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:31 AM
1

Self worth isn't something I can tell you how to do over the internet. Also the compulsive seeking of validation is disordered thinking, and therefore cannot be logic'd away. I suggest being busy. Nice as therapy is, sometimes we need to raw-dog mental health, and the most likely way I can think of to get the results you'd like is to make it unfeasible to obsess over that shit because you're too busy.
/r/seduction29/06/25 02:24 AM
2

It's called separation anxiety. A person was a big part of your life. Now they aren't. Your brain doesn't know how to act so it tells you that actually you really love the person so you should get back together so your brain can stop being uncomfortable already. It is a waste of time.
/r/seduction29/06/25 01:56 AM
1

That's a shame. The way people act at work is a front. That isn't to say it's 100% serious and professional, but there are very obvious limitations on what sort of behavior is appropriate so it will be basically impossible to gauge how someone actually feels about whatever when they're at work until you've worked together for a long time and know each other well. Or without them saying or doing something that could fuck with their livelihood.
/r/seduction29/06/25 01:51 AM
2

Personally I prefer it when people are interested in me and also excited to be communicating with me.
/r/seduction29/06/25 01:05 AM
3

lol. I've been to prison and deployed with the military. It's fine. Sexless, but fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:04 AM
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It is embarrassing to still be trying to pretend you're above emotions. There is only one reason why losers log on to reddit to say ridiculous shit like this in order to demean women, and it is 100% un-processed emotions and 0% rationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:03 AM
6

Usually you'd be hanging out regularly outside of work if there was anything there.
/r/seduction29/06/25 01:01 AM
1

If you were on Master Chef and you served up a plate of shit and the judge said 'tastes like shit, no points', would you serve up shit again?
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:16 PM
3

What the fuck lol just some 90s style homophobia. And I was best friends with all of my partners and it was reciprocal. What is wrong with you. What do you think happens in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:04 PM
2

I would immediately evaluate the behavior that may have prompted that sort of reaction so I can try not do it again.
/r/seduction28/06/25 06:51 PM
7

Settling is the stupidest fucking concept. Oh? My partner isn't a replica of my ideal? Guess I'm settling. It's such a fucking broke brained way to look at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:50 PM
1

Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:48 PM
1

Swear? Did I wander into a pre-school?
/r/seduction28/06/25 06:48 PM
12

ChatGPT agrees Serious question, do you think this means anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:14 PM
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Sorry. Didn't mean to interrupt you shitting in your pants about the podcast man. Please continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:03 PM
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I'm starting to see why the subject confuses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:58 PM
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I have no issues with women, am six foot four with a very deep voice, and run my own cleaning business to boot making 3K a week. lol. Usually men who are secure and confident don't feel the need to give randos on reddit a brief tinder bio. I'm happy for you though. That sounds nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:47 PM
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I believe it means 'doesn't mewl sadly on reddit about how women aren't finding the right things attractive'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:12 PM
1

it’s said that asking someone out immediately is better than trying to be friends first Friends evolve into benefits all the time. It's in the name. Though most of the time the progression happens as an addendum to hanging out more often then formally asking them on dates. You should be hanging out with them often as it is. I can't really explain it but when the friend dynamic shifts you just fucking know. It shouldn't be a question. If you're not sure, she is almost certainly not into it. It's …
/r/seduction28/06/25 04:09 PM
3

Yep, that's the reply someone who is incompetent at socialising.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:11 PM
1

Cool and normal I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:23 AM
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I'm doing fine and I'm struggling to give a shit about whether or not men writ large are failing society. They'll either sink or swim. Probably sink because they are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:20 AM
3

Can any of you fucking weirdos just say 'this is my opinion' without trying to link it back to how the primal man was or whatever the fuck. Cowardly shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:19 AM
7

lol 'women like socialised men and not weird dweebs'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:16 AM
1

Tempting offer but I'll probably just continue to laugh at them because the way they choose to live their life is humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:15 AM
0

Ok. No normal woman is going to want to be around that. Good luck.
/r/seduction27/06/25 09:38 PM
1

Trying to equivocate the 4b movement and the embarrassment that is the mgtow 'movement' is detached from reality. while passionately writing entire threads about male psychology, what men are thinking, why men are irredeemable and why they hate their own sons. The following are the titles currently on the 4bmovment reddit: Unexpected Support. I wish all women would think this way. How to deal with craving intimacy. Self defense / martial arts. Surprising trip to home depot. Not quite the insane …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:36 PM
2

life's a mess & angry at the world Fix this before dating.
/r/seduction27/06/25 09:09 PM
3

They are busy doing really cool and fun stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:46 PM
8

I'll go further. If you can't understand why politics matters to people, you are not an adult with problems. If you are not an adult with problems, your dating pool is the upper most echelon of privilege and that echelon consists almost entirely of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:42 PM
4

Are you serious? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:01 PM
4

Look at you. Shitting and pissing worrying about if other people are suffering enough. Lifetime of misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:01 PM
9

Anyone viewing the relationships in their lives as transactional have doomed themselves to a lifetime of misery by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:56 PM
8

The vast majority of people struggling with dating are deeply uninteresting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:32 PM
6

I just saw this old website 'world star' where men would just get ratshit fucked up and brawl in waffle houses while other men yelled world star at the combatants. Do you think this is what women today should put up with from their dates? All men are like these world star people. I say that because I'm a shut in fucking loser who should be ashamed to exist on the internet without being able to delineate between normal and abnormal human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:29 AM
0

If you can spend 100% of your free time and money on yourself and that prospect isn't sick as hell you are worthless and boring and you deserve to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:00 AM
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Mostly I just go on two or more dates with women I like because it's normal for women not to sleep with a stranger they've just met because doing that can be dangerous which you'd understand if you thought about it for even a second.
/r/seduction26/06/25 01:56 AM
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First dates are a vibe check only and shouldn't go for more than half an hour. If you're doing anything more elaborate than coffee you are massively overcomplicating something that should be simple. Meet, see how you vibe, ask her for a proper date / nice to meet you good luck.
/r/seduction26/06/25 12:23 AM
1

Sure because I didn't explicitly say I did something, that means I must not do it. I also didn't say I breathed. Oops I'm dead.
/r/seduction25/06/25 02:01 PM
2

If she loses interest in you in half an hour and the only thing you bring to the table is sex, you are boring. Fix that.
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:59 PM
3

I think it's a good idea to find new friends. You find out things like who your friends are and how people think and feel by being around people. Hiding away does nothing. Dating is about how you make others feel far, far more than how you look.
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:08 AM
2

Sure if you want.
/r/seduction25/06/25 09:29 AM
3

She even told you why. Her friend wanted your friend. She was being a good wing man for her friend. Yes, you were used. Sorry.
/r/seduction25/06/25 09:26 AM
22

What do you mean time wasters? She told you straight up she wasn't interested. That's the opposite of a time waster. Assuming though that there is a different scenario where your time is actually being wasted, the way to deal with that is to filter them out by asking yourself one question: are they as excited to interact with me as I am with them? If the answer is no, stop wasting your time. They're not the time wasters. They're expressing disinterest. It's YOU who is forcing something where not…
/r/seduction25/06/25 09:21 AM
0

If you think the point of a first date is to fuck, you are not sharing the same reality as 95% of women. Occasionally, the natural chemistry between two people is such that sex just happens on a first date. Much like a one night stand. But that is not normal. The women don't fucking know you. You are a stranger. The first date is to find out who the fuck you are and if you spend it trying to feel them up guess what their conclusion would be? Holy shit. Treat them like people for fucks sake.
/r/seduction25/06/25 08:54 AM
1

Yeah man totally that's what I said and that isn't what your broke brain chose to believe because your world view depends on it!
/r/seduction25/06/25 06:58 AM
1

What a normal reply that makes sense.
/r/seduction25/06/25 12:26 AM
2

I ran a speed dating business in Ibiza for a good while. A lot of those 'dates' were two minutes, but yeah that would be about right I'd say.
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:13 PM
0

Yeah man I'll do that right away good suggestion.
/r/seduction23/06/25 05:00 PM
0

Dude it is not normal to get mad at rage bait posted by misogynists so losers can scream at women.
/r/seduction23/06/25 04:05 PM
1

What you are saying is not applicable to the interactions I've had with humans.
/r/seduction23/06/25 03:55 PM
1

Do you know the difference between appearing in the background in a video taken in a public space and having a camera trained on you and your words being picked up by a microphone or is that the same thing in what's left of your brain?
/r/seduction23/06/25 03:32 PM
1

You're on a date. The context is explicitly romantic. You've expressed a romantic interest in her already, and she's giving it a go. She's not going to forget the context. Women aren't goldfish. Please don't talk about alpha male behaviour like it's real.
/r/seduction23/06/25 03:31 PM
5

Good conversation alone is NOT ENOUGH to spark attraction on dates. lol. Wrong. If you are on a date, she finds you attractive enough. What she's checking for in the coffee shop is compatibility. In order to get to the sex, you just need to not fuck it up. Me personally, I don't do any of this teasing shit until I know them very well because teasing people before you know them is a great way to stumble into insecurities and there are millions of ways to display a broad appreciation of humor with…
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:48 PM
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Starting a fight in a place guaranteed to be on camera is a great way to end up in lock up and then court. And that's if you win. If you lose you just get stomped out. Not many men are that antisocially drunk at times when people are going on nice little dates that they think it's a good move to behave like that. It's getting charged with crimes that stops people behaving absurdly. Not how mean I look. Strange it isn't working for the OP.
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:37 PM
1

Look back at the posts from 2 years ago. See how many contain an em dash. Then see how many contain a dozen em dashes. Then do a search from the last six months. You will see a shitload. You're right, it's impossibly sad, but it's here.
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:23 PM
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I have been alive half a human lifetime and been on thousands of dates all over the world and nobody has ever been that cartoonishly rude to me. Especially a fucking bartender lol. I'm sure his boss would be stoked about his employee driving away customers on the clock.
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:19 PM
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A 27 year old woman entered into a 'situationship' where it took 2 months to kiss? lol. The funniest shit about AI stories is AI doesn't understand age, so it doesn't understand why 2 months for a kiss would be considered slow for two 12 year olds at a church camp and high comedy for two 27 year olds at least one of whom has had an adult relationship before.
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:14 PM
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Neither is staring. Still creepy as fuck weirdo behavior.
/r/seduction23/06/25 12:52 PM
2

Socialise a lot. Familiarity breeds comfort.
/r/seduction23/06/25 12:37 PM
1

Have a large group of friends and regularly socialise in places where there are large groups of people in your dating range are also socialising and you will be fine.
/r/seduction23/06/25 12:34 PM
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Filming and recording people without their knowledge reminds me of the study I read on creepiness. Taking photos of people without their consent was behind only 'staring' and just ahead of talking about sex with people you don't know in the survey of creepy behaviors.
/r/seduction23/06/25 09:20 AM
1

Maybe it's because you're saying something with a desire to get something out of it and somewhere deep inside you you know it's bad to do that.
/r/seduction23/06/25 08:56 AM
1

I can think of several ways that talking to people and having fun differs from being needy so I don't understand why you'd think that but ok.
/r/seduction23/06/25 08:50 AM
2

Maybe you should say other things to the person like 'Hi' or 'lovely weather' and leave awkward compliments until you are no longer riddled with anxiety about giving them.
/r/seduction23/06/25 08:45 AM
2

Wow. Did you ever do any work on being cool to be around and making people feel good? Seems to me if you want another person to like you you should develop skills in that area.
/r/seduction23/06/25 07:57 AM
1

Seems to me you'd be a lot less scared of expressing things to women if you hung out with them more and got to know them.
/r/seduction23/06/25 07:49 AM
1

Why don't you socialise with the people you're interested in getting to know and see if you like them and they like you first before you go asking them out?
/r/seduction23/06/25 07:39 AM
2

Ten years is an interesting span of time. If you spent 10 years on just about any job or hobby you'd be extremely competent and knowledgeable. In the last ten years what would you say are the major areas in which you've improved and to what extent have you improved?
/r/seduction23/06/25 07:35 AM
0

Yeah they are really enthusiastic about grabbing up women they just met but that's ok nobody wants an echo chamber.
/r/seduction23/06/25 12:51 AM
2

That's fine man if you think you did everything cool I'm not your dad.
/r/seduction23/06/25 12:50 AM
1

It is incredible how hard you fucked this up. I think she really, really wanted to like you but you would not stop grabbing her and being weird. the music she makes. She was showing you who she was. People's art reflect them. It's ok if you don't get the art, but you did not give a fuck about it. That is essentially insulting her. because I needed some type of control over what was going on Why? The only thing you control is what you say and do, and you used that freedom to do something she expl…
/r/seduction23/06/25 12:07 AM
1

I need to find a better way to meet women You do. It's interesting you did this at a mall. All those shops with employees and fancy displays. Occasionally though malls will let in these hawkers that intercept customers at entrances / exits and try and get them to give money to whatever. My ex used to avoid the mall where they let those people operate because she dreaded being perceived as rude but also didn't want to be harassed and pressured by weirdos.
/r/seduction22/06/25 08:59 PM
3

I don't know man. You've just told us a lot of numbers. You're definitely attempting to date. What are you doing to actually better yourself?
/r/seduction22/06/25 08:43 PM
1

First dates are vibe checks. They're checking to see if you get along. You haven't been. I don't know what's causing it. I don't think it's any of the things you listed though it's really weird you haven't checked out any of the media in the country you're in now especially when it's pretty much THE polite date topic. But I don't think it's that. I don't know what the answer is for you since I wasn't there, but however you do it you need to make your date feel positively and assume that there's …
/r/seduction22/06/25 08:39 PM
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Those questions are inane and stupid except for the second one which is downright rude and not her fucking business. I've never been asked any of these questions thought for some reason.
/r/seduction22/06/25 08:28 PM
2

how do you think people met before social media? We met at these large social events called 'bars' / 'raves' / 'parties' mostly. You must fall into the category of men who have never approached a woman that you don’t know or aren’t acquainted with Not never, if I've got something appropriate and relevant to say to a stranger, I'll say it, but you're right mostly my friendship circle provides me with infinite people to be introduced to and get to know.
/r/seduction22/06/25 05:22 PM
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He was talking about the way the community reacts to people walking up to women going about their day and harassing them. That is a legitimate problem. That's a lot of people observing what you do and labeling it weirdo shit. If the OP and the people like him are cool with that, go ahead. Personally, I think having a good or neutral reputation in your community is valuable so I wouldn't recommend behaving like this.
/r/seduction22/06/25 05:15 PM
0

Yes, needed to just before we fuck and when I know it's appreciated. Glad we got there.
/r/seduction22/06/25 05:01 PM
0

The mentality of assessing (probably accurately) that kissing a person who doesn't want it will probably not be prosecuted and deciding that since you probably won't be punished you should do it anyway is insane and it is absolutely not 'confidence'. It is not confidence to potentially do sex crimes.
/r/seduction22/06/25 05:00 PM
1

lol and just as we're having this conversation the mod removes even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:52 PM
1

I communicate in the way that is appropriate to the audience and location. If you want to petition the mods for some free speech, I promise you I won't hold back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:51 PM
-1

When I'm making out with a girl, it's usually not long until we're making out naked and on a bed. Are you keeping up? Should I go slower?
/r/seduction22/06/25 04:44 PM
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Whatever you want to call it, it is not necessary for successfully dating a woman from meeting her til just before sex. You can do it if yo want. The only thing I'm arguing is that it's unnecessary.
/r/seduction22/06/25 04:33 PM
0

Ha. I bounced nightclubs for several years before doing a decade in the military. I've been in fight gyms since I was about 13. I look like what you think a dude who spent his life doing that looks like. I found out early on that even women who are attracted to me initially really, really don't like it when people as scary as me enter their physical space before it's wanted. Maybe it's different for effete twinks but I assure you you can be wildly sexually successful without feeling up a person …
/r/seduction22/06/25 04:26 PM
3

People who have sex a lot and women enjoying sex are not necessarily the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:07 PM
1

People stare, girls get weirded out, and rejection hits harder. But I said screw it and tried anyway. Why would you try it anyway when you are aware of the consequences? Those consequences sound like things that follow a person if the behavior observed a lot by a wide variety of people. Sounds like a lot of long-term damage for no short term gain except a few conversations the equivalent of which you could have had in the first hour of volunteering at an old folks home.
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:53 PM
1

You could hypnotise yourself into the new belief. Just like 'I am too broke to be attractive' is not based in reality yet you still managed to believe it by uncritically accepting the regular promotion of the idea in the places you spend time. You could also understand the concept of attraction and the role of money in it. That's not easy and will involve a lot of learning and thinking but that is way to develop new beliefs.
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:39 PM
1

You should practice talking with a wide variety of people outside of a dating context.
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:10 PM
1

Which way am I You. The things you believe, do, and say. The way you are. why is taking someone's number and then having a good time with them wrong presumably? It isn't. I'm of the opinion that interrupting people when their busy is inconsiderate. I have no problems with dating normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:03 PM
0

Dude, if you were capable of learning and changing, you wouldn't be the way you are. I was never under the impression that you'd behave in a way that was considerate of others when I pointed out that doing that would be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:54 PM
4

Don’t try to get a girlfriend, or a relationship. Approved. Physical escalation/kino is absolutely crucial in building attraction. It absolutely is not. When dating a woman I shake her hand upon meeting and don't touch her again until I take her hand on a walk after the second date if it has all gone well. When flirting with a girl and it's looking like a one night stand, I also don't touch her until I'm at the equivalent stage of date 2. Stop fucking touching people until they want it and you k…
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:45 PM
2

They are genuinely not from this planet or the reality I'm aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:37 PM
2

You don't give a shit about what you're trying to do. You're lacking curiosity. If you were curious about aspects of a hobby - even a hobby you didn't care about - and found an aspect of the hobby you wanted to try doing and then actively tried, failed, and then succeeded, you'd get a rush of achievement. You're just going through the motions, you don't care, and don't care to care. And the feelings you're experiencing are perfectly in line with that.
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:34 PM
-1

Why? Do you not get enough attention at the places where normal people socialise?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:28 PM
1

Resting is a necessary part of the lift. Leave people alone while they're working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:27 PM
1

That's unusual. I find dating the people who are right for me kind of effortless. It's the building a life together thing that I find hard. Rewarding, but hard.
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:25 PM
1

1971
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:51 PM
52

Good means 'good' and dick means 'penis'. That concludes our extensive 6 week course on Good Dicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:38 PM
4

Honesty. Don't cheat on people or mislead them. Be someone worth fucking and fuck. How is this not obvious.
/r/seduction22/06/25 01:08 PM
15

I'm able to avoid dating terrible people in any country.
/r/seduction22/06/25 01:01 PM
6

They want it more than you. I used to wonder why so many men in the manosphere shit in their pants about """false""" accusations when in my decades of experience I have never, ever seen it or heard about it from someone I know in my real life. Thanks to you, I now understand why men in the manosphere are worried about accusations of sexual assault. You know what sucks? 'She wanted it more than me' isn't just not a defense, but will get you a guilty conviction.
/r/seduction22/06/25 12:59 PM
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Some women do actually just enjoy having sex. Wonder why Tate and the men who idolise him aren't aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:56 PM
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So she asked for a movie? Did she ask for kissing at this movie? If not, why are you being a freak at her?
/r/seduction22/06/25 12:38 PM
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Yeah I don't date dipshits that don't think but you obviously do and that's your fault. At least they're adults I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:38 PM
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This is either made up or you date crazy, terrible people.
/r/seduction22/06/25 12:34 PM
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Don't. Watch the movie normally and then date like a normal person until she wants to kiss. Don't be a weirdo. If you want to rent somewhere to do sexual shit, get a hotel and consent Don't tell someone you're going to go see a movie and then trap them in a corner while you be weird at them.
/r/seduction22/06/25 12:33 PM
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lol. Yes dude, power imbalances are detrimental to relationships. But you can negotiate and navigate financial imbalances, you can't do that with age. God why do the brains of misogynists just not work in the exact way that just so happens to make their concerns constantly pedo-adjacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:31 PM
0

I don't know how you managed to fuck up reading two sentences but honestly I salute you. Life must be absolutely petrifying for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:25 PM
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Sure it's at the exact level where you no longer feel the need to blame feminism for your personal failings. Sorry. I know you're absolutely nowhere near that level but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:22 PM
2

lol I love how you guys all learned the same 3 logical fallacies, but none of you seem to have the correct definition of any of them so you literally always sound like you're just trying to muddy the waters and not levy a serious criticism. I believe ad-hom is the other one idiots like to say a lot and embarrass themselves with their lack of knowledge as to what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:19 PM
0

lol effectively having always had infinite options with regards to potential dates I get to feel really smug seeing all the very normal men saying 'we can't afford to have self respect or then we'd get NO sex :(('. Sucks to be you guys. Self respect is rad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:12 PM
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I don't believe in masculinity and even if I did I wouldn't enforce a rigid adherence to it's creed. But if I did and if I would the semantic cowardice of shit like this: Trump is a Republican not a conservative. Would be my target. I would be humiliated to have to dance around my beliefs like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:10 PM
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Are you serious? Yeah dude it's completely unheard of for an activity to be really fun by yourself and insanely fun with a partner in crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:06 PM
3

Have you ever felt shame for the fact that you use the pain and death of other men for no other reason than to justify your self-indulgent pity parties? Do you think you'll ever do something to help men or do you think you'll carry on being roughly this sad until you die of something comfortable and not tragic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:34 AM
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So much value. I thought it was my fault that nobody wanted anything to do with me. I was really down on myself and really thought hard about maybe focusing on those around me as opposed to the deeply selfish way I was accustomed to operating. Then I found the red pill and learned that it was feminism's fault and that I was just needed to go to the gym and learn the best sex jokes to say at women because that's flirting. If it goes wrong? Scream at feminism. I'm still incredibly unsuccessful but…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:31 AM
2

Spent thousands of hours socialising with a huge variety of people in a wide variety of contexts. This brought me dozens of friends thanks to my much improved ability to communicate effectively and to understand others, which granted me access to an unlimited catalogue of people from all walks of life. Some of them hot girls who were cool.
/r/seduction21/06/25 03:17 AM
0

People call me a pedophile for hunting for 18 year old girls as a 45 year old man, but actually they are the ones in the drivers seat. There's realistically nothing I could do to coerce or influence an 18 year old as a 45 year old full grown man and adult. I'll say it. I'm the victim here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:10 AM
1

Nah I get you. You figure you can't just say 'oh, and of course I'm really relaxed and not at all clingy you know' because that would be weird right? That's why I mentioned feelings earlier. These aren't strictly things you say. They are feelings you invoke in people while speaking to them. So how might you portray that you aren't likely to be a physical threat to them? It will differ for every combination of people like I say, but humour goes a long, long way towards making people feel safe. Yo…
/r/seduction21/06/25 03:04 AM
1

Not be a creep, not seem desperate, and make her feel safe? Nailed it. But like, how do i make her feel ok even tho there is a kinda big age gap? Good question. Different people have different concerns, so along with the pretty universal concerns regarding safety there are more individualised boxes to tick depending on you, her, and your dynamic together. In this case, the age gap may be an issue. Or it might not. Some people relax their rules on things like age for one night stands, so if you w…
/r/seduction21/06/25 01:43 AM
2

I bet you've got some idea. Let's think about it. If I were a pretty girl and I met a guy at a bar, what boxes would he need to check off before I'd even think about going back to the house of someone who could kill me without a weapon and take all my clothes off?
/r/seduction21/06/25 01:05 AM
4

Start hanging out with her often and saying and doing things while you're hanging out that make her feel happy to be alive. If you do those things and she likes you back she'll let you know.
/r/seduction21/06/25 12:54 AM
2

Who is the least-most embarrassing person who advocates for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:44 AM
1

So you believe it should remain a personal choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:31 PM
1

It's their decision to do that. You did not explain why you feel they shouldn't be allowed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:27 PM
2

Ok. Why do you feel comfortable extrapolating that to it not being a thing for anyone ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:23 PM
1

Explain to me the logic behind that strongly held belief without sounding like a maniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:20 PM
6

This is actually one of my favourite subjects for illustrating how brain dead red pill philosophy is. Scenario: A fucking moron misogynist has noticed that he seems to be more successful with women when he's in a relationship. Red pill: Because stupid bitches love backstabbing each other and poaching each other's man because they're evil, as soon as they detect that a man is taken, they'll start moving in because they love drama. My dick is small. Reality: When you're in a relationship you stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:18 PM
10

Ah yes. The important parts of marriage: strong communication skills conflict resolution skills outdated societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:03 PM
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I have never seen a normal person posit a stronger opinion on this subject than 'personal choice'. In fact, I'd go as far as to say that if you have a strong opinion about it there is a 99% chance you're a deeply weird and misogynistic religious fruitcake who nobody listens to anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:36 PM
5

Yeah if he gets flirty in response to it I'd just flat out ask him direct if he's coming over for some Netflix because I can't read that in any way other then he's keen. But I've never propositioned a dude so use your best judgement. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/06/25 08:07 PM
5

Speaking for myself if I just met someone and I texted them being interested in how they're doing and informing them about how bored I was I would suspect that I really wanted to hang out with that person. I'd guess that face time would be fine but honestly I'd probably just ask them on a date. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/06/25 07:59 PM
6

Next time he says something weird you could say something like 'Don't say that man I'll get the wrong idea'. His response to that should give you a very good idea of where he's at.
/r/seduction20/06/25 07:51 PM
1

Er, sure. Very normal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:12 PM
1

No I think some of them are deeply off-putting losers who endanger women with their lack of ability to emotionally regulate like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:49 PM
2

No, it can apply to deeply off-putting losers too. Don't worry. I simply recommend they don't endanger women by dating them until they've gone to therapy and can express emotions reasonably.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:44 PM
2

You already don't give a fuck what she thinks of you or you wouldn't be surprised when they wants nothing further to do with you.
/r/seduction20/06/25 04:51 PM
4

Oh I don't know lol. I think it's pretty on-brand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:21 PM
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I then ask if he has a female friend, a cousin, or a sister that would be willing to show him the direct messages she receives on her dating apps or social media. She doesn’t have to be attractive, if fact, it’s better that she isn’t I'm trying to come to terms with looking at how many people are sending your sister unsolicted dick pics and rape threats and concluding 'Wow! Look at all her options!'.
/r/seduction20/06/25 03:53 PM
1

You should try talking to them first and see if you get along with any of them instead of just saying a line and handing your number out like an alien.
/r/seduction20/06/25 01:57 PM
6

Any time you want to stop referring to the expiration date of human beings you can. Then the mean words would no longer apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:54 PM
6

I have never been able to out-fuck any of the women I've dated. Not when I was 21, not when I was 30, and definitely not now. There engine takes longer to get going but when it's spinning, good luck. I feel very sorry for anyone who gets their information on how women experience attraction from sexless losers online.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:46 PM
11

It's a really good way to sound like a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:43 PM
8

It must be absurdly hard trying to have a complex interpersonal relationship with someone you think of as some sort of fucking alien lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:33 PM
2

Polite note that if you want you could just get a large and diverse group of friends and then you'll never have to cold approach anyone ever.
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:00 PM
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I need help from you guys to do well socially. You do not. The only way you do well socially is to socialise as a priority. You should be participating in a wide variety of activities with a wide variety of people constantly. That is the only thing that will affect your success.
/r/seduction20/06/25 10:18 AM
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In my extensive experience, nearly none. Not that they'd have brought it up with me lol. Barking up the wrong shrub with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:19 AM
1

So you don't even really know the guy and you don't hang out at all in or out of work? I wouldn't worry about flirting. That's usually an activity for when you're hanging out with a person but have nothing in particular to do except have fun getting to know the other person with low stakes chat. If you want to date him, I'd just ask him to go for a drink outside of work. If you want to get to know him before you decide if you want to date him, I'd recommend it but you do you. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/06/25 05:51 AM
1

Why don't you just hang around him and enjoy his company and don't worry about whatever you think flirting is?
/r/seduction20/06/25 05:41 AM
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There is exactly one difference between someone you fuck casually and someone you enter into a long term relationship with: the amount of time you want to spend around them in total. I'm sure you can use that information to direct your focus.
/r/seduction20/06/25 05:39 AM
1

Who else's fault would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:16 AM
3

Why don't you have fun talking to someone you like? If they find your style of communication off-putting, better to find out now. Playing these silly games is very counterproductive.
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:58 AM
1

You're so sad that you won't instantly be the best at anything that it causes you to not do anything?
/r/seduction20/06/25 12:54 AM
3

Women don't need this shit. They have a bad relationship - usually early on - learn, grow, avoid that mistake next time. They do the learning themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:48 AM
3

If your emotional reaction is within the bounds of what is considered normal no woman will give a shit. If normal day to day life stuff makes you crash out, have a screaming melt down, and punch a hole in a wall, women are going to want to get the fuck away from you because you're a dangerous idiot with the emotional intelligence of a child, not because you were emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:45 AM
5

Yeah man totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:21 PM
7

Last time I was in LA I became hyper aware that I was the ugliest entity within 10 miles. Literally everyone was extremely well put together. Do you know how I reacted in this sea of hotness? Like a normal fucking person you weird freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:20 PM
4

Hahaha the very broken brain. Yes. It's a big conspiracy to make sexless losers sad. All 4 billion women were in the discord last night planning and strategising.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:19 PM
1

I don't understand why you aren't talking to your partner. Why are you talking to anyone other than your partner about this?
/r/seduction19/06/25 11:29 AM
3

What the fuck lol I would have gone with a simple list of Try and not be these things: and Try and be these things: but sure a bizarre point system spices things up.
/r/seduction19/06/25 11:23 AM
1

i want to turn her on i wanna occupy her mind and make her fantasize about me or things that she want to try with me Nobody has this info except your partner. I don't know why you're asking internet strangers for advice on this. There are only two people who should be in these talks.
/r/seduction19/06/25 11:20 AM
4

Being socially unskilled is bad. Blaming feminism for being socially unskilled is far, far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:17 AM
1

I used to run a speed dating business in Ibiza. I mean thousands. And fair enough.
/r/seduction19/06/25 06:59 AM
1

Yes. Not once, ever. Dated in the US, UK, Spain, and Australia.
/r/seduction19/06/25 06:41 AM
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Wow I can't believe that random woman didn't carve out a section of her finite time on earth to date some tipsy guy who thought he was throwing her a bone while he waited to sober up.
/r/seduction19/06/25 06:23 AM
0

I suggest you be honest with the person you're trying to convince to spend a lot of time around you as a general rule. That said, I have been on thousands of dates and no woman has ever asked that because bringing up failed relationships when attempting to forge a new one is both counter-productive and also pretty fucking rude considering at that point you are barely closer than strangers.
/r/seduction19/06/25 05:50 AM
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It seems like a clumsy mechanism to reroute the feeling that you really shouldn't be bothering people because they made you horny. I don't personally need such a mechanism because I only talk to people when it's socially appropriate to do so and I actually have something to say.
/r/seduction19/06/25 05:30 AM
7

lol. Are you seriously mystified about why supporters of the sitting president might have a broken brain? Even made up supporters of the sitting president?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:17 AM
5

The friend zone does not exist until it is constructed by weird creeps who understand 'no thank you' to mean 'maybe if you simp some more'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:41 AM
1

I don't believe you.
/r/seduction19/06/25 03:30 AM
2

You wouldn't be asking me. Your friends would be able to easily solve the mystery of why the extremely popular guy can't get laid. Not that you'd need it solved. Someone who is extremely socially successful would probably be able to solve the mystery themselves.
/r/seduction19/06/25 03:24 AM
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Asking because a lot of men posting how they find women over 25/30/40 so "repulsive", "pushing it" and even "disgusting. You might be the only person who is going to start dating men and be on the whole pretty impressed by them. Very few real people with functioning social skills believe that stupid shit, and you won't have to worry about dating someone who does believe that stupid shit because they don't go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:02 AM
10

From easiest to hardest: 1) Socially skilled people 2) Socially unskilled people 3) The men who post here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:56 PM
3

Relationships take real, actual work. 'Losing the spark' or whatever the fuck is a synonym for 'I left my relationship on life support for years trusting in natural chemistry and the fact that it would be too much effort to separate to maintain it'. The spark isn't gone. The relationship died while you weren't feeding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:54 PM
5

Control. They are socially stunted, so operating in public is already stressing their ability to function. They need the shorthand of things like societal norms to save processing power for remembering which weird sex jokes to tell at the uncomfortable woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:51 PM
1

You want to know how to ask out numerous women in order to not date them?
/r/seduction18/06/25 07:42 PM
3

'That guy', refers to the butt of every joke. In a group it's usually the loud idiot who has nothing to say but is saying it very loudly. Walk me through the logic with your emotion spiking theory. What do you think happens to a woman's perception of you while you're being an abrasive dipshit. How is she rationalising that as something not embarrassing.
/r/seduction18/06/25 05:53 PM
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