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What I’m trying to say is that your two responses actually proved the point many men are trying to explain to the less experienced here. What a woman says first might not be what she subconsciously means/wants deep down. The stereotypical example would be that all women say “I just want a good guy who’s nice and wants a real relationship” when in fact many women actually want the exciting alpha type man who doesn’t really care about her but gives her hot sex and fun on the weekends” not saying y…
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:52 PM
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Well we don’t mind it if the conversation can stay progressive and logic based. Women tend to deal in emotion first while we are just dealing in facts and truth and that is where the lines start to skew in the conversations here. That’s why a lot of the woman’s groups on here ban men lol. They clash when we speak because we are not trying to emote.
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:47 PM
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Andddd...that’s the reason this sub was made specifically for men. Women often get mad at the things they see here and decide to participate via there emotions instead of having logical, fact based conversations like the rest of us. This post didn’t say these things apply to all women on earth or that if a woman does fall into one of these categories she is to be single for life. It just pointed out that there are common red flags in today’s dating world all men should look out for and assess ac…
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:37 PM
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Men, notice many of the women commenting trying to refute the list here are low key just proving the point of why these are red flags in the first place lol. Facts of life: What women say and what women do/want within the context of this topic and dating are not the same. While the female perspective is sometimes important to have as a man, here on this sub it will never be productive to hear from women because they are not going to be 100% transparent about how the female psyche actually functi…
/r/seduction18/11/20 01:18 PM
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Well of course you disagree with them because they both directly apply to you. Any guy who has decent dating experience knows a woman who had a poor relationship with her father is a disaster waiting to happen unless she’s actively working on that with a therapist.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:58 PM
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Search Kevin Samuels on YouTube and watch his content. That will explain it for you.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:55 PM
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Come back after a few bad experiences where you look back and realize the small things you ignored were actually something you should have looked into.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:54 PM
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Why is talking about traits to stay away from in a feel up for men offensive?
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:46 PM
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Its describing a large sample size of millennial and gen z women that men deal with these days. If you have any dating experience as a man youll see most of what he described regularly.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:45 PM
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So... you’re saying I should get really good at acting?
/r/seduction20/10/20 04:26 PM
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Yes I read the comments in some of those videos and get worried for the human race lol.
/r/seduction06/10/20 06:20 PM
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100% I just took bits and pieces from them and applied it accordingly to my life. I don’t think most dudes would actually want to live the lives those dudes live in full. Lol
/r/seduction06/10/20 05:50 PM
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And that’s how you know you’re learning. When I watched this dude AMS on YouTube I was personally offended the first couple videos. It was like he was dissing me in front of a million people but I knew it was legit and I needed to work on many things.
/r/seduction04/10/20 07:23 PM
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It’s depends.. some women have that wall of sarcasm up to protect themselves and others are actually just shitty people.
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:36 PM
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Nah, all the stuff you said is what typical women say as an excuse to not look superficial and twisted. Literally Every woman on earth says “they might but I don’t do that” so unless they’re the dirty game playing types, women won’t stick around if a man doesn’t have the qualities they want. They all have rosters and will dip to the next on quick. As someone who’s talked to plenty of women about this what he’s saying is true. In this current climate most women take ANY type of niceness as weakne…
/r/seduction23/09/20 02:44 PM
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I've encouraged my single lady friends to also approach men in this same scenario and its funny to see how mind blown they are after they realize they just took all the leg work out of "the game". I swear world peace could be solved if women took it upon themselves to initiate with men they have interest in lol.
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:29 PM
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My pictures aren’t bad but they’re just typical for a guy. I don’t really take selfies and all that. I guess it was persistence for the most part. I was on tinder and bumble at the same time and cast a wide net, and dated down at first. As I gained confidence in my process I started going for higher tier women and it worked. I’d say this was a 2.5 year process for me with 1 year heavily on the apps.
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:02 PM
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Pretty much all online dating. Tinder,bumble.. when i was dating a ton I had no interest in a relationship, i just wanted to gain experience with a variety of women. Now that I’m dating with purpose i stay off those apps. They’re toxic af for anything past casual encounters.
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:51 PM
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It takes lots of work. I was not naturally like that but I found my purpose as a man, stayed on it and then started dating a lot. Dating these days takes a ton of effort and is a learning experience that leads to a lot of clarity. I Finally started dating women at a higher tier of looks and success and realized if I can date at that level I can pretty much find a woman whenever I want. I don’t really date around anymore but I could and that is a godsend to know when something doesn’t work out.
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:36 PM
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Because it’s a mindset, not necessarily a physical thing you’re living. You don’t have to have 5 women in your rotation. You just have to know you’re desirable and be confident that you can always find someone else if things don’t work out. Example: you start dating a woman and after a couple months she’s toxic, dragging you down but the sex is good and she’s good company... a man with abundance mindset will be secure enough to break things off because even if you don’t currently have other wome…
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:15 PM
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This is all well and good and works great, especially for single men who want to casually date but this is way harder to onboard for men who want a real relationship. What they’ve been taught doesn’t apply to current day dating and it takes a lot to break the things they’ve been taught since birth.. IMO the same Rules you mention still apply no matter what because it’s all about mentality but it is much harder and confusing for men who want to build and be with one woman. Long ago when i was ref…
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:07 PM
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It’s even funnier when they have that in their bumble profile lol
/r/seduction07/09/20 07:21 AM
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It's not the first time.
/r/seduction03/09/20 07:41 PM
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LOL.. ok let me respond to your ridiculous reply. I actually initiated us seeing each other after she reached back out to me and she canceled day of our scheduled meeting. I was supposed to go to her house. She then rescheduled and came over to my place. Are you not aware of how much women lie doing this exact thing because they wanted to go do something else instead and pushed you to the side hoping you'll be stupid enough to believe her excuse? This is truly a thing men have to deal with and w…
/r/seduction03/09/20 07:41 PM
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Nah sorry I’m not letting being rude and tasteless become an acceptable standard when conversing with another human being. Again.. they would never say it was fine if it was the other way around.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/20 05:53 PM
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Nah she unmatched me right after I sent it. Lol it’s funny how mad they get when you throw the same superficial nonsense right back at them.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/20 05:46 PM
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She unmatched me like 25 seconds after I sent it. I took the screen shots right away because I knew that would happen lol. They can dish it but they can’t take it.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/20 05:45 PM
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We live in a time where women would do that for extra likes on Instagram.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/20 05:44 PM
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When women come straight out the gate asking that it’s just rude. If Men lead with hi how much do you weigh women would lose their minds saying it t was disrespectful and rude.. When you yourself aren’t in shape or “good looking” it’s hypocritical to lead with superficial standards.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/20 05:42 PM
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This is a thing a lot of “normal”guys deal with. We try to meet “normal” women and they’re so gassed up from likes on social media that they think it’s ok to lead the conversation with insanely superficial standards they can’t even match yet when our rebuttal is just as superficial they get mad and un-match us.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/20 02:32 AM
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Funny thing is she was an average chubby girl but wanted to come out the gate with superficial standards. I have nothing against average looking woman but the standards so many of them have now are ridiculous.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/20 02:23 AM
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WOWWWWW. I swear women are extra selfish these days..
/r/PussyPassDenied07/08/20 12:19 AM
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That clack back hold so much weight.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/20 07:53 PM
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This is hilarious Why is this a thing on either side? If one person has extreme wealth in this context why should someone who’s done nothing to assist in it get a dime?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 06:11 PM
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The paypal address name makes me think this is a dude pretending to be a woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/20 07:30 PM
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Wow.. thanks for sharing. I had no idea. that’s as bad as the laws the make police immune from lawsuits.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/20 12:08 AM
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I have no love for Chris but That’s exactly what happens in this climate though. It’s popular to be a victim these days and now a woman who has a DM or situation that could lightly connect them to a tabloid tmz level story comes out with screen shots and some humble sob story that receives 10k likes with encouragement for being strong. It’s the new age 15 mins of fame. Same thing happened with the Larry Nassar case here in Michigan. Families and a celebrity gymnast banded together so the book wo…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 03:58 PM
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Yes, yes it does. His rate comes out to a little over a million per show lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 03:38 PM
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And go down that rabbit hole and it definitely looks like a setup. Just saying..
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 03:33 PM
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Mmmhhhmm
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 03:32 PM
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I hope his team sues her and takes all her assets. If you lie and try to ruin someone’s life and get caught I don’t feel bad for what happens to you next.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/20 12:43 AM
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If her claims are true, her not saying anything is also allowing an abuser to go free and likely do it again. I know I’m just a guy and will probably get roasted for saying this but it’s super important to speak up on stuff like this even if it’s “hard to do”. It seems like there are a sect of women who will do anything for clout on social media and I really question whether some of those claims are real. It’s popular to be a victim and sadly there will always be people who abuse a good social c…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/20 12:39 AM
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Andddd this is an example of a woman exploiting a movement for personal gain. We can’t act like this isn’t happening a lot. Just imagine if there wasn’t any video. They could have severely hurt his career with the amount of people out there that believe anything a white woman cries about.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/20 05:41 PM
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The irony of her using black lives matter as a hashtag here is making me roll my eyes back in my skull. White women with this same mentality have been getting brothers locked up for decades. I hope this is fake..
/r/PussyPassDenied11/06/20 09:55 PM
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Wait so Jessica is really a man?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/20 05:22 PM
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That’s most dating today. Women are selling their body to the highest bidder.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/20 07:42 PM
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That ask is only acceptable if she is living her life as a traditional woman and will act accordingly just like she wants him to.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/20 07:41 PM
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This is a hot take lol
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/20 07:36 PM
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So what you do is let him pay and then ask him out on the next date and then insist on paying. We very rarely get that type of generosity from women so it means a lot when it happens
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/20 07:33 PM
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I swear the ugliest one’s on there staying being the most extra lol
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/20 07:16 PM
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I think the issue here is the stereotype of what masculine means to most people. To me masculine isn’t just the alpha male, meat head, player type.
/r/seduction08/04/20 02:33 PM
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How is the audio only version better if it’s still done in excess?
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:11 AM
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I guess it depends what type of porn you watch. I’d assume they’re referring to the A list porn stars.
/r/seduction10/03/20 02:57 AM
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One could argue that mature adults don’t play hard to get thus these tactics only being good for Immature women. It just depends what you want but i think most people using them are trying to get laid so it makes sense.
/r/seduction04/12/19 05:01 PM
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Exactly. This is advice on how to pickup the superficial types who get validation from Instagram likes. Real women won’t make you do this type of thing.
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:58 PM
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This is well written with great insight but I think that caveat is this applies to women who have a good head on their shoulders. In current day everyone has so much access and want attention for superficial purposes like inflating their ego. That emotional barrier you speak of is a very fine line. If it’s too small you’re doing too much and if it’s too big she’ll likely leave for the next guy. So to me before your tactics can really hold weight you need to be around good women.
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:54 PM
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I see unattractive women with boyfriends all the time but I guess that’s subjective.
/r/seduction03/12/19 03:54 PM
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Sometimes good things take time.
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:31 AM
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It is without a doubt more common for women to do it because it’s accepted. If a woman says she’s not attracted to a guy her word holds weight and people command the rejected man to respect her wishes no matter what. let a guy say he wasn’t attracted to a woman so he dumped her and it’s “all guys are so superficial, they only care about looks and don’t appreciate a good woman” type conversations.
/r/seduction30/11/19 11:14 PM
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Listen.. I’m not telling you you’re wrong because it’s your life but if someone wont work with me because of how my spouse looks I’d kindly tell them to kick rocks because my spouses physical appearance has nothing to do with my work. Unless you’re a political figure running for president where you have to be fake and piece together an appearance to goad people into voting for you or something similar why would they care?
/r/seduction30/11/19 09:01 PM
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Definitely agree with this.
/r/seduction30/11/19 04:28 PM
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I think friends that say superficial things like that are kind of shitty to be completely honest with you. It’s not their job to sway a relationship because they’d rather see you out with a woman looking like a couple on tmz. How did how she look hamper opportunities for you?
/r/seduction30/11/19 10:33 AM
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Attraction cannot be negotiated but I think women get shit for it more because a lot of times it has little to do with their lack of attraction toward the man but rather the worry of negative public perception that would come along with it and to me that is a bit twisted. I've seen it happen many times where very good looking woman meets a less than attractive man but she really likes him and would be with him but her friends talk shit or her mom makes some snide comment about it that ruins it a…
/r/seduction30/11/19 09:24 AM
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I personally know men right now who make lots of money, are good looking, and have respectable social status in my city who only like big fat girls and not the kind that society would consider attractive. They won’t even date women who don’t fit that description because it’s just what they like . But to your point I’d say it’s more rare that women date way down from their look status but that’s another conversation for another day.. As for the celeb analogy, I meant it in a more simple way than …
/r/seduction30/11/19 08:26 AM
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I can’t speak to how you personally feel but I think in general it’s human nature to take things the wrong way when you’re not used to experiencing it. Guys do it all the time as well so i could see women experiencing the same thing. They even play out this very thing in movies with the suave, ever popular jock in high school helping the nerd with her books after she dropped them in the hallway only for her instant crush on him being shattered as he walks off with his hot cheerleader girlfriend.…
/r/seduction30/11/19 08:12 AM
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Call me a fool all you want but anyone with common sense knows what I’m saying is usually true and it could apply to men or women. That’s also why i said 9 times out of 10. It wasn’t a blanket statement but per the facts of life it does lean in one direction... sorry not sorry for speaking the truth here. I hope you’re also calling women fools as well. I hope you speak that boldly to the 99% of women because they stay rejecting guys they deem unworthy of their time because “he’s not hot enough”.…
/r/seduction30/11/19 08:03 AM
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I feel great! 😁
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:15 AM
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What i wouldn’t do is take advice from anyone in that subreddit lol
/r/seduction30/11/19 04:45 AM
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And if you had built rapport then you’d likely just exchange numbers like mature adults do lol
/r/seduction30/11/19 04:42 AM
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Just being a human*. Women do the same things just as much.
/r/seduction30/11/19 04:10 AM
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That last part. We're all unattractive to someone and we all have someone who will literally lust for us like we're an A list celebrity daily. It just takes longer for some of us to find the right person who loves us how we are.
/r/seduction30/11/19 04:08 AM
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A year or so ago I decided to "date down"(I hate this term and don't believe in it but I figure people will know what I mean if I use it). Dating via apps had me basing everyone off looks first and it was not working for me. I met this woman who had a great career, a mid six figure salary, was fun, the works but I personally had no physical attraction to her and it got worse when we ended up in bed. I tried to fight past it because she had so many other great qualities but it just didn't work. I…
/r/seduction30/11/19 03:55 AM
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Yes it is ok to be friends but 9 times out of 10 women like her will want more than a friendship with you because they don't get much attention and I think that's the context OP was speaking in here.
/r/seduction30/11/19 03:52 AM
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Playing hard to get is immature so if you want something real why aggravate him? Playing hard to get doesn’t work as well on men with experience these days. Women are easily accessible now via apps and even Instagram so most aren’t going to waste their time on someone who’s blatantly trying to mess with their mind.
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:26 PM
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or the people attending them.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:37 PM
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Lighting Designer.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:36 PM
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Night club is at the top of the list. I worked in one all summer as a lighting designer and met tons of women.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:42 PM
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Save it as NAME - LOCATION MET
/r/seduction07/11/19 04:22 PM
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At the end of the day doing it is all that matters. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” good job!
/r/seduction05/11/19 10:07 PM
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Everyone has to have their own experience even if your advice is accurate. Hearing it without living it will always leave a person wanting more. This is just like super rich people telling those without money that being a multi millionaire won’t make your life better..
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:01 AM
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Not really because I’m not leaving/ignoring with the Intent they chase back and see it as attractive.
/r/seduction02/11/19 12:15 AM
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I personally don’t have interest in women who have those types of expectations. If you see my interest and hope for normal adult interaction as needy good luck with your life. I don’t have time for that.
/r/seduction01/11/19 10:59 PM
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Would definitely be a Friday-Sunday type visit.
/r/seduction30/10/19 05:40 PM
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A couple things. Dating now is barely even dating in the traditional sense of the word so you’re gonna need to ask yourself what you really want moving forward. A lot has changed in the 8 years you were off the market. Casual dating now usually means having no strings attached sex and nothing more. If you’re more traditional and take things more seriously do yourself a favor now and stay off the apps. They create frustrated, jaded individuals. They are a cesspool of people males, and females pla…
/r/seduction22/10/19 04:51 AM
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I wouldn’t say they chase me but I do get approached and opened quite often by more attractive women.
/r/seduction20/10/19 11:38 PM
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I’ll be honest, this happens to me all the time but I think it’s because I’m not trying to do it. If you’re making a conscious effort to not pay attention to a woman I think the energy you’re putting out won’t translate well and the approaches won’t happen.
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:59 PM
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Usually but not always, especially in a professional setting. I work with a lot of women, and they touch hands and shoulders a lot and I’m very sure it’s coming from an endearing place and nothing more. On the other side there are some women who know exactly what there doing and they want to see you get worked up but they have no intention of it going any further.
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:54 PM
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I wouldn’t lose sleep over it. In my experience women like this reject as a play to feel powerful. She was out with you and in your place while in a full blown relationship. She probably just wanted to know she was desired by another man and wanted to see how far she could take it without actually cheating.
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:38 PM
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I definitely disagree with that. There are women who still believe in loyalty, they just aren’t found in the typical places.
/r/seduction15/10/19 11:51 PM
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I agree to keep it moving when she shows you those actions but they won’t always come back so don’t get your hopes up thinking that your silence and manliness will bring value. This mentality made more sense pre dating apps and social media validation but now it’s too easy for women to move on to the next thing without caring. And to be honest unless it’s just a sexual relationship why would you want to deal with a woman who leaves and comes back as she pleases? That’s a horrible character flaw.
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:41 PM
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I think men get to a certain point in life where we just become content with who we are and that in itself Leads to a ton of confidence which leads to women being more interested. We all know if we’re the guy who women turn and stare at on the street or whisper as he walks past or not. Most of us are not that but most women are just normal too so it all works out in the end.
/r/seduction15/10/19 08:10 AM
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I generally go for a positive outlook in life but really look at all the possible negatives if this were to go south on you whether it be straight up rejection or a relationship that ends. I’d say don’t shit where you eat unless you truly know this feeling is mutual. Some women like giving out signals just to see if you’ll bite. It validates them but they have no intention of being with you in any capacity and might stunt during rejection to validate themselves even more. I saw this happen a few…
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:48 PM
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I wish i was happily married. Dating today sucks lol
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:05 PM
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In my personal experience, every time I’ve done what you’re suggesting, women have then taken advantage even more at later dates because they know you’ll come when they call and that is not the type of person I’m going to put effort into. It’s a game for them, a power play if you will and they’re testing you to see how far they can bend you. I can’t speak for everyone but I definitely can tell the difference between an excuse and a legitimate reason for a cancellation. You’ve been married for 10…
/r/seduction14/10/19 06:07 PM
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Are you male or female? Just curious as to where your perspective is coming from. But in response to your statement - If I don’t plan to ever ask her out again and I don’t find those types of actions attractive why would I waste my time telling her any of what you suggest? Why would I go against what i believe in to validate a person who clearly doesn’t value me?
/r/seduction14/10/19 05:34 PM
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I don’t reward bad behavior from people who are just coming into my life. If she goes out of her way to play stupid “chase me” mind games and make bs excuses thinking she’s so high value that I’ll keep begging to see her at a later date, she clearly doesn’t respect me and I’m out. Im not going to waste my time and energy on a response that will just play right into their game even further.
/r/seduction14/10/19 05:13 PM
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I’m 100% with you. That’s why I haven’t bothered yet but i wanted to get other opinions to see if I’m missing something here. It seems like a disaster waiting to happen.
/r/seduction10/10/19 10:15 PM
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I agree with you. My friend is pressuring me almost daily asking me if I’ve messaged her yet as well. I told her why I hadn’t yet and she said “don’t be lame just do it” my friend is not the type to just match-make either so this is all coming from left field.
/r/seduction10/10/19 09:58 PM
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How is asking that ever going to come off in the right way? Just curious..
/r/seduction12/09/19 02:49 AM
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I don’t think it’s needy to want to know but it’s definitely a waste of your time. When someone cuts you off believe them and move on.
/r/seduction04/09/19 02:08 AM
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A lot of guys are shy or simply just don't want to be rejected again lol. There are fair points here but it's not as black and white as the question you're asking.
/r/seduction03/09/19 07:07 PM
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Hmm it really depends. Almost all of these dates have been via dating apps. Some have gone much better than others. The ones where great connection happened quickly ranged from hugs at the end of the night as I sent them on their way all the way to women who have came back to my place after the first date was over. Aside from that not much physical contact during these moments.
/r/seduction27/08/19 12:14 PM
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