traviij Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How often do women approach men? Ya - with no alcohol involved, I’ve been approached 5 ish times I think? Alcohol is a different story	/r/seduction	22/01/22 04:53 AM
2	Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation? In her experience, guys probably are nice to her only because they want to have sex with her, otherwise there’s no reason for someone to be as nice as you were being. My advice is to walk away. That’s rude dude. I get it, she’s probably tired of that situation playing out over and over, but still - kick rocks lady, that’s incredibly pompous.	/r/seduction	02/11/21 01:07 AM
3	Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls. Completely agree - simply a mechanism to protect our ego’s from judgment / failure / rejection from beautiful women (the most painful form of rejection there is). Ok, we understand this! It’s brutal! it’s also invigorating, it’s also the most rewarding process confronting fear and watching it dismantle at the hands of your will to act. You’re in the game, not to mention you’re also talking to gorgeous creatures. There’s nothing that fails to improve in your life by taking action. There’s nothing…	/r/seduction	30/11/20 06:06 PM
1	Going to go out just to cold approach today. Focus on the moment. Humbly extend yourself, and you’ll receive what you give out. Be mindful of your intentions, recognize them - define them and adhere to them. Rejection is a guarantee - accept it as par for the course. Do no take one encounter as “the way of things” and allow it to inhibit further opportunities. Take breaks. Talk to men & cashiers. Set small goals such as “ask a girl I vibe with for her number” or “accept a rejection with a smile and a well wish.” Do this and you’ll having a…	/r/seduction	21/11/20 07:29 PM
3	My red flags Extremely helpful and spot on!	/r/seduction	18/11/20 03:58 PM
4	How do I become more "high energy" and "fun"? I have a serious disposition and need help bringing the energy up without turning into a clown. My advice: exercise. Perform CardioVascular training and lift weights on top of that. Do some diligent research on a routine, and start implementing one and see what transpires. Your time, energy and attention are finite resources. Disregard activities that don’t help you in the long run, and encourage activities that fill you up and pay you back.	/r/seduction	16/11/20 11:03 PM
2	Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys? The world is better than the confines of your room & what the World Wide Web has to offer. Get out there. Participate. Allow yourself to stumble out the gate and be awkward at times. Any skill & ability takes time and work, this is no different. It’s not a vindication or a knock against you, it’s part of the deal. Commit to the person you want to be completely. Make goals that challenge you, maybe even make you nervous. Once you understand that you desire it, it’s always in the back of your mind…	/r/seduction	16/11/20 02:53 AM
2	Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys? This is wonderful friend, thank you so much for this!	/r/seduction	16/11/20 02:04 AM
7	She Comes First - Male Seductive Mindset Have owned this book since I was about 18, Can confirm, it’s worth the read, and re-read, and the re-read after that, and after that :)	/r/seduction	03/11/20 10:57 PM
3	Have you ever seen a girl who is very attractive and you get all anxious and standoffish towards her? Even though you would love to get with her? It’s comments like these that are why I pour over every single thread; you could just stumble upon an incredibly powerful and valuable insight that could be exactly what you need to hear. This went straight into my journal man, and I’ll be rereading this for the time being! Many thanks sir.	/r/seduction	02/11/20 12:34 AM
10	Have you ever seen a girl who is very attractive and you get all anxious and standoffish towards her? Even though you would love to get with her? Fantastic explanation!	/r/seduction	01/11/20 02:37 PM
1	Do you guys have a lot of good friends? I think it’s partially due to the nature of our friends from childhood being built on the corner of the outlier reality of spending 8 hours a day, five days a week around each other for close to 13 years (school), and that’s discounting extra-curricular activities. That’s a lot of hours, a lot time, and to further it - it’s such a special time of experimentation that just simply can’t be replaced. Think about how much interaction that is and how that is not at all the norm once “life” starts. It…	/r/seduction	31/10/20 08:11 PM
1	What does being vulnerable mean ? Many spins on this - to me it’s acting on your core principles, and allowing the judgement of others to be as it may - not altering your sense of purpose / duty. This carries over into relationships pretty fluidly I would say.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 08:59 PM
5	Asked a girl out in person for the first time You’re laying the groundwork for a new normal. Well done lad, but don’t back off now. Keep churnin!	/r/seduction	29/10/20 08:54 PM
3	A Simple, but effective Test Invest in a rehab routine. 99.99999/100, all that is required is increasing strength/ mobility of muscles and joints to get back into workout mode. Invest time every day.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 12:39 AM
2	A Simple, but effective Test Lol, same here. Piercing words	/r/seduction	29/10/20 12:38 AM
1	A Simple, but effective Test If you’re a former football player, you’ll understand the importance of conditioning, and keeping your Bodyweight down so you can move faster/quicker. Perhaps look to alter your diet / training regiment so you look the way YOU WANT.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 12:37 AM
3	A Simple, but effective Test So basic, yet often brutally overlooked.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 12:36 AM
1	A Simple, but effective Test For anyone looking for a launch pad to look good in a t shirt, I have a book recommendation for you: Bigger Leaner Stronger by Mike Mathews has transformed many physiques, including my own.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 12:28 AM
1	A Simple, but effective Test Oooof. White tee? With some nice Chuka boots? I’m sending a message, and tucking that bad boy in. Lookin straight out of Grease Lightning.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 12:25 AM
1	A Simple, but effective Test Whenever there’s a problem, first ask yourself how is it that you’re not helping the problem. Love it man. Always take responsibility for your circumstances.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 12:22 AM
1	A Simple, but effective Test This is a great post. Are there any examples you could refer me toward, with regards to a voice tone test? I’d like to work on that.	/r/seduction	28/10/20 11:47 PM
1	The worst advice ever. There is like a million reasons they might forget to call you/ be shy themselves or just simply think you’re “meh” at first. Grab life by the balls and you call them! Its all on you. To play contrarian, I think putting the ball in their court, and telling her you’d like her to give u a call (after a meaningful conversation of course) is a power move as well. Certainly, I don’t think it can be the only move in the arsenal, but there are situations where that delivery comes off as so relaxed, confident + it’s quite a twist of fate / against the grain from the woman’s perspective (which I’ve learned is actually quite exciting for both the man and woman).	/r/seduction	22/10/20 07:32 AM
5	I just realized how much of a fucking pussy I am This.	/r/seduction	03/10/20 08:09 PM
4	"Fuck it" and today I passed my own shit test :) This is Hollywood man. Congrats - great example!	/r/seduction	03/02/19 08:02 AM
1	Do you guys approach on girls at the gym? I personally like to talk to folks any chance I get. It's impossible not to notice the same people that pile into the gym night after night. So, why not extend the opportunity for them to get to know you. Don't misunderstand what I'm saying here, It is NOT my main goal when I show up to the gym. That said, If I am genuinely interested in a lift someone is doing, or a particular tempo someone is using, maybe even a shirt or hat, I do not withhold a compliment. I can't think of a situation like th…	/r/seduction	31/10/18 12:06 AM
1	Would game still be effictive if every male would do it? I argue that PUA becoming main-stream is good not just for pick-up, but for society in general. Consider for a moment the large chunk of men coming into contact with, in essence the most valuable knowledge they can learn. I relate it to a sort of domino effect. We learn how to deal with women> we realize all along what we were taught was wrong>we correct it> we get girls> we enjoy life> our kids enjoy life, and the cycle goes on for generations.	/r/seduction	11/09/17 07:34 AM
1	After 2 years of just occasional browsing, I went for it Keeping the post interaction texts far removed is crucial. Immediately following up does not demonstrate to the girl that you really are all that. As for the follow up question; You shouldn't be focused on texting them. Live for the physical encounter. I have come to realize that women appreciate keeping it as playful as possible; it's humorous which is like crack for a great majority of women. This one time, after about say 20 or so minutes of back&forth banter, i just asked her, "its a (xyz) a…	/r/seduction	11/09/17 07:28 AM
1	Is pickup mainstream and saturated now? Why or why not, and if so is it a problem? Agree with you here. The gambits, the theories, and all that has certainly caught the attention of any horny adolescent kid with ambitions of bagging a Rachel McCadams look alike. To give my best crack at guiding you, I'd offer that it's more or less synthesizing the core principles of what drives women's attraction, and meshing that with your own personality. "Play the Numbers game, a good Wall Street Trader makes 700 calls a day." "If you give a guy 450 at-bats, He will get better." Just a few…	/r/seduction	04/09/17 09:35 AM