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Initially yes... But if they actually develop themselves then no. If you're like 3 years deep in the red pill and not at least decently fit and wealthy you're probs doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:13 PM
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Yes and your experience with women is dictated by your attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 04:11 PM
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You have a husband so there's basically no need to be here if you're not dating lol. Almost all women are blue pilled just due to sheer number of options. Whilst guys might have a date or encounter female affection once every 6months... For women, they receive attention almost on a daily basis. I can imagine if I received that much attention I wouldn't have to look up all these things. Women are also less inclined to pursue so they probs don't look up this stuff as much. Especially when stuff li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:38 PM
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The pill you choose is almost directly correlated with your attractiveness level. If you've always had it easy and never had to dive deep into tactics on game, attraction, social value, personality physical glowup, gym, clothing, optimised skincare routines, looksmaxxing, maaculinity/femininity maximisation, gender demographic research, archetypes and niche personality research, wealth building, online profile perspective etc then you're blue pill. The above are only things you have to do if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:03 PM
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Unattractive men are rejected by society. What's new. All you can do is glow up best you can till you hit your natural ceiling/peak and then shoot your shot. Everyone can improve their odds... Some can improve them more than others. I might only be able to improve mine from 1in200 to 1in75 whereas someone else may be able to improve theirs from 1in250 to 1in15. Some already have great odds like 1in8 already so don't feel the need for self improvement of any form. Nothing you can do really except…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:44 AM
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Women aren't having some revelation past 30 tho... They just keep waiting until its too late and will be single forever. That's the path they'd rather take than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:17 AM
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Lolwat... Never heard such a uniquely rubbish take. Women's dissatisfaction is well known to be down to social media algorithms feeding them top tier attractive male content 24/7 leading to their standards being hyperinflated. Another point not specifically women related is physical location access. Urban centres facilitate vast amounts of options. And another but specifically for women again... Women have become wealthier and have more rights... Thus the past standout points of males that were …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:25 PM
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Well, the looks improvement aspect of it then. Both red and black encourage you to improve yourself first.... It's the only part they share in common. I'm not talking about defeatism of any form if that's what you're asking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:03 PM
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Black pill to get your foot in the door (ie go from a 3 to a 5 or 6 via looksmaxxing).... red pill to maintain it, progress and build wealth and status.... Blue pill to keep your relationships and partner close. This is it. Unfortunately several men get utterly lost at the first step with the overwhelmingly long journey they have ahead of them and end up doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:39 AM
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I mean it's obvious... If you go overseas to find a partner it's seen as desperate and you're considered a failure cos you " couldn't even get a woman in your own country so have to supposedly resort to women of lower perceived global status". It's unfair but you do what you gotta do to find happiness and if finding a partner means that much i believe you should do it. Heck, I'm always on the lookout for potential opportunities whilst abroad on holiday
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:34 PM
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Gotta be your face then 😂 Maybe your cheeks are puffy or your skin tone is uneven. Perhaps you've got a very sharp or angled jawline giving a more masculine look which is a turnoff. Also if you're not acting cute and feminine it's a pretty big turnoff and makes it really hard for a guy to approach you. I get extra intimidated if the girl has some dead looking stare like she hates her job (which is often true). Could also be a race thing. People are incredibly shallow and you'll struggle massivel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:41 PM
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You shouldn't feel betrayed by red pill. It's not a perfect method but it's still the best method imo which some people don't understand. From what I've read you've done your best and gone above and beyond. You're 29... Anyone declines at this age, it's only natural from a physical view. It's the man's job now to understand everyone ages and to appreciate you and cut his porn addiction out. This acceptance must come from him and it needs to come now. You've done what you can
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 12:23 AM
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Yeah i rolled a 3 for strength and 2 for charisma at character creation. Any way to make a new character?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:43 PM
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Poor guy. Man is like one step away from being dumped and left to sink into a depression spiral of anguish and despair. He literally has no idea. You need to make him aware imo. Lord knows i wish I'd been made aware i was coming off too feminine in my previous relationships (I'm a guy) rather than girls gradually ghosting me and stealthily exiting since they couldn't work up the courage to say something and i instead had to spend countless hours researching "why am i not good enough? Why do they…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 04:06 PM
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Some could yes. I wouldn't mind lol... But it's seen as too feminine and the social pressures of my future wife's female friends would eventually creep in like "oh, Kate's husband is such a femboy" or shit like that tbh. It's akin to the salary debate of "are you ok if your husband earns less?"... The husband may be fine and all but it's eventually the woman who will lose respect and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:26 PM
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Men. Cos men will do anything to get a relationship these days even at the cost of their own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:53 PM
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It's not always true. If you have a small frame and look like some cute feminine boy then you'd probs look much better as a girl for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:42 PM
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Not transphobic. Phobic means fear. I have no fear of trans people. They can do whatever they like idc. I'm merely stating the facts of how your life is going to be more difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:39 PM
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I'd assume it means going from a man to a transwoman. Imo this is probably the worst fuckup you could ever do and a sign of incredible desperation. There's already the stigma of dating a transwoman as a man and any man who is dating one is probably way more desperate than you and is unlikely to be a good life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:02 AM
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Cos then he's going after those women lmao
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 06:00 PM
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You have to worry when he stops letting you know
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 05:56 PM
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Dates? Multiple? The hairless thing isn't a problem then for him imo since he wanted to see you again. I mean yeah... Having hair is better, don't think i could get turned on if i saw a woman's bald head now i think about it. Also the not connecting thing is bullshit. It takes time to feel comfortable with someone. Idk why everyone wants this magic spark to happen instantly like they're a slave to their emotions. Bet you any money there were periods of silence in the dates.... Like why can't peo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 05:51 PM
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Realistically the chances of finding an attractive man with zero sexual partners at age 25 s like 0.000001% not to mention add on all the financially stable, empathetic etc factors. The odds are worse than winning the lottery finding a man like that since there's a very good reason he's a virgin so be realistic first. Ik it's hard due to social media and tailored advertising these days but you have to be aware. On the if he cares point... Ik I'd feel super special if a girl only wanted to share …
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 05:33 PM
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Do like 10mins of running a day and change your diet. In 2 months you could reach a point where you'd be approached at least once a week imo. Also don't just give up the search... Yeah it takes a toll on the mental health every time someone drifts away but each time you get stronger and also you'll learn what worked well or what turned people off. Haircut wise you can't go wrong with standard long hair styled to whatever you're feeling
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 08:02 AM
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I looked at your post history and I'll be honest because no one else is... It's your attractiveness and looks. You don't have an athletic type body and use a lot of fake products like nails, lashes etc which are a real turn off. If you want to come across more cute, feminine, like a girl who can be taken care of you have to look more petite and natural. This will attract more provider type men who will feel stronger towards you and not just want you only for sex. Also don't trust the ratings you…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 07:32 AM
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Man must have options flowing out his ass if he's still unsure what he wants at 35. In short he's delusional. There's like zero excuse to not meet up and see someone once a week and date honestly. Unless you're finishing work at 8pm or working abroad on weekends you should be able to have a casual relationship. So his work excuse is pretty poor and he's not feeling it fully. Also supply and demand. If you feel you can find another guy like this easily then you should let him go. If you're low va…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:10 PM
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He's not desperate enough. He's living far too comfortable a life imo speaking as a guy. I've gotten comfortable before... Started eating shittily, less going to the gym, opening up too much and its completely turned my girl off and so she dumps me. Leaving him would destroy him tho. It's the classic tale of guy loses his job, then his wife leaves him and then he falls into a depression pit. Not having a job for 1y7mo is insane tho... We're not in the pandemic anymore. Idk what his qualification…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/23 01:51 PM
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This is absolutely correct... The corporations always win in the end. Unfortunately most people are weak and will not change their habits until its too late. A very important factor to note is tailored advertising will now prevent most people from seeing content that is actually helpful to them and they'll never be able to change their lifestyle. An example would be a lonely guy continually swiping all day on apps, getting no matches, then takes to Google and YouTube searching for "why can't i g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:34 PM
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Here's a link for a study i remember reading. The data only goes up to 2018 however the trend is strongly upwards so is likely much worse now. https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/upv1uy/oc_young_male_virginity_on_the_rise/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:18 AM
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I am not perfect so i would never cheat to be with the perfect woman. Also cheating is disgusting btw. Why can't people just be happy with what they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:55 AM
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Are you just suggesting to all unattractive men to just give up then? Because that's not a good solution. Now these classes may not be a great option but it's still the one I'd go for even for the slimmest chance of meeting someone. Trust me no one complains more than me about the male dating situation every day but i would also never give up and accept foreveraloneness. I'd exhaust every single option realistically available until my dying breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:22 PM
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Out of this entire list i think dance/cooking classes are likely the best option
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:07 PM
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You have your husband tho. This post is referring to complete solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:50 PM
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You still haven't said what is enough from a man if even the meticulous level of detail I've described isn't enough still. So what is enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:21 PM
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What I'm not hearing you say is when will a guy have given enough to you to actually capture your interest? The point is men are going through all this effort in the background but women typically are not noticing shit of it. Your very comment getting emotional about this is proof. I thought this was a place to have intelligent discussion but apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:48 PM
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You're welcome. It's more to showcase that this is all going on in the background whilst most women will only be thinking that one line at the end of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:44 PM
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Women don't empathise with any of this careful planning and organising at all. They have ZERO idea what goes on in the background. Ask a woman what she thinks of a guy she went on a date with she'll never think twice about how it was scheduled or the planning in the background.... From the short, quick, fun flirty text to setting a meeting time that is entirely based on her availability.... Say on a Friday evening at 7pm so neither of you have to work tomorrow.... or how the bar they met at was …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:11 PM
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I honestly fail to believe she could sit there and just grow old alone while she scrolls her social media and watches happy couple photos of her friends, weddings, watches the birth of her friends children and how happy it makes them.... Add on the additional pressure from advertising tailored to her, co-workers discussions on family and boyfriend/hubby plans later and life plans You must have the mental strength of a bull if you can endure all of that day in day out knowing that will be your li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:50 PM
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Judging from the unhelpful comments here suggesting nothing of value there really is no good answer for this. You know the situation is hard so here's my answer... i recommend signing up to group events online, using the meetup app for social events and joining Facebook groups and going to their "new in town" socials. Your options vastly increase if you have money and a passport. Take some solo trips.... Stay in hostels and make friends. Ofc solo travel is horrificly anxiety inducing so you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:04 PM
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If all you need is a man for the emotional/sexual component and not the career or finance part and you couldn't find one attractive enough for you then that's a fail on your part and you need to lower your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:35 PM
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It's always going to come as creepy. Guys have 2 options to meet women... Cold approach or online. Online is completely out of the question for 90% of guys so that just leaves approaching irl. The only acceptable places to approach are perhaps local clubs, cafés or social events. Assuming our man in question has gone through these methods he'll try something desperate and out of the ordinary when these methods do not work. It's incredibly unlikely an attractive man will have gone through college…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:55 PM
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What about say a 4ft 7in man? How about an average Indian man with a proper thick Indian accent? What about a feminine skinny black man? Let's be honest these 3 people here I'd bet my life savings (which, isn't much I admit) will NOT find a life partner. The short man is going to always look weaker and less masculine to the woman. She's not going to feel turned on let alone feelings of love. The thick Indian accent man will have to fight the "scam cell centre" stereotypes and the "bobs and vagen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:25 PM
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I'll put it this way.... Would you rather just not be fat... Or.. Have to not be fat in addition to being extremely athletic, be a provider, charming, have comedic ability, social status, high income, impeccable fashion sense, established online presence, mental strength, leadership attitude and confidence. Take your pick because the above paragraph is almost everything men have to do. If you can't even do the simple favour of being a healthy weight (not even asking for peak fitness) then you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:57 AM
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Yes. Women spend far more time on social media so they only see most guys through this lens. Most of the times a guy's entry to contact with a girl is "hey, add my insta or fb or whatever". And so naturally you'll get talking and they might stalk you a bit. If you're a guy and you have like... Idk 30 followers or something, you have a garbage pfp, your photos don't convey a sense of having fun or that you have a big group of friends and are socially active then when the guy asks to meet up for a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 07:35 AM
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Yes I would. If you're a guy and your girl is losing feelings for you then you're either lacking physically in terms of height, fitness and muscle, not financially independent, have poor social skills, poor mental health, minimal social circle and network, weak online presence, boring personality, have no humour, no empathy, aren't career motivated, have no hobbies, or give them too much attention so they get bored, or show no confidence. Talking about this stuff makes people uncomfortable but t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 09:01 PM
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Why did this man leave you? The answer is always he thinks the other girl is better. Either physically better looking, more cute and feminine personality, shows more understanding and care. Etc. You need understand what she has done better and improve yourself based upon that. Ofc the guy could just genuinely be a dirty cheating bastard deep down or not want to work on whatever flaws or differences you both have and only chases short term satisfaction in which case he's just weak. Simply put... …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 04:04 PM
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I can hazard a guess.... The average man dating in 2023 is likely to have perhaps 1 female interested in him a month at max!!! Typically less! Any guy would be an absolute fool to throw that opportunity away and "go to the whorehouse" so to speak which results in the guy having much greater loyalty. Women on the other hand will not struggle at all for interest!
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 02:39 PM
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