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Yes they settle. Love and romance is a young persons game. I envy the couples who got together young and stayed together. They have something that couples that got together older don’t and won’t have
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:02 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:39 AM
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It is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:40 PM
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U fell in love with him after cheating on him. U didn’t cheat on him while in love with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:39 PM
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Most can’t see past their own perspective. Like children. Solipsism. That’s what it means. Theyre innately like that. Evolved that way. Are there exceptions? Sure. But I’m talking in generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:45 PM
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What do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:45 PM
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No. Reason: women’s innate solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:44 PM
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Boobs .butt. In shape
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:02 PM
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No. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:47 PM
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I never argued that women wouldn’t feel bad. That wasn’t my point. AT ALL. And again, your comment is from your own feminine perspective. U can’t see past that. Which makes this conversation pointless and confirms what I keep saying to u about u. And at the end, of course, an insult. Not surprised. Men accept that women do/feel/perceive things, differently from us. We even joke about it. Why do women have such a hard time accepting the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:02 AM
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From men, not necessarily. From women, absolutely. U, being a woman, u know that. That’s why u think it’s the same way the other way around. But it’s not. The same way A man’s success makes him more attractive to women, but a woman’s success doesn’t necessarily make her more attractive to men. This is kind of like that. Men and women are different. Built differently, wired differently. We have completely different biological imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:54 AM
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No, that’s not why they initiate divorce. I’ve looked into this topic at nauseam . But I’ve kind of accepted that women will leave at any time for any reason and feel completely different about u out of nowhere. So it’s no biggie. I just act and plan accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:28 AM
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I wish those 2 were the only allowable reasons for divorce. If the only reasons were abuse or infidelity, the percentage would be lower. But any other reason, is breaking a vow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:19 AM
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I don’t understand periods. Or giving birth. Or crying over minuscule things. Or taking care of a bunch of people the way nurses and teachers do. Or what maternal instincts feels like. Just like u don’t, and can’t, understand what I’m saying. And that’s ok. We’re different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:47 AM
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https://www.npr.org/sections/thesalt/2015/11/13/455883665/cdc-more-women-than-men-are-obese-in-america-and-gap-is-widening And every time I go to the gym, there are WAY more men than women. I’ve been lifting for 15 years and this is the case in every gym I’ve gone to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:49 PM
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Fat/chubby shouldn’t be the average woman. This country is sick. It’s not hypocrisy unless the men you’re talking about are also overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:37 PM
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Women don’t value looks more than men. Idk why ppl are saying that. They’re pickier and more entitled in general, but they don’t value looks more than men. Maybe ppl say that because dating apps where there is nothing else to go off of
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:45 AM
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People. Women spend their time thinking about, talking about, and being about people. Women tend to be more interested in people, and men tend to be more interested in things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:13 PM
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This happens ALL THE TIME
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:36 AM
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Lol stop making stuff up. College educated professional EMPLOYED women are much more likely to initiate divorce. The research clearly demonstrates that. You’d know if you actually studied this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:54 AM
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Idk who that is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:54 PM
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Wage gap is a myth that has been debunked anyway. -maternity leave -men do the dangerous, disgusting jobs that women don’t want to do. And those pay well -the workaholics are mostly men -most entrepreneurs (highest paid occupation in this country) mostly men. List goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:29 PM
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She’s a hoe. Bang her and move on. Don’t let yourself get attached to her
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 03:56 PM
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Another woman seeing the world only thru her own perception of it. Expected. Yes men can. A man can a absolutely adore, and be willing to die for his girl, go sleep with 5 bimbos, and still feel the same way. Doesn’t make it right, but men can. We’re wired differently. Sorry that makes u feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:17 PM
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Because a woman (generally speaking) cannot cheat on her man and still love him, respect him, and be just as attracted To him as before. It changes everything. Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:22 AM
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Not as important as the black pillers think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:01 AM
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I agree with his findings. It’s been a theory of mine for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:25 PM
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Being red pill just means understanding intergender dynamics and accepting them. That’s all it means. Nothing more. Nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:02 PM
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34M Huge difference. More respect. Acknowledgement. Kindness from women. Better Job opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:50 PM
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No they’re not being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:18 AM
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It’s not fake. Either way I advise most men to never praise or compliment a woman (until after she likes him) for this very reason. It’s not appreciated or believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:55 AM
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The mainstream is hostile towards men period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:30 PM
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Good looking man here. False. Your behavior and how u make her feel come before that. Game comes first.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:11 PM
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Just read the title. Answer: no. A girl doesn’t know what you do for a living when u walk up to her. A high status job would help with retention. But not necessarily acquisition. Unless u meet her at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:13 AM
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-companionship -sex -someone to go through life with -someone to dedicate your life to But definitely not happiness. Marriage has always been about duty and commitment. Until the hippies decided in the 70s that everything is supposed to make u happy. And since then relationships work less and less. Life itself isn’t about being hApPy. Happiness is a fleeting emotion that descends upon you occasionally if you’re lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:10 PM
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A girl writes you off as creepy if she’s not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:39 AM
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Yeah it’s always been like that. It’s how women evolved. It’s subconscious. They’ll always fight you on this though. The more a woman needs a man the more she “loves” him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:34 PM
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Most chicks give their first time to a loser. This is stupid. Don’t dump her
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 09:22 PM
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Yes. 100% yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:15 PM
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Anything that doesn’t go with a feminine social order is considered jerk-like. For a girl to exercise her natural mating strategy of seeking the best mate possible and leave you for a better man, is fine. Your fault. U didn’t step up. She deserved better. But for a guy to exercise his natural mating strategy of seeking variety, also your fault, you’re a jerk. It’s just the times we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:21 PM
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Brainwashing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:24 AM
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Well men settle more. They get who they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:20 PM
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I was a bartender for years. I’ve seen average to ugly dudes with beautiful women. When u observe the interaction, they’re cool and funny. Or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:05 PM
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Na. Not really. Not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:25 AM
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Depends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:04 AM
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Without knowing what u look like? That’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:10 AM
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Maaaan get your ass inside.
/r/seduction19/06/22 04:25 AM
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This is true, but men don’t think the way women do. See how you mention respect? A woman cannot be attracted to a man she doesn’t respect. For example, if a man is very physically attractive, but loses a woman’s respect, that woman will no longer be attracted to him. With men, if we’re not attracted, we can feel anything for the woman. No matter how much we like her as a person or respect her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:55 AM
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Men just cannot love a woman they’re not attracted to. I’ve tried. It’s impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:17 AM
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We all knew. But women called us insecure, Intimidated, and other words of nonsense for it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:15 AM
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Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:27 PM
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Way too much
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:37 PM
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U never know. It might. I’m not Mgtow though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:01 PM
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They’re not technologically advanced enough yet. When they are, it’ll be hilarious to see women scrambling and competing against a woman who doesn’t age, is always in shape, is always ready for sex, doesn’t nag or complain, doesn’t get pregnant, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:51 PM
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This post was obviously written by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:49 PM
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Men evolved to use violence and logic to solve their problems. Women evolved to use emotional manipulation and deception to solve theirs. Men have an innate need to feel useful Women have an innate need to feel like a good person. Boys in middle school = punch each other Girls in middle school = spread rumors about each other Women’s go to response when something doesn’t make them fEeL gOoD is ALWAYS: -shame -insults -guilt That’s why. Men are held accountable for everything, women are allergic …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:47 PM
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Just read the title. FACTS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:43 PM
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Sad part is yeah… they kind of actually expect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:54 AM
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They also say they don’t want to be treated like property. But will literally leave and marry another guy if you’re not ready to get married and she is. Fucking real estate. “Better sign this contract or someone else will!”. Whereas a guy will patiently wait if a woman isn’t ready to get married and he is. So don’t worry about what women wanna be treated as. They make no sense. Worry about what you want. They don’t worry about what men want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:53 AM
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100% yes.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:35 AM
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The bad thing is women find most men unattractive.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:29 AM
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Bruh… it wouldn’t have “ruined your lives”. U sound dramatic af right now. U met a bitch u grew to love. Coulda kept that.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/22 05:13 AM
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They’re hypergamous as long as they can be. Eventually they have to kind of just stay with whoever will have them. As a Man U should be constantly self improving anyway to keep their shitty nature at bay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:14 AM
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I like short Hispanic looking women with curves. Think Pocahontas. Selma Hayek. Selena. Sofia vergara. Etc. Not fat. Curves. In the real sense of the word curves. Not the new age excuse for eating Twinkies sense of the word curves. It has never changed over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:45 PM
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All women need to see this post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:30 PM
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Finally men will have reproductive rights for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:16 PM
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Thank u. It’s stressful but worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:11 PM
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Definitely not drop shipping. But yeah I have fulfillment centers, a prep team, virtual assistants, etc. But I only sell new things. Nothing from thrift stores or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:16 AM
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That’s awesome. Yeah Man U should do whatever u can to be able to be free. I sell shit online…. a LOT of shit. Been doing that 9 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:46 PM
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What type of business do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:19 PM
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Same here. I used to be a bartender at nightclubs. So both my serious relationships were with drop dead gorgeous women. But u know what? It might be cultural. I’ve spoken to women in Colombia and Cuba (I’m Cuban) and they’re so much nicer. And hot. I think I might just need to leave the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:41 PM
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Yeah it’s pretty bad. IF they’re attractive. If I could fall in love with a woman who looks like trash, I totally would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:26 PM
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Yeah I’m the same as you. 6’1. Jacked. My own online business which I’ve completely automated. No kids. Never married. Etc. Dating sucks. Women GROSSLY overvalue themselves. It’s weird. The sense of entitlement they seem to have bugs me. When I see that, I just ghost them. I think social media and pathetic thirsty dudes have ruined it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:14 PM
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Target demographic is attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:54 PM
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I’m above average in a lot of ways. Tall, in shape, light eyes, beard, all that. Yes it’s hard. Rarely worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:03 PM
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Yeah the right to have financial abortions should definitely be a thing. Men have zero reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:53 PM
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Women treat men as disposable. Replaceable. Etc. Women just throw men away. Initiate breakups. Divorces. Etc. But they dont like it when it’s done to them. Surprise surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:03 AM
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Women don’t really care about what is important to men. They haven’t in decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:04 PM
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-it’s unproductive. Which subconsciously signals less resources from him to her to her brain. -it’s not her getting the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:40 AM
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This has to do with the whole bad chimp good chimp. It’s an evolution thing. Women can’t afford to feel like a bad chimp. Like a bad person. It would’ve been detrimental to their survival millennia ago. Women need to feel like they’re a good person. So they blame shift and rarely (if ever) take accountability. Men’s need is to feel useful. Not good or bad. Just useful. For the same reason. Survival thousands of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:23 PM
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I don’t date the “boss babes” (aka headache) types. I make 6 figures. I’m fine. You’re missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:01 AM
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Yup. He’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:40 AM
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Bro don’t bother. She’s just feeling feelings. Your (very sound) logic will do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:40 AM
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No it’s just that you’re used to women being able to expect anything and everything from men while women are not allowed to expect anything from them. You’ve been brainwashed. Men are people too and men have needs as well. Different than women’s needs but the needs are there. No man wants a masculine, argumentative/combative woman who doesn’t admire or respect him. It isnt attractive. It’s a huge turn off and just makes a man’s life more difficult than it needs to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:39 AM
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Yup. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:36 AM
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Yup. 100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:36 AM
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This. Yes. Again, a (straight) man wants to be with a woman. Not another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:35 AM
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The wife probably behaves in a masculine fashion. A straight man wants a woman. Not another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:33 AM
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That women were the compassionate gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:51 PM
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-happy -funny -intelligent -confident -competent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:22 PM
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I’m a guy. I am a gym rat. I’m attractive, muscular, and tall. I see a lot of cute girls at the gym. But I don’t wanna be “the weirdo” (when a girl isn’t interested in you she automatically writes you off as a weirdo) who bothers her at the gym. So I don’t. Send a signal. Look at him and smile. Or smirk. Something.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:59 PM
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Cluster b chicks always have fiancés. It’s like a super power
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:27 AM
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There is no such thing as a “red pill ideal of a woman”. There is an ideal woman though. Attractive. Fit. Feminine. Supportive. Loving. Respectful. Just like there’s an ideal man. Well off. Tall. Handsome. Charismatic. Kind. Respectful. Strong both mentally and physically. Funny. The thing is, both of those archetypes were more common once (maybe except for the well off part). But not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:12 AM
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You found a great fiancé (if that’s even true) because most (straight) men care about what’s attractive to women. Luckily for you guys. God forbid u out in any effort besides just existing and believing in “letting things happen naturally”. It’s not magic, it’s this. Most men caring what’s attractive to women. Effort. Let me guess, next you’re gonna say you approached him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:42 AM
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Never said it did. Just remember that u don’t get to decide what’s attractive to men. Men do. And vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:02 AM
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Oh god. U again? Yeah fine whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:07 PM
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Lmao ehhh…. Can u try to fit it into a sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:02 PM
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Right. They’re not ugly to their partner. That’s my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:52 PM
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The name calling says it all. Yeah you’re right. Congrats. U won.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:51 PM
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Ok. You’re right. Glad I found you. Thank u for clearing everything up and disapproving a lot of peoples life’s work. People lie on studies. Great. Let’s disregard all science. Since we can’t trust studies. Thank you for giving me this new found freedom. Maybe gravity is a myth. I’ll try jumping off a building. Maybe women do like feminine men. I’ll try crying and whining in front of a hot chick. Maybe it’ll score me major points.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:43 PM
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“Ugly” is subjective. “Dad bod” is subjective. Perception is subjective. What I may consider ugly may be attractive to another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:40 PM
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Lol why do women always desperately look for the outliers when given a generality? It’s a bell curve. Yes there are outliers. That’s not what this sub is about. And even with gay people, there is polarity. Masculine and feminine. Without polarity, there is no attraction. Look, all debating with me is gonna do is frustrate you. Because you’d like your personal ideas to be fact. I’ve studied a lot regarding this subject. I’m in my mid 30s. I’m not a kid. If u dedicate as much time as I have to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:39 PM
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That’s because you’re masculine yourself. You’re not feminine. Which is ok. Your prerogative. Taller doesn’t mean better than u. But in the wild, for survival, you’d do better with a bigger stronger male with your best interest at heart. Your hind brain knows that. Why is it so difficult for everyone here to understand that all of this is subconscious. Based on procreation and survival. Not logical. Not conscious. In the wild, with no laws and no 911, u would not be “putting them in their place”…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:22 PM
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All attraction triggers (for men and women) are subconscious. All based on survival and procreation. The progress we’ve made doesn’t matter to our hind brains. Humans have existed for hundreds of thousands of years. Established society with progress hasn’t been around that long by comparison. That part of our brains hasn’t evolved much. It hasn’t had a chance to. Takes a long time. If this concept is too difficult to understand, I can’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:19 PM
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Wtf is FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:52 PM
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Times change. Instincts don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:51 PM
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No birth control in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:50 PM
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Let’s say everyone’s attractive. No one is ugly or fat. Ok great. A successful woman would still prefer a man even more successful male. A successful male, wouldn’t care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:51 PM
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In the wild you’d get raped or killed without him. Also more likely that starve without him. Men hunt the animals. Men fight the other men. U cannot provide enough calories or protection for your offspring in the wild by yourself. We’re talking babies and toddlers here. Remember, you get pregnant, you get stuck with the baby. This is why women are pickier than men when selecting a mate. They have much more to lose in the case of a pregnancy. This is all documented stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:49 PM
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I never said we’re superior, I said when she deems a man superior to herself, it attracts her. A woman wants to be able to look up to a man. Ideally. A man doesn’t have this need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:46 PM
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It’s just instincts…. Never mind. Ok u win. I’m wrong you’re right. Thank u so much for setting me straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:43 PM
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It’s a bell curve. Never denied that. I speak in generalities. Bell curve = generalities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:59 AM
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Do you feel safe with him? If the answer is no, you do not love him. He doesn’t “feel safe” with you. Men don’t “feel safe” with women. This feeling safe thing is what I mean. From a survival standpoint, u deem him as…. more than you. In the ways that matter in the wild. This is all just animal shit. Humans can still Make decisions. I can marry an overweight girl with no hips, no butt, no boobs. I can make that decision. But the part of me that wants to procreate will still draw me to the small …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:58 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:51 AM
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I never said masculine traits were superior and feminine traits were inferior. Nor do I feel that way. They’re just different and serve different (often opposite) purposes. We ARE different. If you’re a male and you take female hormones for 5 years the way you behave and look will change. If you’re a female taking male hormones for 5 years the way u behave and look will change. Because. We. Are. Not. The. Same. We are opposites. Penis goes in vagina. Stick and hole. Those are opposites. Almost, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:49 AM
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In a survival sense, he is better than you. In nature, he’d be a valuable resource to you and your offspring. The female subconscious knows and seeks this. Times change. Instincts don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:34 AM
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Subconsciously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:33 AM
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U are. U just don’t realize it. You’re also 35. Your standards most likely have dropped. At least a bit. Hypergamy isn’t about looks. It’s everything. Every woman is attracted to men she deems superior to herself. Taller. Smarter. Richer. Bigger. More social status. Etc. It’s nature. Women date across and up dominance hierarchies. Men date across and down. A man making 300k a year has no problem dating a kind and hot waitress making 50k. A woman making 300k a year CANNOT BE HAPPY dating a waiter…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:14 AM
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Correction, every woman IS hypergamous. But that doesn’t mean she’ll cheat on her guy every time she sees a more attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:10 AM
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Times change. Instincts don’t.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 04:54 AM
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Only if she doesn’t like you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:12 AM
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*lose Answer: hooker
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:10 AM
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What do you do? I’m an amazon seller. 8 years and counting. All FBA. And an investor
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:03 AM
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How old are u?
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:54 AM
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Unfortunately, UNFORTUNATELY, I can’t emphasize “unfortunately” enough, men have always been driven by their desire for women. Wars. Businesses. Money. They all have female validation somewhere in there. There would be no Ferrari or Lamborghini if women didn’t exist. Men don’t need much to be content. Women for the most part can’t be content. So while the logical and rational thing would be to just check out and avoid women altogether in the current state, our biological urges and need for human…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:37 PM
3

Women are wired to leave. Never get too attached to where u can’t walk away in the blink of an eye if u need to
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:24 AM
1

I mean... it’s kinda true
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 09:55 PM
5

No. It’s not weird
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:03 AM
1

U mentioned in your comment what the problem is. We’re damned if we do and damned if we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:41 PM
4

I know. I was responding to the “most healthy individuals” thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:45 PM
-1

Correct. I was just responding to the other comment. Idk what a revenge fantasy is. I can send pics if u want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:44 PM
5

Not worth marrying. The hot ones are entitled and/or combative. The kind and cool ones and ugly or overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:41 PM
1

They’re nicer. Easier to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:36 PM
10

A lot of us can date a lot of u by 35. I’m 33. But u guys aren’t worth keeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:35 PM
8

Higher than it’s ever been
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:31 PM
23

Exposure therapy. Ignore their beauty
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:50 PM
0

Everything would be much better
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:50 PM
0

For girls, sure. Not For men. Men either cheat, or don’t. Girls tend to be more easily swayed by their social circle. Herd mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:14 PM
1

U ever remarry?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:46 AM
2

Yeah what’s crazy is they get pickier too. More entitled. More demanding.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 09:53 PM
2

Having an attractive gf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:07 AM
1

These days? Not much. Temporary. Fleeting. Pointless after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:45 PM
4

It doesn’t influence how much a man loves or is attracted to his woman. Not the same the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:05 PM
2

It’s not. A satisfying lifelong LTR is.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 08:46 PM
1

At least u had that experience. U don’t miss her? 15 years is a long time
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:31 PM
7

I’ve been working from home for 8 years. What do u do?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:12 PM
-2

No. It doesn’t. It’s bullshit. U get a little extra boost at like 30, 31, 32, but that’s it
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:12 PM
2

I’ve done this before. It’s great. U can force this kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:46 PM
2

The light switch effect is the worst
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:36 PM
5

Regret. It’s never ending torture.
/r/seduction11/04/21 05:49 PM
4

Meh... yeah I guess. Volunteering doesn’t hit other attraction triggers like tending bar would though.
/r/seduction11/04/21 10:09 AM
15

You were younger plus social proof/calibration. Made it easy. I was a bartender (business owner now) and it was the easiest thing ever. Actually met my drop dead gorgeous wife that way. We didn’t get married. And she left because I didn’t marry her after 6 years. But that’s not the point.
/r/seduction11/04/21 08:38 AM
12

Happy to see the comments. I’m glad everyone gets it. It’s scary how common it is. And getting out of an “abusive relationship” too. Every girls ex was abusive
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:22 AM
2

What is it with all u weirdos saying you’re gay on here? OP did great.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:05 AM
1

That was a great answer. This is a pointless question. Good Job.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 06:04 AM
2

Who said that to you?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 10:29 PM
1

Early 30s and it’s eating away at me too. I actually had “the one” for most of my 20s.
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:03 PM
0

U didn’t find one you liked enough to settle down yet?
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:03 PM
2

It’s a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:44 PM
13

Takes us longer to get over breakups. I’ve never been married/divorced. I’m 33. I was in an LTR for most of my 20s. Ended when I was 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 11:33 PM
2

Yeah. There are. Under 25 usually. With fathers.
/r/MGTOW09/04/21 10:37 PM
12

Some? A lot of them do.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:32 PM
2

Got one. But it’s meh. Kind of hard to beat the one I had for 6 years. It’s all pretty meaningless now. I don’t like what I see when I look around. Society lied to us. Told us we had time. Told us to prioritize success and money over all. Bad advice. We don’t have time. And the money is empty. I’ve made it. I know. The older timers had it right. Get married in your 20s and then build together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 10:28 PM
3

33 here. Gets harder bud. Unless u like single moms or fat chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:35 PM
2

Current Age?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:32 PM
3

Harder to do when it’s after like 5-6 years and you’re older
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:23 PM
2

Tell that to the girl that’s about to dump a great guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:23 PM
1

It’s usually how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:19 PM
3

We’re just a tool. Interchangeable. Don’t u see how angry they get when their ex bf/husband can’t move on from them? In their minds it’s like “I moved on from him, so why is he still existing?he must be crazy”. No bitch we are human beings with feelings. We just get swapped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:17 PM
2

You’ll leave him for suuuuurrre
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:12 PM
1

Not shallow as in doesn’t care want women look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:12 PM
6

Yeah. Women want a guy they can brag about. Can’t brag about a teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:11 PM
-1

Same here man. It’s horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:11 PM
3

I DID make it seem like it was her fault. That’s what I beat myself up over. It wasn’t. It was mine. If you’re familiar with AMS, you’ll understand this.... she chased my validation the entire relationship. I knew nothing about this stuff. It was natural. She won’t hit the wall. We’re Hispanic. She has great genetics. Even the way her fat is distributed if she gains weight is good. She got lucky. Think J-Lo with a Boob job.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 05:58 PM
1

AWALT. Yeah. But I wasn’t fun the second half. All they care about is constant positive emotions. I was always stressed out and determined. Pretty easy to beat. She’s not one to care about money much. She doesn’t understand it. That was my arena. She didn’t grow up poor. I did. So as long as the next guy is fun, and kisses her ass a bit, she’ll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 05:53 PM
1

She doesn’t. I wish she did.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 05:18 PM
2

Yeah and I didn’t have it. It was my first serious LTR. Which she knew.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 05:06 PM
2

Yeah there really are. Idk if I was high value, I was a bartender when we met. But I had zero fear of loss. And I was cocky as shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 11:59 PM
11

In other words, she didn’t care about “the finish line”. That’s what I meant. It was funny too she kept trying to bribe me. “Honey you’ll get my health insurance from work!” I’d be like “I got my own insurance”. But I’m a business owner so it’s like $450 a month. Hers would’ve been $3. “Honey there’s tax benefits!” I’d be like “I have a corporation. I write everything off anyway” Poor girl man.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 11:57 PM
7

I was a dick. Put money above all. She was always second. But she always put me first. I’d get frustrated when she’d cry and shit. The bitch cried for everything. Didn’t move her in or marry her. Well she didn’t wanna move in until I married her anyway. Too much “alpha”. She was a great girl. A little dramatic at times. But funny. Gorgeous. Brilliant. Cheerful.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 11:54 PM
27

Not always true. I had a 10 that started with me from ground zero and grew with me. Helped me too. Eventually it got to my head and she left. 6 years. There ARE unicorns. Wanted to marry me before I even was where I was supposed to be. And I refused. Because of this red pill bullshit. Wish I would’ve come across themarriedredpill subreddit back then.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/21 10:15 PM
5

I’d never dump my wife if I had a wife that I was with for 20 years. Idk how guys do it. Women usually leave when they’re young so I guess it’s only right they get left when they’re old. But still. I wouldn’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:08 AM
1

Just read the title. Answer: yes. And no, it’s not some sick twisted perverted thing. To me it’s not even about sex. They’re easier to get along with. They’re more fun. Funnier. Happy. Optimistic. Inspiring. And obviously yes, more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:57 AM
3

-stop jerking off -no porn ever again -condoms suck ass so LTR -try to connect more to the girls. Emotionally
/r/askTRP08/04/21 03:11 AM
1

I used to while I was in the LTR. And no she wasn’t involved in my hobbies. But I don’t like anything anymore. Nothing
/r/MGTOW07/04/21 10:37 PM
-4

Life is pretty empty without a spouse
/r/MGTOW07/04/21 06:26 PM
1

Yep. Every time.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:15 PM
1

She was definitely NOT the center of my ambition. That was part of the problem. I had zero fear of loss. Zero. And was hyper focused to the point of neglect. Yeah maybe. Regret it now. But yeah probably
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:34 AM
2

Just the marriage thing. Divorce laws in my state aren’t that bad. And the ex made good money. And helped me build what I have. But he sure as shit made me not wanna get married. Self improvement has been my thing since I was a kid. Before I even knew about this space. Mostly to get women like the one I had. Seemed like the logical thing to do. I came cross this stuff about 2 weeks before the split. Then down the rabbit hole after the split
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:18 AM
4

You’re fine kid.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:08 AM
3

U gonna marry her in 6 months?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:30 AM
2

Hahaha
/r/askTRP07/04/21 05:30 AM
13

WOOOOOOOW. A mother broooooo. Literally the ONLY real nawalt (to a son)
/r/MGTOW07/04/21 05:16 AM
24

Women literally solve their problems by talking about them. They get a dopamine rush by talking. It’s not on you to provide solutions. She’ll just get annoyed. She wants to talk. It’s about how she feels. Imagine a father with his daughter. She comes. Sits on his lap. Yaps away. Usually crying. He listens. Smiles. Strokes her hair. Then she feels better and runs off all happy and shit. Grown women are the same way. If she asks for an opinion or solution, then give it. Otherwise, don’t
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:23 AM
3

Man Richard Cooper ruined my life lmao
/r/askTRP07/04/21 03:05 AM
10

For the most part, yes.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:52 AM
3

Never. Ever ever. U WILL destroy yourself
/r/askTRP07/04/21 12:40 AM
9

All women want masculine men. All of them. Period.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:26 PM
2

Frame is crucial
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:59 PM
5

Easy to say, and easy-ish to do in your 20s. But when u lose the person u should’ve grown old with in your early 30s after years and years together, it’s life shattering
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 05:31 PM
0

How? Where do u live?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:50 PM
2

Mind if I inbox you?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:50 AM
3

I had zero fear of loss. And still ruined my LTR. Unicorn. So there’s that. And I was 25 when it started. 31 when it ended
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 01:39 AM
5

I’m 33. Feels late af. Just because it’s harder for us to grow up now doesn’t mean it’s any easier later. Biology doesn’t care. U start to feel it up here
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 01:39 AM
1

Na. Doesn’t sound like it. You’d know it if u were. Never mind.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:09 AM
1

Are u typically a problem solver?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:31 AM
3

Guilt will definitely eat u up alive
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:26 AM
3

Bitches leave. It’s what they do
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:26 AM
1

I feel u. I’ve been there. Wish I could tell u it gets better
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:24 AM
2

Been over 2 years for me too and im still sad about it too. But I was with the bitch 6 years and I’m In my 30s. It was 7.5 months long for u. Get a hotter girl. Have u had any girls since?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:59 AM
1

U did good
/r/askTRP05/04/21 07:55 AM
1

This book did wonders for me. Too much. Almost got a wife out of it. A 10. Spent years with her. Abundance mentality kept me from “locking it down” (god I hate this term, they’re like real estate)
/r/seduction05/04/21 07:51 AM
2

The book of pook is gold. Wtf is 60 years of challenge about?
/r/seduction05/04/21 07:49 AM
1

Oh hell yeah. Agree. Although SOME might take it seriously I think. Which is crazy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:43 AM
1

^ this. It’s rarer and rarer nowadays. But it IS possible
/r/MGTOW205/04/21 07:42 AM
1

^ this
/r/MGTOW205/04/21 07:39 AM
1

90% of my comment was sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:10 AM
1

Wooooow. Good catch. Mind blown. Hero. And villain.
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 06:52 AM
1

He definitely does
/r/MGTOW05/04/21 06:51 AM
1

^ this
/r/askTRP05/04/21 06:45 AM
1

I talk like that but I’m 33. Not Fucking 23. I met the love of my life when I was 25. And it wasn’t at school.
/r/seduction05/04/21 06:44 AM
3

Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:28 AM
2

What if u don’t have children?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:42 AM
10

A lot of self improvement is geared toward women. They just barely take action. They’re perfect just the way they are. Fat and gross? Body positivity. Nasty and promiscuous? No slut shaming. Combative and annoying? Empowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:36 AM
1

The decline sucks ass
/r/MGTOW205/04/21 04:46 AM
1

Really? Elaborate
/r/MGTOW205/04/21 03:08 AM
1

It’s funny. I was brought to this country from cuba for a good life. Now it seems I’ll have to leave
/r/MGTOW205/04/21 01:11 AM
2

Lmfao they don’t mean it. Or they’ve never loved anyone. Or they’re young kids. I’ve fallen in love before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:11 PM
1

Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:08 PM
1

Yeah. It’s true.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:05 PM
4

^ this
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:38 PM
2

I didn’t say she had ulterior motives. She’s just a she. There’s always something. It’s never enough. The guy she’s been with 20 years at some point she started getting distant. But he flipped it, dumped her for a year and a half, then came back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:35 PM
2

It’s not trp. My mom and I are very open with each other, so I know all the details. She left her first husband too. After 9 years. Way better guy than my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:29 PM
1

Here we go
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:10 PM
3

It’s not a privilege. It backfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:04 PM
2

False Af
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:04 PM
2

More relationships have ended over not a good reason than a good reason. It’s usually a misunderstanding. Bad communication. Assumptions. All dumb shit. Good reasons are cheating, and abuse. Those are good reasons for ending things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:03 PM
2

Of course she’s asked about him since, when I was a kid mostly, of course they had issues. All couples do. Nothing unfixable.... no cheating no abuse. Thing is men are less likely to just give up, divorce (stats back this up), or break up a family over trivial shit. It’s completely irrational. Women on the other hand just want to feel good. Doesn’t matter if the kid ends up single at 30, or aimless in life because he/she had no masculine presence. It doesn’t matter if they’re doomed to a lifetim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:02 PM
2

Even if she doesn’t destroy u in family court. Her changing her mind one day and walking away, can cause so much pain, it can cripple you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:55 PM
2

I have tons of examples. Just used one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:53 PM
1

The light switch effect is the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:52 PM
1

How do I think I came to these conclusions? Self delusion? I’ve been in long term healthy relationships. I have friends in long term relationships. I’ve seen them start. I’ve seen them end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:51 PM
3

I didn’t say he was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:32 AM
7

The word toxic is so overused these days it’s ridiculous. Ok him remembering the past, and appreciating the things she did for him, is far from toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:18 AM
10

I can pull up 10x the amount of stats which show the type of blatant disregard that women have for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:16 AM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:15 AM
6

*most men. It’s on the guy to change that. To keep her in the state of mind of where she needs him. Only then will she continue to “love” him. And I’m not talking about manipulation or anything like that. They’re just not like us. They’re constantly doubting. Is he the best I can do? What has he done for me lately? Why do I feel like rbis when I used to feel like that? Etc. It never ends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:13 AM
8

She’s a she. Men are inherently disposable. Always have been. Nature. Eggs are scarce. Sperm is abundant. Difference is once upon a time, the need for us was quite obvious. Now it’s not. Even though it’s still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:06 AM
8

There’s no ride or die. They’re there, then they leave. I know what you’re talking about, I’m not one of those nice guy weirdos. Difference is, if YOU didn’t make all those efforts, he’d probably still stick around remembering the efforts u DID make in the past. Not the same the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:05 AM
4

They got divorced when I was 5. Which probably has something to do with why I didn’t get married when I could’ve, and should’ve, either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:04 AM
3

I can’t really condense an entire TV series into a paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:01 AM
4

I probably can if I spent some time trying to remember everything I’d ever watched and then googling it. Boy meets world is a good example. Corey and topenga
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:54 AM
6

Not a reach. Dads been married for 20 years. He was with my mom for 6. To this day he loves her and asks about her. She forgets he even exists. And she’s a wonderful lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:45 AM
0

2 years at 21 isn’t enough. 23 she’s still an idiot. Were u older?
/r/MGTOW04/04/21 04:31 AM
2

100%
/r/MGTOW04/04/21 04:19 AM
-1

You’d be surprised man. I’ve seen it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:15 AM
4

I’m a cuban Chad. I promise u no. Height? Yeah. Looks... meh... debatable. It all boils down to how u make them FEEL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:07 AM
-1

Compared to us, they do care less about looks. Bud they are certainly NOT the empathetic gender
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:04 AM
31

Mostly that they care about us the same way we care about them. We all grow up thinking if we just make ourselves the right man, and find the right girl, and not cheat on her, (since men cheating seems to be the problem in all movies and tv shows), she’ll stay. Yeah except.... She won’t. Same thing with romance. Men are a billion times more idealistic and romantic than women will ever be. A man can love u forever. A woman will love you.... at best.... for as long as you’re in her life. AT BEST. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:03 AM
3

How long did u wait before u married her? Was she also a single parent? Was she.... old? 28+? My unicorn was 21 when I got her. 27 when she left. I’ve noticed that when you’re able to keep those around, u guys freeze eachother in time
/r/MGTOW04/04/21 03:49 AM
3

I know. Trust me I know. I live with that pain every day. We were both broke when we met. It was great. By the end of it all, I had a mew Mercedes and the business, she had a brand new Lexus and a career. It’s a shame. I was too stupid. Wish I learned this lesson in my early 20s instead of in my 30s. Too late now.
/r/MGTOW04/04/21 02:04 AM
3

Same reasons none of us here do. Around the time when it was an issue, I had just started consuming some of rich coopers content about marriage. But it was stupid. She made good money. Florida has good divorce laws. She helped me build my business in the first place (not with money, just sweat equity), so if anyone deserved half, it would’ve been her. She was a unicorn in a lot of ways. Not anymore. Light switch effect. New guy. Vilifying me. Cruel. Cold. U know, the usual awalt.
/r/MGTOW04/04/21 01:56 AM
8

Yeah they all do it. Thing is they’ll do it after a year. 5. 10. 20. 30. It doesn’t matter. If you read about it all the way through, it explains it quite well.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:27 AM
5

The light switch effect is the worst thing ever.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:23 AM
-8

Were any of them smoking hot: yes. Were any of them devoted to me: yes. Really rich? No. Great cooks: just one Great homemakers: current one I’m seeing Great mothers: I don’t have kids, nor do I date women with kids. Really good in bed: yes Really smart or creative: yes. This has been MY experience. To be honest I deeply regret not marrying one of them. Haunts me every day. I know that’s blasphemy around here. But if there was one to marry, it would’ve been that one.
/r/MGTOW04/04/21 01:15 AM
4

Herd mentality is the worst
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:12 AM
2

Misandry is almost encouraged. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:44 PM
1

Yeah it’s gotten ruined
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:53 AM
1

Really? Ever?
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:25 AM
3

That’s your mind playin tricks on you. It’s the opposite.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:23 AM
2

Just saw it thanks. Wow you’re awesome for putting it at the top. You have to disappear. It’s the only way. Or bang one of her friends. Does she know u were drunk?
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:10 AM
4

So much wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:07 AM
1

No. We’re not. Just like women are not as good as men at everything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:04 AM
1

Social media. Not just “tinder”
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:04 AM
2

So many things man. It’s an endless list really.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:41 PM
2

I got lucky. Met a girl (unicorn) that inspired me. I started an online business. Selling stuff. Started with 4k. After 3 years, I was selling 996k in annual revenue. She left 6 years later and I been shitty ever since, but I haven’t had a Job in almost a decade. With the internet, a lot is possible
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:36 PM
1

If I delve into details here I’ll be called a misogynist or something and I don’t want to argue with 50 people. Someone else already mentioned the same thing.
/r/seduction02/04/21 08:17 PM
2

U need to be a man.
/r/seduction02/04/21 08:05 PM
1

Where do u get the escorts from?
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:04 PM
1

That wasn’t stupid
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:03 PM
1

Found one worth keeping yet?
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:02 PM
1

22
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:02 PM
2

Different times. Your mom was a virgin. And probably put your dad above her “friends”.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:01 PM
1

I did it. Started at 25.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 07:57 PM
1

Not sure what the point is anymore. Seems like we have only from 20-30 to get everything right. No one told me
/r/askTRP02/04/21 04:38 PM
2

^ this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:06 PM
2

Eh.. no. I was in school. It was just who I was. It wasn’t this elaborate plan to make girls like me. I was just the funny asshole guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:27 PM
1

lol yeah I’ve seen that. It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:55 AM
2

When I was young, I was the opposite of a Chad. That’s why I became a Chad. BUT I was hilarious. And it was enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:51 AM
1

Very accurate
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:39 AM
8

Yeah women expect progress. U have to lead. U can’t just not be sexual. Puts u in friend zone. And then the second thing, yeah because her emotions were engaged. Now she probably talks about you like you’re horrible lol
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:05 AM
12

Sad part is, the way we’re wired as men, we’re not really aware of how deep our attachment is to our girl until way after we lose her. Women are well aware during the relationship how attached they are to us.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:15 PM
52

Emotional engagement. Is all it comes down to. Women will forgive an asshole but not a pussy. Women rather be upset than bored. And even so they have a limit. Remember they’re wired to leave. If U treat them bad, they’ll cite that as the reason when they leave. If u bore them, they’ll cite that as the reason when they leave.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 11:01 PM
3

I’m a Chad. But I wasn’t always. And I agree. I’ve always said this. Women care more about your future, your capabilities, and how u make them feel. It’s men who value beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:59 PM
1

The problem is most intelligent and attractive women grow up with careerist ambitions. Working class women are great, but usually not too bright and not much to look at. Can’t have it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:04 PM
80

It’s not about that. Men’s brains see women as property. After a while, we feel like she’s ours and will always be. Men are constantly blindsided by divorce and breakups for this very reason. U can’t ever get comfortable or complacent. U must court and date her forever. Women are fickle. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. It doesn’t matter who the prize is.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:38 PM
1

Well said. I’m 33 though. That shits Fucking with me heavy
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:25 PM
1

No I didn’t mean it that way. Trust me I get it.
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 04:04 PM
1

Was with her for 6 years. We split up 2 years ago. Not 4. Have been with a different girl for a little over a year. But it’s just not the same. I guess you’re right. Gotta brainwash myself. She just brought me so much joy, laughter, optimism. Helped me build.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:03 PM
1

I’ve thought about that. I’ve tried. It’s weird. I’ve never really cared. Had plenty of chicks before her. But I guess I never had that. She was like family. I thought it was a guy thing. Guys don’t really get over women they loved I’ve noticed. Every guy has a story of a certain “one”. Maybe it hasn’t been enough time?
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:48 AM
1

I’m not shredded. Maybe 17% bodyfat. Lot of muscle though. Guess I’ll need a trans plant. It’s no easy tho. I’ve had women say they don’t like hairy men, yet they end up in my bed. I’ve had women say they don’t like smokers, same deal. In my bed. I think it depends on how u make em Feel. Maybe me having green eyes helps too. Idk.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 12:47 AM
0

Lmao na they were there before i lost the hair
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 12:35 AM
1

Meh I take gear. Well just trt. 200mgs a week. Highest I’ve done is 250. I was natty 11 years before. Started when I was 30. Made a big difference. Setting a foundation naturally is super important and underrated
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 12:34 AM
0

I’m jacked. But losing my hair
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 12:24 AM
2

Wow Man U let That destroy u? Girls are total bitches in highschool. It’s later when it’s easier to get em.
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 12:24 AM
0

14 years both of them. They wouldn’t know what to do without the other. Hispanic. Different culture I guess
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 09:30 PM
1

What exactly happened to you if u don’t mind me asking?
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 09:27 PM
1

Wtf else is there after this age? People are settled down. Women are uglier, more jaded, hardened. U can’t start over. Should’ve gotten married in my 20s. Yeah yeah yeah I know divorce rape whatever. But it doesn’t happen to everyone. And I avoided it because of this very fear.... and I regret it
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 08:13 PM
1

How do u know whether or not u have enough donor hair?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 07:22 PM
-3

My married friends don’t live like that at all
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 07:07 PM
0

Well I mean yeah I’ve been thinking about dying ever since. New chicks don’t compare. I grew up with that girl. Not impossible but not as easy. His girl is 22. She’s a clean slate. No baggage.
/r/seduction31/03/21 07:03 PM
1

Why is a transplant not the way to go?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 07:02 PM
2

It’s crazy though because they’ll swear up and down that they don’t care about balding
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 06:48 PM
6

Fml. I started losing my hair the moment my ex gf if 6 years left when I turned 31. Been losing hope for life ever since but ppl always bullshit you and say “it’s ok women like bald men”. NO. They don’t.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 06:39 PM
5

Don’t end it. If u love her, and there’s no cheating or abuse, save it. I can tell u how. But don’t end it. It’s easy to lose sight of what we have while we have it.
/r/seduction31/03/21 06:15 PM
7

I’m 33. It’s horrible. Should’ve married my ex. With a great girl now. 5 years younger. But I feel nothing
/r/seduction31/03/21 06:02 PM
-4

Growing old alone isn’t worth it to me. It’s easy for me to get chicks. But I’m so picky.
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 05:52 PM
1

We bickered a lot. And I always felt this weird tension between us. And I was OBSESSED with scaling my business. I just took her for granted that’s all. She was changing too but I could’ve stopped it just by being more present. It just sucks because at 33 I doubt I’ll find another girl like that. Gorgeous, brilliant, hilarious, clean slate (no pets, no kids), low n count, didn’t want kids, eager to please (but stubborn and combative sometimes), etc. Everyone else pales in comparison. I got a new…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:24 PM
1

The only thing that held me back was all the marriage fear mongering we all see in this space. Which was stupid. -she made good money -she helped me build my business -wasn’t the gold digging type at all. Rare for a 10. Yes she was a 10. -we didn’t want kids -Florida divorce laws aren’t that bad I’d give anything to have that girl be my wife right now.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:12 PM
4

Man this is depressing. I’m 33. Guess it’s really over huh. Wow. Life flew by
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 05:10 PM
1

I wasn’t married, but had to start over in my 30s. Fucking sucks. Trp is bullshit when it comes to certain things.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:08 PM
0

Na she’s someone else’s wife. Don’t u regret it? I do
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:59 PM
2

They all do that bro. Herd mentality. And if u don’t do it fast enough, they go get it from someone else. The man that gives them what they want is inconsequential. It’s what they want that matters above all
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:49 PM
1

What is it with them and this obsession with marriage? Same thing happened to me after 6 years. Also unicorn. But it was worse because I was much older.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:40 PM
1

Where’d u meet your fiancé and how old are you?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:38 PM
5

After how long? Been a couple years for me.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:36 PM
6

Online dating
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 11:43 PM
12

And if the father had left, you’d never hear the end of it
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 11:43 PM
1

Ah. Ok. Yeah definitely applies. Definitely has gotten me in trouble too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:01 PM
2

Idk what that means. I’m old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:13 PM
1

Good bot
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:19 PM
1

Yeah. And you’re 20. Your best years are ahead of u.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:19 PM
3

The ones I’ve entered a relationship with, usually just do number 15.
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 04:48 PM
22

Answer: yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:38 PM
2

Attractiveness has a lot to do with love. I wish it weren’t that way but it is. If u can’t stand to look at your spouse, specially as a Man, you’ll feel nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:25 PM
8

Feelings. U made her feel bad.
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 01:56 AM
2

Stopped reading at “TRP calls for men to go Dutch on dates”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:33 AM
2

Crazy how predictable it all is once u see the pattern
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 12:17 AM
-1

She DEFINITELY does not want me Lol she wants nothing to do with me. The only reasoning here I find fault in is number 1. Yeah you can be fucked in court. But you could be fucked anywhere else too. Does that mean I shouldn’t drive? Or cross the street? See what I mean? It’s hard logic to follow even if it makes sense
/r/MGTOW30/03/21 12:14 AM
4

I mean.... his SMV chart is off, he got married at 28, his wife is older than he is, she’s also unattractive (this is a big one). And he’s just a dude.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:38 PM
2

Then u haven’t gotten to the top yet. And yes there’s a top.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:37 PM
2

Absolutely not.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:36 PM
4

This I agree with.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 09:49 PM
-3

We didn’t want kids Part of the reason she left was because I wouldn’t marry her The rest of the reason was outside influence. Which wouldn’t have been as strong had we been together all the time. Which didn’t happen because she didn’t wanna live together until we were married. And because I’m a loner. She was the clingy one. I was also a jerk. Prioritized money/business over her while completely unaware (at the time) that my crazy drive and ambition came directly from having HER. I know I know …
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 09:48 PM
-1

We’d still be together.
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 08:10 PM
6

I didn’t. And I regret it every day. But then I come across posts like this and just roll my eyes
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 07:33 PM
25

You lead. She follows. This is nature
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:01 AM
3

Meh... you’re probably right
/r/MGTOW29/03/21 05:21 AM
-1

Yeah. I had a unicorn for sure
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 11:27 PM
2

Na. The more successful I became, the more rocky the relationship became. She wasn’t like that. When we got together, I had nothing and neither did she. By the end of it I had a business producing 7 figures in revenue, and a Mercedes. And she had her career.
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 11:27 PM
0

We didn’t want kids
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 08:09 PM
7

Idk sometimes it’s backwards. The one I got when she was 21, wanted nothing to do with me when she turned 27.
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 07:02 PM
6

Previous generations got it right. They got together young. Stayed together. And taught each other how to love one another. To this day, the successful long term couples still do this. Everything EXCEPT cheating or abuse, can be worked out. Our generation rather throw it all away and start from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:25 PM
1

Yep. Didn’t wanna get married to the bitch I should’ve married.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:41 PM
1

Rollo’s smv graph is off and his wife is ugly af
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:40 PM
2

Hard next
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:29 PM
1

No. He cheated.
/r/MGTOW227/03/21 06:42 PM
1

They’re asking to make conversation. We really don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:33 PM
2

You weren’t kidding. Watching it now.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 08:20 AM
1

Had I read it back then. Yeah.
/r/seduction27/03/21 12:36 AM
1

It’s correlated usually. Their wives don’t see them as.... idk.... they way they should be seen.
/r/seduction27/03/21 12:08 AM
3

Yeah I was fine. A broken girl got me. Then broke me, healed herself, then bounced.
/r/seduction26/03/21 11:50 PM
2

...isn’t real
/r/seduction26/03/21 11:50 PM
1

No it’s not. Would’ve saved my relationship.
/r/seduction26/03/21 11:31 PM
2

^ this
/r/seduction26/03/21 11:30 PM
3

26 is a fucking great age. I didn’t find it until I was 31. 33 now. Peaks closing in. I’d kill to be your age again.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:21 PM
-1

Rollos SMV chart sucks. I’d say our prime is 27-35.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:18 PM
2

U don’t need as much money as u think. I started with 4k.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:51 PM
3

Not specifically what u said, but yeah. My moms a hell of a woman. She still made HORRIBLE decisions. Left her first husband of 9 years (great guy) when she was 27 for no real reason other than he was weaker than she wanted. Met my scumbag alpha dad a year later, had me a year or 2 after that, then left my dad when I was 5. Stayed single for years, raised me on her own, until she met some older dude and has been with him since. As intelligent as she is, she, like most women, is completely unawar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:28 PM
1

No she didn’t. She just went to a new guy. And trust me, it’s all empty. I did everything u wanna do. It’s empty
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:17 PM
1

I’m not a millionaire.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:16 PM
1

I’m sure u have Muslim chicks who have only been with 2-3 guys.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:16 PM
6

Lmao I don’t think so man. Hope that was sarcasm. She was a 10. Right out of a magazine. Life humbles you later. It moves QUICK after 30. That shit seems like it happened yesterday and I’ll be 34 later this year. Priorities shift. U learn that money is empty. Your spouse, family, and friends are what will fulfill u as a human. And this is coming from the grumpiest most determined and introverted man I know of. It’s just the way we as animals are designed UNFORTUNATELY. I’ll tell u this though, w…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:54 AM
2

This is gonna sound ridiculous. Too alpha. Didn’t cheat or anything. But I had ZERO fear of loss. Prioritized money, bodybuilding and business before her, even though she helped me and was there from day ONE. When I was chubby and broke. And I didn’t wanna get married yet for all the reasons we here don’t wanna get married for. But it was stupid. I was 29-30 for fucks sake. She wanted to get married. I had been with her forever. Why not? She left on my 31st bday.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:09 AM
6

For dick stuff? Everything’s already been said. No porn. Ever. No jerking off either. Condoms suck. Eat clean. Sleep well. Exercise. Oh... and always be moving. I don’t mean physically. I mean in the direction of something. A goal. Anything. Bad for men’s mental health to be stagnant in life.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:34 PM
4

Both. Always both.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:29 PM
2

I’m a dropout. Became a bartender. Met a unicorn. Started an online business when I was 25. Taught myself to gamble (poker), and invest. 33 now and kinda retired. Lost the unicorn though.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:26 PM
6

Cholesterol = testosterone production The definition of “steroid” is: hormone made from cholesterol
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:24 PM
1

A good marriage IS possible. And rightfully be honest 25 is a good age. Your culture knows what it’s doing.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:19 PM
1

Your spouse
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:24 PM
10

Wear the condom
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:54 AM
1

You’re 25? Wtf u doin going after a single mom? And this stuff all shows you’ve never been in a relationship
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:29 AM
1

Woooooooooooow
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 03:14 AM
4

My inbox is always open
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:43 PM
12

You’re doing fine. Don’t let trp screw u up too Much. It’s a tool. Nothing more nothing less.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:29 PM
11

I’m 33. Have thought about ending it all before. Following to see who says what. No one told us there was such little time. It seems u only have 20-30 to figure your whole life out. Business/career. Spouse. Etc
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:26 PM
21

Because they’re children. They just want to feel good all the time.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:38 PM
1

They love you the only way they can. Which is not the way we love them. If you can get one young, when you’re young, keep frame, and be Indispensable in her life, you might be ok. Meet her, if she submits to you and treats you like you’re a goddamn super hero, marry her and MOVE HER AWAY.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 11:37 PM
-1

This is awesome. I wish more girls were like that. And used logic. The majority of them will toss a guy out after a few years if he hasn’t married her yet. Just because. Timeline + family pressure + comparison to co workers + Disney, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:51 AM
1

I knew there were a ton of you guys on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:48 AM
2

Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:43 AM
3

I wonder if you guys gave each other advice while still in the marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:42 AM
1

I already tell you her generations to settle down earlier and I’m still in my early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:37 AM
1

Or not
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:15 AM
2

This happens to us (guys) our whole life. Don’t let the rejection get to you.
/r/seduction21/03/21 11:18 PM
1

^ this one
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:58 PM
3

It’s not black pill. It’s just logic. Like what is the end game if it seems doomed from the start?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:58 PM
2

I just read the title. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:34 AM
1

I mean a loss and a starting over at 25, isnt the same as a loss and starting over in your 30s. Yours is a unicorn BECAUSE she’s young. I got lucky too. They change. U have to maintain frame with a level of ferocity never seen before
/r/askTRP21/03/21 12:34 AM
1

I’m 33. Different at 25. Way different
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:19 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:10 PM
1

Not as easy as you’d think. They make it sound like it is, but it’s not. Most girls are taught that older men are preying on them blah blah blah. Even if they’re not, it depends largely on how young u look. Contrary to popular belief, girls DO care if you’re a balding 35 year old with greys. Regardless of whether you’re jacked or not.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:03 PM
1

Already did
/r/askTRP20/03/21 08:59 PM
5

I had a unicorn for almost 6 years. Met her in my mid 20s. 10 (to me). Low n count. Brought a ton of value to my life. Helped me with my business. Started her career. Stayed hot the entire time. And even got hotter. But I didn’t wanna get married yet for the same reasons none of us do. And we argued a lot. It’s sucked ever since. No plate or ltr has been able to take her place. Don’t be me.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:53 PM
6

Rollo can say whatever he wants, but he got married when he was 28.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:37 PM
-3

Bad advice. Girls get worse (hardened, jaded, less maleable) the older they get. I’m 33. Take it from me. If u meet a girl you’re crazy about in your mid 20s, just marry the idiot. Take whatever legal precautions u can, but do it.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:35 PM
2

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 05:45 PM
4

Back in the era that was just referenced, they’d be wifed up before the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 09:13 AM
3

^ this
/r/askTRP20/03/21 09:07 AM
4

Na. Women weren’t all prostitutes. Right? Right. They’d grow to love those men. Women care less about looks when it comes to settling down than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:12 AM
2

Don’t have a career Lol just a business I started in my mid 20s. I’m in my early 30s.
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:20 PM
1

Yeah. Wish I would’ve known that before
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:11 PM
-4

I just wish more people told us we only get 10 years to make everything right. 20-30. That’s all u get.
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 08:25 PM
2

Be grateful for what u have. I have the same type of life. Eats at me too.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 07:35 PM
18

Money is replaceable. Time isn’t. And trauma is hard to get rid of
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 07:21 PM
2

I wasn’t taught anything either. I learned on my own. And not enough because when I met and had the girl I should’ve married at 25, I didn’t marry her out of fear, and lost her after years together when she left and I turned 31. She was my dream girl. At least u had your parents together. U were able to see that. My parents got divorced. Single mom. I needed that guidance. I noticed Mark Manson got married when he was like 35, but met his wife when he was 27 I think. At 33, I feel like I have to…
/r/seduction18/03/21 04:56 PM
1

Good advice. Put my classy disclaimer up. Thanks.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:39 AM
0

Can we get in trouble for giving him advice here?
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:35 AM
1

Most doctors don’t know wtf they’re doing when it comes to this shit. Unfortunately.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:30 AM
2

You’re right about some things. But not others. But yeah man he’s young. It’s a shame.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:30 AM
1

What a shame. You’re so young. Depends. How long ago did you finish your cycle? If it was a long time ago, u should be back online. If you caused permanent damage, which caused the low levels, trt is better. Test (dose split into TWICE a week injections) plus hcg every other day. Do not skip the hcg. U need hcg. Always. Mimics LH and fills in those pathways. And keeps the boys going. Alternative: HCG mono-therapy. Again, mimics LH. When u took clomiphene, it blocked estrogen receptors, thus maki…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:26 AM
1

Stop comparing. I accomplished a lot before 30, but I don’t have a degree.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:43 AM
2

Yep. 100%. And I don’t want kids. Decided when I was a teenager. Decided back then that I didn’t like the way the world worked. U know why they use shaming language right? I’ve studied this stuff a lot. It’s as interesting as it is disheartening. They evolved to use what I like to call “social terrorism” (subconsciously of course) to make up for the physical differences. Men evolved to use logic, violence, and aggression to solve their problems. Women evolved to use shaming, emotional manipulati…
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 07:23 AM
1

Na I know u weren’t saying specifically about her. And even if u did, it wouldn’t have bothered me. I’m under no delusions as to what women are. Led by emotion their whole life. Unless fathers, husbands, brothers help. Otherwise; they’ll just blame their poor decisions on their youth. “Idk I was young”. Well said. I agree. That’s why I wasn’t crazy about it yet. Her response when I brought ho what happens in divorce “u think I would do that to you?”. I said no. I don’t. Not now. But who knows. I…
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 06:31 AM
1

Lmao definitely not a unicorn-ish decision. But they don’t see it that way. It’s drilled into them since they’re little girls man. It’s all about the feels. I only brought up the money because I wouldn’t have lose anything. I have a business. A ton of write offs. And on paper, at the time, I made less than her. It’s weird how that worked. Like I was definitely clearing 6 figures, but because of the way corporations work with a good CPA, it was like I made 40k. But I wouldn’t have gotten here I g…
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 06:04 AM
1

Tried that. Just didn’t think of it as any kind of technique. Just seemed as the logical thing to do at the time. It’s like a burning dull pain. Like heartbreak plus falling or something
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:40 AM
1

I see what you’re saying. But it’s not that I didn’t want it. I just wasn’t ready yet. I wanted to buy property. And, I was scared of divorce and the risks. I had just started reading about it at the time. BUT... where I’m at, Florida, it’s not so bad. And she made her own money. I felt the same way after though. Like damn I wouldn’t force her into anything. I know you’re comparing marriage and sex, but I’ve even seen it with marriage itself. Guy proposes. Girl says she’s not ready. No one bats …
/r/MGTOW218/03/21 05:08 AM
2

You’re wrong.
/r/askMRP18/03/21 05:02 AM
1

Idk. Chest pains. Worsening anxiety. Micro dosed first. Then took a little more but not a full dose.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:02 AM
1

Yeah it’s normal. Even if she’s a 10 and stays a 10.
/r/askMRP17/03/21 10:41 PM
1

It would’ve. She wanted it. Bad. I didn’t yet. Makes a girl feel unwanted. Unloved. Rejected. We didn’t live together yet. She wouldn’t until we were married. She comes from a big christian family. Yeah that makes sense to you and I. But women are different. They don’t wanna be the forever girlfriend. Yeah I would’ve been happy. I was happy. Even when I wasn’t. I got really far with her. Who knows where I’d be now. I went into such a deep depression after, that I haven’t really recovered from. I…
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 04:57 PM
1

Maaaaan... look. When they’re 20-24, if they’re not whores, they’re THE BEST. At 29+, they are straight up business women. It’s a straight up checklist.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:53 AM
3

Men are simple. We’re not these beings full of conflicting ideas, impulses, and ever changing feelings. It’s night and day. What women think they want, is often worlds apart from what they actually respond to. Men respond to exactly what we say we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:25 AM
2

^ big facts
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:12 AM
1

Lol Na. Worse in your 30s.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:09 AM
2

Carnivore and buteyko huh 🤔 I’m gonna try it. The mushrooms made me worse.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 06:06 AM
1

Absolutely 100%. Easy answer. Just read the title.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:25 AM
1

Gets worse in your 30s. Fuck em. Now is the time.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:21 AM
1

Yep.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:18 AM
2

Wish I came from that neighborhood. I saw the opposite growing up. I guess that was the problem. Thank u sir. If u can think of any words of wisdom, please let me know.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 01:35 AM
1

I did talk to someone. Still do. The whole 2 years. Thing is I’m 33. The biggest leaps and strides I made, was with her. I’m scared to be 40 and be a loser. Everything most men ever do, subconsciously or otherwise, is for women. The business is started. The physique I built. The skills I’ve acquired. But it seems like time is flying. And I’ll be 40 before I know it. Not much to live for after that. I have no degree. Hate school. Never did well at jobs. Except tending bar. And idk what the future…
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 01:18 AM
4

You’re not wrong. Been on a downward spiral ever since. The age thing is getting to my head too. My age. It’s like I was young with a right future ahead of me, most her; then poof I’m in my 30s. She was just with me so long. We grew up together. If anybody deserved the risk of marriage, it was her. I didn’t wanna risk the 50/50 divorce rape. But then again, she helped from day 1. Loved me when I had nothing. I’m sure hearing that concern of mine hurt her feelings. She had her part in this too, n…
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 01:05 AM
3

Yep. Which made things worse. I was a wreck. Didn’t know back then what I know now. What we all know.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 12:55 AM
5

Nope. No ultimatum. Didn’t know she’d leave. We had been bumping heads for a while. But I was just focused on work. The business. And lifting. Doesn’t even seem as important now. It was this weird male protect and provide instinct that kicked in and took over my entire 20s. And before anyone says it, no I wasn’t a beta bucks. I was an asshole. Didn’t cheat or anything. But I was a jerk.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 12:32 AM
4

Because we would’ve made it. She wanted it more than anything. Women are retarded that way. The “thing” matters more than the man himself. She got tired of waiting. I didn’t see the rush. We didn’t want kids. We were together a long time. 10. Unicorn. Brought a ton of value to my life. Helped me build my business. Made me laugh. Hilarious. Brilliant. A bit dramatic, that’s where our issues were. But that’s about it.
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 12:27 AM
9

I didn’t understand it either. It’s important to women. Disney bullshit. Family brainwashing
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 12:18 AM
-8

There’s also another man still happily married to the love of his life. I know 2 of them. I lost my chance to the same risk aversion type thinking. Didnt regret it at the time.
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 10:30 PM
3

Not when you’re young. Gets worse when you’re older.
/r/MGTOW216/03/21 09:25 PM
7

It’s different after 30. Family gets sick. Friends settle down and disappear. Single moms, fat chicks, baggage. Girls are less maleable. Or sucks. I didn’t expect it
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:04 PM
12

I’m 33. I’d kill to be 26-27 again
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:00 PM
31

I wish I came across this when I was 26. Didn’t find it until I was 31.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:12 PM
8

U cannot care whatsoever. Outcome independence. Abundance mentality.
/r/seduction16/03/21 08:30 AM
1

Yeah, where’d u move?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 08:20 AM
3

I just tell them we’re both going to get tested. I’ve done this more than once. I don’t ask. I just say. Never have it much thought until now
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:14 AM
1

I laughed
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:13 AM
1

Ayyyyyyy good analogy man
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:12 AM
-1

Do you have the opportunity to get married? Have an LTR you’re happy with?
/r/askMRP15/03/21 05:56 PM
1

How to win friends and influence people was great. And the 4 hour work week changed my life. Those are 2 good ones off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:35 PM
1

Finance stuff. Goal setting. Mind set. How to books. Biology. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:26 PM
1

Yeah I got no recommendations when it comes to those topics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:06 PM
9

For fucks sake when will it end?
/r/MGTOW15/03/21 07:16 AM
2

It wasn’t social media. It was telling us that we’re the same. Men and women are better together than apart. But the moment u make them compete against one another, neither needs the other. If women can make their own money and put off being wives and mothers, and men have access to microwaves, dishwashers, Uber eats, and sex, there is a stand off. No polarity. No harmony. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 07:09 AM
1

There are some outliers. My mom is 63 years old. Her husband out earns her 2x. I have my own business. Both of us have tried to get her to retire and work for us on different occasions. She doesn’t want to. She wants to go to work lol AND BEFORE ANYONE SAYS IT, no she has no work husband. She’s been working there since I was a kid. I know everyone
/r/MGTOW15/03/21 07:03 AM
3

Your wife is one of the good ones because u probably got her early and kept her.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 06:53 AM
2

^ solid. -old head
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:51 AM
1

All men are attracted to silly childish behavior. Which is why BPD girls are so attractive. “My favorite person”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:17 AM
1

LTR. 25-31.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:10 AM
5

Not true. Men settle after losing their number one choice LTR. Usually dumped by the girl. Either they settle, or they turn into players until time catches up with em and then they settle
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 01:21 AM
1

What topics are u interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:19 PM
1

Really? I tried when I was younger but I didn’t care about reading fiction. Didnt entertain me at all. On the other hand, my whole life NOW, is a result of the books I read. Everything. Finances. Physique. Mindset. The 4 hour workweek by Tim ferriss changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:40 AM
1

Lol Im glad I found Reddit. Relatively new to me believe it or not. I’ve been reading books since i was a teenager. I realized when I was young that no one really knows anything. Everyone’s winging it. I didn’t wanna wing it. The right books can change your life. I guess I should mention that I don’t read fiction or anything for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:23 AM
1

No question present.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 03:50 AM
1

They do. Hard to find. But they do. If you do everything right, it’s good. If you don’t, they change.
/r/MGTOW14/03/21 02:09 AM
4

I mean shit, don’t congratulate me on it yet. I’m muscular, have a beard, and look pretty intimidating. I do NOT look like I read Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:58 AM
4

I’m a rider who reads.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:48 AM
1

Motorcycles?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:40 AM
4

Word it and rationalize it however u want. But their innate solipsism is the problem. It has always been there, but now it’s encouraged and allowed to run rampant
/r/askTRP13/03/21 10:22 PM
1

No. U can’t ever cry in front of tour LTR unless someone dies. You’re a rock.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:15 PM
34

I used to get angry. Until I realized it’s not done maliciously. They don’t realize. They ....reason... like children
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 05:44 AM
1

Answer: yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:27 AM
58

This lesson is golden. Came a bit too late for me. I learned it the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 04:20 AM
5

Social proof. That’s all. We consider it a bonus when a girl doesn’t have social media. They consider it a hinderance
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:14 AM
1

Losing that girl is what takes u to the red pill. Then u learn that it’s not how u thought it was. They really don’t care. They care one day and not the next. Then you learn why. And it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:36 PM
1

Idk but I can tell u this, when you love a girl and are with her a long time, it becomes less about the holes, and more about the closeness. The friendship. She becomes like family. Then if you lose her, it leaves this giant void u can’t ever really fill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:05 PM
1

Not to me. And not to a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:57 PM
1

This has nothing to do with holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:55 PM
-8

Not as true as you’d think. Depends. If u set it up right, she’ll work with you and for you toward your goals.
/r/MGTOW12/03/21 07:38 AM
3

Oh shit I’m NEET af too
/r/MGTOW212/03/21 07:26 AM
2

I agree. Rollo’s SMV chart is the worst. I think a man’s best number all things considered is maybe 27-33
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:13 AM
-3

Bro nobody cares about us. It’s not a big deal. It’s always been this way. You’re cared about if you bring value. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:45 AM
6

Wtf is NEET?
/r/MGTOW212/03/21 05:10 AM
2

U said ideal. So.... My ideal: 5’1 - 5’4 (I’m 6’1) In shape and curvy. Yes that exists. Hispanic. Pear or hourglass shape. Long dark hair (her hair) Big lips, big eyes Long eyelashes (her eyelashes) Does not need make up (this exists, usually the girls that never really used it) Smart, but not stuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:01 AM
1

Thank you
/r/seduction11/03/21 04:38 PM
1

Inboxed you
/r/seduction11/03/21 07:18 AM
22

First rule of fight club
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 07:15 AM
6

Goddamn Canada. I lost the unicorn girl I should’ve married for listening to rich coopers videos. Another Canadian. Come to find out way later, it’s not so bad where I’m at. Life could’ve been completely different
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 07:14 AM
2

Good response. Thank you. Hadn’t occurred to me. Only hole in it i can see, is the people who went thru those same experiences, except maybe the activities after college, and settled down in their 20s. They’re out. How old are you?
/r/seduction11/03/21 07:03 AM
1

Yeah I agree with all that. That’s why I left. Literally ever used any of the info for the business. Just kind of figured it out. How do u like finance tho?
/r/seduction11/03/21 03:18 AM
1

That’ll do it lol how do U like it? I’ve thought about going back to school. Business is pretty automated by now. I was thinking either medicine or finance. Never finished my associates in business. So it’s like starting from scratch in a way. I
/r/seduction11/03/21 03:01 AM
-1

Started a business at 25 when I got with the ex. She was 21. SHE established her career. My business blew up. Then we split when I was 31. I’m better looking now. Except for hair loss. Been lifting for 15 years. Drive a mercedes. Whatever. But meh... I don’t see as many options as I did before. Or they have kids. Or they’re dumb. Or theyre fat. Or maybe it’s because I work from home? Or maybe it’s because I don’t dress like I have money, I just kind of wear whatever’s comfortable. Bunch of facto…
/r/seduction11/03/21 02:53 AM
3

I already answered. Same thing. Keep going.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:49 AM
5

Sometimes its true and it matters. Other times it’s true and it doesn’t matter. Other times she’s full of shit. U can make a joke (ideal), or ask questions. “Oh ok cool. Happy For you both. How long have u guys been together?” And carry a conversation from there. You’ll either catch her in a lie, or If you’re cool, she might have friends for you. Win/win. “Let me see a picture of you both. Oh shit who’s your friend in that picture?” Blah blah blah
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:43 AM
-5

Meh... different in your 30s. Not as much abundance
/r/seduction11/03/21 02:28 AM
20

Shame was the main thing keeping them from succumbing to such urges. Women are sensitive to what people think about them more than men. That shame is now gone. Still present in some cultures and religions. But the shamelessness is spreading like wildfire there too.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 02:27 AM
1

Yeah you’re probably right. I didn’t have oneitis while with her. It’s a weird thing.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 11:54 PM
2

I mean I was there. She adored me. Practically worshipped me at times. Had her own career. Helped me with my business. But I was neglectful (workaholic) and too paranoid about marriage when she started pushing for it. The poor girl just wanted something normal.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 10:21 PM
3

My life would’ve been infinitely better (at this moment) had I taken the risk. Now I’m 33 and all that’s left are fat chicks. Single moms. Or entitled jaded chicks. I had a 10 with the self esteem of a 3 with a tiny notch count
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 10:17 PM
2

I know man. I know. I just don’t want men to make the same mistake I made
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 10:12 PM
1

I used to think the same way. Worth it. What u get if it stays together is totally worth it. I didn’t think about that at the time. Continuity of narrative. Stability. Your best friend. The wife goggles u develop where u always see her the same as when u met her. 2 people building a life. Etc.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 10:08 PM
3

This kind of thinking ruined what would’ve been a unicorn marriage for me. Lost her. Been miserable ever since even with a new chick. There are ways around the risks. Don’t get brainwashed. Yeah if you’re a millionaire and your girl is a gold digging hair stylist fine. But if you’re nothing, neither is she, and u both build each other up together, for fucks sake marry the girl.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 10:03 PM
2

How does it get better? I only see it getting worse
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 05:32 PM
1

I hope you’re right. I for one rather not have been born.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:25 PM
3

^ this. It’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:46 PM
1

That’s what my previous one was. And she was a 10 to me. But I was an idiot. U know those beta dudes who kiss ass and shit? I was the opposite
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:46 PM
1

Well I kind of had a unicorn. Apart from the occasional dramatic outbursts. I didn’t know about being non reactive back then. And I didn’t wanna get married yet. Which was a mistake in hindsight. And as far as personality, she’s not as funny or as smart as the ex BUT she has staying power. She thinks most girls are dumb. She can be alone just fine. No outside female influences get in her head. Solid relationship w her dad. Never needs or asks for anything. Cooks. Cleans. Etc. But she’s bland. Bo…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:07 PM
2

I tried this. But it just hurt my chest and have me mad anxiety.
/r/MGTOW209/03/21 07:38 PM
5

I’m stuck here too 😓 my girl is kinda chubby and boring but her character is superb. I’ve always gotten really hot girls. Best one was an ltr of 6 years but she was a nightmare at times. Which just made me a dick. Now at 33 it feels like musical chairs. I either settle down with this one, or I give up and stay alone
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:33 PM
-1

Good job dumping her. It’s the only way to get her back.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:30 PM
1

I agree. Most women don’t. We’re all told since we’re kids that this is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:09 PM
18

PSA: there’s no “one”
/r/MGTOW209/03/21 09:25 AM
0

Yep. It sucks. If they have a degree. They want u to have one too. Even if you’re a successful business owner who likes to read, nope. No degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:01 AM
3

U wouldn’t think so
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:20 AM
3

Could be that. You’re at your peak. I experienced the same thing when I was newly single at 31.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:08 AM
3

Me too in some ways. I’m 33. But it’s not... idk... hard to explain. Not the same
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:31 AM
4

100% agree.
/r/MGTOW209/03/21 01:04 AM
4

No. Ignore those who say it is. It’s not. Is it possible? Yes. But you’ll be at your best from 27-32.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 12:07 AM
3

Yeah. I’d end it now.
/r/MGTOW209/03/21 12:06 AM
4

My main concern is their innate solipsism. It’s unforgiving. Brutal. Downright horrible. Makes any optimism or hope seem ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:05 AM
1

It can work. Don’t let trp mess with your head too much. This info ruined the best relationship I’ve ever had and will ever have.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 06:26 PM
0

Keep believing that. Men are also the ones that have built everything that makes your life comfortable. Electricity. Trucking. Plumbing. Insulated cars. From stick shift to automatic. They’re also the protectors. Military. Police. Firefighters. Construction workers. We’re used to it at this point. We know it’s thankless. Partly why we have higher suicide rates. I myself have always considered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:31 PM
3

Yes. U do have to do this with a woman who “loves” you. Love is in quotes for a reason. It’s conditional. It’s not forever. Not much room for error. Any experienced man will tell you that a long term relationship is harder to maintain as a man than a bunch of chicks at the same time. Trust me I hate that it’s this way. But it is. It’s not about notch count. It’s about experience. Men need experience with women. Specially If u plan to stay long term. As far as “we just want commitment and no chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:09 AM
3

To be so unaware of how things actually work. Trust me, we (men) don’t like it. I mean sure, the few scumbags do. But most Millennials were taught to be “good guys”. Takes a lot of time and effort to unlearn all the garbage they brainwashed us with just to find something as simple as lasting love with a pretty girl. And even then, there’s a balance. Can’t be too bad. Can’t be too good. Gotta know when to turn which on and off. Gotta read chicks minds. All this shit when all you guys have to do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:48 AM
-1

It must be nice to be a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:29 AM
2

Na. Trust me. Maybe other men, but me personally, I don’t want that. But to get the type of woman I wanted and got (and years and years later lost, and no not because of i cheated, she actually cheated on me, even though she had a WAY lower n count than I did and was super innocent when we met) I needed tons of experience with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:28 AM
-2

False
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:49 AM
3

^ this. Men actually value inexperienced women. And NO. It’s not because we want to manipulate them. They’re more fun. More optimistic. Kinder. Better vibe overall. More willing to talk things out when there’s a misunderstanding. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:48 AM
4

False. Most men don’t even “want” that. It’s something we have to do. One of the reasons women can dump guys, get over them, over and over, is because they live in a constant state of abundance. Men come to you. It takes no skill whatsoever to get men to like you. Just winking the genetic lottery and being kind is enough. Men don’t have this. We have to build everything. Ourselves. Our lives. Our social skills. Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:47 AM
4

What women say they want, and what they respond to, are often worlds apart. The men with less experience cannot make you “hApPy” and that’s all you guys care about. Your entire existence is based solely on that. The more Innocent men, do not have the experience necessary. Having a gf/wife is a JOB. The more experience, the better you’ll do. You don’t understand because you don’t date women. Having a man is not the same. We don’t ask for as much. We’re not as fickle. And u being inexperienced is …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:45 AM
1

Thanks man
/r/MGTOW207/03/21 05:09 PM
1

How old were u when u got married?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 04:25 PM
2

Absolutely true. 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:24 PM
1

I’m 33 lol Oneitis for sure. Na she won’t. She has those exceptional genetics. We’re Hispanic. And I taught her how to be on point (exercise, diet, etc). But yeah. Genetics. I got a white girl now, younger, and she looks older. Genes matter
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 06:52 AM
8

U can feel it if u have experience. It’s a vibe.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:42 AM
6

Look man ideally, for quality wifey long term stock, under 4-5. Once she passes 7-10, trash.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:29 AM
2

^ this
/r/askTRP07/03/21 04:26 AM
4

OP seems fine. My friends that got married are fine. I let those statistics scare me out of the same thing. Dating is exhausting. Specially In your 30s. Women are retarded. I had a unicorn. And I let all this bullshit we see scare me off of it. And now I feel like I don’t have time. And I’m freaking out. It sucks.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 03:16 AM
1

They don’t think logically at all. I’m 6’1 and like chicks that are 5’3 or less more than I like chicks that are 5’5+. Yet guys I know that are 5’5-5’9 like tall chicks. Go figure
/r/askTRP07/03/21 01:18 AM
1

Good Job getting married. Wish I had.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/21 01:16 AM
1

I didn’t simp at all. Quite the opposite. Should have cared more.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 10:29 PM
1

Easier said than done.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 10:20 PM
1

My net worth is currently a little under a quarter mil. How’d you build it up so much?
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 09:33 PM
1

Yeah i can think of a few.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 09:14 PM
5

Oh sorry I didn’t look at the username. I was responding to the gentleman that said he was 53 years old.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 10:17 AM
5

I’m 33 lol no teachers
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 10:02 AM
9

If u could tell yourself something 20 years ago, something life changing, what would it be?
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 09:26 AM
5

Good deduction. When I was in my 20s I thought more about my business. My 6 year one ended right when I turned 31. And now I think more about women for some reason. But it’s more like an intellectual puzzle thing.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:46 AM
145

Being a millennial sucks. Everyone’s retarded. No honor, commitment, resilience, or sense of duty. Women leave and u have no room for error as a man.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 07:36 AM
2

It’s happening. Finally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:26 AM
6

Na. She didn’t wanna live w me until we were married. Lived w her parents. The marriage itself, she definitely pushed for. Wish I had gone thru with it. Trp made me too worried about marriage. She reached her limit and bounced. Couldn’t get her back. Hates me. Light switch effect. Etc.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:56 AM
0

How do you feel about age? It’s messing with my head. I’m 33.
/r/seduction06/03/21 02:01 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 01:23 AM
2

Wow. Was she ok otherwise?
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 01:21 AM
2

Why’d she leave?
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 01:04 AM
12

Age? Or is still off limits?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 01:03 AM
33

lol I look for patterns. Those details arent risky to share. I’ll go. 33. Never cohabitated. Longest was almost 6 years
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:59 AM
9

Wow. Age? Cohabitation?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:46 AM
19

How long has it been?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 12:39 AM
1

Lol they don’t even get that what they think THEY want and what they actually respond to are 2 different things. At least men want what they actually say they want.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:17 PM
2

Depends. Later in life, yes. But I never felt so centered, ambitious, and driven as I did when I was with the first one. A lot of married men I know have had the same kind of experience. Of course this is when their women stay. Which seems to only happen when u get them young enough.
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 05:48 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:10 AM
2

It’s all about boundaries. If u knew me, and I asked u for $20 you’d probably give it to me. But if I asked you to go flirt with a dude, u probably wouldn’t. Same thing.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 10:01 AM
1

Brazilian Jiu jitsu (which has judo in it) and boxing. It’s all u need.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 09:02 AM
4

Not true. I had one that did. Helped me get to where I am today. And vice versa. She got older. Hypergamy kicked in. I didn’t wanna get married yet. And she left. Probably for some one else. But they exist. Now I have one a year younger than the last one. Also helpful. And patient.
/r/MGTOW205/03/21 09:00 AM
1

Idk bro I’m a guy, and my physical standards are pretty high. I’ve seen smokeshows with average looking dudes. Women aren’t like us. They don’t value our looks as much as we value theirs. They value how we make them feel. Make a girl laugh, not at you, repeatedly, and she’s yours. They do care about height though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:52 AM
2

Lol not a good one I’ll tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:50 AM
4

Yeah. This is the way it’s always been.
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 10:03 PM
-7

I’m 33. Here I was thinking I was too old for beautiful women. Thought I had to settle for overweight single moms or something. Was just gonna let the whole thing go.
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:42 PM
2

Wow thank u for your post. That helps. Age?
/r/seduction04/03/21 06:53 PM
1

It’s rare bro. Usually it’s money, daddy issues, and stability. But trp makes it seem like it’s common and bound to happen. It’s not.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:52 AM
4

Lmfao plus one af
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:27 AM
2

I learned 4, 5, and 7 the hard way. I’m 33. Tired of people telling me I’m young and can replace what I once lost.
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:22 AM
0

🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:57 AM
1

Idk man they say the same thing to women about them being oppressed. They say it about us (I’m Hispanic) sometimes too.
/r/MGTOW03/03/21 10:47 PM
2

They always jump to mention being married the very first chance they get. I’m telling u. Getting a guy to marry you a is the epitome of validating your existence as a girl. I never knew this before. Now I see it’s important to all of them. It’s so weird. I mean... they literally fought for decades to not need us. To (try) be exactly like us. But this part never goes away it seems. No guy that I know, or have ever come across, is like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:50 AM
1

Good post
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 04:26 AM
3

It’s just nature man. Think about how much emphasis we men put on women’s looks. One could argue that we have innately shitty natures too. I don’t think we’re as bad, that’s for sure. But we’re not the selectors either. Mother Nature. Female. Web like. Competitive and brutal. Father Time. Male. Linear. Same to all. Steady. And also brutal.
/r/MGTOW03/03/21 03:20 AM
22

Nope. I don’t. Ever.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:46 AM
3

Yep. Not even close to as common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:45 AM
1

God... does anyone even know the meaning of incel anymore? It literally means involuntary celibate. I’m not celibate. And if I was, it wouldn’t be involuntary. That’s the only beauty of understanding how these dynamics actually work. U can tinker to your advantage. Doesn’t mean I have to like it as a concept though. And no lol being hot does not mean “provide men with good sex”. Any guy who’s been with beautiful women can attest to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:38 AM
3

No. It’ll repulse her. It’s a test. Keep doing what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:01 AM
1

The apps are a joke. Just talk to them in person. Cake. If u have a strong presence the way I do, goes a long way. Can’t portray that online
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 01:59 AM
3

Girls just have to be hot and nice. Smart is a plus. That’s it. If they’re bad in bed, we teach them what we like. We don’t shit on them for it. If they’re poor, nobody cares. If they’re sad, lost In life, etc, nobody cares. Men are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:11 AM
5

Haha I know man. But they will eventually IF they’re doing It right. We’re just dancing monkeys to chicks. Entertainers, providers of good emotions/guidance/resources, and sex toys. We’re not people. We’re judged on performance in every aspect of life. Including sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:50 AM
8

Lmfao not surprised AT ALL
/r/MGTOW03/03/21 12:48 AM
2

Yes. It is. Thus furthering your obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:47 AM
4

That outside approval thing they seek is insane to me to this very day. It’s the most irrational thing I’ve ever come across. It’s like they have no sense of self
/r/MGTOW03/03/21 12:45 AM
3

If they’re doing it right, they’ll realize sooner or later that it’s a Job. You are judged. Your performance does matter. She will tell her friends. She will compare you to other experiences. And also, condoms SUCK ASS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:44 AM
-2

Yep. Until they leave lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:39 AM
13

Not true. I can go without sex forever. Pump and dump just isn’t my thing. I’m also very picky. My rule is, when I bust a nut, I still need to be happy to have U around. This doesn’t happen with any girl below a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:39 AM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:20 AM
11

Because women are not suited for long term monogamous relationships. They just think they are. Monogamy makes them miserable unless they settle down young with the first or second guy they fuck. It’s a joke. Men are more Monogamous than women will ever be. While we’re wired more for novelty and variety more than they are, to an extent... emotionally? We’re much more monogamous. We have an innate sense of honor, duty, and obligation. Overgrown children with vaginas, do not.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:17 AM
1

Hey, you’re twice my age. Don’t u find life empty without a spouse?
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 12:16 AM
6

Man I hate this 1 in 7 billion logic. Take away the non English speaking. The fat. The ugly. The old. The single moms. The married bitches. The children. The males. The stupid. The cruel. The emotionally unavailable. And there aren’t that many people left.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:10 AM
16

Same here. 6’1, green eyes, beard, jacked, land whales only.
/r/MGTOW203/03/21 12:04 AM
4

Your women are very different. Those men. They sound like cheaters. I didn’t cheat. I should’ve. Seems like cheaters get more chances than faithful guys do when they’re immature.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 10:48 PM
4

Doesn’t matter anyway. It’s not like you can win. My Mrs. bezos left. I didn’t marry her. I regret it now. But she probably would’ve left anyway. Men have no room for mistakes in today’s era
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 10:42 PM
8

Yeah man I still can’t believe bezos. I wouldn’t risk my day one like that.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 09:47 PM
1

It’s instinct. And no, men aren’t as sensitive to the perceptions others have of them. Which is why we tend to be on the disagreeable end of the spectrum. Which is why more of us end up in prison than females. Etc etc etc. Very few men have had relationships ruined because of their male friends input. A lot of women have had their relationships ruined because of their “friends” input. Women have an innate need to belong. Men, not as much. It’s a base instinct. And the more appreciation you show …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:26 PM
1

In my eyes, she was already my wife. I used to tell her this all the time. I did things from day one that expressed this. Those things made her cry (from joy), I did the gayest most meaningful romantic shit ever. Men and women are different. U guys should just say date each other. Just took this from a marriage sub: “I got married young, does anyone have any good advice? Both of our parents were toxic and abusive so we don't have good examples. I married my best friend and I want to spend the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:13 PM
10

What happened with Tupac?
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 08:09 PM
29

Arnold cheated on his wife with the maid. And to this day he says it’s his biggest regret. All Brad had to do was stay with Jennifer. Kanye is a psycho who married a slut. Idk Tom cruises deal.
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 08:09 PM
1

As far as your brother, it’s changeable. But it’s also instinct. Men and women have 2 built in needs. Women need to feel like they’re good people. Regardless of whether they are not not. And men need to feel like they’re useful. Whether they are or not. I didn’t before. I do now. The bond I had with her was the tightest I’ve ever had with anyone. And at the end of it all, it was like I never existed. I didn’t even know something like that was possible. After speaking to a lot of men, I see now t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:06 PM
2

Men have different needs than women. The whole support group thing works well for women. Men are different. I’m as open as they come. I’ve spoken to friends. Family. I was complete vulnerable to the ex. And it never goes well. Ever. This is not what nature made us to be. It’s what nature made you guys be. At the end of the day, security in a relationship is an illusion. U can give the girl the paper, and she can detonate the agreement whenever she wants if she doesn’t fEeL good. So she gets the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:48 PM
1

Uh.... yeah. No fault divorce. No shame in separation. Fatherless single mother households like mine. Yeah. Yeah it is. There’s no more sanctity in relationships. Women are encouraged to put their feelings first above all else. Forget logic. Reason. Empathy. Honor. Duty. They’re always the victims. And we’re always the bad guy. Let’s see how far that takes us. Just stole this comment from the marriage sub: “ I got married young, does anyone have any good advice? Both of our parents were toxic an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:01 PM
1

Again.... We didn’t want kids. Women file for divorce all the time. It’s a joke. That tight as family bond u speak of, that’s a feeling. I had that feeling. Now I see how fake it is. Because to you guys, it’s only real if there’s a signed document on your timeline. I’ll never have that feeling again. What I mourn the most, besides her, is the loss of my innocence and optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:52 PM
1

😞 it’s so pointless having this conversation. No one understands. Look I just didn’t know. Trust me I’m paying the price. The person I was the closest to, the most vulnerable with, eho I did the most for ended up treating me as if I never existed. She, being a she, can marry whoever she wants. Meanwhile I can’t love anyone else. I’m in my 30s and the future looks bleaker with each passing day. Romance and love is all fairytale shit. It’s all conditional. No room for error if u have a penis. “Sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:51 PM
0

So many years of fighting for women’s rights and equality and all that, and you guys still have the same aspirations youve always had. U want to belong to someone and feel like youre valuable for it. It’s your source of validation. It’s pretty sad. It’s this desperate race. Thing is, men have been raised differently the past 30 years. We literally don’t know what to do. I didn’t know it was time. I didn’t know how fast time had gone by. I didn’t realize what was going on. I started a business wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:45 PM
1

How many people break up, then get back together and try again? Most. Literally most of them. I didn’t get That. I needed the wake up call. Did everything I could to reconcile. And didn’t get the opportunity. She’d be married right now, and we’d have a house. Before we split up I was already looking into buying property. Not everything is a Disney movie. People need a place to live and financial stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:40 PM
1

No one said I didn’t want it. Again, I never got a real conversation. I’m not surprised to see the lack of empathy here. I see it in media, every day life, everywhere. What men want does not matter. The concerns that plague men do not matter. Only women matter. It’s no wonder why marriage rates are declining and people are settling down older. Before, fathers raised sons to be good husbands and good stable men. Mothers raised their daughters to be good wives. All that is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:38 PM
1

We didn’t want kids. There was no rush. I asked for one thing and one thing only. Peace. Never got it. She was an anxious wreck and self sabotaged the relationship. Also it was my first adult serious relationship. It’s funny because her first bf proposed to her. She didn’t wanna get married. Then she jumped back and forth between 2 guys before she met me. Then with me she wanted it but was in a rush for some weird reason. U have no idea how much I did for that girl. I showed my committed I was i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:36 PM
1

Right... because what matters more to a man, is the woman herself. Not this “thing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:31 PM
1

No! Absolutely not. I would’ve married her right after. I needed the wake up call. I told her that. I was like... sleep walking. I didn’t have that example growing up. I didn’t know. We didn’t talk. She gave me a few passive aggressive indirect hints and that was it. When we split I wrote her a letter. I met up with her father. They knew I would’ve married her. But she changed her mind. It’s what they do. The girl I’m seeing now, her mom was with her dad 16 years. Then left him. Changed her mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:31 PM
1

No. She didn’t. If she wanted to be married to me, she would’ve given me the second chance I asked for. I wanted to fix the relationship and I was prepared to marry her. The way u guys reason is so bizarre. I have 2 married couples I know. Both together for 13 years. One guy proposed after 6 months. The other after 8 years. Same outcome. My mom divorced her first husband, and then my father. Been with this other guy 20 years and they’re still not married. And they’ve only been living together fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:25 PM
1

I didn’t know i was on a timer. I wasn’t against it. I just wasn’t ready yet. I wasn’t trying to dodge it. It’s not what u think. My mind was on other things. Like our future. Finances. I didn’t know women were like real estate. “Better sign this contract before someone else goes!!” Its a joke. The bond means nothing. It’s all fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:24 PM
1

U guys are all the same. U guys all reason almost exactly the same. I’m slowly coming to accept that men don’t matter at all. It’s sad. Stedman proposed to Oprah. She said no. He stayed with her for decades. Because he just wants to be with her. And she didn’t. Everything she wanted was on the other side of the second chance I asked for. But she couldn’t wait. We’re never worth the wait. You’d think if you really love someone that much, and you’re with them for that long, you’d sit them down and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:19 PM
1

Yeah. Everyone should leave. That’s you guys’ answer for everything. Leave. Even if you’re married. I see it all the time. Men have no room for error in this day and age. It’s scary. We’re bad no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:18 PM
0

Yeah. Everyone should leave. That’s you guys’ answer for everything. Leave. Even if you’re married. I see it all the time. Men have no room for error in this day and age. It’s scary. We’re bad no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:17 PM
3

I agree. With all of it. Except for the dolled up thing coming from a healthy interior part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:12 AM
18

Idk if men care about the dolling up. We care about your actual looks. (Gym, diet).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:32 AM
5

That’s great advice. Being responsive has cost me a lot as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:31 AM
1

U can. U can.... but that stupid piece of paper means a lot to these idiots. I guess it depends on how much u want or don’t want to share your life with one of these creatures.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 04:27 AM
2

It doesn’t matter anymore anyway. I’m 33 years old. Can’t get that type of innocence and continuity of narrative again. We were young. And together a long time. I didn’t get the second shot I asked for. We’d be married with a house already If I did. No one cheated. We didn’t have any break up prior. Women have a biological clock. Men have a financial one. I just wanted to feel stable. And sure of us. She bickered a lot and had these weird emotional tantrums I didn’t understand at the time. I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:10 PM
2

I never said I didn’t wanna be married. I expressed my concerns. We were having a rough patch. I was scared. Like many men are. Divorced parents. It’s never enough for women. If you’re not exclusive they want to be exclusive. Fair enough. I’d you’re exclusive, they wanna be married. Then if you’re married they want a better marriage. Then they want divorce because they don’t fEeL the same. It’s a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:29 PM
3

I wasn’t against marriage. I’m not against marriage. I just don’t think there should be a rush. I don’t think people should leave if they don’t get the marriage. Yeah. People die. When they’re old. Not in their 20s or 30s. Also, there’s common law. There are also living wills. The list goes on. Listen women are fickle. They change their minds. Could be now, or in 10 years. The vows don’t mean anything anymore. The particular girl I’m talking about was crazy about me, said she’d never leave me, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:13 PM
1

Thanks man. I guess there’s that side too. I have a few married couples i know who have been together since they were teenagers. I think that’s the only way it works.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 09:09 PM
3

Modern life is a joke. It’s not a life at all.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 09:07 PM
6

She knew I was loyal and only wanted her. She knew me very well. As far as you’re concerned, If you need a signed government issued document to feel that reassured, you need to work on your self esteem. It’s not normal. It’s not logical whatsoever. And again, it is about the thing. Whether u see it as the “commitment” or otherwise, the fact that you’d just go get it from someone else, proves this. U know what a man would do if he wanted to marry a girl and she wasn’t ready yet? He’d wait. Indefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:04 PM
1

There was no point in getting married to the last one either. There’s no point in marrying anyone. But girls have that Disney bullshit fantasy. And if they don’t get it from u, they’ll get it from someone else. Because as we already know, they want the thing. Not the man. But if the man (me) wants them (not this one, the last one) then why not? There are ways around all the legal troubles. Corporations. Family trusts. A wife who earns well. Etc. I used to think the way we all do here. It’s logic…
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 08:09 PM
2

Never did. Ex didn’t either. Current one doesn’t care. But now looking back, I would’ve had em with the other girl. She changed her mind and decided she wanted em after she dumped me. After years and years together. Now that I see everyone aging and disappearing, I wouldn’t mind having them. But not just with anyone.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 07:57 PM
2

I’m 33. It’s not being forced on me. The last one (the one I should’ve actually done) was. But that kinda thinking, the whole getting taken to the cleaners thing, is what kept me from doing it. It was stupid cuz she made food money and she helped me build what I have.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 07:53 PM
3

Life is kinda depressing if that’s all there is. Yeah I know, that was my biggest fear. Ruined my life because of that fear.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 07:41 PM
3

Can’t. The one thing I want, I can’t get
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 07:26 PM
10

I adored her. I wanted to spend my life with her. I wanted to grow old with her. I just didn’t know I had to sign a piece of paper to make that happen. Since women fought so long to not be seen as property, the whole “sign this piece of paper or someone else will” thing makes no logical sense. That’s how human beings deal with real estate. Not other human beings. But now I know better. Chicks want the thing. Not the man himself. The thing is more important. The man himself is interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:26 PM
3

When you’re older, it’s worthless. But when you’re young, it gives you this base, this continuity of narrative. Jordan Peterson talks about it. The most productive and ambitious I’ve ever been, was when I was in my LTR with a girl I adored but also couldn’t stand at the same time lol I haven’t been able to get that back since. Everything I am today, I became with her help. And vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:01 PM
13

My ex who wanted me to marry her would bring this up all the time. Taxes and health insurance. It wasn’t enough for me. I regret it now but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:00 PM
1

No. She’s not. She hasn’t brought it up at all. The ex was dying to marry me. But we fought too often and I only cared about my business at the time. I couldn’t see what she saw until it was too late.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 06:57 PM
3

I don’t love her at all. This is the problem. The last girl who i adored and she adored me, had all the friendship and trust in the world. And even still, she wouldn’t work thru that patch. It seems like u just can’t win.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 06:24 PM
3

There are no tingles. And she’s still here. That’s my point. She’s more realistic about stuff
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 06:18 PM
3

U think this is a better reason to get married? Just stability? Cuz I have this opportunity now with a girl I don’t love, and I’m barely attracted to. But she’s old fashioned. Kind. Easy going, stable.
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 06:08 PM
6

That last one is huge. The last thing u said accounts for 80% or these issues
/r/MGTOW201/03/21 05:18 AM
1

Always the man’s fault no matter what. Always. Always always. When u look into why, it makes sense. It’s all evolutionary stuff. But it’s depressing cuz it means there’s no escaping it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:11 AM
1

We don’t care about make up. We prefer a girl that doesn’t need all the face paint to be pretty, and they exist. I’ve also noticed my whole life that make up tends to make those that use it kinda ugly without it. Their skin gets bad. The girl I lasted the longest with, never needed make up. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 01:24 AM
6

Good post. U still have to go get them. They dont just come to you. U need social skills. A social circle. The list goes on. And they’re wired to leave eventually so there’s always that in the background. I’d you’re able asshole, they leave cuz you’re an asshole. If you’re nice, they leave cuz you’re nice. It gets harder as u grow older. I wish trp would preach a bit more about settling down young. When women are at their most idealistic and innocent. Yes, we as men get better with time. But the…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 10:43 PM
17

Yeah i know now. It’s too late now. Didn’t know back then.
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 09:01 PM
31

In my personal experience, it’s just age and herd mentality. My ex worshipped the ground I walked on until she had exposure to tons of different people, got older, and got her career. To be fair, I was immature too
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 08:40 PM
48

It’s different when they’re young. They usually brag about you when they’re young. Eventually, co workers and friends get in their ear. They get older. Then they do the opposite and eventually leave you. This is why it works when u marry the girl young and move her to the middle of nowhere. She’ll “need” you so she’ll “love” you.
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 08:36 PM
18

They don’t do it on purpose. They’re not evil masterminds at all. They’re like children. When u were a little kid, and u were hungry, and your parents got u McDonald’s or whatever, u didnt GAF if they ate or not. It just didn’t cross your mind. They’re the same. Kids forever
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 09:30 AM
1

Isn’t it empty though? My unicorn was my best friend. Gay sounding I know. But I became what I am alongside her. Weird without her. I don’t trust ppl easily. Now even less so. When I say people, I mostly mean women.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 09:25 AM
2

I don’t like this current bitch that much It’s not as risky as you’d think if your wife makes good money (which my would’ve been wife did) and u have either a corporation, a family trust, a prenup, or all 3.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 07:25 AM
4

I feel how u feel. Just cuz I’ve accomplished stuff, doesn’t change anything. “Accomplished” past tense. It’s not like I’m a doctor with a steady check. I’m, for all intents and purposes, kind of a pirate. What u feel, I feel. Except the sense of self shit I guess. That one comes and goes... but I’ve never had that issue in my life this whole shit
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 07:22 AM
5

Na man trust me. U did good. You attracted to your wife? Is she the first person u wanna tell when u pull off some crazy shit? If the answer to both is yes, u did good. How old are u guys?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 07:15 AM
1

We didn’t. It was part of the reason I dated her. A month after we split, I saw her and she said she wanted a son. I rolled my eyes and walked to my car. About a year later, I entertained the idea. Jordan Peterson got to me. If I was ever to raise children with anyone, and have it actually be fun, it would be her. She’s ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 07:14 AM
3

I was with mine for 6. I wasn’t... “bored”. But I was used to it. Kinda bored. Never felt tied down tho. I kinda always do what I wanna do. It’s never an issue for some reason. I thought this was normal, until I’d see other guys stories. What happened with you tho? What age range?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 06:27 AM
1

ABSOLUTELY. I didn’t know when I started. All I knew was I hated co workers. And rules. And schedules.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 05:14 AM
1

I used to be like you. I’m at a weird spot.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 05:02 AM
8

I always did it. Dodged a lot of bullets that way. 2 times I avoided chlamydia. The third I avoided a pregnancy. With the first 2, I had them go get tested. That’s how I knew later. With the third, she told me she had an iud. Ended up pregnant a year later by someone else.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 05:02 AM
2

Yeah man the part that fucked w me the most, was the “partner for life” and “suffers the most”. That is so true. I’ve been studying them a lot. And as much as we hate it, 95% of their behavior is completely.... how do I say it....subconscious? Like they’re not malicious on purpose. I inbox girls on here all the time that are about to drop their bfs/husbands. I point out the faulty logic they’re using. More often than not, they’re surprised. And thankful. They never saw that perspective. It liter…
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 05:00 AM
2

Na Man U don’t get it. Yes, we’re the prize. Men produce. Women and children consume. My point is we’re seen as a tool. A utility. Not a prize.
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 04:40 AM
1

I’ve read the sidebar and all the books in it before I even knew what a sidebar was. I’m a dork like that. Also, I was brought to the US from Cuba. Grew up with nothing. Nothing privileged about me. I just always had high expectations and high standards for myself. Not saying I’m perfect. I’m not. Far from it. But I’m not what u think.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 04:38 AM
1

Doesn’t sound like a prize to me
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 02:25 AM
4

U sure? That’s how I felt when I got her, but I was 25. I’m 33 now. Different ball game. And I don’t do single moms.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 12:24 AM
3

We were part of that 10% had I gone thru with it cuz we’re both hilarious and stubborn. Watching us go back and forth was like watching a tv show. Her family’s also Christian and shit so they would’ve helped keep that together. Neither of us were religious. U know all trp principles that have to be in place for the elusive unicorn? They were all there. Most burning desire I’ve ever had from anyone. The bitch got tired of waiting. Can’t blame her
/r/TheRedPill28/02/21 12:23 AM
1

How long total after u guys split up? And how old were u and her at the time of the split ?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:51 PM
6

Yeah. They don’t wanna wait. It was my fault in a lot of ways. I was a dick. But her own internal anxiety is what made things between us impossible. And then of course I went into hyper beta chase mode after she left lmao... fml man. What a waste. So many years of work for nothing
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 09:33 PM
5

By now her and I would’ve been balling and starting a family. I was on a really good trajectory before we split
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 09:18 PM
14

I got my “unicorn” (yeah yeah yeah I know) when I was 25. She was 21. Low n-count. Helpful. Admired and adored me. I built this business next to her. The happiest I’ve ever been was when I got together with her, was chubby, and lived in a shack. I lost sight of what was important later on. I neglected her alot . I prioritized money and my ambitions over her. We both excelled. We argued a lot. She graduated. I got a Mercedes. She wanted to get married. I didn’t yet. Then I lost her 2 years ago. C…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 09:12 PM
11

Pulled off everything I wanted to. Time freedom. Financial freedom. Jacked. Sacrificed a lot in my 20s to get here. Too much.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 08:58 PM
1

Cut her off. How long later did she come back around?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:10 PM
1

Yeah.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:02 PM
6

Yeah. I learned the hard way. I’m 33. I figure I’ll eat a bullet at 40 if things don’t get better.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 06:39 PM
20

I think we should settle when we’re 28-30. I know it’s not a popular belief. But it’s my opinion. Wife goggles help. The innocence helps. Everything later is second best.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 06:36 PM
1

Because logic.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:13 PM
1

I do this.
/r/MGTOW27/02/21 04:13 AM
4

^ this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:02 AM
0

It’s not necessarily trad con. It’s just career driven women aren’t as.... feminine. They’re more difficult to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 12:01 AM
2

Kinda pointless after your 20s. The best we can get usually comes when we’re least equipped to hold onto it. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 11:42 PM
2

No evo psych doesn’t dismiss that stuff. Evo psych is just evo psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:49 PM
0

No. It doesn’t. Men don’t have the need to belong as much. For the reasons I mentioned. There are more men living in the woods alone than women to this day, for a reason. Men have smaller support systems in their life for a reason. As far as the suicide, think more of it as self deletion. The need to survive is there, sure. But if men can’t contribute.. Or if they’re a reproductive failure (like when their wives leave them). Adding the drastic and aggressive linear way our brains are wired. Self…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:03 AM
8

SUCH A LONG FUCKING LIST
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:47 AM
1

Men need to feel useful. Women need to feel like they’re good people. Good chimp. Useful chimp. If u wanna make a girl suicidal, socially ostracize her. If everyone makes her feel like she’s a bad person, EVERYONE, she won’t want to live. Useful chimp. Take away a man’s work. Or hobbies. Take away his utility, and he won’t want to live. Men evolved to use violence, anger, linear/logical thinking and aggression to solve their problems. Which is partly why they’re more prone to killing themselves.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:41 AM
0

I’m not religious. At all. It’s not about religion. It’s about consistent patterns throughout time. And as far as all those other things, the suicides and all that, that is explained in evo psych too. There’s a reason men commit suicide (successfully) more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:18 AM
5

Yes and no. Believe it or not, they’re like kids man. A lot of them don’t see it. They just feel their way thru life. When it’s pointed out to them by someone they trust and respect, they SOMETIMES can see it.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 07:16 AM
2

Maybe, but it works. Even my own mother, saint of a lady, same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:11 AM
1

“Questions for purple pill men” Then.... “Of the men that consider themselves the bottom 80%” And then u proceeded with your questions. And sorry but millions of corroborated perspectives and experiences from men, since the beginning of time, counts for something. There are red pill truths even in the Bible. A lot of these things were common sense to our grandfathers. For a reason. Even if you were to disregard all our anecdotal evidence, all the evo stuff makes perfect logical sense when u dig …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:00 AM
2

Yeah they don’t care
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 06:47 AM
6

Aw here we go with this shit. Trying to disqualify concrete evolutionary psych based on individuals possible past traumas. Correlation does not equal causation miss. And “purple pill men” does not equal bottom 80%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:36 AM
2

How do they try to hurt or humiliate you?
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 06:28 AM
9

Happens in the Hispanic community too. I’m Cuban. Happens in the white community too, but differently. Sometimes karen will marry billy the accountant for appearances, but fuck Jose on the side.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 06:27 AM
14

That’s best case scenario. Worst case scenario, they literally CANNOT SEE IT. A lot of times it isn’t even malicious. It doesn’t compute to them the same way it’s does to us. The few open minded ones, can see the other side of the coin when u point it out. It’s pretty cool to see their reaction too. Like a kid learning about a new dinosaur. But those are far and few in between. They exist tho
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 05:58 AM
13

Every. Single. Time.
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 05:56 AM
2

Yeah
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 05:33 AM
3

Lmfao not surprised
/r/MGTOW26/02/21 05:31 AM
2

Stay and save money.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:10 PM
1

Pick up and experience. The mystery method. Read it as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:51 PM
8

Love is bullshit
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:01 PM
1

I’m 33. I wish I was OPs age. How are things for you now?
/r/seduction25/02/21 06:06 PM
2

Lmaon
/r/MGTOW225/02/21 01:59 AM
3

You’re right to think this way. Ignore what anyone else says. We’re animals.
/r/MGTOW225/02/21 01:59 AM
9

Lmfao
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:57 AM
9

^ this
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:57 AM
6

No it wouldn’t ruin my image of her. Or make me lose any respect for her. I’ve had this before. It was always flattering that she wanted it so much from me. And I think the whole “men mainly want sex” thing is oversold. When we’re young with crazy hormones maybe. But after 25-30, if she’s gorgeous, and funny, we just like to have her around. While it’s true that women are beauty objects for men, it’s not as “sex object” based as you’d think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:56 AM
1

It works when you’re young if you guys stay together. U can only stay together if u marry her then move away to the middle of nowhere with her
/r/MGTOW225/02/21 01:54 AM
2

NEGATIVE. Same with social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:49 PM
1

YES. Women make up the majority of the consumers. Women = money.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 07:33 PM
0

Lol with every day that passes, offing myself seems more and more appealing.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 06:45 PM
1

A good LTR can add a lot to your life. But trp principles still apply. She’ll leave. Zero remorse. There’s a sweet spot. Early to mid 20s. After that, trash.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 06:42 PM
12

Because the way to attract women isn’t “nice”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:29 PM
1

I’ve watched all of those guys. Fucking depressing.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 06:08 PM
1

I already lost the love of my life. Gorgeous. Smart. Hilarious. We grew up together. She helped me set up my business. Etc. 6 years for nothing. Briffaults law. The girl I’m with now is easy. Doesn’t have as many options as the other one. Good relationship w her dad. Cooks. Cleans. Folds my clothes. Doesn’t nag. Ever. Feminine. Not combative. But I feel nothing. I’m not that attracted to her. She’s quiet. Not the brightest crayon in the box. But I’m thinking of settling down w her because of how…
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 05:44 PM
1

But isn’t it empty? I feel like without family or at the very least a spouse, life gets pretty empty after 40. Shit even 30. I’m 33.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 05:37 PM
1

Na I know it’s none of my business. But it would help me gain some perspective
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 05:32 PM
1

You’re really happy being average and just living day to day with nothing to strive toward?
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 05:29 PM
2

My own way, is MY own way, my way. Not your way.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 05:21 PM
2

It’s only been that way for millennia.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 05:09 PM
1

Oh shit I didn’t see the “a month” part my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:08 PM
1

Same.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:06 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:01 PM
1

If you’re over thinking it this much, u don’t understand it well enough.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:27 AM
2

This is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:17 AM
7

For males I think it’s more about emotions. I think the more connected relationships a man has fail, the less he’ll be able to bond in the future. Essentially, I think too many relationships do to men what too many dicks do to women.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:43 AM
1

Gray and bald, check. But jacked. 33. Weird spot.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:31 AM
1

We don’t win. No one gives a fuck about men. And our value comes from our accomplishments, and abilities. Who we are as people, doesn’t matter. It never has. It never will. Women win.
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 01:28 AM
1

1 million isn’t that much money anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:26 AM
5

Yeah well men’s friends never really advise each other to dump their partners unless she’s cheating or something like that. We just listen to each other. Roll our eyes. And go “women, what are ya gonna do?”. Can’t say that about a woman’s female friends. Which is the only thing i was referring to. They sabotage each other’s relationships BECAUSE they’re wired to compete against each other. It’s all subconscious. They don’t know they’re doing it. Not surprised that u blame men though. We get blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:56 AM
0

Didnt day it wasn’t a real thing. I understand it’s a real thing. And it’s unacceptable. It happens the other way around too. Men just don’t call the cops on their women. It goes underreported. They should. But they don’t. What I’m saying is that out of every guy I know that has been dumped, in LONG term relationships, none of them cheated or put hands on their girls. None. Zero. It’s has been demonstrated over and over that it is the female, not the male, who becomes unsatisfied in a long term …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:30 AM
-1

Not as often as the women who like to use this excuse seem to think. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:27 AM
-1

A lot man. A lot. Too much I think sometimes
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:11 PM
4

A lot man. A lot. Too much I think sometimes
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:10 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:37 PM
7

Yeah. The destruction of the man is intentional. But the destruction they cause each other isn’t. That’s what makes it so dangerous. More relationships have been destroyed by a girl’s “friends” than anything else. “Fuck him, you can do better, he isn’t good enough, girls night, blah blah blah”. Most of those same girls will disappear when they’re in a good relationship. And later in life, those friends are gone. But your husband isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:17 PM
0

Back then people could afford it because we had half the work force. Therefore salaries were higher. Increase the supply, and u drop the demand. Raise women to be ambitious and productive, just how u raise men to be ambitious and productive, and what does one have to offer the other? Nothing. Nothing besides sex. Relationships require polarity to succeed. Women throughout history have been good at calming their men down when they’re angry. Just like men are SUPPOSED to be good at reassuring wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:15 PM
12

The women get older. More baggage. Same goes for you. Sure u can go younger. But it’s easier said than done. And then the continuity of narrative isn’t there. You grew and grew up with your girl. She was there when u were an idiot who had nothing and vice versa. Neither one of u expected much from the other. It’s not like that when u start over. You’re looking to meet someone’s laundry list. What u do, matters. Where you’re at, matters. Your troubles or issues, which tend to increase as we age, …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 09:47 PM
2

Me. Until my ex left partly for not marrying her. She didn’t want kids when we met. Changed her mind after the split. When she began working in the medical field, her perspective changed. It took me a while to catch up, but now I see what she saw. I’d have kids, but only with her, not with anyone else
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 07:19 PM
3

Not as many as you’d think man. Father Time gives no fucks.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 07:09 PM
7

Yeah. And it’s sad because women are wired to compete against one another. A girls “friends” have sabotaged more relationships than infidelity ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:41 PM
2

A horrible horrible thing. Both are unhappy and useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:32 PM
3

It’s not that simple. The pain you feel is unbearable. And maddening.
/r/MGTOW23/02/21 06:31 PM
8

All I cared about was growing my business. She was messier than I’ve ever been. But she needed a lot of attention. I was too focused on my business. My shit was more than together. When I met her I was a bartender making 80k a year. Then it dwindled to like 1k a month. I got fired, started a business with 4k, and grew it to almost 7 figures in revenue in the first 3 years by myself while she was in school. At the end of the day, girls just wanna have fun.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 06:30 PM
28

I had the girl of my dreams for 6 years. She didn’t give a fuck about any of this shit. But I was too focused on my purpose. And I didn’t wanna get married yet. She left and no ones been able to fill those shoes.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 06:18 PM
-2

The main benefit of marriage to men, (which to some might not even be a benefit), is that u get the best odds of keeping the girl long term if u marry her. Yes women end most relationships. Yes women are fickle, and get bored, and always want more. But they also want to be married. Way more than men do. They don’t see it the way we do. They don’t see it with logic. It’s this big fantasy for them. They start to see it with logic when they want to leave. Whereas men see it more like “well but why …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:43 AM
2

Yeah. Good old creatine monohydrate. And don’t forget, nothing, and I mean NOTHING, beats the right food.
/r/MGTOW23/02/21 02:14 AM
7

Not really. But you should stay hydrated.
/r/MGTOW23/02/21 02:13 AM
1

It’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:37 AM
0

A man has always, and will always, be judged by his success. Financial, reproductive, or otherwise. It’s nature.
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 01:20 AM
29

Yeah try to keep this one. If she’s keepable to you. Doesn’t get much better after being the 1st.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:15 AM
75

Lmfao this ngga said “hoe trickery”
/r/askTRP22/02/21 09:15 AM
1

You’ll see. Early 30s. Perspectives change.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 09:09 AM
2

Yeah. But to set it as the standard is ridiculous.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:08 PM
2

How’d u get 2 wives?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:23 PM
1

Drop her
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:17 PM
-1

Energy dwindles. Parents get older, sick, and look to you for support. The dating pool shrinks and u end up having to settle if it didn’t work with the ideal person from your 20s. Time goes by faster. Things get real and scary, really fast.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 06:14 PM
26

Thank you for clarifying with examples. My answer: none. 33M.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:22 AM
1

When U realize how worthless and alone we are as men, it’s easier. U know that sense of honor and duty u were born with? Well now u don’t have to listen to it as much when it comes to women.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:20 AM
5

Na man. Has happened to me twice. The worst one was when I put the female down.... when she was 21. I got her as a kitten when I was an 8 year old boy. My condolences.
/r/MGTOW21/02/21 10:10 AM
15

Had an ex who got cold sculpting, she didn’t need it. She was gorgeous. Perfect. Something out of a magazine. Was with her since we were kids. Told her she didn’t need that shit. She left the following year. And now I know all the stuff there is to know about stuff lol
/r/MGTOW21/02/21 10:04 AM
5

Lol I must be a genius. I’ve never spent this on a gf. Usually they end up spending money on me. Not sure why. I don’t need anything from them monetarily. I don’t ask for anything. But it ends up this way. I think the entire thing is on you as the man. The way you set it up. What u put up with and don’t. The only power women have is the power u give them.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 09:56 AM
3

Just fuckin do it man. It’s worse when you’re not in college. Exposure therapy. Walk up to the hottest girl U see and ask For the time. Say thank u and walk away. Then directions. Then eventually u won’t give a shit anymore. THIS IS WHEN U SAY STUFF. It doesn’t matter what U say. How U say it and your internal state is what matters. Once u reach outcome independence, this won’t bother u anymore. But u won’t get there being a pussy complaining about the same creatures you’re trying to enjoy life …
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:48 AM
1

I never wanted kids. But I always wanted a wife or the non legal equivalent. Until trauma brought me to the trp. Now I know everything I ever fantasized about doesn’t really exist. Life’s kind of empty without it. Money and stuff is kinda pointless
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 09:41 AM
4

Bad advice. We only have from about 20-30. Maybe 35. That’s all we have. No one tells us that. I’m 33. If I could give my younger self advice it would be to put more pressure on myself. Time flies. Life is short.
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 09:22 AM
-3

U can’t always date a girl 20 years younger
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:04 AM
2

Na I’m just saying oeak smv for men isn’t 20..
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:58 AM
1

Body building and sparring, It’s a tie
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:48 AM
7

No. I don’t.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:36 AM
0

This guy gets it, I disagree with 20 tho.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:36 AM
7

Yeah briffaults law is a motherfucker ain’t jt
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 01:14 AM
34

Na it’s not the area. I’m in miami fl and it’s the same thing. This is kind of why I disagree with Rollo’s smv chart. Yeah men MIGHT be better in our 30s. But the good chicks get snatched up in their 20s. Even he got married in his 20s.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 01:03 AM
1

I just read the title. The biological reason is easy. Men are disposable. Females have always been the coveted sex. Tribes that protected their women have always done better. Eggs are valuable. Sperm is abundant and worthless
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:58 PM
1

Gtfo
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:26 AM
2

^ gold
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:24 AM
1

Woooooooooooooow
/r/MGTOW20/02/21 07:05 AM
1

It doesn’t get any more honest than being a virgin and marrying a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:04 AM
2

Na. I’m one of the guys they “find sexually appealing”. I get the “can’t-believe-I’m-doing-this” types. I’m far from an incel. And I still share the sentiment. It’s better for everyone. Specially them. The women themselves. And therefore, the men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:48 AM
3

I wish I could give you advice. When I was your age I was a bartender. When I was 25 I started a business and have been running it ever since. I’m 33. But I think about a career every now and then. Even though I’ve done quite well in the fraction of the time most professionals do. There is still fear. U can do a lot in 10 years. I’ll tell u right now energy dwindles later on. One thing I CAN tell you, is that u should start to invest NOW. Not later, not next year. NOW. I can give u tips on this …
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:48 AM
1

I’m gonna inbox you about PA school.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:46 AM
0

Thank you for your service. That was a good choice. I always regretted not doing it. The military pays for school. U didn’t take advantage of this? If not, can you?
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:43 AM
0

Idk man. Idk.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 04:22 AM
2

Idk still going thru it over 2 years later. Completely lost. I grew up w the bitch. I got another one but meh.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 04:21 AM
6

Let her know. Then ghost
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:13 AM
0

😂😂😂 calm down pops.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:36 AM
0

No. Violence and aggression is viewed as part of toxic masculinity. Which is why I used it as an example. It’s ok if you don’t understand. It’s hard to have these abstract types of conversations with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:27 AM
0

There is no toxic masculinity. There’s just masculinity. Some of it is good. Some of it is bad. A good man is more of the good. But able to tap into the bad when need be. Violence is a good example of this. You’re married with kids. If someone tries to hurt your family, and you snap their neck, that’s “toxic masculinity”. It’s violence. Aggression. And anger. But it was necessary. And it solved a problem. Same goes for femininity (which is practically becoming extinct). There’s good and bad side…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:09 AM
1

Na I meant the PA route. U said the hours are better.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 01:04 AM
2

*effective. But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:55 AM
1

Yes. But does he get married? Does he keep a woman for 40 years? No. Grumpy and competent grandpa does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:54 AM
15

Not “even older women’s standards”. Older women demand more. They always have. Another reason Younger women are a billion times better than older ones.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 12:52 AM
2

“Brooding artists” aren’t taken seriously. And no. One thing has always, and will always be true. Women are wired to be repulsed by, and punish weakness. Regardless of what they think consciously. A woman will forgive an asshole, but she’ll never forgive a pussy. A mother is not sexually attracted to her son. Once u awaken a woman’s maternal instinct, u turn off her attraction for you. Take these 2 scenarios: girl leaves guy after years. Guy breaks down, cries, and practically begs for her not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:51 AM
2

Glad it’s worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:45 AM
1

Male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:43 AM
2

^ this af
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:38 AM
1

U mean once you’re practicing, you only work half the day?!
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:35 AM
2

Either flip it or invest it in ETFs. Compound interest starts to be magical in the 21st year. I know that sounds like shit at your age. I’m 11 years older than u and wish I started when I was your age.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:58 PM
22

Just read the title. Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:52 PM
1

Agree 100%. I’m 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:43 PM
1

What are the hours?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:37 PM
3

Man I wish I had the calmness of mind to search for answers when this happened to me a few years ago.
/r/MGTOW19/02/21 09:27 PM
1

Yeah. Men period.
/r/MGTOW19/02/21 09:26 PM
0

I agree. That’s not what I meant.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 07:00 PM
1

Oh shit it’s you. Just noticed. Yeah man but you’ve been w your girl for like 11 years. U have that continuity of narrative. Hard to start over in your mid 30s.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 06:08 PM
1

They’re not the exception. Women have more careers and degrees than men do in today’s age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:03 PM
1

Shit I would, happily, if the bitch would make me a plate of food, or pick up a broom, or go to the gym. Or at the very least not be a headache. Sad part is, good behavior comes from average or below average looking chicks. And it’s hard to feel anything for those because of the way the male brain is wired. Hot girls are ALL batshit crazy. On a spectrum, but it’s always there.
/r/MGTOW19/02/21 06:24 AM
4

19-23 with low n-count (below 4, 3 or less) is the sweet spot.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 05:56 AM
5

Woulda worked. She was young. She saw me as a demigod for a while lol you can keep em like that when u marry em and move em away before their environment, and other shitty women, ruins em
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 05:47 AM
3

Corporate job at 35 huh... 🤔 u still in it?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 05:46 AM
41

Got away with one. Cat died. Cat was 21 years old. Got her (the cat) when I was an 8 year old boy. Second time, she left. This was 6 years with no break ups. Lmao don’t do it. They’re all the same.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 05:43 AM
3

She helped me build it. We got together when we were both NOTHING. I was an idiot. Immature.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 02:22 AM
9

It’s funny because I keep seeing all this sex stuff. The main issue isn’t sex. It’s about relationships working out long term. Ideally for life. Sex ain’t shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:15 AM
10

Man it’s horrible. I’m 33 and I feel like I’m 23. I did ok. Started a business. Which I still have. But I dropped out of school, and didn’t marry the girl. Cuz I thought I was “young” at 29-30. I didn’t know. I was busy growing the business. I didn’t know what else to do.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 12:27 AM
6

This is so true
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 09:19 PM
1

^ this. I agree. I noticed this too. I wanna hear your take on it. How’d it change yours?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 07:49 AM
1

Just read the title. My first thought was “lol Yeah I bet it is”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:40 AM
11

Thank u sir. I had to try man. What did I put my money in? Pffff everything. Think of every big name u can think of. I own most, if not all of those. Plus ETFs. Plus crypto. Literally everything was on sale in March. It was great. I even added to my existing positions at the time. Dollar cost average down. I got lucky. U didn’t jump in?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 07:36 AM
-1

I’m a millennial. One of the rare ones with enough common sense to think for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:31 AM
4

Don’t forget the economy. Women are consumers. Men are producers.
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 05:50 AM
5

Yup. One giant collective shit test.
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 05:48 AM
3

Yep
/r/MGTOW18/02/21 05:48 AM
74

I doubled and tripled my money by dumping all of it in during the sell off last year when corona broke out. It was scary but I decided I’d put buffets advice to the test. “Be greedy when others are fearful, and fearful when others are greedy”. Now I can say, his advice was spot on.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 05:39 AM
7

I’m a Chad. A cuban Chad. Idk about all the obese shit lmao But it’s all the same. Briffaults law does not care. They need the thing. The man himself is never enough. I’ve tried to explain this to them. But it really doesn’t compute. I even use the following example: “Stedman proposed to Oprah. She said no. He stayed with her for decades. Because he wanted to be with HER. For HER. Not for this “thing”. Not for this title, ring, contract, fancy party, etc. He just wanted to grow old with HER. Now…
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 05:30 AM
22

Good theory, except “the chads” are also disposable. Make no mistake. People think good looking guys have it easier. They do not. Trust me, it’s much better to not be able to get one than it is to get one, have to deal with her, only to lose her years later and start the process from scratch.
/r/MGTOW218/02/21 05:00 AM
2

I Just read the title. In a word, with honor. That’s it. Keep your commitments and promises. Don’t be so fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:04 AM
4

I bet they are. I knew a couple that lived into their 90s. They got together when they were 17. I’m positive that if they didn’t have each other they wouldn’t have lived as long
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 10:14 PM
0

Back then relationships worked
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 09:50 PM
1

We’re more trustworthy in a lot of ways than they are. We’re less fickle. But they only know how they feel. I guess that’s why they’re like that. Kind of how a cheater is always suspicious of their partner. Idk about them being the weaker gender all the way. Physically? Sure. Logic-wise? Yeah; sometimes. But they’re a lot stronger than us when it comes to being cut throat. They’re stronger than us when it comes to breaking attachments. They’re stronger than us when it comes to starting over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 06:47 PM
1

They escalate when you apologize because you’re the leader. An apology is basically saying “you’re right, I made a mistake”. Which then makes them go “yeah! You’re right!! U suck!!” And it puts you in their frame too. Whatever you think of yourself, they’ll think of you. Like a child.
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 06:35 PM
2

Yeah. A lot of them are like that. Specially the hot ones. Your biggest mistake was taking her seriously. Second biggest was apologizing. Taking her seriously made it a bigger deal than what it was. Then then apologizing made it your fault. I know this sounds absurd, but it’s how it works. If you hadnt done either, she would’ve calmed down. Does this mean it’s your fault most women are irrational? No. But a lot of them are. A helpful tool to help deal with women like these, with as little confli…
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 07:42 AM
4

Never saw a point in it before. Until I lost a girl that wanted it. Now I just see it as a way to keep the girl. Even though she can still file for divorce later on, she wants to make sure im not going anywhere. It’s funny because they fought so long to not be viewed as property, and to this day, it’s like “u better sign this piece of paper before someone else does!!” Are u a woman? Or real estate? Men don’t think this way. We want to be with the girl. We don’t care how. We don’t care whether th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:11 AM
2

Gtfo
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:31 AM
0

I started at 30. But I was low starting at 28. Did my best to raise it naturally for 2 years. And it worked but not enough. Make sure when u start, u do NOT start without HCG. HCG every other day. Period. From day 1. It’s your safety net. If u keep your balls working, you can get off if u ever need to.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:42 PM
4

Had I known this I would’ve married the girl I was with in my 20s. It seems like that’s all u end up with as a man. Until eventually she leaves or whatever.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 09:41 PM
1

Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:10 PM
5

Because the English language has lost all meaning to them. Plus studies show consistently, over and over and over, that women tend to blame the entire failure of the relationship on the men. If you read up on the light switch effect, you’ll see how their brain operates. They’ll amplify anything negative u might’ve done, completely forget about anything good u did, and they believe it. They basically gaslight themselves. This happened to me and I can say that it’s horrible. It makes u feel crazy.…
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 05:43 PM
1

Yeah I didn’t really wanna write that. Idc it’s all kinda empty anyway. But I figured it’s how u guys decide what’s top 10% or not.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:36 PM
3

I’ve literally never been with a girl who doesn’t have divorced parents. It sucks.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:18 PM
1

I’m well aware. That’s why I didn’t do it, but the damage was the same (mentally and emotionally) as if I would’ve gotten divorced. I regret it because u don’t get that chance twice. Unicorns become garbage with age and experience. Every successful happy marriage I know, they got together young and stayed together. Wife goggles for him, and low n count from her, is the magic formula. Also, after everything was said and done, I found a ton of ways around all the dangers of marriage. Prenups aside…
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 04:32 AM
5

6 figures 6’1 Benz Bike Waterfront condo Green eyes Jacked Self employed Quarter mil liquid
/r/askTRP15/02/21 01:37 AM
4

Numbers game. The whole “your prime is in your 30s” is oversold. Dating pool shrinks. Girls get more jaded. And so do you.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 12:00 AM
1

First and foremost, people, man or woman, should talk to their partner when there’s an issue. Not anyone else. That being said.... Their fathers. Brothers. Male friends (who are 100% behind a shadow of a doubt not attracted to her).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:08 PM
1

I had a 10 who added a lot to my life. She was my best friend. Smart, hilarious. I didn’t marry her but I should’ve. It’s not all about sex and feeling good.
/r/MGTOW214/02/21 08:33 PM
0

Women shouldn’t take dating advice from women period. Women are wired to compete against one another in this arena. Her “girlfriends” have ruined more relationships than infidelity ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 07:34 AM
18

Yup.... and anxiety.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:26 AM
7

Good comment.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:26 AM
6

Here’s a secret... the urge to be a “normie” kicks in after 30-35. The trick is to fight it tooth and nail no matter what. But what you’re practicing is delayed gratification. The feelings you’re having are normal. And it’s what anyone successful had to go thru.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 07:23 AM
6

Finding this sub 5-6 years ago would’ve saved my life. It’s a shame. Great info in here.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 04:32 AM
1

Inboxed u
/r/askTRP13/02/21 11:50 PM
2

Yep. Every single one.
/r/MGTOW213/02/21 09:01 PM
1

YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:01 PM
1

Just chill then. It’s all u can do.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:34 PM
1

Just tell him you’re looking out for his best interest
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:16 PM
2

Bro he’s your boy. He was there when u were an idiot too. If u bail on him when he’s weak, you’re no better than women. Idgaf what others say on here.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 06:57 PM
1

Inboxed u
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:35 PM
0

Yeah. U do. Something starts to feel off.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:15 AM
1

I don’t think so. I think it’s a little oversold. I think a man’s prime is 27-35. Now, can u make more money and all that shit? Sure. CAN u get better overall? Sure. But the grey comes in. The hair falls out. And the energy level and patience drops.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:44 AM
1

That last thing is crucial. Hard to do, but crucial.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:43 AM
2

This is good advice
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:40 AM
2

33.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:21 AM
19

I’d say the latest 30. It’s a waste of time and money. And the dating pool shrinks. Think about what u want because it doesn’t get easier. Is it a BIT easier to pick up girls in your late 20s and early 30s? Kinda yeah. But meh.... it’s better when you’re younger
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:43 AM
4

Bro EVERY SINGLE BITCH ON THE APPS RANTS AND RAVES ABOUT THEIR DOGS. It’s like a step below single mothers.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:31 AM
2

Answer: yes. Work on yourself. U sound weak. Why are u talking shit about yourself? Women are wired to punish weakness with zero remorse. It’ll sting. And bad. Don’t let it happen. Women will forgive an asshole, but they’ll never ever ever forgive a pussy.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:21 AM
1

😂😂 exactly
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 02:42 AM
2

Mine did the same thing. And I wasn’t even married. But I got no second shot. I guess if we had kids and/or were married, I’d have the opportunity u have. Make the most of it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 02:42 AM
1

Don’t forget “abusive”.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 12:52 AM
1

They all do it. Light switch effect, they rearrange all their memories of you and believe it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 12:50 AM
1

They all do that. Light switch effect. Look into it. They literally rearrange their memories. Nothing good u ever did happened. Only the bad, and they’ll amplify it. And here’a the kicker, they believe it
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 12:33 AM
1

Work on attraction. Not logic. Try to change her feelings and perception of u. Not her mind. Remember when u 2 first met? Be like that
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 12:30 AM
2

Look up the light switch effect. They don’t remember the things u did right, and they amplify the things u did wrong. Once they mentally check out, they literally rearrange their own memories and believe it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 12:26 AM
3

^ this. They definitely don’t think like us.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/21 12:21 AM
25

Yes but your best bet is to mirror her while always giving a little less than she does.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 07:36 AM
1

Yep. I said this last year.
/r/MGTOW12/02/21 05:06 AM
0

No way to do it
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 10:29 PM
0

She younger?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:25 PM
3

How many fucks do you give? U can’t give too many fucks. The more fucks u give, the less fucks u get.
/r/seduction11/02/21 09:48 AM
9

It gets to the point where it’s all a blur. And time starts to go by faster.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:19 AM
0

The right woman, will inspire you. You’ll accomplish more than u think you’re capable of. She’ll be your biggest cheerleader and helper too. As long as she’s under your spell. Even the unicorn does NOT actually “love” you. She loves what you’re doing, where you’re going, and how u make her feel. That’s it. Once that spells broken, u never existed
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:44 AM
2

Well sheeiiiiit if you gonna throw the “we gonna die anyway” argument, then why do anything at all?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:17 AM
1

Good post
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 05:39 AM
1

Yes memory can definitely be improved, you’re right. But man... I wanna raise my actual IQ lol that would be awesome
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:37 AM
4

Read the study. But how do can we change fluid iq? I’ve been trying to find out for ages. Cannot come across one case where someone made themselves smarter. The only thing I’ve come across, is being able to keep yourself from getting dumber as u get older by exercising.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:32 AM
10

I swear this sub is full of teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:30 AM
2

Ignore them.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:29 AM
33

Gets worse when you get older lol
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:28 AM
3

You’re not old man, you’re 29. Are u at least crazy about her? Or is it fair to say u settled?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:14 AM
1

Yeah man. Hopefully
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 04:08 AM
2

I wonder if he got the idea from joker
/r/MGTOW11/02/21 03:02 AM
0

-how they usually fully heal from broken relationships or divorce. -the sympathy and empathy they receive from others when vulnerable or having a difficult time -how they can do no wrong in most, if not all, of their narratives -they don’t lose their hair -magic just happens to them (if they take care of themselves and stray attractive). In the sense that men and good opportunities come to them. -They get pursued -whether or not they’re good in bed doesn’t matter -whether or not they can fight d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:46 AM
2

Yeah. -yes Attractive -no status -yes money -stubborn anti social personality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:00 PM
8

Being a millennial sucks. Happy for gen Z.
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 06:37 PM
5

The best possible mate is a moving target. This is why hypergamy sucks. Read “briffaults law” 50 times until u fully understand it. That’s the best possible mate. Moving target. It’s innate behavior because it is. It’s primatology. Evolutionary psychology. Just like the smartest and dumbest people in the world are both men and women tend to hover more in the average ranges. Just like overall men are disagreeable, and women are more agreeable. Which is why women are better students. Just like ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:07 AM
-1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:00 AM
6

Not this shit again. No. Women date across and up dominance hierarchies (hypergamy). Men date across and down dominance hierarchies. The innate male mating strategy is unlimited access to unlimited mating. The innate female mating strategy is mating with the BEST POSSIBLE MATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:00 AM
1

Yeah see that’s what the data shows. But for some reason, in every married couple thats still Together, where they both say “idk what i’d do Without him/her” they got together young.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 02:41 AM
47

You’re going to destroy yourself if you stay with this girl.
/r/askMRP10/02/21 02:19 AM
1

That definitely rang true for me. But u only get like once chance in that window. 23-30. After that sucks. Before that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 12:36 AM
1

It’s biological. Understand that a few generations ago, by their early 20s, most women were married, pregnant, and stable. They wouldn’t freak out at 26-27 back then. Today? Pffff
/r/askTRP10/02/21 12:35 AM
0

That’s why I think real love, good love, only exists in our late teens and 20s. Everything after that is second best, jaded shiftiness full of doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 12:28 AM
5

The main thing in LTRs is frame. Your frame WILL be tested. U cannot budge. She will test. Over and over. Never stop courting and dating her. Nothing you do for her today will matter to her tomorrow. They’re like children. They care only about THEIR feelings and how they’re feeling right NOW. When u have sex, do it like it’ll be your last time. Leave her a quivering mess after. She sounds young. She won’t stay young forever. If u marry her, move her away from where u met her. The older she gets,…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:43 PM
1

Yes u can do it without giving up your career thanks to the internet. As a matter of fact, I’d recommend that U start on the side and keep your career. Focus more on the type of life you’d like to give, than the money you’d like to make. Money in itself is empty. I learned the hard way. Search and search and search until something clicks. -33 year old high school drop out who started a business in his mid 20s that’s still going.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 07:38 PM
3

Yeah but those women more often than not, eventually leave. Renders the whole thing pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:53 PM
2

Yeah that’s definitely part of it. But you’d be surprised. Often times they just end up with someone else who’s not even better professionally
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:32 PM
1

Statistically they stay single after divorce. Single “statistically” means they don’t remarry. Doesn’t mean they’re alone. Men go for youth and beauty. Divorce tends to happen later in life when that stuff is gone. They usually got their kids already. So now they’re single moms. Less dating options. Busier and more stressful life. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:29 PM
3

^ this
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:33 AM
0

Debatable lol I have in the past
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:33 AM
1

You sound young. How do U get over the embarrassment? You’re young... learn and move on.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:33 AM
1

In the case that she leaves to be alone, it’s because she’s unattractive. If she’s attractive, chances are she’s never been single for prolonged periods of time. And she’ll get with someone else soon thereafter. Women don’t have to pursue or court men. Men come to them. It starts in elementary school. They take it for granted. This doesn’t happen as much to unattractive women. Not even close. But even unattractive women have more opportunity than attractive men. Men have to go get. Women just ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:41 AM
1

^ this times 1k. Women evolved to compete with one another. In reality; they have no friends. Even their female family members are against them subconsciously in some cases
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:40 AM
3

An LTR or marriage is game on hard mode. Are there downsides? Yeah but there’s are down sides to having one too. Headaches. Constant and ever increasing testing. Same pussy over and over. But you do learn a lot about yourself.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:38 AM
0

Study Paul’s frame control series on the apex mindset YouTube channel. Next up, go younger. Low notch count. Then, put a ring on her finger and MOVE HER AWAY FROM WHERE U FOUND HER. This is your best bet. 18-25 is the sweet spot. After that, good luck.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:33 AM
5

Alpha or not. Doesn’t matter. They still feel that state of anxiety. 26-27. The alpha guy will tell her to fuck off and she’ll be back around in 4-5 months. But she still questions everything
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:28 AM
4

It’s not conscious. Half the time they leave, start over from scratch, and are still not married by 30. It’s laughable.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:28 AM
2

Yeah. But it’s not conscious or articulated in a logical way like that. It’s more so a state of anxiety that they themselves can’t understand. It freaks them out
/r/askTRP09/02/21 02:25 AM
1

It did. Scroll up and follow the train of thought. Or just argue with me forever about nothing. Your call.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:24 AM
16

Yep. Often they search while with the guy. It doesn’t matter. It’s not about the guy. They need a drastic change at that age
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:51 PM
9

Fml
/r/MGTOW08/02/21 10:17 PM
7

Depends on the girl and her family. But yeah. Today’s women just suck
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 10:15 PM
1

Pretty much.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:04 PM
2

Yeah. Learned the hard way.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:04 PM
30

It’s not the wall per se. It’s just this weird internal thing they have. They want the thing. It’s not about us. The man they’re with doesn’t matter. They want the thing. The marriage. The family. The house. The bragging rights. The security. It’s not about the guy. We’re an accessory like a purse
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:03 PM
1

Good. Not sure what the point of that was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 10:02 PM
4

Meh... it’s not so complicated. Women are built to follow. This is why they tend to be better students, employees, etc. They listen to their gfs. They’re easily stolen from other men by men that know what they’re doing. This is just what they are.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:41 PM
28

They all freak out when they turn 26-27. I’ve seen this pattern over and over. They leave their long term bfs only to start over with a stranger.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:10 PM
2

Male logic. Plus they don’t do it on purpose
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:08 PM
1

An unattractive woman has way less options. She’s not getting constantly hit on all day the way attractive women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:58 PM
9

They all do this
/r/MGTOW208/02/21 06:37 PM
1

Train her. But keep her. Inexperienced women make for much better partners just like inexperienced men make for worse partners.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:36 PM
31

Women are social beings. They’re shells. Most have no sense of self. They need to belong. Men do not. Men evolved to use anger, logic, violence, and aggression to solve their problems. Women being the physically smaller and weaker sex, evolved to use what I call “social terrorism” to make up for the difference. And it works well. emotional manipulation. Shaming. Name calling. Ostracizing. Anything and everything to make others feel bad about themselves and make themselves feel better. It’s all a…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:30 PM
1

If she’s ugly/fat, and he’s a piece of shit, this is probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:17 PM
1

Women gaslight more than men ever will. They gaslight themselves, and their exes. And don’t even notice. They convince themselves that their ex was horrible. That they didn’t know any better. And that they deserve more. It doesn’t matter the circumstances. If the guy was a workaholic, it’s because he neglected her. If he wasn’t, it’s because he wasn’t ambitious. If he kept a good balance between the 2, he was boring. If he cheated (the one thing that makes sense), it’s because he cheated. End in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:17 PM
1

Rarely. When it happens, it’s usually because what I said has already happened to him before. It’s hard to take a woman or love seriously after something like that. I see it day in and day out. On Reddit. My inbox is full of guys who’s girls or wives left them after years and years. I see it in In real life. It’s always the same thing. She won’t try and work out their problems. She’ll just leave, blame the whole thing on the guy, zero remorse, and have a new guy so fast it’ll make your head spin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:07 PM
13

Lmao
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:48 AM
19

She means with you.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:35 AM
-1

Men are shallow for sure. About looks. But once a man loves a woman he’s attracted to, it’s pretty permanent. Women on the other hand, will spend years with a guy and leave for something better if she thinks the grass is greener. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:57 AM
3

Not care. At all. Unless they cause me to warm up to them. Which is rare. But it does happen. I wasn’t always like this lol
/r/seduction07/02/21 08:23 AM
7

Depends. The thing is the hot ones ARE the “thicc” type but they go to the gym and stay in shape. Those crazy bodies u drool over, are those body types but the girls actually take care of themselves. But guess what, a lot of em don’t Lol
/r/askTRP07/02/21 08:22 AM
2

Good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:53 AM
8

Why wait? She’ll probably shoot you down now anyway. And if she’s as attractive as u say she is, she either has a bf, or will by the time u turn 18. You’d have to get her to cheat.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 06:52 AM
2

Get bigger condoms No more porn or jerking off. Period Yeah duh lose weight. Aromatase (the enzyme that converts testosterone into estrogen) is present in fat tissue. And estrogen is what the brain uses to decide how much LH to send down to the testes to produce more test.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 06:23 AM
11

Yep. And I live in one of the most superficial cities in the US. Miami FL.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 05:29 AM
5

Women leave men ALL THE TIME when men are down on their luck. illness. Job loss. Confidence drop. The list is endless are u kidding me? Just because women are expected to be caretakers, doesn’t mean they are. I’ve literally only met ONE that’s like that. And she’s not attractive. Doesn’t have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 02:24 AM
3

It’s deeper than that. For example, not arguing or losing your cool is part of not losing frame. Which is hard to do since some women can be ver erratic and dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 10:12 PM
2

Yes. Ignore your moms advice. Talk to your dad or other men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 07:42 PM
3

Hard to do past 30.
/r/MGTOW206/02/21 07:40 PM
2

Lmfao bro wow. Even if that was true, it wouldn’t work. Period blood isn’t some magic spell ingredient.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 09:34 AM
1

I’m dying to know the answer to this
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:54 AM
1

Pickup and experience got me all of them. The best of em. But LTRs are game on hard mode. Lost a 6 year LTR that I wanted to keep. Looked for answers. Viola.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:53 AM
1

Lmao ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:37 AM
4

Less relationships. Less marriages. Less offspring. Less economic production. More suicide. It’s common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:34 AM
4

Walk away and don’t look back. Tell her to call u if she changes her mind and wish her the best. That’s it. Calm. Cool. Collected. No conversation. No nothing. The break up is usually a test of strength. U gotta show that strength
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:23 AM
5

A smokers always a smoker when the chips are down.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 01:02 AM
1

File for a restraining order (if u don’t want to be with her). She’d do it to you IN A HEARTBEAT with zero remorse. The cops wont place the blame on you.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 07:10 PM
1

Obese women exist: yeah. Obese men do too. Both can and should lose weight. Being attractive is in our control. Black women exist: yeah, so do black men. Who tend to like black women. Older women exist: yeah, I’m sure they had a chance to settle down when they were young, but didn’t. Ugly women exist: this is true. Luckily u have control over your bodies. And women have access to tons of make up. As far as boobs, fake boobs exist and usually look great. Even without them, building your butt and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 07:01 PM
3

When I started, I’d just ask people that looked the way I wanted to look what they did
/r/TheRedPill05/02/21 05:28 PM
68

The core point of the article is correct. But I was fat as a teen. Then I got skinny. Then I worked on getting jacked for 10 years. And now I’m jacked and just have to maintain. The info is out there for anyone who cares to look
/r/TheRedPill05/02/21 06:26 AM
1

Yes dating is this dead
/r/MGTOW05/02/21 02:12 AM
1

It’s horrible. Women self sabotage each other’s relationships. “Fuck him. U could do better. Leave. Blah blah”. Meanwhile the guy has been there for years before those girls doing his best completely oblivious to what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:04 PM
2

You’re right. I always forget that shit. I’ma change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:23 AM
10

I bring that example up all the time when girls leave men for not marrying them. “Stedman proposed to Oprah. She said no. He stayed. Why? Cuz he wants to be with her. For her. The person. Not for this “thing”. Reverse those roles. A woman will absolutely leave and marry someone else if you don’t marry her. It’s not about the man to her. It’s about this “thing” she wants. Who it comes from doesn’t matter” Then of course they name call, shame, blame shift, the usual.
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 08:32 AM
2

The one I’m talking about DID wanna be a wife at that age. I however, didn’t want to get married yet. It kinda freaked me out at the time. I didn’t know that was the age it was supposed to happen. Now I see that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:26 AM
0

I think everyone should give everyone second chances. Life is short. If someone mattered, they matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:22 AM
5

Interesting about the “strong sense of rivalry” part, that was a good observation.
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 08:18 AM
2

I think it might be an age thing. The best one I had, I met when she was 21. I was 25 at the time. I think if you can manage to lock them down when you’re both that young, it works better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:14 AM
0

Your wife specifically, here or overseas? And how old were you when u married her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:09 AM
8

Yes. That’s why they say, LTRs and marriages are basically game on hard mode.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 08:05 AM
1

Met them here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:01 AM
1

^ this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:59 AM
1

Answer: yes. Ignore anyone who says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:00 PM
2

Saying just “women” is misogynistic.
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 03:37 AM
0

U guys need to meet more Hispanic women lol the wall comes much later
/r/MGTOW03/02/21 03:32 AM
3

If they want to get married and you’re not ready yet, they leave.
/r/seduction03/02/21 12:38 AM
77

More women need to experience this.
/r/MGTOW02/02/21 10:33 PM
2

Yeah.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 08:51 PM
2

Lol you’re still doing it. U really can’t see it huh. I’m in a relationship. She’s happy and so am I. Before that one I was in another one for 6 years. I’m not a kid. I own a business. I have my shit together. JP has nothing that needs to be... debunked. He’s right about marriage. He’s right about men and women, the good and the bad. But it doesn’t matter. My logic is no match for your feelings. You’re angry. I hope you feel better.
/r/seduction02/02/21 06:46 PM
2

Blah blah blah shame, name call, classic girl tactics. It’s evolution. It’s not your fault. See men evolved to use anger, aggression, violence, and logic to solve their problems. The first 3 are illegal and rightfully so. Since women were always PHYSICALLY smaller and weaker, they instead evolved to use emotional manipulation, deception, shaming, attacking someone’s image, and other types of social... idk... terrorism... to make up for the difference. And it works. Well. Just not on me anymore. …
/r/seduction02/02/21 06:30 PM
2

Got lucky and found the type of girl I had always wanted. We were together almost 6 years. We bickered and argued a lot (never argue with women). And she wanted to get married and tried to bribe me with all kinds of shit. I wasn’t ready yet. I didn’t know there was a rush since neither of us wanted kids. I was there for her when no one else was, and supported and encouraged her thru school and everything else but it didn’t matter later (briffaults law). And after she left, I tried to reconcile a…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:21 PM
1

It is. It was... but meh... it depends what you want. If you want an attractive and good Latin woman, you’re better off going somewhere else
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:01 PM
1

Latin America for sure.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:54 PM
2

Yes. Patrice was a misogynist. But he wasn’t wrong. Jordan Peterson isn’t a misogynist and shares the same exact opinions (because they’re biological facts) just worded better.
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:22 PM
3

And there it is. No. I’m aware of how irrational and misandrist the “progressive” women on Reddit are. When it comes to the point where someone’s opinion matters more than someone else’s fact, I bow out.
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:18 PM
3

It shouldn’t matter where his income comes from. It’s his mind that counts... to me. Also, he almost lost his income for sticking to his opinion. That’s how he got famous in the first place. He’s not a junkie. Benzos are horrible. I was prescribed them for anxiety after a bad break up. I took them as prescribed, just like he did, and it was the worst experience ever. I didn’t have to go to rehab, I weened myself off on my own, but 2 years later and I’m still suffering from the damage they caused…
/r/MGTOW202/02/21 05:16 PM
2

Not necessarily “money”. They just want what they can’t have until they can have it. Like a kid.
/r/MGTOW202/02/21 05:13 PM
3

Naaaa there’s way more than just looks. But not as much as they think there is.
/r/MGTOW02/02/21 07:04 AM
10

It is. Jordan Peterson talks about hypergamy with different words. He says “women tend to date across and UP the dominance hierarchy, whereas men tend to date across and DOWN the dominance hierarchy. And psychologist ester perrel (no, not ester vilar, u should definitely read her books though) recently admitted in an interview that it is the female, not the male, who becomes unsatisfied in long term relationships FIRST
/r/MGTOW202/02/21 06:58 AM
3

Of course it doesn’t make sense. If it did, I wouldn’t have to say it.
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:33 AM
6

Evolutionary psychology. And lawless living in the wild. Those 2 things explain everything about both genders. Men are the true romantics. Not women. Which is why we write the songs, the poems, propose on one knee, buy the flowers, commit suicide, etc. What’s his face said it best. “Men are the romantic gender posing as the pragmatic gender. Women are the pragmatic gender posing as the romantics” I’ll leave u with this example. Stedman proposed to Oprah once. She said no. He stayed with her. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:08 AM
0

I know the entire answer to this but it’s so long. I’m just glad other people are finally catching on. Women always think it’s easier for us. And they’re very very very very very mistaken. Happy to see people are learning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 03:56 AM
2

+1
/r/seduction02/02/21 02:49 AM
7

Na I’m definitely NOT equating love With worship.
/r/seduction02/02/21 02:46 AM
14

If I say it here, 50 girls will come and shit on my comment. Downvote. Shame. Attack. Name call. The usual. Inbox me if u want
/r/seduction02/02/21 02:04 AM
36

Patrice O’Neal said it best. The best kind of relationship is when the girl loves you, and u just like her.
/r/seduction02/02/21 01:29 AM
3

I’m gonna inbox you
/r/MGTOW202/02/21 12:49 AM
3

Doesn’t surprise me. Everything we do, whether directly or indirectly, is for women. If there were no women, there’d be no luxury cars. No nice houses. No workaholic men. We don’t need much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 12:25 AM
8

I found a way around this. But it sucks. Average or below average women. Yes it sucks. Yes it defeats the entire purpose of becoming the type of men we strive to become. But they feel so lucky to have you, that any kindness from your part is more than enough. But if you’re anything like me, you cannot “love” an unattractive woman.
/r/MGTOW01/02/21 11:23 PM
1

Idk man supposedly over there the women are better since they still need men.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:11 PM
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