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9

It's a ridiculously desperate idea. Go to places where people are open to socialization like pubs, bars, clubs, parties with the intent of socializing not "day game".
/r/seduction01/10/22 06:54 AM
2

I flirt but don’t overtly exert my sexual intent out of fear of being disrespectful, especially in the post me-too era That's what holds you back. And honestly you're disrespectful to yourself - and to the girl if she shows interest and you don't. Just need to think of some socially acceptable ways to experiment with more sexual interactions Eye contact, getting closer to her, smiling, gently tapping/touching her while you speak - grabbing her hand (if she likes you) - walking with your hand on …
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:14 AM
0

Most common problem is approaching cold women and not being "sexual" in your interactions (being a nice guy). Id be in the psych ward if i hat to approach that many women....
/r/seduction01/10/22 02:53 AM
2

150 approaches and 2 "lays" is ... very ... time wasting imo. You probably have to optimize some things - the girls you approach. Cold approaching has very low success rate. I don't know what, but you're doing something wrong.
/r/seduction01/10/22 02:42 AM
2

Welcome to the big boys club son :))
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:33 PM
4

Girl basically says "fk me" with her "ioi's" which you're smart enough to notice but you chicken out wtf.... If there is something totally unattractive - it's a man that is more fearful than a girl...it's laughable....
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:22 PM
28

The definition of anti-game. Grow some balls...or get treated...
/r/seduction29/09/22 10:58 PM
5

I "still miss the point"! What forces you to put them on a pedestal? What do you consider putting someone on a pedestal? What does it have to do with with a "cockblocking" "ugly friend"? I think your mentality comes from a "will you please fuck me?" instead of "are we fucking or not".... If i can think of something i can suggest you to raise your level of arrogance a bit..
/r/seduction29/09/22 10:15 PM
36

Wtf is this!?! I can tell you that women no matter how beautiful you perceive they are, will pee, shit and fart sometimes in your bed or on your dick.
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:59 PM
12

Why don't you stfu and act like you are staying at her... IMO just stfu and just let her know you wanna just have fun with her...
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:42 PM
2

As long as it doesn't have a longer beard than you! :))
/r/seduction29/09/22 07:50 PM
4

Hiding under the toilet chair in the closet is something only matured and well developed people do.
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:03 PM
1

Depends on the girl - in general glasses make you look weak and you're stereotyped as a dork. Don't wear them when you do "pick up" or get contacts if you cant distinguish a nostril from a mouth without correction.
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:01 PM
3

You two were both assholes. I also think in your mind he's more than a FWB.
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:48 PM
1

Practice actually meeting girls in the physical word.
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:18 PM
-2

Looks, looks, looks, money, money, money.
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:43 PM
1

Your anxiety and depression is messing up your ability to "read" and interpret "signals" and cues ... get treatment for those. If you have ADHD i recommend meditation, making and taking everything slower.
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:49 AM
4

Thank you! Some people just like to take a piss on everything. I don't care...i know their sour attitude gets them nowhere and it's enough. They don't know that touching someone who like them is the most "electric" thing, displays confidence, builds connection and entices them to want more.
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:58 PM
1

You have a 50% chance of success What are you smoking man? I want some... :))
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:15 PM
0

some guys are even too afraid to say hi So you think saying shit like that will give you courage? This industry taught guys to do some unusual and unnatural shit like "clever" openers - it doesn't mean shit - in fact it actually hurts you in multiple ways: It makes you really really weird. It makes things harder for you because you do unnatural things. You said "hi" probably a million times in your lifetime, you are comfortable with it...just say "hi" if you get a warm response, ask whats up/wha…
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:20 PM
16

and start dating girls like usual He doesn't even know how to do that....
/r/seduction24/09/22 09:46 PM
23

The best opener is a smile and "hi!" Go on, use your "clever" opener, it will repel almost every girl.
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:46 PM
5

You stop. If the "refusal" is gentle and the girl is still warm you can try again later otherwise cut your losses and eject yourself.
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:13 PM
0

I said "grab the hands of those who like you" Are you playing stupid or do you have comprehension problems with such a short sentence?
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:36 PM
0

GTFO!
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:22 PM
15

You asked this question so many times on reddit. You received advice like "express your intent" - it's the only advice you need. Ask girls out > grab the hands of those who like you > kiss them > invite them home.
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:58 PM
1

It's a joke/tease, it's good that you cracked a joke.
/r/seduction24/09/22 05:49 PM
6

Seduction is not something academic - to be studied in order to succeed. Seduction is mostly instinctual and some basic social skills like holding a basic conversation, noticing when someone likes you, expressing your intent/desire and "pushing" things towards intimacy. You have leave the library and gain some experience in the physical word - you gain experience only by practicing.
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:52 AM
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I looked in her direction but she didn't catch my eye contact as she was looking straight ahead You have to be more aware - she intentionally didn't catch your eyes because she was not interested in you - she saw you, and made a decision to avoid you. So in my opinion even if you stopped her and chatted her, it would be a waste of time. Next time when you "catch" a girl walking towards you and gives eye contact and has a positive facial expression, even if you passed each other, turn around and …
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:29 AM
0

Cold approach doesn't work because you approach cold woman who have no interest in you.
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:18 PM
1

What is "high value"? A girl that looks 10 times more beautiful than you? What is "strong connection"? LTE/5G? I couldn't ask her name What could you do? Could you at least blurt a word? Besides stalking her?
/r/seduction22/09/22 11:18 PM
0

" Oh so you're a full on doctor now? :p" I can't be sure until i give you a full examination
/r/seduction20/09/22 11:13 PM
1

Humor is more than jokes or offensive statements - it's about how you interpret the word and your ability to spot flaws and "point" them out - sarcasm is also a form of humor, also your vibe can be humorous without ever cracking a joke.
/r/seduction20/09/22 11:08 PM
0

You need books, video tutorials and tips to crack a joke? More important than jokes is not taking thing SERIOUSLY.....unless you wanna be a joker. Smart people are humorous because they see the word in a septic eye are you one?
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:59 PM
2

No man! PUA teach negs and indirect please! [sarcasm] :)
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:56 PM
-1

Date failed because she didn't like you, or you didn't show interest!
/r/seduction20/09/22 07:06 PM
4

Mental masturbation bullshit. She either wants to fk or not...
/r/seduction20/09/22 06:20 PM
2

"I hope i like your pussy"
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:26 AM
-4

So much insecurity, do you need guidance for every step you have to take? Just do whatever the fuk you want but remember to kick them out the door after you fuked them, if you just want a fling.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:50 PM
3

Ive had girls approach me in the past but i always denied them cause theyve always been looking for a relationship. A part of me wanted to do some fuck boy shit and lie to them to get some pussy but i didnt want to ruin my rep You see, your problems come from your self sabotaging thinking patterns and beliefs - that can be easily changed - you have to take steps in the opposite direction you normally do.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:32 PM
1

She doesn't like, yet she's with a physically fit guy who's into sports. :))
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:24 PM
1

I recommend you to trash that mystery book and never read it - in fact never read anything that has "PUA" in it's title. It will ruin you, set you back many years if you follow the "advice" that those books give. You can meet plenty of girls from your class, school - just watch for girls that have an eye for you - hovers around you, asks you stuff, smile at you or in general act nicely towards you - just ask them to do something with you (take a walk in the park, go to theater or a movie etc.), …
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:02 PM
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Your only real mistake was chasing her after she said she was done Yo! Confessing your feelings and chasing is a small "offense" compared to being a total drunk - the girl probably feared for her safety....
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:02 AM
1

Don't get drunk son! Girls don't like that, especially when you are "black out drunk". It's not what you said - it's what you did - you allowed yourself to loose control over yourself and got brainfucked drunk... Apologize - tell her you regret that you put her thru that.
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:27 PM
-3

Are you a child? Other than "You look fucking hot/amazing/sexy." It's too childish. You can talk about global warming when you trash that condom you used with her....
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:24 PM
1

The problem with PUA stuff is that it makes you feel inadequate. None of this started with benevolent intent - it was created with marketing in mind, selling books/courses/coaching, tailored exactly to exploit gullible guys like you. You have to realize you don't need any of that stuff to "pick" girls. It clouds your mind and hurts your interactions. I've never used any of that shit - it didn't even exist back when i started dating. Instead, fix your anxiety, improve your looks (if you are fat l…
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:28 AM
1

If you get laid with "drunk game" who the fk cares - assuming you're not an alcoholic.
/r/seduction14/09/22 03:46 PM
-1

deep conversation of substance is the way to go to truly connect with a woman. You don't "seduce" a girl with deep conversations. Having a deep conversation will hardly ever make a woman spread her legs for you.... Woman and men put a facade they usually open up after you have sex with them. He also doesn't believe in complimenting a woman when it comes to seduction and game. If the girl likes you, compliments are the spark that light the fire.
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:52 PM
2

This is one of the most sane post in a while here. It should be pinned. The majority of couples have matched looks This is what i constantly observe and my ex partners had facial features similar to mine or a semblance of my parents. Suzi Malin wrote a book "Love At First Sight" on assortative mating. Those that say "looks don't matter" are bullshitting or have no observation skills or try to sell you their newest and greatest PUA book/course.
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:17 PM
9

should I lie about my age? No! But you are not obliged to disclose it either.
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:36 PM
0

They do when you crumble under the pressure of a small girl :)))
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:14 PM
-2

The moment you start calling some questions "shit" it evokes sour/bitter demeanor towards woman. It's disingenuous and misogynistic to call a part of the human "mating dance" shit. I can't recall how many times i "failed" some of this "tests" and still got the girl.
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:11 PM
3

Stop calling them "shit", they are just some fucking questions or a tease/flirt. There is no right answer, but a wrong one definitively is ... you get mad at an inane question.
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:14 PM
1

I can’t gauge when it would be right to move on next It starts with you having a sexual vibe in the first place, then you test>escalate>test>escalate more. If the girl has positive body language and reactions you escalate more if not, you back of and try again later. It's something instinctual and can't be properly described in words. If you are in a sexual vibe/state you are more in touch with your instinctual side of brain and can "assess" the situation better. seems like it can go bad easily …
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:46 PM
2

Touch, physical push/pull, hair pull, neck biting, kissing, ass grabbing. You don't need much verbally. Don't rely on verbal stuff means very little.
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:01 PM
2

You get "LMR" because you don't convey your sexuality enough, the girl is simply not aroused enough. As for "ASD" - don't fucking kiss her in front of her friends 10 minutes after you've met her.
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:29 AM
12

Ask her if she hates you - or tell your girl "looks like your friend here hates me, can you ask her why" This will tame things
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:49 AM
5

The point is to go with the flow - have a good vibe - not being afraid to "blow things up". Something that "just happened" is far better than any planned date.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:07 AM
3

Maybe she wanted to buy some clothes - he could collaborate with her on choosing something - lots of flirting opportunity. Shopping centers also have coffee shops.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:57 AM
21

She asked if I wanted to shop together, I respectfully declined Stupid move...she invited you to spend more time with her. Missed a huge opportunity escalate further.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:06 AM
4

What planned lines - it's simple language and honest expression of intent. Do you want to reinvent the wheel? Do you feel the need to invent new words for something that's so simple.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:25 PM
1

Layed next to each other on the ground How about you look at her and allow yourself to get aroused by her beauty-express your desire by starting touching her, kissing her...wiping your stiff dick out and start fucking her... Quantum physics complexity :))
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:18 PM
7

My solution being a mofo that i am ... i don't wanna deal with them i approach single girls only. You can supplicate and befriend them, tell them to fuck off, invite them too, wait until they leave(if it ever happens) or whatever---but think again are you really that desperate to try to solve this problem too?
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:57 PM
9

Your kids are in her care...how much are you willing to risk? Seriously.
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:41 PM
18

They are not interested in you
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:34 PM
15

In the middle of the conversation i stop speaking and stare in her eyes then at her lips with a smile on my face - she usually leans in or i lean in a bit and she reciprocates. If she asks "why are you looking at me like this" be honest and say "i love the way you look" Or i do it verbally like: I love your lips I love looking deeply in your eyes - and i extend my hand as if i want to grab her back neck, if she pushes toward me i grab her and pull her towards me and start a kiss.
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:21 PM
1

Stop raping bitches I'll do my best.
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:08 PM
1

She said she waits till marriage (which is a hilarious joke)...look i wasn't there but i'm 90% sure she was playing with him .... chillax.
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:06 PM
0

that's like... rape Hold your horses pal. There is more to this. I'm talking about token resistance not resistance.
/r/seduction07/09/22 12:31 PM
-1

She was bullshitting you. What would you guys do? Ignore her statement and continue what i was doing.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:49 AM
24

God received your confession - he forgave you. Now go for sex at the second date and stop wasting time.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:09 AM
3

Can you elaborate? Yeah, nah! She's an attention whore and a gray zone girl (a girl that requires a lot of work from your part) i'd stay away ... far away.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:38 AM
1

She wants to impress her group - but you are socially inept too.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:30 AM
24

If you approach someone who "wants to be left alone" you excuse yourself and walk away - it takes one second. You are seriously overthinking, lack confidence - too concerned of how people perceive you - you try to be this nice guy/don't be a creep guy but no one gives a fuck actually. Actually this hinders your success.
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:37 AM
12

Disturbing others when they want to be left alone is not something I'm a proponent of. Me neither - i only approach people that seem open for my approach or who signal their interest or openness for an approach. But with all experience i still mistake sometimes. Indeed you can be weird if you continue despite signs of discomfort from your "target".
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:20 AM
1

Looking your best.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:54 AM
1

The girls you had success with, most likely approached you in some subtle way.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:51 AM
49

You'll know when you approach them. Everybody does "creepy" things, stop being afraid. What is creepy for one is not for others. This is just an excuse you use to hide yourself instead of taking action.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:41 AM
1

Focus on your appearance & let the women approach you.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:35 AM
8

Very few girls have courage to stare, most will give fleeting glances. What am i as a guy supposed to do when a women stares at me? Look behind you, could be another male or her husband :)) Look, smile, approach.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:13 AM
9

And next day comes the next guy who takes her to the bathroom and cums in her mouth or takes her home.
/r/seduction06/09/22 07:35 AM
6

Some dating guru book? I can't really tell if i read it from a piece of toilet paper or if it's just common sense.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:52 AM
2

The way she looks at you, how she speaks with you, if she enjoys your touch and ultimately if she says yes to "wanna watch Netflix and chill".
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:06 AM
9

What about him? Do you want me to list all the possible scenarios?
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:47 AM
12

Why work so hard for a woman that denies your advances Who told you to try hard with a woman that rejects your advances? It's so inane... The point is - you do your advances early on so you know were you stand and move on if you get rejected. This way you weed girls that have no interest in you or want to play the waiting game. Girls want at least 3 types of guys: A stud to fuck their brains out - based entirely on physical attraction. A friend to cry over his shoulder - no sex. A presentable gu…
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:41 AM
2

She's disrespectful. I would tell her (personally) to stop posting shit about you. "You can think whatever you like of me, but i don't allow you to call/treat me like that."
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:09 PM
1

So what? ...I you frown your loss!
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:48 AM
3

So I ask, what signals can a girl put out that WOULD convince you unequivocally that she would not welcome an approach? A disgusted face or ugly face or an ignoring face. If i get a smile or a reciprocation of eye contact i KNOW i should approach and i know i succeed!
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:33 AM
2

Just a bunch of shit you don't understand! Mental masturbation for you... Tell me mister knight did you ever lick/fuck a woman in your life?!?
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:25 AM
32

What do you think it is? You Expect her to drop her panties? is this a thing women do to invite a conversation For fuck sake yes ... drop her a "HI"....
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:09 AM
5

how do you approach women at the bar? You find one that smiles towards you ----- you approach and say hi..
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:53 PM
2

Because they like it so much
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:41 PM
4

Four months of waiting ...probably she had a dozen dicks until you had the courage to do a move.
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:40 PM
-4

A childish observation by an immature kid
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:08 PM
2

You don't need books or courses in order to "get" girls. I've never read a book when i got my first girls. It's not rocket science ...you just need "balls" and some intuition For a book id suggest "the flirting bible" and some tay social videos like "How To Sexualize Your Conversations With Women" and "Boring conversation is all you need". You don't need much - just look for a girl that likes you and that's it...
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:23 PM
1

I'm sure you'll pick-up a bomb or cruise missile in Kiev. Just imagine the love and heat going tru your bones....
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:58 PM
4

If you don't show interest that's what you get - if a girl shows interest you have to be at least on the same level. Some idiot PUA/DATING "EXPERTS" teach to never show interest - it's so wrong on whole many levels, they do that so that the girl does not reject them, to delay the rejection, but if a girl likes you you will not get rejected.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:40 PM
1

Do you think the bartender didn't see others doing more outrageous stuff?
/r/seduction31/08/22 03:05 AM
1

but what kind of things can you do over text to do this? You just can't - even if you do flirt over text it does not have the same effect!
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:57 PM
2

Learn to tame the agitation and do everything slower. Learn to catch yourself when you are agitated - 5-10 minutes every day of meditation is enough training to learn this! Do basic meditation (learn to catch yourself drifting) for 7 days and you'll see HUGE benefits.
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:10 AM
2

No, I'm a sub5 manlet. Women aren't going to want me bud, they want chad or at the very least a high tier normie. I can't sense if this is true or sarcasm - anyway, you should not impose your perception of yourself (sub5 manlet) upon others , it's so broken from reality and damaging! You got lucky then I'm not lucky or a chad, girls want sex and if you are around them and if they are not in a bad mood or tired they will want sex all day - more than i can give physically...
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:19 AM
4

Did you ever had a woman in your life? Lol you're assuming some guys GF will want to do it 3 times a day 🤣🤡 Mine did, multiple gfs, almost all of them! Have you ever lived with a woman in your house for more than 24 hours? I fucking doubt it! Oh it's very true, it's a fact, not a generalization Did you ever had womans in your life? Really?!?
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:02 AM
3

paying for it all the time either. This is stupid, do-it only when you need it (need = when you feel needy and desperate, when you wanna have fun) You can't convince me it's cheaper to pay for sex three times a day when your gf want's it for free. women are transactional nowadays anyway This is NOT TRUE! Do not generalize!
/r/seduction30/08/22 12:50 AM
1

"I never counted" or "I don't count" is the best answer you can give or alternatively out of a joke you can say "I,m a virgin you'll have to teach me everything" :)))
/r/seduction29/08/22 11:30 PM
1

Yeah shy is clearly defined (not doing what you'd like out of fear). But introverted is so broad .... a can be "labeled" as both intro or extroverted depending on the context...but shy no never!
/r/seduction29/08/22 11:16 PM
1

You sent flowers? WTF! I only give flowers to show my gratitude, after i have a good time (sex) with the girl...or if shes a friend that helped me in a meaningful way ...very rarely. She's not into you, especially after you sent her flowers...
/r/seduction29/08/22 11:08 PM
5

I am 22 and a virgin You aren't sexual and bold in your interactions you are afraid to be called a "creep". I have cold approached about 100 girls and I only have gotten 6 numbers... Hopefully now you can see how shit cold approaching is, try instead to engage girls that like you and are on the same level of attraction as you are. I have began to just think about paying for it since girls would probably be turned off from hearing that I am still a virgin.... Stop calling yourself a virgin, you d…
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:51 PM
1

Stop being an introvert and shy. This is what stands in your way.
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:56 PM
4

It varies -minutes- you are thinking toooo much. I only use text for setting concise actions - dates, meet you. I don't have lengthy conversations over text. I actually call the person and setup a meet and keep it short. So much emotion and opportunity is lost over text/voice....
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:11 PM
14

I just reply whenever the fcuk i can, if i can in the moment, i stop myself for a moment to rethink what i write - other than that you are over-complicating.
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:03 PM
1

Fornicate? loooool :))) What did you say? "Girl i wanna fecundate you!" :))
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:18 PM
2

Well, don't "feel off" anymore and watch their body language if it's positive give some form of reassurance (a smile is enough), if it's negative it's good that you stopped, bad if you stopped and didn't try again later. Body language has more "weight" than words.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:52 AM
1

Just take it as a tease - smile, look into her eyes say something like "don't you worry - I'm a good guy" in a playful sexy voice. Honestly it doesn't even matter what you say, as long as you don't have a negative reaction... Keep calm & ignore. So is it just low attraction? Look at their body language and voice tone, don't really take seriously what they say. Or is it because they are damaged goods and you should let them go? Don't think this way it's toxic and may poison the moment. Or maybe t…
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:45 PM
1

It's weird to go in a bar just to pick up girls... i go there to relax have fun & enjoy the vibe. Don't drink till you are drunk ... grab a long drink, sip and enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:34 PM
3

I didn't take you for the creative type That's an insult not a tease!
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:26 PM
1

Kiss her ... invite her home. It's not rocket science.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:02 PM
1

Say it in a confident voice, no insecure intonation and full stop after you say it. I love/like your eyes. That's a nice color. I like the way you matched your shirt with your shoes.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:57 PM
5

It's a dance that takes two. You can't play her part, if she's not putting some effort there is nothing you can do.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:37 PM
1

I doesn't matter, you are over-complicating things "seduction" is not rocket science. Stop your in depth research. Just have balls to do what you like.
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:23 PM
1

we didn't touch much or hold hands Try to touch, hold hands very early (first minutes) this forces a decision and you don't waste time, if the girl likes you this establishes intimacy. I think she's a virgin Don't assume anything. But just hoping I don't get friendzoned tbh. You probably are.
/r/seduction21/08/22 03:15 PM
0

I can sense your sarcasm from a continent away...tone it down ! Cheers!
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:22 PM
1

Pressure her? You think a girl prefers pain over pleasure (or any epicurean human?)? Don't be naïve! :))
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:52 PM
2

You do whatever you wish. But cut your aggression, it's the antithesis of attraction!
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:31 PM
1

Did you say leg or labia? :))
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:23 PM
1

Then all you're gonna get is NO! Cut "alpha" behavior it's the only way you can turn a no into yes.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:19 PM
3

Studies other than studying your dick... Cut your losses, temper yourself and find another girl.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:12 PM
9

Like you don't react to rejection, you don't act angry or forceful. You should act like "you don't know what you miss" "your loss" but not your "fuck you" demeanor.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:10 PM
2

She denied and I forced her bit still her ans was no. She said NO! You can't turn a NO in an YES unless she was playful when she said it.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:04 PM
12

I became but raged and cut the call. THE END!
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:59 PM
1

On the 5th date she said she can’t give me what I want... My rationale for wanting to try it is that I would like to explore a more physical dynamic with her and I feel like I’ve made peace with the fact that a relationship isn’t going to happen. FIVE dates is a complete waste of time for you and for her, no matter what you look for. What do you want? Relationships are about sex primarily...it's the most important thing you need to achieve, then if it's good you and her you can talk about more "…
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:42 PM
7

Just say something playful and stupid. "Cause i have X colored eyes." The tone of voice matters a lot here make-it sound playfully arrogant and smirk.
/r/seduction19/08/22 10:23 AM
6

Flirting does not "force attraction" or "create attraction" it just entices the girl to act upon her (existing) attraction. If there is any.
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:59 PM
6

Neighbors befriend themselves,they chit-chat, gossip, help each other with little things - it's a social norm. Or is she just trying to get validation? Stop viewing the word in these pua shit terms - it makes you really weird...
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:59 PM
2

I’m definitely a shy guy, not comfortable with things I don’t have confidence in. You will carry this problem no matter where you go. Fix your problem first.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:37 AM
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I just rarely catch girls looking at me It's those rare cases you get your success from...i'm sure you miss so many "warm" girls. Don't cold approach unless you have "unshakable confidence" cause it will crush any confidence you already have. Don't listen to those that say cold approach works - it does not - it's most likely they instinctively approach warm girls that send signals. Or get lucky by cold approaching a girl that will like them.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:04 PM
4

You can't expect more than 10% of the people you meet to like you, no matter how handsome & charismatic you are. Let that sink in! Also you probably approach indiscriminately, uninterested girls. Look for girls that seem interested in talking to you.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:46 PM
-1

There is no such thing.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:16 PM
20

Just assume you are lovers and act as if you are. Anything other than this could trigger the girls self consciousness.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:11 PM
1

i kinda just stood there and said idk Now you know exactly what to do. "i'd like that!"
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:33 PM
44

it's cool and exciting at first but if i'm in bed with you i wanna see and feel every inch of your skin.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:15 PM
2

The second one is too sexual also That's exactly the point ... when you pay a compliment the girl knows it really means "i wanna fuck you!" Why not just be honest and say it ... if the girl likes you she'll appreciate your honesty....
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:09 PM
1

Why? You think saying "you look amazing", "love your body", "love your blue eyes" is lame?
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:04 PM
5

You can say that again! :))
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:15 PM
20

Other than points 2,3,4 and 6 the rest is ludicrous. List like this with 1000 bullet points of what not to do are totally useless. Here's my one point list on what to do: BE HONEST AND ESCALATE.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:11 PM
1

Probably you didn't act timely and you didn't reciprocate with their feelings. You were flustered in that moment?
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:51 PM
1

You talk like you talk with your male friends, but with a seductive voice/vibe and you express your desire/admiration to the girl you're talking to. There is nothing so special about it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:25 PM
11

You beat around the bush for 2 months ... wandering "should i take her hand" you are now an asexual guy in her view. Forget about her.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:54 PM
1

Now do it sober, you had your initiation stage completed. become more outgoing/inclined to do/say ridiculous stuff that works, whereas sober I’m just more reserved. Now you know how you can be more outgoing and bold, you know what works.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:18 PM
1

I’ve been trying out hitting on girls at bars for the past 6-9 months or so, and I think I’ve been improving Are you getting laid? Does the drunk game eventually translate into better sober game or am I just using alcohol as a crutch? If you don't get totally wasted you might learn something and be more "confident" sober but the risks are pretty bad.
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:13 PM
7

Mis/Mr police have a nice day! Look up the word "tacit" in the dictionary.
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:54 PM
12

I'm not your dude! I liked it! Moron!
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:39 PM
9

Everything is sexual assault if you are an idiot! I should go to the police cause a girl i liked put her hand on my crotch yeah?
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:36 PM
7

You can do so many things to gauge a reaction before verbally asking for consent which is so wimpy regardless of gender. Girls put their hand on my crotch without asking for "consent" i would have said no if she asked, or "why don't you try first i'll see how i feel....." Also if you are nonbinary don't give advice in a binary majority thread....
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:33 PM
2

Can mean anything. If you get prolonged eye contact with a smile definitely put a smile on your face and approach.
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:27 PM
4

This so low...can i kiss you, can i fuck you, can i grab your hand. Are you a men or what?
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:24 PM
8

I want to be able to convince someone to sleep with me using my own personality You will be able to, after you kill your nerves and fears of woman, you'll gain some "experience" and confidence. But don't think you'll ever "convince someone" to sleep with you, it's reciprocal. Paying someone to pretend to want me will make me feel even worse. You are not paying someone to pretend they want you, you pay for sex. Just like you pay for other stuff.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:47 AM
10

Now you see how much of a scam it is. ALL that PUA crap they sell. It all boils down to noticing the girl that likes you, have a fucking normal conversation without worries, express your intent/desire and that's fucking it! No techniques no "things to say" just say whatever. I was crass, an imbecile, insulted the girl, did needy stuff, playing alpha male shit and still "got" the girl because she liked me, not because i did XYZ...
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:56 PM
1

Too much over complication...to clarify: Girls that approach me, 70-90% wanna fuck that day/night or in the immediate future. The rest just discovered how to signal males and just play without intent (for validation as you say) or don't like me when i open my mouth ...
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:43 PM
1

...and only ever talk about themselves and how great they are... Man that's what people like to talk about ...themselves... you should let them talk, be happy that you don't have to talk much...just tease what they say.... I’m just unsure whether the girls I’m attracting are low quality "Low quality" is very broad and subjective, if you like them physically show some tolerance, let them talk, do your thing and escalate... if I’d have been chance finding someone more nice and kind if I begin to t…
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:52 PM
15

You post everywhere about your useless eBook, i can't even wipe my ass with it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:08 PM
2

Do girls approach men out of desperation? YES! I’m also quite shy so I don’t really like asking girls I find cute for there number for fear of getting rejected so I haven’t been with that many girls If the girl approaches you why the fuck are you afraid of rejection? and almost every single is a narcissistic who seeks validation from men. Why do you think they are narcissistic and seeking validation? Is it because you don't return interest back because your fear of rejection?
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:55 PM
3

No it's not beneficial. Depends when you withdraw ... if the girl initiates, you should never withdraw unless you want to be perceived as not interested. Don't play games don't allow games to be played. Girls want to be desired and you need to show them you desire them.PERIOD!
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:11 PM
3

This is fcuking absurd!
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:06 PM
18

I don't cold approach but: If she stares: I love the way you look at me. If she plays with her hair: I love your hair. I she smiles at me: I love your smile. Mostly observational comments and simple "hi!" "what are you up to?"
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:52 PM
5

Fcuk it man! Keep your nihilism for yourself and stop damaging vulnerable people life! You make me puke...
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:48 PM
-1

When a woman approaches you like this, she opens a door for you to enter through. A+ mate! A long time ago i was in a store a girl extended her hand(for me to grab) with a packaged sausage that had something white on it and asked me "what is this white stuff" :))
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:40 PM
7

Even with the girls that make the "first move" you still have to make your moves... Don't be confused - you have higher chances with girls that show interest.But you stil have to act like a man and reciprocate with your moves. After all these years only 2 girls asked me if i wanna fuck them straight up....
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:49 PM
13

Ofcourse you have to approach the girls that shoot " female attention" towards you!
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:42 PM
9

Learn to speak from your diaphragm. Vocalise uhm and hmm and try to "move" your voice toward the stomach (i'm not very good at explaining this but i'm sure you can find many youtube vids) Exercise and testosterone replacement therapy helps if you are low on testosterone. Alcohol and myorelaxants relaxes your neck muscles and you speak with a deeper voice for a few hours.
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:27 PM
2

For context, she's only kissed two guys in her life before me and never had a boyfriend. Yeah sure! You should reassure her "I know we are coworkers, i guarantee you no matter what happens i will treat you professionally and respectful at work, and i expect the same thing." or something among the line.
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:33 PM
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I'm quiet in fact i don't like talking very much, i use my eyes, body and very short sentences "let's do that, wanna do that, i like x about you, yes, no". Clubs and loud places verbal communication is worthless you should get physical. You can be quiet but do smile/smirk and use your body to communicate attraction and intent!
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:24 PM
1

You walk slow with a demure smile on your face with open body language you look after girls that smile at you and (you) say "HI"....
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:11 PM
1

Make a move and you'll know where she stands.
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:52 PM
42

Wash your eyes, open them wide go outside and look at couples - you should be able to see: Ugly dudes with decent girls, ugly girls with cute guys. Fat girls with slim guys, fat guys with slim girls, short guys with tall girls and the whole assortment possible... Now take a laxative and shit faster that wheat waffle you ate. (Bonus points for those who get the joke/reference)
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:03 PM
1

I can't recommend any course on this matter. They all over complicate everything.
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:26 PM
1

My opinion on vadim/honest signalz
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:14 PM
2

What can I do? Don't let rejection from total strangers put you down. I see so many handsome guys with ugly gals ...i feel pity for them. You don't want to be that guy. Start looking for girls that like you.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:25 AM
1

Guy talks too much, seems to be a comedian, no sexual tension in his vids absolutely nothing impressive about him.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:18 AM
1

It's more nuanced than that. Some girls really take the initiative from zero to sex but very very few. Some girls take initiative after you made the first move will help you subtly or overtly. And some you have to do everyfuckingthing.
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:17 AM
1

Ah girls those alien creatures... Asking yourself what does the average guy do in a day will answer 90% your question.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:58 AM
4

Search for "flirting" on your favourite bookstore. I recommend the "The Flirting Bible". But any book written by a woman will do.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:20 AM
-1

No, many things in this community are so awkward. Just remain the normal guy you are, talk to girls in your social circles ... it's where the success is, cold/random approaching has a very low success ratio. You can try your luck by approaching more girls who seem open to your approach.
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:45 PM
2

Looks like you've met the boy of your dreams. He was running "game" trying to "neg" you. To "build attraction" it's what looses do when they read too much PUA crap.... What an asshole!
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:41 PM
6

Anywhere you see a girl that smiles at you.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:32 PM
2

:))
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:47 PM
3

Not defensive, you are offended you strike back. Be willing to tell her to fuck off at any time....
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:44 PM
3

"you pulled away first i don't know why, you better explain yourself. are you playing stupid games with me" You don't have to explain anything, you are a man, let her do the talking.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:31 PM
-1

Why do girls usually like starting an argument out of nothing ? They don't, they are just playful and wanna have fun. And how do we give them healthy drama ? You don't, you just dominate them and make them feel stupid for wanting drama by being playful.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:25 PM
2

:)) Looking good/girl liking you beats anything. No amount of game will change that. In regards to cheating there is nothing that can prevent it, monogamy is not in the human nature..it's just an artificial social construct.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:58 PM
11

The mileage.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:21 PM
1

It can be anything, maybe she said "no" with a smile on her face just to test him and he took it seriously , maybe he did something weird and put her off, maybe she is indeed a victim or sexually unhealthy. But in my experience that's just the girl playing funny, a situation which can be handled with a "shhh" or completely ignoring it. We can speculate ad infinitum interpreting he's perception of reality to no avail.
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:55 PM
1

So you come into my house, kiss me, get all over me, get naked, get wet and aroused and you really don't wanna fuck me? Cut the BS and get real!
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:35 PM
0

So, I decided to make a move. What move?
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:04 PM
2

"It's top secret!", "I got bored, but you look like the kind of girl that will not bore me"
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:16 PM
1

"shhh" "don't worry we're just playing" Start barking like a dog playfully bite her panties and try to rip them off with your teeth :)) I don't know were the problem is, maybe you're too "shy" or shes not sexually healthy (in that case you are better with other girls).
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:07 PM
1

No, that's not forcing yourself. You said she's shy, you should have been bolder, get completely naked. You have to make a move ultimately, be playful about it, if she's shy she'll never do it...do you get that?
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:41 PM
14

Since when is mandatory to have photos or instagram? Your lie sounds like something someone at the age of 8 would come up with. :)) "I don't use social media." "I quit social media, wasted too much time on"
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:21 PM
0

It was the same last couple of dates. She's horny and she told me she was wet but it's like she just can't do it. You mate, are shier then her. I'd flipped my dick out and fucked her!
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:15 PM
0

No drinks, no fun.
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:56 PM
1

Start with sex then consider relationships. You'll anyway "get to know" the real person only after sex, not before. Sex bonds relationships if it's shit why would i torture myself.
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:40 PM
2

I used the wrong word, I apologize.
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:28 PM
2

If a tooth hurt you, would i go too far if i suggest a dentist?
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:17 PM
2

You look like you're fucked emotionally, it's what happens to some people after long relationships, you may have been abused by your ex without even knowing and now you don't know which left is left :)) psychologist to accelerate your healing. edit: wrong word
/r/seduction28/07/22 11:01 PM
5

No-one's playing games, she probably was interested but you repelled her. Also what signals am i sending her? She knows better ... i can only speculate probably you scuffed and rejected her because "she's too young" "didn't want her to get in your head" You roll this mentality that "girls play me", "playing games", "revenge at me". You take things wayyyy to personally. GIRLS ARE NOT YOUR ENEMY, MOST OF THEM ARE FRIENDLY AND WANT TO BOND WITH SOMEONE IF THEY ARE ATTRACTED AND AVAILABLE!
/r/seduction28/07/22 10:30 PM
5

What do you want exactly? I'm looking she's looking , she's not looking i'm not looking. It's nauseating to read this. Take a effing decision. She is very beautiful and I don't want her to get into my head. Do YOU want your head in her? Am I sending mixed signals to this girl? I can see it from miles away. Or is this her way of taking her revenge at me by showing me what I have missed? Are you paranoid or something? (sorry...)
/r/seduction28/07/22 10:00 PM
2

I get approached by girls at the worst possible time, when I'm in a hurry, when I'm too tired... no approach because it's not my day It doesn't have to "be your day", i've picked up girls when i was totally drunk, super sad. Does not really matter, if the girl likes you, just be yourself, let the girl know it's not your day but tell her you like her and you wanna know her.
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:17 PM
2

like I did with her at first. I'll give her attention and flirt with her and I can tell she’s into it, then I pull away distance myself, and not interact with her for a bit Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. You do that once or twice (or never) just for fun but after that you stop playing like a kid and be more purposeful.
/r/seduction28/07/22 05:28 PM
1

You have to move to a more private place where you can escalate more. Ask her where she lives, does she have roommates, or propose to watch a movie with her at your place.
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:15 PM
1

The absurdity of my comment should give the hint that it's a joke. :))
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:12 PM
5

fuuu...ok...alright! I've also said love and respect yourself! Nice! Rly appreciate it! I can't but return the same love and respect to you!
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:21 AM
13

You keep spewing shit like this all over this sub. Expressing interest and showing your interest is no. 1 in building relationships. Stop fucking with other peoples chances and life! This is not a joke but you seem to be after karma votes from people that resonates to pua, alpha shit that you spew! You keep posting shit like: you not interesting, you no challenge, you no this and that. Real life is not like this, so get off your armchair and see the word!
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:26 PM
33

I honestly think sex is the only thing that stabilizes a woman’s attraction making them open to a relationship. Jackpot! There you go! I want sex, fun and good sex, do ya think girls what something different?!? Yea? Wrong!
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:17 PM
1

Drugs, medicine or therapy or a combo of therapy and medicine.
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:14 PM
-4

"sure you are my mommy, i wanna suck on your milky tit!"
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:11 PM
26

You can turn everything she says into something sexual, or you say something sexual - with the tone of your voice or with the words you say you can convey sexuality. I cannot give you examples as everything comes from within, based on the moment.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:29 PM
1

To effectively seduce someone there has to be an activation of the arousal, waking up in them the desire to give you what you want and luring it out. And for seduction to really work, you have to give it your undivided attention, in a moment. One of the most charming things that I've noticed about Cuban men, is how they to go after what they want completely fearless of the consequences of getting hurt or getting rejected. So what I really want you to get is that everyone has the power to seduce …
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:34 PM
1

Jesse Pinkman, way to go bitch! You truly think you attract people by straight up telling them they are a bitch? If a girl ignores you is because she does not like you or she's not in the mood to talk with anyone. period. Now wake up, how about you get hammered with questions when you are in a hurry or when you don't want to talk to anyone ha? Are you obliged to answer when your world falls apart? No? Yo such a Bitch! Guys like you are the reason good girls treat us like shit. Go to the kinderga…
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:46 PM
1

i really did give this dude my whole heart If you truly did that and he didn't reciprocate or at least appreciate, is time to move on. I’m conflicted if I should delete all my dating apps & spend time healing and being alone to get past this? In my experience loneliness is the most hurtful thing in this word. You should go on more dates no matter what you get out of them, don't let some insensitive asshole stop you from seeking what you want/need. P.S. : Online dating is totally into looks and y…
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:43 PM
3

date because I didn’t want to rush anything The girl made the first move and you basically froze, she gave you the permission to escalate and you didn't... When a girl tells that you are "her type" basically all gates are open for you, but unfortunately you didn't get the hint...what have you waiting for ? Her to unzip your pants? Now shes bored...
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:01 PM
2

Your feeling of inadequacy is killing you and your chances. You are reading too much shit that tells to do that and this and that. Stop worrying you were born with all you need just stop feeling inadequate and your instincts will guide you. A woman can't tell if you haven't got laid a decade ago or if you haven't kiss a millennia ago unless you tell her. And if she does somehow you say "you're right, i'm a virgin, you'll have to teach me everything" :))
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:21 PM
0

She turns back to spooning and later tells me thats as far as I am willing to go. Yeah, right...you were a wimp and that made her uncomfortable/disappointed... you should have whipped your dick out.
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:09 PM
13

Numbers are for unprotected with infected.
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:31 AM
1

Say whatever, what you said is OK! So stop feeling awkward. You can say "see what you do to me? it's all your fault!" and make-out harder - if you wanna be more playful.
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:24 AM
20

Trump recommends "Grab her by the pussy"
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:15 AM
5

Invite her to the theatre
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:11 AM
38

A society driven by fear. Relax man, it's irrational fear, put it to sleep. https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/estimates/riskbehaviors.html
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:55 PM
10

Nah man she was just doing some neck exercises.
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:48 PM
2

Some guys here can't discern a playful teasing girl from a bitchy one.
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:15 PM
28

Yeah pussy here, just minding my own business walking down the street observing "choosing signals" i apologize and bow in front of you alpha male.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:42 AM
-3

It's easier to learn to notice girls that like you than to approach thousandths of cold girls... but there’s tons and tons of girls with social anxiety that act like they don’t like you out of nervousness…. There are a few...you wanna deal with them? what are you a physiatrist? there is a grate deal of girls like that, are you that desperate?
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:26 PM
-1

You realize most guys here are at a stumble? You realize ha? If you have "many options" you wouldn't be here. Many guys here are about quantity (around zero)! You have to be hotter yourself to get hotter girls! I'm way past the sex for sex's sake phase Good for you! You wanna see other guys strive or die here?!? Ha?!? You are pretty dump aren't you, you would not ask such stupid if you were bright...
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:13 PM
1

If you like plays go to a theater. I like to fuck, girls that i kind of like (that don't repulse me), that are effortless and cost less. You can keep your standards as high as you can, meanwhile lemme fuck, don't bother me any more...(sorry wake up man!)
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:57 PM
4

Man, we are not talking about subjectivity here cause that is a deep deep hole, we are talking about girls that subtly show that they like you the way you are, regardless of how you feel about yourself.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:39 PM
3

You don't have to approach 10,100,1000 of girls just to find the 1-10% that like you...they usually tell you "i kinda like you, approach me pls" even before you say a word.... For the clueless guy maybe this(cold approach) "works" without even him knowing why....but if the guy has a low tolerance for "rejection" it can fuck him up to the point of suicide or deep depression. I think, in the beginning it's better to approach the girls that seem to like you and get a lay from 5-10 approaches instea…
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:33 PM
1

Yes! (Asking a girl to fuck is not begging, it's a combination of intent and confirmation, it depends on your tone and the moment you ask, it's kinda like "let's get the fuck outta here and fuck!") You wanna be perfect or something or you wanna get fucked? What do you want? Perfection, smoothness, intellectual conversations, witty remarks, passing shit tests, delivering negs, or wetting your dick? please choose already!
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:39 PM
-3

he would've done better with a more active approach. Are you sure about that? Why would you make a lay more complicated than it has to be? Are you aware that you can ask a girl that likes you "Wanna fuck?" and the answer will be "YES!"?
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:22 PM
1

If the girl likes you, you are not sleazy! Yes! May be to late and weird! Are you afraid of rejection?
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:09 PM
1

You won't fuck mediocre girls, you will fuck girls that are on par with you! Do you think you can shoot above your weight?!? Stop deluding yourself!
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:30 PM
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Many guys think that game is everything when in fact "game" is your ability to notice girls that like you and your ability to escalate on them, it should in fact be called "social/sexual awareness". It’s the women who ultimately do the choosing. Just pick the ones who choose you. YES! I'm sure you can find a girl that you like among those that like you already, the is no need to pander women with your cold approaches, or waste your time and money thinking you can create attraction with stupid te…
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:21 PM
1

Signals are THE most important thing when it comes to your success. Now "not receiving" signals in other country may be due to many factors, maybe you feel weird and have different body language that is unattractive, maybe you are in The Netherlands where the average guy is taller and more handsome than you...maybe we can speculate endlessly... Has anyone else experienced something like this? How do I deal with it? I am pretty sure you still get IOI's, more subtle that is...
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:06 PM
1

Your immaturity only puts a smile on my face!
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:48 PM
6

Forgot to check my username boss?
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:28 PM
1

Blowing your phone? Tell her your phone is expensive she'll better wait till tomorrow to blow you! :)))) :P
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:02 PM
1

We? Did you find a "wing"? You necrophile!
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:59 PM
1

I can't judge the size of your eggplant :)) My advice is to get there quick, you can do whatever you like....
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:57 PM
2

You can reschedule but there is a saying "beat the iron while it's hot". I don't know, my strategy is to postpone everything until i'm in person, she could rub one off and forget 'bout you.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:52 PM
1

She'll be delighted, remember to bring a shovel, cause she's six feet under.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:47 PM
5

Murphy's law in action! "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong, and at the worst possible time." Rent a car or uber or don't give your car to yo brotha.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:45 PM
5

Hobbies? Exploiting simps...swing.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:40 PM
0

She either did not like you enough or you were awkward (in her eyes), doesn't matter. You can keep her around or dump her if she brings no "value". I know a girl that likes me (brushed her tits against me and many more) but she's my best friend wife, she told me she knows 2 single girls that would like me(Value) To avoid any shit storms i refused...cause i didn't need any, i can get laid easly....
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:22 PM
2

(because little was happening physically) Why? Did you make any advances and got rejected or you waited for her to grow balls and touch you? You can keep her as an acquaintance, maybe she knows a girl that knows a girl that looks for a guy just like you :))
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:03 PM
1

I use it like spices, too much and you fuckyourself, a pinch here and there shows that you are self-conscious and confident. Depends on the girl, i use it when the girl self-deprecates itself, or when i have the feeling that it's the "right thing to say".
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:55 PM
4

Fear is a big part of both sexes. Men that don't take no are indeed dangerous and scary, but there are also scary woman who threaten you with rape although it was consensual. The problem is that are many man who can't "see" when a women likes him or dislike him. It's a very complicated subject, laws are biased towards women rights and many women exploit that, contributing to more awkward behavior from men... There is also guys who preach male extremism, teaching men to ignore women "no's", there…
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:04 PM
9

Laughing and pumping, did that, best fun in my life :)))
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:38 PM
4

You can say anything you like but as long as you consider the things you say "cringe" they will be. Anyway guys are more forgiving to "cringeness" than girls I can say "Fuck you!" in a tone that will make you hate me or in a tone that will make you hug me.... If words are your weakness use your body language to express yourself. One of my exes told me i wanna "fuck you" literally and i loved her boldness ...she became my partner for too many years!
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:24 PM
3

I think women can tell I just don’t have a lot going on in my life No! It's just your defeated face expressions. You don't need a social life to get woman, you need to be social and sexual. You don't need a social life, it seems to me that you somehow feel subpar for not having a social life and that fucks you... I'm 35-40 old, all my friends are busy with their family, kids, jobs, i don't feel compelled to make other friends but getting laid is a different chapter.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:30 PM
2

Not sure? Take action! Signals of interest (IOI) are paramount but you have to take action and push things forward to see if they mean anything.There is no definitive answer YOU have to poke the bear to see how it reacts.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:10 PM
1

Obviously it's an observation, but do you verbalize your observation without intent?
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:03 PM
1

It's a compliment, it's your job to take things further and see if she's interested.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:57 PM
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You talk about fucking and wet bed sheets just like you do with any other woman. You're a tall guy you don't have to talk about meaningless things ... talk about your 7-8 inch dick, and fucking and orgasms and ripping butts, and how beautiful she is ... Your job is fucking meaningless, just don't feel inadequate....
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:55 PM
1

I don't ascribe to any culture i see sex as a necessity just like taking a piss.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:48 PM
2

No wit here. Just expressing desire to the girl and having fun. It's on the same tone as the girls "prove youslf!", when delivered with a cocky tone with a smirk it can propel the interaction further.... P.S. you don't have to be "imaginative" or "clever" to fuck....
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:42 PM
1

The girl made a conscious effort to comfort you, or as a sexual go ahead signal (i want you to touch me too/i like you).
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:49 PM
3

can’t get myself to open up and express my attraction, don’t know why. Fear! Either from morality, toxic family, friends or from stupid education.
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:46 PM
1

What do you need a wing for? To hold it for you? Grow up you don't need crutches!
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:43 PM
1

What do you think? Didn't you get the memo?
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:41 PM
33

"I will, let's go somewhere were you can take of your panties"
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:53 PM
7

Although being direct and upfront is your best bet, his crassness is a little too much. I still tell the woman what i want, but i use euphemisms or metaphors and avoid vulgar words, at least when first meeting her. Over time, judging her personality i become more loose with my words.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:26 AM
0

I get "physical" very fast if a woman teases me. How do you handle that if you're not gonna have sex? You let the men touch you/kiss you?
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:41 PM
0

Yeah, that's on me, I lack imagination ;)
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:25 PM
2

Imagine you're single, imagine men tease you just to leave you empty handed. Chillax, you're imagining throbbing dix, my dick only throbs when it's in a girls mouth sucking me off...
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:13 PM
2

Having a hidden agenda will always result in rejection. Exactly! Girls know why you approach them wtf. If the woman likes you, there is no prize, looser or winner, sex is reciprocal. She'll manipulate you if she does not like you, or if she has a "fascinating" personality, in that case you're better off. Dying of thirst for that pussy is not equal to wanting to get laid.
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:53 PM
1

Instead, talk needless shit, never state your intent, hide your dick, never try to touch or kiss right?
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:27 PM
1

I can't believe the amount of attention I get and the women looking at me with desire Depends on the girl. If it's congruent with your demeanor then ... ok. I still believe a positive facial expression (coy smile/smirk) can get you a long way, makes you more approachable and builds some comfort.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:41 PM
1

Focus on loosing weight or on girls that like you. 230lbs is too much. I have same height and was @ 240lbs, i was so fucking ugly, my face ...a blob. Put an effort to eat less for 3 months and you can loose 20-30lbs (a major change in look).
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:24 PM
1

You need to at least put a smirk on your face, not from "niceness" but from your desire...you can't walk around with a "killer face" and expect girls to like you.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:18 PM
2

Girls send signals, approach those that do, tell those that you kiss you wanna see a movie with them
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:20 PM
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