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LobstersMateForLife/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 04:44 PM
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LobstersMateForLife/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 06:14 PM
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Precisely. My ex STILL comes to me when she needs a man to do something. It’s mind boggling how women KNOW they need men, and still treat us like shit.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 02:12 PM
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It’s definitely a trend now. The amount of garbage I see on the daily hyping up narcissism in women is astounding. Once a woman is trapped in that wormhole, it’s almost impossible to get her out. More than ever before, men are being portrayed as terrible objects with our only value being what we can give to a woman. We have no say in things, we can’t speak our opinion without fear of reprisal, we are seen as monsters when we express our emotions. This era of women desperately needs therapy. But …
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 12:21 PM
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Mine got sucked into the false feminist you’re a queen and can do no wrong men are all narcissists side of Tik Tok. I remember telling my therapist how I was worried she’d refuse counseling because the internet told her what she wanted to hear. Lo and behold, I was correct. Let them destroy themselves. It’s better for us in the long run.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 04:32 PM
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Yup, have the photos and everything, but do you think she’d admit anything? Absolutely not, because women are never wrong. Point of it is, don’t even bother trying to explain things to her, she’ll never see it. Leave her behind, become even better, and one day she’ll regret her decision to deny her part in the destruction of your marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 01:05 AM
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Absolutely not. My ex and I have been doing that and I can’t even have friends over because it’s “invading her space”. For example, she and the kids were gone one day and a friend stopped by to play video games with me. I figured it was fine since no one was home but me and moved my gaming stuff into the living-room. My friend and I chilled for a bit and then we split. I found out several weeks later that my ex found my friend on Facebook and bitched at them for hanging out with me because, and …
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:23 PM
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It’s safe to say I have terrible trust issues now. I don’t know if I could ever trust someone fully again.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 03:40 AM
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Women are inherently selfish creatures. This will never change. It’s time we men start playing their game and show them what it’s like to be shit on after pouring your all into someone.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 02:19 AM
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Constantly berating me for having epilepsy that fucks with my memory. Or just straight up gaslighting me into believing something happened that never did, and then turning around and telling me I’m gaslighting her. I have no idea how to believe or trust anyone again.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 02:29 PM
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Turns out one of my friends is going so it looks like I’m gonna be surrounded by women all night 😅
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 01:09 AM
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Ah, it’s okay man, I accept your tough love
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 09:30 PM
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Thanks bro 🤜🏼🤛🏼
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 09:22 PM
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I should’ve listened to my dad 💀
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 08:03 PM
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Thanks man, I appreciate you
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 08:02 PM
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I know I’d have no issue with picking up women, but it’s not the same and I don’t know if I’m ready for all that. I was asked out by a group of girls at work and maybe I should go and see what happens.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 08:02 PM
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She initiated but refused to file, so I got her to file jointly and don’t have to pay anything, which is nice.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 08:01 PM
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Yeah, we’re both over 30, but she’s mentally stuck in her 20s and refuses to do anything about it. She’s openly admitted she has mental problems but still won’t address them. It’s wild how I can be so hung up on someone so obviously wrong for me 😅 And I mean, I know I could pick up several girls at work if I really wanted to, but I don’t want just casual stuff, I want that feeling of wholeness again.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 07:59 PM
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I firmly believe that in every divorce there’s a spouse who never wanted to be married in the first place and always had an escape. It’s fucked up.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 06:27 PM
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Oof, I’m sorry dude
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 06:21 PM
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Yeah, I should’ve listened to my gut when all of her friends were guys and she’s slept with or messed around with most of them 😒
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 06:21 PM
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Probably, tbh. Her cousin is a terrible influence on her and I know damn well her terrible advice had a lot to do with our divorce. Her cousin has been in and out of rehab multiple times, I let her move in with us to get clean just to have her move out two months later to get high, and has a track record of dating men old enough to be her father when she’s under 25. And they talk EVERY DAY, so her cousin is probably helping her ruin her own life.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 06:04 PM
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I’ve wondered about that and she’s always denied it. But I don’t know anymore, she lied about so many things that I don’t know what’s true anymore. Not to mention she was trying to take our kids to hang out with her sudden appearance male friend and didn’t understand why I had a problem with it when we were STILL TOGETHER. I still don’t trust that she didn’t sleep with someone else just to “get back at me” or whatever.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 06:02 PM
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She’s probably lying to herself and using the new relationships to avoid doing any work on herself. You’re better off without her.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 05:40 PM
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Damn dude, I’m really sorry :/
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 05:29 PM
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I will never understand women who will plan their way out of a perfectly good relationship and wait until the last second, then have the audacity to call men dishonest. Like, if they have such a problem with us, why not just call it off? It feels like they just want to use us to get what they want, no matter how we feel about it. And that makes me so damn angry.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 05:18 PM
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True, it just hurts to know she’s out there prowling while I’m still trying to convince myself she’s never coming back.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 05:16 PM
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It’s so wild to me
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 05:16 PM
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My ex is that way, even went as far as to Facebook stalk and then message a girl I was talking to. She talked a bunch of shit to the girl who then came to me, I told her the truth and she told me my ex is crazy and needs to get over herself. She’s so quick to say how terribly I treated her and how she’s this poor victim but has never admitted to all of the times she laid hands on me(I have photos of the aftermath of each instance), denies that she ever lied to me about anything, never put in any…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 09:25 PM
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Man, I’m sorry dude, I really am. In two months, my step kids move across the country. I’ve been with them since they were 3 and 5. I’m Dad to them, they don’t know any different. I tried my best to get my ex to sign something that would say I would see them again as I have no parental rights. She refused because I never adopted them. She never signed the adoption paperwork and lied about their biological father. I still have the adoption paperwork. My mom did this to my siblings and I with our …
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 01:25 PM
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Oh man, I feel you. I have two months left before my kids move to the other side of the country with a flaky promise of “you’ll see them again”. I’m struggling financially with no end in sight. Make just enough to not be able to get help, but not enough to afford to feed myself. Some days I get home from work and just stare at my pistol and wish I wasn’t such a bitch and could just end it. I don’t know what else to say except, live out of spite. Fuck the women who have taken everything from us. …
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/23 09:33 PM
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My ex did this. She waited almost 8 months to do anything and during that time, made sure she was setup with everything she’d need to leave me. Yours is probably doing the same thing and you should be smarter than me and just go file and kick her out.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/23 02:44 PM
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Ya my STBXW said the same thing after physically abusing me and denying it lmao Women are all into pop psychology these days because it helps them stay away from taking responsibility for their actions.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 01:04 PM
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Look at that lovely male privilege popping up again. I hate women 🙄
/r/MensRights19/07/23 12:58 PM
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It’s not intimidating them, it’s standing your ground and not letting women walk all over us like we’re less than them 🤷🏻‍♂️ If they’re intimidated by that, it’s a reflection of how they view and treat men.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 05:04 PM
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When I used a public gym, if this happened, I would return their looks with one of total disinterest. Just blank face, blank stare, hold their gaze for a few seconds like that and they’ll look away lol Another thing is wear headphones and then remove one side and ask “did you need to use this equipment?” They’ll usually sputter and then ignore you. If they don’t, they a hoe looking for attention and at that point, you deliberately make it obvious that you do not give a single shit about them. Ne…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 04:32 PM
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I’ve been slowly realizing that my ex was gaslighting me for most of our relationship and marriage. I have epilepsy which really fucks up my memory and I have no control over it. My ex has and still continues to try to convince me that certain things never happened, even though I have photographic evidence or I DO remember it happening. The amount of times she completely dismissed my worries and told me I was being stupid or should “just remember” is astounding. She’s even been dragging our divo…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 01:41 PM
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Because men are the perfect target: we can’t speak up for ourselves, so anyone can blame us for anything they want and get away with it.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 10:23 PM
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I have mine back to my stbxw. She had it made custom for me and I couldn’t stand looking at it knowing she no longer believed the word engraved on it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 09:52 PM
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Damn, I’m really sorry to hear that man. And seriously! My experience with women has been that they will use you to get what they need and then blame you for “failing” while taking all your stuff with them to the next guy.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 03:01 PM
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I don’t know but it seriously fucked with my head. She told me she’d been planning on leaving me since not long after we got married and we did SO many things together to build a life during that time. I feel like, and others have said this to me as well, that she was just waiting for me to give her everything she wanted and then tried to leave. Unfortunately for her, I’m fighting her for what I built. She can take my heart, but she can’t take my fucking dreams away from me.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 01:17 PM
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Yes lol she didn’t start “trying” until she was already planning on leaving me. Probably to hide what she was doing.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 01:50 AM
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This is why I’m never marrying again. Emotional pain aside, I have to fight to see my kids, keep my house, and pay no alimony. She records everything I do and uses it against me. I can’t even be honest about my sadness because she uses it against me. Never, ever, ever, again. Women are on some high fucking horses these days and need to be knocked down a few pegs.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 01:16 PM
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At this point in m life, I have no desire or plans to ever get married again. Things could change one day, but it would take A LOT for me to ever let myself be that vulnerable with someone again. For me, this marriage was the first time in my entire life that I had ever been able to express my actual self and emotions. Turns out she hated it all along and now? I wouldn’t touch a woman exclusively with a 39 1/2’ pole.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 04:44 AM
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Same
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 01:23 PM
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Because no one actually does care about men’s feelings. We’ve created a society where men having feelings is considered so wrong that when we do show them, we’re labeled as toxic narcissists or misogynists. This creates a vicious cycle of men burying their feelings only to later explode, be called terrible things, and then stuff it back down until the next explosion. I’m in the middle of a divorce because for five years my wife labeled my feelings as toxic and expected me to be a happy go lucky …
/r/MensRights01/03/23 04:44 PM
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Yeah, people stop touching you after your transition because you’re a scary man 🙄
/r/MensRights12/01/23 07:21 PM
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