So here it is: women don’t actually care how tall you are. They don’t care if you’re a “Chad”, they don’t want you to make a certain amount of money, and they don’t care how mega-ripped you are. You know who does? Marketing companies. By artificially moving the “ideal expectation”much above the mean population, these companies work behind the scenes to target male insecurities and keep you in a prison of your own making by making you think you need to change into something that 98% of the population isn’t so they can break down your self-esteem and make you into a docile consumer of their self-improvement products. Don’t let ANYONE tell you that you’re “mediocre” as an insult. Your “averageness” is shared by NEARLY ALL of your brothers worldwide, and women will love you just as you are if you show them kindness. That’s all they really want: An attentive, kind partner. Spend no money, take no action to change yourself unless the motivation comes from a personal desire to do so. Don’t let yourself be fooled into thinking that the love you’re looking for is behind the next paywall. Be kind. Authentically, honestly kind. That will be what saves you.