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I started watching anime during the pandemic while I had some extra time. I only watched stuff that was dubbed in the language I’m learning so I was at least actively practicing and not wasting time. I always had a bad opinion of anime because, well, it’s anime lol... I decided to give it a shot and I got hooked. The shows are generally a lot more mature, have more depth and are better written than children’s cartoons. I don’t turn down social invites or anything to watch anime and usually only …
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:04 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it. I do find myself not really contributing much in regular meetings so I'll make more of an effort to get involved.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:44 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I already lift and meditate daily, but I should be putting more effort into speaking to strangers.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 04:41 PM
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You’ll be back where you left off in 2 or 3 weeks
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:13 PM
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If you haven’t already, I’d recommend picking up some books on Stoicism. How to Live. a Good Life by William B. Irvine is a great intro, and of course the classics: Meditations - Marcus Aurelius, Enchiridion and Discourses- Epictetus, and Seneca’s Letters.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:43 AM
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This is fucking stupid. He cried with his family when he lost his dog. Men are allowed to be human beings and cry in these types of situations. It would be a different story if he was with a girl he was fucking.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:50 PM
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You were probably being a fucking weirdo and got reported by multiple girls
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:05 AM
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There are tons of bodyweight exercises you can do. I’ve been doing Omar Isuf’s bodyweight routine and I’m getting workouts just as good, if not better than if i was at the gym. Make sure you’re following a structured routine because you’re not going to get anywhere doing pushups and sit ups here and there. Athlean X has some good routines too so check those out on YouTube. There’s a good one, I think it’s called The Perfect at home bodyweight workout. Working out at home with no equipment is abs…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 11:28 PM
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Is this a joke
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:03 PM
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No, it doesn’t. It might be easier for men that have won the genetic lottery but doesn’t mean it’s impossible for ugly guys to be successful with women and in life. Shut up and get to work because if you’re asking this question you’ve got a lot of work to do.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:20 PM
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Thanks man for the in depth answer. I like the advice about not accepting every request I get. I used to think “networking” was more quantity driven than quality but I’m quickly realizing that it’s more the opposite.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:55 AM
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Good advice. I just finished reading Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi who mentions this often.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 11:31 PM
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Ya really... it takes balls to admit to someone you have an std and could have passed it to them
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:15 PM
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So all 531 programs and anything else that uses percentages of a 1rm is bro science and doesn’t build muscle? Anyone trying to get big should have a solid base of strength first and a linear progression program that uses % of 1rm is the best way to get there. Saying that it does nothing to help build muscle is one of the dumbest things I’ve seen on this sub.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:28 PM
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I can’t tell if you’re serious or not. Why is 1rm not important? Have you never run a program like 531 where the lifts are based on your 1rm?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 07:37 PM
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Sounds like you’re fat and trying to justify your lack of self control
/r/askTRP15/02/20 03:28 AM
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Who the fuck are you arguing to? Have you read anything in the sidebar? Internal frame goes hand in hand with external frame. Write this shit in your diary if you need to and not on this sub that is meant for asking advice.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:30 AM
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Ya of course, they wouldn’t maintain a bf% that low year round
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:04 PM
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First off, why are you trying to get to 8% bf if you have no muscle?? Maintaining 8% is unrealistic in the first place unless you’re competing. There’s no requisite for having muscles to train martial arts. If you’re eating at a caloric surplus and strength training alongside martial arts, you’ll build muscle.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:52 PM
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You’re still fat at 22% body fat. Get down to sub 15% before you even start considering surgery
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:54 PM
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I’d go camping with some buddies for a week or so
/r/askTRP29/01/20 05:15 PM
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Go to whatever gym you can do squats, deadlifts, bench and OHP
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:28 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:39 PM
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Whats wrong with living with 30 people and working on a farm? TRP doesn’t require you to give a fuck about your financial future. I’m not arguing that this dude isn’t stupid for concerning about this chick and French guy. He’d have this problem regardless of if he’s working on a farm or running his own business.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:05 PM
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Absolutely nothing wrong with living in a hostel working on a farm. It’s a cool experience that he’s probably learned a lot from.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:46 PM
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Find a good location to set up shop and make sure you have a variety of sauces. Wings are a classic sports bar food so you’ll want to have a good selection of beer as well because beer and wings go hand in hand.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:42 AM
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Why would you waste your time listening to that shit
/r/askTRP21/01/20 08:47 PM
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Well first off, your experience cutting isn’t unique. Everyone that cuts goes through the same shit. Consider intermittent fasting (8 hour eating window per day) and adding more cardio. If you’re hitting the gym 3-5 times per week, your maintenance should be higher than 2200. I’m 6’1, 188 lbs and I’m losing 1lb per week at 2300 calories.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:43 PM
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That’s the nature of dating apps. It’s a validation tool for girls.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:21 PM
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I’d start by downloading porn blockers on your computer and phone
/r/askTRP13/01/20 04:11 PM
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Are you autistic?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:05 AM
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Listen to this guy. Count your calories and figure out your macros. It’s so easy with the MyFitnessPal app. Don’t be a lazy fuck. Also, if you’re skinny fat, bulk first then cut fat later. Doesn’t matter how much you fat you lose, you’ll always be stuck in a skinny fat body unless you pack on some muscle.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:27 PM
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I would argue that he should lower his standards to build momentum escalating and closing which seems to be his problem. If he’s not having any luck at all, fucking his way up from 6s and 7s will help his game with 8s and 9s.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:39 PM
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Yes, career goals absolutely.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:02 PM
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What a great mentality you have. Why are you only focused on what girls give a fuck about? You don’t pick up hobbies because girls will or will not give a fuck about it. You pick up hobbies because it’s something that YOU give a fuck about. You’re being a complete fucking pussy. Get your shit together man. You gotta stop this victim mentality bullshit of yours. It’s not gonna get you anywhere.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 08:01 PM
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Boohoo. We’re all dealt a hand of cards to play with. Some people have better cards than others. Bitch and whine about it all you want but that’s not gonna do anything. Put that energy into other stuff. Primarily lifting and hobbies - stuff that will raise your smv.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 07:45 PM
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Maybe stop getting info from urban dictionary
/r/askTRP18/12/19 06:47 PM
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Out of curiosity, what program are you running?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:21 AM
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Stop being negative and stop being an asshole. Read How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 12:11 AM
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You already fucked up by telling her you haven’t slept with anyone since you fucked her 5 months ago. So shut your mouth and don’t make it worse than it already is. And she’s not a plate if you’re not seeing anyone else. She’s just a girl you fucked 5 months ago.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:20 PM
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Im in the same boat. I feel like we’re past the point of no return and attempts at reducing micro plastic consumption would have marginal effects on test levels. But I haven’t looked into it too much so I might be completely wrong.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:48 AM
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It’s because you’re scared. Its a new experience for you and your mind is making excuses not to go ahead with it. You’ve got to resist that feeling and get outside of your comfort zone. Stop being lazy and go to the gym.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 12:38 AM
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I have scoliosis. Lift.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 08:47 PM
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First and foremost, you want to build a strong base. If you’re completely new to lifting, start with Mark Rippetoe’s starting strength to learn the main lifts and nail your form down. When you’re done that, I’d recommend moving onto a linear 531 program like nSuns. If you eat and sleep well, you’ll see huge gains in both size and strength.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 03:39 AM
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Check out the males fashion advice sub’s sidebar. The community is pathetic but there is some good advice to get started in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:07 AM
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Adding on to the honesty comment, girls will always ask some thing along the lines of “what are we?” Or “where are we going?”. If you don’t want to deal with the juggling act of hiding plates from one another, answer that you’re not interested in exclusive relationships. They can either stick around and share you or hit the road. Their choice.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:30 PM
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You gotta own the shitebag title then. Be Chad Shitebag
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:07 PM
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It’s better than not working out but that machine can not replace squats, deadlifts, bench and overhead press
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:00 PM
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Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP04/12/19 06:57 PM
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Why does it matter if a girl is a “skankoid” or not? If you’re just fucking them use a condom. Simple as that. If you’re that paranoid about stds then don’t fuck them until they prove they’ve been checked.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:57 PM
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Sounds like you’ve made up your mind already. I’m from a slightly bigger town (50k people) but got out of there immediately after high school. You’re making 100k remote so you could literally live anywhere. Probably in your best interest to move to a city
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:31 PM
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These are just reminders that you’ve improved/are improving
/r/askTRP28/11/19 07:49 PM
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There are plenty of other things OP can do that don’t involve him being a dick head or looking like a kid with a disability...
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:36 PM
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That’s why you keep this shit to yourself and shut your mouth. Let your actions do the talking.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 01:39 AM
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He could maybe do a 0
/r/askTRP22/09/19 05:57 AM
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You only have one option and that is to shave it completely. Anything else will just look ridiculous.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:29 AM
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If you want to hangout with her then man up and tell her when and where you and her can hangout. You made the right decision choosing to study over ice cream.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 03:22 AM
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Why did your past “come out”? They don’t need to know about it
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:27 PM
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What program are you running? Could be you need to switch things up. Make sure you’re eating enough. Try to hit a new PR every week. That should give you enough drive to come into each workout pumped.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:44 AM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:20 AM
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Check out the MFA sub on Reddit and look at the basic bastard post in the sidebar. It’s a good place to get started and build a solid wardrobe. Starting from scratch, the most important thing is getting clothes that fit so I’d suggest you look into that. Lots of good channels on YouTube that will help you out.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:35 PM
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Holding frame doesn’t mean being an emotionless robot. Go dance my boy.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:48 PM
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Fucking Christ man. Listen to these bullshit excuses you’re making. “My teeth aren’t white enough”, “It’s hard. Im introverted”. Women are not going to approach you. Someone else already commented - that’s your job. It’s not easy but when is anything worth doing easy?
/r/askTRP30/08/19 08:27 PM
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Whenever this happens to me, I find I just need to get a couple solid workouts in which puts me back on track.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 08:15 PM
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Yup, pretty much anything by Hemingway
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:17 PM
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Thanks for the in depth answer
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:53 PM
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You think people just become famous in the blink of an eye? Are you confusing “fame” with being well-known?
/r/askTRP18/08/19 09:38 PM
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Yes. This sub was a lot different a year or two ago, when actual advice was given and people wanted to learn. Now this sub has an extremely cult-ish vibe to it. These people think there is a strict set of rules that need to be followed without error to gain the title of “red pilled”.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:26 PM
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Why did you post a naked model on your story?
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:18 AM
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5/3/1 BBB or nSuns is good and they’ve both got active subreddits
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:24 AM
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For 1. and 4. I think Montreal is your best bet. Super fun city with two big universities pretty much beside each other. Extremely easy to get around the City (unlike Toronto sometimes) and everything is close. I haven't spent as much time in Toronto but it's an expensive city compared to Montreal and all my buddies up there have had a hard time finding a reasonably priced place in a good location.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 07:54 PM
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Spongebob
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:29 PM
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Check out AlphaDestiny's neck training videos on youtube. He gets a lot of hate for some shit but his neck stuff is working for me. Also Jeff Nippard has good stuff about neck training as well.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 11:30 PM
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Good answer. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:34 PM
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Alcohol usually makes people more social/confident by lowering their inhibitions. This is common knowledge.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:17 AM
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I usually despise stand up but I'm a fan of Bill Burr. Theo Von is fucking hilarious too.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:26 PM
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Robert Greene has said himself "The book is intended to be used as a shield rather than a sword". However, just like TRP, 48 laws is a tool box and you get to choose which tools you want to use for whatever circumstances. Sure, some of the laws may seem unethical but no one is telling you they must be used. You decide whether or not you'll use them.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:24 AM
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Yes. I feel like 48 laws of power is a 'lifelong' book. Definitely not a one-and-done.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:09 PM
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I'm not trying to come off as wanting overnight results. If there's one thing I know it's that anything worth doing takes hard work and time.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:12 AM
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Thanks for the response. I'll have to start doing that. I think I'm trying to get through too many books too fast. As soon as I finish one, I start another. I'll try summarizing what I read and of course putting theory into practice is essential.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:10 AM
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I took about two months of Spanish lessons before I came here so I had some basic understanding of how the language works but couldn't speak/listen for shit. I practiced spanish on my own while I was living here and was able to read and write really well but speaking with locals was a different story. The slang and speed that they speak is extremely difficult to decipher. The past four months of Spanish lessons has taken me to the next level. I can understand more spoken spanish and it's easier …
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:04 PM
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Or do a coffee shop buffet? Customer pays a flat fee rather than per minute or whatever. Could be a lounge of sorts. Couches, TVs, videogames, internet, maybe a pool table.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:04 AM
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I've been taking two spanish classes a week for the past 4 months or so I'm getting better every day but conversing with locals is a whole different ball game with the slang and all. But I guess the only way to get better is to dive into the deep end.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 01:15 AM
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My socks organizer told me she got drunk and organized another mans socks last weekend. Hard nexted her on the spot.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:36 PM
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Demoting to plate won't work in your situation. You're already too emotionally invested. I would hard next in your situation. Block her number and on social media. It's time to move on.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 01:41 PM
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You don't get back your ex. Move on.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:14 PM
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You're overthinking this dude... You need waaaaay more abundance. Start cold approaching more talk show hosts like Oprah, Tyra Banks, Rosie O'Donnell, Whoopie Goldberg, etc...
/r/askTRP27/02/19 01:54 PM
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"Suck my cock"
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:59 PM
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Usually if you ever need to ask "Should I break up with this girl?" the answer is yes...
/r/askTRP15/02/19 04:48 PM
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Well said... Being in control of your own life is absolutely the most "alpha" thing a man can do.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 02:05 AM
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Solid answer right here
/r/askTRP13/02/19 11:21 PM
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That's great. Thanks for the link.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 03:28 PM
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Ya. I guess I'm just trying to rationalize a way to keep her around. Gonna tell her I'm out.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:34 PM
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The last few times I'd soft nexted her and she responded with paragraphs of "I'm sorry"s which is why I'm still seeing her. You're right though. She's done.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:33 PM
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btw her texts are all shit like "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have taken so long, I hope we can still hangout this weekend, etc..."
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:51 AM
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Well how should I reply then? There's no point in arguing with her...
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:50 AM
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I called her and said "You're wasting my time, I'm heading home". I was calm when I said that.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:49 AM
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Definitely. Currently reading Lady Chatterley's lover and I read Sons and Lovers a few months ago.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:01 PM
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The effect soy has on testosterone is pretty debatable... There's nothing really conclusive on it's correlation with low test levels in males. But I'm no soy expert and I don't ever eat/drink the shit. I still wouldn't call the writing itself blue pilled but you're 100% right that to the average blue pilled male would read the story and feel connected to the beta. I guess it's probably better not to put a bluepill/redpill label on literature and take from it what you will. Although there is defi…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:59 PM
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Can't go wrong with any of the authors you mentioned. Have them all on my bookshelf aside from The Godfather. That might be next on the list.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:23 PM
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Thanks for the recommendation. I'll check it out.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:22 PM
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How exactly is it blue-pilled writing? It's literally a two-page, third person account of TRP and AWALT truths. That being said, yes, the majority of fiction writers write shitty romance novels in which their blue pill fantasies prove true. But have you not read any Dostoevsky, Hemingway, Bukowski (Although debatable on whether he's truly red pilled or not), Joseph Conrad, etc...? These novelists are hardly blue pilled. Also, wtf is wrong with coffee with soy milk as a pre workout?
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:20 PM
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Thanks for the in depth answer my friend. The reason I asked this question was because I was having a real good day today. Everything just seemed to be working in my favour. I've definitely been 'finding my purpose' since I stumbled across TRP about a year ago. But still learning how to become outcome independent. I feel like today, I truly didn't give a fuck about the outcome and was able to tune into the present (I'm assuming meditation has a part in that). I guess I've just got to stay on the…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:20 AM
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Ya man. Weird shit.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:09 PM
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Just to clarify, we had solid plans for New Years which is when she flaked. Anyhow, thanks for the advice. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:07 AM
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Thanks for the help dude. New situation for me lol.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 11:07 PM
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She said “Sorry I was at the beach with friends”. I just feel like she disrespected my time
/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:24 PM
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Hey man, so she texted back yesterday. Should I call her out on it? Not the three days without a text, but that she didn’t give me a heads up she was gonna flake on our plans. Do I explicitly tell her not to do it again?
/r/askTRP02/01/19 12:07 PM
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Good advice. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 01:33 AM
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That was when she stopped texting me back. That’s why I’m confused. Nothing out of the ordinary before that either.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 01:24 AM
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Will do. Was supposed to go out with her and some friends tonight for New Years but I’ll just go out with my bros.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 01:23 AM
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“Going to the beach next weekend, you coming?” Nothing out of the ordinary
/r/askTRP01/01/19 01:22 AM
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Ya like once or twice a week since I met her
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:58 AM
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Holy shit ya 135 at 6’3 is skinny af. How long did it take you to get to 180?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:00 AM
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That’s also how you get fat as fuck. There’s literally no point in eating more than 500 kcals above your maintenance...
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:44 AM
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I can second Dostoevsky and Bukowski. Dostoevsky has a way making you feel the insanity of his protagonists... (at least I do); strange feeling but reading his novels really gives your brain a workout. I love reading Bukowski. His writing is very simple a straight to the point which I find good for winding down before bed. You can’t go wrong with classic authors like Dickens (Great expectations is one of my favourites), D.H. Lawrence (Sons and Lovers, Lady Chatterly’s Lover), Joseph Conrad (Hear…
/r/askTRP08/12/18 06:38 PM
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Gonna have to disagree with you there. Try reading Dostoevsky, Huxley, Conrad, Tolstoy, etc... then tell me you haven’t learned anything.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:47 PM
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Weird. Works for me.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:03 PM
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Yes, you’ll still see trp posts in your home page. Click on the sub and when it opens you’ll be met with a “this sub is quarantined” message. Instead of hitting the “close” or “x”, touch your screen outside of the box that pops up and you’ll be able to scroll through the main sub.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:14 AM
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Thanks for the recommendations. I'll check them out.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 02:42 AM
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A lot of cool stories in that book. Great quote too.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 11:08 PM
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This. I have this 'game' I play with a buddy when we go out to the bar. We'll point out girls for each other to go talk/dance with and if one of us pussies out, they buy the next beer for the other. Definitely not as much motivation as $100 per girl but it really helps to get you out of your head before approaching.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:48 PM
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Thanks. I was pretty set on SS regardless. So, it's purpose is pretty much to get you 'conditioned' before attacking another program or like you said, adjusting the routine. I imagine, with my diet and sleep in check, strength gains will contain a bit of mass as well although obviously not as much as a specific hypertrophy program.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:59 PM
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