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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=eepVS2rtMwVYnklM Hope it helps!
/r/seduction24/06/26 04:13 AM
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We don't know, the point of this sub is to get better with girls, we don't isolate specific situations, my suggestion is to ask her out on a date, if she says no move on, if you're at a university then go out and do some approaches! This might get taken down just a heads up, what game issues do you struggle with? What can you do to improve
/r/seduction21/06/26 07:03 AM
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Go to school, it's where we learn especially being around people
/r/seduction17/06/26 05:24 AM
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Sorry lots of writing I didn't read the whole thing, gaming girls at music festivals is game on easy mode, the biggest piece of advice I give is to enjoy the music and have fun, if you don't stare, and make women feel uncomfortable by being too pushy and aggressive then she'll feel more comfortable around you, this will instantly raise your value as women will soon be surrounding you. Me and my boys went to Sasquatch ages ago and I made out with a really cute girl and made lots of friends, be co…
/r/seduction09/06/26 06:37 AM
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Going to night clubs and bars solo approaching women and even men, start going to the gym, build a social circle, get involved in things like school and sports. Go to music festivals and concerts, sports games, learn different languages
/r/seduction05/06/26 04:54 AM
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I don't know where you live, but yes a large majority of attractive women are in serious relationships, but that doesn't mean there aren't single girls. The data says that 50% of marriages end in divorce, and it's simple supply and demand, but many markets have a lot of available women that aren't taken, especially if there are high quantities of attractive women. Most people don't get married until their early 30s or late 20s. Times have changed, technology is really advanced, that means that t…
/r/seduction29/05/26 03:39 AM
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Don't compare yourself to your friends or get jealous, comparison is the thief of joy as they say. You question is very broad and a newbie question it's likely this post will get taken down. Anyways I used to be just like you when I was 15 then I found this community, do a search and study hard and do approaches
/r/seduction25/05/26 07:30 PM
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You need to emotionally connect with her, she wants to fall in love with you and have that spark and that drive to want to see eachother. Easier said than done, but my best advice is to give her lots of space, I'm naturally a pretty charming individual I can get people to like me. I also just treat women so well it ends up being a relationship where she wants to be around you and do things for you.
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:34 AM
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Technically it's nice to have a wingman, but that doesn't mean you can't go solo, usually women go to bars in groups, having a wing will help you break the ice, someone to occupy her friend
/r/seduction22/05/26 10:13 PM
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Here's my answer to if looks matter, the answer? Yes and no, in societies that have lower gender gaps women will choose looks because they have access to resources. In societies that women are less prosperous they will value money, still studies have shown that people tend to date those that look similar to themselves. But being good looking isn't everything you still need to have game, this requires communication skills, social status, intelligence, and confidence
/r/seduction20/05/26 03:28 AM
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This sub is intended to teach you how to get the girl but we don't talk enough about how to keep her, i always wait till she texts me first and I like to give her some space. To maintain a healthy and intimate relationship you have to emotionally connect with her, this is something that requires a lot of practice to do
/r/seduction17/05/26 11:11 PM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY?si=br-zfQfQLfWACy5X Great night game video its very quick, he has another video but it's an hour plus if you have the time https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE?si=9um808rX8WQoLQx5
/r/seduction16/05/26 08:27 PM
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She enjoys an intelligent person, she wants a smart partner, conversation is the key
/r/seduction16/05/26 06:53 AM
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Parks, busy streets, malls and stores, university campuses, concerts and festivals
/r/seduction15/05/26 12:48 AM
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Sometimes her friend will pull her away because she might get jealous, one time I approached a girl on the dancefloor, she was with her friend, after about 30 seconds she grabbed her friend and stormed off. Get a wingman! It will help
/r/seduction13/05/26 03:34 AM
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It's great that you have high energy that you provide to your friends, as to your question I think you need to start generating more attraction faster in your interactions. Being the glue guy is a high value position in a social group because you can break the ice and introduce your friends to other people and girls. Flirting is generating rapport in my opinion, being charming like James Bond, and genuinely being yourself and connecting with her
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:02 AM
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Mods will probably take this one down,op where do we even start? So much to cover and your question is too general, start approaching women, keep a log and try and find out your weaknesses and fix them
/r/seduction11/05/26 02:51 AM
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I think it's wonderful you're open minded enough to date outside your race, beauty has no race my friend, be confident in yourself!
/r/seduction09/05/26 02:48 AM
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Just work on your communication skills, learn how to effectively communicate, storytelling is important I think you give yourself less credit than you think, I'm sure you have some interesting or exciting stories to tell
/r/seduction06/05/26 09:38 PM
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You shouldn't have to flaunt and force anything, just invite your friends and enjoy your birthday party, I don't think pre selection is something you should try and force it just kinda happens, there's plenty of women out there. Game is having the ability to approach a woman and immediately connect with her, it's something you should be able to do when needed, this way you don't and shouldn't manipulate, does that make sense?
/r/seduction05/05/26 03:30 AM
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The old saying is that 99% of guys don't approach during the day, but it's the best time to meet women! Day game is everywhere, but I'd suggest malls, downtown and busy streets, festivals and concerts, coffee shops, and university campuses
/r/seduction05/05/26 03:20 AM
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Conversation control is a major issue for a lot of men in seduction, I believe if you're getting friend zoned that's good and bad and I'll explain why. Firstly the bad part, if you're getting friend zoned it's likely that you're not generating enough attraction in the early stages of your interactions, and you're not building sexual tension and escalating, or stirring up any major emotions. The one thing all women want is romance, so you need to touch her more and make your intentions clear. Now…
/r/seduction01/05/26 11:13 PM
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Hit the gym, eat healthy, improve other aspects of your life, women are more attracted to social status than physical appearance, have a high powered career
/r/seduction29/04/26 02:49 AM
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Approach some girls, say hello, make some friends get involved in school
/r/seduction21/04/26 07:17 AM
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I'm sorry what is your question? If You're asking questions related to speech it's very general, also learning what to say is a lot of seduction, the old saying is 70% of communication is non verbal, ask her questions, make comments, be charming and funny
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:20 AM
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Timing, women are so different from each other, sometimes they can be really fast and I don't expect it, sometimes they're disinterested, I don't know when to be aggressive and when not to be
/r/seduction20/04/26 06:41 AM
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Too much writing lol, unless there is something really special about this girl, you said it yourself there are tons of pretty, available/single girls, that means you should be actively pursuing multiple girls. Some cultures I understand are more conservative than others, you don't need to sleep with hundreds of women, it's quality not quantity. If you feel inexperienced then fix that, get off tinder and approach some of these women, you'll never know until you try and that's the best way to get …
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:35 AM
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The purpose in seduction and game is to start meaningful relationships with women, falling in love, and carrying on your genes, if you're like me and absolutely enjoy sex then seduction is for you because it teaches men how to get the women they're attracted to. Also ignoring texts and playing hard to get are games you shouldn't play, being a "dick" as you say won't get you girls, instead focus on being yourself, being likeable and charming, ultimately women want romance, and are attracted to so…
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:09 AM
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So the story with that tall girl, don't worry about women can be tough sometimes, maybe she's just rude or she's having a bad day, I think openers are generally pretty straightforward, just make a comment about something and enter the conversation with high energy, ask questions and be charming
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:24 AM
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RSD is a joke, have you seen Julian and max, or Madison infield? I remember watching Julian and he literally was talking about rape and anal with lions or something to one girl he was picking up. Except for Todd these guys are not someone to emulate, I saw Todd's hot seat and his game is solid but it's not that difficult to pick up girls in Las Vegas and SEA, markets known for having very pretty and easy girls. I suggest you go on your own seduction journey and not rely on these guys, do the res…
/r/seduction17/04/26 04:26 AM
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You need to have an exciting lifestyle, high energy, and good solid communication skills, doing these things requires a lot of persistence and practice. I think a lot of the reason why women are attracted to wealthy men is not necessarily the money but what the benefits of this is, like being able to do the things you enjoy and provide for offspring. Travel, eating out, buying homes, buying cars, so focus on your grind school or work and try to leverage your best qualities as an individual
/r/seduction17/04/26 12:00 AM
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2 hours in flight time or driving lol, either way what's 2 hours, it's minuscule, if it was the girl of my dreams I'd figure it out, if it's just a hookup thing and nothing serious, either way I'd travel to China and back for sex that's just me
/r/seduction13/04/26 02:36 AM
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Enfp here! I'm good at getting into social circles, when people get to know you and it becomes entertaining and fun to chill, you should have that covered from a fellow intuitive personality, they key to getting into social circles is to not try too hard, bring something to the table, and give people space
/r/seduction12/04/26 11:44 PM
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I think that certain situations are more socially acceptable to approach, but because of this women often have shields to protect themselves in high volume approach environments like night clubs and bars. I think what you're observing is that you see women you find attractive during the day and wanna know how to open her without being weird or creepy. The blueprint for day game isn't too different from night game, you essentially want to approach, build attraction, make her comfortable and escal…
/r/seduction08/04/26 04:43 AM
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You have to be confident in yourself, women will date short guys you just have to have status and game, focus on improving yourself then move on to approaching the women you want. Hit the gym, eat healthy, day by day do approaches and try and remember every single detail, keep a log, when I do infield approaches I always write it down after, helps me reflect on what I could do better.
/r/seduction05/04/26 01:00 PM
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A lot of seduction is learning what to say and when, focus on improving your communication skills, openers are just the tip of the iceberg, there's a lot more going on, try making a comment about something that isn't related to her physical appearance. Say hey I like your shirt, I like your necklace, I thought you looked interesting so I wanted to say hi, improvise and be yourself
/r/seduction04/04/26 09:18 PM
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Bars and clubs, busy streets, malls, concerts and festivals, shops and stores, literally anywhere. Yes women love being approached, you have to do it right and be decently attractive
/r/seduction04/04/26 08:40 PM
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Lol came to say this Tldr, my friend yes and no is the answer op, some people naturally know how to make women feel comfortable, others have to learn through trial and error
/r/seduction01/04/26 08:38 PM
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Lol I hope I'm not cooked at 5'8 maybe I should just go home...but hey I'm also close to 240lbs with low body fat 😉 You need to start finding women who you connect with and genuinely like, if you're just looking for physical appearance and not appreciating her for her mind and really having fun in the relationship
/r/seduction30/03/26 06:26 AM
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It's called last minute resistance (or lmr for short), you need to smash that lmr by learning how to escalate your kino, push pull ,understand the timing, and slow things down and get to know her better. It's a 3 step process you go from attraction first so demonstrating value, get her comfortable with you then you seduce
/r/seduction30/03/26 12:14 AM
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So let's talk about it, firstly I always like to look on the bright side of things and be positive, you're a smart man which is a major advantage so capitalize on it, and you're extremely young (27 is a baby in my opinion you're not even in your prime yet). You also seem to have isolated your problem, you claim you live in a bad location which is hindering your access to night game scenarios, so focus on day game and use your intelligence as a superpower to attract women. Make an approach schedu…
/r/seduction29/03/26 04:49 AM
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I'm impressed you know your terminology well, I have good news for you, you can always get more attractive physically, hit the gym, eat healthier, take supplements, skin care routines, wear nicer clothes and spray a nice cologne. You can looks max and go from a 6.5 to an 8. As to your point pertaining to converting cold approaches with 0 IOIs, I don't know what you mean, women are different from each other and find different things attractive, some girls will be much more likely to show interest…
/r/seduction27/03/26 05:18 AM
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I think you may be misunderstanding what we do here...this sub is more about getting better with women in general not just singling out one woman, if you're in the friend zone good, it's good to have female friends, if you want something more then you need to build sexual tension and interest. Maybe give her some space and continue interacting with other girls and get better inner game, more confidence, better communication skills, and don't be scared to escalate
/r/seduction25/03/26 10:31 AM
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Lol you didn't mention that, that changes things a lot, it's either her wanting something serious or something casual or she doesn't see a future
/r/seduction23/03/26 10:47 PM
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I'm no mind reader, the only person that knows why she's behaving this way is her, you could be in the friend zone, she could be frustrated with you because you haven't made a move. It may be an unbalanced emotional connection, maybe you feel strongly about her, and she doesn't feel that way about you, it could also be her being scared or intimidated, she could be feeling insecure that she's not good enough.
/r/seduction23/03/26 10:45 PM
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You shouldn't sexualize your conversations so early on in the interaction, flirting is being charming, it's making her laugh and smile and associate good emotions with you
/r/seduction19/03/26 05:37 AM
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I'm not sure what you're doing wrong, a lot of guys are not really emotionally connecting with women, women crave romance and closeness, if you're not stirring up her emotions. It's like that episode of Seinfeld where Elaine is attracted to the "bad breaker upper", she is curious as to how these women react after an ended relationship, because a man that can stir up that kind of passion is enticing. Learning how to do this is hard, but if you can focus, just try and build rapport and get to know…
/r/seduction17/03/26 07:47 AM
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Nothing is wrong with that, the old saying is that 99% of guys don't approach during the day but it's the best time to meet women! Bars and clubs can be tough because women have bitch shields sometimes, they can be on guard and uncomfortable because men do things that make them feel that way, staring, following, inappropriate touching. Day game can be a nice change of pace
/r/seduction17/03/26 03:19 AM
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Dude welcome to the club, I am horny 24/7, use this to your advantage make it become your super power. In life you have to learn how to balance your time and your emotions, if you focus too much on sex then you'll have less time for other things, work, school, friends, sports, be driven to succeed and you will attract women to you like a magnet
/r/seduction11/03/26 04:46 AM
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Reading books, going to clubs doing approaches, watching videos and self reflecting
/r/seduction10/03/26 02:23 AM
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Too general of a question, read books and do some research, women aren't all the same some value certain qualities over others. Sometimes they want a rich man, sometimes they want a good looking man, status always matters
/r/seduction01/03/26 01:46 AM
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Yes, If you notice a woman in the gym trying to intentionally make you jealous, she might be doing this for a few reasons. Jealousy is a great tool in a man's seduction arsenal, trying to make her jealous does work but it can also backfire, certain people react to jealousy differently. The part of the brain that produces jealousy is also the pain centre of the brain.
/r/seduction28/02/26 06:04 AM
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Listen, make good conversation, touch her, be charming
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:20 AM
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It's good and bad, it's good because being popular amongst the ladies can make you more attractive, but it can also give you a negative reputation which can lead to her becoming overly jealous and resentful. I try and keep my sexual exploits as private as possible
/r/seduction15/02/26 06:43 AM
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27 is not old, in modern times with improvements in healthcare, pharmaceuticals, agriculture, transportation, infrastructure, your physical prime as man will be later, probably the age of 38 is perfect. At 38 you don't have any deteriorating physical abilities but yet you have the perfect amount of experience. Reading your post you sound pessimistic and you're lacking confidence, you need to be more positive and start taking action, start approaching women, start reading books, and watching vide…
/r/seduction13/02/26 10:23 PM
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Generalized question, maybe try and break down your strengths and weaknesses, what you need to work on, and look intrinsically. I suggest you get a booklet of paper and write stuff down, I wish I had done that earlier. How many women have you approached? Do you prefer night game or day game? How are your communication skills? Are you charismatic and funny, do you struggle with kino and escalation, are you better at the middle beginning or end. If you make a goal to do 100 approaches in a month, …
/r/seduction13/02/26 02:30 AM
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I don't know...you're looking for something canned, I understand you wanna prepare which is good but I think you should just let the date flow. Asking too many questions is bad, just make comments and listen and make good eye contact. You can write down a list of a few questions but it depends on the situation, I don't have magic information to make your date go well, it's like will smith in hitch said, 70% of communication is non verbal, so most of what you're communicating isn't coming out of …
/r/seduction12/02/26 12:13 AM
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I'll tackle this one for you, so I think you may be experiencing a non balanced form of attraction, it is possible you may be misinterpreting the situation. She may feel you are too invested into her too early, or she may not be sexually attracted to you, or she could be weary because you gave off a player vibe and she at her age is probably looking for something serious. You are also not understanding this sub, the good news is you have spent enough time (1 hour) to build comfort, but the bad i…
/r/seduction10/02/26 03:13 AM
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You need to be more confident and optimistic, nobody cares when you approach a woman, no need to feel guilty, no need to feel creepy or like you're harassing her, actually women love being approached! How many times have I seen women come on this sub, and say quote "how do I get guys to approach me more?". University is a great time in your life and you'll look back on your past experiences with happiness, especially the relationships you found with the people around you. There are tons of books…
/r/seduction28/01/26 11:24 PM
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It's ok to feel fear! We all do, it's that feeling of adrenaline pumping through your veins, your heart starts racing, I once approached a girl I was so nervous I was shaking after! Learn to enjoy that feeling, do it often enough you'll feel more comfortable. Also don't expect every interaction/approach to lead to sex, treat her with respect be cordial, and maybe you'll end up friends or together, you never know shoot your shot
/r/seduction25/01/26 06:24 AM
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Eat more fibre and take probiotics/eat yogurt
/r/seduction09/01/26 06:14 AM
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You have to look for signs, you also need to build comfort and attraction. Seduction is a 3 step process, attraction phase, comfort phase, then seduction. Signs to look for? Proximity, Kino, eye contact, staring at lips, and a really underrated sign, look at her eyes, specifically her pupils, pupils dilate when someone is interested in you in a sexual way
/r/seduction05/01/26 04:07 AM
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There are tons of tips and tricks to help you out in night game, I've been to clubs a ton in university, and done hundreds of approaches. The answer to your question is very difficult to just start explaining so instead I'll link a nice few videos that should certainly help you out in understanding what to do. I'll also summarize what the jist of each video is in case you don't watch the entire thing https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY?si=sqeJ7Y-Kr8bTN5Zs This first video is a lot shorter than the seco…
/r/seduction03/01/26 12:42 AM
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Vin DiCarlo is my favorite author, Pdf here https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57842571-pandora-s-box
/r/seduction03/01/26 12:11 AM
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Are you an intimidating person, do you scare women away because you're too valuable or you lack social understanding and make people feel uncomfortable, we don't really know what these girls mean...maybe try and disarm their beliefs by being cordial
/r/seduction26/12/25 08:47 PM
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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=GmfWLXgMYaI_BUFI
/r/seduction26/12/25 03:54 AM
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Women have and always been tough despite the year, if you find nobody is doing well in night game situations it's likely a lack of game or not enough attractive single women. Why do you think women go to clubs and bars? It's to meet guys, I've seen men get rejected instantly, I've also been to clubs and seen guys close and I've pulled before. It's certainly doable you just gotta do it right nothing lucky about it
/r/seduction21/12/25 12:33 PM
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I spent 4 years reading, doing approaches, watching videos and implementing new techniques and self reflecting after every interaction. I read books on psychology, game, and I was extremely persistent, it took me a long time to get where I am
/r/seduction15/12/25 10:35 PM
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Too general and broad/a newbie question this might taken down.... introspection my friend, you need to start analyzing your problems, just simply saying you're too scared to approach isn't gonna get you much of an answer from us. 50% of seduction is making an approach, you'll soon find that generating a warm approach and interaction gives you a chance to meet someone. Yea a lot of girls are tough and hard to approach, but then you'll meet some kind and friendly women that are interested in you a…
/r/seduction09/12/25 09:39 PM
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You're being too aggressive and pushy, if you're getting to the point of the make out and struggle to close, it's good that you're getting to first base. But if you want to seal the deal you need to increase the time spent with her, it usually takes 3-10 hours to go from meeting someone to sex, just pull away from the kiss, give her space and get to know her better. Also make sure your logistics are planned out, you have a way to her house or yours
/r/seduction08/12/25 05:54 AM
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Just ask and be confident, I have good news, there are billions of women on this planet, life is short, shoot your shot, worst case scenario you get rejected
/r/seduction08/12/25 05:48 AM
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It's not good to be dependent on alcohol to give you confidence, nothing wrong with having a drink but it shouldn't be something that's required.
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:22 AM
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https://pdfroom.com/books/a-mans-guide-to-the-female-world/PXn2G4Oe5xV My favorite pua author vin dicarlo check out this PDF
/r/seduction06/12/25 08:22 PM
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So let's say you sleep with 1/10 of the women you approach that's a success rate of 10%, that is ridiculously high and good. This post may get taken down because you're asking something that's very generalized, you need to be more specific as to what problems you're having. Just simply saying, I have trouble with closing, isn't enough information for me to properly help you. For this I say you go on a personal journey to learn more about female psychology and seduction, improving your kinestheti…
/r/seduction03/12/25 11:48 PM
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Umm don't take it personal, a lot of guys are trying to dm these girls, if she doesn't respond it may have absolutely nothing to do with you. The difference between a message and an approach in person is that you have more information on that person when first meeting them and getting to know them. You'll be more comfortable and familiar with someone you have met in person, you'll understand their mannerisms and learn much more about that person, where am I going with this? The answer to your qu…
/r/seduction03/12/25 02:36 AM
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Social status is directly correlated with attraction, we tend to be attracted to those seen as valuable, we value athletes, actors, musicians, and wealthy/successful people. Pre-selection is the idea that women are more attracted to men that have success with other women. Jealousy can be a very useful tool, but be warned it can also be bad, as a woman that is overly jealous is never a good thing. An overly jealous woman can become resentful, there are lots of ways to boost status.
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:40 AM
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Absolutely not, the manosphere gets a lot of hate from people who claim that men should "naturally" be good with women and the material teaches men to manipulate or use gimmicks to meet women. I couldn't disagree more, I was the perfect example of not being naturally good with women, I always had good communication skills but lacked the confidence and know how to start relationships with the opposite sex. If you have the money and you need direction there's nothing wrong with paying an expert to…
/r/seduction27/11/25 04:10 AM
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If you have to ask us, I'm not sure what to tell you if she's teasing you for having lots of girls it's probably a good thing, there's many responses
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:11 AM
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Focus on getting better at communicating and building sexual interest, making her laugh and building rapport. You need the reps to get better, be confident and patient
/r/seduction22/11/25 10:43 PM
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Lol, if you're short like me, 5'8, then muscles are the best way to get more attractive, muscles are important but there's a lot of factors at play that can make a woman attracted to you despite physical attractiveness. Money, personality, social skills and status play an important role as well. , I've noticed a significant change in my relationships when I hit puberty and got more muscular, i am currently around 233lbs with low body fat, and the biggest difference I noticed was that I got more …
/r/seduction22/11/25 01:53 AM
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You're getting friendzoned, having female friends is not a bad thing, but if you find that all your relationships are steering towards a friendship and no sex its possible that you could be not escalating at touching her. You could be too valuable and scaring her off, or she's not sexually attracted to you
/r/seduction11/11/25 11:27 PM
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Hit the dance floor, don't try and force a conversation if it's too loud, try and build rapport before asking for her number
/r/seduction08/11/25 05:33 AM
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It depends, there's clues to look for if she wants to make out, but not every woman wants to hook up on the first date
/r/seduction03/11/25 10:22 PM
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I disagree lol, if women aren't physically attracted to you then they are not sexually either, looks do matter, some women care more than others on physical appearance. You can have status and social skills and still be ugly
/r/seduction02/11/25 09:15 AM
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Tldr, after the title, "girl went cold after 4th date", she's not attracted to you, move on and improve your game
/r/seduction29/10/25 09:22 PM
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Nobody cares, you think it's wrong to be attracted to women, it's normal to be interested in her, just go up and talk to them, worse case scenario she rejects you
/r/seduction28/10/25 07:40 AM
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It's normal to feel fear, it's normal to not want to get rejected so my suggestion is to learn to develop thick skin, the biggest contributor to losing the fear of rejection is to have options. Don't fret if she says no, the saying is so true, there are plenty of fish in the sea! I suggest getting better game and skills with women, this sub isn't about singling out one woman, it's called oneitis, it's about getting better at building and starting relationships
/r/seduction27/10/25 09:32 PM
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Haha one of the biggest and most important aspects of seduction is finding the right girl that will give you the time of day. You have to look for clues then you strike, all the times I've had success it was finding the right one. Not every girl wants to sleep with you! How many times have I seen guys approach and get rejected. A lot of puas and teachers talk about the 'yes' girl instead of the 'no' girl, the yes girl is fun and interested, the no girl is cold
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:04 AM
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This might get taken down for being too general. I don't know what to tell you I think you need to be more introspective, if you're in university you're obviously intelligent. So when I say introspective I mean you have to understand your weaknesses, and your strengths. My strengths were my communication skills, looks, intelligence, leadership, and charisma. My weaknesses used to be lack of confidence, patience, escalation, and being too aggressive early on. If you wanna meet a girl you have to …
/r/seduction23/10/25 09:22 PM
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I think it's a great place to start if you just hit legal age, the first and only time I've been to a strip club was last year! I was 29, it's a great place to build confidence, women also feel good because they can show off their bodies, just like Reddit girls love to show off! The only problem with strip clubs is it's based off of greed, a lot of women really just want money, fortunately guys like me can help them achieve this goal without exploiting the sex industry, if you want money I know …
/r/seduction18/10/25 06:43 AM
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Don't ask for her number till you've built rapport first, use false time constraints and don't make comments on her physical appearance
/r/seduction15/10/25 10:49 PM
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Vh1s the pick up artist Keys to the vip Hitch (2005) Crazy stupid love (2011)
/r/seduction14/10/25 11:57 PM
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I consider myself nice, the difference though is I don't waste time when I escalate, naturally I'm very cordial and charming. I make her laugh and build rapport, make a connection so she thinks back and associates happy feelings when interacting with me. That's the best angle I find, I don't believe in intentionally being mean or rude, negs or whatever, in the end she just wants a successful smart man, who's good looking, and that's what I try and leverage, I think it's more important to have so…
/r/seduction14/10/25 11:56 PM
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Escalation through touch, building sexual tension, eye contact, body language
/r/seduction13/10/25 06:16 AM
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My man, be more confident and positive, don't get jealous of others and compare yourself. Man up and talk to women, have fun building relationships, be yourself, and get on your grind and work out to get stronger. Go to university and enjoy life. Be patient with women
/r/seduction12/10/25 05:29 AM
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Hahaha I love AI but come on man you're asking chatgpt how to talk to women! I'm all for technology but in this case I think it's a bad use of technology, if she says it could be fun it means that she's interested but she may not feel comfortable enough with you yet to go on a date. I suggest you formally ask her and if she says no...I've got good news, there are tons and I mean tons of women out there. A lot of guys post here questions like, what do I say to her? I matched with this girl on tin…
/r/seduction09/10/25 11:53 PM
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Failing to build sexual tension you say? There are a lot of ways to fix that, slow it down, make eye contact, touch her, just try and convey sexuality
/r/seduction09/10/25 04:28 AM
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Lol, tons, the game Neil Strauss, Pandoras box vin dicarlo, the attraction code vin dicarlo, models Mark Manson (haven't read this one myself)
/r/seduction08/10/25 09:38 PM
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I glowed up big time in high school lol, women are very smart and are good at hiding interest. Signs you're sexually attractive or she finds you good looking? Eye contact, smiling, proximity, she might touch you
/r/seduction08/10/25 07:43 PM
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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=4INas62qqwmcxBbS Have fun, be yourself, give her space
/r/seduction07/10/25 02:11 AM
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You shouldn't feel anxiety around women, we're all people we all want to socialize make friends and reproduce. I think you need to push yourself to get outside of your comfort zone, the more you interact with women the more comfortable and natural it'll feel
/r/seduction07/10/25 01:58 AM
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I don't know what you're asking, being friends with girls is never bad, in fact it's a good thing, but I don't think its a good idea to make friends with girls just to meet girls, that's manipulative behavior, instead just be yourself, you don't need to seduce every woman you meet. If you want to get into non platonic relationships you need to set the tone sort of with women you're sexually attracted to, that's done by touch, eye contact, or creating sexual tension
/r/seduction07/10/25 01:50 AM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY?si=0ySKsDLMoFn00m9D https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=d_0DaEFgOHR0y7o3
/r/seduction04/10/25 11:07 PM
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Pandora's box by vin dicarlo The attraction code vin dicarlo
/r/seduction04/10/25 07:51 PM
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Read the, dicarlo escalation ladder, I can summarize for you, there are different body parts that you can touch early and you escalate hence the name to more erogenous zones. Start by lower thigh, upper back, hands, then onto upper thigh, lower back, and lastly face and lips
/r/seduction02/10/25 08:06 PM
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Is it weird that you're attracted to her, no, who cares if it's awkward you gotta push yourself to do things that you're scared of. One of the things I often forget is that women know what you want, there's nothing wrong with craving intimacy and sex, its what makes us human, do something about it, I once knew a girl that said this, not verbatim, this guy liked her and she said, "even if he likes me, he doesn't have the balls to do anything about it" basically telling me it's not an issue of her…
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:30 AM
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Bro all of this writing for the simplest solution, go up to her and ask her out! Who cares when she's leaving, man up and take action, worst case scenario you get rejected, but I have news for you, there's other women out there than just her! Make her jealous, get in with her friends, invite her to events. In life the men that are brave and that take action will get the girls, university is a once in a lifetime experience, the relationships you create you will look back in with happiness
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:17 AM
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Dude you need to be more positive and confident, it's hard out there for men and women, work on your game, do approaches, read books, implement new techniques. It's not just communicating you need to focus on but kino, and just being casual and friendly. If you're in university spark up conversations with girls, shoot your shot, you'll never know until you try
/r/seduction01/10/25 03:35 AM
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Woman, would you be interested in possibly grabbing a grounded up beans with hot water drink possibly with sugar and cream?
/r/seduction29/09/25 11:09 PM
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Ask her questions, make comments, be playful, make jokes, relax and be confident
/r/seduction29/09/25 07:46 PM
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Tism brain lol, umm yea I don't think its appropriate to walk up to you and talk about your body before you get to know someone, if I walked up to a woman and said that she'd think I was a creep, anyways probably a sign she's attracted,maybe spark up a conversation
/r/seduction26/09/25 06:31 AM
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Yes, it happens all the time, might not be necessarily a good thing because if it ends poorly you could lose a friend! Always nice to have friends female and male, you get a lot out of a platonic relationship with women, she can help you meet other girls
/r/seduction23/09/25 10:12 PM
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Books, read books there are some life-changing mindsets in the seduction community, the game by Neil Strauss, read some vin dicarlo books, models is a good one I heard (haven't read it myself)
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:15 AM
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I know right, what did I even say? Was it offensive in some way lol
/r/seduction22/09/25 09:55 PM
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You're asking a very broad and generalized question, the answer is very complicated, you need to get better at speech/communication and you have to learn how to escalate with kino, there's a process you need to develop, And getting better at speech is a lifelong task, there's ways that improve, practice speaking, reading, writing and learning
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:08 AM
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Umm, I guess some girls are fast...I think a lot of these guys are making shit up, usually girls want to build comfort and get to know you before they want sex, I think even mystery says you usually push for sex around 3-10 hours after meeting her. I can understand that quick sex, a lot of times I've gotten laid by being direct and getting it fast, I got lucky when I was younger, but when I got into university I became more patient which really helped me
/r/seduction21/09/25 02:11 AM
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It's not the opener that's important, it's the middle part and the end part, be yourself, ask questions, make comments be charming
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:31 AM
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Absolutely it's called ghosting, and no you don't have control, all you can do is build rapport and comfort, but people have the freedom to make their own choices
/r/seduction14/09/25 12:32 AM
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I don't think direct game is a good approach in the early stages of getting to know her. It may scare her off if you're showing sexual interest before,if you go direct it may make her uncomfortable, and if you hide your intent it will get her hamster wheel spinning, shell start wondering if you're attracted to her and make her chase you
/r/seduction12/09/25 09:27 PM
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Be yourself and pay attention to your body language, makes a huge difference
/r/seduction11/09/25 12:18 AM
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I don't know what to tell you..pull the trigger, fortune favors the brave, I believe you'll be more confident and comfortable with approaching if you have good social and communication skills, and you do it more often. I love that feeling of adrenaline pumping before an approach, open your mouth and use your speech, we as humans spend time in school learning so we can be effective communicators
/r/seduction06/09/25 04:50 AM
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Don't confuse niceness with attraction and flirting, to gauge her sexual interest you must pay attention to her behavior around you, dilated pupils, mirroring, playing with hair, eye contact things like this to indicate interest
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:55 AM
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https://archive.org/details/vin-di-carlo-pandora-39s-box-complete-pua-system
/r/seduction01/09/25 06:00 AM
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This is a big problem, hard to find a good wing and it can be a huge difference having one, especially in those sets of multiple girls. Sometimes when I approach solo, the friend gets jealous and takes her away, if you have a wing you can occupy both girls and allow for greater success.
/r/seduction01/09/25 05:56 AM
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People said it, hit the gym bro, it's the best way to make yourself more attractive, also buy nice clothes, wear cologne, and eat healthy. I think the last suggestion is underrated, a lot of guys eat too much junk food, I find myself feeling much better when I eat the right foods. Other than that there's not anything else you can do to improve your physical attractiveness, but you can improve your game and social skills, status, wealth.
/r/seduction30/08/25 11:03 PM
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Umm I think if you live in a society where talking to strangers is considered abnormal is not good. We should be able to spark a conversation with anyone anywhere, I understand women are weary of men they don't know but we literally wouldn't be here if it wasn't for our ancestors mating with each other
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:46 PM
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I actually saw this rare video of him infield a long time ago, he picked up this Russian chick at a bar, it was actually very impressive best I've ever seen
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:43 PM
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I met her at a party I was friends with her roommate. We went to a nightclub and I closed later that night, I'm really smooth and good at being charming. I escalated slowly+ gave her tons of space
/r/seduction28/08/25 06:59 AM
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I've done it, honestly you have to be charming and confident
/r/seduction28/08/25 06:17 AM
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The best pua is Richard la ruina by far, he's married and his wife isn't outrageously hot but it's nice for him, I've seen him infield absolutely incredible, the best teacher is mystery, he does seminars and stuff, plus vh1s the pick up artist is incredible how he turns these guys into true players
/r/seduction27/08/25 03:49 AM
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I think you're trying to manipulate too much, just be genuine + there's tons of other women out there
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:15 AM
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Look at the DiCarlo escalation ladder, it's likely you need to touch her more to develop a sexual relationship
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:55 PM
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Bro if she's telling you you're being too forward, not a good sign, maybe dial it back a bit and be a bit more patient. Escalation tips are just touching, just start with light touches, shoulders, upper back
/r/seduction23/08/25 05:47 AM
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You have to be confident, are you good looking? If not hit the gym and exercise, eat healthier, have you tried speech therapy?
/r/seduction18/08/25 11:23 PM
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Emotional intimacy and romance is the ultimate weapon in seduction, if you can connect with her you're ahead of the vast majority of men, look at divorce rates these days, back in the day it was around 50% or so. Imagine that, half of all marriages end in divorce, if your relationship with her is one that's built on love and charm, then she'll be content, and you'll get along better. However if you're looking to hook up with more women and not interested in long term relationships, maybe you're …
/r/seduction18/08/25 08:07 PM
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Being nice isn't bad, being a pushover is, and also if you're getting numbers and she's not replying there could be many reasons for this, one of the reasons could be lack of comfort or attraction in the early stages of your interaction, it also be her having a boyfriend or husband, or it could be you doing everything right but yet she still rejects you, maybe she thinks you're too good for her, maybe you're to good looking or wealthy. I don't think it's because you're being too nice, the nature…
/r/seduction16/08/25 10:44 PM
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Could be you talking with a girl and her seeming interested, could be you having a child, you may have a girlfriend, she knows about past partners (retroactive preselection), all of these especially if your with attractive women
/r/seduction16/08/25 10:30 PM
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Be social get involved in school activities, exercise, eat healthy, workout, do well in school, meet girls, but most important is to have fun. I would spark up conversations on campus with girls I knew
/r/seduction15/08/25 08:11 AM
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Social skills and status, good looks
/r/seduction13/08/25 07:06 PM
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The attraction code Vin DiCarlo Pandora's box Vin DiCarlo
/r/seduction13/08/25 05:28 PM
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Don't ask chat gpt or any app lol, just talk to her this is what I think of a bad use of technology man, be authentic and be yourself
/r/seduction12/08/25 01:23 AM
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I remember watching vh1s the pickup artist! I learned a lot from that show and it really resonated with me because I went through a similar challenge myself when I started my seduction journey, I was hopeless with women. Never heard from Tara again, she probably got married and settled down with some kids, she was very pretty and helped a lot of guys on the show with the female perspective. If you read any manosphere material a lot of it was generated from talking to women asking them what they …
/r/seduction11/08/25 12:28 AM
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Dude honestly you're asking because you're jealous? Who cares if your friend is DMing randos on instagram and who cares how good looking they are. Focus on yourself, at 5'6 130lbs is very small, maybe he has game or money, either way it doesn't help yourself. I am not a supporter of OLD and apps for meeting women, call me old fashioned but I'll take my chances with a in person cold approach than trying to slide in on the DMs
/r/seduction10/08/25 02:32 AM
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You can absolutely but it becomes an issue of how hard you're willing to work at getting better with women. At your age you should be going to university to better yourself and find a career that will earn you more money, you should exercise and strength train, while improving your social skills. I once was hopeless with women and after years of studying material I got better, much better I lost my virginity one month before my 17th birthday, but it wasn't until my freshman year of university th…
/r/seduction09/08/25 11:59 PM
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Absolutely you can, but it depends on what she thinks is a prize
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:05 AM
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If I knew how to teach you how to do this, it's about charm and rapport, you have to be kind, you have to be funny
/r/seduction08/08/25 03:25 AM
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Go for it
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:13 PM
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Only if you want kids
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:11 PM
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Kind of a big age gap no? It's up to you but if your relationship goes south you'll lose her as a friend
/r/seduction07/08/25 10:09 PM
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Man up, instead of asking for her number as her out on a date, be direct, worst case scenario she'll say no, no harm done
/r/seduction07/08/25 08:22 PM
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Look for lairs in Oslo if there is one, a lair is a place for men to meet and drink scotch and smoke cigars and form bonds in the name of meeting women. Women are usually not permitted into the lair unless it's for seduction purposes only, I also mentioned an idea of a someone making an app for this specific purpose, an app to help guys find other guys around their skill level to sarge with https://www.gameglobal.net/groups/
/r/seduction07/08/25 07:16 PM
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My university experience was brief but I had some success with women, be social! Get involved in things around campus, sports, clubs, bars, school driven events. Talk to girls on campus, make friends and enjoy your time. Also don't forget to get good marks, also ask women if they want to study, if you're smart that can help the situation
/r/seduction06/08/25 10:55 PM
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Dude forget openers lol, it does work but you have to know how to do it right!
/r/seduction06/08/25 04:26 AM
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https://www.fastseduction.com/ Look at pair wingman
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:15 PM
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You do it so often that you'll feel more comfortable, the feeling you're going through is because we as men fear approaching for a couple reasons, one you're not sure if she's in a serious relationship, two you're scared she may reject you. I love that feeling of approaching, the adrenaline rushing through you, your heart starts pounding, you start shaking, it's an intense feeling. But you gotta learn to let this fear drive you
/r/seduction05/08/25 08:55 PM
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Get a wing or learn to engage all girls in the group, trust me I've been there as well, the friend will get jealous and try and sabotage the set
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:54 AM
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There are lots of great books out there, but if you're muscular from going to the gym, rich or wealthy, intelligent and educated this will certainly attract a large majority of women. This will excite her as you can provide a fun lifestyle, and help mentor her as well whatever her goals may be.
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:36 PM
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It sounds like you're jealous, honestly jealousy is a really tough emotion to process if you let it. I don't know if this guy is a true friend or a bad one, but if he is a good friend pick his brain! Ask him how he does it I'm sure he'd be willing to help teach you his ways and share
/r/seduction04/08/25 06:44 AM
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https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE?si=gzRc1O7T26LKlnOF It's long but it's really good
/r/seduction04/08/25 02:17 AM
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I have my night game formula which I have tried and implemented into every bar or night game situation. Approach girls, talk to them, make friends, bounce around working the room, hit the dance floor, don't be creepy, staring, getting too close, following. Finding the girl I like, making friends with her friends she's with and building rapport, isolating her, escalating with light touches, making a move, give her space, get her number or take her home, always be high energy and have fun, walk ar…
/r/seduction03/08/25 02:06 AM
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Be her friend, who cares if she has a bf it sucks that you can't have a relationship with a girl without having sex, it's nice to have female friends it'll help you understand girls better lol
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:58 AM
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This just sounds sad my man, it's tough that you have feelings for her and it sounds like she doesn't reciprocate, maybe you're just falling for girls easily because of sex, but a relationship requires interest from both sides, give it up. My suggestion is to go out and actively pursue other girls, cause I'm sure she'll see other guys, and try and put this one past you, you haven't given us details about the relationship, maybe it's her fault, maybe it's yours who knows
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:55 AM
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https://youtube.com/@puatrainingmedia?si=xXzEAaDZxlsxTg1E https://archive.org/details/vin-di-carlo-pandora-39s-box-complete-pua-system https://www.fastseduction.com/files/guide/03_approaching/01_approaches.html
/r/seduction02/08/25 05:42 AM
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The answer to your question is kinda, naturally I'd focus on other aspects of your life at age 23, focus on going to university and making money. You can't change your genetics, you can however improve and get better, you can hit the gym you can buy nice clothes, but essentially getting game requires improvements in your speech, as well as confidence, charisma, understanding timing, being patient, and building rapport with women you're approaching. It's ok you're getting rejected when approachin…
/r/seduction02/08/25 05:22 AM
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Just keep a log and write it down after, I improved by reflecting on the entire set and pay attention to her reactions
/r/seduction02/08/25 05:04 AM
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Agreed, but unless mr. 1000 is 65 years old which I doubt, how do you have the time to meet that many women, I have other shit I gotta do in life, gotta find a balance or you'll end up broke
/r/seduction01/08/25 04:29 AM
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My thoughts exactly that seems a bit excessive, I like the field report it's interesting content but if you're having sex with that many women that becomes a problem of being too promiscuous
/r/seduction01/08/25 03:57 AM
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The answer is 100% yes, it's simple supply and demand, more supply, lower demand, more available attractive single girls, also good looking women tend to be less extremely feminist
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:56 AM
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Who knows, take your pick, could be a plethora of reasons and not all of them are necessarily a bad thing. Women are tough and oftentimes are looking for different things than other women. Maybe she's getting older and wants to settle down with a good looking wealthy man, maybe she's looking for casual sex, but ultimately all women want romance. She could also sense you might have game or value and feels threatened or insecure, and doesn't want to seem easy and her anti slut defense kicks in. Yo…
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:52 AM
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Bro are you sure it's your text game that sucks? I'm pretty certain dating apps are not a good barometer, all guys get rejected on apps. Maybe try doing some real world approaches during the day or at bars and clubs
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:23 PM
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It's great that you are successful in your career, I'm happy for you, on that note, if you find girls are trying to talk about their achievements, or brag about their lives it's a good and bad sign as well. The good thing is if you find she is behaving this way she may be threatened by you, the bad thing is this is a sign of egotistical behavior which is not a good quality. The answer to your question is that ALL women, not just successful ones, are intimidated by successful men. In fact other t…
/r/seduction29/07/25 06:14 AM
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http://www.fastseduction.com ?
/r/seduction28/07/25 05:36 AM
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Go to bars and nightclubs if you're of age, go to music festivals and concerts, approach, meet people make friends
/r/seduction28/07/25 02:33 AM
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Go to university or some post secondary at your age it's the perfect place to meet women, make friends, form business relationships and earn more money
/r/seduction28/07/25 02:29 AM
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What do you need help with? sounds like maybe you're scared of how to handle her, that we can help with because one of the most important strengths you can have in seduction isn't just getting the girl but keeping her. My suggestion is to ask her out on a formal date, and then focus on communication skills, and give her enough space in the relationship. Yea and learn to bond with her and create emotional connections and that familiar spark
/r/seduction27/07/25 09:46 PM
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Idk maybe what you said doesn't translate well into English, but I don't understand are you not attracted to her? If you've rejected kissing her twice why would you need to ask us if it's clear she's interested in you sexually. This sub teaches men to get the girl, not interpreting mixed signals when she clearly wants you lol
/r/seduction27/07/25 09:32 PM
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This is gonna get taken down, too broad too general. I've been there, it takes time to develop skills with women but you need to be positive, trust it's hard out there for everyone especially men, it's hard for women too, maybe get out and be social you're so young, make friends and do well in school and your career instead of just focusing on sex, if you do well in other aspects of life women will want to be apart of your life
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:01 PM
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Speech is a very complex topic, we as humans naturally psychologically profile others based on the way they talk, so much can be learned, accent, educational background, tone, stuff like that. I suggest asking questions, try and tease a bit and be funny, I'm naturally very charming
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:41 PM
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The answer to your question you need to combine both of your points, yea it's counterintuitive to approach solely on the fact you're generating direct interest simply by approaching. My suggestion is when you engage women you try to build rapport fast, in fact your speech will instantaneously generate attraction, gotta be confident and be charming, this will disable her bitch shield early on
/r/seduction26/07/25 06:46 AM
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Of course! My inbox is always open, but I'm not sure how much help I'll be...
/r/seduction25/07/25 02:40 AM
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It depends on the situation which adjustments I'll make, sometimes I miss subtle cues, I'll make adjustments like increased eye contact, more kino or touching, indicators of interest, proximity, body language, measuring her attraction towards me, knowing when to ask for her number, shit like that
/r/seduction25/07/25 02:32 AM
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My advice is to keep some kind of a log, after each set you write down everything that happened, things you noticed, her reception or behavior towards you, indicators of interest stuff like that. I believe self-reflection is a major key to success especially for myself, I made adjustments after my approaches, I think it helped me with my escalation and timing
/r/seduction25/07/25 01:23 AM
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Mystery lives in Toronto with his brother, I think he's trying to emigrate to California, Neil Strauss got married and divorced, had a prominent writing career for the New York Times, don't know what those guys are up to these days
/r/seduction23/07/25 01:54 AM
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Maybe your classmates are assholes, it sounds like these guys are stuck up, maybe try to find some genuine people to connect with. I'm not sure how this is a seduction post, we usually teach men how to be successful with women not learning how to break into social circles. I myself am really good at getting into social circles, be charming, be patient and it will happen
/r/seduction22/07/25 10:12 PM
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Don't use chat gpt lol I saw a guy used chatgpt for his tinder profile, instead learning to text is like an extension of your in person speech skills
/r/seduction21/07/25 11:19 PM
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Don't be jealous, instead focus on improving yourself, read books, approach, and watch videos to improve your game
/r/seduction21/07/25 12:04 AM
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No not necessarily, I think what you have to realize is that women are different from each other and have different personalities and communication styles. So it's different you have to do some psychological profiling which we all do naturally when first meeting someone. You have to adjust, but I think you'll get more comfortable with approaching when you've done it a lot
/r/seduction20/07/25 07:43 AM
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What should I be saying when I approach? You said it, if only we all knew how to say the perfect words to get the girl, what if I told you you've been training your speech skills your entire life, waking up going to school to learn and expanding your mind, so you know how to talk! Talking to women is easy, in fact most of the time I don't even talk I let her talk! They love to talk about themselves all people do, don't be creepy, invading personal space, being rude, or following her, not good.
/r/seduction20/07/25 07:14 AM
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I think certain men like to paint a picture of them having success and women being easy, in fact it's becoming increasingly difficult to meet a partner, women are tough, always have been, especially in modern times, things are hard, I've seen so many videos of men getting instantly rejected even before they open their mouths. These guys have style, looks, game and still women reject them, I honestly believe one of the most important aspects to having success is to find the right girl, the ones w…
/r/seduction18/07/25 10:29 PM
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Being intelligent is a huge turn on for some women, I think we as humans spend time in school to be educated and being able to converse on different topics, I suggest reading books and watching cinema or tv, watching sports and being engaged in pop culture and various scientific and complex topics.
/r/seduction18/07/25 03:17 AM
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Too general of a question, introspectively you need to assess your strengths and weaknesses, what you need to improve to get girls, are you shy, are you good at talking, are you bold and confident. You need to do approaches around campus, socialize, exercise, and most importantly do well in university! That's what my main focus was in school. It's a great time to meet girls and make friends, I'd always chat up girls around campus, be friendly
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:38 AM
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It's nice to have female friends, if you find all the women you're attracted to are seeing you as a friend there could be many different reasons for that. You need to shift your relationship from platonic to sexual, but you first need to understand what women get from being friends with you! It could be you being a sensitive person, good communicator, and she may view you as a mentor or someone who can help her achieve her goals, academically and career wise, as well as someone she can confide i…
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:28 AM
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Never read that book but I disagree with some of your points, I think you may think these men that are jerks are dating beautiful women, but trust these women feel no emotion with men like that, I knew many guys in school that were assholes and they were getting laid, but they were just popular, I myself am a huge liberal and nice person and I try my best to help women, this lead to me also getting laid in high school, and had a reputation as a player. Being mean doesn't get you laid, being your…
/r/seduction17/07/25 05:08 AM
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Secretly yes they do, and by opinions I think you meant options, but there are some conditions. Imagine a y axis and x axis, on the x is jealousy, on the y is attraction, if she gets too jealous she will eventually get resentful, or angry at you.
/r/seduction16/07/25 07:33 AM
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You said most of them, crazy stupid love, hitch, but others I'd mention, think like a man, and limitless which shows the power of being successful and being intelligent,another one is swingers as well, Hall pass which is really realistic
/r/seduction16/07/25 01:15 AM
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I have bad news for you and some good news, the bad news that if you're getting rejected by the friend it's a sign you're not approaching properly, or it could be her getting jealous because you're showing her friend attention. The simple solution is to engage all girls when approaching groups and building rapport, the good news is you're already approaching so that's half the battle, learn to charm groups of girls, being confident, making them laugh
/r/seduction15/07/25 05:33 AM
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I always dreamt of having sex when I was younger, I absolutely love women, but I wasn't always as competent with ladies like I am now. Took me 4 years of reading books, watching videos, tv shows like keys to the vip and vh1s the pickup artist, doing approaches, and reflecting on these interactions. If you want I can suggest some great free pua resources check out this book https://archive.org/details/vin-di-carlo-pandora-39s-box-complete-pua-system It's a psychological book on female behavior pl…
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:55 AM
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Night game for me will always be my favorite, I'll explain why, clubs have dance floors which is one of the easiest ways to get women without doing much talking. I don't think you should take the conversation angle, save that for day game. Instead learn how to use non verbal openers, walk slowly (gives you time to start interactions instead of walking fast with your head down) and learn to use your body language, as well as reading the room, and also the main advantage of clubs is some mystery m…
/r/seduction13/07/25 10:27 PM
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Pandora's box - Vin DiCarlo The attraction code - Vin DiCarlo The game - Neil Strauss
/r/seduction13/07/25 06:21 AM
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Indirect game is the only angle I ever take, I believe if you display interest early it can turn her off, when you first meet someone and bring up sex really fast it can make her uncomfortable, if you don't show interest treat her like a friend it will get her hamster wheel spinning. She'll start to question herself, is he interested? She won't know, and women love to chase, not to be chased, if you can create some rapport early, being smooth and charismatic, it will make her more attracted to y…
/r/seduction12/07/25 09:19 PM
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In my life growing up I was an only child, lol so much boredom, I learned how to be independent and take care of myself, maybe you should learn to enjoy your own company and stop smothering her, all relationships are better when you give that person space
/r/seduction12/07/25 02:49 AM
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I don't know what to tell you, your question is very general, I can give you some tips as to what to do in night game situations. Move slowly around the club, don't be creepy and stare and make her uncomfortable, pay attention to body language, and use kino escalation, the dancefloor is your friend
/r/seduction12/07/25 01:08 AM
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Your friends are right, gotta have something that makes you valuable, lucky for you there are many ways to improve especially for men, hit the gym, read the books and go to university, focus on other aspects of your life and women will flock to you, women love an exciting lifestyle
/r/seduction10/07/25 09:04 PM
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It sounds like you got your stuff together, might be you just being insecure about being bald, it shouldn't matter that much, maybe it's a game issue so work on that. Read books, watch videos, do approaches, keep a log, adjust. Start off with my man https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE?si=G4nl46yUda03XHTj For night game And read some vin DiCarlo books
/r/seduction09/07/25 05:58 AM
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https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE?si=MriqW0wtThDrk9QK It's long but it's got great stuff
/r/seduction05/07/25 11:37 PM
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So it's kind of a difficult question to answer as there are many different types of women and their personalities vary, so what they find attractive is different from woman to woman. In societies with women in high power positions and high earners, lower gender gaps, these women will be more attracted to looks, as they don't need a provider because they have their own. In societies where women lack financial opportunities then they're more likely to choose men with money. Also sometimes women ar…
/r/seduction05/07/25 01:53 AM
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I think you need to develop a natural comfort with women, maybe don't think of her as a sexual target and treat her in a platonic way, then you can escalate and form sexual relationships, women are people and treat them as such, the reason you're freezing is because you're being too invested in her too fast
/r/seduction04/07/25 05:28 AM
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It's really good you're taking action, and have the gym and the money down, a lot of men struggle with focusing on their academic responsibilities, and acquiring financial resources. Now my suggestion to you is to keep a log, read some books, watch videos and incorporate night game into your plans. Finding men to club with or going solo and doing approaches, night game situations are ideal because you don't have to do a ton of talking, it's more socially acceptable to approach in those situation…
/r/seduction03/07/25 04:06 AM
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The best pua tv shows are keys to the vip, and vh1s the pickup artist, check them out, conversation is a complex topic, you have to ask questions and comment on her answers
/r/seduction01/07/25 05:43 AM
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I actually disagree with people here saying it's a bad thing to ask her to smoke a joint, weed gets a bad stigma, if you mentioned grabbing a drink nobody would have said anything...but I digress if she asked you to meet at a restaurant then that's what you should do, she probably has an anti slut defense and doesn't want you to think she's fast or easy, so she's saying I'm not comfortable enough with sex yet, maybe she's looking for a serious relationship, I don't think you mentioned her or you…
/r/seduction01/07/25 03:33 AM
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You're basically asking how do I meet women and develop game, I suggest reading books, watching infield videos, and doing approaches, start by reading vin DiCarlo then watch vh1s the pickup artist or keys to the vip!
/r/seduction01/07/25 03:20 AM
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I have a personal anecdote to share that is pertinent to your situation/problem, one night a long time ago just before my freshman year of university I was hanging out with some girls, one of them I had huge crush on for a long time, but I never did anything about it, she even came over to my house once and I didn't make a move. Anyways this one night I was talking with her on the phone before we met up and she was kinda drunk, everyone told me to go with her (drinking and driving is bad) to the…
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:46 AM
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It's probably your lack of emotional connection, women crave romance
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:58 PM
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Concerts, coffee shops, bowling, parties, dinner
/r/seduction25/06/25 09:08 PM
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Women are tough, don't get discouraged, it could be you misjudging the situation, it could also be her being scared off by you or intimidated. She may think, Hmm this guy was smooth, might be a player, too good looking for her. Just keep on approaching and getting better game
/r/seduction24/06/25 02:56 AM
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You gotta learn how to communicate and be charming, there's no canned material that will get you the girl every time! Ask her questions, comment on her answers be funny and be confident
/r/seduction23/06/25 02:38 AM
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I stopped showing direct interest, stopped trying too hard, got more confidence
/r/seduction21/06/25 05:34 AM
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Sounds pessimistic, you shouldn't compare yourself to other men, if you aren't muscular enough hit the gym, if you want money get on your grind and go to university, always be focusing on getting better, day by day, instead of wasting time doing nothing, read books, do research, learn to code, learn math, be productive in your life and you'll see the benefits
/r/seduction20/06/25 01:05 AM
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If you want your partner to be faithful you have to satisfy her needs and provide her with romance and an exciting lifestyle, sometimes women will be in great relationships and still cheat, while others are in bad ones and don't cheat at all, it's an issue of character and empathetic ability.
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:18 AM
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I think humans subconsciously associate certain accents with educational attainment and success, my accent is Pacific north west, I love all accents and am immediately curious when I hear people speaking foreign languages, if I hear Spanish I wanna know where you're from, Latin America? Spain? Are you speaking German? Are you from Austria? Is that Swahili I hear? It's always a great conversation starter
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:20 AM
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Personally I'm a big fan of vin DiCarlo and natural game, it teaches you to get girls by being yourself, no gimmicks, no manipulation, just a genuine approach, don't force anything, sprinkle in a little mystery method and you have a very effective way of meeting women
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:57 AM
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Yea umm attractive women have options and are often taken, I've been there! Just a tip if I were you I wouldn't ask her if she has a bf, I'm not encouraging infidelity, but if you ask her for her number or her out on a date and she says, "I have a boyfriend" this is a really good sign, because if she wasn't interested she would have said no straight up! This will give you confidence and keep approaching till you find the perfect single girl!
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:55 AM
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Hmm sorry to hear that, it's possible that you maybe catching feelings before and giving too much direct interest, women love to chase! When you fall in love one of the best and most important parts of this is the reciprocation from her, that's what makes the bond so intense is you both feel strong feelings. It's also possible you could be too good on your dates, and this will scare her off, she thinks, if he can stir up these emotions with me, he can do it with another woman. But stay positive …
/r/seduction04/06/25 05:16 AM
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The problem with your question is none of us are there, haven't seen footage, and also nobody knows what she's thinking but her. You have to pay attention to other aspects of her behavior, is she smiling, how's the eye contact, are her pupils dilated, is she blushing, the biggest tell tale sign as well is mirroring, and look at her feet, that will tell you what you need to know more than just touching her wrist
/r/seduction02/06/25 09:06 PM
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There's three stages of seduction, first attraction, second comfort and lastly hence the name seduction. So it sounds like you need help with the last stage, the last stage requires touching and escalation, while maintaining proper body language and keeping your frame. Seduction essentially says yes she's attracted to you, she feels comfortable, now you have to pull the trigger and seal the deal. Space is key in this stage
/r/seduction02/06/25 08:57 PM
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In the grand scheme of things it does not matter, as long as you're not being rude, there're a lot of different ways to handle this situation. If you have to ask us...be more confident in yourself
/r/seduction01/06/25 08:34 PM
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The old saying, doctors get laid
/r/seduction30/05/25 11:13 PM
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There's an escalation ladder, DiCarlo escalation ladder, essentially it's a system for progressing through with kino while interacting with women. I suggest you take things slow and not pressure her or anything, be patient and show her you're willing to wait. This will help offset her anti slut defense, just get to know her better as a person, and treat her as such
/r/seduction29/05/25 01:47 AM
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Interesting take I can relate because I was the perfect example of ugly duckling. I finally hit puberty, put on a ton of muscle mass, got taller (still pretty short at 5'8), my skin got nicer and even my facial features improved. The old action reaction theory of Isaac Newton's can apply in real life not just physics, I still was like the perfect child growing up though, was always popular, good social skills, got good grades, athletic, smart, but I wasn't physically as attractive. I had to work…
/r/seduction26/05/25 10:33 PM
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Bars and clubs and don't drink, have "a cranberry juice", great places to meet women? Busy streets, university campuses (if you go there don't be a creeper), malls, and my favorite concerts and music festivals, but a ticket and campout best way to meet girls in my opinion
/r/seduction26/05/25 04:29 AM
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I went out during university usually Friday Saturday every weekend, maybe 15-20 approaches a night
/r/seduction24/05/25 09:29 PM
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For me, 4 years, there's no fixed time it'll be different for everyone, if you really study material and do approaches, keep a log in sure you'll see significant progress, maybe 1-2 years you'll be proficient
/r/seduction24/05/25 08:46 PM
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Huh, doesn't ever happen to me, I think of seduction as riding a bicycle, if you're streaky there's some flaws in your game, when I interact with the opposite sex I'm just being myself, I'm not trying to "neg", or "peacock", or "push pull", calling it a "set", HBs, all those pua terms. What I studied is called natural game, that's what Vin DiCarlo"s books teach, it's learning to seduce her by being yourself and not trying too hard, using social skills and charm.
/r/seduction20/05/25 11:46 PM
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https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE?si=RXVEhT-9SovtdwLq It's long but it's got a lot of good stuff
/r/seduction18/05/25 09:09 PM
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What I've learned is the three step seduction process, attraction first, comfort second and seduction last. To make her feel comfortable you have to build rapport, spend time with her and give her space. Get to know her as a person, ask her questions and learn more about her. You know that feeling when you first get to know someone, after a while you'll start to feel that comfort
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:49 AM
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It's completely normal to feel fear, that's the emotion you're describing, it increases our heart rates, dilates our pupils, people with a pale skin tone will blush, It's the feeling of adrenaline. My advice is simple, you can't expect every approach to be successful, just go talk to her and see how it goes, read her body language and her interest, and this way you won't feel bad about not approaching, the best players use this fear and adrenaline for good, which drives us to talk to these women…
/r/seduction14/05/25 01:52 AM
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Read books, watch videos, eat healthy
/r/seduction11/05/25 08:24 PM
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Your question is way too broad, what do you struggle with? What are your strengths as a person? Mine is my fast ability to generate a conversation, bravery, and charm. I can instantly build rapport with girls, my weaknesses are my impulsiveness, and I struggle with timing sometimes. Read books, approach, watch videos, get involved socially, go to bars and clubs. One thing that really helped me is mystery method as well as my hiding direct sexual interest, I'm naturally a very balanced and inclus…
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:17 AM
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It's good to have female friends, it sounds like you have a mild case of oneitis, if you want to convert your relationship from platonic to sexual you need to escalate and touch her, leading to a kiss. But you have to understand the value of your friendship with her, she may not want to have sex because it may take away what she has with you as a friend. You support her, talk to her, and help her with her social problems, maybe you have a lot of information and can help her succeed in her academ…
/r/seduction10/05/25 01:43 AM
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It's hard for me to pinpoint one specific tip, so many have helped, but I think the most impactful advice I got was on a forum, a girl told a story that she posted about "the law of least effort" essentially what she said was don't try too hard to get girls, be yourself and stay relaxed
/r/seduction06/05/25 04:03 AM
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Clubs can be difficult for this specific problem, in my experience trying to force a conversation in a loud night club is never a good approach. So how do you seduce? Body language, it's been scientifically proven that a large portion of communication is non verbal, so dance with her, give her space, and try to build value in the venue by dancing with multiple girls, and show women in the club you're having a good time and being brave. Also I suggest in clubs you don't stare and make women feel …
/r/seduction05/05/25 12:18 AM
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Yea umm have you ever heard of improv comedy? It's hilarious and difficult to do, you have to come up with a conversation on the fly, I'm not sure exactly how to convey to you the exact words to say to her to generate a relationship, if you knew how to do that you'd already hav better game than most men on this planet. I like to ask questions and steer the conversation, make her laugh, maybe tease her a bit, be sarcastic, charming, and memorable. I think speech is a complex and important topic, …
/r/seduction30/04/25 02:06 AM
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Text game is an extension of your speech, if you can't talk in real life you can't talk via texting, speech is a very complex topic, many paths to take when talking with women. Are you a good communicator? Try to get better at talking, asking questions, making comments about her answer, control the conversation to try and build chemistry and rapport
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:19 AM
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What do you mean by closing, or securing the date, I find space is the best way to close, you give her space it helps build comfort with someone
/r/seduction25/04/25 09:22 AM
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You're isolating this one woman, you need to understand there are other girls out there, if you can't get the opportunity to talk to her, try going to bars and clubs
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:38 AM
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Idk maybe your friend dynamic is off, usually when I'm with the crew we work together to get girls...this is the way, you shouldn't have to "stand out", just be yourself
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:32 AM
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My bad (where I live legal drinking age is 18) take her to a restaurant, I'm sure she'd like that
/r/seduction24/04/25 01:37 AM
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Lol, what a luxury it is to ask her out and you quote "didn't think that far ahead" , come on man you went straight for it and she was asking you where lol, that's the power of being socially near someone (you're in the same class), be confident next time, ask her to a quiet bar and have some food and drinks
/r/seduction23/04/25 11:30 PM
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Welcome to the club, meet a girl! Start approaching, reading books, watching infield videos, gathering information and study
/r/seduction23/04/25 08:46 PM
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The best infield video I ever seen got taken down, there's not really any quality stuff out there in my opinion, oh yea the video was Richard la ruina in London picking up this Russian chick, never seen anything quite like that before. Richard la ruina is married now, girl he married isnt the best looking but who knows what he likes
/r/seduction23/04/25 03:57 AM
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I missed some shots, but I hit some too, body language is a great indicator
/r/seduction23/04/25 12:50 AM
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Speech is probably the single most important skill a man can have in seduction, learning how to communicate will set you apart from other men. Let's face it attractive women get tons of attention, so when you approach...you have to make an impact on her, so she'll like you and remember you. To make that kind of impact takes years of practice and reflection, I've made 100s of approaches, and I've learned what works and what doesn't.
/r/seduction22/04/25 08:31 PM
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I wouldn't know what you're doing wrong without seeing you in action, I guess that's how a lot of those RSD guys made bank, they had coaching sessions one on one to help guys out. it could be you being too direct, you not building enough comfort and rapport, it could be a lack of confidence. I suggest you watch some infield videos and figure out what angle works best for you. Usually I'm very cordial and charming, I've found this to be a great angle to take
/r/seduction22/04/25 08:18 PM
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Read books, approach, watch videos, reflect, I went down the seduction rabbit hole myself, I studied pick up and game for 4 years! Took me 3 years till I considered myself good
/r/seduction22/04/25 02:06 AM
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Good job! Hopefully it's just a start, the problem is you fleetingly grabbed a very flimsy instagram close, I remember my first cold approach, it was at my first summer job back in 2010 (grade 10 summer), anyways I was hella nervous, I approached a cute girl, and talked with her briefly and got her number! Successful on my first ever approach, I didn't end up texting her or anything, but it made me realize I can do this. My suggestion is to try and extend the interaction before asking for her nu…
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:37 AM
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It sounds like you're a bit jealous, I don't know why some women don't really care about looks, or money, but sometimes women don't really know their own value, and will settle with guys because they struggle to meet someone, maybe he has good social skills, maybe it's his confidence. But in the real world women will choose the provider, the muscle hunk and dominant men over others, in societies where women have access to money and lower gender gaps they'll choose looks, but if they don't have a…
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:24 AM
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I'm sorry but I think people have the wrong mindset as to what this sub is about, you're asking a very broad and general question. It's not about singling out girls, we couldn't possibly tell you what to do, you need to get better in general with girls. You should be studying by reading books on seduction and working on your social skills, confidence, and timing understanding what to do and when to do it, things like kino (touch), confidence in going for the kiss
/r/seduction21/04/25 01:41 AM
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I have bad news for you, that feeling of anxiety when you approach a woman is never going away, you have to push past this feeling and approach anyways. How do we do this? It takes practice and introspection
/r/seduction20/04/25 11:20 PM
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Keys to the VIP! https://youtu.be/C555DIi1tXQ?si=W2vF_gq_Y9CVoBY1
/r/seduction20/04/25 03:32 AM
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It's common, people have the freedom to make their own choices...I'm glad you're cold approaching, that puts you ahead of 90% of guys right away, to increase your chances of getting a response I suggest trying to maximize the time you interact with her before asking for the number, this will allow you to build comfort and rapport. A lot of guys suggest the "instadate", or using false time constraints, I suggest trying to be charming
/r/seduction19/04/25 05:32 AM
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Great question, so firstly you should try and make some male friends, it's important to have a social circle and have male friends, it's good to have people who can help you out in life and help you meet new people or wingman for you! Now how do you start? I was a late bloomer, short and not very good looking, but I was always really smart, I finally hit puberty and got more muscle mass. I was talking to a friend and I told him I didn't know what to do with girls, he recommended me a website cal…
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:41 AM
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If you make out pull away, take it slow, you can ask her if she's ready or when she will be, then she'll proceed to say idk, just let her know you're willing to wait, I know you only have a few days, my suggestion is to not really worry about this girl, do you really wanna have sex with her just once? She'll be gone it's not sustainable, you should try and talk to other girls
/r/seduction18/04/25 07:15 AM
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Everyone will say "models" or "the game" my suggestion? Vin DiCarlo any book
/r/seduction18/04/25 02:36 AM
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Ahh the old how to smash lmr, my suggestion is to make her chase you! Don't be so pushy
/r/seduction18/04/25 02:15 AM
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This sub isn't intended to single out one woman, you gave us some small information about her "not sitting beside you", that's an ambiguous piece of information, she could be frustrated because you haven't made a move and taken action, women appreciate bravery and confidence. Anyways the point I'm trying to make is you should actively pursue many women at a time. The goal isn't to have as much promiscuous sex as possible, but genuinely connect with the women we are interacting with. Be ballsy, m…
/r/seduction17/04/25 04:33 AM
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No lol, your height is a disadvantage, I'm only 5'8 myself. Firstly don't compare yourself, it's bad to start doing that it'll lead to jealousy and a lack of confidence. If he tells you his secret weapon is to be "cocky funny" don't assume that's what you have to do to be successful with girls, it's quite possible that his cocky funny frame may be working because he's displaying confidence, I've always found the right angle to take, usually I'm very indirect and charming, I try to show her my so…
/r/seduction15/04/25 10:40 PM
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You sound too distraught...just relax, I've heard of guys taking months to have sex you're so young just give her space and stop pressuring her
/r/seduction15/04/25 10:21 PM
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No you need to flirt but not super early, just try your best to not show too much direct interest
/r/seduction15/04/25 01:30 AM
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You're being too nice I'll give you my advice, I'll start with a personal anecdote, one time I was doing some parking lot pimpin (after the club closes you talk to people in the parking lot waiting for a cab) anyways these 3 girls came out of a Hummer, one of them went inside to get pizza and me and my buddies were engaging the two girls, the one who was more my type I was talking to, and my friends were talking to the other one. Anyways they were sucking up to her, meanwhile I maintained a firm…
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:44 AM
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I have no idea...your question is very broad, but I'll try and give you my 0.02 cents. Anyways first things first, it's a good thing you're actually approaching, that's half the battle. If you're flirting, and you don't get the number, it may be a lack of comfort or attraction. How to build value and then make her comfortable enough with you is what you need to focus on. I don't suggest trying to brag about your accomplishments, but to convey your high status to her through your communication sk…
/r/seduction14/04/25 01:54 AM
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They've done studies on this topic, for example they showed women photos of men and asked them how much sex they thought the men were having, then they asked men to rate the same men, asking how formidable they thought they were. It turned out the men's rating was more accurate as to who was having more sex. Formidability is attractive to women, and men can sense it better than women. As to your problem with confidence and approaching, trust your feeling of anxiety will never go away, it's human…
/r/seduction13/04/25 11:27 PM
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This community is generally suited towards men, we don't really talk about women seducing men, but mostly vice versa. I don't know exactly what to tell you as your question is very general, if you're not being approached it's because guys in your society are either too scared, or you're too good looking and intimidating. Just be patient and show interest, smile, make contact, you can approach a man if you find him attractive! I've been approached by girls in my life only a handful of times, but …
/r/seduction09/04/25 12:00 AM
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Lol shit testing is a term used to describe a woman using a way to manipulate you or test your knowledge and see if she can exploit, what behavior your alluding to is just regular female behavior lol, welcome to the club, the reason these women are acting this way towards you is her slut defense mechanism, she's not easy, I actually think it's a good thing that women act this way, a lot of guys benefit from really fast and easy women, I want to earn her attraction, it's not just a hook up, but a…
/r/seduction07/04/25 02:51 AM
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No it's not, good looks are important but there's a woman for everyone, a woman in your league of looks is out there just gotta find her. Night game is harder, a lot of men choose to go to clubs to meet women, because it's more socially acceptable to seduce women in clubs and bars, she may be a little bit more reserved and tougher in these situations, the term we use is called a "bitch shield" anyways I have a few tips for you in clubs that will help set you apart. Firstly is your body language,…
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:58 PM
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It's a psychology book mostly, I learned that getting women isn't about being the best looking, or the richest, but being dominant and having social skills. It taught me what angle to take when seducing a woman, the angle of creating a genuine connection with her, and stirring up strong emotions.
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:45 PM
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No not at all, it takes a range of time to escalate to sex, in fact it might actually be a good thing you didn't kiss her! It shows patience which women like
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:28 AM
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I don't know..there's no canned phrase that will get you in, and i don't recommend trying to have a boring long conversation in a loud night club, instead focus on your body language. After you approach and dance with her, back away and dance by yourself, this will make her more comfortable with you. I once saw a guy dance with a girl, then back away and lean on the wall, he then went in for the kiss, the girl was hot and he was super smooth
/r/seduction03/04/25 10:23 PM
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Confidence is huge, it's been scientifically proven that we are most attracted to people who are similar in looks to us, in fact there's a term called genetic sexual attraction which means we are attracted to people who have similar DNA. I think I can date 10s cause I consider myself very attractive, but what I consider a 10 is different from other men.
/r/seduction03/04/25 10:17 PM
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When is the next Olympics? Lol jk bro your overthinking it too much, if you like her text her whenever you want man, just give her enough space, I'm sure wants to get closer to you so just be patient
/r/seduction03/04/25 04:41 AM
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My man dating apps are a joke for men, someone did an experiment with an app, made a female account, mediocre looking girl, within seconds her inbox was flooded with messages from Giga Chads. Don't give up or feel bad cause you're not doing well on apps, get out in the real world, bars, night clubs, public places with women and approach, start a conversation. It takes balls to do this instead of trying to slide through on the DMs, you'll have more control, body language, speech, and kino
/r/seduction03/04/25 01:05 AM
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Congratulations, you did something about it! Btw I hope I don't get downvoted but, it's always a positive when you ask for her number or her out on a date, and she says "I have a boyfriend", cause if she wasn't interested, even slightly, she would have said no! Small victory my friend, keep approaching!
/r/seduction03/04/25 12:54 AM
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The attraction code - Vin DiCarlo
/r/seduction01/04/25 10:56 AM
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I don't think it's a "PUA" sub because we don't really use those terms, hb, negs, 5 second rule and all those terms Neil Strauss introduced with his book "the game", if you have questions about your weaknesses and how to overcome them then asking in this sub people are knowledgeable and will give you helpful advice. I love this sub because I get a ton of karma here, cause I studied female psychology for a very long time and people seem to like what I have to say here so...
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:23 AM
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Never really hooked up with a girl out of my league, but I hooked up with some girls that I really found attractive, but I have different taste, all this happened when I was a poor student, nobody knew how well I was doing in school, honestly I was highly underestimated which ironically helped
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:13 AM
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Don't understand your question, the term PUA became popular because of mystery and Neil Strauss and all those guys, the manosphere is an umbrella term used to describe any resources made for men to help them form meaningful relationships with women. Unfortunately it gets a bad rep, a lot of people say that men should naturally know how to be good with women, but, just like myself, it's really changed and impacted me to improve my social skills as I was once hopeless with the opposite sex. The pu…
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:05 AM
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I was always good at talking, but I was impatient and too sexually direct, after I started to develop patience, and got the confidence to go for the kiss
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:08 AM
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Everyone will say either models or the game, but I'd say any book by Vin DiCarlo
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:02 AM
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Hmm I think you may have a little wrong perspective on life and existence, you have to realize that humans are social creatures, in today's modern world women have financial opportunities, so they don't want anything from you. What people want is to have fun and be around other people, do you enjoy socializing? Women want sex, a companion, and want to make children and have our genes passed down as our ancestors did before us. I actually enjoy the company of women and people, maybe you're introv…
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:31 AM
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Bro man up, if she's being cold you could have done something wrong or she's frustrated you're not doing anything about it, ask her out on a date, make out with her, do something
/r/seduction25/03/25 10:59 PM
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It shouldn't matter if you have a child, in your posts it sounds like you have developed some kind of guilt when you're approaching a woman. You shouldn't feel this way it's completely normal to be attracted to women and desire sex, it's what makes us human. I think a woman would be even more attracted to you, especially if you've developed a good relationship with your young, potentially successful daughter. My suggestion is to relax when you approach, not every woman you talk with you're gonna…
/r/seduction25/03/25 10:51 PM
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That's exactly what I'm saying
/r/seduction24/03/25 04:53 AM
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To standout you have to be confident and charming, how to do that takes introspection and practice, we as humans spend time in school to improve our communication skills, you've been talking your entire life so you know how to do it. Build rapport and get her comfortable with you, there's a nice gambler video on how to talk here https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y?si=-htoezvs2MLH9R2H
/r/seduction24/03/25 04:47 AM
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I'm confused as to what you're asking... there's many angles to take when seducing a woman, sometimes she just wants to talk about herself, sometimes you make her laugh, sometimes you ask questions, if you want to flirt then do that, there's no canned approach that will get you the girl every time, you have to improvise. Direct game never works in my opinion, just make eye contact and use your body language
/r/seduction24/03/25 04:30 AM
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Absolutely it's funny how you attract women when you stop focusing all your attention on sex, yea it's important to get laid but it's not the end all be all of life, you have to focus on other aspects. Take my life for example, before I hit puberty I was a small and not that good looking kid, but I focused a lot on doing well in school, I remember my mom used to tell me, now all the girls are interested in the popular guys, but if you do well in school when you grow older you'll be more attracti…
/r/seduction23/03/25 11:14 PM
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For a long term partner women will value a lot of qualities over good sex, emotional intimacy, a genuine connection, having money or being a provider, good looks, and an empathetic personality. However if she struggles to achieve sexual pleasure it may really hurt the relationship, as good sex is just as important to women as it is to men. Anyways being good at sex is easy, like any other skill it takes practice to get better, and there is so much you can do to get better
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:40 AM
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Don't see how gaming Asian girls would be any different from gaming any other girls, just be interested in her culture that's always a great angle to take, but you're essentially asking how to game a girl, that requires a lot of effort and research on your part, approach, be confident, build rapport, build sexual tension and attraction, comfort and close, I suggest reading books, doing approaches, and watching infield videos, be assertive and driven to succeed
/r/seduction15/03/25 12:28 AM
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I'm a 90s baby my friend, when I was younger I always wanted to have freedom and meet women! I didn't have any game which I told a friend, he recommended a pua website, I was instantly hooked, studied that stuff for a pretty long time, idk I did it right when I was younger, just had a lot of fun and was really focused on my education
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:03 AM
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Took me 4 years of studying, watching videos, approaching, reading books, I started when I was 15 so around 19
/r/seduction03/03/25 12:34 AM
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People in high school used to comment on my style, always intrigued as to where I got my clothes, I used to shop a lot at karmaloop.com, urban streetwear, lots of lrg, artful Dodger, I always loved creative recreation shoes as well, and krew. Just go to the store and try stuff on, see if it suits your style
/r/seduction20/02/25 03:05 AM
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I'm also always horny, and my horny brain makes mistakes the cure for horniness is to find a girlfriend and have sex more often. Finding a girlfriend requires game, and you need to be patient when interacting with women, if you are too sexual and direct early you'll get rejected. You have to understand that women have to be choosy with their partners, a man can impregnate her, and leave and she'll be stuck with a child she has to take care of, this is why she's cold and hard on you when you appr…
/r/seduction17/02/25 08:35 PM
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Honestly people ask this question a lot, from a psychological standpoint men fear approaching because we fear rejection, and we are uncertain if the women we are approaching are taken or in relationships. I have bad news for you, that feeling you get of your heart rate increasing, and adrenaline pumping will never ever go away, even the most experienced players will always feel that anxiety. Those who succeed push past this feeling and approach anyways, the only advice I can give to help is to l…
/r/seduction10/02/25 12:39 AM
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I think highly of it I've read it 3 times, excellent stuff, it has the power to change your game and life overnight, it's a psychology book that helps understand the female psyche
/r/seduction07/02/25 06:03 AM
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Courses I don't know but books I do, here's a link to my favorite author/pua vin DiCarlo, the book is called Pandora's box, which is a very fitting title, because it's really powerful stuff, it can cause problems, it's a book on female psychology and profiling, you basically assess women based on their personality type and the best way to seduce her depending on her qualities https://archive.org/details/vin-di-carlo-pandora-39s-box-complete-pua-system
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:36 AM
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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=1XCO3zZwu_eK3mZw Good luck
/r/seduction02/02/25 09:04 PM
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You're asking a generalized question, basically you're asking, how do I seduce a woman, that's the entire purpose of this community. My suggestion is to build rapport, flirt, and get to know her, but don't be too nice and get stuck in the friendzone, you need to touch her and escalate, you touch less erogenous zones first, hands, upper back, shoulders, then you touch the lower back,upper thighs, and then her face
/r/seduction02/02/25 08:50 PM
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There're a ton of different qualities that make a man attractive, and not all women are the same and will value other qualities over other ones. Height, muscular build, wealth, intelligence, facial features, drive and ambition, preselection, social skills, charm, educational background, sensitivity, empathy, altruism, popularity. Some societies women value looks, while others value money, if you live in a society with a lower gender gap in pay, usually women will be more interested in looks.
/r/seduction30/01/25 04:06 AM
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Confidence my friend,work on your game, that's how you get into relationships
/r/seduction25/01/25 01:52 AM
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It depends if she's communicating or not, look life can get busy sometimes I understand....but if it's been 15 minutes, haven't heard anything, im going home lol
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:54 PM
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It depends on your budget, if money isn't an issue I would suggest a concert or sporting event, if money is an issue? I would suggest just going to a quiet bar and having a drink, something classy, don't get too drunk, if you don't drink get food or something. The bar will always be the economy great date idea, it gives you a chance to talk face to face and really get to know someone, you can also build sexual tension and break the touch barrier. Reminds me of the first date scene in hitch, will…
/r/seduction22/01/25 11:11 PM
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^ this, comment women on things they can control, don't make comments on her physical appearance, maybe her style, her perfume, her hair
/r/seduction22/01/25 06:29 PM
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Texting is an extension of your speech, it's writing, so if you want to get better at texting work on your speech, how to do that other than reading and writing....I have no idea but I'll link a video on general conversational tips https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y?si=y6BSpFEw9AOuMAXC
/r/seduction20/01/25 06:40 AM
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Same! It's not just about having sex, it's about connecting with people along the way, people are social beings and it's much more fun to build strong relationships.
/r/seduction17/01/25 02:54 AM
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Ahh the early 2000s, late 90s was the golden era of seduction, but I have news for you, beautiful women will always exist! So it's up to you to make the best of your situation. I think finding a good wingman is imperative to having success. I remember someone on this sub was thinking of making an application to help men find other men to sarge with, finding a wingman who is similar to you will help you out
/r/seduction17/01/25 02:34 AM
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Instead of being bitter, complaining, being jealous, why don't you focus your time on bettering yourself, work on your game, your body, your clothing, go to university and make money. I agree some women have low standards and don't care about looks, sometimes these girls date losers, maybe they lack self esteem, maybe they just want a less attractive mate because they fear being abandoned. I once knew a guy who was dating this absolutely gorgeous girl, and after they broke up she was so depresse…
/r/seduction17/01/25 02:09 AM
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Technically yes, but I consider direct game to be sexual talk, especially in the early stages
/r/seduction16/01/25 05:11 AM
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Because women get scared away by direct game, if you don't know someone and all of a sudden they start talking about how good looking you are and instantly wanting sex..yea a man would love that, but women need to be choosy with their partners, a man can impregnate her and leave, so you need to build comfort and get to know her first. Doesn't mean you can't compliment her, maybe you like her perfume, or her clothes
/r/seduction16/01/25 04:34 AM
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I'll attempt to answer your question...what you're asking is one of the most fundamental aspects of seduction which is speech, also if you're trying to have long boring conversations in clubs and bars that's not a great approach, it's difficult to have conversations in loud environments. My suggestion is to focus on your body language, and also using mystery method in bars (preselection), if she sees you chatting up other girls and having fun that will help increase your value. The reason speech…
/r/seduction14/01/25 04:06 AM
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Dance floor game, keep your affairs as secret as possible, here's a great video on dance floor game. https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=D2Dlv_M7Q57qNuAk Go to bars and clubs, this is how you do well, another gambler video https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY?si=N4dZ6P1dbVHilLz3 Also approach girls on campus, ask them to have study sessions! Tutor her and help her with her academic responsibilities, most importantly is to have as much fun as possible, but do well in school, that's priority number 1
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:50 AM
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They say 70% of communication is non verbal, so like Alex Hitchins played by Will Smith said "most of what you're communicating ain't coming out of your mouth!". Body language, tone, eye contact, these are things that impact how you express yourself.
/r/seduction12/01/25 01:19 AM
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Omg so true man, I dunno so many guys make women the centre of their universe, slaves to vagina I say! It's not that important to be having sex, gotta get the things that need to be done finished, and enjoy yourself have fun in this life
/r/seduction11/01/25 06:28 AM
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I can resonate with you as I had a player reputation in university as well, my advice is this, keep your relationships as secret as possible, my university was in a small town where gossip runs around fast. If you sleep with a girl don't tell anyone, anonymity is the key.
/r/seduction10/01/25 12:01 AM
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It depends, you could take many routes, you usually want to build connections with her, night game requires a lot of things mostly behavioural aspects, if she was leaving then you could make a false time constraint, say hey I know you gotta go but I do too, can I get your number, we'll hang out and do something, get food, chill, whatever, if she says yes, if she says no, it doesn't really matter as long you tried, then focus on trying to meet other girls, not just her, don't get obsessed you jus…
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:43 AM
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Umm you wrote this mid set lol nice, I don't know what to tell you, you can strike when the iron is hot, but I think you're making too much into something that in the grand scheme is minor. Who knows why they went to the bathroom together, it could be her cockblocking, maybe she wanted some privacy, or get this she could have actually needed to go to the bathroom. Anyways I'd be more concerned with the interaction and what happened between you, did you make a connection, was she laughing, how wa…
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:15 AM
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A mix of both I'd say, I usually go indirect and try and just relax and connect with her, I want her to think back on our interaction as the charming man, someone she'll remember, someone who made a genuine connection and produced positive emotions.
/r/seduction07/01/25 02:05 AM
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Cool! I have a background in computing as well, the app needs an algorithm to get like minded guys together, I know some men are too scared to approach, so guys with less anxiety would be preferred
/r/seduction07/01/25 02:01 AM
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Absolutely, picking up women is much better in groups, having a solid wingman can make a huge difference. Someone should make an app for finding wingmen in your city, because attractive women are seldom alone, it makes the process much easier and more social, how many times have I approached a 2 set, and the friend gets upset and drags her away, jealousy is tough to handle. Approach those same 2 girls with a friend and it's on, her friend is being occupied while I talk to the girl I like
/r/seduction07/01/25 01:57 AM
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I got into seduction because I had no idea what I was doing with women, a lot of men hate this community claiming that men are "naturally" good with women, and don't need gimmicks and tricks to get laid. Seduction isn't about manipulation, it's about learning how to emotionally connect, and get sex with the women you want. I was always smart growing up, but I was not the best looking till I hit puberty, gained a ton of muscle mass (100+lbs) and I grew taller. I studied material for 4+ years, and…
/r/seduction05/01/25 10:17 PM
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Haha people are not having as much sex as you think, trust it's not that easy to meet women, and get into relationships. How many videos of men approaching women and the girls are not interested, and these men have good game and are confident. Look at professional athletes, actors, musicians, and even these people struggle to meet someone and are mostly married in serious relationships, and get divorced and all that. Just work on your game, and be positive, you're only 22, just focus and be dete…
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:43 AM
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I'm only 5'8, but I have a muscular build, you can't control your height but you can exercise and build muscle mass, a lot of guys suffer from low testosterone, yea it has a lot to do with genetics but you can always get stronger by eating right and training. Don't take steroids or anything cause it's really bad for you, I don't understand why people jeopardize their lives to get bigger, just to get laid, how many WWE stars and bodybuilders have died the last few years, the problem with steroid …
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:55 AM
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See the vin dicarlo escalation ladder, you can start touching her very early in your interaction, just gotta be smart with it
/r/seduction01/01/25 01:17 AM
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If you find you're getting stuck in the friendzone, and girls aren't viewing you as a potential sexual partner you need to demonstrate high value, as well as escalation with touch
/r/seduction01/01/25 12:20 AM
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The attraction code - vin dicarlo Pandora's box vin DiCarlo The game - Neil Strauss
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:30 PM
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Fun fact, you actually decide whether you're attracted to someone within the first few seconds, we humans naturally profile other humans, we can tell so many things when we first meet, race, age, accent, educational background, personality types and so much information. Openers don't really matter as much as the middle stage, there is nothing canned that will always work, so you have to improvise
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:33 AM
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I've always enjoyed music festivals for meeting girls, usually I'll just dance and enjoy the music, and girls will naturally feel more comfortable around me, plus we camp out and my friends are with me, makes it easier to approach groups of women
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:05 AM
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? The answer is who cares man if she wants to see you she'll make time
/r/seduction30/12/24 12:59 AM
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It depends on your relationship, and also frame control, if you're in a serious relationship then jealousy is a natural instinct to deter men from your partner. If you're insanely jealous to the point where it's causing you stress, and impacting mental health, that's not good, but a little jealousy will show her that you care. So the answer to your question is it depends, jealousy is a very powerful emotion, and studies have shown that the part of the brain that allows us to feel pain is the sam…
/r/seduction29/12/24 04:34 AM
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Hmmm my answer in short is this, if you find that women are rejecting you sexually, then as you've alluded to it's because you may not be valuable enough. However there is a woman out there for everyone, it doesn't matter there is a single woman who is absolutely perfect for you, the perfect looks, the perfect personality, your perfect partner and you must find her. If you find you're getting friendzoned, then you may want to apply more kino (term to describe touching in the seduction community)…
/r/seduction28/12/24 04:55 AM
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Money creates freedom, and with money you can provide for offspring and live an exciting lifestyle. However some societies women will value looks over money, but women love money because they can do the things they want, travel, eat food, buy houses, cars and shopping.
/r/seduction27/12/24 08:03 PM
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Women sometimes react to direct game with avoidance, this is because she may not be attracted or comfortable with you enough yet. Give it time before you express sexual interest, if she's busy for dates it might be because she's actually busy, if that is the case she'll make time for you, saying I'm busy on x day but y day will work for me. Don't get friendzoned
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:57 AM
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Yup, its not a coincidence that attractive women are with people, in order to maneuver women in groups I suggest finding a wingman, when you approach a group of women it's imperative that you interact with all of them, include them, and talk to them as a group, when you have built rapport then you isolate the girl that you're most interested in.
/r/seduction24/12/24 02:16 AM
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Ok prepare for a long answer, firstly when I read your posts you lack confidence, positivity, and perseverance. At your age you have sooo much time to turn things around, now as to the situation with your girl best friend, if nothing sexual between hasn't happened it may be time to put away the idea that you're magically gonna enter a relationship with her, and I would advise you keep that relationship platonic, it's awesome to have female friends. I was never good with girls when I was younger,…
/r/seduction24/12/24 02:05 AM
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Yes I was told this, worked extremely hard in school, women are attracted to wealthy men
/r/seduction22/12/24 08:12 PM
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Be a high value male, that's how you show value, the last thing you wanna do is approach and brag about yourself, women will be turned off by egotistic behaviour, you bragging about how much money you have, or how educated you are, or other women you've slept with. Instead try to subtly hint at your value, where expensive clothing or jewelry, speak with confidence and authority, and if she asks you about your dating history tell her.
/r/seduction22/12/24 04:34 AM
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I'm gonna give you some advice, impart some wisdom, the answer to your question is wherever you see women you find attractive, yea it might be a busy street, or a coffee shop, or a library, it could be at the gym, the grocery store, it could be a university campus, a mall, at an amusement park, or my absolute favorite place a music festival. Attractive women are seldom alone so get used to approaching women in groups and get a wing, when you see your type, whether you're into petite thin cute gi…
/r/seduction19/12/24 06:32 AM
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Attractive women are intimidating, The best thing for me is to not think about sex with her, just treat her like any person and try and relax and be confident
/r/seduction15/12/24 08:50 PM
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No there is not, seduction is a male driven sub, which is bad cause women need help too
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:30 AM
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Life's hard, but it's not that hard, people are pessimistic, best to avoid these types
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:27 AM
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I always go indirect and hide my sexual intentions, that's always the right route for me, just build a connection, flirt, and demonstrate high value, I also sometimes intentionally make her a little jealous
/r/seduction14/12/24 04:46 AM
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Lol how are you 19 and "don't have time to do cold approaches" that's my suggestion if you want hookups, dating apps are a shot in the dark, and some men might meet some fast women off of there, others may not it depends on their algorithm. My suggestion is to go to bars and night clubs and start talking to girls, work on your game
/r/seduction14/12/24 03:56 AM
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Honestly even the most seasoned veteran players get AA, it will never go away, it's called fear and we all feel it. However those who are able to push past this feeling and approach anyway will have the most success
/r/seduction10/12/24 06:20 AM
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I think you may be chasing the wrong experience, a lot of guys view seduction as a tool to have as much promiscuous sex as possible, but I think it's about having fun and generating meaningful connections with the women you pursue. If you're having empty one night stands, then you're missing out, I think seduction is a tool to have quality relationships, not quantity, and falling in love with a great girl.
/r/seduction10/12/24 03:50 AM
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Lol manipulate? Never a good idea to manipulate anyone, if you want something more than just a friend, it's not bad to have female friends, sometimes they can introduce you to other girls, plus you help her out with her problems, career and school mentor and someone she enjoys spending time with. Anyways you can try kino (touching the right way) that's my best advice, anyways it might be a good idea to focus on other girls, because this one sounds unlikely if you have limited sexual contact with…
/r/seduction07/12/24 11:40 PM
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You need to develop an abundance mentality, easier said than done, it also isn't a bad thing to catch feelings as long as she reciprocates, but if you find yourself too attached while she isn't at all that's bad. My advice is just try to focus on other tasks, career, school, sports, exercise, and give her lots of space
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:27 PM
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So I always answer this question the same way, speech is absolutely one of the most important skills needed in seduction, if I could teach exactly what to say and when, you'd be an unstoppable masculine force, but I can't teach you this, it's also something that requires a bit of improv, sometimes you need to be quick, sometimes you need to be funny, sometimes you need to be charming. So I suggest reading lots, improving speech and I will link a quick gambler video on this topic, it should help …
/r/seduction05/12/24 04:28 AM
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Lots to read! My tips for getting laid in university? I also took computer science 11 years ago, a really tough but lucrative major. Since You're doing well academically I'll get into my advice. Firstly, are you living in the us? If not where I live the legal drinking age is 18, so start by going to night clubs and bars, I was living in a university town and there were tons of girls out on Thursdays- to Sundays, the dancefloor is your friend I'll post a nice video on how to operate in the dancef…
/r/seduction01/12/24 02:15 AM
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True, if you have all three that's always a positive lol
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:54 AM
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It depends on the woman, just a heads up they've done studies and women are asked to estimate how much sex each man has, they also asked men to rate how formidable they thought each man was, the results of the study showed that the men were more accurate in determining how much sex the men were having over the women. Other studies also have shown that muscular men have twice as many partners, so the answer to your question is a lot, but women are more attracted to many other qualities other than…
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:43 AM
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This sub isn't really about singling out one girl, and I would never suggest intentionally trying to make her jealous, myself have done this, but I try to be more subtle with it. I'll be at a club just being myself talking to different girls, this usually works, but be careful using jealousy as a weapon because it can often backfire if she becomes too jealous. Also 4 dates and you haven't made out or had sex, not a good sign, you may be in the friendzone you need to touch her more, and somehow c…
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:03 AM
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Don't be too nice, don't be a pushover, be firm and stand your ground, you're not gonna hook up with her by being nice, you get with her by being yourself. I'm naturally very cordial, so being charming is good, but you don't want to simp
/r/seduction27/11/24 03:52 AM
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Umm your question is extremely generalized, you're asking a question which is what this entire community is based on, seduction, so how do you approach a woman and generate a relationship from scratch? It took me 4 years of studying, watching videos, reading, approaching and adjusting my game till I felt confident in my abilities. I've done well over 100 approaches at this point, so I've learned a lot. My suggestion is to start by reading books, which I suggest reading the game by Neil Strauss, …
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:17 AM
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It depends, technically speaking if you have a 10% success rate you're laughing, I mean you only have to do 10 approaches to meet one girl, however realistically most men will be in the 5% - 30% range I would say. It depends on a lot of factors, location, game, logistics, whether you do your approaches at night time or during the day. You have a ton of control in your interactions, so if you study hard and do a ton of approaches, your success rate will increase
/r/seduction26/11/24 06:04 AM
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Hmm...I wouldn't think much about it my man, it sounds like you may need to work on your game a bit. If she's staring it could be a jealousy thing, maybe she was surprised by your confidence to approach other women! Trust a lot of guys go to clubs and stand there with their friends and are too scared to talk to anyone. I've heard so many women call men creeps at clubs, I've seen guys get blown out so fast lol, drunk and get rejected quickly. Mystery method is the key to having success at clubs, …
/r/seduction26/11/24 05:52 AM
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If you live in the US you legally can't start going to bars and clubs till you turn 21, if this is not the case I suggest starting there, when I was in university I went to nightclubs 3 times a week and did over 100 approaches on the dancefloor. Also day time is great to go on campus and approach girls you find attractive, if you see a cute girl go up to her and talk! Also this advice is unrelated to seduction, make sure you study! You're there to build a career and learn, you need to take care …
/r/seduction24/11/24 01:52 AM
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Flirting is charming someone, it's being playful, it's getting to know someone and building rapport, people say being nice is bad, this isn't true, what's bad is being a pushover, it's simping that's bad. Flirting is eye contact, it can be humor as well, many paths to take to describe flirting
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:01 AM
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Give her space, be patient, slow things down
/r/seduction22/11/24 02:38 AM
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Just get involved, do approaches on campus, go to clubs, and study hard, you're there to learn and find a career. If you have knowledge you can share your information with women, they love that stuff, if you can tutor or help them.
/r/seduction20/11/24 07:46 PM
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High school was wild for me! Not just for hooking up but academically our school was ranked first, the head of education came to our school and told us that our education rank was similar to Finland. We also did well in sports, partied hard and had a lot of fun. This was 12 years ago and a lot has changed since then, just focus on doing well in school and getting good grades, because you will be able to go to university which is more fun than high school if you do it right. When you have a high …
/r/seduction20/11/24 07:17 PM
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Hahaha your asking a very generalized question my man, what your asking is what game is entirely, how to generate a relationship with someone is literally in the sub description. If we could tell you step by step what to do...there are many paths to take. I suggest improving your conversational skills, applying kino (what we call touch in this community), and building comfort and demonstrating high value, and learning how to close, when to kiss and how you generate space to smash lmr (it stands …
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:56 AM
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Be confident, don't think when approaching that you can get her to like you, qualify her and get you to like her! There is no cure for approach anxiety, we all feel it, but the successful players push past this fear and approach anyway even if we're scared. Day game is a different beast, the old saying is that day game is the best time to meet girls, but 99% of men dont do it
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:37 AM
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It's one woman, news flash there are billions of attractive girls on this planet, I mean earth is poppin with lots of sexy girls. Don't worry about her, if she's not replying or giving you the time of day...I suggest working on your game while actively pursuing many women, it will increase your success rate. Focus on your education and exercising getting better
/r/seduction18/11/24 09:32 PM
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I wouldn't know, I'm not there with you or seen footage of these dates, i could speculate though, I think it's either a value issue, attraction issue, or a comfort issue. Increasing value, money or drive, increasing attraction, physical appearance, preselection, and comfort requires time and familiarity
/r/seduction17/11/24 02:29 AM
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Haha my man your question is almost 90% of game, you're asking a question on speech and conversation, if you can talk and charm her she'll be interested, instead of writing some long ass explanation I'll link a gambler video on this topic https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y?si=NOGQy5u-ppnly0SV
/r/seduction17/11/24 01:57 AM
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Exactly! Get off apps and go to the real world, cold approach, do you know how easy it is for women to get gigachads on apps? A guy did an experiment, he made a fake female account, she was a 7 and she had endless guys messaging her. So many men are scared to actually approach, night game and day have and will always be the best way to meet someone, so much more is in your control in person
/r/seduction17/11/24 01:49 AM
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We learn from our mistakes and adjust our game. We write logs fresh after approaches and figure what we did wrong, it's ok man women are tough, how many times have I seen infield footage where women will instantly reject guys! Keep in mind a lot of the times these women are just not interested, maybe she has a boyfriend, maybe she's having a bad day, maybe she's socially inept, maybe she's a lesbian lol. So keep your head up and keep at it, you'll eventually get better and meet someone, you just…
/r/seduction14/11/24 09:00 PM
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Don't sexualize your conversations, it's not good, you want to be more indirect and hide your sexual interest in the beginning stages of getting to know someone. The way you shift your relationship from a platonic to sexual is by touch, and push pull. If you're in a relationship with her then sexual conversation is more acceptable
/r/seduction14/11/24 01:47 AM
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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=VChDYXtsDwUtiJ7s Best video ever I've actually implemented it, it works well
/r/seduction14/11/24 01:10 AM
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How do you communicate with anyone...you ask them questions, stay relaxed be confident and just relax, it's not that hard we as humans spend our entire lives learning how to talk, we go to school so we can expand our knowledge and get careers
/r/seduction13/11/24 05:23 AM
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Give them space
/r/seduction12/11/24 09:44 PM
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If she's bringing up other guys, saying no kissing on the first date she's messing with you. Women that say things like this have intentions, it could either be her lack of attraction, or she may be feeling threatened or jealous. One time I messaged a girl and asked her to come over to my place, she said no and at a party was making fun of me saying, he was trying to get me to come over to his house and I said no, she wasn't interested, in fact she actually got pleasure out of rejecting me. Thes…
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:02 PM
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It's a good thing! If you're not nervous you're not human, do you know psychologically why we feel emotions like that before we approach women? It's because we don't know if she's married or taken, and you're scared she'll reject you and not like you, it's called fear and we all feel it! Fear is what drives us to be driven and survive, but successful players push past this fear, and use it as fuel to help us get the women we want. Women love men who are driven by fear, fear is sexy because one o…
/r/seduction06/11/24 01:47 AM
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Career/education, and working on social skills and speech, if you have that and money it will be game on easy mode
/r/seduction30/10/24 06:58 AM
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It means she values your friendship so much that she believes a sexual relationship will take away what she has with you, especially since she's a single mom. You guys are business partners, so you're partly responsible for her livelihood. She's reliant on you, her son probably likes you, fun fact did you know most couples meet through work! Anyways you shouldn't be pursuing this woman anymore, because there are sooo many other women out there, so stop simping and start going after other women, …
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:17 PM
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I was a very late bloomer, and didn't grow much till senior year of high school. In fact my license has me currently listed at 45kg lol because they didn't update my current 107kg weight. In school all the girls are attracted to the popular guys, but when you grow older and become successful things will change. Some guys peak in school, but in adult age women are looking for men with money to settle down with, as these men are highly desirable because of their ability to provide for offspring. M…
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:53 AM
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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ?si=ZATfb9aM67yAqOac
/r/seduction28/10/24 02:08 AM
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Oh my god I feel like the biggest broken record! I mention this all the time but sooo many guys still haven't seen it The attraction code vin DiCarlo
/r/seduction28/10/24 02:00 AM
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Some of these dudes are straight up losers, it's really easy to fly to LATAM and SEA, in good markets for men and claim to be a 'pua coach', let's see if these guys actually have any game, I wouldn't even pay for RSD, some of those guys are so cringe, I'm self taught and encourage everyone to try and go on your seduction journey by yourself.
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:00 AM
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Haha night game is a different beast, your question is very broad and generalized, I would start first by learning how to approach and flirt, escalation, but secretly what I like to do in clubs is make her jealous, if she sees you flirting with a girl all of a sudden her hamster wheel starts to spin, and your value will skyrocket
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:42 AM
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Yes women are attracted to preselection, I wouldn't lie just tell the truth, you have to realize that you don't need preselection to get laid, every man at some point was a virgin. What you need to have success is game, it's like the old you need experience to get a job, but you need a job to get experience. So that's my point lol
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:57 AM
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Nice dude I wouldn't suggest approaching girls on campus if you don't go there, you're 28! Which isn't too old, in fact you're only 1 year older than me. So my advice on how to man up and approach? The old saying is the 3 second rule, but I think that's kinda gimmicky and dumb, the best thing is your mindset, instead of thinking hey I'm gonna approach this girl and I hope she'll give me the time of day and want me, just go into your approaches not expecting anything, just get used to causally st…
/r/seduction25/10/24 01:32 AM
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Ok, so it's not really a large sample size to share 2 situations that didn't work out, honestly women can be tough, so this might not be your fault! Trust I've been in situations where I've had absolutely perfect flawless game and I get rejected. So one of the most important skills is finding the right girl, one who will give you the time of day and not just brush you off. If you think this is a game issue, and you're running into lmr, then that I can help you fix. If you lack game you're forcin…
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:43 AM
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I can understand your point, the promiscuous lifestyle can lack purpose and make you feel empty, this community is not about sleeping with as many women as possible, but building genuine connections and falling in love and finding that partner that will make your life better, it's quality, not quantity. I think some guys think it's all about the numbers, the results, but I think it's about the experience, are you having fun? Cause when I was doing my thing when I was younger I had a heck of a ti…
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:16 AM
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I'll post a nice little video for you, should help you out in night game https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY?si=8pEnazt3SUOPz9zE
/r/seduction19/10/24 09:05 PM
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It's a great start, I'm sick of guys coming in here talking about tinder and hinge, it's always good to approach in person. My tips for you? Don't worry if she doesn't accept your date invitation, be more confident next time, try and relax, and try to extend the conversation.
/r/seduction19/10/24 12:13 AM
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Just be confident man, date game I struggle with, it's a timing issue for me, sometimes im too aggressive, sometimes I'm too passive. Anyways you met this girl on a dating app, so she doesn't know you at all, in fact you'll be meeting in person for the first time! My advice, pay attention when she speaks, and really try to build comfort, and truly get to know her, your goal is by the end of the date you'll have psychological profiled this girl naturally, and you'll know everything about her. Wha…
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:16 AM
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Hmmm, I'm not sure what you're doing wrong, when I've had lmr it was because I was being impatient or too pushy. If you're having troubles closing, it could be a litany of reasons, lack of attraction, space, or comfort for her.
/r/seduction14/10/24 07:15 AM
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I watched a great gambler video on the friendzone, he talks about what women get out of being friends with you, and why they may not want a sexual relationship. Being friends with a guy she gets what she wants, she can talk to you about her problems, you help her with her life and career and school, you take her out and buy her dinner and drinks and she enjoys spending time with you. It's not a bad thing to have female friends, because guys with no female friends don't understand women very well…
/r/seduction13/10/24 05:03 AM
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No, you should seduce the girls you find attractive, studies have shown people are most attracted to people who are similar in attractiveness to themselves, in fact there is a thing called genetic sexual attraction, which is attraction to people who share similar DNA. Every man has different taste, I once had a crush on this girl, everyone made fun of me for it, she ended up becoming a model. It confuses me why some women are so insecure when I find them extremely sexy, I think women have miscon…
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:21 AM
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I learned this from mystery, I actually got that information from him, it makes sense after I got more experience, it's not a precise window, sometimes it can take more time or less, it's not exact. It depends on the woman cause every girl is different!
/r/seduction10/10/24 09:49 PM
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You're new to game, very green, I'm gonna teach you a valuable lesson my friend, what you are describing is a term we use in this community known as 'oneitis', this is an obsession with one woman. You wanna know how I've had success with women when I was in school? I don't care, I don't develop feelings for women I haven't hooked up with, when you give her space she'll become more attracted to you, if you hook up with other girls she'll get jealous. You're already talking about marriage with thi…
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:27 AM
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It takes 3-10 hours for sex, if it's taking longer than that you're in the friendzone. Texting girls is easy, if you want sex ask her out on a date, seduce her. You're asking a very broad question, I have no answer for you, never directly ask for sex, you need to learn how to communicate, and you need confidence and learning how to touch her
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:14 AM
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I got into this community in 2011, spent 4 years researching absolutely everything, reading books, watching in field videos, and soaking up everything I possibly could, I started on a website called fast seduction.org. In high school I managed to fumble my way into a couple hook ups, then university came and I was a masculine force. I put it all together, approaching, conversation control, touch/kino, patience, oh and closing, I got really good at pick up, so don't worry if you're 40 or 20 it do…
/r/seduction08/10/24 06:22 AM
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Engage all of them, I suggest getting a wingman, beautiful women are seldom alone so get used to approaching groups of people, talk to them all, if you have a wing then you can occupy the friends while you focus on the girl you want. Dancefloor game is important in night game scenarios, if you approach a group of 2 or 3 girls on the dancefloor, then it's likely if you dance with one of them, their friends will disrupt your set because they want that attention you're giving her friend.
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:15 AM
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I'm not sure what your point or question is, yes women like space and you should make them chase you. But this works well, yea I always wait for her to text me, reminds me of the scene in 40 year old virgin after he gets her number, and he's asking when to text, they say when is the next Olympics lol. But be careful with this technique my man, because if you make her chase you too much she may become frustrated with you, so you have to find the middle ground.
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:18 AM
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You leverage every damn thing you can my man, work harder, hit the gym, eat healthy, earn more money,get an education, approach, be confident, get some new clothes, nice shoes whatever you gotta do
/r/seduction02/10/24 09:29 AM
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Nice, in short to answer your question, it depends. I'll tell you a little story about night game, firstly it's a good sign that you made friends at the bar, this means you live in a very good social city! One time I was at the club and I approached 2 girls on the dancefloor, started dancing with one of them, after about 30 seconds her friend grabs her and takes her away, she got jealous! She wanted the attention that her friend was getting. Mystery (pua) always talks about social proof and term…
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:38 AM
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The law of least effort, this transformed my game because I learned the less hard you try and you hide your sexual interest it starts her hamster wheel, and it increases value and how much shes attracted to you. Also another mention, I remember watching this video seminar by mystery where he brought up the term "preselection" saying women are attracted to men who were selected previously by other women, essentially this is jealousy which can work wonders, at the time I though preselection was te…
/r/seduction29/09/24 05:37 AM
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DM me my friend
/r/seduction28/09/24 01:22 PM
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Umm does a strip club count? I could approach a woman anywhere cause I got balls
/r/seduction28/09/24 07:42 AM
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Walk slowly around the club, approach be confident, don't be afraid to use false time constraints, space is the key to being successful. If you dance with a girl leave and say hey I'm gonna grab a drink, come back to her later! Befriend men in the club and ask if they can wingman for you, don't simp, pay attention, its sometimes hard to talk in there so use body language, use push pull, and the most important tip of them all have fun! The club is a great place to meet women and sometimes even me…
/r/seduction27/09/24 07:32 PM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction26/09/24 08:31 PM
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I'm not sure what your problem is I'm not there with you! Sometimes you do everything right and it doesn't work out, sometimes you fumble and it leads to sex. I think you should just relax and don't panic and keep a log, write down everything that happened fresh after your approaches, everything she and you said, her body language, absolutely every detail, this way you can introspectively determine what you're doing wrong. This is what I implemented, after a night out I always asked myself if I …
/r/seduction24/09/24 02:06 AM
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Kino is the answer in short, I'm a very charming person naturally, so I may give off friendly vibes but I don't waste time escalating. You need to make your sexual intentions clear using push pull and touch, search the DiCarlo escalation ladder, it just tells you where to touch, I can give you a quick recap, just start by touching areas that are the least sexual, grabbing her hand, hugs, brushing her arm, then to more erogenous zones like touching her face or hair, inner thigh. I don't want to b…
/r/seduction24/09/24 01:21 AM
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It's not the worst thing to have female friends, if you're stuck in the friendzone it's likely you haven't made your intentions clear, and you need to use Kino, touching her and learning how to touch will lead to a sexual relationship. See the vin DiCarlo escalation ladder
/r/seduction20/09/24 09:14 PM
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You're asking a very generalized question about speech, learning game which is what it's all about, speech makes up a large proportion of what you need to be successful when interacting with girls. Have you ever heard of improv comedy? The best improv comedians are good at making jokes on the fly, the point I'm trying to make is that there is no canned information telling you what and when to say things, so you have to learn to control a conversation. My general tips on speech and what I've lear…
/r/seduction19/09/24 03:16 AM
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Just ask her out bro! Life is short, she's probably frustrated because you haven't made your sexual intentions clear. There's an open window, and one day it will close, ask her out on a date, don't ask her to hang but actually say I want to take you out on a date, go to a quiet bar and grab a drink. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out, but at least you shot your shot.
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:35 AM
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Umm I have bad news for you my man, one, several months and no type of relationship or sexual contact? It's likely you're in the friend zone, this sub is not about singling out one woman, it's about learning to develop skills to seduce women and create a relationship. My advice to you is to not stress or worry about this woman, if she's not interested move on its not that big of a deal, you should be approaching women, keep your options open
/r/seduction14/09/24 02:28 AM
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Ok, so my friend I must tell you your therapist is 100% right, but I sometimes avoid talking to certain women that have predetermined disinterest, if this is not the case I'm fearless when approaching. We all get that terrible feeling of fear and anxiety when approaching the opposite sex, but the men who bury this fear and approach anyways, fortune favors the brave. I remember watching an infield video (it's a pua term which means approaching in public) and he approached this beautiful woman, yo…
/r/seduction05/09/24 02:48 AM
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There's always some one out there for even the ugliest of people, in scientifically proven that people are more attracted to people who are similar in looks to them, and also similar genetically. Many couples share some genetics, this is also called genetic sexual attraction. So if you're an average guy I've got good news there's someone out there for you you just have to find her, but we as men can become much more attractive to women by working on ourselves, gym/exercise, diet, career. Just le…
/r/seduction01/09/24 04:41 AM
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Get her phone number after approaching, text her when? When is the next Olympics, get her hamster wheel to turn
/r/seduction29/08/24 06:18 AM
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Yup I agree, trying to slide through on the DMs isn't the best strategy, I mean why should she feel safe and trust you? You're just some dude with a few pictures of yourself, with FaceTime and talking on the phone you can build comfort and demonstrate your communication skills on top of your photos. It doesn't take long to assess the qualities a person has when you talk, you can sense certain traits, wealth, education, personality types, basically allowing her to profile you, which we all do nat…
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:13 AM
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Dude she probably thinks of you as a friend because you haven't asked her out or defined some kind of relationship, man up and ask her out. If you want to keep a romantic spark you need to create rapport, chemistry, and the most important thing, space, all relationships function when you give each other space
/r/seduction21/08/24 06:32 AM
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Contrary to popular belief this post is actually a good thing, because if you're making female friends that is definitely good, instead of me going on a long rant explaining what to do I'll link a gambler video that suits your situation perfectly https://youtu.be/CC_7NfZ1-Js?si=6nM4WpNtq76_5ixi
/r/seduction19/08/24 12:39 AM
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A lot of men think women are attracted to good looks only, but this isn't true, the most attractive quality is not money either, it's social skills, women are social creatures and it turns them on when men can maneuver the social environment. We as men build bonds with other men and acquire status and resources, so when I say a speech issue I don't mean your voice, but your communication skills.
/r/seduction18/08/24 08:14 AM
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There are three phases of seduction, first attraction, then comfort, then seduction. The attraction phase requires you to demonstrate high value, physical attraction is determined instantly by her, but when she says she's not attracted to you even though you're good looking it could be many reasons as to why shes not attracted to you, it could be a speech issue, you could be smothering her and giving enough space, it could a social skills issue, or maybe she thinks you lack ambition and drive, o…
/r/seduction18/08/24 08:04 AM
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That's the entire point of this community, we teach men how to seduce the opposite sex, speech makes up probably 80% of the process. Learning how to talk is an inner game problem, the other important aspects are body language, confidence, patience and timing. If you want general pick up related material like books and videos I can link, the point I'm trying to make is there are many ways to skin a cat, so your very simple question has an extremely complex answer
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:58 AM
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Don't be overly concerned with openers in the grand scheme they are very unimportant. You need to improvise the proper opener to suit the situation, there is no canned opener that guarantees a warm reception, just don't make comments about her physical appearance, say hey I like your t shirt, or hey I thought you looked interesting, the most important part isn't the beginning but the middle, and the end so focus on that part of your game
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:55 AM
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Sexual tension, eye contact, mirroring, body language, and space, women love space
/r/seduction15/08/24 08:24 PM
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My rule is never compete for a woman, there are so many fish in the sea as they say, if you're both going for that girl you'll be showing too much interest,I always play hard to get and maintain patience while interacting with a girl, I never go direct either, when I do this it throws women off and makes their hamster wheel start to turn, makes her more attracted to you, you'll be surprised how thirsty and direct a man can be, attraction which is the absolute first thing you should do, second is…
/r/seduction12/08/24 08:44 PM
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I've made out with a lot of different girls, you have to read the situation and escalate your touches. Fastest I've ever made out with a girl? 30 seconds! Body language that indicates going for the kiss, staring at lips, proximity, dilated pupils, if she likes you and is attracted to you she'll make it obvious, sexual tension is always the precursor
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:19 AM
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It's called approach anxiety, we all feel it, even the hardest most seasoned players get that feeling before we approach, but the successful men push through this feeling and approach, don't be too direct just be cordial and relax while talking, don't force anything and be yourself.
/r/seduction01/08/24 04:30 AM
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Absolutely I do, have you ever heard of the DiCarlo escalation ladder? Vin DiCarlo is my favorite pua author, he's from Connecticut I'll link his free pdf book at the end. Anyways he teaches natural game, it seems like you have a problem getting out of the friendzone, sometimes it's nice to have female friends but if you want more? You have to touch her, start with subtle touches like grazing her hand, touching her lower thigh, hugging, things like that, then you progress to more erogenous zones…
/r/seduction29/07/24 11:28 PM
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Not being direct and developing patience, I used to be really aggressive too early and not building enough comfort before I pushed for sex, I was always good at talking, and confident with approaching, but I just lacked the timing and patience required to close.
/r/seduction29/07/24 11:01 PM
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I am currently 29 years of age, I started this community when I was 15, and studied game for four years from 2010 to 2013, I had my bachelor's degree you could say in female psychology and seduction. I started on a website called fast seduction, then went to their forum, watched many YouTube videos while clubbing and doing consistent night game in university in my freshman year, over a hundred approaches. The most helpful tool for learning was either watching the pick up artist both seasons, or …
/r/seduction28/07/24 05:17 AM
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She won't, it's just a mindset, dating is a supply and demand market, women who play these type of games are shaped by their community, when there are tons of good looking women around it changes their behaviour
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:33 AM
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The term is "ghosting", don't let these women get you down and play mind games, trust she'll soon adjust her behaviour when there are tons of attractive and available women that actually respect you enough to reply and be interested
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:25 AM
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This is a logistical question which I can attempt to answer but if you haven't thought about it I don't know how much help I can be haha, my advice? Car sex, did that a lot in high school, find a secluded alley at 3 am, also cheap motels! Some you can pay like 50$ for a night. Or hope she has a place! Usually after and if you graduate high school you can stay in a dorm room or an apartment near a university campus, you can take out a student loan for school if your parents can't or won't pay, go…
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:49 AM
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Sounds cliche but just be yourself, ask her questions, relax and enjoy yourself, get to know her as a person, get inside her head and make her fall in love with you. Yes her looks lured you in, but her personality is what will make you stay. be calm and confident, give her space, and don't be scared to touch her, although you're asking a question on conversation remember that 70% of communication is non verbal, your body language is extremely important, keep your posture, make eye contact, mirro…
/r/seduction06/07/24 05:39 AM
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I'll try and answer your question despite it being very general. Conversation is a very complex topic, so is body language. I think one of the most important aspects of seduction is communication, we as humans are apex predators because of our voice box, speech, and complex language. This is why animals fear us, even though many of them are much more physically powerful. So developing social skills takes patience, it takes effort and focus, there are many approaches to take when interacting with…
/r/seduction06/07/24 04:21 AM
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Yea usually they want a relationship or more contact after sex, I'm just a very independent person, I also like to make her chase me
/r/seduction01/07/24 04:58 AM
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I have the exact opposite problem, if the girls you're seeing are ghosting you it could be a few reasons, one could be bad sex, another could be you not giving them enough space or feeling any emotional spark. If it's the emotional spark you may need to focus on your inner game and finding a way to illicit a strong emotional spark from these women
/r/seduction01/07/24 04:41 AM
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Sounds like a pessimistic and existentialist post, I think one of the biggest advantages for us men in the dating market, and there's not many, but our limitless ability to improve. Yea some men are born with superior genetics and wealth/privilege, but my story is one of triumph as a rags to riches story. Im a poor immigrant, who was a late bloomer and turned my life around, went to university and did extremely well in school my whole life, I had a privileged upbringing, things just seemed to go…
/r/seduction17/06/24 01:10 AM
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You're over complicating things, all relationships function on space, the more space you give her the better. Text her back promptly but live your life, if you wanna hang out call her, if you want a night to yourself or see the boys do that too. Just don't make her the centre of your universe just yet, save that for marriage, trust a lot of couples hate each other, just love your life focus on your career and enjoy yourself man!
/r/seduction16/06/24 09:07 AM
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Generally asking? You seduce her and get to know her, touch her, make out with her, give her space, and then you ask her. Easier said than done, but I suggest working on your game and studying material/doing approaches
/r/seduction15/06/24 05:38 AM
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In this community we call the term "oneitis" women crave space my friend and getting too obsessed early on can turn her off, you have to learn to enjoy being by yourself, and not constantly needing a woman to make you happy, learn to enjoy life, make good friends and find hobbies
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:24 AM
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Yea exactly people have already alluded to this point, we have no freaking idea man, one of my biggest problems in seduction is profiling and analyzing female behavior, I can't read her mind, but if she has a boyfriend? It doesn't matter unless it's a very serious relationship women will always keep their options open a lot of these "boyfriends" come and go and women are actively looking for a superior partner. This is where you come in, if you go out for drinks in the worst case scenario she se…
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:03 AM
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First problem is OLD it's pretty much a shot in the dark, second problem if these girls are not initiating conversation during your dates then these are girls you shouldn't be wasting time on, focus on meeting women that care enough to want to talk to you
/r/seduction10/06/24 12:01 AM
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The old saying is that day game is the best time to meet women but only 99% of guys approach during day time. Bitch shields are lower during the day because it's less expected she'll get approached that way. Night clubs are much more likely to get approached, she's with her friends and some men creep her out. It shouldn't make that much of a difference but if you're observing this it could have to do with girls being annoyed in clubs by thirsty guys, staring, getting too close and things that ma…
/r/seduction25/05/24 11:14 AM
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Don't worry about it man, truthfully women can be tough and fickle, sometimes you can do everything right and still get rejected, maybe she got scared off because you were really smooth on the date, what you have to realize is that women are aware that there are tons of attractive women on earth, maybe she felt like you're a player and can easily attract other partners. It could also be you misreading how well the date actually went, maybe you did something wrong, too aggressive, too passive, ma…
/r/seduction24/05/24 02:54 AM
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Are you in the UK lol? I read this comment with a British accent, anyways high volumes my friend high volumes, I also don't suggest complimenting or opening with a looks related opener, direct game doesn't work she probably thinks all you care about is her appearance. Be more confident and do many more approaches, reminds me of those gold digger pranks, men get instantly rejected as they approach, then walk over to their supercars and the girls flip a switch, point I'm trying to make is she does…
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:55 AM
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Bro this is the seduction forum, adultery is not a good thing my friend, I didn't even need to read your entire post I stopped at we are both married. The whole point of this sub is to eventually settle down and meet the right girl! If you're thinking of cheating? You want a tip? Get a divorce
/r/seduction18/05/24 07:33 AM
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What is your complaint lol, you're a 6 and you're getting laid from OLD. If you have photos of you beside your Bugatti or something then that might increase your reply rates. If you go to a bar and you're not succeeding and getting rejected then you need to adjust your game, bro real life will prepare you for serious relationships, online is working for you now but with core issues in your game, you may not be able to keep her. I'm a charming guy, so real life approaches are my bread and butter,…
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:39 AM
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Absolutely making female friends is a great approach, but don't stay in the friend zone with every woman. Unfortunately I feel not to brag but not a lot of women want to be friends with me! I have a certain reputation, but I miss my female friends and I love hanging out with girls. I got much better in high school by talking and hanging out with different groups of girls, our grade and the grade below we hung out with and played beer pong every weekend. But maintaining a long term relationship r…
/r/seduction12/05/24 02:31 AM
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Get off old and do some real world approaches, best advice I have for you. Dming girls on tinder? Not the best she doesn't know who you are
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:33 AM
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It sounds like you're really lacking confidence man, you're making close to 100k and you're 6'5, women love tall men, you're exercising, and there's always going to be women that are similar in looks to you. Stop playing the victim mentality and complaining, be positive and keep at it, I was a virgin, no game, just like you at some point before I got into this community, it took me 4 years of studying pick up before I got really good at it, i did 100s of approaches, watched countless videos, rea…
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:29 AM
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Quality> quantity, I've already done my thing at my current age (29), but I'll be done when and if I get married lol
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:16 AM
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Ummm you're not really giving us much information, all I can say is that if these women are refusing your invitation then it's most likely a comfort issue. You need to provide more detail as to what's happening, are you going out on dates? Are you cold approaching these women in the street? Are you dming them on tinder? Women crave space, and you need to escalate with kino and be very patient, patience is key to success. You might have bad communication skills, maybe she's bored with you, and do…
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:27 AM
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I remember at my first summer job before I got better looking and hit puberty this girl had a crush on me, there was this cute blonde everyone thought was the hottest I told this girl and she said to me "you should start with the less good looking girls and work your way up to hotter ones" this was her advice because she wanted me lol, never compromise your standards, but when you hook up you gain confidence
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:10 AM
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5'8 235 ish here, bro if it's ain't broke....but yea I have no idea about this Im the exact opposite, much better in person than online, I find online game to be unfamiliar territory, I don't like the concept of not being able to control more things when you approach in person, body language, speech, tone, I find I can get to know her better that way
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:17 AM
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John Anthony exposed Justin Wayne too, yea I watched the video todd is kinda cringe, I saw his hot seat in Vegas and was impressed but I think the girls were just easy. He tries to manipulate and use all these conversational techniques to try and coerce women into sex, that girl wanted him to leave and he says "all the girls I dated in Boston went to Harvard". He nitpicks every tiny detail, I didn't say Todd was the best, just better than owen
/r/seduction01/05/24 09:35 PM
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Vin dicarlo, Richard la Ruina, I've posted this book dozens of times and read through it 3 times https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction01/05/24 11:11 AM
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Todd for sure, Todd is actually really smart but more importantly good infield, I've seen Owen in action his game isnt great lol, he has some body language issues, Todd understands things quite well but I do believe he can be sometimes too concerned with smaller details, and some of his approaches some women seem kind of cold towards him, maybe he's got a bad reputation with fame, or these girls think that he's just capitalizing on easy women, and has a volume of hook ups player type, I know of …
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:46 AM
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I disagree, women themselves are attracted to good looks, and there is no way you could profile her personality prior to meeting someone, your first impression is your physical appearance, and women themselves are well aware that men are attracted to them, look at Reddit, how many beautiful girls post on this site? They do it because it makes them feel good about themselves, they get attention and karma. I've done well over 100 cold approaches, mostly on the dancefloor, and I am a strong support…
/r/seduction01/05/24 01:56 AM
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I'm not sure..women are tough, it could be something you're doing wrong, or it could be just the market you're in. A lot of women are really looking for serious partners and husbands, maybe they think you're looking for just casual sex, it could also be an attraction issue, or she may not feel comfortable with you. Just focus on exercising and eating healthy, and focus on your career and school. My problem, not to brag, is a lot of women get scared off because I sometimes give off a player vibe,…
/r/seduction28/04/24 06:34 AM
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I am male, why do you ask lol?
/r/seduction25/04/24 05:18 AM
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Good job, congratulations you're in the 10% club, men that have actually done a cold approach, usually the gym isn't the best place to approach women, oftentimes they are busy and don't really want to get approached. 185 lbs I guess is pretty jacked, I have the same bf% as you but I'm only 5'9, I'm also 230lbs+, I suggest to extend your conversation next time in order to build comfort, be relaxed, make some jokes, ask for her number, schedule a date.
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:39 AM
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Haha not sure asking her for her skin routine is like a blanket opener, but it's good you talked to her! Bro for me I'm good at talking, always have been, just needed the patience and confidence.
/r/seduction24/04/24 09:16 AM
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You can't force her to do anything, just try your best to build a connection with her, be patient, and be charming if you can, that's one of my strengths I'm sneaky charming, I remember when I was in university I knew many different people and hooked up with a modest amount of girls. I usually go to clubs and hit the dancefloor, then I approached and talked to a couple cute girls on campus, my key to getting into social circles is to be very patient, just wait, the longer you wait the more comfo…
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:34 PM
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Women are attracted to different types of personalities, some women value intelligence, looks, but a good personality in my opinion is someone who improves people around them, have information that they can provide to help people become the best version of themselves, think about athletes and celebrities, wealthy people, these people are seen as more valuable to society and have status because they are good at what they do
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:29 AM
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Umm what is your financial situation like? Reminds me of that episode of friends when the poorer friends get upset about all their expenses https://youtu.be/avfVD6Par0M?si=uQstKJSzMzaZenL_ Anyways if you're a doctor and she works at McDonald's it's no big deal for you to pay, but if she makes good money...it sounds like you're in the friendzone with this one, it's nice to have female friends, I miss a lot of my previous female friends
/r/seduction21/04/24 06:52 AM
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You need a full overhaul, personally I was like you, but this was in high school, I turned it around. How? This community, reading books, working out, implementing new techniques, writing field reports after approaching. I was super driven cause I absolutely love women, and I love sex. I will link a free pdf from my favorite Pua at the end of this comment. I basically studied female psychology for 4 years, and when I learned about mystery method I always had good communication skills, but I didn…
/r/seduction20/04/24 09:43 AM
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Get your depression and anxiety under control, see a therapist, take medication and do whatever you need to do. I'll tell you why she left, it's either 2 things, one she felt uncomfortable with you, or 2 she was bored. This comes down to speech and how you communicate, you have to be high energy and make her laugh, feel generally interested when talking with you. Some girls just vibe right away, I swear women are masters of conversation, we get good at talking because we spend our early lives st…
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:00 PM
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Definitely go with the crew, tell those boys to man up
/r/seduction18/04/24 08:51 AM
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Yes definitely, I've read a lot of vin dicarlo books it really helped my game, other than YouTube videos I've mainly read books and forums, it's really nice to see infield videos, but the books help with the theory aspect of pick up, it gave me a general sense of what I needed to do in order to be successful. It gave me inner game, and when I paired that with the experience of actually implementing what I've learned, I gained confidence to approach and close. I started in this community with a w…
/r/seduction18/04/24 02:53 AM
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Girls cheat on their "boyfriends" all the time, anyway it's your choice to pursue her, she may see you as a sort of brain trust, a lot of girls want information from you, it may help her succeed academically which will help her as she becomes a lawyer. She was obviously impressed with your answers in class, and she probably thinks studying with you she will understand the material better. Bro you're a smart man, not everyone gets into graduate school! I suggest keeping your options open and not …
/r/seduction17/04/24 04:17 AM
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Pubs and bars are different from poppin night clubs, you gotta find the right venue, lots of single girls around, usually they'll go out with their friends and hope some guy can sweep them off their feet, this is where you come in. Approach and enjoy yourself, talk to women, be confident, walk slowly give her space and use mystery method, getting to sex is a 3 part process, the first is attraction, second comfort, and lastly hence our sub name seduction. Read books, watch videos and here is the …
/r/seduction12/04/24 11:36 PM
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For short term relationships women may find bad boys attractive, but for marriage they will choose nice men. There's a difference between being nice and being a pushover, it's not like being a criminal will get you laid, don't be a doormat and stand your ground and be firm, dont simp and worship her, make her chase you!
/r/seduction10/04/24 10:40 PM
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Yea I never compliment women on things they can't control, but I rarely compliment women, I tend to avoid direct game, I've had more success going indirect, usually when I express sexual intent it scares women off, just something I've noticed where I live, other areas in the world it may be different
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:18 AM
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It depends on the sexual tension, and every woman has different timing. Date game I struggle with, because just like you asked it's hard to know when to make a move, sometimes I'm too passive and the girl flakes, sometimes in too aggressive and the girl flakes. Just look for the signs to decide when you should kiss her, and follow the DiCarlo escalation ladder google it, i remember one time I was spending time with a group of girls, anyways my friends told me to go with her to the liquor store c…
/r/seduction07/04/24 01:02 AM
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Day game, the old saying is 99% of guys don't approach during the day but it's the BEST time to meet women! Go to a busy street, maybe a university campus or a mall, also music festivals are the best in my opinion if you're into that type of thing
/r/seduction31/03/24 12:51 AM
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This guy is not your friend, you need to cut people out of your life that are preventing you from succeeding, there's a lot of haters out there. If your friends are not being supportive and helping you to get laid instead of preventing it do not truly care about you. Find new friends
/r/seduction27/03/24 04:26 AM
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Oh yeah partner let me tell ya, there was another time, the golden era late 90s early 2000s. It was a simpler time, but this community did peak but there are definitely guys out there doing their thing these days. You gotta be positive, girls always exist and there will always be guys getting laid
/r/seduction26/03/24 06:01 AM
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It does definitely but you have to pay attention, body language cues, IOIs, (playing with hair, adjusting clothing), proximity, mirroring, look at her face, blushing, being accepting of your touch, touching you back, staring at lips/eye contact. You should be always watching what her body is doing, they say 70% of communication is non verbal
/r/seduction15/03/24 12:53 AM
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Umm OLD isn't good for any man's confidence, these apps are like a supply and demand system, the good looking girls are getting DMs from Giga Chad's and have options like crazy. You gotta realize that women can get sex whenever they want, so you gotta be that guy that she sleeps with. Don't be afraid of women, they are people just like us, and men and women aren't too dissimilar, my confidence stems from my successes during my high school and university education, we spent so much time with girl…
/r/seduction13/03/24 04:28 AM
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Women don't check out guys as much as men like to check out girls, and when women check guys out they do it as you said subtle, women also care less about looks than men so there's that aspect too, other things that attract women, social skills, money, intelligence, stuff like that.
/r/seduction13/03/24 01:15 AM
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Your question is very generalized, we can't specifically tell you what you need to do to find a gf without giving us more information. Sometimes you can be too attractive and it will actually back fire, because let's face it many women, even the best looking ones are insecure. You could be scaring them off because they feel you are too good for them. It could also be a lack of confidence and social awareness, women are attracted to social skills, if you claim you're good looking and smart, soon …
/r/seduction06/03/24 07:18 AM
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The 3 second rule or whatever lol, nah I don't believe in that, you can try, worst case scenario you get rejected. But I do believe in getting in the habit of just approaching as soon as you see her, this will prevent your hesitations. It's not good to be scared of approaching a woman
/r/seduction04/03/24 02:34 AM
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You just have to connect with her and get to know her as a person. I've had 2 hookups with women I didn't know before, or didn't go to my school. How I did it? I just talked to her, gave her space, and was patient. In my opinion sex should happen 3-10 hours after meeting someone, if it takes longer than that it's likely shes not attracted to you, it's not junior high anymore.
/r/seduction03/03/24 11:01 PM
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Work retail, I once worked at best buy during the xmas season, you frequently can approach people and it is totally acceptable. You can ask them if they need help and start up a conversation. The downside to this type of job is it usually doesn't pay very well, but if you're in university or high school that money will seem like a lot. It will give you plenty of experience socializing and talking
/r/seduction29/02/24 10:18 PM
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It's called cockblocking, get a wing and try and diffuse the situation, befriend men in clubs
/r/seduction29/02/24 03:49 AM
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This isn't knowing how to close, this is an inner game and first two phases issue. The phases of seduction go like this, attraction, comfort, and lastly seduction which is closing. You want to demonstrate value, then make her comfortable, then seduction requires kissing and touching. Closing is easy, but getting her to that phase is what you're struggling with, your question is very broad and difficult to answer, you need to provide more information as to what specifically you need to work on, b…
/r/seduction26/02/24 04:45 AM
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Fear of rejection! I'm not scared to approach anyone, I'm fearless and brave but I don't want to approach a woman who has decided even before I talk to her that sex is off the table. People lack confidence and the ability to generate a conversation/meaningful connection with someone you've never talked to before. Yup even women are scared of approaching people, one time I was at a club with my buddy and I grabbed him and said let's go dance with these girls, I dive in confident and start dancing…
/r/seduction21/02/24 05:19 AM
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Your "friends" are cockblocking, get some new friends or look into a wingman meet up in your city. In the pick up community we call it a lair, it's basically a place where only men are allowed, the only time women are permitted to enter the lair is if it is for seduction purposes only. It's like a lounge for men to share ideas and drink scotch and just bro down, look into if your city has one or there is one nearby
/r/seduction21/02/24 12:51 AM
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OLD isnt really a good barometer of female behavior, these sites are flooded with thirsty dudes dming her constantly. Trust I've tried OLD many times, tinder, ok Cupid, plenty of fish, and not once have I even gotten a date, in fact 99% of women don't even reply on these apps, why is that you ask? It's because you're a strange man on the web who she has never met, doesn't know you. If you go to night clubs or University campuses and actually approach women you will have a lot more success, when …
/r/seduction19/02/24 11:53 PM
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Idk maybe you're interacting with women wrong, if you approach her expecting sex, then it feels like you're begging, but if you get to know her as a person then you will soon find out that she's human just like the rest of us. You will be attracted to her because of her personality, not just her physical appearance, and you will learn they have flaws and aren't perfect, but most importantly it will improve your confidence knowing that some women are completely attainable
/r/seduction19/02/24 08:08 AM
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Dominance in conversation to me has to do with you just standing your ground if she gives you shit tests, but I try my best to bond with women when speaking with them, I establish dominance by being confident in myself, financially successful, smart, good looking, and muscular, women find dominant men attractive but dominance has to do with social skills, men who can build connections with other men are seen as most dominant
/r/seduction18/02/24 02:20 AM
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This subreddit is about seduction which is the process required to hook up with a woman, however what our community doesn't do a good job of is teaching men how to keep a woman and maintain a spark in the relationship. Yes she is now chasing you, and is most likely smitten, props to you my friend because not a lot of guys know how to make a woman fall in love and actually build an emotional connection. Women are like Boomerangs, no matter how far you throw them, they always come back, the power …
/r/seduction17/02/24 12:44 AM
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Focus on both, yes do approaches, but also focus on your career/university and workout. Eat healthy and looks max, money will help you attract women, confidence comes with having success
/r/seduction14/02/24 02:47 AM
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Plenty of fish in the sea! I understand some areas have lower quality, but if you live somewhere where the quality is high don't panic you'll meet someone new. It's called oneitis, next time make your move and ask her out, this is what women want, a real connection with a sexually attractive man, she probably was disappointed you didn't ask for her number, if you were smitten most likely she was as well, next time pull the trigger
/r/seduction14/02/24 01:29 AM
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Dude ask her out! Fortune favors the brave
/r/seduction12/02/24 05:15 AM
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I'm actually really good at cold approaching women and starting an interaction, and I'm super fun to get to know, however this has a downside as I often get rejected despite doing everything right, I swear I'd be loads more successful if these women didnt pick up on my confidence and smoothness, at my age now women want serious partners and view me as someone who will replace them
/r/seduction12/02/24 05:08 AM
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Haha this is a new one...I think maybe you look effeminate or exude a feminine vibe, try changing your wardrobe and clothes. Anyway you can easily show them how straight you are by having sex with them! Are you having success with women? Or are you being frequently rejected, it may be a positive that they keep asking if your gay, maybe they think of you as a sexual candidate so they want to ask your orientation, this could be your secret weapon
/r/seduction12/02/24 04:59 AM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:50 AM
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Lol you probably need to adjust how you're approaching, I don't think those guys have your best interest in mind if you have to avoid approaching women to maintain your "status", although I could see him making fun of you because he saw you were doing something wrong, pick his brain! Ask him to give you advice if he's a player he'll know how to adjust your game accordingly. I one time was at a bar and a buddy of mine was talking to this girl, and I told my friend to tell him to kiss her cause I …
/r/seduction11/02/24 01:52 AM
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Doctors I'd say!
/r/seduction09/02/24 09:00 PM
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We call it cuffing season for a reason! This is the cold slow months so people are looking for a short term partner, hence the "cuffed" up nature of this time of the year
/r/seduction08/02/24 01:48 AM
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Have fun, be energized, approach fearlessly and be aggressive, be patient, watch your body language and what it conveys, be social and talk to everyone
/r/seduction04/02/24 01:41 AM
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Such a good comment! It puts you in control when you cold approach, they've done studies and men get replies on dating apps based on race, it's the truth if you're white you'll get replies, if you're a woman if you're Asian you'll get replies. This is why cold approach gives you an edge, you get the face to face and body language aspect of interacting, instead of dming randoms on tinder, you're able to convey to her hey im right next to you and I can show you that I'm a highly valued man that ca…
/r/seduction04/02/24 01:32 AM
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It's called an abundance mentality, how to stop being needy comes with having success, when a woman senses you're not needy it shows her you have options. Eliminating oneitis is key, I try and give women as much space as possible, it helps the relationship flourish, and helps to build an emotional connection. So the answer to your first question is to learn how to be independent and enjoy one's own company, the answer to the second is to be more confident, believe in yourself that she's attracte…
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:40 AM
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Patience, confidence and bravery my friend
/r/seduction29/01/24 07:42 AM
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I was gonna say the time in my life where I met the most intelligent girls were in high school and university. High school was better because I had information on how well these girls were doing in school where university was more private. I agree relationships with smart women are highly desirable, it's nice to have someone who can challenge and mentally stimulate you. I am a sapiosexual myself so I understand how you feel, there isn't really a sign above every woman's head with their IQ score,…
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:03 AM
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So much, pay attention to your surroundings, walk around the club slowly, and don't stare/make women uncomfortable. It's loud in clubs so try going on the dancefloor, talk to women if you can, give them space and be brave, and be patient. Work the room talking to different women, they'll notice you around girls and will be more interested, go for the kiss if you notice the signs, looking at your lips, touching, proximity stuff like that. But the most important tip of them all, have fun! Go in wi…
/r/seduction27/01/24 04:26 AM
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Haha nice reposting, I came here to say the escalation ladder by vin DiCarlo, but it's been said, I would suggest reading vin dicarlo's books as well, he is the best writer of all time. The game by Neil Strauss is a great book, but the attraction code and Pandoras box, groundbreaking content that will improve your game!
/r/seduction26/01/24 02:19 AM
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Being in control of your body language, your posture, and eye contact, they say 70% of communication is non verbal
/r/seduction06/10/23 11:16 PM
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Even with money, you still need looks and game, I suggest working on your game, money does so much, you can afford things that others can't, traveling, housing, clothing, cars. But I'm sorry to say 200k is a solid salary but thats not super rich, you can't afford a Lamborghini on that salary. If you're finding that women aren't interested in you even with money, you need to improve your social skills, cause women are truly attracted to dominant men! Money is a form of dominance
/r/seduction11/09/23 12:19 AM
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No haha, women are certainly interesting, not all women are like this but I observe a lot of men walking around with girls, reason? Cause it's much much easier to find a sexual partner as a woman as it is for a man. She probably has guys texting her making plans, these women meet men through social circle, guys they know from work or school or whatever. Now here's the upside for us men, we can approach any woman and with sufficient game we can turn it into a sexual relationship, this is difficul…
/r/seduction01/09/23 04:54 AM
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Yup women are attracted to social skills/dominant men, status is important to women it's not only about looks, things like having money and drive, being intelligent, and even having good friends can attract women to you even if you're not the best looking guy in the world. Honestly my best advice to men who are struggling with women is to work on yourself and improve, read books, watch videos, exercise and eat healthy
/r/seduction07/07/23 03:43 AM
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Yea I know I didn't finish reading I edited my comment!
/r/seduction21/06/23 05:00 AM
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Good job on the pull bro, I miss having friends to go clubbing with, I miss that a lot. Good luck I hope you meet many more girls and pull them home, I am a short guy as well. When women find out you have game it can be a double edged sword, it'll help you meet new partners but it can also create jealousy which can backfire. I think confidence in the club is key, here is a great night game video that'll separate you from most men if you do these things correctly https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY
/r/seduction21/06/23 04:56 AM
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It's called preselection, women are attracted to men who have been with other women, it's a social phenomenon
/r/seduction19/06/23 09:33 PM
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Good at math like Asian people are! Honestly my opinion on the #1 habit of losers, procrastination and laziness, women get turned off by poor men, in life you gotta take the bull by the horns and get shit done, you reap what you sow
/r/seduction04/06/23 05:05 AM
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It took me about 2-3 years, here's a good book to read to help you develop the right mindset, best way to improve speech is to practice, read, and write. What really helped me learn to talk is studying at high school, specifically English class, it helped me learn how to converse with people https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction24/04/23 11:35 PM
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Date game is not my strength, it's hard for me to find the balance as to when to make a move or not, if you make the move too early she may be not comfortable enough yet, if you make the move too late she may think you're not interested, and women are different as to how long it takes to get comfort built. But hey I like your idea, you want to qualify her to make her live up to your standards, which puts you in control, if you're going to an interview you're not just trying to impress and get th…
/r/seduction20/04/23 10:41 PM
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Did you go to university, a lot of guys game on campuses but it might be slightly weird if you don't go there haha
/r/seduction01/04/23 01:41 AM
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I have news for you, that feeling you get of nerves and anxiety before you approach will never go away. It's instilled in our biological hardwiring, it's because you fear being rejected, or subconsciously you're scared she may already have a partner. The best way to conquer this feeling is to be brave and power through, learn how to interact with the opposite sex, and the best way to do that is to approach, read material, reflect on your previous encounters, what went wrong what went right. I su…
/r/seduction04/11/22 10:18 PM
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Yea man I've been there, definitely have hooked up with girls with bfs, usually they don't say anything, but I've approached engaged women, that I will not pursue. Women cheat on their BFs all the time, some guys get really jealous, I am not one of those guys. Anyway be careful, and remember that infidelity isn't against the law
/r/seduction02/11/22 07:13 AM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size This is the best book by the best natural game Pua, hope it helps, also the game by Neil Strauss is great, and I would watch some Richard la Ruina vids on YouTube as well, this video specifically helped me out a ton https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:39 AM
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How about, get this, you could ask her, but I would do this after you've made out with her, now getting to that stage is what its all about at the club, if you know how to do that you're ahead of like 99% of guys
/r/seduction30/10/22 12:38 AM
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Definitely books, here's one on female psychology and dominating https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction28/10/22 12:58 PM
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Being attractive, not just sexually but through your speech and social skills, that's what you need to be successful you have to have social skills, and understanding female psychology
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:29 PM
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No, but I will say this its a great after club thing to do, women like weed so it makes for a good after party
/r/seduction27/10/22 07:16 AM
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If you feel depression when you don't have sex that sounds like a problem, sex addiction is a mental health topic that people don't really talk about. When you don't have proper relationships and you are constantly thinking about sex and it gets in the way of you being able to focus and get things done that is a problem. I don't have sex but I'm a happy guy, this is because of strong relationships I have with people. Theres a difference between addiction and just high sex drive, if you're depres…
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:55 AM
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Nah I completely disagree, I knew people in high school that would wait months for sex, I think if you have good game you can close in 3-10 hours!
/r/seduction22/10/22 09:44 PM
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The one that got away hey? What was it that was so special about her, maybe if you can isolate this then you can look towards finding someone that has similar qualities. Was it the conversation, was it the sex, was it the emotions and the way you feel around her. Anyways keep trekking man the more women you hook up with the more you'll be able to find someone whos better than her
/r/seduction21/10/22 02:30 AM
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She was getting a ride from some guy, i got into his car, and then he kicked me out of his car, phone died so I couldn't take a cab. It's one of those situations I missed out on, now I know never to leave your phone uncharged. Anyway I messaged that girl later and she was asking me to come to the club with her step dad lol, which I declined. I think she thought I was trying to hit and quit, which I was, and I think she wanted to see how serious I was, which I wasn't
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:11 AM
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Absolutely, one time I almost pulled a three-way from a club, was hooking up with this girl and she wanted me to come to her place and her friend was with us so...anyway I got cockblocked which is a regular occurrence where I live lol
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:08 AM
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I do have experience with it, get in good with her friends, if they like you then maybe you can suggest it? Don't really know how to make it happen, it's something for me that just kinda candidly happened, twice
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:04 AM
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Man what stood out to me was the part where you said, she wasn't comfortable telling you where she's staying. This is a red flag, but it's a blessing in disguise because now you know what to work on, you need to build more comfort with her before you close, ways to build comfort, through conversation and touch
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:04 AM
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https://youtu.be/3pM77Xt4rVk
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:53 AM
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Man in summer 2013 just before university! Man has my game got a lot better since then, sometimes you gotta be brave and make a move
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:19 AM
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When I was younger we had fun and still did well in other aspects of life school/career. Finding a balance in getting what you need done and having fun. I enjoy raves and festivals as I love all kinds of music and I love to socialize, anyway it's a great place to meet women, finding a good partner is difficult for everyone, finding the coolest girl out there who just goes well with you is the goal of this sub, it becomes a numbers game before you find her
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:51 AM
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Oh man I'm glad I get to get on this. Vin DiCarlo is the man! Also Richard la Ruina aka gambler on YouTube, look into Neil Strauss, and watch vh1s the pick up artist, it's actually pretty useful, mystery is great too but I'm not necessarily a huge fan of his system. Todd valentine as well!
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:52 AM
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Learning what to say is what its all about, but as the saying goes 70% of communication is non verbal! So most of what you're communicating is not coming out of your mouth! I will post a video on conversation at the end, but make sure you have good body language when talking, stand straight, make eye contact and do not follow her, give her space. https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:46 AM
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Absolutely it does! I think failed attempts make you better in the long run, reflect on your interactions to determine what you're doing wrong, this is how you get better
/r/seduction09/10/22 03:40 AM
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I get them all the time, it doesn't really matter
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:53 AM
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Diet, exercise bro! I always think of it like this, even if you're ugly there's a woman out there for you bro! You just gotta find her, there is a woman that is similar to your looks, and she fits your personality well too
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:41 PM
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You touch her! Friendzone can be a good thing, it opens the door to other females and it gives you exposure to how to interact with the opposite sex. She may not want a sexual relationship because of what you as a friend offer her. Maybe you're there when she argues with her boyfriend, maybe you study with her and help her with her career, she may not want to lose someone who she can vent her problems to.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:32 AM
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Nothing really canned to talk about, every woman is different and may enjoy talking about many things, but as a man it's useful to be able to read her and improvise into what she wants to talk about. Some women like sports, some like university or school, they may want to talk about their careers, maybe clothing or travelling, anyway there is nothing canned and prepared you have to make it up as you go. Read her reactions, if she lights up when you bring a topic up push, if she reacts negatively…
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:33 AM
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Vin DiCarlo! https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:07 AM
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Congratulations bro that's fantastic news! Vin is the man, when it comes to the Pua community. I've read his book the attraction code and after it improved my game significantly, I always struggle on dates I don't know the timing, sometimes I'm too aggressive, sometimes I'm too passive. But I've got to say that not a lot of people follow vin and read his material, I believe his stuff to be monumental in this community. Another great for me in Richard la Ruina aka gambler, these guys between the …
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:03 AM
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Yup I endorse the DiCarlo escalation ladder, you start with less erogenous zones and move towards more erogenous zones, eye contact, touching hands and arm lower and upper back, then move on to thighs and face. Also I'm not good at date game, I struggle with timing when to make a move and when not. This is why I prefer night game, it's just easier to read her on the dance floor.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:41 AM
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You need to approach women whether in a bar/night club or in the street. You need to learn what to say, and when to say it, you need to learn body language, and you need to be able to read her so you know when to kiss, and escalate. I would suggest starting from scratch and to immerse yourself into the manosphere, study, read, adapt and learn. I was a virgin too then I lost it when I was 16, hooked up with a few attractive women, which I find attractive what other men may not. You remind me of t…
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:30 PM
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Here's a great video on conversation, I believe opening is very simple, you just ask her name and introduce yourself, the middle and end part of the communication is most important, this video is attempting to tackle a very complex part of seduction, which is the verbal aspect, what to say and when to say it https://youtu.be/KBBnve-LcFo
/r/seduction23/09/22 10:01 PM
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Yea night game has the advantage of being able to build social proof by interacting with multiple girls in the venue, you can diet and strength train to increase your testosterone levels. Anyway I've read some books that have really helped me, this book I'm linking is about dominance and female psychology, it'll help you understand the mindset you need to attract women. Also what I always like to think about is that even though you may not be the best looking guy in the world, there is always so…
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:07 AM
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No offense my Asian bro but you need to hit the gym a bit, also people saying that race plays a factor but that definitely does, I'm black and I live in Canada and the color of my skin definitely holds me back! Keep on approaching and trying to build rapport, you will get better with time, also day game is nice but try doing night game a bit, I have tons of videos to watch on how to behave and interact with females in night game situations here's a great video by gambler https://youtu.be/9mVFtDi…
/r/seduction22/09/22 11:54 PM
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Did you have a successful life after school? A lot of times women don't realize what potential you had when younger, may you're doing well financially and have money, that could definitely change her opinion of you
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:56 AM
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Don't just approach women, but men too it's a great way to make friends, also helps in finding a wing cause beautiful women are seldom alone, hit the dancefloor
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:00 PM
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Yup definitely the right sub, have you ever fallen in love? Just intense emotions that make you feel generally happy and crave time with someone? Is it just fun to be around each other and have good conversation, is the sex absolutely fantastic and pleasurable for the both of you? This is what I call an emotional connection, it's a sort of euphoric feeling
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:57 PM
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For me I don't usually get oneitis, I've lost girls I've really cared about though, just the way my personality is I'm very independent and not easily attached, try not thinking about her and going out and keeping your options open, just don't get too attached and try and play the field
/r/seduction16/09/22 02:24 AM
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Read this book https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size You need to move out of your parents place and find a higher paying job, go to school, study hard, talk to a career counselor if you have to, take a personality quiz and try and find your calling, i wish I could help tutor you, that's how sal khan (educator) started his company khan academy.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:30 AM
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University was epic for me, school is a lot like work that's why you'll see universities file patents often just like companies. Anyway what information are you looking for to improve? How can we help you become more confident
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:10 AM
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Confidence, but most importantly some men don't know how to talk to women and get to know them, also putting her on a pedestal, treat her like your equal, don't get friendzoned
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:44 PM
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The old saying is that 99% of guys don't do day game, but it's the best time to meet women. Day game is very different from night game and sometimes it's easier, however the only thing that doesn't work in day game is working the room and building what I call social proof, which is the most advantageous part of night game. This is mystery method 101 I like to see the reactions from women when I approach 10 girls in a club, they start to feel a little bit competitive and they are more likely to b…
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:33 PM
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Yea I understand that maintaining a relationship isn't really discussed here, and by no means have I been in a serious relationship, but I believe a lot of the skills that go into meeting women relates to building a solid relationship. Social interaction with women and sharing financial and household duties is what will keep your relationship running smoothly. The only thing I can think of that we don't teach about is sex, people love quality sex with their partners.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:54 AM
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Here's a great video, here's a great book https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:27 AM
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I'm literally the opposite, but it's never too late to turn it around bro, you just gotta keep on trying, you'll get there
/r/seduction10/09/22 01:32 AM
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I like to share women, I like when my friends have sex with girls, even the ones of been with. In life you have to build quality relationships with good people, it's the key to happiness. I think your problem with men is kind of a good thing in some ways, it means these guys view you as an expert at meeting/interacting with the opposite sex. People are fake, they put on a facade, when realistically deep down they have intrinsic personality flaws, they use, they cheat, you have to find quality pe…
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:48 PM
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This is a great answer! You could also tell some funny anecdotes for her, or make some jokes, smile, touch her
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:44 PM
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Get a wing! Best solution
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:26 PM
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Yea the glory days are over my friend, but keep up to date with your favorite guys, hopefully people capitalized of the community while it lasted and have built up knowledge, there is still plenty of resources out there
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:37 AM
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"Fergie till these niggas how I sound when I see em in the street and brush em off" -tory lanez. But seriously if you're female just tell them you're not interested, they'll get the idea, put in your headphones and just walk away
/r/seduction04/09/22 02:05 AM
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I think drive is the most sexy trait to women other than looks, you gotta be passionate and successful if you wanna do well, this is what most women say anyways just watch all of those gold digger pranks
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:52 AM
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Sounds fun I'm jealous! Yea I do the same thing, key is to back way and dance by yourself give her space, it says hey I'm not trying to rush things, and I'm starting an interaction but not trying to talk your ear off. Another one is if your near a wall, you can lean back on it and dive back in
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:07 AM
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Openers are not really important but I have some videos that'll help you! https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ The first one is over an hour I haven't really watched the whole thing but just watch 20 minutes of it it'll help you, his dancefloor video transformed my game
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:04 AM
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It's cause OLD is a crapshoot, it does not work for men, I've seen people do experiments with fake female profiles, they have tons of options, get out and do it the old fashioned way, approach in night game and day time settings, your results will skyrocket and it puts you in control
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:00 AM
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I use natural game, just be yourself and approach confidently! Get to know her, play the field, go clubbing and approach 10 girls a night, make them jealous. Here is a great gambler video on night game and how to approach women on the dancefloor https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:51 AM
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I see a lot of posts about these petty questions, in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter, maybe she isn't replying because she's not interested, move on, find someone who is, she probably has many options as she's a woman, so you should play the field
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:44 PM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY Gotta work on your game at the club, that seems like your best bet, picking women is difficult and takes time to develop these skills, but when you learn what to do it becomes easier, women can be tough I understand, how many times I've seen men get rejected, and they may let you down easy because they may not want to hurt your feelings. Watch Richard la Ruina's videos on night game, then go out and do some approaches!
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:40 AM
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One time I approached two girls, started dancing with one, after about 30 seconds her friend grabbed her and walked away, she got jealous. The wingmans role is to occupy and contribute, mirror and back up your friend. Wingmans are essential in night game situations because women are rarely solo. Basically you just interact with the friend, and when necessary seperate her from her friend so your buddy can close. There's not really a code for wingmen to follow, you just treat it like any other int…
/r/seduction27/08/22 02:32 AM
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Ironically it's because of women like this the manosphere is the great network of knowledge that it is, getting the female perspective is imperative to success in dating, thanks for this! I usually don't like to open directly or with compliments, it's encouraging to see a woman endorse the cold approach. I've had women walk away from me when I approach them could you maybe give me some insight into why this is?
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:51 PM
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I think if you're depressed cause your not with a woman then that's a problem, I'm a happy guy and I have been on an epic dry streak, cockblocking is the root of this, however I had a lot of fun when I was younger, tons of parties, lots of hooking up, plus I studied very hard, but having sex won't make you happy by itself, happiness comes from the relationships you build with people!
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:50 AM
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I disagree, it can be done, you just need game, that's what this sub is all about, but I definitely agree it's not easy, but I have closed from cold approaches. Calling random people on the phone is annoying, it's not an attractive alpha male approaching you and interacting with you, and creating a positive experience
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:29 AM
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I've had women tell me I'm short, I'm only 5'10, I think they do this to try and hurt your confidence, probably a sign she's interested when people say stuff like that it's to qualify you make you think you're not good enough for her
/r/seduction24/08/22 09:11 PM
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https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size Watch riches videos read vin DiCarlo you'll be set! These guys have both transformed my game, like really impacted me. I watched one in field Richard la Ruina video, dude pulls a Russian chick in London with ease, he is a masterful pick up artist. https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:41 AM
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Your question is too general, you're basically asking how do I pick up girls, you need to talk to her build attraction and create comfort. There are 3 stages in the process, attraction, comfort, and last seduction, the middle stages being the most important part. I would suggest going with your friends to bars and nightclubs in the city, and using a combination of natural game with mystery method to have success. Here is a great psychology book by vin DiCarlo on female psychology and dominance i…
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:15 AM
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Music festivals! Buy a ticket and go, maybe do mushrooms or pop a Molly, or stay sober either way it's the most fun way to meet good looking girls
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:54 PM
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Yea this has happened to me! One time this really cute girl from high school texted me to come over, I get to her house and she says we are going to a mutual friends house, we get there and she sits beside him and starts flirting. I think she was trying to make me jealous haha, when they bring a friend it's usually nerves, and they use the friend to make it seem less like a date, and they use it because they view you as a friend, don't play into their games,be firm and let her know you want a se…
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:34 AM
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Yea this is a very general question, lots of areas to cover here, the guy saying getting back into school is a great idea. I suggest just reading some books and doing approaches, if you can keep a log of what you said and did in your interactions. Anyway you should message me I can help you out better that way.
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:59 AM
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Abundance mentality! You need to have many women in your pipeline, when she knows that she'll pursue you. That's the only time I've had women really be the one chasing me
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:31 PM
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Rejection is a good thing! It means you're approaching and interacting with women. Reflect on what you did wrong and what you did right, so you can be more successful in the future! Sometimes women are just not accessible even if you have flawless game
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:37 AM
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Haha it doesn't matter I ask girls that all the time, but the best way is to just look at her hands see if she has a ring, then it's a green light, unless she has a serious boyfriend
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:12 AM
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Yea man you probably are, unless you live in a shitty market. Anyway a lot of guys come on here and express their struggles with the opposite sex, I'm not directly interacting with you, I'm on the internet, so diagnosing your problems is basically impossible. I only have general information, if you are more specific as to what issues you're having I can more accurately help you.
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:53 AM
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Yea I absolutely hate dating, I prefer to do my work in a nightclub. The problem I have in dating is escalating and figuring out the timing, at the club it's different, I usually hit the dancefloor and I know what to do there to be successful. Have you tried linking up with your male friends and going to clubs? I have a ton of information on what to do in a night game situation.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:56 PM
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I think that a lot of women are Gold diggers, but today's society is different, women are more economically empowered than ever before. She just wants you to know shes not dating you for the money but she's attracted to other qualities that you possess. Anyway it doesn't matter if you split the bill, how are your dates going sexually wise? Are you making progress? are you getting make outs? That's what really matters, if she's splitting the bill and your dates are turning into relationships, Fwb…
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:42 PM
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You gotta be more confident man, if you ask for the number after that long of hanging out you're getting the wrong signals, you should be trying to escalate at the event and bringing her back straight to your place. It only takes 3-8 hours before you have sex with a woman, and it takes 3 seconds for her to be attracted to you
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:25 AM
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Yea I don't think that hooking up with other women will make her come back, in fact I would see it as the opposite reaction. Now abundance mentality is great, but I would suggest keeping all of your relationships/affairs secret, you do not need women knowing your track record. Abundance mentality is more of a mindset that you convey to women that makes them think, hey this guy has game and has many options, but you don't want her to know who you're sleeping with.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:37 AM
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Confidence is self esteem, it's knowing that you can bring something to relationship that other men can't, it's knowing she's gonna say yes when you ask her out, it being confident in your abilities and your actions, confidence is the alpha male, and alpha males lead
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:12 AM
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Maybe you rejected him because you weren't attracted to him, maybe it's because you don't want to lose what he brings to you as a friend, he's there when you argue with your boyfriend, maybe you study together and he helps/tutors you with school. Anyway he may be angry because you don't want to have sex with him, that maybe the only reason he wants to interact with you is sexual. I actually welcome friends in my life whether they're male or female, but I'm certainly not a friendzoned Candidate t…
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:28 PM
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I think if you have the mindset that you're gonna bed every woman it can mess with you, try making female friends, approaching and just being yourself and getting to know her. I'm a really social/nice guy and I'm always cordial. Being nice is not a bad thing, being a pushover is bad. If I was there with you I would honestly just grab you and say "let's go talk to them"
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:40 AM
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Don't take your shirt off, I am the king at gaming girls at festivals. Trick is to stand around and attract females toward you, the way you do this is to have a good time and not stare, dance enjoy yourself, women will be drawn to you, then you just talk and then you escalate by touching, easy peasy
/r/seduction12/08/22 07:45 PM
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Cool! Yea if you want a hot gf it's not that hard to pick up women, do some approaches and read the books and watch infield videos, the manosphere was created to empower men with attracting and seducing women. If you want some good material and stuff to help you out just send me a message and we can talk. I am not saying I'm an expert but I've spent years studying female psychology and can give great advice on being successful with women
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:20 AM
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Shout out to the atl! Anyway your title is different from your question, your friend has game and is preselected. It is definitely a good idea to pick his brain about women and how he interacts with them. I have learned from many puas on the manosphere, and people have learned from me too. Can you give us more information on your friend, is he tall and good looking? Is he muscular? Is he wealthy/driven? Usually these are qualities that lead to men dating attractive women
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:06 AM
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I had a cold approach a few weeks ago where a woman just left after a 10 second convo. I have no idea what I did wrong, but women can be tough to approach, keep at it bro it's better to approach and get rejected than not approaching at all. Read this book and keep a log. https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:28 AM
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Haha man women aren't too different from men, just try talking to her like you would to anyone male and just relax and be yourself. I think you mentally need the right mindset, just get to know her and try and not let the prospect of sex scare you off
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:59 AM
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So you're saying they leave you? People need space and don't like being chased or having a one sided relationship. Maybe there is a vibe you're giving off that's causing them to leave you, usually for me it's the other way around im the one leaving her. We need more information, are you sure you're not smothering her, or maybe you think she has feelings for you but doesn't?
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:05 AM
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Great conversation, good sexual skills and kissing, intimacy and closeness, intelligent and good personality
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:04 PM
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Best place is around universities, but if you can assess that someone is intelligent that's the most important part, the rest just becomes a numbers game, the more women you interact with the better. I swear when I was in school people didn't have a clue who was actually the smartest, turns out my best friend thought I was the smartest and most driven, and I always knew he was the smartest as well.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:51 AM
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I think push pull is kind of a Pua term used to describe a technique, but I don't really pay attention to things like this, I've studied natural game so when I approach women I just be myself, none of these terms, but essentially I think push pull can be done in other ways, like qualifying women. Anyway with natural game you don't need any of these techniques you can attract women by being yourself!
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:20 AM
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Yup that will definitely hurt your game, if you want to continue approaching other women, bounce to a new spot. But it won't really matter, you have to choose a woman in there at some point, but nothing wrong with playing the field, this is what mystery method is about, nothing wrong with approaching 10 chicks in a night
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:48 AM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size Vin DiCarlo is the absolute best! This book is free but you should buy Pandora's box if you're able to! It will completely transform your game after reading
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:11 PM
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But what if she was really hot, and a good conversationalist! Then you would be more than welcoming. It's a two way street women love good looking guys, we live in a society that values looks over other qualities
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:45 AM
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https://youtu.be/WCfwj_p7Oa8
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:31 AM
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No that's some blue pill shit, women love being approached by socially skilled men who are good looking and have game. If cold approaching is considered creepy then what is this world coming to. If people think that it's less creepy to DM randoms on tinder and instagram then they are clearly wrong. I've done hundreds of dancefloor approaches and women love dancing with men almost every time!
/r/seduction07/08/22 12:18 AM
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A lot of things could of went wrong, maybe she feels no emotional spark from you, maybe she thinks your interest is much higher than hers, maybe she thought the sex was bad. Anyway usually I have the opposite problem, after sex she gets attached to me
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:08 AM
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I'm not sure where you live, back in the day I used to go to karmaloop.com and look for clothes there, they sell urban streetwear. The best place to buy clothes for cheap here in Canada is a store called winners, they have great deals for men's clothes, their parent company is called tjx it's HQ is in Massachusetts so maybe look into that if you're an american
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:44 AM
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Yup definitely know what you mean, I've had logistics problems, and then you contact them the next night then they go cold. It's because they think I'm a player and want me to put in effort to determine if I'm relationship material. If you have the money buy a motel for the night, also you can go to there's if they live closer, make sure you have a cab set up, and your phone charged.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:08 AM
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Plus if there ugly
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:37 PM
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Here's a great book you should read on female psychology, he says the biggest form of dominance is money, back in the caveman days women were attracted purely to physical strength for protection, now money replaces that. You should read it it'll help change your mindset and understand how to attract women https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:45 PM
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Women can get sex whenever they want
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:41 PM
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Women absolutely love rich men, but it won't get you laid just by itself, you need to bring a lot more to the table than just a high income. Drive, passion, hard work, these are traits that rich people have, and that is what attracts women. Some men earn a lot but save poorly, some men earn less but save well. Anyway leveraging your wealth is important, she doesn't know you're rich, so buy some expensive clothing, an expensive watch or car and peacock a little with your money. You also need soci…
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:37 PM
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Natural game is the contrary to this. Being nice does work man! I'm a nice guy but I'm not overly nice, just well mannered and polite. Anyway I don't think you have to be mean to create a spark, I don't think anyone knows exactly what to do to create powerful emotions in a relationship. But you shouldn't be sucking up to her, that special connection only happened with me once! I fell in love, it's a two way street so did she, how we fell in love, passionate kissing and touching one another, she …
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:24 AM
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Confidence, drive, emotional sensitivity, social skills, communication skills, muscles, money, highly educated
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:23 AM
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Catching feelings is part of the game, you'll find someone better don't worry bro! If you increase the quantity of women you approach/interact with you'll find the right quality, that's what this is all about falling in love and meeting the girl of your dreams to settle down with and start a family. Here's a great book from the goat Pua vin dicarlo, it's about female psychology it'll help you really connect on an emotional level with the opposite sex https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo…
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:11 AM
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It's called a wingman, they help you occupy more than one woman! I have never been to the club solo, and the one time I approached without a wing guess what happened, after I started dancing with her, friend grabbed her hand and walked away, and she's not going to resist her friends wishes. She was upset that she wasn't getting my attention! Then I tried approaching 2 girls with a friend of mine on the dancefloor it went much better, I confidently opened, my friend backed up what I said and boom…
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:43 PM
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https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:49 AM
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Take every opportunity you get, the door will close on you in a hurry, also be more aggressive
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:37 AM
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This guy is intelligent, couldn't be worded better. Yea man women don't necessarily want money but the traits that go into a successful man, if you're passionate about what you do. Also women want emotional intimacy, romance, and a loving relationship. Though women associate money as having a more luxurious and exciting lifestyle
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:20 AM
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Cant think of any, but I know some good tv shows , I watched vh1s the pick up artist it's actually pretty solid, I also watched keys to the vip as well. Go read some books I know a free one which I'll post at the end, after all of this go out and do some approaches! https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size https://youtu.be/3pM77Xt4rVk https://youtu.be/zfuE15ihJXE
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:44 PM
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Ons and short term relationships can leave you feeling empty, but the end game result of why men pursue sex is to carry on their genetics, and feed and support their children. Romance is maybe what you're seeking? A meaningful relationship that leads to powerful emotions and connecting with your partner on a deeper level. This is what game is about, if you stir up these feelings it'll make you truly happy
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:03 AM
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I have no idea where to even start, I remember when I was like you back in 2010 someone recommended a manosphere website called fast seduction. Com, but I suggest watching some videos and reading books, reflect on your interactions after, what went well what didn't. https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size Read this book and look into vin DiCarlo, watch vh1s the pick up artist and look into mystery, watch some Richard la Ruina videos on YouTube This one …
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:06 AM
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When I got the confidence to go for the kiss and when I started university, I studied game for 4 years and I became a masculine force after high school
/r/seduction28/07/22 09:23 PM
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Yea I know exactly what you're talking about, this video right here will help you out, don't go direct and be confident when approaching women, if you stare or are unsure of yourself she will reject you, good luck https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:41 AM
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Yup this is my game right here, but making her too jealous can backfire, this is what mystery method is all about, when you hit the club work the room, it'll make your value in the venue skyrocket. https://www.girlschase.com/content/making-girl-jealous-dos-and-donts When I first heard of preselection I thought it was a temporary emotion, this is not true pre selection is permanent! But one thing you must know is that just having sex won't make a woman jealous, a guy could have 100 partners but a…
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:54 PM
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I see a lot of posts on here of guys getting ghosted or ditched! You should be playing the numbers game, don't get discouraged if one woman isn't interested, if you approach 30 women and bang one of them that's a 3% success rate, but if you approach 300 then that's 10 times the amount which will increase your conversions. Don't get hung up over one woman there are plenty of fish in the sea
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:08 AM
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I love to call people over texting couldn't agree more, I feel a lot of people these days don't want to have a good old fashioned talk on the phone. You could text for hours and have the same quantity of communication done in 5 minutes on the phone
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:25 AM
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Interesting! When I got this alert I knew I was gonna be all over this. Yo man having friends to go clubbing with is important, I never club or bar solo. There is a lot more you can do in person than just trying to DM randoms on tinder, there's body language, touching, all sorts of things you can do in person. I absolutely love dancing to music and approaching various girls, I love interacting/talking to people not just women. Making friends and having a good time is what it's about, you shouldn…
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:28 AM
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I feel some of these answers lack depth, I'm not female but I find drive/intelligence/tolerance to be big turn ons. Also good looks, that's the most important thing for me
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:49 AM
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Read some game books, do some approaches and keep a log, reflect on your interactions after. There is a great free book by my favorite Pua he teaches natural game, it's a book on female psychology https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size I basically studied female psychology in sexual relations for 4 years, I developed solid game basically having a bachelor's degree in pick up lol
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:00 AM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY Anyway if you don't want to watch the whole 15 minute video I can summarize for you. Basically what he says is you have to pay attention to her body language and not stare, if you're with a friend just talk and relax, if you're not staring and making women feel uncomfortable they'll get closer to you. Also walk around slowly in the club and use non verbal openers. I suggest hitting the dancefloor as well here is another video on that https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:01 PM
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Just mirror her texting, if she texts you back after 10 minutes then you wait 10 minutes, it's not really that important in the grand scheme of things
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:20 AM
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Yup definitely have had this happen to me! Their friends get jealous man women are competitive with each other, if they see you doing well they get jealous for your attention, this is what mystery method is all about. The best remedy for this particular problem is to bring a wing! He can help occupy the friend for you
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:28 AM
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I've seen a lot of these posts lately on this sub, guys it's just one girl, don't get too attached there's lots of options out there! This is why she's not replying you're too invested in one woman. Girls can be cold to men, it's not that easy for them to find a high quality partner, if you expect for her to be hanging on to your every word and reply instantaneously, then maybe your expectations aren't realistic.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:05 AM
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Lol maybe she ain't too interested bro, women that don't reply are trying to convey to you that maybe you're much more into her than vice versa, it's fairly easy for women to meet men she's probably seeing other guys and just views you as a friend
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:29 AM
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I usually have the opposite problem, I don't know why it's happening to you, maybe you're not building any emotional connection, they may see a relationship with you as lacking passion. I'm not really sure how to remedy that problem though, best I can think is to give her space and try and emotionally connect with her, learn personal things and find commonalities in your personalities
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:23 AM
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This^ I've said it before it's not approaching that's creepy, it's how you do it. You think women don't like to be approached? You're wrong, everyone loves attention, but it has to be done right
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:21 AM
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I checked your post history! You did post in r/sex but don't worry this sub is much friendlier
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:56 PM
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This is more of an r/sex question, but that sub is bad I got banned there for saying I like black women lol. Anyway if your boyfriend is bad in bed and you're trying things and he's not learning then you may have to take more drastic measures. I suggest going out and buying a fleshlight and a mount and getting him to practice. That what I did to practice and it helped me greatly, it feels similar to a vagina and it had a g spot in it and everything so you can really work on your technique and in…
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:53 PM
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I have herpes simplex 1 which is cold sores! I've had it for my whole life basically and it only flares up, well the last time was in 2019, however it's basically impossible to catch herpes if you wear a condom, never sleep with strangers without a condom
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:24 AM
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Sometimes prettier women can be easier! They are often intimidating to many men so they may not get a lot of attention or get approached often. I know a guy that picked up this legit 10 brunette and she was so scared of breaking up she was almost depressed about it, she was very sensitive and fragile
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:26 AM
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Read some books, do some approaches, keep a log, reflect on your approaches what you did well what you didn't. Here is a great book on psychology by vin DiCarlo the goat Pua, read half read a quarter it doesn't matter it'll help shift your current mindset to understand how to attract women. https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:23 AM
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Life isn't fair, some guys don't have much to offer but get laid, Ive learned over the past few years as a man where you live is imperative to game, some people just live in better markets
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:44 AM
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I am a broken record I'll post this video again https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:47 AM
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Lol the term Chad became popular in 2013 in Chicago! I'm confused you said your down to or down 130lbs, that's crazy man. Anyway maybe he is just jealous of you, cause you have good game/social skills, I wouldn't worry Id take it as a compliment really
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:54 PM
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Not just mexicans, I'm sure lots of other groups are welcoming too, everyone has a role to play
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:26 AM
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I think Nevada is one of the only minority majority states, there are tons of mexicans there. I remember my trip to Washington state, I had a great time but I didn't have much game like I do now, anyway I had a warm reception from the women there, I'd love to go back
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:40 AM
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That would be fantastic I have like a latina preference. But one thing I know is that race doesn't matter, but what's king in Brazil is the green, it's the universal language that does the talking
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:17 AM
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I'm actually black, I'm part German though and Irish with a Pacific Northwest accent like Washington state!
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:07 AM
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Nah man north america be poppin doh, I'd say Cuba Jamaica or Brazil! If you like latinas and black women, you need Spanish and Portuguese though
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:50 AM
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If you have money, I'm broke as a mf
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:31 AM
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You gotta make friends man! Approach people be pushy and try and build a social circle, I did this in high school and I have really good friends man, but I lost them due to some shit going down, but we'll be linking up real soon
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:05 AM
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I read an article from chase amante on jealousy it helped me greatly to understand the emotion, because I just don't really get it. Anyway he was saying that there is a chart right, x and y axis, so the x axis would be jealousy, while the y attraction. Anyway a woman can sometimes get so jealous, that the y axis, attraction, would decrease and on the extreme of the x axis is resent. Meaning a woman may find you too hard to get and may want to physically harm you and get even. So using jealousy c…
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:56 AM
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It really doesn't matter man these are questions that have little significance in the grand scheme of things, when you're both free
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:42 AM
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You looked them up before I answered? What are you having trouble with if you need some direction, not saying that I'm all knowing or anything, but you can pm me I'm here to help
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:53 AM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size Here's a free pdf by my favorite guy vin DiCarlo, also check out the game by Neil Strauss, Richard la Ruina, mystery, and Todd valentine. These guys are the best and have helped me massively. Good luck bro! I say these guys all the time but not everyone sees what I comment
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:41 PM
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Idk I don't think how good you are at dancing really matters, when you French fry when you're supposed to pizza, you're gonna have a bad time. Just as long as you have fun that's what matters, but I've heard salsa dancing is great especially if you travel to Latin America!
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:36 AM
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Technically the best way for most guys is social circle game, however cold approaching only works in some areas, you need to practice approaching, reading some game material and focus on improving yourself physically and mentally. That means working out and just overhauling it all, if you comment I'll send you in the right direction as to what material to study
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:13 AM
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https://youtu.be/CC_7NfZ1-Js
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:06 AM
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I think creepy is your body language, you follow or get too close, also lack of confidence and quick sexual advances will get you into trouble
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:03 AM
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No problemo senor
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:46 AM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ Here you go Richard is the best YouTube guy for night game
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:41 AM
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What you can do is link up with a guy at the bar/club to temp wingman you
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:55 AM
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I have a free pdf, it's not on social value but it's on dominance and female psychology. Best way to increase your value as a male is to have many options and have wealth/money. https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:37 PM
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Yup I know what you mean bro, I went to the club and asked a buddy if he wanted to go game girls, his response sure and I approach a couple girls, look back at my friend he's just standing there watching too scared to approach. Finding a good wing is imperative to night game, it's very difficult to pull solo, I wish there was some kind of application to help men find wings, I suggest looking to see/or even starting a lair in your city
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:15 AM
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Go to university, or college if you live in America, it's the best way to make friends I say, if you don't have friends from high school or Uni already
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:56 PM
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Kino escalation, usually asking for a date is enough to show you're interested, I have trouble knowing when to make a move, so finding the right timing is important. Also the date location is important, don't take her to a movie it's a terrible date idea, go to a nice quiet bar and grab a drink, great time to talk and you can escalate as well
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:07 AM
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https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:41 PM
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If you read even a 1/4 of it, it's a psychology book
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:05 AM
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If you read the attraction code, it's about vins experiences and him explaining how to attract women, he also includes stories about his adventures in NYC, hes from Connecticut read the book man trust it's very helpful, it's a psychology book
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:02 AM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size It's free, if you wanna pay and buy Pandora's box do it! It's worth it vin DiCarlo is literally the best Pua author around
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:37 AM
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Kino escalation, it's not necessarily a bad thing to be friendzoned, having female friends is a very useful approach to meeting other women
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:41 AM
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You're approach is wrong man, you need to get the idea of sex out of your head, women are people, if it was a man would you be scared? Go out and just talk to women and socialize, when you get experience doing this the other pieces of the puzzle will come together, it's a marathon process not a sprint
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:37 AM
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Well I don't mean just giving her money, but giving her the tools to support herself improve her career, there's a lot of an impact people can have on the success of others, help her study and be supportive through her educational process if she chooses to go to a post secondary school
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:49 PM
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Intimacy and financial support
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:17 PM
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Just an idea, someone should make an application for this specific thing, looking for a wing, get you in touch with other competent men, bro if I was in Arizona right now I would happily wing man you!
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:54 AM
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This one calls for a complete re-haul , you need to read approach and reflect man, it's not an easy process. So here's how I started, one day I was chillin with a couple homies I was at the beginning of grade 11, and where I live it's cold so it's like cold October or November, 2010, i told a buddy I didn't know what to do and I was a virgin, my friends were having sex I wasn't, he recommends this website called fast seduction .com. on this website there was all sorts of pua terms and sections, …
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:18 AM
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Lol, some people are really clueless even when the signs are there, invite her over clean your house and put the moves on, this one sounds like a layup bro
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:08 AM
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https://youtu.be/7OZebLs6v7o
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:19 AM
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Hide your sexual interest, dont display any interest and qualify them early
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:44 PM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size. Vin DiCarlo turned my game around
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:04 AM
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Play sports!
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:03 AM
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The ultimate form of dominance is wealth, however in societies where women have access to money is when they look for a good looking guy, don't be fooled looks definitely matter, but I think money takes the edge. I think women want both, but think about it these days women are more economically empowered, so they can support themselves without a man, in that case looks are more valuable than money. So basically the answer to your question is it depends
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:19 AM
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I like how someone used the word yoked in this thread. Lol hit the gym bro and take some supplements, work on your game, just saying people are more attracted to people who look similar to each other, there's a girl for everyone man you just need to work on the technique to find her
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:52 PM
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I hate going solo, problem is is that beautiful women are seldom solo, so you need a wing to help occupy her friend. Otherwise their competitive spirit will come out, and she may get upset if you try and game her friend
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:54 AM
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Oh yeah absolutely, I was the typical rags to riches story, virgin in high school, never kissed a girl. Turned it around big time, people used to make fun of me for getting friendzoned. This seduction stuff is legit, I've studied many puas and figured out what to do. Lost my virginity when I was 16, banged a few girls. I studied mystery method, read vin DiCarlo books and watched Richard la Ruina's YouTube videos. I've done over a 100 approaches in the night club setting. This stuff works man tru…
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:39 AM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:48 PM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size Look into Todd and mystery as well, Richard aka gambler, read the game by Neil strauss
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:06 AM
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Women are fickle, they also can be very tough, don't give up! Read some material and keep approaching, this will lead to a snowball effect, you'll get more attention and success as you keep going, it took me 3-4 years of studying and approaching till I figured out what to do. If you need some puas to get started on comment here and I'll tell you. Once again im in here saying the same dudes but people don't know who is the best
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:32 AM
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Women are always welcome here! I enjoy getting the views from women in the seduction community. Women often have the knowledge on how to seduce them, which they share with us on here, how do you think the manosphere has developed all this material, it's the women that give us their perspective. Anyway just hooking up and viewing women as a number is not what it's about, there is a lot more to a woman than just her physical appearance, a great personality and someone who you genuinely connect wit…
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:12 AM
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These are what you call low status, insecure women, they are attracted to losers, believe me most women want a good looking, rich, and nice man. These women who don't care about looks or money are in the minority. It could also be your perception is wrong, but if you're able to measure their calibre as people then maybe you're right, but watch those gold digger pranks it's literally every time the women lose their minds over rich guys. Some women just lack self esteem and settle for ugly guys
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:18 AM
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Conversation is an extremely complex topic, there are many different approaches I will post a video on it and the end after my thoughts. When talking to a woman or a man there is basically two ways you can go, you can ask her questions then reply with a statement sometimes you can be serious, you could be funny, or aloof. However you also want to comment on things that you both are similar in to build some kind of connection. But you don't want to ask too many questions cause that gets weird, bu…
/r/seduction09/06/22 12:09 AM
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Used to have the same problem, just go for it man, when you make a move you become able to do it whenever, just go for the kiss, worst case Ontario she'll pull away, it's no biggie.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:37 AM
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There's nothing wrong with catching feelings, being obsessive can become a problem when she doesn't reciprocate those same feelings. Women yearn to get married right, so that's always in their mind, but just try and keep her out of your head and interact with other women. You'll soon find out as the saying says, "there are plenty of fish in the sea"
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:16 AM
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https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y I'm good at talking to women, cause I'm good at talking period, I took school very seriously when I was young, lots of experience and consistent reading at writing
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:16 AM
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You need to learn natural game, this whole gimmicky pick up stuff is the wrong message. Viewing women as "sets" or the "three second rule" or mystery method or whatever. Gaming girls is about social interaction, you shouldn't just view her as a conquest but get to know her and create chemistry in your interaction. That's what i do, I talk to her and try and build a connection
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:28 AM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:08 AM
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Go to the club! Should be poppin if you're in a school town Edit: I didn't realize you're 18 where I live thats the legal age, get a fake id man the bouncers that check ids don't give a fuck
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:45 AM
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Just read books and do some approaches, there is lots of free material on the web for guys starting out. Look into vin DiCarlo, I will post his free book at the end. Also look into Richard la Ruina, read some Neil Strauss, look into mystery. https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size Finding a mentor is hard, someone who has the top game might not give his time freely, if money isn't an issue, maybe look into finding one of those Pua bootcamps on the web
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:31 AM
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Yea I think that in societies where men are less empowered is when this happens, if she knows that other women around you are likely to sleep with you their bitch shields reduce. It's a supply and demand thing, I've known some guys to complain a lot about this though, sometimes there's other factors as well, jealousy, fear of abandonment, or she's just not interested
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:05 AM
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No man that's not right, it's nice when people approach you and give you attention, everyone wants that, it's not approaching that makes her dislike you, it's what you do on the approach, it's how you lead the interaction, and generate interest and commanility. This is what game is.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:54 AM
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Day game is in public during the day before it gets dark, this means that day game is everywhere outside of bars and clubs, maybe go to a busy street or at your age go to a music festival? I think you can go if you're under 18
/r/seduction01/06/22 12:39 AM
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Yea this dude is legit, he has that rags to riches story for a Pua, he used to be awkward and a virgin and he turned it around, I was the same. It's surprising how little attention he gets though, I saw an infield video of his it's no longer on the web, he took this pretty Russian girl home after an hour in the club, he used some stealth attraction stuff, which I think is some of his best, he also gave me a closing technique that has worked really well for me
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:19 PM
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Todd valentine, Richard la Ruina, mystery, and vin dicarlo here is his free pdf https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction31/05/22 01:58 PM
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Go clubbing with the boys man, picking up girls at clubs is easy if you know what you're doing. Make some male friends and do some approaches, if you need the best material from the puas that I studied, that helped transform my game once again I'm willing to share, comment here and I will let you know. I am the ultimate broken record on here with these recommendations but people don't see it all the time and are unaware of who the best is. I've studied these guys and done 100s of approaches in t…
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:29 AM
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Yea controlling your sexual urges is very important in this life, it's a balancing act you don't want to be so horny that you can't focus. Try finding a gf, it'll help you out, don't go on tinder do some day game or night game, I know all the best puas to look into if you need it just comment here and I'll tell you.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:25 AM
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Yea controlling your sexual urges is very important in this life, it's a balancing act you don't want to be so horny that you can't focus. Try finding a gf, it'll help you out, don't go on tinder do some day game or night game, I know all the best puas to look into if you need it just comment here and I'll tell you.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:24 AM
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Get a fake id
/r/seduction30/05/22 07:52 PM
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https://youtu.be/FftTLcYUlQ0 It sounds like crazy stupid love lol! Anyway I don't know about coaching but there is some great material/books out there to help you get back into it. Start with this book, and look into some puas, like mystery, and Richard la Ruina aka gambler https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:22 AM
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He's an alpha male, there are many characteristics that alphas have, some things like dominant body language, social skills, leadership, intelligence. These men know things have a high income, and make others around them better, and increase company profits. He's a well rounded individual, i think that education is the key to having this type of impact on others. Read books, study, expand knowledge and work on how to improve you're work related skills, people will view you as an expert, I sugges…
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:13 AM
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There is a lot you can do without surgery to appear more attractive to men. Most important diet, then workout, take supplements, get enough sun, sleep well, take estrogen boosting supplements, makeup/clothes/hair but that will help you appear more attractive. Other ways reduce stress, stop drinking alcohol or smoking, have frequent sex, all of these things will increase your hormones which will make you more attractive
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:52 PM
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Dance floor game! Also those guys were making jokes, learning how to converse is very important, but it's a complex topic. Here is Richard la Ruina on conversation, anyway you want to ask questions then make statements, try and make it interesting and funny, but there is more than one way to skin a cat, some conversations are deep, some are funny, but you will get better at talking to women by practicing and doing approaches, remain confident and work on your body language, the old saying is tha…
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:48 PM
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Richard la Ruina, rsd Todd, vin dicarlo, by.
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:52 AM
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What it's like growing up as a hot girl, you don't need a personality because people immediately treat you differently. As a man you impact the people around you, you can mold the girls in your circle to bring out the best in each of them. I've met some dumb hot girls, but the one that got away for me was attractive and really cool, maybe the country/market you're in has lazy/dumb women, but some girls work hard are smart and are beautiful
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:31 AM
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Man you're asking a very general question, the whole point of pick up is knowing what to say to women, that's what the process requires. If you want tips on how to talk to women here is a video by Richard aka gambler telling you how to converse, but this is in person, which I suggest you do, if you want to slide in and DM randoms you can do that but you can also go to a club or a busy street and do a cold approach https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:36 AM
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Give her space! You cannot have successful relationships without giving people space, don't you hate it when people follow you/get to clingy/needy it's annoying man.
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:18 AM
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Richard la Ruina conversation control
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:34 PM
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I know how you feel man I haven't done an approach in years, where I live i feel the women are not even interested even before I approach. I swear a lot of game and girls has to do with location, some women are taken/not interested, maybe a change of scenery will help you?
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:25 AM
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The best way to build confidence is to gain experience. Just try going to the bar and speaking to 10 women every time you go out. Work the room, mystery method is the night game formula, women will pick up on social cues when you're having success. Talk to women and try and build a connection, make some jokes, be firm, and don't be afraid to touch her and escalate. What I did was when I first started clubbing, I did many different approaches just trying to talk to women, then when I went to uni,…
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:44 PM
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Just look at his channel, I do not have a playlist, rich is great though my favorite YouTube Pua by far
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:59 AM
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https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:52 AM
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I remember my first cold approach! It was at my first summer job back in 2010, approached a cute girl got the number. Anyway I would suggest not just walking up to her and asking for her number, engage her in a conversation first, then ask for the number with confidence, almost like she's going to say yes. Day game is quite easy, women have lower bitch shields during the day time. Anyway good on you for approaching, if you need some good game material you can comment here and I'll tell you who t…
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:17 AM
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Learn japanese, it's a very tough language to learn especially for English speakers. Anyway here is a great video on night game https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:42 PM
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Absolutely even the most seasoned veterans get nervous before talking to a girl, you gotta push yourself to make that approach. Some women will brush you off but some will be happy that you started an interaction! Maybe go to the club with your friends and try and dance with some women, fortune favors the brave my friend. After you've done a few approaches you'll get more confident. https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ When you dance have a good time women will take notice and she will feel comfortable …
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:36 PM
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Go to your favorite/quiet bar to grab a beer and just talk I would say, other creative date ideas, go to a shooting range, maybe go golfing or the golf range, a sports game, a concert, and yea maybe a hike
/r/seduction22/05/22 02:11 AM
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Here you go! https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction22/05/22 12:15 AM
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Don't just walk up to her and ask her out, talk to her first have a conversation then ask, be confident throughout the process, if you have doubt she will too. Don't get obsessed with one, if she rejects you there are plenty of other ways to meet women
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:37 PM
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Date game is a tough process, it's hard to escalate and create interest https://youtu.be/C26FoNBV4yU Anyway I have a hard time figuring out when to make a move and when not, also picking the right venue for a date is crucial, sometimes you can do everything right and she still won't sleep with you/flake on you, sometimes you'll be nervous and you'll get sex on the first date. Try getting creative for date ideas. This is why I prefer night game, because of the social aspect you can apply some mys…
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:39 AM
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You get a lot of hate, and sometimes people will cockblock you, I think it's good to keep your relationships/affairs secret and maintain privacy. Plus people might get jealous, and it could even effect other aspects of your life
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:24 AM
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Yea tinder is very location dependent, for me it never worked, I suggest doing some approaches, day game/night game you'll have more success than dating apps like tinder. If you need some tips on how to approach women in clubs watch this video, it's very long however it's really good even if you just watch like 20 minutes. https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:03 AM
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Women care more about intimacy, and emotional connection than just pure sex, men are the other way around just saying, it's quality not quantity
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:41 AM
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https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:11 PM
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Men and women both like rich people, however it's not the money by itself that people are attracted to but the personality traits that lead to wealth. If you're passionate about your career and you work hard that is also attractive even if you don't have money. Money takes the life you have now and improves it, some people make little but save well, some people make a lot and spend it. Everyone's seen those golddigger pranks on YouTube, women go nuts for rich guys it's no secret, but using money…
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:04 PM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY Get a wing! Anyway this video tells you how to behave at a club, also the dancefloor is your friend! It's my bread and butter I can do extremely well on the dancefloor
/r/seduction15/05/22 10:36 PM
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First check out mystery, watch vh1s "the pick up artist" also watch some seminars, he's obviously well known. Then look into Richard la Ruina, and a pua from Connecticut called vin dicarlo, his book the attraction code is a free pdf, but I suggest you buy Pandora's box. Check out Todd valentine as well, and read the game by Neil Strauss https://youtu.be/x_mN2fizzXg
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:41 AM
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You need some pua material, it'll help you a lot, just comment here and I'll tell you the best guys, I've literally said the same guys every time but it's amazing how little people know about some of these puas I've studied, they have completely transformed my game
/r/seduction15/05/22 04:42 AM
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I looked at your profile you do pick up in Vegas? That might be why, I've really only done pick up by myself twice, and it just didn't work, when I've asked my buddies to approach with me the sets last longer
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:21 AM
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Not drinking isn't the problem, I don't like going to clubs solo, it's hard to pick up women without a good wing. For example if you approach 2 girls, one might get jealous and take her friend away from you, so you have to engage both women, women rarely club solo so it's an issue
/r/seduction14/05/22 02:49 AM
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Touch her! Break the touch barrier, it's a progressive process that starts in less erogenous zones to more erogenous zones, when you kiss her and make out this leads to sex, you gotta take her clothes off, the best feeling ever is when you first take her bra off and she complies, it's that feeling you know that she's down
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:41 PM
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As a man success in dating is when you don't get rejected, obviously you're gonna get rejected but a lot of pick up, I mean a lot is finding the right woman, some girls are just not having it. But you can increase your success rate significantly by working on your game, reading books and doing approaches
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:58 AM
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How to get out of the friend zone? Make her jealous https://youtu.be/CC_7NfZ1-Js
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:45 AM
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It's called the law of least effort, however you still need to take action, I don't think if you "stop looking for sex you'll find it". Women like a guy who doesn't display too much interest, and women love space. That's how I close all girls, give them space. One time I was at a bar dancing with a girl, I just left to go to the gas station, and she was calling me to come back, when you give women adequate space it makes them more comfortable with you. All relationships in life function much bet…
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:39 AM
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https://youtu.be/MIBzVc3kJAM
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:24 PM
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Yes and no, sex is great it releases dopamine and serotonin, will increase your testosterone levels as well, it's also good exercise and depending on the woman, it can be highly pleasurable. however it's not as important as you think, having good relationships and friends will make you happier than just having sex. For example I'm not really having sex but I'm not depressed because I've had a lot of fun and bonded with people around me, high school was crazy fun for me and I'm still riding that …
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:24 PM
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Settlers of Catan, also risk, but they take a long time lol a board game at a date is a unique idea, let us know how it works out
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:02 AM
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School is the best place to make friends, join sports teams, approach people around campus, go clubbing, talk to people in your classes. When I went to uni I got into contact with people that I went to high school with and they knew other people so that helped me branch out
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:13 AM
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Girls are always in groups, get a wing! He or even she will occupy the friends while you can isolate the girl you're interested in. If you're by yourself engage the friends and interact with all of them. I've approached two girls and had the friend pull her away because they get competitive/jealous
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:31 AM
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I'm 5'10 too, but a solid 230lbs right now, so I make up with my lack of height with strength. I have high testosterone I think girls would look past my short stature. I always like to put myself in her shoes, I like tall women too but there is nothing wrong with a short girl with a great body!
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:04 AM
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Fair enough you're right, but I still think asking her what courses she's taken isnt a bad approach starter. When I was in university I wouldn't have a problem someone asking me what my major is
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:43 AM
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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ Back away or lean on the wall if there is one near, give her plenty of space, then dive back in, keep doing this push pull method, then if she's ready for the kiss
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:27 AM
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Don't open with a compliment about something they can't control,I almost never compliment girls unless I genuinely have something good to say. Just improvise and think of something to say, there is nothing wrong with saying hey I like your nails/hair/clothes my name is insert here, what's you're name. Or say hey I like your look what is your nationality or ancestral background, I always enjoy meeting people from different cultures. Walk up to her and say hey I noticed you walking around the univ…
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:02 AM
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https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:49 AM
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I love clubbing, but sex isn't everything, in life building solid relationships is more important. I may have good game but I don't get a lot of sex, the reason mostly is I'm getting cockblocked a lot, but I have good friends that I'm close with, thats more important to me than having a permiscous bachelor lifestyle.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:50 AM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY This is a great video, to summarize he basically says do non verbal openers, make sure you aren't staring at girls just relax and enjoy your time. He also talks about girls body language that want to be approached, also walk slowly through the bar. Another tip of mine is to give her space at the bar, don't be scared to work the room talking to different girls, this is mystery method 101, go back to the girl you're most interested and try and touch her the right way t…
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:03 PM
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Hard to answer your question it's kind of broad and requires a lot of depth/complexity to answer. I suggest learning how to dance with girls at the club I have a great video for you which I will post at the end. Anyway walk up to her share your names and try and create an interaction. I would suggest doing many night game approaches and working on your game with some pua material. Mystery method is king at the night club so look into his material, I also suggest vin DiCarlo and also Richard la R…
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:56 AM
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I've done a lot, mostly night game though, day game I've only done a few, it took me about a year till I got the hang of it, used to have timing problems, too passive, but I got more confident after a hook up in the summer, then I was better at the timing aspects knowing how to connect/build comfort then learning how to close as well. If I were to say I figured things out after like 100 approsches. Reflecting on each approach makes the process faster, I never did but write notes too
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:56 PM
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Make her jealous
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:31 AM
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Talking to women is like the same as talking to anyone guys or girls, learning how to talk is something we as humans learn at young age and improve as we get older. You have tons of experience talking just try and relax, here is a gambler video on how to talk to girls. https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:57 AM
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College town for sure. It's nice and small and everything is tight together. Also the clubs are always poppin and it's easier to make friends in school
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:46 AM
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Doesn't matter man just make sure you're having a good time
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:46 AM
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Yea man some guys are misogynistic pricks, they expect sex from women. One time I was at a club this chick comes up to me and asks "can you buy me a drink" I said no, this actually lead to us having a conversation and she was impressed, the second you stop trying your hardest being a doormat with girls and just be yourself they'll be much more attracted. You don't have to be too nice, and don't be a dick and just take things slow and try and connect your results will skyrocket. I love hitting th…
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:34 AM
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A girl who just lies there and does nothing. I would like to experiment bang as many as I can and find the perfect woman in the process. Best in bed, best chemistry, love and all that emotional shit, I also like intelligence it's a big turn on for me, I also like rich women, but I'm not a male golddigger I can take care of myself.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:20 AM
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https://youtu.be/yicP7ZEEz1k
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:17 AM
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Unless you're rich as fuck take her to taco bell and make her pay half
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:18 AM
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She wants good sex, and a man who can provide for her, you need to build a quality relationship that she can't find anywhere else, girls know when they have locked down a quality man, and the opposing factor is that as a man you have plenty of options as well
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:38 AM
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Women crave intimacy, learning to build an emotional connection or getting her to "fall in love" is a complicated task. Being comfortable with her and finding common interests, then proceed to touch or cuddle, these actions stimulate dopamine production. Having the right communication style that suits your relationship, and i believe love is a two way street, if you genuinely like her as a person then women will usually reciprocate
/r/seduction23/04/22 01:14 AM
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I call em domes, great job op, I am a strong supporter of cold approach game but I prefer night game! Day game is great too
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:25 AM
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Man being that young and having that many partners is incredible!
/r/seduction19/04/22 09:36 PM
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https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:28 AM
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You should study natural game, it's not a style that comes off as gimmicky/canned. You can be yourself and attract women that way
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:10 PM
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Lol if I had a dollar for how many flakes...but yea stay persistent man, it's just something that happens with date game, it's not my strong suit I never can gauge when to make a move or when not to. I'm good at talking on dates but it's hard for me to close, I suggest doing night game and pulling from there, it's much easier to treat the night club like a date and get to know her through the night, then take her home. There was one video with Richard la Ruina aka gambler infield, it was incredi…
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:03 AM
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Touch areas that are non sexual, the less erogenous zones first. Eye contact, hands,upper back/shoulder, lower thigh, abdomen, hugging, upper thigh, face, hair, lol even footsies at the table. And then last is the kiss
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:53 AM
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Don't you like it when a woman dresses up and gets her hair done? Same thing for men women want a guy who has a sense of fashion. You don't need to dress up all the time but when you're going out put on some nice clothes. You can get solid threads for cheap just look around. I remember in high school people always complimented me on my dressing style, they'd ask "where do you buy your clothes?". https://youtu.be/FftTLcYUlQ0
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:15 AM
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No I think women actually are pretty decent as most humans are, if she's rejecting me she has a good reason, I've improved my game significantly by just practicing and reading, it's not her fault that my game used to be bad
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:31 PM
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https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:18 AM
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https://youtu.be/-rO7_UAxBqk
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:49 AM
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Man I absolutely hate when they're married or have a BF, but women out at clubs are often single that's why they go there! Often times women just have a way of showing that their looking to hook up, this Richard la Ruina vid is great for how to behave and interact with girls in bars and clubs https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:49 AM
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I disagree, but if it is working for you then to each their own I say, personally i feel more in control in person, rather than just dming girls I think look cute. The way my style of game works is really good for night game especially, the puas I've read into helped me learn how to have success in clubs, but I think the best type of game is social circle game. My style is called "natural game" and I mix in some mystery method as well, I've had success in night situations especially on the dance…
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:39 AM
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Wait you can't close or you can't get an erection? If you can't get an erection talk to your doctor, he may prescribe you viagra, if you are having troubles closing with women I suggest reading some books on how to close, the key to closing is patience, give her some space and wait she'll be down to bang when she's ready, when you kiss just pull away and let her chase you. You can also buy some herbal OTC to help just google it man
/r/seduction11/04/22 12:16 AM
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I absolutely love infield videos, I didn't watch the whole thing but dude is confident, I think his game is tight, I'm jealous I'd love to be in Miami right now! Anyway only suggestion I would have is to try and get a wing, her friends were chill but if you had a buddy to occupy her friends then you would be in a better position. I liked the breakdown of the videos these guys know what's going on with her body language and ioi and such. I almost never compliment women, and I would try and make s…
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:44 AM
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I say get off online dating, it's a woman's market, but as a man you have so much more power in person, day game or night game. I love night game because I can go on the dancefloor and do really well, in university I did over 100 dancefloor approaches. Here is Richard aka gambler telling you how to pick up girls on the dancefloor. https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:19 PM
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Someone once told me, some great advice in life is to find a balance between sex and work. Tell her this and try and find time to balance your career and sex, if she's getting in the way of your work life and ability to focus that is a problem. Shouldn't be too hard to find time to have sex and get what you need done
/r/seduction09/04/22 01:42 AM
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You should post this in r/askwomen I am a man and I have absolutely no idea, I guess I've heard girls talk about good looking dudes but I rarely have had it happen, I can count on one hand number of times
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:08 AM
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Learn to club is my advice! There is no better place to pick up women as many of them are there to be approached. Maybe go downtown on a busy street and do some day game, maybe go to the grocery store and approach there just walk around campus and approach, it's not creepy to go to places to approach women, women love being approached by men but you have to do it in the right way, imagine when people come up to you and have a friendly conversation? It feels good right, people love attention
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:02 AM
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Totally agree, this is a positive mindset, it'll help you get better results by projecting confidence https://tenor.com/bbQCO.gif
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:17 AM
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This topic confuses me too! But having game will help you achieve your first hookup, and preselection isn't just about sex but women mostly get jealous about emotional intimacy, if you have lots of female friends and connect with them women get jealous, where as men get more jealous about the actual sex part
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:42 AM
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Don't reach out, she will contact you after the act
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:12 AM
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Vin DiCarlo his book the attraction code is completely free, Pandora's box is great but you have to buy it, Todd valentine, Richard la Ruina aka gambler, mystery, Neil Strauss specifically the game by Neil strauss. That's all of em, i feel like a broken record on this sub sometimes recommending all these guys but they are the best at what they do and have helped me immensely
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:57 AM
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Not really a hobby but school/university is a great place to make friends
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:01 AM
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I would make sure these guys are vetted before you go to their "bootcamps". A lot of these "puas" claim they have game when realistically they don't. I suggest doing your own thing, I was self taught, I just read the books and did the approaches, watched some infield videos, anyway I remember rsd Todd was doing a bootcamp back in 2014 in Vegas, he actually seemed to have solid game after watching his hot seat (a montage of all his infield vids) so some of these bootcamps actually help if these g…
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:27 AM
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How to emotionally connect with women is what you're asking? I don't really have an answer, it's kinda something that just happens, I've only really fallen in love once, it happened in one night and I never actually had sex with her, unfortunately she moved for school and so did I and I haven't seen her since, someone sabotaged my relationship. Best advice I can give is just try and mirror her and get to know her as a person, also kiss and become intimate. When you spend time and get to know som…
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:09 AM
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We as a society value those who are skilled, like actors, and athletes, politicians, rich people (Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk), musicians, these people are well liked because they are skilled at something. Drive and money are very attractive to men and women, it means these people are good at things and society rewards hard work/excellence
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:53 AM
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I disagree I think you should just grab her number and ask her out, if she's interested she'll come through. However converting a date into a relationship is not my strong suit. Pick a good date idea, something fun and that gives you an opportunity to talk, maybe take her to a nice bar and grab a beer, probably my favorite date idea
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:47 AM
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Look into the DiCarlo escalation ladder if you can find it i think it's on Reddit. Anyway touch her in less erogenous zones, eye contact, hands, shoulder, upper back, lower thigh, then move on to upper thigh lower back, face/hair and her stomach area
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:46 AM
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Openers are not as important as you think, I would suggest studying some material, there are some great puas out there that'll help. Don't need to hire a dating coach, a lot of the material out there is free. I suggest looking into vin dicarlo, he has a book called the attraction code which is free, then Pandora's box which is not, also look into Richard la Ruina aka gambler, read the game by Neil Strauss, and look into Todd who is no longer with rsd, which was a trash company anyway, and of cou…
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:31 AM
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Yea interesting, the old saying is that 99% of guys don't do day game but it's the best time to meet women. If day game is working for you then stick to that, I personally prefer bars/clubs to pick up girls, mystery method and a mix of some other types of game that work well. Some women are just closed off to the idea of meeting men at bars, I've heard some girls that are friends of mine that use the word "creepy" to describe some men at the club, I find the dancefloor to be the best place for m…
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:49 AM
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Learning what to say is imperative to not just picking up women but for all your relationships. I say talk to her like you would to any person, ask questions, make a comment about it. Don't ask too many questions and try and expand on her answers, people are different so people have different communication styles/interests. The most important thing in a conversation is to listen, be patient, and keep it light-hearted and try and make some jokes in there. https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:17 AM
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Practice that shit! Someone on Reddit said there's a stigma to men who buy flesh lights/sex dolls but that isn't a bad thing at all. Buy a fleshlight and practice, use the mount and go over your technique. Read books, communicate, watch videos and do whatever you can to improve your sexual skill.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:08 AM
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I swear having a group of guys as friends is one of the best ways to meet women, how often me and the boys would go to a club/music festival/concert and we'd have women surrounding us. Women are social creatures and they like men who like other men and bond.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:52 AM
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Two things, pick up is easy, second thing it takes time to develop these skills it took me at least 3 years before my game actually got good. There are some seriously skilled puas that I researched thoroughly, https://youtu.be/WCfwj_p7Oa8 Rich is the man, he's a rags to riches story, watch his videos, go out to the club and try, you will succeed it's just a matter of time and effort
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:27 AM
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I don't know if I have hobbies, I like to learn and watch movies and such, I'm always trying to read whatever I happen to be interested in, I like to shoot hoops, workout, cook, clean, whatever. I spent a lot of time in school so I like to keep my mind sharp and informed. I also have a passion for programming and computers/software
/r/seduction20/03/22 06:10 AM
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It's called mid game, I hate to break it to you, aside from talking in a night club, learning what to say is like 80% of game,the other 20% is mainly body language/ non verbal communication. I suggest reading and writing, I learned how to talk from schooling specifically English/language classes,maybe practice improv, read current events
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:09 AM
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Wasn't he asking how to propose to girls to go back to his place/hotel? I don't think going to a hotel will turn girls off if you don't have a place and live with your parents it's no problem
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:22 AM
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Cool, I suggest going to a club hitting the dancefloor and maybe finding a guy in there to temporarily wing for you. The problem with not having a wing is women are rarely solo, so you need a homie to occupy the friend https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE Here's Richards night game formula, it's a bit long but he helped me so much back in the day
/r/seduction13/03/22 05:24 AM
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Just ask them if they want to come back to your place, ideally she'll probably even mention that she wants to go back without you asking, if you're making out with her all night it's probably a given. Just make sure you have your logistics set up, like a cab or a ride back home. Learning to escalate to kissing and closing the deal is the key. A trick I learned from Richard la Ruina, is after you kiss her you pull away, she'll either chase you or not, and if she doesn't wait a minute then go back…
/r/seduction13/03/22 05:06 AM
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If you have friends to go with sure, you need a wing out there man it's too tough to solo. Day game I would suggest to you, the old saying is that 99% of guys don't approach during the day, but it's the best time to meet girls
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:50 AM
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I looked at your profile, you live in New Zealand? Haven't heard many good things from a game perspective there. Anyway try looking into some puas, I suggest Richard la Ruina, rsd todd, and vin DiCarlo. Also reflect on your sets after each approach, maybe even keep a game log. You're obviously not trying new things and reflecting, highlighting mistakes, and your strengths. Albert Einstein once said "insanity is trying the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results"
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:15 AM
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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ Lol I don't know how to handle that situation but this is just general dancefloor game advice
/r/seduction11/03/22 11:28 PM
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Nice date idea playing pool lol, grind up on her while teaching her to shoot. This is a legendary date idea, another one would be bowling or shooting guns or golfing. Reminds me of hitch when will smith set up that date with Eva mendes, and go on a see doo date, very creative I like it
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:26 AM
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Guys get on this sub asking questions about scheduling a date with a single mom, you should strive to develop an abundance mentality, just remember there are tons of other women out there. If this one doesn't work out you should be playing the numbers game and have another one in the pipeline. You'll soon see how fast women will be interested in you when she finds out you're playing the field. I have no advice, ask her out or set up a call if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out on to the nex…
/r/seduction10/03/22 04:10 AM
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Not cocky at all you're probably good looking, maybe you're giving off a player vibe to girls? Maybe she thinks your game is good and you come off as smooth, maybe she sees how you interact with women and assumes you know what you're doing. I had a girl at a music festival ask me if I was a player/how many girls have you been with. She just saw me socializing and interacting with people so got the player vibe from me. Women are very keen socially, more so than men and they pick up on non verbal …
/r/seduction09/03/22 12:36 AM
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Women's touch eh, nice idea. Yea I think my market is just not conducive, I've tried online dating and it just never works for me, I've never had a conversation let alone a date or anything, and I had a pof/OkCupid/tinder accounts for a few months
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:03 AM
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Definitely I think that black men have like the lowest reply rates, people think we're all thugs, it's an unfortunate stereotype
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:35 AM
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Fuck tinder, I'm a black guy so I hate online game, I swear the girls never reply, rather go out to club and approach in person, I find it more effective. I have the advantage in person, she has the advantage with tinder. they've done studies and women get waaaay more attention on online apps than men
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:30 AM
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Don't try to force it, find a better more receptive woman, if she's giving one word answers and is disinterested just move on, some people are just harder to connect with
/r/seduction07/03/22 11:32 PM
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Build more rapport before asking, good on you for approaching just jumped the gun a little soon. When she says I don't know you she's conveying to you that she doesnt feel safe with you yet, she's not sure you're a psychopath who might hurt her. I remember I was just talking to a chick and we clicked, this was in 2020, I got the feeling if I asked her out she would have said yes, just by asking a few questions and communicating with her, my main point is to be patient during day game. However if…
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:16 AM
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People are saying non verbal openers are the best and I agree, gyms not really the best place to open women as they are often too focused to chat. But dude come on it's just one chick at the gym, go out to the club with the boys and approach there, find a busy street and cute girl and open there. Go to the bar or coffee shop and find a cute girl, library all sorts of places. My point is just go for it, if she's not interested she's not interested, and go on to find targets in other areas
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:27 AM
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Idk lol I've spent a lot of time rapping, I think taking classes on writing would be better, when I freestyle I'm more focused on trying to make the words rhyme than learning to talk. Reading and writing skills I learned in English class in school helped improve my speech more I think, that's my suggestion doesn't mean you have to go to school but just reading and trying to write will help you more
/r/seduction02/03/22 05:44 AM
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Lol I have been in this situation, just be yourself and don't force anything, I remember an rsd todd video about how he didn't know what to say, he learned to improvise and his lack of knowing what to say was an advantage.Try and ask questions and expand a bit but not too many, relax, laugh and be confident. Here's Richard la Ruina on how to talk to girls https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:10 AM
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So you're saying that having a social circle will help with girls? It's called social circle game and most men need this to bang girls. A true Pua can do day game and go to a club and pull the baddest in there, relying on friends and saying you don't have to do anything is not true, but don't discourage men from cold approaching, I think the best aspect of having a friend circle of men and women is having a wingman to help you approach girls in groups without making her friends jealous and sabot…
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:43 AM
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The old saying is that men get more attractive as they age and women it's the opposite, men acquire more resources with age. I remember I turned it around I used to be a virgin with no game, then I improved significantly. Social skills are the key to doing well with women, and money helps too. If you need financial advice it's simple, go to university and work your ass off, that's my best advice for getting rich. Education is the answer, especially if you can get into graduate school and have th…
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:29 AM
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Ahh anywhere is kosher to approach women, go downtown on the street, approach girls at the club, bar, on university campuses, at the coffee shop, theres 3 types of game, night game, day Game, and social circle game. If you see a cute girl at the mall or grocery store approach and escalate. Women love when men approach them, even though it won't always lead to a sexual relationship you'll get better and more confident.
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:03 AM
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Yea one of the pulls I met up with a few times, but most of them were just a hit and quit type situation
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:11 AM
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Date game is not my specialty, I struggle with determining when to make a move or be passive, sometimes I make a move too early, then she flakes, sometimes I make a move too late then she flakes. That's why I like night game, it's just a fluid process, just game the girl and take her home, less talking and just pure dance floor game. Women go to clubs to meet guys I just find it the best way for me to game girls. I also like day game as well, but night game is king, when I was in university I ap…
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:40 AM
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Women are weary of having sex because it's risky for them, a man could potentially get her pregnant and do nothing to help her raise the child. Yes we are biologically wired to have sex but women are choosy of their partners. You need to demonstrate your value to her, and create a comfortable feeling with her, you need to get to know them. There are things that women are attracted to, pre selection, that women are more attracted to men who have been with other women, social skills, money, intell…
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:00 PM
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Don't know what the difference between approaching black women vs other girls. Same rules apply i guess, shouts out to the ATL I love the city. A guy from Philadelphia once told me, "as a black man we didn't have the money that a lot of these white guys did, so we had to come at a different angle". Doesn't mean black guys are poor but there are a lot of negative stereotypes surrounding us black men. Girls are easily intimidated by us so try and show your gentle/caring side a bit more, doesn't me…
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:33 AM
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Doesn't matter how you start but how you finish. Go up to them and say hey, I'm "insert name here". Also hit the dancefloor it's the best way to pick up women in clubs
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:05 AM
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I feel you man it's been a long time for me, just a lot of drama and cockblocking going on in my city right now. Read some game books and hit the club or do some day game. Watch some videos on pick up and try your best to improve your game
/r/seduction13/02/22 02:49 AM
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Yea man it seems like you gotta a case of the oneitis, it's no big deal that she's flaking man, women are weary of strangers asking them out, to avoid the creep vibe you have to connect and build comfort with her. If she's comfortable with you then you can proceed to seducing. The laws of attraction dictate the first 3 phases of pick up, attraction, comfort and seduction, try extending the conversation for as long as you can before asking for the number during day game. Now night game is differe…
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:38 AM
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Read and write, approach keep a log. The more you apply the things you learn in field the better you'll get. There is tons of material to read and videos to watch, that's what I did a few years back to improve my game, I read some game books and watched vh1s the pick up artist season 1 & 2, and I read some vin dicarlo books
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:10 AM
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This sub is actually one of my favorites, people here are receptive to my comments, unlike r/relationships which I get down voted a ton in for completely innocuous comments. R/seduction is a friendly sub in my opinion
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:00 AM
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Read vin dicarlo, watch rich la Ruinas videos, and rsd todd https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:38 PM
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How do you think that you can't have success, I live in a tough market, but through trial and error and some reading and watching in field I figured out what to do. I developed dance floor game, and good really good at night game, women aren't to dissimilar from men and when you learn to just connect with them you'll have success. Yes I am witty and charming, but I've made every mistake in the book and that's how I learned what works and what doesn't. Women like men with social skills, and I've …
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:18 PM
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Girls never club on their own get a wingman. Doesn't matter if you're ugly there is always someone for you out there. Cold approaching does work I've done it, your obviously not doing it right if you're having no success, might need to read some game books, Ive literally said it here like 20 times, just reply to my comments and I'll send you in the right direction
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:24 AM
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I remember my first approach as if it we yesterday. Cute girl got the number, try and be more confident when asking, almost as if she'll say yes no matter what. You should do some more approaches to help sharpen your game
/r/seduction30/01/22 11:17 AM
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Yea I've done it a couple of times, one time I got cockblocked, though 2 of them were semi night game pulls, one of them I met the girl at the party then went to the club, another time it was a girl I kinda knew before and I got her number then banged her a couple weeks later. This was in university, night game is easiest form of pick up, just hit the dancefloor and work the room build social proof and escalate. Here is the night game master Richard la ruina on body language and high status at t…
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:55 AM
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AA never goes away man, it happens to all of us, but its the only way to get better, there is no magic trick to get around it, but when you have success you won't be as scared. At my time in university I did over a 100 dancefloor approaches and got really good at game
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:52 AM
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Happened to me, I would consider as soon as that p goes in the v it's official
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:17 AM
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Never compliment women on things they can't control. In order to get women to like you you have to get to know them and connect with them emotionally, I've had success just being friendly but not too friendly though. You have to build attraction and comfort then seduce her, that's MM at least. How you build attraction is up to you, but comfort is created by familiarity and space. Being attractive is based on looks, alpha male traits, things like money or preselection, height, musculature, social…
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:02 AM
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I've had women approach me at music festivals, usually I just look like I'm having a good time and women feel comfortable around me, that's the only time I've been approached
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:25 AM
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Lol quitting weed, yea I don't think that makes a difference. I would suggest making male friends and reading manosphere material, like books from successful pua. Take your friends to the club and approach, the anxiety from approaching never goes away, this best ways to meet girls at clubs is to dance, here is Richard la ruina who is my second favorite pua, after vin dicarlo, teaching how to pick up girls on the dancefloor, I post this video a lot but it's just so good and makes gaming girls so …
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:27 AM
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6 dates! You should of banged her in 6 hours. Some girls are easier to sleep with than others, a lot of pick up is finding the right targets
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:19 AM
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Start with the attraction code it's a completely free pdf, the rest of the stuff just Google, also rich's stuff is on YouTube. I would say that the attraction code is just a psychology book, he teaches what's called natural game
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:43 PM
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Are you kidding people who are disagreeing with this? I believe that moving out is imperative for girls, the absolute biggest cockblock is living with your parents.
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:32 AM
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This^ Maybe you're not connecting with them enough, try and build more comfort b4 you ask for the number, if you're asking for a number after a 2 minute conversation then she'll be less comfortable with you if you have conversed with her for 10-15 minutes b4 asking her out. Women are weary of strange men, you need to convey to her your alpha male status and prove you're not going to be a crazy person and harm her
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:15 PM
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People here saying you can't meet girls at the club are wrong. Enjoy the music, dance be positive, drink some shots, don't buy drinks for women. Use non verbal openers, hit the dancefloor work the room interacting with people not just women but the men in there too, maybe you'll make some friends. Night game in my opinion is the best time to meet women, it's like day game but loud, but you have the advantage of there being more than one woman in there, so you can build social proof even before a…
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:53 AM
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Read the game by Neil Strauss, the read and buy Pandora's box by vin dicarlo, there is also the attraction code which is free https://www.academia.edu/26492146/Vin_DiCarlo_The_Attraction_Code_id610645886_size The attraction code is just a psychology book just explaining the female mind and they male mindset to pick up women. Basically the jist of the book is explaining dominance and the psyche of the modern woman. He talks about how back in the day women were attracted to the alpha, but not by i…
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:36 AM
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There used to be the escalation ladder but it's no longer around, anyway touching girls is the key, start with less sexual zones like the hands or lower thigh, high back/shoulder. Move to the lower back, upper thigh, and face lasts, push her hair to the side grab her cheek and go for the kiss.
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:29 AM
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Dawg you were born the same year as me! 1994 was the year. But yea dude definitely start doing some reading and watching, then do some cold approaches, I used to be a hopeless virgin but I turned it around because of the manosphere. I was a late bloomer but I lost my v card when I was 16 almost 17. If you need some good material to get you started. Watch the tv show the pick up artist with matador, Tara, and mystery. Learn mystery method, read the game by Neil strauss, buy Pandora's box by vin d…
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:19 AM
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https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY Best of luck to you! Here's rich aka gambler telling you the formula for night game, he has another video but it's over an hour
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:59 AM
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Yea I've definitely been in that zone and made it out, you gotta demonstrate value and build attraction. Maybe make her jealous, develop an abundance mentality, maybe improve something about your look and style, work out. I'm not really sure but one thing I found out is women definitely don't think of you as a friend when you hook up with other girls
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:54 AM
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Dawg you're in the perfect position, hit the gym, buy a house and befriend some men to go clubbing with. Time to start reading some game books and doing some approaches. Write a journal, watch some videos on pick up. It's time to get at it homie you will succeed, also Seattle is a great city for software engineers
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:47 PM
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This is r/seduction. This belongs in r/relationships. I suggest you talk with your partner and decide what she wants, you may have to pick one
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:43 PM
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Yea I agree women have it easy when it comes to dating. This is why the manosphere was invented, to empower men in tough times. I suggest doing some reading and infield approaches, that's what we as men have is the ability to see a woman and immediately approach her, it's not that women don't approach men, it just doesn't happen as often. Get off of tinder and approach some real women, when you have game it will create an abundance of females in your life.
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:41 AM
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I believe in natural game, for that I suggest vin dicarlo. I also believe the psychological aspects of game and the tips and tricks to help in day game/night game scenarios so for that Richard la ruina. If you wanna learn the communication styles that are most successful I would suggest rsdtodd. Now Neil Strauss and MM are also good starts to learn, but MM has it's weaknesses, like dbag clothing with the peacocking shit, and being mean and qualifying girls. This stuff makes game confusing which …
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:34 AM
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Maybe you're not finding the right content on the internet, I spent a long time between 2011-2014 just studying the manosphere. This completely changed my game, thoroughly, I went from a kissless virgin to a full time player. If you're looking for some good material just reply to my comment and I'll send you in the right direction. I remember I started on a website called fast seduction, read all their tips and sections, then I went on to a forum, then I started reading some books and watching s…
/r/seduction01/01/22 04:49 AM
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Being nice and kind is definitely not a turn off, altruism is attractive to women, however being a pushover/doormat is not an attractive quality. A lot of guys use the neg or whatever in MM but that is not necessary to pick up women. Girls like a bad boy, but that doesn't mean that you can't get girls if you're a good person, the dark side of nature is that women are sometimes attracted to these sociopathic men, but the reason for this is their ability to protect her but in a long term relations…
/r/seduction01/01/22 02:17 AM
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Yea figuring out what to say is important, but the words you use aren't as important as you think. It's true that a large percentage of communication is non verbal, body language, tone, eye contact. Learning how to think on the fly is hard but you'll get good. Learn to do improv or something, read books, write, learn current events.
/r/seduction25/12/21 12:22 AM
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It's no secret they women are attracted to wealthy men, money can afford you many luxuries in life, but there are some people that earn a lot and are broke, and some who earn less but save well. I think women aren't just attracted to money, but the personality traits that go with rich men, people who are passionate about their careers and doing well in life. You'll watch those gold digger pranks where women lose their minds over guys with Lambos or Ferraris or whatever. I think women want a ment…
/r/seduction24/12/21 11:16 PM
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Vin dicarlo, buy Pandora's box,also the attraction code is free. Next buy the natural by Richard la ruina, you can watch some of his stuff for free I suggest stealth attraction. Next the system by rsd Todd. If I had to pick one out of all of them it would be Pandora's box! Good luck
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:53 AM
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Yup came here to say this, get creative, movies are basically the worst date idea, you can't talk and get to know each other well, take on a hike or to a quiet bar to grab a drink
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:46 AM
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For me it was vh1s the pick up artist, even though I'm sort of against a lot of mystery method game I found the show to be actually useful to learn the game https://youtu.be/3pM77Xt4rVk
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:20 AM
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A good trick is just try and get to know her first, that was my mistake when I first started gaming girls I would try and push sex too fast/early. Then I developed patience and communication skills which lead to more success. If you're looking for some game material to help you I know the best manosphere guys out there, I am a broken record on here so if you want some good material just dm me and I'll send you in the right direction. Some of the material is free some cost money but it's well wor…
/r/seduction23/12/21 03:10 AM
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That is why you study natural game, it's not gimmicky canned material, and you can attract women by being yourself
/r/seduction22/12/21 04:22 PM
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It takes a bit of time, usually between 3-10 hours, there are 3 phases of game, attraction, comfort and seduction. First you must build attraction by getting to know her, demonstrating high value, then you build a connection and make her feel comfortable, touching, talking and the you move to final stage seduction, you make out kiss, give her space and then seal the deal. This is mystery method, when I'm in the club I like to play the field and make the girls in there jealous by just talking or …
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:15 AM
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Groups are tough, my suggestion get a good wingman, if you can't do that then I would use a non verbal indicator to build rapport and give off the vibe that you know her already. Approach a group set and interact with all the girls, when you've built that comfort then try and isolate. One time I was at the club approached two girls, and I was dancing with one then the friend took her away, cause she got jealous. Another time I approached a two set with a friend and it went really well when we bo…
/r/seduction12/12/21 07:18 AM
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Yea man legit stared in 2011 all the way till 2014, I basically got an undergraduate in pua, I studied on the web on a forum and YouTube plus infield
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:32 AM
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I remember I used to be a virgin with no game, but I turned it around and where I live is a tough market, try reading some material watching videos and doing approaches, you'll get better man trust, don't let women get you down, it's hard out there for a playa, when I worked on my game, for 4 years, I became unstoppable and I was pulling, a girl I knew even asked me if I take girls home from the club often, get inside her mind
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:19 AM
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Ahh break the touch barrier see how she reacts, only advice I can give. Tinder isn't really my strong suit
/r/seduction07/12/21 06:04 AM
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Thanks bot! I'll remember that in the future
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:54 AM
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Dude don't worry about it, women don't really check out guys, they just aren't as thirsty as men are, it's hard for men to be disciplined when they see a nice face, or a big booty, or nice boobs, but women they are so much more in control, they don't need to check out hot guys. Men are attracted to looks more where women are more attracted to alpha traits, like resources/money, preselection, social dominance etc. It's not that women don't care about looks which they do it's just not as important…
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:52 AM
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Yup basically your saying have a life that doesn't revolve around women. Go to school, play sports, work,exercise, play video games, just go out there and live cause having sex isn't everything in life, it'll make you a more interesting and attractive person. Having a good social circle of friends I think is the key to happiness, the relationships you build is what's important. That's why women get so jealous over intimate relationships more than just sex, connecting with people is very importan…
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:00 AM
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Dude that's sick im so happy for you, I love when the manosphere helps turn guys lives around. Approaching is literally half the battle, just getting up the courage to approach will put you ahead of 90% of guys out there. If you're looking for some more game material I know lots of guys out there that have solid understanding of pick up/relationships. Check out vin dicarlo, Richard la ruina, and Todd from rsd. Just a tip, I didn't do this but I wish I did keep a game log after your approaches, w…
/r/seduction03/12/21 07:08 AM
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Always great to hear the female perspective on this sub
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:36 PM
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This is my game right here, I remember reading this story about a girl who went out with some friends ended up hooking up with a guy, and the way he got with her she used the term "law of least effort" the guy who gets the girl tries the least, and generates more interest by demonstrating high value by giving off the abundance mentality vibe. When you just approach a woman without directly showing interest and just getting to know her as a person/connect you will do well. Watch out though cause …
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:27 AM
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Fish is nature's antidepressant, and it's great for memory/brain function. I'm going through a dry spell myself but it's because I'm living at home with my cockblocking parents/community. Read some manosphere books, keep a game log, baby steps, I used to be a hopeless virgin but Iost my virginity at 16 almost 17 by a month. Build a social circle of guys even girls, work on building solid relationships with people
/r/seduction27/11/21 12:32 PM
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Dude so true, I remember when I first got into the manosphere they were always saying don't get oneitis, abundance mentality is the key to attracting women, don't fall head over heels for one woman, get out there and experience many women till you find the right one, that is what this community is about empowering men so they can live their best lives. We build each other up, not cockblocking and tearing down
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:04 AM
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You don't ask you go for it my man, touch her, grab her kiss her be intimate and express your sexuality through confidence and body language. You can do it in your car if you have one, ask her if she wants to get food it's cold where I'm at but if it's not maybe a hike? Just figure it out man if she wants the d she'll go along with your requests
/r/seduction24/11/21 07:58 AM
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Instead of feigning confidence, get more confident by talking to more girls
/r/seduction22/11/21 10:18 AM
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Try and have a good time, don't worry too much about your dancing skills, ive literally posted this video like 4 times but it works every time I swear https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:06 AM
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Kind of a generic question, hard to answer but I'll give it a try. So first thing is you have to approach and not get anxiety, don't open direct, I usually like indirect openers, compliment her on something she can control, like her hair, or her clothes or her shoes, or you could just say hello it doesn't matter. There are 3 phases of game according to mystery method, first is attraction, during this phase you want to demonstrate high value, where some nice clothes, talk confidently ask her ques…
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:16 AM
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So the most effective way to approach a woman is the non verbal opener, or the familiarity opener, walk up to her while she's with her friends and say, how have you been? This makes it sound like you already know her. The dancefloor is a great place to approach, but approaching isn't what's going to get you where you need to be, but leaving her alone will, meaning after you approach just back away and let her dance on her own, then dive back in ect. Anyways heres a video by Richard la ruina teac…
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:22 PM
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Yea when you just go out and have simple conversations with people it helps to lower your AA, and it teaches you how to be social, just going up to woman doesn't always lead to sex but it'll help you with your inner game. Connecting with people and just having conversations is the key to success, soon after you just talk to a woman and get to know her as a person/treating her like an equal will lead to sex. It's a lot better game plan than trying to dm random women on the internet
/r/seduction20/11/21 06:09 AM
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Dude get off the internet to pick up chicks and head out and do some approaches, I have never been a fan of online dating, it's a woman's market on those apps, in person as a man it puts you in control, just my thoughts
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:22 AM
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Yup exactly, you shouldn't lead with the number proposition, women need more comfort before they hand out their number to strangers, she needs to make sure you're not a psycho. Try and talk a bit first, give it 5 minutes or so, also the number close isn't the greatest, if you can turn it into an instadate and get a make out that would be ideal
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:20 AM
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Dude you're 20 go to university and take a student loan if your parents won't pay, otherwise get a job and move out, if I could do those things I would trust me living with your parents is the ultimate cockblock
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:13 AM
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I don't know what to say, why would this be a bad thing, maybe you're just feeling insecure? But whatever if she likes you then you shouldn't end it because you think she's too good for you. Obviously you got game and women respond to that character strength.
/r/seduction13/11/21 08:26 AM
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I remember when I first started going to club, I would approach like 10-20 girls a night and get nowhere, not a number not a make out nothing. Then I started to understand how to interact with women, here is the formula for night game by rich la ruina https://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE Anyway it's a bit long but take the time to watch it he's really smart. Anyway what I usually do is approach on the dancefloor and just dive in get her name then back off and just dance on your own, build space, when ta…
/r/seduction13/11/21 12:08 AM
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Bro the waitress is kind of tough, it's hard to pick up women while at work and situations like this, you could just walk up to her when leaving and ask for her number, but this is very the term I would use is "flimsy" meaning not much comfort building. But one woman is one woman, you could also go to a busy street downtown and do some day game, or you could meet up with boys grab a wingman and head to the club/bar which is where single women go to meet guys. I love night game because it's favor…
/r/seduction12/11/21 08:18 AM
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Women have many options in the dating game, don't get so obsessed with one woman if she's interested then she'll show it, if she's not then it doesn't matter, you have to maintain an abundance mentality it will improve your reaction from women it'll get her hamster wheel turning, is this guy interested in me? Is he seeing other women? These are the type of mental questions you want her to be asking. The reason why she's going cold is cause there is a bunch of dudes texting her, go to the club wi…
/r/seduction11/11/21 02:13 AM
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This is a tricky situation to maneuver, it can make things super awkward if it doesn't work out, don't shit where you eat type of situation. You could always go to the club with your bros and take your pick, she is after all just one woman. Ive tried this before and it's kinda like, what will she do if you make a move, will it lead to sex? or will she shut you down? You don't know but worst case scenario it might be a problem, but you could ask her out on a date or invite her over and just gauge…
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:20 AM
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This^ Never ask women for sex, build sexual tension then go for the kiss, escalate with light touching, touch her arm, touch her lower thigh, watch her reactions to your touching, then go to more erogenous zones
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:09 PM
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This is what the manosphere is all about! Glad to hear bro I had my first same night pull/ONS in university, or college as you Americans say it. Confidence is key, hopefully you'll have many more to come, this is why this sub exist to empower men, I researched and read a lot of game material, I was a hopeless virgin in high school but the manosphere completely turned it around for me, helped a lot.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:30 AM
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Read and write, keep a game log, you'll get better the more you practice confidence is key to a successful conversation/interaction, watch movies, hang with friends, learn to listen
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:11 AM
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There's no like canned material, you kinda just have to think on the fly, people are easy to talk to, just get to know/connect with her, that's what I always try and do
/r/seduction31/10/21 07:00 AM
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Ahh Halloween, the time of the year where women can dress as slutty as possible and get away with it! Plus there are always parties, good luck fellas may you pull with ease
/r/seduction30/10/21 04:26 AM
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Yup I agree, I love to call, you can get a lot more words across faster, you could text for hours and talk for 10 minutes and get a lot more done
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:33 AM
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Don't you just hate flakey women? on to the next one partner, don't force it, don't get oneitis, she'll be begging you to come back when you meet a new girl, abundance mentality, when I hooked up with girls I just hit and quit, unless you find a special woman then you start a relationship
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:08 AM
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Dude she probably just thinks you like her more than she does, maybe she believes you're relationship is one sided, try to emotionally connect with her and give her space/and play a little hard to get, that would be my advice
/r/seduction27/10/21 06:40 AM
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3 factoral? Is that 3x2x1. Lol but excellent job man, only thing is try not getting numbers and try and pull the same night, get logistics going, maybe even text her later to ask if she wants to meet then, it's the weekend, might as well stay up late. But just try and spend as much time together as possible, maybe even escalate your relationship into a kiss. But yea other than that dude you did super well, grats hopefully it works out for you bro
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:27 AM
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Yup sure is, don't know about the game but rich to me is just such an elite pua, I saw one infield vid with him, and he totally just pulled a really hot girl with like no resistance. His stuff to me is some of the best content available
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:01 AM
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Good question, dance game is my bread and butter, I would suggest that you learn to like it lol, it doesn't matter if you can't dance well just as long as you're having a good time she'll take notice. The formula for for dance game just leads to success, because you can push pull and create space while dancing. Anyways here is a good video on how to pick up chicks at the club https://youtu.be/9mVFtDiMyLY
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:39 AM
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Dude never try and talk in the loud club, take her outside and talk there. In most night game situations non verbal communicators reign supreme, you should be able to pick her up with little to no talking.
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:24 AM
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Read some game books! Look for some videos in YouTube, keep a journal on your approaches, there is a lot of content out there to help you learn. I also agree to work out and get in shape, eat healthy. Some authors to look into, vin dicarlo, and Neil Strauss, watch some videos by Richard la ruina, and rsd Todd if you can find his stuff. Those are my guys, vins material literally changed my game forever, watch some mystery method stuff, watch vh1s the pick up artist, watch some infield videos and …
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:31 PM
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I don't really get jealous, I do for a bit but after a while it just fades for me, idk man who really gives a shit, people can make their own choices, sometimes it's just a genetic/socialization thing.
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:50 AM
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Dude don't worry about it, make some new friends on Monday and Tuesday, cause people going to the club these nights will be free on those days in the future.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:02 AM
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Love this post, game is about empowering men, if you take this information to find a wife that's ok, but if you're using this information to bang as many women as you can that's ok too. We are here to learn from one another, and to teach each other the ins and outs of seduction.
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:10 AM
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Lol when I was at university I danced with a lot of girls, you have to be confident here's this video from Richard la ruina that tells you how to initiate and dance with girls at the club https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:50 AM
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Signal to her, then smile, approach her then it will seem like you have more rapport with her, non verbal indicators are key
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:31 AM
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This is called retroactive jealousy, you feel that your relationship is threatened because of her sexual past. Women have the freedom to make their own sexual choices, but you shouldn't let her past corrupt your relationship now, just as long as she is faithful and you're happy you should be able to look past it. Just communicate with your partner and work through your jealous feelings.
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:14 AM
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Women are attracted to alpha traits, such as, preselection, height and build, social skills, dominance, wealth and drive, emotional intelligence, fashion, confidence, intelligence, ect. Preselection being the theory that women are attracted to men that have a sexual history of building intimacy in relationships.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:08 PM
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I remember I was 15 and I told a buddy of mine that I was hopeless with girls, he recommended a website to me called fastseduction.com, I studied it and watched vh1 the pick up artist, then I found some puas I liked then dove into the material. These guys go to university and study psychology then they talk with women and implement their theories in public and such, trial and error and sharing of information then they study that's how they come up with this stuff. I suggest reading a pua called …
/r/seduction12/10/21 09:55 PM
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Yup, women are much more attracted to men who can build an emotional connection, it's true that men get jealous of sex where as women get more jealous about intimacy. Being sensitive and connecting to a woman is what game should be about, I also like the promiscuity, having many partners, then finding a long term commitment. Get out there and meet many girls, then when you have that experience you find a wife, thsts the formula for happiness in dating I think.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:36 AM
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Abundance mentality! Dude I love this post, oneitis is the enemy, it's so true that some girls are just "yes" girls and just much more obedient and accepting of your advances. Great job man, I hope you convert this into a sexual relationship
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:06 AM
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I don't know, if you haven't already and have the resources go to a university, drive to the next town over, I don't know just try and get creative, go on vacation do something, if you have a car, if you've exhausted all of your opportunities in the town you're in then try and think outside the box
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:28 PM
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Oh yeah I understand I've lived in a small town, there is a lot of gossip, but yea you can still go to the local bar or whatever
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:24 PM
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Just message her, if she doesn't respond there are lot of ways to meet women, I personally am not a fan of online game, because I feel it's not really good for certain people in certain locations, and I'm also black so girls aren't necessarily interested in responding to black men and other minorities. But don't get hung up on just one girl, go out and cold approach during day game on a busy street, or go to the club with your homies and approach some girls on the dancefloor, just don't get focu…
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:20 PM
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Approaching women is not weird, it's actually the opposite of that, women love attention so approaching and trying to talk to them makes her respect your confidence. Day game isn't my thing either but I have pulled from the club, in a tough market where I'm from and live. I almost pulled a threeway from a club but a guy was driving the girls home and kicked me out of the car then my phone died so I couldn't text them, I texted the girl later but she wanted me to meet with her and her step dad at…
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:39 PM
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Just kiss when you have gauged that she wants it, you need to build rapport first, I've made out with 24 girls, but telling men to just go for it is bad advice, if she is comfortable and attracted to you then you seduce, that's just mystery method stages of pick up, first attraction, then comfort, then seduction time, this whole process takes 3-10 hours, so ideally you should be kissing after an hour or two at least, however my fastest make out was 30 seconds, mind you this was the 3rd girl that…
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:15 AM
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I remember one night I was at the club and this girl came up to me and asked me to buy her a drink, I said "no", she then informed me that these guys were using her as a proxy to try and get free drinks, she was obviously attracted to me and gave me props for saying no, when I learned to not suck up to girls and being stern and just trying to connect without being a doormat my game skyrocketed in skill. When I talk to women I play it neutral and coy without showing any direct interest, you'll be…
/r/seduction09/10/21 02:25 AM
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How to get better at talking to girls? Read, read and read some more, if you want to improve your speech skills reading and also writing will help you. Read game books, non fiction, just get knowledgeable about things, read Wikipedia and keep up with the latest trends.
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:26 PM
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Yea definitely, I think it may even be curable I saw a video where they were using lasers to treat the HIV cells. But these treatments are extremely expensive so only a small portion of people can afford them and their exclusivity
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:08 AM
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Dude always where a condom, never ever, if you get HIV which is extremely unlikely you will die young, herpes is for life. One time I was hooking up with a girl, I almost fell in love, it was intense, and she wanted sex but I did not have a condom, my friend banged her that night, raw, and he got Chlamydia so yea man always where a condom, unless you're dating her and she's been tested and is on the pill. STDs are no joke man for real
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:28 AM
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Don't get oneitis, especially if she doesn't feel the same way about you. Abundance mentality will lead to many hookups
/r/seduction04/10/21 08:40 PM
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I believe the best pua/manosphere author is vin dicarlo, I sound like a broken record pushing his material all the time, but it doesn't get a lot of attention but transformed my game immensely. Read the attraction code, then buy Pandora's box and read it all the way, it'll will help you understand what you need to do to pick up girls. Best game material ever no doubt in my opinion, it's tough to understand and implement but if you do you'll be pulling hotties in no time
/r/seduction03/10/21 03:31 AM
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Great question, just keep track of where the interaction went well and when it didn't, maybe she laughed here, or gave you good eye contact, just use her reactions as a barometer as to how well you're doing, if you get a number or a kiss close or something. It's hard to remember everything, but just watch her body language, build space, rapport. How you escalate, flirt, gentle non sexual touching that leads to more erogenous zones as you progress, ask for her number, and if she replies that's a …
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:54 AM
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I remember my first cold approach! It was at my first summer job! Man was I scared, I got the number though. Girl was cute pretty receptive to my advances, I thought to myself wasn't too bad, should do it again. I've done over 100 approaches now, mostly night game, definitely less scared, and much better with the opposite sex, great job dog keep on keeping on, one thing I do regret is not keeping a log, write notes on your phone after your approaches, strengths and weaknesses so you can improve …
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:23 AM
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I like this answer, just go with the flow and treat her like an equal,just be casual and make pleasant conversation like you would any person
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:00 AM
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Let them chase you, but women are naturally more socially skilled than men, women have the nesting nature where as men hunt. Women have to be more selective of partners because of their child bearing nature, they need male support to help take care of children, and theoretically a man could get her pregnant and leave. Playing hard to get will get her hamster wheel turning, wait until she gets jealous then she will start acting strange, it might make her chase you, or she may end up ignoring you,…
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:02 AM
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Looks matter a lot, but there is always someone out there for you. I think the largest obstacle is no money and living with your parents. Cockblocking is the biggest enemy in my situation
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:44 PM
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Getting the timing down when to make a move, and date game, I'm good in the night game situation but I struggle on getting bangs on dates. Sometimes I'm too aggressive and she flakes, then sometimes I'm not aggressive enough and she flakes
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:52 AM
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Go to the club with your homies, go to a music festival, go to a cafe, walk around downtown, get creative and be social you'll meet girls, also if you haven't and you're game go to a university/college to make friends and meet women. Uni is literally the best time of your life to meet girls plus it prepares you for a great career, assuming you don't take history or Poli sci or something. Take engineering or math or psychology or something, I took comp sci had the time of my life for 1 and half s…
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:45 AM
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Yup the old saying is that 99% of guys don't do day game, but it's the best time to pick up chicks. Also night game I think is the best time to game, and hot girls do go clubbing too, plus you don't have to talk much in a loud night club, and if you learn the skills at night it is a great place to pick up chicks
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:11 PM
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Yea man don't ask, and girls go cold on guys they don't no too well. You have to gauge when it's the right time, after you've built comfort and shes attracted to you. Don't pursue her too much if she's not replying, on to the next one as Swizz Beats and Jay-z would say. https://youtu.be/9jRKsH8_OWQ
/r/seduction15/09/21 04:52 AM
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Yea I feel for you man, I'm in a tough situation that isn't my fault and am currently being cockblocked. It's time to study some material about female psychology and getting out there and approaching. Maybe go to a boot camp if you have the money? And you can also read some books and watch some videos. Before I got into the manosphere I was a hopeless virgin, but lost my virginity at 16 and banged a few girls, never had an actual girlfriend though. Read the game by Neil Strauss, also vin dicarlo…
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:46 AM
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So true, building a good group of bros isn't just good for women it's good for your mental health as well. I do disagree with you a bit money is very attractive to women, they want to live luxurious lifestyles, big houses, nice cars, expensive vacations. Building good relationships with men and women are the key to happiness, even if you're not getting laid having friends will keep you happy.
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:10 AM
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You need to build attraction, if she finds you attractive she won't see you as a friend
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:16 AM
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People saying you got the girl that's all that counts, but if you want to develop "game" I would start reading some manosphere material, I know some really good authors, you can also watch YouTube videos to learn how to game, then do some approaches and work on it. Keep a journal highlighting your interactions positive or negative, some great guys I've learned from are vin dicarlo and Richard la ruina, both Italian guys cause Italian guys are players so, best of luck to you dawg
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:37 AM
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Fear of abandonment, women reach a certain age and want to settle down and get married/have kids, it's not high school or university anymore, and a lot of women are very picky and don't get a lot of opportunities with high quality men, men hunt, women nest. Women crave romance and intimacy, and a one night stand doesn't really satisfy this urge
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:15 AM
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Play sports or join a gym, tough with covid but if you play pickup basketball or something you'll meet some bros/wingman to go out with to game girls
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:44 AM
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This is the correct answer, obv your giving off a vibe that makes her feel comfortable with you, not a lot of guys can do this, maybe she feels you are capable of building a romantic connection and are sensitive
/r/seduction15/08/21 09:33 AM
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Learn to self assess and see where you won't wrong, chances are these interactions women find flimsy and no potential
/r/seduction13/08/21 08:20 AM
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Do you like music? Music festivals are a great place to meet women and make friends, even though you don't like them you should learn to, women like men who have male friends
/r/seduction11/08/21 07:18 AM
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Huh I have the opposite problem, key is after you hook up with her you wait for her to contact you! Play hard to get after you hook up she'll come back for more. Also it could be the sex, if it's awkward and bad she won't want to anymore
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:31 AM
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Yea exactly, people telling me they're too busy to hang, a girl once told me she'll be busy all summer. BS, you can find an hour in a week to just hang out. When someone says they're busy it's just kind speak for I don't want too see you
/r/seduction02/08/21 03:03 AM
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Take supplements, eat a balanced diet, fruits and vegetables, grains and rice, non red meat fish chicken lamb occasionally, dairy make sure you have milk everyday. Workout, take protein and creatine, 5 days a week, 3 days for muscle building and 2 days for cardio, you don't necessarily have to run play pickup basketball or something. When you workout do legs twice and upper body once. Deadlifts, squats, leg press. Super set workouts with push ups/ pull ups. Then buy some clothes, look into diffe…
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:42 AM
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https://youtu.be/_jStE6-uQgQ Dancefloor is your friend at the club, watch this Richard la ruina vid on dancefloor game, this is my bread and butter at the club. When you dance you have fun and it leads to sex if you know what to do!
/r/seduction01/08/21 06:17 AM
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I'm here because I'm passionate about pick up, and also I want to help other guys and give back for all the material on the manosphere that's free that men/women make to help us get laid, not only that but finding the perfect lifelong partner or get into a loving relationship. I'm here to analyze and give pointers, and learn from others so I can live the best life possible
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:49 PM
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Don't you just hate being ignored? Lol I've been there, potentially there is a reason, maybe she's playing hard to get, maybe her interest has dwindled you never know. If she comes through on the date you'll know her interest, but if she's ignoring your texts she may flake. Make sure you make the move at the right time, I've been on dates and been to passive and had girls flake, then I've had dates where I've been too aggressive and she flakes so find the right balance.
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:04 AM
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Oh man tough, but dude I wouldn't compare yourself to other people, you shouldn't feel jealous of your cousin. It's time to join a manosphere forum and start reading some game material, watching videos ect. I was a late bloomer and never had success with women, but I stuck with it, someone recommended a website called fast seduction, and I read a bunch of game material so I know what I'm doing. Focus on making money and moving out of your parents house that is a huge cockblock trust me I'm in th…
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:21 AM
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Man you just finished uni? That's like the best time to make friends. Play some rugby or soccer or something, just approach some guys and make friends shouldn't be too hard to find a good group of bros
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:45 AM
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Learn a new language, build a social circle of men and women. Party, club, travel, study, work. Just have a fun lifestyle, if you're enjoying it then she will take notice
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:29 PM
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It's never too late, get on the manosphere buy some game books and just dive into it. Update your wardrobe, hit the gym, and do some approaches you'll find your way. At this age girls are desperate to get married because the ones that haven't gotten married yet want too before it's too late. The girls have a short window of fertility to have children, and you have the money to back up your campaign of poon. A great pua author is vin dicarlo, reading his material literally changed my life, it's h…
/r/seduction27/07/21 09:26 PM
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Yup this is important, a lot of girls complain about their partners quick trigger and inability to satisfy them sexually. There's a technique that was developed by the Chinese using shallow combined with deep penetration. Go out and buy a Fleshlight to practice, you can use a plastic mount and practice your technique, also finding where the g-spot is. You're not going to stay in a relationship and have consistent sex if she never orgasms when you bang her. If you're good at sex she'll be constan…
/r/seduction25/07/21 01:20 AM
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The term Chad became popular in Chicago in 2013, but yea a Chad is an alpha male who gets girls, and alpha male is someone who is confident in their abilities that maintains an abundance mentality, this mindset women pick up on fast. Speaking of 2013 I made many mistakes in not capitalizing in the opportunities I had with the opposite sex, always take the bang cause that open door may close one day. Also an alpha male has many partners and realizes he has much to offer to the opposite sex, and a…
/r/seduction22/07/21 01:58 AM
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Yea I live in a landlocked place with no beach/ocean. But my favorite place to game are music festivals, I love the music and outdoors, plus girls are always looking for guys at them. I went to sasquatch back in 2013 where I had not such great game that I do now, I still made out with a very good looking girl, she initiated it too. Just dance close to a girl then dive in introduce yourself get her name then exit, just keep interacting with her that way very spacious, and just vibe to the music, …
/r/seduction20/07/21 06:20 AM
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A black guy I knew said this, as a black guy we don't have the money that a lot of these white guys do, not saying that black men aren't wealthy, just not as wealthy per say as a lot of white men have, Eurocentric society centers around them, which excludes some civilizations that were very advanced like ancient Egypt. So we as black guys had to develop social skills to make up for the lack of money. However men like wilt chamberlain who slept with 10,000 women makes you realize that black men h…
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:34 AM
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When is the next Olympics? Text her later
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:30 PM
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I actually love reading the success stories, I love your persistence and never giving up, you could of been scared off with your tail between your legs but you gave it another go with confidence. Good job bro!
/r/seduction15/07/21 03:19 AM
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Yea the loud club is perfect for non verbal game. Try finding a temporary wing at the club, ask a guy if he can wing for you. Don't just socialize in the club with girls talk to guys too, hit the dancefloor and just dive in and be confident, girls like that. If you happen to take a girl home make sure your logistics are good, you can find a cab, I've almost gone home with girls but i got kicked out of the car by a jealous dude, and my phone died, so make sure your bring a charged phone or someth…
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:09 AM
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Hey I tried out for the basketball team and I was the best player there and I got cut, so yea sometimes there's things you can't control, but you can always strive to be better
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:50 PM
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I absolutely love this post because ops situation was very similar to mine so it resonated with me. I feel I really started to understand the way to pick up girls was 2013, and I became essentially unstoppable, but a couple girls were really bad at sex so I wasn't able to orgasm during sex. Anyway my friends and I are really close and that has made me very happy, and content even though I live with my parents and in dry streak.
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:16 PM
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High school for me was epic, but the good times didn't roll on through, hopefully my life will get better like back then soon. I think if you know how to talk you'll have a good time your entire life, I know some older people that are married with kids still find time to socialize even with work and taking care of your family, partying, drinking, owning a cabin and having a large friend group
/r/seduction05/07/21 09:42 PM
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Realizing that thirst is the enemy, being patient and building a connection before making a move. I used to just try and go for sex fast, but I learned that creating comfort leads to better results
/r/seduction04/07/21 11:58 PM
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Chances are you just went out for the request a little too quick. Just try and build a little bit of comfort first before you ask for the meetup, from a woman's stand point she probably just felt a little uncomfortable meeting with a guy she barely knows. Try talking to her a bit, for as long as possible, you also have the advantage of seeing her frequently cause you go to the same gym so you could ask for her number or a meet later. This is why when you go to the nightclub she won't go home wit…
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:59 AM
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Dude get on the manosphere and hit the gym. Work hard in school study and get out there, as long as your not like hideously deformed you can always get better, looks aren't entirely genetic. There is always someone out there for you that will fulfill your life and make you happy. Learn to code, or study math so you have the financial backing to achieve your goals, attend university and read some game books. Read the game by Neil Strauss and check out some manosphere websites. Good luck dude!
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:36 AM
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Maybe a change of location, or find a better neighborhood. There's not much you can do to find better looking girls if your city doesn't have much.
/r/seduction21/06/21 10:23 PM
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This, definitely better to go out and do day game and night game than going on tinder. No offense to anyone but tinder is also a little bit racist, like white guys have much higher reply rates than other races, kind of another problem with it. Go to the club do some approaches with a wingman, do some day game in high traffic areas. Sometimes the bitch shields will be pretty high in some areas with lower quality women.
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:45 PM
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Talking to women is the most important aspect of pickup, the more you do it the better you get at it, and that crucial mid game section is where your ability to communicate will come in handy, and at the beginning. End game not as much talkie talkie but it's important too
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:15 AM
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I was born 1994, I heard the 90s was like the best ever, early 2000s pickup too. But yea it's kind of disheartening when you find out all these women are in relationships, but there is always a constant stream of young women coming up, just like sports there's constant young talent entering the league. It's kind of scary thinking that your perfect partner is already taken. I find the fiance or husband a block, but a boyfriend can be worked around, it's not as serious of a commitment, and a lot o…
/r/seduction13/06/21 10:50 PM
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I believe that there is a lot that you can control, but I agree with the other posters sometimes there are things that you can't control. Sometimes people come after you to try and destroy your life, these are called haters. Then there are people that support and help one another get better. Reading the books doing the approaches and building on your social interactions will lead to success, but you need resources to make things happen, and money don't come so easy for some. Get your ass to univ…
/r/seduction05/06/21 07:11 AM
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Richard la ruina talks about this in his stealth attraction videos. When you're in the club you make a little gesture to get their attention, then it's sort of a comfort builder, like a nod or a smile, if they react back then you approach
/r/seduction24/05/21 05:45 AM
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Dude so awesome to get out there and approach, trust it's a lot better than online game. The problem that 99% of guys have is they just don't know how to talk to women, that's the key, building comfort and trying to progress into a meetup of some sort. Work on your conversational skills and escalating you'll get a positive interaction if you just keep at it, learning to speak is the most important part. Just ask questions and be patient, make some jokes, be confident and comfortable and learn to…
/r/seduction22/05/21 11:20 PM
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Play hard to get, build space and comfort. Socially dominate and become wealthy from your hard work in school and your career
/r/seduction18/05/21 12:02 AM
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Yea straight up man, an important part of game is finding the right targets, that will accept your advances. Sometimes she is set on rejecting you even before you approach
/r/seduction12/05/21 04:21 AM
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Approach them and talk to all of them, get a wing man to help you isolate the girl you're most interested in. Approach and engage all of them in the conversation. The problem is if you're doing well the friend might get upset and pull her away, that's why a wingman will help.
/r/seduction30/04/21 11:10 PM
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Women don't know you, so they're not certain whether your sane and not going to hurt them in some way. When you approach someone face to face it's much easier for her to assess your sanity. You never know what kind of person your dealing with over the internet
/r/seduction27/04/21 09:41 PM
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I write code, play sports, work out, and read books. I like school and hanging out with the boys
/r/seduction26/04/21 12:04 AM
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Practice makes perfect, I just tend to try and ask questions about her, then expand a little bit, make a few jokes. I find it's a lot easier to talk to some people over others. Read books on current events and try and talk about some things that you're both interested in, like commonality. I've gotten better at talking to girls over the years cause I've always interacted with the opposite sex frequently. Witty banter and just ask questions but not too many, cause then it seems like a one sided c…
/r/seduction20/04/21 09:07 PM
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This is short and simple, my definition of a beta is a guy that just doesn't have successful encounters with women and people. Someone who conflicts and can't maneuver the social environment.
/r/seduction13/04/21 06:13 AM
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Strike while the iron is hot, but I've seen videos where guys will approach and ask her out on a date within 30 seconds, just try and chit chat and get to know her first before you ask her out, but you're right you don't want to wait too long either
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:29 PM
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Stay confident, and don't ask her out too soon, build comfort before you make your move. If you go into an approach with the mindset she'll reject you she will sense it, be confident of your ability and she will take notice and youll be more likely to be successful
/r/seduction10/04/21 10:25 PM
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They get the hamster wheel turning when they see you leaving, people want what they can't have. Well done op good luck with her going forward
/r/seduction08/04/21 11:07 AM
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Dude play it slow, get inside her head make her think you're not looking for sex right away. patience is key wait till the next time to make you're move, if she flakes then so be it but make sure she is comfortable with you first
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:40 AM
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Dominance is very attractive with women you're correct, social dominance, if you are able to build connections with other men and lead and create a group that will follow you that is attractive. It's our brain wiring to be attracted to authority figures who can curry favor and form alliances. A strong man would get overpowered by a group of lesser strong men, strength in numbers is very hot to women
/r/seduction03/04/21 12:31 AM
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Kinda of an interesting thought not existing, I myself am an atheist so I don't believe in the afterlife Carpe diem my friends, life is too short to not be productive. Read books, write and socialize with your friends, approach women and focus on your career and exercise and play sports. Always focus on getting better in every aspect of life, fuck bitches get money homies!
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:12 AM
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Interesting, I think I heard something that like only 1% of guys do day game but it's supposed to be the best time to game chicks. Personally I prefer night game cause it's more of a social aspect of pickup which I enjoy. If you only drink once a week it's not the worst thing. I think that majority of people meet their spouses at work or school. Having the balls to actually approach women is half the battle
/r/seduction20/03/21 07:21 AM
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Laziness is the biggest problem that you have, obesity can be fixed, your income can be fixed, your virginity can be fixed. I find that when I have something that needs to get done I am hesitant to start, but when you get it going it's not too bad. Take your life by the balls and get after it. If you workout, work on your game, approach women soon your life will be looking up. If you have the grades go to school, it's a great way to work on your finances and you will meet cute girls your age tha…
/r/seduction03/03/21 01:07 AM
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On to the next one partner, doesn't seem like she's too enthused about the meet up. Text game is weak, face to face game is where it's at. Your not gonna get much traction texting , also sending messages on tinder. Night game and day game are better for building rapport. You need to spend the required time getting to know someone before just going for a meetup. Good luck homes
/r/seduction01/03/21 07:10 AM
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The attraction code by vin dicarlo is a free pdf. Look at stealth attraction by richard la ruina, then rsd todd might have some content don't know if it's still there or not.
/r/seduction26/02/21 09:09 PM
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Yea you here the stories of guys that used to be virgins, and nerds, and hopeless with women. I was that guy, then I got involved in the manosphere and it completely changed my game. Get into the community, read books, do approaches, watch infield videos and just get after it. Like anything in life practice makes perfect. I started at a simple website called fast seduction and branched out from there. There's a lot of good material out there but there is also people who don't know what they're d…
/r/seduction26/02/21 06:58 AM
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It's counterproductive if you don't know what you're doing. But it will help you get over approach anxiety and can lead to sex. Women love the ballsy guy that approaches them during the day or in the club. Women appreciate being approached and the courage that comes with it, fortune favors the brave my friend, it takes a lot more balls to do that then send a message over the internet on tinder. This way you can show that you're a safe and sane guy.
/r/seduction22/02/21 03:02 AM
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Women like men that like men, non sexual. Social skills are important, and developing good social skills in your friendships will carry over in the skills with the opposite sex. When you treat women with respect and get to know them you will do better. I swear I don't have as good if results as some guys but I know what I'm doing. Reasons why is because im getting cockblocked on all levels. But yes women aren't too different from men. When you treat a women as a non sexual object, and play like …
/r/seduction20/02/21 01:01 PM
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