Backing me into corner..

Old-Macaroon8148 · 2023-09-23T19:52:16+00:00

The divorce and marriage subs are female dominated. Your opinion as a male is not welcome there even when they ask for it.

Lunaseesu · 2023-09-23T23:38:34+00:00

Hey woman here!! I'm always stoked to see that there are men out there that actually want to be in their kids lives. What I don't understand is the general hostility toward all women as of all women are monstrous. We all have experiences that we could have lived without. As human beings it's crucial to deep away from our anger towards others and look inward to see our own part or what we can do to be better for ourselves.

At some point one of you decided to change the plan that WAS because you couldn’t change each other or stand each other.

Here you acknowledge that both parties have the tendency to change the narrative.

It got me thinking about this dilemma we face as Men. Our brains are just wired differently, why do they still try and change us even after marriage has failed. ? .. 🤬

Here you state that it is solely a problem men face. Well sir, women are spaghetti and men are Waffles. Both lack an understanding of what it's like to be the other and the point isn't to change your partner, nor make excuses for yourself, but to LEARN your partner and figure out where you are willing to compromise. To say that your brains are wored differently is like saying I'm a caveman that can't grow beyond my limited understanding and get out of my anger. Many men go through marriage also actively trying to change their spouses. Men have their burdens and women have there's. Why get so bent about it? Why waste your energy on a woman that is now nothing but a co parent to you? Ee vould all stand to do a bit of tweaking but it's on us as individuals to figure that out. No one can make you change. I'd you think you're the best parent and best partner without fault then good for you! But please stop perpetuating this narrative that women in general are shit bags that just want to take your kids, your money and fuck you over.

I’m pretty sure that why men become disinterested and just start a new life..

Dear women stop trying back us into a corner with all wants , needs and desires. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Well, many women know by mid age they'll likely be discarded for some young purchase of ass regardless of what we do or don't do. And if you really think women shouldn't have wants needs and desires then you'd agree men shouldn't either? You don't even sound like a bitter ex, you just sound like an angry man that hates women and obviously thinks women shouldn't have any wants in the world. No one says poor woman when her husband leaves fir the 20 something beer cart girl it's always "well what didn't she do for him?" This gender war shit has to stop. Just be good people, learn from your mistakes and love and care fir your kids. And understand how toxic herd mentality is on these threads when there's a common enemy. Yall have spouse issues, not women issues. And if it's "every" woman or man you've been with then you really need to be looking at yourselves.

I say all of this with the most respect possible. To the men on here that hate women so much, just stay away because that's baggage that you're bringing to the next woman and everyone is worse off for it.

ciscopimp2 · 2023-09-23T19:18:53+00:00

This sounds like something that should be in writing and approved AS A CONDITION of marriage. This should be an addendum to all marriage licenses, and the couple should have to pay extra for the license if this addendum is waived! Well said.

Title	Backing me into corner..
Author	LonelyDadbod4U
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	September 23, 2023 9:06 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/16pznks/backing_me_into_corner/
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