| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 52 | Who should text first after a first date? | Conversation | LifeisLife1234 | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 09:37 PM |
| 10 | How long do you take before asking her out (online dating)? | Conversation | LifeisLife1234 | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Ghosting after agreeing to a date | Conversation | LifeisLife1234 | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How cold do you have to be? | LifeisLife1234 | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 07:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 15 | How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appealIf you’re only going after girls in their 20s, naturally you will find a smaller number of girls interested in you as you grow older. Consider widening your pool to girls closer to your age, especially as you hit 40. Unless you’re rolling in dough, it may be hard to sustain | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Should i try for a second text?I’d remove the maybe next time. Something like let’s celebrate xx next time. When a girl is interested, she’ll make sure you know. She knows what you’re asking and isn’t responding | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Am I an idiot? (text with pics)I agree with everything but the not the type to ghost part. That’s a good follow up line to have as a second message. Yes, there shouldn’t be a need to follow up on a ghost BUT there shouldn’t be a ghost in the first place. It doesn’t matter bc something happened before the texts but calling bad behavior out on the second text isn’t low value | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Ghosting after agreeing to a dateI was going to let it be but I actually really like this approach. Appreciate the perspective. It shows you respect your time while giving her ample platform to jump in if she wants | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Ghosting after agreeing to a dateIt’s the later. We didn’t have a location set (I said I’d send it) and when I sent it later on, I asked if she had any allergies and boom | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Ghosting after agreeing to a dateYou’re not wrong. She was pretty excited about it. We had a time and day and then when it came to place, she disappeared lol At the end of the day, nah man I don’t want someone like that. We haven’t met yet so I want to give these girls a chance but may not be a good idea | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Tomorrow is my first date !I would actually err on not doing this and just focus on getting along with her as a person. It’s way too obvious when you come on too strong and misread the situation in nervousness. You’re good with doing this on a first date because everyone else makes moves too strongly and too quickly. If you have a second or third, you can try to escalate then | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I convince my father to pay for my plastic surgery?Do you know what complacent means? Looks and depression are completely unrelated | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 09:21 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Thanks man | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Both excited day 1, suggested plans but she didn’t couldn’t make it and I could only make a certain time for her suggestion. So it ended being a if it works it works | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I StartedLooks like you’re the one who didn’t read. He said you shouldn’t judge others. No where did he say you didn’t have the right. Same logic as you can obtain the right to kill someone or something if you obtain the appropriate license, but doesn’t mean you should. The fact that you resort to lowly insults and can’t even comprehend what you’re saying only shows so much. Try insulting me more, it only proves what I’m saying.. | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 12:52 AM |
| 2 | 2 Years Of Cold Approach, 15 Lays, And Right Back Where I StartedYou say “but who knows” initially proving you admit you can be wrong. Someone says that is the case and you blow up defensively saying it’s an opinion. Is that really the other guy’s problem? | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Was that a rejection? Should I move on?Yeah I’d move on. Sounds like she doesn’t want to break contact or take things further. I would have just stopped addressing the issue after the first ask. Asking more wouldn’t change anything. | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How cold do you have to be?I see what you’re saying man. I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How cold do you have to be?Are you saying to just go ahead and sleep (in this example) without saying anything? | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 07:58 PM |
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