Hello yall,

Let me start off by saying that this is both about dating and making friendships.

So I am 23/m, ENFJ, have lots of hobbies, go to university, am very extroverted, can be charming and usually don't have a problem with having conversations with strangers. I am attractive enough to occasionally get DMed by women I met outside/ on campus.

I thought once university started I would just make a big friend group and date someone I get along with but it's rather difficult to stay connected with anyone.

The issue I noticed is that I hit it off with new people very easily, we exchange numbers/instagram, we like each others posts and send memes, greet each other everytime on campus and all that, but I can never make it past that broken ice point and it's the case for both making friends and for dating. The couple past times it was a "yeah we should check out that spot" and usually it never goes anywhere. I don't wanna be the people pleaser who asks everyday neither.

Anyone having this experience? I am still new to this whole adult life thing and could need some advice. Just looking for genuine connections.

Thanks in advance :)