Litenpes Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
557	Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl example	Conversation	Litenpes	/r/seduction	10/11/24 10:45 AM

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12	I hear dating is hard now? Why is that? Women look for the unicorn that is ✨spark✨ If they don’t fall in love on the first date (that usually last for 2 - 3 hours), you’re out. There is no second date. They will just move on to the next one on the list. This is the problem. Unreasonable expectations. People also forget that for a fire to take place, the tinder need to be sufficiently dry, it doesn’t matter how many sparks you shoot at it if it’s too damp	/r/seduction	28/05/26 06:57 AM
4	anyone ever been to an orgy? True true	/r/seduction	25/05/26 01:25 PM
47	anyone ever been to an orgy? I heard from a comment in a similar post that it’s very glorified from reality. In reality it was people whom you’d find in your typical bus stop. So not really the idea of a sexy orgy you have in your head lol	/r/seduction	25/05/26 11:57 AM
2	One Reason Why You Are Not Succeeding In Love I have an education I have a good job Financially stable Fairly fit How much more ”work on yourself” do I need to do? Lol funny how these posts always seem to revert back to some form of giving up. Could basically be describing a ”sigma” youtube clip	/r/seduction	05/05/26 03:15 PM
1	how to have interesting convos with women Look for ques in what she’s talking about, she tells a story about when she was on her way to work and something happened? You can ask if her about the thing that happened, you can ask about how she gets to work, you can ask if she rides a bike during winter eventhough it’s slippery as fuck etc The real challenge is having a conversation while she feels there was a spark afterwards. That is some James Bond suave level difficulty shit	/r/seduction	21/04/26 02:46 PM
1	Finished reading "The Truth" last night and here's my two cents for everyone. What does that even mean?	/r/seduction	05/03/26 08:14 PM
337	Your most useful seduction tip? The absolute best tip: Don’t come off as needy. If you feel like you’re ”leaning into” the conversation, stop. It seems to work very well by not being try hard at all, just talk with girls how you talk with someone you’re not attracted too, but with a little banter/flirt	/r/seduction	10/09/25 05:39 PM
4	Are Owen Cook's bootcamps worth it? Huhh? Todd is very solid	/r/seduction	04/08/25 09:43 AM
1	Are Owen Cook's bootcamps worth it? Why?	/r/seduction	04/08/25 09:42 AM
0	How to bypass the "i need time to get intimate" BS? Bro…	/r/seduction	27/06/25 02:06 PM
7	Best country for flirting as a woman? Every country on earth	/r/seduction	03/06/25 04:36 AM
2	Bizzarre moment with a girl i have a crush on If she’s seated opposite you, wouldn’t it be natural she rests her eyes/gaze in your general direction? That said, her choice of seating etc could definitely be intentional. Oftentimes girls way of approaching guys is making themselves approachable meaning hoping you will initiate	/r/seduction	14/11/24 02:41 PM
14	Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl example For her sake, I can’t share that	/r/seduction	10/11/24 11:16 AM
1	People who get laid,how? Honestly, the common denominator for me has been by showing literally zero neediness/indicators of sexual interest upon meeting them. By just talking to them like a normal person and gradually adding in a little flirtatious jokes and light touches seems to do the trick. But I can’t stress the first point enough	/r/seduction	07/11/24 09:43 PM
8	The most honest PUA/dating coach? Todd V	/r/seduction	23/09/24 08:10 AM
2	Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed? Pick up artist	/r/seduction	17/08/24 05:21 PM
3	Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed? Personal growth through PUA videos. But essentially, it was by not taking things so seriously. Like, it’s not really your all that you are putting out there when attracting women. With a lighthearted attitude anxiety goes away. Also, by not being simpy at all makes all the difference.	/r/seduction	16/08/24 03:52 PM
1	Do you like Todd V? Yes, I think he’s great	/r/seduction	08/05/24 11:38 AM
4	What do you think is / are the best books / resources for pick-up and dating? Old school video series ”Real Social Dynamics: Blueprint decoded” and now adays probably Todd V	/r/seduction	06/05/24 09:31 AM
2	Today I approached a group of girls I ran into during my walk. First time I do something like this in my life. “…and tried to compliment the girl on her style but she was surprised, she smiled and said no.” Sorry but that read out so funny 😂 Props on approaching though!	/r/seduction	22/04/24 06:18 AM
3	Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up? Some metal chicks are insanely hot, but 99/100 they have their boyfriend one arm length away	/r/seduction	15/04/24 03:46 PM
3	Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up? I mean, for finding women, metal settings are god awful lol	/r/seduction	15/04/24 02:46 PM
3	Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up? No?	/r/seduction	15/04/24 02:44 PM
12	Some girls truly aren’t loyal lol Yeah people are truly unhinged. Two instances fairly recent I was on a skiing trip with my friends, and prior year (I wasn’t attending), my friends met a girls friend group at the after ski and bonded with them. So this year we all met up again. So this one particular girl fancied one of my friends. They were talking about his kids, his wife’s labour etc. and she later deadass came into him hard wanting to fuck him. It was “ok” because she was on a break with her bf… My other married friend (als…	/r/seduction	04/04/24 09:36 AM
24	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: Can confirm	/r/seduction	07/09/23 09:51 AM
3	Do not give a person power over you I think OF and those feet selling websites have fucked things upp more than we all realize. Like, since the simps are willing to pay obscene amounts of money for pictures of FEET those kinds of women think, 1. They are entrepreneurial geniuses 2. Those sums of money sets a sort of standard to which they hold future mating prospects to. Like, they really don’t understand how difficult it is to make 80k by just working. OF/Feet stuff is the EXCEPTION I think also a huge huge reason for the shift i…	/r/seduction	18/07/23 10:37 AM
3	Do not give a person power over you Yeah. People can object to this statement if they want, but I think it’s for the better of the relationship i.e. both parties benefits from him not giving his power away completely, since it’s a core attractive feature that is going away	/r/seduction	18/07/23 06:47 AM
1	I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women Absolutely! And it’s when you’re in a state of self love that you are fit to find a proper partner, and not someone who serves your basic validating needs	/r/seduction	10/06/23 10:33 AM
27	how long did it take you to find out that talking to women is the easiest thing ever? It’s all about being in the headspace of being free to be creative so to speak. Like you’re not stressing about her impression of you, which possibly will stifle you mentally. A shift for me was when I stopped thinking my existence was on the line every time I was speaking to someone. Like, as if what I’m saying is representing all of me and what I have to offer, which is nonsense. If you have the frame of talking for the sake of talking (as in take it that lightly), non serious	/r/seduction	25/04/23 04:07 AM
5	how long did it take you to find out that talking to women is the easiest thing ever? Yeah funny thing is, women (in general) are very sociable, they love engaging in conversation	/r/seduction	25/04/23 03:54 AM
2	So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days? I do the same	/r/seduction	28/10/22 01:12 PM
2	Great Date, No Text Back (M) Dude, its been one day, its not the end of the world.	/r/seduction	24/10/22 09:09 AM
49	Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women? They're too afraid to go out and do it themselves, so they shit on those who do/suggests it	/r/seduction	17/10/22 01:54 PM
0	how do you build a masculine frame during a first date? Yes, frame control is also part of that	/r/seduction	16/10/22 12:26 PM
2	Struggling with the feeling that I have nothing to talk about Yes, it can be difficult. First of all, you need to have the mindset that you can say what you want without being judged by other people, i.e. speak confidently. Good and dandy, but WHAT to say? Which doesnt really have to be in the daring sphere, it applies to every day social life. You can go into r/worldnews or r/mildlyinteresting r/interestingasfuck for good things to talk about in an every day setting	/r/seduction	16/10/22 09:36 AM
32	Is this how girls flirt at the gym? I read this in David Attenborough's voice	/r/seduction	16/10/22 07:51 AM
24	Girl asked me text her when I got gone after date and I did t Yeah I dont understand either, if she asked him to, why would she consider him clingy?	/r/seduction	15/10/22 12:34 PM
1	Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudes Similar thing happened to me once, I did get my redemption years later lol	/r/seduction	14/10/22 07:15 PM
1	Best pua resource available? Download rsd Tyler's Horseat at home mastermind. You can find it easily. It may or may not teach you much but I would recommend watching Tyler's 6 hour infield. The things he does in those videos man, freaking insane. He's 33 and half bald in one video, approaches a 20yr old, makes out with her within a minute and has her calling him daddy. It's fucking insane.	/r/seduction	14/10/22 01:19 PM
3	Best pua resource available? Real Social Dynamics: Blueprint decoded For self improvement, i.e. eradicating old solidified negative beliefs about yourself Plattform: 24hr(ish) workshop in video format, torrent Todd V dating Continuation of above, for neat concrete examples of the dynamics of attraction. Premise, frame control, closing etc. Plattform: Mainly YouTube	/r/seduction	14/10/22 01:18 PM
0	Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s? I mean, to me, yes. But that's because I've been working on myself alot and grown as a person (= making me more attractive as a result). However, I only date girls in their 20's not in their 30's so the reason is not that they necessarily become "easier" to game in their 30's	/r/seduction	13/10/22 04:42 PM
3	Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips. Great list! I'll add on to that as someone being active on mainly tinder for casual dating/hookups. 1.The bio: 1.1 Your bio 1.1.1 Pictures Get decent pictures, preferably atleast some that show you in a social situation of some sort. Sadly men rarely take pictures of each other, while women (e.g. my sister) has literally 30-40 pictures of the EXACT SAME pose in their phone, that they've taken with a friend during a whole day photo session , the way men do it is like... "Hey bro!" 'What?' click S…	/r/seduction	05/10/22 07:39 AM
1	What am I doing wrong Can you send a screen shot of an actual conversation? It's easier to depict any potential areas of improvement	/r/seduction	05/10/22 06:24 AM
0	Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips. No I use it frequently, works pretty well	/r/seduction	04/10/22 03:39 PM
1	Just make a move Def check for I.O.Is	/r/seduction	10/09/22 02:12 PM
1	Easiest way to get laid Either or, but in the bar bathroom is probably slightly better 😅	/r/seduction	18/08/22 04:12 PM
15	Easiest way to get laid He's asking about getting laid. Even if that wasn't the case, it's about bringing out desire/motivation	/r/seduction	18/08/22 01:48 PM
34	Easiest way to get laid Yes, do this. This may sound weird, but as wise men said, a hungry wolf hunts the best. If you feel a bit nervous or your head is not in the game, give your peen a few strokes to get the blood pumping and remind yourself of the goal, it'll work.	/r/seduction	18/08/22 01:06 PM
8	Nine tips for improving your conversation and social skills Great stuff! I used to struggle with number 3 in particular, now I just imagine having a Magneto helmet on lol, shutting of all invasive thoughts	/r/seduction	16/08/22 01:36 PM
1	Anyone here regularly think of suicide? I was like you, but managed to turn my life around and reverse the downgoing spiral. Search for "RSD Tyler Durden: Blueprint decoded" on some torren t. It will change your life, I promise. Just remember it takes time, Rome wasn't built overnight.	/r/seduction	16/08/22 05:36 AM
1	How to handle a situation w/ severe competition and courtship Feared so, and no thanks 😂	/r/seduction	15/08/22 04:08 PM
1	How to handle a situation w/ severe competition and courtship ?	/r/seduction	15/08/22 04:05 PM
1	Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that? You could, but preferably not imo. Best scenario is that you read the signals/IOIs and go for it.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 06:02 PM
1	How conventionally attractive are you? I don't know, I may have a good nose	/r/seduction	21/07/22 04:49 PM
11	how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward? Kirk Hammet liked this post	/r/seduction	19/07/22 06:31 AM
1	Do women rationalize romantic feelings differently than men do? Good for you	/r/seduction	18/07/22 09:39 AM
4	How to deal with other guys hitting on a girl that I’m currently talking with It depends on how well you know each other. I think I wouldn't bring her unless I've built enough attraction/rapport for her to be more primarily focused on you	/r/seduction	09/07/22 09:44 PM
2	Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed? A woman wants a guy with skills like a "player", with whom they can settle down with. The problem is players are perceived as unfaithful	/r/seduction	04/07/22 09:49 AM
1	The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating apps I feel ya, I'm about 5'11". But I would say if she's absent minded you probably haven't spiked her emotions enough. Try an outrageous opener, or like, a light neg. One that could be reasoned to be a positive, even if she initially will react playfully negative. When it comes to the group, it's difficult. The only solution I can come up with is to open the entire group, then shift focus to her more and more	/r/seduction	26/06/22 05:59 PM
1	The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating apps Now , I believe there are two remedies to this. 1) People often hinder themselves when talking to a girl because they're afraid how it's going to be perceived/not being interesting enough. The thing is, if you're confident enough and believe what your saying is good enough, simply because you are the one saying it, it will shine through. 2) That's fine and all, but some people simply aren't social. Well, work on it! Although it takes two to tango, you can do alot to encourage a good dialogue. Wh…	/r/seduction	26/06/22 05:07 PM
1	The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating apps In my experience, as long as you take care of yourself (i.e. good hygiene, well groomed, putting in an effort overall) you don't need to be ripped or a model in order to get a shot of expressing yourself/shooting your shot. I mean, if men like being social, it's nothing close to how much women love being social (generally). I think most strike out due to being too needy	/r/seduction	26/06/22 04:45 PM
1	Dating apps are becoming an unhealthy distraction for me. Has anyone deleted them for this reason? Not really, but the fun part about tinder is to swipe for sure lol, I have way to many matches that I haven't written to 🤦‍♂️	/r/seduction	26/06/22 02:12 PM
3	How do you become confident and also why does it work? Fake it til' you make it!	/r/seduction	24/06/22 10:51 AM
15	What are some things you guys do on first dates to make sure the woman knows this is not about friendship? Good thing you're raising this subject, since it's one of the main reasons men are striking out on dates resulting in no second date. To answer your question: Physical and verbal escalation, talk about the concept of "us" in different ways.	/r/seduction	24/06/22 07:06 AM
1	Did I Just Get Sh*t Tested?! Yes, that was a shit test	/r/seduction	23/06/22 08:52 PM
5	I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside? It depends completely how it's done. If we approach from a place of scarcity/neediness it tends to shine through, which will be repellant	/r/seduction	20/06/22 04:45 AM
0	I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside? Yes	/r/seduction	20/06/22 04:42 AM
4	I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside? Both yes and no. In and of itself I wouldn't say that it's primarily a hint that they are seeking that kind of attention. I mean, people dress nice because it makes them feel pretty/handsome. For my own part (I'm a male), I like to be well groomed and put thought into my clothing because I personally find it nice, it's the same for girls. That being said, it's a very fine line between "it makes me feel good" and "I like the attention my clothing gives me", because that is certainly a factor. BUT…	/r/seduction	20/06/22 04:41 AM
-1	I'd say for most of the women that let you fuck them, you are actually the price. You still gotta "pursue" a bit, but its just formality. Opposite to the women that have no interest. But some guys struggle to see the difference. 100 % accurate	/r/seduction	19/06/22 01:56 PM
2	The End of Seduction Why is it dishonest? You need to build up attraction to bring her home. Simply asking her beforehand doesn't work	/r/seduction	18/06/22 02:45 PM
1	how do you talk to girls? Say anything! They are people too	/r/seduction	17/06/22 05:51 PM
3	Julien RSD content Atleast the older stuff is definitely not bullshit. They might have wandered down a crappy path today idk, but the old stuff is solid	/r/seduction	16/06/22 09:00 PM
5	Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really need But make sure that it's clear it's a man to woman interaction and not just stranger to stranger (or friend to friend)!	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:52 AM
2	Best book or course which actually turned you into a player Real Social Dynamics: The Blueprint decoded (Video series, dunno if the company exists anymore but the material can be found via t o r r e n t) On Youtube: Todd V	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:17 AM
1	What activities and things can you do to become more masculine? Glad you asked. I've had the same problem most of my life, not growing up with girls/sisters, but without a strong male role model. Growing up with a semi-absent father really messed up the development of my masculine side. Which I had to develop on my own using the internetz and vids. I think what I would boil it down to is this: In general, women are more emotional and want to experience the whole spectrum of emotions (get happy, watch sad movies, watch reality shows with heavy drama etc. Mayb…	/r/seduction	15/06/22 04:14 AM
38	Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detriment Lmao people.think making a girl cum/giving oral is simping???	/r/seduction	13/06/22 07:56 PM
1	Kissed my date last night mid sentence. Learn to identify IOI's real good. If you master that, you don't need verbal consent. Fyi, this is coming from a guy who was oblivious to the "subtle" ioi from a girl in my joint class in junior high, who threw sugar cubes at me bc I was "cute" (the swedish word for sweet flavour and cute are the same). She eventually lost interest. I realised about a year too late	/r/seduction	09/06/22 11:37 AM
2	What are some reasons why you SHOULD get married? Wow, very interesting reading the replies. I find it quite ridiculous to think that 10/10 marriages are doomed to fail or that marriage is an inherent bad deal for a man. There is quite the number of marriages that work perfectly. If you're scared, get a pre-nup. I think the main reason people are splitting up in general is they haven't done their "due diligence" and base their relationship on the initial stupid love. But to answer your question, I think the most apparent reason would be that it…	/r/askTRP	04/01/21 08:41 PM