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This is as everything, situational factors dependant. If you are trying and getting nothing, move on. If you are getting some energy but she has her own shit going on, do give it a go maybe she is just tired or overwhelmed with her own shit, and will appreciate your effort in the end. Dont go all or nothing just for because you have a silly rule to get what you give. Life isnt fair.
/r/seduction17/03/22 03:22 AM
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If you dont connect on anything, and just get the numbers from a basic open and got some numbers, then yeah...ofc they eithe rgave you fake numbers, or they didnt get anything form you to even remember who you were you texted back... The idea is to latch at least one common thing, you know, to just not come off as a pick up artist, or a guy that is playing the numbers game to get laid.... People with covid had a lot of time to think about what they want, and people dont want to be alone for the …
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:16 AM
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Look, its not judgmental....its concern for the moral efficacy of anyone else having same dilemma as you. If you think I am accusing of being desperate, when you are not, why reply defending yourself with such extravagant defencive language "oh lord dont be so judgmental' ? My point is, if you can clearly see she has all these issues stacked up, you are either seeking validation for the reasons to sleep with her, or you are seeking advice from 'people of the internet' why you definitely shouldn'…
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:31 AM
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I mean, you are aware she is having all these issues, and yet you still contemplate getting your dick wet at her expense? Like, if any time there was a selfish reason to fuck someone over, its clearly this one. Even with her consent you can clearly understand she is going to have a high chance of getting a negative outcome from this..... Sounds like trolling, or social awareness test for this sub, unless there are people out there that do think this way, and there are.... So no, dont play with p…
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:08 AM
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Without context of what you did/talk about with her, its either a way of her to milk you for as much as possible before you shutoff the account, all the way to milk you for a free holiday paid by you. Sex workers are hit and miss, their job description is pleasing the fantasy of the payer, so in a way, leading you on is a byproduct of the business model.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:10 PM
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For me it isnt, at some point, I became bored of just doing the same things to different girls, hit and miss, i leave unsatisfied, throughts start trailing of during sex, feelings become less than fulfilling. Many women just expect me to give it my all, but they are content to just lie there. Chats, jokes, mid sex transitions become just by the numbers. Sometimes I meet a good lay, but far and few in between it was just being undervalued as a person, physicality became the compliment goto by the…
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:33 AM
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Maybe means maybe, you treat it as a no, incase it is.
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:05 AM
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People dont know what they want until they have a taste of. In fact humans are so bad at predicting emotions and how they will react in the future, thats its pointless talking about future emotional plans. In fact we are so bad as to not even remember emotional feelings and cam often change memories based on emotional priming. So, women dont give bad advice, they just give objective opinions, often from anecdotal perspective. So what works for one, doesnt work for another, and advice even about …
/r/seduction20/02/22 12:04 PM
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Women are like cats, you dont like her, suddenly she likes you
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:31 PM
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[removed] -Well like others say, play your strengths and be yourself. How long can you realistically wear a mask and be happy? -2nd of all women/people chase different things. so the answer is yes. You can, because women chase comfort as much as fun, strength as much dominance, wisdom as much as charm....Not everyone chaces all of these or equally. So your best bet is just finding people who you can get along with and maybe have sex with, instead of trying to get laid by manipulation and acting …
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:01 AM
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Yeah I was hesitant to sub to here, but after browsing it was quite a self development crowd. There is a lot to be said about trying to just get laid, and some people do try to go for that. Most of men that come here to get some start, they want a magic bullet but learn that people cant be magically convinced to just have sex with them. And honestly lack of those dating and pickup gurus is refreshing, just accidentally watching a vid or two on youtube screwed up my suggestions for months with th…
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:46 AM
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I think this is a deeper question of personal schemas and social idealism of your perception of what is expected. If you feel like you are wearing a mask, and feel the need to play the game at the expense of feeling comfortable, means you are not comfortable with yourself and dont have the life you wish you had or something along those lines. POint is the game isnt about doing everything right. Its about knowing the rules and ways to play it. Its always repeated this is a numbers game, because w…
/r/seduction15/02/22 04:10 AM
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Eating lunch
/r/seduction15/02/22 03:34 AM
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Thats sounds like an ego douche not an alpha...
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:04 AM
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You need to step back, put on a smile, introduce yourself, be friendly to this 'white knight', show HER that you are as respectful and charismatic with him as you are with her. Give him the 2min of attention he deserves for coming over and interjecting. Then proceed to ignore him as you continue conversation with hee (obviously dont make it passive aggressive, just transition his interruption back into talking with her. If she agrees there is no problem then you two just continuing to talk would…
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:03 AM
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Im with you, never stick yo dick in crazy
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:40 AM
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Once again, if you have to question if you should go for the kiss, she is clearly not giving you any signals... like you clearly want magic to happen. Sometimes you just go out there and run into a horny person who fancies you, you laugh, you flirt, you touch, you escalate, and they do the same. First date, club, bar, fucking wedding, doesnt matter. Just keep escalating. If its working you are just saying shit, teasing, complementing, touching, you feel her getting closer, touching, laughing at …
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:54 AM
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Yeah..... absolutely sometimes you just meet and mash and its easy and it flows. If its hard and you feel like you are gridning nails to get a number, you clearly arent mashing....
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:45 AM
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yes obviously... escalate physically, mentally, and sexually. Kino etc. Its actually pretty straight forward, she already came around once, next time just escalate more with intent. Just read the room, and dont rush.
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:18 PM
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Why are you even talking to her? If you just want a lay, then no, dont mention it and dont date her, avoid all future reference to her sister... If you might want to date, at some point you will have to tell her that you know. Because you know, you will eventually run into her sister. My answer is just avoid the shitstorm entirely, pussy isnt worth it.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:21 AM
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Its not an odd line of questioning....its cutting the shit. She is clearly interested in you, and wants to date (or not) but she is asking what are your dating red flags, perhaps either you didnt express your intent enough. But that is totally to the point line of questioning, an experienced guy would either choose to drive the intent of casual relations, or dating preferences. Through the responses she can figure out whats what, but also that either she is crazy, or is looking for a relationshi…
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:19 AM
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From my experience friends and close relatives of gfs or Exs on tinder are either a trap or bait. I had more than one instance of women matching me and then i find out later they all knew about it, and that they did it to test me, or to find out if i am a liar or something. Basically manipulative. I avoid shitting in the same place i ate, just avoid the drama.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:03 AM
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Because we are emotional social creatures. Being indifferent is a lazy and inexperienced way to dealing with things like shittests. We humans, look for reactions. Being indifferent is a copout to what could be the right way to react. As for being a doormat, taken to noob-extreme expression of indifference can be interpreted esp by more cheeky girls as a free ticket to push buttons and walk all over the guy. Because he is indifferent, or clueless...lets find out. Either way you lost the date, and…
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:05 PM
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lol wut, any quality woman is just going o ignore you if you are 'indifferent', have opinions and thoughts, dont be a doormat...
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:55 PM
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I hated clubs ever since I was 18.... Its mostly a sausage fest, with super defensive quality women, and easy sluts. And I get sensory overload due to issues as OP, so i can never be present. There is more out there than just clubs. Pubs, events, social groups, classess, retreats, list can go on.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:53 PM
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Bubble gum is like crack in plutonic situations, esp active group events. I just rockup with gum, strike up a convo with a group of people at what looks like the centre stage of the situation, and proceed to open gum for 5min whilst talking. Eventually people start asking if they can have some, or some mints. But thats the thing, its just psychology and sensory peacocking. You can prime people for a response, you can entice them into a conversation. You can even come off as pretentious.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:55 AM
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Dont just ask for a date, invite her out on a date, logistics..... Also, after a sleep next day, after some time to think, people can change their mind. Like others have said, dont make yourself too available, unless you made plans then and there what to do on a second date, texting the next day asking for a date, and not inviting her out to anything specific, is needy, and comes across as you dont have anything organised and just want to waste sometime make her do the work of figuring out what …
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:08 AM
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Dating apps are designed to get you to pay, they are not an indicator of anything.... Get off the apps, just talk to people irl, its hard, but its better.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:29 PM
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Online dating is a mostly a scam, just look at how many tiers of monetization and incentives tinder has. Dont fall for it, its mostly design to hook you and keep you hooked until you pay then you may get an expirience.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:36 AM
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Building rapport and social value at the gym is how you get girls, coz without it you are just some douche picking up women, with rapport, you are just making friends and being friendly, big diff in interactions and how many wall they will have up.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:07 PM
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All is fair in love and war. because in both people fight for their life. SO if another challenges you like that, you have to either make is socially clear but subtly that this is guy is being rude and you want to catch up next time and ask her out right there with that guy in the picture. or fight for her attention with an orbital factor that still hasnt got her so he is defencive of competition. Have to be nice, as you cant be seen a jerk or idiot in front of her. So either continue the conver…
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:23 PM
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maybe you never went in
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:22 PM
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There is a funny joke from somewhere\one: Stop trying to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other. Save yourself.
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:56 AM
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Be casual, be fun, funny, flirty, always escalate and be upfront. Hmm this sound alot like the basics.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:24 AM
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Same shit, but with more maturity and responsibility for your actions 🤷
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:39 AM
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High school girls... Well best solution is suck it up, have hobbies, be interesting and interested in things, and go talk to girls your hight or smaller if its such a big problem lol
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:33 AM
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Also, if you love them, they will expect you to chase them, from a position of power that you painted yourself to her. Thats why people wait a bit to express the love word etc, women tend to want to be chased, and proven to be worthy of your love, of their love. Its partly human nature. So all is fair in love and war.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:02 AM
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Priorotise women based on your needs. If you want relationship, best women get your time so you can weed out the ones you dont see a future with. Have specific metrics you are looking for, if for example you wouldnt talk about careers and future plans with a fuck buddy, but you might want to keep things casual and just discover her ethos, what makes her tick, thats about it.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:29 AM
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A good way to determine quality isnt just price. With good quality, you need to spray once on wrist, twice on body under the shirt, chest around armpits or center and back same thing if u need to, the wrists you can rub together and apply to neck. This leaves a scent on all needed areas. Then there will still be fait residue to the scent the next day on the shirt and body. Meaning just like women, they will leave their scent on your pillows, you too as a man should leave your scent on hers. Just…
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:37 AM
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Cologne, good hygiene, clean skin possible to use moisturiser (i am using those antiaging creams keeps pores closed for me), clothes that fit and s style that matches. All these leave an impression. Cologne is esp important if a woman gets close she will will have a smell memory (goof cologne has a distinct flavour and can stick around is good. Cheaper stuff is alcohol methanol evaporates too quick). But the others like clothes will make her want to be approached, and will approach. With fresh s…
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:20 PM
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Sometimes, just saying, friendship is all thats left in a relationship. Like the love, the lust, the desire for the other person just dies, and it happens platonically too. So becoming friends with the ex is easier after a long relationship. Where there has been years investment into the other person and cutting them out of the life isnt easy and you still have positive emotions towards them. There is a period of adjustment, but relationships that do transition into friendships are usually those…
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:25 AM
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Thats because everyone has a submissive side....
/r/seduction04/01/22 03:30 PM
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How to make friends and influence people. Or other modern alternatives that are more up-to-date with psychology. Anything on understanding and using emotional intelligence. Leadership, management and people skills from management books. You can read phylosophies: stoicism helps me with accepting myself within the world I have influence over. But there are others that help. Letting go of your ego, understanding concept of ego, will definately help you with yours And you can do a lot with just rea…
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:16 AM
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Some women like to play games. If she likes you and thinks you are weak (by her standards) she will push and shittest. This comes off as her jumping to another guy to see how you react (even if its like not even a date). Some will come around coz the other guy is a douche, or coz she got the response that jives with her. Eitherway its eaise to play yourself and grow your own spine, than to chase all these tricks. More you understand people and behaviours, the more you can take up opportunities. …
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:08 AM
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Touching and kissing, escalate..... Also create sexua tension, kissing and touching is flirting and foreplay and if given liberally will not create tension (push pull i think they call it). So you warmed her up and left her on standby, some guy came buy with sexual appeal and he took over your warmed spot. You needed to do more than just get to the touching and kissing, it has to go somewhere. Also I agree with others untill you are married, consider your partner to be even with a commitment con…
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:02 AM
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Perhaps you shouldn't start the relationships with promises and build expectations? Just saying, breakups are bad, but i dont get hit
/r/seduction24/12/21 12:36 PM
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Tinder has dead, fake, deactivated accounts. You want a bot to swipe bots? We have come a full circle!
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:15 PM
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Well, there you go. Choose two, go on social events regarding these. Learn ti talk to people about stuff you like. Then once practiced, you can talk to other people, maybe even meet a girl there!
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:40 PM
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You cant fix, not having a personality and being self defeating(im not good). Spend some time on growing self, spend time idk reading, hobby, have direction and own it. If you are weak, so what, you have your own strengths, go on that. Its a reason its an ocean out there, so many fish, not all will like you, you wont like all. Stick to your passions, or develop some. If you have nothing to talk about, and nothing to ask, thats where youy start, go get a life and then you can be interestested and…
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:08 PM
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Hot pussy isnt worth it mate. If you are old enough to recognise that, you are mature enough to let it go. She is hot and crazy because men give her the attention. I have a hot girl into me, amd is constantly hitting me up even when i go silent. She is shallow, she wants an easy life with a vain perception of value through consumer showmanship. I am not like that, i dont tell her i have money o dont show it, but she knows my job title. So she figures there is income, so she is interested, even i…
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:58 PM
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Sounds like you are a lifeboat to her current relationshio/love interest that is a better choice for her, but you arent bad and are being strung along. Move on.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:38 AM
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Yes...to both. You can shit test girls attraction levels. Stupid jokes, getting her to talk to you, see her reaction when you outwardly push, say direct sexual joke at her expense and see her reaction (obviously personality focused, right person right tool)
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:02 AM
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Serious reply: be rich. Single most profound thing that gets attention from women is perceived status, and money can buy that. Everything else is innergame, if you dont want to be rich, figure out what you like, and be good at it, then see what women find that stuff you are good at hot, and thats your demographic.
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:52 PM
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Yes, tinder has a premium. It will actively encourage you to get it, to the point of cycling bot, dead and fake accounts so you keep using the app. It will put your account on the back of the line so that the premium and new users get a shot at the front of the scroll, and ebove all just because you have bio and pictures doesnt mean you will instantly get matches. Tinder is now known for its sex only vibe, so in reality what will end up happening is good women/girls wont be on it for anything se…
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:05 AM
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Equally, if you are good in bed, some of the best thing to do is to edge the girl. Instead of getting her there and letting her cum, you stop, and take a breather for yourself and go hard again getting her there. It mainly works for those with higher lobido, if a girl is already hard to get there, dont try it, unless you can match the time take there again, or keep up your intensity. Otherwise there is an issue of getting tired.
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:51 AM
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You can always pay your parents to go out, like buy them theatre tickets, shows, musical, idk movie tickets and a dinner. If there is a will there is a way. Or you can get a hotel room.
/r/seduction25/09/21 11:04 PM
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Only if you own it and dont get flustered and cover your ego. Many women will overlook experience or lack of knowledge, but if you pretend to be something or know something you dont, covering your ego instead of admiting and owning your shortcomings, generally few people can respect that.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:15 PM
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Its a numbers game, probability is still a function of a set of numbers. The more numbers the better probability, plus more practice with greater number is better self skills. Probability comes once you learn the social skill, the ioi etc interpersonal communication, time and place. Its still a numbers game, sure you can get lucky and hit the girl thats into you on the 5th approach and you fall for her and its all great, but people like seduction for many reasons, mainly to get laid, or get the …
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:37 PM
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Idk, people say you missed your shot. I say she may have been walled but feeling free enough for a compliment your way without wanting anything else. I get that sometimes, just sit at the bar people watching, then a woman from a group fo workmates she was with coems up and compliments me, then leaves back to them. Different situation, very odd, missed my shot most defiantly. But at the same time I tried but i guess women liek men have an idea so when they approach and you are not what they cream…
/r/seduction13/09/21 07:20 AM
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I think the thing you trying to say is, be yourself, but be the best version of yourself. Confidence, charm, charisma are in a way subjective to each person mean diff things. So by being your best, its the sum of who you are working towards, the you now, and you in the past. Fake, artificial masks people put on to be someone else, a bad boy, changing one self into a cool guy(but its like their version of what a cool guy is, not hers or anyone elses really). Fakness, even if faked well has no gro…
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:14 PM
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People confuse unapologetic confidence with bad boys. Bad boys are unapologetic, and thats it... But you can be strong, opinionated, ego, confident adn forceful, and still be respectful, kind, smart etc. Pretty sure the world for the most part has moved on from trope stereotypes. but confidence is confidence, and bad boys have it, they also are assholes, so thats a big blow to interpersonal relationships.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:05 PM
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Everything is a shotglass: Belly button, ear, nose, buthole, toes. Find where you and her can hold liquids and the other takes a shot from that place.
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:16 AM
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It isnt if the guy goes for another round. I used to be able to go 3 rounds, now i need a break for 2nd round and longer break for 3rd if it happens. But age does lower that it seems. if he didnt go for another round, means he is insecure, self absorbed and embarrassed about it. Even the toughest of use get it in our heads that this penis thing, it rules out ego lives. I still get embarrassed and have faked not communing to struggle to regain an erection mid coitus, to get a chance to change con…
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:46 AM
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I used a bunch of free loccitane immortelle cream samples for a month or two. Only a drop or two skin feels great, definate tightness. I then found out the tub costs alot. So now I am just using a dab in morning and and night of mens loreal vita lift. Pretty cheap works alright, leaves a bit od oilyness, but thats not a problem really. Value for money considering.
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:11 AM
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I started to put anti ageing cream on, it has something in it that toghtens skin nd closes pores. Lifting, clothes that fit, clean styled hair(my style is messy for easy mintanace), good healthy looking body, nice looking skin. Gets looks, women want to talk to you, people want to be around you. Its not even about looks, just looking after yourself and having personality, social skills will breach the gap for most women.
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:05 AM
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Basic rule of life: Dont shit where you eat. Dont have sex with people you have a mutual non sexual arrangement with on a daily, like housemates, coworkers, sportsgroups. If you want to maintain that environment for productive preposes, having sex is like lighting a fuse that will blow up in your face in some form most of the time. If your job isnt worth it to you, go for it, but be prepared to find another if this blows up in your face. Otherwise its just harmless workplace flirting.
/r/seduction04/08/21 04:19 AM
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Sort of, more of places and events where ypu have no rapport with each other
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:25 PM
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You may need an i icebraker to get anywhere with cold approach. Seriously tho, its just approaching random women outside events, like on the street. Approaching cold, idk why, butnprobs because thats the reaction you get doing it.
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:41 PM
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Go out and be more upfront and sexual. The physical aspect of flirting. You know, touch her, compliment her, sexualise conversation with topics etc. Chat, when the topic of what are you into, or what you are looking for comes up, openly say I am not looking for ny serious relationship, but I do like you and we can always see where thing head. Or be open about it and say that you like her lets go bck to your place. After sex, thats when you can discuss about friendship, or fwb ongoing relations. …
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:35 AM
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Nowadays most apps and sites are filled with bots and fake dead accounts in order to boost premium sales. Furthermore, catfishing is very real.
/r/seduction23/06/21 08:18 AM
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Muscles help, but they help even more if you have stamina and are good in bed. Then that big dick energy translated through skill into them just creaming. No joke, my issue is that i have to choose better because good sex gets women to be hooked, which isnt as fun as one would assume esp if they are on the crazy side. Meaning, yea they help, but in reality its still attitude, charisma, conversation, iois, confidence, and looking after self and life that gets attention. Good looks and attractive …
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:27 PM
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Also women are like cats, they say they want to be chased but watch them chase from the side and realise its like a cat, dont give them attention, they come craving it.... Also, yeah, friendliness isnt assertiveness, not at early years of social skill development. Older men know how to be caring, gentle, kind, and still be forceful, unapologetic and to the point. Women have a sixth sense to avoid neediness, because children are needy, self made men, dont have time for flaky women, so women chase…
/r/seduction30/05/21 02:33 PM
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Place "free wifi and tampons", as caption on your image, this will guarantee swipes.
/r/seduction21/05/21 03:06 AM
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It huminises the messege, but also peacocks your assets mr financially stable breeding matereal 😉
/r/seduction10/05/21 02:05 PM
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I mean, lets not just descriminate for specific sociocultural and classification groups, but there is definatly alot more wiggle room with what people consider to be detrimental to relationships/sexual desire, and what is "quality". So yeah, quality is subjective.
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:48 AM
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The text is pretty clear i think, very con like. Just go to the people, befriend them, use them. They use you, women, drugs, parties. The 'lifestyle'
/r/seduction20/04/21 02:46 PM
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Most girls dont really have trouble seducing men, but welcome to start asking questions and giving advice yourself! Men are easy, thats the problem, high quality men are harder, but not as hard as reverse dynamic imo. High quality women can be attained if you have high quality assets as well 🤣 we are basically all basic.
/r/seduction20/04/21 02:43 PM
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Lol nice. I am getting a lot of movie tropiness from this logic. But the essence is, lewrn to read people, learn to carrot and stick, and essentially become a con artist. Social chamelon with the skill of social slight of hand. Bravo, good read. Reminded me of like american pie, eurotrip, teen drama lama mov8e sets. Personally, thats like peak socialite of nightclub archetype alpha is OP, with cocain.. (like from 80s and 90s?). Wow! Bravo 👏. Just to clarify, your entire strategy revolves around …
/r/seduction20/04/21 02:10 PM
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Perhaps for the long term, but in short term pure animalistoc sexual attraction the game is still pretty straight forward and often akin to classic courtship.
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:14 PM
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I blame neoliberal capitalism. Driving workers to work longer to drive profits in never ending inflaiton to cover costs. Generations of people are now outpriced from housing and life, forced to work long hours to get income to spend little time with friends or family or self development. Parents need to provide pay off loans, there is no time in a full working week to engage with children let alone with own personal life. This is a systemic degredation of society, and america suffers the most be…
/r/seduction18/03/21 04:37 PM
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But you can gain their favouritism by getting them to perform small tasks (like foot in the door)...
/r/seduction18/03/21 02:11 AM
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I would text her a day before, or around lunch time, just to confirm plans, see how she is doing.
/r/seduction16/03/21 11:31 AM
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Wrong sub....this sub is for people who want a chance to finger and stroke another. If you already have someone there is r/relationships or similar. Also google....
/r/seduction11/03/21 02:54 AM
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Omg this is so exciting! I love those shoes, they make you look dashing! I bet you can tare up the dance floor with your vibe! 'excited face and body language' Match emotional energy with words: they call it passion. Logic is just passion sidestepped. When people are passionate they have eagerness to express and depth of exposition. If you want to convey emotion find ways to realise the ways you act and talk diff when you are passoonate vs when you are not, and fake those things when talling rom…
/r/seduction10/03/21 01:16 AM
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step 1, have attraction. Step 2 be a decent human being. It is really that easy!! But you do have to be together.
/r/seduction08/03/21 09:57 PM
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Critical thinking 101, apply this to mass media, advertising, propaganda, politics, people. Thought the title was from a diff sub, but its r/seduction. Wow, but yes, the title applies to critical thinking in all faucets of life.
/r/seduction06/03/21 03:34 AM
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How old are you? From my expirience, the spark is both mental and physical. You arent getting sex because you lack passion with authenticity, and/or clear intent. If you are dating and they dont feel a spark, you arent your open confident self, you arent being true and open to yourself and them. If yoymu just want sex be sexual, be physical. If you want relationship, still be physical but less sexual and more covert about future, plans dreams, likes and affections. Its all about what you want, d…
/r/seduction28/02/21 07:29 AM
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yes, 40degree dry heat, fires all around. I am into european girls, which sucks as there arent as many here.
/r/seduction24/02/21 01:27 PM
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Land down under city of around 2mill
/r/seduction24/02/21 12:41 PM
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I deleted the apps over a year ago now, feel better, more relaxed, chat to girls and people outside irl more. Havnt gotten as much one night stands, but have enough casual fwb that dont need it. Point is, for dating i am now looking to meet get to know, be real. The apps are monotonous spiral to get you to pay. I noticed not only is it a sea of crap on there for both sexes, but if you distill a human personality and chemistry to swiping on physical features and a few sentences you can actually m…
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:22 AM
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I just find this sub has men/adult specific advice for interpersonal and stutus improvements. Like l, yes I can get laid if i lower my standards, would like to date upwards though, eventually.
/r/seduction24/02/21 05:03 AM
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Buy her a drink, stare into her eyes and straight up tell her what you want.
/r/seduction21/02/21 08:34 AM
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Dont lump all women into thus chategory. Also, if you really want to get one going without contact, I suggest going way below your status. Otherwise you really need to know her to push the right buttons mentally. Since you arent a mind reader, and are here asking for this advice, clearly your only option is batting below your type, find one that looks at you like a fat person looks at a buffet, thats usually a clear indication there is strong attraction from her end, makes it possible to get the…
/r/seduction03/02/21 04:47 PM
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🤔 Lower your standards . If you are just after a quickie and need to be upfront about it, easy. Go on tinder or club, chat uo some girls who are not as hot as you woukd like. Be casual, confident, flirt, suggest going back to yours. Then have sex. Simple really. If you want quality and/or relationship. Well then work on it, work on yourself, know what you want and dont be afraid to go for it.
/r/seduction24/01/21 08:13 AM
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Hey gurl, wat u doin 4 the rest of ur lyf, she goes: I dont even kno wat im doin tonight wink*
/r/seduction20/01/21 02:05 PM
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She probably found a guy who fi her fancy more and went dry on you shrug. For women its like a sea of choices dude.
/r/seduction13/01/21 04:21 PM
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Then give this person the best sex ever, and thats that. Fwb works nit because 'friends' but because friends and good sex.
/r/seduction18/12/20 07:19 AM
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No, you gave examples of soft ownership. Like a predotory loan shark or something, you fail to realise the human condition. On a level we are all slaves to ourselfs, our ideations, needs and wants. To be truely free, is to understand where your oercieved freedoms end. No it isnt illigal to own a human, slavery still exists and percists in the world today, so does entire production for human consumotion relies on workers, animals and planet. You argue that one can not be free on basis of legality…
/r/seduction03/12/20 02:17 AM
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I love how you start with a fallacy, then proceed to just justify it with anecdotal evidence. Basically, once again, its not a choice, people are born and live and are a party of large systems. Freedom from them is suoerficial at best, but nice try...
/r/seduction03/12/20 01:52 AM
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Bro, you live and participate in consumer capitalist culture. You have no idea about who owns who and what freedoms you actually have. Thats the tangable world we live. In terms if phylosophical conundrums you may be expiriencing towards this idea of "beloning or ownership", is a byproduct of the reality you embody. Thus, sure you think nobody truly belongs to anyone. But try not paying your taxes, or loans, not work, and go down to the prison industrial complex and see how they are going with m…
/r/seduction02/12/20 11:48 PM
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Just dont use this as justification for infidelity.
/r/seduction02/12/20 11:43 PM
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If you are fat and ugly, just be ugly!!! But seriously, whats a league? Why not meet people you are interested in? Beauty is skin deep, and it goes with age. So not that it matters, but if you have looks, money and charisma you will find women, but they may just be some of the most shallow ones out there. Hence perhaps its not the leauge, its you.
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:01 AM
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Lol, men WITH expirience still dont know anything about women. Expirience will just give you social skills, the kind you should already be working towards regaedless of intent and gender.
/r/seduction18/07/20 01:45 AM
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this isnt r/relationships but if you feel insecure in your relationship, that is something you need to discuss with your partner. These feelings left unchecked will grow into resentment or stress on relationship either way. Yeah there is nothing he can do abotu them approaching, but is there something that you and him can do that will address your inadequacy and give you security in your partner, your relationship etc. I dont know what you need to feel safe knowing no matter the tail this is gen…
/r/seduction27/05/20 02:32 PM
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Like, if you dont know social etiquette thats not upto me to educate you ay. Some women may not flirt until you explicitly show intent, alternatively not everyone is overt with flirting so you may miss signals etc. Basically, my statement is pretty straight up, even if ahe is shy or straightforward, lack of flirting is a nogo for me 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction27/05/20 08:38 AM
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Lol, no....
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:26 AM
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It takes two to tango, why waste time on people who do not reciprocate, how much of a push over beta do you need to be to be craving attention from those who care not for you. Sure, I open, chat, flirt, if i am not getting anything I move on. I have friends, being a little direct and open helps a lot to weed out those who are just attention seeking or uninterested, so why is that surprising?
/r/seduction27/05/20 02:13 AM
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women get away with alot more than guys, because men get violent women get vengeful so just as human parable goes, we want more that, that we cant have. A taken man, who is married, and is self secured is desirable....because he has a seal of approval. The only time I have heard of this irl is if the guy is hot, and rich....so lucky you!
/r/seduction26/05/20 04:20 PM
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I check put how she carries herself, if she isnt flirting back then she is heading for a rejection, but you never know she might just be friendly with you
/r/seduction26/05/20 09:08 AM
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Because this way ypu can attract those who are interested in ypu, not a version a lie of ypu. Sure ypu will get rejected more, but at the min it wont be a lie
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:51 AM
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you could just be her lifeboat, or second choice when primary isnt working. She is clearly an attention craver, but get enough to cast wide when she wants to. You arent providing anything other than casual friendliness so clearly she will chase that that gives her a romantic oen as well. If you want them to stick around have more to go on rather than sex and good time. WOmen want commitments to date, not with everyone, and not always. But if you want to date then you have to give something more …
/r/seduction29/02/20 04:51 AM
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Narsassists, and failure, and boredom is not the same thing ...
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:53 AM
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Great dresser: Tailor, fashion designer, PR-brand manager (dresses, social events). Really smart is education, im educated and smart, and sure willingness for that isnt for all children, but for the most part a rich family will pay for great early education to sprite up that later life development x10! Genes only get you so far. Charisma can be learnt and taught. Charismatic people arent magical, they are just good at reading the situation (experience and teachings, social etiquette, social skil…
/r/seduction15/02/20 11:26 AM
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He is mostly rich, whoch if we all had money we could be all those things.
/r/seduction15/02/20 11:04 AM
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Yeah, but usually its just a girl that I am not interested in, so I dont realise as I am not paying attention to any signals. When I do I sort of feel very good, but at the same time i dont want to lead her on. Usually girls that approach and dont get an immediate validation for their 'approach' are quick to play hard to get and aloof and cold shouldered lol
/r/seduction07/02/20 02:29 AM
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I have met men who acted soft, sweet and beta with a higher voice and I made the mistake of thinking they are gay (i am a man). Its partly the social stigma that current social change will evolve, give it time. But if you want to be taken seriously and not confused for a gay, be more direct but not creepy. Show sexual as well as emotional intent in the girl. If you approach straight up and flirt, you can avoid being mislabeled because your friendly is clearly too similar to a flamboyant gay man,…
/r/seduction05/02/20 04:28 AM
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Yes but modern world doesnt teach men how to act around women they like, not even women, these are just general techniques that transmit desire and attention and intention. Game of love etc. Modern world is full of depression loneliness and isolation despite being overpopulated...funny how there are more people but we feel more alone. So yes, improving yourself improves your social status and behaviour and confidence and game. But seducation as i have seen it, is teaching the lost to start somew…
/r/seduction05/02/20 02:27 AM
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As an engineer.... Impossible. I try, when i do people gravitate towards me, but still i never switch off 😔
/r/seduction27/12/19 02:04 PM
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no brainer, better profile will get hits.....not a mechanic inherent design This is utter bullshit. The app has to make money if you use the app often but are not paying for premium you have a chance to fall into what i think is a 'less visible' pool. Heavy users are essentially incentivised for premikum with notifications, to buy premium, to try it, there are now so many little gimmicks that premium offers, and free version gives a taste. That contant users, they wouldnt want them to actually f…
/r/seduction21/12/19 03:49 AM
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Are you a mop and a mat for your friends and family, or do you stand your ground and do what you want, say what you want, and expect some respect and feedback from them. As if they werent just put on this earth to please you, noone (unless real narcissists) wants to be center of all attention and wants people to walk on egg shells around them. Women dont want a puppy boi, they have enough friends in the friendzone. She wants an equal, or better. A man, a father, a partner, a person who isnt just…
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:18 AM
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PS. Secret ingredient is chloroform, daddy issues, and money.
/r/seduction21/12/19 12:59 AM
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Try to build more of connection, rather than an end goal of date or what ever. Women are already oogled like sex objects, hence get to know them as friends, withs sexual intentions shown, this way she wont have to ghost you, she can outright tell you she aint interested 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction25/11/19 02:37 PM
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Hardest thing to do. is to force yourself to sleep, there is stress and anxiety which drives your body nd mind further our of sleep. If you want to improve the game, focus on yourself, dont just game aimlessly, you got a gf for a reason, you want to game for another. I say sort your shit out, dont go out to game, go switch up your life, make yourslf better and talk to people. Perhaps all you need is a different perspective and a calm mind to know what you want.
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:22 AM
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Thats a fresh attitude towards stds!
/r/seduction26/10/19 09:15 AM
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The game of love, the game of dating? How can you learn and get better if you dont analyse? self love doesnt come easy to everyone, and even if you have self love, there is still self respect and confidence to work on. Granted many here are to learn how to pick up women, others like like me enjoy the self growth and understanding social dynamics of the opposite sex to use the techniques on those who we are actually interested in and not just for sex. But hey, if you think you knwo better, go pen…
/r/seduction21/10/19 04:29 AM
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eyes, smile, skin, head and shoulders knees and toes, KNEES AND TOES.
/r/seduction10/10/19 02:35 AM
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Or validation from attention and flirting, with having a bf she might never go through with anything, but having that honeymoon flirtation and attraction with the euphoria is something that goes missing after a while in a ltr, some girls string along guys, others flirts, others slut around. You never know.
/r/seduction27/09/19 06:28 AM
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Body language is important, yes. Let them talk, people like those who listen as it gives them a chance to talk more lol. Taking that approach works, but in that you have to be a good listener otherwise straight up questions dont hold on long enough
/r/seduction10/09/19 07:28 PM
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|"Mr Social it doesn't mean you have to be an entertaining chatterbox, busting out dance moves and pouring everyone's drinks. You can also be Mr Social by quietly having fun, listening to other people and laughing with them, smiling at people and appreciating their coolness and good looks, etc." Hate to break it to you, MR social is in the name, there is no need to be flamboyant, but social aspect does apply, talking to people and being active to show her/them he is comfortable being present is …
/r/seduction10/09/19 06:07 PM
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No sir, this lady is clearly after a stimulating intellectual conversation after a night out to the opera.
/r/seduction10/09/19 04:00 PM
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I am on some sort of shadow ban to get me to buy their premium. I have had 0 matches over the last 2 months....I used to get healthy amount of matches, now i get zero. Moved to using other apps getting matches there..... Tinder is trash
/r/seduction06/09/19 10:31 PM
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Go talk to people, evebtually after weeks/months of practicing and failing you will start succeeding. There are millions of people to talk to, assuming you are in a large city. Plenty to get through.
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:48 AM
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The alleyway behind the dumpster? In the toilets? Behind the bushes at a semi-empty park? Midnight on the swings? Great first date btw ;) If your car is a van, lay down some fittings and a mattress top notch spot!!
/r/seduction28/08/19 03:48 AM
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Nice thick skin eh
/r/seduction24/08/19 02:43 PM
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yeah you can kiss with a condom on
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:58 AM
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Yeah could work. appeals to the audience you have.
/r/seduction20/08/19 06:13 PM
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A bit contrived imo Do you want to date her? If not then this is leading her on, also depending on how smart she is, she could outright perceive this as the call back to her original message, or forget all previous conversations and perceive an ego. If she is seeking validation outside her body and looks and is teasing you with her body and looks.... puzzle solved imo. But hey you do you, let me know how it goes.
/r/seduction20/08/19 05:48 PM
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She send you a sexualised video,.,,....was she horny then or is she planting the seeds of secual frustration on you for some later date? Either Way, ride her wave and peak her interest by being both available and interested, but not desperate and too recused to meet her at her level, how she is frustrated by guys just wanting sex, probably easily explained by her clearly outwardly sexualised flirting.
/r/seduction20/08/19 05:29 PM
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Only the last part...but you can try the other options, outright truth works too, but you have to read the person, otherwise you come across as outright scum (obviously).
/r/seduction20/08/19 05:10 PM
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Send a buthole pick and ask to delete later, then after she doesnt reply for a few days, reply, hey if you want want me to help you take pics of you, so you too can look as sexy as i did? I am only propositioning because you failed to reply after seeing, I am assuming you are still recovering of earth shattering orgasm you must have recieved. You can always discuss her oreolas You can invite yourself over for a video sesh together I would just "Your vid was missing something, my huge deeek" Look…
/r/seduction20/08/19 05:06 PM
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yeah big feet mean big socks
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:09 AM
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tldr he challenged her
/r/seduction20/08/19 08:58 AM
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because tinder is largely regarded as a hookup app.
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:10 PM
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try..pulling moves before the kiss. After all, the kiss is a climax one of many, like the first point of contact where you both agree explicitly to allow each other into personal space. Like the first kiss, liek the first fuck, liek the first anal, and child. You gotta be doing something, flirting, teasing, building tension so that when you do go for the kiss, she will want it more. Otherwise its a cheek, where the moment didnt feel right to her, because after all you failed to push the right bu…
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:53 PM
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You look like you eat dick
/r/seduction13/08/19 04:41 PM
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hate to break it to you, but noone on insta has time for 2000word salad
/r/seduction12/08/19 06:37 AM
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A little puppetry of the penis goes a long way
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:27 PM
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A girl on insta uploaded a nude??? Not much you can say to that that wont come off as 'every other guy'....
/r/seduction11/08/19 09:10 AM
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I creamed on my phone when i swipped right, wanna see?
/r/seduction08/08/19 06:17 AM
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So what, my diagnosis is she sounds like she came out of a relationship, or its complicated and she has to deak eith emotional and life. Pure speculation, but once again, move on, be stoic her choices are out of your control. She might have deleted ypu, because weeks passed and she found someone, you werent who she was looking for.
/r/seduction07/08/19 03:44 PM
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Basically, this sub is reminding people to have a life. Good lives attract, you love your life and do things in it and you will talk and meet people in it. Chasing girls, is shooting darts in the dark, hitting right targets mens being in the right places.
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:58 PM
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Because she is a woman and is seeing many guys so to her they are all the same atm because they, like you failed to establish any direct meaning in her life beyond just sex. As once again she is clearly looking for something
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:52 PM
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Move on....beta gets stuck on ninesense. She has issues, you said she has them, what ever they are. She wants something and you failed to deliver, appearing like you just wanted sex as most men do. Also, be clear with your intentions with these women, if they are going through stuff, actually everyone, be clear with everyone.I am looking to date want o get a coffe and see if we click? Or, I'm not looking for anything serious off the bat, but I like you so far, let's see where we can take this at…
/r/seduction07/08/19 01:15 PM
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Yeah...I have been shadowbanned. I have been swiping and getting absolutely no matches for months. I got one or two but they arent worth it. Like..... I like how the solution to this is....literally get a new identity lol. What a bad vid.
/r/seduction02/08/19 11:10 PM
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Calling a fish wet but it doesnt want to be called wet, or mitigate perception of its wetness? Idk, if some girls just want relationships, if you dont want that, let it go? If you like them, then either deflect, ignore, or address through a deflection.
/r/seduction30/07/19 04:14 AM
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Well perhaps we can consider that tinder revolution is pretty much done. Those who are still on it enough, are those who are a bit odd, who value their dog more than their partner so they return to tinder unhappy with not finding prince charming. Those who are hot enough just go out and get picked up in clubs, they dont need tinder as much. So they dont have unhealthy tinder bios. My tinder is becoming a lot more empty, or filled with single moms or like you said fur babies.
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:52 AM
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more wishes, and anal
/r/seduction23/07/19 06:21 PM
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68....you owe her one...dont be selfish
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:09 PM
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Mmm gurl dose noice legs. What time do they open? I swiped right because you look like you have a big personality, all two of them. You+me+condom=best night of yo life, all 3min of it!
/r/seduction18/07/19 05:59 AM
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I have a similar issue. I am above avarage, but i also suffer from being gifted with intellegence so im fucking myself up in the head everywhere i go. Basically I know i am not ugly, and am athletic, and smart. But when i try to open myself up to an attractive girl, and dont get the same level of feedback in pur interaction as i do with avarage girls, i too feel bad about myself. Self esteem issues and all that. Basically, a credo that i like, might be useful to you: Live a a life that makes you…
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:20 PM
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Just to add: avarage girls go out of their way for an attractive guy. Hot girls get attention all day everyday since they blossomed. So, ofc you need to wow them a bit more, and they will be less responcive, its just another day another guy.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:54 PM
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If you exchanged snaps already....why do you need to trade pics? Of Course it sounds like nudes.... If you wanted face pics, you should just send snaps of your face and she will respond....
/r/seduction09/07/19 05:50 AM
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Yeah 1 of two things was happening. She was sending you subtle hints ypu could have worked with. Like beong cold ypu could have hold her closer, invited her for a drink and gave her your jumper. Then as ypu were drinking, talk about stuff, and get closer, get some physical contact going through touching etc. And went from there. But you know, you didnt, so she left and might have come back, i dont know the situation here. But chasing after her would have shown her you were interested but shy to …
/r/seduction08/07/19 02:03 PM
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Lucky, mone just get eaten by ferral cats... Sometimes a hawk swoops in just as the carrier leaves. I suspect its my arch rival across town trying to sabotage my conquests.
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:57 AM
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R/relationships
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:47 AM
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Thats what I use myspace for... ICQ is for dft and wild, skype is for your mother, and a number is after merriage.... Otherwise society will devolve into chaos and start taking pictures of food for no reason other than vanity.
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:45 AM
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Skype lol ok, i guess ICQ is too popular for ypu ay buddeh
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:38 AM
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being nice =/= (stereotype of a nice guy) Nice guy stereotype is a push over, is a beta, is a guy who is unsure, afraid, isnt confident and doesnt really knwo how to get what he wants. It doesnt inspire confidence, excitment, or sexual tension. You can be nice and still be a dick, tease her, push her buttons to get her going. In fact being nice means you can get a relationship. If you just want to get laid, you can be nice, but you also have to be selfish, as nobody likes a pushover.
/r/seduction29/06/19 04:48 AM
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Ikr, why spend time trying to change, contort, pretend, when its easier to just find like minded peiple you can easily hit it of with... This sub is turning into how to turn boys into men, as most of the questions seem to be about that transitionary oeriod into the 20s, as personality and maturity starts to cement.
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:45 PM
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As a almost 30 who looks young like 20, i have a fear thats what i have to do. So far dating has been alot of generally great sex, but not much emotional connection, and ita not for the lack of connection, just finding the right people is harder when there are thousands of them....
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:05 AM
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As an almost 30 guy, i say older guys shouldnt have anxiety. Wisdom and expirience alone makes you/us? (its wierd idealising my age....) ahead of the younger studs. They may look and act, but the true confidence and power you have as an older man is somethinf they dont have. The money, the patience and comfort. The expirience of how to make conversation and emotional behavoral control. Be confident, use what you know, just because your 40 doesnt mean you tap out. You tap out when youre 60 now. D…
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:01 AM
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Because house party has the added benifit of being the in-crowd. Aka the a friend of a friend is my friend vibe. Meaning people are far more likely to be socialising and actively participating in 2way interactions. At clubs its more of an animal farm, where strangers pack into a loud rights spot to buy over priced drinks and try to hit on each other. Since they are strangers the guard is up, who the fuck knows who that person is standings there, eyeballing you. So at a club you only have the sma…
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:06 AM
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Perhaps, your actions dont match your words. If you are overthinking this "distancing" perhaps you need evaluate your flirtation style with your communication and small talk style. From your post it is clear your expression lacks clarity and direction. Women dont like ambiguos man, that shows a man with no direction who doesnt fully know what he wants and how to get it, so in their mind such a behaviour is safer to distance from because childing men have trouble expressing themselfs. Esp around …
/r/seduction06/06/19 04:20 PM
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I only speak 2 languages, english is one of them. Can I get a translation please?
/r/seduction06/06/19 11:12 AM
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Is this a brag, a question, a suggestion, an anecdote? Because I just wasted 2min of my time reading and replying and i see neither of those in that...
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:18 AM
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You can only improve as much as you can. If you cant change how you speak, change what and how you communicate. Body language, confidence, cards, messages, etc. But most improtantly, just because they get turned off, do not let it effect you. Yes you got delt a shit hand, but women will be even less receptive and accepting if you yourself let their reactions get to you. Power through the rejection, the looks, the disguast or what ever. If they see you owning your condition and not letting it get…
/r/seduction03/06/19 01:42 AM
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The way it was described to me. If ypu are clear with your intentions and your escalation, her responce to you is her own. Her choice to go ack to a place and have sex is her own. At any moment she can say no. Her choosing to play along with your games, with your moves is just her having a good time, if she isnt she can leave. Youre not the first or last man she will ever get approached by, fact she is sticking around means you are doing the right thing by her. Just as long as you arent a rapey …
/r/seduction02/06/19 06:22 AM
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Step 1: Go to the gym, just because youre not on the good looking side of 10/10 at least be healthy and have a good body. Step 2: dress well, clothes that fit, dont have to go over board, just look after your clothes iron them before going out Step 3: Be confident in what you are about, hobbies, knowledge. Step 4: This is for you, recover by not being bothered by your mistakes. Since you have a speech issue, when you are stumbling and getting nervous thats not good recovery, when you are straigh…
/r/seduction01/06/19 02:43 PM
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Shit happens, move on. There is a window before and after the 'group' chat where you can reignite her interest. If you didnt peak it before hand and they leave, thats it. If you peak her interests but her firends convince her otherwise, you can salvage before they dissapear. Alternatively, if a girl is with her group of friends, its not enough to win her, you also have to get the approval of her gang. They came out together, if you are acting like you just want her and that signals sex only, the…
/r/seduction31/05/19 04:31 AM
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Yeah so...to kiss good is easy. Take it slow, use lips, no tounge, slowly open up the mouth and eventually she will force tounge play herself, once again dont push tounge down throat, instead use yoru tounge to play with hers.
/r/seduction30/05/19 02:52 AM
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Lack of maturity, experience, and/or ADD/ADHD, not knowing yourself and what you want/need/desire. And with a young age like say, teens to early 20s male hormones are in overdrive...
/r/seduction29/05/19 03:57 AM
1

Go for the family feed. Buy a bigger fridge?
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:56 PM
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I met my wife, she causally mentioned her boyfriend, i am now gay
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:36 AM
1

I tell women not to fall in love with me all the time. Because i both think i am not ready for a relationship and that i am not looking for one. There could be many reasons, fear fo commitment is a very comon one, but she likes you. go for it, spend time, have sex, chat, enjoy your life.
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:59 AM
47

Right there, you used an arrogant opener. You cant respond that. Unless you backpedal and peak her interest with something down to earth.
/r/seduction23/05/19 10:12 AM
3

Do the best you and watch for expressions of interest from them and those inthe club.
/r/seduction22/05/19 08:04 AM
33

Thats why fools get away with murder.
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:09 PM
61

I am going to go out on a lim , thats his pickup line, thats her shittest. this is tinder
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:06 PM
2

SHE GOT YOU THERE BOIII
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:06 PM
28

Do they vaporise as soon as they leave the clubs for you too?
/r/seduction11/05/19 09:02 AM
1

Stronv eye contact, confidence, and casually throwinv in a sexual inuendo.
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:48 AM
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"I have enough friends thanks' "byeee"
/r/seduction03/05/19 05:51 AM
5

except that since girls have the power, on tider through market economics of supply demand. Men demand more sex than girls. Now, this means every girls moves up in ranking in online dating, 10s are only for other 10s, and 7 are 8s 8s are 9 and 10s and 9 and 10 are gods. 5ts and 6s are now 7s byut anyone below 5 are now just 5s. For guys its the other way, hot guys stay hot, but its the 6-8 range that dips down a notch or two. meaning almost every girl who is ebove 7 irl can swipe right and get m…
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:37 AM
10

looks dont matter for a relationship, tinder is widely regarded as a hookup app. Ergo, the better the merchandise the better the demand. .... . .. ... . . ... ... Being a 7 I can straight up say, if I match with 5s or 6s i can get laid easily. Some 8s and 9s match up at the end they flake or ghost, because they probably found someone hotter with better bio. In real life its even more prevalent. I get chased by 5-7s and I get attention from 8-9s if i try, i dont go for 10s, idk perhaps their beau…
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:33 AM
1

My advice: You come in strong and mysterious. "Who are you?" isnt something women hear. And since you are the one trying to hook her attention she shittests you by asking "who are you?" back. Here you have to match the initial hook. After all you have peaked her interest, but need to capture her attention. Think about what you can say that tells her who you are whilst leaving mystery, and showing you can dish out quality at the level that the initial interest in who she is. You need to provide v…
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:23 AM
3

he made a new account.... aka tinder puts him ontop of the list, if he just added a good bio and some pics, that alone would guarantee lots of matches. If you want the same thing, get off tinder for a month. But befor eyou do, change pics and bio to be better, ask female friends to help you (seriously). Then get off it for a month or two. Then when you get back on tinder will try to incentivise you to stay there longer so they can monetise you. And you will be highlited so to speak. These are al…
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:40 AM
1

'first'..... Well how about you get a few more the next week. Text a bunch, invite put, go on dates. Inabout 6-8 months you will be better. Life is short, but it is still a life to be lived, dont put all your eggs in one basket and ask for magic bullet solutions online. Best strangers can do is critique and advise, 90%of this is trial and error.
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:42 AM
5

pullout
/r/seduction27/04/19 03:20 AM
8

The worst thing that might happen is: she takes you back to her place, no condoms, she gets pregnant, you decide to marry her, have a stressfull unhappy marrage for 5 years, and devorce, fight long custody battle, loose, she take the house the carthe kids you drink yourself into a coma. True story
/r/seduction27/04/19 02:54 AM
1

awkward attractive(to her) fellah who is hitting on her. But women can throw it out anytime really...
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:28 PM
1

she might have been in an open relationship or polygomous one, in that kinda thing, they should be open. But the bottom line is, she has love interest and attention for someone already spreading that to another is taxing. Ususally the other partners are just for fun, whilst the relationship stuff happens with the main partner.
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:06 AM
0

If youre friendzoned, means you went too friendly, and didnt sexualise your initial interactions enough. Its not about being forwardly blatant, women read between the lines just fine, sexualised inuendos here and there work great. It sets you up as a sexual creature. Whilst hanging out and chatting like friends. If you dont soark her sexual interest and remain on friendly bantar, thats where you will stay.
/r/seduction24/04/19 02:15 AM
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Looks is the book cover. Dates are the prolouge and the discription on the back. Relarionship i the content. The better you make yourself in the first two, easier it is to make her expirience the truth inside. Be part od the story. Yes looks are important, but dont judge a book by its cover.
/r/seduction24/04/19 01:24 AM
1

Trial and error with practice my friend
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:15 PM
2

Treat everyone with respectand friendship. Then just pay attention to her, if she is giving you eye contact, start giving it back. If you two stare at each others eyes and dont woosie out, thats indication of attraction. Then you cant start to throw in sexual INUANDOES(i am tard with spelling). But do not, as mentioned before, start flirting outright. Its a friendly affair, have fun, enjoy, make conversation with every memeber in the car equally. Be yourself, you enjoy ypurself and if she likes …
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:21 AM
1

if you like it, put a ring on it
/r/seduction17/04/19 05:03 PM
1

Cant pick up someone, if you cant get your hand on them can you.... its your life, do what you want. But I would sort of cement plans before commiting to anything, thats me tho
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:51 PM
1

Step 1. Be there
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:24 PM
2

lol someone still hasnt got passed the level of progress. Stuck there. Girls do come, you have value, learn t show it, and own yourself. Be confident in you direction and go after what you want. Women will come. Also you should go after women, but they will not come back if you are still stuck on the fake it till you make it. (The secret is we never make it, we always be chasing something)
/r/seduction15/04/19 09:56 AM
2

Nice legs, what time do they open?
/r/seduction05/04/19 03:20 AM
1

I will share a secret with you ;) You will scream my name when you cum, even after I am gone.
/r/seduction05/04/19 02:38 AM
1

Dooosh
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:34 PM
1

http://dupose.com/full-video-mia-khalifa-teaches-virgin-fan-how-to-have-sex-then-fucks-him/ If it was like that ^ ^ ^ , then perhaps sex wasnt what you were looking for.
/r/seduction01/04/19 11:06 AM
2

Before approaching try maling strong eye contact. If the woman shys away(different from looks away, but its not very obvious.... So good luck!) or maintains eye contact back she moght be interested and open to be alproached. Otherwise, its not really that efficient to approach everyone. Unless you are starting out and getting confidence just approaching starngers, then by all means, juat work theough it untill you gaine nough expirience and tougher thicker skin. Because at the end of the day, wh…
/r/seduction29/03/19 05:14 PM
2

Oh damn, drama. Does everything have to dissolve into drama...
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:58 PM
1

How about you try talking to her again?
/r/seduction26/02/19 02:14 AM
1

yES on all counts
/r/seduction21/02/19 02:02 PM
2

Then work on sexualising and being a man who knows what he wants and goes after it. Being straight forward etc. If your only option is to rent out a motel room, setting up sexual vibe and maintaining it is key. Its not easy for new starters, even experienced guys dont get it right. There is a very fine line between creepy, and unique, confident and arrogant/egoistical....With sexual stigma against women still int he air, you best option is to go after those girls that are displaying a lot more f…
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:15 AM
1

Get physical with her, if she is receptive and gives physical affection back (obviously dont go full sexual, work into it, escalate). Then when your eyes are locked and your feel the heat between you, you can straight up say: Hey, how about we go to my place for such and such. (such n such is what you feel like could work in the moment. If you have been open and straight forward saying straight up for a night cap or for fun or for sex can work. But i doubt you do that, you wouldnt be asking this…
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:06 AM
1

tinder has tunred into a true hook up app to me. Last three girls i met up with were all in it for a one night stand. Its bizzar. They were solid 8s. If thats your thing, I just ask them stupid shit, if they respond I guide the convo on whats the plans, if she has none, I offer something thats mildly fun, but no pressure. Then go take her out, we have a few drinks, I offer to come back to my place they do. Then the next time we text its cold shoulder, 2 of the three were on a breakup so I was an…
/r/seduction05/02/19 11:40 AM
2

just coz u canty change what your genes have given you doesnt mean you cant have a personality, confidence and good fascion helps women to go beyond the looks to see if you have worth. Generally it is men who go for looks, women have a larger criteria, but looks help.
/r/seduction27/01/19 03:08 PM
1

there is no such thing as bad publicity.... Gillette isnt a corner shack, its global, a few days of news cycle and internet hype and suddenly its a brand we all remember again.
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:44 AM
2

wow, one ad, free publicity and advertisement for a week. Sounds like they got a win
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:08 AM
8

Hey, I like this and this picture of you, doing this or that, I am a fan of this, been doing it for a while now, really enjoying it. How did you get into this?
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:17 AM
3

Online dating is womens choice buffet. So all men shift down a oint or 2 on the 10 scale. 6s are 4s, 10s are still tens, but 8s are not 6-7, and anything below 5 is, well...good luck to them. For women, because of abundance of choice means they get a few points for being them. 6s are now 7s, 8s are 9s, 9s and 10s are gods, and all the fat and ugly girls will swipe right on you. Just like you swipe right on super hot girls.
/r/seduction19/01/19 03:14 AM
1

Yeah, JP is a mixed bag. I advise to take his psychology videos and use them to grow your own strength, he does good at explaining the responsibility of personal self. But stop there. Everything else is just downhill with him, it seems like the far right is paying him to be hard on just that one part of psychology. He has little to nothing to say on social responcibility of the induvidual within a collective or any phsychology on that, and this breeds into his politics. But aside from that, his …
/r/seduction10/01/19 02:23 AM
2

You need to find interest in other people, or at the minimum not give a fuck in order to enjoy yourself and share that joy. Yes its boring and tedious, but, it doesnt have to be like that. If you like playing games, go to arcade bars, movie festivals idk. The world is saturated with the things you can do, you just need to figure out how you can do what you liek socially. If you city has none of it, make it yourself. You will have a buissness to run and instantly become more attractive since now …
/r/seduction15/11/18 11:18 AM
2

Wasnt there another user, doing 100 approaches with reports for months?
/r/seduction06/11/18 02:32 PM
6

I fucking reckon ay
/r/seduction22/10/18 03:01 AM
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Say hello. Find out things about her, share things about you, find common ground, avoid being a cunt. eventually something in your head will click and lessons from many approaches and material will start to make sense. You will start doing the same approaching to everyone making friends everywhere you go. Building up a circle of friends, all whilst meeting women. Some women will sleep with you some wont. All depends on their intentions and how they respond to yours.
/r/seduction21/10/18 02:04 PM
1

bumble
/r/seduction13/09/18 01:25 PM
1

My advice, bring a condom. But dont expect sex.
/r/seduction13/09/18 12:39 PM
15

stale bate noisy engines wrong hook size for the prey.
/r/seduction24/08/18 02:38 AM
10

A 2 D I like my abcs. But prefer at least a dinner first before we get to the D
/r/seduction24/08/18 02:36 AM
23

after years of tinder, then bumble. The tip#3 is.....so hilarious. Yes you need to have a interesting first message to grab her attention. But on bumble, women are guilty of the same fucking hypercritical first message. Every single one of them do the same, 'hey' or how are you, or 'nice bike' thats it. Its like fuck this shit. I quit online dating for this reason. Online dating for women is like them window shopping. Ever seen one in public browse windows and in shops and not buy anything? ITs …
/r/seduction24/08/18 12:56 AM
5

be friends with everyone in the group. Then talk to all people individually. There will be times you can chat with each other 1on1, with her, you escalate, with the rest you stay friendly. If she responds well, then when in the group make eye contact with her, single her out sometimes and on activities try to get you two to do things together. Now if when singling her out, and 1on1 convos with her, she shuts you down for what ever reason, maybe she likes another guy or what ever. It is super imp…
/r/seduction22/08/18 01:37 PM
1

its not anxiety, its just lack of right questions maybe. Share some of the questions you usually use.
/r/seduction17/08/18 01:15 PM
1

A good full life is good for confidence, good for the soul, gives you more to talk about and gives you more social points for an easier in through their guard. I said be confident with who 'you' are. not what the jones want you to be. You want to work retail because it makes you happy you do you, you dont want to surf, dont want to skate or go on nature walks dont. I play video games and ride my bike, those are my main hobbies. I also enjoy getting wasted and playing games for 7h straight. But I…
/r/seduction17/08/18 07:29 AM
3

Beautiful women on dating apps use them to find equally hot guys, and fill their attention seeking egos. They have the most swipes right, they get the most attention. Very few do it because they dont get approached, they do it for the fun. The proper mentality is you should do it for fun as well. No pressure, figure out what you want, and make that your bio. You will hits relevant to your needs. Most people see dating apps as sex apps nowadays anyway, the shy girls are the girls who are looking …
/r/seduction17/08/18 03:44 AM
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Not being artificial means you must know what you want and chase after it. Not be needy tho. Fake interest can be seen. Plus she might have something else, if OP like like her, he can give her a chance or two, since this is now a commitment issue. The advice for moving on is the numbers game of pickup. To get a girl you want is dating advice and needs more forgiveness and more chances. She may just be testing OP, after all so many guys make out dont go all the way, fake it to make it or are not …
/r/seduction06/08/18 08:12 PM
2

The other 2 comments so far are true. But there is a seperate option to 'dont shit where you eat'. So basically do as you are doing now. But whilst you are working strike up a conversation and smoothly direct it into chatting about something in the past. I liek to either make up some shit or, say something like. I went out last night to a party of a club. Chat about this wierd chick you saw and how she was doing something to you(improvise its your story, talk aboht what ever). If she or the pers…
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:38 AM
1

Wooooosh...... Is the sound of my joke whizzing over your head.
/r/seduction18/07/18 09:07 PM
2

Look.for friendzoned advice and do the opposite.... With dudes.... -im here if you want to talk. -lets hug on our first date, wink. I dont want you to get the wrong idea about me. -Is this place ok? Are you warm? Do you want a drink? Here let me get you a napkin..... -Tell me about your ex Great advice bro! Thanks!
/r/seduction18/07/18 08:34 PM
1

Cuban salsa and bachata, Those two on cuban nights, or even in a club the moves and steps allow you to actually know some dances and be able to lead the girl. Those two styles have spins for days lol. With plenty fo advanced moves to really get in close.
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:05 AM
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Flirt, be cheeky, poke fun, close in, watch her and understand her behaviour. She likes it keep going, she doesnt change topic or action. Above all act with intent and expect to miss many times, because not everyone is on the same page as you. Make friends, not try pickup lines. Sure they may work, but you need to build rapport so there is never any expectation with friends, even fwb. Dont be afraid of making mistakes, confidence and style come with experience, you cant get those without knowing…
/r/seduction13/07/18 04:16 PM
1

Have you tried approaching with the intent of making friends? Aka approach with no expectations, when approaching with intention of only picking up, it may be obvious
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:10 AM
2

You can have a mentality and goals and work towards something. Achievement comes with time. You dont need to be successful to be confident, you need to be confident and seek progress in your life. If being yourself doesnt work, it just means you are not being true to the best version of yourself. You have anxieties and doubts and general what they call beta male mentality of lack of self respect or self worth. Not everyone can be a millionaire business mogul, not everyone wants to be. Atm i am w…
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:32 PM
1

Trial and error..... There is no magic bullet. Read all other materials on here, but focus on not the mechanics of what to do. But rather who you should be. Ans. Is simple, be most confident version of yourself. But you need to know how. From there, you build youself, and then through trail and error you can build your dating game up.
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:00 AM
2

Rome wasnt built in a day. And they say it takes roughly 4 weeks to develop a good habit. So after 3 weeks you should be more improved, but you still have a ways to go.
/r/seduction02/07/18 01:25 AM
1

Dont say, have to should or could. Tell yourself "I want to". Fake it till you amke it, and if you want to, you have more willpower to do.
/r/seduction01/07/18 06:15 AM
0

Love is strange. There is no universal answers for anything. Likes attract, opposites attract, love finds a way.
/r/seduction29/06/18 02:41 AM
2

They touch you in places she wont touch other men. Your hair, poke you in your cheeks, some get physically painful, by punching you or scratching you to see your reaction. Just generally invade your places that only a gf may touch. not the plutonic places, like arms, back, hugs. If hugs hugs with her face in your neck or her hair in your face to get her scent on you, and get a whiff of yours. The more she warms up to you, the more these you can catch. if she is just friends, she wont over step t…
/r/seduction27/06/18 01:37 PM
2

Clearly it helps to be, tall built and handsome. But generally he was just chatting with her, open friendly, joking, took on her shittest and answered truthfdully but with a hint of mystery. Personally i go the route of stating that I am single by choice in some sort of way. This would or should in a way inspire her to chase you if she is interested, as you are putting yourself as the prize. but his way works as well.
/r/seduction27/06/18 01:26 PM
2

Pretty much, 2 is enough work, 3 is pushing it 4 is overdoing it. First dates to see if they deserve a second date, remember to have an over abundance attitude. This means that if you have 4 first dates you should only have 2 second dates and go from there. If by the second date you didnt make progress, in what ever area you are interested in, be it casual fwb, fmsex, dating, then a third date could solve that, but only if you are juggling 2 people. 4 you are stretching yourself out. You cant re…
/r/seduction24/06/18 07:53 AM
3

always. Shittests do no good, texting games do no good.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:45 AM
8

If you liek her, cut out the bullshit of txting. Ask her on a date, go from there. Be adult about this, take charge. Girks chat, with tons of guys, if you want to be ignored indefinatly do as others do and dont escalate. If you like her, escalate.
/r/seduction13/06/18 03:54 AM
1

What is your passion in life? Your reason for waking up in the morning and end goals? Have hobbies, projects, work towards something. Build a life you want. Through that, you will not only become more attractive, but also attract women. Focus your mind on being productive, and women will come to you(obviously only when you also know how to act and talk to women whoch comes from the other teachings of this sub)
/r/seduction06/06/18 03:11 AM
6

Best advice I can give to help with this is: treat them like they are your good/best friend. In a sense that you can just randomly start a conversation about something simple/trivial and go from there. No need for openers, no need for one loners. Just approach with confidence like you would your friend and say something, like you said. Can be anything, it is always how you say it and how you carry yourself. You arent nervous with friends, why be nervous with strangers!? Strangers are just people…
/r/seduction03/06/18 05:54 AM
1

Aside from approaching, what else are you doing? Are you going out to be social, make friends with guys and girls (and with girls escalating) or are you just going out with sole purpose of getting sex? Are you also working on your personal self, like hobbies, appearance, health and body, work, learning/attitudes. After all just approaching is part of it, the other part is making you the best version of you, and not a mask you put on for the approach. You need to invest in yourself, once you feel…
/r/seduction25/05/18 03:16 AM
1

talk to everyone, make friends. Seek out girls that respond well and escalate with the one you like. and only one, as its a youth group, you dont want to escalate with all and then find out they know each other, and talk to each other. and that would mean you wont be pulling anyone from that group as they will see through you. Also dont pull on the first meeting, get to know them first. The pick the one you like the most, this way you can date and still go to the group without making things awkw…
/r/seduction17/05/18 08:47 AM
4

So you say you should meet soon, but dont ask her out to meet soon? There is your answer. Next time try it with foreplanning. Place, location, alternative plans. I dont think this one is salvagble, unless she is still interested, which it doesnt seem to be the case.
/r/seduction17/05/18 08:38 AM
2

Its alright i can wait for our date
/r/seduction17/05/18 08:27 AM
1

You dont hear about the responsible guy, because he is married.
/r/seduction17/05/18 06:27 AM
1

Also my advice is also aimed at general dating, not the art of pickup. Art of pickup is really good at learning the dating game, because its direct and with a purpose. I do agree getting over yourself and just getting things done is the best way to learn. Its a very common advice, and to the point. But realise that not everyone is alpha, you may have learnt to be alpha, some men stay beta. Doesnt mean they dont benifit from this advice, but beta males do like the OPs way more. Turning a beta int…
/r/seduction17/05/18 04:32 AM
1

Just want to say, wow good job formatting, but i guess I see youre a mod, so that explains it. Dont have the motivation to go over the points as we are arguing the same thing. Just wanted to clarify brute force as a figure of speech, meaning the advice you give to just make yourself approach and learn from that rather than waiting for the world to give you a sign, My comment was more relating to a beginner or casual learner wanting to get some pointers so they can get good in the dating game, fo…
/r/seduction17/05/18 04:22 AM
1

Brute force is one tactic to overcome personal turmoil. Often it should be the first one tried, but realise not everyone is mentally strong. Some may have depression(or other personal issues) and you cant just sit around waiting for a perfect day, like you said. So even though active approach is good, some prefer passive. If they notice a girl is interested they can reciprocate. Then i did go onto saying once the initial lessons are learnt they should go for active approach to really learn the g…
/r/seduction17/05/18 03:33 AM
2

Your advice is being proactive on the lookout for all possible options one may want. OPs advice is reactive to options that are also interested in them first. Both are valid advices. OPs is best suited for beginners as this way they would have more positive interactions to start with giving them the confidence to continue doing more. Where as if a lot of negative ones come from not acting correctly or being pushy/needy because of lack of experience and anxiety issues could result in demoralisati…
/r/seduction17/05/18 03:07 AM
2

You posting the same question nagging us with you personal insecurities is being needy. You needing her 24/7. Not letting her have her freedom. Too much texting and asking her about shit, making plans and forcing conversations on her. If she acts distant and uninterested thats a telling sign she isnt, so you being overly infatuated to annoy her with your attention for her is being needy. You have to have your own life, and its a partnership, if you feel like you are thinking about her too much 2…
/r/seduction15/05/18 07:39 AM
1

Trust and open communication is the key to a good relationship. If either are hard to come buy in the early relationship, thats the redflag the main one. When there is lack of open communication, things dont get discussed lies, and avoidance created, hatred etc. You are unable to work on the relationship, because the other person or yourself arent able to discuss things.
/r/seduction15/05/18 05:17 AM
2

I would recommend that you give the smile test. Catch eye contact and give her a nice long smile, maybe wave. if she responds, she may be interested, or thinks you weird or friendly///. I catch guys looking at me all the time at the gym, i catch myself making eye contact more than 3 times in a session. because I am there for an hour, i look at myself i look at others, i judge others, they look at me they judge me, the whole place is full of mirrors and hard bodies for a reason. Gym is the worst …
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:34 AM
2

I think for many on here and in general inferiority is with the self, and why they seek advice on here to learn skills to overcome that inferiority complex. Because for them life has shifted into putting them into the backseat, being the victim of circumstance. So coming here, seeking advice how to pull women as a prize is more like game for some, for others its a dating game, for others its a set of tools to gain an advantage where life has thrown them a curveball. For you its a partnership, fo…
/r/seduction12/05/18 08:19 PM
6

feminism by its name is a one sided argument. Humanism is equality for all. Fact that feminism used a lot of humanism to get equality means the militant feminists that try to get their cake and eat it too give the whole movement a bad name. But moreover, women will be women. No matter how much we as humans want to think otherwise, we are still bound to evolutionary emotional history of our biology. When a girl with attitude does that, I remember the old comment I heard: Why are you playing so ha…
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:13 PM
2

Like a good handbag, dress her up, let he stand beside you as you drink beer with the guys. let her grind and dance on you as you look around and absorb all the stares, because you are the MAN.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:31 AM
1

Some men just want the confidence and knowledge and ability to pull, so that when they do come across those women they truly desire they will not turn to putty and ruin their chances. Because in the long game, the superficial lays and senseless sex is just another thing that gives many no real value in life. Having the tools to look for the one who are both sexually and mentally on par with the needs and being able to attract and keep them is the aim of the game. There are so many fish in the se…
/r/seduction12/05/18 03:40 AM
6

I still dont understand why girls respond to teasing more than they do to compliments. I did that last night, gave some off hand comoliments was met with ignor. Made a few teasing comments, got her attention and affection. Backwards world is backwards.
/r/seduction11/05/18 02:53 AM
1

Traps arent gay righ?
/r/seduction06/05/18 01:45 AM
1

Yes, definatly. I make plans all the time, but nature of life and dating is she has no obligation to you, as youre still a stranger, a follow up means concere plans are made.
/r/seduction02/05/18 01:50 AM
1

You can alwaysnswitch your game to sex orientated one. If you arent boyfriend material do you want just sex with her? But keep in mind being attractive is just a complement it could mean anything from she thinks you are a player to she is letting you down easy.
/r/seduction02/05/18 01:43 AM
3

So whats your post about then? Are you just bragging or are you bored? Because the latter means you can now utilise your time and be productive. Get a hobby, learn a trade, build a career, and find love. You have the tools to pull women, so you can now focus on betterment of your life without focusing on getting laid. Which means you can satisfy your needs when they arise.
/r/seduction02/05/18 01:38 AM
0

With age comes expirience. Older women been there seen a lot of it. Unless they make eyes at you and express interest assume they arent looking for younger cubs. So what you ahve to do, is both come across as more than just a fuckboi, and assert a tengiable rapport with her. By initiating a conversation and guiding it towards flirtation. You can always disregard that and straighr up initiate flirtation, but it has to be a bit more than vein interests. Older women are mature women, and they seek …
/r/seduction02/05/18 01:20 AM
1

As a rule of thumb, being direct and to the point via text is better than joking conversing. Since she doesnt know you texting is a chore. I would suggest you wait a few days, then message to set up a date, with time location, something to do. Perhaps building on what ever made you click in the initial number exchange. Its direct, it get rid of all the fluff, make it casual so it doesnt lock her into anything, like a coffee or a drink at a bar. Thats if she hasnt replied, if by then she has cont…
/r/seduction02/05/18 01:14 AM
1

No, dating apps and in fact internet dating overinflates female perspective and under inflates males. Because of the law of abandunce. Wuality of images that paint a picture not a reality, curated profiles etc. On dating apps 6 becomes 8s and 9s 10s 4s become 6s etc. For men its the opposite. The 8-10s get laid effortlessly, 7s through to 5s get the 4-7s irls femailes and everyone else doesnt really find anyone. Plus how can you convey personality and charisma through messaging? Thats why dating…
/r/seduction02/05/18 01:06 AM
1

The answer to both should be the same, so that you are always you, but the best confident you. If you answer the question that fucks your chances, you failed a shit test automatically. They are landmines afterall.
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:26 PM
1

Make a dumb joke that's not funny. if she laughs she wants sex. If she doesnt, she is just a friend. You can test if she wants sex for both those aspects by getting physically closer to her and getting your mitts on her body. if she accepts your physical attention thats que to escalate further. The part abotu a dumb joke doent always work, some girls can be critical of humour and not humour you by laughing at oru dumb jokes even if they want sex, but thats less common.
/r/seduction24/04/18 10:00 AM
1

I tend to look for signs of openess. Like lack of ring on her finger, gives me a better chance.
/r/seduction13/04/18 01:33 AM
1

Tinder is cancer. Go meet real people, they will give you their number if there is a connection. On tinder, like.msot online dating is a headache clusterfuck and fcking odd. try to chat a girl up after matching but realise she has thay similar convo on a daily basis. Remember tinder for men isnt the same tinder as its for women. Men swipe on everyone, women choose. And even when they choose they dont really care, as they can swipe right on almost everyone and get matched. So from their perspecti…
/r/seduction10/04/18 11:24 PM
2

Da faq does this have to do with this sub?
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:58 AM
1

If you like her, you should take charge and tell her where YOU stand, she accepts/rejects thats your answer. Remember women likes alpha, alpha means leader, you lead. You like her enough to go further you say it, you want casual you say it. You have been on three dates and slept together, in relationship terms thats time for a serious convo about where you want to take your relations with her. And her being silent in an indication she was hoping for a direction.
/r/seduction05/04/18 06:18 AM
1

its basically like tinder, but the girl has to respond in real time....
/r/seduction29/03/18 05:14 PM
3

this ios a global issue, the smaller the city the faster the pool will dry up. but basically tinder is old news, most of the good* people already left it, other who remain well...in my city i am getting a lot more fakers. chubby girls with older images, older women with younger images etc. basically scraps. Sure there are still many good looking gals on there, but for me i hardly match with anyoen i actually would liek to match with. its now become the yeah i would fuck her but not really after …
/r/seduction29/03/18 05:13 PM
6

women are like cats, they like you more when you are a bit apathetic to them in your behaviour, but in your actions you must love them caress them, feed them....
/r/seduction29/03/18 04:51 PM
2

you have to break yourself before you make yourself. Nothing screams confidence than having a nervous breakdown when approaching the mic and stage, looking at all those people and realising you cant actually sing for shit......
/r/seduction29/03/18 12:49 PM
2

She flaked, but dont worry about it, online dating sucks. You should set up a date like closer to the initial convo. This way you can meet and do a date instantly before interest goes. If you didnt continue the chat and built some sort of connection, girls will flake out of dates set up sometime ago. Its a fine line between flirting and building rapport via text and becoming too friendly. If the date is too far from initiql contact this gives plenty of time for her to find someone else or change…
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:40 AM
7

this guy is complaining about complain, omg quit complaining
/r/seduction18/03/18 08:51 AM
14

fwb.....
/r/seduction17/03/18 02:07 AM
4

how is your personality, your attitude towards women, your intentions? if you are just approach basic openers, jokes, and trying to get laid you get a cold shoulder. charisma, outgoing friendliness, charm are not exclusive to attractive faces
/r/seduction16/03/18 01:17 AM
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Looks are only important to get that easy ife breaker and intitial convo staryed. After that its your personality and words that carry the connection. Guys who complain about looks, dont want to dress up well, work on their fitness, posture, smile, converstional and flirting skills. Getting girls phone numbers is one thing, approaching girls with intentions of only getting laid is another, picking the right battle is half the fun.
/r/seduction16/03/18 12:31 AM
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invade her personal space and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:46 AM
2

her saying 'youre a player'.....is her luck of trust in your genuineness.
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:55 AM
1

.....a confident man, I am a loss at your beauty. One look at your gentle features made my heart skip a beat. Do you believe in love at first sight?
/r/seduction25/02/18 01:32 AM
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maybe thats why the convos are so short...
/r/seduction24/02/18 01:50 PM
1

Purely sexual relations with a woman, is a one night stand. FWB is where she is comfortable being friends with you, and likes the friendship but there was/is a sexual connection, but no romantic development. Meaning friends with benefits works. Also this is a double edged sword, as women who will try to get you into a relationship through sex. BEcause some do do that. Lastly relationship. So here you tried to make sex priority. Instead you should have had sex as that cherry on top of a fun exper…
/r/seduction17/02/18 07:55 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IUHECxS6IEU
/r/seduction17/02/18 07:28 AM
1

Yeah guys, dont be you, be the 1%.
/r/seduction15/02/18 11:34 PM
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Confidence. He is confident in who he is, so when he chats up women, engages them, makes them feel open and free and have a fun time he can escalate easily. You see when you are not shy, not concerned with yourself in the moment you are abel to make others around you feel better. Sure he is all internet memes and jokes, but they are popular and funny, so they appeal to most people. Being good looking and having no social skills means women will look, but they will realise how boring you are. Bei…
/r/seduction14/02/18 12:42 AM
2

I was catfished, but easier for me. As soon as she skipped a few gears and offered to have a date where she "would cook dinner, watch a movie and have a glass of wine then have fun in the bedroom" red flags flashed. So I reverse google searched her pic and sure enough instagram of a girl in a diff city, images from days ago geotagged, so after a simple question of have you been to x place, she replies no. Then proceeds to ask me to sign up to some website...like lol. Some catfish scammers play t…
/r/seduction14/02/18 12:33 AM
3

Noone ever asks, whats the best that could happen.....
/r/seduction10/02/18 10:13 PM
3

She flips out, punches him and files false rape charges.....
/r/seduction10/02/18 08:55 PM
1

Unless you are doing hot cold game with some tension building. I like to take a break from her when she gets too upherself or I make a mistake of giving her too much affection/praise. I dont do this on a date, but when just chatting a girl up at a bar is fine for me. I think of it this way, if I am putting effort and she is playing hard to get but more of an ego boosting way using me instead of interacting with me, I remind her that i have no responsibility to her and that others can take my att…
/r/seduction10/02/18 05:55 PM
3

I like how there is only one comment on here at the time of my commenting, on utilizing the singles events or V day events. But I agree, its like any other day, and if you havnt made the most of the time you had earlier, why start on a specific day.
/r/seduction10/02/18 05:03 AM
2

Generally people dont look at sexual part of the body unless interested or gaze is directed. So if they do check it out, dont draw attention to it and maybe be a little italian, in that talk with your hands.
/r/seduction10/02/18 01:04 AM
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When asking her to move somewhere, place your hand onher back, the lower you can go without actually touching her butt is strong kino. You do it to guide her into the direction of where you two are going without actually pushing her. Seeing her jewelry, and getting physical contact with hands, commenting on her skin softness, earrings, getting your hands on that to shift conversation and attention and take care to coverty caress that area. Maybe as you commented on her bracelet and fondled it pr…
/r/seduction09/02/18 12:51 AM
1

Laughing, is....not a good indicator espacially in social situations of large groups. But text her anyway, and try to invite her to a soecific thing, she declines ask her when she is free so that you two can sync your schedules. If ahe is still reluctant, you choice would be to try and get more flirting inbetween study where you can just approach and chat. Maybe she is on the fence still, and you need to overcome that social or personal herdle of hers. (If it were easy.....)
/r/seduction02/02/18 12:33 AM
2

Look and give a smile, she smiles back go talk to her.
/r/seduction01/02/18 04:26 AM
9

Same, but thats ok, tinder is cancer and i need to be more proactive irl rather than hiding behind easy lays
/r/seduction31/01/18 04:13 PM
0

You can improve looks without surgery. Dressinv right, grooming, physical health aka exsersize, how you carry yourself. Having surgery to give yourself a better nose or lips....
/r/seduction29/01/18 05:49 AM
3

She replies, continue...
/r/seduction29/01/18 03:51 AM
6

Are you new to this sub?
/r/seduction29/01/18 03:49 AM
1

By any chance are you still in your teens? Because that was my thought process back then, to wait for the right moment. The point is, if you actually like her, you need to seize the day, since you failed to do so in the moment when you did have the chance. If she is someone, amongst many girls you like and are not afraid of missing out, then by all means, try at the next party. There is nothing wrong with calling her at an appropriate hour to hang out, to go out on a date. If we spend our lives …
/r/seduction19/01/18 03:25 AM
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If you actually like her, why not call her and confess that you like like her, and that you should go out on a proper date. This way you make the moves, let her know your intenrions, and not waste time waiting for a party where she may or may not be with soemone...
/r/seduction19/01/18 03:09 AM
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Did you escalate with her? Did you fuck, kiss, after all (and this is all speculatio. Due tonlack of information) some women still want the man to make all the moves. And even though she is attracted and like you, she wont escalate since you havnt.
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:05 AM
1

Its called seduction for a reason. There isnt a specific criteria that in the end does it for her, unlike a job interview. So asking for feedback is useless, youre better off teying to date of teying to date your friends, as they might give and honest opion, as a stranger she has no obligation to you, even after you slept together and gone on dates....
/r/seduction19/01/18 01:06 AM
2

Have you tried flirting? As in casually directing conversation into sexual nature. Its all situational, her clothes, her behaviour (is she shy, confident, defencive) and use that in a sexualised overtone (never outright saying anything). You talk to her, about what she is doing. Her attractive features. Eg (implying sex is bad), implying sexual nature isnt. Like I ride bikes, so occasionally out of the blue i ask her if she wants to go for a ride sometime, maybe she does she doesnt. Talk about r…
/r/seduction07/01/18 11:40 AM
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Yes, because in a crowd of people seeing miniscule cue is all we get. No, I am sorry, she comes off as upherself and shallow.
/r/seduction01/01/18 09:48 PM
2

I guess it is like with most things in life we do, when we dont want to. Adulting. You ask yourself, what is it that I want. In that desire of yours there is room to justify investing in yourself. It might not be the genuine desire to get better, but it could be a desire of what you want and you use that to tell yourself: I want this and in order to get it, i want to do this other thing. You tell yourself you want to do it, because if you tell yourself otherwise (need, must, have to) you are put…
/r/seduction01/01/18 09:09 PM
1

its lonely. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jErJimwom94
/r/seduction24/12/17 03:15 AM
23

Man up and kindly, but forcefully ask him to cut it out.
/r/seduction23/12/17 02:24 AM
4

This gets me, i grew up believing girls like being chased, and boys like the chase. Neither of these is actually true....
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:53 AM
4

Clealry you had to tell reddit about it.
/r/seduction18/12/17 07:31 AM
1

I guess going in sober is more for dating. For sex ther inebriation is key.
/r/seduction09/12/17 01:12 AM
2

Fire is good, nuclear fire that burns for 1 million years and kills all life on earth, not so good.
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:45 AM
1

His beta male mind is going down the inferiority hole. Where he thinks the might want to do better aka date better. But who knows what she meant by that. Womens minds are a whole another wold.
/r/seduction28/11/17 04:56 PM
1

you are leading her on, ou need to tell he asap. best way ask her for her friends number, or a setup date.
/r/seduction19/11/17 01:24 PM
1

Similar sutuation, and I have adhd, as an adult as well. I cananage but i get the same relationship issues. More over it affects other parts of my life too. See if that relates.
/r/seduction15/11/17 05:56 AM
7

0, I attract 0 women because I have no energy or motivation.....
/r/seduction11/11/17 07:00 AM
1

Recall how much gossip or flyby convos you remember fro yesterday. Now, how many do you care about? Yeah focus on \her and the energy of confidence of who you are will flow.
/r/seduction11/11/17 05:37 AM
1

With great difficulty
/r/seduction11/11/17 05:00 AM
3

Unless scat is one of your kinks*.....
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:11 AM
1

Yes, finding someone you might fall in love is hard.
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:48 AM
1

Normal opening is when there is mutual attraction. If you are teying to get girls attention, thats a different thing. Some try to be in their face until they get attention, others try an opener, others just do something, its upto you. But getting attention from someone who hasnt thought of you in 'that' way yet, needs something more than a hi, just liek tinder...... Hence a more creative opener is best, after a while starting conversations with such similar random statements will be a no brainer…
/r/seduction09/10/17 12:23 PM
1

She is on the fence, and doesnt has a need to be invested. As a rule of thumb on this sub, txting is for setting up dates. So do that, and avoid wasting your and her time, as it seems you guys arent conversing in a meaningful way.
/r/seduction05/10/17 05:39 AM
1

So, a number of things could have happened, from a mistaje was made with numbers, she didnt recieve the text, forgot to press send(happens way too often), forgot to reply because she didnt want to seem desperate and you know(leave msg to reply ltr but then forget, we all do that). Or what you sent didnt/wasnt the right thing, or she changed her mind and wanted to remain friends. Now none of that matters, as thats life. Its best to assume the best intentions out of people and life will be much ea…
/r/seduction04/10/17 11:52 PM
1

If youre dating girls your age, yeah I would assume so. 21 is niwaydays considered still the party age.
/r/seduction04/10/17 05:55 AM
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Go out to make friends, not try to hook up. Ease up on the compliments, and focus on actual conversations/banter. Friends 1st, then see if there is engagement from the girls and escalate. This way you wont be that guy who goes around hitting on women all night, and instead you will have fun with friends and make new ones, and in no times attraction through your social status, confidence, not actually trying to reach an end goal with the girls will be attractive enough for girls to pay attention …
/r/seduction23/09/17 06:14 AM
1

I agree, self promition is not on. If they want to make koney of their advice thats fine, I didnt come here for a sales pitch. Imo, the freedom that the forum/free advice that this place gives has value on its own. The paid advice they give, well no thanks. Just stick to 1on1 traineshios and group seshions, and forums.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:08 AM
2

Sometimes, overthinking and over doing is THE undoing of your situation. Like an artist who spends most of his life perfecting one painting, instead of at some point establishing the good enough zone. Point is, you can never 100Percent know what she is thinking. Everybody is different, so by being you, and respecting who she is, your tailspin, from a woman's point of view can be something she may or may not be comfortable is. That is for her to decide. And thusly it is out of YOUR control. You f…
/r/seduction14/09/17 05:06 AM
19

The zen of inner peace
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:43 PM
5

Man up, ask her out. Otherwise your post has little to go.
/r/seduction10/09/17 01:54 AM
7

I like the ending, if she lets a man be all up in her personal space, man handling her, yeah you can kiss.... Lol, fuck any other signs, thats like you realising there is a tornado, after it had already passed.
/r/seduction07/09/17 06:14 AM
1

For the general part, older more experienced advice helps younger guys. I hope most of the time the point of seeing the age in title means that the response/advice given represents that age group. i agree there is an age difference, like a 38yo and 17yo and 25 yos have different age groups, although for pure sexual encounter age is but a number(legality pending), for a relationship purposes age should be considered.
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:20 PM
1

unless you are ugly, broke, and whatever.
/r/seduction03/09/17 03:52 PM
2

Its but a forewarning. Fuck I am seeing a girl from my workplace this weekend.
/r/seduction28/08/17 12:00 PM
1

Dont shit where you live, work, study. Unless you are ready for a relationship, or other circumstances try to avoid work place romance, eveb fwb could go wrong.
/r/seduction28/08/17 10:18 AM
3

It is def an active behaiour to reafirm their own, the beliefs of theri bf, and to show you that they are taken. People can be attracted to more than one person, but if they choose to partner with somebody responces will be had to reafirm that choice. If there arent, its a problem.
/r/seduction28/08/17 08:42 AM
7

Treat her like a ling time friend, aka by beaing realxed freindly, open, comfortable, and avoid overthinking.
/r/seduction26/08/17 12:43 AM
2

Meditation, education, patience. Worm on those through sports, hobbies, rest times.
/r/seduction26/08/17 12:18 AM
1

How does one love oneslef, be ok, and hapoy with one self. Self satisfaction is not something we consider, only when ita gone, and realisation hits. Thats when you realise the abyss that is self love. Personally, i am yet to achieve it, so far I managed to overcome self hate and self destructive behaviours(most of them).
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:44 AM
1

Usually that conversation is had earlier on in the relationship. Otherwise, the relationship has to go somewhere. Hence why people date, get o know each other fall in love, have kids etc. If you have not had the conversation after seeing her after some time, then you know. Better break it off(more reevaluate now, what it is that you want to have with her, it isnt fair on either of you to string another along), or if you want to pursue more with her then so be it. I usually discuss what I am look…
/r/seduction17/08/17 03:53 PM
1

It could be situational. You are naturally drawn to her because in the gym, its populated with guys, so a girk with a nice bod will get your attention purely on the contrast with the other options. As somebody who does tend to hook up with women whos face i dont find crash hot, in the long run i dont like them that much, and using then for sex is only fun untill they want more. So ask yourself whqt it is you woukd want from her. As being a part of your gym, future interactions matter.
/r/seduction17/08/17 03:17 AM
2

I avoid workplace dating. Because if something goes wrong thats extra crap that noone needs at work. Unless its casual sex, then its alright.
/r/seduction17/08/17 03:10 AM
1

why not write up a guide?
/r/seduction03/08/17 11:35 PM
0

Women dont want to date endlessly. The relationship has to go somewhere, like marriage. Emotional connection, escalation etc. Uf you want long term you need to know what you are asking here. Long term means moving in together, kids, marriage, joint bank accounts etc. Commitment.
/r/seduction01/08/17 08:14 AM
1

What are your intentions with her? Think about that. Girls who are being led on, unless they are inexperienced or damaged will move on eventually. 5weeks is sometime. If she is looking around as you are, she will find something eventually, and your friendship will be less frequent. Depending on what you are looking for with her, I would suggest inviting her out, to catch up, or something. Where you can talk about your trip etc, the things you have done, where, etc. And the steer the conversation…
/r/seduction31/07/17 10:56 AM
1

I am going by what OP has said. As for your comment, sure, everyone is free to do as they like until a relationship is formed or the two individuals discuss the terms of the arrangements. From my experience, Girls who i have friendzoned will either deal with it and still have a connection, physical etc, and communicate but we will discuss other guys she may be seeing. Alternatively its possible she was trying to make him jealous by bringing up other 'competition' which is common practice.
/r/seduction31/07/17 10:49 AM
2

Escalate. Guige your convos towards sexual nature, make her a little jelous. Start talking aboht other girls, but in a way that makes you seem like you are also moving on to better things.
/r/seduction31/07/17 05:32 AM
0

You have been friendzoned....
/r/seduction31/07/17 05:20 AM
2

Yeah, emotion doesnt translate through text. Realising the sarcastic humour is something that is also not text safe is a wake up call, good thing I figured that out back with the msn messenger.
/r/seduction29/07/17 04:40 PM
5

Serious Q regarding Clubs, how do people talk in clubs, i cant hear shit. Music is way too loud and i have to repeat what many times before giving up. My hearing isnt gone, i am not old but the base, and loudness is definitely hindering all my enjoyment in communication.
/r/seduction28/07/17 03:42 PM
2

It means: Practice your own face in mirror. Then look, smile, look away, look again, if she smiles again go talk to her. Or if she smiles back in the first place, keep looking at her (not too long, as that would be creepy) and then approach her.
/r/seduction28/07/17 05:02 AM
29

I mean, i was hoping for something along the lines: YEAAAAAA 3sums!
/r/seduction27/07/17 07:22 AM
17

Out of curiosity, what else were you seeing there?
/r/seduction27/07/17 04:42 AM
1

Tl:DW Sales pitch video for his upcoming videos, a tldr of sorts (summery): Basic concept, creating value. AKA personal development and growth.
/r/seduction26/07/17 11:01 PM
2

continue to talk, try a different approach and look for a reaction, positive continue, negative try another. Set up future dating, relation groundwork.
/r/seduction10/07/17 02:20 AM
1

Talk to her truthfully, explain the situation, explain that you maybe involved with someone else (lie) and that you are not interested, ad have no feeling back for her. Maintain a friendship, but make it clear, so that there is no confusion between you two, even if she has a crush on you, crushes go away).
/r/seduction04/07/17 03:34 PM
1

Maybe if you approach her and have some humour and light hearted meeting you would have had more of a chance instead of coming up to her with an agenda.
/r/seduction03/07/17 03:07 PM
1

Using mobile, autocorrect isnt the best and my thumbs keep hitting mixed keys
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:35 PM
5

Practice, and a strong backbone. Seriously, reading is well and good, but without practiceing your own approach it wont work, charisma is not taught, getting a strong skin doesnt come from lack of rejection, and ebove all, working on yourself, loving yourself and respecting yourself. If you cant do it for yourself first, hiw do you exoect to do it for a woman?
/r/seduction21/06/17 05:43 AM
1

Most of the time i am interested, not liking anything yet. Half the time I spent years ago just fucking girls I didnt really like, I enjoyed the sex, the pull, the attraction. You know that thing that we all chase, a quick connection, both mental and physical. Sometimes, i settled for less attractive ones, sometimes shallow and boring. I have since been doing self improvement as tinder was mainly an escape from that, easy matches, can pretend to be something I want to be rather than be it. But n…
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:03 PM
5

I deleted it because out of three dates i could have had i had 1, and she seemed like she was interested in much more physical relationship than dating. I put on my profile not looking for hookups, so i get more hookups that dont care for dating. its like a fucking mental catch 22 with that thing. Set up a date too far out of the match/inital chats, its over. Over chat, its over. underchat, some are afraid to meet in person, start avoiding. Dont escalate fast enough they are not interested, roma…
/r/seduction18/06/17 01:29 PM
12

This is why I have deleted tinder. After a few weeks of pulling good looking girls, their interests are not in the guy who is also interested and caring towards them. They first want quick attraction, connection that seems there, if the date happens, if you dont escale quickly thats it. If you set up a date too far outside 3 days, thats it, if you text too much they loose interest. Its a fucking headache. But act like she isnt a priority and fuck her good and she is all yours, ffs. I am trying t…
/r/seduction18/06/17 01:21 PM
0

You can expose yourself to new music and over time you may grow to enjoy more music than the type you are listening to atm. You can change the speed you run, by training and diet, a workout plan you can increase your own personal peak performance. Its all a matter of perspective.
/r/seduction15/06/17 04:18 AM
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Forging yourself through ideation of your personal goals isnt the same as faking it till making it. leopard cant change his stripes, no matter how much a dwarf tries to break the world record in sprinting or swimming, that just wont happen. It is a dream, a delusion to go outside your restrains. We are not the same, we are not cut from the same cloth, we are all humans, who should be respectful and good to each other, we all similarities, and we all have differences. Knowing who you are is not a…
/r/seduction15/06/17 02:27 AM
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This guy makes interesting distinction between real vs fake confidence in the type of woman he was trying to pick up/meet. After seeing some of the pick up videos, they do have a tendency of having this Alpha confidence about them, maybe fake, maybe genuine. But they do emphasise that being yourself is more important than acting confidently. This video has a different take on that same notion. it's more important to be confident and knowing who you are rather than putting on a persona and acting…
/r/seduction15/06/17 01:03 AM
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Cudos for the "first time kissing a woman line", usually i reserve that type of humour for those i know i have in the pocket(aka sex pending) type situation.
/r/seduction08/06/17 12:57 PM
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On one hand, she is cray, on the other its not too uncommon for girls to try and match same guy on tinder and play him to see who he really is. Remember dating is a bitch and meeting randoms online (esp) online means deceptions lies and perceptions. From Their point of view she was trying to see if you are just interested in sex, and to do that she uses help of her friend. This weeds out guys who are jerks, who are only interested in sex, who lie to get women to have sex. From a guys perspective…
/r/seduction17/05/17 03:51 PM
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I have adhd. I have been unable to maintain friendships or relationships for multitude of reasons. One always stands out as i get bored, disinterested, loss of attraction and need for that person to be around. I read a few posts abd forums on this issue. And its more common than I thought. Although for me atm getting rediagnosed is going to be expencive, and getting medical help is needed. But look into that, maybe you have same same. Although I dont fully support adhd drug industry from my time…
/r/seduction12/05/17 07:35 AM
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Dont try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other. From what you gave us to work with: She is either genuinely busy which happens. Or you are still in her maybe books because there are aspects of you she just isnt that into. Which isnt a bad thing, we all liked each other....oh god what a place that would be. I wouldn't be naggy and needy in this situation. She is her own person and if she doesnt want to do anything with you then so be it. (Age is also a factor, you s…
/r/seduction01/05/17 07:17 AM
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"Then came the downfall. But she just wouldn't let me isolate her. I was getting IOI's and the kino was working hardcore until it was obvious that I intended to isolate her." So here is a lesson to learn. You came on too hard, and her and most likely her friends saw that. Instead of being flirty and letting shit naturally escalate not being afraid of ending the night at any point(i am trying to say you were actively pursuing a goal, and being satisfied enough with what you had which most likely …
/r/seduction23/04/17 01:36 PM
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Work on yourself. Focus on the best of you and minimise the worst. This means if you are annoyingly geeky over something obscure intorduce it at later stages of your relations when you open up more to each other. In the beggining we show our best selves but make that the true self. Fake things dont last.
/r/seduction22/04/17 01:31 PM
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hahah GG, I need to save this one, for when i approach yet another self entitled b1tch. Happens very rarely but at least now I have a good burn.
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:12 PM
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Well then the outcome is positive! She followed instructions and proceeded to do as she was told. Perfect wife material right there!
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:10 PM
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The problem is that women are sneaky as fuck. They will take a second look, but when you least expect it, or in a different time. Took me a while, but now I notice that women give second looks, and even turn around to check me out when I walk past. Too bad that most of the times that I notice is when I am busy going somewhere and and have no desire to chat.
/r/seduction09/04/17 05:33 PM
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omg, if we are going where, she will glass you while you turn around.
/r/seduction09/04/17 03:59 PM
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So much choice around and large crowds also give people social anxiety. Nobody wants to appear too eager either.
/r/seduction09/04/17 03:58 PM
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wtf did you say to her?
/r/seduction09/04/17 03:56 PM
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Yes. and yes. Basically if you make eye contact and you make eye contact againa nd get a smile back go talk to her, if not you can always approach a girl and talk to her. Whats the worst that could happen?
/r/seduction09/04/17 01:51 PM
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Women have the power, and so it corrupts them. A dumb broad with looks will still be that, but her self esteem and confidence will be through the roof. And thus is the conundrum of this time. People walking around with overinflated egos and estimate of selfworth when deep down the are not all they appear to be. Online dating and tinder esp is more like cancer. It doesnt do much good for men, or women imo. Genuin conversation is instantly lost when the other end matches with somebody new and visu…
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:54 AM
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good luck i suppose.
/r/seduction29/03/17 01:09 PM
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Hey, How you doing, im joey, with the best FRIENDS impersonation of Lablanc? Mine is, hey Im X, would you like some gum?
/r/seduction29/03/17 12:23 PM
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Go to the gym eat healthy, exercise and you will look much better and importantly feel better, both emotionally and pysically, get some stylish clothes, get a friend to take better pictures, confidence start working on being certain in the actions you take/do
/r/seduction23/03/17 03:34 PM
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And as shallow as a puddle
/r/seduction18/03/17 09:59 AM
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You are assuming the extravagant things like flicking hair and keeping eye contact with you, but you can always test the little things. Like with physical contact, we all like physical contact, a shy girl may act surprised at first but will warm up, a disinterred girl will shut down advances. Making a stupid joke and watch her reaction, an interested girl will try to laugh sincerely (just being nice will just give a social chuckle). Is she looking around at others or at you, is she choosing to b…
/r/seduction05/03/17 05:24 PM
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The participant.
/r/seduction05/03/17 04:38 PM
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When women are seriously interested in you it isnt hard for someone with social skills to see the signs. Its when they are not, but interested, the micro signs and little tells that I have trouble with. Because its very easy to confuse those with her just being nice. Escalate the game, kino, and it will be apparent if she is or isnt interested.
/r/seduction05/03/17 04:38 PM
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If you latch on to something they like, you can go deeper to build repour. If you wabt a deeper meaningful convo, sometimes sharing a personal thing helps them share theirs.
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:34 PM
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Cold approaching and blatantly asking for a date will get no where. A few questions to at least break the ice and first step is always introducing yourself as a bare minimum. Who will respond to a stranger!?
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:43 AM
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been posted a few weeks back, basically all he is doing ids just approaching and asking for a date, no lead up, no conversation, no attempt to dive deeper into actually engaging with women. "old fashioned" (might as well physically pick them up and carry them to his cave). Whats interesting to note is that the girls dont even talk to him, those that do have the camera right in their face.
/r/seduction04/03/17 06:01 AM
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Reevaluate how much you like her. This isnt uncommon, modern world allows us to be in contact, so some feel the need to have a constant presence and discuss.....something throughout the day and night. You can try not replying for longer see how she reacts, and slowly you can decrease the ammount of texting that way. Otherwise its a reevaluation of yoru intentions with her. If you want LTR then you will have to weine her off verrryyy slowly. Or get used to it. IF not then take control and stop be…
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:05 PM
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Yeah..why are you ejecting after minutes? The point isnt to go by the numbers its to be aware of techniques and actions to help you read and understand the situation. To use the skills you are learning to help you with the interaction, not to look for signs that fit some criteria and react through prepaired set of actions. If somebody smiles that means good. Genuine smiles are good, making women laugh is good, why are you ejecting?
/r/seduction16/02/17 12:39 PM
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What I like is the some of the real times, when the camera is further away how women just rejected him because random guys approach women and we do. Some approaches fell flat fast, but then camera in the face still a no, but many at least engaged in a conversation, not anything to five the women a reason to go on a date with him, but hey a start.
/r/seduction16/02/17 11:53 AM
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Tinder is cancer. I havnt used it in a while, and it seems people are realising that shallow swipes and repeated text conversations isnt getting anyone but attention seeking whores anywhere. Last time I used it, the skew got so large over the years that I match up with 3-6s, and irl I pull 7,8s all the time. Getting a females attention via few lines of text is difficult when the system is not in our favour. Esp in a city full of men, since this a mining state. I have noticed and been invited to …
/r/seduction14/02/17 03:29 AM
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I think with bmi and fat reducing its harder to have fitness goals if you arent competing. I go in and out of breaks, and this gives me something to work towards when I do return.
/r/seduction12/02/17 01:11 AM
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Not getting a little of, 'want what we can't have' phenomenon? "a very high-energy, outspoken person and it would just feel really weird for me to try to control it" Although that is you, a woman/girl who is smart wont go for showmanship so to speak, from the side would it seem that you are egoistic, high energy from the side could appear that you arent into calm conversations. Something to consider. Following on from that would it be that you are now starting to find yourself attracted to the o…
/r/seduction31/01/17 06:26 PM
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being an awkward 17yo they knew yyou were awkward. Work on your confidence
/r/seduction01/01/17 09:00 AM
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The detail in the post, wow. A few things arise from your lack of panctuation, which girl did you stop texting? Beef between who? Who are you seeing and who is her friend, are you interested in her friend I am a little confused.
/r/seduction23/12/16 03:31 AM
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You have to be genuineine, as Blue Mountain State puts it, you uave to convince them you are the one they want tonight.
/r/seduction22/11/16 11:04 AM
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I think thats it, just chat and slowly make things happen over time. If the girl doesnt want sex she wont reciprocate. I am in the same boat as you.
/r/seduction04/11/16 04:42 PM
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Smile
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