Lighterbulb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	How to find out a girl's schedule without seeming beta?		Lighterbulb	/r/seduction	05/05/14 04:26 PM
3	How to make your Ex's friends want to hook up with you		Lighterbulb	/r/seduction	11/05/13 03:04 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	If a girl you just met is genuinely busy the first time you ask her to join you, how do you proceed without appearing needy? There was an article somewhere that talked about being needy. The thing is, everything we do comes out of neediness. The only way a girl views it is dependent on how much she likes you. So if you asked her out saying "Me and my friends are going out" and she said she was busy, then there is nothing wrong(in my opinion) about asking what she is doing the day after/asking again the next day. But if you ask her on a date and she says no, then I usually wait a couple days. Just to make it seem like …	/r/seduction	31/03/14 10:01 PM
1	When to stop using text only to setup dates (Question) People have said a lot of things right now. I think /u/bl1y makes the best point. But there are other things to consider. If you two start dating then it is appropriate to text all day. But until you can officially call yourself that hold back. Since this isn't the first date and you know her a bit make sure to say hey how's it going every couple of days to see how she is and show your interest still. Just keep it to a minimum until a firm connection can be set up.	/r/seduction	06/02/14 05:48 AM
3	Guidelines for a FWB relationship THIS! THIS SO MUCH! If I had had this 6 and a half months ago things would have been a lot different. I might not have had the same friendship I have with her and it still care for her a lot but this would have made things better in a way. I am in a FWB relationship that has progressed into me being in love with her. Which sucks cause even though she loves me its not in the same way. And though I regret nothing this would have been useful to know. I think the structure is good but needs to be br…	/r/seduction	06/02/14 05:39 AM
7	How certain movies can be dangerously misleading... I don't believe this at all. I think seduction is what you make it. If you want a bunch of hook ups than you can use it for that. If you want to be a better more confident man and get a relationship, you can do that. Seduction is about making a better you.	/r/seduction	07/09/13 11:53 PM
3	How do you guys find the energy to go out and party for hours? Maybe I worded it wrong earlier. Since Creatine helps to resynthesize ATP from ADP pretty much giving you back the energy you spent, it overall gives you more energy to use. Its not like caffeine where it gives you this energy spike, it just lets you be able to use more since it keeps turning ADP back into ATP. So its not a stimulant but more of a way of being able to keep yourself from feeling exhausted and tired.	/r/seduction	30/06/13 06:59 PM
2	How do you guys find the energy to go out and party for hours? It's not	/r/seduction	30/06/13 03:47 PM
2	How do you guys find the energy to go out and party for hours? To add to this, i exercise and i take creatine as well. It is very good at giving you a lot of energy. I find if i need to get something done i take some creatine and have so much energy. So if you need an extra boost take 5g of creatine 20-30 minutes of going out and you will have a whole lot of energy.	/r/seduction	30/06/13 02:53 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/17/13 (please upvote - zero karma) Coming from another man who loves to dance(and is considerably good at it), I find that if you are having fun doing what you do women will be able to tell you are also having a fun. I just go out and dance and don't give a shit what others think and all the girls can tell I am having a good time. So just do how you do man.	/r/seduction	19/06/13 04:15 AM
2	[FR] Senior year, and my first close thanks to seddit. Good for you man!	/r/seduction	09/06/13 08:19 PM
5	[FR] Senior year, and my first close thanks to seddit. I'm glad it worked out for you with this. Not caring about what people think is great. But i think you were too aggresive With this girl. If it worked for her great, but be careful about this with other girls. They might not be as thrilled with this strategy. Stick with the no caring, but pull back a little. Especially with girls you don't have much rapport or history with.	/r/seduction	09/06/13 06:05 PM
1	Unsure of how to approach and what to say "Hey, how's it going, I'm Lighterbulb" Once you have established an IOI(the strong eye contact/her staring at you) you don't need some kind of situational opener. Direct will be much better.	/r/seduction	05/06/13 09:22 PM
5	Timing the first kiss on the first date. The "WAIT!" method was talked about earlier this week. When things are going great between you too and it feels like everything is going smooth, bust it out and blow her mind.	/r/seduction	04/06/13 07:34 PM
1	=) ;) =P - Emoticons: Yes or No? Sorry about that. But u/Rex83 makes a really good point and offers some good advice. Emoticons CAN look childish. It's no coincidence children and immature people overuse them I usually adapt to my conversation partner though: if they use it a lot, me too, if not, I tone it down a bit I agree with him about the childish thing, using them to much creates the sense that they are talking to a boy, not a MAN. But lets say you start going into LTR with this girl then it is okay to add some more, sinc…	/r/seduction	04/06/13 05:32 PM
4	=) ;) =P - Emoticons: Yes or No? Now, i am no pua per say. But in my experience they should be used more sparingly then anything. When a time comes for it its great to use them, but not often. If you make a joke through text that might not translate to well(such as a neg), then an appropriate emoticon is acceptable. Example: she is late to meet you per say. Her: Sorry i am running behind You: Man, you are unreliable :P Try reading it without the emoticon and see how different it feels. Another reason to use them is if you are t…	/r/seduction	04/06/13 05:14 AM
0	How to make your Ex's friends want to hook up with you I am not being needy nor having a scarcity mindset. More just curious if anything.	/r/seduction	11/05/13 05:21 PM
129	What is the etiquette for dance floors at parties? You should never dance to get girls. You should dance to have fun. In my experience i just dance to have fun and girls will come at you to dance with you. I dont need to do any approaching.	/r/seduction	18/02/13 08:44 PM
1	This is kind of off-topic, but how many guys here are only children or the youngest child of all your siblings? oldest with two younger sisters. when i was younger i was super shy. Didnt want to talk to anybody and only through luck did i manage to get friends in elementary and high school. When i turned 17 my new job kind of got me out of my shell and over the last couple years i realized how great having sisters is. Since having sisters i know exactly how to rile girls up and stuff which has giving me natural game as it would be. Since i always tease my sisters this has transitioned with other girls. i …	/r/seduction	18/02/13 07:26 AM
1	My dorm is having a speed dating thing for Valentine's Day any suggestions? This is speed dating, boring questions will get you no where. The best way to get remembered for the short amount of time they will talk to you is ask them the most random questions and thread from there. If you have trouble coming up with them on the spot make a list before hand and look at one before talking to them. Don't do the same one over and over though. That would be boring.	/r/seduction	09/02/13 06:04 AM
3	Issues with a friend Are you going after them? I am not a skilled PUA but it sounds like you are not the one making the first move.	/r/seduction	01/02/13 03:49 AM