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LifeTopic/r/askTRP18/01/20 07:51 AM
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Lmao I had this happen to me. Girl is looking for a more serious relationship and not a fuck and go. She's bringing her dog to see how you'd react, if you and her dog don't get along she probs will see it as a dealbreaker
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:33 PM
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Will probably attract downvotes, but use some common sense I think here. Unless you are good looking/have a good physique I don't think it's a good idea to approach in the grocery store. Shitting where you eat is a bad idea and it's going to for sure attract a reputation, this is going to be the likely outcome if you're just approaching and not thinking really. There are better and more "natural" ways of approaching which won't make you look creepy, daybang by roosh is a good book.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 01:22 AM
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It's because these women have been geniunely convinced they have been sexually assaulted, in their eyes regret is rape. It in a way absolves them of any "guilt"/high body count. If she had a body count of 1 before college and was then "raped" by 3 other guys, then in her eyes her bodycount is still 1.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 01:02 AM
4

I'm a bit confused. She friendzoned you and then let you fuck her?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 05:14 AM
3

Agreed, I don't look for fights too and avoid them at all costs. OP needs to learn martial arts though, judo has saved me a few times
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:34 AM
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Men are only loved for what they can provide, my mum loves me just for existing. No one else will love me like that
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:27 AM
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If you get your ass beat and then you're going to go fight the same person again, you're an idiot and need to swallow your ego. You got beat fair and square.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:13 AM
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Why would you LTR a single mother you cuck
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:05 AM
19

If your gf or whatever is saying "is she pretty" you can always just say "yeah" or if you really want to, you can always flip it on her and say "What? You checking her out?"
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:54 AM
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I'm not going to answer your question because the question you asked is irrelevant to your progress. You don't need to know if it was inevitable or if you fucked it up, what you need to know is that it happened and there is no turning back (which you are aware of).
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:52 AM
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Go apologise to him you prick. If you were being disrespectful to him you deserved it. Telling him a simple "hey man, I was drunk af. I didn't mean to disrespect you like that, I'm sorry" and then shake his hand and bury the hatchet Go learn a martial art, some posters said BJJ. BJJ is good, learn some judo or boxing on the side too. Don't get drunk like that and don't start fights
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:48 AM
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Hey there! I first found the redpill when I was 16/17, I'm now 20! The feeling you're feeling is natural and it's you grieving over the fact your bluepilled life view has just been shattered. It's pretty normal and it will pass, but it's going to take a while. And btw, this is only the start, ahead of you there lies far harsher lessons which will either make or break you! Only time will help you, find something you love like a hobby and pursue it. In the end after my years of redpill, the #1 les…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:45 AM
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Any recommendations? I find shit like Borat hilarious especially the Jewish jokes (don’t think I’d be able to make those in public)
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:43 AM
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I’m a coloured dude, I can make race jokes with my male friends. But if I make race joke in front of white people, dude it gets so awkward. Like I made a joke about my housemates being like my laundry - the coloureds and whites are kept separate. Rather than a laugh, I got a 5 minute lecture from this chick how the word coloured is outdated and racist... Recommend any good comedians to watch?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:42 AM
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Keep your head up, you’re only 19.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:31 AM
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Sorry to break the news to you man, she just wasn't into you. And don't bother pursuing her again. She doesn't respect you enough to put her phone down - come on that's just basic politeness She wasn't making eye contact and was looking at the window and not at you, because she wanted to leave - it's a subconscious thing where people look at exit routes when they're bored She was talkative as to avoid conflict.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:22 AM
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Judo/any martial art (Judo requires so much thinking) Construction/building stuff.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:19 AM
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Agreed. Train for hypertrophy. Stronglifts 5x5 is not going to make you look good, and whoever suggests it will is full of shit because it's a strength routine not an aesthetic routine. Reddit 6day PPL is good. Stronglifts and SS will make you look like a T-rex - you will get strong though. They're good because they're simple, but there are lots of better routines. Fuck looking like a DYEL t-rex
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:16 AM
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I want to try that but dude I am pretty paranoid on how much offense I can cause by making pretty poor taste jokes. I'll try to make more observational convos tho
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:14 AM
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I am pretty talkative and friendly when there are shared hobbies. Like at the gym or my judo class, I'll talk to everyone and if new people come along, I'll introduce myself and whatever. It's just that the average girl is so fucking brain-dead and boring. And like I'm not exactly in a place to judge, about 9 months maybe even a year ago? I was smoking weed and being a lazy shit, so I can pretty much tell/recognise when people have no life or hobbies. Like seriously, go on tinder right now. And …
/r/askTRP03/11/20 06:11 AM
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"Erm..okay?" - If it's really not that deep "Oh my bad" - If you did actually say something offensive (I feel like I have to write this because of the autists here) "No way?! For real?" If you're trying to be a dick
/r/askTRP03/11/20 05:19 AM
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20 years old, stumbled on TRP at your age. This place is both good and bad. It was good because I was no longer clueless about women, but it was bad because my ego took a hit, I realised how below I was in looks, blackpill and made me paranoid about girls. After maturing a bit and living life, overall my life has improved. The negatives are pretty much gone from me, my fitness has improved and I pretty much live a very fulfilling life and have dreams and goals to chase too. Girls are becoming le…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 05:12 AM
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Google reddit 6day PPL, it’s the first result you see. It’s by metalcicada or something
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 12:15 PM
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I guess, strong lifts is primarily for strength though not aesthetics, again for a newbie it wouldn’t matter that much as they’ll probably still look bigger regardless
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 06:28 AM
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SL 5x5 = T-rex mode Guys if you have the time try reddit 6 day ppl. Not hating on stronglifts, it made me legit stronger - I was squatting and deadlifting a lot more than my peers at school. But the issue is, the upperbody in stronglists feel a little neglected - a lot of other people have agreed with me, some disagree. Reddit 6 day PPL is king The main appeal of stronglifts is how easy and simple it is, if you understand basic gym stuff then stronglifts isn't too appealing.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 05:49 AM
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I didn’t say it was impossible. It’s possible to fuck a girl as an obese pig. That’s not the point. You’re PUA skills can only do so much, if you lift and have a great physique that will help much more with women. Spending 1 year cold approaching won’t help you as much as lifting for a year. You’re in denial
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 12:08 AM
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I’m sorry but I refused to take advice from a man who literally looks like a DYEL. PUA works but the effort put in becoming good at it, is much better spent at the gym
/r/TheRedPill29/08/20 12:00 AM
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I’ve seen enough dudes who are skinny af who got ripped to know it works... one dude I know got over 1k matches on tinder cuz he was ripped like an otter mode style body. He’s 5’8
/r/TheRedPill28/08/20 11:53 PM
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Fuck off aghayden. I am seriously tired of your shit. You don’t lift, you’re a DYEL giving autists advice. Guys PUA works but the quickest way to get girls is lifting. Don’t take advice from this DYEL. Go lift
/r/TheRedPill28/08/20 12:58 PM
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Yeah pretty much man, good luck bro!
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:58 AM
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Idk too much about apple ID, but I am 90% sure you don't need one. You can legit just use a different number. Tinder doesn't have your face saved. If not, then tbh bro you could just get a cheap smartphone and go from there.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:54 AM
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There are so many autists on here jesus fuck. Don't cut your friends off you dolt, you were once a retard too - hence you find trp to solve your retardation. You guys have entered that age where most people have settled down, because you're redpilled you at least know it's bullshit. But your friends don't. You can't save the stupid.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:53 AM
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Honestly dude just get a new phone number and re-download tinder
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:50 AM
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Most average men are like that. The average normie is braindead as fuck, the most "intellecutally curious" thing they will ever think is "Trump bad". And that's the truth, it's just that men have more variation than women because sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive. God can afford to experiment with men, as a result you get variety. Because of this you end up with more men who are intellectually curious.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:49 AM
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TRP was literally created for autists, you guys seriously take everything on face value and literally. Most men would kill someone given the right conditions e.g. Your mother got raped and the rapist just jerked off on her grave. Does that mean you're a killer? No. But it proves you are capable of doing so. All women are capable of cheating, the only thing which differentiates women is how easy one will cheat. Just as the only thing differentiating you and a murderer is how quick/easy they will …
/r/askTRP25/08/20 05:39 AM
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Have you ever considered transitioning? https://www.foreverfeeling.com/products/hormone-feminizer-pills-ftr341?variant=30608785670199&currency=GBP&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIx9Gb69Sw6wIVQbTtCh1c7gnMEAQYASABEgJ8GvD_BwE If she doesn't learn from her consequences why are you still with her? Tbh it's good you came here, you would make an excellent girl. I can send you some cute knee-high socks too if you want.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:09 AM
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You don't.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:08 AM
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She didn't text me back after tho :(
/r/askTRP23/08/20 05:15 AM
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I’m 5’5, going to something like 60+kg will screw me over I’ll be facing opponents a lot bigger. Judo requires speed too, strength isn’t as big of a factor compared to something like boxing
/r/askTRP08/08/20 05:18 PM
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Negative and a negative make a positive. But jokes aside, I am lifting lmao
/r/askTRP08/08/20 08:14 AM
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Looking like a powerlifter
/r/askTRP08/08/20 04:36 AM
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Yeah true, I can't gain too much weight though. It will fuck me for judo lmao
/r/askTRP08/08/20 02:39 AM
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Go and get drinks with her
/r/askTRP08/08/20 02:30 AM
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I withdrew attention, and told her to come to my place. She kept saying no. I never spoke to her again. Some girls will waste your time, best filter out the time wasters.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:38 PM
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Yeah best thing is to withdraw tbh, same thing almost happened to me with this one chick I met. I withdrew before I got any emotional connection or anything.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:35 PM
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My friend you hung out with this girl three times. You have oneitis for sure. Stop hamstering away for her, you're entering her frame. Just don't. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:33 PM
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Judo or BJJ
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:31 PM
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Soft next or hard next imho. She is manipulating you into a relationship for access to her vagina, fuck staying with someone like that. You know girls sleep with guys they meet in clubs - they know these guys for like a few hours tops. Yet this girl refuses to have sex with you, you're a man with his own needs.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:28 PM
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So no resistance = keep carrying on? Looking back logically I should have went for it, because she remained seated and was really listening to my interesting story.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:16 AM
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Yeah I'm aware lmao, I was kicking myself badly after. I just got scared because she didn't do kino back.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:13 AM
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My date was pretty long, the high heels thing was brought up before we met because she was unsure about how tall I was exactly - I looked about the same height as my female friends. Later on when we were fairly drunk, she mentioned it again - hence I mentioned the nostril thing. I can't really write an entire date in a single trp post.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 02:51 PM
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It's only a year difference, we're both young. My profile consists of me sitting under a tree in the park, a picture of me at the beach, a few group pictures and that's about it. Pretty standard, nothing really amazing.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 02:47 PM
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Yeah for real lmao, one of them squared up to me. I just looked her straight in the eye and told her, that she should be getting back to her girlfriend. She walked off pretty pissed off LOL
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 07:23 AM
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We split it, fuck paying for everything.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 06:42 AM
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The only cure to oneitis is to see mutliple girls :D
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 06:11 AM
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Yeah I do think that, she was really shy before. Maybe she just didn't want to give away too much power?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 06:10 AM
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Pre shots, it was just general about life and like a few stories from school. We talked about our lives and a few of our hobbies. It was going bad, because I kept zoning out and forgetting what she said. I honestly felt so awkward, but towards the end she opened up because I would make her laugh. Shots, we ended up talking a lot more. I was talking about funny and silly things and making her laugh. She brought up going to gym classes, I teased her by saying she does cardio with all the mums. We …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 06:08 AM
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I haven't talked to her since last week when I met her, she literally texted me out the blue.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 07:03 AM
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Hahaha don't worry I'm not as socially autistic as I seem.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:44 AM
1

Thank you so much, I will be trying to implement the physical escalation. I have all the other bases covered <3
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:41 AM
1

I have read the sidebar recently, but I need help with escalation in general. Are girls even interested in you when they speak to you for that long in clubs?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:31 AM
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Can you please actually give somewhat level of useful advice?
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:29 AM
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Why the fuck is this on asktrp.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:24 AM
2

Thanks for the great advice bro. If only I thought of that...
/r/askTRP02/02/20 06:23 AM
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Imo don't shit where you eat. Not worth the awkwardness, there's loads more women
/r/askTRP02/02/20 04:11 AM
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Start lifting my man, my urge to wank goes downhill after a good gym session. I too sort of understand your pain, I have very few friends too. I managed to come to terms with it by doing acid and shrooms (it might not work for you). I reccomend reading meditations by marcus aurelius, lifting and then becoming comfortable with yourself. Stop thinking of the future and think of the present. Thinking of the future makes people like us feel helpless. The present is what we can control :)
/r/askTRP02/02/20 03:34 AM
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They would not have robbed, we're all fucking uni students.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 06:48 PM
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Thank you very much for the answer <3
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:46 PM
1

Nah I approach any girl, it's just that during the conversation I really can't tell if they are into me. Like I am just really really good at talking and saying interesting things, but like I can't tell if the women are seeing me sexually.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:24 PM
1

Thank you very much for the reply, I will be trying that!
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:08 PM
1

I mean how will I tell the difference between friendly conversation and her being into me?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:56 PM
1

I would have sent her a nice message congratulating her tbh, no real need to block her or anything otherwise you will just look salty.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:33 PM
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Damn man, I just thought they saw me as a friend lmao. Like considering everyone was just hugging each other and whatever.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:58 AM
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Nah lmao, cocaine makes you very very self centred and confident. It's the closest thing to being dark triad. Also on cocaine you end up being able to talk more and be wittier. Source:- I have sniffed cocaine
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:41 AM
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I geniunely find it hard to know if a girl is interested in me when in a club. Like I swear all girls are touchy and chatty when drunk and they all act "flirty". Like how do you even tell there are girls interested in you in a club?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:35 AM
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IME drinking makes your game weak af. You're less witty and less able to read queues. Only things which help game are cocaine or some stimulant, but really those aren't good for the long term. Have a beer or two to get an up feeling and a little buzz, you will be chatting a lot.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:27 AM
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Get another drug addiction. Just kidding. Assuming you have your life intact (going gym, eating clean etc) you just need to stop hanging out with your stoner friends or just tell them you've stopped because it's screwing your head up. They will understand for sure
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:18 AM
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Honestly if it's passive aggressive behaviour just be straight up and confront them. Passive aggressive behaviour will die out straight away. I don't know too much about your situation but that's what I'd do. They will deny the behaviour btw, just tell them to man up and own it and be upfront. Then leave it at that and act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:13 AM
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Idk man, her gf did also find me quite funny. Lowkey wish I wasn't that fucked that night and tried the threesome. Bars are so much better than clubs
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:35 AM
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wdym have to be? Older women and men are both nicer to me in general.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:42 AM
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Keep going to the library. You didn't give into your ego and controlled what you said. Would it really make you feel better if you rattled your tongue and made these neurotransmitters fire in this woman's head telling her to be upset? Act unaffected, your emotions are just neurotransmitters fired by your brain, you can control that. That is your source of control and power. Yourself
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 04:59 PM
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Once he starts dating, he will find it harder being single. Whether you will admit it or not, life was better before you started dating.
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 04:56 PM
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Hi You are probably a lot wiser than me. I am 19 years old, came back from an abusive relationship with a girl. Now I'm in university and feel a crippling lonliness. Everyday is a struggle, living is a battle in it's own right, I suffer and have no one to speak to. My family life is fucked, I have a brother addicted to drugs so my parents lean on to me for support. I try to help my parents, whether it be emotional or giving some level of advice, knowing that my parents are so weak (not to sound …
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 04:50 PM
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I'm very short, only 5'5. My bodyfat is like 18% currently, it was 15% before
/r/askTRP11/12/19 09:10 AM
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I weigh like 53kg, I squat 80kg currently. So about 1.5x
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:35 AM
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Dude please keep no contact, I had a toxic girlfriend (my first one too), she was manipulative af and did shit like yours. Just no contact, you shouldn't even be caring that she sent you a message.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:14 AM
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I guess you're right. When I tripped on shrooms, I was told by some weird being that I needed to distance myself and rise. I need to do what I have to do.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:11 AM
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I don't think you know how drugs work. You don't get addicted to weed or xanax with my frequency of use. If I was using this shit everyday consistently then I'd be addicted.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:35 PM
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I don't need rehab, I don't have a physical addiction. I don't even buy the drugs, I get given them by my "friends" to get high with them.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:29 PM
0

That is easier said than done. But I like the coffee shop idea.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:22 PM
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Wtf OP you're a piece of shit. The only thing she got denied was a normal life and justice
/r/PussyPassDenied27/10/19 06:16 AM
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Yeah I understand what you mean. I first came here to learn how to get girls, then something changed. I diverted from God and modern day religion, soon I realised that the pursuit of women is sort of like crack. Short term pleasure no real measure of how good your life is. Lifting and doing other things was a real source of happiness, lifting helped me. Women didn't. Now I have started university, I sought others like me. Others who wanted something more out of life. I've just come to a fucked u…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:13 AM
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I geniunely have nowhere else to look when walking down a street. Plus speaking to someone is more interesting than just silently walking
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:41 AM
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I see, because I'm silent it's creepy? Next time should I hold eye contact and say hi? I'm trying to improve
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:33 AM
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I don't understand? Is it not normal to give eye contact to everyone?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:22 AM
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Like once or twice have people been able to hold eye contact with me. Maybe I'm autistic? Idk
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:10 AM
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It depends on your goal. If it's to cut and lose fat, then do IMF. It's basically where you eat within 8 hours a day. Example eating from 1pm-9pm. You eat at a calorific deficit. For building muscle just bulk. Get lots of calories in and protein. There's a lot of stuff out there on HOW to diet by guys who know a lot more than me. The drive to a good diet, is to cook what you like eating. I cook chicken drumsticks in my slowcooker for example. I like eating them so my diet isn't difficult. I reco…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:02 PM
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Progressive overload. Take it in little steps. A good method to study is the pomadoro method. One day you do 4 pomadoros, next week you step it to 5. Or make your pomadros longer.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:45 PM
2

I just finished my A levels. Heres my story. From year 12 I was hitting the books very very hard, I was taking bio, chem and maths. I managed to score very highly AA*B, and did my UKCAT(pre-admission test for med school). I got top 20% in the country for that, did tonnes of work experience, hit the gym and made lots of friends. During my time in year 12 I did go through some hardships, one being my brother overdosing and being put in hospital for 3 months, I had no female friends (which was more…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:27 AM
1

Yeah I need to do well in this first year, so I can get transfered to a medical course at the uni.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:18 AM
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Second this. Meditations has made me way more confident and less carefree. Warning though. After reading about stoicism, it made me sort of lazier.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 01:06 AM
10

Conservative in the sense that most people don't smoke cigs, less chivalrous to women and more blackpilled. But we are still open to gays, blacks and whatnot.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 02:49 AM
25

"Rare wife" Meets girl for first time
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:26 PM
10

Believe me, whenever I see girls I spoke to in the past I cringe thinking of my past self. Just avoid this girl and keep contact limited in all honesty.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:42 PM
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Just run social circle game. In all honesty going for your plate's friend will cause trouble for you. It's not the wisest of ideas. On the sidebar there is a post on how to do social circle game.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:40 PM
10

It's because androgyny is the modern day plague. Men are rewarded for acting like women e.g. shaving their leg hair, whilst being punished for acting like women. Women too are being fucked over as well. Women are encourage to act like men e.g. High power careers. Whilst being punished for acting like women e.g. Stay at home mothers or shaving their leg hair. This androgyny is a result of a cultural shift towards the femcentric. You know what projection is? Well that's what women are sort of doin…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:29 AM
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Dumped a girl, she begged for me back. I didn't take her back, my first gf btw. Yeah it's not super alpha, but for me it was alpha. First time I was taking real ownership over myself.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:26 PM
3

That's cool dodge the question
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:35 AM
1

My bad, I'm very sleepy atm. So my answer was quite incomplete. When you spoke of slut positive culture -> Slut women Conservative culture -> Conservative women My proper rebuttal was. This is false, conservative culture still breeds sluts. You can never take the slut out of a woman. The inner mechanism of women is the same for all women. Both sluts and conservative women when they see a 6ft2 ripped guy they both THINK about fucking him. The difference is the slut acts on it. No matter how stron…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:30 AM
1

Ok I'm going to stop being nice. Listen you fucking idiot, you still didn't even answer my question. Why the fuck did you feel the need to mention an ex of 10 years? Why are you even still thinking of her you dumb fuck? You come here fucking crying about redflag girls and whether or not we should spin them. But you don't fucking realise that's up to you. That's your choice, do you really need to be spoonfed everything because you lack your own unique thoughts? The answer:- You already fucking kn…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:18 AM
2

The irony... Dude you're taking everything way too personally, it's not an attack on your ego. It's anger phase.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:03 AM
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So you were with this girl 10 years ago, and wrote a post still? I'm not insulting you, it's obvious your new here and going through anger phase. Step 1 already happened. You still cling on to your ego, there's nothing triggering about what I said. We've all been through anger phase, sometimes we even slip back. Your focus right now should be lifting and improving your life so you can have a better outlook on life. Not women.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:58 AM
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Then why did you feel the need to mention your ex? The truth is you did have the knowledge, but you didn't really believe it. This girl just was the final proof of redpill for you. When someone kills something of yours, you don't forget about them so fast.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:49 AM
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The medium is in the message, you created a reddit post asking us if we are ignoring redflags. You contemplate if you want to ever date girls again, after your oneitis turned sour (not suprising), so now because you're so hurt you made this post. You still have oneitis and still miss her, that you cannot deny. Keep lifting, improve your life and think of yourself. Every girl is crazy to us, we aren't as emotional.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:28 AM
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I didn't tell you to lie (that's your choice). But telling her you are divorced has no positive effect. Literally think of this in an objective way. What gain do you have telling her that you are divorced? The only reason I wouldn't lie is in case you'd get caught out.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:13 AM
1

Gaming and porn are fucking time sinks. Believe me, I was a complete fucking slob before. Video games, porn, no gym and just no reading or anything. Guess what? I was actually happy during this time. I was happy but empty, so long-term I was very unhappy. It was empty, void and meaningless. I quit porn, I don't really play video games and now lift regularly as well as read. It's improved my mindset so much more and has made me more motivated too. In your case it seems you already have your life …
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:06 AM
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Your mental illness is called autism you fuck. Caring about social acceptance isn't a bad thing.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:49 PM
1

Yeah go ahead tell them, they'll think "Oh damn what an alpha, he's divorced! Oh my god! My pussy is being soaked right now!!!". No fucking don't tell them unless they fucking ask. Read the sidebar. The more you say, the less attractive you become. Never reveal your bodycount, never give a woman too much information. You want some mystery.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:41 PM
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The league thing is actually a filter. Basically the hot girls want men with strong frames, not complete wimps. So they made this whole leagues thing. The leagues are obeyed by betas, simps and just other low SMV men. By obeying the leagues you basically reject yourself. You can't really be angry at girls for making the leagues though. Imagine, if there was no leagues. They'd be hit on by 100's of complete betas everyday. You know how fucking shit that would be? So the leagues comes into place, …
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:39 PM
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False. All women aren't sluts, but all women are capable of being sluts. The same primal mechanism is present in both the slut and the conservative virgin. Women will fill the container (which is their man). If the man is acting like a complete bitch, she will act like a dickhead towards him. That's why we say women are a reflection of the man.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 11:34 PM
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18 here my gf did the exact same shit. I brokeup with her before she did with me. I didn't even tell her we brokeup, a mutual friend just passed the message on. So what happened? I get an angry text, she says it could've worked blah blah. But then says "Oh well you're single now". Cool. I don't speak to her for a while, she then tells my friends "Why isn't he talking to me?! I just want to sort everything out!!" We spoke, she wants to get back but needs time. AKA looking for a new guy, if no one…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:25 AM
3

So wait. You wish to get married otherwise no sex right? What happens if your wife doesn't give you lots of sex?
/r/askTRP05/08/19 03:51 AM
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Consider this. Once you become monogamous in an LTR, the relationship is no longer in your frame. And it's TRP on nightmare mode, constantly needing to pass shit tests (Easy) and then the comfort tests come (Hard). Secondly. If you're the one asking for commitment, the relationship is already in her frame - the power is shifting already. Keep spinning plates, withdraw for now. You are getting very attached to this girl, if she isn't asking for your attention when you withdraw that means she's ge…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:30 AM
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Is this post a fucking troll or something? What the fuck are you doing in the first place? Read no more mr niceguy. If she's such a bitch then why are you posting here asking for advice? It's not her fault she isn't attracted to such a weak framed person like you? Go read the sidebar
/r/askTRP04/08/19 10:25 AM
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A man's attention is a woman's currency. We control that, women have always been dependent on men since the very start of human society. They physically need us, the only reason any man ever feels the fear of losing a woman is because of a reality painted within their minds. That fear is non-existent, it's not real. It's a figment of man's active imagination. For women the fear of losing a man is very real, in caveman times if she was left she'd be dead. Her fear isn't a figment of her imaginati…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 10:10 AM
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LOL. Watch her actions not her words, she's distancing you and you're hamstering away it's because she wants to prevent one-itis... The only way one-itis helps is that it just confirms TRP for me. I might think this girl is amazing, wonderful and truly different. But AWALT always happens, without fail. Breaking up with a one-itis puts you back on your mission, one-itis is basically a wakeup call.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 10:19 PM
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Your frame is inherently weak that's why. How so? Frame is your view of reality, your subjective reality. What is one "truth" for you (you being inferior) may not be the "truth" for someone else (they may view you as superior). As you can see within frame there is no permanent truth, it's only temporary. Your view of the world and in effect yourself is negative due to your brain interpreting the objective world in such a way that you feel inferior. An example can be that rather than focusing on …
/r/askTRP03/08/19 10:12 PM
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18 year old here too. No it's a terrible idea, we have our career ahead of us. If people know about our views, we'll get ass fucked in the future. Guys our age are becoming more and more cucked, they fear change. The irony is that them supporting dumb shit like feminism is for them "rebellious" yet everyone is doing it. I tried redpilling friends before, it didn't work. Out of a friends group of 8, only 1 had been redpilled - and that's after he got fucked over by a girl. Not just that our young…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:41 AM
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You're a fucking idiot firstly. Why the fuck would you go back to an ex you whore? You aren't fucking redpilled, you're still bluepilled. You used the tools of the redpill to achieve a bluepill goal, your question simply put is "How do I win my ex back?". What is redpill then you ask? Redpill is living in a different subjective reality to the bluepill, in the world of the bluepill marriage is key and getting that one good girl is all that is needed. The bluepill has different goals you see. For …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:33 AM
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You didn't shrug your shoulders at the top, thus not engaging your traps. Restart weight and do it with proper form.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 04:12 AM
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Yup.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:23 AM
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Had this happen to me. I dumped her before she dumped me, hypergamy want a bit haywire. She then claimed she ignored me because she wanted to see if I'd chase and care for her, and tried getting back together with me. The truth is she most likely saw another man and got attracted, but my actions put her in doubt. As I ghosted her. Truthfully women who do this are scummy af, it always puts a seed of doubt in your head Did I really just screw up my chances?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:22 AM
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I don't get why she is trying to keep in touch with me constantly The medium is the message. He didn't write this for no reason, he wants us to reassure us that this girl is commited to him. He wrote the asktrp post for this, us to reassure him that she won't leave. This was never about the plates thing, OP is simply scared to have her leave. This was the hidden meaning in the post.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:04 AM
0

Sigh One-itis the battle every man has fought against. Firstly realise that if she fucks other guys, you won't know and won't be able to do a thing. It's the equivalent of you being strapped to a fucking chair and watching her getting fucked by chad. Realise you have no way of changing the reality, but you can change your reaction. I'm not saying she is going to be fucking loads of guys, but it's clear you fear that she will fuck other guys and hence lose her. So what do you do? Well if I'm goin…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 09:18 PM
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Sounds like a good case of one-itis.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 09:13 PM
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Why are you and your friend going for the same girl? You piece of fucking shit, friends last longer than girls. She probably has emotions for your friend hence why she texts him lots, not that his texting has stirred emotions in her Your friend has made more moves than you, wtf have you done?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 09:09 PM
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If you want to hurt girls get in a relationship with them and then dump their ass. Alpha widow them
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:35 AM
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Today I'm going to speak to this girl cute girl, not to get her number. But to improve my skillset
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:31 AM
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Meditate. There's nothing you can do that she fucked other guys. You can only control your reaction. Just sit there. Keep your eyes open, focus in on a random object. Control your breathing. Now let your thoughts run wild, imagine chad cumming in her mouth. Imagine all these fucked up images. Feel your heart racing? Well carry on. Keep meditating. Eventually your thoughts will run out, you'll feel a sense of peace. Then you decide if you want to stay with her or not.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:20 AM
1

So I have a plate I've been seeing for ~5 months and I've been considering upgrading to an LTR... But there's one thing I need to know before that. So you jumped from plate to LTR? You ever read the sidebar? LTR is a big step. Normally i don't care what a plate does on her time because it's just a plate but since I've been considering the upgrade, I've started to dig her Instagram and there's one guy in particular that interacts with her every once in a while. Mostly friendly comments, one where…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:14 AM
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There's always that one girl that brought us here. Be thankful for her, she's a past reminder of your former beta self. Feel shame and embarassment next time you see her. Her being is a reminder of the life you'll live once you slip back into bluepill mode. Don't fuck her. You're ahead, don't bother.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:09 AM
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Imagine your ideal man. Yeah you got that man in your head? Now tell me, that ideal man. Does he live life on his own terms? Does he react to others or do others react to him? That's what frame is. Others reacting to you, rather than you reacting to others. Doing stuff on your own terms. Next time you're in a heated argument. Pause. Pause and in your head imagine who is controlling the frame. Is it not you? If it's not you. What you simply do is exit. Just leave. When you are in a better mental …
/r/askTRP30/07/19 02:07 AM
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TRP is about sexual stratergy. As a male your stratergy is to spread your seed as far as possible, and a woman's is to secure an alpha. As you can see these two are at war, if one is to pass the other must fail. Things like the art of seduction teach you how to get that one girl. Like the rake character for example. He has quite a sniper rifle approach to women. Yes it may work, but it isn't utilising his sexual strategy to the fullest as he is putting time and effort into seducing/courting this…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:49 AM
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Blue pill goals, Redpill tools. You're 18. She isn't yours, it's only your turn. Enough of the gloom. I reccomend you sneak into the campsite, beat the male friend then chain your girlfriend to the RV. All jokes aside, there is nothing you can do. Now it's up to you to decide if you really want to be in an LTR at 18. And face all the stresses and whatnot? Or would you rather get experience with lots of girls and then maybe if you feel like it get into an LTR.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:43 AM
2

No it's a fucking a green flag...
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:25 AM
1

Personally weed fucks me for a few days after. My head is cloudy and i can't concentrate. Wanking multiple times a day will make living impossible
/r/askTRP27/07/19 08:00 PM
1

Cigs
/r/askTRP27/07/19 07:47 PM
2

I don't think you've understood the analogy
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:57 AM
2

No I'm seriously curious. How is it giving her validation?
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:38 AM
1

How am I giving her validation by making eye contact?
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:30 AM
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So you're not going to give eye contact to women in order to not give them attention/validation? Sounds more like a buffer of fear of rejection. https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/buffers/
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:29 AM
2

Yes, what's the harm? She thinks I'm a creep? Oh well, idc about her stupid as shit assumption of my character because of her inability to hold eye contact.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:22 AM
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Shit tests are a way to get an emotional response from you. Like when a woman calls you a player. Shit tests and teasing are quite similar in a way. But sometimes shit tests can be quite severe, but shit tests basically serve the purpose of testing your frame as a man. Comfort tests come from the man going full player and the woman's insecurities coming up. A typical comfort test would be like "Do you love me?". Comfort tests to pass must be done so with a hint of beta. So yeah comfort tests are…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:21 AM
2

Sounds like a good old oneitis. Just as a hunter aims his gun, looks down the scope, holds his breath and takes fire at the deer. Beta males/those who aren't utilising sexual stratergy to the max do the same with girls. They see a cute girl, they take aim and then shoot their shot. What the hunter should be doing, is going into the woods and firing his shotgun. That way many deer are killed, yes some shells may miss and some deer may survive. But overall the shotgun approach gets more kills. You…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:17 AM
2

Spot on! So many guys on here think they'll find their unicorn by vetting her. They fail to realise they have the same goal as your average blooper. Only difference is that they're using redpill techniques
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 04:24 PM
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The post isn't to give you that sort of advice. It's advising you how to take control of your emotions when approaching problems or anything really.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 04:07 AM
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Alternative examples not involving relationships:- Imagine you got a C in an exam. You fucked it up, you were supposed to get an A. Now you panic. Oh god, you potentially fucked up the future. Oh no. But break this down. The exam is simply a piece of paper. The piece of paper is neither good or bad, it is only you to decide if it was good or bad. It is your internal judgment of the "problem"/external indifferent which gave it the value of good or bad. That's why you're panicking. Not because of …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 04:03 AM
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Very true. But my post wasn't about relationships. It was about how to approach problems in real life. Apologies if it seemed like relationship advice, I had only used examples in the relationship context. The ideas given though can be applied to different contexts
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 03:40 AM
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Women speak covertly, men speak overtly. What use is overtly bringing the issue to her? Just soft next her fully, be covert. Women understand it.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:30 PM
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5'7-5'9 range is completely normal? Stop making excuses
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:05 PM
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The whole point of a date is to get to know each other. Soft next imo. Setup a date, she says "We should get to know each other more." Just say "We can do that on the date."
/r/askTRP20/07/19 02:03 PM
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In all honesty if they ask about your sexuality just treat it as a shit test and agree and amplify
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:56 PM
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"I've got this girl, flirts with me. Uses me as a metaphorical dildo and gets validation off me. She's a good girl - btw I'm only saying this because I have oneitis for her and making her seem like a bit of a unicorn lol. Anyways, she wants to be seen as a slut, so obviously the sex will be good. Guys how do I win my unicorn?" You've already caught oneitis. You aren't out to win THE girl or A girl. You want girls. Anyways enough bitching at you. If she's flaked on you once, soft next. Twice, har…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:44 AM
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You aren't shopping for a wife.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:37 AM
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This sub is here so you can improve yourself as a man. There are some beliefs that many men hold due to our bluepilled programming. One such belief that monogamy is a goal. It's not a goal. Monogamy is a side product. Our bluepilled programming tells us that monogamy is a goal because it benefits women. We're told to "man up" and whatnot. Spinning plates is seen as immoral due to that programming. If your spinning plates and your enjoying the company of that girl, go ahead and become exclusive. …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 04:51 PM
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If your true goal is to have kids, then you're on the wrong sub.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 04:27 PM
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Yeah but this isn't a set of rules. All I'm saying is that using trp to find your "soulmate" or whatever blue pilled bs, is wrong. That's not what TRP is for. We're not here to learn how to get A GIRL we're learning how to get GIRLS. When someone on asktrp asks us some stupid shit about how their plate is a slut or how can they make a girl exclusive to them. That's when they're using TRP wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 01:24 PM
1

When she says it first bro
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:04 AM
1

Sometimes you can't spin a plate forever. Just as a man won't be friendzoned forever, women won't be plated forever. This plate has broke bro.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:54 AM
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That was a shit test. You did well sort of. Next time you should have said something like "No you're the first girl I've ever been with" or "Yeah i have a massive harem of women, you're number 300"
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:14 AM
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You have one-itis AWALT applies You broke up to pursue your hobbies - it was on you There are no soul mates, only good ones and bad ones. She was just a good one. You didn't write this post because you were concerned for her. You don't feel "bad", you feel like you made a mistake because your sole source of intimacy was gone. Read war-brides essay. You'll be suprised to know that she is going to get over the breakup way faster than you are.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 02:49 AM
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Girls are actually really boring people. They don't really have hobbies or a mission in life. So they fill it with idle things like chatter and socialising with friends. They get into relationships to fill in that gap. All girls are lonely, rememeber the contrasts thing I said? So the girl who seems to have loads of friends and whatnot, she probably is lonely. Her friends and her probably only have a shallow relationship.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 11:28 PM
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Look for contrasts. Find ones thumbscrews. Example:- A girl who is a major prude or acts like one. The reality is, deep down inside she is looking for a man who will whisk her away and fill in the void which is loneliness. Loneliness and need for success are quite common fantasises. People want some saviour. Be that guy
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 11:26 AM
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Send him no more mr nice guy
/r/askTRP10/07/19 12:44 AM
2

Yeah i felt that way with edibles. Like the few days after I'd always lose focus and just random ramble during a conversation. Unable to hold eye contact too, like I'd just stare at the floor after.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 02:04 PM
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She literally broke up with you... You really think she hasn't started her search for other men? If she wanted you she'd have not broke up with you
/r/askTRP09/07/19 02:11 AM
1

It doesn't matter who is dumping who in the point I was making. The point is you just lost 5 years! The dates, texts and whatnot, they make you feel good - but they make you more attached. You lose 5 years of attachment. It's going to take a long time to reach that level of attachment isn't it? That's why it hurts. It's the time and effort needed to form that relationship again. Would you be more pissed if I gave you a house and then destroyed it the next week? Or would you be more pissed by you…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 02:03 AM
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LDR? You mean you fell in love with a bunch of pixels? Essentially a cam-whore
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:50 AM
1

You forget. Men have 17 times the testosterone of a woman. We have a greater sex drive than them. Sex is a greater priority for us than it is for them. We can't really withold sex in a relationship as well as a woman for starters. Secondly a woman could easily find sex - that's the simple truth. Ok I do agree with you the LTR is satisfying. But consider this. Say you meet other good ones, and now LTR girl and good one they are both great. LTR you knew for 5 years, good one you knew for only 1 ye…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:46 AM
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Read about plate theory, when you become exclusive to a woman the relationship enters her frame. Now she is your only source of intimacy therefore she now pulls the strings. That's why you properly vet a girl before you date her. There are no soulmates, there are only good ones and bad ones. She might just be a good one, but there are plenty of more good ones. What makes her special is the value YOU ASSIGN HER WITHIN YOUR MIND, it's YOUR PERCEPTION of her. Note YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF HER VALUE. R…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:35 AM
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When on a date it should be an action date. You should be doing something rather than sitting around and talking. Treat girls like kids, just like a little girls wants to be playfully pushed and twirled around a grown woman wants to aswell. Pretend like your 7 in a way, no need to over complicate it. Kids have "natural game", look how a little boy treats a girl. Does he give a shit about her? No. Does he flick things at her in a playful/teasing manner? Yes. Does he give her orders? Yes. Example …
/r/askTRP09/07/19 01:03 AM
1

Yeah I'm trying to stop with weed and alcohol now. All that shit does is get me depressed after a few days. Weed has helped me come up with some wonderful thoughts and ideas because of the deep introspection, but the depression that comes along is not good. But yeah, I don't crave weed really anymore.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:49 PM
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Firstly calling her out is autistic as it gets. GENIUNE DESIRE CANNOT BE NEGOTIATED. Women communicate in the covert, we communicate in the overt. BE COVERT! Secondly "taking it nice and slow" LMFAO. You know how we plate girls we tell them "I really like what we have now, but in the future we can have something down the line". Yeah she's doing the same now. NEXT and game other girls! Goodluck!
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:41 PM
3

Hah. You sound a lot like me. You can't force a purpose. My purpose was to become the best man I can be. I realised my purpose when I was high and I was constantly upset about things out of my control. At that point I realised the fault was within me, and that I needed to change. Started reading stoicism books and now I wish to self improve.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:13 PM
1

Yeah much clearer. She needs dick, and doesn't want a higher n-count (that's where you come in). She's on the search for another man that will give her commitment.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:46 AM
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Ok, I'll try to give an explanation then. But really it won't be that accurate considering you haven't given us any information of your breakup. Before a woman breaks up with you she will give you signs. Breakups don't happen randomly and if they truly do, then it was because of an act of anger rather than one of wanting to truly breakup. If that makes sense. If we assume she wished to truly breakup with you. She may have found a new man, but this new man is not interested in her. So she goes ba…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:27 AM
1

Only a dog returns to it's vomit. If you were to get dumped she wouldn't have given a fuck. Read the war brides essay.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:02 AM
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Thank you, I'll bear that in mind next time if I write a post!
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 09:42 AM
1

My last post about women and attention. With my examples
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 06:30 PM
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Stubborn people aren't open to other viewpoints. Frame isn't about who is wrong or who is right. It is about who is in the superior position. If I was trying to explain something to a girl to impress her, I've entered her frame. I'm doing things on her terms, her reaction is what is controlling me. If I'm explaining something to a girl, for the sake of explaining with no strings attached. Then you'd not really give a shit if she didn't like the explanation, her reaction wouldn't really bother yo…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 06:19 PM
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Frame isn't about facts. Frame is more of a powerplay imo. If you are presenting correct facts to someone in order to convince them of something, you've entered their frame. They are in the more dominant position - even if you are stating the truth. Frame is about you controlling the conversation, you make the rules and whatnot.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:55 PM
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Dating? You aren't dating. She already dumped you. Make yourself the centre of the universe, currently you're focused on her rather than your own life. If you really want to know if she is cheating - go ignore her. If you ignore her and she isn't asking for your attention - she is cheating. If a woman isn't asking for your attention, she is getting attention of equal or greater value elsewhere.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:43 PM
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This is very true. If you walk off for a good reason because of something she did. And she chases you back. There is an ulterior motive behind it most likely. I.E. Make you a beta orbiter or something along those lines
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 08:33 PM
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Pennies don't cause you problems, women do. You don't put investment in pennies, you put them in women. Now all you "Alphas" will be saying "Lifetopic what the fuck are you on about? I don't put any investment in women." That's a fucking lie. We're all emotionally invested to some extent whether we'd like to admit it or not. My post isn't telling you to throw women away. My post is telling you she doesn't have as much power as you think. She's just as scared if not more scared of being left alon…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 04:46 PM
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Value is subjective. To one girl I maybe a chad, to another I am nothing. Even low value guys have a girl after them. The whole point of the post is to help create value. By adopting the mindset that a woman needs you, you as a man will be more confident. This post is aimed at those low value guys being fucked over by girls. They can walk away
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 11:28 AM
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Women are more machiavelian than men. It's a well known fact, their innocent looks help them. The mindset of you being higher than them is to develop narcissism, with your over-confidence you won't be taking a woman seriously. Her manipulation is a manipulation of emotion not logic. If you aren't taking her seriously, and she tries to manipulate you, you then walk off. She has nothing left to do.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 10:06 AM
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You decide who is worthy depending on your personal criteria. In all honesty if she isn't bringing any value in, why bother with her? Just know that women love opportunistically, and that this cold thinking process comes naturally to them. An example being a beta orbiter. In my case my ex remains in contact with me and views me as a backup guy. Even going on to say she is afraid of losing me. Obviously I cannot accept such a person who has such a degrading view on me. I've had to next her, she's…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 12:00 AM
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Women are insecure about other women. They place their value on our attention and our words. Like we enjoy sex, validation and attention is similar to them. Would you like to fuck the girl who has been fucked by the entire group? Or would you like the girl who has a low n count? Would girls like to fuck the guy who compliments and worships every woman he sees? Or would they fuck the guy who rarely ever gives his time to other women? This is why beta behaviour is discouraged. You basically become…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 11:48 PM
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This is the truest thing I've read.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 11:02 PM
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Just realise you are way higher value than any woman. They are lucky to be speaking to you. Illimitable man has a good blog and writes about narccisisim. You need to be narcissistic, think that you are above these girls. From a biological perspective men are superior. We are stronger than them and can form deeper relationships. We are better. You need to internalise beliefs like that. Because once you do. You'll stop caring what these girls think. And that's when that little voice in your head i…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 10:27 PM
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There's 2 sorts of value. Physical and Psychological. For the physical your standard advice. Lift, eat well, good clothes, lots of money. You're everyday regular shit. For the psychological. This is where we as men can excel. 48 laws of power and illimitable man's blog is an excellent starting place. Reading the sidebar is good too. But what most people fail to realise is that there is a central theme in all of these resources. It's to see women as lesser and yourself as higher. Illimitable man …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 09:49 PM
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Very true. Orbiters are a woman's backup.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 06:16 PM
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You sound like me a lot. I even applied to medical school and been offered a place given that I achieve same grades. I too am in the same situation as you. My ex-gf left me, currently she is looking to date a friend of mine. She wants to keep me as a backup it seems as she suggests we can restart and take it slowly. Old beta me would be very happy and think she is being serious. But I know better. Women actually have backup plans, I am just her backup. Just as you are her backup. We are both val…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 06:15 PM
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The modern human and the caveman are the same. It is true we can supress our primal instincts but it is very difficult. We evolved for this. We've only lived in modern society for the past few hundred years.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 06:11 PM
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Reading shit like this sends chills down my spine. Just knowing that any woman can be capable of something like this. But anyways they most likely want to see if you're fuckable. Most likely if you broke up with them, and they're rubbing it in they have a boyfriend it's a jealousy attempt. "Look what you're missing out on". These girls sound quite young too. I wouldn't think too deeply about this. Remain aloof and indifferent, even act happy that they have boyfriends. In their minds you've got t…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:21 PM
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Suggest TRP concepts. Convince him some of the TRP concepts are his idea. Example motivate him to go the gym and get abundance. You can slowly guide him. Asking him things like "What's the best way for a man to become attractive?", he'll give you a tonne of ideas. Then you be like "Ah yeah the gym seems good to build muscle?" He says yeah it does. And you say "Good idea, I rate we go start lifting." And slowly he can increase his smv. With abundance you can make him question himself. Saying thin…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 10:14 PM
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So if she knows and doesn't want to talk to you again, it's best off to leave it man. There's no need to tell the guy. Ignore the other guy, why do you want to tell him? Be there for your daughter, she might hate you but fucking tell her that you'll be by her side and stick to your word. Let her know that if she's ever in trouble she can count on you. That's the only way really. I'm sorry if my answer doesn't make sense.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 09:56 PM
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Sometimes the hardest things in life is letting go. It sucks you can't see your daughter, but if she is happy why mess everything up? I understand I am going to sound like a cunt but here goes. You're being selfish here, to satisfy your curiosity you wish to drop a major redpill on this girl's life. I'm calling it a redpill because it is a harsh truth which you are giving her. So really it's a forked road for you. Do you redpill her and drop this on her, potentially fucking her head up. Just so …
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:04 PM
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That's cool, just take good care of her. She likes it from the back with her hair pulled.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 06:33 PM
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Wow.. Fuck these comments telling you to accept her again. She fucking left you, rode on shit dick and now wants you back again. She can't have it both ways I'm afraid. Only a dog goes back to their vomit. You know what to do - hard next!
/r/askTRP14/06/19 06:31 PM
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Did you come here to get your dick sucked or something? Your girl has probably done this to you too, but you were just unaware.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 06:30 PM
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Yeah it's expected if she doesn't care for you... Stop msging her just leave her on read for christ's sake... You need her more than she needs you. Male company/attention is really valuable. Think about it we're funnier than women, easier going and are actually creative.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 12:09 AM
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Yeah. Now go out there and live your life. No amount of asktrp advice can beat experience :)
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:59 PM
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Just experience I guess. Go get your heartbroken or something. Heck fuck the downvotes. Go get attached to her. Enjoy it. Because when she dumps you for whatever reason, you'll use that pain to become a new man. So yes. Go ahead and get attached, you need the experience.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 11:54 PM
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Just say send bobs and vagene. You'll trigger her ASD if you just say shit like that.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:47 PM
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I used some online calc, and it said I should be eating that much. I don't really understand why though.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 01:15 PM
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Do well in school. Get into a relationship, see how shit it is and then report back! Goodluck!
/r/MGTOW17/04/19 05:34 PM
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You guys are seriously low iq ffs. It's literally a troll....
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 05:50 AM
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/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:58 AM
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Ah yes that's what i meant xd.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:07 PM
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Ah alright i see, so i should really work my way into the crowd rather than go to the fucked up stuff straight away. Thank you!!
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:01 PM
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The fact I don't care makes me act like weird. I get what you're saying and all, but i need to learn how to act normal if it makes sense. Like when I'm talking to teachers or those above me i am very shy and don't talk much because there is consequences. I can say anything i want to a girl. Wtf are they going to do me?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:34 PM
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Use that sadness. Approach people and think "what's the worse that can happen? I am already sad, I can't be that much sadder?" I am a lot younger than you, so really can't speak from experience. But what you describe reminded me of myself a not very long time ago. I too was negative, awkward and worried about what others will think. But then a traumatic family event happened - my brother overdosed and fell into a coma + cardiac arrest. At that point I kinda stopped caring what others thought. Th…
/r/seduction09/10/18 02:22 PM
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Would you say the line I said about her looking better than the other girl was good? She reacted with a open mouth / shocked face. And laughed and said "you can't say that!". I didn't apologise btw - she calls me ugly too :/
/r/seduction06/10/18 12:34 AM
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You look normal and skinny in clothes but when the clothes are gone you look quite fat. Google image search it, closest thing to skinny fat is having 20-25% bodyfat.
/r/MGTOW10/09/18 07:01 PM
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This shows evidence that she did the crime... The other posts were allegations.
/r/MensRights22/08/18 05:33 PM
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LMFAO
/r/seduction05/07/18 07:14 PM
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Hahaha I feel stupid now. But thanks :D
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:05 PM
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Shit man, you think because your Asian girls aren't into you? Well let me tell you this. Girls aren't attracted to any race. They are attracted to good looking men. Don't let your race be an obstacle!
/r/seduction13/05/18 03:36 PM
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I feel OP, I used to be like that. But people have preferences and I accept that. OP is in a very good position, and the only thing thats fucking him over is his mindset. (Not trying to sound like a bitch) But OP should go and try indirect approaching!
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:51 PM
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5'6 indian guy, in a much worse position than you. But, there is a big but. I am kinda sucessful. I don't get many white girls, but a good 70% of my dates/hookups have been with minority girls too - the ones which have been westernised. Race is only an issue if you make it an issue. Honestly as long as you don't play to your sterotype then it should all be fine!
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:35 PM
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