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I'm not hiding behind anything. I made a quite clear statement. You can disprove me if you like. And I will report harassment and intimidation if I feel like reporting harassment and intimidation. I've not said anything wrong. The only wrong thing about my statement is that it's true, and it shouldn't be.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 11:06 PM
28

I'd also add that it's the routine, widespread, deeply ingrained lying about general male suffering, especially suffering under the oppression of women and society as a whole.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 10:16 PM
4

How is it a generalization. That is literally my lived experience. Would you like to present to me a woman that I've met that does indeed care about men?
/r/MensRights03/01/22 10:13 PM
12

Last time I checked, I wasn't the one getting men to ignore their own issues to highlight ones for women.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 10:10 PM
2

This is disgusting
/r/MensRights03/01/22 06:06 PM
21

For women. For men it's prostate cancer, and it goes mostly untreated, because very little people actually give a fuck to make awareness of it. EDIT: In fact, based on data from 2021, it's only a 15% differential. If you think that differential is enough to encourage not a single organization to gaf about men but care about women, you're disgusting
/r/MensRights03/01/22 05:57 PM
11

Because there isn't, women don't care about men
/r/MensRights03/01/22 05:55 PM
9

Feminism has never, and will never be about equal rights
/r/MensRights03/01/22 05:53 PM
2

From what I understand, the proportional activate is about the same throughout the west, and because we have a much larger population, it happens more here
/r/MensRights03/01/22 05:53 PM
4

Eh. I'd rather the remaining time in my life be spent in quiet.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 03:50 PM
3

If my experience is to go by, statistically there are more female abusers than male abusers... Well that's because there are more female abusers, at least in the United States, if not the west in general. Your personal experience isn't a reference point.. It absolutely is a reference point. You are still bigoted if you profile people with prejudice. Saying that I don't trust women, or a white man saying that they don't trust me because of continuously backed up lived experience is not bigotry at…
/r/MensRights03/01/22 03:01 PM
2

For every abuser, there are twice (or perhaps more) the number people who are good and will do the right thing I've yet to meet a single woman that actually would behave in this manner. This is the difference. How are you going to tell a person to trust you when they have not once ever seen evidence of such? We aren't fighting to label all women criminals When did I say anything about fighting to label women as criminals? All I said was I don't see how it is bigoted to not trust someone. And you…
/r/MensRights03/01/22 02:36 PM
6

This is such a weird poll
/r/MensRights03/01/22 02:15 PM
4

I would not blame a white man for not trusting me if all he experienced is black men treating him like garbage. I simply don't see how that is bigotry, that is simply learned behavior.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 01:52 PM
2

Do you mean in comparison to women? If so, yes, it's even worse then.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 08:18 AM
6

Because it's correct. Feminism has never nor will it ever actually lead to men having a better place
/r/MensRights03/01/22 06:45 AM
-20

I don't see how it's bigoted to not trust people
/r/MensRights03/01/22 06:22 AM
11

This because since time immemorial, it's never been a thing to charge a woman for her actions, that's only a reason invention, and on top of that, it is codified in law that the man is to expect that sort of thing
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/22 06:20 AM
2

Objectively, African American Men get unwarranted treatment from law enforcement at higher rates than what they should taking account to population. That's what people are referring to when they say that there is systematic racism in law enforcement. If you want to look at the question of why, it's a very complex issue. Depending on the department, you might get a different answer, and that changes from department to department, region to region.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 06:16 AM
3

This is because black men are a significantly lower population demographic. You cannot compare based on encounters, ofc there's going to be more for white men.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 11:56 PM
13

The fact that you have to go to these lengths is absolutely fucking disgusting
/r/MensRights02/01/22 11:52 PM
1

It's absolutely insane how easily the writer glossed over the issues men are facing there in south Korea.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 07:17 PM
9

I would argue that Gap is inherently Misandrist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/22 07:06 PM
8

It actually does according to the bible
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/22 07:05 PM
12

Women don't care that their actions hurt men, they just want to look good
/r/MensRights02/01/22 05:54 PM
4

This is absolutely fucking disgusting.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 07:35 AM
1

I have done nothing to get banned
/r/MensRights02/01/22 07:21 AM
9

You are absolutely disgusting
/r/MensRights01/01/22 05:40 PM
11

Boys are more likely to be sexually victimized vs girls, by either men or women. Men are raped/sexually victimized by women just as much as women are by men. Men are assaulted in general more, by men or women.
/r/MensRights01/01/22 05:40 PM
3

Their problem tbh
/r/AntiFeminists01/01/22 05:33 PM
1

Oh no, just a troll. Check their post history
/r/MensRights01/01/22 05:21 AM
1

This screams "I want to label men as terrorists".
/r/MensRights01/01/22 12:58 AM
19

You are fucking disgusting. How have you not been banned yet
/r/MensRights31/12/21 11:49 PM
12

We all know you wouldn't
/r/MensRights31/12/21 11:48 PM
5

Women are more abusive in any kind of relationship
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/21 10:34 PM
21

This is funny because a lot of white women do end up with deeply racist/xenophobic men simply because they find that man to be initially attractive.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/21 07:15 PM
1

You do not get to tell me what is and isn't important to me you disgusting piece of shit.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 07:09 PM
3

This person is a troll.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 07:06 PM
1

This person is a troll.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 07:05 PM
1

This was known from the start. She wanted him murdered, that much is obvious.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 07:03 PM
1

Ah, this makes perfect sense now, you're not even in the age range they pull from, you're not in the affected. I was 20 and I watched every major news outlet coverage of that invasion all day every day for 6 months, the draft was never even mentioned as an option. No shit, drafts aren't called unless they need bodies. When people start dying off in, say, Ukraine or The SCS, a draft will be called.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 04:41 PM
3

I'm lost on how it's not legitimate for men to, for example, be able to go to college without the threat of being murdered in a far away looming over them.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 06:48 AM
1

What is wrong with you
/r/MensRights31/12/21 06:01 AM
35

Telling men that they can isolate themselves from women is frightening to women.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:14 PM
8

That's a shit excuse.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:11 PM
15

It quite literally is the listing for the draft. You are put in line for the chopping block.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 05:14 PM
7

Considering that the rate of women raping men has only grown, yet men are still routinely ignored, I call Bullshit.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 04:22 PM
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Girls and women should be told to not rape boys and men, and the justice system be reformed to punish disgusting offenders. But we both know that won't happen, and that you enjoy that very much.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 01:07 AM
21

You say this as if millions of men are routinely raped and these same people don't outright ignore this shit
/r/MensRights30/12/21 01:04 AM
1

What are you talking about? I'm not talking about physically beating people, I'm talking about fighting for legal rights to not be abused by courts and by women
/r/MensRights30/12/21 12:55 AM
1

You can, but I don't see that as effective. The last 30 sum years has been men fighting to see things change. Nothing has. Things have progressively gotten worse. I'm simply saying, remove ourselves from the equation. If they want to continue existing with us, then they have to change. If they don't want to, then so be it.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 08:17 PM
1

I'm not saying be gay, I'm saying avoid women. Women have zero reason to not abuse men as much as possible. Separate yourself from them, they might get it. If not, so be it
/r/MensRights29/12/21 03:52 PM
10

This screams of "why need men's rights when feminism exists?". Disgusting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/21 03:46 PM
1

You don't :)
/r/MensRights29/12/21 05:00 AM
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How is it more nuanced? It's literally the same thing, the same amount of change would be required.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:06 PM
3

It's exactly what you think it is.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:04 PM
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It's what black women refer to Black incels. It's a slur yes. I will be careful saying it though.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:04 PM
1

It really isn't, and especially when you want to look at the case like rape, where it's very cut and dry, yet women, particularly feminist have abuse the system so much that they have it to where not a single government on the entire planet is willing to realize that yeah, women rape meant all the time, and they won't do anything about it, it's disgusting, sad, and embarrassing
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:02 PM
0

The problems that address men as a class, such as the fact that it's not even acknowledged by the United States government that their own data suggests that men are raped and beaten by women just as much as the inverse, something that has been a matter of decades of legislation to curb in the inverse.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 07:52 PM
6

You're lucky
/r/MensRights28/12/21 07:48 PM
6

This is why you don't date
/r/MensRights28/12/21 07:46 PM
1

Yes, this
/r/MensRights28/12/21 07:46 PM
1

Expose every bad thing you have on her, block them all, and move
/r/MensRights28/12/21 04:41 PM
2

You're obviously trolling so we're done
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/21 04:38 PM
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There's already a ton of criminals out on the street that's the system is not designed to punish women, so there's a lot of women criminals that are out on the streets scot-free
/r/MensRights28/12/21 03:33 AM
12

Justice system was designed to punish men, not women. Traditionally, men were punished for the crimes of women, unless severe enough to warrant executing said woman.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 03:32 AM
2

I very much so do, and I recognize that over the years of study, the rate in which you are claiming is the lifetime rate (it's obviously not) was surpassed. Unless you are saying that no man was raped before the years started, and no man has been raped since but you are saying does not make any sense. You know what does? That women rape men at virtually the same rates as men, just like every other IPV. Stop denying it you piece of shit.
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/21 03:29 AM
3

Are you fucking with me?
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/21 01:52 AM
7

The reason why I said what I said is that's so often it's the same people who do that kind of activism that also slanders black men constantly, and enables black women to slender and beat black men constantly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/21 01:51 AM
2

Ah, you finally admitted to trolling. Reported.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 09:59 PM
3

So you're saying that the CDC lied?
/r/MensRights27/12/21 09:58 PM
3

Are you fucking with me?
/r/MensRights27/12/21 09:47 PM
2

Do you believe that if a woman forces a man to have sex, that is rape, or are you the type of woman that will unabashedly say that isn't rape.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 09:45 PM
3

Do you believe that if a woman forces a man to have sex, that is rape, or are you the type of woman that will unabashedly say that isn't rape.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 09:34 PM
3

How is a statement just factually wrong?
/r/MensRights27/12/21 09:33 PM
2

This is also just actually incorrect
/r/MensRights27/12/21 07:26 PM
7

This is just factually incorrect
/r/MensRights27/12/21 07:26 PM
3

No. I said exactly what I said.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 07:22 PM
7

He believes that women see men as humans, and thus will have basic human empathy for another human
/r/MensRights27/12/21 04:23 PM
16

Men have yet to figure out that women just do not care
/r/MensRights27/12/21 04:23 PM
-5

There's quite a few yes. There's far more women that'll actually rape or otherwise abuse you though, so I finally kind of odd that you're specifically focusing in on false accusations.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 04:19 PM
14

People only started to care when they kidnapped girls.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 03:19 PM
27

Because society expects men to deal with being harassed by the
/r/MensRights27/12/21 03:09 PM
-5

It's a bit hyperbolic, but he's not wrong.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 03:08 PM
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If you analyze it from the perspective of feminist activism and policy making advocating the downplay of male victims, but simultaneously promoting intersectionality, that falls through the cracks. But it's not black men specifically that they're aiming for when they say it's a racial issue, it's black people as a whole that they're aiming at.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 03:02 PM
9

But she's clearly saying what they call "toxic masculinity" is just bottled up emotions turned to anger. There's nothing wrong with this. Any literate person can see she is being supportive of men in general, and decrying the original woman's behavior. I don't see that as being supportive of men, I see that as being angry that one woman is ruining men for her
/r/MensRights27/12/21 02:56 PM
2

I wish I was a virgin again. Getting raped wasn't it.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 06:45 AM
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The problem is that these terminologies are so often used, and intentionally at that, to discount the issues at hand. It's like 19th century white women casually throwing out racism whilst claiming to be abolitionists.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 06:35 AM
8

Why won't feminists address the bare minimum? Women are beating and raping men at RECORD NUMBERS and you don't even give a fuck
/r/MensRights27/12/21 05:56 AM
4

The sheer fact that it's just wrong based on the years studied. Unless you're trying to say that no man has been raped since 2015, you are lying.
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/21 05:25 AM
6

I don't know what happy is
/r/MensRights27/12/21 05:24 AM
13

Every time I see this shit I start to cry.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 01:36 AM
4

This is just wrong. Answer the question.
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/21 12:42 AM
1

Do you seriously have to ask
/r/MensRights27/12/21 12:41 AM
4

So you believe that women forcing men to have sex isn't rape?
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 05:55 PM
5

It's not 50%. Based on the data gathered by the CDC, and BJS, it's about the same as women, maybe slightly higher.
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 03:02 PM
6

Because it is, and it's been made legal
/r/AntiFeminists26/12/21 03:00 PM
5

Not that they don't care as much, they just don't care at all
/r/MensRights26/12/21 03:00 PM
3

Politics are terrible
/r/MensRights26/12/21 01:15 PM
2

The only way I can imagine you believe that is that you've either never been outside the house or you don't have a single platonic relationship with a woman outside your own immediate family. Na, it's more so that I've never seen a woman actually see a man as a human being, and treat them as such. I stay away from women on purpose now. There are plenty of women that care about how men live They care about the potential implications that it has on their lives. Women don't care about men killing t…
/r/MensRights26/12/21 01:14 PM
1

So you are just going to sit here and lie to me, as if I can't read.
/r/MensRights26/12/21 01:07 PM
3

I don't think most of them are.
/r/MensRights26/12/21 01:04 PM
3

It's also just a blatant lie. The only case in which women don't abuse men more is murder, and that's because typically women be don't aim to outright kill men. If they do, because of infantilization, it gets stepped down to manslaughter. In any case, if you need an explanation for them, I can do so. In the meantime, here's some of the main ones I use: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pub/NISVSpubs.html https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/11/20/facts-about-crime-in-the-u-s/
/r/MensRights26/12/21 01:03 PM
4

It's interesting how women are going sex negativity lately, but only for men. Not my problem though, sex is disgusting
/r/MensRights26/12/21 02:20 AM
1

Are you just going to sit here and lie? Or are you going to tell the truth.
/r/MensRights26/12/21 02:13 AM
2

This is just absurdly wrong. Men are still the overwhelming majority in the absolute worst conditions possible in the country. Men are still being victimized by everyone, including women, and not getting ANY justice. Let's be real here. There is a percentage of woman that didn't like the nature that men live under, it's most certainly less than 1%. And end up 1%, there are quite a few of them that wish to see men living in worse or conditions. Virtually every single woman doesn't actually care h…
/r/MensRights26/12/21 02:13 AM
2

Ding
/r/MensRights26/12/21 02:09 AM
1

This is incorrect. In reality, women rape men just as much as memory women come with the problem is that it's not legally considered sex, and even if it was, the way that the police are trained, they don't consider men to be valid victims of female aggression often times, so the numbers would still get skewed heavily. You can look at domestic violence, even though it is illegal for women to beat men, and it's been found multiple times over with women initiate violence slightly more than men are …
/r/MensRights25/12/21 11:55 PM
8

The problem is that they don't care to, and in fact find it distasteful, perhaps suboptimal to exist in the world to where men are freed from the trials and tribulations that they have to constantly go through, especially the ones which gives women directly put men in. That's why women so readily denying obviously the fact that a lot of them are monsters that violate men. If they were to admit to it, then they would have to consider the fact that, despite popular demand to make them look like al…
/r/MensRights25/12/21 11:52 PM
34

Oftentimes the strategy of a feminist is to obfuscate or lie about how many victims, especially from women, there are. The best way to go at them is just to start citing actual evidence to show that men are victims at a much higher rate than what is recorded, and it's being obfuscated by feminists activism leading to standards that specifically exclude men. If you need proper citations, I can provide them. EDIT: For the record, this is not going to change their mind, it's just going to, if anyth…
/r/MensRights25/12/21 10:43 PM
25

It was not started to make men and women equal, it was starting to give women more rights. That is fundamentally a different thing.
/r/MensRights25/12/21 10:42 PM
30

I would argue that what you are doing is engaging in blind rage. It's not that they are deficient in any intelligent way, it's just that they simply don't care. Many of them are very aware of how many men are harmed, and harmed by women, the ages of you escape and lie about the issue because it will take away from their own efforts. They are much more interested in seeing women doing better than everyone doing better, they don't actually care about men.
/r/MensRights25/12/21 10:41 PM
2

Because they see men as objects
/r/MensRights25/12/21 10:31 PM
4

Oh ah
/r/AntiFeminists25/12/21 06:39 PM
2

I think they mean menopause.
/r/AntiFeminists25/12/21 06:38 PM
1

It's never been about equality.
/r/AntiFeminists25/12/21 06:38 PM
2

I'm going to give two answers, one legal one, and one personal one LEGAL- From how you explained everything, it sounds to me like you're from the United states, so essentially, because she didn't try to penetrate you, no, it's not considered rape, but a lower form of SA, like "Sexual Battery". Not worth pursuing. Considering that you already said that you're not going to, it would be for the best that you just didn't bother phone you are most likely going to encounter an absurd amount of trauma …
/r/MensRights25/12/21 05:25 AM
5

This is disgusting
/r/MensRights25/12/21 05:20 AM
1

Know what, I'll take the bait. Read through my comment history. If you are interested, I'll talk.
/r/MensRights25/12/21 05:15 AM
5

This would not surprise me if this is a phishing campaign for another sub
/r/MensRights25/12/21 05:14 AM
2

They usually aren't joking
/r/MensRights24/12/21 04:19 PM
2

No, it's based on all the evidence I have. Y'all do not care about us. You certainly don't, you're simply using this sub for entertainment.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 11:56 AM
1

They don't care to do anything though, and probably have engaged in those same behaviors before, so they are no better
/r/MensRights24/12/21 11:54 AM
7

I'm sure there's quite a few feminist organizations that would claim that she's being discriminated against despite literally killing a man
/r/MensRights24/12/21 11:51 AM
1

Well no, to be an actual friend, you would have to see that person as a human being, and women are incapable of seeing men as human beings.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:11 AM
4

I literally told you how. It's a setup for women to engage in one sided friendships. Also I find it very ironic that you would have the gall to go and tell me that I'm perpetuating nonsense because I'm pointing out that it's nonsense. EDIT: Ah, I just realized that you're a woman, now it makes so much sense
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:04 AM
1

It is very common for men to do so. I don't see how women trying to make it easier for women to abuse men's time and energy is advocation of men's rights. I will absolutely call that out as what it is.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:57 AM
3

Women
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:53 AM
4

I do not need women for shit. If you are addicted, that's terrible, but speak for yourself.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:48 AM
15

Assuming that the assertion they made, that men are incapable of forming relationships that can mean an exchange of emotional support between men (which is complete bullshit but we'll ignore that for now) is true, they are arguing to reconstruct men's behaviors to gain this behavior, to be able to give some sort of emotional support to a woman without needing to make the relationship to move beyond "basic friendship". The problem is two fold with this assertion though: 1: Men DO have the ability…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:43 AM
2

The real world is far worse.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:22 AM
3

I've never seen a not "crazy" woman. I also don't believe that any "crazy" woman is actually "crazy"
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:21 AM
3

On average, men and women get along just fine Only because men are forced to put up with the bullshit women put them through.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:19 AM
16

This is women trying to justify them using men for validation.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:12 AM
58

And look at that, no prison time for essentially murdering a man. Of course.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:10 AM
1

Nothing. Absolutely no reason.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:09 AM
1

You get it.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:56 PM
20

Women can rape men and it not be considered rape
/r/MensRights23/12/21 03:33 PM
0

It's the first time I've ever seen you say something reasonable
/r/MensRights22/12/21 12:58 PM
1

Define "real people".
/r/MensRights22/12/21 12:25 AM
14

Try to win that to feminists
/r/MensRights22/12/21 12:18 AM
1

See, that's where you are wrong. It quite literally is written now, it's just that you, or most other people know about these writings they are not on the level of Fame as, say, the Bible.
/r/AntiFeminists21/12/21 10:38 PM
-6

There would also be a riot, and almost immediate change in the system to where she would not get a sentence like that. So no, she wouldn't.
/r/MensRights21/12/21 05:08 PM
10

Women do and get away with it constantly. If men say anything, they're the bad ones.
/r/MensRights21/12/21 01:39 PM
1

No. Next question.
/r/MensRights21/12/21 12:48 AM
33

I quite literally read through the entire thing where the soldiers were rounding up men and killing them, specifically sparing the woman, and even going as far as the telling the women to, if the men they were targeting where their husbands, too say their goodbyes before they murdered them. Nowhere in the article you pointed out did they kill a single woman. So, I'll ask a question that you just asked me, do you have zero reading comprehension???
/r/MensRights21/12/21 12:43 AM
47

Considering that half of that article was about the trauma inflicted on women, and that there was in this instance ZERO women killed, they still somehow made it at least half about women. I would argue that that is a pretty poor attempt at focusing on male* victims.
/r/MensRights21/12/21 12:06 AM
2

I don't think it's luck, more so that I just don't believe that women view men as humans, and us have behaviors and actions that manifest themselves from that notion
/r/MensRights20/12/21 10:56 PM
2

That's one woman* out of thousands that have treated me on a spectrum of shit.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 10:49 PM
3

I thought I did a few years ago. When I ended up in the hospital, came out, she flipped out on me, because I ended up missing a date. She then beat me with a bat, and said that if I said anything, she would call the police
/r/MensRights20/12/21 10:36 PM
1

Literally everything that you stated is just incorrect. "Medicine degrees" doesn't even mean anything, if you actually met degrees that deal with medicine, including degrees leading to becoming a doctor, a nurse, or dealing with pharmaceuticals, most of those degrees go to women. Ergonomics design in passenger vehicles is not based around "average male height", it's based around percentiles for a certain population, them adjusted for (German car manufacturers typically go for the 95th percentile…
/r/MensRights20/12/21 08:52 PM
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Women commonly do so because they realize that police view them as less of a threat, and does have a higher tolerance to their bad behavior
/r/MensRights20/12/21 12:34 PM
1

and it's more than just not having sex with loads of females Given that I'm not interested in sex, like at all, that's not an issue for me.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 10:35 AM
1

I might have said that that is a manifestation of women not seeing men as humans, but I've never said that all women are selfish or unprincipled.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 10:33 AM
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That's actually disgusting
/r/MensRights20/12/21 10:30 AM
81

Regardless if you actually abused her or not, that's got to be illegal.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 09:08 AM
10

Ah yes, this
/r/MensRights20/12/21 08:59 AM
19

Can you cite me what you're referring to?
/r/MensRights20/12/21 08:55 AM
11

After getting beat once by a girlfriend, and the cops not doing anything to her, while I waited for another precinct to get me a restraining order, I didn't feel safe at my apartment, so I left and went to a shelter. They turned me away, but they gave me some pamphlet about deconstruction of the mindset of an abuser. In anger, I threw it away (wish I didn't now), ended up sleeping in my car for a week while the restraining order was processed. A few weeks ago, I saw an Article detailing how this…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/21 08:51 AM
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I don't believe people with biases. If the wife in question spoke herself, and displayed character traits incongruent with an abuser, I'd be more inclined to believe that is the case. But to declare all women are selfish and unprincipled I've never said this. I said that they don't see men as humans, and treat them as such. I've yet to meet a woman that breaks this mold, so I don't see any evidence of them existing. And for your last point, I'm not doing so. Hell, I'm not even an incel, so that …
/r/MensRights20/12/21 08:41 AM
1

I'm writing a book right now that in detail describes this effect, but this video describing men as an accessory. A good visual aid of you will.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 12:53 AM
1

That entire post was just pure projection. A lot of it was contradictory either from line to line, it's crazy
/r/MensRights20/12/21 12:14 AM
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Believe me, I abide by that mentality fully, haven't actually spoken to another human off the internet in months
/r/MensRights19/12/21 10:08 PM
3

As if they don't try keeping the conversation going lol
/r/MensRights19/12/21 07:21 PM
2

By that logic, a black man in the 1950's avoiding white people because of his fear of white people, he is part of the problem of systematic racism because he won't engage with them, even though it's shown that those white people have a high probability of trying to murder him, or otherwise abuse him. that is the argument you are making with me. You are telling me that by avoiding women, because of my fear of them violating me, I am a part of this problem. That's disgusting. This conversation is …
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:46 PM
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How am I doing so? I literally isolate myself physically from women. Furthermore, I don't push narratives or ideologies promoting men abusing women in the slightest. Attempting to work with women only leads to abuse. Are you saying that I must deal with the abuse women put out?
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:32 PM
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I have not created or contributed to a culture that allows for women to blatantly abuse men. That's just disrespectful of you to assert.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:19 PM
1

I have pondered this for days at a time. Actually done research to confirm suspicions or ideas. I would say that it sucks far less to being a woman than being a man because of the privileges they have just by being women, especially in Western Nations. Now I see no point in communicating or working with women. It clearly don't want to make things actually better, for anyone but themselves anyways. I'll pass.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:15 PM
8

Are we talking about personal feelings of privilege, or are we talking about actual objective measurements of privilege over an entire gender, I'm confused.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:13 PM
4

But see, there's the problem with what you are saying. A hyper substrata of men are able to use the benefits you are pointing out to their advantage. That doesn't benefit men, that benefits that's super minority of men. Having the Stars align for your personality and position in society is not a privilege, it's luck. Privilege doesn't ebb and flow, it pushes against the typical flow, it's an inductor to typical society standards, to a point to where it becomes one.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:07 PM
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I can't, as I don't see anything men have that is an unfair benefit. Hell, a lot of the positions of power men hold come from being forced into situations where that thing becomes a part of their life by force.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 05:03 PM
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No, that means that it CAN exist. Just because something CAN exist doesn't mean that it ACTUALLY exists. You are conflating probability with actuality.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 04:57 PM
2

That is absurd. Thank you for enlightening me on this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/21 04:51 PM
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No person who actually investigates any of these things believes that to be the case. However, I can literally go and point to laws that actually privilege women over men
/r/MensRights19/12/21 04:42 PM
13

Men fighting tooth and nail to get a job more often than women do those same positions it's not a privilege. The only reason why you view that as a privilege is because of the benefits that comes at the finish line. There have been many female prime ministers and presidents all around the world. You are being selective on the countries. Also, see above This is just incorrect and in a lot of situations, especially when it comes to children.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 04:41 PM
3

You can most certainly have zero in statistics.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 04:36 PM
1

Why are you certain that they have to exist?
/r/MensRights19/12/21 04:27 PM
6

It's a statistical improbability.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 12:23 PM
5

That doesn't exist
/r/MensRights19/12/21 12:15 PM
14

She would freak out just by you asking that. Or she would start gaslighting you.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 12:12 PM
1

That's not even what I'm concerned with. I'm more so concerned with women manipulating other men come particularly police officers to take away my free will, just on a whim, or beating/raping me, and I can't get any justice because the laws are structured specifically to only punish me. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 12:05 PM
1

Absolutely. It's a shocker why, when I point this out, I've actually been downvoted by a lot
/r/MensRights19/12/21 12:02 PM
1

This should be an easy task for you then: Present to me a woman that doesn't fit into this established mold.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 12:01 PM
4

You get it. I'm glad people do so
/r/MensRights18/12/21 11:16 PM
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You also have had feminists since the 90's, feminists actually involved in studies and policy advisement, saying that women forcing men to have sex with them isn't rape. But it's totally some kid who has zero power's fault. Right
/r/MensRights18/12/21 11:15 PM
8

They have been doing this for decades. More boys are raped than girls, in general, by men, or by women.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 11:12 PM
0

I'm perfectly fine isolating myself from women.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 11:04 PM
2

I'm saying the reality of the situation. Men have been fighting to get things changed for decades, and literally the exact opposite happens. Men have no reproductive rights, they aren't protected in family or marriage courts, and any IPV law is literally designed to make men a monster. The only thing men can do is saying no and leaving women out of their lives. Eventually that'll have to mean change . Nothing I'm saying is paranoia, everything I'm saying is backed up by empirical studies, and th…
/r/MensRights18/12/21 01:05 PM
1

Fine by me.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:38 PM
5

Yes, I isolate myself from them so they can't harm me. If they get the right to outright beat men in public it won't matter to me. I'm not involving myself with women anymore. They aren't going to change, they are going to keep pushing for things that makes it easier and easier to abuse me, and every other man. So why should I want to engage with them? And I didn't. If women engage with men as a whole far less, they are unlikely to ever engage with me.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:36 PM
2

And again, going no contact is all the information she needs to know. If he's not there, he's not there, this isn't a hard concept to understand. It doesn't have to sit there and tell her, and then listen to her gaslight him, harass him, or anything.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:09 PM
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The problem with what you're saying is that you're assuming that upon recognizing the fact that what they have been told is a lie, that they what change, start treating me differently, and advocating for different things. In reality, that is further from the truth. Also, feminism has always been inherently toxic, and completely disregards the way that men have been treated in society for millennia. Unlike women and feminism however, I don't advocate for them to have less rights than me. I don't …
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:06 PM
1

I don't believe in fairy tales
/r/MensRights18/12/21 09:27 AM
3

I find it interesting that he noted that the "narrow" approach won't work, but wouldn't actually point out where the external stigma mainly comes from
/r/MensRights18/12/21 09:21 AM
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I would agree with you, but let's be real here. Historically speaking, the only change that has happened for men in the workplace has been through extreme levels of protests lasting weeks, ending in bloodshed because the system sees men not taking abuse as trying to buck. No one's going to want to do that.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 09:12 AM
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I don't know if a single major change of society that feminists activists have been able to achieve that actually brings about some sort of egalitarian system. That's especially the case in United states, we're pretty much every single thing that they have done has led to creation of imbalance, giving them privileges, and making things even worse for men
/r/MensRights18/12/21 09:07 AM
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The problem with this is that vast majority of the problems that men face their cause directly by women advocating against them. Men have such a difficult time fighting sexual assault cases as victims or as falsely accused because of women. Same for domestic violence, same for family disputes, same for marriage. And they just don't care. A lot of them actually recognize these things, and see it as not an issue. So why should I like them? Like at all?
/r/MensRights18/12/21 09:04 AM
6

So let me get this straight: A woman is perfectly acceptable in appropriating with someone, changing their mind about the acts, and getting an abortion company and not having to say a single word about it. Or, they could just disappear with the baby and not say a single word either, just because it's inside of him. That's apparently fine. But if a man does this, he disappears without a word, he's suddenly on the hook for punishment? Na, fuck that.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 09:00 AM
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Cutting all contact should be all the information she needs.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 07:48 AM
3

I don't believe you read my statement correctly. That's what I'm saying, I'm also saying that he shouldn't have to tell her shit. Women don't.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 07:45 AM
6

Why should a man have to say anything? He should be able to drop the hammer and dip
/r/MensRights18/12/21 02:11 AM
5

Me isolating myself has been great help actually. I've not felt the need to cry or break anything in such a long time, I haven't been abused in months. It's peaceful.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 02:00 AM
7

I think men are starting to. Me stating that women have been lying to them about them being abusive is waking men up
/r/MensRights18/12/21 01:35 AM
6

I have moved on. I cut them all off, and I live in my home alone. I get everything I need delivered, and work from home. I don't harm anyone. When I decide to go, it'll be in peace and quiet, and nobody will know.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 01:34 AM
5

Because out of thousands upon thousands of women, I've never actually seen a woman actually do so, and thus until I see evidence to the contrary, I'm not buying it. And I already said why, twice. Ask her, not me. I'm not Kayne, I don't have all the answers.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:42 AM
3

I didn't ever say that women wouldn't grieve because they lost a man. I simply said that they don't care about them as people. It's like a poor person losing a million dollar purse. And I've been abused enough. I'll pass.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:15 AM
5

Watching a woman be emotional because they lost what is essentially to them an object of affection does absolutely nothing for me.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:05 AM
3

Because I don't believe that women have the capability of actually seeing men as human beings, let alone caring for or even loving men for their inmate characteristics as humans. There's always a caveat, a requirement, and that's often shifting to fit her needs.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:01 AM
2

Now you're just being delusional. Oh well, as long as she's not abusing you I hope you remain oblivious. I'm sure you can actually be happy.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:58 PM
4

That's entirely up to her and her subjective taste. From what it seems to me, you provide her enough validation and free access to therapy that she tolerates your existence.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:48 PM
5

I don't particularly care tbh, just giving you correct information. I've heard far worse.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:23 PM
3

Women tend to lie about things that can benefit them. For instance, in your case, outright saying that she sees you as someone that she can get X, Y, and Z from but otherwise serves no use would probably make you either hate her, leave her, or both. Why would she stir the pot when she's content?
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:22 PM
3

Technically speaking, it's not even, it's misogynistic, but I'm fine with that. Better to use fear and contempt to keep yourself safe by isolating yourself.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:19 PM
4

What you are describing is some fairy tale. Hell, even if your wife actually said all that, it's from a woman. I don't trust a single one of them to tell the truth.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:17 PM
2

I would say that it has nothing to do with divorce, because the same symptoms come from any interactions with women. Even supposed friends do this.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:15 PM
2

I believe that she tolerates your existence enough to reap the benefits of whatever you provide for her. She doesn't actually love or even care about you as a person. The second you lose the ability to give her the thing you provide that makes her tolerate you, she's gone.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:14 PM
6

And people wonder why I stay far away from women.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 10:12 PM
7

Technically speaking, I can't be. The one and only time I had sex, and I have, I was raped. After that, it very quickly became me choosing to not sleep with women. There's nothing involuntary about this.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 10:09 PM
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I wouldn't call it a lack of respect for women. I would say it's more of an acknowledgement, a fear of what women do, and have the capability of doing, based on my own experience and observation of women. And as far as that viewpoint goes, yeah, not letting women near me has vastly lowered the amount of abuse I face. Sure, I've not been able to basically leave my home in months, but not being abused beats going to a restaurant
/r/MensRights17/12/21 09:26 PM
2

Breathing. No, but really, I don't think that women who do things like this are crazy, in fact I think that they're just normal people. The issue is that it is so easy for them to do so that they might have a moment where they feel like either they need attention or validation, or they see it as a way of hurting you, and since women don't you men as human they see it as perfectly acceptable to hurt you in that fashion. Because the system has been made so easy for them to do so, that's just a con…
/r/MensRights17/12/21 08:13 PM
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I do not believe that a single woman actually has any sort of love for any man. Women might love things that a man could provide or provides for her, but the woman doesn't actually love that man as a human being. Fact, I will take it a step further, and say that an overwhelming majority of women don't even view men as human, at least, not in the way that they view themselves as human.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 08:10 PM
2

You being sorry, we're not sorry doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things, these things will keep happening to me, and many other men.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 08:08 PM
15

Then they would be agreeing that women sending women unsolicited pictures is uncalled for. I have never once seen a woman seriously say that it's the case for men. I've instead been directly been told that I'm strange and a weirdo for not wanting to be sent anything sexual from women, that I should "be thankful that any woman would want to in the first place", as a former friend once told me for instance. And yes, because of feminism, I wasn't able to get Justice for a woman raping me. Why shoul…
/r/MensRights17/12/21 02:20 PM
11

No, that specifically said that unsolicited female pictures to HER was just as bad. It should be very obvious that feminists, and I'd say women in general, have viewed consent as a double standard. That, at the very most, consent has less worth from a man, that women violating men matters less. They have had it codified in law after all, and pretty much none have tried to get that changed. Like anywhere.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 02:16 PM
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Don't give an inch, don't be like me and let the police bully you into silence. I didn't get my Justice because I let them do that, don't be like me.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 02:12 PM
12

I do not believe that that is the opposite, and in fact, I have seen them actually say this, that men should feel lucky to have a woman wanting to present that kind of stuff to them at all. Very much so superiority complex individuals.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 02:11 PM
23

It is literally ingrained in this society that men cannot be abused by women
/r/MensRights17/12/21 10:28 AM
1

Good on you!
/r/MensRights17/12/21 03:30 AM
73

Yes, actually this. In fact, cozy up to the enemy, make them think that you're on their side
/r/MensRights17/12/21 03:26 AM
6

I would protest the class
/r/MensRights16/12/21 08:51 PM
3

That is a fast track to prison
/r/MensRights16/12/21 08:50 PM
7

All of the overtly sexist and misandrist things that would happen to men just flew under the radar. It wasn't until major evidence to the contrary would be put out by the government, then subsequently ignored.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 06:22 PM
5

Well then, I'm going to put in my answer as 2010.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 05:08 PM
7

By emerge, do you mean actually manifested, or the build up to it? If you mean the former, I would say, at least the United States, around 2010, when the NISVS popularized the idea of sexual violence against women. A lot of intersectional movement started popping up as pressure from things like that started happening afterwards. If you mean the latter, I would say that it's been in the work since the inception of the United States.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 05:05 PM
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Whatever makes women look good
/r/MensRights16/12/21 05:02 PM
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