How do I work on being less dry in conversations with newly met people?

atomant88 · 2022-07-31T22:25:51+00:00

Humour and icebreakers

And then probing questions and passionate conversation

CometAzur42069 · 2022-08-01T01:08:38+00:00

but I just need to work on being more fun(ny)

unless your job is stand up comedy, you don't need to be more fun(ny).

you ever hang out with close friends or close family and find not really funny stuff absolutely hilarious. if it was a different person you'd fucking think it was lame or whatever. why is it fun(ny) then? because everyone likes each other and wants to be around each other.

this is the same thing occurring with women who are attracted to you. if they are attracted, unless you start saying really psychotic bizarre stuff, you really don't need to do anything besides say whatever benign boring thing in the initial stages. they are INTERESTED, they will laugh at anything you do, they want to IMPRESS you and VALIDATE you.

there is nothing to build up here, unless you mean living a more interesting fun life. but it sounds like you kind of already do? you go to dance class, do you work out, do you have friends and go on trips or events together, etc. thats fun for most women lol keep doing it.

Initial-Laugh1442 · 2022-07-31T22:45:00+00:00

Learn to read and understand other people's body language, micro expressions and, ultimately, emotions. Learn to listen to these people while they talk and don't be into yourself too much ...

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-31T22:58:47+00:00

Trying to be funny isn't the same as trying to meet someone, imo.

intelectualycurious · 2022-08-01T04:44:04+00:00

This is probably going to be the most boring reply ever.

But just say what you want.

Im a super dry person but my candid honesty (mixed in with a little humor) - tends to draw people in.

Trying to trick someone out of your dryness will just make you come off as a clown.

In fact, the first thing you can even say to a girl is, “Hey I thought you were cute. I’m a little bit dry - what’s your name?”

burncushlikewood · 2022-08-01T06:49:19+00:00

https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y

incognito3107 · 2022-08-01T07:55:24+00:00

Use emotions while you are talking about something. Men usually focuses on hard logic and information, but women prefer to enjoy a conversation with lots of relatable emotions and involvement.

CanUnusual8729 · 2022-08-01T08:27:53+00:00

Dry, analytic, droning discussions about how things work are on the furthest end of the male side of the spectrum. Women predominantly like to talk about people, fashion, beauty, society, fantasies, things that make them feel happy or glamorous or excited. Men are intrigued by ideas. Women are intrigued by the flow of energy between people, social cues. Accept that they probably aren’t enthralled by the type of discussions you like and just play with them. Like a kid. Tease them and be silly. Don’t take yourself too seriously. It’s not so bad being on a feminine frequency for a bit. Helps you understand them better.

NefariousnessDull644 · 2022-08-02T19:27:44+00:00

Say whatever comes to you're Mind, Dont look at it like a job... i have to say this then that.

Title	How do I work on being less dry in conversations with newly met people?
Author	150420throwaway
Upvotes	13
Comments	19
Date	July 31, 2022 10:23 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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