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Any kind of baby-talk. I was on a dinner date and he looked at me with a blank face and said, “I’m hungie” 👶🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 01:52 AM
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100% agree. It is more about the power than it is about the pleasure. Looking back on it, it seems like all the guys who begged and begged for it were closeted (and/or addicted to p*rn). I’m not sure if there is a correlation here? But either way, it should be a red flag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:23 PM
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I can’t understand why someone who supposedly loves you won’t take care of you. Well, actually I can, it’s pure resentment on his part. Smells like financial abuse. 🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:32 PM
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Agreed, it reads like she has an illusion of control... but this is definitely not a healthy relationship for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:16 PM
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Being a placeholder girlfriend is 100x worse than being alone!!! Protect yourself and move on from idiots that treat you like a second option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:14 PM
182

Imagine the sheer power we would have if we banded together and supported each other as women. We have been taught from a very young age BY MEN to tear other women down based on their looks. It’s not a coincidence that men own most of the cosmetics, media, and fitness companies. Pickme women fall right into their trap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:10 PM
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People with exhibitionistic disorders literally get off from their victims’ emotional reactions. But now with the advent of technology, instead of flashing us in parks they can do so from the comfort of their own homes. Always, always ignore this behaviour for your own safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:21 PM
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Yep, we’ve been effectively brainwashed. Sending/posting nudes, starting an onlyfans, participating in hookup culture, is not empowering imo and just gives men an easier way to access our bodies and/or hurt us. It’s like we are lambs being led to slaughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:15 PM
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I just want to give her a hug. Instead of feeling powerful (as she should), her spirit was crushed by this idiot. 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:43 PM
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Even a Vday card would be much preferable to a Snapchat message. A friend wouldn’t treat you like that. When men resent women their true colours will eventually show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:26 PM
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Me too. And he didn’t even have the decency to send it over text message?? So depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:20 PM
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Yeah, I tried to give a classy response because he’s not a complete rando. It was more of a “good luck on your search / please move on / not interested” kind of response rather than a genuine good luck wish lol. If I had known he was a weirdo beforehand I would have just blocked instead. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:24 PM
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Yes, constant negging to lower your self-esteem and bring you down to their level. Also, I should add, that I never purposely dated down, I was more attracted to personality than looks which led me to give some “interesting” guys a chance... but once I saw my worth I’ll never go through that hell again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:16 PM
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This!!! For me, dating down always resulted in the guy getting an ego/confidence boost, thinking he is God’s gift to the world, and then treating you like shit. Once you get a clue and dump their ass, they’re off looking for a supermodel. Do not recommend. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:44 AM
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Energy vampires. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:39 AM
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Yes - they wrote the song “Mein Teil” about him. If you look at the wiki for the offender, his motive was “Sexual gratification.” So, yeah, I’m never going to be okay with normalizing these paraphilic disorders because it CAN (and has) lead to murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:50 PM
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The audacity!!! I’d rather go on a walk with my dog, who probably has better manners than this “rare” individual 🐶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:37 PM
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I think I will tell my friend. I wonder if my friend told this guy about me and somehow he felt like we would have a connection based off of my description? Either way, I don’t like it and I’ll tell her that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:32 PM
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Yes, definitely blocked! He’s fishing around for someone lonely enough to take the bait... gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:30 PM
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Spot on. ☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:29 PM
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I’m just the luckiest woman in the world to be gifted with this young man’s attention! 🤣Ugh, it’s so repulsive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:59 PM
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Definitely. “I appreciate the important things in life more than anything.” Okay, so do I and practically every other person on the planet? Ugh 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:35 PM
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Yep, so delusional. Treating women like they don’t have a rational thought process and need help making decisions is a hallmark of misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:32 PM
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Imagine having to live your life to pander to men... Anyone else in law think this is reminiscent of the German Cannibal case? His name was Armin Meiwes (similar names ... ) and he also had a cannibal fetish and ending up killing/eating someone. The victim “consented” so it’s okay, right? No, the law states you cannot consent to being killed. People like this need serious psychiatric help, not asspats from a cosmo article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:46 PM
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LOL someone needs to ascend from the pits of hell to collect this man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:37 PM
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That’s exactly how I felt. It’s like a more manipulative way of saying I’m not like other girls and I should feel special for being “chosen” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:33 PM
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I blocked him as soon as I received that second message. So creepy! But I am sure somebody out there will fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:34 PM
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This is his first time talking to me. I think that is what freaked me out so much about his message. I’m sure I am probably not the only girl he’s sent it to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:29 PM
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First, he wants a walk date when it’s -20 degrees C where I live right now, and a pandemic no less. 🙄 Second, this is the first time we talked so I am not sure how he can tell I’m someone he wants to spend a “long time” with. Something about this message made me uncomfortable so I blocked him but I can’t put a finger on it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:27 PM
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“Checking your temperature to see how much emotional abuse you’ll tolerate” Yes! I’ve never thought about it like this but it makes so much sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:44 PM
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Fuck off #Respectfully 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:40 PM
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There is a saying that the red flags you notice at the beginning are the reasons why the relationship fails. Looking back at my past relationships, this saying checks out for every single one. 🚩Always trust your gut. Women have strong protective instincts and built-in intuition. Why do we ignore them? Well, manipulation, pressure to fit in to society, lovebombing, etc. can distort reality... Lately, in my work, I’m noticing a lot of repeat offenders killing women. Men who have killed their girlf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:05 PM
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Yes! And if he talks about going through a bout of depression and not showering in the past - run for the hills. Once the skin is colonized by staph (from not showering) it’s hard to go back. An ex of mine had the aforementioned issue and ended up giving me a staph infection on my leg which put me in the hospital. I take such good care of my body so I was miserable that this could happen to me. 😞 Please, ladies, be careful and don’t keep unhygienic men in your life. They are literally hazards to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:37 PM
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Perfectly said. They also use these apps to collect Instagram followers - no intention of connecting but want to show off how many “pretty girls” follow them to their bros. We are socialized to think that women need validation from men and often forget that men need validation just as much, if not more! OLD is the most low effort way to get an ego boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:55 AM
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This is called coercive control and it should be taken more seriously + be criminalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:49 PM
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Omg not the sweating, having some serious flashbacks rn. The fastest way to lose interest in a guy is having to peel the sweaty/wet sheets off the bed as soon as he leaves 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:42 PM
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Re lasting forever - what is up with that?! I’m starting to realize that it’s all a sick performance. One (LVM) guy friend of mine said that he purposely jerks off an hour before sex so he won’t be able to finish with her and the woman will feel self conscious about her abilities... An LVM ex of mine would do the 13x multiplication table in his head so he would last forever. So at that point they’re not even thinking about us, just mindlessly jackhammering away. Never again! 😖😖😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:35 PM
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Proud of you! It takes so much strength to break the cycle and confront generational trauma head-on. I just went through a very similar situation to you and I know how it hurts. Time will heal - soon you will feel a sense of calmness knowing that you don’t have to live up to anyone’s expectations but your own! Take care of your heart ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:21 PM
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She does, I could send them to you. She’s also doing a webinar on this topic this week, I might attend to see what her sources are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:08 PM
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Definitely. And it’s important to remember that most of these are strategic moves on the abuser’s part. I know some cases where men move their families out to rural areas in the middle of nowhere - ruining the wife’s support system and making it so that neighbours aren’t around to hear her screams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:05 PM
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I work in intimate partner homicide research and one risk factor I would like to add to this are age disparities in relationships. There is an increased risk of violence in relationships with a 9+ year age gap. Often, these relationships are rife with abuse, coercive control, and misogynistic behaviours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 02:58 PM
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Me too. Lots of feelings of guilt and feeling like you’ve been taken advantage of. The shit women go through trying to make men happy is truly unfair. But thanks to this sub, we’ll never be this naive again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:35 PM
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I certainly agree, there are a multitude of factors that affect attachment and pair bonding and we cannot ignore social realities, early childhood/nurture, culture, etc. when discussing it - nothing in the social world exists in a vacuum. It’s interesting to hear about a physiological take on male bonding. We know that hormones play a part in bonding but most of us only hear/read about oxytocin. But this hormone does not act alone and is regulated by vasopressin and together they play a role in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:59 PM
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