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Just an extra $50k. Nbd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:28 PM
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Women are the pursued party. Men want women more than women want men. Most women always have options. If a woman can't find a relationship, it's usually because she doesn't like their options. It is, in fact, voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:19 AM
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Pay a matchmaker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:12 AM
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I take it you're not a big believer in exposure therapy, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:25 PM
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How many of you guys that fear a harsh/mean rejection have actually received one? It's really not the blow you think it is, or at least, it wasn't to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:05 PM
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Very few women are lonely because they have no options. They just don't like the options they do have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:44 PM
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I think of myself as pretty romantic and all that, but reading another couple's cutesy conversation like this makes me want to hurl. Maybe it just seems fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:49 PM
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I'd want to know so I can end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:48 PM
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For physique or in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:04 PM
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Yep, I'm a little upset I couldn't figure that one out. That's a really sweet story, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:39 AM
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I feel very stupid for asking because something is definitely going over my head here, but why the sleeping by the bedroom door part?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:32 AM
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I've only been blocked once in my entire time here, and it was actually pretty recently. How many hook ups have occurred in PPD history? I've heard it's happened a few times from what I hear, which surprised me. How many former PPD users are in jail or in a psych ward? This is the psych ward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:10 AM
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Sociopathic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:15 PM
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You'll have to ask Santa next year
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:24 PM
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Not a movie, but Beth on Yellowstone comes to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:23 PM
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I don't really have a height preference, but the most striking woman I've ever seen in real life was tall. She had to be 6'2'' or so since she was noticeably taller than me. Her eyes were her most attractive feature, but she had a model body. Now I notice tall women hoping I run into that girl again, and I do seem to find them attractive more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:59 AM
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I hope not, but that is probably the way it's going. Saying "I love you" should definitely be mutually enthusiastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:55 AM
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You're 16, kid. You've got a loooong way to go before you need to worry about aging. Especially for the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:01 AM
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I'm glad to hear it all worked out for you! I'd heard so many horror stories I was really curious to see how someone I'm familiar-ish with (I've been on PPD a while under different names) would fare. I bet they've cleaned up their act some given how desperate a lot of places like that are for workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:58 AM
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Did he make a move on her and she rejected him, or did he just hope to backdoor his way into a relationship with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:41 AM
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Now that it's been a while, how many Gatorade bottles have you had a to pee in by now to keep your job at the Amazon warehouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:37 AM
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Not to rain on your parade here, but you had to get her to do that? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:38 AM
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You really took a leap from not trying to convince disinterested women to cheating on your gf. Yikes man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:56 AM
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Didn't even know about it. Loved In Bruges.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:42 AM
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I imagine that's fewer than a normal day here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:26 PM
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This is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:59 AM
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Women look at me and get pregnant. You ain't special.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:13 AM
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Yikes, I'm so sorry. You don't standout. What was your name again?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:58 AM
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What about men from your future? Merry Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:40 AM
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He broke my chimney last year the fat son of a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:33 AM
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🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:05 AM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:50 AM
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The most awkward thing about Christmas for me is getting Merry Christmas texts from random numbers and not being sure if they're people I want to talk to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:21 AM
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Thanks! That's what I thought too, but it didn't turn out to be the case. It could be partially because it didn't occur to be to get somewhere warm for Christmas unlike a week or two ago. Even just going to Miami was like $850 on fucking Spirit on Xmas day. That's a $200-$300 flight for me normally on a real airline, even on relatively short notice. Plus hotels were heinous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:36 AM
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I tried this year, but it's expensive as hell. I'm taking the same trip in mid-January now for 1/3 the price I would've spent to do it over Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:17 AM
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Upon even further review, I think I'd say she's just out of his league instead of way out of his league. Oh well. I should self-delete for this being how I'm spending Christmas eve, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:13 PM
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I thought she was hotter when I saw only saw her in the video. Pretty normal looking couple. I wonder how she feels about everyone dragging him online and gassing her up about how she could/should be doing better. Changed my mind. Upon review of her Instagram, she's way out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:40 PM
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I've wanted to do that so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:17 PM
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I've investigated myself and found myself not guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:47 PM
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I'd ask her if she can whistle with her fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:11 PM
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Last 25 hours in advance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:02 PM
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Can you call yourself a man if you can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:01 PM
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I'd just reject the ugly ones and make posts on /r/Tinder patting myself on the back for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:41 PM
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Taking gifts makes you a parasite?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:40 PM
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I had that exact conversation in here a few weeks ago. I'm a bald white guy, so I wondered if I look like a Nazi sympathizer if I still openly listen to Kanye. It was decided that I'm in the clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:11 AM
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Separate the art from the artist or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:04 AM
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I see right through you, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:46 AM
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Going to construction sites and stealing copper wiring Did you respond with a sad face to my post about /r/meth because it hit a little too close to home?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:40 AM
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Not really RP, but I'm not surprised. He was giving way too much emotional effort to a woman he barely knew and clearly wasn't that into him in the first place. This caused her to lose any respect she had for him. He should've just quietly realized she wasn't into it and called it a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:16 AM
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Unprofessional drinkers disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:13 AM
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How long have you been in healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:59 AM
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I regret to inform you that your husband is an amateur. Water is before bed, gatorade is for the morning after. You'll just piss out those electrolytes in your current state.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:58 AM
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/r/meth I actually feel really bad for them. A lot of the top posts are from people making some post about quitting and then you click their profile to find out it didn't take. It's really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:31 AM
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If I was more creative I'd come up with one, but we all have our shortcomings, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:17 AM
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Nah. I'm just wonderful and happen to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:03 AM
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I lost my car keys in one once. Don't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:32 AM
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You're so cool bro. How can I be more like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:25 AM
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Why do women hate men? This sub made me realize I'm addicted to women and want them near me at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:03 AM
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If I'm having that thought I probably need to break up with the current one regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:11 PM
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More men out of the workforce = higher wages for the rest of us. Why should I care what these men choose to do with their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:08 PM
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Hanging out in the daily chat gives me the impression that most of y'all are pretty normal. Then I make the mistake of venturing out and seeing a woman argue sexual compatibility isn't important in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:04 PM
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First time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:49 PM
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I've never read any PUA shit and I feel a little personally attacked by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:28 AM
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It's more important for me how many hours she works rather than when she works. I have a pretty atypical lifestyle, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:43 AM
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It kills me that I don't have your blessing to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:01 AM
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You don't already feel like hot shit? That's new to me lol. Can you describe your ass for me? Are we talking like, just big, or are we talking shapely, but tasteful in size?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:45 AM
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Damn, you're that hot that other girls feel threatened by you on sight? How you doin?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:39 AM
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Depends on how long I'd have to wait. I can't be getting too invested in someone I might not be sexually compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:19 AM
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Having shame isn't always a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:03 AM
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What? I'm a normie too. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:06 AM
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Sounds like you got cucked out of working out because you're too poor for a home gym
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:54 AM
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It's pretty fuckin cringe either way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:54 AM
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My whole philosophy on life is the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:32 AM
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Why do you think you're going through this identity crisis?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:29 AM
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Goffman is one guy with one theory. I'm like 99% sure there's a counter that I read as part of the same class I read Goffman in. I'd have to actually go back and read all the shit that was part of that class, though. I didn't meant to upset you, just wanted to share something I thought was interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:27 AM
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I'm an optimistic pessimist unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:11 AM
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Breaking Bad is mid. Watch The Sopranos 15 times instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:11 AM
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http://www.glottopedia.org/index.php/Face_(concept)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:06 AM
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What do you have in the queue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:09 AM
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the clitoris enlargens 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:46 AM
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Alright, I'll bite, what are the things you used to give a fuck about that you don't anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:18 AM
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I'll save you a seat at the bar down south.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:03 AM
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Don't get a big head, you're just useful to me right now. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:55 AM
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So you think men and women should share no common interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:54 AM
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I wonder what the result would be if you polled men on if that's what they're looking for. /u/stjohnswyrt you know what to do. That personally sounds pretty boring to me. Sharing some common interests is good, but sharing all the same interests is fucking boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:44 AM
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Maybe, but they might be my kind of weirdo so it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:31 AM
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You know, hell would be a lot more scary if they described it like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:28 AM
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405x5 is pretty impressive regardless. Probably 99.9th percentile in strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:28 AM
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She lets me do it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:59 PM
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Women, including those not on Tiktok, openly say what they find physically attractive in men. And that's verified by the men they pursue on OLD. Tall, handsome, yada yada yada. Fortunately for men, eliciting an emotional/mental reaction can still attract women as long he meets a fairly forgiving looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:52 AM
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If offering to to let your take me on a date where we dress up as furries isn't attention, Idk what is. Fuckin' wahmen and their terrible memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:37 AM
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Dudes are bitching because what women find physically attractive excludes the majority of men from the party. They're scared basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:13 AM
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You're telling on yourself here buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:11 PM
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Yeah, because she'd get bored eventually. I'd get bored of someone who was significantly dumber than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:41 PM
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Don't care about stretch marks or cellulite really. Body hair has to be taken care of. I don't like saggy boobs, but I prefer small boobs anyways because they're usually perky, even as a woman ages. I have no preference for what a girl's vagina looks like. I like looking at them all pretty much. Not sure what you mean by chubby but not overweight. Sounds like an oxymoron.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:40 PM
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I love it when sensitive little twinks dock with me Uhhh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:58 PM
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Real football starts in about 31 minutes, fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:34 PM
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Being a dork is a gift and a curse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:19 PM
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Gotta say "I guess I'm the guy of your dreams, baby" with a real cheesedick smile
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:22 PM
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I would avoid any more nurses. Also, no flight attendants. Ever. Also anyone who regularly has to put in long hours or has a high stress position. It's just not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:13 PM
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Last
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:00 AM
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What's this about Applebees?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:04 AM
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Well shit, that took a really dark twist at the end there. Yikes. I appreciate the detailed response, and I'm glad you made it out of that with all your limbs intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:03 AM
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Were steps 3-7 the same for those serious relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:43 AM
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At what point in this process did you tell him it was over?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:34 AM
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Q4W who've mentally broken up with a guy a period of time before you actually broke up with him: Did you have any lingering feelings for the guy after it was finally officially over? Specifically interested in negative feelings like anger, resentment, etc. Or did you just feel nothing for him anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:26 AM
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Nice try, fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:12 AM
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Damn, they're fit and the relationship is all but guaranteed to be short term? See you losers later, I'm gonna go hit up some nursing homes right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:12 AM
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Sick, I'm finally Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:22 AM
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What is your definition of an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:21 AM
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Favorite: Rock Least favorite: Pop
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:14 AM
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Can I be a big cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:12 AM
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What would you prefer we call them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:12 AM
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Or maybe they do freaky shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:25 AM
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I hadn't thought of stopping somewhere else. Idk if I'm gonna be able to get my asshole sufficiently clean in a 7-Eleven bathroom to have sex, though. I'd probably just take the likely L, tell her I'm not feeling good, and part ways. Then I'd try unsuccessfully to bang her again at a later date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:23 AM
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2g1c was gross, but remember BME Pain Olympics? That one made me want to throw up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:15 AM
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He's still at it and he's not tagging me!? What do the crazies not see in me? Where is the love?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:10 AM
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Thanks, king. Or queen. You might be a woman. I can't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:33 AM
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Dammit, motherfucker, I had this bit first!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:21 AM
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Last
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:12 AM
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I make my own rules
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:51 AM
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Probably like I am now. Somewhere in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:45 AM
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Gotcha. That was kinda my impression of you, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:44 AM
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I love it. You can't fully turn off traction/stability control on newer GM trucks without pulling some fuses and it's really put a damper on my winter fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:37 AM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:35 AM
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Bald? DROPPED.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:33 AM
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And you purport yourself as some kinda gamer girl. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:32 AM
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There are at least a couple people who probably would like to see me dead that actually know my name and where I live, and they ain't had to balls to come high noon it with me yet. Anonymous internet strangers are pretty low on my list of concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:31 AM
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Psssh, I know you were just flirting. You just want an excuse to show up at my door.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:28 AM
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Open. I've had some great/interesting exchanges in DMs with people from here. I've also got some very amusing, angry messages random people threaten to murder me. It's all in good fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:10 AM
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You don’t like women in skin tight clothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:44 PM
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Bad breath has to be number one with a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:06 PM
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How do I measure my balls? Should I weigh them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:41 PM
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He musta been huge
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:40 PM
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Typical wahmen, wants the guys to do all the hard work. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:28 PM
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Only kinda related: Some people insist on replacing one letter wither another in my last name because the other name is more common. Then I correct them, and they double check with a kind of look of disbelief on their faces. Like I don't know my own fuckin name.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:25 PM
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I'm such a fucking badass I bawled to my gf at the time before my first and only court date because I was facing a maximum penalty of 30-days in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:38 AM
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Someone will try to one up me I'm sure, and then I'll have to kill them. That, or I'm the only one pathetic enough to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:31 AM
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Last
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:18 AM
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Dammit, Punkie, you're supposed to be disappointed!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:52 AM
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Gonna need some pics to verify. How much for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:51 AM
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What about... Nope, not doing it. I'm reformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:46 AM
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How about we talk about your boobs? Describe them in detail for us, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:45 AM
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I lean towards agreeing with you, but her body language while saying this stuff is key here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:57 AM
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For me? If I was willing to take whatever I could get, I could probably get laid within a week on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:53 AM
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He's definitely not dumb, he's just reasoned himself into believing stupid shit because that's easier than being an actual intellectual. And he still made some incredible and extremely influential music.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:47 AM
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Exactly what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:33 AM
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Kanye went from eccentric in a mostly cool way to being completely insane. It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:31 AM
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Of all the photos that were probably taken of Tupac, why would you use one where he's winking for purposes of getting a rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:27 AM
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He's absurdly famous. Of course he had a huge female following.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:24 AM
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I actually disagree. Being too high in intelligence usually leads to issues socially that prevent the person you describe from ever reaching a position of power. The most powerful people in the world are usually a combination of above average intelligence and questionable ethics/morals. They also are highly charismatic. People with that combination of traits are the most dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:21 AM
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Wow, what a bargain compared to your insightful replies!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:14 AM
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Yes, this question was inspired by you. Here's your prize: 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:00 AM
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How much extra do I have to send for armpit pics, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:55 AM
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I'm glad I could do that for you. The only of these that I'd classify as "insignificant" is the left hand turn story.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:50 AM
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From guys your age or older guys? I know women talk about receiving sexual attention from older men at a very young age (and it's abhorrent), and that's not the kind of ick I'm talking about. It's very obvious to me why you'd feel "the ick" in that scenario. The "ick" I'm talking about is when a woman loses all attraction toward a guy for a reason so insignificant that sometimes she's not even sure exactly why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:23 AM
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Approximate age you'd say you first experienced it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:13 AM
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One simple, seemingly insignificant thing completely turning you off a guy is how I define it. You might not even conscious know why. You just simply lose all attraction to him in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:11 AM
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It's not a women problem, but it's not gonna happen, either. Men bond over going through hard times together. I think past a certain age when life gets easier for many people, there's much less opportunity to form new strong bonds like that. For example, I don't know any guys who met their closest friends after college age. It's almost always they grew up together and shared those struggles at the same time. That or they spent time at war together, and that's usually when they're young too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:59 PM
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Question for the older women here: Did you experience what is described as "the ick" when you were younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:48 PM
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I will never understand women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:02 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:43 PM
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Physically attractive to me, honest, similar/good sense of humor, laid back, adventurous, can support herself, high-ish libido, and takes good care of herself. These are all roughly at the same level of importance, but I suppose on some of them, if she excels in one area over another I'd change my mind. There might be some stuff I'm not thinking of, but that's all I could come up with right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:42 PM
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Romantically or just in general? There are women I think are high value that I know I wouldn't be compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:29 PM
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Oh right, I forgot. Tbh, the way you described it, the sex life sounds pretty terrible, so I think I'm a no. I could probably be okay with more or less vanilla sex, but a lack of enthusiasm would really bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:35 PM
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Do I love her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:19 PM
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I'm not sure that attitude even usually comes from insecurity. For me it didn't. I think it comes from overconfidence. Your 5'8'' ex hadn't been hit hard enough yet to regulate his sense of overconfidence. I firmly believe every guy needs someone badder than them to come along and check their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:48 AM
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You'd be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:40 AM
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That's not that hard to find in my experience. At least to an extent that's good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:08 AM
1

You want to date yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:57 AM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:55 AM
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If it's guy on guy, I'm all for it. Start shit, get hit. If it's a woman, no matter how shitty she's being, that's a bit much unless she has a deadly weapon. Women have weaker bone structure and all kinds of other physical disadvantages meaning it's almost never reasonable for a guy to hit them full force. That's not to say that video where that video where some Russian guy slaps some Russian broad into another dimension doesn't make me laugh just a lil' bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:41 AM
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Depends on what your standards are, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:24 AM
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7.5''
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:15 AM
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After looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:15 AM
1

How do you figure that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:39 AM
1

We do choose who we let ourselves fall in love with, though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:12 AM
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When you think you can afford have standards down to the size of a partner's pinky toe, I'm sure it is. That Steve Harvey show meme is reality for many many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:01 AM
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You'd think a saleswoman dressing like that at some shitty used car dealership would be an asset, not a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:36 PM
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I'd say after about 20 minutes of straight up fucking, I've had enough without taking at least a short break. I've stayed in bed for hours where we were at least vaguely sexual the whole time, though. That's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:52 PM
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How can I not take it seriously? The men on here are just saying the shit most men don’t want to! Women here can be just as nasty. Should I be taking them seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:48 PM
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Just being tall seems to good enough in most cases. When I see a 5+ slim woman out with a guy, he's usually at least 6ft+. Usually these guy have relatively average faces. Guys below 6ft are usually out with a girl who's at least slightly overweight that had to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:40 PM
2

I'm more like a release candidate then because I have a parole hearing next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:58 PM
2

A first date is a little soon to be meeting my family, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:54 PM
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Kneel at my feet and beg for the pleasure of my company. Kissing my boots would be a nice touch. It better be a classy date, too. I ain't cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:39 PM
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Ah, so your parents were afraid you'd have nightmares then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:05 AM
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I'm sure John Wayne Gacy said that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:01 AM
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I loved Scooby-Doo as a kid. I wasn't allowed to watch Rugrats when I was really really young. I actually don't really know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:00 AM
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Why not just find someone who shares your fantasies? Seems like it'd make for a much more fulfilling sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:59 AM
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I think these sexual interests would keep you off most men's radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:36 AM
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I'm sure it happens, but usually irresponsible and stupid people don't make a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:35 AM
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Crying means you do give a fuck, though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:35 PM
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The amount the needle moves wouldn't be that significant, no. It'd more like she goes from being unremarkable to just finding them attractive. I doubt I'd ever go from finding a girl straight up unattractive to fine as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:35 PM
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I think if someone has bad intentions they'll still have bad intentions on alcohol or weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:06 AM
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If that rises to "really irritating" in your life, I envy you. Sometimes people forget shit, and I find it very hard to believe you've never forgotten something in your life. It happens, and it's not remotely a big deal to have to buy a toothbrush or something when you get somewhere. I've been on plenty of trips. I make a list of stuff I need to bring. I still forget shit sometimes, or I encounter a situation I didn't foresee. For example, on one trip, something on the plane got my allergies fla…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:59 AM
1

It doesn't necessarily make you non-violent, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:44 AM
1

Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:47 AM
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I can't quite put my finger on it either, but I think it's mostly because you're all the way over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:09 AM
2

Hey it's me, one of your lady friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:58 PM
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I don't see how that's a reason to want to get married per se. There's no reason you can't feel the exact same way without getting married. The appeal of marriage to me is wanting to formally become a family. Whether we have kids or not. Also because most women won't stick around as a "forever girlfriend." If that's what I have to do to keep "the one," that's not a bridge too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:33 PM
2

This story actually just made me think of a good pick up line, so at least it wasn't totally useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:58 PM
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No idea I was just taking the billionaire bf at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:11 PM
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Hypergamy at work again. Pretty sure she used to be married to a guard or something on the Vikings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:55 PM
4

There’s implied consent and explicit consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:01 PM
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Maybe they all hit it and are wondering if they're the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:14 PM
1

For me it was definitely more jarring in pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:01 PM
1

If you add 15 lbs of fat to most people at 10% bf and they can 100% kiss visible abs goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:55 PM
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I'm a whopping 10 lbs over the best pictures I have of myself and I would feel dishonest about using those pictures to meet up with a girl tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:37 PM
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I'm pretty sure that's their intention when they call you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:19 PM
1

I agree, it is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:35 AM
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I don't think it's a game, but I wouldn't wouldn't be willing to take the risk of finding out first hand whether a cheater is actually reformed or not. Then again, in all likelihood anyone I date by now has probably cheated at some point because I assume the majority of people do it at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:48 PM
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Oof. Tough one not to study for. Finance major?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:08 AM
1

What's the class?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:55 AM
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I can't imagine being hopelessly addicted to a snack as mediocre as Cheetos tbh. You're better than this (maybe, I don't really know).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:30 PM
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No, but asking/begging me to cum in her is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:22 PM
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You ran into some weird dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:16 PM
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That's more understandable. I probably wouldn't react the same way, but if an especially hot chick was that forward with me I'd probably be a bit skeptical too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:08 PM
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Why would you ever have a reaction like that to an attractive woman touching you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:25 PM
2

8 god damn fuckin whiskey sours?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:10 AM
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I've experienced a couple of those, but always with some level of plausible deniability from the women. Put it this way, even if I was 99% sure of their intentions, I was never 100%. I'm like a 6 facially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:16 AM
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Define "pursue." I think it's a rare man who is attractive enough for a woman to directly ask out. Otherwise, many women's idea of pursuit is dropping hints of various degrees of vagueness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:51 AM
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Sounds like you primed to make some bad decisions 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:37 AM
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I didn't go to college until my mid-20s, and when I did, I commuted. I had plenty of opportunities to party in my teens and early 20s because I had friends who were drug dealers that threw parties all the time. It got old really fast for me, so I don't really feel like I missed out on that. I guess it would've been cool to make lifelong tight friendships some people make in college, but there's no guarantee that would've happened anyways. I have no significant regrets as far as going away to col…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:22 AM
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>One of god's favorites >Male pattern baldness Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:13 AM
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Funny, but c'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:54 AM
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Okay, then he's Chad. 8+
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:36 PM
1

More women are choosing to remain single rather than partner off every year. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:34 PM
1

He looks short
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:28 PM
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I have a somewhat irrational fear of finding out I'm dying. If it's coming I don't want to have to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:04 PM
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Nah, just my shitty taste in music
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:01 PM
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A GOOD music appreciator even
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:25 AM
2

Why you gotta rub my nose in it by telling me you've been flirting with some other guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:24 AM
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What if I bump my "cringe non-white people" music in my extremely white boomer sports car?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:16 AM
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I agree. It's also sad to see him squander his talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:09 AM
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If I'm a bald white guy and I still openly listen to Kanye's music, is it automatically assumed I'm a Nazi sympathizer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:49 AM
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A real man doesn't give a fuck what other people think about his preferences. Women certainly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:48 AM
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You've got a fuckin staff over there, but you're putting me in some no tell motel with bed bugs? I WILL NOT be waiting be waiting by the phone for your counter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:31 AM
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Assuming these are monogamous fantasies? For the overwhelming majority of them I'd indulge her fantasies for her benefit, and that in and of itself would be enjoyable for me. I'm not gonna let her peg me, or engage in scat/blood stuff, but I can't really think of anything else I wouldn't do. In those cases I'd be cool with her leaving. We just ain't compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:25 AM
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Hey! I like sports and baking! #NotAllMen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:11 AM
1

Some things just aren't meant to be, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:10 AM
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Yes, and contrary to popular opinion among Western fans I actually really like that movie. It's not even close to Tarantino's best, but I like it nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:55 AM
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I might consider it if you promise we'll spend all our time in the room
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:52 AM
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If 3:10 to Yuma and Tombstone aren't at least the list I don't think we can be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:44 AM
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After that rejection the other night, to get me back in the fold you're gonna have to arrange accommodations at the local Holiday Inn at the very least. A man's got to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:41 AM
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https://media.tenor.com/8yN3MxSf6cQAAAAC/seinfeld-puddy.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:28 AM
1

What's your favorite Western?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:15 AM
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The worst part of assembling furniture is being in a position where you're forced to buy furniture you have to assemble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:12 AM
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I had a gf who wouldn't suck my dick very much, but she was pretty enthusiastic about sex and initiated a lot. She liked anal, getting tied up, choked, slapped, etc. Her problem in bed was being selfish/lazy. She didn't like sucking my dick or riding me, so I think it was more just laziness than lack of enthusiasm. Vanilla to me means like 3 positions max with the lights off, basically. That doesn't mean a lack of enthusiasm for that activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:03 AM
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Care to elaborate there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:45 AM
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I don't think I want kids, so the latter. If I have to have kids, I'd rather it be the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:44 AM
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Zero. I like cats, but I'm pretty allergic to them. I just can't live with cats again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:22 AM
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That's just women in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:02 AM
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Some people just can't get back up from the emotional punches life throws at them. It could be one punch or it could be fifty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:50 PM
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Make more friends. I think it'd be difficult to go around specifically looking for couples to be friends with. You've just gotta hope you make friends with someone who has a bf your bf also wants to be friends with or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:31 PM
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You can lay on your back and she can put her head on your chest or she can lay on top of you. Other than that I'm not really sure what else there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:26 PM
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By the way you describe she definitely way overreacted, but telling a woman you just met that day that you used to jerk off to her is weird as fuck unless she does porn or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:35 PM
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I hear Skid Row is lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:29 PM
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I don't like goldfish
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:19 PM
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Minka Kelly at the end >>>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:07 PM
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CMV: Hot "old" women are still hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:54 AM
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Miss me with that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:19 AM
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No, probably not. I would deem them untrustworthy, but it is of no benefit to me to completely burn a bridge over just them cheating on their partner. That ultimately ain't my relationship and it ain't my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:46 AM
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Sure, maybe he pays his child support, but actually being a good father to 10+ kids from 10 different mothers is logistically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:40 PM
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Sometimes it's jealousy. One an ex's fat friends tried very hard to keep me away from my ex when we first started talking because the fat friend had a crush on me. The ex had to put the fat friend in her place which was pretty satisfying to hear about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:33 PM
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Just the one in my trunk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:14 PM
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If there's an inner circle in a social situation you have be invited to join that circle. It'd be weird and awkward to try to force your way in. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:50 PM
1

Were you always that way or is it more something you learned how to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:28 PM
1

You use a razor or clippers? I hate using clippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:21 PM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:46 PM
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They're welcome to try
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:40 PM
1

Under 6ft Weight on women is more of an I know it when I see it thing. I am a male
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:37 PM
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I love them!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:32 PM
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Well, tbf, it is Walmart. Target is where the attractive women shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:15 PM
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Age is but a number. I'm forever young immature. 😉 I hated it most of the time I had it. I always wanted straight hair, and in particular I wanted to be able to style my hair like Jimmy on Boardwalk Empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:52 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure curls are hit or miss. Back in high school at a time when I had long hair a girl I thought I was severely friend zoned by ran her hands through my hair one day and said "that's so hot" and that's when I knew. In any case, I lost of some it and am now bald, so like I said, hmu someday, punkie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:43 AM
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This what my hair looked like at the time. When I had hair I had the exact same hair texture and I wore a ball cap a lot. I don't have anywhere near a $324MM arm, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:15 AM
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When you're single, hmu. While being bald hasn't been a disaster for me, long hair was a success for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:53 AM
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I'm not entirely sure what to make of this response. Are you a guy catfishing? Are you offended because I'm not looking to make a genuine connection off of PPD? Are you disgusted by a guy being semi-vulnerable? I'm not sure, but either way, yeah, have a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:51 AM
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Oh, the pleasure is all mine. I love flirting. I don't expect or want it to go anywhere. I appreciate you being a good sport with a mediocre looking anonymous guy. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:25 AM
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Lady, if you keep looking at me like that I'm gonna walk over there and you're gonna make some bad good decisions sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:48 AM
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Why would you want to? I'm very discrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:39 AM
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She seems like a cunt, so I can no longer rate her objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:37 AM
2

Just checked in on it. 9 inches. Pyrex pie plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:29 AM
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Yeah, I think so. I assume no woman is ever into until she's pretty blatantly indicated otherwise, which means I pretty much treat them all the same. Ignoring some aberrations, there's still a pretty consistent ceiling to the caliber of woman that I can attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:23 AM
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🤔 I've never measured it. I think I might need some help. I've been told they're impressive in size, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:20 AM
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I ain't sweating it but now I feel really personally attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:12 AM
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Idk where you live, but the average income for men in the US is $50k (give or take, I had to google it), so you're still disenfranchising the majority of men. At least that's a mutable characteristic, though. As far as I'm concerned, anyways. I'm not sure a filthy a commie would see it that way, though. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:40 AM
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I'm not all there mentally but I've never done anything this stupid thankfully, common sense helps. I feel a little personally attacked here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:31 AM
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So you're preparing to make bad decisions, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:26 AM
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Social media in general, including the website we're on right now. Actually Reddit might be one of the worse given how it's specifically designed to create echo chambers that bring out the worst in people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:22 AM
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I'm surprised a woman would say being attracted to status is toxic. Most women say they're attracted to status. Would you say you're not attracted to status, or do you just not care about being toxic? This isn't meant to sound like a gotcha question, I'm genuinely asking without trying to judge you. I think more and more women are choosing to give up on finding a partner. The percentage of people in relationships is declining, and is expected to continue to do so through at least 2030 according …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:19 AM
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I was talking about more in a friendly way. Trying to save someone within a romantic relationship is probably always a bad idea. They'll either drag you down with them, you'll boost their confidence and use you as a stepping stone, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:58 AM
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The number itself is definitely arbitrary. That doesn't really matter, though. I think there are some, maybe even an ever increasing number of women whose ego will not allow them to happily accept a man who doesn't carry the status of being over 6ft tall. It has little to do with how attractive they find the man, it has more to do with the status getting a man who's over 6ft tall. In addition, there are women who probably want a man who is taller than most other men simply because it carries wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:26 AM
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You can try to help, and you might actually have some part in motivating them, but most of it has to come from within. I'm curious, who did you try to save and what from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:42 AM
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I really am not into big boobs. Would I reject a girl for having big boobs? No, but they're not my ideal. I don't want a girl who's totally flat chested, either. Bs and Cs are actually what I prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:35 AM
1

Okay, what do you think it's a facade for?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:26 AM
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FSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:07 AM
1

You should've just made your character immune
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:06 AM
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I wonder, but I don't worry too much about it because I know I'm at least good in bed. Someone else might've be better, but there's someone out there who's got better technique and a better dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:54 AM
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I'm single right now, but I never thought about it too much in the past. If the past is any indication, our pasts are gonna come up fairly quickly. If I get any indication she misses or still pines for an ex, it's a wrap. I'm not gonna try to live up to some rose-tinted glasses memory. If I don't hear anything like that and I'm treated how I expect to be treated, I'm happy to assume I'm the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:53 AM
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Depends on what it's being replaced with. For example, if I said my eyes are my most attractive feature, do they get replaced with the ugliest eyes in the world? If I'm a 6, I'd probably go down to a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:13 AM
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Worthless to her. She didn't deem you worthless to everyone. Odds are that thought never even crossed her mind. She's not wrong because still doesn't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:27 PM
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Dudes posting their Ls Your idea of a victory lap is telling some girl who didn't want you that she's still living in your head rent free.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:26 PM
3

I think that's something you should talk with your doctor about, not us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:35 PM
1

If someone is willing to have a phony relationship with you to serve their own ends, they're not going to be genuine with you when you try to communicate with them about anything else, either. They don't say "actions speak louder than words" for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:26 PM
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It could just as easily be that he's chasing women out of his league and doesn't like the women who are actually in his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:17 PM
3

A lot of guys say that's precisely what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:58 PM
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One of those isn't an option
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:56 PM
1

I don't really think any woman likes it. Certainly not back hair. Some might like chest hair, but I don't think it's much of a needle mover one way or the other. The rest they just tolerate, some begrudgingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:21 PM
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There's a huge difference between having to discuss buying a car by your wife and having to ask permission to go have a beer with the boys. The former is completely reasonable, the latter is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:19 PM
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https://media.tenor.com/cxPBPdBgDnQAAAAC/its-alll-so-tiresome-tired.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:51 PM
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Lol, she's far from imaginary. Many many women openly admit to being that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:47 PM
1

Dudes can't afford to behave like women in the dating world. Depends on what you value. I've come to value no affection in my life at all over something sub-standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:24 PM
2

I'd say pretty average to slightly above average. The last two years in particular were pretty fun. I was still glad put it behind me the day I finished my last exam and to get on with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:19 PM
1

Part of it is just being on the same page. If I'm ahead of how she feels, we clearly aren't and I think that probably indicates a greater compatibility issue. I look back on a couple relationships I had where I was ahead of her at pretty much every step, and ultimately I think my enthusiasm for them was never matched by them towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:05 PM
1

Lower than I expected. Is this number related to the percentage of men not getting laid? Or is it something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:52 PM
3

I'm not saying it can't work out that way. I'm just saying, being a guy who has more in common with the 5'6'' guy than the 6'4'' guy in this story, I don't have the luxury of giving women the benefit of the doubt with stuff like this. Any woman I'm with could just as easily be just like the woman in this story: Unsatisfied, unhappy, and using me because she's lonely or whatever. Our circumstances determine what rules we have to play by to avoid ending up in situations like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:50 AM
1

There's some RP and blackpill in this for sure, but the bf generally sucks too. He doesn't fuck her right or the way she wants to be fucked. And if I ever told a girl I loved her and she didn't immediately say it back, I'd drop her. It's already over at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:20 AM
1

Well that was 2.5 minutes of my life I'll never get back
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:15 AM
1

It's an interesting thread anyways, though. I wonder how many people would actually confess. The majority of people are saying she should, but cheaters rarely come clean on their own, and many will die with the lie no matter what evidence you have on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:29 AM
2

📝
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:16 AM
1

Most people list "comes from a good family" as standard they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:07 AM
1

What percentage of men do you think this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:06 AM
1

Specifically the abomination that is the brine they put on roads in many places now. It absolutely destroys cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:37 AM
3

You're on a tear today. Who pissed in your cheerios?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:39 AM
1

I wouldn't take a fixer upper myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:26 AM
1

Green bubbles are a death sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:50 PM
2

Myself, ultimately
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:38 PM
1

3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:35 PM
1

I think what most women mean by that is they have to be an acquaintance or a friend of friend. They see each other from time to time, but they're not really friends and it's always with other people. I think a real friendship turning into a relationship is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:32 PM
5

I think a lot of dudes you're hearing from get themselves in friendzone situations over and over again and feel like the women were taking advantage of them the whole time because those women didn't respond the way they wanted. They just don't learn their lesson the first time, the second time, or even the third time, and they continue to only befriend women they want to try backdoor themselves into a relationship with. They're also so desperate that the relationships they do get into end up ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:02 PM
3

I mean, if people judge you based on the state of your family and never give you a chance because of it, how are you supposed to prove you're different than your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:45 PM
1

Do you think a lack of attraction was why your marriage failed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:38 PM
2

I didn't see that thread, so Idk what most men were saying, but the closest thing I have to a "one that got away" isn't the hottest girl I've been with. It's for entirely different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:30 PM
3

Better a dog they can't afford than a kid they can't afford I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:10 PM
6

I just do what I feel, and I really don't give a shit how she perceives it. If we're compatible, I figure it'll work out. If not, she'll filter herself. I win either way. The only "game" I play is that I'll never double text. If a woman leaves me "on read," I'll never text her again unless she texts me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:50 AM
1

Lemme get one of those as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:00 AM
2

10-12 on the masculine advantage scale depending on what you consider high status talents and how strict you're being on above average height. I'm technically above average height, but only barely. 12 is fine, that's about how I feel. 40 on the societal advantage scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:58 AM
1

No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:28 AM
3

Oh man, this bit STINKS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:50 AM
1

Okay. Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:54 AM
1

I don't think most people would consider Harrison Ford in his prime as slightly above average looking, but whatever. If that's how most women feel that's how most women feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:48 AM
1

Ah, okay, you just have extremely high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:41 AM
1

I guess being able to be comfortable being honest with them and being yourself around them isn't one of those boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:40 AM
2

Blackpill is genetic determinism. It's basically believing you're not physically attractive to women and there's absolutely nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:30 AM
2

If I can't be completely open about my sexual desires with someone I'm in a relationship with, why am I with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:27 AM
1

He's 6'2'' Can you give some examples of men you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:21 AM
1

You originally said "we" don't want to fuck average guys, not "I don't want to fuck average guys." Will Smith is very conventionally attractive even if you don't personally find him attractive. He's not an average looking guy, lol. Even without fame and fortune he'd have a million options. The experience an actual average guy has in dating is way more similar to the My 600lb life guy than it is Will Smith, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:23 PM
1

So ugly guys and normal guys have very similar experiences, but they're not exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:41 PM
1

I didn't see him mention "game" at all? Women don't want to be tricked into thinking a guy isn't in their dating pool. That's why women kvetch about hatfishing so much they created a term for it. They thought they liked a guy until they saw him with his hat off and it made them want to vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:55 PM
2

There's no practical difference, though. Why do you think there are normal men in relationships? Do you agree women with those men don't find them attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:36 PM
1

It's just unfortunate for those of us that do value committed monogamous relationships. If all the 5 women are cool with casual relationships with men out of their league, then there are gonna be a whole lot of lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:28 PM
3

A lack of raw physical attraction towards the man on the woman's part, usually. No handsome, fit, 6'3'' dude is getting dead bedroom'd, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:33 PM
2

I'd let her stick a finger or her tongue up my ass. Not interested in getting pegged.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:29 PM
2

The majority of women want children, ergo, it is the majority of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:46 PM
1

I didn't know you were fucking, but it really doesn't matter. Many guys will fuck basically any woman who's willing. That doesn't mean he loves you back or ever will. Just because I don't like you, personally, doesn't mean I hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:45 PM
2

You said women are picky until they're running out of time and then they settle. That is literally AFBB. The picky woman is chasing commitment from an alpha, but if one doesn't commit to her she becomes less picky and settles for betabux. The "bux" isn't just money in case you're not aware. The "bux" is anything the beta provides that she wants that the alphas wouldn't give her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:31 PM
1

Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:20 PM
0

You acknowledged AFBB is most relationships literally yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:38 PM
2

Everyone knows guys always commit to every woman they fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:38 PM
2

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:56 AM
1

So what's the middle ground there? Or isn't there one?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:56 AM
1

I thought I liked being around around women, but if that's hating being around women, apparently I hate being around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:58 AM
2

Had to do ID verification for something which means I had to take pics of my license. Comparing the picture of me in my license to pictures of myself where I anglefraud and the difference is stunning. I'm so much uglier in reality than I am in photos I take of myself, lol. At least I can fake it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:45 AM
1

Shows you how much personality matters, amiriite?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:41 AM
3

You're a guy, in case you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:32 AM
1

Guys fucking down just to get laid doesn't make them chubby chasers. It makes them desperate and pathetic. You're the one who wife's them, not those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:26 AM
1

I'll let you know how I feel about it if ever have a family to do it for
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:25 AM
4

I hope she has, if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:21 AM
1

No, Red, you prefer fat women. That's cool, but you're an aberration. You are equivalent to the thin women who dated me while I was fat. AFAIK, you're literally the only dude running around here singing the praises of morbidly obese women. If anything, all you're doing is making yourself sound insecure about your kinks by projecting them onto "lots of guys."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:16 AM
1

Be careful, I've made two people laugh here tonight. I'm gonna get a big head, and no one wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:03 AM
1

Just state your point here, I don't have the energy for rhetorical questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:01 AM
2

Would fuck him, not will. I think it's pretty accurate. I don't think women are that different to men in that way. I do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:54 AM
1

I feel like that's a failure's mentality. Whatever you want to do, you should want to be great at it. Until you feel like you can no longer learn from your previous mistakes, and you've done the absolute best you can do, you should feel driven to do better next time. It becomes a chore after you feel you've done the best you're capable of doing and you're just repeating that process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:37 AM
1

Every skill becomes tedious when you've mastered it. Cooking/baking has just been one that was relatively easy for me to get good at, and while I'm somewhat proud of that fact, it's ultimately not as rewarding as other skills I've made myself proficient in. For me, cooking/baking usually goes; try and abjectly fail first, become passable the second time, nail it the third time. I have maybe 5-10 hours put into becoming proficient at this. There are skills I have 100s of hours into that I've stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:19 AM
3

Oof, upon further review, it's pretty obvious you were joking. I'm pretty drunk right now, and maybe a bit overly sensitive to this particular topic. Seriously, my bad, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:04 AM
3

With your attitude, I can't imagine why he isn't interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:47 AM
1

I don't want to suck my own dick or anything here (actually that'd be pretty tight), but I've perfected pie crust. The one I made tonight is perfectly flaky and light, but also has structural integrity. Cooking is far too easy for women to be acting like it's some special skill. It's also too easy for men to be acting like it's worth paying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:37 AM
5

Do him a favor and just break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:14 AM
3

You want your cheating gf to come back to you and realize you were good enough all along? She should be dead to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:14 AM
1

Grow a pair, will ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:06 AM
1

To steal someone else's line: "Hot."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:27 AM
1

Even if a guy can, I don't think it's as good for guys. Some women seem to be able to have rolling orgasms that completely blow their hair back. I can get hard again, fuck, and cum reasonably quickly, but one is the pretty much the exact same as the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:16 AM
1

Idk why it's so hard to believe that she is. She's pretty open that she's just goofing around. There are a few actual women here like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:11 AM
2

OGs all know what she looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:41 AM
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It's beneficial for both, but it's pretty significantly more beneficial for women than it is for men. Face and height matter far more for men when it comes to attracting women than their bf% does. Many men will have more attractive faces with a lower bf%, though. It doesn't automatically make either gender a 7. Fat people and normal BMI people are rated on separate scales in my opinion. The fats date the fats and the people with a normal BMI date people with a normal BMI. Generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:34 AM
2

That's true, she'd still be out of my league
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:35 AM
1

Yeah, but by the time they're at that point they're probably looking really really rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:26 AM
0

I guess, if I had to pick, I'd pick the pothead woman through process of elimination. Coke chicks are hoes, and tweakers probably have all kinds of scabs and shit (there's not a lot of meth around here so no experience with them). The people I know who frequently do psychedelics are brainded morons, and heroin junkies don't fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:20 AM
1

You think that'd break the vow or celibacy or is that a loophole like the little boys they're known to have a thing for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:13 AM
3

Because you can tell they make poor I mean great decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:11 AM
1

Flip flops have their place imo. The beach, a boat, a pool, etc. I wouldn't wear them to dinner or something. I agree on crocs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:00 AM
3

Care to explain this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:54 AM
2

Oh I'm sure your ass is very talented. Your eyes, on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:42 AM
2

I went a few years without having McDonald's fries, which I used to love, and they have an awful chemical aftertaste now. Other than that I was never a big fast food guy in general. I can make shit at home that is terrible for me that tastes better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:39 AM
2

Apparently having good taste is more of a natural talent. The problem with them is they have no cohesive design style. They're just a mashup of a bunch of different architectural styles that don't look good together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:35 AM
2

It's hard because in your mind you're feeling many of the same feelings you feel at the beginning of a relationship. For you it's like voluntarily breaking up with a girl in the blissful honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:27 PM
6

Please, for the love of God, get it together my man. She either genuinely sees you as a friend or just likes the attention. You have absolutely zero chance with her romantically, and keeping her in your life will only bring you pain and suffering as you clearly cannot be friends with a woman you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:21 PM
2

I've had the opportunity to cheat with women that I wanted to fuck before I got into a relationship and still didn't. I'd actually argue being in a relationship gave me more options than I was aware I had when I was single. The reason for this is because I think it makes women more likely to initiate and be the pursuer. Celebrities are a bad bar to judge the rest of the human population with. They live a life that is so detached from the real world that they're barely even real people anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:09 PM
1

I've never paid for porn and I never will, but occasionally I run across a girl that is so hot to me that I want to see more. I've never even got to the point of reaching for my CC, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:57 PM
1

I think most guys would. She's just feeling insecure and looking for compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:49 PM
1

It's so refreshing to see a woman actively try to black pill men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:20 AM
1

If you send me all your money, no matter how much it is, I'll make you a millionaire by Monday. God's honest truth. I'm very genuine if you can't already tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:19 AM
3

I was once foolishly with a woman like that. Thanks Christ she had the decency to stop me from marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:54 AM
1

Logically you want a younger women to choose you then unless you don't want to be settled for huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:47 AM
3

It's one thing to simp for someone who simps for you. She isn't even giving them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:39 AM
1

It's the second newest post on the sub right now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:51 AM
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All the dudes here talk tough about how they don't simp and then some insecure 5'11'' chick makes a post fishing for validation and they all come running to give her exactly what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:42 AM
1

Good/great guys are a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:17 AM
3

You had me in the first half, I'm not gonna lie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:22 PM
2

Mustard people are freaks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:15 PM
-1

Neither. Don't tell me what I can and can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:44 PM
2

When I hear women complain about being single it's almost always because they're looking for their unicorn. To be clear, I'm not whining female pickiness here. I share the same mentality as those women, just without the abundance of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:33 PM
1

For most of those women their struggle is self-inflicted because it's due to their own pickiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:06 PM
2

It have a car bed too because I sleep in my car.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:26 PM
2

Love isn't altruistic. Not on my end and not on their's. It cheapens the whole thing, I know, but it don't change facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:22 AM
1

The only criticism that seems fair to me is of the one who's overbearing. No one should let their partner walk all over them. It's a recipe for disaster. Being a guy, what you're saying about anything in the middle not mattering much to female family members makes sense. Idk if they've ever viewed me as "something great," but I don't think I could have ever realistically been considered something awful, either. I'm probably something in the middle. I always felt more automatically accepted by th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:15 AM
2

Why would a good woman love me broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:05 AM
2

You didn't finish your first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:43 AM
2

That's depressing, but I appreciate you acknowledging that. You won't believe this, because I'm a man and I know you have a strong bias against men, but I have never looked at it that way. Every woman I was in love with was treated as well as I'm capable of treating another person. They all had the same value to me. I didn't treat them (or people in general) like cars where treat my garage queen better than a beater.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:39 AM
1

Funny, I feel the same way about women. Maybe it's just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:14 AM
1

I have give or take a three date rule, so the first that goes through my mind is that we won't be going on any more dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:03 AM
1

Got any interesting stories? I never knew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:32 AM
2

Nope. One's enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:58 AM
0

There is nothing I love more about being single than not having to go to a woman's family holiday events where I have to try to make them like me and seem worthy of her to them. Might be the most exhausting thing there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:52 AM
1

I think it's just that most men here are single. OP asked about your current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:36 AM
2

That's too dishonest for me. I'm not looking to deceive anyone. Going forward, the first time a conversation about having children comes up, I'll straight up tell her that's how it's gonna be. If she's not cool with that? No hard feelings, the door's over there. For the record, I don't expect this to be acceptable to any woman, really. People are inherently untrustworthy to me until they prove themselves to be trustworthy. How most people define "trust" in relationships is actually blind faith. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:43 AM
2

If I ever "have" children, they'll be DNA tested at birth whether the mother wants to be with me or not. Fuck taking the risk of raising another man's seed for even one minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:50 AM
2

A sense of humor can be developed. Looks are immutable. There is, in fact, a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:45 AM
1

Oooooh, a round number! Sounds believable! PPD seems to have a inordinate number of men with genius-level IQs and exceptionally large dicks hanging around. Remind me, why are y'all on an incel message board again?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:42 AM
1

I can't help it if you sound like you have a room temp IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:37 AM
1

Whatever helps you sleep at night, boss. Adding "lol" to the end of all your sentences really projects confidence, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:34 AM
2

It's wishful thinking because women want to believe they're less shallow than men are. SPOILER ALERT: They aren't. In fact, they're even more shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:26 AM
1

You're a stranger to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:14 AM
0

Wishful thinking, Rope Bunny. Wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:12 AM
1

And she always does. She ain't yours, it's just your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:40 AM
0

Glad we can agree personality doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:37 AM
1

This is 100% accurate. "He's a lucky guy" is a text I saw from a guy my ex cheated on me with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:29 AM
1

Whether you'd call yourself jealous or not, you sound pretty jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:27 AM
1

This isn't the compliment you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:26 AM
2

What's your point here? Deep down, do you want them to be unhappy with you? Are you a cuckold?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:19 AM
1

You not having a nice apartment in the city with no mouthbreathing roommates is probably why. You're right in the sense you wouldn't have made a good couple. You weren't good enough. This isn't meant to be a personal attack, it's just a reality check. Want to get over jealousy? Be better than the guy she ends up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:48 AM
3

I genuinely don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:39 AM
2

Why you gotta be like that bb? Think about all the reminiscing we could do about the good old days. Coffee and a cigarette? Chocolate and a cigarette? Whiskey and a dozen cigarettes? The possibilities are endless. I know it's tempting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:32 AM
1

Sorry, Punkie, I think I'm too old for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:21 AM
1

I don't see any pics of them jowls in my DMs. In fact, my DMs are suspiciously empty. Testing? Testing? Is this thing on? Side note: I was a big cig guy at one time. Gimme a reason, baby. Gimme a fuckin' reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:15 AM
1

I've heard of it, but I really don't know what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:07 AM
2

This is actually true, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:06 AM
1

As you said, I just need to put the work in! 💪🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:04 AM
1

I'm tying a 45lb plate to be my dick as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:50 AM
2

Turns out it'd be in honor of two of my heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:47 AM
1

I want all the women here to know I can't be saved but they're welcome to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:43 AM
1

I'm naming my first kid Seven in honor of my hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:39 AM
1

I think you might've changed my mind here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:35 AM
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Lol the big boss not being around is the best. My entire first job was like that. I just had a rotating cast of night managers to deal with and they didn't give a fuck. I mostly got paid to fuck around and hang out with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:20 AM
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7'' in girth is something like 99.9999999th percentile in size. If that's a legit measurement she prefers someone that big, that's on her. I wouldn't even be offended. Just because he’s not my ideal size? Just because women prefer 7” doesn’t mean we don’t like 6” This is how I know it's bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:10 AM
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Based on my life experience? Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:06 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. The horror stories I've heard out of Amazon are almost too insane to be believed, so I'm curious to hear your updates since you're hobbled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:01 AM
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I don't think it's that rare. Most of my male friends when they lived alone didn't live in squalor. It's actually women, in my experience, that were less tidy. I'd be too embarrassed to have other people in my home if it was a mess, and I learned to clean from someone who was borderline OCD about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:48 AM
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I wouldn't under an ultimatum, but when I'm with a woman who keeps me occupied sexually I naturally have little or no use for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:16 AM
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You get that $1k signing bonus? They were advertising that on the radio here. It's an absolute miserable place to work from what I hear, so good luck to ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:14 AM
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Why do you automatically assume a man is incapable of not living in squalor on his own?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:10 AM
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Q4M: Do most of you really care that much about a woman doing all or even most of the cooking and cleaning for you? Do most of you expect it? I ask because see women here all the act like it's assumed all guys want that. It's something I personally don't find much value in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:42 AM
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No and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:35 AM
1

Always seemed like a weird movie only thing to me. I'm sure some people do it, but I never have either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:24 AM
0

Is it that big of a deal if y'all eat different meals at the dinner table on the average night?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:11 AM
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Perky Bs >>>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:02 AM
1

We just gonna pretend the immutable stuff doesn't exist here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:40 AM
1

Are you a brain surgeon or physician?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:43 PM
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Sorry if I misunderstood you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:28 PM
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I'm sure this is all true, but you're still ignoring sexual attractiveness. That's where the bar is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:14 PM
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I was talking about you, I wasn't saying no one is sincere here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:58 PM
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If most people are able to do something the bar is inherently low. Most of us can qualify to work for McDonald's, but most of us would not be capable of being a brain surgeon now matter how hard we tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:57 PM
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Sorry but this is pretty obtuse. Given the source, who could've seen that coming? Certainly not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:55 AM
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You expect a high effort first date from a stranger? And women like to claim their entitlement levels aren't off the fucking charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:50 AM
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I want some give and take. If I only wanted to do the shit I already know I like and want to do, the fuck would I want a gf for?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:48 AM
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I don't really see how putting my life before hers is at all beneficial to me, really. I mean, I have/will do it because she's inherently weaker than I am, but it ain't no benefit. Being the one paying for evrything isn't really beneficial to me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:46 AM
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This is the beginning of the end the relationship. This is how women get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:29 AM
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Where do you think the bar is if most men are good people who'd make good partners? Seems like it'd have to be pretty low if you think most men are clearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:40 AM
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And I think a lot of these men who want to be with women don't know how to connect with women so they think of them in bizarre economic terms when relationships don't work like that. Like you have a good date and it's one sex please I did xyz so I get sex in return. It's all about connection how well did you connect with your date? And in a relationship how well do you connect with your partner? I have never in my life had trouble connecting with women friendship-wise. Fuck if I really even know…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:36 AM
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In my extensive experience most men are good people who would make good partners to a compatible woman, and I like and respect most men I meet. Most men just aren't sexually attractive to women, which is where the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:48 AM
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Ya don't say?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:28 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:45 AM
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nothing crazy, i’m only 23. just don’t be struggling. don’t live with your parents. Do you live on your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:01 AM
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How would two people with nothing in common become best friends if sexual attraction wasn't involved? I actually previously agreed with your general premise, but now I find it a little questionable. It just might not matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:29 AM
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Gotta consume ~180g of protein somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:39 AM
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It's a category of the social experience that is missing for me. It's not as dramatic for me as some dudes make it out to be, but I do experience it. Going home night after night to no one is a lonely experience for me, and my friends are not gonna be able to fix that. Neither will a dog, before someone starts up with that shit. It's kinda hard for me to articulate I guess. I will say, there's a reason most people desire a romantic companion, and I really don't believe it's just sex. I'd say in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:50 PM
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No one? You can literally scroll down in this very thread and see women who are saying they want this. More women than not expect men to approach first, ask them out first, plan the dates, and pay for them. More women than not also expect a man to out-earn them. That expectation continues throughout the relationship for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:34 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:19 PM
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If she expects me to lead in most aspects of the relationship, be her emotional rock, buy her an engagement ring, etc the least she can do it take my last name. If not, she can be a forever girlfriend or walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:16 PM
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When you strangle someone you're actually trying to cut off blood flow. They'll pass out much faster from a lack of blood to their brain than a lack of oxygen into their lungs. Like others have said, during sex you're not trying to do either one of these things, you're just trying to role play.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:07 PM
1

Ugh I hate that whiny voice shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:02 PM
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I love when someone blocks me because they lost an argument and can't just admit they were wrong. So soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:56 PM
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By starting your sentence with “please don’t tell me,” you’re indicating you’ve already made the assumption I was saying something I didn’t come anywhere close to saying. I don’t need to hear your tone to know that, you’re indicating it with your choice of words. You made a mistake, and now you’re psychoanalyzing me to deflect away from it. It’s okay to just admit it. We all make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:42 PM
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I don't see how you'd get the idea that I expect teenagers not to make mistakes in dating unless you didn't read her original comment. When people make snarky comments at me I respond with a similar level of rudeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:10 PM
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She's 36 now and still complaining about being with a guy she's unhappy with. I never made a judgement on her for the choice she made at 15. Learn how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:51 PM
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Ah, every financially stable homeowner's dream girl: A drug dealing single mom!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:22 PM
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It's all about what she gets to tell her friends when they ask what he does. If they hear "doctor" her friends get all excited for her and cheer her on. If they hear "bank auditor" her friends probably go "what's that?" Then she has to explain and her friends are visibly bored to tears. Also status isn't limited to occupation. Is he the leader of his friend group? Is he tall and naturally/effortlessly dominant over other men? And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:08 PM
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You're right, we don't know. What the guy your replied to imagined is much more likely to be reality than what you imagine, though. There are a lot more cashiers at dispensaries than there are owners of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:04 PM
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Depends on how you do it. If you start listing off all the shit you have and all the money you have, yeah, that will usually come off douchey. Bragging about wealth is all about subtlty. If you dress well, talk about traveling to nice places, drive a nice car, etc. you're still bragging about wealth while not having to spell out your net worth in plain english. The latter absolutely does get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:48 PM
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Does a cashier at a dispensary or head shop make good money? I doubt it. You're painting the most optimistic picture here out of thin air. If she was killing it selling bullshit to UMC trendy women she'd likely herself a small business owner or entrepreneur, not an herbalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:41 PM
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My mom never expressed that she cared even a little bit, but I look back and cringe at fucking in her house while she was home without much care for being quiet. Her only restriction was she didn't want to run into some girl she'd never met at 2AM. Girls I had over had to be gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:34 PM
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How do you think they remain so peaceful?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:52 AM
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There's good bit of distance between initial attraction and being in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:44 AM
1

Condescend to me more bb, it gets me so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:32 AM
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You're reading into what I said too much. I'm just saying I ain't no Sam Elliott over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:54 AM
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I'm specifically talking about when it is by choice. I'm not sitting here condoning human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:54 AM
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I don't think my voice is doing me any favors unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:40 AM
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Guy never spent a second in the military and walks around in combat boots and fatigues. T-O-O-L.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:44 AM
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I mean if someone chooses to sell their body, what's wrong with them having the freedom to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:43 AM
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How old were they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:46 AM
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You mean to tell us you have no single physical traits that are a hard dealbreaker for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:42 AM
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Yeah, most introverts will lack the kind of social status women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:02 AM
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Thanks I want to vomit now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:28 AM
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Most shoes add about an inch. 5'10'' to 5'11.5'' isn't gonna change your life in any meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:00 AM
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I was back then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:57 AM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:52 AM
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I don't think I'd marry a girlfriend I wasn't sure was the best gf I've had. That'd be my biggest concern here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:50 PM
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Knock knock
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:06 PM
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I'd feel the same way if a woman lied about having extensions Really? I understand a boob job, but hair extensions are pretty normal for a woman spends a lot of money on getting her hair done, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:46 PM
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I'd say it's a catch-22 most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:44 PM
5

You think he should mmm, try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:43 PM
2

See flair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:32 PM
2

Saudi Arabia, Iran, and pretty much any other country that severely oppresses women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:31 PM
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Oh he was a model? Yeah I could see feeling insecure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:23 PM
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Sounds like he thinks you should be impressed that he's older or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:11 PM
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Guy was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:54 PM
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You got me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:50 PM
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I'd say most people here are fine, at least on the surface. There are a few whackos. Do you really want people to be nice on a debate forum? I'd rather they just be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:43 PM
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Sounds more like a job interview than a date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:34 PM
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So you'd say it's normal to ask someone if they're sleeping with other people after you've slept with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:27 PM
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Nothing worse than getting a pube stuck in the back your throat for a week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:05 PM
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What is it awkward when you're flattered? Why is it different from how you respond to men who flatter you in a different context?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:54 AM
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It's not just women on PPD I'm talking about. I'm talking about women everywhere. I've heard every woman I've ever become close to complain about men hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:14 AM
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I think it's very easy for women to assume they're borderline asexual because of how few men most women say they find physically attractive. If I was only attracted to a small fraction of women, I could easily see myself coming to that same conclusion. Women instinctively want to pair up with a man who will produce the best offspring and are able to protect them long enough to do so. That's why women value immutable traits like height so much. A man being exceptionally tall (6ft+, 14.5% of all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:13 AM
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You're sort of right. Women do ultimately value being in a relationship more that they do casual sex. That much I do believe is true for the majority of women. The typical ~16-year old has a HS relationship that either ends because the two are going away to different colleges, or they LDR it until the end of the first semester of college because they realize long-term LDRs don't work 99.9% of the time. From 18-25 most women "experiment" by having casual sex/situationships with men out of their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:30 AM
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Too young to have anything meaningful with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:12 AM
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If you're not doing anything objectively creepy or completely uninvited, and there are no serious consequences, I say go for it. You've really got nothing to lose, and you've got to be secure in yourself in that. If you make someone uncomfortable by being respectful and polite, that's entirely on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:28 AM
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It was not a setting where tips are ever given, otherwise I would agree with you. I also agree women aren't a monolith, but women saying they don't want to be hit basically anywhere in public is pretty much universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:03 AM
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It's funny how women tell you not to hit on women while they're at work and "can't get away from you" and then a woman who was at work proceeds to give me the exact same fucking unmistakeable and blatantly obvious flirtatious look/tone my ex-girlfriend gave me when she was trying to draw me in. What women say and what they do truly are two different things. I'll go to my grave believing that. She wasn't really my type (too young, too short), so I don't really care, but that shit happened. I also…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:56 AM
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So women wanting to have their hoe phase in their teens an twenties is because of RP? As far as relationships go, which is all I've ever really been after, RP tactics have served me well (sorta), and that was before I even knew what RP was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:45 AM
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Young women don't want to partner up either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:29 AM
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There’s a totally hot guy in the coffee shop sitting on his phone. This absolutely gorgeous girl sits down at the table RIGHT beside him, and she’s obviously giving him the eye, literally staring at him, and he’s just ignoring it to play on his phone. She starts giggling to her friend and making comments about how cute he is and he’s just over there swiping tinder. I catch him outside talking to his friend about how there are no girls in the entire world to date like dude look UP like why are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:11 AM
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I really hope y'all didn't blow 2 racks on conspicuous consumption just to go home alone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:33 AM
2

Nostril studs are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:34 AM
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Legs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:33 AM
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I think you do know what "right" is because you acknowledged you're unhappy and feel unfulfilled in your relationship and that you should get out of it. Or at least you seemed to. "Right" in a relationship is what makes you happy and fulfilled. That's not to say it'll be perfect and there won't be things about your partner that drive you up a fucking wall. Nobody's perfect. It's up to you to decide whether the things you don't like about your partner are dealbreakers for you. A lack of affection…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:31 AM
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Plenty of people do it now in a world where people don't suddenly wake up very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:09 AM
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What's your reasoning for choosing wrong again now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:43 AM
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That's not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:15 AM
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Mix a mid-life crisis with suddenly becoming super hot and I could see a lot of people throwing away their family..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:02 AM
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I wasn't meaning to say all people are like that. I just think a lot of people would fall into the trappings of their new experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:41 PM
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I think turning into Chad or Stacy overnight would go to a lot of people's heads Maybe most. It's basically equivalent to becoming an overnight celebrity. That changes people, and I doubt the relationships would survive for most people. Obviously, being demisexual, you might be the exception to the rule. I'm not entirely sure I grasp how demisexuality works. I'm very familiar with the hub's amateur offerings. Most of those women are above average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:48 PM
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Are average women really satisfied with an average man (no)? Do you think that if she turned turned into a Stacy overnight she would likely stay with him? Please list what you think an average girl and an average man looks likr? Do you have sample pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:26 AM
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I always knew I wasn't funny (this is an Opie and Anthony reference that I'm vaguely remembering, right?).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:04 AM
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You know what they say, "if you're not first, you're last." Best to internalize that and entertain suicidal thoughts (this is a joke).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:33 AM
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No one said life was easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:31 AM
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Not first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:19 AM
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Okay, let me clarify: I'd rather die celibate. I have little interest in casual sex. So, I'm booking the first flight out of Rome, in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:17 AM
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That's a race to the bottom mentality that doesn't doesn't help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:52 AM
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Nothing. It's just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:49 AM
1

Dude weed LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:52 AM
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If I always assume she's a whore I'll die single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:39 AM
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And there are still dudes out there who can't get laid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:07 AM
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How are you so sure they're getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:43 AM
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There are probably some places in the world you could retire on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:34 AM
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Tight boxer briefs do be making me feel sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:32 AM
1

Post your net worth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:30 AM
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They are, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:50 PM
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Women here do the same thing by calling all the guys here "Stacy-chasers"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:09 AM
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Do you want a medal? You hate men. You always post through a lens of "women always good, men always bad" because you're bitter and miserable. Have a nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:34 PM
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Are you a man larping as a woman as well? You're either a troll just like she is, or you're every bit as miserable and bitter as you seem in virtually every comment I've ever seen you make. Either way, I don't care to argue with you about this. It's pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:30 PM
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How exactly are getting women to prove their loyalty? Share your secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:19 PM
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Because in what appears to be a non-troll post she still refers to herself as a woman? Did you not click the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:16 PM
1

How what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:47 PM
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The surprise here is it would appear they're actually a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:32 PM
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I don't see people reference it as much as they used to tbh. Good on you for being realistic I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:18 PM
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Men are so gullible, lol. Those are crocodile tears if I've ever seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:53 PM
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If you say so. I mean some will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:45 PM
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They're encouraging men to pump and dump those women, not form relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:41 PM
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I mean, the majority of people are average. Yes, but the two genders disagree where the apex of the bell curve is for each gender. On an unattractive to attractive scale, according the women, the apex of the bell curve for women is closer to attractive than it is unattractive while for men it is the opposite. This is not based on the OKCupid study, it's based on women almost universally agreeing about this when they they see far more attractive women than they see attractive men. If you see the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:36 PM
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She'd be dead to me after your second bullet point. Been there, done that, not doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:28 PM
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I mean, you can't really help what you're attracted to. I'm a bald guy, but that doesn't mean I would date a bald woman. Perhaps that makes me entitled by definition, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna re-think my position to be more fair, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:39 PM
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Definitely was imagining knee high or thigh highs boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:28 PM
1

Oh lol. Got a little solipsistic there and forgot people do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:22 PM
1

So you don't see yourself being genuinely interested in Adam, but you want him to be genuinely interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:18 PM
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I appreciate the thoughtful reply. I think I know what you're getting at, but that last sentence is a rough one in isolation. I can't say I want to be seen as a salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:14 PM
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Approaching a woman and then not asking her out makes little sense to me unless she was giving me the impression that she was not interested. Approaching itself is more than half the battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:07 PM
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The pus thing seems fair. I don't think I've ever had a pimple pop on it's own and I'd be walking around pus on my face. I'd usually get impatient and pop it before that ever happens. Is the blue lipstick negotiable? Boots sound intriguing, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:39 AM
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I'm glad you didn't think I was advocating for abusers. I re-read my original reply and cringed because I felt someone definitely could take it that way. Not what I meant at all. I'm willing to acknowledge it's not for every woman, but even based on your own sample, they're the majority. Are the majority of men exciting? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:30 AM
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Congrats on being Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:07 AM
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What's the difference between approached and not asked out? How do you differentiate the two things?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:03 AM
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Is a guy who manages his bad skin effectively less attractive to you than a man who doesn't have bad skin? I promise I'll take your word for it either way, this isn't a gotcha question. I don't think what you're asking for is toxic at all. I'd call you toxic if you expected everyone to be on the cutting edge of the latest fashion trends. Those people, I have no time for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:02 AM
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I saw you in the Average Adam thread. Basically him as OP described him. Goes to work, comes home, no ambition beyond collecting his $60k year salary, doesn't have any exciting/interesting hobbies, etc. As a boyfriend he's a golden retriever: Always there for you and never talks back or challenges you mentally. Women don't want a doormat for a partner. I am in no way advocating for domestic abuse or saying men should become a domestic abuser to get women. That is unequivocally abhorrent and I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:21 AM
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A few spots is enough for you to reject a guy? I always assumed women were talking about pizza-faced dudes when they talked about skincare, and I assume those women were young. In any case, through puberty I only had one real breakout, and after I was 18 or so I only had a pimple here or there before I got into a skincare routine. Since then I've only had one incident where I broke out that I can't explain. Style did nothing for me one or what the other. I went from very anti-stylish to fairly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:55 AM
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You're still here looking for answers, so I can see how well that's working out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:57 AM
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Most of these things move the needle very little for women. I've literally never heard a woman say clear skin makes a guy stand out in a crowd. There's good reason for that, if you don't have clear skin post-puberty as a man you probably have an exceptionally rare hormone imbalance. It's very average for a guy in his 20s or older to have clear skin. Haircut only makes a minimal difference. I've received compliments on every stupid haircut I've ever had. Before I went bald, I changed my hairstyle…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:45 AM
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You're putting women on a pedestal. They absolutely do compare the man they settle for against the men they've fucked. They'd have to be stupid not to, and women aren't stupid. Even if casual sex with those men was subpar, they wish the men they found lusted for on looks alone chose to love them. All things being equal, if those men loved them, the sex would be better for them. They'd have to be stupid to not know that, and women are not stupid. The man most women have to settle for is just "goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:10 AM
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It's not so much abusive vs. harmless. It's exciting vs boring. Being abusive just so happens to be more exciting than harmless is. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:41 AM
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Women still deny the majority of women seek casual sex before they settle with some lesser than. Women act like the guy they have to settle for is equal or better than those guys. It's just not the case. Thanks for acknowledging that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:36 AM
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How exactly are you planning to "fix your looks" to make yourself more appealing to women? Immutable traits are what women value most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:33 AM
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You can math yourself into being attractive to a greater number of women. Having more options is always better. Just because a woman is attracted to me doesn't mean I want anything to do with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:14 AM
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Let's say you're happy with Adam. You adore Adam. You've been with him for years. If Hemsworth comes along, you know nothing about him personally, but he says come with him now or he's gone forever. Who are you picking? Be honest. I'll accept your answer either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:11 AM
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Spite. Or, at least, that's what I tell myself. The rubber will really meet the road if I ever run out of money for stupid shit that gives me a temporary dopamine hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:45 AM
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Reading the other dating subreddits on this Godforsaken website only reenforce everything PPD women tell you not believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:25 AM
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I'm his inferior cousin. Also Adam in this case is a bonafide Chad. No, I don't want to fuck my cousin. (Okay, maybe a little.) (But seriously, I'm fucking around here on the last part.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:07 AM
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It stinks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:06 AM
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I think that was Ryan Gosling actually
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:02 AM
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2nd
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:01 AM
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Been there, tried that. It's not possible. Also, he got what was coming to him for trying to out kick his coverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:52 AM
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Why can't you just let me feel bad about myself in peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:50 AM
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Fuck that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:36 AM
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That's nice of you to say. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:28 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:26 AM
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I've had anal sex around 20x across 9 partners. I'm more mentally into it than I am in reality, so I don't really care either way. I'll do it if she's into it, but it's kinda meh for me in practice. Edit: That's kind of a lie. I want it to be an option in an LTR, but I'm not that into it in reality. I just want everything she has to offer even if it's something I don't really want. I realize I'm a lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:20 AM
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I have no faith in myself to thrill the mood so I just cut my losses and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:19 AM
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Is that because you're desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:27 AM
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If only I wasn't only slightly less pathetic than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:10 AM
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I severely "cucked" a "where my hug at" guy once. Nothing funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:02 AM
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I could only see what the truth is through experience. In my first "real" relationship, I put up with all kinds of shit I shouldn't have, assuming it was normal. In every relationship I've had since I've added to the list of what I shouldn't put up with, but I still couldn't see those things in the relationships while I was in them. Call it "love goggles" or whatever you want, I didn't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:58 AM
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Yes and no. People show you what they want to show you to some extent. Being able to vet other people largely comes from experience with others, and if you don't have that experience, you're fucked. You can't read this shit in a book. And even if you have personal experience, it's still far from foolproof. I largely ignored the Kanye aspect here. I don't give a fuck about him beyond liking his music.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:28 AM
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What do you consider a "fair bit of attention"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:23 AM
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Wrong. I can hook you up with my exes, though. They dated me, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:08 AM
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I got something hard for you right here baby Plz no ban
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:06 AM
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You're not a true fan of really really dumb women, then. I'm very disappointed in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:06 AM
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/r/HarryPotter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:56 AM
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Yeah, but without the sarcasm this time. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:52 AM
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Take a wild guess, Punkie. Take a wild guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:48 AM
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At least half the reason I stay single is to wallow in my own misery via music.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:40 AM
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8/10. Whether I'd hit depends on her personality, and I can't be bothered to watch her stupid tiktoks to determine what he personality is. I'm an anomaly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:39 AM
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He's our new god
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:36 AM
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It's based on how many women describe it as a dealbreaker. It has admittedly yet to happen to me in any obvious way, but I've rarely dated a woman who wasn't a deeply flawed individual (or saw herself that way). It gives me some insight into why I've attracted the women I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:02 AM
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I never implied just having a normal BMI is good enough, and I don't think it automatically makes you average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:31 PM
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You'd give her a chance. Women dismiss men out of hand for that without looking into it any further. It's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:25 PM
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I just think people should be judged based on who they are, not who their family is. The fact who my father is is used against me is honestly one of the most upsetting things you can tell me. We share very few similarities. I'd rather be told I'm too short or I'm too ugly or whatever. At least that's about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:24 PM
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The specific men who go overseas in search of a woman who wants a green card? I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:27 PM
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Just another thing women select for that men have zero control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:25 PM
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Those guys are doomed to be beta bux either way. The only difference is the foreign woman will likely be significantly more attractive than what they could get here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:19 PM
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My father is extremely successful man. He just never should've been a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:12 PM
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Lol, it's like we've got a mind meld thing going on here because she is exactly what I figured you were referring to with 'average slim woman.' Women tend to grossly overrate themselves and other women, so I kinda saw this kind of thing coming. I would not, personally, call her average. She is really unpleasant to look at. I actually posted her and SBF to be rated in the daily thread a couple days ago and most people called her a 3 or a 4, men and women alike. Her being white is a non-factor for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:12 PM
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My mom does love me, my father wishes I was never born.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:56 PM
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Well good for you, I guess. It's a very common story here where women claim (not trying to accuse you of being a liar here) they dated unconventionally attractive men a bunch, found them just as physically attractive, and then end up marrying some conventionally hot dude. Why do you think that is? I know why I think that is, but what I think won't make a difference to you or anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:54 PM
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It sounds like it's born out of entitlement to me. They literally just want to have their cake and eat it too. Women are all competing for attention the same men (not a shot, just acknowledging reality here). As a slim woman you have a significant advantage over them in getting attention from those men, and they're punching the fucking air over it. They want that same attention, but they don't want to put in the work in to get it. They then choose to beat you down to try to bring you down to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:51 PM
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I'd need some visual examples of what you're talking about. The average woman in America is overweight, unfortunately, and I think the majority of men still prefer women with a BMI somewhere in the normal range, bumping your so-called average woman to above average by default. This just sounds like the same old "PPD men are all Stacy-chasers" refrain to me. A lot seem to think there is this pocket of women who are largely ignored, which I'm pretty certain is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:13 PM
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Even the women who have a ton of baggage eventually get bored and start chasing the highs and lows again, usually at the beta guy's expense. The women you refer to are actually the ones who respond most positively to the guy you describe at first. I do think women can ultimately be happy with a balance of the two extremes, though. You don't have to some super edgy, wild and crazy bad boy, you just need to have a backbone and not be sickly sweet all the time. You can't be afraid to speak your min…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:21 AM
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Alright, I'll bite. How exactly are you past the simple truths of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:13 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure the fact that he's hot is completely incidental. Would you like to purchase some oceanfront property I have for sale in Nebraska, by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:00 AM
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Dating isn't fair. Life isn't fair. You're not always gonna get out what you put in. Sometimes you get out more than you put in. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:54 AM
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That doesn't mean she's a consumerist. And I can't imagine agreeing financially support a woman as a housewife when she's shown no previous evidence of having a work ethic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:40 AM
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I'm not worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:37 AM
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If she's not trolling, she's an actual mentally ill person. That's the great thing with PPD, you never know which it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:36 AM
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They're mostly just boring to me. Half the posts in them are someone doing a schtick or outright trolling. The other half are the same old tired arguments that go nowhere because no one can agree what the data means, or they derail the discussion with some fuckin anecdote that means nothing. Like that thread about average and even above average fit men's only options being fat women. Okay, sure, maybe, but your observations one way or the other don't really mean anything. That's not to say I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:22 AM
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According to you, being able to feed yourself is consumerism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:10 AM
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Taking a good picture of yourself takes some practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:59 AM
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Nah, that's not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:53 AM
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Why would I want a woman who isn't attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:35 AM
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What OP is speculating is the choice these men are presented with is date a fat woman or don't date at all. The reason for this is because women are only willing to date up to a significant degree or they won't date at all. No doubt women's egos have been inflated significantly over the last decade or so due to social media, dating apps, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:34 AM
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How can you have thin privilege if men only want curvy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:26 AM
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That's dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:39 AM
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If he's trolling, he's being doing the same bit for the like 3 years I've been around here. He loves absurdly fat women. Like 300+ lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:38 AM
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Another failed relationship 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:32 AM
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Ewww you're a green bubble person
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:31 AM
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Hey it's me your future husband and this is the house
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:28 AM
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Finding someone who meets their hyper-specific list of standards is very hard. Men usually can't relate because most won't even have the opportunity to go on as many first dates as the average woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:03 AM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:29 PM
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Is treatment for a nonviable ectopic pregnancy murder? It still qualifies as life by your definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:25 PM
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Abortions being baby killing is a matter of opinion, clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:18 PM
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I've never seen any woman say that a woman who abandoned her kid is justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:11 PM
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In my opinion normal BMI people are on their separate rating scale from fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:05 PM
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Could be worse, you could be fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:02 PM
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You sound fat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:56 PM
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Not Chad automatically equals fat chicks are your league? RIP me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:37 PM
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Apparently the bar is on the floor for what Chad is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:01 PM
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Autism's still a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:43 PM
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45?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:34 PM
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It is a very odd request, and on a very basic level I don't think she's obligated at all to grant it. OP definitely seems to hold some misplaced animosity towards her daughter's half-sister, which is obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:29 PM
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By healthy, I meant normal. A normal childhood experience. You would be setting up your child to have a childhood that is very not normal, and it would very likely lead to them being very poorly socially-adjusted. People have to be able to relate to their peers to form bonds with each other. The costs of this just are not worth protecting them from that 10% chance something truly horrible will happen to them, and I suspect it's way less than 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:16 PM
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Women just don't look good super lean like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:59 PM
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Kids need some room to do stupid shit that all healthy kids do without their mom spying them and jamming them up every time they step slightly out of line or every time they do something that makes you worry. The phone camera/microphone access is by far the creepiest part of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:55 PM
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Helicopter parent weirdo. This is what leads to your kid never being prepared for the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:39 PM
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I'm not sure I'd call it fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:15 PM
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Older sperm is linked to higher rates of autism and all kinds of other birth defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:02 PM
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Happy to be of service
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:02 PM
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Flour, eggs, sugar, salt, and some other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:50 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:30 PM
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I'm in that nice sweet spot where I wouldn't be vaporized, but I would receive third degree burns all over my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:17 PM
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I hope all high n-count girls think this. Please filter yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:34 AM
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What is your point, exactly? What you interpret as insecurity simply isn't. I don't even deny being emotional, lol. You just can't seem to comprehend someone else being aware of what they are, so you dismiss it as insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:26 AM
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Hey man, you psychoanalyzed me first. I'm sorry you can't keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:05 AM
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It ain't that deep. Rowling is a mediocre author.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:00 AM
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Nah motherfucker, you're looking for someone to tell you you're not what you are with that "fundamentally loathsome" shit. You want someone to tell you you're not the way you think you are thinking it'll make you feel better. I know what I am, and am unwilling to change. We aren't the same, so don't project your pathetic shit onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:53 AM
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If you're a poor student then what the fuck you need a second phone for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:48 AM
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A second phone? That's pretty baller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:23 AM
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You act as if this is some delusionally low self-esteem shit. If I told you about myself, you'd 100% agree my self-esteem is right where it should be. I am acutely aware of what I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:35 AM
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Told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:25 AM
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"Aww" sounds like pity, but I see what you're saying. You're talking about settling. I have no interest in being someone's "good enough." "Good enough" is never good enough for me. I want to be seen as exceptional, but I am not exceptional in any way, so I will never be seen as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:21 AM
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What happened? They're kids stories. They're not meant to be dissected with critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:03 AM
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60% rule? Thanks, but I don't deserve your pity. The reasons I'm not good enough are mostly my own fault. My looks are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:01 AM
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Exactly. Personality meaning anything is a farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:53 AM
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I'm no longer concerned about being good enough. I'm well aware I am not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:51 AM
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If I looked like that I'd have no problems regardless of whatever stupid shit came out of my mouth. Face not opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:49 AM
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Never even considered this, and I'm a clutch flower buyer. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:28 AM
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If she approached me out of the blue? Like a cold approach or some shit? Probably. edit: It really depends on what she approaches me for. She approaches me and we fuck that night after no meaningful conversation or especially strong connection? Yeah. I don't care about n-count too much, I just don't think I could get over it if it was extremely high. We just don't share the same values in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:20 AM
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Turns out I am, in fact, Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:46 AM
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I'm sure you can find a guy who will let you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:45 AM
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It wasn't that close, and after these midterms where the candidates he backed flopped? He'll lose even worse. DeSantis wins easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:33 AM
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Unless things get seriously worse, he has absolutely no chance in '24.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:25 AM
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See DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:21 AM
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I'd like to keep my penis, but thanks anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:12 AM
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You're not my dad!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:11 AM
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What part do you like to eat first? What part of a human tastes best?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:51 AM
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Why do pissin, shittin, and fuckin all happen within a two inch radius?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:44 AM
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This chick is a draw on OF? What the fuck are we doin here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:23 AM
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You're nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:22 AM
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The halo effect is a really big deal with all this. An ugly guy with confidence is arrogant/delusional, a good looking arrogant is just confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:38 PM
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There are so many war mongers this website.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:14 PM
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• bio about having shit mh and not much to offer (crazy common) mh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:17 PM
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Doesn't this go against the kind of shit your normally post?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:47 AM
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I could be him if I was taller and funnier. I've got sad sack and big dick (barely) down pat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:12 AM
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I don't hate them, I'd just never date one seriously. It's a personal experience thing that many many men seem to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:03 AM
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Don't be. It was a good learning experience. If you're prepared for the worst, you'll never be let down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:55 AM
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yoganurse21 Imagine my surprise she wants to cuck her boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:34 AM
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Well yeah, I know that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:31 AM
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Did she try to tell him what was bothering her about the relationship and what made her feel like she wanted out? Or did she pretend everything was all good right until the end? I think either way it's still extremely selfish to stay with someone while you find a new partner because you're afraid to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:30 AM
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It is indeed. Most people don't realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:04 AM
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Just start new ones!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:58 AM
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I hope you remain happy and live happily ever after with your guy, but I'd be interested to see how you react if you start to sour on him. Lemme know if that day ever comes (kidding... kinda).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:57 AM
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How many relationships have you been in? You're quite young, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:31 AM
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I didn't say you do, and I hope you never do. I think it happens because women tend to check out of relationships long before they break up. This isn't really something I've seen women really dispute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:29 AM
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She was always worried about me cheating, especially at the beginning. Turned out to all be projection, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:24 AM
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Yeah you have to work a little harder, but if you started getting flirty with guys and generally started looking available, you could also line up a new guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:16 AM
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Not common. I'm a fairly good looking guy I think. The most significant example I can think of is, a waitress was very flirty towards me and gave me free drinks (expensive whiskeys) for the night at dinner once. It was a large group, and I guess she didn't think the girl sitting next me was my gf (she was). No one else at the table got anything comped. Gf at the time noticed immediately and was absolute livid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:13 AM
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I think people that tell you to try to pretend you're something that you're not personality-wise is a recipe for disaster as far as relationships go. Good luck maintaining an act 24/7 for someone you'll eventually end up spending the majority of your free time with. This is not to say you should just be yourself. If "yourself" objectively sucks you need to work on changing those things. It has to be real, though, it can't be an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:07 AM
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Yeah I just expect this and pay it no mind. It's happened to me before, it'll probably happen again. I don't need to have her replacement in mind at all times, I just need to be attractive enough to be able to find someone when it's over. What hurts most is being cheated on repeatedly throughout a relationship and finding out years in that it was all a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:00 AM
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You're overthinking it and probably too invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:49 AM
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Living without eating bread isn't living
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:35 AM
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Depends on how they got rich. Lotta trust fund kids out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:31 AM
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Because it doesn't suit your argument? I've had hair and am now bald. I don't think I'm totally unattractive now, but I looked better with hair for sure. My experience also lines up with that. It has hurt me because it hurts every bald dude to some extent. To pretend it's a non-factor is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:54 AM
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Glad I'm not a lawyer because I couldn't ever take a case like that. I don't think people like that deserve to keep breathing let alone deserve a defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:52 AM
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Shapiro is worse, but both are pretty annoying to listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:51 AM
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Good luck I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:49 AM
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Being bald makes you automatically unattractive to too many women to qualify as Chad. Chads are 8s and 9s. Being bald automatically takes you down at least 2 points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:46 AM
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No such thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:37 AM
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Nope, hairy pits on a woman is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:35 AM
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If you've done plastic surgery why the hell wouldn't you just do a transplant now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:31 AM
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Most men prefer to date women a few years younger for all kinds of different reasons. I find a lot of women that age are in hurry. Also I don't think most men put that much thought into it. 4 years really isn't much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:25 AM
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Really? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:13 AM
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How should we know? Go on the date and find out. Or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:09 AM
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I think some (most?) women tend to... exaggerate how bad their exes were because that's how they move on from/get over the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:32 PM
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Hopefully the free food would be from another restaurant, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:18 PM
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Shit! Literally! I've had food poisoning from a restaurant before and it never occurred to me to complain about it. I mean, how can I really be sure they're the one made me sick? People do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:47 PM
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Okay, I could see you being right about that. I'm speaking as someone who's not on OLD or all that interested in going on dates with a complete strangers after exchanging a few texts. I've only done it a few times and it just seemed like something that had a really low probability of it going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:23 PM
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The majority of women have never had casual sex or fucked a guy on the first date? I very much doubt that. I am not saying every woman has rode the "cock carousel" and racked up a huge n-count. That is a minority of women most-likely. It basically is a three date rule. Like I said, there's a little bit of wiggle room.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:05 PM
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How am I shooting myself in the foot? I decided on a standard to hold women I date to. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:00 PM
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However, the speed at which you get taken to bed is not a good measure of their attraction to you. Sure it is. Her ONSs and guys she fucked on the first date were hot enough to her to bypass whatever bullshit "rules" she has, so if I'm not, she clearly doesn't see me that way. I'll allow a little wiggle room there, but not much. Has every woman definitely fucked a guy the day she met him? Nope. Most have at some point, though. Call it insecurity if you want, I don't see why it's "not fine" to ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:27 PM
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This isn't about me lol. I'm nowhere near the top of my profession, and I'm single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:01 PM
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Just never settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:42 PM
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In this scenario he's not Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:01 AM
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Aww, is this the part where we're supposed to kith? Groth. Girlth have cooties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:59 AM
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Because his goal is success at the top of his chosen career. It's probably not about the money for him. If it was, he could've comfortable retired/done something else a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:42 AM
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Wasted potential is the story of my life, babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:36 AM
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I'd rather not. I prefer to look at the thighs while ignoring the knees altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:21 AM
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That's weird. Sounds kinda uncomfortable. Hope you brought some knee pads along with those empty glencairns.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:17 AM
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Ah, so you just lay there, huh? PASS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:10 AM
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What, the empty bottle stumbled over with isn't enough? You broads and your standards, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:02 AM
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Typical woman, coming with an empty glass thinking she's all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:57 AM
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Tempting, but I'm more of a neat whiskey guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:43 AM
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My fake watches are indistinguishable from the real thing to the majority of people. I still know they're fake, and that's all that really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:39 AM
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With you? Absolutely. 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:34 AM
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The man in question almost certainly is not enjoying his current experience, and he is being laughed at by his world. That doesn't matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:30 AM
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I don't usually need a drink that early yet. I can usually get to 8-9PM for now. Getting there, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:25 AM
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I honestly can't fathom becoming as close as your describe with another man after 3 years, let alone 3 months. That's some been friends since diapers shit. All jokes aside, I'm genuinely glad you're happy. I wish I had a friend like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:15 AM
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Sweet dreams, baby
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:14 AM
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Don't worry, I probably won't be up before noon tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:13 AM
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They say if you love what you do you'll never work a day in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:08 AM
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Maybe go back to sleep until you have coherent thought, meteor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:03 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bxiVxWmBRbM
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:00 AM
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Q4W: Your husband makes it to the top of his profession twice, but catostrophically fails in both opportunities. He's made himself an 8-figure multimillionaire in the process, but still, he has proven himself unworthy of the big seat headset. Does your level of respect for him change? It's got to, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:59 AM
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I'm sorry you had to go through that. Really. I can speak from experience, being cheated on basically broke me. We have very similar views on vulnerability. Please never let anyone else change you and make you cynical like I am. It's not a pleasant existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:38 AM
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Exactly. Men and women can't agree on what it is average, so these arguments are pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:56 AM
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Here's the linke to the study I referenced: http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf See, we agree. Women see the average woman as vastly superior to the average man. That's where the resentment comes from. You may be able to reality for what it is, but most women can't. Women see their equal as beneath them. They don't see a pairing of two average indiviuals as a team 1x2, they see it as a team of 1x<2.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:05 AM
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You'd have to assume I was speaking in good faith and giving my honest opinion rather than just trying to win an argument, which is something few people have the integrity to do. That's why we don't believe each other. I did just think of something that kinda proves my point, though. You know that study that showed a 5'6'' man needs to earn $175k more than average to be seen as attractive as a 6'2'' man by women? My whole position hinges on women always overrating themselves and expecting men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:55 AM
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I'm not trying to change you mind, but as far as I'm concerned "my turn" lasts as long as she wants it to last. I generally have the mentality that I'll have her as long as I remain attractive to her, but she could also monkey branch and/or cheat on me anyways. How I feel about that has no real impact on her. I could be misunderstanding RP, though. Obviously some RP men interpret this to mean women are comparable to disposable razors. That's not my personal view. What do you want from a man as f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:36 AM
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The latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:06 AM
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Why is that? I'm genuinely asking for your POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:06 AM
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It's probably more of a "I know it when I see it" thing that probably wouldn't matter to you in any way. I think we can all recognize when someone resents their partner. I've just noticed patterns that explain why. I can provide anecdotal examples of what I've observed over the years in my own relationships and those of friends of mine that are relevant to what I'm talking about (I actually wrote it all out and deleted it) if you want, but I suspect it wouldn't move the needle for you one way or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:05 AM
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What do you feel you need to be careful of?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:36 AM
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How would I even measure what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:34 AM
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I'm actually pretty open-minded on a lot of things. There are very few hills I'm willing to die on. Some might say that even makes me weak-minded. The reason I'm so entrenched on this particular hill is because women talk out of both sides of their mouth about it, and not a single woman has ever presented an argument that made me even slightly reconsider my views on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:33 AM
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Fair enough. It just seems like we argue in circles about this (and maybe everything else). I understand why men post about it, they're disappointed (at the very least) in their lot in life and they're venting about that. I don't understand why women who've been here forever don't get bored of an argument they feel is based on flat out nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:16 AM
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It's up to you whether you want to try or not. I can say you'll never get anywhere if you don't put yourself out there to some extent. And if you do, it still might not work. Your attitude is defeatist, and I get those feelings, I feel them a lot myself. At the end of the day, though, living without any hope isn't really living in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:14 AM
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You said to leave her alone because she went through some fucked up shit. As if she deserved to spew her shit because she went through some fucked up shit. I understand you meant I should just ignore her because it's pointless. The thing is, I'm not emotionally affected by what anyone here says anymore. There was a time when I was, but that time has passed. I feel bad for her because I understand the desire hurt people have to hurt other people. That doesn't mean I excuse it, because it's still …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:07 AM
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Oh, I don't deny women date men close to their level. I'd have to never leave my house to make that argument. My argument, I guess, is that women's satisfaction with these relationships is limited or non-existent. The difference between women and men is women get to experience men above their level while most men do not. It's like being able to fly first class a few times, but for the rest of your life you can only afford to fly economy. You'll always wish you were in first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:50 AM
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That's not an excuse. Plenty of people have dealt with trauma in their lives and still managed to not be dicks to other people, especially those who are also unhappy. I feel bad for her, that's awful, but she doesn't know what the people she's shitting on have been through, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:43 AM
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Oh, don't lump me in those guys. I don't blame women for feeling how they feel, nor would I want some charity fuck. I can totally understand their point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:38 AM
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Damn, you sound like a great person. Do you laugh at homeless people too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:32 AM
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You knew what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:29 AM
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So you're just here to dunk on sad lonely dudes then, huh? That says great things about you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:27 AM
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Q4W: Why do you give a shit if we don't believe y'all can be happy with* and love average men? Whether it is or isn't true, what difference does it make to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:23 AM
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You can do both in the beginning, or at least I did. I started lifting when I lost weight and was able to continuously get stronger for several months while eating at an extreme deficit. After a certain point you have to eat more to get stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:39 AM
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Not every truth in life is a pleasant one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:34 AM
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Sounds expensive for a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:33 PM
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I agree that it matters, but the idea you look like a child next to a 6'2'' man is you being in your head. Maybe if you're really skinny/have narrow shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:25 PM
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That doesn't mean they like them, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:19 PM
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This is a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:28 AM
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Age almost certainly wasn't the issue there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:17 AM
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Why would you even question that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:10 AM
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You're so cool man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:47 AM
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Realizing you're The Driver except you're not a cool autistic bad boy, you're just autistic and you drive a Honda Civic Also I'm literally half way through this movie right now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:22 AM
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Congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:51 AM
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I don't think we're quite there, but we're close. Unless she desperately wants children above all else, women have little need to be with a man she doesn't want to be with. In 10 years you'll be 90% right. There will always be career waitresses who desperate want children who will accept a beta bux arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:17 AM
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Some girls are 19 and already can't remember the names of all the guys they've fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:49 AM
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Lol this is so fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:44 AM
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Don't underestimate how charming I can be 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:43 AM
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Yeah, maybe I'm just shining you on to get in your pants 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:39 AM
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Genuine compliment. I just feel like you're honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:35 AM
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Are you aware he's recently perpetrated one of the biggest financial crimes in history? Is that a + or - for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:32 AM
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Agree with this 100% based on experience. You're just a stepping stone to a better guy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:23 AM
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Shit you might rate me a fucking 9 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:21 AM
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Q4ALL: Rate this man Bonus: Rate him with a not r-worded haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:16 AM
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You got the joke! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:15 AM
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You're good people Punkie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:12 AM
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I love shallow women! I've been told I'm very handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:09 AM
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Would your mind change if you found out she very likely just conspired with her boyfriend to steal hundreds of millions from innocent people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:56 AM
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Q4ALL: Rate her please Let the record show she's 28, not 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:47 AM
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Maybe I'll even start a business that allows me to be lazy on Sundays!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:29 AM
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What should I be doing on Sundays instead, Andrew?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:11 AM
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Feels like you're catfishing for DMs here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:57 AM
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OP said decent looking guys, not hot guys. I can't lie, they might have a point. It depends on how you'd define what an average girl is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:54 AM
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I should've included it's not a reason to not have female friends. You just have to treat them differently. I don't think many men or women would argue against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:12 AM
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If you don't realize you can't make fun of a female friend as harshly as you would a male friend, that's just on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:59 AM
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Has anyone ever told you you should smile more?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:55 AM
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It helps if you point the camera at yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:12 AM
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We're talking about what gets the opposite gender lining up to date a person, not how it works out after a date or five. I can't really comment on a TV show I haven't seen. It appears Zanab is the one who broke up with the guy based on her last IG post, though. I would think Nancy qualifies as overweight. Not drastically so, but probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:09 AM
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I've actually been told that the degree to which I care about my appearance is unattractive by some women I've talked to. They find it feminine. I'm not even sure it's the majority that prefer a guy that takes great care of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:34 PM
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It's not my place to tell other men how to live their lives. My point is, if I was being generous, it puts most men into the "maybe" category for women. It would not make a man automatically seen as attractive to most or even some women. Being attractive to most women is category only a small percentage of men are genetically gifted enough to fall into based on what women value (face + height). Men and women value different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:32 PM
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You said the majority of men have visited hookers and are into minors. You're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:23 PM
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So we agree. It's a start for men, it doesn't make him automatically attractive. Most women would be able to start and end there and do well for themselves. And yes, none of those things are hard to achieve. I say that with experience (besides makeup).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:22 PM
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Do you think that's all it takes for a man to be attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:57 PM
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Emphatic yes. Fuckin bell bottoms, though? Yikes lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:55 PM
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WAHMEN GOOD M*N BAD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:51 PM
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I think the idea is you meet someone and get to know them well enough where you know she won't reject you by the time it comes down to asking her out. That or you build a large social circle through these groups and are able to try to date friends of friends who you rarely see. It's a lot of work if you only really care about finding someone to date rather than being a social butterfly, which I sympathize with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:47 PM
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So you'd say those women aren't really attracted to those men then? That is the logical conclusion based on what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:41 PM
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"The end is nigh." I just don't give a shit anymore. Can we just get it over with already?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:16 PM
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Then why do women in this very thread continue to prattle on about nuance when it comes to what women find attractive? How they see women with all types of guys and so on and so forth? These lines are repeated by women ad nauseam to imply they're not shallow. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:33 PM
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You're not hot and you're not ugly. Where exactly you land in-between doesn't make a meaningful difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:04 AM
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I don't think I'd get along very well with a woman who feels entitled to much more effort than that from a stranger anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:26 AM
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You get used to it feeling like it's about rattle your teeth out of your head
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:15 AM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:13 AM
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I don't get downvoted or upvoted most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:32 AM
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I would argue I've dated up most of the time, but others would argue I've dated down. I made some comment once talking to a female friend where I said my girlfriend at the time was out of my league. She said bluntly that it was the other way around, which I thought was odd because who actually says shit like that? I don't think she was jealous or anything, either. I never got the hint of an idea she was into me or anything, and she was happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 12:30 AM
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She hates men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:49 PM
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I don't disagree. That has nothing to do with what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:36 PM
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Drunk words are sober thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:26 PM
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If true I'm sure that distorts reality for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:25 PM
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Yeah? Let's see what you look like boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:14 PM
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Chad just describes a conventionally attractive guy. 6ft+, handsome face, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:55 PM
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There’s dishes in the back, he gotta roll up his sleeves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:21 PM
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Are you actually calling your bf a 4/10? Bit of a self-own here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:19 PM
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One of my friends has a body count of 50 yet tries to hamster that she's not a slut because she's "only slept with two men in the last year" Send her my way. She's trending in the right direction. She's also 19 and has 2 kids. Sike
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:49 AM
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We had a whole thread about this yesterday. Most of the women in the thread more or less agreed with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:21 AM
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I'm curious, does your husband know your feelings on the subject? I'm big on monogamy too, and I wouldn't date someone who didn't feel the same way. Feels like asking for trouble, no offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:10 AM
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I feel like the limited number of swipes you get per day has eliminated the mass swiping behavior. Most apps introduced that years and years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:58 AM
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Reading some of your replies here, including this one, you seem like you're on some sort of crusade against romantic relationships. Many such cases on this subreddit. It's just bitterness. Pay it no mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:51 AM
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Most people are less polarized on the actual issues than it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:36 AM
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I actually thought it was kind of interesting to read about when I went down that rabbit hole, but it's still stupid as shit. It's like believing in scientology or fortunes from fortune cookies. It's so clearly set up to match up with you no matter who you are or what your sign is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:33 AM
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I think there are people who are close enough to perfect for each other, yeah. It's exceedingly rare, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:30 AM
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I like when a girl initiates, and I like when a girl doesn’t turn me down. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:05 AM
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I'll have you all know I spent all afternoon touching grass (blowing leaves) and my views have not changed on anything. Clearly, I'm beyond help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah, I'd say it's a positive quality in women. Not because of cheating or anything like that, that's just how I am. I'm not really shy, just more low-key. Unfortunately those qualities in men give most women the ick. Also doesn't make for many dating opportunities unless you're very good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:03 PM
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Oh okay, I get you. I wasn't trying to say you have to like every attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:49 PM
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I only noticed because I came in here last night and the newest comment was an hour+ old. I've never seen that before. Guess I just caught it at a weird moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:48 PM
2

From here?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:34 PM
5

Was there some drama I missed? The daily chat hasn't been this dead in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:20 PM
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Lots of insane stupid people out there because the Paul brothers have made a ton of money off these meme fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:20 PM
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I'm sure indiscriminate swiping has an effect, but I think you're overrating how much. There are a lot of factors that determine where a man's profile gets placed in the pile. Given how few women are on the various apps compared to men, the swipe rate a man receives in return from women probably much more heavily influences where he gets placed in the pile. I never said they wanted to fuck me. I just said women are able to reach a consensus on what attractive features are in a man. You'd never d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:18 PM
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All women have a very small # of men they find genuinely attractive, it’s largely subjective with some overlap in preferences, but that’s why there’s a wide variety of men who are partnered up. I really don't think this is true. Most women pretty much agree on what physical traits are attractive. Women being vastly outnumbered on dating apps wouldn't actually be that much of a problem if male attractiveness to women was as different from woman to woman. Matches would be more evenly distributed i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:00 PM
2

So you like a naturally hot guy? Surely they're not actually average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:34 PM
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They're usually not total randoms. From what I've seen, it was mostly friends of friends, co-workers occasionally, guys they vaguely knew in HS or college that they haven't talked to in forever, people like that like that. Usually the guy wasn't perverted, the messages were mostly guys sheepishly trying to gauge how receptive she might be without revealing his own intentions (as if she doesn't know).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:28 AM
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Incels aren't usually the ones going around saying they find men to be more attractive on average than they do women. The ones that are are either gay, or they're trolling. I actually agree with women. There are far more attractive women walking around than there are attractive men. You know why I think that? Because I'm attracted to women! I think this stuff is just what most women have to tell themselves when they realize the aren't enough guys they find physically attractive to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:13 AM
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I feel kinda bad for women. It must be depressing that most of them that they have to convince themselves they find the guy they end up with attractive given the fact that they find most of us ugly or at best unattractive. Given most of the women in that thread seem find women more attractive, why don't they just date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:33 AM
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My ex-gfs all had men in their DMs regularly. They were all average to above average looking women. Not super hot or anything. None really posted thirst traps. Maybe a bikini pic or pic of them in a tight dress or something. I also know my male friends are doing it. Hell, girls have slid in my DMs a couple times when I was on social media, and I'm just above average looking. I'm not even Chad! You're not gonna believe me because I've had this conversation with women on here several times. Even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:25 AM
1

You have to learn how to take a picture of yourself the right way. It took me a lot of trial and error to see in pictures of myself what I see in the mirror. Lighting, angles, etc are all a big deal. Where are you likely to find the best lighting? Probably in front of your bathroom mirror. Where are you unlikely to find the best lighting? Everywhere else. My best advice is take a lot of pictures of yourself moving the camera all around. I always wondered why my ex gfs took a million pictures of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:37 AM
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Most women I know are rather attracted to what used to be called “metrosexual” men. Which is just a term made up to bully men who actually take care of themselves. Its not gay to put on lotion and wash your ass. Idk about that. The term "metrosexual" always referred to men who were very effeminate in their behavior. Were they usually into fashion and did they take good care of themselves? Yes. They also had a tendency to act like feminine gay men. I'm talking gay lisp and adopting mannerisms tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:14 AM
2

I just want to say I'm really sorry you're going through that. No one deserves to be pushed out of making a living by immature trash. Bullying made my life a living hell as a kid, and probably has a lot to do with my issues today. I hope better times are coming your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:57 AM
1

The men I find the most attractive are the ones who look and embrace being fairly average. ??? Please explain this. What does an average man look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:24 AM
2

Perhaps you just don't like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:19 AM
1

Boomers are pretty successful on average. You're gonna have to be more specific on what point you're trying to make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:42 AM
1

It absolutely is. Divulging your insecurities, fears, and things that upset you is weakness. You gotta keep that shit bottled in. That's what real men do. Real men can handle their shit without anyone else's help or sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:40 AM
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Women just don't find emotional weakness in a mean attractive. It is what it is. Adapt or die. I'd love to have a true partner in that respect. It's not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:28 AM
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We're gonna be in gridlock for sure. That's not what I'm arguing. Republicans should be expected to control the House at all times given their control of districting. The problem is them not making gains in states/districts where they don't have a gerrymandered advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:11 AM
1

This is a disastrous night for Republicans. The red tsunami is a red ripple at best. If you can't get the electorate to strongly rebuke this disaster of an administration, you have no hope of winning in 2024. edit: For record, I wouldn't vote for basically any democrat. I'm not hard right on most issues, but I'm definitely center-right overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:57 AM
1

200 ng/dL is scary low. If I ever tested that low I'd be on TRT real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:53 AM
1

Who were you favorite users?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:42 AM
1

I was more of a Yu-Gi-Oh kid. We didn't even know how to play the game, we just collected cards to dunk on each other with who had the rarer cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:25 AM
1

You could explain it by saying jsut because we can't breed anymore, that doesn't mean the basic drive ever totally leave us. Or you could be white pilled and say love is about more than just our base instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:19 AM
2

You on gear Chibs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:17 AM
1

I think women would be much more ambivalent toward the supply of dick drying up than vice versa. Women actually seem to complain about the oversupply. And there's not really an oversupply for relationships anyways. Most relationships are still 1-on-1 monogamous relationships, and women outnumber men slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:15 AM
0

You're an extremist election denier only to people who denied the veracity of the 2016, 2004, and 2000 (okay, they have a little bit of a point there) elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:26 AM
1

Her IG's been popular for like a year. I know it was shared in the group chat I'm in months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:24 AM
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She has a hot body but her face is a little too young looking for me. I'm getting old. She's objectively a 9 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:03 AM
2

What problems do you think that would solve? What it healthy MGTOW? It always seemed like giving up to me, whether you're an asshole about it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:59 PM
2

I don't think men have the leverage necessary to be able to afford to raise their standards. I think we'd just see fewer and fewer people in relationships if that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:32 PM
1

Don't tell me what to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:26 PM
1

I'd argue that first sip of an ice cold cheap beer on a hot day is the best sip of anything on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:49 PM
1

How dare you waste a full head of hair by not taking care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 10:47 PM
1

You're not unique
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:50 PM
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I guess I took the "he does everything I ask him to" very literally. That's probably on me because I automatically assume someone's being taken advantage of in that scenario. If you're not asking for anything out of the ordinary then that's my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:47 PM
2

Do their girlfriends also have Down's syndrome?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:43 PM
1

No. I wasn't really talking about cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:33 PM
2

Not a terrible theory tbh. Drgree is RP, which indicates she's also right wing like Lillith. Lillith is pretty BP, though. On the other hand, I'm not sure anyone here could last as long as Lillith without being permabanned by Drgree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:49 AM
1

Since I quit smoking, I really only get sick when I'm regularly swapping spit with another person. I'm in airports and other petri dishes regularly with no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:32 AM
1

I've never had my level of loyalty reciprocated. Not even close, really. I don't believe it's realistic at this point. It is what it is. Just gotta adjust and adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:28 AM
1

Who gives a fuck about the exceptions to the rule? If on average tall men are also objectively smarter, shit, women are right to only want to breed with them. I can't even call them shallow. That's just natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:07 AM
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Damn, tall dudes just be winning it all, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:42 AM
1

Actually, going down at the same time is one of my most fond memories of an ex. Granted, I was high out of my mind on codeine cough syrup (I took 3x the prescribed dose) at the time, but holding her while we were both completely miserable was the closest I've ever felt to another human being. I can't even put into words how good it felt. That's why I flushed that shit the next day and opioids scare the shit out of me to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:36 AM
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It's only useful if you're in a band and play bars or something like that at the least. I got pretty good playing guitar at one point, but I was never in a band and only people who already knew me ever saw me play.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:20 AM
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I'm not high value by FDS or RP standards and I've still said no to pussy. I don't even have other shit to do. I'm probably just high inhibition in this particular case (I'm demonstrably not in other situations).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:16 AM
1

This tracks because educated women have bigger egos which makes them deserving of men of higher status (height is a marker of status).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:13 AM
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This is objectively the worst part of being a relationship. When they get sick, you're definitely getting sick too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:11 AM
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I lean towards not wanting kids (that's a whole other can of worms), but I still want more than a FWB. I want someone who'd ride or die for me, and more importantly, someone I'd ride or die for. I want someone to come home to, someone I can feel completely at ease with. Someone who is the first person I'd ask to do anything with and vice versa. I want a life partner. I've sorta had it, but not quite obviously as I'm currently single. Maybe it's unrealistic, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:03 AM
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If you didn't regularly orgasm from casual sex, and that's what your priority when it comes to sex, what led you to rack up such a high body count? Getting over it sounds like settling. You couldn't make a serious relationship with those guys happen, so there is some disappointment there. It's like me getting over the fact that I'm never gonna be a billionaire. That doesn't mean I don't still wish I was. A 1%er is pretty much Chad from a status standpoint. Big dick doesn't make a Chad. I have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:48 AM
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If that were true, none of them would cheat. SPOILER: They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:39 AM
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I assumed you were the one being asked out, as is usually the case. Most women are not that proactive in dating. Even women who've made their interest in me very obvious, I still had to actually ask most of them out or it would've gone nowhere. I'm sorry I got under your skin, that wasn't my intention. What an odd situation you have there! I can't really imagine loving some as a friend, wanting to have sex with only them exclusively for 14 years, and seeing a difference between that and romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:38 AM
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You've had sex with 2000+ guys? The girl with the highest n-count I've known acknowledged getting to 60 before she lost count, so I assumed it was at least 100. That's honestly kind of impressive. Absurd, but impressive. Is your current relationship monogamous? Do you miss the variety if so? I don't think many men get to fuck women out of the league like women do men. I would imagine the few that do probably do reminisce on their time with Stacy. So he's an objective Chad? The term "alpha-widowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:12 AM
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Wow, you are interesting. For the record I wasn't trying to pass judgement on you about whether you went on dates for free meals. I don't really care to argue about that at this time. Some people don't date in good faith. It is what it is. Are you and your FWB exclusive? Do you wish it was more than just a FWB situation? I originally got the impression you were married to this guy. It's very rare that a FWB relationship lasts this long without one or the other at least catching feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:53 AM
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No. What's your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:38 AM
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You're a ho, huh? What's your n-count? I do think many women are alpha widowed. It's basically logical. It's like the first time I flew business class. Can I fly economy after? Yeah. Do I want to? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:27 AM
1

The plot thickens. Did these guys ask you out in the first place or did you often make the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:15 AM
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I would imagine she's still single unless she gave up settled. I can't imagine a person like that ever being satisfied. Then again, I'd probably would've said the same about you. 1-4 dates with 40+ guys consecutively and not one of them was good enough for you to have an interest in seeing more? I'd judge you as extremely picky too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:06 AM
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They all seem to say that about the guy they're with whether he was the first guy they've been with or the 20th. How much they actually believe it is up for debate. I personally like to think they do, but I know they're probably just fronting just so they can brag about themselves in a roundabout way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:54 AM
1

Ah, too bad. Now that you reminded me of it I'm curious how that all ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:47 AM
1

Were you the one who dated that many men on purpose and posted about it on here while you were doing it? Didn't you have a set number you were looking to hit before you'd consider getting in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:28 AM
4

I did not experience any noticeable change in how people treat me since losing weight and becoming relatively fit. More women are attracted to me, but that's it. I still run into the same amount of nice people and the same amount of assholes if I had to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:58 AM
5

So having more opportunities to cheat justifies in some way in your mind? What kind of logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:47 AM
3

The Republicans have repeatedly made college more expensive Are republicans why the government guarantees student loans? I honestly don't know, but that doesn't seem like something they would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:06 PM
3

They're looksmatched. It's funny how fat people all basically look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:05 PM
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If they are flirting with you, play a bit coy, like 'Oooooh, you're going to get me into trouble' and walk away from her. Pretend like you're reluctant to give her your number/go home with her, but that she wore you down in the end with her hotness. This is really good advice. Always make a girl feel like she's special.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:52 PM
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Maybe they're giving you dirty looks because you're ugly and you're staring at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:49 PM
1

Awww, that's too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:48 PM
1

I was just trying to think of an example where I would be judged purely on what I look like physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:46 PM
1

That's a red flag too. Who wants to be with someone who has no standards at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:01 PM
5

I've been in relationships. Do you think if I made a Tinder tomorrow I'd be able to get casual sex with women just as attractive as the ones I've been in relationships with based purely on my looks? Not likely. I have friends who actively want casual sex, and to get it they have to fuck down substantially compared to girls they've been in relationships with. Maybe you can afford this standard because you're very hot and the guys you'd have casual sex with are the same guys who'd LTR you. It's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:58 PM
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I never said anything about the quality of the sex. In fact I'm not surprised when women argue most casual sex encounters are not great for most women. I'm sure many guys take the attitude that if they're never going to see her again, why bother doing anything besides getting theirs? I'm not projecting anything. We agree most women value relationships more than they do casual sex, right? That means for casual sex to be worth it, the guy has to be pretty exceptional looking. To be exceptional loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:48 PM
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It is much much harder to be physically attractive enough to women that they'll ignore every other quality about you they don't like just to fuck you. I guarantee the guy you have a relationship with is not nearly as exceptional as the guy you have casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:25 PM
1

If dating dynamics don't interest you, why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:13 PM
2

I don't think anyone's dick is a big as a fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:16 PM
2

You like getting fisted huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:12 PM
1

Oh cool I hate you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:03 PM
2

Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:24 AM
2

Ah c'mon, being gay married is red pilled as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:12 AM
1

If you're a woman, can I move in with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:07 AM
1

Summer time. We stop "falling back" and hour in the winter like we just did last night,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:04 AM
2

Me waiting for congress to do something for my benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:59 AM
3

The most consistent argument against it is kids having to stand at the bus stop in the dark in the winter. My response? Fuck them kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:45 AM
2

I never said I was happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:43 AM
1

Q4All Americans: We all agree DST should be permanent, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:30 AM
1

Hmm, 1 because fuck plastic bitches and 14 because fuck preppy fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:57 AM
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15 because I'm a white boy who had cornrows once and because I've had 3 FD RX7s in my life. 18 Because the chick from breakfast club really does it for me. Also my wardrobe at one time was pretty much all black skinny jeans and black shirts. None of these really fit me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:44 AM
1

Fingers crossed for divorce! Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:25 AM
1

Would you be interested in dating another? I quit smoking a few years ago (I would be happy to start up again for the right woman!) and I'm probably not quite a genius, but I am antisocial, and I'm working very hard on becoming an alcoholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:19 AM
2

I've got nothing. I just think antisocial, chain-smoking, alcoholic, borderline geniuses are cool. Not many TV shows about guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:10 AM
2

True Detective Season 1
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:04 AM
1

You think most public school systems in the country are that much different? I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:48 AM
1

Lol, I know for a fact my senior year math (Algebra 2 maybe?) teacher passed me just so I could graduate. She literally said to the whole class one day that she wasn't "going to prevent anyone from graduating no matter what." I'm a guy whose football career ended at 14. You can imagine what it's like for guys with actual athletic potential, lol. For the record, I'm not actually a total moron. I had a near 4 GPA in college without trying all that hard if you value that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:19 AM
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RP men have been far more harsh on me than women here have. The PPD women who've seen what I look like have been extremely flattering. RP men here would say I'm a LVM that I should basically just kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:49 AM
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That conservative women probably makes less than the cop, so she's still dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:39 AM
3

This guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:31 AM
2

Bama was just an example. I don't actually know anyone who went there. The one person I know who made it to the NFL went to Florida, and his classes were a joke by his own admission, but that was also over 10 years ago. There are also tons of guys in the NFL with low IQs (indicated by Wonderlic scores under 20). Again, you could be right. I might be basing my opinion on old info since as of this year the NFL doesn't even administer the Wonderlic anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:30 AM
2

It absolutely is a lie. Study after study proves women seek to date up. If you're in the top 10% of looks everything else gets thrown out the window, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:09 AM
1

Lol Ben & Jerry's is 2 for $8 every other week in the summer here. It's right there when I walk in the door to my grocery store. It's very very hard to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:08 AM
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In the US at least, there are special classes for athletes at colleges with top-level athletic programs. They can literally sleep through their classes and get As. There are a few exceptions. Pro athletes who come out of Stanford, for example, are supposed to have received a legit education that they had to work for. At Bama and shit? It's a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:52 AM
1

Sorry, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:49 AM
1

If you're looking for a tight stomach it's like 90% diet. You could maybe do a shit load of cardio and maintain a tight body with relatively poor eating habits, but we're talking about a huge time suck there. I run 5 miles 4 days a week. It helps, but not as much as maintaining a good diet. What's your biggest weakness food-wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:48 AM
0

I expected a more combative response from someone who openly describes themselves as a hateful person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:30 AM
3

And that means no more sweet stuff Can't be doing that going into Thanksgiving and Christmas. This is my fat time of year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:23 AM
1

The lifestyle is the most appealing thing for me about that career. Three 12-hour days a week and four days off (assuming you don't pick up OT which is currently extremely lucrative). There's nothing less appealing to me than the 40-hour 5-day work week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:11 AM
2

That's a straight up red flag for me. It means they're always looking for the next thing and they always have it lined up before you make a break for it. They're untrustworthy and not having relationships in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:08 AM
1

Nursing seems like a great choice for a radfem. You could kill lots of men that way with either substandard care or actively sabotaging their health. #KillAllMen is your kind's mantra after all, isn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:55 AM
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I think that's a little harsh. To get over someone I need to cut contact. I don't even hate the couple there are that did me really dirty. Re-connecting just never made much sense. I wouldn't want to send the wrong message by doing so anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:49 AM
5

Okay, how do things progress when someone is dating you? Do you ask a guy to touch you? Kiss you? Do you escalate yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:03 AM
1

On average now? I usually hear "most" women don't enjoy casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:50 PM
1

I can at least confirm we don't live anywhere near each other, so I feel a little safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:35 PM
1

This might keep me up at night. Side note: Is this like a cross country road trip or just flying around and renting a car? That's a lot of places to hit in less than two months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:32 PM
4

Who says that? I've heard that from women on here a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:25 PM
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Most just like dunking on us with how great they purport their lives to be while simultaneously whining about how victimized they are by this or that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:24 PM
3

Please tell me you live very far away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:20 PM
2

It's happened
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:17 PM
2

Women are the ones who can't stop telling us how women don't get much out of casual sex and usually only try it a couple times before they decide it's not for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:07 PM
2

Desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:05 PM
1

In all my past relationships I've pretty much established a close to 50/50 split. Even I've been asked to pay for shit like haircuts, nails, a shopping trip, etc. A lot of women see that as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:03 PM
1

Where do I send in my application?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:54 PM
1

I don't think it's that out of ordinary for a man to pay for a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:49 PM
0

Lol if the genders were reversed no one would bat an eye
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:17 PM
1

Do you think they might've just never been fucked right? Idk how anyone can just not care for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:37 AM
4

You can't rightly expect to be able to treat other people like shit and them not treat you like shit in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:55 AM
2

Interesting. I'm definitely the type to know something is bad broadly speaking and do it anyways because it's advantageous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:52 AM
1

The lack of professionalism is definitely part of what does it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:38 AM
1

For what reasons would you say you figure your friends are low libido? I think I've only ever been with high libido women. I can't imagine being with a woman who turns me more than rarely. I know guys who have to go through this whole production just to get laid by their gfs or wives on a Saturday night, and I just can't imagine being satisfied with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:10 AM
1

I wonder if that's a good thing long-term wise. Someday when you're married with kids you still won't too exhausted enough to bang. Keeps a relationship healthy. I, on the other hand, become basically asexual when exhausted or stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:52 AM
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