I'm looking to write down my rapports to be able to reflect upon them in later cases. There might be people out there that could learn something valuable from this.

Started working out about a week ago and noticed a cute girl out at the gym today, she was the only girl around surrounded by a bunch of testosterone bulls. If she happend to pass by them, they'd go all crazy to get her attention, but none had the balls to open her up. I'm talking 15 guys, 1 girl with a damn good body. At some point we exchanged eye contact for a bit longer and she came working out next to me so i opened up:

Me: This aint your first time, is it?

Her: ''Unplugs her earbuds''. Hello! No i've been working out for 2 years now.

Me: Yeah I can tell, you look good, but worst of all, Your weights are crushing mine.

After this she starts laughing really hard, and i smile at her, we continue talking about training and we start getting quite personal, hobbies, passions, how we both enjoy laziness on our days off, etc... About 5 minutes in i told her that she's actually more interesting then she looks, she responds in a very funny way ''OOOHH WELL THANK YOU SIR''. So i tell her we should meet up at some time and so she gave me her phone, i rang myself and asked her if she prefered to text me, she said ''no, if i did, you'd definitely have known''. After this I told her I'd text her to set something up in which she complied. Continued doing my workout, then went to her again saying goodbye as in ''Oh i forgot, my name's Nick, nice to meet you'' and left immediatly after.

Some pointers:

  • I was facing her body to body, when i stopped working out, so did she, she moved her body to me.
  • I took on a strong posture, but no bragging one.
  • I held strong eye contact, lots of smiles and laughs. Kept it funny & subtly inverted attraction.
  • Made my intentions clear within the first 3 minutes.
  • She was caught completely off-guard when i asked her out, responded by saying ''wow that was pretty fast''. After telling her that I was a very direct guy, she said she actually really liked it.
  • I showed her that I am in control of my ego, but that i am confident enough in what i do.

- Didn't kino as much as I could, should've taken her hand and spinned her around after saying she had a good figure.

- Might've slightly beta'd out a few times (not as in apologizing, but more as in having a silence of like 3-4 seconds). Luckily she never showed any resistance.

- Could definatly have been a bit stronger on the attraction part.