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I’m single because I can’t get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:45 AM
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I’m personally turned off by career women because they tend to be more masculine. Nothing wrong with a woman making good money but if she makes it her number 1 identity, it becomes unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:47 PM
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I can pull up the data on that too but it seems like no matter what i show you, your not ready to see the truth for what it is. I’m tired of proving facts to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:55 PM
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It’s either your a woman(delusional) or you’ve been living under a rock. Here’s the sources. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-men https://youtu.be/vK4y6C1Uuhw https://www.audacy.com/wccoradio/news/national/single-men-are-the-loneliest-they-have-ever-been https://www.happiness.com/magazine/health-body/male-loneliness-time-bomb-killing-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:47 PM
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Stop lying out of your teeth. Studies show that most men are lonely and its all over the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:33 PM
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I work, go to college and have to do assignment, I also have to study for board exams. After doing all these, the little free time i have left is spent at home. I meet zero women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:37 AM
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Your situation is like a mentally ill person telling me they hear voices in a room thats quiet. The voices are real to the individual experiencing it but it’s not real in the real world. Same logic applies to your situation. Your situation is real to you because your mentally ill but in the objective world, you will find plenty of guys willing to date you in a short period of time if you put yourself out there. This is why I said you needed therapy or some kind of medical intervention. You can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:36 AM
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It’s like your telling me you see the sky as green, but when I look up, I see that it’s blue. Your entitled to believe in whatever but that doesn’t mean you get to change the facts. Please get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:48 AM
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Bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:20 AM
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Yea but blatant lies are unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:19 AM
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We can’t see eye to eye because from a man’s point of view, it doesn’t make any logical sense. I’ve seen women I find extremely repulsive with tons of male partners and you want us to believe that there are women out there that can never ever get a man? If we actually put it to the test, you will see it’s all cap. STOP CAPING!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:13 AM
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You literarily proved their point that there’s no such thing as a foreveralone woman. Also you sound like your full of shit based on your comments dehumanizing average men by calling them rotten salmonella and chicken carcass and you think your not the issue. Please do us all a favor and stay single, no average man should have to put up with your repulsive self.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:04 AM
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Bro stop wasting your time with these so called forever alone women. A lot of them don’t really want a boyfriend, it’s attention that they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:37 AM
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Lol this is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:52 AM
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I call BS on this. No matter how unattractive i found a woman, I’ve never seen a woman that is universally unattractive to all men unless she has a severe physical disability. I can bet $1000 that your relative is shooting for guys way above her league. There is always a man for 99% of women. I’m stating facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:48 AM
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The funny thing about forever alone women is that they don’t want men with the same flaws as them. I remember one antisocial girl there that clearly stated that she’s socially awkward, hates talking to people but wants a flamboyant guy. Talk about deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:00 PM
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Wow, thats kinda sad because she closed herself off to all men just because of one traumatic experience she had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:56 PM
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I wish I was wrong but we can’t keep lying to ourselves.
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:32 AM
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What I said isn’t ignorant. its the bitter truth.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:55 AM
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I’m going to tell you what most people here are too afraid to tell you because they don’t want to hurt your feelings. Reality is that most girls don’t like black guys. I did not make the rules, I’m just a messenger. It doesn’t mean you can’t get a girlfriend, it just means your going to have to be 3x better and work 3x harder than someone thats not black.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:10 AM
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Dude, the disability is not the reason why you got dumped. you can be normal with no disabilities and healthy and still be unable to get a girlfriend let alone get dumped.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:07 AM
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Travel where exactly?
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:24 AM
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I said that I’m unattractive because women have never found me attractive and I’ve never dated a woman before. It’s as simple as that, it’s not rocket science.
/r/seduction19/10/22 11:48 PM
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I’ve had a few sessions but nothing has changed.
/r/seduction18/10/22 03:32 PM
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Dude you have white privilege on your side and your still complaining about not being able to attract women 😂 This is solely your fault because most girls I’ve known always dream about being with a white guy. Especially in the west, you have all the advantage here.
/r/seduction15/10/22 01:24 AM
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🤣
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:08 PM
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I just want to know why I can never have success with women.
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:24 AM
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There’s 3B girls in the world but I’m not getting any. I also care because I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life.
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:16 AM
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I’ve been suicidal about this too a few times mainly because the level of frustration with this problem is damn near suffocating.
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:08 AM
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Everything your saying makes sense but it doesn’t go like that in the real world. I know a guy thats obese (550pounds), no job, and doesn’t take care of himself and he has no problem attracting women. I on the other hand I’m apparently normal looking and can’t find anyone willing to date me. A girl i know literally called the obese guy beautiful and he smells bad. I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. This whole women attraction thing isn’t making any sense to me at all.
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:49 AM
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So, what exactly are you doing to attract them? I know a sick obese guy that can barley walk that attracts women. It boggles my mind. Sometimes I think its because I’m skinny but being obese isn’t any better but at the same time women find it attractive. What am I missing here?
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:16 AM
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😆
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:00 PM
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I’ve 26, I’m doomed.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:27 PM
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Emotionally intelligent, confident, alpha males. They radiate confidence and are FUN to be around. People follow them NATURALLY. They are aware of their environment and they know it. They know how to read a room without trying, especially women's non-verbals. Their body language shows exactly how they're feeling and women pick up on it immediately. There is no trying with them it's just the way they are. It can't be faked and I don't care what anyone says. Women instinctively know when a man jus…
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:20 PM
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I can hold a conversation effortlessly but I have no confidence at all.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:17 PM
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I have the book already.
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:55 PM
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Wow, I need a wingman like that.
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:53 PM
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Your doing better with women now but your not telling us what changed about you?
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:12 PM
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Underrated advice.
/r/seduction07/10/22 09:39 PM
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Sometimes I wonder how the guys here have so much time to chase girls if they are on their purpose.
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:47 AM
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Lol u know what loneliness feels like? 🤣I’m not talking about the loneliness where u have friends and people around you but feel alone. I’m talking about the absence of anyone in your life and your left with your self and your thoughts. This kind of loneliness can be seen in isolated prison inmates. This brings a whole new meaning to pain and suffering.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:17 AM
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I don’t live with my parents anymore and I do clean where I live now.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:07 AM
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If women aren’t hard to attract, what do you do then to attract them?
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:53 AM
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To answer your question, it’s a mixture. I’m intimidated by women because of how they can easily get all their needs met without ever being deprived. I feel like an average woman’s life is 100x better than mine because she has friends, family, partners, people that show concern for her, she has a social circle, gets to date whoever she wants, gets to be picky, people are in general nicer to women and she gets to speak her mind. Me on the other hand have nothing in this list I mentioned that a wo…
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:49 AM
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Dude I have all the self help books you can think of, it hasn’t change anything.
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:19 AM
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Interesting take.
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:21 PM
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I will look into a life coach since I’ve never tried them before. Thanks for your advice.
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:42 PM
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It’s not that I want to be a victim, I just feel so powerless about solving my problem because it includes external influence which is from people.
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:34 PM
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But the vast majority of guys have issues attracting women and u keep downplaying it. it’s only easier for a minority of men.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:50 PM
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if women aren’t hard to attract why are there many books written on the subject in addition to subreddits such as this one and seminars and pickup artists and men paying thousands of dollars to dating coaches for dating guides?
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:47 PM
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All because what I said isn’t relatable to you or your reality doesn’t mean it’s fake. What I said is true and I’ve already sought therapy but they told me stuff I already knew. Total waste of time and money.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:17 PM
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Yea
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:15 PM
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Drawing with charcoal, cycling, video games but rarely play them, reading one piece manga.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:13 PM
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/r/seduction16/09/22 01:09 PM
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Bro you make it sound like women don’t have a will of their own to reject you and it’s all under your control. Things that are totally in your control are getting a degree, getting a license and traveling to a foreign country. Getting laid requires consent, how is that in your total control?
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:05 PM
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Yes, I’m indeed very resentful but for a legitimate reason.
/r/seduction16/09/22 12:54 PM
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I do but it leads to more negativity.
/r/seduction16/09/22 12:53 PM
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Dude, I legit can’t get laid.
/r/seduction16/09/22 12:52 PM
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Lol, everything I said is true. Men are not mean to me but on the other hand, women are disrespectful towards me and I said the reason is because they know I can’t get a woman.
/r/seduction16/09/22 12:46 PM
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Bro if you can’t comprehend the constant state of having no women in your life, it makes sense why we have extremely different views. Not having anyone in my life let alone women is literally my normal but for you it’s not. We live in different realities bro.
/r/seduction16/09/22 12:43 PM
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Since you said a woman’s attraction for a man defies logic, does that mean a universally unattractive man is logical?
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:05 AM
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I watched porn and masturbated because it was the only thing I can do to make myself feel better. I saw prostitutes because I didn’t want to miss out on sex and a piece of intimacy with a woman even though its not real. These reasons are pretty logical even though I don’t partake in them anymore. If i had a girlfriend i wouldn’t even watch porn let alone see escorts. Do you understand what I’m saying? I did these things because i was so deprived to the point where i was contemplating suicide.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:53 AM
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Lmao spending birthdays alone is not a big deal at all. Try spending 15+ years alone every single day of the year, your bound to go insane. Of course I’m not the only one going through this because there are subcultures of men that suffer from chronic loneliness such as Incels and forever alone men. Some people here think I’m trolling and not taking their advice when in reality it doesn’t even work.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:25 AM
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Finding fulfillment in life is a never ending journey. What I find very unrealistic is finding fulfillment in life as time pass me by while I have no family of my own. How is having only male friends sufficient enough for a fulfilling life when you want family and kids? This just sounds so disconnected from reality.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:11 AM
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Key word, “Draught.” It’s not like your always in a constant state of draught. You have times of draught and times where you have women in your life. How on earth is working out suppose to help you when your always constantly alone with no one in your life?
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:06 AM
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Bro, my problem is too big for therapy to comprehend, let alone solve. My previous therapist literally couldn’t believe that I had such a deprived life with constant loneliness.
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:55 AM
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Bro, why is your name so similar to mine?
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:48 AM
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Bro losing weight won’t make you anymore attractive to these girls. I’m just being honest bro. There are so many health looking guys out here that can even attract an unattractive girl let alone a hot one. I’m literally fit, have a car and still can’t get any girls. I do believe you should lose weight for your own health, not for women though. I feel like if your charming you can basically get any girl no matter what you look like. I’ve seen obese out of shape guys with very attractive women man…
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:41 AM
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But how do you learn it?
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:23 PM
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Bro, game is like tryin to read women’s minds and responding accordingly, it’s beyond me how you guys are able to pull this off.
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:22 PM
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I don’t believe I’m a loser but I’m indeed extremely shy and socially awkward. I have low self esteem because I’ve never been able to attract women.
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:25 AM
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Socially awkward, 5:7, a bit shy, quiet. Invincible to women. Been called a worthless loser because I can’t attract any woman. A woman called me this btw.
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:30 PM
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Bro, I’m not stopping it from happening, it’s just not happening.
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:25 PM
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Bro, you saying being taller makes you uglier is just not true, we both know this. It’s an advantage but your making it sound like a disadvantage. Also, being overweight and big is attractive to women because it makes you look like you can protect them. I’m skinny and I don’t see where being skinny is attractive in anyway to women because it signals to her that he can’t protect her. Another thing is that your probably white or light in complexion, every race of girl likes that. I’m very dark ski…
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:34 PM
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Knowing how complicated attracting women is, I’m surprised there aren’t college classes being taught on this.
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:13 AM
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Maybe for women but this is often not the case for men.
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:51 AM
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Dude I don’t have any share of women for you to take lol. I’m also not making excuses. I did not chose to be incel bro, I legit can’t attract women.
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:54 PM
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Yea basically.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:34 PM
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These feelings have been with me since high school and affecting the way I think. The frustration doesn’t go away with exercise.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:04 PM
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I’ve worked at fast food restaurants before and interacted with lots of coworkers, it didn’t make a difference.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:02 PM
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How do you even find a woman willing to marry you in these times. It boggles my mind.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:02 PM
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Man I go out almost everyday and I’m still invincible to women.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:50 PM
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Man, I’m extremely hard working and I get told that a lot. You said being an incel is by choice as if you can just force a woman to be with you. Being unattractive to women is not in my head, it’s the reality of things.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:46 PM
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Yea my teens and 20s has been hell on earth so far and I see no light at the end of the tunnel. Just loneliness, depression and despair.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:39 PM
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It’s not that I’m not following the advice, it’s that it’s either too vague to put into action or it doesn’t work.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:56 PM
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But how do i compete for the attention of a woman that has thousands of matches on dating sites? I honestly don’t see how modern women are as desperate as men for love. This is just from experience.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:54 PM
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Bro your 6’2 though, I’m 5,7. You have the height advantage.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:47 PM
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I cold approach a very attractive girl and tried to get her number but she wanted to give me her instagram instead, so I took that as an L. It takes a shit ton of courage to even do that bro, I thought I was going to pass out.
/r/seduction06/09/22 08:09 PM
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Haha, I watch a lot of movies and it does make me feel better temporarily. This is actually some solid advice bro.
/r/seduction06/09/22 07:26 PM
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I go outside but I’m not meeting women. The reddit name came from me being honest with myself. I’m indeed lonely and its not something I just came up with randomly.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:42 PM
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Socially anxious, have no social skills. 5:7 , black, skinny. I talk to women about random things but it doesn’t go anywhere.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:25 PM
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What exactly am I doing wrong?
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:47 PM
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I’m surrounded by girls everyday in my college program but it doesn’t make a difference.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:55 PM
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Last time I checked, if they are still talking to you most likely means your friend zoned.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:52 PM
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Dude I have that book, its a dating guide for white guys.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:49 PM
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I’ve read books on the matter and it hasn’t changed my situation. Why do you find it hard to believe that there are men out here that can’t attract women no matter what they do. Why do I think incels exist in the first place? You think it’s by choice?
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:48 PM
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I’m in a cycling group, it makes no difference.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:45 PM
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They avoid speaking to me in class so what would be the point of me asking them if they wanted to go out? A former female friend of mine called me a loser because she knew that I saw hookers because I couldn’t attract a woman the normal way and she shamed me for it by constantly calling me worthless, told me my life was meaningless and compared me to my roommates that both had a girlfriend and she said they were superior to me because they could get a girlfriend while I had to pay women to even …
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:39 PM
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But I’m always alone to the point where it’s driving me insane.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:26 PM
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I’ve tried working out, joining a cycling group, getting better fitting clothes, I have a car, don’t live with my parents. I don’t think I’m a loser but I’ve been called a loser multiple times by an older woman because she knew I wasn’t able to attract women.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:20 PM
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Doing hobbies and enjoying life in loneliness doesn’t help the situation.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:14 PM
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I’m not a woman so I wouldn’t know why they find me unattractive because I don’t see anything wrong. I’m the only guy in my college program, so I’m surrounded by girls but they all find me repulsive and I’ve had a few friend-zone me.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:13 PM
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I’ve been to a club before and I came out with clean pockets.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:03 PM
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Because I legitimately can’t attract them and don’t have much relationship experience with women.
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:57 PM
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How exactly do you work on social status?
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:55 PM
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I live with roommates but I have my own room.
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:54 PM
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I’ve been trying to learn how to socialize for years, to me that feels like something I can never truly master 100%
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:24 AM
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I’m already part of a cycling group, it makes no difference at all.
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:20 AM
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I already sought therapy and it didn’t help at all.
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:20 AM
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This is so true. It’s the ugly ones that are usually picky and rude.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:02 AM
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I’m currently in college getting a degree in a field in medicine and I have to spend lots of time studying. So, I don’t really have time for extracurriculars unless its summer time. I had a female friend friend-zone me and it actually makes me feel worse, so i don’t know how that will get me out of the negative headspace.
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:56 AM
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Imagine getting called a piece of shit just because you want someone you’re attracted to. Women have mountain loads of standards for men but you won’t see this cricket call them a piece of shit.
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:57 AM
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Yea but you have to be willing to be social and step out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction29/08/22 11:54 PM
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Bro, she’s doing everything she can to use you for attention. Believe it or not, she likes your attention more than the idea of doing sex with you.
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:02 PM
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I’m in the same boat as you. The best advice I can give you is to get into hobbies with women included, this doesn’t guarantee you will get a girlfriend.
/r/seduction29/08/22 07:59 PM
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This is so true. Bro I’m dark skinned and it’s worse. I literally get looks of hate from random people for no apparent reason.
/r/seduction27/08/22 03:54 PM
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Bro, having a disability and using a walker will actually make you standout from the majority of guys that are physically normal If your confident with it. The thing is that the more normal you are to women, the higher their expectations of you are. Women’s expectations of you will be pretty low because of your disability, so you will attract women easier if your confident compared to a guy that’s physically normal. Don’t believe me? there’s a couple on YouTube where she takes care of her disabl…
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:44 AM
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Ok. I was just thinking if it was a guy you really like, I don’t think you’d care how he approaches you lol.
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:31 AM
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Anyone here think the fact that she’s setting the rules on how were suppose to approach her with the perfect words and how we should behave makes her sound like she’s looking down on us? That’s just the vibe I got from the post, I could be wrong.
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:23 AM
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There’s multiple variables indeed but I’ll say social skills and confidence has more weight in attracting women than being fit. OP should definitely lose weight for his own health, not to attract women.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:12 AM
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I have a decent face so it has nothing to do with that. Dude looks is really not that important when it comes to women, it matters but not as much as it matters to men.
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:35 PM
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Losing weight isn’t going to make you anymore attractive I swear. I’ve been skinny to fit and it hasn’t made me attractive in any way.
/r/seduction24/08/22 10:58 PM
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I don’t even get any matches.
/r/seduction24/08/22 10:49 PM
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It’s possible but extremely hard. You still have to socialize even though you’ll feel uncomfortable doing it.
/r/seduction24/08/22 06:02 PM
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So true about it not lasting long.
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:08 PM
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That’s what they call getting lucky.
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:07 PM
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This is how I feel every time I have to socialize.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:34 PM
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Skinny here and I struggle.
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:18 PM
1

I didn’t say they don’t like it, I said they don’t love it and it makes perfect sense. Liking something is different from loving something. Women love attention more than sex which is why they friend-zone multiple guys and use them for that purpose only but they won’t tell you that here. Women like sex but they don’t love it. People like things based on conditions that are met for example, I like my professor because she makes the subject easy to understand. Same thing is applicable to women and…
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:59 PM
1

Plastic surgery will only make a woman more attractive to men but it won’t make a difference for a man.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:36 PM
1

Men that genuinely care about women get friend zoned all the time. This is a fact.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:25 PM
2

Of course women have more to offer than sex but guys that genuinely care about women get friend-zoned all the time, so stop the 🧢.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:21 PM
0

🤣Do you know how many decent guys are in the friend zone as if being decent is going to get you laid.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:05 PM
1

Classic shaming tactic when you have no talking points, it’s getting old, come up with something new plz.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:50 PM
0

This is not about what I think, look at their behavior, look at the facts, does it say, I love sex?
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:47 PM
1

Still doesn’t change the facts of the matter.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:29 PM
1

Your right but being high value takes plenty of time.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:41 AM
2

Dude you can be physically attractive and still be unable to get girls.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:37 AM
0

Hmm, shaming men for wanting sex huh.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:31 AM
-7

Lmao, you love sex but have strict conditions that have to be met to even consider it. There’s nothing wrong in saying you don’t love sex instead of doing all this mental gymnastics.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:22 AM
2

Doesn’t discredit what I said.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:16 AM
4

Finally, someone that isn’t afraid to say the truth.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:14 AM
2

A lot of men here are afraid to tell you the truth because they want to sound appealing to the women here but I don’t really care to appeal to any woman here. Men in general love sex 100x more than any average woman unless she has a disorder that makes her crave sex and that’s why we can do it indiscriminately and get addicted to porn easily. I’m not even exaggerating that statement. Ask yourself this, if women enjoy sex, why do so many conditions have to be met for her to even consider having s…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:08 AM
2

He probably means cold approach.
/r/seduction17/08/22 06:38 PM
1

😆Your funny. I like your art btw and I’m also an artist but I use charcoal.
/r/seduction17/08/22 02:59 AM
1

Damn, I only made a comment and you came for my whole life.
/r/seduction17/08/22 02:40 AM
-1

Lmao, no you don’t.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:25 PM
2

Very smart reply.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:59 PM
1

Do you wake up horny every morning and horny throughout the day, everyday for years? If not, then that makes it obvious who’s more likely to love sex more.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:53 PM
2

I was told it only works if another woman speaks about it to other women.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:23 PM
1

Lol does this really work on dating apps or are you joking?
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:58 PM
8

At least your honest lol.
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:51 PM
2

I’m black and I have the exact same problem. The truth that no one here will tell you is that most women prefer non black men. Oh, even if you were to like the unattractive women on dating apps, you still wouldn’t match with them because they wouldn’t swipe right on you. White men in general are in demand on dating apps from a woman’s perspective. Most of these women are even ashamed to be seen with you in public so they are doing you a favor by not matching with you. I’m not saying there is any…
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:49 PM
1

Facts!
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:33 PM
1

I was going to ask the same question lol.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:31 PM
1

Bro, I have a car and my own place and still have no luck. I know a homeless guy that has no car and smells like shit and he slays like crazy. Having a car is absolutely pointless when u want to attract women. Trust me on this.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:26 PM
1

Men like women with a defined lower body like hips, ass, legs and so on.
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:38 AM
0

Maybe with makeup and lower body work out, you might enter the realm of attractive.
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:12 PM
0

Your average looking.
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:06 PM
2

26
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:50 PM
2

How am I at a disadvantage?
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:39 PM
3

Doesn’t believing in this actually make me delusional? The knowing that women want me part when in reality it never happened.
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:55 PM
8

I asked a similar question to this not too long ago but the folks here said it doesn’t matter which i personally think is BS. It seems like if you don’t have social media, women will think something is wrong with you when in reality, you just don’t care for social media. Older women in general don’t care but younger women are obsessed with it and most of them will not prioritize you if you don’t have one.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:39 PM
1

What books do you recommend?
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:50 PM
14

Sounds like your very picky.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:22 AM
1

Dress feminine, wear a short skirt to show your legs, wear slippers to show your feet, smile, put on blue or red lipstick, look happy. Do these and men will start knocking on your door in no time.
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:05 PM
4

I was just born with it, I’ve had 8inches since 7th grade, I’m also African, so it’s genetics also. In all honesty, if your already getting chicks even with a small dick, big dick doesn’t really matter because it doesn’t help you attract chicks if you don’t have charisma. I’m living proof of that. So, charisma is always number one. I’d rather have charisma with a shrimp dick than have this 8inch with no use for it.
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:56 AM
6

Dude I have a big cock and started to get muscles. It don’t mean shit if your not charismatic.
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:19 AM
1

New Jersey.
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:15 PM
1

I guess it’s just me then. Kudos to you cause I’m surrounded by girls in college and can’t get a single one.
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:32 PM
4

He has to have more to offer her in comparison to the white guy having just the basics. A good example is black athletes dating white chicks and the same white chick would date a regular white guy thats not an athlete and he probably works 9-5 could even live with his parents. You see what I’m saying?
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:49 PM
1

Yea I’ve seen the same but he usually has to overcompensate for being black.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:39 PM
1

Black. Chicks these days would rather be with a white guy because it improves their social status.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:35 PM
3

He was white though.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:18 PM
1

Dude your doing better than the majority of men and your still complaining.
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:57 PM
1

She probably found someone she thought was better. Doesn’t necessarily make the person better than you.
/r/seduction10/06/22 02:55 PM
3

Awesome!
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:08 PM
1

But horniness= neediness which turns women off.
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:33 PM
-1

I don’t think they were being nice since my sister is known for her bluntness. She always tells me I look Like a twig before I started working out.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:36 PM
1

You miss leg day?
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:18 AM
1

Hey man, I began cold approach like 2 weeks ago and haven’t met anyone thats into me ever. I’m 26 btw, is this normal?
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:17 AM
1

Bro, I’m already in shape. I’m not fat at all so why am I not getting results?
/r/seduction30/05/22 05:41 PM
1

Yes of course but it’s not the end all be all.
/r/seduction30/05/22 05:36 PM
1

Dude being in shape does not mean you’ll get laid.
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:46 PM
1

Bro if he’s white he doesn’t need to go to third world countries. He can easily get a chick in the states if he was confident. Every girl no matter their race wants a white guy.
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:43 PM
1

Dang, that’s smooth.
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:47 PM
1

It’s all about mindset. Pretty much think of it like this, If you don’t muster up the courage to approach a girl, you will be alone and die alone and regret not doing anything when you were younger. Is that what you want? Is that the kind of life you want for yourself? A life of regret thinking what ifs, if not, do the approach no matter how uncomfortable it makes you feel. This was what made me do my first cold approach which I did yesterday, I pretty much compared my life of loneliness to temp…
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:16 AM
0

🤣I did scare the crap out of her but she was walking too fast so I had to run to catch up to her.
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:19 PM
2

Yea the whole instagram thing was going to be a insta fail.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:59 PM
1

Thanks 🙏
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:41 PM
2

It was my first approach and I’m still learning.
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:19 PM
2

She didn’t really look approachable but she smiled when i stopped her spoke a little and just seemed like she didn’t want to be bothered. The social media was definitely a form of rejection.
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:18 PM
12

Great!
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:44 AM
43

Yea, I figured but it was also my first approach so no biggie.
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:06 AM
2

Dude, that’s an above average and high status position. You should have more confidence in general just with that alone.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:52 PM
9

Pick up artists will be like, “oh, you didn’t neg enough, you didn’t do enough push and pull, you didn’t display enough value, or wasn’t alpha enough etc.” When in reality it was just out of your control.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:41 PM
19

WOW! That’s some scary shit.
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:23 PM
1

Where’s the side bar?
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:00 PM
1

I was in school in the last 8 months studying hard for exams and even though I was the only guy in my class, the girls were also too busy for anything other than school. I don’t really know any girls in my area as of now, I’m also on break now and just working full time.
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:13 PM
0

None cause I was working.
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:46 PM
1

Yea fat guys tends to get girls.
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:34 PM
5

Yea, that sounds like friendzone. Ask her out though just to see if she really put you in friend-zone.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:54 PM
1

Bro, I never even got the chance to message anyone because I couldn’t get any matches. My pictures were 1-3 portraits and my description was just about what i like to do for hobbies, what i do for work and how I’m looking for a relationship. I swiped right on everyone for a couple of years and still didn’t get one match. The experience pretty much hurt my self esteem.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:34 PM
1

Umm, yea I’ve been on many dating sites before and never got a match there so i guess it’s not for me.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:27 PM
-4

Man, is your brother in law white? I feel like Codi’s advice applies to white guys.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:22 PM
3

What if you do this and your still single and alone? Does this make you a loser?
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:17 PM
5

This is so funny.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:26 AM
1

Yea I also knew a 6’3 guy that was decent looking and was always single.
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:46 PM
6

What exactly are you guys doing to attract these girls? This is the most frustrating part, it’s like the guys that get girls can’t really put in words what they do other than confidence which is just vague.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:32 PM
13

Bro I need you as a coach. I’m black and struggle really bad.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:13 PM
0

If something is simple, it should also have a simple explanation.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:03 PM
0

Dude, all you’ve done is insult me and many other men, you still haven’t mentioned how simple women are other than social skills which is not the end all be all to attracting women, and you’ve lost your mind when you said women are simpler than men. That has to be the most retarded comment I’ve ever heard.
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:52 PM
1

You will be addicted and it will prevent you from learning the social skills to naturally attract women.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:48 PM
1

Don’t do it!
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:07 PM
0

If they are not complicated, why are there virgin men well into their 30s and 40s? Why are there many books written on female psychology and behavior? Why do dating coaches charge you thousands of dollars to help you understand female psychology? I can go on and on.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:32 AM
8

You are not alone my brother. I’m in the same shoes as you. All I can say is that it gets worse and worse if you don’t find a solution. I’ll be praying for you and I hope things get better for you. Women are so complicated that it will drive you insane trying to figure them out.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:13 AM
1

I’ve had that book for 6years and still haven’t read it.
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:11 PM
1

I still don’t know what cards exactly your talking about. I can’t find them on Amazon. What is the exact name of the cards? I will just search truth or dare cards.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:51 AM
1

What cards exactly are you talking about?
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:26 AM
1

Bro, having a car is not going to change anything. Think of having a car as an accessory or icing on the cake but not the cake itself which is the charisma. I thought if i got a car, I’d be able to get girls, turns out it didn’t do shit for me in the dating department. If you lack charisma, materialistic things aren’t going to make you attractive. I’m living proof of that. Good on paper but can’t get a girl to save my life.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:15 PM
4

Damn dude, You really had to make a post about how to respond to “I’m dead” and i thought i had bad social skills lol.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:11 PM
1

What exactly does he need to do cause I could use some advice too.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:28 PM
3

How do you even get girls in the first place??
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:24 PM
1

Oh my, It’s chad! Apparently the same guy has 50+ women lined up for him and is so preoccupied with them so he isn’t able to respond to you so you think you’ve been friendzone. MEN DO NOT HAVE A FRIEND ZONE!
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:05 AM
10

This post screams self centered narcissist.
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:00 AM
3

She gets attention constantly but somehow found a way to make it seem like she can’t get dates and is some kind of a victim of life circumstance. How can anyone here with a brain cell take posts like this seriously?
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:57 AM
2

I took a screen shot of your post. Thanks for the help.
/r/seduction20/03/22 01:33 AM
1

LMAO!
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:41 PM
1

I’m literally the opposite of social, thats definitely something i have to work on
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:39 PM
1

Because I show interest in a chick and wanted positive feedback from this subreddit but I get bombarded with how horrible of a person I am.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:29 PM
1

Chill, I’m a 25y old kiss less virgin man and I’m trying to change this.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:26 PM
1

She’s still talking to me and texting me now. I feel bad ditching her cause she’s a good friend.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:06 PM
1

What makes you say this? What are you trying to say? How is showing interest a bad thing for me to do?
/r/seduction15/03/22 12:51 PM
-1

Looks like I’m going to die a virgin.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:52 AM
1

But he knows I’m not gay. That’s the difference. It seems like me showing interest in the opposite sex is a crime.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:50 AM
2

I’ve never been able to get sexual pleasure from women because of rejection.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:46 AM
0

Random people get lap dance at parties and clubs, it doesn’t mean they’ve already had sex.
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:04 AM
1

How is kissing and having sex less sexual than lap dance? This got me so confused. Isn’t sex the end goal? How is lap dance a bigger deal than sex and kissing? Damn, I feel like I’m never going to get laid.
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:00 AM
1

How do u have sex with her before being her friend?
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:48 AM
0

I asked her over FaceTime.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:45 AM
1

Your right, I was thinking of just giving her the gift regardless and she knows i got her something and has been anticipating what it is.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:42 AM
-1

Lol i bought that book 4 years ago and still have it. I haven’t read it though. I’m still reading models.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:33 AM
1

Bro at least a girl confessed to you lol. You have a girl thats into you. I don’t have any girl thats into me so we are different in that sense.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:31 AM
0

This is suppose to be a seduction subreddit but I’m being shamed for my sexuality as a male.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:27 AM
-1

If i stop watching porn and stop jerking off, where do i get sexual pleasure from?
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:24 AM
1

I can’t tell if your being sarcastic or serious.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:20 AM
1

Thanks for the support man. Everyone else just coming at me like I’m the bad guy for simply showing my intentions.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:18 AM
-8

She’s a friend I’m interested in and I was just testing the waters. I never got pass the friend zone. I’m willing to ditch her over this, I got nothing to loose because I wasn’t benefitting anything anyways.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:15 AM
2

Ok but I’m learning.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:12 AM
1

What’s nice guy about what i said?
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:12 AM
1

What’s weird about what i said?
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:11 AM
-5

Man, where’s the words of encouragement? Comments like this just makes me more frustrated at the whole chasing women thing.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:04 AM
0

Yea but I’m attracted to her. Should i stop talking to her then since she’s just getting attention from me and I’m not getting anything in return?
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:01 AM
-6

Tell me how. So your saying expressing my sexual interest is creepy? Please elaborate.
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:57 AM
1

Bro but I’m not white or 6ft 3 tall. The most I can do is work out and make money.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:49 AM
1

Damn, my roommates are fucking right now and I see this post as a notification while being unable to get a girl and still a virgin. I really want to die!
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:45 AM
3

I bet this dude is white.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:23 AM
4

Bro I’m tired of jerking off too. I’ve been doing it for 13 years.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:15 AM
1

Bro, the getting a girlfriend ship already sailed many years ago. No girl on earth wants an almost 30year old inexperienced virgin, it ain’t gonna happen. That’s like telling a girl if she wants an inexperienced neurosurgeon to perform her brain surgery.
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:17 AM
2

I don’t fucking know exactly what works and so far what I’ve done hasn’t worked or else I wouldn’t be here posting.
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:06 AM
1

Sometimes they make fun of me for how alone I am for all these years.
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:01 AM
2

Thanks for the kind words and support. I will definitely reach out.
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:46 AM
2

I’m insecure because women have never found me attractive.
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:42 AM
1

I was on dating sites 10 years ago too. Do you think being black makes me less desirable on dating sites?
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:14 AM
1

Mindset about what exactly has to change?
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:09 AM
2

Finally, someone that gets it! I don’t even need a beautiful woman.
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:07 AM
2

What dating site are you using?
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:06 AM
2

I’m seeking therapy this weekend but the dating life I don’t know what to do anymore because everything I’ve done never worked. I’ve read books and watched videos.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:58 AM
2

But how do I deal with the loneliness? This is the part where i feel like no one gets at all.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:49 AM
7

It’s not about pretty girls man, It’s about the loneliness, deprivation, lack of intimacy and despair while its rubbed in your face constantly.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:46 AM
0

I already have goals I’m working towards, I already have a job and pay my own bills, i also know how to cook and I’m in college for healthcare career but being alone all the damn time is the cause of my depression and medicating myself isn’t going to solve that.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:44 AM
3

The other thing that makes me happy is one piece manga and thats about it. I like my life as a 2/10 because it’s lonely as fuck.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:34 AM
4

Bro ugly girls have even higher standards than hot girls i notice.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:28 AM
2

Man, I’ve been alone all my life, how am i not comfortable being alone? I just don’t want to be alone forever it doesn’t mean I’m not comfortable alone.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:19 AM
-3

But living with the pain is unbearable.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:12 AM
-1

I have nothing against gays, I’m all for gay safety and rights. I’m just hetero.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:10 AM
1

25 man and too inexperienced.
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:09 AM
5

I’m like a 5, skinny, I’m about to just go approach random girls at bar because I got nothing to loose now.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:53 AM
-7

“It’s about finding compatibility and not finding but stumbling on” I don’t understand what you just said here man because it sounds like a contradiction. Dude I don’t want to be alone forever and it’s exactly what is happening to me, GOD WHY ME??!!
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:47 AM
6

Dude I’ve been on many dating sites for years and can’t even attract subpar girls, what am I suppose to even do at this point?
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:33 AM
0

Yea but that doesn’t solve my problems.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:28 AM
2

We don’t even talk.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:16 AM
-23

I’m not gay dude.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:15 AM
3

Lol
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:15 AM
32

Focusing on purpose is a lifelong journey that never really ends. How do i manage being celibate through those times?
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:12 AM
1

I’ve only talked to girls in my college but nothing came out of it.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:09 AM
-1

Dude I’m black and 5:8 and ugly. I can’t win.
/r/seduction31/01/22 01:40 PM
1

I’ve given up plenty of times but it just makes me bitter about the whole thing.
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:00 AM
1

I’m sorry for sounding like a troll but I’m not trolling. I’m just lost and confused about this whole attracting women thing. I do use the advice but I keep failing with women and it’s making me so frustrated. This is why it seems like I’m asking the same questions over and over again because I haven’t been able to solve the problem. I’ve actually been seeking help with this problem since I was 16 from family, therapist and counselors but I can’t seem to make a breakthrough.
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:55 AM
1

I’m not a troll, why do you think I’m trolling?
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:38 AM
1

I honestly think it’s because of my race and I don’t see other races of men struggling with the same problem unless they have serious mental health issues. Even women of my race find me unattractive based on how they treat me.Theres mostly women at my work and they all just avoid me and I get lonely and this reinforces the narrative that I’m unattractive to women in general. Sometimes they don’t even want to hear what I have to say.
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:30 PM
-1

It’s not like u workout for a year and women suddenly find you attractive.
/r/seduction11/01/22 09:26 PM
2

I seem normal to myself so I don’t know what’s so wrong with me.
/r/seduction11/01/22 09:25 PM
1

I have no idea what u mean by some of the advice I agree with.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:19 PM
1

I have a job that pays 70k a year, I have about 2 female friends and I mentioned I’m dark skinned because I’ve had girls call me a burnt crisp so this obviously puts me at a disadvantage with girls as stated from the horses mouth. As for hygiene, I’m good with that and dress decent. I’m social at work which I go to 5days a week.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:11 PM
1

Am waiting to hear the, “Just workout bro.”
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:54 AM
1

How is severe loneliness the same as seeking happiness in others?
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:24 PM
1

How is addressing my problem being a loser? You don’t make sense.
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:17 AM
1

Man, the point is that It literally feels like my situation will never change and I feel stuck. I don’t want to wait till am 50 years old. The fact that nothing has changed up till now is a huge red flag, I can’t just ignore it and be patient and let time pass me by. If you’ve experienced intimacy with a woman before 25, then you clearly don’t understand what am going through. Am literally on the track to being alone forever and your telling me to chill.
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:43 PM
1

I don’t want to die alone. That has nothing to do with impressing my roommates. I don’t care to impress anyone.
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:53 PM
1

So why do you keep telling me that I lack purpose when I said am already working on goals that are not related to women?
/r/seduction19/09/21 04:15 AM
1

Dude I already have goals that am working on but I don’t want to neglect this aspect of my life either.
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:05 PM
1

Am ready man.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:26 AM
1

I’ve read your post since yesterday. It was too vague for me to understand because am already working on myself and make a little over 6figs but it didn’t make any difference whatsoever.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:23 AM
2

Oh man. Am glad you understand and I appreciate your help. I will definitely reach out to you sometime.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:03 AM
2

Am like 70% done with the book, am trying to work on the honest lifestyle part.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:25 AM
2

Man, I was doing this yesterday until I heard the girl talk about her boyfriend.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:21 AM
4

Congrats bro.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:54 AM
1

Am black, I already workout and do those things you stated. It just doesn’t change anything.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:50 AM
2

I wish the reason was because I was chasing girls out of my league. Am literally at a point where am chasing homeless women, fat women with body odor, when am nothing like that. I have a good job and could afford to live on my own but living alone is lonely so I decided to live with roommates. Dude, me being late doesn’t even matter at this point, I don’t think am going to find a woman that will want to date me.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:49 AM
2

I’ve been on 9 dating apps since I was 16 and never matched with anyone.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:42 AM
1

I’ve approached girls many times before and the results seems to be rejection all the time so I don’t bother doing that anymore.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:40 AM
1

Teusday to Saturday.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:38 AM
2

Man, I have that book already.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:31 AM
1

I’ve already forgotten about getting a girl many years ago because I can’t attract any girl. This doesn’t change anything.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:30 AM
1

I already take care of myself but it doesn’t attract anyone.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:28 AM
1

I already do these things. I feel like there is something I’m missing.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:27 AM
1

I’ve been confident many times and it hasn’t worked at all. I don’t know what reality your living in.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:21 AM
1

But I already do these things and it doesn’t change anything.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:19 AM
3

I’ve been working on myself for many years, I’ve seen guys that have way less than me have a girlfriend.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:16 AM
2

I already go to the gym and I already dress nice but these girls just aren’t interested in me. I honestly don’t know what spell you guys are casting on these women because in my case, they’ve never like me at all.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:13 AM
2

I have goals in life am progressing towards and working towards, the only thing in my life I can’t seem to know how to solve is attracting a woman.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:12 AM
2

Am 5:8, not tall at all.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:08 AM
1

How do you know exactly that it’s nothing to do with race?
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:07 AM
4

Am so confused, at first you said girls are dying to get a guy, then you said 90% of girls won’t like me and I need to work with the 10%, then I need to believe I can get any woman I want when reality is that I can’t even attract a single woman in over 25 years.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:00 AM
3

Women in general don’t care to make friends with guys they don’t find attractive and I’ve been out with coworkers already but it doesn’t change anything. People that share the same interest as me don’t really care to get to know me. I’ve been going out every day for years and nothing seems to change. Am so damn lost and confused about this. Am so frustrated because I’ve done everything you said here in reality and it doesn’t make a difference.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:56 AM
1

I lived in New York for 9 years and never got my first kiss.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:45 AM
1

I said I will never find anyone because it’s how my life has always been. I’ve never found a woman that was into me and am not going for women out of my league either. I’ve tried since I was in high school, they just don’t seem interested. Why do you say it like being unattractive to all women in general cannot be real?
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:43 AM
2

I don’t go after hot girls at all but I’ve come to realize it doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:39 AM
2

When I said lonely, I meant it literally, I don’t have any friends at all.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:36 AM
1

This sounds a little like being in denial. Am suppose to imagine am connected with someone and not alone when reality says otherwise.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:33 AM
5

Am almost 30 with zero dating experience and am suppose to be chill? I’ve been going out for many years, it still doesn’t change the situation. This is the fictional advice I’ve believed most of my life until reality set in. I really want to believe in this positive statement but If I do, am in denial of reality.
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:31 AM
5

I can’t take this seriously because he’s 6:2.
/r/seduction07/09/21 07:37 PM
1

Thanks bro.
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:13 AM
5

That’s so lame and unfulfilling man.
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:59 AM
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This is so vague, i need more info, what books to read. I just realized today that having an android is a no no when meeting girls.
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:56 AM
1

At least you’ve had sex man.
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:49 AM
4

How do you learn how to seduce women? Am a 25year old kissless virgin, seriously, how?
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:38 AM
1

25 never had a girlfriend, how on earth do you guys attract these women?, it’s mind boggling.
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:35 AM
1

I don’t like sharing my picture online but am an average looking guy on the skinny side and 5’8 in height. I weigh 128 pounds.
/r/seduction18/07/21 02:00 AM
2

I can only hope but the older I get, the more depressed I feel about this.
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:41 AM
1

I honestly don’t know what about me is so repulsive to women in general.
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:36 AM
2

I already put myself out there but nothing seems to change.
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:34 AM
1

In what area is this true? Where do you live?
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:33 AM
2

I take care of myself but nobody cares, especially women.
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:32 AM
1

It’s unfortunate some black men tease black women about their skin color. They ruin it for the good black men.
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:17 PM
1

They usually give me their number after a few occasions of me running into them. I don’t normally ask for their number though because I don’t remember to ask.
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:13 PM
1

I don’t see myself as entitled.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:17 PM
2

Thanks for the word of encouragement man.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:10 PM
1

Of course, what makes this question surreal?
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:06 PM
2

I don’t tease black women and they tend to be into the thuggish kind of black guys and am the total opposite of that. Even if I tried to act like a thug, it’s cringy and doesn’t look right.
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:57 PM
1

I speak to black women at work or in the grocery store and I start by introducing myself and commenting on something they are doing in the moment.
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:55 PM
1

It sounds simple but it’s the hardest thing ever. When I talk to women, I feel like am walking on egg shells because so much has to be on point like physical look, mental health, inner self, insecurities in check, masculine voice, seductive vibe, clothes gotta fit, I can go on and on. I feel extremely drained after every interaction with a woman because I can’t be my full self and I feel like I always have to constantly perform like a circus clown. By the end of the conversation she feels good a…
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:17 PM
2

Sounds like your in Disney land because the last time I checked some girls dating profile says “No black guys” and I’ve witnessed this with all races of women even some in person telling me”Your too black” while she was black. How can you know someone’s personality if you already eliminated them because their color is not your preference?
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:06 PM
3

This has no basis in reality.
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:33 PM
1

Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:31 PM
1

Am already use to it, I just don’t get any results with women.
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:29 PM
7

Lol am not though.
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:07 AM
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