Girls NEED compliments?

Musicgoon · 2021-04-05T05:04:19+00:00

No. The problem that this sub sees is new guys come on here and sperg the fuck out in the most spectacular manner.

What you don't want to do is kiss a woman's ass. Don't put her on a pedestal, don't supplicate or pander. Just be a normal human.

Every single human wants to feel wanted. Especially by someone they want.

You aren't close to alpha yet and none of the fucking larping idiots on this sub are either. If a woman does something you like, say so.

The thing is: some piece of shit will read RP content on the sidebar, then act like a robot or douchebag. This doesn't make a woman feel wanted. Then, someone else comes along and compliments her when she does something good or is looking nice. Guess who's dick she will be hopping on?

You must understand OP. Most of the guys here aren't being honest and don't know a damn thing about flirting or flattery.

Game is crucial.

chodoboy86 · 2021-04-05T08:39:40+00:00

There's absolutely nothing wrong with complementing a woman, in fact you should do it regularly. What you shouldn't do is kiss her arse and smother her with flattery. If you're going to compliment them it has to be absolutely 100% genuine and deserved.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-04-05T10:02:27+00:00

If you're more Physically Attractive than her, compliment more. Push/pull ratio 20%/80%. Reason being, she'll be attracted to you, but EXTREMELY NERVOUS, INSECURE, AND FEEL LIKE SHE'S NOT GOOD ENOUGH(has no power).

If she's more Physically Attractive than you, compliment less. Push/pull ratio 80%/20%. Reason being, she'll be more attracted by the fact that an average looking guy has the balls to show interest, but still talk shit, and NOT kiss her ass like a supplicating little betacuckTM.

2021-04-05T08:46:16+00:00

If you are not part of the top 20%, yes you will need to compliment them and jump through 20 hoops and act like a clown entertaining them all for a kiss. Unfortunately 'you are the prize' was just a good chapter to sell the book.

jerbear2201 · 2021-04-05T16:57:04+00:00

I would say the young lady probably didn't find you interesting enough to continue an interaction. Compliments will only get you so far so they should be used sparingly. An effective approach to sparking interesting from a person is to ask that person about themselves, and try to connect to a singular element of their conversation. For example, I asked a young lady at work about her weekend "Good, I had an extra day off so I slept for 10hrs" she replied. I empathized and told the young lady a brief story about a time when I slept so much that I woke up confused and thought I was late for work. The young lady got excited and spoke more on the subject and about her weekend. I actually had to cut the conversation short after about 20 minutes because I had to get back to work, from that point she has always been friendly.

Title	Girls NEED compliments?
Author	dooky21
Upvotes	10
Comments	17
Date	April 5, 2021 4:45 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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