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Exactly. Just look at what women complain about on any dating subreddit. It is always that guys only want sex and casual dating. I wonder why that is. When the top 10% of guys rule the marketplace, they have all the options and can do whatever they want without any commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:45 PM
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Could be. But if that is the case, it means 75% of the male population looks "off" in their photos according to the data. The 5% male match rate shows that this isn't just a few tech guys with bad profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:37 PM
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I agree that it is what it is and men will have to adapt, but nobody is shaming women here. It's just data analysis. Women are just using the tools they have, and these dating apps give them access to a much bigger dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:34 PM
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Your math is close, but you missed the massive behavior from the data. Let's use your example of 600 men and 400 women. The top 25% of men is 150 guys. Where your math trips up is assuming the 400 women spread their likes evenly. The data shows women swipe right on only 6% of profiles, meaning they completely filter out 94% of the pool. If 400 women send only 6% of their likes, and those likes are heavily concentrated on that top, those 100-150 men get almost all the volume. The proof is in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:33 PM
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I guess it is less about creating a strict hierarchy and more about how the apps prevent regular guys from finding an equal match. For example, I have one friend who is 6ft, very attractive, has a great career, and show off his travel and wealth on his profile. He basically attracts every type of woman and has endless scrolling on his Hinge likes screen. On the other end of the spectrum, I have several normal guy friends in tech who are great people but cannot get a single date on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:03 PM
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it is a data aggregator. If you upload an Excel spreadsheet of your bank statements to a budgeting app, that is not AI inventing numbers. It's real data. As for the selection bias argument, SwipeStats actually includes plenty of successful profiles because people love to upload their data to flex their high match rates and see their exact percentiles. The top 1% and top 10% metrics exist in the data precisely because those highly successful users are in the dataset. nobody is saying women should…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:06 AM
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SwipeStats is not AI. It is an analytics platform where real users upload their official, raw data exports requested directly from Hinge. The numbers come straight from the app's databases, not an algorithm's guess. As for the bot argument, Hinge requires a lot more profile verification and prompt engagement than Tinder, meaning the bot presence is significantly lower. But even if you factor in bots, they don't skew the data this way because bots typically swipe right on everyone to cast a wide …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:58 AM
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Yeah, Hinge is actually the best option out of the bunch. Tinder and Bumble stats are even more skewed. The sad part is that even though Hinge is the best app we have for actual relationships, the math is still this brutal for regular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:55 AM
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Agreed, but generally speaking, people are moving to doing everything online, from business to dating. The trend of people meeting online is increasing every year, but it seems like it leaves a huge portion of men out of the game entirely. This directly ties into the declining marriage rates, considering census data shows that only about 16% to 20% of men are married by age 30 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:50 AM
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I wish it were only for "single guys in their 20s and 30s who are overweight, have average jobs, and no college degree." The truth is I have plenty of guy friends in tech and business owners who still cannot find a single date. On the flip side, I know a guy who is 6'0"+, fit, and makes $100k+ (the top 5 percenter) who has endless scrolling on Hinge and uses a calendar to organize his weekly dates. Women usually message him first, which i find the most unique. If you are not a top man, do not ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:49 PM
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I agree that simping is sad and odd behavior, but I still understand why it happens. Young men just want that emotional connection with a woman, and for a lot of them, their alternatives are very limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:15 PM
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I disagree. Simps are looking for a connection with a woman and the only way possible for them to get attention from a woman is by simping for her. They think she’ll like them more if they act that way. They can’t get attention in IRL or in dating apps, so simping is their only way for that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 03:10 PM

Statistics in Western societies show this is somewhat true. Women are not getting married as much as they used to, and young men are reporting being sexless at much higher rates than women. From my personal experience, I have a bunch of friends who can't get a single date, while I have one friend who basically has infinite scrolling on his Hinge account. Because of that, I tend to agree with your view
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:07 PM
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Evolutionarily, males have been providers for centuries. The real distinction is whether you’re providing for your own family and children or for someone else’s. Providing for your own bloodline is just basic biology, not simping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:50 PM
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White gold pill is the color of my favorite antidepressant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:46 AM

I think the "no contact" is overrated. If there was a connection in real life, there would never need for a "no contact" test
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:33 PM
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