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| 34 | [fR] Girl on the bus | Lolleroni | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 05:25 PM |
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| 6 | First date handbookHe likes going to bars usually, because he can easily escalate and sexualize the mood. He is just suggesting a bar-type setting, because it works for him. Don't let that stifle your imagination of planning your first date. Maybe your date is the type to prefer coffee or tea to a bar. Find the setting you prefer and you are comfortable in. When you read this, do you think, "I can't do alcohol, so I guess none of my first dates will go well"? Of course you don't. You think, "These are methods that… | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | "You could have had sex with me twice by now and it wouldn't have been rape"Great report and good job. You handled it well and I think you called her out on her shit properly. She has her own "rules", and it's okay. Make sure she knows your rules, too; let her know that you take consent seriously. If she's receptive next time and pulls this shit again, though, definitely NEXT her until she comes to her senses. You know what you're doing, though. GL HF | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How I ask girls outAwesome read, and 100% truth. Just to add onto the part about psychological closure with a personal anecdote. I went on 2 dates with this chick, and I thought we had a connection and thought it was going well. Suddenly, no response from text or call. If you take more than 24 hours to respond in this day and age, obviously something is up. I didn't get a response for 3 days, so it was obviously a rejection. I sent one more text to be sure and then just called and left a voicemail wishing her the … | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 07:04 AM |
| 1 | The answer to 50% of the questions on r/asksedditThis is all old news to me, but I STILL need to read this same kind of thing to keep me strong. I get all fired up and then somehow it slowly ebbs away. Thanks for the reminder! | /r/seduction | 14/11/13 02:12 AM |
| 18 | One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective.Completely correct. Let me put it a different way. Imagine all the girls you've seen. Out of all those girls, imagine all the ones you would want to take out on a date. For me, that's a very small subset. But guess what? If I'm not the one to approach, the only subset of girls I get are the ones who approach me. Sadly, I was unimpressed in almost every instance when that happened. I struggle trying to find an excuse to talk to a girl. So this past weekend, I just walked up to a girl and told her… | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 10:23 PM |
| 1 | The Friend Zone Myth.Spot on. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 12:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Cold approach at nightIt's great that you have this obligation to push you to approach. For me, when I was in college, I was an officer of my club, so I felt obligated to approach new members and talk to everybody. Then, it wasn't so much of, "Will they like me?", but more of, "I want to get to know them!" I'm still in the process of getting rid of enough AA to start a decent conversation, but these things help! I look back on the previous sets I've opened and see what works and what doesn't! Passing out flyers espec… | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 08:05 PM |
| 2 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?I'm sure we could all stand to lose a little weight or be a little bit stronger, but we're doing the best with what we've got! I believe that the girl who's right for me will like me whether I'm at my ideal weight/shape or not, so I try not to let it stop me! I guess, it's like men and their height. Luckily, I have been blessed and am taller than average, but there are a lot of short guys / tall girls out there who suffer because of something out of their control. They are still putting themselv… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 07:25 PM |
| 0 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Inner game, changing the way you think. The reason why you're not approaching is because you're not confident enough. Why don't you think you're confident enough? Because you don't feel like you're worthy enough to go over there and talk to her. Why not, though? Doesn't she deserve a chance to get to know you? What if she's lonely, too, and you're her saviour? If she's taken, no big. You put yourself out there and tried your best. She wasn't the one for you; 3,209,999,999 women left to go (or me… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 05:59 PM |
| 0 | [FR] New in town, by far my best pickup ever (f-close)Descriptive and a great read! I enjoyed it! | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 07:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Sharing how a noob like me got my girlfriend today.You can keep going after her. It's not like you trespassed on his property. If you like her, there's nothing wrong with that. She'll ultimately make the decision whether to choose you over him or not. Don't get your jimmies in a rustle. Show her how attractive you are. If she likes what she sees, she'll choose you. If she doesn't, you didn't want the ho anyway. now she's saying she's confused and all that and how she likes me but she also knows that the other guy likes her and she doesn't know w… | /r/seduction | 01/07/12 06:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Coffeeshop + first dateYou went for it and was rewarded accordingly. I need this kind of constant encouragement- it gives me courage. Thanks, and good job! | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Why Women lose the dating game (or: AFgirl?)'Tis a great first post. I enjoyed it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How to be romantic yet AlphaI buy random gifts for my girl not because she deserves it, I buy them because I am happy, and my happiness is not contingent on her actions in my relationship. I think you hit in on the head with this. It's important to keep your own happiness in mind. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 01:22 AM |
| 12 | How to be romantic yet AlphaMaybe we're not seeing eye-to-eye here, but I really don't see gift giving as being an alpha or beta. I can see AFCs giving a bit too much / too desperate and losing alpha points, but I don't see how giving gifts portrays you as alpha/beta. I think you are more clearly trying to say something along the lines of, "Don't give too much, or you'll look too desperate." On my birthday, I don't get gifts because I've been a good boy- I get gifts because that's the custom here, to get gifts. In my cultu… | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 10:22 PM |
| 1 | 10 things you probably do wrong10 is great motivator for me. Also applicable for me to start studying right now. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 08:09 AM |
| 2 | The mentality you cultivate in pickup will effect EVERY aspect of your lifeThis is a great post. People need to learn that seduction isn't something you do just for women- it's a way to realize your value, build confidence, and live your life. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 08:03 AM |
| 3 | I'm nobody special, but here's what I've learned in the last yearGreat and encouraging. I like it when seddit is on-topic with increasing value and changing perspectives versus gimmicky openers and the like. | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Sometimed /b/tards give the best advice. Got this off of 4chan...Best seduction guide I have ever seen.Thanks for this, some really good stuff. | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 12:05 AM |
| -1 | Sexual assholes and emotional sluts. I didn't expect a frat site to have anything interesting to read.I never thought of it like that before!!! Wow, and I wouldn't have even considered it like that ever, either. I just like to love people, and love being loved back. If people are going to take something from this, I think it's important to make that distinction between choosing to seduce vs. friend people in this manner. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Escalation is literally the most important thing you can do.:<sup>)</sup> eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerection! | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 03:17 AM |
| 1 | I don't think I can do this.Okay, let's go science-y. Only way to prove or disprove your hypotheses is to go out in the field and collect data. From your post, I only heard about what you didn't want to do, not what you plan to do. The posts from these so called "assholes" report back with the success they have with their methods. In terms of science, one is bringing back results, the other is merely berating the other scientist. You really have no experience approaching women, but learning to interact with people is somet… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 05:15 PM |
| 5 | I don't think I can do this.I started college this past year and found I can't talk to people at all. That's okay. We're here to try to encourage you. I have been lurking here for the better part of a month now and I hate the large majority of the advice you give. I know someone who is the embodiment of everything this reddit promotes, alpha, dominant, aggressive etc. etc. Hes incredibly successful socially and with women. Many people here are looking into just picking up women. I understand that you may dislike this kind … | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 05:33 PM |
| 1 | On being a Gentleman. [My tried and true, field-tested routine that has changed my life, and my success with women]This is great! The bit about doing your personal bit first is really important, and I got the most out of that. I'm always burdened with this things that I have to do, so I better make it a bigger priority to get it done! | /r/seduction | 07/01/12 01:38 AM |
| 2 | [FR inside] GUYS, I GOT A PHONE NUMBER!!!!NICEEEE!!!!!!!!!1111one1 | /r/seduction | 20/12/11 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Sexting & One-itis: Go To Jail, Go Directly To Jail.He's just an idiot. He's not trying to improve his game and he's definitely doing it wrong. Thanks for trying to help the chump. Trying to use logic on such an emotional kid? Nice try! :P | /r/seduction | 16/05/11 06:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Cold Approach works like a charm!Good job! | /r/seduction | 10/05/11 06:47 PM |
| 1 | "The purpose of this document is to provide you with a complete and unequivocal guide to success."This is gold. I'm inspired. I need to prioritize what I need to do so that I can justify wasting my time later. | /r/seduction | 10/05/11 07:25 AM |
| 4 | [FR] becoming attractive to the one who Friend Zoned me.Naisu. Are you over her? Because it sounds like you're considering her. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Lessons learned from 1st game-driven relationshipThis is a pretty good analysis. Great job. | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 02:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Coffee Shop ApproachSounds like a huge IOI. Great job, and good luck! | /r/seduction | 20/04/11 06:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] wow, seddit. I'm barely getting started and I feel like a new man.NAISU! | /r/seduction | 12/04/11 04:08 AM |
| 6 | [LR] Two dates on the same day. Ended it in bed with a girl in a cast.Thumbs up for "I know what that means." | /r/seduction | 02/04/11 08:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I Suited Up, Unfriendzoned Myself, and F-ClosedGood job. Great job. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 05:48 AM |
| 3 | HB10 is chasing me...or something.Good job. | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 02:06 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Cashier #-closeGREAT JOB! | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Nice Guys Do Get Girlsle sigh. the silly things we do'd when we were just 17. | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Science of Sex Appeal (Some notes from this documentary)I like this. Fun to read and makes sense. | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 08:09 AM |
| 1 | [Theory and Challenge] The ever youthful self-schemaNow I want to memorize that sonnet. | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Some QuotesI love these! They're so fun to read and inspiring as well! ^ | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 03:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Testing out my "pangloss" frame and making use of girl-girl jealousyi like this mindset a lot! ^ sounds like fun! | /r/seduction | 26/02/11 03:45 AM |
| 1 | [Post Mortem? FR] Studious girlI'm about to meet somebody for a coffee date on campus, but she has 2 midterms these upcoming weeks. Your friend isn't out of line for studying- it's what her job as a student is. Don't stress too much about it. It sounds like you did alright the first time. The other comments are right in that you did go a little beta, but if she really likes you, she'll still be available when she's done studying. Casually try again after her finals ("When are you done? Let's go celebrate!"). If it doesn't wor… | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 10:34 AM |
| 2 | [fR] Girl on the busProbably a few months. I tried this, because the last time I tried to approach a girl at Costco, I couldn't. She was such an easy target- reading a book on a sofa, but I just couldn't approach her. I beat myself up over it, so I decided I had to try to get over it. I know what you mean, though- It's extremely difficult for me to try to talk to girls that I have no business with. Maybe making it my business is what I'm trying to do... | /r/seduction | 05/02/11 05:07 PM |
| 18 | [fR] Girl on the busThis is solid. I'll try to build some rapport next time, but I'm still glad I tried the extremely direct approach. (: | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 07:11 PM |
| 6 | [fR] Girl on the busI would not lie on the internet. Seriously, though, true story. What do I do if I see her again? Stare creepil- I mean, smile at her? | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bouncing around Tokyo, gave up on game and managed an f-close after I stopped trying.Ph@ close, mate. I'm super into Japanese women, and you handled this well. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 09:52 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Opening and Closing the Same Girl Twice by Accident! (Whoops)Also, some people are jelly. I like your way of putting it better. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Napalmx uses humor, its super effective! (#-Close)Um...yeah, but I'm at the level where you can't solo the mobs anymore- they're just too strong. And you know how bad PUGs are. | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Napalmx uses humor, its super effective! (#-Close)I enjoyed the references as well. GJ on the close. I need to start grinding as well, but it's sooooo intimidating! | /r/seduction | 18/01/11 10:10 PM |
| 1 | 8 Epiphanies That Changed My GameI liked the part about earning high standards. I totally agree with you on that one. But, I really like that you realize the value of the game- and its repercussions. This is definitely one of the worthier posts I've read on seddit. Thanks a lot. | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 09:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First frat party ever and a #-closeLooks like you're doing alright. Keep it up- instead of looking for advice, I think experience would work better for you. Just don't try to go to, like, 100 parties in a week or something. | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 05:49 AM |
| 5 | Sounds gay, but really, this is a fantastic mindset to adopt.It does sound gay. WORTH A SHOT! Gays get all the women, anyway. | /r/seduction | 01/01/11 07:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] About the most alpha thing I've done in my lifeif {he's actively sleeping with other people at the same time) SYNTAX ERROR (Line 3): '}' expected. | /r/seduction | 31/12/10 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Inspired by tofu: hb8 F-closeWill be greeting everyone extra warmly from now on. Thanks, OP! | /r/seduction | 31/12/10 07:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First kiss ever (27yo)HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLLL YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH! | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 08:43 AM |
| 3 | My secret weaponAlgorithm accepted. | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 09:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Last weekend, went out, had successgreat success! | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What single line is the most meaningful/significant to you?"I can't change you. I can only change the way I think about you." Too true, peeps. Also, an amazing way to change the way you act to people around you. | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 02:44 AM |
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