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I second this sentiment! Stop chasing him giv him space and do what you can yourself to make YOU happy. Then he will ne more drawn to you💖
/r/RedPillWives19/07/22 02:04 PM
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Hi, I made a video on this topic, I think you will find it very helpful, it's very practical https://youtu.be/sJacaZKxuEM Maybe think and write down what you think is feminine - there are many style of femininity - bohemian, preppy/classic, seductive, girly, - which one do you like the most? Ask yourself these two questions: What do I find feminine in other women and fictional characters? What makes me feel feminine? Best of luck - and I know you will enjoy your femininity journey 🌸🌸🌸 Btw, feel …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 04:55 PM
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I have read both the surrended single and surrended wife - listend to her books and podcast - they are amazing and absolutly eye opening and really give a great insight into how men work and how much power women hold in relationships. Get her book asap! The surrended wife. ​ Then add fascinating womanhood - the classic eddition from 1963 (the later versions aren't as good imo). You can turn things arround in your relationship <3 <3 <3
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 07:56 AM
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Being child-LIKE is very charming and something many women try to learn, do not rid your self of this <3 ​ Being child-ISH on the other hand, is when you don't know how to act with proper seriousness given the situation. This means you can be silly, if it suits the situation, and still be mature and vice versa. In regrads to how women mature - I believe that wome mature by learning to control and undrstand ther emotions and other people's more "hidden" emotions. (I think men mature by learning t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/22 02:52 PM
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Yep, this completely turned of a very interesting HV guy for me! 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻 I will never make this mistake again. Next time this subject is being approached, I will jokingly find a way around it or change the subject ASAP!
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 11:45 AM
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It's on the back of your mind because of feministic propaganda, plain and simple :) Remember, this is no one way to be a homemaker or a feminine woman. What makes you feel feminine will make you the most feminine - but it has to fit with you. For homemaking, it's your responsibility IF you want a more traditonal relations/one with a masculine man - but that doesn't mean you have to do everything by yoursel. Maybe you work a little to and you hire some help, which you then manage and oversee. - F…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 08:17 PM
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Stay in your feminine energy as much as possible. ​ Become really good and mindful about your transitions so you can switch back into your feminine energy with ease all the time. Dress feminine and interact with your peers and teacher in a feminine manner. When you need your masculine energy to focus - appreciate it from your feminine energy. When you are done with your "focus session" 45-90 min, take a break where you do something feminine like focus on something in your body <3 Remember femini…
/r/RedPillWives17/08/21 11:31 AM
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You are doing great and already have som egreat advice in the comments here. I would suggest making a list or problems he has or on side of the paper and then write how you can help / ease the trouble on the other side - just keep it to what you can do. Being happy by making yourself happy is alway something that helps a man with his stress. it's usually very impotant to men, that their wives are happy. For example: Hubby is stressed when he gets home --- I can make sure I don't put further stre…
/r/RedPillWives17/08/21 11:24 AM
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Uuh, then Miss Hinch might be for you! On Instagram. She actually uses cleaning to manage her anxiety and her sharing the joy and satisfaction she gets from cleaning is very inspiring - cleaning doesn't have to suck 😊 Also if you have depression I would suggest looking into a zero carb / animal diet. It has helped at lot of people - including my self. I have gut issues, and get depressive when i eat outside this diet (and when I say depression, I mean the doctor agreed after an assessment..). Wh…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 04:55 AM
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Happy to help! 💖 It's so frustrating to stand a alone learning all this😊 Thank-you 🥰🥰🥰
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 04:47 AM
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It's when you use a cloth to clean something, you hold the cloth in your slightly cubbed/cupped hand and wipe in an S-pattern turning your hand a little at every corner, so that the crumbs ALL are collected inside your hand. If you circle or do zigzag, you are really just pushing the dirt/crumbs around and you might miss spots. To make the movement: Imagine making an S with your flat hand on a surface but the thumb is always towards you 🙂 It's the most effective for when something need to be wip…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 04:45 AM
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When I was engaged I got these books, but didn't get to reading them yet, as I was still living in a small and felt I didn't need a system for the space I had. 1) Clean my space: the secret to cleaning better, faster, and loving your home every day - by Melissa Maker. She also has a youtube channel, which I have followed for years and her own cleaning company 😊 2) Simply clean: the proven method for keeping your home organized, clean, and beautiful in just 10 minutes a day - by Becky Rapinchuk. …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 04:39 AM
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No, it both of you's money 🙂 But it is still his hard work which earned them for the family. Just like he wouldn't be a total slob in the home that you/the woman wpuld have worked so hard on keeping tid and clean 😊 It's a respectful to be mindful towards the spending as well as towards to home - it goes both ways 😊 Yes, that's a bit of the point 🙈 These skills are fundamental and getting them down (developing them even when you are young) makes it such easier for yourself and your family in the …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 04:03 AM
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You're welcome 💖
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 03:53 AM
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It's not the best idea to be too explicit about your standards... Never say it so directly - it's /is not my standard to... Just say, It's just isn't me, or, I need more time to get to know you I hope you will respect that/can understand that. Or, this just doesn't feel right to me. Say it sweetly, always - and say it as if it's something very personal to you - something you FEEL. Not something to set your mind to. Then men can't discuss it with you ;) I actually made a video on how to communica…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 05:46 PM
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Sometimes I watch RP men videos, just to get an insight or to remind myself not to fall for men playing games. But you need to watch stuff aimed at women, so you can learn from someone who has women's best interest at heart :) I really like Greta Bereisaite on youtube! She really explains how men think and how women can best deal with it. She really focuses on mentality and emotional control. I also enjoy Adrienne Everheart as she focuses on feminine energy. If you combine those two you are way …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 04:33 PM
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Time stamps looks interesting, but it doesn't seem to go that much in depth with this specific topic though. 👌 😊
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 05:54 AM
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Hi again :) You still seem very confused and maybe you have had some bad luck in dating (for that I am sorry). I will try to explain it a bit better for you :) Please keep in mind, this is coming from a woman who values herself and cherishes relationships and would love to get married - meaning, I am also looking for the real deal, and this is not some superficial game to tick a man into giving and them dumping him. :) Some women are users just as some men are users - but if you never engage wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:48 AM
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Awesome 😊🙌🏻
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 04:48 AM
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Omg, I have been looking for that book/version and could find it! I am SO curious! 😃 - please report back if that is good as well 😊❤
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 04:47 AM
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Sorry for my late response, I was sick with the C... Maybe, I made my own notebook and lined everything in the book itself - made it easier to re-read the important parts 😊
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 04:46 AM
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This is what I would do: 1) First, don't bring it up anymore and give him space and time to deal with the suckerpuch to his ego... 2) Then be neutral and nice. This means NO NAGGING and NO COMPLAINING about anything he does. 3) Start to compliment his masculinity and tease him about how manly he is. 4) Try to understand if he is going through stressful times and be sympathetic and understanding. 4,a) if this IS the case, do a FEW thing to make life a little easier for him during this time (eg. M…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 04:44 AM
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Sorry, I don't a great that women want a man that's "hard to get".. "Getting" someone is very masculine, and I like a man who doesn't back down from pursuing his dreams - me it me or other areas in his life 🙂 If I have to to fight for a man, I start to feel bad and masculine, and I don't enjoy it. It makes me feel like he is not interested and I loos interest... Otherwise fine points. except, men do want a woman who has standards, but is nice about them, not a B. 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 04:33 AM
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Women and men are different, and most feminine women don't enjoy chasing, pursuing, Impressing or winning over a man. The way a smart woman would go about this is to level up her self so she is a match (not equal or smilar) to the type of man she wants. Then she will work on herself and evaluate her self in regards to the men she attract and continue to improve, but even more in comparison to her own ideal of a the feminine woman she wants to become. This does not means she is trying to impress …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 02:16 PM
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Et me know what you think (the beginning is a bit slow, but after the first chapter is get really interesting) 😁
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 09:26 AM
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Yes, I absolutely LOVE fascinating womanhood by HELEN Adlndelon from 1963 (nit so much the sequal by her daughter) and then I also love the surrendered wife by Lauren Doyle (and the surrender single) ❤ Those are my two favorites! 😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 09:25 AM
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The Helen version is more matter og faxtly and straight talking. Didier had a big sections about the "guard dog" or something, abiut making sure you are fed and well-nurished before starting an argument. I heard the new version on audioble and I was surprised how different they were and a bit disappointed that I didn't had the 1963 version as a audiobook - I didn't think they where that different... 🙂 The new version is more flowy, not very concrete , the original is soo practical and have so mu…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 09:22 AM
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Oh, wow, I thought a "prenup" could help avoid situations ikea this... I mean, a reasonable lady with a very different income should not be surprised by a prenup when the financial gap is a big as you indicated (its the sensible thing to do, as long as the prenup is fair)... From Denmark here, the family Court also favors women too much.. A friend of mine is working for men's rights... I really thought that prenups were the work around for that in the states 🤔
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 08:29 PM
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He is not respecting you at all! Give up the friendship, just as he was willing to risk it. Also, maybe take the opportunity to reflex on why he didn't see LTR potential in you. And I don't want you to be mean to you! I'd he is a weird person value guy who uses people, okay, what ever. But if he is a "descent"/most good man, maybe take the opok to reflect a bit on why he would categorize you like this even after.know you for two years. I don't want this to come of harsh ❤ I had to do this self a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 08:24 PM
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Second this!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 08:16 PM
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Yes - my favorite book, UT work AMAZINGLY in my ex (long distance for a year and work pleasure broke us up.) After 30 days of use this book, we went from a break up to planning to get married, and him buying a ring after my visit (which turned out to be my last, as covid had us separated a year.) The book is call: FASCINATING WOMANHOOD by HELEN ANDELIN copyright 1963! (Mine is from 1990). It's very important that you get the 1963 version from HELEN, and not the version from her daughter Dixie. T…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 08:13 PM
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The ladies are right, you CAN change! I just want to give you a bit of encouragement on your journey. When you start to change, people will comment, tease (hopefully not to much), wonder, worry and complain. They will want to see if this change is for real or just a phase/trend you are going through. When you start embracing your feminine side, you will not want to stop.🌸 What ever people say, don't let it get to you, stand by yourself and keep transforming. When they see this transformation is …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 08:02 PM
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No, no and no. That's will be a horrible influence on the kids and the relationship, which the kids will mimic/model, and then it will affect them again. Hypergamy is also about creating the bedtime for your kids - having a cheating father and a doormat mom is not part of that, and should be avoided imo 🙂
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 07:53 PM
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I think your break down is very honest and exstreamly useful for any lady who wants to take her relationship goals seriously 👌🏻 It can be a pill to swallow, but this is actually what ladies need to focus on and realize 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:45 PM
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Oh wow, where so you live since they are so strict? 🤔 Btw, thanks for sharing your point.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:36 PM
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Thank you! 😁🥰🌸
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:26 PM
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I think betting your self quickly set you apart from the rest, even though that's not the intention or motivation 😊 women definitely stand out the most when they embrace themselves and their special mix of femininity - I sure that what she meant 🌸
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:26 PM
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I am so happy you ladies found it helpful! I just want to help ladies on their feminine journey, as I remember how difficult and a bit obscure it was to find information and resources about this when I started in 2018 💖 It was my intention to make the post useful with or without watching the video, so I am very happy you enjoyed the video too 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:24 PM
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Yes, and it was definitely the skill I had to do the most work on so far! It makes such difference ❤
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:22 PM
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Exactly, that is such a good way to put it. It's more about being in the moment, surrendering and trust and letting go of controlling things that can't be controlled (like people). It brings a lot of calm into your life, and it can really help with femininity imo 💖
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:10 PM
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Yes, I meant innocent* 😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:08 PM
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Ahh - I meant innocent 😅 I will fix that, thank you for pointing it out, as that definitely give the wrong meaning 😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:07 PM
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Thank you, You are very welcome 💖
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:05 PM
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Thank you! 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:04 PM
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Yes I agree! 😊 I had just previously Nad a video where I talk about - what I call "feminine firmness" and another about communicating bounda in relation to dating. You are right, you can definitely afford to be decerning of how much you give of your feminine energy to other people - only what you feel good about giving and/or what's deserved 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:04 PM
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Yes, I second this 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 03:08 AM
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Yes, it's @livingfreewithsophie 😘
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/21 03:06 AM
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Hi, I went through the same journey starting in 2018, so I know how confusing it can be to get started. I create a youtube channel to help others women become more feminine as well 🌸 I have a video on 10 things I changed to become more feminine (from easiest to deepest) - https://youtu.be/bWQGHUxlvkc And I also have a video on how to make your appe more feminine - https://youtu.be/sJacaZKxuEM I still use the tips today and I reep so many benefits from embracing my femininity 🌸 I also made a few …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:09 PM
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Sexual attraction is based on biology and society/feminist can't change that even though they try 😉 On top of biology is femininity/feminine energy and confidence.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 06:05 AM
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It's fair because you give to each other in different ways. The fully traditional way would be for the husband to make all o the income and for you to do all of the (inside) homemaking + getting and allowance from your husband. And remember, men will often help you in a relationship, especially if you praise them or it 😉or the husband to make all o the income and for you to do all of the (inside) homemaking + getting an allowance from your husband. and food delivery service (all within your budg…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 05:57 AM
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