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I don't always comment on subs like this. But I feel like you missed some stuff here. her feminine responsibilities like washing the dishes, it's...feminine to wash dishes? What? Women are now expected to work 8 hours a day, and enter the very competitive and stressful job market. Most couples are barely having any kids, and most house shores are automated and barely take any time, being a stay at home mom would have been easier for them. Even my feminist sister once admitted that she would pref…
/r/MensRights07/08/22 02:53 AM
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This is sadly not even exaggerated. Sure, nothing wrong with DnD, but 99% of "awkward guys" I met turned out to be more trouble than they're worth. The first I knew was an actual neckbeard. I gave him a chance in friendship, because he liked the same games as I and didn't seem vulgar. That relationship ended with me getting sexually harrassed and -if I didn't bail - probably in assault. The second guy was a dude I knew from drama club. He was openly gay (later changed it to bi) and because we bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:52 PM
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Ha ha. Reminds me of the books I used to read when I was a teen. Y'know, these wishy-washy "How to date" books? Well, they were full of cases like these. Like, one was about women sending the author cases she answered and even though there were some real shitters in there, she always gave an answer to "fix the situation". Ghosting -maybe he's just stressed with work? Nagging -just tell him how you feel etc. Seriously, there is only one case I remember where the author had to admit defeat. And -i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:32 AM
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Or "I won't drive you home until you give me a blowjob" Or "I won't let you leave until you have sex with me" ->last one is not only rape, it's basically holding someone hostage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:32 PM
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I actually watched that episode a few days ago! Honestly, if I didn't know that the Simpson was (emphasis on was) a show that satirised sitcoms + the American way of life, I'd honestly go mad that Marge ever married a guy like Homer. I mean...okay, to be fair. Homer has good sides. He can be very loving & actually went out of his way numerous times just to make sure his family is in good care, but then you have episodes like these where he's asked what he's adding to Marge's life and his answer …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:42 PM
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There was a case on r/relationship_advice on that. Poor girl. Overheard husband telling a friend that he was absolutley not attracted to her, but that she had a "wife body" and made a good mom. Later tried to "fix" stuff by telling her that he still loved her, yada yada, but...jeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:05 AM
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Ouch. Felt that. Had a guy who always made fun of my thick upper legs & hips. Given, he hated me for years because I once pulled his hair in 8th grade, but he loved to especially comment on both my hyperactivity, as well as my "fat ass". A few years later. Graduation. Guy poses around with his new girlfriend. Guess what? She has my messurements. Motherf*ker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:03 AM
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This is so true, it's sad. While it's been a while, I still remember a very vivid example when I was only in 3rd grade. To make it short: A guy in my class had a crush on me, started talking to me and pretended to like Pokemon so he something to talk with me. Even invited me home to play & cleaned his ENTIRE room (even vacuuming it). One day however -everything just changed. Suddenly, my "friend" (which I really liked, because he was the only one willing to play Pokemon with me) told me he wante…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:54 AM
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I have this chatgroup where people are very open in talking about what they like. One time, I wanted to go out of my shell and confessed that I was into clowns. Idk why exactly, but I always had a thing for masks and clowns/jesters just have something. They laughed. Not in the meanspirited way, but they found me adorable for my "vanilla fetish". I never thought about it being "vanilla" because most people I know either see clowns as a kids thing, or are creeped out by them. Makes me wonder what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:55 PM
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You mean Rape-aXe, right? Honestly, I wished they would have massproduced it. It sounded like such a cool idea. Still can't believe it that every time the topic comes up many men will quickly be like "Yeah, but what if girls use it to get revenge on guys" and one I met was even like "yeah, rape is bad, but that's still a worse form of punishment."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:34 PM
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Oh God, yes! I never understood this, but that's probably because women are so used to the mechanism. Most men probably don't even know that most bras have hooks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:31 PM
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I don't know if this fits, but this reminded me of a childhood experience I had: When I was young, I'd hang around with a group of guys (tomboy). Near our playground there was little girl that loved pulling down people's pants (for...some reason?), which was pretty easy because most wore these easy children's jeans. In fact, I was one of the few children in my school to even own a belt (as crazy as it sounds) and guess what? She never could pull my pants down. One time, she got so mad about this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:29 PM
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There is a whole comedy sketch about it. Collegehumor "every app is a dating app". Only that the protagonist abuses every app to sexually flirt with people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:51 PM
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Honestly, "check with which male company you grew up" should be standard before starting to date. Just so you can see what kind of me you've been used to all your life and -in the worst case; forever ban similar men from your radar in the future. Seriously, I feel you on so many levels on this topic. My whole bloody family consists of LVM. Grandfather was a WW2 veteran who nearly killed his wife & kids in a PTSD rush, chronically drank and cheated all day long. One uncle is a choleric who is qui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:02 AM
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XD, this is both so mean as well as true. On one side, I'm always saying that every guy can look good to a degree if he takes care of himself and doesn't just say "I'm ugly fml" -especially when people have different taste in men. On the other side however? I always remember what my mother used to say: "Men are not the attractive species. The average woman is always more attractive then the average guy. However, if you want attractive children -please marry a guy with a decent face. You have a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:02 PM
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This is so true that it's sad. My dad nearly never gave me presents. It was always be my mother and my father would just...add himself to it. I've only got two times where my father would give me presents and both times he expected something in return. Seriously. I still feel my heart cramp up when I remember how he'd given me my first camera. Expensive, but simple model. I was so freaked out because I felt like he DID care about me & my passion for film, only for him to grin and tell me that in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:53 PM
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"Women shouldn't have had sex if they couldn't deal with a child" always makes my eyes roll. Like, let us just imagine it here for a bit. No woman can have sex with a man anymore before all the stars are in her favour. At least not PIV sex. Imagine how many men that say this shit would be pissed off about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:49 AM
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I mean...not really, but also yes? The Grimm stories seem horrifying nowadays, because they partially are a making of their time. The idea of "no violence for children" is a fairly new construct and often those harsh tropes have their reason & morale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:54 PM
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How did those men change and reinterpret them? From what I gathered, the Brüder Grimm went through Germany, listening to stories from numerous sources and writing them down. One of the biggest donors was an older French woman, which is why you find a lot of German fairy tales having origins in France.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:50 PM
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Eh...can we generalise it that far? I mean...don't get me wrong, I had less stress with cats & general animals than most guys in my life, but I'm not sure if it's right to compare them that strongly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:48 PM
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Ikr. Plus, he didn't even bother going to the people's houses to even verify their faces. Laziness. In the original story he actually does! He leads the search group in person, but...well...he's still very oblivious. Given, when he comes the step-mother & siblings lock Cinderella up until he activley asks for her, but dude just casually doesn't notice that the two girls he mistakes as brides 1.) don't look like her at all and 2.) cut themselves to fit into the shoe (he only notices when a bird r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:47 PM
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Honestly, the original Cinderella story is so weirdly about an HVW girl meeting a...well more or less LVM guy (in the sense of; damn oblivious). Cinderella gets mistreated and just wants a break. Prince organises a ball for 3 days and she doesn't want to go there because "uuh, hottie<3", but rather because she just wants to have fun. Fairy Godmother? Yeah no. She prays at her mother's grave and gets 3 beautiful dresses (one every night) to wear to the ball, which is really sweet, because you can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:44 PM
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I had a very long argument with one guy about this once. Context: A girl with big bust complained about getting mistreated due to her size. Harrassed, called a slut, sexualised since 10yo etc. What's the dude's opinion on it? "Yeah, but like, she's giving up all those benefits!" He also kept comparing it to having a big D and that complaining about your bust size is just complaining about how easy it is for you to get sex. Like...no? Wtf is wrong with you??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:32 PM
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Urgh! He sounds like he's ordering a burger!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:30 PM
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Great points! Just to explain: a white mystery male named Chad. "Chad" is a term for every guy who is able to have sex with women. Mostly referred to conventionally white attractive men because they seem to get women easy. The Chad term has sub-terms like f.ex. "Tyrone" for an attractive black guy, though this one is more taken in a racist sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:04 PM
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I personally have a system, which I call the "5% rule". For context: Many tragic& traumatic situations developed due to me sticking around people for a long time, which then revealed shitty sites at one point. It taught me that -no matter how nice or good a person seems - there is always a shitty side to them. Therefore, I generally mistrust every person to 5% by default (starting point). Depending on how long I know them, I either raise or decrease my meter -though it never goes to/below 0%. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:03 PM
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I'm not sure what exactly, but I think there is a term in psychology for that. Basically when you transfer your aggression from one place to another, to keep you from hurting A, you hurt B. I also can relate personally to that. Thanks to a very broken home & shitty school, I got into physical violence when I was a teen. At one point I couldn't express my anger except with either hurting someone or breaking something. Especially when I changed schools (not because I got kicked -they found out I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:47 PM
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Absolutley agree! Honestly, it's kinda ironic if you think about it: On one side, you have mostly shitty sex-ed. A generic, run-down version of how babies are made, maybe a few showcases of how to put on a condom on a banana (at age 13yo), a big fearmongering about STDs and the big "you do sex - you die" quote. On the other side, you have these "progressive" magazines and "open-minded teens" that seem to push it onto you. Like, in hindsight, I remember how creepy all these teen magazines were. O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:05 AM
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LibFems don’t know this and think a teenage girl talking openly about oral and anal sex is “healthy” when the reality is just the opposite. I think it's okay when a girl doesn't "eww" away from the topic of sex in general (like, to not shy away from learning about it per se, including self discovery), but I agree that if a girl is talking like she's reading the advert of a pornmagazine...than one should be deeply concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:57 PM
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Jesus...you know, this makes me feel quiet concerned about a girl I went to school with, cause that describes her perfectly. We were in drama class together. We were only 13yo, but she was talking about nothing but sex. No, let me rephrase that; her whole personality seemed to revolve around it. She bragged how far she went with guys already, constantly asked other people inappropriate questions ("so, did you already blew a guy?") and generally seemed to pretend to be an erotic model/femme fatal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:41 PM
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I'm not sure if this fits the topic, but the comment is so true. The first time I had a sleepover, I discovered how much my friend actually got neglected by her parents. They were those "take 10bucks and run along" types. She never was used to real warm meals and got really confused when my mom whipped out a big dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:20 PM
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When I was just 15yo, I barely escaped the sexual harassment of a 24yo guy who I called my "friend" for over 2 years. I went home, expecting to be comforted, or at least get some concern. Yeeeah... my parents laughed about me. Telling me "boys will be boys" and "what did you expect"? Another mutual female friend also promised me support, but when I told her what happened she instead went ham on ME for "being too harsh on him". Told me that I was just a bratty little teenager (she was also in her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:56 AM
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"You know how they say; third time's the charm!" "I'd say it's more like it's the third time you're a curse."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:35 AM
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You know, this situation reminds me of a poem I really love, by Erich Fried. It's called "Die Gewalt" (violence) and basically talks about when violence starts. One of these lines (translated) says: "The violence doesn't start/ when the sick are getting killed./ It begins when one says/ "You're sick!/ You have to do what I say!" Literally that situation. Many wouldn't call it "violent" because he's "just worrying about her" or "he just got it wrong! He needs to learn about mental health!" -but n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:00 PM
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While I can understand that there are sometimes comments that treat men like some form of "boogeyman" (aka"Men have no empathy", "all men are shit", "all men want to oppress") I'd generally disagree with the idea that we're an incel sub. Trust me; I've been a long time-member of IT and seen a lot of shit on Incel Sites. Generally, go to any Incel thread on an official website and you'll find: Encouraged violence against women A backwards mindset that is basically a conspiracy at this point, aka …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:26 PM
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I alway hate these statements! "If you are changing the street because you think a man follows you, you're sexist!" "Fearing that a man in the dark is a potential rapist, is the same like believing all black people are thugs!" No. No it's not like that. Sure, it's generalising in that very moment, but ya can't treat it like it's an issue based on a mixture of misinformation, prejudice and overly paranoia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:29 PM
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Honestly, I first mistook this for r/twohorrorsentences and thought it would result in her having some sort of Chuthulu stuck in her chest. This however is horror on a whole other level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:36 AM
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Well it depends on how we define asexuality, demisexuality and others in this context. Asexuality is little to no sexual attraction. Demisexuality is a subgroup of the Ace spectrum, meaning that you can only experience the desire to be sexual with a person once you have a close bond with them (meaning this literally: you don't get horney about strangers) If we go the literal metaphor route, aka women not wanting sex /little sex then yes, I can see where you're coming from. Depending on where you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:54 AM
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A lot these men (and I do unfortunately sub the red pill and seduction) seem extremely resistant to advice, especially from women. Oh trust me, I know. Most men I knew who complained about being ugly, poor etc. never complained because they actually wanted answers. Whenever I did seriously try to engage with them, they just kept moving the goalpost! Ugly? "Why not use makeup" "Because I'm not gay!" "Makeup doesn't make you gay. It's an art form that can change your appearance with enough skill" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:23 AM
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In contrast, the average man nowadays is quite literally the opposite of what I just described. Dad bod but no children, ugly face, puts zero effort into their appearance, contrarian and offputting personality, poor emotional intelligence, no education and minimum wage job (or no job at all), lives in moms basement or with roommates, filthy living space with zero attempt at interior decoration, struggles with basic life skills, their main hobbies are porn and video games, and a nature that is do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:10 AM
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Like do these men just walk into the Louvre and think "Venus de Milo. What a fucking slut." Not really the topic, but I just want to throw in that there was once a case of a gardener being so attracted to the statue he tried to fuck her. So yes. There was at least one that thought this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:09 PM
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This is a bullshit I always hated! Find a guy who's nice & has good traits -but the spark just isn't there? "I love your attributes, but I don't see you as a potential bf" "Oh okay, so I'm not attractive enough." What? NO! BOI! I don't LOVE you! I see you as big brother, a good drinking pal, a dude I can talk hours about the DB from The Elder Scrolls! Jesus...it's like emotional blackmail at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:17 AM
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God, I wished we'd do this for every shit phrase! "No boy will want you if you don't seem approachable" (my mother, after I complained about not being able to have a normal convo with the guys in my class) = "No girl will want you, if they feel like they have to push up their stuff to get your attention" "No boy will want you if you don't turn your smart talking down" (this was after I got rejected by a guy who literally didn't like me being smarter than him) = "No girl will want you if you can'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:06 PM
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This reminds me so strongly of the song "Leave Luanne" Basically it's about that. A woman gets treated like shit by her husband, everyone knows it but nobody helps, while the church happily talks about how "it could be worse". In general, there is a lot of representation of the religious pressure on women to stay with their shitlords. Good song, "good ending", but dammit how depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:08 PM
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It's also the opposite: Finally realising that the pickme "friend" who victim shamed you for being sexually harrassed by a mutual male "friend" is actually a shitshow in a relationship with a 20yo older guy who will never ever give her the life she wants. Honestly; I know it might be petty, but this woman actually made me feel WORSE after I barely managed to escape a low-level of sexual assault (had luck I was "only" in a public place). I thought I could confide in her -instead she ended SCREAMI…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:00 PM
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Because sexism is rampent and sex-ed is horrible. Honestly. I still feel a bit dumb about how I spent 3 years basically dry rubbing myself because I thought I could "damage" me by entering anything into my vagina. In general, I was really terrified about wanting to gain experience, but also not "loose value", because I was afraid my future bf wouldn't believe me to be a virgin if I was "too loose" down there or not had an intact hymen. What a shit show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:50 PM
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OMG! YES! I remember when I got into the fandom and got immediately creeped out by it after realising how much Tate Langdon (the character) was glamorised for his "innocent, loyal love" to the teen girl. Like... this dude was fucked up beyond believe. In general AHS seems to have a lot of fucked up male characters that are portrayed as "cute" or "innocent beans". Nazi-doctor in asylum? "Tragically in love" with this innocent, child like nurse. "Lobster boy" aka disabled freak, but playboy that k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:52 AM
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Hey, it looked cool to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:57 PM
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Honestly, I wish the sub would be digging more into what FDS has to say, then just simply suffer from "FDS surface-sydrome" aka looking on our main site and then just run with the first thing they see. "Oh, they'e too picky" -no, we simply have standard "Oh, FDS are golddiggers" -no? We just want a man our level "Oh, FDS puts down other women" -no. Sure, we mock pickmeisha behaviour here and there, but generally we don't...put down other women. Or has anyone seen a post where sb is like "I was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:54 PM
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I think in general a lot of red flags of bad mental health get disguised as "kinks"nowadays. Like, for example guys that want to be "money slaves" aka they beg women to spend money for them, get control taken away from them etc. because the stress turns them on. That's not healthy. Getting horney from being abused is not healthy. I don't care how much I could need this guys money, I feel like there's a hidden issue I would abuse and I wish we would encourage therapy instead of clubs in these cas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:27 PM
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According to him, he doesn't care. Sometimes he runs around in this weird swimsuit underwear (imagine the lower half of a bikini but on a guy). Like, only in his swimsuit-underwear. No pants. Simply because he ran out of his cloth-underwear he wears that one because he can simply wash it water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:17 PM
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This isn't even sarcasm My father's underwear is basically falling apart and he refuses to buy new one. I'm currently following the routine of always throwing his shit away when I'm doing laundry, so he is forced to buy new ones at some point ( I hope)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:51 PM
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OH GOD this shit throws me back! Sorry, but I remember the first time I got this from a guy. I was 14yo, talking to a guy I met through chat. He was -in hindsight - a really fucked up horndog that constantly tried to turn our chats into something sexual, with me being either 1.) oblivious or 2.) very uncomfortable to it. One of the things was the question "Oooh, but what are you wearing?" "...clothing?" "What kind of clothing ;-) ." "Dude, wtf do you care what I'm wearing. I'm wearing boring-ass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:49 PM
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Fun Fact: I actually looked this comic up and interestingly...the artist didn't want to show his own opinion with this comic, but rather wanted to show how black women are treated by black men in 2020 apparently. Interesting, but still horrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:53 PM
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I sadly know what this asshole is trying to say. Similar to Incels, some men believe a woman has a "prime" time, like some freshly picked fruit. "Tight, innocent virgin with morals that also will start fuck every man around the block aka 'rot' eventually." That combined with jokes about women with "daddy issues" and "those hoes being golddiggers".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:47 PM
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Oooooh, I read that one! People were calling him out on his fked up post history. Apparently he (she?) has a weird obsession with straight women. Another post of his is also very misandristic, aka he talks about how men fall harder in love than women and that you can basically manipulate men into a relationship by pampering them. Y'know. Like dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:47 PM
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Quick question: what's the deal with man buns? Are they weird in any way? Heard that joke a lot lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:28 AM
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Honestly, this is one thing I wished people would understand about FDS. Like when you hear people outside talk, most of them believe FDS is a hate group against men. And I can understand why. It's because most are men and can't relate to our thinking. They don't understand that it's not "I literally hate men for being men". I mean, sure, every group has their extreme subgroups (Ever seen the babyhaters on r/aww?), but generally we mostly have a reason and background. However, we of course can't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:50 AM
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Just today I browsed top posts on r/Instagramreality and there was a post about a woman showing the 4 stages of make-up To be more exact: What men believe make-up is, including the infamous "I like natural beauties, aka women I don't know where make-up" quote. I've read through the comments and boi -was that glorious! There were men that kept insisting they knew the difference -only to be proven wrong men that blamed women for wearing make-up > YoU jUSt NEEd A gOoD sKINCaRE thaN yOu LoOk PretTY …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:09 PM
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Some also suggest he's divorced, though that's more a fan theory. It's based in an episode where Goofy does his housewife's chores when the milkman kisses him, which... is kinda an ol joke to show she cheated on him with the milkman. However if that's the case, I still give him kudos due to what you mentioned + he never shits on Max's mother /blames her for stuff in front of his kid, which is what some divorced parents sometimes do (angry, rivalry etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:45 PM
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Honestly, I think the problem with mens "size doesn't matter" is that a lot don't actually understand the original meaning. The meaning is that there is not "a perfect size" aka "one size fits all". You can have a big & thick dick. Great. But your gf now has a very small vagina and experiences pain with PIV (there are posts about that on r/sex). Same goes for the opposite. You can have a small dick and fit everywhere, but now you have a girl that stimulates more from the inside then foreplay. Oh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:01 PM
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Eh. Wouldn't go that far. Back then cheating men were much more accepted, the rape of women in marriage was not even a term and sexual harassment was "just boys being boys"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:52 PM
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They sometimes also tricked people into joining. My grandfather came from Slovenia and was looking for a job. The army said "hey, you're tall enough, why not join the SS? You're getting paid real good!" And boom -a few months later he has to cut out a tattoo of his flesh in a Russian prison cell so they can't identify him as a part of his unit and shoot him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:07 PM
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Oh. Yeah could be, I'm gonna leave a second Edit. Thanks for the info!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:55 PM
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He was. He cheated regularly on my grandmother and due to the PTSD he became a raging alcoholic. He also named my mother after the only woman that didn't jump him (no joke) and one time he nearly killed my grandmother when my mother was 4yo. He was a shitty, messed up guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:44 PM
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Why? My grandfather was like that and that was what happened to him. If people don't like that story that's fine, but it's the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:29 PM
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Waffen-SS: German military during WW2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:54 PM
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One time, I passivley mentioned to my step-father that I had found a cool site about dating strategies (aka FDS) and he laughed his ass off about it. He -the guy who his wife cheated on, got pregnant with me and who he stayed with only because he was to bored to find a new place - tells me, that in "his time" dating never required any "strategies" and that I was simply "paranoid". The joke gets worse, when you regard that I'm a "concern case". Aka; y'know those phrases like "kids from abusive ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:28 PM
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Ah good. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:35 PM
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So would I get banned from FDS for commenting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:33 PM
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In most cases they are and it's not wrong. The rape theory is just a branch of it, though it appears here and there, especially in symbolism. For example, in the game "Rule of the rose", you can find a boss called "mermaid princess" which is a girl that's been sexually abused and wished to become a mermaid for above mentioned reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:41 AM
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Mythological fun facts: Sirens technically just sing about what you want the most. This means they can lure everyone to the deaths, though it's never proven if they do it on purpose or just happen to be near sharp rocks -Mermaids (also known to lure men to their deaths) are sometimes said to be the spirits of raped girls &women. Their legs are forever closed in a fishtail so they could never be forcefully open again. In this version they also have sharp claws and teeth with which they can kill &…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:45 AM
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Honestly, the story was full of weird LMV guys, except maybe that random Brazilian guy. You have a man who LITERALLY married her when she was a child (14yo) and tried to get her back after she rightfully ran away (and no, the fact that she didn't have to take care of his 3 daughters doesn't change anything) A Mafia-like gang using her as a secret messenger A bunch of random men trying to get into her private zone (the scene where she escapes over the fire ladder to escape that guy banging at her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:57 AM
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It's a refernce to a lot of posts on r/unpopularopinion & r/memes. Basically locker room talk of "shape is better then size" and "X size is better than Y size". I found it ironic, because many Redditors also claim that girls liking tall men is a form of body shaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:27 PM
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The joke was exactly about that community + r/memes sometimes. This lockerroom talk of " Xsize is better than Ysize" "shape is more important than size" etc. while on the same time complaining about girls liking height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:52 PM
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OH. MY. GOD. I thought I was the only one who reads it!!! That story is so awesome! It's not only a ripping apart of the Harem stories that normally take place, but that main girl has so much FDS energy I could scream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:03 AM
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That would actually make a neat fairy tale. Imagine: There's a princess. She's the fairest in the land, so her parents want to marry her off. She doesn't want to, but her father says "He has a lot of money. Complain if you have more." so she runs away. During her travels she completely defies the fairy tale stereotypes. Instead of needing a hunter for the wolf, she already goes into the forest with a gun. Instead of running away like at midnight, she tells the prince "Sorry, just came for the fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:57 PM
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One reason I love, but also hate my country, aka Germany. The pro: No strangers just start talking to you on the streets. It's a cultural thing. We go from A to B, we are very quiet in trains and mind our space automatically. The con: Fucking exceptions hitting you like a brick. Sometimes it's bareable, like drunk guys on the Wasen (fair) or drunk guys in the morning at the train station that tell you you're cute before walking off. Sometimes it's a guy who randomly rushes into your space, becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:08 AM
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What do you call guys that are 1-4 combined I guess naive, thick POS men that are either in their 20s or perverted, old fashioned men in their 30s + point me to someone who actually understands and is concerned about women’s safety. They actually exist, but are more rare. Some are fathers talking about how their daughters & wives have these problems and how they always pick them up/make sure they're safe. My father was one of them when I was younger, actually. I was a second grader, when a14yo b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:59 AM
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I'm sorry, but can I just rant for a minute? One of the things that ALWAYS bugged me are how certain men are just so fucking tone deaf, or blantly dumb about the situation with "women walking home alone at night", I basically made a list! Seriously, whenever the topic in some form pops up, you will see the following people engaging in it: 0: The normal crowd aka mostly women that talk about the fear of walking home at night & bad experiences doing it 1: The "that's sexist guy" A guy that thinks …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:26 AM
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The worst are guys that are so interesting on paper, but have the deliverance of a raw potato. Once met a guy when I was taking dance classes. If you'd met him, you would think that "damn, that's the definition of John Doe", just judging by his presentation and speach. Welp, turns out he not only was a great dancer who won numerous dance tournaments, he also was in the gifted class of his school (we both were 14yo at the time) and had a really indepth knowledge of all kinds of literature. Doesn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:59 AM
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Oh GIRL yes! You're up for a story. So, this was actually before FDS when I was 15yo. I was a very pitiful teen: depressed, growing up in a broken home in a shitty school with high functioning Asperger. I had very few friends, or people that wanted to be friends with me, so when I met "Kyle" I was literally the biggest pickmeisha just for platonic relationships. To make a 2 year story short: Over the phone he slowly crept into the position of being one of my closest friends. He was 23 at the tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:49 AM
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Reminds of that AITA I read a while ago. Summary: The female roommate of OP gave her a joke-bikini as a birthday gift, that would turn transparent when in contact with water. OP got her back, by wearing it to a pool party later, where she pretended to not know and sit right beside roommate's bf. In the end, the roommate was pretty upset, because her boyfriend couldn't stop staring at OP's visible breasts and everyone in the comments of the post being like "Well, why isn't she upset at her bf for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:37 AM
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Yeah, the term went completely out of control after a while. Like, I...kinda agree with the original meaning -like, guys that think if they play doggy that a random girl will in return shower them with love (mostly related to E-girls) - but now it's "all nice affection". Hell, some people don't even know the actual meaning. I once saw a post where a guy called Super Mario (y'know, the videogame character from Nintendo?) a simp, because his job was to save the only political figure of his homepla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:21 PM
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I mean, it depends which story we're talking about. If we talk the original 1740 story of Villeneuve -I agree, that beast is pretty shitty. Like, sure, it gives her a life of luxury (after her father pretty much sold her in attempts to survive) and both are intellectual equals, but damn -that doesn't mean it's allowed to pester the girl to sleep with it everyday! Seriously, what the hell? And it's not better by the idea of it slowly dying when the girl is away. Sure, it has an "I can't live with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:59 AM
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Idk if this fits here, but this reminds me of a joke I heard. "What would a planet with only women on it look like?" Answer: "There would be little to no wars, peace, quiet and a bunch of happy, chubby women" ​ "And what would a planet with only men look like?" Answer: "....planet? There would be still a planet?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:47 PM
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Let me guess: Afterwards she had countless comments of guys talking about how "at least they didn't pretend like you raped them". Like...Jesus Christ, yes, girls that do that shit are horrible, but do you know how rare the chance is to meet one of those nutcsases? Compared to how common it is for girls to get followed, physically restrained and even hurt by creeps for simply rejecting them? And that's only in the western world! Just think about all the poor ladies that get thrown acid into their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:20 PM
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Oh god, the "pity-assholes" are the worst out there on Reddit. I once talked to a guy, who openly admitted that his BPD didn't allow him any long lasting relationships, but "to not feel lonely" he would enter relationships anyway. I called him out for his shit. Told him that he maybe should rather go to therapy/ take a different kind of pills, because exposing a potential partner to a mental illness that causes extreme moodswings (from passionate, to extremly ignoring, to paranoid etc.) KNOWINGL…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:56 PM
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Honestly, this tweet reminds me of the time I had "virgin panic" when I was 14yo. To summarise: I was active in forum, when I stumbled across a dating thread in which guys talked about how turned off they got by virgin women. Like, not just "prefernces" talking, but like outright mocking girls who hadn't had sex before, because "it shows something is wrong with them, because it's so easy for them to get it" and "no real man wants to babysit a chick through sex". I was very impressionable at that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:00 PM
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They did, however, the problem areas were different. Gaston was a goner. He was narcisstic, saw Belle as a prize, misogynistic through and through, had no honor and was a shitshow all around. The Beast meanwhile, was the defintion of a brat that was willing to change. Like don't get me wrong; he is in no way Prince Charming. He didn't know how to react except anger at the beginning, had no social skills in general and kinda rotted away in his castle. However, through the influence of Bell (and p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:34 PM
5

It's kinda ironic, isn't it? On one side, you have all those romance movies made with & partially made for women. Y'know the ones. The one's that either feature "never been kissed 16-20yo woman", or the girl/woman that has max. 1 ex (that's often an absolute villain , instead of just a dumb decision) . Girls/women that will meet a variety of men, but through the "magic of love" (aka soulmates, aka "convenient" events) they will meet the perfect fit. Best example: "Coming to America" - a girl/ yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:31 AM
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Oh sister, I will! You know why? Because even their relationship didn't start the right way, as far as I heard. Like, besides the fact that every romantic relationship of him failed because he (as my aunt puts it) "never had enough interest in other people", their "romance" didn't even start as one. SHE apparently was the one who initiated the contact, SHE is the one that plans dates -he just goes along with them. This means 1.) she's a really big pickmesha or 2.) she has no idea what she's run …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:25 PM
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Oh God, this post reminds me so much of my cousin Like, he's not a father (luckily), but when his baby sister was born he did NOTHING to help his mother. His mother -who nearly died because the pregnancy was so complicated - and who had to recover herself, while her husband (my uncle) had to work the whole day to provide for the family. I literally asked him once how much time he'd spend with her, how he found it changing her diapers etc. because that's what you'd expect from a teenage boy that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:39 AM
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He is the first person to give Uncanny Valley a human name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:00 PM
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This is a topic I actually had problems with a while now, but was always afraid to really talk about, because on a male-dominated website like Reddit I'd get tarred & feathered for this. You see, the thing is this: society's reaction towards rape & assault is generally shitty. Men get raped. Men also get raped by women. It's not cool to deny this, play it off as a joke (f.ex. prison rape jokes), call it just sex, or even tell raped men that "they are lucky" for being raped by a woman. I also don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:42 PM
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Being a great movie/general story enthusiast, I think it's actually very fascinating to look at "crazy girl" tropes in movies/ general media and how men either depict, or react to them. Most of the one I noticed, fall into one of these categories: 1.) The "eccentric crazy girl"Starting with the easiest one, this girl is not crazy in our definition, but more...eccentric. Like, Wonderland eccentric, wears a shoe as a hat eccentric etc.Odd but harmless, basically. Most men (btw. I take all informat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:08 PM
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Fun Fact: There is a comedy channel, called "CollegeHumor" which once made an entire sketch about this exact thing. It's called "Hate Cat Calling? Try Blow Up Boyfriend" and features exactly what the title says: Because men only leave you alone when another guy is with you, you can "purchase" a blow-up-doll in form of a man. The idea is (regarding it's a sketch) over the top, with women basically pulling the emergency cord on a little bag around their hips, but the idea is delivered perfectly an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:44 PM
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I'll probably mention characters not everyone knows, but if I would still to make a list: Takeo Gouda from the Anime "Ore Monogatari - My love story!" The teenager Takeo Gouda is literally the definiton of a "gentle giant". He's big, strong, very kind and helps people without asking, but because he's not really that attractive (like an Oger) he's often rejected by girls he falls in love with. Instead of becoming an hateful Incel however, he keeps on being a good person, which leads him to meet t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:53 PM
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Exactly. There is this nice sentence I've read once: "If you ever wonder if something your guy does to you is right, ask yourself ,Would Gomez Addams' treat me that way?' If the answer is no, leave." Btw. for all who don't know the character; it's the father figure from "the Addams Family" who's not only supportive of his children, but also deeply loyal & in love with his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:03 PM
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I don't know if this belongs here, but one of my fears of coming out to a future partner (even though I normally don't give a shit about it) as asexual, is that I cannot complain if he's obviously checking out a girl. I mean...okay...I know I sound very dumb rn, because obviously that's not okay, but still I feel like a lot of people will side with him, because "you're asexual -you don't even know what sexual attraction feels like, so don't lecture him about it". Might be just my paranoia though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:08 PM
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Jesus! I can get that someone complains when the other person litters the whole place with garbage, but you basically just forgot your make-up bag and...he doesn't like "girly things" at his place? Dude...wtf...like...I get make-up is more related to girls, but the way he phrases it , he sounds like one of those guys that fear any kind of colour because "people will believe I'm gay"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:54 PM
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While I didn't directly had that situation (only where I got close to a guy, and he completely broke connection after people joked we were like a couple), this reminds me heavily of all the poor souls in these magazines that asked "how do I know we're a couple yet?". Side by side with a lot of questions from guys, which were like "I know we/ I did [basically everything you said above] but how do I tell her I don't want us to be a couple?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:48 PM
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I only needed to read the "are exactly like little children" point and closed the tab. Like seriously; " If he has no boundaries, we will destroy him, especially if he loves us. " ? That's not what normal women do! That's what psychopaths do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:07 AM
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Yep, it's really disgusting. My mother recently told me how she played with a group of people in an online game, when a guy tried to hit on her over voice chat. Basically told her how he's "lonley" since the Quarantine started and if she would be up for some fun.My mother directly told him that she was a 50+ woman, married since 20years with a daughter (me) and a flat, aka "Wtf are you thinking?", but he still tried to pursue her untill finally another player chimed in. Turns out; my mother wasn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:53 AM
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I mean, I can understand his situation to a certain extent. Not extremly, just a certain extent. When I was still in my high schools theater, I was friends with a boy who was very...eccentric to say the least. Not bad, or creepy...just in the way that he would start to talk gibberish sometimes. "Do you think the colour green is watching you?" "Sometimes I wonder if lizards came from Mars" etc. He'd often text me out of the blue such stuff. More than enough I didn't know how to answer his stuff, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 03:11 PM
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This reminds me of another post, where a guy actually took braiding classes (yes they exist!) to be able to braid his lil ones hair. And not just normal ones; that guy now knows all kinds of braids! It's really sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:38 AM
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