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Tremaparagon/r/seduction31/08/13 05:31 PM
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Inner Game Tremaparagon/r/seduction19/09/20 08:06 AM
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Nut in her then hop on Roblox
/r/seduction03/05/26 05:17 AM
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As a 169cm dude, hell yeah brother. Also, any variation of upright/seated/etc cowgirl
/r/seduction23/11/25 10:51 AM
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Yep, this is what it is, I think you are absolutely correct at pointing out this core issue. Which sucks but there is nothing to do but just manage and keep trying. I have had zero success with online dating or in general even pursuing IRL women who happen to also be heavy users of tinder/IG etc, being a short brown-ish autistic dude. Yet I've had a handful of gfs/fwb over time; the one commonality I've noticed with literally ALL of them is NONE were the type to use online dating nor were any bi…
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:48 PM
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I usually default to the firebathero https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pwmULCk0VRM
/r/seduction16/02/24 01:37 AM
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I think it's a great healthy stance to find beauty in a variety of women. Once we leave the conditioning of filters and sorting people linearly behind. Models are still hot but so is the charming girl next door. A nerdy looking girl can be cute in an adorkable way. etc
/r/seduction14/02/24 09:57 PM
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They're illusions, Michael
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:19 PM
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Yeah I feel like it's totally situational, as with most things in life. The comments you see online from girls complaining about being approached at the gym are probably from people experiencing random dudes pointlessly getting in their space while they are deep in the zone and offering unsolicited advice. Oof. But other times when there's like little event-related things going on at the gym it is a fantastic place to start developing rapport with people, or say I'm trying out some new equipment…
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:02 AM
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Guy here, most cases, with most people, agree. But I do think this line of thinking might only work best for people who fit into a mainstream type of appeal. I would consider myself "unconventionally attractive". For various attributes, I'm not the type that ever turns heads or instantly gets women interested just by being there. If I stuck strictly to "if it's not a fuck yes, it's a no" I would probably still be at 0 experience, kissless handholdless etc. Instead i've of course had a variety of…
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:47 AM
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Bruh 3 dates? I'd kill for that much of a window of time. The last dozen phone numbers I've gotten from daygame over last few months had a "window of time" of 2 texts in, after she says she can't make my first suggestion, just stops responding altogether, the end Frankly, I know the idea is to just shotgun approach and use statistics in my favor, and deciding to ghost early is their prerogative, but this is maddening long term, over time it's like all starting interactions are some kind of matri…
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:59 PM
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I don't have an answer to your exact question, and this is a bit of a tangent but your post reminded me. Didn't actually hook up with such a person, but had the great fortune of making solid connections/friendships with a couple of my favorite famous vocalists during/after a show on their tour (they have people in their lives anyway). As in, they've followed me back on social media and keep up with my posts (frankly commenting more interactively than 95% of people I've met since covid), and we'v…
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:21 PM
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Well maybe if you don't say it well. It can be fine if you are beaming and cheeful. Like it's similar to how I'd first think to respond, which is along the lines of "whoa there [lady], we need to stay on task, can't be having naughty thoughts of sexy sex all the time" - as long as it's clearly playful. The idea is to not seem caught off guard / totally disrupted by "getting called out" instead you are still totally comfortable in and charmingly steering the conversation any way you wish.
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:48 PM
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What I'm hearing
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:09 PM
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Well, I can't say anything against a guy or girl with a high count if they were safe about it and thus avoided the stds... good for them - But I do feel ya when it comes to the sentiment about there being nothing wrong with a low count. Maybe I'm a bit not-conventionally attractive so don't do well on apps, but people IRL have said I'm handsome charming etc (just not a reality TV clone). So my 'count' might still fit on both hands, but certainly those relationships or FWBs each had their amount …
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:52 PM
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Did you ever hear the tragedy of Darth Plagueis The Wise?
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:12 PM
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I've had this same thought. Though I always called it a "self-fulfilling prophecy"
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:56 PM
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Provocative sexual bios work really well on tinder (if you know how to be classy about it) I tried a pretty subtle innuendo once, and got my profile deleted and I was suspended a week. Meanwhile girls on there are advertising their OF or straight up just getting venmo'd hundreds per day for nudes
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:18 PM
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"sir this is a Wendy's"
/r/seduction28/04/21 05:04 PM
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does this explain my dayto day view walking around anywhere
/r/seduction25/12/20 11:26 AM
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Help! I did keto for 8 hours and now I look like this
/r/seduction24/12/20 06:07 AM
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Some people have an easier time staying at a calorie deficit tho if they've first taken the difficult plunge upfront by starting some kind of fast schedule or doing say keto to shift dramatically to a lower GI diet. There's no singular plan that's best for everyone. And indeed at the end of the day it's just calories that matter. But various diets/techniques are maybe a set of possible tools people can consider to see what's nice for them. I like keto for getting 200g protein a day while still b…
/r/seduction24/12/20 05:58 AM
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Yeah. Depending on who you are tho and level of care you're comfortable with, alternatives include say a cat or a bird. But regardless gotta want to care for them independently not just as a prop
/r/seduction24/12/20 05:51 AM
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ya
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:54 PM
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Joke ----------------> Joke ______ ur head ______
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:19 PM
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Me parsing through all this data and giving it careful analysis Conclusion: so you're saying you're single?
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:26 AM
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Intelligence, obsession passion, etc. I can see it
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:19 AM
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Thanks, you clarified for me well. Clearly some of OP's points are indeed on the more concerning side and worth keeping a keen eye out for, but like if I have a spark with a girl I'm not immediately gonna go BEGONE THOT to her once I learn she has a 4th guy friend or that her dad was a meanie during her parents' divorce.
/r/seduction18/11/20 08:59 AM
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Uh... I'm not sure I have ever met anyone that doesn't do at least a couple of these
/r/seduction18/11/20 04:11 AM
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Agree. Another way to think about it - rejection clears your mind. No more wondering about "what if", no more regret about "ugh I should have done some thing", no more anxiety over how things will progress. Just shedding of things holding you back, and clarity to move forward with conviction
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:36 PM
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DARG SEE HB9. DARG GO SAY HI ... SHE NO LIKE DARG :(
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:10 AM
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The plan? Get women to chase ME by focusing on math instead.
/r/seduction10/11/19 06:24 AM
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Work your way up, start small and over time keep pushing for more: 1) quick eye contact 2) add a smile. Not that bored pass by a colleague one, but more a sly grin. Make sure you draw out a complete smile with your eyes and all. I like to think of the cutest cat gif I have in recent memory to make a warm smile 3) start upping your eye contact time, once in a while throw in a wink if it seems right, etc. Also regardless of that you can work your way up in other ways. One specific example: 1) noti…
/r/seduction02/05/19 12:29 AM
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No one has asked if they are open? Could be a possibility. Either way if you aren't comfortable with that, or of course if she's just a cheat, then you shouldn't try to form a relationship with her. But if they are open and you can handle something casual, you could go for it
/r/seduction28/04/19 03:11 PM
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Hey that's a pretty good response! First thing that came to my mind would be to respond with something like "Really? I bet I can still hit the back of your throat. Loser has to buy dinner". Might be just as confident, or might just get me pepper sprayed ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction19/04/19 11:51 PM
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Holy shit is your life like this
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:01 PM
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Yeah, on top of the great comments here already I want to add that pickup is what you make of it. There's content on seddit that leans douchey and manipulative and there's content that's really about becoming your best self and attracting women through confidence and self-worth. It all just depends on balance and what you make of the different aspects of PUA. The latter is probably what many of us focus on; these days I know that people like me found and used seddit as a way to become more outgo…
/r/seduction07/12/18 05:10 PM
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Little did they know they just gave you another story to open sets with...
/r/seduction12/10/18 11:26 PM
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2/10 sharp knees would not bang
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:05 PM
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Sorry, I don't mean to shame. Don't take it personally! This thread reminded me of a dank 4chan meme. Sounds excellent what you have ahead of you; becoming a better version of yourself is a big aspect of all this and is also really the main thing I got out of /r/seduction myself. Go get 'em dude.
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:48 PM
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> walking through narrow aisle in store > girl's shoulder gently brushes past mine > Well looks like I'm off to bigger and better things folks. Cya later virgins!
/r/seduction24/07/18 01:38 PM
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*tips fedora and turns away, cape fluttering behind him
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:58 PM
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Thank god you came here for help and not become an incel, upvoted for visibility. True that. Looking for advice on a sub that is about becoming the best version of yourself that you can possibly be in order to attain infectious charm and cool confidence, well that's a lot better than ending up on a sub full of bitter woman-bashing. The fact that OP has been compelled to be proactive instead of passive aggressive is already a positive sign. Good on you OP and best of luck.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:12 AM
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There's a lot of hotties posting on various GW subs and other NSFW subs. Sure, many or most are promoting their premium content, but there's enough stuff posted directly on here to see that they're quite ass-hot spankable, or so to speak. Either way I think what they do is perfectly normal; it feels a little r/incels or r/justneckbeardthings to denigrate that entire community.
/r/seduction15/04/18 01:14 PM
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What's their grade? Are they bolted out trad? Top rope available or lead only? Just make sure you have your harness secured, double check your knots with your belayer, etc before attempting to ascend. Hopefully you can reach the top!
/r/seduction11/04/18 12:12 AM
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wearing a Cannibal Corpse shirt Oh well I don't see how that's an anomaly then, but carry on! \m/
/r/seduction28/01/18 08:02 PM
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In high school, a girl once tried to talk to me about Rubik's cubes, as it was my sport of choice (naturally), and apparently I just ignored her (I don't exactly remember this one). Another time, I got a text from a girl who acquired my number from a friend, asking what I wanted for my yearbook quote. I was too shy to respond to her, even though she initiated, so I asked a friend to text her back on my behalf. On a day I was feeling particularly suave, a girl who was considered by many to be the…
/r/seduction28/01/18 03:31 AM
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How can faults be real if our eyes aren't real?
/r/seduction14/07/17 07:19 PM
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"Ugh, this is literally the same puppy the last two guys tried to pick me up with!"
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:40 AM
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"Want to play with my one-eyed snake 😝 ? "
/r/seduction24/03/17 03:41 PM
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Maybe his scale goes to 11!
/r/seduction15/03/17 12:41 AM
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I am 5'6" and my parents are from south Asia, though I'm culturally American. I never got to the point where I was slaying women left and right, mostly because I've twice now found myself entering relationships quickly, and other than that had a FWB here and there. I'd say they're all 7-8. Just stick to what everyone else is saying. Don't get stuck in your head with all of this. I got the women I did not by trying to sell myself or somehow justify to them I was attractive to cancel out my height…
/r/seduction23/08/16 03:53 PM
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[FR] Had a good night with me pretty much on top of High Building #9 (HB9) when I saw HB10 and couldn't resist. I remembered the few second rule and made my approach while making eye/window contact. Thought I'd DHV a bit with my legs and try to get my feet on top of her for some good kino but then this AMOG named Gravity cockblocked me. Guess I should have had my wingman fly me over.
/r/seduction23/08/16 03:28 PM
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To take this further, go ahead and read "How to Win Friends and Influence People". As someone who was completely socially inept, it helped a lot.
/r/seduction23/01/16 06:23 PM
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Afterwards she gave him a $100% dollar bill.
/r/seduction21/12/15 01:00 AM
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DAE fuck bitches and get money? AMA!!!
/r/seduction13/11/15 04:14 PM
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Oh I don't doubt it; I could have used the word "language" in my post instead of "talk". I meant that what you said/how you said it has a lot of negative connotations. If we talked about it more like "Mediterranian girls are comfortable with casual sex and don't make you run in circles" then no worries.
/r/seduction21/09/15 03:38 AM
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lol This kind of talk is precisely why American girls feel like they need to put up a bitch shield in order to not be easy. It's counterproductive and doesn't help anyone.
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:16 PM
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Hey don't think too hard and just enjoy it man. I recently got into a FWB situation with an Italian girl and I love how straightforward she is and how she doesn't play games. Also I'm south Asian which is normally a handicap to pickup IMHO in the ststes, though I'm relatively pale and could pass as a super tan European, and she keeps telling me how her life goal is to get as tan as I am. So I think I'm sold on Europeans lol
/r/seduction20/09/15 03:46 PM
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Watch this and have some fun!
/r/seduction10/09/15 09:56 PM
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Menu -> Options -> Character -> Traits Then unclick the checkbox. I think it's just practice. It has a lot to do with being self-conscious. I used to be very shut-in but as I slowly started becoming more social I also have learned to be less embarassed and care less.
/r/seduction12/07/15 06:30 PM
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And sometimes you might be pleasantly surprised physically too! I can mention one experience... with a 7/10 on the surface, 5/10 face, clothes start coming off and then BOOM 10/10 boobs outta nowhere. Still think about those.
/r/seduction17/02/15 10:28 PM
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New goal: seduce girl with stamp collecting
/r/seduction01/01/15 09:10 PM
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It honestly depends on the girl. For many women who want mystery and excitement you are probably friendzoning yourself, but for others (generally those who are less casual about sex and relationships) the added camaraderie and comfort from a friendship may help them let you come closer and become something more. I say this because my current LTR started as friends through classes and because of never feeling like strangers we've come a long way fast. Of course if you're looking at bar/club scene…
/r/seduction02/10/14 02:46 PM
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Did you tip your le fedora at her?
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:45 AM
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Don't be discouraged. If you don't try, you won't find someone. I used to be extremely socially awkward and I had no self-confidence. My field is extremely male-saturated and the few girls in it seem to all be taken. Things might have been bleak for me. You would think that in my case "there's pretty much nothing to do". But I found seddit, and took time to make myself better. I faked being outgoing until I was goddamn outgoing. I stopped giving a shit about "ratio" and the "odds aren't good, go…
/r/seduction03/02/14 05:37 AM
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"You don't have to text me you know. I'm sitting right here."
/r/seduction24/12/13 11:17 PM
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Good on ya mate :)
/r/seduction22/08/13 06:39 PM
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These are all pretty funny. One thing to consider though is use something referencing a specific conversation you had. It's more powerful than generic pet names.
/r/seduction20/08/13 03:53 PM
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Of course, being congruent with your frame is the most important thing. My suggestion came to mind because it's my kind of humor, and would fit with the kinds of things I'd usually say, but this isn't true for everyone.
/r/seduction19/08/13 08:15 PM
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First thing that comes to mind is the agree and amplify rule. Say something like "oh, don't you already know, we're married with three kids!". Of course this depends on saying it well and with confidence. You could risk being creepy. If you already have a cocky-funny vibe, this will work, if you were really reserved so far in the interaction then it would be out of place.
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:11 AM
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Some cautionary advice: Other people have given good advice on things to do moving forward, but for someone who is soooo far behind, it can be very easy to crash. So I'd like to make a specific point about something you should keep in mind when you're learning. What you have to understand is: Baby steps baby steps BABY STEPS!!!11!!one!1!!! Tyler Durden explains it well, but I can't find the specific video, so I'll give a brief summary. Basically, you have to remember to appreciate every little b…
/r/seduction14/08/13 02:01 AM
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Inspirational post man
/r/seduction27/03/13 08:50 PM
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Watch out, we got a philosophy major over here.
/r/seduction27/03/13 06:23 PM
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I seriously did not see that line coming. Well done.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:31 AM
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That'll get her hot
/r/seduction23/03/13 03:37 AM
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I love when people do that and I try to do it myself.
/r/seduction26/02/13 05:09 PM
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Physical contact. I answered instead of saying "www.google.com" like a douche, but seriously read the sidebar here for all important terms and whatnot.
/r/seduction25/02/13 10:00 PM
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Adding this to my reading list. Thanks
/r/seduction05/02/13 09:08 PM
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I like your glasses
/r/seduction04/02/13 05:26 PM
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Chicks dig elo!
/r/seduction01/02/13 06:03 PM
2

"We travel the same path"
/r/seduction25/01/13 10:03 PM
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I actually really like Tyler Durden. One of my more favorite instructors, up there with the likes of Cajun.
/r/seduction25/01/13 12:49 AM
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This. I hate most of the contestants and thus pretty much every episode but Cajun's was so good.
/r/seduction24/01/13 02:49 PM
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Have you read the dicarlo escalation ladder? The first few steps should make leading up to it feel more natural and not out of place.
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:13 AM
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"It's ok, you seem responsible enough to change my diapers"
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:47 PM
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Obviously a lot of these depend on the situation... some just seem weird without context. Number 13 is hilarious though, I'll definitely use ones like that.
/r/seduction19/01/13 04:18 AM
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First of all, go over what coffeeandtheinfinite and BillClinton said. "You have it in you to be happy." That's the important stuff now, think of what you're grateful for, focus on what is positive about your life and embrace it. What's important is winning over yourself before you can win over someone else. Second (moving beyond you now) - I'm going to refer to one of Tyler Durden's talks here: take baby steps. He tells the story of a forum poster who goes out every night, unnaturally attempts t…
/r/seduction17/01/13 06:33 AM
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Or magic bullets, same idea
/r/seduction16/01/13 03:37 PM
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Continue not giving a fuck. Utilize it. Have fun and be a cocky asshole about it if she brings it up (shit test respond). "Sorry, you look way to short for me" "Yeah I'd kick your ass at Limbo, I'll take you on right now" "I couldn't even wear heels with you in public" "Alright, let's go shopping for some heels for ME. You can lift me up so I can look into the shop windows. I'll pick you up at seven" "Aww you're so cute little guy!" "Oh yeah? Wait 'till you sleep with me and see me in my kitten …
/r/seduction16/01/13 01:28 PM
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I'm south Asian as well, and in my experience it doesn't matter if you can get out of your head as in Harbinger's point. Basically once you can say IDGAF, and your inner game is good, you won't even remember race, and because of how diverse society is getting, neither will anyone else. Once I was conversing with a friend who had recently gone to a Korean concert in the states and he said "ok, have you ever been the only white person in an entire concert before?". I kind of just looked at him and…
/r/seduction16/01/13 01:11 PM
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I do not. However, I still feel that this mentality persists in many women. I could approach pretty much anyone, but even if a guy and a girl hit it off really well, if the girl has this mentality, the situation might not work out. She might convince herself that there should be no escalation between you two even if you are building attraction.
/r/seduction23/11/12 07:25 PM
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Good for you. I'm at this same stage now where I am just getting comfortable talking to ANYONE regardless of gender/interests/situation etc. since I was a complete shut-in for all of high school. Good luck with D; try thinking of some playful way to flirt with her between your jobs. acartoontiger is right about the knowing where she works thing. I'm still making silly mistakes like that but it's probably no big deal and you should keep pursuing D.
/r/seduction10/09/12 08:03 PM
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I see what you mean and I am interested to see what other people think. I can think of clever responses to almost anything, but it never feels natural to me. I can respond with something cheeky with confidence and a wonderful smile but it always feels contrived and pretentious. Maybe that will change as it becomes part of who I am without changing who I am (you can still be passionate about all the same things and have the same interests while becoming more confident and outgoing). Now I am a to…
/r/seduction02/09/12 08:00 PM
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LOL I was a clueless turd in high school. Was once talking to a girl late after class when pretty much no one was there unless they were involved in some kind of school activity. We were both waiting for our parents so we could go home. The entire time she is pulling close to me, eye-fucking me, reaching out to me and holding my shoulder with her hand. We talk for like 10 minutes when my ride arrives and she says in the most porno-esque voice I've ever heard "oh, you're not gonna leave me here a…
/r/seduction29/08/12 07:45 PM
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Apparently the definition changes by geography. I grew up in a place where hooking up meant explicitly sex using genitals. I moved to college in a place where it meant making out, and nothing else. I was a bit surprised when I first heard a story about a freshman girl a couple years back who got revenge on her boyfriend (for something, maybe cheating, I don't remember) by hooking up with seven guys in a single evening. I was flabbergasted for a while until I figured out what they meant.
/r/seduction29/08/12 07:37 PM
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This would take a lot of confidence but you can use the frat business in your favor. Now I'm pretty introverted so I couldn't tell you the best way to build confidence, but I am also not in a frat so I can relate. If a woman gives you shit about not being in a frat, neg her and take control of the conversation. "Well I don't really need to pay for friends, come to [X event] with me and I'll show you why I don't care for frats" or "Oh, you're looking for mr. Frat prince charming to come sweep you…
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:40 PM
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As someone who made a gay friend last year... FUCK YEAH
/r/seduction25/08/12 09:47 PM
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I can't wait to get fall semester started man. I wasted my first year of college being ani-social but after my summer reading here I'm anxious to get back. Good on you for trying a group of three. Stories like yours inspire me more than the f-closes because I know I am just barely getting to be sociable and there are other people like me out there.
/r/seduction25/08/12 01:51 AM
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No DD's? But I love big tits!
/r/seduction25/08/12 12:05 AM
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I'd say on the surface, treat everyone equally with the basics. Acknowledge what all of them say, respond playfully to everyone. You want to genuinely be friends with her friends. This opens the group up to you and makes her friends less likely to shut you out. However, only do the subtler, more important things with the girl you are interested in: kino, long eye contact. Tease her more, look for opportunities to put you arm around her etc. Just dont rush that.
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:37 PM
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OP just refer to the dilated pupils as your eye-boners. That'll have 'em gushing in no time.
/r/seduction22/08/12 09:30 PM
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You'll do anything? Whip out dick and post results. On a more serious note: I am a complete nub, but if anything I'm sure you should just keep trying. I sometimes look back on failures and cringe, and tell myself how retarded I am, but then I catch myself, think over what I did and how I can improve on it. So what you were nervous and felt out of place. Do it a hundred times and you'll feel in the zone and in control.
/r/seduction22/08/12 08:07 PM
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Nice point. Just be careful you don't come off as a sexual predator telling everyone they have nice tits lol.
/r/seduction21/08/12 09:53 PM
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I think back on times like this in my short life and cringe despite how many more opportunities I'll have. I guess that's partly why I started reading seddit, so future me isn't the embodiment of oblivious S.A.P.
/r/seduction18/08/12 12:30 AM
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That's in-state. Out of state it'll be $20-$45k year.
/r/seduction15/07/12 12:18 AM
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" If you are confused about how the hell you're supposed to dance with a girl without rubbing your penis on her: Just be relaxed, fun and flirty. A little goofy maybe?" My first thought: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSAUa3QY-kE
/r/seduction07/07/12 01:58 AM
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