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We were not Friends before , And not during marriage. And I refuse to share the oxygen in the same room as one person that nearly ended me. Real life is not like friends on TV, with fake clapping and fake smiles. I refuse to bow or alter my life henceforth. In my opinion when you do this , you actually lose a part of yourself, your free will, sanity and The whole point of being apart is because you couldn’t tolerate each other. This is fucked up psychology.. This is not a job where you have to s…
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 02:45 AM
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I wish I had filed. The control and pace would be determined by me then. Now I’m at the mercy of her timetable. 3 years of separation and still waiting for freedom.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 05:27 AM
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Get some therapy and closure, This will affect you mentally. Ptsd perhaps. Make sure your attorney is aware of the infidelity and leverage. It’s safe to say your future will be affected a lot and be sure it reflected in financial hardship. No inheritance comes to mind… from your POS parent ( I can’t even give him the the title of Father). Stay strong 💪🏻 It’s not your fault.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 02:32 AM
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And Breathe …… Just can’t do what …. Cliff hanger. Plot twist Spoiler alert… ones of kids wrote it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 01:44 AM
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You are lucky to be under 40. The future is full of possibilities, wish you well and great to hear your outlook improved As for the tired 40/50/60 year olds. We just may not have the same energy or vibe as they call it today 😂
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 03:19 PM
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Wow 😮 this sort of thing makes my piss boil. Send her a bill for the emotional time and investment made/ lost opportunity cost , You charge per word uttered during relationship. Can she put a figure on these things… 🤬 Best way is get her to see how angry and nonsensical her demands her. Via a carefully drafted prose. Or stoop to her level. Make it more that double the costs she is seeking.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 03:49 AM
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https://psychcentral.com/blog/change-in-relationships-what-to-do-when-your-partner-changes
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 04:19 PM
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Would like to know why you feel you need to defend ALL women ? The fact is you are still trying to change my thoughts, opinions and valid experiences and feelings. Still leaves me perplexed. Yes I know I Need therapy Yes I have mental health issues and anxiety, depression and ptsd. Maybe it’s just a vent/rant and projection. Does not still inherently alter my arguments and observations. 1) suggest an experiment where you reply to each story on divorce dads , divorce men and divorce and dating ov…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 03:49 PM
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Happy cake day. Thank you for your opinion and insight. There is an interesting statistic out there about which gender starts divorce initiation and proceedings. Any ideas why it’s not 50/50 split. ?
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 02:41 AM
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A few more cheat codes Get yourself a sugar mama 😂😂 Sex workers and variety. PAY As you go instead of lifetime membership. Heat movie cheat code. Robert de Niro "Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 09:45 AM
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Do not have sex with her. Baby trap is another twist waiting to happen. Take the hit and get out now. If you think losing half your assets is bad. Imagine funding a future lifestyle till kids are 18!! And watching another man in your place while working several jobs and living in a shitty one bedroom apartment.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 02:29 PM
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Consider Do some local dog walking for neighbours etc. In our minds we create a perceived picture of an outcome that may never happen. Try and live in the moment and take each day at a time. I keep thinking I will wind up homeless and on the streets… Anxiety makes future seem bleak. Our thinking patterns create excuses and road blocks. Stay strong and healthy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 02:15 PM
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Get a dog now. Don’t wait. Do it today!! You need companionship for your well being and something to occupy yourself. The background depression will cloud your thinking. Suggest going to a few local classes. Try new things. Even if it’s just a pub quiz or art class. If In the Uk - Andy mens club for chatting to blokes. I was in exact same position Nothing to look forward too. Today it’s different.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 01:30 PM
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Watch some porn , placate yourself and tomorrow is another day. Stay strong..
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 01:54 AM
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Embarrassment is best course of action imho Everyone and I mean everyone needs to know… 👀 Local news story about crazy new artist Having menopause crisis. Invite her neighbours / HER parents/ relatives, best friends work colleagues over for dinner night. List items on eBay/ local classifieds for sale. Bid 1 p.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 01:52 AM
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Consider leaning on ex faith and guidance ? I lost my faith after Ex abandoned me and some days I feel lost. But events transpire to change my outlook. This too shall pass. Everything is and will always temporary. May your journey henceforth filled with happiness , wellness, calmness and serenity.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 05:19 AM
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Nah don’t waste any more energy mental or physical. Time is more impt - Will never create balance if you live in the past.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 12:15 AM
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Trauma bonding — you will heal through it. Get some hobbies and explore your new options. I would rather adjust to her absence than be frustrated by her presence. Stay strong . This too will pass …
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/23 03:13 AM
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IMHO - When does a Home just become a property/house ? So easy for Ex to become detached from ‘house’ - I strongly believe it’s just becomes a pay day or transactional stepping stone for other spouse. Memories of yesterday vanish like a fart in the wind. For they move on so quickly. Or already checked out, like a chess grandmaster the Ex was several steps ahead. Searching for the dream house where they have can complete control and say over every aspect and can purchase the shiny and new stuff. …
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 09:06 AM
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Poker 👀
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 03:22 AM
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Castration may needed in this case.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 09:40 PM
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Trust me already told both mine. At they are under 12. With each year that passes they will be lectured about the pitfalls and manipulative behaviour of other party. It’s a trap and old fashioned , not fit for purpose in this century. No fault divorce means end of marriage and commitment as we know it. Why bother.. If a person changes careers 2-3 times today. Then everything is temporary including relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 09:37 PM
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What he might need to see is a mental health specialist. 👀 first. Illegal activities and extreme measures with minors is not going to end well.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 09:00 AM
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Truth bomb 💣 Everything in life is temporary. Movie qoute. - Bad luck, I guess. It floats around. It's got to land on somebody. It was my turn, that's all. I was in the path of the tornado. I just didn't expect the storm would last as long as it has. History of divorce Take care and I hope healing and inner peace is obtained. Stay strong 💪🏻
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 08:15 AM
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Curious your side of family or hers… 👀 Head over r /pro-revenge.. 😂
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 08:08 AM
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Please research ‘discard in covert narcissist’ Mine did this. Pre kids. Abandoned me without any warning signs. Patched up things. However I regret today my actions and practically begging her to come back. It was all a ruse and I got trapped soon after. If I had a time machine…. 👀
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 07:40 AM
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Seek some therapy to talk it out. At the very least journal. This feeling will pass. Stay strong 💪🏻
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 08:35 AM
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Depends if you had income producing assets and bigger plan for retirement. Mine will be forever extinguished. I think the greatest loss is really TIME. No amount of money can return that. Time spent over last 20 years and cash flow , sacrifices, etc. Future is bleak for me. 1/2 the time without the children And no pension.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 12:26 AM
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‘Extremely I’ll advised’ Yeah that’s thing with even good advice. Ppl ignore it and then wonder what went wrong. The same thinking that created the problem can’t be used to get out of the problem. The paradox of being you. You already made your mind up. So go with your gut instincts. And they all lived happily ever after. 👀
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 02:27 PM
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So what will you do when she uses technically appropriate methods to remove you from property. ? says to the police you are trespassing and gets a exclusion occupation order. Files harassment charges or any of number of methods to remove you. Just my opinion not a lawyer. Stay IN the martial home. Go out more often , avoid her , stay in hotel rooms. but DO NOT move out or create a situation of different lifestyle. Maintain the status Quo.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 01:54 PM
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I’m sorry but The article is just a puff piece for mediator consultation.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 01:24 PM
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I’m some cases maybe. But I strongly disagree based on my knowledge. But please don’t underestimate the hardship some of have endured and currently face. when you see the true lies and maybe undiagnosed / manipulative/ devious entitlement behaviour protracted over a long time. You can be scammed and conned over a long time. Trust and commitment obliterated. This a fight for your mental well being , your future and in some cases rights to be a parent. I will be mentally traumatised forever and I …
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 01:22 PM
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Find an Indian lawyer who understands situation on a cultural basis. Lawyers are there to make money. They will compound and keep charging you. Second and third opinion you must seek. Trust but VERIFY.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 11:18 AM
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I do get brain fog . Have obstructive sleep apnea. 🫣
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 02:55 AM
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What’s covid - I forgot .. 👀 thanks
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 02:54 AM
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This too shall pass. Sounds crude but look at this as a business transaction/ negotiated strictly leaving the emotions aside. She is no longer the women from your memories. Build your self up, hit the gym and get counselling if needed. 💪🏻 Stay strong stranger,
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 12:30 AM
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She got a reality check. So you only pay half …. She wanted a bigger Cheque, One that’s funds a lifestyle for life at your expense. Wants her cake and eat it. Sulking now… but she will be back on the offensive. Suggest you Lawyer up fast. And get evidence camera. Trumped up Domestic violence may follow. DO NOT move out despite any tantrums / induced fights from her. This will get ugly fast and become an intense negotiation of your future. Good luck and welcome to other the non amicable side of d…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 11:59 PM
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As you leave… pause in the hallway. glance in the mirror at distorted wretched despicable mean wife. The one that reminds of lady in movie Misery…. Take off the ‘Suffer’ Ring and gently place on glass console table as you leave never to look back. The door opens and Freedom begins. ( Andy dufferene arms in the air style) 💪🏻👀💪🏻 And the outro music kicks in - hit the road jack… 🎶 👐🏽… you can do jazz. Hands if want too.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 11:45 PM
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Pretend you win lottery and watch it come crawling back. 🤭
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 08:35 PM
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Have you got dead bedroom Actual experience? Trying to convince someone else of your needs and having them rejected time after time creates martial issues. Not everyone will communicate effectively. Instead of failing to understand the situation this man faces. Where is your solution to his problems?
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 04:05 PM
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Youth testosterone and age not the same. Our experiences shape us. Infidelity means trusting another person will take time./effort and therapy. There will be challenges ahead for sure. Any anxiety /depression /alcohol dependence etc will need addressing first. Look after yourself priority. Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 12:04 PM
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As someone who went through a long dead bedroom situation going through divorce with a covert narcissist. Google “Weaponising sex supply to control me” I wish I had explored alternate options instead of just getting frustrated. Man has needs. - Then he can fulfill those needs elsewhere. 👀 Analogy. You like to eat at home and wife ain’t cooking no more. Well every once in a while you get a takeout instead. 👀 I wish I had used this wisdom, instead asking/ wishing / praying for relationship to impr…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 05:52 AM
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Goodbye and take care. Agree - Sort out separation fast and move on with lives.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 03:15 PM
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She separated in her mind ages ago and you need to quickly get your ducks in a row. Don’t trust or believe anything she has said in her parting. This just became a transactional negotiation. Arm yourself with knowledge and get legal representation fast.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 08:30 AM
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You need peace of mind. My relationship with youngest improved 100% when I was certain. Suspected Infidelity for both mine. You have a right to know the truth. I’m the Uk homebargains sell a dna kit you send in post with cheek swabs. Covid test disguised 👀 In a 19 year old. Uk - You may have legal ramifications. Legality warning See this site.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 12:38 PM
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