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Easier for you to control the narrative of the divorce and prevent her from doing so. And it will be easier for you to control the timing, location and show your side of stories 1st. The are downsides are fees , look aggressive and show your hand card.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 12:13 AM
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AI companions will be for both men and women but it will have different meanings for both genders.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 08:34 AM
1

Unfortunately, Ai companions have better common sense compared to the majority of humans. And even more unfortunately, according to AI, there is a possibility AI will be the majority men's main companion in future especially after Artificial Womb was perfected.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 01:29 AM
1

Oops my bad.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 04:41 PM
2

Why sex do you want to compete with your ex or just want to have fun?
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 04:21 PM
4

Stop thinking about sex and improve your own quality of life 1st. What is your current motivation?
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 03:47 PM
1

majority world divorce law was bias toward women but it not undefeatable. that is the reason why there are still lots of people are fighting to make it bias even more. use what you already pay for is the best way to solve your problem
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 06:20 PM
2

document everything and prepare for everything, women will fight dirty if needed too.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 04:11 PM
5

get a lawyer and make sure listen to him. you can only reduce the damage inflicted to you and use it as chip to fight for more custody. never afraid to lose, be stronger to fight for next battle.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 04:10 PM
1

Where the children stay?
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/26 12:35 PM
1

Go to couple counseling. If not then just get a lawyer, follow their advice and prepare for the worst. Her head is totally in different dimensions. Sometimes, what you do is not wrong but just she doesn't like it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/26 06:53 AM
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It seems your ex has the ego of a tyrant but fails in math. In this era where passport bro are thriving and the so called male loneliness epidemic, how many of those single perfect dream men available in the dating market? What kind of ego does your ex have to think she can compete and win against other women? Your ex cases are happening much more frequently than you think and rather than reflect at their mistakes, they prefer to drag others down too.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/26 12:39 AM
1

If it was an explicit photo, I think you should upload it on cloud and share QR
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 07:54 AM
3

Print it in AO sized, frame it, and make a sign. Put it on your truck and drive around congratulations her finding new love. Someone did it near my house before
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 07:50 AM
2

Yes. Reconnect with old friends and hobbies, enjoy your new found freedom. My ex's 1st large meltdown was when she saw me win a large TCG tournament and took a photo with Japan idol that send to my country to promote the card game in magazine
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 12:21 AM
4

You just need to live your life and be happy, Women hate when their exes are happier then them. Still receive shit postings from my exes more than 20 years ago
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 12:02 AM
3

they need to paint you as black as they can to extract as much as possible from you
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 09:18 AM
6

She just tries to put you down to make herself feel and look better in society. Most women don't even know what the real meaning for the majority word they used in their life.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/25 02:30 AM
5

It was different between men and women. Normally women will get all the glory after divorce but they will end up badly being treated as a bus. But man normally is reverse but it comes with struggling and effort
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 05:18 AM
2

Yah, then it is more reason for them to blame you as villain. The best revenge is to make yourself better, it will hurt her more than anything else.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 02:18 AM
2

time for you to put all of that behind and move forward. learn how to protect yourself in marriage or move to state or country with stricter marriage law.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 02:06 AM
2

Maybe they are benefits for them doing it like family reputation or make sure your ex still have value in the dating market.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 02:03 AM
2

More like they are trying to make you as bad person
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 02:00 AM
2

Examine your own thoughts and feelings, did you do anything wrong? did you hurt her purposely? If all no, there is no reason for you to doubt yourself. Not wrong being single in this ages but if you still want to get married, use your passport.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 01:54 AM
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the lack of empathy from her already proof that she already emotional detached from you. as other post say, she keeping you ask backup in case grass not green enough or as shooting target when someone chastised her for being a 304. Always make self preservation as your no 1 priority
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 01:45 AM
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Many man has sacrifices everything to build the world, country and family but we always been treated as 2nd class citizen no matter where we are. Stay strong brother.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 01:33 AM
7

50% co-parenting and no jail time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 03:49 AM
6

1 tactics of lawyer, exhaust opponent money to force them into settlement.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 06:58 AM
7

Record down what your wife's lawyer says. Prepare all the counter arguments of each lies. Discuss with your lawyer. Behave yourself and show the judge you are not the man they try to paint you to be. Your wife's lawyer might be aware that all they said is without proof so he/she wants to gaslighting you into taking action that paint yourself as that man. maybe you can get some insight by watching Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard court case.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 06:47 AM
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If everything a woman says needs proof, most divorce cases might not even make it to court. If there is no court case, how do those family judges and lawyers make money
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 06:27 AM
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One time maybe ex issue. If two times, it seems like she got an issue. 3 times, she is definitely an issue.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 12:43 PM
3

you can see how awesome SE Asia as tourist and retirement destinations in youtube. I believe with your retirement fund, you should be able to have a modest to luxury lifestyle for the rest of your life without working.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 11:27 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Come to south east Asia for holidays when you are done with all this shit. We have the best food in the world for a fraction of the food price in US. Both open minded and traditional ladies are available here too.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 11:15 AM
7

So the government rewards cheating wives when you put your life in line for your country?
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 10:59 AM
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AI emotional connection with human is something very illogical especially when it is with women so it will take long time to be even possible. Meanwhile for man, their AI companionship might just being their loyal housekeeper who will obey them as long as it was allowed by Law and all action are more toward logic than emotion. For single fatherhood, it was not a big issue since a lot single father has been proven to be better single parent compare to single mother. Just need give more support th…
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 12:55 PM
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Relationships between men and robots are much more simple compared to women and robots. Man seeks companionship while women seek happiness which is a very abstract topic even for AI. I don't think humans will allow AI to have such a level of emotional prediction to prevent humans getting controlled or manipulated by AI. For the population, I think it will depend on how new generation men will think. Men are generally less interested in having kids due to the responsibility but if the majority of…
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 12:04 AM
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One thing women never understand. They always say technology will allow them to no longer need men but at the same time it will also help men to no need to give priority to women. If technology of an artificial womb without needing women's embryos and formula milk is better than breast milk has been developed, women's benefits as mother of children will be removed.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/25 04:49 AM
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She might want to keep you as a best friend for convenience but doesn't mean you need to do the same. Try to reject her few time and you might see her true colour. Make sure to record all the conversation so she won't use it against you as her.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/25 03:39 AM
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This is normal brother, all wounds hurt. Remember, all walls can be smashed down. Try more new things like games, music or maybe even art. You can look around for new free to try stuff and meet more new people that connect with mutual interest.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 05:01 PM
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Be strong brother. Always plan for the future and put her out of your life.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 04:55 PM
2

Yes. Same reason why I believe that a real higher level lifeform or a real life god will be good. Can teach those hypocrites some lessons.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 03:04 AM
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I prefer to think that the belief that god exists and reading religious books is a different matter. You can think that god exists but still committing sin or vice versa. In the modern world, we have prostitutes who claim god supports her to be prostitutes
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 02:59 AM
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A lot of old day teaching is very accurate on human behavior and why we should not do it. Those people try to paint it as outdated just because they are the 1 that is trying to commit those sins.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 02:46 AM
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Don't think it is possible to continue the relationship, she totally does not respect you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 02:23 AM
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All 7 sin Greed : gold digger Envy : bitter single friends giving bs advice to those happily married Pride : own thinking never wrong. Any concern and boundaries of a partner become abusive/controlling/insecurities Lust : open marriage, cheating and just sex only mentality bullshit Gluttony : body positivity bullshit. Fat is fat and eating too much causes health issues Wrath: lack of tolerance. Angry of their partner just because they forgot to take the rubbish out more frequently Sloth : wanted…
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 02:16 AM
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At the same time, you also can see all the other supported replies that keep on telling how they deserve their happiness or should be taken more from the EH or just directly insulted the EH
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 01:07 AM
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I believe it is normal. You lost something valuable and your effort was almost reduced to nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 01:03 AM
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You can take a look at the other side of this subreddit. It was totally different wibe you can get from here
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/25 01:55 AM
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It seems she totally checks out on you and thinks purely on her own happiness. Get a lawyer and take away as much as you can. Try to get all interaction done via lawyer and make sure to record any face to face meeting. If you want to fight for custody, bring out her employment history and say those are not a good example of behavior for your kids. If you plan to burn the bridge, mention to the judge that if she can feel bored being a wife, she can be bored being a mother too.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 03:43 PM
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Some of them are aware of this so they will try to suck as much money available from their partner
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 01:42 AM
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Many tend to forget that if they allow men to take over a job, they might perform better slowly. Like cooking, now become mainly man jobs
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 01:16 AM
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Due to new technology and more law being made for single parents, being a single father was actually much easier and some single father performed better than many single mothers. It's just that family law still puts mother as more important.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 12:57 AM
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Forgot about here and deleted this post
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 04:24 AM
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I don't think there are many things you can do about that. It is time to move on. Get a lawyer advice on how to protect your asset and minimize your loss. Go see a therapist if you need too. Just remember one thing, we are in the group of people that builds this world as it is today. We can re-build our life that other people destroy into a better 1. No need for revenge or anything, just live your best life. Those are 2 things that cheaters hate most, the betrayed spouse rebuilds a better life a…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 03:53 AM
1

What is your plan for your kid 50-50?
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 03:46 AM
1

I mean you move. Check with your lawyer when is the earliest you can move out of state to protect yourself from your ex family in law
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 01:23 AM
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Protect your own assets before after hers
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 01:01 AM
1

Check for potential state transfer in your company or look for job opportunities in another state. Prepare to move away from them
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 01:00 AM
3

Women's survival is not like men. They not only need shelter, food and cloth. It included hee happiness such as cosmetics, branded clothes and luxury jewelry. They never wanted to bear the infamy of breaking the marriage so she will try to pin it to you. Their ego does not take factor in other people's suffering.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 03:30 AM
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Most STBXW never think themselves wrong and their happiness is most important. Others are irrelevant for them. She seemed wanted to gaslight you thinking you are the 1 wrong in the divorce and you are the cause of it. Do not look back and keep on looking forward to your next chapter of life. No need for revenge as living happier than her is the best revenge
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/25 03:41 AM
1

Great. Then, tell her" you make the bed. Now you sleep on it"
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 04:09 AM
2

Time for you to do the same. You didn't sign any adoption for her right?
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 01:55 AM
1

Great 👍👍 wish you luck and better life
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 01:24 AM
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Record down all the shit, get a lawyer and prepare for the future.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 12:45 AM
1

It will get dull easily if you put "myself" in front of everything and this needs both sides to commit. By putting each other in front then you can feel the commitment of the other side and excitement of what the other going to do for you
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 12:40 AM
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It seems you still have emotional attachment for your wife which is normal. Her wanted to be better after losing something also normal. Give yourself some time and enjoy your singlehood. If A doesn't suit, go for B. You are now free to try. There are billions of women in the world, take your time to see and know more.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 12:30 AM
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Seems like her ex just got hit by reality and now looking for a new shield after she finally knows that her age is not being wanted for serious relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 03:35 AM
5

It is normal to be weary of dating especially for serious relationships after divorce. Not a divorcee but I have many divorced friends and they have the same issues. Not everyone is willing to re-build a life that has been destroyed by ex once again. Those guys are much more willing to spend time on their own, with kids or bro. Dating is just for casual hookup and for them, serious relationships are just too much hassle. We are putting in more sentiment to the things we build and those exes don'…
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 01:35 AM
2

It was blamed by my friend's ex after I helped him back on his feet for being to busybody.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 04:51 AM
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You have your moment of weakness, now learn from it and be better man
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 01:58 AM
5

Many women cry about their miserable life after divorce in tik tok. Maybe she will join the group sooner or later. Just live your best life. The better your life, her will be more miserable.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 01:57 AM
2

Let the lawyers do their job. Alimony support is supposed to be a means to allow the partner to get back their feet after the divorce. It nowadays has become a side income.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 04:54 AM
4

Well, there are lots of red flags here, better lawyer up and get all this documented. Try to get justification that all the debt incurred before the marriage is not shared liability.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/25 03:00 AM
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She just looks for an excuse to make you the villain when she becomes the victim to justify everything she plans to do . Lawyer up and PI if you have it money
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/25 02:45 AM
9

Just remember "men sacrifice happiness for family, women sacrifice family for happiness". It is time for artificial childbirth without women. Once this technology has been perfected, many women's special rights will be revoked
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 06:47 PM
8

I'm just wondering, how many of those APs actually know that those cheaters are actually married or they have been told that the cheater was in abusive relationship
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/25 05:53 PM
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The mother in our era is not like the old days anymore. They just want the privileges that come with being a mother but they never wanted the responsibility. Those born around the 1940s to 60s makes a revolution that we don't need in society
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 03:12 AM
9

Get an attorney and ask for their advice on how to do asset division. Your STBXW might be hit by the reality "to be happy you need money" after watching TikTok video on how many women are suffering from poverty after divorce or the AP told her to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 06:30 PM
2

When you are single, there are opportunities and encounters everywhere
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 04:47 AM
1

Then you need to give yourself full attention to improve yourself. Show her that you are the better man
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 02:06 AM
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If you love your kids, you should work harder for you and your kids. Make you pay your child support on time to prevent jail time. Do not flaunt your wealth so your ex will not drag you to court to increase alimony or child support. Make sure you are prepared when karma hit her, file to court to take your kid back.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 01:58 AM
2

Gather all the info you can and make sure every interaction between both of you recorded. If possible, keep a 24 hour record on where you are and who you will too. Just in case of any accusations
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/24 01:47 AM
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I think I need a full hd copy for this video
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 12:25 AM
1

The court tends to ignore social study. The fact that gives advantages to men and disadvantages to women are usually not considered.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 02:46 AM
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Maybe she just wants to tell others that it's not her fault you 2 get divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/24 11:35 PM
1

Just politicians easy way to get women support.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 04:22 AM
1

I believe in France, you are not allowed to do DNA tests legally although you are 100% sure your kids are not blood related to you
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 04:16 AM
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In US. There are 30% fathers doing DNA tests with their kids are not blood related. Other countries also have the same issues just the % is lower. Some people post that when this happens to them, some of their friends and relatives told them to man up and should care for those children although it was not blood related and results of affairs.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 04:04 AM
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If a man complains about the emotional abuse, people around will say him weak and those women in I'll take advantage of it.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:28 AM
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I was actually wondering how many of those women who divorce their husband with the reason irreconcilable difference are actually having another man. And from what we see in society now, the number of women cheating seems much higher than men, but for some reason men are still being accused of cheating more compared to women.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:09 AM
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Those holier than thou friend that chastised you for fighting with your wife regarding asset division and alimony? Or told you to man up to forgive your wife cheating and take care of those non biology children that need you? Or telling your wife that cheating is acceptable since she was loyal to you for many years?
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:04 AM
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Try to get a court order to force her foot the cost.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 12:22 AM
4

I don't see any reason for remarrying for both you and him. Why both of you need to get married in 1st place?
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 02:08 AM
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Totally agree but women advise on divorce. Will u take it ?😄
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 02:05 AM
2

Great. Few years ago I introduced Gunpla to 1 of my just divorce old friends. He fell in love with it and got laughed at by her ex for being childish. But unexpectedly his daughter liked it and his son also joined in. After hiding their hobbies from his ex. He entered a local tournament with both his kids and all 3 of them got top 3. The photo of their winning exploded within our social media community and all praised him as a good dad that sacrificed his own time to participate with his kids. H…
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 08:30 AM
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That is good. She's try to justified how bad are you to her friend. And maybe your kids say you are better than her. Since like that, show how Disney dad are you. Being your kids for more kids activities. Who knows you might know some hot single mom over there
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 01:29 AM
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Not really need to commit with new women so fast. Just take your time enjoying yourself. Spend time bonding with your kids, enjoy your hobbies and make yourself be a better dad
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 01:24 AM
6

The funny thing is when they saw you moved on while they fail their relationship with the AP, they blame you. Also say your new partner has taken away everything that belongs to them
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 01:13 AM
2

Get a restraining order on her. Sue her for emotional and mental damage.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 03:32 AM
2

For many men, kids are our legacy and we fulfill our responsibility our responsibility as human beings. It's always worth our investment. There are too many incentives and benefits that come with being a single mothers and this blinded them thinking this is their investment.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 02:06 AM
2

Most women taking 1/2 of there ex husband wealth although the husband was the main breadwinner and they also forced to pay alimony. Try to tell your husband you will not take anything from him except the money that you earned yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 01:13 PM
2

Go find some new hobbies, happiness not only comes when you have a partner. Who knows maybe you know someone from your hobbies group
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 07:45 AM
5

Those "go find myself" divorce should not be granted alimony and child support. You are not supposed to find yourself with other people's money. People only able to find themselves when they are suffering
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 03:31 AM
6

She is drunk and makes false accusations police report. this is way too toxic. Great you are able to get away from such toxic women. maybe you can use this leverage to request full custody if you want.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 03:27 AM
1

Did she try to find some dirt on you to request for more alimony since no child support?
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 01:38 AM
1

I don't think so, those are non-finance questions and not related to the divorce or children (if you have). I believe she needs to apply for warrants with ground that you did something illegal(possessing child pornography or something).
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:53 AM
3

I believe so, better safe than sorry
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 12:35 AM
4

👍 the best revenge is showing off your own happiness. I did that to my exgf and she tried to seduce me
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 04:56 AM
4

Hit the gym, connect with the old friend and hobby that you lost after marriage. Move on and show your ex how happy you are without her
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 04:49 AM
2

Most women think they will never be wrong in any relationship, be confident in yourself and learn from mistakes.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 03:52 AM
2

Wish you luck
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 02:19 AM
2

Then you can only consult a lawyer on how to overturn this. You should not stay with your in-law family
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 02:14 AM
1

You whacking in your living room while your kids in room? And he somehow know it? Your house living room is open for public view?
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 02:04 AM
2

Wow, at the 1st place. How your FIL justified that he knows you masturbate in front of your kids after they sleep. He sneaks below your kids bed and catch you whacking your dong?
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 01:57 AM
4

Maybe she did this to ensure you won't be in the right mind to fight for what she wants to take from you
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 03:22 AM
3

Well, I believe she will want you back only after you move on. So you better consult a lawyer to defend what is yours and move on so she will come back to you
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 05:15 AM
4

They will never know until they crash
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 02:35 AM
5

Get a lawyer to handle all of it
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:39 AM
12

Get a couple therapy and after birth therapy for your wife
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:37 AM
2

Yes. This is what I am doing right now. The only problem I talk with is the problem she is causing me. Not mine.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:14 AM
2

Frankly I am not a divorce man, just here to learn more about it to prevent it. But too many divorce cases happen in and outside of my community until I get used to me.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:08 AM
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Once she hits the wall, she will blame everyone other than herself
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:05 AM
4

Most women hate this, for them it was inexcusable for men to have a better life than then after divorce even though they are the 1 that initiated the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 12:52 AM
6

The old didn't go, the new never came. Rather than looking at your own memories, better look forward to new life with your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 12:50 AM
9

Once your wife becomes your ex, all the patients and priority given to them will be revoked. No need to be considerate to her. Women have forgotten, all the benefits they get is because they can become a wife and mother. Once they lose the possibility, we do not have any responsibility to give it to them
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 04:44 AM
4

Get a divorce lawyer. They can offer better advice
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 08:58 AM
2

Most probably she wanted to feed on alimony and child support while living the wild life she always wanted
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 08:48 AM
10

Go have a good time with great food and great women if possible. Post it online and remember to be grateful to your ex since she initiate the divorce. If possible, remember to show your gratitude to the AP too if you know his name.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 04:57 AM
6

Man is one for all but for women it is all for one. There are women that are willing to drag humanity down just for their own feelings and temporary benefits. You can watch the debate in whatever podcast in YouTube
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 12:30 AM
6

Ignore it . Sound like trap
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 02:01 AM
1

Totally agree. I would love to have a dog too if my apartment allows it
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 12:30 AM
1

Did you stay at No-Fault state?
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 09:18 AM
1

It seems more like a baby trap for me. Self victim mentality and lack of accountability. Is there any possibility that she might cheat on you every time she wants to get divorce but the affair fails and she gets back with you?
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 07:04 AM
1

She doesn't prioritize her kids, normally happens to mom that gets pregnant due to other people's rather then heself. Did she tell you that she wants to have kids before she gets pregnant the 1st time? Your ex wife doesn't seem to be a family oriented person
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 06:42 AM
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There are lots of these kinds of cases happening nowadays, just that single dad normally gets buried while single mom gets glorified. Be confident in yourself and learn to be a better dad for your kids. There are lots of children care manuals you can find online and most of them are pretty well researched , detail but easy to understand. Take your time, and move on with your life together with your kids. Do not be embarrassed or hesitate to ask for help too. Your ex stuck at her past, you should…
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 06:35 AM
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What is her reason to divorce previously? The usual not feeling herself anymore?
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 06:23 AM
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The world has given too much leeway for women to treat marriage as a business transaction. If the government makes it no asset separation for cheating and boring spouses, I believe the divorce rate will drop significantly. Just don't think it will get passed as law.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 02:03 AM
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Say strong brother, man sacrifices everything for love while women sacrifice love for everything.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 03:37 AM
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Does she have any friends or relatives who claim to be marriage experts that you know? Seems no matter what culture or religion, there will be people like this and they are mostly divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 03:35 AM
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Go for a jogging or local gym. Meet up new people on the way and make yourself healthier. You need to prepare yourself for everything when you get your kid back.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 03:25 PM
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