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  • Daddy Issues / All Men Are Jerks: A poor role model in a father will lead to a woman not knowing what to look for in a man. She holds resentment towards all men because her initial experience with a man (her father) has tainted her perception. It can be hard for these women to get over past issues as she has been conditioned to think that all men are like the men in her past. It's not your job to be her therapist. She needs to Identify where her destructive behaviour stems from so she can prevent any form of self sabotage and not put another person/man on the receiving end of their own past trauma.

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  • Obsessed with Social Media: This is a big one! If she can't stop staring at her phone, she craves attention and validation. She likely has a huge following of losers who will feed her attention when her self-esteem is low. Girls who are addicted to Social media is the male equivalent of a guy being addicted to porn. It simulates the pleasure centres of our brain from a digital device and to rely on such thing's to boost self esteem up is never healthy for one's mental health.

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  • Guy Friend's: Girls who have a bunch (not 1 or 2 but a whole bunch) of guy friends are keeping their options open, by queuing up their “backup boyfriends.” These guys are too cowardly to ask a girl out because they don't want to risk getting rejected, so they are content to just be the fake guy buddy. Most women know this, but they love the self-esteem boost from the attention. Also if a women has a fair amount of guy friends. See it as a big indicator that she knows how to string guys along for her own benefit and she may end up doing the same to you.

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  • I always end up with bad boys: when you as a guy find yourself in the position of having to listen a women venting about her past love life, such as "I always seem to end up with the wrong guy" view it as her being a bad judge of character and if you still want to end up sleeping with her for whatever reason then view it as her actually describing her personal preference. To many guys end up acting as the reverse person of who she has slept with just because she's moaning about those type of guy's. Do what is counter intuitive and act like that bad boy she has gone for so many times and don't end up acting as a goody two shoes, white knight who is looking to change her perception of who she should be going after. It never works and don't allow yourself to end up being a venting trash can who she only see's as a disposable guy friend. Also don't end up viewing this type of girl as girlfriend material either, there will be a lot of drama involved.

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  • "I Don't Like to Talk About My Past": You'd be amazed at what some girls will hide from you and they will see nothing wrong with it. They will rationalize their behaviour with comments like, "I was a different person then." It's very important to look for a partner that is capable of taking accountability and ownership of their past mistakes without making excessive excuses till the point where she always portrays herself as the victim. If she's the victim in all her stories then she is most likely playing the victim to gain sympathy. Don't fall for it.

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  • She meets up with you and then reveals she already has a boyfriend: A big one. if she agrees to meet with you and then reveals she already has a boyfriend and that she only met up with you as a friend. Then she is most likely playing the field while in a relationship and even if you manage to form a relationship with her. She will most likely go behind your back and do the same thing she did with her ex.

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  • I have friends that are like that but not me: Women do not like to be judged for their actions not saying men do either but I've noticed a pattern of behaviour when ever mentioning bad qualities of a women to a women. If she agrees with you on certain things she will shift the judgement away from her and will put it onto her friends of having those qualities but not her. We as human being's take on the habits of those we hangout with the most so if women has friends that you see as toxic be alert to the fact that her friends have great amount of influence over her actions and same applies to men. ​

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  • Lying even when it's save not to lie: People who lie are hiding skeletons in their closet. Don't let curiosity get the best of you. Block and move on with your life. It is also a sign of a psychopath. Spend enough time with a habitual liar and watch how you develop trust issues in the future. lying is also a habit of not wanting to face reality or one's current life circumstances which isn't something that you should be looking within a panther. If you sniff out lies even small one's then it's best to move on to someone else. ​

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  • She’s a flake: We all know that trust is an important aspect of a strong, healthy relationship, and it’s hard to trust someone who flakes out on you all the time. Watch to see if your gal follows through on her commitments in all aspects of her life. If she’s a flake with her employer, friends, and family, chances are she’s going to be a flake with you and her life in general. ​

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  • Passive aggressive Behaviour and sly/subtle insults: Woman are the masters of showing anger without being direct about it. I remember being on a date with someone once and she revved her car as she dropped me off. I asked her by text if everything was ok. She said she was fine and we never hanged out again. Even if a relationship doesn't work out. It's very important to be in a relationship where you can openly express a problem so it can be resolved instead of being expected to read someone's mind. As for subtle insults. This can be perceived as being playful at first but the more you let go on for the more regular the subtle insult's get. Till she end's up verbally abusing you in public. Stand up for yourself and express disproval and state how you want to be treated. It would be best to move on if this type of behaviour persists. ​

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  • She is only focused on you externally: If the woman you are on date with is only focused on talking about your job, clothes and overall wealth. Then she may only be viewing you as an object that she can benefit from without thinking too much about you as a person and this could lead to you being in a relationship with a narcissist. If a woman focuses on you internally she will make comments on your personality such as you being caring, kind, playfully funny and so on. You want your future partner to be someone who values you for how you make them feel rather than how you can make them look and vice versa. ​

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  • Self entitlement: usually an attractive women will have have a large sense of entitlement and will over step and push personal boundaries. This is due to the amount of validation they are used to receiving from lower tier desperate men who over inflate a woman’s ego. So if you ever find yourself a position where your being taken granted for and not appreciated, without receiving anything in return and this does not imply anything sexual just anything to know that you are valued in that girls life then move on and make sure your not the one feeding a girls false sense of entitlement.