LinkRod Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Non-believing spouse		LinkRod	/r/askRPC	12/11/19 03:07 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Non-believing spouse Sharing your situation with your wife (regarding faith) is plenty, thanks for that. Also about lifting; I have been holding this view that since the business is overbooked I have to work the night shift to fix it. It is also my oppinion that no customer would really expect me to work as hard as I do (7am to 7pm in the workshop, after dinner paperwork up to 11pm). I am contradicting myself. So I realise now (as you have challenged my position) that the idea that I have to work the night shift is …	/r/askRPC	12/11/19 06:00 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019 I’m loving the book, ”biblical masculinity blueprint”. Thanks for the heads up, just what I’ve been looking for!	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/11/19 07:49 PM
2	A kick in the ass to get going?! Be the best version of your self. For a BP guy this is a tricky question, since it always was about the best version for her. She has been calling the shots for what you wear, what kind of car you drive or where and when you can go to. It’s hard to move forward when you dont know what the goal is, and you cant ask her. So you need to find yourself first. What would you wear? What kind of car would you drive? Where would you go and why? Moving the focus from her to yourself is hard. It might have…	/r/askMRP	11/11/19 10:58 AM
1	She is a SAHM. Is it my money or our money? I can totally relate to your dad, mine’s 60+ too and while I own the business now, he still walks around the workshop doing odd jobs. He makes alot of mistakes and curses and tries again. It’s like he’s on autopilot that has a 20y old map in it.	/r/askMRP	29/10/19 07:13 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019 For a woman. Who never preciated any of it. It’s funny that she even very overtly told me how she hates it when something is done to please her, and I never got it. I just explained it to myself that there must a difference in doing something to please another with a bad intention or with good intention.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/10/19 05:41 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019 OYS 1 RP for 1 month. Read NMMNG and Rational Male, currently reading Positive Masculinity. Feel like I need to step away from the books for a moment and let it sink in. I’m not lifting. Years ago, at my worst, I was 115kg but I have since dropped to 95kg. Home exercise is up from 0 pull-ups and 7 push-ups to 3 pull-ups and 30 push-ups. Last summer I was 85kg, but I have allowed my wife’s on/off dieting to affect my own eating. We dropped the diet for our summer vacation and never got back on. I…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/10/19 02:27 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019 Yeah so true. My father is a good example. He’s still in the workshop doing odd jobs and surely he would die if he stopped coming. All he does at home is lay in the bed and watch tv. I’m so deprived of free time that I have a long list of movies I wanted to see and locations to ride on my mountainbike etc. And I want to get at these things while I’m strong and sharp.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/10/19 05:36 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019 I’m a small business owner and, well I’ve been working my ass off for the past 8 years with the business. And I’ve let my wife effectively run it for years while being a somekind of puppet on the front. We have taken more contracts than we can chew and making promises to our customers that we clearly can’t keep. This has to stop, it’s my short term mission. Anyhow, I want to build the company to such a state that I can retire early or at least take it easy. To have a competent team in there, who…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/19 06:47 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019 Mission is hard. Taking the RP and coming out of my wife’s shadow has led me to realize that there’s hardly anything left of me. Who am I? What do I enjoy? At 39 I feel that I can atleast start building towards my retirement, but I dont know if that’s mission I can get super excited about. Maybe start at the top? What would be a successful life for you? Then break it up into categories and specific goals.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/19 03:37 PM
1	Any experiences with the Keto diet ”Good calorie bad calorie” by Gary Taubes Read it and believe it. Some people are more suspect to carbs, possibly due to mothers high blood sugar during pregnancy. Some people can take carbs all day and not gain weight while others get bloat just by looking at white bread. Forget about the ”calories in calories out”, the worst advice you can get. I know alot of people are burning to start a flame wars over them calories; just read the book. Just remember, a ”diet” will never work. You need to ad…	/r/askMRP	26/10/19 07:59 PM
1	Finding Frame and Curing Anxiety It’s funny how they explode on tiniest things. Me and my wife were on a diet in the spring. In the summer we went for a holiday trip and struggled to get back on the diet after the trip. We own a business, so we are always together. I got frustrated and just point blank told her, right before the luch hour, that I’m getting back on the diet right now. She went mental screaming and crying and giving me the finger. Never ever has she given me the finger before. I knew this was the jackpot. Later i…	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/10/19 09:12 AM