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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness	CMV	LimpetMinecrafter	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 07:43 PM

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2	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness What a terrible reply. Many of the most unsuccessful men with women are also complete pricks. But also, lets be real, "pricks" itself is a terribly subjective concept. No, I have read red pill, and I've read the responses to it. Red Pill is characterized by a bunch of guys doing one of three things. 1) Lamenting personal lack of success 2) Theorizing how women work based on bad statistical analysis or 3) Claiming they know a guy who is red pill who is very successful with women. When I read this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 09:52 PM
2	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness Ghosting and mass ostracism, true. But I agree with those practices. Bullies and abusers count on silence in order to operate, so callout culture has been an amazingly overall positive thing for alot of people (myself included). And ghosting, while rude, is like ehh whatever someone doesn't want to talk to you move on. What's bureaucracy mean exactly? Like in this context? Ostracism does actually work, but not in the ways you think. Calling people out serves two purposes. One, it does actually d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 03:08 AM
2	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness Dude you've made it extremely, extremely clear that when it comes to social interaction you're a brick with a smile. It hasn't happened because you're hovering somewhere between preoperational and concrete operational thought when you need to be in the abstract.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 02:33 AM
2	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness You don't get it. You're looking for a venue. Somewhere to go to hook up with people because you require an opportunity presented to you in order to make it happen, in the form of someone actively looking for the same thing you are in an immediate sense. If you think people aren't hooking up over reddit, you ought to check the number of R4R subs, kink subs, etc. If you think people aren't networking over facebook and fucking, you got another thing coming. The key that you're missing, using faceb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:14 AM
1	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness I'm fully aware its easier to fuck men. I'm not talking about men. Like, at all. My post was from the perspective of a man specifically with regard to interacting with women. I don't date men, I just hook up with them from time to time, most commonly in the context of swinging with other couples where the man is bi.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:11 AM
1	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness I'm a dude. Also you are arguing like an unempathetic sociopath. The level of self absorption of this post is off the charts, you come off as emotionally unbalanced and devoid of any positive emotion. Your perspective is the type that historically has been used to justify everything from rape to genocide, and frankly as a cis male I am disgusted by it. People like you are the entire reason for changing narratives. So that women are taught to identify men like you and avoid them at every possible…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:08 AM
2	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness There's more overlap than you think. Relationships skills help in any casual sex situation that isn't like "Hey wanna fuck?" on Tinder. Especially anything in real life where it is assumed there will be some kinda significant interaction before you have sex. The looks thing, so on the one hand you're absolutely right. You can do things about your looks. On the other hand, alot of red pillers claim to be below some arbitrary looks threshold which prevents them from having access to casual sex. My…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 12:55 AM
2	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness I'm a bi dude lol So like, different perspective, but I'm a dom cis male. I just like subby boys, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 12:45 AM
2	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness Thank you for doubling down on the emphasis that swiping and online dating are not formulated for success, but for profit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 12:40 AM
1	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness You don't get it at all. Yeah those are the three hook up apps. People hook up from all kinds of places though. People hook up on Reddit. People hook up on OKcupid and Match.com. People find casual sex on Fetlife and Facebook, and shit, way back like idk 8 years ago I got laid on fucking whisper a few times. If you have these skills, you can just meet women. You don't have to go to any specific venue and look for women specifically questing for casual sex. If you have these skills you can spot w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 12:35 AM
1	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness I think my favorite tbh is "I know a successful red pill man" I've honestly spent alot more time interacting with incels than with people who consider themselves Red Pill, so some of the RP comments about me talking about black pill are fair. I just come into spaces like this and see tons of RP people saying the literal exact same shit, and then I post here and someone I've never talked to or seen commenting says someone different, I feel like one of the hardest things to address is that even ju…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 12:27 AM
5	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness The entire algorithm and structure is also designed to slant users towards looks more than any other factor. I used fetlife as an example because, yes, it works for me as part of the BDSM community. There are many other places online that are not tinder or Fetlife. There are other popular apps, and if meeting online is half of how people meet then meeting offline is an equally viable option, yet I get provided Tinder (one single online option which has many issues present in it) as the litmus te…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 09:33 PM
1	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness K bye.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 09:30 PM
6	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness Tinder is a shitty artificial environment which creates a circle of hot sexually active people at the top who are shown to each other constantly and monetizes it by charging everyone else to be shown to those few who actually use the service regularly to hook up. The entire algorithm is designed to identify the most popular people on the app and show them to everyone and then to charge everyone else to be shown to those people in hopes that they get a match. If you're not being swiped on by the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 09:01 PM
2	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness I live in a major city, most of my successful and handsome friends are in long term relationships though. The people I've known who were most successful at hooking up varied with the environment. If Tinder, looks are what matters most (and photography skill) because that's what's up front. If in the BDSM community, interaction crowns all. If in social groups, same thing, interaction crowns all. But a large portion of the casual sex I've observed in my life occurred in offline meetings and among …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 08:43 PM
3	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness Citation? Because for the most part I have never observed anything like this at all. For the most part all I see is Red Pill failure, and considering that black pill and red pill basically crib from each other and I see them echo the same basic views from the 80/20 rule which I have seen argued by multiple red pillers in this sub to hypergamy which is defined identically in the incel and red pill communities, I don't see how they're all that much different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 08:33 PM
-1	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness Imagine responding to a 3000 word essay with something as low effort and overgeneralized as this so that you can pretend you contributed to the conversation without actually saying a single thing of any merit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 08:30 PM
8	Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness So the thing about the casual sex clause? If a woman values looks highly, which some individual women do, you have no control over that. You meet the standard or you do not. If a woman wants to engage in casual sex after interacting with you and feeling you out, then all of the relationship stuff above it comes heavily into play in a much shorter time frame where one single red flag excludes you from the possibilities. In other words you've got to be, in the relationship sense, even more put tog…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 08:29 PM
9	What exactly makes women horny? Dude you don't even understand men. Do you have any idea how much erotica is produced by men? That the kink community is mostly run by men and our varied and extensive mental fantasies about sexual situations and concepts? Why do you think porn is primarily organized by kink and not by actress or body type and such? It is not possible to explain this to you because you are trying to figure out women as a whole and it doesn't work like that. Some women are dominant, some are submissive, most peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 06:37 PM
1	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse Women in abusive relationships are not the majority. Women don't go on relationship advice sites to ask how to deal with their wonderful boyfriend often. That's selection bias in your observation. But also, two additional factors you aren't even aware of exist. 1) People (of all genders) who experienced previous abuse especially in childhood often seek out partners who exhibit patterns they are used to and can cope with and accept abuse in return for love if the abuse is familiar. 2) Some abuser…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 06:30 PM
1	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse I'm an average looking dude who is above average at communication and I have literally zero issue getting women to respond, and I tend to shoot above my own looks in partners. Men struggle to get matches because there has been a massive shift in the dating paradigm on women's side such that if you cannot offer them the kind of interpersonal interaction they want you are automatically excluded unless you're hot. What you are experiencing is actually an artifact of the changing standards of dating…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 08:13 PM
2	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse This is also wrong. Tinder is an artificial environment that does not attract a balanced objective cross section of women. The women who use Tinder are not representative of women in general but a specific subculture among women who are looking for casual sex. Tinder itself, with the ability to swipe left or right based solely on a picture, artificially slants interactions towards looks and (lol) photography skill as if photography skill is otherwise relevant in dating and sex. And women who are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 06:27 PM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) /r/iamverybadass Real dom's don't have to project it. Also I'm 2 inches taller than you and work out plenty sooooooo	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 03:38 AM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) lol the dude I was talking to replied in detail, but ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 03:30 AM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Nah I'm a bi male dom and judging by this reply I'm old enough to be your father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 03:29 AM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Ok so I am a bi dude, but I'm also a dom, so unless you're trying to get bent over and degraded, why the hell would you begin to assume I am interested in you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 03:28 AM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Lmao no incel I'm not a femcel from FDS, nor did you manage to guess my gender correctly you low effort troglodyte	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 03:17 AM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Aww did I break your brain with words? I'm sowwy I didn't use short sentences so you could follow it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 03:16 AM
0	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Do you see how you rewrite what is said into your own narrative, like, at all? I said people earn my respect and then I show them my empathy. You read that as "when it benefits me" rather than "when they deserve it" which are two concepts which are not even tangentially related. You are not correct. It is no ones responsibility to meet shitty people half way. There is this idea that some men have that it is other peoples responsibility to motivate, empower, and enable them to make personal chang…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 06:47 PM
4	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Well at least you're honest about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:32 PM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Are your contributions to conversation usually this empty?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:30 PM
2	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) lol no, when you are a person who understands and has empathy and mindfulness its an active choice who you show those qualities to and who you don't. I'm not a bag of involuntary empathy, people earn my respect and THEN they get to see that side of me. Your perspective did the opposite of earning my respect, so you don't get to see that side of me, it's that simple. People are complex beings, no person who isn't completely one dimensional is all of themselves in every interaction they ever have.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:05 PM
1	What do women think of a girl who is always dating tons of guys but never picks one and complains about being lonely? Jesus Christ dude. I didn't call you an incel. I called you emotionally unintelligent. Incels do not have a monopoly on having a lack of emotional intelligence. Now, maybe the girl in question herself has issue in that area, women are not a monolith of emotional health and self awareness. Maybe shes trying dudes on looking for connection and not finding it because she doesn't know what kind of dudes she needs, maybe she herself doesn't know how to connect with others or has trust issues. But tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 03:54 PM
1	What do women think of a girl who is always dating tons of guys but never picks one and complains about being lonely? Yet another dude with the emotional intelligence of a rock who doesn't understand concepts of middling complexity like "She hasnt connected with the guys she goes on dates with"	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 03:34 PM
5	Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruel This isnt an argument, its a whine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 03:32 PM
2	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Dude being emotionally available doesn't make you emotionally intelligent you have literally no idea wtf you're talking about. Its like, you almost get it, your brain almost wraps itself around the concept, but you fall just short. You dont have a great personality. You just have a personality. Its that whole "you are a stunted manchild and you don't have a single fucking clue what it means to have like empathy and mindfulness, your brain is still operating on simple concepts like same hobbies a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 03:29 PM
1	Freely available sex may be the issue of a lot of problems in society Did you use your whole 2 IQ to come up with that line?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 03:20 PM
5	Freely available sex may be the issue of a lot of problems in society Wow. You actually made a eugenics argument. You are one dumb ass motherfucker OP, no offense. The fact that you were just like "Eugenics should be a thing! Its for the greater good" shows that you are completely disconnected from anything remotely like reality and are mentally incapable of processing even a small fraction of the complexity of the world. Your conclusions are so simple and laughable they dont require refutation. Dude if you freely admit you're one of the dumb people who shouldn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 07:40 AM
7	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse What makes me think TRP doesn't know this? Well for starters, TRP didn't used to quote the top 20% of men. That was an incel "blackpill" talking point specifically and now TRP is apparently repeating it, so you're quoting a number stolen from people who you used to disagree with who made that number up out of thin air. Second, because you didn't read the study or understand what I am talking about AT ALL. The reference to changing preferences was not a reference to women's preferences changing o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 02:16 AM
1	Men: What’re your opinions on sex work and how does it differ depending on you relationship? I'm going to state at the start, I haven't paid for porn in any way literally ever in my life beyond the ad revenue generated by my clicks. I have never subscribed to an onlyfans. I have never paid for a website. My knowledge of sex work comes from friends who participate in the industry. I have also never participated in the industry myself, though I have participated in not for profit exhibitionism and produced porn with partners for personal consumption. 1) Sex work is work. Selling your sexu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 02:07 AM
17	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse The entire problem with this dumb argument is it takes statistics and then says "NOW ALL OF THIS EXISTS BECAUSE WOMEN ONLY WANT TO FUCK HIGH STATUS RICH HOT MEN" with absolutely no supporting evidence. Your title is that "Hypergamy exists and it will get worse" but you link these surveys that do not comment in any way shape or form as to why the numbers are like this. You just claim it exists. Its not even a leap of logic, you provided literally no connection. That's always been the argument for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 01:43 AM
9	Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex? Freud was a quack who has been repeatedly disproven and there is not a single one of his ideas which is actually accepted in modern psychology. Women have been observed to act according to AFBB by stupid men with zero psychological education who are extremely biased observation points and is supported by literally nothing but anecdotes which are filled to the brim with logical fallacies. You are beyond not educated enough to make the claims you're making or to comment on how people work psycholo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 08:45 PM
8	Is Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks dynamic the equivalent of Madonna Whore Complex? Because madonna/whore complex is actually proven and AFBB is unsupported psudoscientific overgeneralized garbage irl lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 07:30 PM