How do you smash through any LMR/ASD?

Neo-Rio · 2022-09-09T05:54:16+00:00

It really depends on the kind of resistance you are getting - but what I will say is that very rarely will a woman put herself in a situation where sex could happen if she didn't want to be there. So proceed forward with that in mind.

To define: LMR is last minute resistance where she wants sex but gives token resistance. LMR is NOT her getting angry at you and protesting, getting up of the bed/couch and saying that she wants to go home and is hurriedly making moves to go there. If she's doing any of the latter, which may also involve crying and a tantrum, then you need to show her the door.

In most cases LMR is when you are escalating, maybe from making out, and she's swatting your hands away or breathlessly telling you that "we shouldn't".

TLDR: If you can feel her up through her top or pants or even get them off, the best way to blast through LMR is to eat her out for a few minutes. This blasts through LMR completely.

Otherwise, if you're having trouble getting to that point, she's swatting your hands away and breathlessly protesting: First thing is to never get upset or angry about this. Rather you have to roll with the punches. This is critical. It's easy to get angry about it, but DON'T. LMR is more of a test that you will be gentle with her and not hurt her or get upset at a later date when sex doesn't happen. In many ways, women do this to see that you can gracefully handle a rejection without (a) getting angry, (b) pouting, (c) or pleading. Once you demonstrate that you can handle it, she will drop her defenses.

If she says "we shouldn't do this", don't argue with her and instead AGREE with her. You NEVER want to be arguing with a woman EVER. Instead, you agree, and then you change her mind!

So then you say "I agree. We shouldn't get really turned on. I shouldn't be making you feel really horny. I shouldn't be touching you down there... etc. etc." while continuing to do so.

If she continues being difficult and squirming about, what you can do is stop for five minutes and change the topic. Ask her if she would like a drink, or a shower, and just change the subject. Then after a while go back and start escalating from where you were before. You must never act like you are getting too frustrated. Then you just rinse, wash, repeat. Keep beating away at her defenses. Eventually you will break through.

Just remember that it's CRITICAL that you DON'T get upset with her, angry at her, or start completely shutting down on her and ignoring her. If you do any of those things, you will fail her last minute resistance test, and there's a good chance she's going to pack up and go home. Remember that LMR is a test to ensure that she is in safe hands. Do anything that makes her feel threatened and you will fail the test.

Just understand that for many women, LMR is just part of the process and to take your time and play along with her until she's ready to go and you breach the kingdom. It's normal. Don't be phased by it. For some women, they like to drag it on for an hour or so. Act like you've seen it before a hundred times (which will eventually be the case if you follow this advice) and let her know that it doesn't bother you.

dump_fool · 2022-09-09T06:29:59+00:00

You get "LMR" because you don't convey your sexuality enough, the girl is simply not aroused enough.

As for "ASD" - don't fucking kiss her in front of her friends 10 minutes after you've met her.

ChaoticYetNeutral · 2022-09-09T10:37:17+00:00

What's ASD?

Klokikus · 2022-09-09T17:19:52+00:00

What is LMR/ASD?

Icy_Rub1839 · 2022-09-09T20:54:55+00:00

Just try to make her feel as comfortable and at ease as best you can.

Lonewolf_087 · 2022-09-10T00:09:28+00:00

I'm sure there are about a million of us who are thinking "so many rules". It's all true I think but you know if you really have someone sold on you I think the rules can be more relaxed i.e. more natural. If you feel like you're forcing it she probably sees what you think of yourself times ten. Women are incredibly sensitive which for us can be both a blessing and a curse. "Read the room.". Closing words: The line between LMR and rape is pretty thin!! Don't make a decision you regret. You should absolutely stop if no is said.

CocoBabeinNYC · 2022-09-09T13:41:27+00:00

Title	How do you smash through any LMR/ASD?
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Date	September 9, 2022 3:26 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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