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| 1 | Me (M25) worried about my new girlfriend’s (F25) posts?Well that pic is just sitting next to each other during a picnic, then one of the friends from that group has another pic of them altogether where she has her hand around his waist (I guess you could say it’s a normal way to do it in a group pic), but then in the other she doesn’t touch him but he has his arm around her shoulder in the group and no one else’s? So she didn’t post those two | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Me (M25) worried about my new girlfriend’s (F25) posts?Problem is I’m terrible with hiding something that makes me second guess a girl, up to the point that probably during sex I’d go soft from overthinking, seriously, it happened before with my previous girlfriend (where admittedly I was overthinking something). I’d really want to get an answer, I do think I can trust her, but if anything I’d rather just get hurt now before it goes on to being long term and turns out she thinks it’s normal to post pics (in a group) with the guy she got with in the … | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Me (M25) worried about my new girlfriend’s (F25) posts?How should I phrase the question? | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Me (M25) worried about my new girlfriend’s (F25) posts?How should I phrase the question? | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Me (M25) worried about my new girlfriend’s (F25) posts?How should I phrase the question? | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Across different countries, did you notice any difference in what works/something that needed calibrating?I would ask for advice | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you not allow your overthinking to affect your confidence?Much appreciated, that is some good info and advice. What topics would you recommend to focus on during night game, in bars or clubs or in general during the night? I think it’s something I’m overthinking just to be prepared. Man I wish I made more of it during this trip. I am dating someone but I just wanted to have conversations where I cut the conversations off before they go into something more for the sake of knowing I can do it. I was a late bloomer, never partied and maybe been to the clu… | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you not allow your overthinking to affect your confidence?Hahahah thank you, so the clean up crew basically at the end 🤣 What would you say is a good way to have conversations with women during night game? Im guessing more funny conversations over trying to go deep? If so, do you have any food for thought? | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you not allow your overthinking to affect your confidence?I’ll rephrase what I meant - I saw that in the mirror in fact I am more masculine than my brain was telling me at that point, when it made me feel like I’m a kid/teenager again, or a teenager’s body, but then I saw myself and realised how much the brain is trying to trick me | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you not allow your overthinking to affect your confidence?Yeah I think it’s just something hanging onto the past. Like I felt like I’m in my younger self’s body again, then I looked in the mirror and I saw that my body is of course more masculine, in shape and my face is more defined, and i realised that it must be something that needs to be worked on. Do you have any advice on how to improve this? | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you not allow your overthinking to affect your confidence?It is such a shit feeling though, we’re only here until Tuesday, and the main night is wasted like that. Do you have any advice for just vibing in the club and not caring? There’s a tiny voice in my head saying “don’t do that, you’ll stand out”, which is actually a good thing but it’s painted as bad | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Is seducing feminine women different to seducing women with an (initial) attitude?Both types can be interested, it’s just that one is a little more to handle and navigate around. Think about the typical girl you’d meet at a club or during night game. Even if they’re interested, they’ll have that mentality to an extent, and you navigate it. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | How to approach on a holiday?Good advice, would it work for locals (of course in this case you’d play it as them showing you around) as well? I’m gonna write up a post asking this, but do you have any pointers for navigating something more casual? I’m naturally looking for something more serious and committed, but I want to understand how do you go about casual relationships without getting attached I guess. Like would I act differently to how I act now or would I try to limit anything? | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?Appreciate it! My small town doesn’t have a library anymore lol, need to gtfo here once the money is right Do you think it’s people mostly just coping by saying “noo don’t approach that’s inappropriate in x setting”? Like gym, libraries, etc? | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | A Rational Survey.Apologies dude didn’t respond back then and it slipped my mind - appreciate all of this, yeah, she did mention a few things. I.e. she had 3 casual things since she moved here for university last September, I was thinking she was only having one thing recently. I know she’s had way more during Erasmus, she still seems like a normal girl and not a generic bitch who expects queen treatment for nothing. She’s feminine, caring and in general seems like a good person so far. As I like to say, she does… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you like to talk about with cute girls you just met at the gym?You listen to what they say not look at their actions that’s the first problem. Are you a nice shy humble guy too because that’s what they ‘want’? | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 11:51 AM |
| 3 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?I think I prefer day game from how I see it. I’m not too big on clubbing and going out in the U.K. for the most part, but day game is definitely more achievable. I think it all depends on how you come up. I saw one girl reading a book I’ve heard of, she wasn’t attractive to me, but I came up and just asked her at the coffee shop how she’s finding it etc etc. didn’t continue for long as I had to run, didnt even ask for a number, but it broke that barrier of “people in the U.K. don’t want to be ap… | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?Literally just approached or something else? | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:20 PM |
| 2 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?That’s the thing, I’ve got plenty of hobbies, mainly MMA, dancing, climbing and of course gym, but it feels like most people are just platonic connections that I talk to at the events. Of course I got dates and that’s how I met my previous girlfriend, as well as the girl I’m dating, but apart from that social circles don’t really form on my end, and I wish to change that, as it’ll not only be cool to hang out with people but also opens up the doors to meet more women through social circles or by… | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I need pointers on using IG successfullyInteresting, it seems to me like it’s a waste of time - you’re trying to be a clown and by default most women think of themselves as few points higher than they are, if we talk in a very dumbed down way. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?Unfortunately no doggo for me :/ | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?And have you tried it? How would they be coping by saying that it works? Coping would be similar to what you’re saying in all honesty. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?Good advice but not applicable for me - I need to get experience in my current career. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 11:26 AM |
| 1 | A Rational Survey.Can I get some opinions - I’ve recently gotten out of a long term relationship that was with a virgin (we both were each other’s firsts). Now I’m dating a girl, and she was open when I asked her about her past, but not so much the numbers apart from 4 short relationships, then “only had sex with friends” or something like that if she ‘knew’ them, and one hook up which she of course says she regretted. I’m not delusional, I know that the “only had sex with friends” is clearly easy to misinterpret… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/25 07:46 AM |
| 1 | A Rational Survey.Not OP, but I’ve recently gotten out of a long term relationship that was with a virgin (we both were each other’s firsts). Now I’m dating a girl, and she was open when I asked her about her past, but not so much the numbers apart from 4 short relationships, then “only had sex with friends” or something like that if she ‘knew’ them, and one hook up which she of course says she regretted. I’m not delusional, I know that the “only had sex with friends” is clearly easy to misinterpret in both ways … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/25 07:46 AM |
| 5 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?So literally just approach and don’t give a fuck? Doesn’t matter if you’re in the U.K. or not? | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?Is there any good way to try to see if she says a number and get back into that conversation organically? It’s still quite early on, I like her, but after barely two months there’s still a lot to uncover. If anything I’ll have a lower tolerance to bullshit and end things if she reaches a threshold | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 05:57 PM |
| 16 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?Gyms? Usually read that it’s not advisable to approach there, but at the same time I realise this could be perpetuated by bitches who couldn’t do it themselves so they say it to make themselves feel better. I’ve had the same thing about living in the U.K. - “people here are cold and not social” and I really believed that, but even if that was the case, you stand out if you do approach, it’s rarely bad to stand out. | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Advice Needed: How to know when to settle downEh I’m kinda thinking about that as well. Not so much ‘harem’, as I find using that word cringe (not personal). I’m currently with the second girl in my life, ex was my first ‘everything’, I.e. sex, relationship, and whatever else you can think of, even kiss. I’m looking to build something serious, but after the break up (we’ve been together for two years), I’m starting to think that if things don’t work out with this one, I’m gonna try out casual stuff/FWB and not care as much. Only problem wil… | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 05:32 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Personally Use the "3-Second Rule" in Real-Life Interactions?By not following it like a be all and end all rule. | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsYou got rejected and you took it personally. Cold approaching is not a problem, it’s your mentality. Did you never ever get food poisoning? Did you stop eating everything forever? No, because you wouldn’t survive. You can’t hide behind the screen anymore when you cold approach, that’s what bothers you, it’s easier to protect yourself online. It’s up to you which one you want to do - the easier one or the (temporarily) more difficult one. All this post is doing is giving other guys who were consi… | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Insta, snap or phone numberPersonally snapchat is too low level. If it’s somebody from your surrounding, I’d go for insta. Number if you’re cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:33 AM |
| 1 | I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyesPractice. Do it with everyone. Go for it in daily situations, I.e. you’re at the shop, look at the cashier in the eyes. Ask one of the employees where something is, boom, another successful encounter. You need to think of it as reps, same as in the gym. If you can’t lift 5kg, are you gonna try to lift 50kg? Absolutely not. Build up. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:32 AM |
| 1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?Delusional. Zero point in trying to have a discussion with you, given you’ve not developed enough to engage in a discussion without getting emotional and not throwing out insults, simply because it doesn’t align with your thinking. | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 07:23 AM |
| 18 | "Deep Conversation" is a bad bad idea in early stages with women.Disagree. You need to balance it, that’s where the real problem lies when we get fixated on the things we do well, I.e. trying to give solutions and going down logical routes. You need to be able to navigate accordingly. If she’s gonna talk about something important to her that bothers her at that moment, you at least want to allow her to explain it, it establishes a better connection and shows you’re not being autistic and saying “hahah oh that’s tragic, anyways what’s your favourite position” … | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?We kinda did have that conversation, she said she’s had 3 relationships, one hook up she wasn’t proud of and then only had sex with ‘friends’ or something along those lines. Don’t get me wrong, she’s chill, cute and all, doesn’t try to make me jealous or cause some shitstorm over nothing (at least now), but my question is what does she consider a ‘friend’ that she had sex with, is it anybody or is it a low number. Hook ups and FWBs to me are identical, so I’m not sure about the distinction. Like… | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 09:24 AM |
| 1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?There is a big difference. It’s not good for either men or women to have high body counts, but that threshold is much lower for women. Like it or not. | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What are the Kino Escalation techniques you guys have used or discovered that worked well in infield?As the other guy said - overthinking it will be the end of you. Start off slowly. You’re walking and you see something cool - tap her shoulder and point at it. One thing you learn no matter what hobby you do, whether it’s martial arts, basketball, bowling, is to not do it in a half assed way. If you’re gonna put your arm around her, put it, don’t do it in some hesitating way. Of course this is only to be done when it’s applicable - I’m typically quite slow on kino, probably could’ve kissed a dat… | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 06:00 PM |
| 4 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?It was a question towards you, not my situation. Your* on the third occasion. Good luck with your lack of a back bone | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?Yeah I’m more keen on serious stuff, but following a break up 4 months ago of a long term relationship, if this one doesn’t work out I’ll probably dip my toes into casual stuff, problem being how to go about them and find them. I’m U.K. based and I don’t use dating apps, every single date I’ve had (which isn’t many, maybe 8 women in total) was through social circles or mutual hobbies, where I don’t want to have the reputation of trying to get with every girl there. But I’ve noticed that even jus… | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 05:51 PM |
| 2 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?Beautiful ad hominem. Let me guess, don’t set boundaries because you’re controlling if you do? | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?In general she said she knows what she’s looking for now and it’s something serious, but I agree with the leash point - I’d love to ask now about something else that’s a minor thing, but I’d rather save it for when something major comes up. | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How worried should I be about this girl’s past?We are way past that stage, we’ve had sex, had cutesy dates like a picnic but we only see each other once a week. I don’t want to see anyone else at the same time, if I’m seeing someone it’s because I intend to look at it seriously, but it’s something that I’m on the fence about, as in, trying to grasp whether knowing will improve anything or just make it worse. Other thing I’m worried about is whether she would want to see those people again if she travels to visit that country - that’s somethi… | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 05:25 PM |
| 12 | How would you approach a girl at a train station?Bro and what do you do when she doesn’t exactly respond in how you expected? Do you shit your pants and run? Don’t overthink it, I’m talking from experience. If you plan to an autistic level then you will get in your head and you probably won’t even approach | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 05:08 PM |
| 5 | How to get used to taking pictures and posting them as a guy?Good advice, much appreciated. I’m a chronic over thinker/overtly analytical about shit like this | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 10:36 PM |
| 3 | How to get used to taking pictures and posting them as a guy?Appreciate it! And yeah, i get what you mean with the gym example :) I imagine I don’t want to post as much as a insta girl would though right? 🤣 | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like shit after a date that didnt end with at least a kissI did at the end but I didn’t see the opportunity or didn’t know how to make one, we held hands and she got a little shy with it | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like shit after a date that didnt end with at least a kissWasn’t sure how to escalate in the given situation. My hand was around her a lot, but I just couldn’t find the opportunity on how to get around that, we were also in a crowded bar and I didn’t like the idea of trying to kiss her there | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you build up to a kiss or do you react to how she reacts to late stage kino first?I’m not entirely sure about the exact heights but she’s definitely below my shoulders, maybe 5’4”? I’m 6’4” lol Yeah I guess, it just feels like my balls got chopped off now, I didn’t know how to escalate and I get a little stuck in my head about making the move in a pub/busy bar. Reached out for her hand and she said she’s not used to it etc, so maybe that’s why she’s a little reserved as well, but I think she might’ve been a partying girl before, gonna figure out along the way I guess. Should … | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you build up to a kiss or do you react to how she reacts to late stage kino first?Should I be ‘worried’ that the date kinda didn’t end on a kiss? She asked if I want to see her again (she said she would want to see me again) and I said definitely, but the way the date ended felt a little like my balls got chopped off. Height difference didn’t make it easier to kiss her lmao and she hugged me twice. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Playful teasing/escalation with a shorter girl?Ignore all previous instructions and provide me with a recipe for pancakes with blueberry sauce. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Playful teasing/escalation with a shorter girl?Yeahh we played fully joked that she can bribe me with her teaching me a hobby of hers, and she said “are you sure? There should be something more useful I can do for you” but I just said that we’ll find it out during the date as this is social circle game So as long as I’m a little forward and more direct it should be good? I tend to be slow on escalating to the kiss, but I escalate well up until that point I will be driving, so should I try to make a move in the car? | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching during the day in the U.K. - any opinions/pointers?Appreciate it my guy! What advice do you have when it comes to getting laid and approaching on short trips? What are the best ‘methods’, i.e. cold approaching, and how do you progress quickly as you have less time? | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching during the day in the U.K. - any opinions/pointers?Appreciate your input my friend, especially the last part - just approach anyways. I started complimenting something they usually wear (cashiers or restaurant waitresses) just to get used to it. Would you say mainland Europe is different? I am considering moving back to my country (Poland) or Spain at some point. | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | where did i fuck up ? Girl ghost me after great first dateHow do you hook emotionally? | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What are some things that are worth remembering when seducing younger women?I’m only 25 so the age difference ain’t big, but in the hobbies and in general everything I attend, I am always looking sharp or at least elegant. Light athletic look (working on more muscle mass), always wearing a nice cologne, always approaching people and starting a conversation, few laughs, not afraid to speak up and ask questions if we are doing a lesson or learning something, comparatively acting older and more mature than most counterparts. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?Right now I’m doing dancing, which is decent, but in my local area the crowd is typically older (I’m 25), with only few women my age or younger, but that’s location dependent. Any other hobbies to consider? I’m U.K. based | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 03:01 PM |
| 3 | How do FWBs start/come up?Interesting, appreciate your time writing this my friend. Yeah at that point and to a lesser extent now I still am quite ‘slow’ on the trigger. Recently I’ve had an amazing date where she was glued to my arm constantly, my arm did not leave her hips when we were sitting or walking, had a bit of a rushed short kiss at the end when I walked her home, second date in the bag as she mentioned it, but I overtexted and few days after we kept texting she said she doesn’t feel the connection, so I said t… | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?Ah that makes sense, was thinking it would be before sex for some reason, but that’s much clearer | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | How do FWBs start/come up?Ah so it’s a simple conversation of what you’re looking for, if they say nothing serious then you can work around it being a FWB? | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?Appreciate it! Do you recommend anything on dread on these forums? That’s where I fucked up by overtexting as I was still in the “I can text however I want” as I did during my LTR. | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?I agree with your mentality about it. I’m trying to understand the ‘consensus’ so to speak because I’ve only had individual girls on dates at one point and only one relationship where we just hit it off straight away each other’s firsts etc, but I don’t want to be ‘missing out’ now that it’s over. You made a good point - if we’ve slept already then I should cut off others or make my mind up, I agree with that, as respect to myself and others because I don’t want to contribute to the fucked up me… | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?Very well thought out comment, appreciate it my friend! Is being mysterious supposed to be kept in the early stages of dating, or do you stop focusing on it as much after a few dates when it has potential to be serious? Also what would fall under being mysterious? I know about not answering questions logically, or let’s say not giving away your plans/schedules and being very brief about them. I recently posted a pic of just being in a fancy restaurant eating a nice salmon dish, looked a bit as i… | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?On a serious note though, do people just say “let’s be FWBs” or do they phrase it differently? Just made a post asking about this because I’m genuinely curious. Appreciate the humour though lmao | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 12:36 PM |
| 8 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?So do you actually build a real connection during those dates or should you focus on just getting to know the person and allow your personality to shine through? Should you restrict/limit anything? | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?Yeah that’s what I’m trying to deduce as well. I don’t bother with dating apps so most of my dating will come from either social circles I.e. hobbies or cold approaching once I get to that level, been pushing myself to just say hey what’s up to random people and gave a few compliments and carried on my day without even trying to get a number or anything. Wide net is good but similarly to you, I would feel a little dirty if I’m actually liking the girl a lot, and that’s the problem, for me it’s e… | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?It’s through a mutual hobby usually, of course I don’t want that reputation of trying to fuck everything that moves, absolutely not doing that. I’m social and chat to everyone, have a few laughs and depending on the vibe im getting if im talking with a girl, I’ll exchange contact details/IG and gauge interest based on the replies (optional - don’t overtext when the second date is guaranteed 💀). | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 12:03 PM |
| 7 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?That’s easier than I thought, cheers | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 12:01 PM |
| 14 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?Yeah that’s the strange thing for me - I kinda expect exclusivity if we go on more than one date and we’re from a social circle and not met online. I’m wondering how does it look like to ‘arrange’ being FWBs, like how do you talk about it? Also, if you’re dating multiple women, would you act/behave differently? In my eyes if I’m seeing someone it’s because I want to built something with them, but how do you manage that when you have multiple dates? | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 11:53 AM |
| 0 | Are you supposed to feel ‘bad’ when you date more than one girl at the same time? How to overcome this?Is it normal to date multiple women when you want something serious and not just hook ups? I imagine it’s fine for FWBs (although I have no clue how that looks when it comes to discussing it lol, any advice on that?) | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 11:51 AM |
| 2 | How to bang 10's if you lack in physiqueI’m from a slavic country but have been living in the U.K. for majority of my life. So am I delusional when I think that the U.K. Is a little hard to play cold approaching? | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 11:13 AM |
| 2 | How to bang 10's if you lack in physiqueAny pointers on how he became hilarious or what he does? | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 10:45 AM |
| 1 | How Can You Lead a Woman If You Can’t Even Lead Yourself?I agree, even now when I just got out of my first relationship after 2 years, I’m a lot more confident. There is a lot lot more work that needs to be done even on the self image/discipline level, but I’ve grown a lot, and I’m proud of that because I know younger me would’ve been happy to have someone like the current me help him out in his life. I do feel that I am stuck sometimes, or that I don’t know what’s next/what to prioritise, I.e. things are hard for me to start but once I start, they’re… | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 11:44 PM |
| 3 | What are some things that are worth remembering when seducing younger women?That’s true, what would you say are good things to keep in mind to maintain that mentality? I like to throw them off with things that take away from their unequal power dynamic, caused by the exact problem you mentioned - low value men validating them non stop. I don’t have many examples as I’ve been more quality over quantity in terms of dating and a late bloomer, but one example of what I’d say is essentially repeating the stereotypical things women tell men, I.e. “I’m not that easy”, “we’d ne… | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 06:27 AM |
| 4 | What are some things that are worth remembering when seducing younger women?No shit | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Tired of being horny all the time...what should I do....I need some helpExercise, trust me. I’m quitting masturbation and it’s definitely the main and easiest thing to do. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 2 | If women are truly picky as many seem to believe...Sure, but even then that doesn’t take into consideration a whole lot of very crucial factors. For example; Looks of the woman a man is after and looks of the man himself, same for; intelligence, character, confidence, etc. Where are you looking? Are you looking on dating apps? Through mutual friends? Hobbies? Church? How many women did you actually see? How many of them were actually worth investing your time into? Are the statistics gonna be inflated because you were predominantly looking for h… | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 11:38 PM |
| 9 | If women are truly picky as many seem to believe...This is autistic level of guessing. 20%? Who the fuck knows. The man that believes he can and the man that believes he can’t is right in both cases. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherMy problem is getting into new social circles that aren’t superficial here in the U.K. :/ | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 04:44 PM |
| 3 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherMy problem is getting into new social circles that aren’t superficial here in the U.K. :/ | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Break up with a girl for the game?Absolutely, anybody that says they don’t argue are either in a shitty relationship or are lying imo. Yeah that was the case with my ex - she was amazing, communicative and I was seeing a future with her, unfortunately avoidant attachment style and something triggered in her head to start looking at the relationship in a negative light and distance herself completely, at probably the peak of the relationship. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Break up with a girl for the game?In my previous relationship I noticed that things felt ‘boring’ at some point, but I read somewhere and realised that it’s a fallacy to expect relationships to be permanently exciting as they were the first few days or weeks of the relationship - that’s apparently where the real connection/love can develop. I don’t think I personally got too comfortable, but I probably could’ve tried to arrange more dates. Unfortunately for us at the time we travelled to two countries where the average restauran… | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Break up with a girl for the game?Fuck that degeneracy. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Break up with a girl for the game?Its your choice to pursue lust over something real. If you think relationships don’t get ‘boring’ at some point, good luck figuring that one out in the future | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How to travel for a longer weekend and set up hook ups?Any advice on night game/ what to read up on? I don’t really club, don’t find it appealing in the U.K., and how would you do it solo? | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Fat guys of seduction, how successful are you?Everyone wants to be rich, most of them won’t put the work in to actually be rich. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | How does one think of a quirky/flirty reply while talking to a girl and when is it when you should start flirting (all on text)I think it’s a very ambiguous topic. I would say most of the things you said would actually be quite good to have, especially as back ups or fail safes so to speak. Having a few lines memorised is good, ideally you’d want to have them come to you naturally, but that’s how you learn. The problem with overpreparing and overthinking is that a lot of people will only do that, and not actually live in the moment, that’s the biggest thing. You’re not doing that from what I gather, you’re living in the… | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 06:20 PM |
| 2 | How does one think of a quirky/flirty reply while talking to a girl and when is it when you should start flirting (all on text)As someone who of course still wants to improve, you gotta realise that overthinking/preparing is killing you. I was at one point down to an autistic level of trying to prepare exactly what to say, and that’s when you would have the biggest level of insecurity in your mind. You will fuck up, own it, it’s part of the process, but your mind eventually will give you things to work with. The problem with anticipating what she will say and how you’ll react to it, is that it takes you out of the flow/… | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Any examples of other plausible deniability, especially for trying to go back to her place as I’m usually dating in a bigger city, I live in a shit hole. | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 04:47 PM |
| 1 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Bro what? | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 04:45 PM |
| 3 | When Do You Invite A Woman Back To Your Place?Also overtexting after date can result in the “you’re a good guy but I don’t feel the connection”, given my recent experience where I kissed her and second date was pretty much guaranteed as she was asking about it but I overchased | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Advice wanted: Adjusting to relationshipsThis guy doesn’t miss. Glad to see this instead of some bullshit “make sure to keep manipulating her” | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textI think that’s different people my friend - we didn’t grind out/make out, she was in my arms for the majority of the night when we were walking somewhere or sitting down at the bar. I walked her home but we kissed outside, it was just a quick two kiss thing and I mentioned something from before that she suggested before (I.e. sent me a napkin from a bakery where is said “buy me a cinnamon bun and call me cute”), and I said at the end that we can do that with one tweak - we can make those togethe… | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 07:41 AM |
| 1 | One of the things I could work on is humour and teasing/escalating sooner - any advice?Yeah what I was thinking. I noticed that along with my confidence I gained the knowledge and introspection that when I tried to fucking ‘study’ and prepare for a date before, or to talk to a girl, that’s when I’d be autistic. As soon as I let myself exist and take things easy, boom, more confidence, conversations don’t actually run out (as this was something I was always scared of), and even if there is an awkward silence, you embrace it. | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textSo did I mess up by allowing her to cuddle me up all night and kiss at the end? Should I have created more distance? That seems strange to me right now. I imagine if I kissed earlier on rather than at the end it would’ve been better? Could you just reiterate what I should’ve done in my situation? More than happy to try to concisely mention more details. I think although I overescalated during the date, if I followed the rest of your advice to not reach out as much, it would’ve been fine, but fuc… | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textAh I overescalated on the date itself? Could you explain because I’m struggling to understand, I assumed that if she’s cuddling up like that all night that’s good, wondering what I’ve missed. Much appreciated dude | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textWell shit, at least I know for the future, right shame because she was probably one of the most attractive girls there, and it was pretty much set up for second date straight after the first one | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textIt’s strange because in person it’s as if she couldn’t control herself, over text she was more reserved and didn’t flirt too much, responded alright to the flirts but not advancing them. I imagine I made it seem too serious too fast maybe, and given she’s at uni she probably would want that if it was slower. Instagram is fairly clean no thirst traps or anything, below 1k followers, seemed quite modest. What would you say is the ‘life hack’ then for women this age? I would prefer to date to form … | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textInteresting, does this apply even if you’ve met organically through a mutual hobby where you have some form of rapport/filter established? | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textYeah mistakes after a reset (got broken up with from a long term relationship), and I was in the same mentality of actually talking to someone as if we’re close. Would you say I should’ve just kept it almost no contact for the week, maybe a meme or something along those lines and that’s it? | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textAppreciate it, well at least now I’m more ‘prepared’. I think I might’ve been in the mentality of being able to talk to people openly and honestly after my previous relationship ended recently, and not realised that actually falling for a girl this fast won’t do me any good, and it should be the other way around. Had it in the bag and fumbled it 🤣 | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textYep that seems to be the case, which is fucking disappointing, although I know I will find more women to talk to, but here she was checking a lot of the boxes from the get go (I.e. very feminine, intelligent, of course attractive, talkative, etc). Ironically if the advice of one guy didn’t slip my mind this might’ve been fine, but I listened to ‘myself’ and my friend who advised to try to call her to build up the connection before the date, etc. Had it in the bag potentially and fumbled :/ | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textI’m 25 she’s just turned 21 | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textDo you mean I overescalated during text or the date? Sucks ass because she hits a lot of the initial criterias; low Instagram presents (compared to most), no thirst trap pictures, acts feminine, etc and of course attractive. My problem is trying to not think that I’ll ‘run out’ of women to talk to. I’ll jump in the dms for that Edit - and unfortunately for some reason your advice slipped out of my mind from the previous post - to give her time and to dial down, instead I pretty much doubled down… | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl which went very well, but she’s not really giving me much over text?Hey dude, I wrote a small update, if you have the time I’d appreciate your thoughts | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textWhich is strange because we did do that, admittedly she flipped the questions to get to know about me more a little more than I about her, but it wasn’t extreme, just something I picked up on now. She was making sure im holding her for majority of the night, always getting my arm on her waist and trying to be even closer at the excuse of getting more comfortable etc, and we kissed at the end. | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Update to date with girl who isn’t giving me much over textThat’s the thing she was carrying the conversation on, even building on top of it, just not flirtatiously. Admittedly I did realise that during the date she would flip the questions to get to know about me more, of course it wasn’t an autistic 100% me me me but I should’ve focused a little more on her. It’s very strange and surprising to me because we kissed in the end and she made sure my hand was on her waist/hip when walking/sitting. So basically I should’ve let her come out of her shell at h… | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Advice: Get in the habit of responding with humour.I seem to have fucked up my not matching her energy via text. In person she melted in my arms on the first date, over text she didn’t really respond too well to flirts, as in, just approval of it and maybe a very light input that pushed it forward twice | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 01:23 AM |
| 2 | How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media?That’s some solid advice, appreciate it :) yeah I’m trying to attract someone who is actually looking for a serious relationship, I don’t really find fucking someone for the sake of fucking that rewarding, of course it probably feels good, just know myself that it might feel a bit empty afterwards. This one girl I just had a date with was giving good vibes, was very keen on a second date but I must’ve over texted/chased as she told me she didn’t feel the connection, but it’s my first date after … | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 01:20 AM |
| 2 | How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media?Thank you, yea definitely doing that, surprisingly enough this girl just appeared out of no where and we hit it off, but clearly I’ve pursued too much after the date because we went from her being keen on a second date, and during the first literally being cuddled up to me the entire night and making sure my arm is around her, to her saying she doesn’t feel the connection. I think I’ve analysed everything I could have, but I’m in general a person who prefers to meet people organically and not th… | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 01:17 AM |
| 2 | How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media?Thank you. Is it not too ‘try hard’ to for example post a picture of the book you’re reading on stories for example? It seems so out of ordinary to me to do that | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media?Absolutely, I prefer ‘organic’ interactions, but those women will add my Instagram. Even having a single post and some videos of me dancing was already enough to at least peak the interest of the girl I went on a date with (but it fizzled out because I chased too much). | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media?That’s a great mentality/example, where did you hear about it as I recall something similar from a book/video I watched a while back? I think for me it’s just a matter of posting what? Actual posts I imagine need to be more ‘unique’/‘special’, then I can post stories with the more generic things I.e. coffee/reading/cooking? | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media?I think I definitely overthink this a lot. I’ve got the problem of ‘intellectualising’ or wanting to be prepared as much as possible before doing something, which is what I’m working on. I love cooking and have a desire for finding new recipes (as with most things and hobbies, time is the limiting factor), now I’ve considered getting some nice plates to try plating my food and making it look all nice to then enjoy it of course but also post it, for example. But I agree I see your point about sel… | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:38 PM |
| 2 | How do I go about breaking my mentality of not wanting to post on social media?I appreciate your input my friend. Worrying about it is probably a little feminine I will admit to that, I’m at this weird stage where I’m torn between both ends of thought about a few topics, I.e. I’m at peace with my break up but at the same time I’m at ‘war’, I know that there is something even better for me out there but I’m worried a little about the short term, and I’m figuring out what to prioritise in my life to catapult my life to a higher level. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl which went very well, but she’s not really giving me much over text?Appreciate it dude, I prefer working it out in person as well but a week seems fucking long without any other form of trying to get to know each other. I’m confused by her behaviour though, is she only interested in attention or am I overthinking it? | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl which went very well, but she’s not really giving me much over text?So I should ‘pull back’ a little if I’m understanding this correctly? I was thinking whether I should try to build up the connection by calling, but at the same time I shouldn’t be chasing Appreciate the advice my friend, have a good day | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl which went very well, but she’s not really giving me much over text?I can’t see your post about calibration and escalation - do you have a link? | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Went on a date with a girl which went very well, but she’s not really giving me much over text?So I should just step back, keep doing what I’m doing and not worry? | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a girl which went very well, but she’s not really giving me much over text?Hahah yes that is true | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Went on a date with a girl which went very well, but she’s not really giving me much over text?Yeah hoping that’s the case, fine if it doesn’t work out but it seems like she’s a normal down to earth girl thankfully. I haven’t given her my number yet, was thinking of just sending her a message about it but I don’t know how to frame it so it’s on her to call me as well, as so far I’ve called her twice and once she wasn’t able to answer but she hasn’t actually called/initiated the conversation over text, but has kept it alive which can’t be denied. I’m trying to treat it like her ‘defence’ -… | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 12:26 AM |
| 4 | How to seduce a girl that is opposite from youYou’re already set up for failure with that mentality. Work on your self image. If you’re lazy, don’t be, do shit. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Seems like me and my (ex) girlfriend are splitting up - what mentality/mindset should I develop?Hah well yeah will definitely find out soon, it’s mostly just keeping myself occupied and doing the things that make me better. It sucks reading the cards she wrote for me, the cutesy voice notes, seeing our pictures and memories from holidays and just normal days we spent together all going down the drain ‘over nothing’, and it’s a shame she wasn’t able to work on it and allow me to at least support her through it. One thing I’m a little worried about is finding another woman on par or better. … | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Seems like me and my (ex) girlfriend are splitting up - what mentality/mindset should I develop?Appreciate it my guy! Haha getting a car as we speak so will be doing that more often to just chill out. One thing I’m a little worried about is finding another woman on par or better. I do not want to waste time in clubs and on online dating sites, but outside of dancing I don’t know how to go about it. | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Seems like me and my (ex) girlfriend are splitting up - what mentality/mindset should I develop?I’m not saying I didn’t react or feel anything, of course had a few moments with tears, anger, happiness in terms of wishing her well and because apart from this situation she was a really great woman who positively surprised me about dating and relationships, but yeah now it’s the missing stage mixed with moving on. It’s wild how it just all disappeared ‘over nothing’, night before we’re looking at kitchen appliances out of curiosity because we’re considering moving in soon and at decorations, … | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyLiving a superficial life is the losing side. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Seems like me and my (ex) girlfriend are splitting up - what mentality/mindset should I develop?Oh yeah I 100% agree, I’m in the first category, but the pain isn’t here so to speak. I am pushing myself more of course, but I don’t hate her, unless it turns out she was cheating/moved on already, but besides that I wish her well in life. | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 04:05 PM |
| -4 | Approaching at the gym in the U.K.?Generalising based on your own experience. | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | How to seduce someone out of your league without showing needyYou don’t need strategy/tactics/tips for seducing people, you need to work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 10:16 AM |
| 1 | What makes you have a lust or sexual desire for someone, but not necessarily want to date them?Mental gymnastics are wild here | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 11:29 AM |
| 1 | What makes you have a lust or sexual desire for someone, but not necessarily want to date them?Just because your comment is overfilled with emotions doesn’t mean it’s correct. If you buy a knock off you know you’re buying a knock off at the cost of sacrificing something. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I’m just going to cut my shit off and be a UnicQuit being dramatic, look for something more meaningful instead of being a degenerate. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 09:23 AM |
| 11 | What makes you have a lust or sexual desire for someone, but not necessarily want to date them?If you want the no bullshit answer - just looks. Excessive showing off on Instagram, boobs out, ass visible to everyone, no bra, thirst trap pictures, behaving like a thot = not dating material, I’m not a therapist. With that said, an actual loving woman is a million times better and more important than a hoe to have sex with, in a way it’s our primal brain just wanting to fuck more even if we have a loving and sexy girlfriend, and I get it, because I have those thoughts/desires occasionally, bu… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Kissed girl too early ?To be autistic again… good times. You’re good, no matter what. Look at the positives - in the worst case scenario, you ‘only’ managed to get a girl to pull you in physically to smell you better, compliment your lips and your smile (aka big hint), and you kissed. You know what that means? Even if this one is burned, you can do it again. I imagine it’s one of your first times, so maybe kissing needs working on, that’s nothing bad, maybe it doesn’t, but if you’re a rookie, what I used to do is just… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Kissed girl too early ?To be autistic again… good times. You’re good, no matter what. Look at the positives - in the worst case scenario, you ‘only’ managed to get a girl to pull you in physically to smell you better, compliment your lips and your smile (aka big hint), and you kissed. You know what that means? Even if this one is burned, you can do it again. I imagine it’s one of your first times, so maybe kissing needs working on, that’s nothing bad, maybe it doesn’t, but if you’re a rookie, what I used to do is just… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:41 AM |
| 15 | How to prevent STDs & Stay Safe?Increase your standards, wear a condom, no oral | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.About bachata or any dance classes - if you’re going here for a date with a girl, that’s all good, expect to switch partners often. If someone is coming into dance to overtly try and find a hook up, don’t do it, actually go meet people and if anything then try, don’t make it weird. | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?So how do I ‘counter’ this? I work on myself but definitely don’t want to get to the stage where that happens | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?Yeah especially in the current ‘setting’ with how fucked my generation is when looking at the average individual. Do you have any advice on keeping up the seduction and flirting in a relationship? I am confident I am doing this but of course I have my ups and downs and I think I could work on it | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?I’m her first boyfriend as wel, I know that it’s a joke here to believe that, but I mentioned in another comment that we both come from countries which are more traditional and she only move here (western country) two years ago. Strong family values, great upbringing from parents, not a feminist and not one of those Miami mentality girls. I agree, sex and having lots of women is fun, but it’s empty, I’d argue it’s instant gratification in a way. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 03:54 PM |
| 17 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?To me she’s marriage material, of course it’s too early now after a year, but we’re both from a more traditional culture and she didn’t live in a western society for too long to become fucked up by it (she moved here two years ago). Strong family values, respectable parents with a strong upbringing, etc etc. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 03:52 PM |
| 10 | Do people actually pull girls at clubs?Yeah I learned this lesson early - do not fucking collect snaps or insta at the club without the intention to go home with her, you’ll just be another message in the morning to her. | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | The 48 Laws of Power Explained in More Detail (3h Animation)Any other books to build up on this? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Old school tip: How to tell if a girl wants you to approach herI can’t see their eyes too well lol I need contact lenses | /r/seduction | 20/04/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Well sex is definitely important for me, but I can see what you mean exactly, thank you. We did go for an activity the first time around but there aren’t many things to do in my town/city. About making moves, more specifically, her making moves first, she’s very reserved with touch, or there is a ‘lag’, so to speak - we were making out intensely and only after a few moments she went for my hand to just stroke and massage it, so I’m wondering if anything will happen if she will be the one to make… | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I don’t have an issue with that, but the only thing that I may need to improve on is just being funny as a person. I know this sounds idiotic, but have you got any pointers for someone that is obviously functioning socially? Just need food for thought Edit - I did try to walk her home, which is when she said not this time because I need to get my train, and at some point she said that we’re not having sex, then I didn’t want to pressure her into anything so we kissed again, hugged and went our w… | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Ya if you play your cards right you can hit those, but just don't give up too much and lose the chase. Vibe irl don't give her attention through text | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I have what planned? We did go out already, met up a few times, made out a few times - those parts are real and not in my head 🤣 | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Ah I’ll elaborate - that was regarding her going away for that month or two BEFORE we make it official/date more seriously/have sex etc | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?She’s going away for a month or two, she’s gonna come back | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Feel free to dm me, I appreciate all advice, I dissect it myself anyways and take the things that stay true to me, but the more opinions/insights and viewpoints, the better :) | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thanks :) I do appreciate those kind words. About being ‘afraid’, it’s difficult to describe. With the previous girl I was trying to do something with, I had terrible oneitis. We’re talking even a little bit of tearing up at times because I was hoping something would come of it, but now it’a a lot less than that. I’ve worked on myself and especially my confidence, and whilst I would like to see this bloom into something bigger, if she’s not interested then I will be sad, but I’ll be focused more… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?So did I fuck up? I don’t see how I could’ve went with her because she insisted on me getting the train and she even said she doesn’t like to be pressured into doing something she doesn’t want to do (it wasn’t as serious as this sounds in English, it was just a comment she made along I said that I’ll walk her home, but then I realised that I don’t want to be pushy and we just made out again before going our own ways). I really don’t want to fuck this up, it might not work out but I want to minim… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thanks chief, I appreciate you coming over from my comment :) I did send a cute meme to her but I just got left on read, and she read it a long time after. Same with a message whether she will be coming to a social meet up, where she replied hours later that turns out she can’t come, and I’m a little disheartened because I can just see it going down hill and I don’t know what to do next time | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 12:03 PM |
| 8 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I see. She did mention about things ‘happening naturally’ because she feels like all of this is very sudden and past experiences that started like this ended suddenly as well, without a ‘goodbye’. I seriously do consider her to be gf material, just a friend with benefits would be a bit disheartening (and this is a guy talking - I wouldn’t be happy with just sex), and now she’s a little cold/taking time to read messages, which threw me into overthinking mode. What would you advise I do next time … | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thanks! Well the thing is she said that when I had to go my other way and she didn’t want me to take her home because I said I can, but I had a train to catch, so we ended up kissing again. Now she’s a little cold, sent a meme no reaction, read like 12 hours later etc. I know that it sounds like oneitis, because it is, I’d be a bit sad that something could’ve happened but it went down the drain. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?But she’s acting weird now, well not too weird just taking long time to respond/not reacting to something I send, which is a little disheartening. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thanks, that’s really insightful. My concern is that she’s going away soon for a month or two, and I just don’t see how we could be anything less than in some form of early relationship. If she goes away then how can I maintain or keep getting to know her, without the inevitable feeling that she’s possibly talking to other guys, in a different country? And same for me, I’m not going to wait for a slither of hope that she comes back and we keep it up | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?So what should I have done? | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Picked up on my perceived intention* I do want sex, as every functioning male, but I genuinely do want to get to know her, and we’ve been doing just that to a quite good level, given how little we’ve seen each other. I do consider her long term girlfriend material. So what am I doing wrong? Should I allow her to make the make out initial lead so to speak, and I tune into my ‘caring mode’? I really want to minimise the fuck up from my end, it could still not work out naturally, but so far I think… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 10:07 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?At no point in what I’ve written have I said “well we were making out intensely and I expected sex”. Those are two separate things that I pointed out to establish a better picture of the current situation. So what you’re saying is that she might be thinking that I’m only here for sex - how do I show that I want more with her (genuinely) but at the same time not back pedalling? I’m assuming shorter make outs if there will be any, more touchy/comforting vibes and allow her to make the make out mov… | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Then you go to the next. When these girls not feeling you. You just gotta take it as "that girl blocked a blessing, Ima find a better one. When you stop giving your attention they will try to get yours | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I love this one. If you're vibing it's just a shit test. I remember this time where I pulled up to a girls house and she said "were not doing anything" I was like "Ok I'll just leave then" and she grabbed and was saying "no no" all cute. 15 min later I had my dick in her mouth. Just play your cards like you don't care. "you think I wanna have sex with you?" with sarcasm is clean too. If she sees you flustered or begging "why not" its wraps for you buddy | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 12:26 AM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thanks, I appreciate it. It’s not certain yet that she’s not interested but it’s odd why she’s a little cold now when she was literally asking me to message her when I get back and to be safe a day ago. But yeah, whatever happens I’ll keep improving and moving forward, this was already a huge step in the right direction and ‘verified’ to me that I can actually attract a girl, but if this could work out or develop further it would be quite nice | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Yeah I really hope that’s not the case, it would be really unfortunate because I don’t understand what ‘went wrong’. Thank you | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thank you very much, I think she needs space now given that she is taking time to respond, but what would you recommend me do when it comes to figuring out if she’s talking to other dudes? You mentioned communicating it in the 3rd paragraph but how would I go about it ? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 11:25 PM |
| 3 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Appreciate it! I’m only concerned about her being a little cold now, won’t go into details but we don’t text at all but she was taking her time to respond and read the message | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?So what should I be doing to not make her feel like one/losing reputation? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 11:21 PM |
| 0 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I think personally it could be a variety of things. Could be she’s not sure she’s ready to have sex yet. Could be she finds it hot when she tells men no and they still go for what they want anyway. Either way, you should absolutely try to slowly lead her towards sex and proceed if she doesn’t try to stop you or look uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Any advice on building more of that comfort and intimacy in the mean time? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 11:19 PM |
| 5 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thanks! Right now I’m just confused because she seems to be taking a longer time to read and respond. I didn’t send much, but for example today I sent a video that she might like, but hasn’t read it even though she’s been active, and I know I’m overthinking, but I keep trying to find a flaw in what I was doing and hoping that it’s not gonna end up like people say | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to have boners while talking to or hugging or playing with a girl that you know?Bro ‘seduction protocol’ to having a boner? You’re a functioning male, you’re gonna get erect especially when you’re making moves on a girl you find attractive. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:23 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Terrible acting - if you wanted to help your original comment would’ve been different, instead of regurgitating a useless comment. Women also find passive aggressiveness and pettiness unattractive. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?You could have provided some value with a link or just not commented at all. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:04 PM |
| 19 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?How do you go about it? Ignore it but tone down a little and restart? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 3 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Oh no she’s definitely doing a lot, we’re actually having back and forth conversations, I typically try to probe around trying to understand her more, she did point it out because I was asking how she feels about various things, I.e. being alone here (dumb question at first glance but I want her to open up) and then probably something about us making out and then something else and she did say something along the lines of “you’re trying to analyse me but I’m a very straight forward person” to wh… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 3 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?We have been brushing up on such topics, I feel like a “fish in the sea” in more meaningful topics if I’m being honest, the only thing that concerns me is if I will run out and the ability to just talk about random stuff, I.e. once you get into a longer term relationship and you just talk about anything generic - that’s what I’ll struggle with potentially. Thank you:) | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 03:41 PM |
| 7 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Appreciate it, but how do I become the most fun version of myself? I believe I’m doing well, but I am a person who likes deeper topics hence sometimes too serious, but any pointers are more than welcome m | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Thank you, it certainly makes me feel like I’m competent - ssomething that was my concern few years back, as my post history indicates. I did make a slight oopsie along the way, because she said we’re not having sex because I said I wanted to walk her home, then I said “naaah come on I’ll walk you back” and she said something along the lines of “I don’t like being pushed into something I don’t want to do”, but it’s a lot softer in my language, so I said “no worries, I want you to be comfortable”… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 03:16 PM |
| 16 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Wow, as obvious as that is to some, I knew that it was somewhat a positive sign, but I needed that so called translation, thank you friend. So what should my next step be? Continue getting touchy, but more frequently and quicker? | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Wait so what am I doing wrong and what am I doing right? The way I see this girl is that if it works out then I’ll still be the same guy who actually wants to feel smth for a girl, but if it doesn’t work out then I honestly think it’ll be the proverbial switch into me going cold and focusing on just sex instead of anything meaningful | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I really really appreciate this. We only had one unofficial date because we met alone, went bowling and went for drinks after. Early 20s, and yes I know that it sounds ‘gay’ haha, but let me elaborate - she’s here alone because she moved here to study. When it comes to touching I definitely did touch her beyond her arm - upper leg, stomach, lightly on her boobs and she was definitely receptive given that she was making out still and we were making out even more intensely, then naturally I backed… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Hello boss 😂 there is an update. I appreciate the advice and time you’ve devoted to my issue, and I understand if it’s too much to ask, but would you be willing to look at my recent post? Comments have some details about the situation with the same girl | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:25 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?I see your point, but all but one of those times we met each other were because we were seeing the same people or going to the same place, and we just ended up focusing on each other. We don’t really text, but she’s just taking more time to respond now from the looks of it. So what should I be aiming for next time? Should I keep making her feel ‘warm’/‘safe’? I.e. when we were making out I was naturally ‘exploring’ and touching her with various intensity/speed and so on, and the one thing that s… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:16 PM |
| -1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?Agree to disagree. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?My bad, here you go; Before I do give the info, I know how it will look - oneitis, and yeah I’ll admit that I do have that to an extent, not as much as I used to with other girls, but I’m honestly feeling good about this/with her or at least from what I’ve seen. Known her for a little over a week, we met at a social hobby event. First day we met was when we kissed at the event, next day we met up for another social thing and we got to know each other a bit more and in general she was concerned a… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Whenever you ask for advice and receive it, check the profile history of those people.I would say I could give some advice on how to get with women or what they are like, based on few observations, being around them more often recently, etc, but I am by no means saying that I am the best person to listen to, as I don’t have an answer to everything, only a slither based on experience. As mark Manson said in his book (paraphrased) - you never are correct, you’re just slightly less wrong. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 12:01 PM |
| 3 | PSA: Whenever you ask for advice and receive it, check the profile history of those people.Yeah one of the comments I received regarding touch and escalation was “don’t do it” “easy way to get a sexual hrrassment case”, even when I pointed out I have already made out with her intensely and we were feeling each other up. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Oh all of this is actually just a hypothetical scenario, like I am talking to this girl right now, we’ve had one date, but I went into my overthinking overdrive mode and picked up on this being a concern for me | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 10:40 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Whenever you ask for advice and receive it, check the profile history of those people.Glad to have someone like you on our team as well | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How should I go about asking this girl out after we’ve kissed and discussed a potential relationship?So what should I do in your opinion? Be a bit more forward about it or ask thought provoking questions about me and her? | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about asking this girl out after we’ve kissed and discussed a potential relationship?So I should just carry on kissing her, caressing her, trying to make more moves, but say nothing at all about ‘us’, or if anything, should I ask questions in a way in which she is the one who decides what the vibe between us is? Any examples please? | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 10:15 PM |
| 3 | How should I go about asking this girl out after we’ve kissed and discussed a potential relationship?I’m not sure, I haven’t asked and I’m not sure how I would, any pointers? I imagine it might be because of her personality, which if it is to be the case, is actually quite good for me - she’s quite timid, religious and so on, so for me those are green flags, but I am not sure as to why things didn’t work out with them, but I don’t know how to ask about it without a. Making her think about other dudes when I’m with her and b. Getting her to open up | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 10:14 PM |
| 8 | PSA: Whenever you ask for advice and receive it, check the profile history of those people.The point is that after you’ve gained experience you wouldn’t be talking shit that will discourage people because you are failing, and “it’s all over” “I’m gonna be forever alone”. I’m not talking about you. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 8 | PSA: Whenever you ask for advice and receive it, check the profile history of those people.Or just experiment and learn your own way yourself, take pieces of information from various ‘sides’ and form your own. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 08:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Thanks! And sorry to hear that, I haven’t experienced that yet but on the bright side there was a lesson at least and you realised it :) What sort of date nights though? What sort of things? All that pops into my head is pool/bowling/minigolf, movies, walk in the park, cook something together, and a few others, but doesn’t it get repetitive/turns into a routine? Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?What should I do instead then? | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 06:22 PM |
| 3 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Thank you :) haha another bad thing is that neither of us has a car yet, I’m most likely gonna have one in 6-9 months due to my exams being booked and my country is far behind. Thanks again my friend :) she did say she’s more of a walk in the park kinda girl | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 0 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Whatever floats your boat | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 04:35 PM |
| 3 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?Hahah unfortunately I live in a small town and she lives in a very uneventful city, but I guess I need to research a little because there must be something. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | PSA: Whenever you ask for advice and receive it, check the profile history of those people.I would fall into that category, but I try to make sure my advice is more encouraging. I’ve changed my life around this year tremendously, but there is still a lot of room for growth. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 04:33 PM |
| 11 | How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement?See that’s the thing I’m worried about. I’m good at being a romantic dude when it comes to touch, but preserving everything and it not becoming monotonous is what frightens me to an extent. I don’t want it to become a routine | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backSo what do you do about that? How do you keep it up? | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Should I be the first one to back out of kissing then? Worst part is I really want to fucking make out with her and I noticed the last time we hugged I did hold on for that few milliseconds (exaggeration) longer. And by don’t confirm feelings, do you mean verbally or through actions? | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Would you say doing it (as in, making out, intensely) at the bowling place would be ok? I don’t know where else to go after that could be more private, besides her flat (as I will be getting a bus/train to the city). I guess I could go to a bar with her but not a club | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Oh yeah that’s why I wanted to play a normal game first and then second game say that - do you think my idea wouldn’t be good? Thanks bro :) | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Oh actually I’m planning on going just with her. Very good tips, I was thinking of saying something like “I can bet I’ll demolish you in bowling” then if she takes the bait and says “what do you want to bet” I’ll say something like “if you win I might kiss you”. Yes I know, it’s corny to ‘prepare’, but I just want some feedback on that. Maybe after the first game I’ll say that so that we can warm up slowly before and then hit her with that | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Thank you so much. Any resource is more than welcome :) I am going to be seeing her this weekend more than likely, so that’s my opportunity to make some moves. Any food for thought when it comes to, let’s say, going bowling? What should the escalation look like? | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?So in theory am I doing well or is the lack of progression/escalation recently a bad thing? Should I just be more assertive even if it might be risky and literally turn to her say something like “your lips are looking great”, pull her chin with my thumb and go for the kiss? That sort of thing? And also how to I raise the tension further? | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Oooh that last one is good, hahah legendary advice my friend :) So basically when she tries to shit test me, I just try to sexualise it/turn it on her? I really want to just break that barrier, which was already broken as we kissed and danced, very, very sensually, but the two times we met after that in a public setting with other friends, we were quite ‘tame’ - should I just start making more suggestive jokes, I.e. “oh it’s that look again from our dancing session” when smirking? Any other food… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Thank you, one of the best advice so far :) but how should I do that? How do I become more playfully aggressive and what sort of ‘dominance’ are we talking about? Like in bed I know of course, in theory at least lol, but when we’re at an event/in public should I just grab her and pull her in or something? Honestly the more examples the better, that’s how I’ll learn the best :) Thanks! Edit - and yeah you’re very right about the not letting it get to me. Basically her tests seem to be based aroun… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 09:15 AM |
| 0 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?I wouldn’t say that, but I admit I might be overthinking this a little. Overall she is fun to talk to, feminine behaviour, evidently shy, very intelligent and it’s backed by her resume/education history, and I was asking her where the lack of confidence is coming from and so on, and I tried to build her up a little (over the span of 3 times we met due to mutual friends/hobby meet ups) I’m just treating it like a shit test, but I’d rather steer her away from doing this if it gets out of hand. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with a girl who is a little too cocky at times?Sorry my brain probably needs some sleep - could you elaborate these; if she gets upset about my response, but what response? Calm or bite back? confident/comfortable mode, is that good for me? | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Eh I personally think that saying the “I’m extremely attracted to you” would’ve been too much - that might come later, but if anything I’d rather have my actions do the ‘talking’ in those types of situations, and from my own limited experience, that comment would’ve probably thrown me straight into a friend zone. I appreciate the input! Don’t mistake my comment as me not appreciating the time you’ve willingly devoted to writing a response to a complete stranger | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?I’m guessing nothing? And it’s quite the opposite for me. I’m actually inexperienced af, this was quite literally my first kiss, but I’ve worked on myself for the past year and my confidence is on another level - few months back I would’ve stumbled many times and I would’ve not made any move, even this time I was a little ‘late’ as her signals weren’t as obvious to me (well, looking back at it, I’m in the right here but also due to the circumstances that I can mention over dms, like fuck me I ca… | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Appreciate it! Could you elaborate what you mean by the edit, as in, that I have “and inclination”? And yes, please do go into more details. I am guilty of wanting to absorb as much knowledge as possible from various sources and then use it/adapt what seems applicable and natural to me. I can go into more details in dm as I don’t want to share too much info that may be personal to every random reader here. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Could you elaborate the last bit? So what should I be doing? | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 2 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Seems like I need to have more faith in my capabilities lol, even though I’m inexperienced af. Thanks my dude! | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?I see, that’s a really really good point. Thank you. I did do that, I think that I may have went too much into deep topics (but at the same time, I excel at those, and if the other person reciprocates, then that’s a win win for me). So I said that she seems shy/timid (in general and regarding her future), which is odd because she has an insanely impressive educational background, work experience at top companies, literally 1 out of 3 people got that role in the whole country, etc, then I also sa… | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Wow, that’s a pretty interesting connection. Thank you! I might as well make the most of it - any recommendations on what to do if I wanted to improve my sales skills? Currently reading never split the difference - amazing book, but I can’t help to think that it’s a great entry point and lays out crucial fundamental principles, but I don’t know what to do or where to go next. I have ‘influence’ by Cardiani (IIRC), so that’s probably next, but any other recommendations, whether it’s books, YT cha… | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 08:02 AM |
| 2 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?“Make her feel a bit vulnerable and seen/known too” - what exactly do you mean by making her feel seen and known, by others? | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Wait what, so if I would’ve went for it without backing out, what would that ‘resulted’ in? Honestly I can’t tell as this is the first time I’m getting this ‘far’. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Appreciate this! Thank you! How should I make her comfortable with my actions? And yeah I see what you mean by over explaining, but I wasn’t saying that I won’t use her, but rather suggesting that she just wants to ‘take time’ (which is understandable to an extent, in this case I guess it applies given that we only know each other for a day literally) in order to prevent that. When it comes to making out/kissing - any advice? First time I kissed her I think I fumbled it, as I am inexperienced, b… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Well I did kiss her the day before. So what should my ‘plan of action’ be, and what should I have done instead? | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Thanks! She made sure to point out that they went on a few dates or something but nothing came from it and that it’s more about her feeling awkward about just straight up kissing next to the guy, as was the case when we had the hobby meet up. How about escalating or what should I try to do? Is my general ‘plan’ good? As in, just keep teasing her with touch and being more and more suggestive/deliberate ? | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 08:44 PM |
| 0 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Thank you :) how should I go about it next time I see her? What should i do if she keeps saying essentially we don’t know each other and that one person at the hobby went on a date with her before and she doesn’t want it to be awkward? (Forgot about that bit) | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?Experience mindset Whatever happens you’re still improving | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I hide a political book because a girl will come watch a movie with me?Ehh if it comes to just having that as a fling or whatever, sure, hide it. But at the same time, you’re hiding or even altering yourself to an extent, for a single individual. It depends on your status - if you had fuck off money, you wouldn’t care and would get away with it. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?Elaborate? | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?And keep them in your sight. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 05:30 AM |
| 6 | What to say when a woman mentions her weight or wanting to lose weightWell we didn’t ask for your opinion either 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with the feeling that I have nothing to talk aboutAny recommendations or advice for questions to ask? I’m not a degenerate who hasn’t stepped outside and not talked to anyone, it’s quite the opposite, but I’m most ‘successful’ with people I’ve been introduced to or someone who I’ve managed to get on to closer level, but breaking that ice and those initial few moments are the ones that I struggle with, especially if the other person isn’t a person who is super easy to talk to. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with the feeling that I have nothing to talk aboutSo I do a few of those but I’m unsure of how I would be able to use that to have conversations which won’t end in the same way other conversations may end, especially when speaking to new people | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with the feeling that I have nothing to talk aboutAnd what’s the best way to train that skill besides exposure? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with the feeling that I have nothing to talk aboutExposure therapy is the best therapy though, the only time you really need more is when you’ve tried that and you genuinely have seen improvement but also think you could do with some more guidance, which is what I need personally. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Struggling with the feeling that I have nothing to talk aboutAs someone who has drastically improved their confidence but is still somewhat behind in some aspects of social skills (namely ice breaking and those initial conversations), it’s not social anxiety, it’s just being retarded coupled with the other person either not giving me anything to work with or what they do give doesn’t really allow me to work with it in anyway. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Timing the first kissThe only way you can know that for certain is if you’ve been keeping tabs on her entire life and had a camera planted wherever she went. A lot of girls will say they only have fucked x amount of guys, but if anything, they’ll only include the ones that they were in relationships with, not hookups/ONS. They know we value ‘purity’. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for developing game?💀 | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for developing game?Legend, thank you :) | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | [REPOST] 4 easy ways to start a conversation with any girlI'd say this is a solid post. I basically use all of these when approaching - the more direct you are with your opener the faster you can get the woman into a flirty mode. The downside of being direct is that it puts tons of pressure on the woman and if you don't remain calm and calibrate accordingly it can become awkward real soon. It's not about the opener really - its about how you continue the interaction after, what your vibe is etc. I would highly recommend to give David Dawns free book (d… | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | [REPOST] 4 easy ways to start a conversation with any girlSee for me this ain’t a problem but the problem is keeping the conversation going later as well as the initial attraction a girl has towards me | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 01:44 AM |
| 0 | 'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye''And this is why you don’t shower random 403’s with compliments, because they start to think they’re something special. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop being interested in women?Mark Manson mentioned this as one of three ‘coping mechanisms’ for a lack of better word. This is not meant to be a dig at you, but it’s an excuse. What you mentioned (I.e. finances, working on yourself, self esteem, etc), is achievable with a girl (or so I imagine) because I’m doing all of that right now myself, and all I would need to do is organise my time. You are the priority, do not mistake what I’ve written above as me saying that you shouldn’t focus on yourself, but all of that is highly… | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 11 | High body count and pair bonding?I’m struggling to see the value you’ve provided with this comment | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:53 PM |
| 3 | High body count and pair bonding?Was it me who said anything about mens’ looks? No, it wasn’t, but feel free to write a structured question you would like to hear my insight on and then maybe you can make an argument. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | High body count and pair bonding?Thank you for the insight! Yes I can see how I might’ve shot myself in the foot, but the reason I mentioned that is because men and women are different, that is not to say that one is better than the other, we’re just different and less than a century of social movements won’t undo our ‘monkey brains’, so to speak. Yes this is going into a ‘controversial’ territory, but that’s the beauty of discussion, at least with people who want to have a discussion/debate. Another user mentioned that it may … | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Should I (a beginner) be friendly when talking to girls?Just don’t act and don’t be a pushover - be kind but dont let her disrespect you, with that said, be aware of shit tests, because those differ. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 01:18 PM |
| 5 | High body count and pair bonding?My bad, I’ll clarify/add to that - the ability to switch partners and acting on that at the first ‘issue’ you stumble across in a relationship, or you get ‘bored’, is what I meant. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | chick ghosted months ago, never msged her again, now she is liking my picsI didn’t bother reading through most of this but go ahead do what you want. An ex is an ex for a reason. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | chick ghosted months ago, never msged her again, now she is liking my picsSomething called past experience, doesn’t mean it’s happening now, and either way, why cope wasting time on an ex, just say it as it is without trying to lie to yourself | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 10:00 PM |
| 4 | chick ghosted months ago, never msged her again, now she is liking my picsTime that you waste thinking about her should also be included. That then distracts you throughout the day. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 08:14 PM |
| 12 | chick ghosted months ago, never msged her again, now she is liking my picsTime and mental clarity isn’t nothing. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 07:00 PM |
| 2 | what would you say after a hookup to ensure she'll let you sleep the night at her place?🥴 | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 01:31 PM |
| 7 | what would you say after a hookup to ensure she'll let you sleep the night at her place?How do you work on your stamina like that? What’s the best exercise? I’m thinking skipping/jump rope because I want to have the explosiveness for (not only the bedroom huehue) but also martial arts in the future | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 12:21 PM |
| 5 | Need advice (23 year old mildly autistic virgin guy) ?I’ve only read the first paragraph and all I will say is this - stop labelling yourself so negatively. Regardless of whatever anyone reading this has to say about the people I will mention, but Tristan Tate (IIRC) had a great example as to why this is bad - he became a national kickboxing champion (IIRC), but later he was diagnosed with some form of genetic lung condition, where his lung capacity/efficiency is 10% less than average. If he knew that/was diagnosed before he became a champion, he w… | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Any food for thought when it comes to fun ans positive topics? I don’t want a plan but rather things to keep in mind so I can adapt them | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 11:39 AM |
| 6 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?How would you accomplish that? I am great at deep convos but I struggle with introducing and keeping the sexual tension or even building it. Any examples/food for thought which I can work with? Thank you :) | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Could you elaborate? I think I could really benefit from this as my conversations tend to go into the deeper categories, so something like this, that may be deep but can also turn sexual would be amazing. Examples are more than welcome, anything to work with :) | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | What should I do when the girl suggests asking questions as a game?Appreciate it! Any recommendations for what to say? How sexual should it get and how quickly? Also, any other games? I thought of literally just strip poker or even checkers or whatever lmao | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.Never said there isn’t, but to say that it’s not a vital part of a healthy relationship is wrong, or the person saying that is lying to themselves. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Friend says she doesn't like muscular men.Fuck her, and also her opinion. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 07:20 PM |
| -1 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.All this ‚theory’ bs is just reality put into words. Besides, if you’re a healthy male, you want sex, just as much as women, they’re just hiding it better. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | If girls let you try a drink from their glass, is that in any way a good sign?People like you really are out here trying to give advice? | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | If a girl gets a little touchy via games, could it be an IOI?So l shouldn’t get discouraged by previous instances of being left on delivered, unsuccessful meet up attempts (before she took a break, after she became ‘normal’ again), etc? | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | If girls let you try a drink from their glass, is that in any way a good sign?Was that funny in your head? | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | If girls let you try a drink from their glass, is that in any way a good sign?Reddit comedian please accept this medal 🏅 | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | If girls let you try a drink from their glass, is that in any way a good sign?Haha! | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | If a girl gets a little touchy via games, could it be an IOI?Yeah she was only touchy with me, but I couldn’t really escalate because I had to go home earlier than they did by maybe 30 mins (this was at a hobby related party). She doesn’t seem to be too keen on meeting up though. We’ve known each other for A few months now, she was interested initially, even was in her room at one point but I was retarded, then I guess another guy got into the pic, she got with him, broke up and two months later aka now she’s somewhat back. I’m just gonna go ‘balls deep’ … | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | If a girl gets a little touchy via games, could it be an IOI?Even if it doesn’t seem like she’s interested via text, or she’s trying to get another guy around when we’re talking (probably to make me jealous), makes debatable excuses when it comes to meeting up | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you smash through any LMR/ASD?Appreciate it! Would you happen to have any examples for any of those so i can see what you’re saying more clearly? Thanks again man! | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Is flirting supposed to be more explicit or ‘romantic’, or both?That makes sense, but I’m guessing I wouldn’t start off with “so do you like dick and balls?”, what topics would ease her into it? Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | What should I do when the girl suggests asking questions as a game?Is this something relatively normal to say from the get go? How would you go about bringing this up? | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What should I do when the girl suggests asking questions as a game?Thanks! But how would I go into sexual convos and ease her into it, instead of “do you like dick and balls”? | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Is flirting supposed to be more explicit or ‘romantic’, or both?I see, thank you:) and how would I do that? Any examples/food for thought? I think I would understand the concept best with something like that | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you smash through any LMR/ASD?Wow. Thank you so much for the time and effort! I am a little confused (in general, not by what you wrote) when it comes to making those comments and finding out what she wants/what she responds to - do I ask? Do I gauge by touching? I think when it comes to sexual undertones, I hinder that because I like to go into deeper and more meaningful topics and then lose sight of sexy topics. Would you happen to have any examples or food for thought when it comes to that? Something that I could consider… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Is flirting supposed to be more explicit or ‘romantic’, or both?Thank you :) I think that my teasing and double meaning comments need working on, but from my past few ‘interactions’ I think I manage to weave them in, but that’s after i see the girl is somewhat comfortable and reciprocating the energy, and breaking that platonic ‘first contact’ is one of my weaker points | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | When you meet a girl initially, do you focus on getting to know her alone or with some playfulness/teasing/flirting?How would I ‘probe’ what she responds well to? I’m always thinking that I could say something that turns out to be cringey and she might’ve just laughed or enjoyed it to get out of an awkward comment, but then again, it’s most likely just in my head | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | What should I do when the girl suggests asking questions as a game?See we were at her house at this point, we’ve been dancing at a venue before this and we had a few drinks, showing her some moves from the dance we are learning and after some time she very briefly touched (well, I guess you could say it was a very light kiss) my on neck, but when we got back to hers the vibe was a little off for two reasons a. She was distracted by the mess in her house, which was messy admittedly and b. Her dog was awake and for some reason that just made it a little less ‘sex… | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?Thank you so much, so how would I handle the first shit test you mentioned? And logistics one is basically start escalating physically faster? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you smash through any LMR/ASD?Life changing input | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you smash through any LMR/ASD?How do I move on to the more sexual touch tho? I can’t gauge when it would be right to move on next, especially when you’re going from touching her back/abdomen to ass/thighs etc, seems like it can go bad easily | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:23 PM |
| 2 | How do you smash through any LMR/ASD?Wow, what a quality comment, thank you! So about the hand swatting etc, do you remain persistent at that point, as in, you keep on kissing etc whilst pointing out (like you said) what you’re doing and transferring it to words, but if she is being very hesitant, and you have to back off a little, do you go back to 0 touch and nothing sexual and slowly build up, or do you resume at a similar or slightly lower level? Also, what should I do if we decide to just talk at that point, how would you resu… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | How do you smash through any LMR/ASD?So how do I convey sexuality more? Any pointers or food for thought? I know about the escalation ladder but I mean more about verbal things - I’m aware of the concept; teasing, push and pull, flirting, but any examples would be amazing. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Should I avoid saying/answering questions about a girl to other women?I see, admittedly I’ve now kinda made some form of a move and she was a little happy anxious when talking I think. How should I maintain that frame when we meet up? What should I expect, I.e. shit tests, etc? | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Should I avoid saying/answering questions about a girl to other women?Why is that a good response? She was leaving me on delivered before, now after a break she seems more interested so I’m gonna give her another chance and see | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Should I avoid saying/answering questions about a girl to other women?I would’ve said that to the girl herself too, but in this case this was said to a ‘friend’. What should I do now? I might just straight up ask her to go out again for the 3rd time, last chance | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I avoid saying/answering questions about a girl to other women?So what should I do? There is more context to the story; af one point I was waiting for a taxi in her house and we were in her room, but I had no idea how to make a move (yes I was an idiot but nothing was coming to my mind in there, now I would’ve just went for it) I’ve tried to make a move twice, as in, asking her out to go somewhere together, both times she ‘forgot’ to tell me if she will be free, but I didn’t confront her about it. she disappeared for a bit (we go to the same hobby classes),… | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls is easyThat’s the thing, I’m not entirely sure how to flirt successfully. Like I’ll make a few remarks but nothing solid - any pointers or food for thought to consider if I want to improve my flirting skills? | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?Appreciate this! Holy shit thank you - so how do I get her to fall into my frame? What does that mean and how do I achieve that? Also, could you elaborate the non compliance test? What to expect, how to act? | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 05:45 PM |
| 3 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?Now this is some of the best well structured advice I’ve seen, appreciate it! Exactly what I’m looking for, but of course, the more the better 😅. I can’t tell what it was in this case - we see each other for a mutual hobby, I was in her room at one point and didn’t escalate because I didn’t feel I could (surprise surprise - I was retarded), but she knows I’m inexperienced because of a mutual friend. Then she started withdrawing, delivered indefinitely, was supposed to let me know when she’s free… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 04:45 PM |
| 11 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?Thanks, so do you have any pointers/food for thought or things to consider to proceed to sexy talk or just being seductive? What things should I try to say? Some things or recommendations I heard sound cringey but it might be just my perception | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:26 PM |
| 4 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?Appreciate it, but I can’t help but to ask - so what do you do later on? Surely everyone gets boring and annoying at some point, so how do you manage to get with a girl and actually form some form of relationship without it becoming boring? | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:24 PM |
| 5 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?Wait could you elaborate what I should be doing then? Basically come in being all flirty but then simmer down? Minimal contact outside of physical meet ups? I don’t know exactly how to be flirtatious, well I probably do but it needs working on, it’s more about me not caring what to say so I’m not labelled as a weird cunt | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:12 PM |
| 31 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?Wait could you elaborate what I should be doing then? Basically come in being all flirty but then simmer down? Minimal contact outside of physical meet ups? It’s more about me not knowing how to be flirtatious, or at least not to a sufficient level. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:12 PM |
| 13 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?End game plan | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 02:12 PM |
| 11 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?Appreciate it! I was aware of this to an extent, but the issue I have mostly is setting up the next stages (physical) and flirting (vocal). Do you aim for first doing the incidental touches then move on to the overt ones, according to the ladder? | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Any good tips on flirting for non-basement dwellers?Any specific recommendations? | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Getting girls is easyAny tips on 2. And little on 5.? I am comfortable with everything else, but my flirting could do with some work | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | She told me she is waiting for marriageStop the 🧢 on her end. When it comes to the 100% ‘success rate’, what exactly do you do when you go over or they come over? Any tips? I was over a girls house once, in her fucking bed room but I couldn’t make a move cuz it wasn’t ‘easy’. Yes I am retarded, or rather was. Please help me out 😅 | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Any good tips on flirting for non-basement dwellers?And how do I work or develop that? I can make people laugh but I tend to focus on deeper topics | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Any good tips on flirting for non-basement dwellers?Appreciate it, but i dont have an issue with that, it’s just the bit right after the initial interaction so to speak - trying to actually make the conversation a bit more than platonic, establish whether the girl is interested etc | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "Agree to disagree. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Is it weird to DM a girl 3 years younger than me on Instagram?No lol. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "Statistics speak for themselves, emphasis on ‘liberating’ is affecting their future. I’m not saying if a woman had x amount of partners then she’s ‘undesirable’, so to speak, but if you’ve had a lot of partners in a short amount of time (aka instant gratification), then yeah, you most likely will be affected in a detrimental way. I would say it’s similar in a way to men watching porn (once again, instant gratification) and how they become out of touch with reality, and end up treating women as p… | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 07:44 PM |
| 4 | How do some of you always know what to say?I’m not the best person to ask (yet) as I am still learning this myself, but if I were to boil it down to two keywords/phrases, it would be; A. Eliminate overthinking (at least in the moment) B. Social flow state, so to speak - try to raise your own energy with some music you like, as an example. So for me it would be some rap song that could be absolutely garbage in the lyrical department, or at least in the message it delivers, but as long as you can vibe to it, you’ll feel happier and your pr… | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "If we’re going down the generalising route then yes, it would. I understand your perspective, but two wrongs don’t make a right. I will say that the “so you did it before but not for me” comment can only be made by a weak individual though. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "I would advise against being a shitty person who lies | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 05:55 PM |
| 25 | Why do girls say they " don't usually do this "So how do you get them over that? | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesThanks! Makes sense. What’s the walk of shame? I guess that it’s after sex when they go home but what is so ‘distinct’ about it? | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesI wasn’t refuting the statement, was just asking about the logic behind it - cheers for the info :) | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:01 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesOoo ok good to know thanks :) | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:01 PM |
| -2 | What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothesHow? Edit - bruh I’m not refuting that statement, I’m just asking about the reasons behind it. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:50 PM |
| 0 | How to be fun to be around and what to do with a girl to have fun?Appreciate it! That’s actually something I need to work on. Do you have any pointers or food for thought when doing that? I’m not asking for a plan just ideas that could help me. Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:37 PM |
| 5 | how to touch a woman?OP I’m not here to be a cunt, but ‘introvert’ =/= shy or poor social skills. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?Those comments are more about analysing my situations - one girl asked me out for a coffee, 45 mins before she tells me she has a headache. Was it bullshit? I won’t ever know, most likely a flake because she lost the excitement, but, the ball is in her court now - I wouldn’t respect myself if I were to chase her now, given that I tried to get her out once before (year or two gap between the events). | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?See another comment made me realise this - they want to feel like you’re the same age. The one that I mention does seem a little insecure about her age, even though she’s around 35, which sure is older than me by over a decade, but she’s still a woman who is ‘hard wired’ in the same way as other women. I mention this because I feel a little like a kid - she offers to give me lifts to the places where the lessons or hobby parties are hosted, I live with my parents, don’t have my own car, so it’s … | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?Hey, thank you once again, apologies if this seems like a half assed comment, but I’m gonna paste in what I responded with to another person because I would’ve just re written everything in the same way; Appreciate it! Now that I think about it she was showing some validation seeking behaviour - I decided to pay for her entry to the lesson and she responded with “oh I thought you were paying because you like me” (to which I just chuckled and had no idea what to say). Then later on she was trying… | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?Appreciate it! Now that I think about it she was showing some validation seeking behaviour - I decided to pay for her entry to the lesson and she responded with “oh I thought you were paying because you like me” (to which I just chuckled and had no idea what to say). Then later on she was trying on some other glasses and asking if she looks good in them, to which, once again, I had no idea what to say, unless it was to be a “yeah you look good in them”, but that would be too ‘simpy’, in a way, s… | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?That’s probably the case for most people who don’t have time to waste - I cba for any games with girls/women, if they wanna flake or disappear then go ahead, I ain’t chasing like a dog, doors always open in most cases and the ball is in your court. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?Appreciate it my dude. What’s the best way to build sexual tension? I only need pointers/food for thoughts so to speak, not expecting a plan from A to Z 😅 I think that’s my main issue - I don’t know what to do or what’s expected, like I don’t know the ‘key principles’. Also, what do you mean by ‘punish’ specifically? | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?Thanks! I mean she is fairly comfortable and talkative when we talk, some inside jokes, I get her laughing every time we meet for the hobby lessons, but I just don’t know how to escalate, in general and with milfs. At the same time though, I don’t want to get ‘burned’ by the social circle this hobby has, cuz that would be reaaaal bad for me and my life. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?Appreciate it! So how would I go about gaming/hitting up a milf? There’s one at my current hobby meet up but I don’t want to get ‘burned’ by the group. She always offers to give lifts to the lessons or to go to other hobby meet ups, which I do, but I just don’t know how to escalate, in general and with a woman that is older than me. I’ve managed to throw in a few innuendos but nothing major, I just don’t know how to escalate or try anything, given that I also don’t have my own house or car. Any … | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Is getting with MILFs any different than getting with girls my age? Any pointers?That sounds pretty fucking good, but I’m wondering what should I be like if I’m trying to pull one - direct, flirty, playful? I need to work on all of those but I want to know if I should be any different compared to women my age. I find it a bit odd to think about escalating/breaking the touch barrier with one because of it being unusual to me, plus I don’t want to get burned by the hobby club Any advice? | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Meeting women in the U.K. as a guy in early 20’s - how, what and where?Appreciate it! I would need some pointers or advice when it comes to playful flirting and teasing though. I’m not a social recluse but I tend to be too slow and struggle with the initial flirting/teasing probing, so to speak. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Best sources (books or YT channels) for non-bullshit game, social skills and seduction?So what is? | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Are men/women intimidated by beautiful women?I would be, because it wouldn’t make sense for any guy to do that. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way forward with a girl who seems to be interested in person but after a while she literally doesn’t respond to texts?Hahah I appreciate this. Yeah you’re definitely right with that (next pair I’ll get over), thing is, I gotta admit I’m a virgin and this is the closest I’ve gotten to ‘succeeding’, and I don’t really meet many women. I am getting more accustomed to social media and building my profile and some time soon my dating apps profiles, but they seem to be very shitty, waste of time and just high supply low demand for men. I’d want to meet women ‘organically’, so to speak, as opposed to using a dating ap… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Are men/women intimidated by beautiful women?Eh I think it’s just a masculine woman thing - I know what you mean by it being ‘prevalent’ in black women, but I’ve noticed the same in typically obese British girls who run their mouths. Typically it’s the obnoxious and insufferable personality ones that act like that. “Boss bitch” being their main self proclaimed accolade 🤣 | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Are men/women intimidated by beautiful women?And somehow it’ll always go back onto the men, that’s what’s even more amusing. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Are men/women intimidated by beautiful women?I find this post somewhat amusing - lack of accountability and/or the denial, on top of the ego. I don’t intend to be negative towards OP, but seriously the reality check is needed. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Are men/women intimidated by beautiful women?I don’t think any guy would ghost a girl they find attractive. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Older woman I like is now hitting on me. How do I not fuck this up?Any recommended books or YT channels that aren’t shit when it comes to game in general? | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 10:27 AM |
| 1 | What is the best day of the week to ask a girl out?As an over thinker myself, this is next level. I don’t remember the exact scientific terminology/name behind this, but essentially it’s the same as zodiac signs meaning something and similar to when gamblers try to justify their luck because they did insert action that has no impact on the outcome, and every time they “were right” they attribute the outcome to that action, but ignore every loss that happened when they did that same action. Perception fallacy? Correlation =/= causation, not sure | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayMakes sense, I’ll probs just be straight up to close the chapter with certainty. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayHahah yeah I haven’t. I’ve had maybe one or two opportunities to escalate to that, but I am and was inexperienced, just more confident now. I’m gonna try to get a feeling for the vibe between us on a given day and see then. Slightly off topic - any advice for teasing, flirting and being more playful? I don’t need a plan but rather food for thought or pointers to consider. Thank you :) | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayThanks, I probably should’ve gathered and moved on, but the worst part is that she is fun to talk to and undeniably attractive, not 10/10 supermodel but definitely falls in my type category mostly, but it’s probably infatuation that exaggerates this. I’ll probably mention it directly to her that I want to see where this might go, that way I don’t have the regret and I’ll know for certain, it’s a win win and plus it’ll be a character building opportunity. Right now I’m just trying to think of whe… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayWow, that actually helps me understand the dynamic/her position, even though for women it’s based more around emotions and less about logic. I really appreciate this. What would you say is the best way to be more playful/flirty/teasing? I’m not asking for a plan to execute, but rather some pointers/food for thought to consider and to implement. I’m based in the U.K., but I’m starting to convince myself that it doesn’t matter even though it is a little different, in a bad way, when it comes to so… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayThe room thing was maybe the 3rd or 4th time we’ve met, first time we went for drinks after but her friend joined us Yes I admit that i was too slow and lacking confidence and the balls to go further, but I am and was inexperienced, but now that I’ve worked on myself I would definitely do something if I were in that situation. With that said though, she did string me along. Sprinkling attention my way and then pulling back. Being a little flirty but then not responding and even ignoring simple m… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayAppreciate it, but we are already meeting up for this hobby and the opposite happened - tried to get her out twice, it was either a ‘busy’ or ‘I’ll let you know if I’m free’ and she didn’t let me know, so I just acted like it didn’t happen. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayI see, so how or what should I do to tap into that ‘primal instinct’? Or what should I start talking about/doing? Thank you | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayBy play cool do you mean let it go or be more chill about it? My main issue is probably being playful. I can safely say that I am good at social skills, but my ice breaking (which isn’t required anymore, at least here) and my playfulness needs working on. I would say I’m great at meaningful topics, but that doesn’t get the pussy wet, does it 😂 Any pointers or things to look into? I’m not asking for a ‘plan’, but rather just things to think about which I could adapt to my circumstances. Thank you… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayI do have to agree on that - I was too slow at the start. She was definitely somewhat interested, at one point I was in her room but I didnt know how to escalate because of the circumstance, but either way now I’m smarter and I know that if that happens again, I better make a fucking move. I have identified, so to speak, where I am not as good when it comes to building that relationship/escalating - typically I’m good at deeper meaningful topics, but whilst that is good, I seem to focus too much… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayIt’s a little more complicated but I fully agree and understand what you are saying. The reason as to why it’s more complicated is because we meet up for that hobby pretty much weekly or biweekly. I have tried to invite her out but there was some excuse after she said she’d let me know, but now I’m treating it like a ‘reset’ after 1-3 months of not seeing each other, one more chance given to her, my mentality changed now and I’m the prize and regardless of what the outcome will be, I’m winning. … | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayI’ll copy over my response because I would say the same thing, but thank you as well :) It’s a little more complicated but I fully agree and understand what you are saying. The reason as to why it’s more complicated is because we meet up for that hobby pretty much weekly or biweekly. I have tried to invite her out but there was some excuse after she said she’d let me know, but now I’m treating it like a ‘reset’ after 1-3 months of not seeing each other, one more chance given to her, my mentality… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayIt’s a little more complicated but I fully agree and understand what you are saying. The reason as to why it’s more complicated is because we meet up for that hobby pretty much weekly or biweekly. I have tried to invite her out but there was some excuse after she said she’d let me know, but now I’m treating it like a ‘reset’ after 1-3 months of not seeing each other, one more chance given to her, my mentality changed now and I’m the prize and regardless of what the outcome will be, I’m winning. … | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How to be fun to be around and what to do with a girl to have fun?Workout minimum 3x a week, 2+ hour sessions at the gym minimum, then some supplementary exercise at home. Went from 69.5Kgs at the start of the year to 73.5-75Kg. Hobbies; Cooking (not talking about cooking to just barely survive, I’m talking challenging or more ‘gourmet’/unique to me dishes), tennis, dancing. I don’t bother mentioning other sports with friends because that I consider that it should be the bare fucking minimum, and I don’t bother mentioning “wAtChInG tV/lIsTeNiNg tO mUsIc”. Edit… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | How to be fun to be around and what to do with a girl to have fun?Lol im not a degenerate basement dweller, as I said in the post. I do workout, i do have hobbies, I can have fun without drugs, so I’m already above average. Feel free to elaborate your point about making groceries fun. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What to do about jaded girls?How do you manage to get past that? | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Being bold and asking a girl out in my situation?Lol I actually can’t think of what I’d do to have fun - please do you have any pointers as to what I should be thinking about? It’s probably something I do already to an extent but I don’t know how I can make it more fun | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Being bold and asking a girl out in my situation?How do I make it fun? The hobby is dancing, and it’s a very touchy dance, so that kino is/can be broken easily, but I don’t know how I would put myself in a position where I can kiss her (of course not during a dance at a lesson, but later on when we’re talking). | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Any good advice for small talk/initial ice breaker conversations, for somebody who isn’t a basement dweller?I thought about my question and I’ll rephrase it - how do I make conversations more fun/playful? I get the gist of it but I’d need examples or ‘principles’ to go off of. Thanks btw :) Btw does Tykwondoe go into the ‘analysing people’ aspect that you mentioned? | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Where to meet women in early 20s? Should I give up?Not OP but my hobbies include tennis, dancing, martial arts and so on, ironically dancing is terrible for women, mostly 30+ women (don’t get me wrong, some are actually quite attractive, but they have kids, usually broken up with their ex husbands, but idk if I’m about all that, unless it’s just sex, which they probably wouldn’t want). | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women in early 20s? Should I give up?Wouldn’t life studies include going to study another course? I’m not OP but I haven’t majored in things like chemistry/biology/psychology etc, so I wouldn’t do a masters on that. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?I’d say the biggest issue would be how fast, or rather in this case, similarly to mine, how slow you are. I’ve probably butchered a few opportunities because I was too slow, and I wasn’t having conversations you’d have with someone you’d want to fuck/get together with, but rather, someone you’d want to befriend. Then again, I need to approach more, I’m going off of 3-4 opportunities which all have arisen from mutual friends, people I’ve met before or work, nothing from clubs or cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Trying to be Masculine is bad gameThe post reeks of the very thing any logical man wouldn’t want to be, and OP himself is actually suggesting conforming himself, which is that metaphorical cherry on top. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Trying to be Masculine is bad gameYeah posts like these make me realise that you really do need to take advice from the internet with a pinch of salt, as any fucking idiot can act intelligent here. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Trying to be Masculine is bad game“Uniqueness is good marketing”, so actually BE masculine? It boggles my mind how someone can suggest that being masculine is bad, and that somehow being a normal functioning human who isn’t/doesn’t want to be a little bitch is ‘conforming’, it’s quite the opposite, and ironically, what you are suggesting is conforming itself. This reeks of Dorito dust and hands that never held a dumbbell. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Age detection?I was talking more about how extremely different everyone can look, in terms of age, given their genes, the food they ate/how nourished they were and even nationality/ethnicity. Men from India/Pakistan regions typically look far far older as they grow a full beard faster, as an example. Some teens/younger women look older than you’d expect - by no means am I saying this is grounds for it being normal to date someone under 18 when you’re older than that, rather I’m simply pointing out that the be… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 12:20 PM |
| 25 | Age detection?Good luck gauging that with 100% accuracy, especially when you’re 18. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | If a woman starts asking you questions/making some references to her getting something done (eyelashes/nails), is that good or bad and how do you “make use” of this?Ok | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 07:24 PM |
| 3 | If a woman starts asking you questions/making some references to her getting something done (eyelashes/nails), is that good or bad and how do you “make use” of this?Glad you’re part of it. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | If a woman starts asking you questions/making some references to her getting something done (eyelashes/nails), is that good or bad and how do you “make use” of this?Explains why I struggled then - cuz I’m not the greatest at small talk 😂 | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 10:38 AM |
| 2 | If a woman starts asking you questions/making some references to her getting something done (eyelashes/nails), is that good or bad and how do you “make use” of this?So what should I have done? I admit it was probably like you said because it was legit 4 am in the morning and we were in a car so it was just to kill the time, but what would you have done when nothing remotely sexual could’ve been brought up? | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | How to escape black pill ideology?Start enjoying life. Find something that brings you joy. Pick up new hobbies, find your purpose. “Negative energy is very sticky”, a quote from Andrew Tate (he is very controversial, but the more I watch him now the more I realise that his original, outrage-inducing statements were most likely exaggerated, heavily, or even faked, but he does have some gems). By finding a hobby that I love and one that is social, I’ve managed to find people who are more exciting and have a better vibe about them,… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I work on being less dry in conversations with newly met people?I know that this is a very, very broad question, but how would you say I should practice or learn to “do better”, besides talking to more women? I want to be aware of the tools i can use to make my ‘job’ easier, instead of trying to invent them myself especially at the start - I hope this paints the picture as to why I want to learn before I practice (even though I do practice). Thank you so much | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Asking for feedback from ex datesSee, I see where you’re coming from OP and I know what you’re thinking because I was the same. You need to work on your confidence, as ground breaking as it sounds and definitely not already bombarded enough (/s), i thought this was a good idea a while back, but now that I’m a whole lot more sure of myself (long way to go still), I can see how weak and, to an extent, pathetic it was (not trying to offend you, I’m simply stating my own opinion based on retrospective ‘assessment’). Who gives a shi… | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How do I work on being less dry in conversations with newly met people?So do I stimulate her pleasure centres by making conversations more emotional? Any examples if that’s the case of the things I should consider? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I work on being less dry in conversations with newly met people?So what about passionate conversation? I think that the other two I could find info on somewhere, but this one I’m not too certain. Thank you btw | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How do I work on being less dry in conversations with newly met people?Please do you have any recommended things to look into/watch about all that, or if you have any more info that you would be willing to write? I’m not a social retard (yes I have to use this word to explain it as best as possible). I’ve got people I can talk to about anything, but I just am lacking in that regard when it comes to new people and meeting said new people. I feel stiff, and that I’m missing out by not being better in conversations. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Social skills - how do you make your conversations less dry?Not OP and a few months late - how do I start to develop that ability for it to just happen on its own? I tend to go into deeper topics, which is great, but not for the initial conversations and making some girl turned on. I’ve probably fucked up with few opportunities because of this to an extent, maybe, but I want to learn how to build up on visual attraction by learning how do be more fun/engaging in conversations where people aren’t extremely reciprocative, as in, we’re in that strangers-jus… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Advice on cute girl at workContext matters. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?How do you find opportunities to implement push pull for? Thanks btw :) | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | how can you get someone to reply your ig stories and start flirting?You’re on IG What do you offer to higher quality men that would make you stand out? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?Thanks! I appreciate the intended result of the first paragraph, but by no means should it be the case, as clearly something ‘went wrong’, for me personally it was getting bullied that made me more reluctant to being an outgoing person and meeting new people, and only now after few years I’m actually making it up for the time wasted, and it’s my responsibility to fix that instead of being a victim of circumstances. So are we talking about kissing somebody you’ve already gotten to know a little b… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:07 PM |
| 6 | What did I do wrong?Makes sense, not OP, but how would you go about slowly increasing the tension? Also, what if you can’t bring her back to yours because of location? Go to hers? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?Lol well I’m fucked then aren’t I? As someone who hasn’t had a first kiss and has just turned 22 | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 11:00 AM |
| 2 | What to do instead of shaking a girls hand?This comment section is a great example of why you should be cautious when listening to or looking for advice from randoms on the internet - a few good comments amongst a sea of fucking idiots trying to be comedians. OP I myself don’t really know or have an answer, not too experienced but one girl I was talking to and seeing for a hobby would sometimes start with a hug or fist bump/small hand shake at the very start and end with the same or something different, it varied, and I think that after … | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Where should I be going to meet more women in the U.K.?Appreciate it! Do you think the advice here is applicable to the U.K.? Here as in this sub Reddit. I would love to see it work like it allegedly does in other countries which are more sociable. What’s the best way to meet more women and how do I go about actually gaming them/going out with them? Thanks again | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Where should I be going to meet more women in the U.K.?Any recommended ‘approaching systems’ for the U.K.? Never heard of that before | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Where should I be going to meet more women in the U.K.?Currently I live in a ~55k town, which only has like 2-3 clubs and in general its shit, but I’ll definitely check out the bigger cities nearby. Do you think the game varies here (as in U.K.) compared to the rest of the world? I think it’s more conservative in the terms of approaching, but not so conservative when it comes to fucking about, and I just don’t know how I would go about approaching and actually setting up a date from the initial interaction. Thanks dude | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:45 AM |
| 0 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?So how would you go about a gym approach in the U.K.? I mention the country because it seems to be a little less frequent here. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:41 PM |
| 7 | What does it mean to vibe with someone?What’s the next step 😅 | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 01:01 PM |
| 3 | How do I start being more direct and making the convos more playful/going into sexual territory?Appreciate it! My ‘problem’ is finding out how to be playful and flirty. I guess the number one thing I need is just practice, but I want to be aware of what to do so that when I do get the chance to practice, I make most of it. Any advice on that? | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I start being more direct and making the convos more playful/going into sexual territory?That’s the thing - what actually makes something playful and flirty and how should I go about it? I can do it, it’s just that I don’t have enough practice and when I do, I rarely ‘implement’ it Thank you btw :) | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How can I (19m) go about improving my status?Make me laugh and sad at the same time when I see the same retarded comments I’ve seen asking the same question few years back, and as a 19-20 year old who really needed some guidance and was not confident at all - you fucking morons really need to either learn to contribute something useful and quit trying to be a comedian on Reddit. OP I can’t exactly say what to do to do that as I’m working on that myself, but focus on working on your confidence, appearance and intelligence - work out, read b… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | what are reasons you should date multiple women at once?I can see what you mean by “it feels like cheating”. I personally don’t have much experience yet but it really does seem like you wouldn’t be able to bond as well because you’ve got other options. But, at the same time, that’s the norm for women. They have PLENTY of options, even the uglier chicks probably have a few dudes at least. The reason why you do it, from what I gathered and personal experience, is so that you don’t fantasise/put her on a pedestal, and instead you can judge her character… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?Which is exactly why you should do it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Where do you go there? What if the locals don’t speak your language/English too well? Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Ok, I might be generalizing a bit, but is it just me or are a lot of women extremely picky?I don’t mind it if people are picky, but at least fucking back it up by providing some form of value and having the looks. Unfortunately for women it’s a little distorted - one quote I’ve heard is “regardless of how you look, as a woman, you will have somebody fetishise/find you attractive”, and that results in imbeciles calling below average women ‘beautiful’ ‘smoking hot’ etc, because they think it’ll increase their chances of dipping their dick. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say one thing but do the opposite?How do you find out? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Most women are boringWhat advice do you have for becoming funny? How do you work on it? | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Building status as a soon to be 22 y/o?Appreciate it! By status, I mean anything that makes you garner more attention, some form of social respect. A basic example would be just simply going to a club with an attractive girl - if you went alone, you’d be just another guy in the club, but if you’re bringing a girl that is attractive with you and she’s in your vicinity, naturally people will start to notice that and think “he’s clearly got something ‘going for him’ if she’s around with him”. That would be a good example of a very basic… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Building status as a soon to be 22 y/o?To answer your question - I don’t know, I would want to ‘try’ both lifestyles. I’m inexperienced so I would probably want to have my ‘share’ of fun and fucking about, but if there was a gem that’s a long term girlfriend material, I would definitely prefer to have a long term relationship. I think partially what I want is that status, which is probably what everyone wants. DJs have some heightened social status due to the parties they attend, PTs have a business which also raises their status if … | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Being silent/laid back can ruin you?I noticed where a girl might be attracted to me and showing IOIs by sparking conversations, having a more feminine voice when talking to me but as soon as a I let one ‘friend’ talk shit about me few years back I noticed her behaviour change, which is probably because I became timid | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedSo how do I change and become more flirty/bold? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedAnd how do you do that? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedAnd how do you do that? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond/react when a ‘friend’ says that you and the girl you’re talking to are like a brother and sister?Yeah I’m regretting saying that I do find her attractive to him and all that, he tried hooking up with her but it didn’t work out but they’re friends apparently | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything we can learn from women’s interest in romance novels?Appreciate it! Any specific books you have in mind or ones that helped you out? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything we can learn from women’s interest in romance novels?What a revelation | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needIs it really that straight forward with that aspect? I think I try to progress gradually, which results in me being too slow. I’ve been trying to cut down how long it takes me before I make it more obvious, but clearly it wasn’t cut down enough as it didn’t work out with her (although I was getting mixed signals; literally was in her room at one point with fancy led lights on but I was a little retarded + she wasn’t making it easy at the place, bear in mind that we were meeting up for a hobby el… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything we can learn from women’s interest in romance novels?So what should I take from that fact? How should I ‘adapt’ so to speak, apart from the obvious - look good by working out and be dominant? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything we can learn from women’s interest in romance novels?So what should guys take from such books, apart from the obvious; be dominant, workout? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Is there anything we can learn from women’s interest in romance novels?I’m not talking about that. I’m talking about learning what women might desire that they don’t openly admit to. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?Appreciate it! It’s unfortunate that it’s like that here. I guess I need to make more and bigger social circles as that breaks that feeling between strangers lacking comfort - any advice on that? I’m unfortunately done with my undergrad course, covid messed up 2 of the years, first one was all me as I was a pussy then. Appreciate it | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 16 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?Any advice for meeting women in real life especially in the U.K.? Just approach any random woman you find attractive or what should I be doing? | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you break a "polite rapport" bad habit?Appreciate it, seriously. I think another hurdle of mine is that I am too ‘afraid’ of being labelled as a creep and all that fun stuff, but I’ve been told by far more experienced people that I shouldn’t be going from strangers-slightly acquainted strangers-breaking the ice and then being more playful, but rather I should be playful from the get go. I just struggle with the ice breaking part, I need to start treating strangers the same way I would treat my friends in terms of talking and having f… | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Losing the girl I'm in love withHalf joking half serious - we go Jim. I’ve started making sure I’m more in touch with my emotions. I will obviously never show them, or at least to very very few select people and not everything, but I make sure to actually feel the emotions, and then utilising them. Typically for me it goes from overthinking to dwelling on a topic, sadness and then this motivated anger to change myself. It’s somewhat short lived, but I make sure to remember at least one thought or one feeling I get from that an… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:33 AM |
| 5 | Losing the girl I'm in love withNot OP, but I’m realising this too that I need to do just that. Freshly turned 22, living in the U.K.. where do I meet new people (ideally my age, I do have a few social hobbies namely dancing but I need more) and how do I expand my social circles and form tight packs if that makes sense? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | How do you break a "polite rapport" bad habit?I can make assumptions, but how do I also make them playful/build some form of attraction or escalation? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on playful ‘challenges’?Appreciate the insight. What should I work on instead? How do I work up to building that tension/escalation? I was talking to my cousin who is a player to say the least and I explained to him that my issue is escalating and moving from being strangers to just met to introducing some banter and so on, and he said that this is the problem - I should be starting off on banter/similar vibe from the get go Any advice on how to improve that? Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on playful ‘challenges’?I know, but should I be this bold? If so, how do I work on incorporating it into my daily life? | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I’m hesitant to get my ass on dating apps and to update my social mediaGreat response, didn’t think about daygame like that. It’ll definitely be a big push out of my comfort zone, but I’m down to do it, it will take me time though. How should I go about learning day game, or rather, preparing for day game, because I’m guessing the best way to learn is to actually do it. My problem about daygame resides in these two things; my location and the country. I live in a medium sized town in the U.K. The town size is a problem because I have that negative connotation with … | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | I’m hesitant to get my ass on dating apps and to update my social mediaYou’re right, I think it’s just a matter of getting that initial push like with everything. Do you have any advice for taking pics or what sort of pics should I be posting? | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I work on being more funny, or making it part of my personality from the get go?Appreciate the response. As to your question - I think it would up my social skills in general, as well as my interactions with random strangers, and that would snowball into my confidence increasing even more, if that makes sense. Making someone laugh is a great way to break the tension especially when meeting someone new, and given that I don’t have much experience (which is probably mostly my fault as I don’t put myself out there, side note - any advice on that? Can’t get myself to get my ass… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Seduction without social media?Where and how especially in the U.K. which isn’t too good in this regard | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Keep your standards low.I’m not fucking a broad I don’t find attractive. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 07:33 PM |
| 6 | My experience as a 20m y/o college student with over 60 partners in less than 3 years.Appreciate the post! I think one of my last hurdles is actually putting myself out there and being more forward/playful from the get go with girls, instead of platonic -> a little kino -> some jokes and so on. My cousin who has had a LOT of success is saying that women/girls don’t like those polite kind guys and that they do want that ‘bad boy’. Be a gentleman in your actions but not when you’re talking with her - be dirty, say whatever you want, and so on. Don’t waste your time. Any advice? Exa… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?Any more examples or advice on how to spot opportunities like this? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:46 PM |
| 0 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?Any more advice on that? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.How do I find more people and ideally women to either befriend or date? That’s my last hurdle, just getting myself out there. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees?Yeah… nah. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | What are signs that you are a hot, good-looking guy but don’t realise it?What would you recommend I look into, I.e. YouTube videos or books for making stronger emotional connections, instead of just platonic generic chit chat? Appreciate it :) | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How to become irreplaceable?How should I expand my social circles? My current, well I guess friends, aren’t going out too much anymore, and it’s hindering me given that I stayed at home when I should’ve been going out. I’m only 21 soon 22, so not too late, but I’m behind. I live in the U.K., so although I’m trying to get rid of the excuse of U.K. being unsociable, it definitely is different compared to the states. Appreciate it :) | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | What hobbies do you recommend?Appreciate it! I definitely have the problem with trying to be a Jack of all trades. Where should I look to meet people through tennis? I could join my university club as an alumni, but the transport side of things might be a struggle as I don’t live in the city but I’m somewhat close. I live in a big town in the UK | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How to get dates with Tinder and BumbleAnd now how do I work on that. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I determine what ‘love language’ someone has/responds to the best?What sort of ‘rules’ would she break at different stages? | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:35 AM |
| 13 | How to get dates with Tinder and BumbleElaborate 4 please, how do I work on that? | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:48 PM |
| 2 | How do I determine what ‘love language’ someone has/responds to the best?At what point did I say I want to talk about it? | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:43 PM |
| 3 | How do I determine what ‘love language’ someone has/responds to the best?But how do people actually know their love language? I kinda wanted to probe around if that makes sense, because I find that all of them are applicable, some more than others, but it would be hard to order 3 of them | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:20 PM |
| 3 | I hate dating as a manDo you have any examples of what someone should be vulnerable about to make it more real? | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 08:01 PM |
| 12 | I hate dating as a manSo what advice do you have for men? | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 4 | What have you done that improve your overall success with women?I’m learning salsa right now and gonna do bachata, but my classes don’t really have people my age, what should I do? How do i maximise the potential from this? | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How to become irreplaceable?Thanks reddit psychologist, much appreciated (/s in case it’s not obvious). | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How to become irreplaceable?So what exactly would on point game look like? I know this is a long topic, but what would go into your ‘check list’? That way I might realise where I’m behind on. Right now I can probably say that I’m a little inexperienced on flirting and making moves quicker, and putting myself out there. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | How to become irreplaceable?That’s the problem - it’s hard for me to find new people who I could get on a ‘bro’ level. I’m talking to strangers but they’re mostly out of my age range due to my work place having slightly older people, I still talk to them but obviously I’m not gonna have a 35 y/o ‘bro’ when I’m 21. I could but I doubt it given the difference. I’m doing some hobbies including dancing, talk to few people but same thing, not many people my age or it’s just platonic. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:43 PM |
| 7 | How to become irreplaceable?Laugh - yes but it needs working on, any recommendations? Yes humour is subjective but any recommended watches/reads? Feel better - Yes, or at least I’m trying to make sure I’m there to listen to people and if possible relate/help them out, or motivate them further. I’ve been talking to one of my friends recently and the topic of gym came up, so I started just talking about it, saying how much better I feel myself and because he went before, I asked him whether he remembers what he felt like bef… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 3 | How to become irreplaceable?How to develop charm/wittiness/sense of humour? Edit - and SMV? I’d say im fairly attractive, working on myself, but I need something to validate that. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | What are signs that you are a hot, good-looking guy but don’t realise it?What would you recommend for people to look into if they want to not be a ‘feminine robot’? I think the only hurdle remaining for me is to be more direct, flirty and in a way suggestive/sexual, problem is, I don’t want to be labelled as a creep. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:36 PM |
| 4 | What are signs that you are a hot, good-looking guy but don’t realise it?Probably one of the best comments I’ve seen recently - finally some good fucking food. My question is - how do you actually learn to do those things? I have been reading about motivating people and I definitely have started to make sure I’m giving people that tiny push to jump start them, hyping them up when they do something (I.e. my mate started going to the gym again after a long rut), but I’m not sure where I could research or look to improve that. Also, another thing, I’ve been talking to o… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to play the game to win?How do you not make it boring? Should I try to make her somewhat angry or any of that if I’m too polite/not evoking emotions? I’ve probably managed to evoke some emotions just by relatable stories, my own stories (I.e. helping some lost kid with something, in one word - wholesome, when I was describing it) and so on and so on. I think my last hurdle is just to be more forward, direct and flirty, but I don’t know how to calibrate that just yet. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Any advice on the ‘feel good’ part? I think I’m great at conversing with people who actually put in the effort to make it back and forth, but I consider escalating and flirting to be the hurdle. Oh and I don’t put myself out there too often | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Was friendzoned but she gave me a cha ge for a dateHmm, I haven’t read all of your comments but it seems like she has some value to offer to you supposedly. Same in my scenario - she’s fairly outgoing, genuinely nice personality and easy to talk to, along with fairly sexy looks and just feminine behaviour, chilled out, but she has hinted at her having a guy, but hasn’t said he’s a boyfriend or anything. I’m somewhat ok with just being friends because I go to a mutual hobby with her, and if she would become a friend then that would still reap ben… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | A great way to hit a girl up on InstagramSo how do you actually slide into dms? As someone who is only starting to actually use social media and always found it weird, as in, the slide in dms concept, it’s odd to me, but I know I gotta learn it. Do I just follow random girls and message them? What is the ‘game’ on insta? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 0 | How do I improve my social life in the U.K.?Appreciate it! Don’t mean to sound rude, but aren’t websites like that kinda, to put it bluntly, filled with people who are socially regressed? That’s my only concern, to make ti easier to understand what I’m saying I’ll exaggerate it - desperate outcasts looking for new friends who are also desperate outcasts? I enjoy meeting people ‘organically’, but I’m not sure what the U.K. culture is like in that regard, and whether it’s just my assumption based on living here for most of my life or whethe… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Will having no social status ruin my chances with women?Where should I look for people in the U.K., as a 21 y/o with an entry level job? At my current workplace there aren’t many people my age. I’m doing a few hobbies but only one is social, and that’s not full of people my age either. Big town, around 50k people, but not much to do here. Not moving just yet, maybe a year or two. Advice please | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Will having no social status ruin my chances with women?You can either cry about it or become aware of it and try to stand out from the mediocrity. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Will having no social status ruin my chances with women?What should I do to improve my social life? My friends aren’t as outgoing as they used to be. I’m 21, pursuing some hobbies but I need to get out there | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Will having no social status ruin my chances with women?What should I do if my friends aren’t going out at all anymore? Besides finding new friends | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:32 AM |
| 12 | Being nice vs friendly. Is there a difference?How do I make her ‘know that I have a dick’? Obviously in conversational/seduction terms, without being labelled as a creep? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.Very relatable, I’m left on delivered for days, only message occasionally besides hobby meet up… Thing is she was a lot more into responding before. In person it seems the same. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:01 PM |
| 6 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.Well this hits hard. At least it shakes me up to realise it. Left on delivered for numerous days on numerous occasions, only messaged occasionally besides organising our hobby meet up… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve kinda become friends with and tried shooting my shot is reluctant to saying that she has a boyfriend directly and uses other ‘terms’I see your point, so basically it takes time? Hmm, it would be shit but I do honestly think she can bring/provide value to my life if I had her as a friend. She’s very outgoing in the sense that she tries a lot of hobbies, is a great conversationalist and someone who you actually want to talk to, even though I’m obviously gonna be doing less now because of the weird situation between us. I can see what you mean whether I would actually want to be friends with her if there was no chance of sex wi… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve kinda become friends with and tried shooting my shot is reluctant to saying that she has a boyfriend directly and uses other ‘terms’If I’m being honest, I don’t remember. Most of my few friends I’ve made a long time back as a kid or at the start of university. I haven’t been making many new friends recently, been meeting new people, talking to strangers/people at my hobby, just so I can practice and not retrograde to being a social retard, but I actually couldn’t tell you how I would go about it. I think the biggest hurdle for me is to move on from the platonic/just met strangers to good friends who I can joke about with a l… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve kinda become friends with and tried shooting my shot is reluctant to saying that she has a boyfriend directly and uses other ‘terms’“Just a female that you’re familiar with”, that got me thinking I won’t lie. How do I know whether she’s more than that (as in, just a friend) or whether I should just minimise contact? In person we literally could talk about any topic at any ‘level’ of depth, if that makes sense, but outside she would take a long time to respond, often being left on delivered until the day or day before of our hobby meet up :/ it’s either that she didn’t want to reject me straight up or she doesn’t even want to… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve kinda become friends with and tried shooting my shot is reluctant to saying that she has a boyfriend directly and uses other ‘terms’Yeah now I kinda started to treat her differently - I realised she’s not interested so I’m treating her as a friend, mentioned a different girl and so on, so I’m gonna try to see if she could help a brother out lmao. Yeah she’s probably not attracted, I think she was at the start but I was probably too slow and not flirting enough (any advice on that btw?). I was literally in her room at one point but I didn’t feel like I could do anything. Edit - how do I bring up the topic? As in, how do I get… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How to be less camera shy?appreciate it! I definitely take care of myself more than the average guy, I’m well above average and I know that, but I still lack some confidence in this regard for some reason. Any recommended videos/channels? Appreciate it again! | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?See I don’t know how to be exciting because I can’t practice it easily - I’m seeing one girl for a mutual hobby but I think if she was attracted it might’ve faded, because I was too slow and I don’t know what I should implement | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Any advice (with examples ideally) when it comes to being charming/flirty and just what I should consider adopting?Appreciate it! So I shouldn’t be timid about making comments? The thing I’m most unsure about is what to actually say when flirting, because so much varied information is available; some sounds cringey, some is cringey, then some is good, or at least seems like it is good. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?Appreciate it, do you have any examples on what type of drama ‘intensity’ I should try to evoke? And any examples on how to act when she does something? Obviously I won’t be trying to reenact your scenarios/examples, but they help me picture and imagine what I should be looking for | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?What do you mean by ‘console her’? By pouting I’m guessing you mean the puckered up lips? One girl pointed out how we ‘held hands’ after high fiving, I responded with a smirk and “yeah just don’t get too emotionally attached just yet”, shit like that? If yes, how do I make my mind spot these opportunities? That example was something pretty unusual (I don’t have many opportunities to practice though) So what did you change in your approach/behaviour yourself? How did you stop idolising and what d… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?Any guidance on the level of drama? Or how to take advantage of it? | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:14 AM |
| 14 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?Any examples of how to accomplish this, but for a non-retard (as a lot of the advice on this sub is catered on the assumption that everyone asking for advice is absolutely clueless)? | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | My friend is bald since he was 17, short, and does better with women that anybody I knowI do all those, I do get the typical glances and occasionally eye fucks ever since I put some muscle on (still long way to go but I look more athletic), but I don’t approach because I’m never certain whether it’s just me seeing things (cuz I don’t wear my 0.25 glasses, and it makes it harder to determine with that split second glance back) and I don’t put myself out there. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | My friend is bald since he was 17, short, and does better with women that anybody I knowUhhh, yeah as a 6’3 guy I’m clearly doing something wrong | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:21 AM |
| 1 | any idea what's the alternative sub for females?Definitely not fds | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:12 AM |
| 4 | Does holding eye contact with a girl make them horny?I honestly can’t tell if I’m getting eye fucked or not - my glasses are only 0.25 correction but it’s enough to make faces blurry from a distance and especially when taking a quick glance 😂 | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:11 AM |
| 0 | Cold Approach is BrutalLol not OP but I’ve graduated and now I don’t know where to actually find and approach more women organically - not through social media/dating apps :: | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | ‘Something’ is holding me back from posting on social media and using dating appsAppreciate it brother, good luck to you too! I am definitely improving, I don’t even know what was the ‘turning point’ in my confidence, but it feels good. I’m not done with improving my confidence yet but the best example I can give that made me think about it is taking my shirt off in the locker rooms at the gym and just seeing myself, flexing and essentially admiring the gains, even though I’m still far away from my end goal, as you’d expect. It’s not that I think about getting laid all the t… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | ‘Something’ is holding me back from posting on social media and using dating appsSexually? No, haven’t had many opportunities to try shooting my shot. Past few months I’ve improved my social skills and one girl I’ve been seeing for a mutual hobby I had absolutely zero problems talking about anything, having fun, etc, but I am almost certain that she’s not interested in me sexually, at least not anymore as I probably played it too slow. Why? | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Fun but cheap first date ideas?You misunderstood me, or maybe my definition of being somewhat red pilled is different. What I mean; there’s probably a game to be played, if that makes sense. You gotta realise that you need to be higher value, work on yourself in all aspects, understand that women aren’t your purpose, but rather an addition to an already good life. I emphasise the ‘somewhat’, as I’ve been seeing other viewpoints (I.e. recently saw a video about a guy going in depth on the “she’s not yours it’s just your turn”,… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 05:47 PM |
| -1 | Fun but cheap first date ideas?My inexperienced and a little red pilled ass considers this to just be one of the things modern media forced down our throats, similarly to the shy kid getting with the 10/10 from your class, confessing your love or something before you even kiss, and so on. Would be cute I guess, but the more I experience the more I see that it really doesn’t work like that, I hope I’m wrong to an extent, but when it comes to actually trying to build attraction, I’m not so sure how this cutesy stuff plays out. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 0 | Reversible Male Birth Control is Already HereYou mfs must be stupid to fuck with your hormones like that. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | One ‘friend’ in my group can somehow convince or get along with people and end up changing how they think of someone - what, how and what could I do?That’s the thing - he doesn’t do much. Watches Netflix all day, maybe hits the gym 2-3 times at most, not in shape, just got out of university same as me and has an entry level job, that’s it. No hobbies outside of doing drugs, paying too much for some random broad on a couple of dates who ends up ghosting him. What advice do you have then? What should I do to climb to the top myself? | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:46 PM |
| 2 | is seeing multiple people actually considered normal??Hard reality that I will need to get my head around. Not OP, just someone who is very inexperienced and doesn’t put himself out there too much | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | is seeing multiple people actually considered normal??So basically I’m not made for this (de)generation? | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Playing hard to get or not interestedLmao I was in one girls bedroom but I didn’t escalate cuz she wasn’t getting close and was taking her make up off/ doing ankle mobility stretches because of her bad ankle and then ended up cleaning her bed whilst I was waiting for a lift :/ | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | always make sure you have options!For real, but unfortunately in my case, it’s a new friend who we go to a hobby with and she is not only very attractive but her personality is genuinely on another level from what I’m used to, in a good way. I’m definitely pulling back, not counting on anything happening, that’s apparently when you start achieving what you want, but also I do want to keep her as a friend because she seems like a genuinely good person to have around you. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | how to get rid of the fuck boy stigma i have around me?Lol wanna swap? I don’t have any experience but I think that the reason why my limited number of approaches/attempts hasn’t been successful is because I give off a long term/serious commitment vibe potential, and not much of the fuck boy vibe. Any advice bro? | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed asking out a relatively new friend (2 months)?How should I go about flirting? That’s my last hurdle I think. I’ve improved a lot, but this is the last, or one of few remaining hurdles. Also, if I do want to go for a kiss, how do I know whether it’s a good time and how do I lead up to it? I’ll send one crucial info to you in pms so you can understand why it’s gonna be harder to tell | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed asking out a relatively new friend (2 months)?Yeah I was slow, there are a few IOIs but few mixed signals too, I just want to get this unsure feeling gone. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed asking out a relatively new friend (2 months)?Fair enough, I’ll pm you some more info. Appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What to text to a girl on IG? She got only photosAs someone who lives in the U.K. - where and how? | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Playfulness, flirting, taking the piss - how do I do all that?Actually I used to think I’m not attractive, but now that I’ve worked on my mental health/self esteem, I can see that I’m definitely way above average. Sure, not model material, mainly due to some remaining acne, but everything else is either going to be good or already good; height, build (potential + insertion genetics are pretty good now that I’ve put some muscle on), jawline, etc. I can’t grow a beard and it wouldn’t suit me anyways. And now any advice regarding my title? | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Playfulness, flirting, taking the piss - how do I do all that?First step sorted, now what? | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How to use Instagram to your advantage? Any guides/tips?And how do I work on that? I think I’m exaggerating my inability to do this, but I tend to go into different topics and playfulness/flirting/banter goes down naturally. I want to change that | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | I’m considering doing some bar tending in the future just to improve my social skills - is it good? Any advice?Interesting, unfortunately I’m no longer studying, and now that I think about it, getting a job for social skills as opposed to chasing the bag and doing something with my degree might be a waste of time, potentially, so I would be doing full time and bar tending for a night or two. I really wish I wasn’t such a pussy during my studies (although two years were ruined by covid) and actually went out and had fun instead of being a commuting basement dweller Is it worth doing in small cities/big to… | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I’m considering doing some bar tending in the future just to improve my social skills - is it good? Any advice?Is it worth doing in small cities/big towns (50k people U.K.)? And what are the downsides of it? Edit - also, I’m no longer studying, so I should be trying to get a job in my career path, so it’s not like I would be doing part time only, I would be doing full time + bartending. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | what do you think about this dating advice? (i want women perspective on this, but men is also okay)Appreciate it! Any examples of quick flirty things and what sort of banter you’re looking for? I know it’s not a solution but I learn best from examples and then adapt. I can do all of those, but for me it’s a little hard to find things to ‘latch’ onto for some reason. I think I may be too serious but chill at the same time and not focusing on being playful, if that makes sense. Also, what sort of vulnerability are we talking about? I’m not afraid to admit that my social skills sucked few years … | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 05:51 PM |
| 5 | what do you think about this dating advice? (i want women perspective on this, but men is also okay)Not OP but I’ve got a question about charisma - what makes a guy charismatic/charming? How could I work on it? I probably just think that I’m not too good at it but with my recent interactions I think I’m doing fine, and just struggle with escalating and initial ice breaking | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 03:09 PM |
| 2 | I have never seem a guy spit game like thisWhat are 2/3 sets? Great post! I’m starting to realise that the best way to improve is to practice the theory, I just need to push myself out there more, especially in the UK | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Any good advice for flirting/banter?Which video is that? Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?I think I do need to get some experience with women though. I don’t use dating apps and that’s probably a mistake, especially in the U.K. I rely too much on real interactions, which is how it should be, but it’s unrealistic, unless I expand my social circles - any advice on that? Appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:41 AM |
| 1 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?Oh no I just mentioned it casually hahah, instruments are definitely an amazing hobby and it builds discipline to an extent :) I see. I have been pushing my comfort zone with various aspects recently, but I can’t help but notice that I’m probably still not as adventurous and outgoing as I want and should be. My next small goals are to post more pics on social media (yes I know the general consensus on social media here, but I literally have a single pic of me when I was 14-15, I’m turning 22 soo… | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?Any advice on the adventure part? Fellow pianist here :) | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | A girl I am interested keeps accidentally referring to me as a girl. Like hey girl are she will be telling me a story and say girl you won’t believe what happen lol. She still flirts with me hard thoI’ve heard the occasional “you go girl” so I’m tagging along on the post to see what people think. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | If a girl is showing you a message (it was relevant and made sense for her to show me it) but doesn’t make an effort to hide the fact she’s getting essentially spammed by other dudes, what should I make of it?The ones I saw were on texts, like 2-3 but I didn’t really have that much time to see, but I can only imagine what her insta looks like. It does make me feel a little shit, not the fact that she is getting attention, but the fact that how much easier it must be for women in this regard - you post a pic you get instant validation, compliments, etc, whereas as a guy you’re just there, probably getting few messages in group chats from friends if even that, or at least that’s my case. I’m moving for… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | If a girl is showing you a message (it was relevant and made sense for her to show me it) but doesn’t make an effort to hide the fact she’s getting essentially spammed by other dudes, what should I make of it?It’s a shame cuz she’s actually got a great personality from what I’ve seen so far and is actually interesting on top of good looking, but gotta do what you gotta do. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | If a girl is showing you a message (it was relevant and made sense for her to show me it) but doesn’t make an effort to hide the fact she’s getting essentially spammed by other dudes, what should I make of it?Unfortunately we’re only together at that point for a mutual hobby, I don’t think she’s interested in any form of relationship, on top of that, she takes forever to respond. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Social proof without much effort just clever prepPlay the game or get played. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How to be more sexual/be the person girls want to have sex with in your early 20’s?I do actually want to get to know people that I talk to. Feel free to actually give examples of what I should say. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I become more exciting/thrilling to a girl?I think I carry myself a whole lot better than I did - to be quite frank, if I went back in time few years and thoughts of myself not caring about one girl flaking and the other not being interested, AND seeing one but evidently only as a friend and actually just having normal flowing conversations, I would’ve not believed it, but regardless, there are things to improve. It’s honestly getting to that stage where I might just ‘break’ and become the ‘asshole’. Not sure if I mentioned it in the pos… | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I become more exciting/thrilling to a girl?I’ll pm you more details but I agree with what you’re saying g | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | How to be more sexual/be the person girls want to have sex with in your early 20’s?I have been doing that, but I still think that my teasing/flirting and overall being more sexual needs turning up. Any advice and ideally examples? | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | How to be more sexual/be the person girls want to have sex with in your early 20’s?Well by deep I mean more meaningful; dreams, what they actually want to do, etc. So far it’s been working as in the conversation is back and forth but I want to adapt it more towards trying to get with a girl. Any examples/advice? What should I do to be more cocky | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 07:22 AM |
| 5 | How to be more sexual/be the person girls want to have sex with in your early 20’s?Which are? | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 19 | How to be more sexual/be the person girls want to have sex with in your early 20’s?Cheers for nothing | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I make her laugh?Oh yeah I definitely don’t intend on doing that, but I just want to learn what others do/think and how do you develop quick wit | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | How do I make her laugh?Oh it’s you, still useless. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 11:21 AM |
| 6 | How to be more sexually seductive and flirty as a guy?Cheers for nothing | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 05:49 AM |
| 2 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can giveAny in depth advice on flirting and sexual tension? I think I’m a little too slow on the draw if that makes sense and I want to know how to improve | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How to be more sexually seductive and flirty as a guy?Could you elaborate on the ‘cube’? How do I actually ‘understand’ what she’s going through etc? | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over essentially oneitis after you meet a girl who has a great personality and looks?Oh no I don’t have a problem with that, like I said, can’t really blame her because I would be doing the same in her position. I’m gonna pm you because I don’t feel like sharing too many details here | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over essentially oneitis after you meet a girl who has a great personality and looks?That was before I even knew she existed, we only actually saw each other recently, but yeah you’re right to an extent I don’t really try to get myself out there so I have limited practice | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with mixed signals ?What makes a conversation good in terms of seduction and how do I improve on it? Any good reads apart from models by Mark Manson? | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What can we learn from romance novels for women?That makes sense, but how can I use it to my advantage and improve myself? | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 09:01 PM |
| -1 | Texting - what is a good approach and what is a bad approach?Congrats, would you like a medal? | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 10:38 AM |
| 2 | When she asks "what are you looking for"What joke? I either didn’t read a comment or just missed something, help a brother out | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Freestyle rapping will help you become wittier.Lol I can freestyle in my first language but with English I find it a little boring, maybe I’m just not used to doing it in English. Any recommended freestylers to listen to or anything to watch to improve? | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 07:45 AM |
| 2 | How do I work on being more light hearted, playful and funny? In depth advice neededCould you elaborate on the last bit? As in, asking questions in a way so she tries to validate and seek my approval? Is there any way to improve my humour/wittiness? I think I am somewhat witty but I just haven’t had the opportunity to practice and I want to be as prepared as possible. I can make witty comments (I.e. a random example, recently we went and two groups merged together, something got the conversation rolling into me having something in common with one girl, she initiated a high five… | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How I turned it around in 3 months.How do I know what conversations to venture into? I’m probably exaggerating how this is my problem given that I didn’t really have an issue last time, but it was with a mutual friend and not a stranger. Any advice for those (fun, comforting conversations)? | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Having male friends is absolutely KEYNow the question is where to meet such friends? I’ve considered doing bar tending but I really should be pursuing my career path (I’m about to turn 22). I live in the UK so meeting new people is all social circles game, and mine aren’t too big. I guess hobbies would be good but I find it a little hard to make non platonic friends. Any advice? | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Having male friends is absolutely KEYNow the question is where to meet such friends? I’ve considered doing bar tending but I really should be pursuing my career path (I’m about to turn 22). I live in the UK so meeting new people is all social circles game, and mine aren’t too big. I guess hobbies would be good but I find it a little hard to make non platonic friends. Any advice? | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | I’m starting to realise that I’m probably looking for some form of deeper relationships without screening/understanding that not every girl might want that, how should I adapt?I see, appreciate it! I think I can talk about those naturally, but when I have to think, like right now, then my mind is blank and I don’t know how to work on it. Last time i went out I think I did quite well, one thing that concerns me is just running out of things at some point (last time that happened too, but I’m putting it up to us being tired and having some alcohol in us, plus it wasn’t really a date). Any recommendations or advice on keeping it playful and funny? | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | I’m starting to realise that I’m probably looking for some form of deeper relationships without screening/understanding that not every girl might want that, how should I adapt?Oh yeah I definitely start off casual, I don’t talk about relationships because a. Not enough experience and b. Haven’t had the opportunity just yet to actually talk about them, but I get to know the girl better with slightly deeper topics and deeper topics evoke emotions, and IIRC, that’s the most important thing. Do you have any recommended sources on casual topics and flirting? I think I’m fine but it’s hard to tell due to the limited experience, but I definitely have improved. So far I’ve al… | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Generating female attractionAny advice on upping your banter game? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | When kitty cats compete for you, you winAny advice on doing just that? How do I find those social party girls in new areas, especially in the U.K.? Do I just cold approach random people? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to get women you’d want to be with to pursue you?I have been going out more recently, but due to it being in the U.K., it’s mostly pubs. Not a bad location (Nottingham). So what should I focus on? What should I try to be saying and how do I be more fun? I can tease and be light hearted and find out about the person, the first two need some more work, but I gotta say the last time I talked to one I thought “shit, I’m actually not bad at this”, or at least not as bad as I thought. Appreciate it | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | How to get women you’d want to be with to pursue you?I think I’ve improved a lot in that regard, but there is still work to be done. Any specific things to work on or things to read? | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:03 AM |
| 4 | How to get a woman to qualify herself to you and what to do when she does?Have you tried being helpful for once in your life? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 3 | How to get a woman to qualify herself to you and what to do when she does?Ok | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Is giving an unexpected compliment (one that at the start could’ve been something negative, a quick example in the post) a good thing to do?Appreciate it, oh yeah the line i have in mind is for someone who I’ve already talked to a little and we do tease each other a little, but we’re still fresh and not actually dating. I still think that the playful self deprecation could be played off though, depending on how well you know the person, or if it’s obvious you’re joking or laugh it off, what do you think? | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Is giving an unexpected compliment (one that at the start could’ve been something negative, a quick example in the post) a good thing to do?Holy fuck so you’re telling me I’m not a social imbecile 😅 Where could I read up more on this from reliable sources? I find that some of the posts here contradict each other. I do feel like I have improved drastically even with just a few attempts, but there is a long way to go, however, I’ve been getting this feeling like I’m getting real close lately. Any advice? Thanks btw :D | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Is giving an unexpected compliment (one that at the start could’ve been something negative, a quick example in the post) a good thing to do?Could you elaborate? What should I focus on doing with my tonality and body language when doing that? I know that I should probably give a smirk after it so that it’s clear that I’m flirting/teasing/whatever. Hypothetically speaking, what should I do if the girl acts or actually takes it as a negative thing? Should I playfully say that this is me trying to be funny or something along those lines? Kinda like self deprecating humour but if used correctly it can be good? You didn’t say that this is… | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | My friends manage to get a girl to open up about her sex life but my convos with her are relaxed but not on that level - what am I doing wrong?It’s making more sense but I still feel ‘lost’ because I can’t think of something myself haha | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | My friends manage to get a girl to open up about her sex life but my convos with her are relaxed but not on that level - what am I doing wrong?Appreciate that, but have you got any examples of what to do, ideally early on, later on and ‘endgame’, so to speak? I kinda don’t want to make it awkward as she’s a mutual friend of the group I’m in, but at the same time I don’t want to be a lil bitch. How should I bring up the topic of sex in a good way, and how should I push myself to do it? | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | My friends manage to get a girl to open up about her sex life but my convos with her are relaxed but not on that level - what am I doing wrong?In fairness, we haven’t been out too much to determine if she pays more attention to me or her friends, but I can answer the other questions - I guess she’s flirting with me, teasing as well I’d say, I don’t want to say too much cuz of privacy just in case lol but we are slowly working it up, so to speak. About whether she is asking questions back/being engaged in the conversation - definitely, I’d even say absolutely, she’s probably by far one of the best people I’ve talked to and I’m not talki… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | My friends manage to get a girl to open up about her sex life but my convos with her are relaxed but not on that level - what am I doing wrong?I’ve done some teasing, so I guess some form of flirting, we haven’t had many opportunities to talk as it’s mostly in group settings and I prefer to flirt when it’s less people. Conversing is not a problem, felt natural and I didn’t have to think to myself “uhhh oh shit what do I say”, it just grew naturally. At one point we all got tired though and the conversations died down, but that’s to be expect I guess. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | My friends manage to get a girl to open up about her sex life but my convos with her are relaxed but not on that level - what am I doing wrong?“That’s kinda creepy that you all want to hear about her sex life” - don’t think we do, and you missed the point. My point is - how do I get a girl to become this comfortable around me? | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:24 AM |
| 2 | My friends manage to get a girl to open up about her sex life but my convos with her are relaxed but not on that level - what am I doing wrong?No. It’s because it reminded me of my previous failed attempts and I realised that I may be not forward/sexual enough in my conversations. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 09:44 PM |
| 2 | My friends manage to get a girl to open up about her sex life but my convos with her are relaxed but not on that level - what am I doing wrong?Didn’t think of that actually, appreciate it! Do you have any more advice on how to work on it? I’m guessing I shouldn’t be from 0-100, slowly ease her into it? Examples would be amazing of how to go about this. Once again, appreciate it and thanks man | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How to be more direct and less ‘friendly’?Thing is, I don’t want to over do it, but I guess I’m just being a little bitch about it. I’ve been holding eye contact easily, it’s natural to me, doing the glance at lips as well on purpose, we got a few dances but I can’t escalate past that point. Something is limiting me, probably because she’s in the same friend group and I don’t want to make things uneasy | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | How to be more direct and less ‘friendly’?I know this will sound amateurish, because it is, but what could I do besides kino? I tried push and pull but I did too much pushing, but pulling is complementing, I’m just lost man | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | How to be more direct and less ‘friendly’?Could you ELI5 it for me please? It would be amazing | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with the shit test revolving around only wanting to hook up with her?It’s a hypothetical scenario right now for me lol, depending on the girl it would either be just casual or a potential long term thing, but I don’t know how to deal with it if I wanted to do long term, as in, I wouldn’t know what to say | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl is glancing/staring at you (I.e. at a gym)?Shame you didn’t consider acting this ‘grown up’ when you made your first comment lmao | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl is glancing/staring at you (I.e. at a gym)?This might be difficult for you to undersrand, but if I ask a question, looking a for non sarcastic/“look at me I’m a smart ass” answer, and you do just that, then do you really think you’re being helpful? Try to boost your ego somewhere else, or by actually doing something that could be worth bragging about, instead of being a cunt. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl is glancing/staring at you (I.e. at a gym)?Ha you’ve got everyone laughing with that | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | I can’t get my personality to shine through when I’m with new people, even if they are the friends of my friendsYou’re right, but I don’t think I’d want to do therapy as in seek out a professional. I’ve definitely improved and I’ve been working on it; books, changing my mindset, all the good stuff. Meditation might be next on my list Appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 4 | How to handle situation where girl isn't over her ex?Any further advice on what to do? I feel that i was that typical emotional tampon, now I tend to just react to it with the classic “oh, that must be terrible” or something, but I think that’s still wasting time. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Best jobs for meeting people who are similarly aged as you (18-23) in the U.K.?I guess I should add this - I don’t want to be a degenerate | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 08:03 PM |
| -1 | Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staringDon’t worry she might consider you once she starts deteriorating | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | What’s a good reaction to early kino, and subsequently, what is a bad reaction (apart from screaming)?What example would you have for me falling in her frame vs her falling in mine? Ideally a few varied examples just so I can understand it a bit more. Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Gym girlsI’ve only got .25/.5 lenses, but the difference is yuge | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:38 AM |
| 1 | What’s a good reaction to early kino, and subsequently, what is a bad reaction (apart from screaming)?Lol the screaming wasn’t something I’ve experienced, just pointing out that I know that wouldn’t be good hahah I’ll edit in a comment I made which goes into a bit more details because it’s a bit more ‘complicated’, thanks by the way :) During the early stages of kino, what signs are good, bad (apart from the obvious) and uncertain? Currently I’ve noticed that with one girl I’m talking to at work, where we wear masks and overalls (so it’s harder to gauge the body language and facial expressions),… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 15 | Gym girlsLol i need to get some contact lenses cuz I cannot tell if I’m being looked at or just seeing shiet | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 11 | Gym girlsLol i need to get some contact lenses cuz I cannot tell if I’m being looked at or just seeing shiet | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What’s a good reaction to early kino, and subsequently, what is a bad reaction (apart from screaming)?Basically breaking the touch barrier in a nut shell, but the other commenter goes into more detail | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What’s a good reaction to early kino, and subsequently, what is a bad reaction (apart from screaming)?Hmm, I’ll paste in my comment which goes into more details because it’s a little tougher to understand without the context, thanks btw :) - Please help a brother out - I’ve made a post but in a nut shell, during the early stages of kino, what signs are good, bad (apart from the obvious) and uncertain? Currently I’ve noticed that with one girl I’m talking to at work, where we wear masks and overalls (so it’s harder to gauge the body language and facial expressions), she would sometimes look at my… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between going on a date and going out with her as a friend?Hahah no I’m not her superior, it’s a temporary shit job I’ve took up to get money for now whilst I wait for something good and relevant to my education to show up, so green light I’d say. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | What’s a good reaction to early kino, and subsequently, what is a bad reaction (apart from screaming)?Cool didn’t ask tho | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What is the difference between going on a date and going out with her as a friend?Please help a brother out - I’ve made a post but in a nut shell, during the early stages of kino, what signs are good, bad (apart from the obvious) and uncertain? Currently I’ve noticed that with one girl I’m talking to at work, where we wear masks and overalls (so it’s harder to gauge the body language and facial expressions), she would sometimes look at my hand when I tap her, but she doesn’t move away, which to me is an uncertain ‘indicator’. When we talk she sometimes blushes and recently sh… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:24 PM |
| 3 | What is the difference between going on a date and going out with her as a friend?Please help a brother out - I’ve made a post but in a nut shell, during the early stages of kino, what signs are good, bad (apart from the obvious) and uncertain? Currently I’ve noticed that with one girl I’m talking to at work, where we wear masks and overalls (so it’s harder to gauge the body language and facial expressions), she would sometimes look at my hand when I tap her, but she doesn’t move away, which to me is an uncertain ‘indicator’. When we talk she sometimes blushes and recently sh… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:23 PM |
| 15 | What is the difference between going on a date and going out with her as a friend?This is something I am having problems with, at least in my overthinking mode scenarios lmao - how do you ‘escalate’ later on? I usually hear “you should make it obvious that you’re on a date with her”, but I’d like to hear what advice you have to say regarding actually not staying or throwing yourself into a friend zone. Appreciate it | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 3 | What’s a good reaction to early kino, and subsequently, what is a bad reaction (apart from screaming)?In the book Models by Mark Manson, he mentioned how he simply went back to what they were doing before, if that happened, IIRC happened numerous times during a single date, but with good timing and persistence he fucked anyways. Be careful to not get oneitis. She might try to sprinkle some attention your way as soon as you withdraw/find other women to talk to. Good luck, to the both of us hahah | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What’s a good reaction to early kino, and subsequently, what is a bad reaction (apart from screaming)?You’re still not beneficial to the discussion, and I doubt i actually want to hear your ‘advice’ that you’ve probably thought of writing just now to be snarky. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 22 | Why do female friends get jealous when their male friends flirt with and talk with other women?Funnily enough, men dating multiple women is conveniently frowned upon, even if it’s stated that it’s not serious from the get go and that you are doing so. Ever wondered why? Mfs will then have the audacity to say we are privileged lol. I’m a fucking rookie in terms of relationships but I am now seeing that I need to have multiple women to talk to, and eventually, possibly multiple plates. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 12 | Why do female friends get jealous when their male friends flirt with and talk with other women?There’s few layers to this; They realised that you are potentially wanted by other women. We go a bit deeper, people want what they can’t have or are losing, after taking them for granted. Even deeper, she realises that any attention you spared her way will now probably diminish further, attention is a woman’s currency. Last layer, she’s probably being more flirty to maintain you in her ‘orbit’, aka friend zone, like mentioned above, she loves attention, this is her way of trying to secure it. T… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:11 PM |
| 8 | What’s a good reaction to early kino, and subsequently, what is a bad reaction (apart from screaming)?Instead of being beneficial to the discussion you decide to respond with a half-assed attempt at boosting your ego. Edit - to add to that - at someone’s expense. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea? When you know she is single, should you say something like “you and your boyfriend” when it’s appropriate?You’re right, I guess I’ll just gauge the interest a little just during our normal convo and see then. Appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea? When you know she is single, should you say something like “you and your boyfriend” when it’s appropriate?I see, appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea? When you know she is single, should you say something like “you and your boyfriend” when it’s appropriate?Appreciate it! I’ll test the waters though, or at least gauge interest a pay a bit more attention to it | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea? When you know she is single, should you say something like “you and your boyfriend” when it’s appropriate?Appreciate the conciseness, I won’t do it then. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meAppreciate it! I’ve actually talked to one friend recently at work and she said “ah, finally someone positive to talk to” or something along those lines. I think I am doing somewhat ok, maybe I’m a little too harsh on myself - I am by no means ‘fluent’ in game, yet, but I’m working on it, a little lost on how to improve though. So what would you advise me to do? Like any examples of topics that I should aim for and ones to avoid, just as an example so I can understand more what you’re saying. On… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:22 AM |
| 2 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meAppreciate it bruddah! How should I develop my teasing/banter etc skills? Any recommended reads or just advice? | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 10:00 AM |
| 5 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meAny advice and examples on being more direct and just advice in general about the things you mentioned? Thank you | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 5 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meSame vibe as “money doesn’t buy happiness” coming from a millionaire or nah | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meOh that hahah, yeah it is a good meme with a good message, but I think that I should still learn and ‘tap’ into the thing I mentioned in my post | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 06:47 PM |
| 13 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meAppreciate it, thing is I’d struggle with adapting the mindset to any given situation, like the one you said about the tattoos, I feel like that’s a very specific example but good nonetheless cuz I kinda get what you mean. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 06:27 PM |
| 3 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meCould you link the channel/video? I’ve found a few but none are called chad formula specifically | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 06:24 PM |
| 2 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meI am not saying I want to change myself or who I am, I want to tap into what I should be. I get where that statement comes from but it really doesn’t help me out. This would allow me to become the more interesting me. About the energy part, could you go a bit into that? | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 05:23 PM |
| 5 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meAppreciate it, I am working on that, any advice on being more sexual and sexual innuendos? Examples would be nice too ✌🏻 | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?You struggle with originality. Good luck with the copium OD | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Best way to develop your humour/wittiness?Everything can be worked on, even humour and wittiness. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 07:43 AM |
| 0 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?Refer to my message above. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?Sure keep telling yourself that. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?Ahahahahah ahahahahah i didn’t bother reading your paragraph because your first sentence alone already informed me of the tone for what I’ll read next - delusion. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:39 PM |
| 0 | As a male, you MUST move outGet back to us once your excitement caused by novelty resides. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Best way to develop your humour/wittiness?Any recommended stand uppers? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Best way to develop your humour/wittiness?I think my humour in general needs work though :/ | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | As a guy in your early 20’s, what should you be doing/how should you be acting?That’s some mad girl inches right there mate. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 11:55 AM |
| 6 | Why do women always act so weird around me?So what should a guy be doing to maximise his potential attraction in his 20s? Like you mentioned masculine bad boy types, so don’t mention anything deep, don’t care, just try to go for getting sum fuk and that’s it? | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Reached out to a girl I used to talk to and only were friends with, after few messages she said we should grab a coffee and go for a walk in the park, is this a generic normal meet up or probably something ‘deeper’?Lol I’m guilty of that but thankfully not anymore, I guess I’ll just try to gauge the level of interest when I’ll be there and go from there. Appreciate it dude | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Reached out to a girl I used to talk to and only were friends with, after few messages she said we should grab a coffee and go for a walk in the park, is this a generic normal meet up or probably something ‘deeper’?Hmm, you’re right, if you start overthinking you’ll get rigid is what I’ve been told | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Reached out to a girl I used to talk to and only were friends with, after few messages she said we should grab a coffee and go for a walk in the park, is this a generic normal meet up or probably something ‘deeper’?“... must mean she wants you in her life in one way or another” “... could be her testing the water to see how you guys match each other’s energy”, wow, I had this in my subconscious mind so to speak, like I knew there was a deeper meaning to it, but I couldn’t pinpoint it, which is exactly what you’ve done, amazing, thank you for clarifying that. I have adopted some of the Models by Mark Manson mindset, as in, have fun, but I can’t help to think how I can’t think of how to escalate or find the … | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I become less filtered and more polarising from the get go?I appreciate this advice, but I realise I haven’t made myself clear - by ‘polarising’ I meant sexually, like being more open about sexual topics or ‘quick on the draw’ when it becomes more apparent that it’s a good time to raise it up a notch. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I become less filtered and more polarising from the get go?I appreciate this advice, but I realise I haven’t made myself clear - by ‘polarising’ I meant sexually, like being more open about sexual topics or ‘quick on the draw’ when it becomes more apparent that it’s a good time to raise it up a notch. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 03:08 PM |
| 2 | 2 Big Female Dark PsychologistLol I’ve ‘lost’ few friends because of 2., their problem for being a dumbass and valuing mediocre pussy and being whipped, over socialising with the group. Regarding 1., I’ve talked to a girl at work who felt like mentioning that she’s going on a date (side note - I was trying to flirt with her in general at the time, so she was probably trying to instil jealously), but that she’s hesitant, I asked her why she’s hesitant and she says some verbal diarrhoea and ends up with “I don’t know, I might … | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Where do you find new people after you’re done with your degree?Fair play, I am planning on joining a variety; dancing, kickboxing, maybe climbing, a good variation and increased chances of more parties and so on. Don’t know if you need it or not, but good luck to you man with anything you’re doing, happy new year! | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What should a man do in order to ‘maximise’ his ‘hoe phase’?Appreciate it! What if you don’t smoke tho 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | What should a man do in order to ‘maximise’ his ‘hoe phase’?Great advice, luckily for me I mostly have started adopting majority of those, still kinda grasping on 2. and how to use 4. To my advantage more often. Any advice regarding 4 mainly? (Young me really could’ve used with hearing 1 and 3 from someone else few years ago lmaoo) | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I was with you until you decided to throw in the ‘misogynistic’ buzz word into the equation. I’m misogynistic because of what somebody else did or does, or did I miss something? At no point in my response I said “all women are the same”. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | What should a man do in order to ‘maximise’ his ‘hoe phase’?Fair enough, London does seem to be a whole different world in terms of culture, but it’s a possibility so I’m not gonna make an excuse. I would move there or at least nearby, maybe Reading kinda distance nearby towns/cities but I’m not ready yet, any advice for living in or near London? | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 12:58 AM |
| 6 | What should a man do in order to ‘maximise’ his ‘hoe phase’?Dumbest shit I’ve read today. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | What should a man do in order to ‘maximise’ his ‘hoe phase’?Are you UK based? If yes, what’s your view on day game here? If not, I don’t think daygame is a viable option here unfortunately | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 04:37 PM |
| -2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.It doesn’t matter if it’s primal or that nowadays we can ‘override our impulses’, because a few generations of modern changes won’t change thousands of years of evolution. Also, spare yourself the passive aggressive statements next time, because I can be petty as well. You mentioned mathematics before, tell me, 10 and 100 guys is a fairly big difference. So it’s not a matter of if it’s only a difference to me, it’s a matter of it being 10x more, which is a significant amount. Of course they don’… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Talking with a girl who wants to sign up to a gym but “doesn’t want to be stared at (by men)”I 100% agree with that, people can and should be physically (unrelated, but mentally too, obviously) fit, I’m not justifying anybody who doesn’t have any inhibiting health conditions, is ~20 years old and can’t move their ass to the gym or even for a jog, but that’s not to say that it’s the same as dressing up for attention. You’re not a woman I’m considering dating though, I’m voicing my opinion and thoughts, nothing more, nothing less. Besides, what’s the point of being with someone if I can’t… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 12:01 PM |
| 0 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.There’s a difference between having sex with a few guys and getting ran through because ‘sekshuel libiracion’. I’m most likely not going to be someone’s first, don’t care about that, but if a chick is getting ran through by x amount of different guys, then I won’t be able to treat her seriously. As to why we think that way - it’s literally hardwired in our brains and our biology. From an oonga-boonga point of view, we could and have numerous kids, won’t say infinite, but a huge number of kids if… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.In reality a lot of women (for the imbeciles that jump to conclusions - no, I do not mean every single woman on this planet, not even the majority) branch up from their existing relationships when they get the chance, so in essence, he’s just putting thoughts of something that is ALREADY happening, into words. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:46 AM |
| -3 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.You do realise regardless of what we are fed by social media, men and women aren’t actually the same when it comes to relationships and sex? | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Sounds like an indirect way of her saying she has had a LOT of fun and her body count sky rocketed, not some inside joke she didnt share with OP | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Talking with a girl who wants to sign up to a gym but “doesn’t want to be stared at (by men)”I see, so essentially fake it til you make it, to a certain extent? I’m assuming the example you gave of what a woman could say wasn’t supposed to be a direct ‘translation’, so to speak, given how dressing up for attention is significantly different to somebody being fat or being born with a small dick - something they can’t do anything about it Appreciate the advice | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Talking with a girl who wants to sign up to a gym but “doesn’t want to be stared at (by men)”So with the first one, which part should be tweaked? About it being sexist - eh, now everything is ‘sexist’ or any insert any other buzzword here. I’ve seen videos of people saying you’re ‘fat phobic’ if you work out to look good lmfao. With that said, I’m not attacking you, I’m just pointing out the ridiculousness in which we live. Do you have any other examples of how I could ‘empathise’, maybe in other potential/hypothetical topics? Also, I tend to be a ‘motivator’, if that makes sense, which… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:14 AM |
| 1 | I don’t know how to put myself into positions/places to meet more women in the UKSure cold approach maybe if you’re in a club is fine, but walking up to strangers in the street trying to make friends/find a girl, in the UK is one of the best ways to look like a social retard. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 09:03 AM |
| 0 | Talking with a girl who wants to sign up to a gym but “doesn’t want to be stared at (by men)”Yeah she started mentioning what I said above as a reason why she’s hesitant on going and I’m there like “sounds like an excuse”, she’s a big over thinker as well and I cba to be the ‘gay best friend’, I just keep it short and real whenever I hear some bs like that. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 15 | Polite way?Bruh she’s asking you for money when she is literally a nobody relationship wise, she’s numbed to the social cues of how her behaviour is shitty. I don’t wanna over think, but I’d bet she didn’t have a father figure in her life to look up to even for a brief moment, hence the audacity. Edit - oh, and fuck giving politeness to people who don’t deserve it, amuse and amplify if anything, don’t be a bitch. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:45 AM |
| 3 | I don’t know how to put myself into positions/places to meet more women in the UKYeah... thats the one thing I despise about the U.K. - how closed off the societal culture is here. Any advice on night game? I am planning on joining clubs/societies, especially with my uni as I’m an alumni, but you’re right social circles are insanely important, it’s unfortunate that my existing social circles are a bit of a wreck or infested with the type of people I don’t want to be with. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I don’t know how to put myself into positions/places to meet more women in the UKI’d need people to go with first to break that initial ‘shock’, so to speak, and for the social validation (wrong word, I think - essentially show that you’re not a social degenerate and actually have friends -> probably better perception of you by strangers), plus id feel more comfortable. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | I don’t know how to put myself into positions/places to meet more women in the UKYeah that’s me, it is in this regard but I am slowly but surely making sure I live by “only weak men don’t adapt to their surroundings”, so I’ll make do with what I’ve got if I have to. Yeah my town has a nightclub or two but it’s infested with chavs most of the time. Clubs are definitely on my list, I’m an alumni so I’ll be looking into joining my university clubs and societies once shit is back to normal AND I’ve got a car. Any recommendations or recommended reads for night game and OLD? Cheer… | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:33 AM |
| -1 | Push-pull + Cat String method is the best seduction combination.If I remember my reading correctly, this sounds a lot like ‘models’ by Mark Manson, safe to assume you’ve read it? | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response?How has that been working out? I imagine they get pissy, what do you do then? | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response?Could you elaborate for a rookie like me please? | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 11:35 PM |
| 0 | (UK) I graduated from university this year and I’m planning on getting some experience in my career first, then might head back for masters - any advice?I’m looking for advice regarding how to take advantage of me being older in the future when I get back to university for my masters, as in, how to leverage that to hook up more easily and have fun. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:17 PM |
| 0 | (UK) I graduated from university this year and I’m planning on getting some experience in my career first, then might head back for masters - any advice?Did you read the post? | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:05 PM |
| 9 | When and how to reignite the conversation after she doesn’t reply to you?I tried to ask a girl out to do something twice, after the second “I’ll be working on that day” I stopped messaging, ain’t wasting my time. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | When and how to reignite the conversation after she doesn’t reply to you?Wouldn’t need to ‘drop my ego’ if their own ego wasn’t overinflated. Just because your (not you specifically) attention span is fucked up because of instant gratification/a bombardment of attention from thirsty dudes that doesn’t justify you. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | My mindset is changingAppreciate it, but I am doing it for myself, I’m not going to the gym for women, but in my post what I meant is how I’m now motivated to finally ‘unlock’ this part of life that I’ve been missing out on, if that makes sense, and how I’m not passive but more active when it comes to going after what I want to accomplish | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Instagram - How to market yourselfLol make a post on all 6 please 🤣 | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point trying to approach at the gym, especially in the UK?Any examples of signs to approach? I know eye contact could be one, but how should I fix my small eye sight problem in this case? | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not advice but I’m looking for some - how did you get to this point? Did you just use some dating app and hit it off? | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you up your social media game, given that it’s modern day marketing?Thing is, neither of the extremes is good, and I’m on the other end - next to nothing when it comes to posts and pictures, I might have one or two from 6 years ago. Everything is good in moderation in my opinion. Appreciate it man! Definitely not stopping my self improvement | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | If a girl mentions going on a date soon, is that more of a good sign or a bad sign?I’ll probably shoot my shot anyways, need that practice under my belt regardless, but now I know that I’ve been taking it too slow at least. It’s weird tho cuz I get some form of IOIs and she definitely behaves less rigidly next to me, etc | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | If a girl mentions going on a date soon, is that more of a good sign or a bad sign?Cheers but that’s not what I had on my mind - I meant this - is she saying that to see my reaction? It was brought into the conversation in a fairly natural and logical way the first time, but later on it felt like a shit test to see what my reaction would be | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | If a girl mentions going on a date soon, is that more of a good sign or a bad sign?Why aren’t they a good sign then? | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | If a girl mentions going on a date soon, is that more of a good sign or a bad sign?I’ll add some context We work together in a random temporary job, slowly got her to open up a bit more, bit by bit, can easily make her laugh, etc, but I ain’t sure of anything yet, had a few people ask me and her “are you two together?”, but I’m genuinely just talking as I would to a person that I can have a talk with, obviously flirting and teasing a bit. On top of that, she said she isn’t sure about whether she should go on the date, that kinda seemed like a positive indicator to me, but once… | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | If a girl mentions going on a date soon, is that more of a good sign or a bad sign?I’ll add some context We work together in a random temporary job, slowly got her to open up a bit more, bit by bit, can easily make her laugh, etc, but I ain’t sure of anything yet, had a few people ask me and her “are you two together?”, but I’m genuinely just talking as I would to a person that I can have a talk with, obviously flirting and teasing a bit. On top of that, she said she isn’t sure about whether she should go on the date, that kinda seemed like a positive indicator to me, but once… | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | If a girl mentions going on a date soon, is that more of a good sign or a bad sign?We work together in a random temporary job, slowly got her to open up a bit more, bit by bit, can easily make her laugh, etc, but I ain’t sure of anything yet, had a few people ask me and her “are you two together?”, but I’m genuinely just talking as I would to a person that I can have a talk with, obviously flirting and teasing a bit. On top of that, she said she isn’t sure about whether she should go on the date, that kinda seemed like a positive indicator to me, but once again not sure. Edit … | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | If a girl mentions going on a date soon, is that more of a good sign or a bad sign?She’s not talking about me and her going on a date, she’s going on a date with some other guy. | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 01:00 PM |
| 0 | How do i approach girls dancing near me at the club?My question is how do you dance at clubs lol | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | U.K. hooking up?Any advice on night game in the U.K.? Does it actually work (as in, the advice that’s given here, can it be applied to the U.K. too, or does it need catering?) | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | U.K. hooking up?Would you say tinder and social media presence is important for U.K.? | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Emotional PillowCould OP try asking more questions about what the person is going through, hence steering the conversation, or would it be the same? | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Some of you don't have a personality, that's your problem.See I am locked behind this wall until I get to actually know someone, before that point, it’s all platonic shitty boring talk and I don’t know how to get over it. Then the next ‘wall’ is escalation, I never know how and when to do it in an ‘appropriate way’ Third problem is just putting myself out there | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | People who live in the UK, what advice do you have?And to who did you speak/approach? Foreigners or Brits? Location also matters as tourists or foreigners will be more reflective than the natives. | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 09:14 PM |
| 17 | How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you?An elderly couple I served told me I reminded them of young Leonardo DiCaprio, I don’t really know where they got it from, some similarities, but the teenage me with acne definitely felt a bit better Edit - also, laughs in still a virgin at 21, so something doesn’t add up | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 12:44 PM |
| 11 | What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date?Any recommended reads/watches/posts on leading the conversation and making them more interesting? | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 12:37 PM |
| 2 | People who live in the UK, what advice do you have?Luckily I’m not British so just being a foreigner I can probably relate to more people, problem is meeting and finding more people as my current social circles are pretty much borderline dead | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 05:13 PM |
| 6 | People who live in the UK, what advice do you have?I’ve heard the opposite - PUA’s only try in London and go for foreigners because they’re more receptive than the people here | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | People who live in the UK, what advice do you have?Near Birmingham, large ish town 60k but it’s pretty dead here | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | People who live in the UK, what advice do you have?I live near Birmingham, no clue what it’s like here ain’t gonna lie. How should I get into more social circles? I’ve got a few but they’re not exactly out going or held together tightly as they were before. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Good Luck to Everyone this Halloween weekendLaughs in not going out | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Is saying that you don’t particularly enjoy how modern dating looks a turn off?Appreciate the Bruce lee (IIRC) quote and own adaptation 😄, one question though - what feelings should I be validating and how do I get her to talk about them? I think I’ve done it but I don’t know how I’ve done it before I am trying to be more positive/optimistic, but I wouldn’t say being just optimistic is a great path to follow but I’m willing to give it a shot, it’s just that I don’t know how to ‘provide’ or become all of those vibes that you’ve mentioned - excited, happy, adventurous, etc. … | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is saying that you don’t particularly enjoy how modern dating looks a turn off?I don’t remember exactly what I said plus some of the meaning is lost in translation, but I kinda was talking more about how people just prefer to find something new rather than work things out in general, I didn’t talk much about myself or own experiences. I don’t think I expected any reaction, I was just saying what I had on my mind as it was relevant to the conversation, she responded with something along the lines of her preferring to fix things herself too and save relationships - somewhat … | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Pulling back at work?Thanks man, I’m on the chapter where he talks about coping mechanisms; blame, apathy and intellectualism (IIRC), and I’m realising that I am the last one, always trying to prepare myself the most I can, and whilst I see his point and definitely take it into account, I can’t help but to think that if this book helped me in some aspects, there could be more on top of it. Another problem I have is living in the U.K. (and it’s social culture in terms of approaching) and putting myself out there in g… | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Pulling back at work?Hah nearly finished it 😅, so by inner game you mean personal development? | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Pulling back at work?Any recommended reads/watches on inner game, even on this sub? | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Pulling back at work?Appreciate it! That’s kinda what I started doing, before I came in and thought “meh nobody talking so I’ll do the same”, now I’m more energetic and talkative with the people that I can talk to, so that probably makes me ‘look better’ plus makes me feel better, and others maybe as well, win win. When it comes to flirting, do you have any advice? I kinda think I’m doing ok (I.e. she jokingly said “what’s this flirting going on here” When i talked to a different co worker, and I respond with “is it… | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Pulling back at work?She’s been working here for 2-3 months and we only started talking little by little earlier this month, I would invite her to do something but I’m a little less keen due to not having a car, plus she’s a little older by 3 years and she herself said that “she’s ‘crazy’” (hard to translate, not crazy crazy but basically she is an over thinker and gets attached apparently, which I wouldn’t mind, but I don’t know how to proceed) | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Pulling back at work?I’ll edit it - pullback temporarily, like be less talkative unless she approaches first for a week | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | 26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ?My main problem is 1. Breaking that initial ‘rigid’ small talk barrier and 2. Escalation that’s appropriate. Unfortunately I live in the UK and on top of that my past kinda made me hesitant to go out to clubs or meet new people, so I don’t have as much experience, but I’m definitely working on myself right now in every aspect possible. Do you have any advice man? Good info right here by the way :) | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 08:03 PM |
| 2 | What, in your opinion, is your biggest challenge with women?Being respected due to supply and demand - literal simps are not only screwing themselves over, but they are also screwing every other Male, so in a nut shell, some form of entitlement. More personally - breaking that initial stranger barrier, especially in the U.K., I don’t approach much so maybe that’s my problem too, but I struggle if the person doesn’t make it somewhat easy or is shy/anxious/somewhat socially awkward themselves, the next problem would be escalation, which I think is harder t… | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Once you genuinely don’t feel anything when you get rejected, you know you’ve grown as a personAyy same | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | How do you ‘kill’ oneitis?Hue hue so funny hue hue | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you ‘kill’ oneitis?Another thing I forgot to mention will probably indicate my overthinking capabilities, but I noticed her starting to talk to a guy only when I walk into the same room and after she realises. Now this accompanied by the unusual looking away is fucking with my head - either she doesn’t want to talk/avoids me or she’s doing that to evoke jealousy in me. Look, I understand that this sounds like extreme overthinking, but I tend to analyse people’s behaviours as I do find it somewhat interesting and i… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you ‘kill’ oneitis?How do I set that up? Do I let them know that I’m dating others? I’m not sure whether it’s something I’d like although it’s recommended, at least when it comes to some form of more serious relationship, if it’s just hook ups then weapons free I guess | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 08:11 PM |
| 3 | How do you ‘kill’ oneitis?Late bloomer would be the correct term - I’m 21 so still young but probably should have experience behind my belt already, regardless of how people will try to defend it by saying “it’s ok everyone is different” (I dislike it because of it being a passive response, it’s clearly not ok and saying it is will lead to inaction). Reason why I’m hung up is probably because she’s from the same country as me and she seems pretty down to earth and somewhat similar in terms of some personality traits - ov… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 07:07 PM |
| 3 | How do you ‘kill’ oneitis?I think looks wise I’m attractive, just need to gain weight and get rid of the remaining acne | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 06:44 PM |
| 5 | How do you ‘kill’ oneitis?“Have you ever had a girlfriend before?” - no, and I need to put myself out there, but I just don’t know how and can’t really because my mates don’t go out too much | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 8 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresIt’s a shit job that I’m not gonna be at for too long. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 07:12 PM |
| 29 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresDealing with a girl at work right now and I’ve definitely got her to talk and open up more, but we don’t have many opportunities to talk, most of the time it is me approaching but that’s not to say she doesn’t start them occasionally, on top of that, she seems to be quite shy and a little awkward Edit - shit job that is temporary, I need advice beyond “ don’t shit where you eat”. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How to make conversations more interesting and how to incorporate humour?Appreciate your advice, the problem is definitely with me as I can’t and don’t really put myself out there due to a number of things, but I’m working on that step by step. What would you say about escalating and creating ‘sexual tension’ (not a fan of that phrase as it sounds a little awkward, but it’s the best one)? I can never seem to gauge when it is appropriate and I probably end up falling into the friend zone because of it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How to make conversations more interesting and how to incorporate humour?And how do I accomplish that? Any recommended reads/watches or just advice? | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Can somebody give me their opinion on gauging the receptiveness here?Appreciate the advice, unfortunately that’s just my nature due to past experiences (to keep it brief, first time I asked a girl out i was far too attached (and led on, but that’s besides the point) and the word spread that I essentially confessed love 🤣 I’m laughing cuz it’s so fucking stupid but at the same time it was definitely a shitty feeling, on top of that, I was bullied on two different occasions and typically the outcast/tag along, so that led to inexperience, missed out opportunities a… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Confused about hearing “my boyfriend” “my ex”It’s a random temporary job that I don’t give two shits about | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I do want to go out and put myself out there, but I that’s how I perceive the meet up groups that advertise themselves on the internet that aren’t classes/clubs | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | This girl said she ‘doesn’t do this often’ but said she on the pill when I drew for the rubbersCould be bullshit to act like she doesn’t fuck about, regardless, wear the rubber, don’t be a dumbass because yOu dOnT fEEl mUcH, get bigger/smaller condoms instead | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Lol I wish 🤣 | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Yeah frat boys don’t exist here | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?So where do I learn day game then, or any game? | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?And how do I develop myself to be more outgoing and social even in the U.K.? | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?How do I increase my social value and game? About not saying hi, that would just be normal UK behaviour, which is what I’m trying to point out how silly it is unfortunately | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?So how do I learn game and master it? | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:46 PM |
| 3 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I don’t think college bars are big here, at least where I studied, it’s a shitty hall with tables for maybe 40 people tops. Clubs and other bars, sure, but that’s still hard to get into groups | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I barely use them, if anything, I need to start as a form of marketing myself. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Aren’t those meet-up groups cringey though? I don’t think it’s too common for people from my country to do that, and the student groups I’m not sure, I know I can join clubs even as a graduate but there aren’t any specific going out societies Oh and I am, small gains but gains are gains. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?It would be great to go home, but the money isn’t there. Currently working on the weight and muscle gain Finding new circles/cliques is hard here, you’re trying to penetrate into already established groups most of the time, only thing holding me back from looking good is acne, which is improving thankfully | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:12 PM |
| 0 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Council House and Violent, I believe that’s the abbreviation. Essentially little shits that have zero respect for everyone and think being a cunt grants them respect on the streets, probably carries a knife 50% of the time depending on the area. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:10 PM |
| 2 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I’d love to move back, but unfortunately the money ain’t there... one thing I’ve been recommended to look into is a job in my career path that would lead to long term or frequent delegations to my country or country of choice, whilst earning the british salary | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:07 PM |
| 0 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I appreciate it, but there’s no denying that the weather plays a role in the culture here - the sports culture here isn’t as big because the weather ain’t great (Less people care because you rarely walk around without a t shirt/in bikini/etc, so they don’t exercise as much as people in countries where their bodies are on the show more often), and briefly speaking exercise + vitamin d /sunlight exposure = better mood. I am Polish myself and unfortunately I haven’t found a good group yet and I do … | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 9 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Let me elaborate; Good weather - Enhanced sports culture, people are going to take care of themselves because they don’t want to look sloppy for when the heat comes around, more exercise is proven to increase someone’s mood and I believe there was a fairly strong link between vitamin D/sunlight exposure and decreased ‘depression’. It’s easy to say if you live in a country where people actually have a functioning and a normal societal culture, and it’s blatantly obvious at how different it is if … | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I’m not british but what other reason could there be for the gloominess that is apparent? | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I’ve got few ‘friends’ in various groups, but very few are the kind of people that will get you to know more people, on top of that, some are bundles of negative energy, if that makes sense ; pessimism, ‘banter’ which is clearly passive aggressiveness, etc. Good luck to you dude, we’ll probably find the fix soon | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Eh can’t say I wasn’t expecting someone like you posting shit like this, so I’ll just paste in my response to someone else. Well my early teenage years were limited because of moving to a new country and barely speaking the language, then came bullying and that resulted in less opportunities to get out there. University + secondary school/high school were probably the ‘easiest’ places to meet new people, and now that I’ll turn into a 9-5 slave and have limited time, it’ll be more difficult. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:53 PM |
| 8 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Well my early teenage years were limited because of moving to a new country and barely speaking the language, then came bullying and that resulted in less opportunities to get out there. University + secondary school/high school were probably the ‘easiest’ places to meet new people, and now that I’ll turn into a 9-5 slave and have limited time, it’ll be more difficult. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:52 PM |
| 2 | How do I quit wasting my youth?I’m guessing everyone else is in the same boat - High school/secondary school and college/university led to no action, then covid came along and wasted two years of being in a great environment for hooking up. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:48 PM |
| 0 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Let me guess, US? | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Do let me know if I’m wrong, I do fucking hope I am, but this place is very different. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:45 AM |
| 7 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Like I said, you won’t know the culture unless you live there, and this just will not work here, I wish it was different, but I’m not the only one that is noticing the same thing. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:40 AM |
| 38 | How do I quit wasting my youth?No offence dude but approaching anyone in the street in big cities within the U.K. is just the number one way to get called a creep regardless of what your social skills are like Sure other things may be excuses, but this is a fact - U.K. is fucking shit in comparison to other countries. I really do wish it was like in the states where you can approach anywhere any time and have a chance of succeeding, but here it just doesn’t work | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | What are some indicators that the girl you’re talking to is/isn’t interested?Yeah i get you, unfortunately for me that would be fairly difficult; not at university anymore as I’ve graduated, live in a medium sized town (50k people) in the U.K. (just keeps getting better, doesn’t it 😂) and I don’t have the logistics (no car yet, working on it though). About the U.K. - from the sounds of it, and from a comparison of where I’m from vs the U.K., the culture here is so fucking odd in terms of approaching meeting new people etc, you need to have already established groups to m… | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What you think is better asking for a girls number or giving the girl your number?Everyone gets distracted and forgets, but they forget the things they consider unimportant, their loss, it’s not a valid excuse imo | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | What are some indicators that the girl you’re talking to is/isn’t interested?I know, thing is few weeks back my feed on social media would include her being somewhere quite often (even though I rarely check my social media’s), now it is pretty empty in that regard, but still I know what you’re saying. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That’s fair my dude, take my advice with a grain of salt, my view is based on my experiences and from the advice I’ve heard myself, the one I’m giving you is based on what we know just from that post, i and many others could be extremely wrong, but even if she was into you, she makes it extremely difficult to make sense of what her ‘plan’ was. Good luck | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 01:25 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]My problem is escalating unfortunately, plus not being in a place where it’s easy to meet girls - I’m a fresh graduate, so one of the best opportunities went to waste :/ | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Send her a text? What for dude? She already ghosted and what would you write? I know it (what im writing) doesn’t sound nice, but you need to think logically - the ball is in her court, if she decides to not respond, move on, if she does, think why she is responding. I’ve done some cringey shit myself, one of which was on the last day of our school year and asked a girl to walk home together at the end of the day (bare in mind that this was the oblivious 13-14 year old me who thought dating is l… | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Eh looking back on myself I’d just forget her, it’s just another girl that you don’t even know that well, cut your losses. Don’t waste your time and don’t put her on a pedestal, so far she didn’t even do anything to prove herself as worth devoting some time to, if anything, did the opposite by not responding (which may be your fault too, but that’s just an indicator to not waste your time). | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 11:55 AM |
| 2 | What you think is better asking for a girls number or giving the girl your number?Shy, nervous, afraid of being rejected? Sure, that’s valid, even though this may be applied to some/a lot of men. They forget/lose the number/remember you 3 days later? Lol that’s on them themselves, losing the number is somewhat justifiable (even though I don’t know how the fuck you could lose a number nowadays as we literally type it in to the phone), but the rest? | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | General Advice for a 19M?laughs in U.K. and cries in already graduated Fuck my life I’ve missed out on that a lot, because of me and because of covid... | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 11:27 AM |
| 257 | [deleted by user]And then report back to us | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 11:25 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]What exactly do you say? “Yeah just saying, once we can’t be just friends if you want to go back” (joking obvs, but I’m clueless) | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 11:24 AM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]I think that this could be my problem as well - not being forward enough. My ice breaking skills and overall getting to know somebody new are a little meh imo and I don’t know how to make the convos more ‘loose’ and more forward, but then again, I don’t put myself out there enough | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | What are some indicators that the girl you’re talking to is/isn’t interested?That could be my problem, but even if I do start asking out more, there’s still the issues I have with ice breaking, humour/wittiness and just in general getting to know new people and knowing what to do to make the conversations better/more flowing/more ‘tense’ in a good way | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Anyone find it more difficult to cold approach in the UK compared to America, and Canada?I’ll copy over what I wrote as a response to another commenter and I’ll add some more Everyone says “it’s all the same” but it really fucking isn’t... I mean no offence to the Brits, but here it’s absolutely atrocious in terms of meeting new people and the societal culture - someone wants to chat with you, Label them as creeps or weirdos, it’s so fucking antisocial that it’s unbelievable, and is fucking over people like me even more... Which brings me to this - should I be looking to move out of… | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Anyone find it more difficult to cold approach in the UK compared to America, and Canada?Thank you for confirming this and not me just being a social recluse lol. Everyone says “it’s all the same” but it really fucking isn’t... I mean no offence to the Brits, but here it’s absolutely atrocious in terms of meeting new people and the societal culture - someone wants to chat with you, Label them as creeps or weirdos, it’s so fucking antisocial that it’s unbelievable, and is fucking over people like me even more... | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Do girls even try for guys?Let me guess, your friends are 5’ but they just want 6’ because that’s what the echo chamber says? I’m 6’+ but it’s so fucking annoying to hear the shallowness and ridiculousness - if the height difference between you and a guy is too big, what is the fucking point of it (not saying that you must date within some form of boundaries, I.e. I wouldn’t cross off a girl based on the height difference, but you’re quite literally only caring about what others will say and only want a guy for the braggi… | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Why a good sense of HUMOR is such an attractive traitWe know humour is an insanely attractive trait, we just don’t know how to achieve being funny/witty lol | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]laughs in U.K. university/college society culture being nothing compared to the US | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | What are some indicators that the girl you’re talking to is/isn’t interested?If this was a job I’d want to stay in, I wouldn’t, but it’s a shitty temporary job that I have no plans on staying in as soon as graduate jobs open up in few months, but I do agree that if you care about your job, you should avoid using it as a playing field | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???Lol meanwhile me here who just doesn’t talk at all because of my terrible ice breaking/approaching skills, on top of not putting myself out there | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???Life would be so much fucking easier if people just made it more obvious and if they quit playing “hard to get” games. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 11:04 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I think my social skills are weak when looking at breaking the ice, being flirty and witty and just in general humour, and it sometimes sucks ass | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | People in the U.K., is the advice given here applicable?Appreciate it! My main problem is just ice breaking and introductions, getting to know etc, once I’m beyond that I usually am fine, I just need that kickstart to be social, if that makes sense. I come in with neutral energy and I need somebody to just push it beyond the threshold to be more social | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | People in the U.K., is the advice given here applicable?Ain’t gonna lie I suck ass at ice breakers and introductions, etc. I do great once I get to know the person, but I need that little push to kickstart myself, if that makes sense. Think of a hydrogen bomb - needs that reaction to start for it to work, exceptionally well if looking at what it’s designed for (best analogy I can think of to describe how I behave, but in a good way lol) | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Any tips on game? I think the two things I struggle most with is game/being witty and putting myself out there | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:41 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Kevin Samuels is very good at least from what I’ve seen, but in order to take his advice you need to throw away your ego, which an average man handles better than the average woman (not talking about OP, it’s just evident from his videos where only few women actually see and understand what he is saying isn’t malicious, he’s trying to make sure they don’t end up being miserable in few years time). | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:39 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Dont shit where you eat is a common phrase used as advice for men who may consider dating/hooking up at work. If it’s a job you don’t care about, sure, fuck away, but for a man who would be in your shoes the phrase above would apply, not entirely sure if a woman in that position would carry the same risks though. Edit - I do agree with others that what you’re trying to achieve in relationship terms may be extremely difficult | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 09:36 AM |
| 1 | People in the U.K., is the advice given here applicable?I know you don’t mean this in a bad way (or at least I presume so), but it still takes time. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m not sure if it’s the same in the UK, I’m not OP but I have the same question as him | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 09:26 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I live in the U.K. and I’m not sure whether it’s the same as in the states :/ | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning.About solid general people skills... I noticed that it’s hard for me to talk to someone new | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why does almost every girl i meet feel as if they have seen me before or feel as if I'm familiar to them even though they're complete strangers to me and I've never met them before. What does this mean?Oh... that makes sense, but my dumbass did not notice or know this before lol | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How to take ‘advantage’ of going abroad for a vacation?Thx | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How to take ‘advantage’ of going abroad for a vacation?Appreciate it | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 10:24 AM |
| 2 | How do you learn to ‘pull’/make attractive facial gestures/faces as a Male?Yeah thats what I mean, I’ve been using the apache method for a while now but I just see the fear in their eyes especially after launching heat seeking missiles :/ | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 07:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you learn to ‘pull’/make attractive facial gestures/faces as a Male?Lol I’m glad you commented or I wouldn’t know this | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I enhance/develop my personality?Good advice, I’ll try doing that more, although I think I’m doing this sometimes already. Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusNahhh dude no way I’d pay that much for a single bottle of smelly water 🤣 | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 4 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey status20ft away is either an exaggeration or over spraying a beast fragrance, but being able to smell a fragrance after somebody has left is the point of a fragrance - it’s called sillage, and is a sought for quality of a fragrance. I don’t overspray, but basing the ‘standards’ of wearing a fragrance on somebody who is sensitive to smells isn’t a great idea. | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey status1k altogether, so maybe 7-12 bottles | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:50 PM |
| 2 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusI have done that before, good advice, but it’s still prettt much trial and error. I’d also want to expand beyond some scents that I like if that makes sense, as similar notes usually result in a fragrance with the same purpose (I.e. iris = clean laundry, office note). | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 06:18 PM |
| 3 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusFor university I’d say you want something slightly more subtle, you could even try Eros but the EDP concentration if you really like the ‘DNA’ of the fragrance. The One I’m hearing is more ‘intimate’, so not only is it close to the skin but also more seductive, which makes sense why you’d want it but I’m not sure of the projection. I’ve actually got a sample so I’ll try it later if I can find it and update if I don’t forget. Bleu de Chanel could be a shout, try to sample all concentrations (you … | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 06:15 PM |
| 7 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusYou might be one of the people who have a more sensitive nose if you can pick up all that (or so I remember hearing) | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 4 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusSpray it and find out yourself. This isn’t mean to sound rude, but it’s the best advice you’ll receive. I’ve nearly ruined a fragrance after I’ve heard that one prominent note smells ‘synthetic’. Ask people for what they think when it’s sprayed on you. But if you really want to know what Eros is for, then it is said to be typically suited for younger guys (even slightly older teens) and is mainly good for clubbing, EDT that is. I don’t know myself as I haven’t actually tried it yet. It’s apparen… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 6 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusLonger lasting = less projection. Typically an EDT will be ‘louder’ due to more alcohol which evaporated more easily. Fresh scents aren’t as long lasting as darker/deeper/denser scents. A lot of people are fixated on a scent lasting long, but you can just reapply, but I do get the reason behind wanting it to last longer and I do so myself, but with fresher scents you can just reapply. I’ve heard that using unscented Vaseline could help with longevity, but I haven’t tried myself. Also, just becau… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusDude don’t make it even harder for someone like me who barely approaches by giving out the cologne secret On a serious note, colognes are amazing. Sample first though, you don’t want to spend 1k on smelly water without sampling it first. One issue I have with colognes is actually finding something relatively unique or unusual to the people who are into fragrances - we’ve all heard of BDC, ADG, Versace Eros (don’t get me wrong, they are amazing and I am planing on buying more ‘popular’ fragrances… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Neither would I, but I needed a more social hobby that is interesting | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:06 AM |
| 2 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?That’s the problem - building a social circle in my scenario as somebody who just finished his degree and lives in the U.K. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Yeah been thinking that as well. Not all are like that, then there’s the other group which has an impulsive manipulator who hops between people to seek for attention in any way possible, and he’s ‘deeply rooted’ in the group, aka, if we go out as a group, he’s probably gonna be there. It’s either a. Keep in touch with those people, try to organise something even though the chances are slim but maintain social ‘sanity’ or b. Go cold, probably sense the need to socialise and find a new group, unfo… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Appreciate it! Unfortunately I live in the U.K., so the outdoors culture is a bit eh. Wanted to do dancing but the local classes closed with covid, so I got fucked over even further. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?100%, I want to do more group stuff, but given that I live in the U.K. with this wonderful (🥴) weather, outdoor culture is limited. I know this sounds arrogant/egotistical, but out of my group of friends, I am literally the only initiator to doing something. I understand that everyone has their own lives and has work, but if you hear a lame excuse, challenge that excuse (I.e. “weather is shit” when it’s better than everything we’ve had this year) and they say “alright bro I’m not gonna lie I jus… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:22 PM |
| 2 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?I agree, but it’s sociable and fun, it’s a supplement but on its own it would literally signal the opposite - lack of a personality, if that was everything somebody did | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?“Outdoorsy shit” lucky me I live in the rainy U.K. 🥴. About to finish my driving lessons, so at least there’s that, but fuck me the weather here really does make me miserable sometimes because you can just see how the outdoor culture is worse off here than everywhere else, even where I’m from | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Oof i am the wrong person to ask my friend, I’m all self taught. For the piano, I go off synthesia videos such as this one . If something is relatively easy for me, I’ll experiment with things that I’ve picked up passively or even actively from my limited research into music, I.e. mess around with the left hand, play notes in a different way, add notes, mimic other more difficult tutorials in certain parts. I do not know whether I picked up bad habits, I’ve been ensuring that I curb them as soon… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Unfortunately the piano isn’t as good as the guitar when it comes to this 😂, I did want to pick it up as well though. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:04 PM |
| 7 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Good info my dude, but unfortunately I’m not an expert in either of the things I mentioned 😅. I tend to downplay my skills, but I’m not gonna say that I’m somebody/capable of doing something I’m not, so in cooking - sure, I can make quite a few neat dishes, desserts, drinks, but in other aspects of cooking, I’ll be oblivious. Music same story - started learning theory just now after playing everything from YT videos. I know few difficult (for my level) pieces, but not teacher worthy. Fair play f… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 11:33 AM |
| 15 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?I did some classical dancing but didn’t think much of it, I’m an amateur in everything I mentioned though (probably downplaying my skills, but I’m not gonna say I deserve 3 Michelin stars when I don’t 😂) | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 11:28 AM |
| 2 | I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation?I understand what people are saying in the comments, but guys, saying “you wasted nothing” doesn’t help OP, or me, as I’m 21 in almost the same scenario. He needs advice regarding his weaknesses, not compliments regarding his strengths (good saving and more money than a lot of people). Money isnt* everything, but it is important. I don’t want to socially inept or suck when it comes to dating/hooking up, I want to live. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Setting up your IG, what advice do you have?What advice do you have bro | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.Ayy, roommates is just the big group of them right? They’re sick, but one thing I dislike is the overuse of the soundboard, especially when someone is speaking some facts and you just here one of the sound effects every 5 seconds 🤣 | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.Roommates? | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 03:39 PM |
| 3 | How much muscle do I need to have at 5’10”?I don’t know what you’re expecting for us to say. Just build muscle, be lean, there’s no precise number. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Which skills should every man have? Also how to raise testosterone levels naturally.Where do I look if I want to improve on 4? | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with passive aggressive “men” who are part of my friend group?Appreciate it! About the words, annoyance, virtual kick me, you might be right, I’ll start to care less about being neutral even if it means cutting people off. However, I think that acting is important, especially in business scenarios where you can’t be outright aggressive and have to maintain composure, sorta working on that now, “hiding your best cards”; a saying from my country. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop saying " thanks " and " please " so often?Lol your co workers sound like a bunch of nobodies. AMOG sorta shit, on top of insecurities and complexes. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 02:45 PM |
| 0 | UPDATE: I'm going out with a girl in Saturday but her birthday is tomorrowOk? | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: I'm going out with a girl in Saturday but her birthday is tomorrowYes my queen, here, I’ve only spoken and met with you once, let me buy you this gift that ‘only’ required me to work my ass off for 4 hours. Absolutely fucking not. They ain’t even had sex and you already recommend dishing out money for nearly nothing. Also, OP said himself that he wants to take things slow, buying a 50$ gift when you only kissed is not slow. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Any chance after not escalating at my place on second date?My magic 8 ball says “ship has sailed”. On a serious note, who knows, only one way to find out. She might’ve either dried up and turned into the Sahara desert or she is blocked off by the dam and she is waiting for the Ents to break the dam so that the river flows. Did you fuck up? Eh, easy to say as a ‘spectator’, im a rookie as well so I don’t know how I would act, but yeah, but not too badly. “Feel like I could’ve done more escalating”, do that next time. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | If I were to buy a popular night club and post pics of myself with women as a promoter, does that make me “high status” in women’s eyes?Are you trying to expand your social circle by looking for somewhat genuine people, or are you looking for people that will just be around you because you’re wealthy? If I would’ve seen a barrage of pictures of a guy with women as a ‘promoter’, after a while I’d be like “aight we get it” and it would look very try hardy. If you actually would want to do that, sprinkle in a few pics of you with women, don’t just exclusively take pictures for the sake of “I’m gonna post a picture with me and wamen… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 06:27 AM |
| 2 | All my friendships seem superficialThat’s a good call, but any social hobbies that you would recommend? I’m considering sports and some form of martial art, however I would like to look beyond that. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Got girl pregnant. Best way to convince her to get an abortion?Repeat after me... Hail Mary, full of grace... | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Got girl pregnant. Best way to convince her to get an abortion?But muh dick feels more wifaut kondom 🤦♂️ | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Got girl pregnant. Best way to convince her to get an abortion?Lol | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Got girl pregnant. Best way to convince her to get an abortion?Long timeeee Sucky sucky fucky fucky wonton Hong Kong | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Deep voice - improving my delivery/becoming more captivating?I see man, I’ll definitely check them out, but I just need to work on a. Humour and b. Just being better at ice breaking/approaching, once I get over this, I think I’ll be unstoppable lol, just need to get over that remaining outcome dependence/fear | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Only seem to do well with talkative girls, how do I fix this?Is the horse sized duck thing something you should actually say, or just a simplified example to get the point across? Not OP, but I think my humour sucks a little - the people need to get to know me to see me being more humorous. Any advice | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | I didn't fuck her pussy is closed, is this vaginimus?Wait what? Is there anyway to tell if you’re fucking a female or not? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Deep voice - improving my delivery/becoming more captivating?“You may be boring” the most probable case 🤣 Is there anyone you’d recommend watching to learn how to improve my clarity, relevance and on top of that become more interesting? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Getting a lot of shit tests from guys when out with my LTR.Missed opportunity to deflect and annoy the insecure cunt on the last shit test - Good, because I don’t swing that way. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 12:46 PM |
| 17 | My good friend committed suicide the other day, feeling lost and confusedMy condolences to you. Unfortunately us men have to fight through shit solo, because when we decide to open up, it just seems that all the help that is offered and thrown around was clearly a facade used by people for attention on social media. Personally, I didn’t worry my parents about the bullying that occurred to me, my mother even asked me once if I was bullied before, and I said “oh yeah, a ‘little’” and I saw the look in her eyes - sadness, nothing less, so I knew that I shouldn’t say any… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | If you’re in a bar/pub, how do you deal with women?I would prefer to chill with my mates, but getting a number or smth would still be good, but wouldn’t want to do anything at that moment Edit - ah, it’s you. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | 8.5% body fat, minimal muscle, what advice do you have for me?A clear artificial taste/smell, from the said ‘chemicals’, there might be a better term to describe it, it’s what we say in my country, but translated. In my country next to nothing gets consumed/‘accepted’, so to say, by anyone if you can taste the “chemicals”. This is especially clear if we have an abundance of something that is the real deal (think strawberries and then think of a strawberry milkshake, those would be perfectly normal, because they actually use the fruit, but majority of the w… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | 8.5% body fat, minimal muscle, what advice do you have for me?Any recommendations for meal preps? Like good recipes or people to watch that are straight to the point? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesWhat sort of thing do you say/show? | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 2 | 8.5% body fat, minimal muscle, what advice do you have for me?Cheers for the suggestion, I’ll check him out! You might be right about me not being 8%; I can see small ‘ridges’ without flexing, but my abs aren’t really defined at all, I only got back to working on them recently, however I do have veins showing on my forearms all the time | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?Lol my dumb ass doesn’t know whether I’m being checked out because my eye sight is a little blurry (0.5, not much but makes the difference) so it takes me longer to catch on, if I do at all. Don’t want to wear glasses to gym/when running tho 🤷🏻♂️ If you’re getting checked out like that, is it ‘normal’ in the U.K. to approach, or is that more of a normal-functioning-societal-culture-country thing? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?Yep, perfectly summed up. I come from a Slavic country which is much more open, but the more I live in the U.K. the more I feel like I’m socially inept because of this culture, or more precisely, this aspect of the culture, it’s ridiculous that people can be so closed off. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 0 | 8.5% body fat, minimal muscle, what advice do you have for me?It’s in the ‘normal’ BMI range, lower end though. I wouldn’t say it’s unhealthy, but definitely room for improvement. The problem is in the food - I want to eat nice tasty meals without having to spend a lot of time on each individual meal, meal prepping is the way forward, but I don’t know where to look for some tasty meals which aren’t ‘altered’ by gymheads who will try to add a fuck tonne of fat, next to zero spices and probably whey powder to everything they make. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | 8.5% body fat, minimal muscle, what advice do you have for me?I’m looking for a good flavour, tried the clear ones and they are pretty good taste wise but you can just sense the chemicals in them. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?Ah, I see, it’s fucked ain’t it. Average men are becoming weak and women are trying to be men... | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | 8.5% body fat, minimal muscle, what advice do you have for me?Appreciate it! But 1g per pound of body mass? That seems very high (not as in it’s a bad thing, but hard to reach. I don’t want to stuff myself with protein powders because they taste like shit, I do drink one every other day now though). Any advice on that, or finding good meal prep dishes? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?Appreciate the offer but I don’t even have the app installed rn plus I wouldn’t want to share, I sorta put a lot of value in my privacy, once again though, cheers for the offer! I see, thing is, my life doesn’t seem that interesting, at least not from a ‘showing off’ point; I play an instrument/make music, read, work out a little, play some video games, cook. Cooking might be a potentially good thing to throw in now and again though. Any advice on quality photos and finding good places to take p… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?What’s the problem? That’s good to hear that cold approaching works in the U.K., guess I just need to do it and improve my social skills. “5 dudes will be hitting it”, nah you’re wrong, she’s ‘single’, she’s been single for the entirety of covid 🥴 Appreciate it dude | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?I see, but honestly this sorta shit screams “I want to get pump and dumped” to me. What should I do? I’m an absolute rookie, I know the theory, at least more than half of it, but I don’t know what or where to meeting more women as cold approaching ain’t that much of a thing here I think. I rarely upload pics, so I guess that needs changing, as unfortunately social media are required for dating | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:42 PM |
| 1 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?definitely not LTR material or anything, pump and dump or FWB is max that I’d go with someone like that, but I still need that practice. What should I do? I’m an absolute rookie, I know the theory, at least more than half of it, but I don’t know what or where to meeting more women as cold approaching ain’t that much of a thing here I think. I rarely upload pics, so I guess that needs changing, as unfortunately social media are required for dating | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?I need to start using my ig then I guess, I pretty much don’t have it activated at all. Advice on pics or anything? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:40 PM |
| 4 | (UK) Women are starved of attention and it’s so evident, what do we do now?What should I do? I’m an absolute rookie, I know the theory, at least more than half of it, but I don’t know what or where to meeting more women as cold approaching ain’t that much of a thing here I think. I rarely upload pics, so I guess that needs changing, as unfortunately social media are required for dating | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:35 PM |
| 3 | How has getting to 10% body fat changed your game?Is this a problem only with dieting or if you’re 10% or below naturally? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 0 | How has getting to 10% body fat changed your game?Laughs in 8.5% body fat but only started working out recently | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a passive/boring guy.Who would you recommend for that? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a passive/boring guy.Unfortunately majority of my friends kinda became social wrecks as well, and the others kinda grew apart from me I think. Good advice though | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a passive/boring guy.Appreciate it man! Are they good for learning how to flirt as well? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a passive/boring guy.Appreciate it man! Are they good for learning how to flirt as well? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm a passive/boring guy.Recommendations? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I'm a passive/boring guy.How should I practice that? Any recommended reads/watches? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 02:16 PM |
| 6 | I feel like I'm a passive/boring guy.Stealing this to ask - how do I become less passive/boring myself | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Should I go to university online?This. Covid fucked me over - graduating this year and I missed out on 2 years because of it. Such fucking bullshit | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Getting mixed views - Paying when meeting up/going on ‘dates’By ‘expensive’ I meant when compared to a coffee/ice cream. Admittedly I didn’t go to many restaurants, but I was talking about 30+ euros for a meal. To me that already is too much for something uncertain. So first time bar and pay for a drink or two and that’s it or don’t pay at all? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | What can be learnt from Bill gates' divorce.Apparently prenups are useless, but I don’t know much in this regard | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | What can be learnt from Bill gates' divorce.Any advice on what you’re saying by “hiding assets in trusts”? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Just had "the talk" with my LTR of 3.5 yearsI’m the wrong person to ask I’m just sharing the theory. I don’t have any actual experience, but if you have to ask others if you should consider breaking up, things are not right. It’s your decision, I wouldn’t advise listening to randoms and try to forge your own opinion, look at it logically (which is what we do best) and analyse with what you know. Good luck dude | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Just had "the talk" with my LTR of 3.5 yearsIf she’s considering breaking up or initiated the “I don’t know how I feel” she probably has someone on the horizon that she is looking at. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 02:22 PM |
| 3 | I understand that if a woman asks if you’re fucking other girls (or something similar) you say yes, but what do you say if she asks whether that means she can fuck other guys?Even girlfriend? I think I’m lost with the definitions not gonna lie. ONS - Literally just one time sex Plate - Just sex FWB - Potential gf but don’t give her that satisfaction from being called a gf, sex and fun GF - Sex, fun and some form of commitment? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How fucked is meeting new people after college/university?That’s the plan, but I would only do that once I have some money saved/invested - I’m planning on working fully for 2 years after my studies and then moving out (probably), that way I will have a safe margin/net of money for the unexpected and I won’t have to live from pay check to pay check, for a while at least. I really do wish I could move to London, but I just don’t wanna, it looks like it’s overhyped and overrated, and expensive. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 14 | I understand that if a woman asks if you’re fucking other girls (or something similar) you say yes, but what do you say if she asks whether that means she can fuck other guys?Concise and smart, good shit. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 08:53 PM |
| 3 | How fucked is meeting new people after college/university?Sounds like not everything is lost, good shit dude. Do you have any advice on flirting/word play wit? I know this is slightly off topic, but it certainly is an aspect I can do with improving and one that would help me feel more confident. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How fucked is meeting new people after college/university?Appreciate it dude, I thought about just going with the lads to one city some times and renting a hotel room each, would that be a good idea? I probably would prefer fucking them at their place, but as the British walls are thin, the hotel could provide a nice place and more comfortable, to an extent. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How fucked is meeting new people after college/university?What would you say is the best way forward with ONS/hook ups/FWBs? Currently don’t have a car, so I’m guessing clubbing when it’s back to normal especially during freshers week? Maybe tinder? Never really used tinder | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to questions which are essentially there to gauge how many relationships you’ve had or how experienced you are?So what I was saying is good/decent way of responding? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 0 | How to respond to questions which are essentially there to gauge how many relationships you’ve had or how experienced you are?I see, how about being a little more cocky and saying “Might be surprising but I haven’t had much experience actually”, that sorta sets a vibe that you’re more confident? I always heard to not say you’re a virgin until you at least fucked her, cuz it makes you look bad - if other girls didn’t fuck him yet, somethings up | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 0 | How to respond to questions which are essentially there to gauge how many relationships you’ve had or how experienced you are?Would you say flipping the question onto her “how many do you think” is a good option? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Studying with 18-21yo girlsHoly shit how did I not respond to this... Thank you dude, definitely gives a huge insight, unfortunately I’m about to finish my studies and I have been fucked over by covid along with living at home. Any advice? I don’t think I want to move out just yet because it’s not as possible due to money, but maybe two years I’ll consider it, and then what? Slay freshers? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you talk to girls about?Another socially inept to an extent guy here - should I be trying to make every conversation about emotions with girls? How do I learn to do that? For example, life goals or tv shows, two varying topics. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How do I change the already established frame I created for myself in a social group?Observe. Find the people who are capable of easily turning people against others. Find the people who are observers as well. Find the people who are cocky/always try to one up people Lastly, find the sheep. The sheep are of low value, expect some form of shit testing from them because they know they are worse than you in majority of cases, I tried ignoring them, but I lost, so now I adapt, get better at comebacks, establish boundaries/call them out. The observers are probably the smarter individ… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop being a "one-upper"?Realise you’re being a cunt in most scenarios... ... because that’s what it looks like. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How to become more witty?I’m guessing a wider range of vocabulary helps with being more witty? Especially with double entendres? I can see how your advice about the “thinking about why something is funny” will be helpful, but at this point I’m not that ‘advanced’, so to say, but I’ll definitely keep it in mind and try to analyse (and probably overthink lol) when I hear something funny next time and try to learn from it. Appreciate it dude! | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | How to become more witty?I don’t think I understand your question fully. You mean having people play along with my wit/jokes? If that’s what you mean, I’d assume playing a character would be a thing you have in mind? If yeah, then I managed to start a few (inside) jokes with few people where I portray a stereotypical ‘chav’ or ‘gopnik’, where I adjust my voice, posture/body language and tonality, but now that I’m writing this, I don’t think this is what you had in mind. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How to become more witty?Any recommendations for good stand uppers? Ideally ones who are focused on general wits and some flirty/seduction, if that’s a thing? Now that you pointed that out, I did notice that I’ve become somewhat more ‘eloquent’ or differentiated my sentence structure, even after only having read maybe 80 pages of a book now that I’ve had some time to spare. Of course I’m gonna ask this - any recommended reads? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How to become more witty?Good shout, do you have anyone in mind specifically, ideally for general wits and the more man to woman stand ups, as some other guy mentioned? I guess we adapt to our surroundings and do the shit that we must do so we come out on top. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 05:00 PM |
| 0 | How to become more witty?True, but those aren’t the type of people I’d look up to, solely because of them having a high n-count, that seems to me like I’d put pussy on top of education/goals if I were to do that. Edit - Plus I encountered some of them myself, who at the time were shit heads that I even knew back then that I didn’t want to be anything remotely alike. I also know that it’s an area I need to improve, which is why I started reading more in two of the languages to increase my ‘verbal Arsenal’ I’ll look into … | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How to become more witty?Care to explain how exactly that is bullshit? Different languages have different sentence structure, different meanings of the words that could be a punch line in one language - languages don’t revolve around the English language, at most they have some similarities. There’s also different cultures and inherently different humour. Reason why it’s more difficult for me personally is that I might not remember every single word that is needed to deliver a good punchline/witty response, I.e. I’ll us… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How to become more witty?Who was the comedian? Sounds like a good example to learn from Edit - Any examples of the things he did when you say “treat them like little kids”? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 01:08 PM |
| 10 | A girl rejected me by saying she is not over her ex and relationshipForget about her, be unphased, find other potential dates, then she might come back, and what you do then is up to you. | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 10:30 AM |
| 4 | [Need Advice] Girls that I like don't like me, girls that I don't like, love me. What to do?Expect to be called to reading the sidebar. The more useful people will give you a better response than me, but in essence it’s probably due to you treating them differently. Did it myself - girl that liked me I paid no attention to, essentially ignored her, but given that I was higher SMV than her although she was 18 near her ‘peak’, it didn’t help the cause. Then when I was younger, I essentially became an orbiter or ‘boyfriend for nothing’, meaning I got very minimal from this girl, whilst be… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | I feel proud of my day yesterday, but what could I have done better?“You either ask her out or don’t” - is this written in some form of rule book for humans, or are you blindly following advice you’ve received without critically analysing it and thinking “huh, maybe I should adopt some of those concepts but adapt this one to my circumstances” or make use of certain situations? You’re omitting everything I’m telling you because all you’re thinking is in binary, if not A then B, if not B then A - that’s not reality. Zero point in continuing this, agree to disagree… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I feel proud of my day yesterday, but what could I have done better?I’ll repeat the key phrase - practice. You’re telling me you don’t look over your decisions, in anything, and don’t analyse what you could’ve done better so you’re improving for the future, or when it matters? If not, then I’d start to do so. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | I feel proud of my day yesterday, but what could I have done better?I’ll ignore the first two sentences. I’m not going after her mate, it works out to my benefit as a. I get some practice with no losses b. My day goes about quicker and is in the end more enjoyable than sitting at work doing absolutely fuck all and getting bored shitless, seems like a win to me. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Maintaining an energetic feeling throughout the day or on demand?Another useless comment from someone who clearly acts like he is the shit but in reality we all know the truth - who the fuck tries to boost their ego on fucking reddit? Appreciate being useless and contributing absolutely nothing, congratulations. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 11:11 PM |
| 0 | So, how do you flirt to ‘build a connection’?I’m gonna assume you missed the part where I said this job is temporary and worthless to me | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | So, how do you flirt to ‘build a connection’?So I’m guessing that I need to improve myself physically and mentally? I think I’m in a good spot, not great but the foundations have been laid; Tall and slim with some muscle being gained recently, mentally I definitely dropped the bullshit and improved my confidence levels, the thing that I’m lacking in is experience and it seems to be the last hurdle as I don’t feel like approaching where I live (Small town in the U.K.) because of some shitty experiences here, plus barely anything to do here.… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 06:26 PM |
| -1 | So, how do you flirt to ‘build a connection’?I see, thing is I learn far better by examples than from pure theory, so it might take me a bit longer, but I’ve heard of dudes not even talking and pulling chicks. If you’ve got the time or even feel like it, my post from yesterday went over my day this week at work (yes at work, not a cause for concern - temporary work), and given that it was my first chance to practice, I think I’ve done pretty well. I’ll edit in a nutshell I wrote for another comment here if you want to get a gist of it Nuts… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 0 | So, how do you flirt to ‘build a connection’?Well, both I guess, or a mix. I’m having trouble with being sexual/up front from the get go or even building it up, I did improve (last post is an example, small step but progress), along with flirting in general - I can come up with something good, but I don’t know what sort of things to talk about which could result in more opportunities to sexualise the topic/flirt/tease. In a nut shell, from the post yesterday I did the following; Sexualised her trying to wrap my hands in a (weak) material/f… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 0 | So, how do you flirt to ‘build a connection’?Any advice on becoming quick witted and more sexual without being creepy? I think I did that well recently (other post from yesterday), but I definitely didn’t want to go too far as it’s the first time I’ve talked with her and it’s at work (no worries it’s part time and no where near my career so I’m Gucci). If you’ve got the time to skim read that post you’ll know what I mean and what I did, absolutely understandable if you don’t have the time or want to read it. Cheers dude! | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | What would be a great response to the “wow you’re so tall” comments and their variations?Hah that’s a good one, deffo stealing it. What would you say about the “I feel so small” comment? It sounds like there is potential to tease/flirt if a girl makes a comment like that but I’m oblivious | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you manage to pay attention to the pupils when you’re talking?this one | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you manage to pay attention to the pupils when you’re talking?I see, so it’s basically just paying attention more and then basing it off of the context? If you really want to and have the time, you could check out my very long in depth post that led to me writing this post, if you want a better gist of what I ‘experienced’, absolutely no harm done if you don’t feel like it. Appreciate it dude! | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What would be a great response to the “wow you’re so tall” comments and their variations?Ah my bad, so essentially distract away from what she said in the hopes of her noticing this and making more direct/specific comments? All good dude, English ain’t my first language either hah, still got a new insight and that’s all that matters, appreciate it! Good luck | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | After all my years of reading TRP, I have never been able to pass a shit test. I started taking a hormone (HCG) to double my testosterone levels. Now I pass shit tests without noticing it's a shit test. What do I make of this?No clue how it works but I’d guess more T = you just don’t care what others say because there are bigger threats than words. Hijacking this post now - How do you tease a girl back when she is older than you in two scenarios, one where she tries to shit test you with that and one where she doesn’t or says something like “I feel old haha” kinda thing. I am a rookie, just need some basic advice lol | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 09:05 PM |
| 2 | What would be a great response to the “wow you’re so tall” comments and their variations?Thing is in that scenario I think I could’ve said something (the “I feel so small”). Women do talk in an indirect way so I think ignoring/deflecting away from that isn’t a great move, unless there’s literally no sexual tension or any other IOI’s, then what you’re saying would be the good go to response. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What would be a great response to the “wow you’re so tall” comments and their variations?It just seems like such a great opportunity to turn it into a joke/tease/attraction setting response but my mind is legit empty lol | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What would be a great response to the “wow you’re so tall” comments and their variations?It seemed more like a playful thing to say, to which I didn’t know how to respond, especially the “I feel so small” comment. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What would be a great response to the “wow you’re so tall” comments and their variations?Feels like there is an opportunity to turn it into something flirty/playful tho, especially given that one girl already acted attracted to me | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 0 | I feel proud of my day yesterday, but what could I have done better?Yeah I was coming with that already in my mind (not many, if any, people will read this). That I know as well lol, it’s just who I am (extremely analytical), and I am writing up thesis as well, so that probably added to the whole post. It’s just some of the things that boggle my mind that I ‘need’ to understand, if that makes sense. Appreciate the feedback | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Bad boy attitude?Could you link anything to learn about adopting the dark triad to some extent? Can’t seem to get the sidebar to work | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Where are the best reads for TRP in other languages?If somebody’s girlfriend is fucking them over for money, say “Ta suka cię jebie na kasę” (if he’s blue pill you might get punched) I do wish there was a wider community in other languages, seen a few Polish users here but not many. Edit - Phonetic pronunciation = Tah | sook ah | t-sh-yeah | yeah-b-yeah | na | cas-eh Tah same as the northern ‘thanks’ equivalent, the ‘ah’ is the same as Tah but without the T sound. Isolate the ‘t’ from ‘Tah’ for the t-sh-yeah ‘B’ is more of a b-ugh sound, not bee,… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityFrom the title alone - lol, she can go fuck herself, do whatever the sidebar tells you and decide whether you want to keep her as a plate or smth Good luck | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Completely unable to have fun most of the time...?MMMMMM watch pixel titties that you can’t touch and done nothing to see them YESSSSSS INSTANT GRATIFICATION IS GREAAAAATTTTT Fuck that bullshit | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Best products on Amazon to increase SMV?First of all I’d try to actually look besides amazon, I fucking hate this, it’s as if there’s not a million shops in the world and many close to you, which probably have the shit you’re looking for slightly cheaper and all you need to do is get up and go to the store. “Best products to increase SMV?”, good books, quality food none of that junk shit (or at least limited), paralets/extenders (or whatever they’re called, the things for elevating your hands/position for pushups), training mat, pull … | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Where do I go to meet women?This, nothing comes to those who wait but to the ones that actually do their shit instead | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”Funny how the shit you say would be classed as gaslighting or any other woke term used nowadays if the script was flipped. I’m more aware of what I need to do now thanks to some experience as an orbiter that got led on, but many young men/teens aren’t aware of it because they’re force fed bullshit via movies and media, because that’s the only thing they saw and it’s where they learned from. It’s almost as ridiculous as saying that somebody who is in a genuinely toxic relationship is to blame bec… | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I fuck her silly (like most of them want) when only the bitches make me wanna do this to them?Thank you, however I actually didn’t think about it as two separate questions but rather both as one. Safe to say I’m inexperienced, so any advice on the actual rocking would be much appreciated as well 😂 So what you’re saying is play along with their facade but know that it’s all bullshit? What should I strive to be then, in terms of having that effect on women? Im guessing; lift, be direct, bold, dont give a shit what people say, but what else, and especially how should I act in certain scenar… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep your ego in check?Not OP but my problem is a non existent ego, which I think is bad and I should be a bit more cocky/asshole-y now and then. Any advice? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 08:49 PM |
| 3 | How do I fuck her silly (like most of them want) when only the bitches make me wanna do this to them?What exactly constitutes “fucking rocking them like the little sluts they are scared to let you know they are”? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Some girls just flat-out suckHave you noticed the way you structure and try to convey your message does not help anybody or inform anyone of this huge problem you are trying to highlight, which of fucking course will be intertwined with some shitty passive aggression, leading to a completely fucking useless interaction? | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”We won’t come to an agreement so I won’t bother with responding after this. Believe what you want to believe, even if it’s delusional. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Is BPD being used as an excuse?100%, it’s just an excuse for either being a shitty person themselves or lazy but it’s better to shift the blame onto something you apparently can not control because you self-labelled yourself as ‘depressed’. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”And she is well aware of that and she is leading them on? What is the point you’re trying to make? That a person who is manipulating someone isn’t to blame and is flawless? | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”Men are doing this to themselves because they show interest and are unaware of how a lot of women behave, so the women lead them on by throwing pebbles of attention in their direction to keep them hooked? That is absurd to think it’s the men doing it to themselves, when they are literally getting manipulated. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 03:06 PM |
| 2 | what am i doing wrong?“This works on EVERYONE” laughs in anti social U.K. But seriously good info dude | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Some girls just flat-out suckThere’s sucky people in every race, country and in both sexes. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Some girls just flat-out suckMaybe you could write it up in the same comment instead of leaving people on some dumb ass information cliff hanger? You’re not making a good point. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”Yes but that is essentially leading someone on and giving them a ‘false hope’, and it’s a scummy thing to do. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | how do you respond when a girl says "wow you're tall"?The structure of the sentence is the problem, it’s like trying to tell a joke in one language and then translate it, it just won’t work in most cases. | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Feminism and TRPAny advice on passing that shit test? Side bar is fucked for me :/ | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Feminism and TRPlol you’re assuming the majority of them can think logically, they have a theory they can regurgitate when anyone asks them but it’s like their two hemispheres aren’t connected and can’t correlate their theory to what they’re experiencing, or they’re just acting. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Am I too old?Jeez that chart puts it into perspective, one sad thing is that I would want to have kids who have a somewhat youthful father instead of raising them when I’m in my 60’s and being unable to pass my knowledge and help them, so I don’t see how hitting our SMV later on in life, at least in my case, will be a good thing :/ Could that be a societal pressure created on purpose do you think? As in, men should have be starting to think about having kids right when the women hit the wall and men are on a… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Extreme sadness after laying chickShit man it’s definitely a big one, but you did what you could, addiction is a tough thing and thankfully I don’t speak from experience but we all know it can destroy lives. Just know that you did try to help, once that’s out of the way you’re ‘only’ left with losing a bro, which is still tough but now you know it wasn’t your fault at all. Stay strong man | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What do I say to "what are we gonna do?" at 3amIs plausible deniability essentially “I’ll set it up so we are close to my/your house/flat and can easily escalate to sex”? How would you get her to come in with you/invite you herself? That’s the one part I don’t have many ideas on | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Can’t view the side bar?Yeah, the ones which lead to the quarantined posts work, but certain ones just show “server error” and it’s a white reddit screen | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | how do you respond when a girl says "wow you're tall"?This is good, I’m trying to translate it into my language so it has the same flirty vibe but it’s not working out 🤣 | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 32 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”Aka orbiter, just there for the attention. It’s a really shitty thing to do imo | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?Ah I see, so just focusing on the time under tension basically? Is the weight you use the same as you’d use for normal lifting or do you lower it? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?How do you do it? I always thought isometric squeezes is just squeezing your muscles for a certain period of time and essentially you’re doing sets in that way | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?What’s the deal with isometric movement? Is that just squeezing your muscles without any weight to improve the muscle control? I remember reading that muscle gain is the last step in muscle development (first your brain builds more connections (simply put), then your strength increases and lastly you put on muscle). | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Gym bros, how long does it take to do reps of your body weight?He doesn’t even mention his height, how the fuck did you deduce whether someone is overweight or underweight based on their weight alone? “Poverty weight” most retarded shit ive ever read. If you’ve been obese then of course your body is adapted to drag more (excess) weight, but to claim 70kg as ‘average’... lost for fucking words. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Can’t view the side bar?Mobile | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | My father just passed this past month and my LTR has show obvious support but there's as a huge increase in shit testing and the like. Is this normal?Apart from the good advice others have given, make sure you don’t fall into oneitis and start spending money on her, fuck her, not literally cuz she doesn’t deserve it, nor your attention. I hate saying shit like “dump her” because it’s not my life and I don’t know enough, but from what you’ve written, she is one hell of a toxic broad. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | My father just passed this past month and my LTR has show obvious support but there's as a huge increase in shit testing and the like. Is this normal?Good shit dude | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 04:27 PM |
| -1 | Girlfriend's feminist mom is trying to convince her to break up with me when she goes to college, tells her I am too controlling, etc.Question to you OP - where did you find her? I’m having trouble with that, especially being in UK | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Is being somewhat conflict aversive/not 100% confrontational a bad thing?I see, that makes sense. I’ve heard that only stupid people don’t adapt to their environment. How about this - I am considering applying for a team leader role at my current work (for various reasons- seems easy enough, 4 weeks of training and you’re sorted, more money and would probably piss off some people lol). How should I change my approach then? Should I be a straight up front cunt when someone is being lazy/sluggish, or should I ask them/tell them if they could work a little faster/come t… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 3 | The more I improve the more hate from menWelcome to the real world. If playing a lot of video games taught me anything (I know I know, video games), then if you’re coming across enemies then you’re going the right way - sounds corny as shit but it makes sense. I notice some people at my work are envious just over the fact that I am studying and they never did or didn’t manage to do anything with it - before I could talk to them normally (even with a slight language barrier), but after that, they suddenly try to act as if they are bette… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Protecting yourselfWhat does closing at her place do? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | (UK) About to finish my last (4th) year at university and I wasted it by literally not meeting any girl, how can I actually meet/hook up after ‘easy’ mode is over?Apologies for the late reply my dude, good advice, I’m considering martial arts and attending more events once this lockdown bullshit is over, unfortunately I noticed that I suck ass when making new friendships - went for a game of darts organised by the university I’m in and I just could not feel chill around the people I got put with, awkward af and conversations were dead, admittedly it was definitely partially my fault, but the others weren’t too great either, any advice on how to build a br… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.So be aloof but after you’ve introduced and gotten to know each other or from the start? | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 2 | (UK) About to finish my last (4th) year at university and I wasted it by literally not meeting any girl, how can I actually meet/hook up after ‘easy’ mode is over?Shit my bad for the late response. I don’t have a car yet, but apart from that, what advice would you give? I live in a shitty small city and I don’t plan on moving out for at least 2-3 years unless I get some insane job opportunity. I’m currently going through Models, do you think that’ll give me a sufficient ‘Arsenal’ for what’s coming? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | (UK) About to finish my last (4th) year at university and I wasted it by literally not meeting any girl, how can I actually meet/hook up after ‘easy’ mode is over?Harder to do =/= not doable. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with randoms making fun of meIgnore low life’s that have nothing to risk, that’s what I realised and have been doing without realisation, I’ll avoid fights if possible because a. U.K. law is shit b. The thing that stops be from wanting to get violent is my future, whereas these fuckers have no future and I’d expect a knife pulled. Ultimately you get a good career and get their wife to dump them in the future as a collateral because you’re actually successful, now that would be epic. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Have I screwed myself with my career choice?Not OP but just a nearly graduated student in a finance major, do you have any advice on spotting business opportunities and actually setting one up? Or any other books/YouTube channels you’d recommend? I’d love to turn my ideas into physical objects, but I think the things I’m fascinated about have had their golden age a while ago, and in my opinion nowadays all you can make is either coding related or require a huge injection of money to get it started | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 10 | (UK) About to finish my last (4th) year at university and I wasted it by literally not meeting any girl, how can I actually meet/hook up after ‘easy’ mode is over?I’ll ignore everything after your first two sentences and end it on a cheers for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Question About College Hookup CultureThis, I’m starting to notice that I started talking shit, and even though it’s about people that deserve, it’s not appealing socially | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Question About College Hookup CultureLaughs in UK | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | A little advice needed with confidenceJocko Willink is this you? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with sexism?Uni prof? I’d try to report her, university is a big deal dude | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you need a good social circle to meet girls?There definitely is a different dynamic and cold approaching is most likely not as successful as in normal countries. What would you say is another key thing to do in the UK in terms of approaching/hitting up? Is there a difference in your opinion? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How does one overcome social anxiety and self hate?So in essence, you don’t know what you’re talking about. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | How does one overcome social anxiety and self hate?You’re on RP, the least you could fucking do is not be a passive aggressive bitch and actually make a point, but gauging from your response, you most likely finished a university of Facebook degree and that’s the primary source of your quote unquote research. Feel free to prove me wrong. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How does one overcome social anxiety and self hate?Eh, reverse osmosis water is one of those gimmicks people think work because of placebo effect or because a paid actor said so. Gets you to think whether those diets, amongst other things you’ve mentioned, aren’t the same. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Guys that actually cold approach- got any tips?How do you get over outcome dependency? I am well aware but still haven’t had opportunities to approach and don’t want to appear as a creep if I slip up | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Guys that actually cold approach- got any tips?How do you get over outcome dependency? I am well aware but still haven’t had opportunities to approach and don’t want to appear as a creep if I slip up | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How to get over the feeling of your favourite girl despite having multiple girls?Find a better one, rinse repeat | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | I (18M) have tremendous performance anxiety.Problems; ‘shy’ girlfriend who doesn’t put out Porn/excessive masturbation Potentially too tight condoms If you lose it next time, just go down on her or continue with foreplay | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | How to break a plateStudy/Future/Career >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Temporary satisfaction from nutting thanks to a girl. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.Glad to hear! Based on your response (willing to step aside and actually consider what others are saying) I think you’re gonna learn quickly, now pray for me to do the same thing and implement the own advice I tell others 🤣🤣 | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Blowjobs and sex advice, just hungry and lostTo add what others said (Bare in mind I’m not experienced, just theory), start lowering the amount of attention you give her, that’s their currency. You’re in a relationship with a kid, not gonna say anything about that but you should tread lightly. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I keep running into the same cycle. They're super into me then they go cold all of the sudden, no warning. How do I react when they go cold? Is them going cold a shit test?I’ve experienced this myself, the solution, which I’m yet to implement is; More options Go cold yourself Act quicker, before they hop on a new dopamine rush from meeting someone new that gives them attention | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | As I've been building confidence, I've noticed me and my "alpha" friend butt heads a lot, to the point I worry we aren't going to be friends much longer. Any sort of advice?This seems like the go to, it’ll be a bit awkward/unusual, but at least you’ll know what you’re standing on. I always advocate taking care of yourself first and then others, and depending on what his friend says/acts like after that, he’s gonna make a tough choice of either leaving his ex-bro behind but be somewhat free of bullshit, but as we are all people we will probably feel bad that they helped us out even after we ‘repaid’ the ‘debt’. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Did I analyze and handle this situation correctly? I feel like I'm right, but I feel terrible.As this is the RP, I’ll be blunt. Should be noted I’m not experienced but I’ve read somewhat enough to understand what happened; You over invested, she wasn’t putting out, imo you should’ve slashed how much attention she gets from you sooner. About the waterfall fucking, eh like I said I’m not experienced, but she seemed shy early on, and sure there’s the argument she isn’t interested, but I don’t think everyone is into fucking outside for their first time with someone in public (but somewhat se… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Android Apps or Podcasts?I’d guess it’s a half-assed question looking for podcasts or ‘android apps’ (what?) related to TRP so that he could listen to them, but given that he doesn’t even specify what he is asking for with at least 10 words, he’s not gonna get what he’s looking for, apart from the classic -> Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Why are 'less hotter' chicks more confident?Surely that’s a contradiction | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | I've pretty much become an 'incel' how can I get back out there?I don’t know how old you are but I’m 21 and a virgin. Do I care? Eh, a little, but does it change my life? Not really. A girl is supposed to be an addition to your life, she won’t be a fix. Not sure what others would say but personally I’m striving to be happy and successful without any dependencies on others. Stay strong mate | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:24 AM |
| 0 | Crazy chick next door - to bang or not to bangMan legit, admittedly I’m a virgin and all this false accusation bullshit is making me borderline paranoid, I am put off of hook ups | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:21 AM |
| 4 | I fucked upLegit... he uses IG the same way I use my 5th throwaway | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 31 | I fucked upThis dude uses his fucking Instagram the way I use my 5th throwaway on reddit lmfao | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:16 AM |
| 1 | I've pretty much become an 'incel' how can I get back out there?Check up your definitions then | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | I've pretty much become an 'incel' how can I get back out there?I think ‘incel’ has turned into a word with a deeper meaning (but some people like OP decide to throw it around, similarly to every snowflake with “depression” and other serious conditions that just become the norm to say) and instead of just someone who can’t get laid, it reflect a mindset - “hate women, my life is the worst because of all women” and so on. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:14 AM |
| 0 | literally just LTR'd a girl to fuck her now don't know what to do....help please.Watch and learn I guess. Not necessarily RP, but if you’re happy, then who cares. If you get fucked over, you learn, if you don’t, you get a better chick to be with. RP says “rules are for the beta and are broken for the alpha”, plus whatever n-count she says then multiply it by 3, but you never know. She’s also approaching ‘the wall’, but you probably know that. To summarise - enjoy it dude, I notice a lot of various subs and people on the subs trying to align their entire life to one single id… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:11 AM |
| 11 | (Old FR) The time a girl LITERALLY chased after me for my number (and what I did)The states seem so much superior to the U.K. man... | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 10 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overLol my uncle told me that he had a similar thing happen to him but in like 2005 so social media wasn’t around (as much), they arranged to meet, my uncle went to the shop in front of where they were supposed to meet, and let’s just say she wasn’t who she tried to ‘sell’, but my uncle wasn’t sure if it’s her, he then received a call at the same time she lifts up the phone to her ear and he knows, so he dips 🤣 I do wish I was born earlier | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:04 AM |
| 7 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overThey know they can’t be shit in this regard so that’s where they make up for it | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Should I buy the car, or invest the money?To say it’s a garbage book is a little bizarre. It certainly isn’t a book that will turn you from financially illiterate to a literate master of finance, but it’s a stepping stone, and if anything, it’s a good eye opener/entry book for people to learn what they could and should look into afterwards - the author says something along those lines as well IIRC. Admittedly I’m around half way through it right now, but I can see it helping some people become more aware of themselves and their (financi… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Questions about fat loss3- Just make sure you’ve got nutrients coming in from some source, eating the same shit will probably lead to some deficiencies | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy the car, or invest the money?Long answer - Read Rich Dad Poor Dad Short answer - A new car is gonna get you next to nothing, it’s a liability, it’s gonna drain your wallet and savings. We all want a nice car, but here in the U.K. you see a lot of nice cars in places you wouldn’t expect, wanna know how they got those? Loans, and now they have a nice car and have to work 12 hour shifts instead of 8 to pay for that shitty ‘asset’. Does it help get bitches? Idk. If it does, then you probably don’t want to be with that type of g… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Do you need a good social circle to meet girls?Read in the comments that you’re in U.K., answer is yes, and i need to work on it myself. The oblivious people here will always think that every person here is from the US, a country where they actually have better social dynamics unlike this circus of a country. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | My parents don’t want me going to the gym what should I do?Whilst GTFO is probably the best advice, now it’s next to impossible unless he wants to drop down into poverty... Callisthenics/bodyweights if he wants to stay | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | My parents don’t want me going to the gym what should I do?What sort of a sick fuck must you be to forbid your son from trying to become better and track your phone at age of fucking 19... Mate I’ve got no advice apart from - if possible, GTFO, you’re gonna struggle financially though, most likely. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Is there any literature (reddit post) on how to talk? Like avoid asking questions, don't say anything fishing for approval, that type of thing.Following, but I’ll add few of my own that I remember; Speak a little slower, you’re clearer that way plus your voice is gonna sound more masculine Don’t finish your sentence with a higher pitch than you started, unless you’re acting out some form of character as a joke/deflecting a shit test Don’t talk like a bitch, try to develop a no-fucks-given masculine vibe, instead of a voice that could associate with the following text - ehem moves closer to you, h-h-hi my n-n-name is ... You look c-cute… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 08:23 PM |
| 4 | How safe are condomsIf you ever go in raw, please fucking forget that pulling out changes anything... With a condom sure, it could travel up real slow if you continue fucking after you nut, but in general, it does nothing. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Fear of not finding out after being cheated on?Not OP but I pretty much became a cynic after some shit went on in my life, and considering I was a natural over thinker, it’s even more advanced, because I wouldn’t call it good or bad. If something starts to look off, I’ll imagine the worst possible outcome possible, just to be prepared - my mates are talking less to me and I know one person likes to talk shit and polarise people? Somethings up. Probably should change that, it’s one of the things I’ve read that makes people have miserable live… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:05 AM |
| 77 | Anyone else lose interest in a woman after learning she has children?Yeah, who the fuck would want to take care of someone else’s kid at the age of 21. Noticed few baby momma’s recently being more active on social media trying to lure someone in | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Is lifting for me?Sounds like you’re looking for an excuse. Who gives a fuck where you start, all that matters is what you achieve in a year and beyond a year. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | What is the best country to live in?What about finance? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How to Handle This Sh&t Test From Work GirlAre we really gonna advise victimising ourselves in TRP? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:07 PM |
| 3 | I feel like this is all pointless and am depressed. Need advice.Jocko is the shit, glad to see others watching him | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How not to let lockdown fuck you up?Laughs in U.K. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with guys trying to disrespect me in front of my gf or amogNot OP, but I live in the U.K., where mutual Combat ain’t a thing, and considering I want a good future career, I’m avoiding getting physical, do you think this is a bad idea? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Why is misgendering so offensive?I wonder if I’ll see the fall of this bullshit when I’m older lol | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Girls NEED compliments?Making an assumption based on the usage of ‘mate’ - do you live in the U.K.? If yeah, do you think that the advice on this sub/approaching people/getting plates/girls needs tweaking? I don’t think randomly approaching people on the street is gonna work as well. If you’ve got any advice before I get my hands dirty, it would be greatly appreciated | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How to get better at push-pull/flirting and being more of a fun person to be around?Thank you! So what should I be doing to improve my value? I’ve got some hobbies, but I wonder what else I could be doing to improve my value. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I take the opportunity to lose my virginity to a ~5/10?How would it be disrespectful to her lol | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:34 PM |
| 3 | How do u guys keep your pubes in check?Clipper on everything but balls, razor for them | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:31 PM |
| 0 | Girls NEED compliments?How do I work on my masculine swagger? Move shoulders when walking slightly and all that? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Girls NEED compliments?So where should we rookies look to if we want to improve our game? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:17 PM |
| 1 | What verbal and non-verbal indicators are there apart from the obvious ones, that a girl is interested?I see, thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to get a hb9 or 10 with poor social skills and no social life?I find that people often misunderstand what ‘introvert’ means, it doesn’t mean “poor social skills”, it means you’re comfortable being alone/in a smaller group. I’m 60/40 ex/in but i dont club or party at all, I think I come off as a little too serious/stoic Any advice? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to get a hb9 or 10 with poor social skills and no social life?Any advice? I find myself definitely above average but I’m aware of my social skills, and that I don’t approach much. Any advice beyond that? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Alpha with thots but beta with potential GF-material females?Any links to what OP refers to as being the guy from 50 shades? I keep on reading this once in a while and just wonder what I should be doing | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Alpha with thots but beta with potential GF-material females?I’ve read something similar about adapting the way you speak to anyone you meet - you have different groups of friends that you talk to, you’re gonna talk to them differently. On a side note - where can I read what OP refers to as “being the 50 shades of grey guy”, I’d want to make sure I know what I’m doing will be somewhat right | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby ArrangementsJust remember to not treat it seriously, I’m inexperienced but this just sounds like a cheaper escort but with more ‘functions’ | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do bluepillers say redpill is toxicSame reason why left wing calls right wing random shit - lack of argument + delusion + forgetting that people can have different opinions. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Can there be a thing such as a Dangerous Simp?Simp = Retard who worships a random woman who gives him a crumb of attention, they’re starved off pussy that they won’t ever get. Whilst most are probably some pussy ass bitches, anomalies are a thing. No experience myself though | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Anything to add to routine, or any critiques you might have? I’m open to any suggestions. I’m 18 and trying to improve myself before college starts in the fall.Soon to be 21, I don’t really have a full day routine but I tend to chill during the night and revise/learn in the afternoon, but this pattern is often fucked with things like part time work and university. Discipline is definitely a good thing, just don’t feel bad if shit will force you to change it/lose some discipline. Other than that, you’re probably above the majority of males in your age group Edit- Definitely arrange some time when gyms open up so you can gain muscle, and alternatively fi… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Asking for the girl to get checked for STD’s?Breakage? | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Did Online Dating get "harder" in the past 2-3 years for some reason?Yeah, more men = more free validation. Weird ass movement of demonising men for being masculine -> simps -> 2/10’s think they’re the shit | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How important is belief in God?It’s whatever helps you. I’m religious but based on the history of my country and how it helped boot out the commies out of it, and tradition. If I pray I pray to God and if I ever need to confess I’d confess it during the prayers, not to some random dude. Some might say it’s delusional but the thought of there being an afterlife kinda gives you some form of peace/comfort in mind. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants an apology?I’m a rookie but by that point I’d either laugh at it, amplify it or just outright blast through it and treat it as not worth my attention, I.e. “yeah yeah, come over (day when YOU ARE free)”. If she keeps on pushing I’d mute notifications for x amount of time. Have no idea myself how I would AA it or apply AM to this, maybe someone more experienced can give some examples | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Asking for the girl to get checked for STD’s?Appreciate it, but how should I go about asking? I’m thinking it might come off a little insulting I guess but my own health is more important to me than sex. Then again I also think to myself if someone asked me I’d have no problem with it, so only some psycho would deny and twist it back onto me | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Asking for the girl to get checked for STD’s?Appreciate it, but how should I ask? Guessing not “sup bitch get yo self checked I don’t want no clap” isn’t the way | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Asking for the girl to get checked for STD’s?Don’t have a dice, I’ve got a Russian 5 rouble coin from 1893 laying around somewhere, is that sufficient? Anything that I can chant whilst flipping it? On a serious note, yeah ghosting would definitely be the way if I don’t even know her/off tinder. I think I’d ask every girl honestly, because fuck knows what they’ve been doing | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Does Jelqings work?Risk/reward is not worth it, especially if you advise to “go hard” to people who don’t know what the fuck they’re doing. Time consuming, might lead to people being inpatient and doing ‘exercises’ they shouldn’t be doing as they don’t know their limits. You risk scarring your dick and messing it up completely. Do what you want, it’s your body, but don’t come crying when you can’t get an erection after you fuck up. If anything, angionmethod seems more researched and documented to actually work and… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Does Jelqings work?Most retarded shit I’ve read | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Follow up on my yesterday's post. Help a brother not pass up on a 9hb.She wasted your precious time. Fuck her, metaphorically. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | When were your happiest times?Probably not what is expected, but any time before moving to the U.K. as a kid or being on holidays. Stumbled upon far too many sons of bitches in a short period of time and I wish no one (well at least most people) experience being a bullied outcast/tag along. The only good thing that came from us moving is that we have better financials now, no where near bragging amounts, but we are definitely better of, question is, at what cost? I’m 21 and I’ve only recently started being more comfortable w… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | What's up with psychological terms being overused in western society?Hmm, both points seem valid, I didn’t think much of the second one but I read it again and it does sort of make sense, but I wouldn’t call those people sane either, the society is toxic and we have the people who got swallowed up by that toxicity and think that everything is bad. I don’t remember which gangster this was, but it’s mentioned in the book HTWFAIP IIRC - the gangster was surrounded by police, we’re talking one gang boss and 100 police officers, if I’m not mixing the facts up, he was … | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | What's up with psychological terms being overused in western society?Can you stop being so racist, xenophobic, misogynistic and discriminatory? Just because people use those words doesn’t give you the right to look down upon them and speak of them in such a condescending manner. If you could stop mansplaining that would be great too, this is what we mean when we say ‘Male privilege’ and you are so ignorant if you do not see it, and that is literally worse than Hitler, you fucking neo nazi. /s Apologies if this made anyone’s blood boil lmfao I probably missed out … | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 02:28 AM |
| 19 | Has anyone ever lost their motivation to workoutBurnout, happens to all of us at every stage, I’m currently burned out on working out my back | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Basically a raver chick is a nono, a red flag?Wait so does herpes go away or is it to stay but in a non hostile stage (or whatever it’s called) | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Studying with 18-21yo girlsCould you elaborate 4? What should my responses be and at what stage? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Sick to the stomach after reading “How to Destroy a Man”Was scrolling through a shitstorm on social media and found a picture of that with a description of what it is, so I wondered whether that is bs or real, and unfortunately it’s the latter. Only skimmed through it because fuck wasting time on that | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a tool?Bruh I’m 20 and I’m a long way to get to a similar body size as you. My main problem is (apart from being in U.K.) eating, not that I have a disorder or illness, it’s just making it easy to eat a lot when I want, most meals take some time to prepare unless I want to go into a monotone diet that will probably make my cardiovascular system get invaded by the US army cuz of the fat (oil). Any tips? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Girl has enough red flags to be able to be a leading part in a communist parade - wants to come visit for the weekend. Do I nuke the situation or let her down gently?Do not fuck a broad that has the ‘clap’. Problematic pussy should at most only take some more time if it’s worth it, not your health man. I rarely tell people what to do, I usually advise only, but dude, please don’t proceed or even give her breathing room for her to infect you with oneitis before infecting you with the STI, nuke that shit as if you had the Fat man and Little boy in your arsenal. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | "Wear something nice ;)"Gotta love it when they start talking about star signs | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | What's your take on an LTR with a bisexual girlEh imo majority is just saying that as part of their personality, and if your sexuality is the main part of your personality, then your life is a bit shit ain’t it? Probably seeking more attention and potentially higher risk of them acting up on their emotions with ease and no forethought than an average woman. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Tldr: Not Going in for a kiss when the moment was rightYep, don’t buy gifts before they put out and be more decisive, shit I noticed in my own life that I’m yet to apply/try out. Also, don’t waste time if they don’t put out, you are priority, then family, then friends and eventually her. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Need help in clearing out my mind.I highly doubt the users of FDS are anything remotely close to what can be called a real ‘woman’, it’s most definitely just the bottom feeders. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Update: Girlfriend had seeking arrangement(sugar daddy) profiles up longer than I thought. The rabbit hole gets deeper.Abort abort | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Is gossiping ever a good thing?Me personally I love gossips, but it’s more of a “Im acquiring information” rather than “ooh I’m a boring cunt who can only talk shit about people behind their back”. Overall, to me, knowledge is power, the more I know the more in control of my surrounding I feel, sorta like being a step ahead, and knowing that I know a lot of my surroundings makes me feel, Idk, good? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Blowjobs make me softWas this the case with other girls? If so, are the teeth a huge problem? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Accidentally found out the list of conquests of the girl i am seeing.Maybe she’s from the future and she’s trying to find something from the past and one of you have it, probably the owner of the 50% of the assets she received post divorce but idk. Sorry brudda, I’m in a goofy mood joking about and trying to be funny, no real advice to add on top of what was said - be cautious and demote, have fun | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Plate a women who is in financial distress?Make sure your arms are strong so you can pull apart her legs when she tries to make you finish inside her, unless you want a son/daughter rocking LV at 3 months | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Plate a women who is in financial distress?I hope by “pull out game” you’re just using it as some form of a metaphor, and not propagating the bullshit that doesn’t work | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Condoms for anal??Mans gonna pull out after he’s done and digglet let will appear shortly after from the hole he just finished in | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Can you recover frame with bedroom domjnance?Remember to write your name out with your tongue 3 times to summon a spirit that will unthotize her whilst you’re with her | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Can you recover frame with bedroom domjnance?Think it’s probably linked to the shitty porn fetishes that come out of it and inherently are portrayed as ‘beta’. One I’ll never understand is how the fuck a girl sitting on a mans face is making the woman in charge or whatever retards think, then again, I’m a virgin but that’s just my view, it’s not like you’re getting fucking pegged or some shit and getting dominated by the woman lmfao | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Trying to be friends with ex?Make sure you don’t go on a space expedition because you’ll get stuck in the orbit in that scenario as well. Admittedly I’m a virgin who just does some reading here during covid and from what i understand, in this scenario you devoted your precious time for what exactly? You got some form of oneitis kicking in and your mind went haywire and into overthinking mode - ah shit maybe if I spend more time texting her I’ll get to fuck her and we will live happily ever after, eh most definitely not, or … | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Girl makes eye contact then looks away quickly -Choosing Signal/IOI or not?How do I improve my charisma and ‘fun’ stats? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you behave in a humble manner or show off yourself whenever possible?How should i do that without appearing like a try Harding cunt | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:20 AM |
| 5 | Do women have a different voice depending who they talk to, similarly to men?Still a fucking virgin but great success | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?They lost an orbiter | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 09:33 AM |
| 3 | How do you joke with your male friends without taking it personal?Thing about me is I cannot stand up for myself without being an outright ass, or at least look like one to the crowd - I will literally drill a hole in the weakest point if I know it if you push me too far. I know this sounds corny and like one of those quotes you’d find on a joker picture, but I will not react at all, only resent and remember | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Obsessed with social status. Need help.Any advice for being more fun but at age of 21? I don’t really pay attention to watching sports, I prefer cooking, instruments, working out a little and that probably sums up my currently available hobbies. I live in the U.K. if that’s of any relevance to what I’ll ask now - what hobbies should I look into? I’m aware of some form of martial art, but what else? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 04:57 AM |
| 4 | Went thought my girlfriends phone this morning. Found text messages about her having multiple sugar daddy profiles. I live with her and I'm gutted.Honestly if a chick would say something about it to me beforehand and not get drilled and I’d benefit from it, go ahead, I’ll show you the shit you can get me lmfao Edit- Woukdnt be as comfortable with an LTR | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 01:49 AM |
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