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LoLDamo/r/askTRP24/12/17 10:25 AM
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3 months but that’s usually when I get bored and need to change it up so it’s more me than them.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:22 AM
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You haven’t travelled much. Some countries use 24/7 some use 24/24.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:52 PM
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Sometimes your just tired of your home country. I’m from the UK and I fucking slayed in Australia and America. Do well in the rest of the world as well but with the UK not so much. Why? Because I’m sick of the girls there. I think the TRP is universal and definitely works better in more westernized countries. If you are going to Eastern Europe, South America or Asia your points are disregarded because even if you are “average in looks” your SMV is +2 just from coming from one of western countrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:19 AM
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This is typical nice guy behavior which the side bar explicitly tells you not to do. You are doing something you don’t want to do in exchange for the hope of sex. Next time just escalate don’t ever do shit for someone else you don’t want to do for the hope that somehow your dick will get wet.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:19 AM
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Escalate and find out
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:13 PM
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These all resonate so well with me except the mission part. I’ve moved jobs countries etc in search for that mission still nothing tickles my fancy. Any pointers?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 02:19 PM
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Spent 6 months in the Philippines and 3 months in Thailand. Both are super easy to get girls, Filipinas are better in bed and look better IMO but if you want to sleep with travelers Thailand is better. Capital cities are the best place for local girls any beach destination for travelers although you can get locals there also just less to choose from.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:47 PM
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Starts with 1 guy and then his social circle becomes yours and then 1 more and later another. Can’t just expect to have a fully functional social circle after a decade of drinking with the boys. I’ve moved countries twice in the last 4 years and your social circle is how much effort you put into it.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:59 PM
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This is why having hobbies are so important and making friends who have the same hobbies. Look at it likes this - before your hobby was drinking and the friends you hung out had the same hobby so you did that hobby together. An example I enjoy going to the gym so me and one of my friends who’s also a gym goer meet up on the last Sunday of every month and have a 1RPM day afterwards eat some bbq and talk some shit. Sometimes other people come with sometimes it’s just us. Before this we didn’t hang…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 04:35 AM
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Insecurity is an attraction killer. Not being able to grow a beard and having thin wrists is not going to cost you 1 let alone 2 points in SMV if you have all your other shit together.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:20 PM
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It’s your chest. Never happened to me before I was a gym goer now it’s a normal thing.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:15 PM
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You clearly haven’t read the side bar. On the sex point it’s your job to initiate you are a man that’s what we do. She expects you to do it you know you should do it so why are you expecting her to be a man? Instead you are hamstering over things she doesn’t do, again that’s her role not yours. Learn what society, females and males expect of you and use it your advantage. The other 2 points “text me first, or ask to hang out” is either the same as what I wrote above or she’s just not that in to …
/r/askTRP21/10/19 03:08 PM
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66kg!? You need to hit the gym son.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:13 AM
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Stop defending yourself in the comments you don’t need to justify your decisions and clearly have a healthy mindset towards woman - it’s just your turn. You already know the answer to your question the guys who think like that - don’t have standards for themselves - are men who see the world in the blue pill way. Women can talk, flirt and fuck whoever they like who are we men to impose our rules on them? Oh you have some dignity and you won’t have a woman like that? Must be because you are insec…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:59 PM
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The minute you commit to her that’s when you’ll lose her. She wants the unobtainable man. Also if you are believing what a girl is saying rather than what she is doing you need to revisit the side bar.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:38 AM
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Just focus on what you can control.. The body.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:28 PM
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3.2.1. GO Your the man you initiate. Sounds like your trying to flirt her into initiating. You have all the green flags just do it. Or waste another night trying to get a girl to do a mans job. Initiate.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 01:59 AM
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Wait what? There will be other people in the country you are going to not just the people associated with your work. 8 months in a new place with women from another culture and you want to go in to monk mode? Will be a huge opportunity missed my friend.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 11:43 PM
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Asks for advice, gets solid advice and then argues every point. You can only help those who want it.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 06:06 AM
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You literally want to be a beta bucks provider that’s your goal here. Please go read the sidebar at least once before coming here.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:25 AM
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It’s down to personal preference personally when my N count was low (sub 20) it bothered the shit out of me if I knew a girl had a higher N than me like I saw her as dirty or something... Now I pray to god my plates avoid the N count question as I could never answer it seriously without being looked down upon and I know they are going to lie to me back so what’s the point? If she’s a plate it doesn’t matter, if she is your LTR she lied to you that’s enough to disqualify her as a LTR demote/next …
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:18 AM
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Yes all plates break
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:47 AM
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Honestly both get old very fast. When you learn you to talk any woman in to bed it becomes a chore. I have to go spend 2/3 hours with X just to get her back to mine to satisfy this need I have. That’s where quality plates make the difference we all get our kicks in different ways, mine is having a woman who has plenty of options make herself exclusive for me whilst I don’t have to be in return. That’s what gets me going, making them mine.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:10 AM
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Started with pussy turned into a lifestyle choice.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:23 AM
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What the fuck? Some girl spoke to you at your place of work and then you saw her talk to someone at the gym and you decided the best course of action was to post on reddit? Grow some balls and ask some people out instead of overanalysing every interaction you have with the opposite sex.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:22 AM
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People overthinking this. Just sounds like it’s that time of the month, wait a week and fuck her. Stop hamstering that’s her job not yours.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:15 PM
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It’s fine to F close every first date you’ll get better at it. My dates always go the same meet somewhere drink something escalate close. Kino is your best friend here it sounds like you can hold a conversation no problem. Always make sure you sit next to your date and never opposite. I usually start with the leg or arms hey it’s your turn to get the drinks nudge her leg. Just incorporate it naturally in to the conversation. If there is resistance the first time you ask her back just agree and a…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:26 AM
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You do you I see that shit as feminine it’s one step below makeup and if that’s your thing that’s fine. Nobody here “texts all day” texting is just for logistics. Just doesn’t align with my goals of what I want to be.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 08:00 AM
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I don’t know why you are listening to girls. I’m 29. Most of the girls I plate are 22-25. What makes a vagina wetter? A man doing sports, making money and doing his hobbies. Or somebody who spends all day taking selfies.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:08 AM
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“Girls WILL find it weird if you don’t have social media” No, you think they will find it weird. I just have Facebook I just say social media is a waste of time if anybody asks. Most people think the same - even if they are addicted to it.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 10:52 AM
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As someone at 29 I just want to second this so far since 25 SMV has just increased year on year. Quick question are you in better physical shape now than you were at 32? You live the same lifestyle or a better one?
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:11 PM
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Lack of attraction
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:57 PM
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People have messaged me saying some of the stuff I’ve posted is “hard to believe” Only reason I post here is TRP has genuinely changed my life and this is the one way I feel like I can give a little back. If you want to believe or not it’s up to you 99% of people here are trying to become more and better themselves with the occasional troll and if somebody wants to troll there are much better outlets.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 03:34 AM
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ESCALATE
/r/askTRP08/02/19 12:57 AM
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It’s not a “she” it’s “they” this has happened dozens of times. Sure I can say you need to voice your opinions more and they’ll agree and then just do what I want instead.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:59 AM
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Occasionally I’ll meet a girl who seems different, she has stuff going for her like has her own business or plays sports at a high level. Can actually hold her opinion when it differs to mine and have decent conversation. Then after meeting a few times instead of standing her ground when our opinions differ will always give in to my way of thinking. Say we want to do different things like I want to eat steak she wants to get to an Italian at the start it’s always a game with where we go maybe we…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 08:48 AM
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I have the same issue. What I usually do do is promote a plate to girlfriend but without the commitment. Sounds weird but we are free to do what we want although we will regularly hangout. Usually lasts about 3 months before they push for exclusivity or I get bored of her. In my experience they are always loyal over this time period. I also now struggle to find any value in women outside how they look and how good they are in bed. Every time I think a chick is different it all changes once she e…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:41 PM
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Escalating. But your weak areas might not be the same as mine. My number count went from 15 to 100 in 15 months purely from escalating. Never had an issue getting dates just took forever to get them in bed. Why? I didn’t close. Are you getting at least two dates a week? If not you need to work on opening and getting numbers. Getting rejected when closing? Need to work on frame and kino before you close. Tell us where you are failing and we can point you in the right direction.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:37 PM
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You are 100% right and asktrp over the last few months has just turned into a cess pool of guys who haven’t read or follow the sidebar giving each other advice and up voting it. But you need to cut out the homophobia shit makes you look uneducated and low value i don’t know if you talk like that in real life just giving you a heads up.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 11:03 AM
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Sounds like need to work on your game rather than yourself. Getting laid is mostly about frame. You keep talking about SMV like it’s a definitive number your SMV is different to every girl and it’s your job to make the girls you want believe it’s high. Confidence humour and kino will get you laid with 99% of women. Are you being straight with women also? You keep talking about the women interested in you rather than the women you are interested in. Just ask a girl back to your place when your on…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:37 AM
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Gym/sports club/any hobby. Might not find “alpha men” but likely to find people with similar interest as yourself and likely to have higher SMV than your average joe.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:41 AM
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Good luck with your meeting I wish you all the best.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:13 PM
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Just say whatever you say to anyone else at work who has a thing for you. I do not do anything with someone it’s work it’s one of my life rules. If the circumstances were different I’d go for you bla bla bullshit just so she doesn’t take it as a personal rejection.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:33 AM
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She wants a reaction from you. If she can make you pissed/jealous she knows you care. Most plates do this at some point. I just make it clear and say I am not interested in your love life that’s something you talk about with your girls. Also you question is pretty fucking stupid unless she’s fat and ugly of course men are hitting on her.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:25 AM
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You assume wrong some of the best friends I’ve made over the last 10 years are through work. But Rosa isn’t your friend is she? In my opinion doing that to an old woman makes you a moron. They think that also. But you are not here to take advice right? You just was self justification for what you did.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:24 AM
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Then you leave? I’ve noped out of dates after 30 minutes. Approaching in person is 100% better you’ll more often than not get better quality. But your getting nada right now. So why not do both?
/r/askTRP17/12/18 02:19 AM
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People talk to each other all the time it’s not weird. 99% of people use dating apps under 30. I used to think the same as you but really I was just being a coward. Ok man up to you sounds like you want to keep doing what you are. You’ll just get the same results.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 01:59 AM
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40 numbers and no date? Are you asking for a date or just texting and then over analysing if they want to see you or not? Girls will not give a fuck about you until you create interest. You do this with game - kino, wit, humour and confidence. First step: mass message all the numbers you’ve gotten keep it short and simple; “Hey we never set up that date let’s go for drinks on X” Second step: expand on the number of people you are approaching. You just approaching girls in the smoking area? Are y…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:56 AM
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First of all it’s going to be ok, we have times when we doubt ourselves and times we feel untouchable. Something is clearly wrong if you’ve read the whole sidebar been here a year and you are struggling with girls. Where are you getting rejected? Rejected approaching? Rejected setting up dates? Rejected on the dates? Rejected back at your place? Give me some more info and I’ll point you in the right direction.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 08:34 AM
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You just did a “spin move” on her? What the fuck? I cannot comprehend in any office circumstance that this would be ok regardless if you are on good terms or not. It probably weirded her out if someone pulled that shit on me at work I’d think how did I end up working with such a moron. It’s fine to be laid back and joke with your colleagues but that is not what you are doing. You fucked up. You need to man up in the meeting explain you have a different sense of humour and it was misinterpreted i…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:54 AM
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Holy fuck some bad responses in here. You will get nowhere from berating her friend in front of her plus you look like a massive bitch who’s insecure. Just hold frame and isolate her and close however you want “let’s go somewhere more fun” whatever close works for you.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:21 AM
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Happy to see you’ve made some progress. You can leave the ball in woman’s court if you want usually they’ll come to you if you’ve created enough interest but sometimes they won’t. So why take the risk? She expects you to lead. You expect yourself to lead. So just lead and be in control of the results rather than leaving it to her.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:59 PM
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I had successful LTR’s before TRP. But then I am in the monitory here I don’t see woman as the evil that half this sub make them out to be. But I couldn’t see me having a LTR now whenever I have a plate for too long I get bored of them, even the women who have other things going for them apart from their looks e.g run their own business or have highly regarded jobs just become boring. I suppose once you’ve tasted too many flavours the idea of sticking with one forever is daunting. But my thought…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:52 AM
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It’ll be different for everyone, we will all naturally do some theories well and some poorly. What changed my life the most was escalating - I know it’s not exactly a theory but it gave me sudden results.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:21 AM
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Serious reply or troll? Have complete control of the relationship girl is in your frame or average guy pick one. You can’t be/have both.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 10:11 AM
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End goals are different here. You might see that they are in a relationship but you have no idea what that relationship is like, chances are you would hate to be in a relationship where the girl has all the power. That’s exactly what it’ll be if it’s an average joe with a “super hot” girl she’s using her pussy as currency for whatever he’s giving to her be it money, time or attention. But you know this already right? Spent so much time on your inner game and read the recommended books on the sid…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 08:14 PM
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Straight up ask her “what’s up” usually she’ll say what do you mean? You’ll say something along of the lines of look we both obviously like each that’s why we’re here... But your hesitating why? She’ll say she’s shy/wants to take it slow. For shy just say don’t be and try again for take it slow I see it as she’s just looking for some reassurance so say sure let’s just take it easy and if you feel uncomfortable just say so... sometimes it’s best just to guide them to your dick. Typing this out an…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:21 PM
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Oh no!
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:53 PM
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You need to think are at least equal with the people you are spending time with. Personally I only spend time with 3 types of people. The girls I fuck, the people who make me laugh and the people I can learn something from. Colleague who wants to hang out but doesn’t fit in these categories? Nope. Old friend who I used to hang with but now I’ve changed so much we would have nothing in common? Nope. When you enjoy time by yourself and you enjoy the time you spend with other people you are not “re…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:56 AM
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It is...
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:23 AM
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She’s looking for a reaction just ignore it. You should assume all of your plates are fucking other guys when they are not spending time with you.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:15 PM
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Depends on your style I suppose I’m 28 and in good shape also. I would have worn them when I was younger but I go for a simpler style now neutral colours with nice shoes/trainers and a watch. I feel like when I wear “loud clothes” it takes away from me. I know I’m in good shape and look good I want my clothes to show that off. Up to you honestly nobody gives a fuck. Just wear what makes you feel confident it’s more important. Ever see a hot chick and go fuck she’s nice but she’s wearing jeans wi…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:53 AM
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If your under 25 it’s fine.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:50 PM
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Your old plate is already broken why are you holding on? Plates break this one just took longer than most. You can try and hold on to it but it won’t be the same when you meet up again regardless of how good it was before.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:45 PM
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Holy fuck I can smell the insecurity from here. Why are you worried about “super chad” entering the club if she’s going to be jumping on his dick then you’ve made a shitty choice for your LTR. Usually I avoid going out with my plates friends but if I think I’m going to enjoy it I’ll go.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:54 PM
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Best friend? Sounds like your wife. Do what you want to do he’ll keep up or fall behind over time you’ll lose friends because they have no value sounds like a shitty thing to hear now but you’ll understand in time.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:04 AM
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Then stop perusing average girls and focus on the hot ones. There’s a lot of info out there on how to game just 9s and 10s
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:35 AM
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100% another down side is you’ll realise how shit most girls are in bed
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:32 AM
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What the fuck...? If you are IN her hotel room it’s a done deal as soon as you get a girl back to hers/yours escalate. You are the man you need to make the move she expects you to do it you expect yourself to do it did you want her to be the man? That’s you role.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 07:50 PM
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I disagree with the don’t go for local girls.. I’ve had success with locals and travellers although travellers are easier who doesn’t want to get laid when on holiday? Only “bad girls” are willing to hook up? This is some shitty advice and it sounds like you are talking yourself out of approaching from fear of rejection. The rest of the advice is good. Personally I like to join a group and isolate from there. Although in my experience if it’s 2 girls travelling together that’s the most difficult…
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:08 PM
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Travelling around hostels will be the easiest lays you ever get. Just go up to a group and ask “mind if/can I join you” Getting someone dtf is easy finding somewhere to do it can be more tricky. Which country you in btw? If you want local girls rather than travelling/backpackers girls you’re better off booking a hotel and going on tinder/whatever Cupid depending where you are. I’ve done most of Europe/SEA if you want some help send me a pm happy to help.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:54 PM
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None taken
/r/askTRP13/10/18 05:05 PM
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You are probably missing something. For me it was closing - everyone here talking about lifting, raising your SMV bla bla bla these are long term life goals that you will always be doing which help with woman being attracted to you as well as many other things. But if you just want to get laid; approach - have fun - escalate - close. If you are not doing one of these things you won’t have a ton of success. The words “let’s go back to mine” changed my life went from a girl a month to 3 on any giv…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:44 AM
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The further you go in to TRP the harder it is to find quality people - people like yourself. It’s always easy to find people to be with they just add nothing to your life.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:39 AM
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Just remember your life was good before her. If she cheats so what your single again, you know you can spin plates do whatever you want and you’ll be just as happy as you are now if not happier. Also thank fuck if she cheats now after 1 month or 3 months 6 months it’s so much better than in 5 years 10 years etc. If she cheats on you she’s genuinely doing you a favour. I honestly believe this if I decide to give exclusivity to a girl this is what allows me to have that IDGAF mentality.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:03 PM
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Best to start somewhere new as the person you want to be. You can make changes stop putting up with peoples shit but in their heads you will always be some sort of the version of your current self. If you start somewhere new it’ll be much easier to get treated the way you want.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:59 AM
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Turning heads whilst you walk on the street is a nice long term goal to have and it’s a result of dedication and discipline and can take any amount of time it’s probably an unreachable destination because as you get bigger and fitter your goals change and the people you socialise with change also so they don’t notice your improvement they just accept who you are in that moment not who you were before. But don’t underestimate just having a good body. You don’t need to have a god like body to be g…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 02:41 AM
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I actually think this is pretty standard many times I’ve been told when a girl first met me she didn’t think she’d be spending the night at mine. It depends on who you want attention from but if your a 7/10 and your going after girls who are 7+ why would they bother to give you attention? You have no value yet. On the flip side you probably do get attention from 5-7s but it’s attention you don’t want, so you don’t notice it.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:53 PM
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Plates break.. next.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:28 PM
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