The “”friend zone””

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-11-16T06:53:21+00:00

A woman's idea... I thought that's literally the definition of friendship. Obviously not in scrote's book.

creamtart_ · 2020-11-16T06:58:09+00:00

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fabezz · 2020-11-16T11:43:26+00:00

So I guess this guy has sex with all his male friends, huh?

iggypooop · 2020-11-16T12:34:41+00:00

I mean, isn't it exactly what a friend is? Someone you're emotionally connected to but don't fancy sexually? Why are women held to new word definitions?

Mindeska · 2020-11-16T13:47:04+00:00

This says so much about male entitlement. 'Listening to problems and keeping her company" - bitch, that's what friendship *is*. They literally think they are owed sex in return for a basic level of friendship and being a decent person.

misty-muse · 2020-11-16T07:57:47+00:00

We should take a leaf from men’s book and start redefining words to our advantage like they did with “friendship” and “date”.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-11-16T14:04:48+00:00

Yeah, that's a fucked up friendship. I mean, their bros suck their dicks and tongue their assholes while they listen to their problems. That's what friendship is supposed to be, right dudes?

Lionoras · 2020-11-16T11:17:00+00:00

This is a bullshit I always hated!

Find a guy who's nice & has good traits -but the spark just isn't there?

"I love your attributes, but I don't see you as a potential bf"

"Oh okay, so I'm not attractive enough."

What? NO! BOI! I don't LOVE you! I see you as big brother, a good drinking pal, a dude I can talk hours about the DB from The Elder Scrolls!

Jesus...it's like emotional blackmail at this point

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2020-11-16T16:08:17+00:00

A man's idea of friendship is you being his free therapist and the hot chick he can parade around while he pretends to give a shit about anything other than your orifices.

dollymyfolly · 2020-11-16T16:22:12+00:00

Men aren’t your friends. I learned this the hard way.

favoritesound · 2020-11-16T16:14:27+00:00

So is this dude also having sex with his male friends? Or just not willing to lend an ear to his friends problems and/or keep him company?

Wow! Sounds like a winner.

rad_sensei · 2020-11-16T16:41:52+00:00

that’s literally the definition of friendship lmfaooo like what do they do with their other friends??? fuck?

atuan · 2020-11-16T19:10:34+00:00

Lol that’s literally what a friendship is! Talking and caring about each other and not having sex is a normal platonic relationship lol. Moron.

Maude2010 · 2020-11-16T20:09:55+00:00

Except men use women for emotional labor all the time. The main difference is that when women say Let’s be friends, they tend to mean “listen to my problems and keep me company, and I’ll do the same”...which is pretty much what friendship is.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2020-11-16T23:54:38+00:00

I'm sure these same blokes would have NO problem telling a woman they didn't deem suitable/attractive "let's just be friends".

But when the boot is on the other foot it's crybaby central.

2020-11-16T07:42:17+00:00

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Title	The “”friend zone””
Author	Ok_Ad_67
Upvotes	918
Comments	29
Date	November 16, 2020 6:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jv1tyn/the_friend_zone/
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