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OK, you got me, I'm now subscribed to r/MensRights.
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 07:03 AM
1

Can you edit the post?
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 06:57 AM
11

"frantic due to their incompetence". So obvious and this never clicked with me before. Thanks for the insight.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 08:52 AM
2

So say we all.
/r/MGTOW10/10/18 06:12 AM
8

Good stuff. Had an Irish whiskey myself.
/r/MGTOW06/10/18 11:58 PM
2

I wish he'd sue every last person who tweeted or retweeted this shit. What's going on atm is insane and there needs to be consequences to destroying a person's life.
/r/MGTOW03/06/18 07:41 AM
1

Definitely a yes from me here. I love my friends and they are good people. But my belief system has changed to reflect reality and theirs has not.
/r/MGTOW27/05/18 04:49 AM
2

I need to stop holding doors for women...
/r/MGTOW24/05/18 06:36 AM
3

Talk to an accountant if you have not paid tax, you may be liable if your crypto investment increases in value in a tax year, even when you do not sell.
/r/MGTOW26/04/18 06:58 AM
8

I'm loving seeing these Red Pill truths. I was on one of the MRP subs the other day and the sub was arguing with the op saying that his wife should be his friend. WTF....
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 09:51 AM
2

This and his incelTears post don't do any of that stuff. It's a cheap shot at feminists in order to piss off the simps and he followed it up by getting butthurt when they told him he sleeps alone (why?) and responded by calling them names and posting their responses here in order to get validation from this sub.
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 08:46 PM
2

I'm just going to start reporting stupid posts until things change or the mods ban me.
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 06:43 PM
2

Read Mastery from Robert Greene.
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 01:17 PM
1

I've considered leaving this sub ( and therefore the last sub I browse on reddit) due to the hours I can spend reading the material you all post. But then I read something that changes how I view the world and I know that I am not wasting my time. Someday I will leave but not yet.
/r/MGTOW28/12/17 01:21 PM
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Thanks for sharing.
/r/MGTOW27/12/17 07:42 AM
2

Post wall women who are single are crazy. As well as that, they don't look as good, don't have an ability to care anymore, and are just generally broken shadows of what they once were. Why would a self respecting man want to spend his time on a broken woman. And these women do not want any man who respects himself so little as to want her as an LTR (women want time and validation from men they respect). I really liked your piece above. Unfortunately live has thought you a lot, but there is still…
/r/MGTOW26/12/17 09:56 AM
3

Double plot twist: so am I. /s
/r/MGTOW24/12/17 07:52 PM
5

Beaming validation to you, you strong independant woman.
/r/MGTOW24/12/17 08:50 AM
9

Well done, you just described 90% of women. They're all the same.
/r/MGTOW23/12/17 04:34 PM
2

Not you, I was referring to the comments you were replying to.
/r/MGTOW18/12/17 07:47 PM
19

Those studies were worthless propaganda. It's a case of correlation versus causation. Women marry the happy wealthy healthy men and leave the depressed poor sick men as they are worthless to them.
/r/MGTOW17/12/17 06:08 PM
0

Never give up. Even if you fail at school, you can have a good life. We lose too many of our friends to suicide. You always have options. Stay strong.
/r/MGTOW17/12/17 09:40 AM
3

Her guy friend gave her some good advice on what we older men like. Pity she'll never take it as (as always) it's men who need to change what they are attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/17 09:32 AM
3

Don't forget stress from having to have a job and managing (or not managing) finances.
/r/MGTOW16/12/17 10:02 AM
1

Thanks, I know what I am. And yes I agree with you. I'm an old disciple of r/marriedredpill. But gynocentric subs are not what I need. I'll believe I'll stay.
/r/MGTOW11/12/17 11:11 AM
3

I'm guessing your a SMBC fan?
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 08:31 PM
4

Reverse the genders and imagine the shitstorm .
/r/MGTOW08/12/17 09:07 AM
3

She's loving the attention.
/r/MGTOW07/12/17 08:52 PM
1

"The price of freedom is eternal vigilance" some famous guy
/r/MGTOW07/12/17 09:23 AM
1

You're young and in a much better position than you think. Get healthy (lift), develope emotional intelligence/ control (frame) and learn to accept that which you have no control over (outcome independence). This advice is ubiquitous in RP philosophy as these things are important for a happy life. In ten years you'll look back and realise that the last eight of those were amazing.
/r/MGTOW07/12/17 09:00 AM
21

Women don't trust women and most don't like them as managers or in positions of power.
/r/MGTOW07/12/17 08:51 AM
3

I am shocked, I thought the number would be much higher.
/r/MGTOW06/12/17 05:33 PM
1

Sorry for your troubles. Thanks for posting.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 08:57 PM
11

They don't even understand love as we feel it.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 08:35 AM
6

The saddest part of this is his irrational desire to return to the plantation asap. Fear of independence is a horrible thing.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 08:12 AM
1

I think you are mistaken rather than lying. There's no shame in that. Thanks for posting those articles.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 01:00 PM
2

I've no argument against the fact that women are more likely to abuse their children than men. But just because that is true, does not mean we can start making up statistics and dialogues just because we want to believe them. We are men and should hold ourselves to a higher standard.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 07:46 AM
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I've no argument against the fact that women are more likely to abuse their children than men. But just because that is true, does not mean we can start making up statistics and dialogues just because we want to believe them. We are men and should hold ourselves to a higher standard.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 07:46 AM
2

I've no argument against the fact that women are more likely to abuse their children than men. But just because that is true, does not mean we can start making up statistics and dialogues just because we want to believe them. We are men and should hold ourselves to a higher standard.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 07:43 AM
2

Did you just assume my gender? /s
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 07:38 AM
7

So much AWALT in one lifetime.
/r/MGTOW01/12/17 02:00 PM
2

Slight but important distinction.
/r/MGTOW01/12/17 09:03 AM
3

Just described my marriage spot on. I knew we were not unique but I didn't realise it was so scripted.
/r/MGTOW29/11/17 03:44 PM
3

Sorry you lost a friend. Even bad good friends are hard to find. If he contacts you in the future, tell him not to be so stupid again and forgive him. A lot of us were Simps before we found RP.
/r/MGTOW29/11/17 02:23 PM
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There's no genetic evolution but our societies and beliefs have evolved over time and they were part of this process. So in a way, it is learnt behaviour but they are far more aware of what they do and why they do it than your average Joe.
/r/MGTOW29/11/17 12:29 PM
7

You just read the thoughts of the lowest ugliest souls that Satan ever placed on earth. These things that would call themselves human are either rape baiting, or lying and encouraging other women to bait.
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 06:27 PM
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We need info.
/r/MGTOW27/11/17 10:15 PM
3

" I thought you guys were just women haters to begin with." People think that if we don't love them, we must hate them. When in reality, we just lost the ability to care anymore.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 09:24 PM
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And feminised men are apparently better at putting on make-up. T- girls must make the best women.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 09:12 PM
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You lack imagination my brother.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 03:29 PM
8

Her words are meaningless. Judge her by her actions.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 10:54 AM
6

Don't think you'll be promoted by working long hours. The most basic form of politics is "do they need you?". If your working long hours but do not stand out from the crowd, your wasting your time. If you are useful to them, they don't care about the hours you work as long as they are reasonable. Don't assume that they know you want to be promoted. You need to find ways to let them know that you can be trusted to make decisions, manage people and put their priorities first.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 10:36 AM
3

Don't kill time with TV netflix etc. When you do watch media, make sure it's something you planned to do rather than your default activity.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 10:23 AM
5

Don't waste your weekends. If you have no plans, just do something. I like hiking, and being alone with your thoughts is wonderful.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 09:55 AM
10

Have a close male friend/brother that you trust. Talk to this person about your life. However, always default to not mentioning MGTOW or red pill.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 09:53 AM
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Don't waste your time on social media. It's goal is to keep you hooked for as long as possible each day. It gives nothing in return. Therefore, as a man who values his time, it is not for you.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 09:50 AM
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She was at home doing nothing and had no-one else. She just wanted drama so she could feel the feelz. Next stop is tinder or some other dating app that makes her feel like shit but it's just so addictive.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 09:22 AM
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That's logic abuse right there. How dare you use logic to restrict women. Their feelings are more important than your stupid little household budget..
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 08:15 AM
2

And have to be with a man that makes less money than her....
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 08:12 AM
1

No it's abusive as there is an implied threat. He either entertains her or she will not be happy later and will make sure he knows it.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 08:08 AM
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"hail-damaged asses" lol.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 07:58 AM
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They were too busy assassinating his character with the usual "you can do better girl" rhetoric.
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 11:12 PM
1

You're going to have to give us more than that or we'll think your very sensitive.
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 05:48 PM
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She leaves him for chad at a nightclub and Mr Bean seems sad for all of 2 minutes. He then throws the trip switch on the way out and he's back to being himself again. Classic.
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 02:16 PM
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It's not helpful to associate yourself with MGTOW outside this sub. You need a separate account for everyday stuff.
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 08:01 AM
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They think there'll be companionship. They need to understand that a woman will not make them happy or give them a feeling of accomplishment.
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 12:20 PM
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Only two, you must be young. The vast majority of marriages are verbally and psychologically abusive. The only difference between them is how much abuse is happening, how public they are about it (nobody wants to be that couple who argue in public) and how much the guy retaliates.
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 12:11 PM
2

This is so far off the truth. You totally forgot about the second car, yearly holidays, expensive lifestyle and date night plus girls nights out.
/r/MGTOW24/11/17 11:44 AM
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They should report the minimum sentence as we know she is not going to get the max sentence.
/r/MGTOW23/11/17 01:03 PM
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I'd read this book.
/r/MGTOW22/11/17 02:47 PM
1

This is far too much identifiable information to be posting. If this got back to her or her lawyer, they can say that you are part of a hate group and your custody may be damaged. It's not worth the risk. My advice is to delete this post immediately.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 11:16 AM
1

Now I'm thinking that your just trolling us.
/r/MGTOW20/11/17 08:26 PM
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You've just changed my world view a little. Thanks.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 07:02 PM
6

Happy International Men's Day everyone.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 02:40 PM
1

I can't let that poorly thought out contribution from John be the last comment in defence of my argument, so here goes. The statement that Europeans invented most of the modern technology is undeniably true. People get uncomfortable with facts that don't agree with their world views so this fact is great for baiting people who believe in libertarianism. Which of course is everyone in the west. Anyway; your statement suggests that white western men are special in their ability to produce new thin…
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 08:39 AM
2

I answered this with my first comment.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 10:29 PM
1

I would meet an expert immediately to diversify this investment and see if there is anyway to put a small amount aside for children's education etc in the case of divorce. I'd tell her I made some money with investments but not the amount and that she will not have control over it. I'd expect this to cause trouble and maybe even divorce. It is better to have a half to a third of the money for yourself than watch all the money disappear with a lifestyle I could not maintain once the money is gone…
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 11:45 AM
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As a married man, I can confirm that this is accurate. It's not even that the list of things to do is not enjoyable in and of themselves (build flatpack furniture, gardening, shopping and play with kids). It's the lack of freedom in the execution of the tasks. All things are top priority, if I say fuck it and leave it to next weekend, I'll have to deal with the associated shit tests/ nagging. In the time it took to write this on my phone I've heard my wife ask my child, "where's daddy". Life is …
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 10:36 AM
2

Thank you for this post. There is much food for thought and reflection. I will endeavour to conquer myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/17 06:46 PM
3

"It's because the pathology that afflicts women doesn't allow them to accept the love of a man, because love requires vulnerability, and women have been mind-fucked into viewing vulnerability in a man as weakness, and weakness is a turn off." It took me a long time to figure this out. Once I did, it explained my relationship with my wife. This is not only an excellent post but an example of a true insight into the behaviour off women which has the potential to help many men in LTRs.
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 01:14 PM
2

I made plans for my future career.
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 09:28 AM
1

You should give r/marriedredpill a look. They are a bit older, direct and take no bullshit.
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 09:27 AM
1

It's never the fat women with the fat faces that are used in these ads, these plus size models always have faces like their skinner colleagues.
/r/MGTOW12/11/17 03:45 PM
7

If you think that's bad, you should check out what fellow members of r/marriedredpill call each other. We don't worry too much about damaging someone's ego (as in self identity). Ego prevents individuals from seeing truth and we are interested in getting to the truth. Try arguing a diametrically opposed point of view on another sub and you'll see what happens when ones ego is threatened. Also, I do not except the argument that there is truth to both sides and a compromise can be reached as this …
/r/MGTOW12/11/17 11:00 AM
1

Thanks for this world view. It makes a lot of sense.
/r/MGTOW12/11/17 08:25 AM
3

Not if they are under 6 feet tall.
/r/MGTOW12/11/17 08:23 AM
2

Starts poor enough with the sex stuff but a couple of paragraphs in you see why they presented men in this way.
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 08:43 PM
8

Thank you for this insight. Men being a rare resource in our history is not something I had considered previously.
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 11:56 AM
7

No soon about it; it is banned.
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 09:04 AM
3

Remember folks; it is not safe to speak the truth outside of MGTOW. We live in the proverbial piranha tank now. Swim carefully.
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 09:02 AM
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Were you raped? By the definition a society where rape is defined as an interaction that you didn't want or regretted thereafter; than yes. It is rape as she did not ask for consent. But that also means the majority of couples in LTRs have rape sessions instead of sex as these people tend not to ask permission as permission is (rightly) assumed unless there are reasons to assume otherwise. So there needs to be a deciding factor. This deciding factor is, does the individual regret the interaction…
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 07:56 AM
1

I'm thinking that he's a troll. Ignore him.
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 10:25 PM
4

This argument that the two parties to the contract have unequal bargaining power could be used to invalidate any legal contract as it is rarely the case that two people are truly equal. As the article states, the assumption of equal bargaining power is necessary for the law system to work. This ruling only makes sense when we ignore this basic principle of law.
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 09:58 AM
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Sure himself and his son were MGTOWs themselves.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 09:39 PM
2

If you want a family, you gotta play by the MRP rules. There is no half-assing it and it does not come naturally to me. My dread is looking good and chatting with women and just being fun to be around. This natural dread and MGTOW teaching me true outcome independence means that overall we have a strong happy family. And I work hard to keep it that way.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:24 PM
2

Our own liberation
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 08:31 AM
18

Perfect.
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 08:45 PM
48

Can confirm. I used to thing that if l shared my insecurities with my wife, that she would use the opportunity to metaphorically kick me whilst I'm down. I now realise that it was not intentional; she just lost all attraction for me.
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 06:20 PM
1

A simple red pill truth.
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 08:48 AM
3

Can confirm. My parents are married over 40 years. Saw them kiss once send hug less than a half dozen times. My mother nagged my father 5 nights a week (the other two they had nothing to say) and turned us all against him. My father got annoyed about small insignificant shit and made life difficult for us. They appear like a normal couple (Probably because they are) and will never get divorced.
/r/MGTOW06/11/17 08:52 PM
1

"Removable insert just a rinse". I feel that your underestimating my laziness.
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 06:46 PM
1

The kids. That is all.
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 06:44 PM
1

True.
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 12:56 PM
3

That was emotionally hard to read. You've taken the road from complete fucken man bitch to a fucken man, bitch; and you need all the red pills. Sign up to all the subs, read all the sidebars, do all the lifting, maintain all the frame, obey all 48 laws; do everything and anything to purge these Simp (love that word) demons from your soul. Then decide how you want to live your live.
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 11:32 AM
2

Every child should have a strong male role model. This however is rare nowadays.
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 08:51 AM
7

That and a T level in double digits.
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 07:17 AM
7

This explains allot of their behaviour.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 09:00 PM
2

It's amazing that otherwise intelligent men continue to get married.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 10:09 AM
3

In my experience women don't differentiate between these two concepts.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 10:05 AM
3

Societies are build on superstitions and data. Whilst I concede that science is flawed and corrupted by the agenda of the time period, without it we'd still be a couple of thousand apes killing each other over access to a nice fig tree. I recommend the book "Sapiens, a brief history of humankind" if your interested.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 09:27 AM
5

Well said.
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 08:55 PM
2

I'm past the anger phase. It took years but finding MGTOW was key to my accepting that women are the way they are. You talk allot btw, you should listen more. I'd recommend "The rational male" as a good starting point.
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 07:02 PM
11

This goes beyond an asexual society.
/r/MGTOW02/11/17 10:45 PM
1

Great reply. Smallest disagreement with one small part. They take on the characteristics of women as they believe these characteristics are superior to those of men who they see as women abusing scum. I know as this is the way I thought.
/r/MGTOW02/11/17 04:49 PM
4

Married Red pills (MRP) are trying till rewrite the rules.
/r/MGTOW02/11/17 03:31 PM
6

When living with a woman, every new comfort becomes a necessity.
/r/MGTOW02/11/17 03:27 PM
2

I agree, just meant that deception like this does not come naturally to most men. However, the "accidental" pregnancy is also "cold" but is not really as it's just what they do. As a plan of action, it makes sense.
/r/MGTOW30/10/17 08:37 AM
2

The use of "hardworking" as a euphemism for wealthy is laughable.
/r/MGTOW30/10/17 06:56 AM
2

You and me both. At least you got out without kids.
/r/MGTOW29/10/17 06:25 PM
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This is the kind of writing that can change someone's world view. It deserves to be it's own post.
/r/MGTOW29/10/17 09:18 AM
1

Well said, I tried to upvote you twice it was so nicely put.
/r/MGTOW28/10/17 10:10 AM
3

Normally great advice but are we not waiting on the next crash to happen in the next few years/months?
/r/MGTOW28/10/17 09:56 AM
2

Maybe we are all AMALT. I don't think we are but I used to think that NAWALT. Either way, the sub for debates on these red pill versus blue pill issues is r/PurplePillDebate. Enjoy and knock 'em dead.
/r/MGTOW26/10/17 02:24 PM
8

This perfectly describes my relationship. I too have come to this realisation. Unfortunately, I'm married with kids that I will not easily abandon.
/r/MGTOW26/10/17 10:04 AM
3

I've given this issue of suicide more than it's fair share of though and I believe suicide should be your last option. Your literally saying that all hope of a better life is gone and ceasing to exist is better. Besides those living with major health issues, I find it hard to think of situations where this is true. Problem is that the alternatives such as starting a new life somewhere else, can be difficult and can take a lot of bravery. Suicide is seen as the easy option and that is why it is a…
/r/MGTOW05/09/17 11:04 AM
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Well it's not that women are the primary victims of war.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 02:30 PM
4

For this to work, you can't fake it. You must be truly independent and willing to live your life without any validation or physical comfort. You are not at this stage yet. For now work on yourself and Shut The Fuck Up (STFU ; read up on this). Learn how to deal with shit and comfort tests but assume everything is a shit test until you understand the difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 08:30 AM
2

Amazing stuff
/r/MGTOW24/08/17 07:24 PM
2

Thanks for posting this
/r/MGTOW24/08/17 09:35 AM
-2

Your retort lacks any retort. Well done for mocking the guy for disagreeing with your world viewpoint. Truly a masculine quality that.
/r/MGTOW24/08/17 07:35 AM
2

This thinking is common everywhere outside of MGTOW. All his self improvement was for the wrong reasons but these reasons are not the only reasons. We improve so that we can live a purposeful life. He sees no purpose outside of a relationship. We need to explain to him and others why this thinking is wrong.
/r/MGTOW24/08/17 06:29 AM
1

We can't rewrite the rules of the game, we can only play it or not. Trouble is that sexbots makes not playing it a little bit more attractive.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 08:05 PM
4

The top 20% of women will still get good dick and might be able to lock down a man but the remaining 80% are fucked.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 07:57 PM
1

I agree, so get two dogs. They'll keep each other company.
/r/MGTOW23/08/17 08:02 AM
1

Great post. Thanks for this world view. It will be interesting to see if technology can stop the decline and maintain a society where only a minority of men are invested in it.
/r/MGTOW23/08/17 07:12 AM
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Read what you have written but flip the genders. Ninety percent of what you wrote could have been written by a wife about her husband. You even have the hamster writing parts of it. You''re still very very blue. Your not leading at all. That means your wife is and they hate leading. Don't take direction from your wife but give her permission and make these plans your own. You need to put all your effort into fixing you. Start by killing that hamster.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 07:43 PM
3

You find the best woman you can find and marry her and then she changes to be just like the rest.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 11:51 AM
3

Ouch, that hurt because it's too true.
/r/MGTOW22/08/17 11:47 AM
2

On one red pill path or another for the last 2/3 years and even though I had this information before now; your post put it in a way that really clicked with me.
/r/MGTOW15/08/17 04:14 PM
7

Late 20s woman was telling me about a chad friend of hers pissing in a pint glass in the middle of the bar and putting it on the table. She thought it was funny.
/r/MGTOW15/08/17 01:47 PM
7

You have a NSFW filter on. There is a whole (disturbing) world you are about to witness.
/r/MGTOW15/08/17 11:34 AM
5

While I agree that in general minimal censorship is best, there are however geniuses like this guy, who post on other subs and therefore claim to represent us, who are just trouble we can do without.
/r/MGTOW13/08/17 08:43 AM
1

No, fuck you for trying to start drama like a little bitch. When you go to other subs to start drama, you also invite them here to start drama. Shit like this just leads to the decline of the subreddit. If your bored just go do something. That is why we are here after all. To live our lives as best as we can.
/r/MGTOW13/08/17 08:07 AM
6

He just went to that sub to cause trouble. Bloody idiot.
/r/MGTOW13/08/17 08:04 AM
1

Tengas are great. They feel very nice and allow you to avoid the deathgrip.
/r/MGTOW12/08/17 09:49 AM
3

This is the only place in my universe where everything is not the man's fault by default. TRP, MRP, BPs and society in general all agree that it is always the man's fault. Just want to say thanks.
/r/MGTOW12/08/17 09:30 AM
6

"You have to understand. Most people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured and so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it"
/r/MGTOW12/08/17 09:21 AM
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Pathetic Nice Guy who she'll marry at the age of 30+ after a 2 year relationship but will never provide her with the tingles.
/r/MGTOW12/08/17 08:54 AM
1

Too many to list but my colleagues notice and comment on how far I have come in the last 2/3 years without knowing why I've changed.
/r/MGTOW11/08/17 08:02 PM
1

I am not trolling and I am outraged. We are in agreement but my poor English maybe preventing me from communicating it.
/r/MGTOW08/08/17 02:23 PM
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Agreed, the statement you refer to is an example of one of the characteristics society assigns to women. Other examples are that they show more empathy, collaborate better, are intuitive, have self -control and are concerned with the well - being of others more so then men. We know this is not true because we have eyes to see and ears to hear. However; BP individuals still believe that these characteristics are feminine even though they see the same things as us. This is due to a form of doublet…
/r/MGTOW08/08/17 12:28 PM
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Of course the wife would refuse to do this for her beta bitch...
/r/MGTOW08/08/17 07:06 AM
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None of the Red Pill subreddits recommend marriage. If you are aware of the stats and risks and still think that marriage is a good idea, then the fact her N count of four may or may not be a red flag. More importantly, is she an alpha widow? What were the nature of these four relationships? As for if you should get married. Hell no, your asking basic questions and have not developed an abundance mentality.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/17 07:39 PM
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That's an example of a married guy with options who is with a woman who has a lower sexual market value (SMV). She has nowhere better to swing to. It's why relationships where the guy has a higher SMV are often better for everyone involved. There's also the opposite with two low SMV individuals who are just happy to have one another as they have no better options.
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 07:21 PM
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They've watched too many romantic comedies.
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 09:13 AM
3

Could not agree more. I similar experience to this put the first crack in my Blue Pill Doublethink.
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 09:05 AM
13

Fuck them... This is why we can't have nice things anymore.
/r/MGTOW02/08/17 10:12 PM
2

I found TRP and MRP at stage 5 and it got to stage 8. Red pill brought it back to stage 4 for her but for me the mould is broken and I'm making sure I don't stray back onto this pictograph.
/r/MGTOW02/08/17 10:09 AM
2

That he would..
/r/MGTOW30/07/17 06:58 PM
3

It takes a long times for a BP to internalize RP philosophy. Just keep doing what your doing and don't try to save him when he fucks up again. Just be there for him. You're a good friend.
/r/askMRP30/07/17 07:03 AM
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They do not feel love the same way You do. You need to understand the concepts behind the red pill. Start lurking on TRP and MRP.
/r/MGTOW23/07/17 11:16 AM
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Although I'm not a true MGTOW, this sub has helped me in so many ways. It's helped me deal with my anger issues. Helped me achieve true outcome independence with my wife. It's helped me to become independent of outside validation. It has shown me that there is a real alternative to the life I now lead. Thanks to all my brothers
/r/MGTOW23/07/17 08:17 AM
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When I started on the red pill journey I used to suspect that maybe some of the posts in r/relationships and r/sex were faked by trp. But then I noticed that real life was just as fucked up and I recognised my double think for what it was and I believed these posts now because I saw it with my own eyes. It is possible that this tinder profile is fake of course, but given how fucked up people are, I'm more than willing to believe that this is real and/or reflects someone's reality.
/r/MGTOW23/07/17 08:05 AM
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Number 1. You do it for yourself. It is simply the most efficient and effective form of exercise. It's good for your body and your mental health. Number 2. It builds attraction. If your a bald fat fuck weighing 220 pounds, nobody gives a shit. It your a 220 pound swole dude, you're not just getting your wife's panties wet but with minimum effort you can make your interactions with the opposite sex just go more smoothly. Number 3. MRP does not rewrite the rules of the market place and you need to…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/17 12:27 PM
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Going to the gym. Pick up some clothes I bought. Meet my brother and some sort of outing with my kids. And check MGTOW again tonight.
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 08:57 AM
3

This needs more upvotes.
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 08:04 AM
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In a way. But none of us find it funny.
/r/MGTOW20/07/17 12:51 PM
10

Everyone has a type. As heartless Instagram models go, I think she's cute.
/r/MGTOW18/07/17 06:46 PM
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Didn't think you did, just adding my 2 cents in the hope that it might help generate a discussion.
/r/MGTOW18/07/17 08:02 AM
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But we do everything together.... Otherwise she gets sad..... then angry..... then I have to be extra nice to her..... I'll bring her to the meet-up to make her happy. She likes bad boys on motorbikes....
/r/MGTOW18/07/17 05:54 AM
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"She is not yours, It's just your turn." Red Pill philosophy is aware but has no recipe for a happy LTR besides find the right woman (FILTER and ignore AWALT) and be better than her in every way and at all times. It's a life long game and your prize is a decrepit human sex doll and you get to delude yourself that your winning.
/r/MGTOW17/07/17 09:58 AM
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Wish I could give you so many upvotes.
/r/MGTOW16/07/17 07:48 PM
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Keep moving subreddits.
/r/askMRP17/06/17 06:03 PM
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Thanks for this.
/r/MGTOW17/06/17 10:49 AM
1

Fear of failure. But I'm working on developing a more positive frame of mind.
/r/MGTOW14/06/17 10:44 PM
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"I just want something real". Women are incapable of loving you the way you love them. If you think otherwise, you are living a fantasy. Real is what your friends are doing. Real does not mean a happy relationship. Reality is brutal. But the good news is that you can live a fulfilling life that includes a wife and children by making the right choices and with a bit of luck. Stop looking for your oneitis and work on yourself first and foremost. Find what makes your life fulfilling. Then date and …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 08:27 PM
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Working link to article https://www.ceddit.com/r/relationships/comments/6g5gmf/i_33_f_cannot_stop_thinking_about_separating_from/
/r/MGTOW09/06/17 07:22 PM
1

I'm not. I'm married.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 01:55 PM
1

Amen Brother
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:41 AM
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If your married go to r\marriedredpill. It really helped me. Apart from the angry part; I'm over 2 years in and I'm still so very angry.
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 08:29 PM
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It is never the woman's fault, even when it is. This bit of doublethink makes my married life easier. This is the kinda shit that is needed for a happy marriage. Part of the reason why I'm here on MGTOW being envious of you who have not married.
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 08:12 PM
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And it's written by a white knight. Pure comedy. I hope he lives a sexless miserable life with his hoe who dreams of only of Chads cock as she is fucked by some random dude she met on a girls night out.
/r/MGTOW05/06/17 08:04 PM
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This is an important point. You will have to be honest with yourself. Is this a rough patch or would you be thinking of leaving anyway. Is it possible to work through the BPD if you decide to stay with your child or will your life be hell on earth if you stay.
/r/askMRP04/06/17 08:01 PM
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Yesterday we talked about politics; today is religion. I come here to contemplate the state of women. I (and I'm sure many others) am not interested in these pseudointellectual discussions on subjects that have nothing to do with MGTOW. Diam35 is right to appologize for trying to alienate his fello man but a post like this is counter-productive. This sub needs to welcome all men and shit like this just divides us.
/r/MGTOW04/06/17 08:05 AM
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It's perfectly normal but don't talk about it as is not PC to date based on ethnicity and any women you date would feel that your only dating then due to their ethnicity.
/r/seduction03/06/17 07:47 PM
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If I die before my wife, I know I'll be spending my last moments consoling her as if she was a child. I have never been in a stressful/emotional situation that was not made more difficult by her presence.
/r/MGTOW03/06/17 02:56 PM
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Did you just find this subreddit today or something? There's no indication that you've read or implemented anything MRP. Keep reading and improving yourself and being fun to be around. Develope do what needs to be done and develop outcome independence. Eventually you will learn how to lead and then maybe your wife will follow. Do not blow up your marriage until you know what you are doing.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:00 PM
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Welcome to the Anger Stage. Losing frame when denied sex when starting MRP is not a big deal. You've had some success but you have not internalized that you should be the prize and you rewarded her "good" behaviour because you still have the blue pill dream of happy ever after. She's off of the pedestal at the moment but as soon as you get a couple of nights of affection, you'll put her right back on it. Take her off the pedestal permanently and use this anger to change your relationship. In Sto…
/r/askMRP28/05/17 08:12 PM
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No point in staying with her though. His marriage was over before it started. Saying that; I'm afraid there really is no hope for this guy. He's read the books and learnt nothing. He'd be better off in blue pill hell then in this purple purgatory that he has placed himself in.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 11:31 AM
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Is she having good sex with you. If yes, there's no problem and improve slowly over time. If no, then this provision of comfort may be counter-productive and you need to dial it back and increase dread. Business trips are great for dread....
/r/askMRP23/05/17 10:59 AM
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I'm the kinda cunt who'd refuse. The reason I would likely not help is that, if I'm sitting on my ass, there is a reason I'm sitting on my ass. I'm either watching the kids or I'm genuinely resting. If my wife needs help, I don't wait to be asked. If she asks for help when she does not need it, I treat it as a shit test. As for OP, as he eluded to, he needs to get busy. Make sure the jobs he occupies himself with require a tool box or something from the garden shed. Doing jobs that lead to perma…
/r/askMRP21/05/17 11:18 AM
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Women are the same in a similar way to all cars are the same. They all cost allot to maintain when they are older, they all get you from A to B, however some look better and are nicer to drive than others.
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 07:01 AM
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This all sounds like a big shit test to me. You STFU and smiled which is safe but responses to this are not difficult to come up with if you remember that they don't need to be the most witty response ever. A simple "and you love it" will suffice if said with an arrogant smile. You've only been here a couple of months. You started in an enviable position and your making changes fast whilst seemingly avoiding a full Rambo situation. Your doing great but you have to expect pushback.
/r/askMRP20/05/17 07:51 AM
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This 100%.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 07:43 PM
2

Too right. This will happen as you improve yourself.
/r/askMRP18/05/17 04:43 PM
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No sex in 6 months save for you BJing your wife in return for HJs and no sexual contact in 3 months and you think that your NOT a beta provider.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 06:57 AM
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So say we all.
/r/MGTOW16/05/17 07:45 AM
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But for the love of everything RP, password protect your journal.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 12:54 PM
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And add the standard advice of record everything. With a quick search of the sub you should be able to find strategies for divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 12:27 PM
2

I have defaulted to the "oldest teenager in the house dynamic" even though I would have loved a "first mate". I suggest you do the same. Redefining the questions in this way will help you going forward. As for your present situation; Congratulations, you own a dog.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:40 AM
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Can we use this as a textbook example of going full Rambo?
/r/askMRP12/05/17 12:37 PM
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For me it was The Iron Rules of Tomassi within The Rational Male. Internalisation of rule 6 was hard for me and your too early in the process for rule 7 as discussed above.
/r/askMRP11/05/17 08:24 AM
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As he said "Literally this entire sub"
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 05:40 AM
2

Their are no short-cuts only long cuts.... I'll see myself out....
/r/askMRP10/05/17 08:39 PM
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That's a funny way to spell sex.
/r/MGTOW09/05/17 07:37 PM
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Well done. You won the battle but not the war. It takes time, effort and dread to make your own slut.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 06:47 PM
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It could be IF if you've cut back on fats. Saturated fats are important for the production of testosterone and other hormones so lack of sat fats may lower your libido. Or you could be just bored. Have a good argument with the wife and see if that gets your blood going. Always work for me.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 06:31 PM
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From "The Rational Male", this paragraph made me understand this. "She wants you to ‘get it’ on your own, without having to be told how. That initiative, and the experience needed to have had developed it, makes you a Man worth competing for. Women despise a man who needs to be told to be dominant, told to be confident, told to be anything they have on their list of prerequisites for their intimacy. Overtly relating this to a guy entirely defeats his credibility as a genuinely dominant male. The…
/r/askMRP09/05/17 12:32 PM
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Sounds like your the exception to the rule.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 12:29 PM
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If that is how you are thinking, you have not done as much reading as you think you have. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/5mn8z6/the_meaning_of_stfu_and_how_it_relates_to_dread/
/r/askMRP09/05/17 12:07 PM
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Taking it slow is the best way to avoid going Rambo. Your wife may not start responding in any positive way for months and there will be pushback. Also, there is no way that you have internalised the vast amount of information that you have consumed in the last week. Think of it like weight lifting, you can read up on technique but only consistently applying these techniques will allow you to improve.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 12:01 PM
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When I read SAHM and no kids, I hear lazy.
/r/askMRP09/05/17 11:53 AM
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Because I don't think OP has done much reading. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/5mn8z6/the_meaning_of_stfu_and_how_it_relates_to_dread/
/r/askMRP08/05/17 07:04 PM
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Read and lift. You have a long way to go. Take it slow. Expect pushback from your wife. Do not talk to her about RP or the manosphere. Expect lasting changes in your relationship to take months. Fix your finances, and if you want to ask stupid questions like how do I spend $500, you should consider gender reassignment surgery. I'm seriously wondering if your trolling me.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 10:49 AM
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Your new oneitis is just a different flavour of crazy btw (AWALT).
/r/askMRP05/05/17 08:15 AM
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I disagree with your disagreement. I've been using this approach of total outcome independence and it works.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 03:49 PM
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No, I believe he is saying not to become her plate. I on the other hand I'm saying do not plate her. It's the easy option as opposed to getting proper plates and it looks weak. She is hoping to keep his nuts in a jar. He should "plate" her on his terms if at all.
/r/askMRP30/04/17 06:52 AM
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Two weeks only. You lucky bastard. Mine is more like months with shit tests for far longer if she sees even the tiniest chink in my frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 08:48 AM
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Makes sense. They are subreddits devoted to understanding human interaction.
/r/askMRP18/04/17 02:46 PM
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First, MRP does not advocate marriage. It used to be that if you were going to have kids, getting married made sense. Nowadays, it makes little difference if you are married or not when you're in a happy LTR, with or without kids. However, when your LTR ends (and ends badly as they tend to do) it can make a large difference. So it's all risk with no benefit save for a day out and some shiny jewellery for you. So what you need to think about is why do you want to get married. Is it that you want …
/r/askMRP18/04/17 02:35 PM
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If you post here, your going to be told the truth. If you want a safeplace to talk about your feelings; go back to r\relationships.
/r/askMRP18/04/17 01:43 PM
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I don't think this sub advocates marriage. We just happen to be married.
/r/askMRP04/04/17 08:22 PM
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I'm there with you, including the anger. We came to this sub to get more sex only for it to be pointed out that are goal would not make us happy and we need to decide what we want in order to live fulfilling life's. Nobody can tell us what to want when we don't know. We just need to figure it out.
/r/askMRP04/04/17 08:18 PM
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Under no circumstances should you talk to your wife about your revelations or the manosphere. This behaviour will undermine you and your journey as your wife will know that your changes are guided and not because you are just a natural. Your wife wants you to be just naturally desirable. When you read "The Rational Male" you'll come across this passage. "She wants you to ‘get it’ on your own, without having to be told how. That initiative, and the experience needed to have had developed it, make…
/r/askMRP31/03/17 10:30 AM
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True. However, these basic questions can keep the discussion going and that can generate a feeling of community. That's the only reason I check askMRP.
/r/askMRP20/03/17 11:45 AM
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This is askMRP. It was made for stupid questions
/r/askMRP18/03/17 11:03 PM
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If those are the only two options, it has to be you being a "fucken arsehole". If your marriage is dying it's becauce you are killing it. Here is my advice. She's trying to do everything not to make you happy but because she wants a feeling of control. You should be the one who provides this feeling. Remove responsibilities from her day and have remaining responsibilities clearly defined. She works, so you can afford to get a cleaner in once a week. You need to direct her activities better and s…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/17 09:02 PM
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I have. Have you read "The Rational Male"? "She wants you to ‘get it’ on your own, without having to be told how. That initiative, and the experience needed to have had developed it, makes you a Man worth competing for. Women despise a man who needs to be told to be dominant, told to be confident, told to be anything they have on their list of prerequisites for their intimacy. Overtly relating this to a guy entirely defeats his credibility as a genuinely dominant male. The guy she wants to fuck …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 11:00 PM
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Do not read these books in front of your wife and do not talk to her about your revelations or the manosphere. This behaviour will undermine you and your journey your wife will know that your changes are guided and not because you are just a natural. Your wife wants you to be just naturally desirable. If she was happy with you being told how to be desirable, she'd tell you herself. The fact that women know this stuff already should not be a surprise to you.
/r/askMRP15/03/17 08:43 PM
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Most of these responses will lead to you being Rambo. Which of course in great if your wife sees you as Rambo. If you have not established the frame for this, you will come across as Joffrey Baratheon. Change needs to be gradual so clean up her sht whilst you improve yourself because that is what needs to be done. But also begin leading in the house. Find things to fix. Plan the weekends. If you have kids, take them somewhere fun without the wife. When she sees you as someone who leads and is de…
/r/askMRP13/03/17 06:33 AM
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You've only been doing this since November. You are nowhere near ready for divorce. This sh*t takes years not months. And don't ask your wife for sex. Initiate it.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 08:41 AM
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You are making excuses. Go to the gym three times a week at 9 and do a minimalist approach you will find on r/leangains. You have one kid that your wife can look after whilst you take man time to go to the gym. And I promise you; you will feel better after going to the gym then if you had spent that hour watching tv on low volume with a cranky wife. She may surprise you and, after some token resistance, support you in this. As for the room. You do it because it needs to be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/17 09:03 PM
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Can confirm. Breastfeeding and tiredness killed her libido. However, I'm not sure what you mean by "NOT the time to go full MRP". If you mean not to go rambo and jump to max dread level asap, I agree. But he should go full MRP. As in manning the f up and owning your shit, getting strong (not just fit), learning game, understanding the hamster and learning how to have a happy marriage. The guy had one kid and his world is falling apart and he is asking for an excuse not to lift, one of the most b…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/17 09:01 PM
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The kids love being thrown around like this. Makes me very happy I found MRP and started lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/17 08:42 PM
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It would be good to see a post on this from one of the more senior MRP approved. Myself and other posters on MRP have experienced the wife having a drop in libido with the second pregnancy but not the first. For me, this continued for the year after my child was born as breastfeeding also reduces libido. It was at this time I found MRP, but unfortunately it was also the most difficult period as I had a tired low libido wife. Combine this with the necessary need to provide support around the hous…
/r/askMRP17/02/17 12:01 PM
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You're measuring your worth by your wife's reactions to you. You need to stop using your wife for validation. As for sex. Hate f**k her until you develop the frame to get past this.
/r/askMRP29/01/17 08:03 AM
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I used to do this regularly and still do every now and again but I now realise that this is getting her to make a decision (which she does not appreciate). Mostly I'll just do stuff or just tell her. If she objects I'll make light of the situation, make her laugh and do it anyway. Now I'm off to take our fake tree that weights a half tonne up the ladder to the attic. Thank goodness I've been lifting.
/r/askMRP08/01/17 08:40 AM
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My goals are: To become an organised worker with clear objectives. To develop my social life. Have visable abs for the first time and lift 1 160 kg deadlift. 2 90 kg Bench. 3 130 kg Squat.
/r/askMRP03/01/17 08:31 PM
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Add "Not having a tight form going into the lift" to this list.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/16 06:28 AM
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Exactly, the advice is simple but not easy. Every time you find yourself in an argument; STFU and go do something that needs needs a toolbox to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/16 01:08 PM
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This is not helpful. It's full of BP advice that we all heard before. We already "talked about everything" and "recognised that we are a team" and that got us an unhappy wife and a shitty life.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/16 08:16 AM
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A post for comparison. I had the same starting body weight and did the same program (SS) for 6 months and then followed a SS like program of my own. Still 3 days a week. I am ten years younger though. Started with an empty bar. My 5 rep lifts are now; DL: 300, SQ: 210, OHP: 90. Don't do BP but bench two 65 DBs. Body weight is now 180. I know these are not amazing results but I'll keep at it. I'm not worried about abs at the moment as am focusing on getting all these numbers up. And my wife is lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/16 10:07 AM
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No she isn't. She's just a woman cut from the awalt mold. She is not the prize. You are.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:00 AM
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With maybe the additional advice to not leave the hot sex with ex go to your head. This is not due solely to your new RP ways. Even BP you would have got a bit of action. Except BP you would move back in with the wife and within a year it would have been business as usual.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 06:53 AM
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This is want I want as well but I rarely act upon these feelings now as continual flirty interactions may give her all the validation she needs (as in the case with my wife) and give her the sense that she is still in control and so work against you as she will not feel like she has to improve. I hope this will change as our journies continue but validation of our partners must come from a position of power rather than one of oneitus if we are to have the happy relationships we desire. Edit: thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 08:43 AM
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I must admit that I read that bit twice as well as neither of those activities add value. But you have to admit that the vast majority of men that are MGTOW or even finding TRP for the first time are not horsebacking around the world or climbing Everest. The point I took from this is that we cannot just dismiss these men as immature as they are responding to the new reality in the only way they know how.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/16 06:49 AM
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It sounds like you had a serious conversation; acknowledged her feelings of being scared and negotiated. All blue pill ways of dealing with the situation. Do not engage the hamster. Humour is the key when you know what she is saying is BS. You know she's not really scared so tell her that she is right to be scared as you know for a fact that at 7 in the morning a drunk and horny man will be in her room looking for a little hottie to have his way with. Remember, her words carry no weight. She can…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 12:56 PM
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