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That good girl line is pretty cringey especially if theyre a stranger.
/r/seduction04/10/19 07:39 PM
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Also you start out getting a decent amount of matches then some how after a while you get none. Tinder is just playing with desperate mens confidence. Saying they can see all the girls who like them, or get more likes if they pay more money.
/r/seduction07/09/19 05:01 PM
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Idk i think your solution is a bit childish.
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:37 PM
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Yeah Id definitely never buy a girl a drink after they asked me unless it was a friend who forgot their wallet and I knew theyd cover me the next time. A lot of girls go out knowing and talk to guys knowing theyll pay for their drinks but dont want anything else to do with them.
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:17 PM
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Yo what this is how you get kicked out. Most women arent gonna be confrontational. But theyll dip out and tell their friends to stay away from you.
/r/seduction14/07/19 01:40 AM
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Take this with a grain of salt, but really if you want positive male attention from high value guys just take care stay hygienic, healthy, be friendly and get some sort of hobby so that you have more to offer than just your looks. For guys the real issue is they can be high value but they still have to work hard to convey that to people. Its easy to get attention as a girl as long as youre decent looking. The trickier part is getting guys who arent just into you for your looks (if thats what you…
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:29 PM
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Lol youre dumb. You dont even disagree with me. What are you even upset about?
/r/seduction31/03/19 12:23 AM
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Yeah but a woman who doesnt dance isnt likely to appreciate your dancing ability because they dont go out and see you dance. And any woman who dances regularly who will appreciate your ability is usually of the mindset that a dance is a dance. Just cause they wanna dance with you doesnt mean they wanna fuck. Where you can really shine is with newcomers to a dance scene i think. But honestly im so into dancing now that i really only care about improving so i dont really use it as a pick up venue.…
/r/seduction29/03/19 08:02 PM
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Yeah dancing is great. Its definitely helped me become more confident. And its made me more comfortable in general with women, especially women i dont know. ibthink the fantasy that dancing is gonna get you female attention on its own though is kinda misguided.
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:19 PM
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This comment is unhelpful
/r/seduction26/03/19 11:08 PM
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I think you have to find a reason to get her number. Like find something you have in common during the convo. Or just ask for everybodys snap or something
/r/seduction26/03/19 03:08 AM
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Honestly getting numbers isnt even that hard. Idk cold approaching might be more difficult but if you can create any sort of connection a girl will usually give you her number if u ask. Whats hard is moving forward though. Lots of time it dies out fast and seemingly without reason.
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:54 AM
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I feel this. It's easy to get over it once you've done in. When you're literally an incel how are you supposed to actually make that decision for yourself?
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:12 PM
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Not true. I have female friends i don't wanna fuck. Not everything's about sex. But yeah if you're tryna fuck take a risk.
/r/seduction05/03/19 06:35 AM
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IDK not necessarily. Really it's all semantics, but you can pretty far by being brave enough to try things out without knowing what's gonna happen. And that's a really important quality in life.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:58 PM
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The issue I have is that I can have decent first impressions on people, but I can almost never get passed that. IDK why. :(
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:52 PM
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Did it lead anywhere? I did the same as you. And while now clubs dont scare me and i can dance fairly comfortably without being anxious i still think its a pretty shit place to meet girls. Everyone else is on edge and super defensive. Ive had girls reject me who i didnt even know existed.
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:49 PM
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Its doable without drinking. The more exposure you get the easier it is now. Its funny to me that people are scared of clubs now even though i once was too. Now its not scary at all. Its still not a great place to go solo. Its hard to meet anybody as everybody else is scared and on edge or drunk.
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:44 PM
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Women have weak libidos.
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:37 PM
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I think theres a confidence necessary sometimes in being vulnerable. Its true, girls might lose attraction when you open up. It depends on what you want. If you wanna fuck keep it to yourself. If you really care about someone and want to further your relationship with them then go for it knowing they might get turned off. But thats on them not you.
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:52 AM
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Agreed. If youre afraid to even to talk to girls asking for a number is a good starting point for getting over that fear. But if youre past that i think just talking to new girls and getting a good convo going is better. Maybe get the number at the end. But numbers dont get you laid. Personality does.
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:44 AM
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Most girls wouldnt know
/r/seduction12/02/19 04:21 AM
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Yeah I was in latin america this summer and went to a few clubs. I speak pretty good spanish, my friend didnt. He still got a decent amount of attention though. Especially cause he had long blonde hair. People take interest in foreigners. English speakers especially are seen as high value. You also can say stuff like "hey im new here can you show me around?" Or "help me practice my spanish". Confidence is the most important thing.
/r/seduction19/01/19 11:35 PM
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Get philosophical and say you think its best not to have expectations and let things develop naturally.
/r/seduction19/01/19 11:27 PM
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Give spanish your best effort. Youll meet girls who speak english even if its pretty rudimentary. Dance and be confident
/r/seduction19/01/19 11:12 PM
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Girls are so flakey. This is how all my interactions are. Good chemistry in person. Exchange info then i dont get replies.
/r/seduction29/12/18 09:16 PM
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For the voice recordings it kinda depends where youre from. In the us its not very popular but lots of people in latin america use whatsapp which has voicemessages that are commonly used as well. Also memes just kinda depend on the person. Some people dont like them. Some people love them.
/r/seduction24/12/18 04:49 PM
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Lol the best advice r/seduction has is to get a prostitute what a joke
/r/seduction18/12/18 02:03 AM
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I do do this. I enjoy it but its gotten me next to nowhere socially.
/r/seduction12/12/18 01:01 AM
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Im decently confident when i go out. Ive gained a ton of confidence in the last couple months. Its when i go home without having anything to show for my effortthat i start to feel bad though. I have next to zero social proof though. I always go out alone. Maybe thats my issue.
/r/seduction11/12/18 02:13 PM
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I relate so much i could have written this. I just moved out too. I feel like im a decent person and i dont think im ugly. I just moved out too. When i posted somewhere desperately about wanting to lose my virginity the only reply i got was from a prostitute. I considered it. Afraid i might kill myself before i manage to lose my virginity. I dont get it. I see people uglier than me, dumber than me, with no values, no sense of responsibility with a gf yet im alone. Not to say im perfect by any me…
/r/seduction11/12/18 08:20 AM
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I gotta work on this more, but my theory is you should back off as soon as you establish interest. Be the one to start kissing but be the first to pull away. When a girl likes dancing with you change partners. That way they have to come seek you out. They have to pursue you. And thats a lot easier for them if you already establish interest.
/r/seduction17/11/18 04:30 PM
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Last night i went to a concert and the same thing happened. Caught a girl glancing at me out of the corner of my eye. Looked over and she smiled and waved. I said hi and looked away though. Then i made eye contact with a girl for a couple seconds and looked away. She and her friend came up and started talking to me. Unfortunately I was in a hurry and forgot to ask for their numbers or instagram or whatever. But eye contact and a smile is an invitation.
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:26 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/seduction16/07/18 03:03 AM
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*report
/r/seduction15/07/18 07:04 PM
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Id sorta agree. But i also find that ive gained confidence i go out of my way more to relate to people. Idk if that counts as comparison though.
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:29 AM
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I wouldnt listen to them. Shes an individual. Her ex bf doesnt control her. If she were strictly together with him I wouldnt set up a date, but since it sounds like theyve broken up id go for it. In my experience people go back to their exes cause they feel like they dont have other options. Show her she has options. I wouldnt even try to sleep with her or kiss her the first date, but show her that she has options.
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:26 AM
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Try to hang out with her anyways. Show her a good time.
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:16 AM
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Thats smooth af. But what about when she says no? Any way to recover or do you just got walk away like an idiot?
/r/seduction14/07/18 04:48 PM
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I think thats part of it, but i feel like failing and learning that it isnt the end of the world has been an important part of developing confidence for me. I think it comes from resiliency. Knowing that even if tou fail, you can make a comeback.
/r/seduction13/07/18 11:41 PM
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Sounds like you have food communication with her. Just slow down a bit. Save conversation for dates not texting. Let her initiate.
/r/seduction13/07/18 11:37 PM
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Like others are saying you can't get rid of that risk. However any girl worth being friends with should be mature enough to be cool with you even if she turns you down. And if you actually care about being friends with her you should be able to move on from rejection. If making a move completely ruins the friendship, you werent really good friends to begin with.
/r/seduction12/07/18 01:22 PM
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*outcome
/r/seduction10/07/18 01:20 PM
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Dont filter yourself
/r/seduction25/06/18 07:21 PM
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Underrated post. No advice has taught me as much as ive learned just by trial and error.
/r/seduction14/06/18 12:56 AM
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Honestly i think sleep was probably an issue. By our second date id gone out dancing and drinking till past 3 for the past 3 days only getting a couple hours of sleep.
/r/seduction12/06/18 11:17 AM
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Why wouldnt you bet on the bang? How can I make it happen. Ive made out with her multiple times, dirty danced so shes felt my erect penis on her butt, Ive already met her brother, cousin and friends and they all like me (her cousin and friend who are girls both said that I was the guy with the most sense there), she complimented me the day after over text and already wanted to set up another date for the next day (today). This is the furthest Ive ever gotten so I guess I dont really know, but sh…
/r/seduction10/06/18 05:06 PM
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In response to 3), i just really dont really wanna come off as being too innocent, or like i cant keep up with her. Also what if I end up not being attracted to her? Tbh this isnt the kind of girl Id date. But like I said Im trying to push my boundaries and see whether or not they actually serve me. One of her pictures is super cute, and the other ones are just super bad lighting and blurry, so its hard to tell how attractive she is. How would I deescalate things in the case she isnt attractive?…
/r/seduction06/06/18 02:14 AM
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Any other tips then?
/r/seduction04/06/18 10:02 PM
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I mean I speak spanish well enough to communicate just about anything I need to. Like i can say i like them or i want to go out or theyre cute or whatever. But like jokes and pickup lines and puns are a lot harder. Pickup lines dont transfer well. And the ones ive seen in spanish are like way too poetic. I need something cheesy. Probably like 5% of people speak english here, and usually not very well. They probably wouldnt get pickup lines if i told them in english.
/r/seduction04/06/18 09:04 PM
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Thanks! What do you think about my situation with the other girl?
/r/seduction01/06/18 07:20 PM
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Ooof thats painful. Didnt delete my post though.
/r/seduction27/05/18 04:31 PM
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I have started stanfing up to girls who use just for emotional support whrn their bfs arent giving them enough attention. For example this one girl would always flirt with me and be super touchy even though she had a bf. I told her to back off a bit. It worked. On the other hand a heard this girl the other night talking about how it seemed like guys could never be your friend. It was all or nothing. I definitely understand her frustration. I have girl that are into me that I dont want to fuck. B…
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:49 PM
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I think a lot of people are just too afraid of failure. They do think these sorts of things will be the end of them. I think thats why its really important to fail. It gives you the opportunity to learn to be resilient. Then you can take risks knowing that failure really wont be that bad.
/r/seduction22/05/18 01:51 AM
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Lol thats horrible. Did you really think she was your age? Ooof and that "you could be my mom" line is not something you wanna tell someone youre interested in. In all seriousness though its good youre conquering your fear. I think embarassing yourself is just part of the experience. Its anavoidable but itll give you some funny stories and youll get better. Next time youre afraid to approach someone think of what happened and this time but remember that you survived. If you can survive that sure…
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:52 PM
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I mean id get it if we had one good interaction one day then she was cold another day. But ignoring me mid sentence seems a bit much.
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:06 AM
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This x100. I called myself an introvert for a long time until i finally realized that I really do enjoy other peoples company and i was really just bad at being social with strangers. I ceased to call myself an introvert after that. But now that I have improved at socializing i realize that i fo get to a point where i judt feel drained. Not because i dont know how to be social though, just cause i dont have the energy. Its important to be able to tell the difference between legitimately being ti…
/r/seduction21/05/18 02:14 AM
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Cause shes hot and i wanna smash.
/r/seduction20/05/18 08:07 PM
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Ignoring someone mid conversation is thst common? I dobt get it.
/r/seduction20/05/18 08:07 PM
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Almost. A year older than the minimum. Howd you know?
/r/seduction20/05/18 01:45 PM
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I think women who are interested tend to make it easy. If they want you to take them theyll communicate it subtextually. But I dont think you should give up if they dont make it easy right away. A lot of times it takes a while to build attraction. Its not always immediate. Maintain a friendly relationship, just dont put all your effort into somebody who doesnt care about you.
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:47 PM
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What would you reccommend? I hate social media and Im glad I dont have it, but it is evident that Im sort of closed off from another world because of it. I feel like it would be a lot easier to get their snapchats than their numbers.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:04 PM
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Tell us what happened next!
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:00 PM
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Sweet! Were you a foreigner? How dif you handle that.
/r/seduction29/04/18 05:33 PM
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Interesting perspective. Ive started to realize that while there is more pressure on men to make the first move, women are usually pretty good at hinting when they want the guy to make a move. You just have to know how to listen for these hints and not pass up opportunities when they present themselves. Can you elaborate on your method? How do you find your confidence? Recently ive been forcing myself to have confident thoughts. Idk if itd working or not.
/r/seduction24/04/18 12:06 AM
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Lol i had a really similar experience i posted about like a week ago. I dont think asking random women will work. Like another commenter said i think its probably best to ask women you make eye contact with a couple times. Also it might be better to go with a friend. Im not completely sure on this, but everyone i told that i went to the club alone was super surprised and said they wouldnt do that. Idk if thats just their insecurity or if theres more to it.
/r/seduction21/04/18 12:46 AM
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Maybe so. Like i said im not very experienced and am still learning. But i get the sense that a lot of women arent that easy at clubs. You have to win them over. If you come on with the pretense that youre just trying to sleep with them theyll be turned off.
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:54 AM
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The whole point of clubs is to dance. You dont have to be that good, you just have to be confident. Confidence is attractive. So far ive found verbal communication to be pretty difficult at clubs. If youre completely opposed to dancing id suggest finding a quieter place to meet someone. Itll be a lot harder to meet girls at the club if youre not willing to dance.
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:48 AM
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If you check my history i made a post about my experience at the club a couple days ago. Im still learning a lot, so take what i have to say with a grain of salt. I think youll probably be more successful if you really try to dance and have fun. Women will open up towards someone who is having fun but isnt being agressive with them. There are a lot of guys just going up and trying to feel girls up and grind right away and it puts a lot of them off. Dont be that guy. Let girls open up to you. The…
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:33 AM
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I guess i sort of did this without realizing it. As soon as they came up to me all hyped up i sudpected they were teasing me so i judt started being goofier about it.
/r/seduction17/04/18 12:40 AM
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Its definitely too loud to talk on the dancefloor or at the bar. There was a rooftop area that I probably should have tried. The last time i went i spent too much time up there to avoid dancing. I didnt approach anybody though. I guess i was avoiding it in order to dance more this time. There are three rooms and i did switch between them every 15 minutes or so. I probably should have approached up there. Ive never really tried approaching girls i dont know except last night while dancing. I imag…
/r/seduction14/04/18 05:49 PM
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Im a 19 year old virgin too. A couple months ago I was in the same situation. Girl offered to sleep with me. Declined cause it didnt feel right for various reasons. Ive realized i actually have pretty high standards. Im not sure if i can afford it though. Also yeah girls do that its annoying. Just a week ago I told this girl who had been really touchy and flirty with me and who i knew had a boyfriend to be less touchy and flirty. She said she definitely wasnt interested in me and thought of me a…
/r/seduction14/04/18 04:03 PM
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I understand that coming to terms with rejection is important for success. But there are a lot of posts taking this a little too far. People are embracing rejection a little too much.
/r/seduction12/04/18 12:47 AM
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Alternatively what does it mena if someone thinks youre tall when you arent? Im 5 8 and some girl told me she thought i was tall. Idk
/r/seduction12/04/18 12:04 AM
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This is pretty hilarious. Do you ask girls whove displayed interest in the movies or do you just ask out of nowhere. Do you tell them you have movie pass or act like youre paying?
/r/seduction11/04/18 11:55 PM
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He seems to be making good conversation and is talking to groups of people as well. I think hell just come off as sociable. If he cold approached out of nowhere single girls all the time that might be an issue but it doesnt sound like thats what hes doing.
/r/seduction10/04/18 02:48 PM
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I dont think they do very often. My friend rejected a 9 for casual sex and she cried because apparently she never gets rejected.
/r/seduction09/04/18 05:52 PM
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Im in your same position. From what Ive heard that age your describing is 21. Thats when youll be able to drink so it wont be as weird when you hang out with an older girl. However I think generally women will still go for older guys. Idk if you go to college or not but once one thing Im looking forward to is a new year in school. There will be a ton of incoming freshman that are looking for older guys. Currently if I wanna datemy age or younger theres a very slim margin of 18 and 19 year olds i…
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:54 PM
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I definitely feel this way sometimes. But everybody has their own issues. Women might get sex easy, but they have to put up with tons of men, many of them obsessive or creepy, pursuing them. Rape is a much bigger issue. And the consequences of sex can be much more serious for women. Not everybody has the same problems. But everybody does have problems. Just be the best version of yourself you can be. Not for women. But for yourself. Sex and women lay on the road to happiness but they are not the…
/r/seduction07/04/18 04:57 AM
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U feel like seduction advocates a certain dynamic that probably isnt ideal for LTRs. So maybe ask at r/relationshipadvice or something. That said I think if youre dating there should be a certain level of sincerity in your relationship. So i wouldnt treat this as a shit test that you have to come up with a clever response for. If you love her tell her. If you dont, be honest.
/r/seduction28/03/18 01:40 PM
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I imagine that this is an issue if your personality is more unique or attractive than your body and face are.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:45 AM
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Dance around her. Eventually ask her to dance once youve kinda established yourself. Just dont grab her ass and youll be fine. You can dance withoyt sexually harassing her.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:19 AM
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I have very limited experience, but the two times ive actually forced myself to dance alone in the middle of the crowd i had girls start grinding on me.
/r/seduction27/03/18 03:17 AM
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I think i could honestly get an answer. I dont think it makes them as uncomfortable as it makes me.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:09 AM
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Its a workstudy job, so i think theres sort of a level of familiarity between everybody. I dont think they can take a joke. Ive tried joking about these kinds of things before and people just think Im serious. Plus there are gay people there too. I dont wanna confuse them.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:08 AM
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I think people tend to go to bars and clubs with the expectation of sex being a possibility. If not sex, kissing or dirty dancing. It gives you a foot in the door. Sure i can meet people while volunteering, but ii dont think people volunteer with the expectation of picking somebody up or getting picked up. Also i legitimately like to dance, so i go to clubs. I dont like to drink though. So i dont.
/r/seduction20/03/18 05:02 PM
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Im really relieved that Ive deleted all my social media personally. But ive definitely notice people are a little suslicious when i tell them. "You dont have snapchat? Why not? Everybody has snapchat." People think they know you better than they actually do when they can see your social media. They make judgements more quickly. So i can see the benefit in the context of seduction. But its all quite trivial and superficial beyond that i think. I think whats most important is that you dont become …
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:51 AM
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If age isnt a hang up for you then dont let it hold you back. Most girls like older guys.
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:25 AM
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Really? Darn.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:29 AM
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I dont think girls actually approach often at all.
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:21 AM
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