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Yeah I can imagine, it was her bringing it up though, not me. But I am cool with either way, i think they both have their perks. If she just wants to be exclusive, that's fine for me aswell, it shouldn't change the way we behave anyhow.
/r/seduction18/08/18 02:28 PM
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Girl sees you, she likes you. Girl talks with you, she dislikes you. In your mind you made no mistake, in hers you just became another beta.
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:57 AM
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Everything you learn from RSD is a marathon, not a sprint. He got where he was because he worked for it.There are plenty of people who have sex less then once every 3 months.I was in the exact same situation before aswell, even while learning pick-up I still didn't manage to score anything special out of it, then i realised they lay down the foundation for you to build upon and it takes time.. a lot of it. Seduction is a very difficult process to learn, but learnable for everyone. It is only now…
/r/seduction16/08/18 03:35 PM
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Within the 3 weeks that I used tinder I met up with 4 girls. 2 became FWB, 1 wanted me to come over once her parents were on holiday and 1 was a very conversative shy girl that i had K-closed and said She wanted to wait with sex (I didn't even ask her). The approach I took was being very playful and witty, depending on how the girl responded I might've made a bit of a change to a more serious ''tone''. Try to implement some sexuality within the convo, but keep it very light and open for perspect…
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:56 AM
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I'm 27 and people still often judge me around 20-22 at times, babyface (especially when i shave).. small & skinny. I have 3 FWB that are 30, 31 & 35 years old that i see every few days. You know what makes you look attractive and manly? By being so. I stopped looking in the mirror, i gained life experience, I put away my ego, i only focused on that which was important (my passions) and everything took a turn for the best. My mentality changed and it attracted these girls along the way. I didn't …
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:59 AM
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I don't think she is, the conversations we have are very two-sided. We talk pretty personal and she does ask interesting questions, not your typical interview - yes/no type of stuff.
/r/seduction06/08/18 09:51 PM
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Yeah, it was definitely far from smooth, I didn't invest enough in proper setup tbh. Things haven't turned silent or anything guess I'll just continue to build up some rapport and then we'll see.
/r/seduction06/08/18 09:45 PM
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Well i did ask her after our first 2 text exchanges, if we had a longer conversation I'd have done it more differently.
/r/seduction06/08/18 09:44 PM
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Yeah I honestly just doublechecked and it was a pretty bad approach on trying to meet up. We were at some point talking about psychology and what not and she said ''So what can you tell me about me'' to which i replied with a playful thing & then said ''& I can tell that we'll be going on our first date really soon ;)'' and then she said ''Well if it stays this interesting, then we might indeed ^^''. After this I just went for the ''Hey, you wanna go grab a drink'' approach when the conversation…
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:33 PM
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My style of dequalifying varies, but I often plant a seed. Girls always ask me wether I have sex with my tinder dates. I just simply say something like ''It has happend before yeah, if things really click and I'm attracted to them, I'll make a move for sure. That's what we men do.'' - By this time I haven't made a move on her and she's like ''fuck, why hasn't he actually tried kissing me?''. Dequalifying works when you notice that she's interested in you, even if only slightly. It becomes very m…
/r/seduction05/08/18 09:49 AM
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I'm not a good looking guy, I just set my profile up in a very humorous way. Girls always open me up saying it's because they loved the change of pace when reading my stuff. I even showed it to my colleague at some point and she started laughing really hard.
/r/seduction04/08/18 04:19 PM
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I've spoken to a date about this aswell, the subject for that matter. It's all because of social pressures. They do want too, but it's like an indirect way of them saying ''I want to sleep with you, but it's Your task to keep me safe from shaming''. So indeed, just play along and you'll eventually do end up together.
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:22 PM
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Honestly, it happens even to the best. It can still work, but there's definitely an underlying reason why She's not jumping the offer. Maybe she did enjoy the conversation, but there was no sexual attraction, it's hard to say. I'm also in a similar situation. Met a girl, she's really cute, we started talking, asked her out and she said something like ''I'd rather get to know you a bit better before we make the next move''. So I went along, gave her a bit of background on me with her immediatly s…
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:59 PM
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Yeah I totally agree, I'm good when it comes to pre-date texting and/or building enough comfort to reduce the chances of flaking and give her just enough to stay curious. Afterwards it does feel slightly akward, like You're just building comfort which can essentially just bite you in the ass, I find it the most difficult when I made out with the girl the night before and we get all sexual & then texting normal daily stuff... Fuck that. I'll see if I can maybe call her before i head over to the g…
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:45 PM
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God i absolutely hate instagram, I don't think I'd have the mind to get myself involved in it either and honestly, don't care about it either. Thanks for the suggestion though.
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:39 PM
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I'm all for that aswell, I won't just randomly text for no reason either. That's why I'd maybe prefer a quick call. More powerful, interesting, more direct. It's not that I feel like texting her all day. But I do want to make sure I'm on her mind or atleast she remembers the good stuff once in a while.
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:19 PM
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Thing is, Let's say your next date is in 4 days, isn't it a dangerous thing to wait out completely since it's 4 days of potentially other guys hitting her up, or is texting so aweful, it's likely not gonna happen since I am advanced with her, and I'm showing more quality by ''not'' texting? I never figured if it could come across as not interested. Also: What if she texts first?
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:18 PM
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Best advice ever about sexual intent. I've noticed that I've almost never had a blacklash when i sublety inverted sexual talk when having a conversation. When You combine it with strong body language you're leaving a really strong impression.
/r/seduction27/07/18 07:30 PM
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I'm glad to see, especially at your age that you're not led by common false illusions created by itself. If you manage to stay consistent in your mental state, You'll have plenty of things to reflect upon in a good way. It took me way to long to learn this lesson aswell untill i set aside my ego and went for a more simplistic approach in life. Only then did i book results like i've never seen before. Kudos to you
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:35 PM
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Everything you've said is correct, most people are overcomplicating this entire idea of seduction, it truely IS an easy task to succesfully do so, if your basics are right. What basics are we talking about? Confidence & moving with intent. Confidence simply means that whatever the result, nothing will change. When you walk somewhere and you see a girl you like, you simply ask yourself if she's gonna be an addition to YOUR life potentially or not. All other questions should be nullified. You take…
/r/seduction27/07/18 11:00 AM
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Do you have long conversations before you meet? Do you welcome them with a ''Hi, nice to meet you?''. Comfort building is definitely important, but if You're not mixing in humor, wittyness, or being subtle you won't get far (talking text-game). For example.. A girl would ask me what I'm good at, I could say this or that, but instead I tell her something and then proceed with ''& some things better remain secretive untill we know eachother well ;)''. When you meet her in person, give her a hug, a…
/r/seduction26/07/18 05:46 PM
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Guess You're right, not used to this type of development, it often stays a fling. Guess I'll just go along with it and see how it goes, worse case scenario a lesson to be learnt as we all do. Thanks again.
/r/seduction25/07/18 08:15 PM
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Yeah we are having fun, she gives me no shits whatsoever, there are no issues, but I am trying to prevent them. As i mentioned, I found her very interesting and she might become potential girlfriend material, the question asked was based on how she's behaving wether she's more into the mindset of FWB or LTR.
/r/seduction25/07/18 07:18 PM
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We did bang last night, the first time I went to hers she told me beforehand she did not want to have sex because she was on her period, when we were foreplaying and she was at her peak, I told her if She was ready for me to fuck her, she still insisted we didn't. She probably didn't feel comfortable about it at that time. The next day it went without issues.
/r/seduction25/07/18 07:08 PM
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We both agreed that I'd sleep over at hers, so it wasn't in any way akward. We'll probably start as FWB and see from there.
/r/seduction23/07/18 04:58 PM
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Appreciate your words, I initially just wanted to hook up with her, we agreed on mutual interest and we knew it was coming. But we also managed to find a lot more then just a quick hookup with eachother. We laugh a lot, make a lot of fun, when I'm spending time with her, I'm not just looking at my watch wondering when I can finally put my dick inside. She seems to share the sentiment as she tells me she enjoys me a lot. I don't feel uncomfortable asking her out, but I already feel that I'd enjoy…
/r/seduction23/07/18 04:57 PM
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You completely misunderstand my point. If You were to put your hands on her lap and she tries to remove it, it's obviously a no and you should no longer proceed. I was talking in a context where when you wanna touch their face they might react with a small defensive mechanism to defend their face and then still let through when intentions are known. It's very hard for me to explain properly.
/r/seduction23/07/18 12:02 PM
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These type of burnouts are often because you are using too much of your energy and time in trying to succeed. When trying to meet girls, you should feel good about them, regardless of the outcome. Every conversation gives you a better chance to get good results, You become that slightly better at conversations, body language etc.. Don't keep thinking about the end result alone. Those little things add up regardless of success and WILL come back tenfold when needed.
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:30 PM
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Kino is like figuring out where You're at without having to try and going for the close, use it as an indicator in how far you can push it. I spent 9 hours dating a girl yesterday (tinderdate i had matched the same morning and took out for coffee 3 hours later). She gave me plenty of IoI's that it was going fantastic so i first started laying my arms next to hers, no biggie. Then when it got colder I just put my hands and arms on her lap, no problem.. Then eventually i just went underneath her d…
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:09 PM
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Like others have mentioned, it's very hard to determine why you're having all these flakes. We need proper examples to truely understand what you are being bad at. If conversations are short and you manage to # close them, how about you give them a ring later on? If you build up a proper amount of excitement, they don't mind. Use the call to build up rapport & attraction and You'll have a lot less flakes. Like i said, a guy showing interest is always exciting for a girl, she'll gladly give it to…
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:25 AM
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Really bad example of push/pull. You still devalue yourself a lot. ''Am I dreaming?'' - Does this actually exist? I'm not used to decent woman. ''A Girl who is actually not crazy?" - I have absolutely no control over women. ''Oh wait, it's self-proclaimed'' - Oh wait, You're just the same as others. You had some conversations with women, we all do, but does she look at her chat and think ''God, I'd love to bang this guy..''. Probably not. You are holding conversations like a normal human being, …
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:02 AM
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I forced her to talk normally by pulling her into my game, the reason why You are getting such short responses is because your questions & answers are boring as hell, they offer absolutely no excitement or fun. You're also way to formal, or atleast try to be, it's boring. I'll give you an example of how I would've done a one of your approaches: Girl: Cuuuuute, how old is little harry? Is he a maltese? You: Cute?! Babe.. Never judge a book by it's cover. Cuteness is but a way to hide what's benea…
/r/seduction21/07/18 10:41 AM
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You are putting yourself out there way too much man. Girls are always curious, they will ask questions, but honestly, girls love the excitement of mystery, Don't answer their questions directly, if you do, leave plenty of space open. Look at my most recent conversation. She initiates the frame, asking me the questions, I pull her out of her shit and put her back into MY frame, I'm the one asking questions, not her & look at the result. This is how you properly text game. Keep the mystery alive, …
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:05 AM
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I'd beat you when it comes down to having absolutely no life for sure, I went through 4.5 years of jobless no life gaming 24/7 and severe depressions as a result. Agreeing to finally start my first job gave me so many nightmares that I would stay awake for 48 hours just because of the thought of entering the real world again. And here I stand, typically getting 3-4 dates as of late, I can basically go and fuck whatever i want, I gained a strong leading position at work, I'm at my peak when it co…
/r/seduction21/07/18 07:33 AM
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Not enough attraction, the girl might be living in a world of excitement when you offer to take her out, but it's not enough to keep her occupied. In the meanwhile her emotions shifts into more interesting stuff and she loses all of the attraction, if any.. for you. You having a very good conversation with her does NOT equal reason to date you, she can most likely have a similar conversation with any of her friends.
/r/seduction21/07/18 07:06 AM
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When I was at my most motivated, due to logistics, I always had friends with me that would follow me everywhere they could. It was probably the most annoying thing I've ever had to deal with. Not just that, they wouldn't even talk to people, They'd constantly be teenage fist bumping me for no reason etc.. Jesus.. the horrors. They were good guys, but they were bigger cockblocks then the girls themselves.
/r/seduction21/07/18 06:55 AM
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Any material You would recommend me to read/watch about this? I have loved getting back into seduction, it's been going very well and I'm eager to improve just to being able to get more quality. Videos perhaps?
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:54 PM
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I've received more help from you in the past, You've been absolutely fantastic when it comes to this.. Really good to have you around! What you're saying is 100% true, and I knew well enough that the only way for this too succeed was too not leave anything to verbal choice. The moment was there for sure (during the goodbye hug.. it was really tense) but i let it slip. Not because I couldn't man up, but I respected her too much since i was not into it for the longterm. When i did ask, I knew that…
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:37 PM
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Texting in general is considered weak, but I do believe that it has it's strengths when used properly and limited. When you get a girls number & initiate a setup for a meeting, texting strongly and limited is key. Calling her would obviously be better, but not always as easy imo. If she flakes, your initial attraction sucked, not the lack of texts. After a proper date, texting could become a very powerful tool as a reminder. No need to get very personal, just give her enough to keep her thoughts…
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:16 AM
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Yeah, I honestly didn't realise how much of a gamechanger my job was until i started receiving feedback from different angles. It's not about the job itself, it's about the contact, you'll be flooded with people day in day out. Imagine if you go to a bar, you try to open 3 sets and they all refuse. You tried 3 times. I do 70+ customers a day meaning I get 70 chances to have contact. For some, that's half a year worth of interaction, for me, on a daily base. That's the big difference. If you put …
/r/seduction19/07/18 04:52 PM
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Retail/Sales has changed my life completely. Before i started working within this field, AA was my biggest fear, and i couldn't even get a single date no matter how hard i tried. I was to busy focussing on the theory, rather then the practice. But now.. goddamn. It teaches you the very basics of becoming an attractive person. You learn to communicate, you learn to read, how to use body language to persuade and lead conversations, you learn to get people into a strong frame and keep them there an…
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:15 PM
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By being happy about your life, The only reason we would possibly be afraid of opening up a girl/set is because we value the consequences too much if things don't have a positive effect. If you're living for yourself, seeking out enjoyment (from anyone) then a single girl telling you to fuck off will not affect you in any way. It's all games, and before you truely understand the logic and reasoning behind rejects, You just gotta keep trying untill your brain is hardwired to understand. Remember,…
/r/seduction19/07/18 01:06 PM
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Don't think i had much issues with this. I'm working in sales so I'm used to being put under a lot of pressure. I always manage to control it by being the stronger in contact, especially keeping my body stable and strong eye contact. I've had some pretty strong hookups because of this, I never feel any form of pressure when invading someone's space, thoughts or eyes. I was legit trained by the 2 best girls I have ever seen (my colleagues) they are so dominant, they can put anyone on their knees,…
/r/seduction16/07/18 04:51 PM
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Could you give me more detail on the flinch part? I'm still learning a ton every day, so all the information/advice will be appreciated.
/r/seduction16/07/18 07:49 AM
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Are you new? are you nervous? How's your posture? Seduction is a marathon, not a sprint. You'll have to start working on your basics before reconsidering getting even the least bit of succes. Work on your body language, your overal clothing style (if you need to do so) and your voice. If you have those covered you could use some cheesy advice opener (asking them for advice). It could be anything, it gets you to talk with the girl, even if for shortly. Once you get comfortable with that, you coul…
/r/seduction15/07/18 09:54 AM
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Yeah I've always liked going to the H&M, they offer a lot of great gamma for a cheap price. I'm with you on the suits, they are extremely powerful and can make a beta look like a powerful man on first sight if properly matched. I had a friend similar to that before, he was so well dressed at all times, but had aweful game. I'll definitely be looking for some clothes next Saturday, will probably be the first time i go out sarging on my own again and regain some nightgame practice aswell... Lookin…
/r/seduction14/07/18 05:36 PM
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I think I should give it another chance, You inspired me. I'm used to my failures of 2 years ago (Just recently broke up with my now ex), but it's been a while now & i gained a lot of experience just working in retail/sales. I always found my issues in being fun, funny, witty, dominating and especially interesting. I realised that I don't neccesarily have AA, but it's more about holding a fun conversation and keeping it fun (especially high energetic girls). Needless to say, when i first started…
/r/seduction14/07/18 05:06 PM
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How exactly do you handle girls just looking at you, ignoring you? does it happen often? Where i live, i always feel that there's a huge ego going around in groups. I know rejection is part of the game, and if i had a better plan B, it'd be much easier, but the embarrasment of being blown out just cripples me. I think I should start sarging alone aswell, there's a fantastic place closeby where i live with a shitton of beautiful girls and like 8-10 bars where it's always packed. Thing is, i have …
/r/seduction14/07/18 02:45 PM
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Goddamn man, i love your body language, i think if there's anything I could learn that would have the most impact, it'd be that.. Well done!
/r/seduction14/07/18 02:34 PM
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You'll definatly get shat on for your mistakes, but I wanna mention that You did a fantastic job taking the initiative. I had been in the same boat for a very long time, keep continue'ing with what you're doing, but don't get to obsessed with it and continue working on yourself. If you have a happy life things will succeed.
/r/seduction14/07/18 09:00 AM
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Limitations due to work, them finding out would definatly get me fired. I took the risk because i assumed the comfort was there to atleast not fuck me over.
/r/seduction11/07/18 03:27 PM
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Saw her 3 times, had a good amount of fun with her during this time aswell, every time we saw eachother, we sort of made it feel like a reunion for fun sakes.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:32 AM
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Could you be more specific about what you said? Am i being too forward? I always assumed that this was what girls liked, it's been very succesful in other scenarios but I suppose this was a whole different process. It's part of my personality though, since i struggled mostly with being direct when i started.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:30 AM
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texting her this way did in fact not feel right, but i am constantly surrounded by 3 other colleagues. 2 of which are girls that would've screwed me over even if not intentially. It was a mere moment where I gave in into the excitement. I'm capable of negging and being a bit of a flirt and get away with it, but # closing is nearly impossible. I figured that she was probably the nice type of girl, she did quite the effort to text back though, i assume she gave me a slight chance to build comfort,…
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:27 AM
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In all honesty, i just reflected back upon last night and holy fuck you are correct. You are basically spot on and i see it now. I did not take the lead that was neccesary, she did hint at me a few times that she wanted to fuck, i told her to have a bit of self control while joking with her about it, I had moments where I managed to take the lead, but it was probably not enough or not as strong as i thought it would be. I do gotta say I'm very glad with this experience and have no issues to leav…
/r/seduction06/07/18 03:09 PM
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I guess I might've overwhelmed her a bit, she always answered very nervous to my responses or questions, i did feel really good that night so i had a strong vibe. I'm not sure that your reply is more like a motivation or an actual fact, but I am not worried about the results, just eager to learn. Maybe she was just surprised that i didn't fuck her right away? I always love playing games and showing them i'm in control, even the sex part, but i thought it could potentially be interpreted as weak …
/r/seduction06/07/18 12:39 PM
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