LoisLame78 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	"I hope you won't mind if I don't want to do stuff" when first dating a woman, what does it mean? Butt stuff?	/r/seduction	11/06/17 04:21 AM
1	What did I do wrong? Ok well don't do that multiple messages comes off as super needy and annoying. Also it sucks but that's life not much you can do but move on. In my opinion the biggest mistake you made was multiple messages, that's probably what turned her away.	/r/seduction	03/06/17 10:40 PM
1	What did I do wrong? Yeah I still wouldn't call. I only call my best friends and family otherwise keep it to text. And did you try to contact her more than once after she didn't reply the first time.	/r/seduction	03/06/17 09:53 PM
1	What did I do wrong? I think calling someone is a little personal, next time I'd try setting up a date via text and maybe a little later in your relationship you can call her to set up dates. Also if she didn't respond to the first attempt you can try one more time after that it's too much.	/r/seduction	03/06/17 09:16 PM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Yeah I feel that way now (that she was just letting me down easy). It was definitely a confusing situation for me since she would initiate texts, Snapchats and we were pretty physically intimate when we were together, but I'm not hung up on it just want to learn from it. The mailing a shirt back is weird and I didn't pick up on it, that's a good point. I do know she had gotten out of an abusive relationship and I was the next guy she started seeing after and she was in abusive relationships befo…	/r/seduction	01/06/17 06:04 AM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Thanks man it always helps to know you're not alone in something. Your situation is almost exactly like mine it's crazy but I try not to let things like this change who I am. If you're a genuinely nice and happy person why should you have to pretend to be anything different. Just keep being you and everything will fall into place. Best of luck in the future. Keep on keeping on you know.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 06:45 PM
2	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Yeah it does but I find it kinda hard to use any other techniques cause that's how I really am but maybe I'll try being less "nice" and a little more cold if it won't put so much pressure on girls. Thanks.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 03:50 PM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Thanks and yeah I'm trying to take all the pressure off her it's hard to develop a relationship when you're constantly worried or nervous so I always tried to ease her worries and remove any expectations.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 02:05 PM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. The anxiety she mentioned since like the first date and I always tried to be positive and help support her through whatever issues she was having at the time. But that was the main point of my post sometimes it really is the other person and there is literally nothing you can do even if you did everything right before.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 01:42 PM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. I agree I'm sure that all of this is brought on from past relationships but what can you do. I hope that giving her space will help her trust me more and maybe we can see where the relationship goes.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 01:41 PM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. I'd say I was still looking for other girls but not as hard after the second date and I would only initiate text when we had a date set up to confirm or to set up the next date.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 01:37 PM
2	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. She was invested. She initiated contact after dates, always tried to pay for dates, and was very complementive towards me, among other things.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 01:30 PM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. I see what you're saying and I agree. A lot of good women have a hard time being in healthy relationships because of shitty guys from the past but I don't want to push or be overbearing so I'm gonna give her space and let her contact me when she is ready. If she ever does.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 01:26 PM
3	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Thanks just trying to not be a piece of shit haha.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 01:23 PM
2	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Yeah tell me about it haha people on the internet will always find something negative to say that's just the nature of it.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 01:21 PM
2	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Yes haha thank you that was what I was trying to get across. But as with everything in life everyone has a different opinion and I love getting the points of view and advice from others to learn more, that's the whole reason I'm subscribed to this seddit, so the other points of view are always welcome.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 08:58 AM
5	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Wife beater it's like an under shirt	/r/seduction	31/05/17 07:48 AM
4	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Yeah when you put it that way I can see it. Like I said I'm gonna move on just sucks.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 06:33 AM
15	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. I just operate under that people tell the truth unless they give me a reason not to trust/believe them. I don't think every girl talks with a hidden motive but maybe you're right I've just never had problems with that in the past.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 06:08 AM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Thanks I'll try this. I think my kino is very good this is just a very confusing situation for me.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 05:38 AM
1	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. I'm going off what she has said in the past. I felt like she didn't see me as just a friend but I am also not great at understanding what girls say.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 05:34 AM
4	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. some earlier texts	/r/seduction	31/05/17 05:29 AM
16	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. I was under the impression that she wants to be alone not that she just wants to be friends cause I really wasn't being needy but maybe I did push a little much. Also if she tells you she is having mental issues is texting "k" really the best way to react? I don't want to add to her problems.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 05:20 AM
6	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. This is some of the best advice I've gotten thanks. I'm gonna wait and see if she contacts me again and I'll do that. If I escalate do you think it would be pushing her again?	/r/seduction	31/05/17 05:08 AM
4	How you can do nothing wrong and things still don't work out. Yeah I'm gonna cut contact with her completely cause I'm not looking for more friends at the moment but I was under the impression that she just wants to be alone at the moment not that she just wants to be friends. Do you get the impression that she just wants to be friends? Some of our other conversations don't imply that, I can share them cause I'm looking for more feedback if you'd give them a look.	/r/seduction	31/05/17 04:36 AM
1	5 years after we used to chat and get with each other here and there on nights out... Today we matched on Tinder..... Any time, it's always good to get another point of view.	/r/seduction	21/05/17 12:40 AM
1	5 years after we used to chat and get with each other here and there on nights out... Today we matched on Tinder..... Most of my tinder matches do take a bit to reply I wouldn't read too much into that. If I were you I would wait for a reply then move the conversation to meeting up something like "we should get together sometime for drinks and dinner. Number?" If she's not interested keeping up the small talk on tinder isn't going to change her mind.	/r/seduction	21/05/17 12:32 AM